Stay tuned to meet
three women who are driven
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to make a
difference for the Lord,
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one woman at a time.
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My name is Yvonne Lewis Shelton,
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and you're
watching Urban Report.
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Hello and
welcome to Urban Report.
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Now I bet you're wondering
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why we are not on our usual set.
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Well, our set
doesn't accommodate
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three guests at a time.
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And we wanted to be sure
that you could become acquitted
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with all three of the women
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associated with
this wonderful ministry.
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My guests today
are Belinda Smith,
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President and Founder of
Women Working with Women,
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Purette Mills, Vice
President, and Maxine Bethea,
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Secretary/ Treasurer.
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Welcome to Urban Report.
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Thank you for having us.
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You guys were on...
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I had you when we were ASI.
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It was quite some time
ago. Oh, yeah. I remember.
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And it was so noisy
around us and everything,
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but I was so impressed
with what God has placed
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on your hearts to
do that I thought,
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"Man, we just need to
have them on a full segment,"
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because the ASI segment is
like 15 minutes or something.
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On a full program,
you're also going to be
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on a Today program
for the parent network,
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so the Lord is just
opening doors for you.
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Yes. Praise the Lord.
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And you're no strangers to me.
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I need to tell our
viewers that these women,
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I've known since I was
really, really, really young
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which has been
quite sometime ago.
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And in fact,
Belinda and Purette,
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and my sister Binky,
who passed away in 2009,
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they were best friends.
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So you guys are like family
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and having you
here is like family.
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And I'm so proud of what
God is doing with your ministry,
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Women Working with Women.
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Tell us how you got started
with Women Working with Women.
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Well, Women Working with
Women came about in a way
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that I didn't see
it coming initially.
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It came when I relocated
here to Florida from Mississippi
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as a clinical specialist
for end-stage renal disease.
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And I came down
first to assist my mom
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'cause she wasn't
feeling well and doing well.
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So I was here
because I felt better
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and thought she would be
safer if one of the daughters
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would be available for her.
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And so while I was here, I got
involved with women's ministry.
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And when I got
involved with a ministry,
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it really elevated
what I've already been doing
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for the 25 years in
my life which was being
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a clinical specialist
end-stage renal disease
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and teaching, educating,
empowering, doing PowerPoints,
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and doing
conferences and seminars.
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And this time it was
a little bit different
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because I flipped the switch
and decided to put my efforts
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and ability into the Lord.
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And by doing
that, I began to work
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and was offered
opportunity to share with women
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in Southeastern Conference
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under the
leadership of Nicole Brixeye.
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And she took me under her wings,
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and I then
allowed the Lord to use me
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and we went all
around the world teaching
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and preaching the
Gospel and educating women
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in district one
which covers Atlanta,
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covers Georgia, Valdosta,
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and the other
southern parts of Florida.
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And my job was
initially to empower those women
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and educate them and teach
them about dealing with abuse
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and dealing with
self-esteem issues.
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And doing that, I
realized that I was working
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for the Lord fulltime.
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And with the
teaching of Nicole Brixeye,
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she taught me so
much and I'm very grateful
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for her
leadership and teaching us.
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We learned how to give back.
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And so one of things I
took away from that role
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I played in Southeastern was
to take it out to the community.
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And so we developed
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Women Working with
Women incorporation,
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and it's a non-profit 501(c)(3).
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In that, it was
giving me the ability to put
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not my just my dreams
but the dreams of Binky,
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a good friend of mine
that passed away, your sister,
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help women that was
transitioning from jail,
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help women that were
dealing with addictions,
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to help women
that were unemployed,
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help women that was
just going through a struggle
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through their journey.
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And what I wanted to do
was to make an environment,
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a place, a facility that would
allow women to be able to come
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and transition their
lives, that they would never
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be the way they
came, they would leave
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with a different set of goals.
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And so in doing that,
Women Working with Women
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came alive and we introduced
it to the city of Gainesville,
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Santa Fe College
opened their arms,
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accepted us into
the incubator program,
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gave us an office.
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We have been there
now around five years.
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In that facility, we
educate and empower women
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through professional
development conferencing
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that we do and
teaching every quarter
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out of that office.
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We partnered with
University of Florida.
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Now the University of
Florida, they have given us
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their students in a
couple of a sororities
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which is called
Uncap, Enact us, and Stride.
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These three organizations teach
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the professional development
class for us free at no cost.
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And then we
provide the graduation,
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and we try to do
the job placement
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at the end of the
day for those ladies.
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And we have had
such a great response
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in that process
and in that program.
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And we also provide
distribution of food
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to families in need, period,
for all women in the community
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of Alachua County in
Gainesville, Florida.
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So you have multiple
focuses in this program.
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Yes.
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It's not just feeding,
it's not just educating,
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it's all of that.
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Yes, a multifaceted organization
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that allows us to not just
work with the hunger of a woman
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but the emotional
hunger, the spiritual hunger,
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the physical hunger.
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We try to meet those needs
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by having those
different programs.
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So even though we deal
with the women that come
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from jail and we
deal with the women
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that are incarcerated
and come out of those jails,
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we need to be able
to give them something
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to continue that
journey in the right way.
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And going in and
giving a study is great,
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but when they come out,
what do we have for them,
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you have Women
Working with Women.
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Oh, that's great.
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So it starts
inside of the prison.
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Yes.
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So you start
working with the women
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before they even come out.
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Absolutely.
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Yeah, this is
where they need us.
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There is nobody back there.
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And I can proudly say
in Gainesville, Florida,
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that Bethel
Seventh-day Adventist Church
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prison ministry
department which I am
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a prison ministry
leader there as well.
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We have the most list
of individuals that go
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into the jails, I
believe there's 14 of us.
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We're the largest group.
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We have taken over the
actual Bible study group
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in that prison or in that jail.
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We cover all
bases, men and women.
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And we also have the Lodi prison
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that we also minister out
of, that's in another county,
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but we also minister in
the Lodi prison as well.
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So we have been
very active in that role.
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And to me, going in
and giving that study
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is great and
wonderful, God bless us,
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but we must be able to do
something when they come out.
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Yes.
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There has to be a transition,
we can't just push it
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to the table and call it a day.
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They are going to be needing us.
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They need to continue to
study, they need to continue
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to know where and
how we're worshipping
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and where are we located,
they may need a home church,
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they may need support, period.
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So what better way
is to go into the jails
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and we'll be
able to let them know,
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"Listen, when you come
out, call me at this number,
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go to WomenWorkingwithWomen.org.
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We'll be there for you
to help you transition out."
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We want to be able to continue
that not only for the women
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but for their families,
their children as well.
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As while she is
doing that in prison,
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there is a corresponding program
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that really shows
what she was saying earlier
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building the spiritual
needs and the physical needs.
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We try to model Christ
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in what He did
when He was on earth.
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Yes.
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So what actually happens for us
now is to build a relationship
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with these people in
inner cities and projects,
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we go to them,
to their community,
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and we actually feed them,
we actually get them clothing
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if they needed.
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We try to show love
in those ways first,
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meaning the
physical needs and then...
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My mother is a Bible
worker and has been for years.
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She... I have an
uncle who is a pastor,
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Pastor Joseph Lewis.
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They work together with meeting
the spiritual needs that,
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you know, while we're
actually feeding them,
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somebody might
want a Bible studies.
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And so what's happening
is there's building over here
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and there's building over here,
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and those
buildings come together.
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So when those
people are out of prison
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and they make that
transition, a lot of them
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because their Bible study
is going on in their prison
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will want to come to church.
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She actually has
a graduation service
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because they finished a
whole Bible study program.
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And so the church
gets to meet them,
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gets to know them,
give them a certificate.
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It's a big day for them.
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And we try to
get them so much love
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that they want to come back.
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We don't push them but
they want to come back.
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They want to continue
studies and there is a not a day
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that goes by or
a week that goes by
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that she is not still giving
Bible studies to one of them.
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Exactly.
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And so that Bible
study is on both end,
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but starting with
the personal touch,
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the physical touch
has really helped him
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to see that we care.
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We're not just doing this
'cause we paid and it's a job,
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you know, nothing could
be further from the truth.
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It's all about
Christ, and Christ is love,
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and so we want them to
see that when they see us.
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That's the way He ministered
and that's what we want to do.
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And she would have mentioned it
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but also we provide
educational conferences.
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And one of the
things that we do,
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we cater to the
women in that community
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but she caters
specifically Miss Mills,
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our Vice President is
the parenting consultant
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for our parents
and our ministry.
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She not one is
gifted in that area
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but she educates the
parents on parenting.
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She has a very
special program called
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How to Really Love your Child.
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And it goes from
the child to the parent.
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So these parents that are
coming out of incarceration
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or coming out of jail or
coming out an environment
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that they don't have
the support that they need,
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a lot of them
don't know how to parent
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and they have no clue.
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So we can feed you
and we can cloth you,
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but then we're sending
you home without the tools
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to raise those two boys.
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Absolutely.
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What better way can we help you.
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Absolutely.
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And what will
happen to those two boys
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if the mother
doesn't know how to parent.
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Absolutely.
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They will end up
incarcerated as well.
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We are trying to
break this cycle,
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trying not to
continue. That's right.
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So it's not just
the Bible studies
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that we need to give,
it's not just the food
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that we need to give,
it's not just the clothes
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that we need to give,
we need to give the tools
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to empower and
educate these women
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to be effective and more
better than they were coming in
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as much as they were
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when they
initiated with the program.
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They need to be
able to have those tools
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so that they can be
more effective as a parent.
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Not only that they're parents,
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when we was at
the Phoenix House,
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we had all of our
children about 20-22 kids cooked
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their own Thanksgiving dinner.
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Yes.
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They washed the turkey,
they fixed the vegetables,
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they did everything.
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And we had them
set up their own tables
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and put the fork,
and knife, and the spoon
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where they were supposed to be
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in the back of the
building we were in.
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And we invited
their parents to come
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and have dinner with us.
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So Thanksgiving
that they cooked,
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surprised the
parents, they didn't know
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that their children can cook.
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But that was part
of a tutoring program.
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That's how it started
'cause for a long while
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we had tutors from
University of Florida
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as a part of
their class, who came in
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and actually helped
the kids after school.
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With their homework.
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And the parents would
send them to our program
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and that was when
we had that small space
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that we had to leave.
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But it worked beautifully.
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So she extended the program
to teaching the manners, peace,
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you know, table manners,
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and how to prepare a
decent meal, a healthy meal.
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You know, and do
something for your parents...
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Kids were so excited.
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The children were so excited.
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Oh, I'll bet. I'll bet.
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It was wonderful. Wonderful.
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To me, the beauty of
this is you're dealing
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with the whole person.
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Absolutely.
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You are not just feeding,
and this is really insightful,
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Belinda, you can
feed, just like you said,
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you can feed them but then
what happens when they go back
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and they are
yelling at their kids
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or beating them,
you know, to a pulp
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because they don't
understand discipline
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and parenting.
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Exactly. So now
you are looking at...
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You're feeding them
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but you're giving
them tools for living.
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Yes.
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And these tools
include the most important,
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which is Jesus Christ.
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None of this costs a dime.
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For them. For them.
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It's all free.
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The service is free,
the teaching is free,
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we give professional
development class free
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because we're
here to mimic Christ
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and what He did on this earth.
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And He didn't
just pray and walk away
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but He looked at the
need and He filled that need.
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That's right.
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And when we put
ourselves in a box and say,
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"Well, we just
do Bible studies."
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Then you're limiting yourself
from extending the arm of God
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to doing more for
those individuals.
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And here is
something that I didn't mention
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but when we go into the
jails, we visit the people,
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also find out
where their parents,
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where their children are
because one of the things
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that is important is making sure
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we touch the parent's children.
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This year in prison
ministry, we went to their homes
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and got to know them
and we got gifts for them.
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The church, Bethel Seventh-day
Adventist Church made a treaty,
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and partnered with us
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and when they partnered with us,
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we were able to give them
the names of the individuals
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that were incarcerated.
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And then we took
it upon ourselves
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to give it to our
community service department.
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And they went and got the gifts
for those individual families.
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And those gifts
were given those children
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from their family members.
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Oh, that
beautiful. How cool is that?
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Beautiful.
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So it says to the
child you're not forgotten...
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No, that's what...
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Even though the
parent isn't here.
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Exactly. You're not forgotten.
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And the women there
were overwhelmed with tears
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because they couldn't be there.
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Yes.
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And they already
felt like they failed.
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Yes.
00:15:20.32\00:15:21.65
But then when we
said, "Well, listen,
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we're going to buy your
children Christmas stories
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this year from you."
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What would you say
behind bars, "Really?
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My kids?"
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And then we
actually do follow through
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and deliver those
gifts, absolutely.
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So you don't know what
it means to the individual
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that's in need and
that can't help themselves
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in those situations
because you can't look at people
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in jail say,
"You're guilty, guilty."
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Everybody is not
guilty. That's right.
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One of them said,
"I'm so glad you went
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and talked to my children today.
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There are too many things
that y'all bought to the house
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and we really
appreciate," did you know,
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it just makes them feel good.
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Yes. Yes.
00:16:03.12\00:16:04.79
Because they are not there
to be able to parent directly
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and they feel like, "What can
I do for my child from here?"
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Yes.
00:16:14.80\00:16:16.14
And when you show
them the love of Jesus...
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Wow.
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What else, I mean...
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And you're helping to feed
and then when they get out,
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this whole thing
of what do you do
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when you get out, how
do you get your kids back.
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Sometimes the women are
separated from their kids,
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they have no where
to go, no direction...
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We have someone that
she's been Bible studies to,
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that's been coming to
our home every week right now
00:16:41.96\00:16:44.17
because she is
trying to get through
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why she can't get her kids.
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And she wants her children.
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And so she is counseling her.
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But at the same
time, when we do what we do
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with those children, you
know what came out of that,
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four of those
ladies now work with us
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and giving away food,
they volunteer their time
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for Women Working with Women.
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They come in and
help me with the office.
00:17:02.38\00:17:04.35
They come in, and
do PowerPoints with me,
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they brainstorm with me.
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Come on, these were...
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We are unable to
do this but they...
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Because we did what we
did, they now are wanting
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to give back to
the organization,
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and they are
volunteering their time.
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Praise the Lord.
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But the best gift is it
makes you closer to Christ...
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Yes. When you help somebody.
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Yes. Yes. It's such a joy.
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You're not only helping
them when they go to jail,
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those girls helped us
and we must help them.
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Their
testimonies strengthened us.
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Yes. You know.
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It's just
wonderful. It's just wonderful.
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And, Sister Maxine,
you've written a book.
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Yes.
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You've written a book about
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The Blessings of a Single Parent
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because you're
going into these prisons
00:17:47.86\00:17:51.87
but you know
firsthand about being a parent,
00:17:51.90\00:17:55.10
a single parent.
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Tell us just a little bit about
00:17:57.47\00:17:59.57
your journey as a single parent.
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I don't feel like a
single parent anymore
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since I got married to Jesus.
00:18:07.72\00:18:09.15
Oh, I love this. I love this.
00:18:09.18\00:18:11.15
I don't see
myself as a single parent
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but when need
come, I call on Jesus.
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Yes.
00:18:14.22\00:18:15.56
And my children
would call in need,
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I will call on Jesus. Yes.
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He always fulfills
my needs when I call.
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And it's just a
blessing to know,
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I don't need nobody but Jesus.
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Yes.
00:18:26.87\00:18:28.20
You know, when you got
Jesus, you don't have to worry
00:18:28.24\00:18:30.44
about nothing and nobody.
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You don't have to fear nobody
00:18:32.71\00:18:35.21
because you know
who got your back.
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Yes.
00:18:36.88\00:18:38.21
And that's about having
that personal relationship
00:18:38.25\00:18:39.75
with Christ.
00:18:39.78\00:18:41.75
He gives you the Holy Spirit
just fill you, let's you know,
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"Don't worry.
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Don't worry."
00:18:47.86\00:18:49.19
This way I can tell
my children, don't worry,
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I got one daughter think,
"Momma, so Jesus do what He do
00:18:50.96\00:18:54.36
but Jesus wants
you to help yourself."
00:18:54.40\00:18:55.96
I say yes but there's
only so much you can do.
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That's right.
00:18:57.90\00:18:59.23
And what you
can't do, He will do,
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but you got to do
something, I understand that.
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Right. Right.
00:19:02.54\00:19:03.87
And that's what
the book is about.
00:19:03.94\00:19:05.27
And I don't let you
complaining about nothing,
00:19:05.31\00:19:07.44
when something comes,
that means God allowed it.
00:19:07.51\00:19:11.48
So you thank Him.
00:19:11.51\00:19:13.35
I don't care if it's
death, He allowed it.
00:19:13.38\00:19:17.32
You thank Him for the
death 'cause He knows best.
00:19:17.35\00:19:19.39
Yes.
00:19:19.42\00:19:20.79
We don't
understand but He knows.
00:19:20.82\00:19:22.76
That's right.
00:19:22.79\00:19:24.16
With that kind of
trust, she wrote that book
00:19:24.19\00:19:26.36
based on just what she said.
00:19:26.39\00:19:28.36
Everything seemed to be okay
because He's done it from me
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in the past, He
will do it again.
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So in there it is blessing
after blessing after blessing
00:19:32.37\00:19:35.57
which we now call miracles,
you know, with respect you say,
00:19:35.60\00:19:39.71
God is still performing
these miracles that people
00:19:39.74\00:19:43.01
just don't know
about, and she was itching
00:19:43.04\00:19:45.01
to let people know,
"Look what happened to me."
00:19:45.05\00:19:47.12
That book could be called
"Look what happened to me."
00:19:47.15\00:19:49.42
Oh, I love it.
00:19:49.45\00:19:50.79
I love it. I love it.
00:19:50.82\00:19:52.29
Look what happened...
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These are a lot
of miracle stories.
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Yes.
00:19:55.92\00:19:57.26
That show that God
will bring you through.
00:19:57.33\00:20:00.73
This is not just so that
Sister Maxine can tell you
00:20:00.80\00:20:03.73
her journey, this is
also to encourage you
00:20:03.77\00:20:07.30
that God will bring you through
00:20:07.34\00:20:09.14
whatever it is
you're dealing with.
00:20:09.17\00:20:11.44
And now you have the testimonies
00:20:11.47\00:20:14.51
of your two wonderful daughters
who are carrying the baton.
00:20:14.54\00:20:19.48
They are continuing
the work that you started.
00:20:19.51\00:20:22.55
Nothing but a blessing.
00:20:22.58\00:20:24.79
I think that's why
it's all faith based
00:20:24.82\00:20:26.42
'cause everything...
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Faith is the key
to what we are doing.
00:20:27.82\00:20:29.59
We get that faith
from her because I know
00:20:29.62\00:20:32.93
when she took me
to boarding school,
00:20:32.96\00:20:34.30
Rochester, Indiana,
the gas tank was on E.
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But God took us to
Indiana, the Rochester,
00:20:37.13\00:20:39.53
Indiana out of Indianapolis
when I was in boarding school,
00:20:39.57\00:20:42.27
that a good hour drive and back.
00:20:42.30\00:20:44.24
And she did that on E.
00:20:44.27\00:20:45.97
So I know
there's a miracle there.
00:20:46.01\00:20:47.51
Yes.
00:20:47.54\00:20:48.88
I know that we went to
Oakwood, and we're still trying
00:20:48.91\00:20:50.48
to figure out who paid the bill.
00:20:50.51\00:20:52.45
We know the power of faith
and it doesn't come by seeing,
00:20:52.48\00:20:56.02
it comes by hearing.
00:20:56.05\00:20:57.42
Yes.
00:20:57.45\00:20:58.79
And it takes you a
long time to get that,
00:20:58.82\00:21:00.22
people don't get that
because people really think
00:21:00.26\00:21:01.72
faith is by
looking at what we got.
00:21:01.76\00:21:03.43
Faith comes by the ears. Yes.
00:21:03.46\00:21:05.76
And you hear a lot of
wonderful faith stories
00:21:05.79\00:21:09.56
but when it happens
to you, it becomes real.
00:21:09.60\00:21:11.97
Yes.
00:21:12.00\00:21:13.34
One time, one day, no
money, she prayed for me,
00:21:13.40\00:21:15.60
"Lord, send something."
00:21:15.64\00:21:16.97
And the next day, till this day,
00:21:17.01\00:21:18.34
we don't know who, a
check comes in the mail
00:21:18.37\00:21:20.28
for all this
money and she is "Where?
00:21:20.34\00:21:22.78
Who? What?" Faith.
00:21:22.81\00:21:24.15
Faith. Yes, Jesus.
00:21:24.21\00:21:25.55
We have seen it happen. Yes.
00:21:25.58\00:21:26.92
It's who we are
now. Isn't that amazing?
00:21:26.95\00:21:29.32
It's definitely amazing.
00:21:29.35\00:21:30.69
That the seed has been
planted, mom planted the seed,
00:21:30.75\00:21:34.22
mom has her own...
00:21:34.26\00:21:36.42
She is one those saints
with like the red phone, right?
00:21:36.46\00:21:39.79
So she calls Jesus up,
"Lord, please, help me,"
00:21:39.83\00:21:43.90
and He is there.
00:21:43.93\00:21:46.53
And now you've seen this.
00:21:46.57\00:21:48.37
And I know our viewers
are going to want to know
00:21:48.40\00:21:50.17
how to get this book
because they are going
00:21:50.24\00:21:52.51
to want to know too.
00:21:52.54\00:21:54.54
Don't we want to
know, how to call Him up
00:21:54.58\00:21:57.01
and He is there to help.
00:21:57.08\00:21:59.75
How can they get this book?
00:21:59.78\00:22:01.28
All they have to do is go to
00:22:01.32\00:22:02.65
WomenWorkingwithWomen.org
website,
00:22:02.68\00:22:04.99
and they can go online
and you can see her book
00:22:05.02\00:22:07.46
on the website,
and you can order
00:22:07.49\00:22:08.99
the book there online.
00:22:09.02\00:22:10.36
Might be somewhere
on the back of the book,
00:22:10.43\00:22:11.79
on the back of the
book, on the bottom,
00:22:11.83\00:22:13.50
a link down there.
00:22:13.53\00:22:14.83
Yes.
00:22:14.86\00:22:16.20
Women Working with Women,
we will just go with that.
00:22:16.23\00:22:18.13
Yes.
00:22:18.17\00:22:19.50
And so just reach
out and send the donation
00:22:19.53\00:22:24.54
to Women Working with Women.
00:22:24.57\00:22:26.74
This is so important.
Tell us what you need.
00:22:26.78\00:22:30.61
What does the ministry
need? Oh Lord, help us.
00:22:30.65\00:22:34.02
We need a facility.
00:22:34.08\00:22:35.42
We need transportation.
We provide food weekly.
00:22:35.45\00:22:39.32
We partner with
public, it's a grocery store
00:22:39.35\00:22:41.96
but yeah, we partner with them
00:22:41.99\00:22:43.32
Yes. Yes.
00:22:43.39\00:22:44.73
So we get food
every Friday and Sunday,
00:22:44.76\00:22:46.09
and we feed the community.
00:22:46.13\00:22:47.46
We load up our car and
we go into the community,
00:22:47.50\00:22:49.56
and we deliver those breads
and pastries to organizations,
00:22:49.60\00:22:53.03
churches, we give
them to those families
00:22:53.07\00:22:55.44
or those churches
and those organizations
00:22:55.47\00:22:58.31
that are in need of food.
00:22:58.34\00:23:00.18
We also need a
facility so that we can have
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everything under one
roof, so that we can do
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an entire
transition from incarceration,
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from addiction to sobering,
to studies, to educating,
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to church, to just the
entire presence of that.
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One of the things that I
wanted to add to what she said
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is not only do we
give food and clothing,
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we have suppliers that
give us physical supplies,
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everything from
diapers to deodorant,
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I mean just anything you could
possibly need in your family.
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And we are talking
about huge, I mean,
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boxes maybe two or three times
the size of the refrigerator
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that are tall or
you have to go up
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and into full of
diapers, full of...
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And then another one
full of other types of things
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like paper towels and
tissue and just tons of things.
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So we're talking about
being able to show people
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that you don't always
have to give something
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to get something.
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Absolutely not.
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That sometimes
there's enough love out there
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when people really can
show you that it's okay to...
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And, you know, sometimes
you have the limit of take two,
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take three, take...
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We have never said that.
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We never have to say that ever.
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Really? With food too.
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Take whatever you
want, whatever you need.
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We had so much
bottled water left over
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at the last facility,
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and they were
half gallon bottles,
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big, beautiful
half gallon bottles.
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There were so
many cases of water
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and everything was over.
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And people were
going, 600 people have come
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to taking cases and cases.
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There was so much left over,
00:24:30.57\00:24:32.67
we're just
looking at each other.
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We just allowed
them to come back
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through the line
again, and they were blessed.
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A full basket but you
give me one can of corn
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and one can of peas,
take five cans of corn
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if you needed, take
four turkeys if you needed,
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take three
chickens if you needed.
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That's the kind
of giving we give.
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Wow. We don't
give one, one, one.
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We also have a storage
that we have approximately
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10 refrigerators and
freezers that we have in storage
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right now because we have
no facility to put those in.
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Do you know if we had a
facility to put those in
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then we could
provide the service every day
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that this
organization that does give us
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all these supplies
do it on a regular basis
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but they have now been
doing on a quarterly basis.
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And we've been giving it
immediately from the truck
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to the community.
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We don't even house
it because we don't have
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a housing to have it.
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So therefore, the
housing is so critical
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on that part of the aspect.
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But the other part
where we're teaching
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the goodness of God
and where we're educating
00:25:21.88\00:25:23.92
and empowering through addiction
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or through incarceration,
that part of facility
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is being able to have a
seminar down the hallway,
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everything located.
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Church service is to your right.
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Come on, where the vision there,
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other people can
do it, why can't we.
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That's right. And
we're here at 3ABN.
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So my new t-shirt for
our women's conference
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is going to be,
"Won't He do it?"
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Won't He do it?
00:25:46.68\00:25:48.01
Because He is doing it
and this is not something
00:25:48.04\00:25:50.85
we called about, we
didn't enquire to be here.
00:25:50.91\00:25:53.52
The Holy Ghost
himself had a call come to us
00:25:53.58\00:25:57.72
and we're here
today because of faith.
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Amen. That's right.
00:25:59.85\00:26:01.26
We heard the voice
and we thank you so much
00:26:01.29\00:26:02.62
for having us.
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We are blessed.
The Lord did this.
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The Lord absolutely did...
00:26:05.43\00:26:06.76
He sees what you're
doing and He is blessing you
00:26:06.80\00:26:09.40
step-by-step.
00:26:09.43\00:26:11.03
And our viewers are very
giving concerned Christians
00:26:11.07\00:26:15.94
who want to help.
00:26:15.97\00:26:17.31
And so once they know the need,
00:26:17.34\00:26:20.21
they will reach out and help you
00:26:20.28\00:26:22.44
because the Holy Spirit
will work on their hearts
00:26:22.48\00:26:25.25
and press them to help.
00:26:25.28\00:26:27.42
So please whatever the
Holy Spirit impresses you
00:26:27.45\00:26:29.58
to do, please make
sure that you send something
00:26:29.62\00:26:34.36
to Women Working with Women.
00:26:34.39\00:26:35.76
You can go on their website.
What's your phone number?
00:26:35.79\00:26:38.53
352-87-8555. Say it again.
00:26:38.56\00:26:42.60
352-872-8555. Good.
00:26:42.63\00:26:47.97
It's on the screen, and
so our viewers can call,
00:26:48.00\00:26:54.91
they can go to the website.
00:26:54.94\00:26:57.61
They will be able
to reach you. Yes.
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What's your
closing thought for women
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who are going through something?
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Thirty seconds.
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What do you
have to say to women?
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Don't give up. Trust in God.
00:27:07.96\00:27:11.03
Know that He has you.
Know that you're not alone.
00:27:11.06\00:27:14.03
"He would never leave
you, nor will He forsake you,
00:27:14.10\00:27:16.50
for He is the
head and not the tail."
00:27:16.53\00:27:18.93
And trust in Him
in all that you do.
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Yes. Amen. Amen.
00:27:22.20\00:27:24.34
Thank you so much.
00:27:24.37\00:27:25.91
I can't thank you
enough for sharing your vision.
00:27:25.94\00:27:30.05
And I'm so excited
about Binky's Place.
00:27:30.08\00:27:32.15
Me too.
00:27:32.18\00:27:33.52
It will be
named after my sister.
00:27:33.55\00:27:34.98
And she would have
loved that because she would
00:27:35.02\00:27:38.82
take people into her home.
00:27:38.85\00:27:40.26
Yeah.
00:27:40.29\00:27:41.62
My sister was so generous,
as you know, and funny.
00:27:41.66\00:27:44.26
Yes.
00:27:44.33\00:27:45.66
And so she would
take people into her home,
00:27:45.69\00:27:47.03
so to know that some
place is being named after her,
00:27:47.03\00:27:51.43
she would be so happy.
00:27:51.47\00:27:52.80
Yeah.
00:27:52.83\00:27:54.20
And so when we
get to the kingdom,
00:27:54.24\00:27:55.57
we're just going to
all rejoice together.
00:27:55.60\00:27:57.17
Yes. Thank you so much.
00:27:57.21\00:27:58.54
And thank you for joining us.
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Join us next time
'cause you know what,
00:28:00.54\00:28:02.68
it just wouldn't be
the same without you.
00:28:02.71\00:28:06.05
Yes, right.
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