Want some inspiration and motivation? 00:00:01.36\00:00:03.73 Well, stay tuned to meet a man who's gonna take you there. 00:00:03.77\00:00:07.14 My name is Yvonne Lewis 00:00:07.17\00:00:08.74 and you're watching Urban Report. 00:00:08.77\00:00:11.24 Hello and welcome to Urban Report. 00:00:34.60\00:00:37.10 My guest today is Arthur L Andrews, 00:00:37.13\00:00:39.90 inspirational and motivational speaker. 00:00:39.93\00:00:43.04 Arthur Andrews is an award-winning speaker, 00:00:43.07\00:00:46.17 author, trainer, and success coach. 00:00:46.21\00:00:48.51 Born and reared in Brooklyn, New York, 00:00:48.54\00:00:50.85 Arthur is a product of urban life 00:00:50.88\00:00:52.88 and has experienced first-hand 00:00:52.91\00:00:54.85 the awesome challenges of the streets. 00:00:54.88\00:00:57.49 In 1990, 00:00:57.52\00:00:58.85 Arthur began realizing goals of his own 00:00:58.89\00:01:01.16 and began his professional speaking and training career. 00:01:01.19\00:01:04.49 Since then, he's given over 1300 speeches, 00:01:04.53\00:01:08.40 many of them repeat performances. 00:01:08.43\00:01:10.97 Arthur has dedicated his expertise 00:01:11.00\00:01:13.54 to helping corporations shake off mediocrity 00:01:13.57\00:01:16.84 and maximize their unlimited potential. 00:01:16.87\00:01:20.11 But Arthur's primary focus is in evangelism. 00:01:20.14\00:01:23.95 Welcome to Urban Report, Arthur. 00:01:23.98\00:01:26.85 Thank you, Yvonne. This is exciting. 00:01:26.88\00:01:29.15 I know, I can't believe I have you with me. 00:01:29.18\00:01:31.49 I'm so happy. 00:01:31.52\00:01:32.85 Words cannot accomplish the symbol 00:01:32.89\00:01:34.22 is what I'm feeling. 00:01:34.26\00:01:37.16 You are so funny, 00:01:37.19\00:01:38.53 as our audience is going to know 00:01:38.56\00:01:41.16 within the next few minutes. 00:01:41.20\00:01:43.06 But underneath all of that, Arthur, I mean, you're funny, 00:01:43.10\00:01:47.10 and you make people laugh, and you are very insightful. 00:01:47.14\00:01:52.21 God has given you so many gifts. 00:01:52.24\00:01:54.38 But underneath all of that 00:01:54.41\00:01:56.81 is a man who has been through a lot in life. 00:01:56.85\00:02:00.58 Tell us about your upbringing. 00:02:00.62\00:02:03.12 Tell us about, you know, 00:02:03.15\00:02:04.49 where you grew up and how you grew up? 00:02:04.52\00:02:06.62 Yes, I came out of a little town called Brooklyn, 00:02:06.65\00:02:11.16 Bedford-Stuyvesant to be exact. 00:02:11.19\00:02:14.73 And could any good thing come out of Bedford-Stuyvesant? 00:02:14.76\00:02:18.17 Well, I think about Jesus of Nazareth. 00:02:18.20\00:02:20.17 Could any good thing come out of Nazareth? 00:02:20.20\00:02:22.10 I had a lady that raised me as her very own, 00:02:22.14\00:02:25.24 her name was aunt Thelma 00:02:25.27\00:02:26.88 My parents couldn't take care of me 00:02:26.91\00:02:28.44 because of extenuating circumstances. 00:02:28.48\00:02:31.25 But aunt Thelma raised me as her very own, 00:02:31.28\00:02:33.28 I didn't know the difference. 00:02:33.31\00:02:35.28 And she beat me too, just like I was her very own. 00:02:35.32\00:02:38.29 She told me, she told me one day, she said, 00:02:38.32\00:02:40.32 "Look, you run your mouth like a bell clapper. 00:02:40.36\00:02:42.52 All you do is talk. I got to go to school. 00:02:42.56\00:02:45.03 And this is the time of work, continue. 00:02:45.06\00:02:46.63 What is wrong with you?" 00:02:46.66\00:02:48.00 I said, "Nothing's wrong with me, aunt Thelma." 00:02:48.03\00:02:49.83 She said, "Look, come over here," 00:02:49.86\00:02:51.20 she said, "if you wanna talk, 00:02:51.23\00:02:52.57 you might as well get paid for it," 00:02:52.60\00:02:54.40 and aunt Thelma said, 00:02:54.44\00:02:55.77 "You're going to be a great elocutionist." 00:02:55.80\00:02:58.41 And she would challenged me, "Go, look it up." 00:02:58.44\00:03:00.74 And I was having great difficulty 00:03:00.78\00:03:03.01 pronouncing the word 'elocution.' 00:03:03.04\00:03:05.31 So people asked what I want to be, 00:03:05.35\00:03:06.68 I said, "I want to be an executioner." 00:03:06.72\00:03:08.38 That may help a lot. 00:03:08.42\00:03:10.19 Okay. 00:03:10.22\00:03:11.55 And I did that at programs, and they're embarrassing me. 00:03:11.59\00:03:14.09 But then Thelma took me all around Brooklyn. 00:03:14.12\00:03:16.73 To say the speech called, Take Your Place, 00:03:16.76\00:03:19.29 and the rest is really history, you know, 00:03:19.33\00:03:21.13 you treat a child the way that he is, 00:03:21.16\00:03:22.50 it only becomes worse. 00:03:22.53\00:03:23.87 But she didn't necessarily feel 00:03:23.90\00:03:25.23 what would it could be the child 00:03:25.27\00:03:26.60 because of what it should be. 00:03:26.63\00:03:27.97 Mmm, oh, I like that. 00:03:28.00\00:03:29.34 And I'm excited about that. 00:03:29.37\00:03:30.71 And I possess that she reared me 00:03:30.74\00:03:32.07 in the spirit of anger, who said that. 00:03:32.11\00:03:33.88 And, Yvonne, it's been incredible. 00:03:33.91\00:03:37.75 You know, coming out of Brooklyn, New York, 00:03:37.78\00:03:39.11 I was raised in a, not a very diverse community. 00:03:39.15\00:03:43.65 So it was very challenging for me 00:03:43.69\00:03:45.82 to get out here and start speaking, 00:03:45.85\00:03:47.46 they're just to offer you speaker for each 00:03:47.49\00:03:49.46 'cause I always just knew, 00:03:49.49\00:03:50.83 you know, I might just yell at the screen. 00:03:50.86\00:03:52.19 But the people, the people used to say to me, 00:03:52.23\00:03:53.70 "You got to calm down. What are you angry about?" 00:03:53.73\00:03:56.00 And I was angry. 00:03:56.03\00:03:57.53 But this field is so awesome, 00:03:57.57\00:04:01.80 and you just meet so many different people. 00:04:01.84\00:04:04.24 And you really get to share your faith. 00:04:04.27\00:04:05.61 Yes. Yes. 00:04:05.64\00:04:06.98 Let's go back for a second, 00:04:07.01\00:04:08.34 because we kind of missed the whole lot of area here, 00:04:08.38\00:04:12.11 so how did you avoid, the drugs, the gangs, 00:04:12.15\00:04:16.79 all of that growing up in Bed-Stuy? 00:04:16.82\00:04:19.29 How did you avoid getting involved in all that? 00:04:19.32\00:04:22.52 Structure. 00:04:22.56\00:04:23.89 And I had an uncle Jacky, I had my brother 00:04:23.93\00:04:26.53 and I knew they will kill me, 00:04:26.56\00:04:28.63 so, I really, really was... 00:04:28.66\00:04:33.34 I should say it wasn't a challenged childhood, 00:04:33.37\00:04:36.20 I had a great childhood. 00:04:36.24\00:04:37.71 But I had mentors, I had people that I looked up too, you know. 00:04:37.74\00:04:41.24 And... 00:04:41.28\00:04:42.61 You know, that is so important, Arthur, 00:04:42.64\00:04:43.98 because you just named some men 00:04:44.01\00:04:47.68 who played a pivotal role in, in you and your outlook 00:04:47.72\00:04:52.95 and that's one of the things that's missing so much 00:04:52.99\00:04:55.42 in our communities now. Yes. 00:04:55.46\00:04:57.09 It's the absence of the male mentor, 00:04:57.13\00:05:02.36 the one that can take somebody and train them. 00:05:02.40\00:05:03.73 Well, I had it truly. I had it truly. 00:05:03.77\00:05:05.70 I had uncle Conwy, then I had, you know, 00:05:05.73\00:05:09.64 well, I have my parents, my maternal parents, 00:05:09.67\00:05:11.77 then I had uncle Conwy, and then I had uncle Jacky, 00:05:11.81\00:05:15.14 who was with me till my teenage years. 00:05:15.18\00:05:16.54 So I was very gifted and blessed, you know, 00:05:16.58\00:05:20.22 not to be affected. 00:05:20.25\00:05:21.88 And she told me, I felt like the first principal, 00:05:21.92\00:05:24.19 "You're going down to stay with uncle Jacky." 00:05:24.22\00:05:25.62 I said, "Well, they don't eat meat. 00:05:25.65\00:05:27.29 They don't eat white bread, 00:05:27.32\00:05:30.49 and they don't watch television. 00:05:30.53\00:05:31.86 I'm not going." 00:05:31.89\00:05:33.23 And I had a protest 00:05:33.26\00:05:34.60 but I ended up there, and it was the best thing 00:05:34.63\00:05:35.96 that ever happened to me really. 00:05:36.00\00:05:37.77 So when did you go and live with uncle Jacky. 00:05:37.80\00:05:41.14 1973. 00:05:41.17\00:05:42.87 Wow. 00:05:42.90\00:05:44.24 It changed my life and it saved my life. 00:05:44.27\00:05:45.61 So, were you in high school? Were you in high school then? 00:05:45.64\00:05:47.31 High school. 00:05:47.34\00:05:48.68 Had dyed my hair auburn, 00:05:48.71\00:05:50.35 and a base guitar on my back, 00:05:50.38\00:05:52.15 and army fatigue jacket 00:05:52.18\00:05:53.58 when he picked me up, he said, "Lord, have mercy." 00:05:53.62\00:05:57.02 But he was patiently kind. 00:05:57.05\00:05:59.89 And sometimes, you know, your parents, 00:05:59.92\00:06:01.39 your family won't take care of you. 00:06:01.42\00:06:03.49 God will send strangers... 00:06:03.53\00:06:07.00 To pick up the slack, 00:06:07.03\00:06:08.46 and I was fortunate, Yvonne, I really was. 00:06:08.50\00:06:11.07 And then I was blessed to meet 00:06:11.10\00:06:12.43 such a wonderful person like you. 00:06:12.47\00:06:13.94 Oh! Praise the Lord, Arthur. Thank you. 00:06:13.97\00:06:17.07 Well, you've been a part of my life. 00:06:17.11\00:06:18.81 I guess, in full disclosure here, 00:06:18.84\00:06:20.78 you know, you're a family to me so... 00:06:20.81\00:06:23.11 You're my cousin, and I'm just so thankful 00:06:23.14\00:06:26.18 for what God has done in your life 00:06:26.21\00:06:27.85 because I know it's been difficult and challenging 00:06:27.88\00:06:32.55 but yet, the Lord is allowed you to rise 00:06:32.59\00:06:35.69 to every challenge and so... 00:06:35.72\00:06:38.09 Absolutely. That's a major blessing. 00:06:38.13\00:06:39.83 So you went, you stayed with uncle Jacky and aunt Joe. 00:06:39.86\00:06:43.47 Tell us the importance of that kind of a structure? 00:06:43.50\00:06:47.34 You're saying that they ate differently, 00:06:47.37\00:06:49.60 they didn't have TV. 00:06:49.64\00:06:50.97 Tell us the importance in your life of structure. 00:06:51.01\00:06:52.67 It's just the dynamics of a family life. 00:06:52.71\00:06:55.71 It's the dynamics of a man, 00:06:55.74\00:06:57.51 absolutely a young man 00:06:57.55\00:06:58.91 witnessing and seeing him love his wife. 00:06:58.95\00:07:01.95 Oh! Come on now. 00:07:01.98\00:07:03.49 I had the benefits, Yvonne. 00:07:03.52\00:07:04.85 Well, I've been married now, of 38 years. 00:07:04.89\00:07:07.36 I had the benefit of being under his tutelage 00:07:07.39\00:07:11.13 and watching him interact with my aunt Joe, 00:07:11.16\00:07:14.46 which is absolutely awesome. 00:07:14.50\00:07:15.83 What were some other things that you saw? 00:07:15.86\00:07:17.20 What's different about, 00:07:17.23\00:07:18.57 'cause I love their relationship 00:07:18.60\00:07:20.14 and anybody who knows them, Claude and Joselyn Thomas, 00:07:20.17\00:07:23.54 anybody who knows them, 00:07:23.57\00:07:25.27 knows that their relationship is just special. 00:07:25.31\00:07:28.81 What were some of the things that you saw, that you felt 00:07:28.84\00:07:32.21 you should transfer into your relationship? 00:07:32.25\00:07:35.35 Well, temperament, you know, temperament, 00:07:35.38\00:07:37.59 the way that you speak, you know, 55 % of what you say, 00:07:37.62\00:07:41.39 you say with your body, 00:07:41.42\00:07:42.86 38% is tonality and 7% words, 00:07:42.89\00:07:45.89 the least important form of communication is words. 00:07:45.93\00:07:48.96 I watched out, he interacted, 00:07:49.00\00:07:50.80 and even with the stress of feeding, 00:07:50.83\00:07:54.17 preparing for eight people eat dinner every night, 00:07:54.20\00:07:57.17 I never missed a meal. 00:07:57.21\00:07:58.74 Never was hungry, 00:07:58.77\00:08:00.38 but I knew that it was a struggle. 00:08:00.41\00:08:03.01 But he loved me. 00:08:03.04\00:08:04.75 Never put his hands on me. 00:08:04.78\00:08:07.15 But the way he spoke and in order... 00:08:07.18\00:08:10.52 Discipline and consistency. 00:08:10.55\00:08:13.36 It wasn't we had worship once 00:08:13.39\00:08:15.52 and then we didn't have worship one night, 00:08:15.56\00:08:17.29 it was consistent. 00:08:17.33\00:08:18.66 He always read, 00:08:18.69\00:08:20.03 If thou turn away thy foot from the sabbath, 00:08:20.06\00:08:21.83 from doing thy pleasure on my... 00:08:21.86\00:08:23.20 I mean, I grew up with that. 00:08:23.23\00:08:24.73 So it was a blessing. 00:08:24.77\00:08:26.63 I was finding it, 00:08:26.67\00:08:28.30 but once I got down into that community, 00:08:28.34\00:08:31.17 there were other people, even checks the village, 00:08:31.21\00:08:33.24 he really does. 00:08:33.27\00:08:34.61 And in the dynamics of being around uncle Tim 00:08:34.64\00:08:37.45 and Mervick Warren, and those people were friends. 00:08:37.48\00:08:41.05 They would come by, so, you know, 00:08:41.08\00:08:42.45 I never saw anything like that in Brooklyn. 00:08:42.48\00:08:44.95 I never, I never, I never experienced 00:08:44.99\00:08:47.86 someone actually sitting down and talking to you 00:08:47.89\00:08:50.19 and I think it's the way that it should be 00:08:50.23\00:08:51.56 'cause I suggest, she used to get on my nerves, 00:08:51.59\00:08:53.43 she put things on balloons that she loved me, 00:08:53.46\00:08:55.83 Jesus still loves you, all kind of things. 00:08:55.86\00:08:58.27 Seriously, I called her down to read, 00:08:58.30\00:09:01.14 nookie cookie's lady, you know, all that stuff, 00:09:01.17\00:09:04.01 that was really important to a person 00:09:04.04\00:09:05.57 who's growing up in urban New York, you know that. 00:09:05.61\00:09:08.21 A major shift in my life 00:09:08.24\00:09:10.91 and then I had the benefits 00:09:10.95\00:09:12.28 of hearing some powerful speakers 00:09:12.31\00:09:13.65 on the planet, like Henry Wright. 00:09:13.68\00:09:16.28 Heard him when I was 16, revolutionized my life. 00:09:16.32\00:09:21.86 So being in that environment 00:09:21.89\00:09:24.96 really changed the course of your life, didn't it? 00:09:24.99\00:09:29.96 Absolutely. Environment plays a big role. 00:09:30.00\00:09:33.34 Because getting away from that urban environment 00:09:33.37\00:09:36.74 and not just the fact that it's urban, 00:09:36.77\00:09:38.57 but you needed the structure and the family life that... 00:09:38.61\00:09:43.14 That's what I needed. 00:09:43.18\00:09:44.51 Uncle Jack and Aunt Joe offered you. 00:09:44.55\00:09:46.25 Absolutely, and the patience, 00:09:46.28\00:09:48.78 and listening to them praying for me, 00:09:48.82\00:09:51.32 it was incredible. 00:09:51.35\00:09:52.85 They wouldn't give up on me. Yeah. 00:09:52.89\00:09:54.66 They would continue to pray for me. 00:09:54.69\00:09:56.62 And till this day we still pray. 00:09:56.66\00:09:57.99 With the dynamics that we have, 00:09:58.03\00:09:59.86 the interactions that I have with him 00:09:59.89\00:10:01.23 to this very day. 00:10:01.26\00:10:02.60 You know, it's so, so important, 00:10:02.63\00:10:05.40 you know, he's my hero. 00:10:05.43\00:10:08.10 He is. They are incredible people. 00:10:08.14\00:10:10.77 When I was away from, 00:10:10.81\00:10:12.37 I was out of the church for several years 00:10:12.41\00:10:15.31 and while I was out there, 00:10:15.34\00:10:17.01 uncle Jack and aunt Joe would just, they just loved me. 00:10:17.05\00:10:20.18 They didn't... Absolutely. 00:10:20.22\00:10:21.55 They didn't condemn me. 00:10:21.58\00:10:22.92 I was in the music business 00:10:22.95\00:10:24.29 and, you know, and I wasn't wild and crazy, 00:10:24.32\00:10:27.06 but you don't have to be wild and crazy 00:10:27.09\00:10:28.76 to have lost your connection 00:10:28.79\00:10:30.53 and I lost my connection with the Lord 00:10:30.56\00:10:33.46 and instead of them, you know, 00:10:33.50\00:10:35.36 beating me over the head with doctrine and stuff, 00:10:35.40\00:10:38.27 they just loved me, 00:10:38.30\00:10:39.63 they told me they're praying for me, 00:10:39.67\00:10:41.90 they loved me, and they, and that was it. 00:10:41.94\00:10:44.97 I mean, I just didn't feel condemned by them 00:10:45.01\00:10:48.54 and that's so important. 00:10:48.58\00:10:49.91 And so what they offered you 00:10:49.94\00:10:51.95 was that steady, love environment. 00:10:51.98\00:10:55.52 Steady. That you could thrive in. 00:10:55.55\00:10:57.85 Absolutely. 00:10:57.89\00:10:59.22 So was it there, that you determine that you, 00:10:59.25\00:11:01.22 I mean, after aunt Thelma 00:11:01.26\00:11:02.89 wanted you to be an elocutionist, 00:11:02.92\00:11:04.93 was it in the home of uncle Jack and aunt Joe 00:11:04.96\00:11:08.13 that you decided you wanted to be a speaker, 00:11:08.16\00:11:11.63 or where did that happen? 00:11:11.67\00:11:13.07 In the beginning of the '90s, 00:11:13.10\00:11:14.44 I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. 00:11:14.47\00:11:16.40 I was on a job doing, 00:11:16.44\00:11:18.14 I was just about to get fired maybe not that quick. 00:11:18.17\00:11:20.71 So, you know, I wasn't happy and I called Uncle Jacky, 00:11:20.74\00:11:24.78 I was at the age of 33. 00:11:24.81\00:11:27.78 And I called him and said, "I'm just not happy." 00:11:27.82\00:11:30.82 I said, "Can I come and live with you?" 00:11:30.85\00:11:32.55 He let me come and stay with him 00:11:32.59\00:11:33.99 to get myself established. 00:11:34.02\00:11:35.86 That was I had the call to be a motivational speaker. 00:11:35.89\00:11:38.79 I actually went down to be a dean, 00:11:38.83\00:11:40.16 but things didn't work out, we're not going to go there. 00:11:40.20\00:11:42.36 But nevertheless, 00:11:42.40\00:11:43.73 I became just excited about motivational speaker. 00:11:43.77\00:11:48.44 I really got in Les Brown. 00:11:48.47\00:11:50.34 And I said, "Man." 00:11:50.37\00:11:51.71 I said, "Boy, I think I can do that." 00:11:51.74\00:11:53.27 When I found that what he's making an offer, 00:11:53.31\00:11:54.84 I said, "The Lord is able." 00:11:54.88\00:11:58.08 Tell us about, tell us a bit about Les Brown. 00:11:58.11\00:12:01.48 Well, Les is, is a very unique gentleman, 00:12:01.52\00:12:03.82 he's very gifted. 00:12:03.85\00:12:06.12 Unrelentless. 00:12:06.15\00:12:07.62 Has been through so much, 00:12:07.66\00:12:09.69 but I've never met a man 00:12:09.72\00:12:11.26 that could bounce back like that. 00:12:11.29\00:12:12.69 I've never heard a person speak like that. 00:12:12.73\00:12:14.70 And I called him actually, 00:12:14.73\00:12:18.00 31 days, 00:12:18.03\00:12:20.54 I got his number, 00:12:20.57\00:12:21.90 someone was trying to jumping onto him, 00:12:21.94\00:12:23.27 said, "I had natural borne communications skills." 00:12:23.30\00:12:26.68 "Yeah, you're right." 00:12:26.71\00:12:28.04 And he said, "Well, come on, there's so much money, 00:12:28.08\00:12:29.54 $20 a year to speak. 00:12:29.58\00:12:30.91 I'm not going up there for $20 for Bible talk. 00:12:30.95\00:12:32.65 Are you kidding?" 00:12:32.68\00:12:34.02 And I didn't go. 00:12:34.05\00:12:35.38 But I met him at a hotel, 00:12:35.42\00:12:38.62 Guardia to be exact 00:12:38.65\00:12:41.46 and we talked and then I left. 00:12:41.49\00:12:43.36 I got his number. 00:12:43.39\00:12:44.73 But he had a number 800, CI Can. 00:12:44.76\00:12:49.43 So I called him, 800 CI Can. 00:12:49.46\00:12:51.90 And first time I called, 00:12:51.93\00:12:53.27 they said, "Listen, don't call here." 00:12:53.30\00:12:55.30 They didn't say, "Don't call here." 00:12:55.34\00:12:56.91 They said, "But you don't just pick the phone 00:12:56.94\00:12:58.27 to call Les Brown. 00:12:58.31\00:12:59.64 And does he know who you are?" I said, "No. 00:12:59.67\00:13:01.58 I said, "I'm Arthur L Andrew, but I'm hungry." 00:13:01.61\00:13:03.88 Okay, that's nice." 00:13:03.91\00:13:06.05 Day number 10. 00:13:06.08\00:13:08.42 I called again, just like I never called before. 00:13:08.45\00:13:11.85 Then they said, "Listen, sir, 00:13:11.89\00:13:13.22 we're gonna report you to the authority 00:13:13.25\00:13:14.59 'cause you're stalking Mr. Brown. 00:13:14.62\00:13:15.96 For stalking Mr. Brown." 00:13:15.99\00:13:17.33 "Mr. Brown said on his tape, 00:13:17.36\00:13:18.69 number eight, in the middle of the tape, 00:13:18.73\00:13:20.06 that you got to be hungry." 00:13:20.10\00:13:22.16 Day 28, 00:13:22.20\00:13:25.50 they hung up. 00:13:25.53\00:13:27.40 29th day, they answered the phone, 00:13:27.44\00:13:30.01 I said, I said, "It's Arthur L Andrews. 00:13:30.04\00:13:32.74 She said, "Didn't I tell you?" 00:13:32.77\00:13:34.11 and said, "I thought maybe they fired you 00:13:34.14\00:13:35.48 because of your attitude" 00:13:35.51\00:13:37.15 Day 31st, 00:13:37.18\00:13:40.22 I called up and I said "Listen, this is Arthur L Andrews. 00:13:40.25\00:13:43.15 I'm one of Les Brown's illegitimate children... 00:13:43.18\00:13:47.42 He said, "Hello, this is Les Brown, 00:13:47.46\00:13:48.92 who is this fool?" 00:13:48.96\00:13:51.53 And that's, the rest is history. 00:13:51.56\00:13:53.33 And I went to Lane Marquee, and I spoke, 00:13:53.36\00:13:55.56 5000 people gave me an opportunity, 00:13:55.60\00:13:57.63 that's why you got to be prepared for your chance, 00:13:57.67\00:13:59.73 5000 people, and I froze for 30 seconds. 00:13:59.77\00:14:05.57 Wait, your first, 00:14:05.61\00:14:06.94 your first major speaking event. 00:14:06.98\00:14:09.64 Opportunity. Opportunity he gave me. 00:14:09.68\00:14:12.51 I froze. 00:14:12.55\00:14:13.88 Was in front of 5000 people? Five thousand people. 00:14:13.92\00:14:15.95 And you froze. Lane Marqee and I froze. 00:14:15.98\00:14:19.49 And his cousin was furious. 00:14:19.52\00:14:21.76 I told you, didn't know them. 00:14:21.79\00:14:23.86 But there was a gentleman in the audience, 00:14:23.89\00:14:27.06 and he stood up and said, "Speak of your own brother." 00:14:27.10\00:14:29.80 And the rest, I just started speaking. 00:14:29.83\00:14:31.97 That's why, you know, 00:14:32.00\00:14:33.34 you got to really prepare yourself 00:14:33.37\00:14:35.07 because failure at a chance 00:14:35.10\00:14:36.44 can really make you look ridiculous. 00:14:36.47\00:14:38.54 And I was so happy that I prepared, 00:14:38.57\00:14:40.11 it was there, stored away. 00:14:40.14\00:14:41.98 But then that's all I needed was that boost, 00:14:42.01\00:14:43.98 then I started speaking of Les Brown and crazy 00:14:44.01\00:14:46.51 and I'm gonna travel with him. 00:14:46.55\00:14:48.58 Yeah. 00:14:48.62\00:14:50.49 Now look at that, 00:14:50.52\00:14:51.85 look at how God opened that door for you. 00:14:51.89\00:14:54.92 Now you said something that was very profound, 00:14:54.96\00:14:58.93 you were talking about 00:14:58.96\00:15:00.60 how you must be prepared for the opportunity. 00:15:00.63\00:15:03.90 Unpack that a little bit for us 00:15:03.93\00:15:05.60 because I want our viewers to know, to understand 00:15:05.63\00:15:08.70 that concept of being prepared. 00:15:08.74\00:15:10.07 Well, Abraham Lincoln said that, 00:15:10.11\00:15:11.44 "If I had eight hours to chop down a tree, 00:15:11.47\00:15:14.34 I would spend six and half sharpening my axe." 00:15:14.38\00:15:17.21 You must be ready, because... 00:15:17.25\00:15:19.71 And he also says, he says, 00:15:19.75\00:15:21.12 you know, "I will study and prepare, 00:15:21.15\00:15:22.58 my chance will come and then I will be ready." 00:15:22.62\00:15:25.25 It's really a terrible thing to be in front of someone 00:15:25.29\00:15:29.99 or to suggest that you're a professional 00:15:30.03\00:15:33.53 and you don't know your craft, 00:15:33.56\00:15:34.90 sharpen your skills, hone your skills, 00:15:34.93\00:15:37.97 know your craft, and speak with excellence. 00:15:38.00\00:15:40.57 And one things that I think I froze, 00:15:40.60\00:15:42.40 Oakwood College and Moran Hall, 00:15:42.44\00:15:44.81 because they will boo you off that stage. 00:15:44.84\00:15:46.98 You know, you just said, 00:15:47.01\00:15:48.38 did not appreciate mediocrity at Oakwood. 00:15:48.41\00:15:50.81 There were so many people that demanded excellence 00:15:50.85\00:15:53.31 and one of the greatest experiences I had in my life, 00:15:53.35\00:15:55.92 I read some of the greatest speakers 00:15:55.95\00:15:57.32 that walked this planet, 00:15:57.35\00:15:58.89 had walked through Aster Auditorium 00:15:58.92\00:16:00.96 back in the down, if you know Aster Auditorium 00:16:00.99\00:16:03.29 but you may be little too young for that. 00:16:03.32\00:16:04.86 Oh, you watch it. Watch it. 00:16:04.89\00:16:07.53 Aster Auditorium, 00:16:07.56\00:16:09.16 you remember asking me, you still have church? 00:16:09.20\00:16:11.23 Yeah. I remember Moran Hall. 00:16:11.27\00:16:13.27 Well, Moran Hall, but then we went to Aster Auditorium. 00:16:13.30\00:16:16.57 That was after my time. 00:16:16.60\00:16:18.44 Okay, and that was the place 00:16:18.47\00:16:20.38 that I heard some of the greatest speakers. 00:16:20.41\00:16:22.61 Walter Pearson. 00:16:22.64\00:16:24.71 And Walter Pearson was kind to me, 00:16:24.75\00:16:26.41 Somebody I remember kind to me, 00:16:26.45\00:16:28.92 he wasn't stuffy, he wasn't a high ground, 00:16:28.95\00:16:31.02 and he said, "When you become successful, 00:16:31.05\00:16:33.52 you just let that smoke last down and talk to me." 00:16:33.56\00:16:36.76 That's what he told me. 00:16:36.79\00:16:38.39 And, you know, of course, the rest is history, 00:16:38.43\00:16:40.96 really I'm just having a ball doing what I loved. 00:16:41.00\00:16:43.87 My vocation is my vacation. 00:16:43.90\00:16:46.17 Ah, I love it. 00:16:46.20\00:16:47.54 So give us a minute or two, 00:16:47.57\00:16:50.91 sample of what you would say to motivate people, 00:16:50.94\00:16:55.48 you're going to a corporate environment 00:16:55.51\00:17:00.82 and you want to motivate people. 00:17:00.85\00:17:03.35 What would... Or inspire them. 00:17:03.39\00:17:04.72 What kinds of things do you say to them? 00:17:04.75\00:17:07.72 Well, life makes one demand of every living organism. 00:17:07.76\00:17:10.69 Meaning that we must come to term the situation 00:17:10.73\00:17:12.66 that it confronts, 00:17:12.69\00:17:14.03 realizing there are two ways to meet a situation. 00:17:14.06\00:17:16.16 Sometimes you could change the situation. 00:17:16.20\00:17:18.00 Other times, you must change yourself. 00:17:18.03\00:17:19.83 But we know that change is both a process 00:17:19.87\00:17:22.60 of disruption and renewal. 00:17:22.64\00:17:24.77 You know, you will not make some choices now, 00:17:24.81\00:17:26.57 what do you want? 00:17:26.61\00:17:27.94 You know, if you had a choice 00:17:27.98\00:17:30.85 or you had the power to change your life, 00:17:30.88\00:17:32.21 what things would you change? 00:17:32.25\00:17:33.78 Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired? 00:17:33.82\00:17:38.65 There are things that I ask them in reference to, 00:17:38.69\00:17:41.12 are they committed and dedicated 00:17:41.16\00:17:43.49 to the purpose of something that you want to do 00:17:43.53\00:17:45.46 or something someone told you to do? 00:17:45.49\00:17:48.16 Because you really can't progress 00:17:48.20\00:17:49.63 and be the best you can, 00:17:49.66\00:17:51.10 doing something that you hate. 00:17:51.13\00:17:53.74 That's good. 00:17:53.77\00:17:55.10 Are you on a job? 00:17:55.14\00:17:56.60 Or are you in a vocation 00:17:56.64\00:17:58.37 that doesn't give you any fulfilment? 00:17:58.41\00:18:00.21 There are so many people, they did the survey, 00:18:00.24\00:18:03.21 they found that 87% of the people 00:18:03.24\00:18:06.58 don't like their jobs of what they're doing. 00:18:06.61\00:18:08.88 They're miserable. 00:18:08.92\00:18:10.29 And if you don't have a plan for your life, 00:18:10.32\00:18:12.12 someone else does. 00:18:12.15\00:18:14.56 And that's why it's important to, 00:18:14.59\00:18:16.22 let me just add this, you know, 00:18:16.26\00:18:18.33 I got to a point where I got to decide myself, 00:18:18.36\00:18:20.46 and I really want to get to this point. 00:18:20.50\00:18:22.33 And God spoke to me intuitively 00:18:22.36\00:18:25.17 and said, "I'm not gonna share my glory with you." 00:18:25.20\00:18:28.54 And that thing just knocked me, 00:18:28.57\00:18:30.27 I mean, knocked me for a loop. 00:18:30.31\00:18:31.64 Explain that? 00:18:31.67\00:18:33.01 Because that's, we need to know a bit more about that. 00:18:33.04\00:18:37.31 What do you mean by that? 00:18:37.35\00:18:38.95 Well, sometimes motivation and inspiration speaking 00:18:38.98\00:18:41.12 hinges on the borders of secular humanism. 00:18:41.15\00:18:45.15 And God is not gonna share His glory with you. 00:18:45.19\00:18:47.86 Explain that? 00:18:47.89\00:18:49.22 'Cause some people don't even know what that is, 00:18:49.26\00:18:50.79 I know what it is, but some... 00:18:50.83\00:18:52.16 He gets all the glory. 00:18:52.19\00:18:53.53 What is secular humanism? 00:18:53.56\00:18:55.63 Well, that's where there's dependence on you and my God. 00:18:55.66\00:18:59.20 Okay. 00:18:59.23\00:19:00.57 That you created this. Yes. 00:19:00.60\00:19:02.24 I, I created this. 00:19:02.27\00:19:05.41 You know, and then like for instance... 00:19:05.44\00:19:07.28 Yes, ma'am. 00:19:07.31\00:19:08.64 So was that part of your experience? 00:19:08.68\00:19:11.21 Had you reached a place in your experience 00:19:11.25\00:19:14.35 where you were leaning toward that 00:19:14.38\00:19:16.48 and God had to reign you back? 00:19:16.52\00:19:17.85 Tell us, tell us that experience. 00:19:17.89\00:19:19.75 Absolutely, absolutely. 00:19:19.79\00:19:21.76 You begin to think that you own the room 00:19:21.79\00:19:25.59 or it was because of your expertise 00:19:25.63\00:19:29.06 and your communication skills that got you this opportunity. 00:19:29.10\00:19:32.57 And then you change lives. 00:19:32.60\00:19:34.14 No, no, I don't change lives. 00:19:34.17\00:19:36.17 I'm really not the motivator. 00:19:36.20\00:19:38.47 The Lord is. 00:19:38.51\00:19:41.28 That's instinction. 00:19:41.31\00:19:43.28 What did it take to get you there? 00:19:43.31\00:19:47.08 I was standing at the New Orleans Superdome 00:19:47.12\00:19:51.72 at Louis. 00:19:51.75\00:19:54.26 And I've just spoken 00:19:54.29\00:19:56.06 and T.D. Jakes and Serita Jakes was in the audience. 00:19:56.09\00:19:59.79 And I'm telling you, I thought I was dead, 00:19:59.83\00:20:02.86 walking in a high cotton, a proud peacock, 00:20:02.90\00:20:06.67 and I was calling everybody and as I was doing it, 00:20:06.70\00:20:09.10 he said, "What does it, what does it profit a man 00:20:09.14\00:20:12.07 to gain the whole world 00:20:12.11\00:20:14.81 and lose your soul?" 00:20:14.84\00:20:17.18 I had remembered that he was the chief motivator 00:20:17.21\00:20:20.15 and he gives the assignment, 00:20:20.18\00:20:22.42 not me. 00:20:22.45\00:20:24.12 And when I began to understand, that door began to open, 00:20:24.15\00:20:27.36 but I was trying to open the doors, 00:20:27.39\00:20:28.72 I was trying to make it happen. 00:20:28.76\00:20:30.09 I want to grow up, I want to be a gospel all star. 00:20:30.13\00:20:32.73 I was at all the events 00:20:32.76\00:20:34.10 and trying to get on BET, 00:20:34.13\00:20:35.46 and trying to do this, and trying to do that. 00:20:35.50\00:20:37.37 But, Yvonne, you know, that only what you do, 00:20:37.40\00:20:40.94 it may sound corny and cliches, 00:20:40.97\00:20:43.77 but only what you do for Christ will last. 00:20:43.81\00:20:46.68 He has to be the focal point of why you do what you do? 00:20:46.71\00:20:49.78 So now I'm not trying to impress audiences, 00:20:49.81\00:20:52.05 I'm inspiring audiences. 00:20:52.08\00:20:54.88 I love it. 00:20:54.92\00:20:56.25 To be the best they possibly can be. 00:20:56.28\00:20:57.62 And my mantra everyday, when I get in the mirror, 00:20:57.65\00:21:00.19 is the mark of greatness is truly upon you. 00:21:00.22\00:21:02.46 And you must not be limited 00:21:02.49\00:21:03.83 by the short sight of you and other, 00:21:03.86\00:21:05.19 you can because you think you can, 00:21:05.23\00:21:07.16 you can because God said you can. 00:21:07.20\00:21:08.76 You're looking good, feeling good, smelling good. 00:21:08.80\00:21:10.50 You are a masterpiece of creation 00:21:10.53\00:21:12.13 because God does not pick junk 00:21:12.17\00:21:14.67 and I kiss myself on my hand. 00:21:14.70\00:21:18.34 This happened. 00:21:18.37\00:21:19.71 This brings some joy to some people. 00:21:19.74\00:21:21.08 I love that. 00:21:21.11\00:21:22.44 One day I did all of that, worked on myself, 00:21:22.48\00:21:24.38 talked to myself and, you know, life happens, 00:21:24.41\00:21:27.02 and I walked out of the door, and got on a plane, 00:21:27.05\00:21:29.98 and went to do a speech. 00:21:30.02\00:21:31.42 I stopped by, at the airport, at McDonalds 00:21:31.45\00:21:34.49 and a girl looked at me and she looked and said, 00:21:34.52\00:21:36.96 "Well, what do you want?" 00:21:36.99\00:21:39.59 I've looked at her. 00:21:39.63\00:21:41.10 What do you... 00:21:41.13\00:21:42.46 "Well, good morning, you know..." 00:21:42.50\00:21:44.43 But she was just having a bad day 00:21:44.47\00:21:46.94 and so after she served me, 00:21:46.97\00:21:49.14 after she slid the orange juice at me 00:21:49.17\00:21:51.94 and told me how much it was. 00:21:51.97\00:21:53.31 I said, "You know, you could say, thank you." 00:21:53.34\00:21:54.71 She says, "On a receipt." 00:21:54.74\00:21:57.25 Wow. What do you do with that? 00:21:57.28\00:21:59.61 Costumer service. Yeah. 00:21:59.65\00:22:01.85 But I stepped back and I said, 00:22:01.88\00:22:03.22 "You know, you're acting lot of different, 00:22:03.25\00:22:04.59 you take your medication," and she laughed. 00:22:04.62\00:22:07.02 She said "Sorry, you're communist." 00:22:07.06\00:22:08.59 I said, "No, no, 00:22:08.62\00:22:09.96 I'm just seeing that you're having a bad day, 00:22:09.99\00:22:11.33 I just want to make your day" 00:22:11.36\00:22:12.69 She said, "Actually you seem like a nice man." 00:22:12.73\00:22:14.86 She said, "Are you really... Are you... 00:22:14.90\00:22:16.46 Are you an entertainer or something, you're funny." 00:22:16.50\00:22:18.67 I said, "No, I wasn't trying to be funny." 00:22:18.70\00:22:21.07 But she said, "Sir, can I talk to you?" 00:22:21.10\00:22:23.94 I said, "Sure." 00:22:23.97\00:22:25.47 She said, "Listen, I just found out I was pregnant 00:22:25.51\00:22:27.51 and I don't know who the father is." 00:22:27.54\00:22:28.88 I said, "I'm neither, honey." 00:22:28.91\00:22:30.65 But nevertheless, you know, 00:22:30.68\00:22:32.01 sometimes what people are going through 00:22:32.05\00:22:34.35 is not about you, it's not about us, 00:22:34.38\00:22:36.75 it's about what God can do through us 00:22:36.79\00:22:38.39 or accomplishes on purpose. 00:22:38.42\00:22:40.29 And sometimes you step back and look 00:22:40.32\00:22:42.82 and if we understand 00:22:42.86\00:22:44.19 people's history will be more compassionate. 00:22:44.23\00:22:47.60 Very true, very true. 00:22:47.63\00:22:51.37 When you, wow, when you were on that stage 00:22:51.40\00:22:56.24 and, you know, 00:22:56.27\00:22:59.07 you were there with the women that losed situation 00:22:59.11\00:23:02.08 and you were feeling like, "I have finally arrived." 00:23:02.11\00:23:08.68 Is that when the Spirit of God spoke to you 00:23:08.72\00:23:11.49 and kind of reigned you back in? 00:23:11.52\00:23:13.25 After I got to the room, when I got to the suite 00:23:13.29\00:23:16.49 and I was looking out of the window, 00:23:16.52\00:23:18.53 that's when it came up onto me. 00:23:18.56\00:23:19.89 You know, God speaks intuitively, 00:23:19.93\00:23:21.30 because, you know, if He spoke out louder, 00:23:21.33\00:23:22.66 it's freaky, I would jump out of the window. 00:23:22.70\00:23:24.53 Right. 00:23:24.57\00:23:26.77 "Arthur!" I couldn't handle that. 00:23:26.80\00:23:28.70 I couldn't handle at that time. 00:23:28.74\00:23:30.11 But just intuitively. 00:23:30.14\00:23:32.07 "What does it profit a man to gain whole world..." 00:23:32.11\00:23:35.88 And I said, "To lose your family." 00:23:35.91\00:23:38.88 My uncle used to tell me something all the time. 00:23:38.91\00:23:40.62 He would ask me, "So, Arthur, 00:23:40.65\00:23:41.98 is your wife secure in your love?" 00:23:42.02\00:23:44.82 I used to get so angry, just kept little quiet. 00:23:44.85\00:23:47.62 And I would go through all of my millennial things. 00:23:47.66\00:23:51.06 He'd somewhat ask you the question again? 00:23:51.09\00:23:53.60 Is your wife secure in your love? 00:23:53.63\00:23:56.97 And I began to think about that. 00:23:57.00\00:23:58.60 What does it really profit me? 00:23:58.63\00:24:01.37 If I'd really gained the whole world 00:24:01.40\00:24:02.94 and lose my family in the process. 00:24:02.97\00:24:05.67 What am I? I'm just a successful failure. 00:24:05.71\00:24:08.94 I've got trophies, I've got all kind of things. 00:24:08.98\00:24:11.71 But I don't have my family. 00:24:11.75\00:24:14.12 So, you know, you got to go back again 00:24:14.15\00:24:16.08 and look at the things you got to go back 00:24:16.12\00:24:17.45 and smell the rose and find what's really important 00:24:17.49\00:24:19.59 and now I'm a papa. 00:24:19.62\00:24:21.56 And it's just incredible, it's a second coming, 00:24:21.59\00:24:23.43 looks just like me, my wife said, 00:24:23.46\00:24:24.93 "This is not your son," whatever. 00:24:24.96\00:24:27.96 But I love it. 00:24:28.00\00:24:29.46 And I love what I do now because I have, 00:24:29.50\00:24:31.37 I really have a purpose, not that I didn't have before. 00:24:31.40\00:24:34.47 But I was endeavored to be a star, 00:24:34.50\00:24:36.94 a super star, a celebrity. 00:24:36.97\00:24:39.17 God is a star of the show. 00:24:39.21\00:24:41.24 Yes. 00:24:41.28\00:24:42.61 You know, and allow Him... 00:24:42.64\00:24:44.45 and He promised, didn't He promised us, Yvonne? 00:24:44.48\00:24:46.35 He said, "I'll supply all your needs. 00:24:46.38\00:24:49.68 You take care of my kingdom," 00:24:49.72\00:24:51.75 and now I'm a kingdom builder. 00:24:51.79\00:24:53.12 I'm involved in my church, 00:24:53.15\00:24:55.26 I'm now working with the Bible worker 00:24:55.29\00:24:58.49 and we're going out 00:24:58.53\00:24:59.86 and we're knocking on the doors, 00:24:59.89\00:25:01.23 can you imagine that, 00:25:01.26\00:25:02.60 we're knocking on doors. 00:25:02.63\00:25:03.97 Yeah, you look like the JW's, 00:25:04.00\00:25:07.24 we're out there, 00:25:07.27\00:25:08.60 and we're knocking on doors 00:25:08.64\00:25:10.11 and do you know we have a Tuesday night Bible study 00:25:10.14\00:25:12.91 and it is packed. 00:25:12.94\00:25:14.84 And then, 'cause the only way you're gonna build this church 00:25:14.88\00:25:17.08 it's not through music, music is wonderful. 00:25:17.11\00:25:19.95 But going and connecting with people 00:25:19.98\00:25:22.05 and then I had to ask myself 00:25:22.08\00:25:23.42 and I hope I'm not getting too spiritual here. 00:25:23.45\00:25:25.65 No, no, no, this is great. 00:25:25.69\00:25:28.02 But I'm just telling you, I'm telling you right now that, 00:25:28.06\00:25:30.43 that... The Spirit spoke to me again. 00:25:30.46\00:25:33.33 And so my wife sometimes, she thinks it's gas, 00:25:33.36\00:25:35.40 but I say, "It's not gas, it's the Spirit." 00:25:35.43\00:25:38.00 Stop. 00:25:38.03\00:25:39.37 So the Spirit spoke to me again. 00:25:39.40\00:25:41.37 Guess what He told me? What? 00:25:41.40\00:25:44.54 In the last three years, 00:25:44.57\00:25:46.14 how many people have grown under the water, 00:25:46.17\00:25:49.01 come to know Jesus Christ 00:25:49.04\00:25:50.38 because of your personal ministry? 00:25:50.41\00:25:52.41 Yvonne, I hung my head. 00:25:52.45\00:25:55.55 So He was asking you basically, 00:25:55.58\00:25:58.25 what have you done to bring souls to me? 00:25:58.29\00:26:02.46 'Cause there're people with those crowns. 00:26:02.49\00:26:04.53 Right. You're not going by yourself. 00:26:04.56\00:26:06.03 Right. 00:26:06.06\00:26:07.40 And I had to think about that. 00:26:07.43\00:26:09.10 And do you know what that promoted really within me? 00:26:09.13\00:26:12.17 What? To study. 00:26:12.20\00:26:14.54 To be able to explain what I believe in the Word of God. 00:26:14.57\00:26:20.01 And then make it very interesting. 00:26:20.04\00:26:22.61 So that it would be receptive 00:26:22.64\00:26:23.98 and you know, we were out evangelizing 00:26:24.01\00:26:28.25 and I actually say canvassing really. 00:26:28.28\00:26:33.36 And some of the guys who were basically dealing drugs, 00:26:33.39\00:26:39.13 basically setup a Bible study. 00:26:39.16\00:26:42.23 So, you know, going for the Bible... 00:26:42.26\00:26:44.27 We went to one home and the lady had a... 00:26:44.30\00:26:47.27 She was pregnant, she had a hole in her mattress, 00:26:47.30\00:26:50.07 a big hole. 00:26:50.11\00:26:51.57 When we got a mattress 00:26:51.61\00:26:52.94 and got the box string, everything. 00:26:52.97\00:26:56.04 See people, you know, 00:26:56.08\00:26:58.38 it's easier minister people, 00:26:58.41\00:27:00.28 when you're meeting temporal needs. 00:27:00.32\00:27:02.38 A man can't hear if he's hungry 00:27:02.42\00:27:04.82 and his stomach is growling, 00:27:04.85\00:27:06.19 it's hard to really hear your message. 00:27:06.22\00:27:07.86 That's right. 00:27:07.89\00:27:09.22 But they're more inclined to come to your church. 00:27:09.26\00:27:11.79 You know, just not giving handouts 00:27:11.83\00:27:14.20 but providing temporal needs, the things that they need. 00:27:14.23\00:27:16.87 So a lot of what I did has changed 00:27:16.90\00:27:20.34 in the last two or three years. 00:27:20.37\00:27:23.10 And my church has been incredible 00:27:23.14\00:27:25.47 in helping me restructure what I do. 00:27:25.51\00:27:27.98 And I'm having more impact. Oh, that's right. 00:27:28.01\00:27:30.18 People say something different about you, 00:27:30.21\00:27:32.28 I can't put my finger, 00:27:32.31\00:27:33.75 but you're just so nice and you're so calm and... 00:27:33.78\00:27:37.29 Well, I'm not trying to prove anything. 00:27:37.32\00:27:40.22 I know who I am. 00:27:40.26\00:27:41.59 There's all I can promise that 00:27:41.62\00:27:42.96 if you don't know who you are, then anyone can name you, 00:27:42.99\00:27:45.46 and everybody can name you, 00:27:45.49\00:27:46.83 you may answer to just anything. 00:27:46.86\00:27:48.80 And you know what on that? I belong to Jesus. 00:27:48.83\00:27:51.60 That is great. 00:27:51.63\00:27:53.40 And on that we have to end, I can't believe our time is up. 00:27:53.44\00:27:56.20 Thank you so much for being with us 00:27:56.24\00:27:58.64 and thank you, for joining us. 00:27:58.67\00:28:00.71 Join us next time 00:28:00.74\00:28:02.08 'cause it just wouldn't be the same without you. 00:28:02.11\00:28:04.41