Stay tuned to meet a couple
whose lives are a testimony
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to the
transforming power of God.
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My name is Yvonne Lewis
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and you're
watching Urban Report.
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Hello and
welcome to Urban Report.
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My guests today are
Tim and Maiesha Lawson,
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Panelists on D2D's
Program, Pure Choices.
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Tim is also on Chew's Challenge,
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I was on the PC Set
and heard their story.
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Check out their amazing journey.
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It's such a blessing to
be on the Set of Pure Choices
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with Tim and Maiesha Lawson.
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Welcome to Urban Report.
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Thank you so much. Thank you.
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You know, I had the opportunity
to produce Pure Choices
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for this Season
and you were both
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on the Panel and
what I heard you say
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is so powerful,
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I can't wait for you
to watch Pure Choices.
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These Programs are
so profoundly impactful
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and so, what you
all were talking about
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I had to bring
you on Urban Report
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because I want our Viewers
to hear your whole testimony
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and just know the power of God
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to change your life.
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So Maiesha, let's talk
to you a little bit first
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because I had Tim on before
and our Viewers kind of know
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Tim on Chew's Challenge
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and also, I had you on
Urban Report before too.
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So, let's start
with your lovely wife
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and then I'm
going to bring you in
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and talk about some things too.
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Where were you born Maiesha?
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I was born in
Oakland, California,
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and at a young age
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I moved to
Sacramento, California,
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my mother and my
brother just us two.
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Okay, so your dad
wasn't in the home?
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No, not at all
well, to the age of eight
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and then he...
he had an addiction
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so, he had to go
take care of that
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and go into Rehab
and he missed out on
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a few years of my life
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so, I was in a
single-parent home.
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And was it a
spiritual environment,
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a secular environment?
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I grew up
Baptist but my mother...
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she didn't know really
how to have a spiritual home
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she did the best of her ability
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but we didn't
have family worship
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we were still able
to listen and watch
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secular things on television
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and just still
involved in secular things.
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So, you grew up,
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you were in Oakland, right,
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you were born in
Oakland Hmmm... hmmm...
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and when you got to high school,
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what happened, did
anything happen to you
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in high school, that
kind of began to pull you
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into the world or were you,
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just, kind of,
in the world anyway?
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Yes, I was in the world anyway
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so everything was normal to
me and once I hit high school,
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I got into boys, can't
call them men, of course,
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but I got into boys,
and by the age of sixteen
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I found myself in a relationship
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with a guy that was
three years older than me
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and, of course I
was sexually active,
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I began to use
drugs and drink alcohol
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and it progressed to
being abused as well.
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So, he was... it
was a domestic violence
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he was abusing you, Yes.
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and did you feel...
because this is important for
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young women who are in
an abusive relationship,
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did you feel
that that was normal?
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Yes, I did,
because I grew up seeing it
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not just only from
my mother and my father
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but maybe people out
in the streets of Oakland,
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I've seen women get
beat up by their husbands
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or their boyfriends,
you also see it on TV
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and, you know, other
family members as well.
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So you were sixteen
and you had started...
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you were sexually active
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you had started
drinking, using some drugs
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and you were being abused. Yes.
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How were you feeling
about yourself at that point?
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Well, by the age of 16, I
was diagnosed with depression
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severe depression,
so I was very unhappy
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me and my mother...
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we didn't have a
close relationship
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in my teenage years, I guess,
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once you hit puberty
you think you're grown
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and you don't need
to listen to anyone
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and me, I was
hardheaded, of course,
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and I needed someone to have,
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I needed that discipline
but what I really needed was
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some attention
and I needed love,
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and I'm not saying that
my mother didn't love me
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but she loved me from
a mother's perspective
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and not a father's perspective
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and that's what
I needed the most.
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Maiesha, this is
such an important point
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because on
Urban Report, a lot...
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I talk about the
impact of fathers
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the importance of the
father being in the home
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and how... not just for sons
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but for daughters,
daughters need their dads
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because their dad
is the first model
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of what a man is
supposed to be like
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and how he's
supposed to be with his wife
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I mean, well, you hope that
he would be the model for that
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and so, without your dad,
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you don't really
know how to gauge things,
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you don't know how a
man is supposed to be
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and you're not getting the
affection and the attention
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from your dad so you
seek it in other places
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and so, what I'm
hearing you say is that
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your relationship
with your mom wasn't great
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because as a
teenager, you start challenging
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their authority, Right.
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and then you didn't
have your daddy there
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to kind of guide you
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and then you had this guy
that you were dealing with
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that was abusing you, so
you went into depression.
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Right and I felt that he
was everything, you know,
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everything that I
needed, of course,
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and I felt that though
we argued and we fought
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I felt that, because
he was still there for me
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that that's what
mattered, you know.
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And so many teenage girls
are dealing with the same thing
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they think that that
kind of treatment is okay,
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it's not okay, they
think that it's normal
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it's not normal,
nobody deserves to get hit
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by their
significant other, no one,
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so that's sixteen,
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tell us how your life
progressed after that.
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Well, I continued this
relationship with my Ex
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for the age of 20, I
met you when I was 20 right?
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yeah, okay, so at the age of 20
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I was going back
and forth with him
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I was promiscuous and
I engaged in doing fraud,
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I would go into
banks and withdraw money
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and I ended up
going to jail for that
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and I was looking at jail...
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well, I was
looking at prison time
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the Feds came and spoke with me
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but, by the grace of
God, that didn't stick,
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so, I did a total
of six months in jail
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and then I got out
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and there were no
other charges against me
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it was considered "time served"
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so, as I'm in another State,
there was no family, no support,
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I met some women that
allowed me to stay with them
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but, of course, I
had to fend for myself.
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So, they were working
girls, they were dancers
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and they were in the
prostitution business
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and they introduced me
to that, I had no choice,
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I had to feed myself,
I had to clothe myself,
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I had to take care of myself,
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and that's how I began my life,
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in the Entertainment Business.
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So, it's
interesting because you know,
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now that you are who you are,
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you wouldn't say,
"Well, I had to do that"
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because you know
you could depend on God
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but then you didn't know that.
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You're operating
from a carnal mindset
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because you don't
know you didn't know,
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so, they introduced you
to the Entertainment Business
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what does that
mean, what were you doing?
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Well, I started off dancing,
and I wasn't making enough
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I was making enough for me
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but when I'm looking at the
women are doing less for more
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I wanted a taste of that
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you know, I can spend
eight hours to ten hours
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dancing, and they can still...
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they're still
making more than me
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and they're only
spending 30 minutes to an hour
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with just one person, you know,
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and so I asked
questions because I was curious
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and they showed me the
ropes to that type of profession
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and I stuck with that.
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And how long were
you involved with that?
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Well, I started at the age of
19 to 22 or 23 I believe, yeah.
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And how did you get out of it?
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Oh! the Lord is good.
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Well, I got tired of
the life that I was living
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and in the midst
of this I met Timothy
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and he was going through
his time with the Lord as well
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and the Lord was fixing him,
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the Lord spoke to
him to witness to me,
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and he continued
to... you know...
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pray with me and all that
and then, I'm going through...
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the Lord is speaking to me
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through my heart
and my conscience
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you know, every
time I'm working,
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I'm like, "This
is totally wrong"
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I felt a sense of conviction
and I've been around people
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that were
religious that went to church
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but they... not only
were they just religious,
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but they had
a... you can tell that
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they had a
relationship with Jesus
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and I wanted that,
I wanted that feeling,
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I wanted the joy that
they were talking about
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I wanted the "peace"
that they were talking about
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because I know in this
life... I'm not getting it
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and that's where I
began to change my life.
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So, you met Timothy,
let's talk about that
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and I want to
get Tim's perspective
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on how he felt when he met you.
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So, how did you meet Maiesha?
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I was in the world at the time,
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so we had just
finished, you know,
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partying and
everything as it were,
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and our friend
said, he had some friends
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that he wanted to invite
over, and we were at my house
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and so she literally
walked in my front door
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and through that we began
to spark up a relationship
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and a friendship and everything,
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not even imagine it
would go anywhere that it went,
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it went through
a turbulent year,
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of... as you're in the
world... worldly relationships,
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kind of fussing and fighting
and at the end of that year,
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I went to prison,
and so to fast forward,
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when I'm getting out of prison,
I'm starting to seek the Lord
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and re-contacted
her, sending her verses,
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encouraging her,
things of that nature,
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and lo and behold,
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she had started
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wondering about church
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and it would be
her and her friend
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they'd be on the
phone and we'd be
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you know, talking
about Bible topics,
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and Bible questions, and she...
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once she came up for Christmas
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and she said, you know,
about the spiritual people
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that I was hanging around,
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she decided then that
that's what she wanted,
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and started taking Bible Studies
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where she was at,
which was Las Vegas,
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so I was in Sacramento,
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she was in Vegas
taking her Bible Studies,
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she came back to Sacramento
and finished those Bible Studies
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and then that
summer, we both got baptized
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on the same day.
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That is tremendous, you
know what's amazing to me,
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you guys, is that
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God knew all along
where He would bring you to
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you know, the enemy has a plan
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and he's trying
to just take you down
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and he doesn't care what he does
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to get you on
that downward spiral
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that's what he wants to do
but God wants to prosper you
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and give you the
abundant life and give you joy,
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and that's what he's
done because when I look
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into your countenances,
I see the peace and joy
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of the Lord, it's
just amazing to me
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I can imagine that
when you were in the world,
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and of the world,
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your countenances
were totally different
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you can just
see in people's eyes
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you can see a
totally different spirit.
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I was always angry,
negative, wary about people
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and you don't know
how to be a man either,
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treating women and
things of that nature
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when the Lord
comes upon your heart
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you find out that gentleness
and meekness and kindness
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are really manly
traits, not weak traits
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and you find joy in helping
and treating someone lovingly
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and it's like,
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everybody is trying to please
the Lord and please each other,
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and it's that circle
of love that God creates
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that we've been
able to experience
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and it's better than anything
that the devil tells you he has
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out there in the world.
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Absolutely, absolutely,
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what would you say has
been the biggest challenge
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for you to having
left that lifestyle
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and come into the truth
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what would you say though
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have been, rather than just one
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have been some of the challenges
that you've had to face
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as a result of
having come out of there?
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Well, I would like to say
was, how to love each other
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the way God wants
us to love each other
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but before we can do
that is how, you know,
00:15:10.51\00:15:13.68
we have to experience
the love of Christ first
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because, we can't give
each other what we don't have
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so we have to
experience the love of Christ
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it was very challenging because
we're in the midst of marriage
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trying to
experience this love of Christ
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so that's where it
comes in, you know,
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they didn't start
where I have my, you know,
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experienced the
love of Christ first
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and then get
married, no, it was...
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it was... doing it all at once
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and that's the
most challenging part.
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What about you, Tim?
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I think, it was, you
know, in the Book of Genesis,
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it is said, when...
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after God created Eve
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that they both were
naked and not ashamed,
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and when you're in the world,
00:15:59.85\00:16:01.39
especially in the
profession she was in,
00:16:01.42\00:16:03.09
me being out in the
world, being out in the street,
00:16:03.12\00:16:05.53
dealing with different
women and selling drugs
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you always have your guard up,
00:16:09.06\00:16:10.67
and then you take
that into marriage
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as we know... what does
this person want from me
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and I have to protect myself,
00:16:15.20\00:16:16.97
but that doesn't
work in marriage,
00:16:17.01\00:16:19.11
you all have to be vulnerable,
00:16:19.14\00:16:20.54
and be willing to
give a hundred percent
00:16:20.58\00:16:22.81
but in the world,
you're always reserving key
00:16:22.84\00:16:25.08
because you
don't want to get hurt,
00:16:25.11\00:16:26.45
you're always watching people,
00:16:26.48\00:16:27.82
and so, really,
letting your guard down
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has been, some
of the, what was...
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really challenging, yeah.
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See, I really can
appreciate that because,
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I would imagine
that in the beginning,
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especially since,
you were saying Maiesha,
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that you guys got married first,
00:16:43.26\00:16:46.40
and then you
came to Christ really,
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is that what you were saying?
00:16:49.54\00:16:51.17
Well, we got baptized,
okay, and then a year later
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we got married, but
as for me, you know,
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Still learning,
Yeah, we're still learning,
00:16:57.78\00:17:00.68
it takes more than a year to...
to get to know who Christ is.
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Yes, yes, but the
beauty too is that
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you have this deal
where you and your husband
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and Christ is at the
center and so, He's guiding...
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it's a covenant relationship
with the three of you
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and He's guiding and
directing and, I mean,
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it's just a beautiful thing.
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Tim, give us a little summary,
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for those who didn't
see Urban Report before,
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give us a little
summary of your journey.
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Well, growing up...
raised in the church
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but was basically just in
the Seventh-day Adventist Church
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but not converted
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and so when you're
growing up in the church,
00:17:42.82\00:17:44.26
sometimes you come into church
you hear all the messages,
00:17:44.29\00:17:46.80
but it doesn't do
anything inside into the heart,
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and so once the messages
really did start affecting me,
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at 17 I decided to get
baptized but it was more...
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I was a soldier for the
Lord I was into the messages,
00:17:56.34\00:18:00.08
and I didn't also
learn how to have that
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solid relationship with
Jesus and so when trials came,
00:18:03.01\00:18:07.65
I got blown with
the wind as it were
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and left the church, and
then I went into the world
00:18:11.29\00:18:14.26
and began a
lifestyle of heavy fornication,
00:18:14.29\00:18:17.59
and I was addicted to alcohol,
mild addiction to Cocaine,
00:18:17.63\00:18:21.66
and smoking and drinking and
just a very selfish lifestyle
00:18:21.70\00:18:25.70
trying to get what
I want out of life,
00:18:25.73\00:18:28.54
and it happened one
night, I was drinking,
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and if you can imagine,
00:18:31.37\00:18:33.84
I had my daughter in the
car, two-year-old daughter,
00:18:33.88\00:18:35.91
and I decided to
run from the police
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in the midst of that
the Lord saved both of us,
00:18:38.01\00:18:42.55
protected us, but
I had to go to prison
00:18:42.58\00:18:44.29
and I can remember my
first day being locked up
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on the 8th Floor,
Sacramento County Jail
00:18:48.26\00:18:51.33
by myself, not
even in my own clothes,
00:18:51.36\00:18:54.00
in the jail
clothes and in that attire,
00:18:54.03\00:18:56.63
and I sat on my bunk and said,
00:18:56.67\00:18:58.37
"All right, I'm listening,
what do you want to say to me?"
00:18:58.40\00:19:02.67
He had your whole attention eh?
00:19:02.70\00:19:04.77
And from then on He told me
00:19:04.81\00:19:06.81
He wouldn't stop
me from going to jail
00:19:06.84\00:19:08.68
I was going to
have to go through it
00:19:08.71\00:19:10.45
but He would go
through it with me
00:19:10.48\00:19:12.15
and I began a process
to read my Bible in there
00:19:12.18\00:19:15.62
and start to change my
thoughts and change my emotions
00:19:15.65\00:19:18.65
so He could change my character,
which He's still doing today.
00:19:18.69\00:19:21.76
Praise the Lord,
00:19:21.79\00:19:23.36
that's a beautiful,
beautiful testimony.
00:19:23.39\00:19:26.19
So, what is God doing
not just in your marriage but
00:19:26.23\00:19:30.43
in your ministry?
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Tell us about the
ministry that you have together.
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Well, right now, I'm
an Elder of the church
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and I never thought I
would be Elder of the church
00:19:38.67\00:19:42.68
I didn't even know
about church positions but
00:19:42.71\00:19:45.75
God saw fit to place
me there, I'm a part of a
00:19:45.78\00:19:48.78
Christ Frontline Operation,
00:19:48.82\00:19:50.29
and so, it's a
group of young people
00:19:50.35\00:19:52.52
who came through
a similar experience
00:19:52.55\00:19:54.62
that I came through,
being out in the world,
00:19:54.69\00:19:57.73
finding Christ
and leaving the world
00:19:57.76\00:19:59.79
which is composed of
me, Taariq and Adam Patel,
00:19:59.86\00:20:03.20
and Ameerah and Hassan Byrd,
00:20:03.23\00:20:06.13
and my wife is the Secretary
of Christ Frontline Operations
00:20:06.17\00:20:11.07
and we go around
doing Week of Prayers,
00:20:11.11\00:20:13.34
Evangelistic Series,
00:20:13.38\00:20:14.84
Medical Missionary Training
Seminars at different churches
00:20:14.88\00:20:17.91
just trying to spread
the Three Angels' Message
00:20:17.95\00:20:20.32
and also, my other duties
that the Lord has given me,
00:20:20.35\00:20:24.19
we have a beautiful
home with three girls
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one is eight, and one is three,
and one is... one year old
00:20:26.76\00:20:31.43
and their names are:
Anaya, Alona, and Avia
00:20:31.46\00:20:34.96
and so they keep us very busy
00:20:35.00\00:20:37.10
and on my knees.
00:20:37.17\00:20:38.83
I'm sure, I'm sure,
00:20:38.87\00:20:41.50
where do you see
your ministry going
00:20:41.57\00:20:45.97
I mean, of course, we don't
know what God's going to do
00:20:46.04\00:20:48.41
but what is your hope
for your ministry together?
00:20:48.44\00:20:52.65
I believe that our testimony
is going to further our ministry
00:20:52.68\00:20:58.55
for young adults,
00:20:58.59\00:21:01.06
I'm really going for
it to talk to young women
00:21:01.12\00:21:07.86
that are in bondage within
the lifestyle that I lived
00:21:07.93\00:21:12.60
so they'll know
that there is hope
00:21:12.63\00:21:14.60
and that they can be
changed and become a Godly woman
00:21:14.64\00:21:18.94
and to be in the
likeness and image of Christ.
00:21:18.97\00:21:22.11
That's wonderful
and so what does it take
00:21:22.14\00:21:26.01
to change your life,
00:21:26.05\00:21:28.38
there's a young
woman watching right now
00:21:28.42\00:21:30.92
who is caught
up in the lifestyle
00:21:30.95\00:21:34.56
she wants the quick
money she wants to strip,
00:21:34.59\00:21:37.36
she wants to... she wants
to do the whole nine yards
00:21:37.39\00:21:40.93
because she wants that money,
00:21:40.96\00:21:42.30
what would you
say to her right now,
00:21:42.33\00:21:44.83
look out at your
camera right there
00:21:44.87\00:21:47.30
and talk to that
young lady that's caught up
00:21:47.34\00:21:50.81
in that lifestyle.
00:21:50.84\00:21:52.27
Personally, I've been there
00:21:52.31\00:21:55.64
and I just let
go... and let God...
00:21:55.68\00:22:01.22
I know you are struggling
when it comes down to money,
00:22:01.25\00:22:05.95
or a place to live,
00:22:05.99\00:22:08.39
you don't know where your
next meal is going to come from
00:22:08.42\00:22:10.96
but this is the time
00:22:10.99\00:22:12.79
that you should
just fall on your knees
00:22:12.83\00:22:15.96
if you have never prayed before,
00:22:16.00\00:22:17.67
I want you to get on
your knees today, right now,
00:22:17.73\00:22:23.34
and pray and ask the
Lord to lead you and guide you
00:22:23.37\00:22:28.94
every aspect of your life
00:22:28.98\00:22:31.15
and to take the things
that the devil wants you to do
00:22:31.18\00:22:35.68
to make them undesirable,
00:22:35.72\00:22:37.89
that you want to do
everything in God's will,
00:22:37.95\00:22:41.66
you want to live your
life according to His will
00:22:41.72\00:22:45.39
and ask Him for the
things that you need
00:22:45.43\00:22:48.40
the Lord knows what you
need before you even ask,
00:22:48.43\00:22:51.67
but still ask, and
He will provide for you.
00:22:51.70\00:22:55.67
That is beautiful,
what about you, Tim,
00:22:55.70\00:22:59.57
a young man is dealing
with drug... selling drugs,
00:22:59.61\00:23:05.51
addiction to
drugs, wanting fast money,
00:23:05.55\00:23:10.15
just kind of being out
there, talk to that young man
00:23:10.19\00:23:14.49
and tell him what
you need to tell him.
00:23:14.52\00:23:17.93
Well, first, you
don't have to believe
00:23:17.96\00:23:21.30
all the lies of the devil,
Society is trying to tell you
00:23:21.33\00:23:25.03
that for you to be a
young man or a young Black man,
00:23:25.10\00:23:28.50
you have to act and
behave in a certain manner
00:23:28.54\00:23:31.27
and a certain
fashion and as I didn't know,
00:23:31.31\00:23:34.01
God has a whole
different set of rules
00:23:34.04\00:23:36.38
on how to be a man
that have longevity in them
00:23:36.41\00:23:39.18
and that are not
just for the short time.
00:23:39.21\00:23:41.95
That life that you want to live,
you might make those funds,
00:23:41.98\00:23:45.42
you might have a good
time, but when things go bad,
00:23:45.45\00:23:49.02
they go horrible, and
those horrible instances
00:23:49.06\00:23:52.13
will scar and shape
your life in such a way
00:23:52.16\00:23:55.20
that sometimes, it
might not be any recovery
00:23:55.23\00:23:58.23
but God is faithful,
00:23:58.27\00:23:59.60
He can reshape
you, He can remake you,
00:23:59.63\00:24:01.87
and your worth as a man
00:24:01.90\00:24:04.07
is not just in
the material things
00:24:04.11\00:24:05.84
it's just not in
the outside things,
00:24:05.87\00:24:07.58
but your worth is in
Christ and what He paid for you
00:24:07.61\00:24:10.51
and inside,
you're worth more to Him
00:24:10.55\00:24:13.21
than any gold or any money
00:24:13.25\00:24:15.22
or any attention
that the world can give,
00:24:15.25\00:24:17.49
and you can rest assured in that
00:24:17.52\00:24:19.45
and rest assured
that He loves you
00:24:19.49\00:24:21.36
and if all these other
people out here don't love you
00:24:21.39\00:24:23.53
or they only love you
for the things that you have,
00:24:23.56\00:24:25.63
He loves you even
though you have nothing
00:24:25.66\00:24:27.86
and though you have to be a
man and take care of yourself,
00:24:27.93\00:24:30.57
as my wife just
said to the young ladies,
00:24:30.60\00:24:33.13
God can take
care of you, you know,
00:24:33.17\00:24:35.64
the greatest
blessing that a man has
00:24:35.67\00:24:37.67
is he doesn't
have to worry about
00:24:37.71\00:24:39.67
how he's going to
take care of himself
00:24:39.71\00:24:41.14
because
whatever problems he has,
00:24:41.18\00:24:42.54
he can fall on his knees
00:24:42.58\00:24:43.95
and ask Christ
to take care of him
00:24:43.98\00:24:46.51
and God will do that for you.
00:24:46.55\00:24:47.88
That is beautiful,
00:24:47.92\00:24:50.05
I just know
that someone watching
00:24:50.09\00:24:53.15
will be so
blessed by your testimony
00:24:53.19\00:24:57.03
and your willingness to share
00:24:57.06\00:24:58.39
you know, there
are a lot of people who
00:24:58.43\00:25:00.13
might not be
willing to talk about this
00:25:00.16\00:25:01.96
but you are new
creatures in Christ
00:25:02.00\00:25:04.60
that person that
existed before...
00:25:04.63\00:25:07.17
she and he...
they're dead... they are dead
00:25:07.20\00:25:10.81
you are new
creatures in Christ so, I mean,
00:25:10.84\00:25:15.21
it's just amazing to
me that God is so faithful
00:25:15.24\00:25:18.48
that He will just
take us by the hand
00:25:18.51\00:25:22.08
and lead us through life
if we'll just go with Him
00:25:22.12\00:25:25.22
Hmmm... hmmm... Oh yeah...
00:25:25.25\00:25:26.59
just go with Him, He'll lead us,
00:25:26.62\00:25:28.52
tell us what we
can... in the one minute
00:25:28.56\00:25:31.59
well, actually, 30 seconds,
what can we look forward to
00:25:31.63\00:25:34.63
on Pure Choices
this coming Season?
00:25:34.66\00:25:36.43
Oh man, we have a jam-packed
season for Pure Choices
00:25:36.46\00:25:40.74
you can look
forward to some real topics
00:25:40.80\00:25:42.87
that people are really
going through right now
00:25:42.90\00:25:44.74
if you watch the show,
Pure Choices this Season
00:25:44.77\00:25:46.54
either you're
going to go through
00:25:46.57\00:25:48.44
some of the stuff
that we're talking about,
00:25:48.48\00:25:49.81
or you are going
through it right now
00:25:49.84\00:25:51.58
and what's beautiful
is everybody on the Panel
00:25:51.61\00:25:54.58
has been through the
topics we're talking about
00:25:54.62\00:25:57.52
and so you're
getting firsthand experience
00:25:57.59\00:25:59.85
on people that went through it
00:25:59.89\00:26:01.56
and how God
helped them out of it.
00:26:01.59\00:26:03.56
Most definitely and I mean
00:26:03.63\00:26:05.79
the topics that
we're talking about
00:26:05.83\00:26:07.46
are very popular
in today's world,
00:26:07.50\00:26:09.06
you know, they're
popular in the world,
00:26:09.10\00:26:11.53
and they're popular
inside the church as well,
00:26:11.57\00:26:14.30
you know, so, we're
going to give you a broad
00:26:14.34\00:26:17.74
view of inside the
church and outside the church.
00:26:17.77\00:26:21.11
Awesome, awesome,
00:26:21.14\00:26:22.88
Viewers, you are not
going to want to miss
00:26:22.91\00:26:26.21
this Season's
programming of Pure Choices
00:26:26.25\00:26:30.19
God has just
handpicked the participants
00:26:30.22\00:26:33.99
all the Panel members,
God has handpicked them
00:26:34.06\00:26:37.43
to be on that Panel,
our God is a mighty God
00:26:37.46\00:26:40.80
and our God is a faithful
God, our God is a good God,
00:26:40.83\00:26:44.77
get to know Him
for yourself today.
00:26:44.80\00:26:48.00
God bless you and
thank you so much.
00:26:48.04\00:26:51.21
Thank you so much.
00:26:51.24\00:26:54.18
That was powerful,
00:26:54.21\00:26:57.05
well, thank you so
much for joining us,
00:26:57.11\00:26:59.08
join us next time because
00:26:59.11\00:27:00.68
it just wouldn't be
the same... without you.
00:27:00.72\00:27:03.02