Who says that a
person can't change?
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Stay tuned to meet
a man who has changed
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and helps others
to do so as well.
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My name is Yvonne Lewis
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and you're
watching Urban Report.
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Hello and
welcome to Urban Report.
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My guest today
is William Gailliard
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Author of "Simply Thinking
Big Every Day in Every Way"
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and Motivational Speaker.
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Welcome to Urban Report Bill.
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Well, I'm glad to be
here thank you very much.
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So, you have a
really interesting story
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and I think our Viewers
just need to know your journey.
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Before we get into the
book or anything like that
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let's talk about Bill Gailliard,
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who is Bill
Gailliard, where did you from?
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Charleston, South Carolina.
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Okay, and tell us
about your family.
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My father was a pastor
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in the African-Methodist
Episcopalian church
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for over 40 years and
I'm the 9th of 10 children.
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So you had nine siblings.
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That's right.
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Ten children... well, I'll bet
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holidays were fun
at your house, right?
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Absolutely,
absolutely, absolutely...
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I was number nine
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and they were hoping
that I would be the last.
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And then there was
one after you, right?
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And they were
glad he came along.
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Laughter...
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So, what kind of a
child were you, Bill?
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Well, first of all I
want to begin by saying
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I was the middle child
even though I was number nine
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I was in between
number eight and number ten
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so that made me a
middle child. Okay...
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And of course
the number 8th child
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seemed to have
gotten all the good gifts
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I mean, my brother...
two years older than myself,
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could fix anything,
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he was well-read,
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and he was a
straight "A" student
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Ah...
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and then I was caught in
between him and the baby.
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Ah... with all that
that implies right...
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With all that that
implies... that's right.
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And, of course,
it seems as though
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everything that
broke around the house
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had my name attached to it.
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Ah...
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so were you the
child that kind of...
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didn't feel like
he could get it right?
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Just couldn't ever get
it right, that's right.
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That was from early on.
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Okay, so how did that
impact you growing up?
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Well, it caused me to really
want to get it together...
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go the extra mile, I
had to fight for everything
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and I was never right
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and I use that quite a bit today
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when people say, "You
always want to be right"
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I say, "No... I'm
used to being wrong"
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and so during those early
years, it was really rough on me
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I just... just could not
ever seem to get it right.
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How were your grades?
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Well, that was the good
part the Lord did bless me
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to be able to do well in school
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and I only remembered one time
when I struggled with Algebra
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and my brother two
years older than myself
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helped me quite a bit
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when I flunked my
first Algebra test
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and just didn't think
that I needed to study
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because I was
pretty good in Math
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and, of course,
when I flunked that test
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I said, "What happened?"
and then he took me...
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sat me down and
taught me Algebra
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up until late that
night and from that point on
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we were the best of friends.
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Now, before then, we were not.
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Really? That's right.
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So it took this
failure, so to speak,
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in Algebra... Right...
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to kind of bring you
and your brother together.
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Absolutely, I mean,
he was always loving me
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but because
everything was going his way
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and there was
the sibling rivalry
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and I was the
underdog all the time
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and so I was always
fighting for my place
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but from that
point on I admired him.
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That's awesome.
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And that turned things around.
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Yes... yes...
yes... so, as a child then
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you had certain
challenges to overcome
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being the "middle
child" at the end of the line,
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so to speak, That's right.
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so you had those
challenges to overcome
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there were some other things
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that happened to you though
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because I read in the
book that you got into a habit
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of doing what?
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Of stealing... that's right...
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ever since I knew
myself, I would steal
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without a blink of
an eye I would steal.
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Now, how did it start?
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Well, it was
just around the house
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just one thing after another
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I just developed this habit of
taking that which was not mine
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and there were many
stories that I could...
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there are many
stories that I could give
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but one that I remember... is...
my sister was 18-years-old then
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my Sis would always send
us money through the mail
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and I knew the money was coming
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and I would look
for the mail to come
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and I would always go
and take the money out
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before it got there.
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Oh, she would get cash...
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Cash... those were the
days when they would send cash
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through the mail and I
would take the money out
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that was very bad, but
that was one of the habits.
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Now, during those days,
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there were also
Pay-Telephone Booths
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and this is one of the whippings
that I can still remember, right
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because I was going
to the telephone booth
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taking the money out
of the telephone booth
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and my brother, two
years older than me,
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told on me and
that was one of the
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whippings that I can
still remember... today...
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And that was before
you guys got close, right?
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That was way before that
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but he was always telling though
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he was always telling on me
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and it was all about trying
to help me stay out of trouble.
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Hmmm... What I discovered later
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is that he
really loved me Hmmm...
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but I didn't see it
as "love" in those days
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he was always tattle-taleing.
Yes... yes... yes...
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So, how long did this stealing
phase of your life last?
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Oh, it lasted
until I was at least
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in Seventh Grade
because I don't remember
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having a problem with it after
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Seventh Grade.
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What stopped you?
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Well, there were
many things that happened
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to bring me to the point of
making an intelligent decision
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that it wasn't worth it,
that's what really happened
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I came to the
point where I realized
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it just wasn't worth it
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and so one of the
things that happened
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is that in Sixth
Grade, my Sixth-Grade Teacher
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had the class that they
called, "The Good Class"
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and so I was in "The Good Class"
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What was it, the Honors Class?
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The Honors
Class... Hmmm... hmmm...
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and so, I was in that class
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and... but she knew that I had
a habit of getting into fights
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and so that was
another problem I had as well
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that's why... on the
front of my book I said,
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"Anyone can change"
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because I had the
habit of getting into fights
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now I didn't pick the fights
but I really liked a good fight.
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You didn't start it
but you finished it.
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I really would... you know...
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that's where my
reputation came from.
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Okay... I didn't
back down from a fight
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but anyhow, she really
tried her best to reach me,
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tried her best to reach me,
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and I would help
clean the class up.
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Well, the kids
didn't like to clean up
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but I liked to clean up,
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that's one of the
things that I did learn
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early on from my mom
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because I was the
only one of the boys
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that woke up early every morning
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when mom was up, cooking
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and starting the fire
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that's the kind of kid
I was, I was around my mom
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so... to some extent
I was a "Mother's Boy"
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Hmmm... hmmm..
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and so I learned
to clean up very early
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cleaning up at the
school now, was no problem
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because that was
something that I did at home
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and so that was one
of the things that...
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she embraced me with
allowing me to be around her
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that was one of the things
that she did to embrace me
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to see whether she could win me
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and as a result I
got very close to her
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she got very close to me
but she would never put my name
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on the Honor Roll List
because she wanted me to know
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that she wasn't going to
let me represent her class
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until I made
some changes. Hmmm...
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And so... So your grades...
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Grades were already...
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Your grades were
Honor Roll Level?
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Yes... But she wouldn't put you
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on the Honor Roll?
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She would not put
me on the Honor Roll
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How did that make you feel?
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Very bad... very
bad... I didn't like it
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and we never discussed it
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it's just that, I
can still remember
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the first time when I
knew I had made the Honor Roll
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and I was waiting
for my name to be called
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and it wasn't called,
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I said, "Whew"... I
remember the feeling
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Hmmm... hmmm...
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well I wanted to say something
but I didn't say anything
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and I eventually
figured out why she was doing it
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and I just had to accept it.
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Hmmm... wow...
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But it got my attention.
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Okay, so this is one of the
ways that you stopped stealing.
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Was this one of the things
that made you stop stealing?
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No, the thing that
got me to stop stealing
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was the fact that
because I got close to her
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and I would clean
up the classrooms,
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after school,
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on this particular day
her pocketbook was sitting
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on the top of
the desk and I saw it
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and my mind said,
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"Get that pocketbook"
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that little
voice... Hmmm... hmmm...
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and it just didn't look
like the right thing to do
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so I left the classroom
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and was walking
from 100 to 200 yards
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away from the school
and she knew I had left
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but it was like a spirit that
comes over a person to do wrong
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that spirit came over me again
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and I turned
around and I headed back
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but she had gone to
the Teachers' Lounge
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but she knew she saw me
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and so when I came
back and she was not there
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and I got the pocketbook
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and interestingly enough
when you do things like that
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it's interestingly enough,
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there was no
money in the pocketbook
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Hmmm... it wasn't worth it.
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So I hid the pocketbook
not far from our house
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now, that was bad...
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the boy on the next street
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would end up
finding the pocketbook
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and taking it to school
and then they told my dad
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and in those days
we sat around the table
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to eat when dad came home
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and we were at the table
and just in the nick of time
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when everyone had
served their food,
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my dad just... out
of the clear blue said,
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"Someone stole
Mrs. Baker's pocketbook"
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and with all the
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acting ability that I had
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I didn't change the
expression on my face
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I didn't skip a beat,
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I didn't show any signs
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that it was me
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because that's
what he was looking for
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as a matter of fact
the fork was in my hand
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and it came up
in this regular pace
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and I just
moved... just normally...
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and since I passed that test,
he went down to everyone else
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and said that...
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he asked each child
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whether they had
stolen the pocketbook
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from the older to
the next, to the next,
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and then he skipped across me
and went to the youngest brother
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and everybody said
that they didn't do it
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well, the two older boys
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weren't even at the
school, they were in High School
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and the younger boy
was in a different building
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the only person who was
in Ms. Baker's class was me,
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so he saved me for
last... Hmmm... hmmm...
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and he asked me, and
just like I had been trained
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for acting, I said, "No sir... "
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so it was done so well
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until everyone...
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the kids by-the-way
were afraid to death,
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Hmmm... hmmmm...
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because they knew that I
was going to lose my life today
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Your daddy didn't play.
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this was going to be
it, they were afraid for me
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and so... but I passed that test
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and he finally said,
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"Willy, are you sure,
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did you steal Mrs.
Baker's pocketbook?"
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I said, "No sir... "
just as calm as could be
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now... at that
time, it seems as though
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I heard the door open
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and the sense that
"death" was in the house.
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Something bad was
going to happen today
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and when my dad
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got up from the table,
00:13:55.70\00:13:57.77
and you could hear the chair
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moving... wooh...
wooh... like that...
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he said, "I still think
you stole the pocketbook"
00:14:01.37\00:14:07.74
he didn't know, but
I had passed the test
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and when that episode was over,
00:14:11.75\00:14:14.82
and as soon as "death"
had gone back out the door
00:14:14.88\00:14:19.05
because he had entered in,
00:14:19.09\00:14:20.49
this was going to be
someone was going to die
00:14:20.52\00:14:23.56
before the end
of the day, oh my!
00:14:23.59\00:14:27.33
I had passed that test
and when I walked out of there
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I said, "It's
not worth it" Hmmm...
00:14:30.83\00:14:33.70
with all the
stress, with all the unrest,
00:14:33.74\00:14:37.97
sleepless night,
00:14:38.01\00:14:39.67
it just wasn't worth
it... Hmmm... hmmm...
00:14:39.71\00:14:43.18
and so, that
was one of the great
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things to help me turn around
00:14:45.65\00:14:47.95
and as a child you say,
"it's just not worth it"
00:14:47.98\00:14:51.95
so consequences of
making poor decisions...
00:14:51.99\00:14:56.59
it's just not worth it.
00:14:56.62\00:14:58.29
And so that
philosophy carried on with you
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throughout your
life. Yes... yes...
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It's just not worth
it... It's just not worth it...
00:15:04.23\00:15:07.14
that's right, and of course
I had stolen one other thing,
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from Mrs. Baker,
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it was at the
end of the school day
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and there were six coconut
cakes that were left over
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from a King and Queen Contest,
00:15:21.32\00:15:22.68
you remember those days,
the King and Queen Contest,
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Hmmm... hmmm... and she said,
00:15:25.09\00:15:26.62
"Take these to the car"
00:15:26.65\00:15:27.99
and I took them from
the classroom to the car
00:15:28.02\00:15:32.16
and that little voice said,
"She's not going to miss one"
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if I knew all that was going
to come from that one cake,
00:15:36.63\00:15:40.54
I'm telling you,
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how can a person get that upset
over one cake? in my mind...
00:15:41.94\00:15:48.41
but she got upset
over that one cake
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she even asked
me, did I see anyone
00:15:51.15\00:15:53.78
and I just blurted out
the name of some bad guy
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in the neighborhood and
she went to the High School
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and had him in the
classroom the next morning,
00:16:00.66\00:16:03.66
and the kids in the
classroom were afraid for me
00:16:03.69\00:16:06.63
because this was a bad
guy, I just blurted his name out
00:16:06.66\00:16:09.96
and when that episode
was over, I said again,
00:16:10.00\00:16:13.20
"It's just not worth it"
and my daddy had already told me
00:16:13.23\00:16:19.31
that if I didn't stop
stealing around the house
00:16:19.34\00:16:21.98
that I would
eventually steal abroad,
00:16:22.01\00:16:25.55
Hmmm... hmmm... and he says,
00:16:25.58\00:16:27.35
"When you steal abroad,
you're going to get caught
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and when you get caught,
00:16:30.92\00:16:33.46
they're going to take
you to the Reformatory School
00:16:33.49\00:16:36.66
and when they take you
to the Reformatory School,
00:16:36.69\00:16:39.83
you're going to stay there
00:16:39.86\00:16:41.30
until you
graduate from High School,
00:16:41.33\00:16:44.03
and I'm not
going to visit you...
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not even once... " Hmmm...
00:16:45.73\00:16:47.07
because he had
told me over and over
00:16:47.10\00:16:48.80
"you need to stop stealing"
00:16:48.84\00:16:50.24
and so, again, when that
second incident happened,
00:16:50.27\00:16:55.74
with Mrs. Baker,
00:16:55.78\00:16:57.91
I said again, "It's
just not worth it. "
00:16:57.95\00:17:00.48
But then the third instant,
00:17:00.52\00:17:03.32
when I stole in a Grocery Store
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big Grocery Store,
and I was at the Counter
00:17:05.99\00:17:10.19
with money in my pocket,
but I stole a bag of candy corn
00:17:10.23\00:17:15.46
and a hand gripped me like that,
00:17:15.50\00:17:18.23
Hmmm... my goose was cooked...
00:17:18.27\00:17:20.97
my heart was beating
00:17:21.00\00:17:23.17
and all of a sudden in
the middle of the aisle,
00:17:23.20\00:17:27.41
someone just appeared
and walked up and says,
00:17:27.44\00:17:31.11
"He's from a good
family, I know the parents,
00:17:31.18\00:17:34.82
give him another chance"
00:17:34.85\00:17:36.89
and the man released my hand
00:17:36.92\00:17:40.56
and gave me some tough words
00:17:40.62\00:17:44.19
and told me not to
every come back again,
00:17:44.23\00:17:46.16
and my heart was
broken on that day.
00:17:46.19\00:17:50.03
I said... my heart was broken,
my daddy's words had come true
00:17:50.07\00:17:56.17
the stealing
that I had been doing
00:17:56.20\00:17:58.67
at home... had gone abroad.
00:17:58.74\00:18:02.24
Hmmm... I did get caught,
00:18:02.31\00:18:05.48
but I got grace,
00:18:05.51\00:18:07.55
and that's why I talk
about grace so much now,
00:18:07.62\00:18:09.85
believing in God, Yes...
00:18:09.88\00:18:11.69
believing in grace.
00:18:11.72\00:18:13.05
Yes, yes, because grace
has been activated in your life
00:18:13.09\00:18:17.06
and you're the recipient
00:18:17.13\00:18:18.53
of grace. That's
right, that's right,
00:18:18.56\00:18:20.66
and I came out of
that store that day
00:18:20.70\00:18:22.56
in tears, with a broken heart
00:18:22.63\00:18:26.10
and I began to say,
"Please change me. "
00:18:26.13\00:18:29.64
Hmmm... Oh yeah...
00:18:29.70\00:18:31.14
the God that I had heard about
00:18:31.17\00:18:33.94
I began to talk to
him like... he was there
00:18:33.98\00:18:37.55
I said, "please,
please change me"
00:18:37.58\00:18:40.15
I mean...
broken... I wanted to change
00:18:40.18\00:18:43.22
So how did God
manifest Himself to you,
00:18:43.25\00:18:46.25
how did you begin that change,
00:18:46.29\00:18:49.69
I know, after this
particular incident,
00:18:49.72\00:18:52.43
was there
anything else that happened
00:18:52.46\00:18:55.13
that wherein... you said,
00:18:55.16\00:18:56.63
"Wow, I really have changed
God really has changed me. "
00:18:56.67\00:18:59.77
Well, what happened is
that when my heart was broken,
00:18:59.80\00:19:04.97
shedding tears, it
felt like a load...
00:19:05.01\00:19:09.08
I don't know whether
you've ever lifted Barbells
00:19:09.11\00:19:11.71
and when you pick up the weight
00:19:11.75\00:19:16.08
that's too heavy, and
you need to let it down,
00:19:16.12\00:19:18.75
that's how I felt.
00:19:18.79\00:19:20.66
A load just seemed
to have fallen off of me
00:19:20.69\00:19:25.03
and I felt better
00:19:25.09\00:19:27.43
and I just knew
something had happened
00:19:27.46\00:19:30.20
I didn't
understand what happened
00:19:30.23\00:19:32.63
but something had
happened that day and I knew
00:19:32.67\00:19:36.97
that something had
happened that's all I could say.
00:19:37.01\00:19:42.28
Right... Something had happened
00:19:42.31\00:19:43.65
as a matter of fact
what happened when I was in
00:19:43.68\00:19:48.05
Fourth Grade, was the fact that
00:19:48.08\00:19:50.79
I had been such
a terrible fellow
00:19:50.82\00:19:53.49
in Third Grade,
00:19:53.56\00:19:54.89
so that when I
got to Fourth Grade
00:19:54.92\00:19:58.33
the teacher was
braced and waiting for me.
00:19:58.36\00:20:00.30
Because your
reputation preceded you.
00:20:00.36\00:20:03.10
My reputation
preceded me and she was looking
00:20:03.16\00:20:05.73
for that kid that was raising
so much sighing in Third Grade
00:20:05.77\00:20:09.84
until... she was ready
for me on the first day
00:20:09.90\00:20:13.68
but that guy never
showed up on the first day
00:20:13.71\00:20:16.14
Hmmm... nor the first week,
00:20:16.18\00:20:18.71
nor the first month,
nor the first semester,
00:20:18.75\00:20:22.48
and on the last
day of the school year,
00:20:22.52\00:20:24.92
she said, "Son, what happened?"
00:20:24.95\00:20:27.96
She wanted to
know because she said,
00:20:27.99\00:20:30.26
"I was waiting for
you from the first day"
00:20:30.29\00:20:32.46
and guess what I said, I
said that I was born again.
00:20:32.49\00:20:37.23
Ah... That's
the only term I knew
00:20:37.27\00:20:40.04
at that time to explain to her
00:20:40.07\00:20:42.80
what had happened to me.
00:20:42.87\00:20:44.24
And how old were you?
00:20:44.31\00:20:45.64
At that time, I was just nine.
00:20:45.67\00:20:47.64
Okay. But my dad had done...
00:20:47.68\00:20:49.58
really worked on my rear
end. Hmmm... hmmm... Ha... ha...
00:20:49.61\00:20:54.15
Now that's what we call
00:20:54.22\00:20:55.98
"Putting the Board of Education
on the seat of my intelligence"
00:20:56.05\00:20:58.75
you know what I'm
saying, ha... ha... ha...
00:20:58.79\00:21:01.09
and when you put it
in... in the proper place,
00:21:01.12\00:21:03.39
it goes right to the brain,
00:21:03.43\00:21:05.39
it re-trains the brain,
00:21:05.46\00:21:07.66
if you understand what I'm
talking about... ha... ha...
00:21:07.73\00:21:09.33
I hear you... I hear you...
00:21:09.36\00:21:11.03
and so, I was born
again, and dad says,
00:21:11.07\00:21:13.27
"Gailliards don't
act that way" Hmmm...
00:21:13.30\00:21:15.67
and so, I had a
great Fourth Grade.
00:21:15.70\00:21:18.04
Hmmm... Now things... you know
00:21:18.07\00:21:20.18
just like the
sign curves go up...
00:21:20.21\00:21:22.24
and so Fifth and
Sixth... went down
00:21:22.28\00:21:25.28
and then
Seventh... got a little better
00:21:25.31\00:21:28.28
by the time I got to Eighth,
I was making good decisions
00:21:28.32\00:21:32.42
and my mom was in the background
00:21:32.45\00:21:34.46
she was saying that,
"boy, if you don't change,
00:21:34.49\00:21:38.46
your daddy is not going
to let you drive that car
00:21:38.49\00:21:42.43
like the other
brothers. " Hmmm...
00:21:42.46\00:21:44.03
And these days,
00:21:44.07\00:21:46.13
our family was one
of the few families
00:21:46.17\00:21:48.27
that had a car
in our neighborhood
00:21:48.30\00:21:50.14
folks were riding the City Bus
00:21:50.17\00:21:52.41
at that time... Hmmm... hmmm...
00:21:52.44\00:21:54.64
and so she kept telling me,
00:21:54.68\00:21:57.91
"You're not going to
get that Driver's License
00:21:57.95\00:21:59.85
like Junior and like James"
00:21:59.91\00:22:01.58
and that also helped
me to make good choices
00:22:01.62\00:22:05.35
because I knew that I wanted the
Driver's license right on time
00:22:05.39\00:22:09.79
like everybody else and so
00:22:09.82\00:22:11.16
it started
helping me to think right.
00:22:11.19\00:22:12.99
Hmmm... hmmm... hmmm... hmmm...
so, when you became an adult
00:22:13.03\00:22:16.90
or just... in your pre...
your post-adolescent years
00:22:16.93\00:22:22.90
just before adulthood...
was there some pivotal event
00:22:22.94\00:22:28.14
that really changed your life?
00:22:28.18\00:22:29.91
Well, I'm thinking that what
really brought about the changes
00:22:29.94\00:22:34.55
was when hand
grabbed me... Hmmm...
00:22:34.58\00:22:37.42
and when my daddy's words
00:22:37.45\00:22:40.86
had come to
00:22:40.89\00:22:43.16
fruition or fulfillment
00:22:43.19\00:22:45.13
and I could hear
his words saying,
00:22:45.19\00:22:49.53
"This is going to happen
00:22:49.56\00:22:51.70
and this is how I'm
going to respond to it"
00:22:51.73\00:22:57.04
that helped me tremendously.
00:22:57.11\00:22:59.97
Now, by the time
I became a teenager
00:23:00.01\00:23:03.11
I was an excellent church worker
00:23:03.14\00:23:05.45
now... I was in
the African Methodist
00:23:05.48\00:23:14.12
Episcopalian church at this time
00:23:14.16\00:23:15.49
and he was the Pastor
and I was a people's person,
00:23:15.52\00:23:18.83
I was a choir leader,
00:23:18.86\00:23:20.33
I was even a soul
winner to some extent
00:23:20.36\00:23:24.17
because I would get the
young kids to come to the church
00:23:24.20\00:23:28.94
he liked that and as a result
he ended up giving me a car
00:23:28.97\00:23:33.68
at age 16, so these
things had a lot to do
00:23:33.71\00:23:37.15
with me continuing
to make right choices
00:23:37.18\00:23:40.55
because I saw that number one
00:23:40.62\00:23:43.22
I've got my
permit on time at 14,
00:23:43.25\00:23:45.79
and my Driver's
License on time at 16,
00:23:45.82\00:23:49.02
he allowed me to even take
the School-Bus Driving Test
00:23:49.06\00:23:53.53
and I drove the
school bus from 16...
00:23:53.56\00:23:56.67
from 10th, 11th and 12th grade,
00:23:56.70\00:23:58.93
this taught me
that he was trusting me
00:23:59.00\00:24:04.01
to make right choices
because you don't let a...
00:24:04.04\00:24:06.57
go ahead... No you
finish your sentence.
00:24:06.61\00:24:08.54
You don't let a teenager drive
a School Bus without showing him
00:24:08.58\00:24:16.65
that he can make
responsible decisions
00:24:16.69\00:24:20.22
because every day you got
under that steering wheel,
00:24:20.26\00:24:23.66
kids were doing all kinds
of things on the school buses
00:24:23.69\00:24:27.06
and you had to make
right choices everyday
00:24:27.10\00:24:29.50
And you're a
teenager... I'm a teenager...
00:24:29.56\00:24:31.93
Wow! that's a lot
of responsibility!
00:24:31.97\00:24:34.50
That was a big responsibility.
00:24:34.54\00:24:37.11
So, how did you
come to write a book?
00:24:37.14\00:24:38.84
Let's talk about
that... because our time...
00:24:38.87\00:24:40.78
I can't believe
our time is running out
00:24:40.81\00:24:42.58
Yeah, I can't
believe it either...
00:24:42.64\00:24:44.35
How did you come to write
this book about thinking big?
00:24:44.38\00:24:47.35
Well, I had been
going into the schools
00:24:47.38\00:24:50.42
taking the
gospel into the school
00:24:50.45\00:24:52.45
and this is my little
manual that I had been using
00:24:52.49\00:24:55.99
Yes... I had it all written out
00:24:56.02\00:24:58.06
what I had been
doing for several years
00:24:58.09\00:25:00.00
and people were following
me and a little voice said,
00:25:00.03\00:25:05.53
"If you don't write a book
00:25:05.57\00:25:07.30
someone is going
to take your stuff
00:25:07.34\00:25:09.60
and they are
going to write a book
00:25:09.64\00:25:11.67
and they are going to be
00:25:11.71\00:25:13.27
laughing all the way to the bank
00:25:13.31\00:25:15.08
and you're going to be crying"
00:25:15.11\00:25:16.88
that's how the book came about
00:25:16.91\00:25:19.11
because I had had
this, been using it
00:25:19.18\00:25:22.32
and was not afraid to
put my stuff that were unique
00:25:22.35\00:25:27.72
out there...
just wasn't afraid...
00:25:27.76\00:25:30.43
And what kinds of ideas are
you setting forth in the book
00:25:30.49\00:25:35.73
that are unique to you?
00:25:35.76\00:25:37.17
Play your ace... so
when I go into a classroom
00:25:37.20\00:25:40.84
or to a school
and I talk to kids
00:25:40.87\00:25:43.41
about improving their grades
00:25:43.44\00:25:45.31
I ask them, "How many of
you are straight "A" students?"
00:25:45.34\00:25:48.18
and very few hands go up.
00:25:48.21\00:25:49.68
How many of you
are A/B Honor Roll?
00:25:49.71\00:25:51.91
and a few more...
00:25:51.95\00:25:53.28
and... but for the most part
00:25:53.31\00:25:55.35
the kids are not
on the Honor Roll
00:25:55.38\00:25:57.62
so I said, "How many of you
00:25:57.65\00:25:58.99
would like to
make better grades?"
00:25:59.02\00:26:01.06
And all the hands go
up, I said, "Very good. "
00:26:01.09\00:26:03.43
"Well, the first
thing you need to do is
00:26:03.46\00:26:05.63
learn to play your ace... "
00:26:05.66\00:26:07.26
I said, "Now, if you
learn to play your ace,
00:26:07.30\00:26:09.60
the grades will go up"
00:26:09.63\00:26:10.97
no two ways about it,
00:26:11.00\00:26:12.33
now what's the ace?
Learn to pay attention.
00:26:12.37\00:26:14.70
I said, "You've got to
learn to pay attention"
00:26:14.77\00:26:17.14
Hmmm... The "C"
is for concentration
00:26:17.17\00:26:20.48
you've got to
learn to concentrate
00:26:20.51\00:26:23.71
one word... means the same thing
00:26:23.75\00:26:26.25
as concentrate learn to focus
00:26:26.31\00:26:28.75
regardless of what
else is going on around you
00:26:28.78\00:26:31.59
you've got to learn
that, and then finally,
00:26:31.62\00:26:34.36
you've got to learn to echo...
00:26:34.39\00:26:36.06
that means, to
repeat the same thing
00:26:36.09\00:26:38.59
over and over and over and over
00:26:38.63\00:26:40.86
and over again until you get it,
00:26:40.90\00:26:43.13
Okay... it doesn't matter
00:26:43.16\00:26:44.53
how many times it
takes for you to get it,
00:26:44.57\00:26:46.60
you just do it
until... you get it...
00:26:46.63\00:26:48.70
it may take one person three...
00:26:48.74\00:26:50.61
it may take
another person nine...
00:26:50.64\00:26:52.47
it may take another person 27...
00:26:52.51\00:26:54.28
but even if it takes you
30, you do it until you get it.
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I love it...
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That's what you
call, "Play your ace"
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Play your ace. That's right.
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I love that, that's awesome
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would you have a lot
of ideas in your book
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in your motivational speaking,
how can people contact you?
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Let's put your e-mail address
up so that people can e-mail you
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That's levi35234@yahoo. com
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and you're
available to go to schools...
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Absolutely...
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Because you have been
there throughout your life
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you have been changed...
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That's right, I
have been changed...
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and you want to share
with others... how to do it.
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That they can do it, and
it's all about thinking big
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one of the things that I do
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is that I get them to
raise their right hand
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and pledge allegiance,
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"I pledge
allegiance to a new start
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and from the bottom of my heart,
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I am going to think big
every day... in every way. "
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I can't think of a
better way to close than that
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thank you so much
and may God bless you
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and thank you for being with us
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and thank you, you know,
2nd Corinthians 5:17 says,
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"Therefore if
any man be in Christ,
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he is a new creature:
old things are passed away;
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behold, all
things are made new. "
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Thank you so much
Brother Bill, God bless you.
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Tune in next time,
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it wouldn't be
the same without you.
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