Dare to Dream has a new
series: Foundation of our Faith.
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Stay tuned to meet the speaker
and the musical evangelist
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that are launching it.
My name is Yvonne Lewis
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and you're
watching Urban Report.
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Hello and
welcome to Urban Report.
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My guests today
are Dr. Timothy Nixon
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and Brian Ezra Bates.
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I had the opportunity
to sit down with Dr. Nixon
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and Brian on the set of
Foundation of our Faith:
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Dare to Dream's new series.
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I first talked to
Dr. Timothy Nixon,
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who by the way is
an old family friend...
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like a cousin to me.
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He grew up in the inner city
and we went to the same church.
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Our parents were friends.
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I was close to his family.
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So it was really a
blessing to bring him here
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and to have him as our
first speaker. Take a look.
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As you know, I
love to be on the set
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of a new program
for Dare to Dream
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with the speaker or the host.
It is such a blessing for me.
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And tonight I am
thrilled to be here
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with my friend, my family...
I call him my cousin...
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Dr. Timothy Nixon, who
is the associate chaplain
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at Andrews
University. Thank you so much.
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Thank you. May I call
you Tim? Yes you may. OK.
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Tim, you are just
such a blessed speaker.
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And one of the
things that I notice is that
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you have a
passion when you speak.
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You are fervent about
what you're talking about...
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about your topic. Where
do you think that comes from?
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That passion, that
fervency for the Word?
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Where do you
think that comes from?
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Boy... wow!
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I just believe that there's
such an urgency all the time.
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Especially now.
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You just never know
whoever's listening to you
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whether or not this might be the
last time they hear a sermon.
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Mmmm. And so
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I really always feel
that sense of urgency,
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and I feel that
especially believing
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that God has given
me something to say.
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That it must be for someone
who is there to hear the sermon.
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Wow! That is so true.
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This time... at this
time in earth's history
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we have to hear...
people have to hear this message
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because it could be the
last time. That's right.
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You grew up in the
inner city... in Brooklyn.
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That's right. Tell me about
growing up in the inner city
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'cause you are like a
poster guy for Dare to Dream.
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You know, you grew
up in the inner city
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and God has blessed you to
just accomplish so many things.
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And we praise Him for that.
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Tell us about your background.
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Well, I grew up in Brooklyn.
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Bedford-Stuyvesant.
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And you know thinking about
those days growing up in the
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1960's through
the riots of the 60's.
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Through the
civil rights struggles.
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Through so many things.
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To just think of
living through that
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is just an amazing
thing to think about.
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And what brought me
through that was family
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and the church.
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Those are the two
things that I firmly believe
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brought me through that.
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You know, it's interesting
that you would say that
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because you were raised
in a two-parent household.
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I know... I knew your parents
and they were like my aunt
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and uncle. So how do you think
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your upbringing
gave you an advantage
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over some of the boys
that didn't have what you had?
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It's invaluable. Ummm.
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Just to... I
often tell people that
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there was never a
thought in my mind
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that my parents
would ever divorce. Hmmm.
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So to grow up
never even thinking
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that that would happen
just takes such a burden
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from you emotionally
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and in every other way.
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And to think that
there are young people
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who grow up having to
deal with that kind of burden.
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You know, I see them
now... Being a chaplain
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you see all kinds of young
people who come to the campus
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who come to school, you
know, with varying kinds of
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situations that they come with
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and the various
baggage that they come with.
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And it's really
amazing the kinds of things
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that young people have to
deal with and struggle through.
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And to see them persevere
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is really quite
an amazing thing.
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And it's so different, isn't
it, from when we were kids.
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I mean I know
I'm older than you.
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And you don't have
to remind me of that.
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Yes... just a little older.
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But you know
when we were coming up
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we didn't have some
of the same challenges
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that we have now...
that these kids have now.
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Not at all. And so I
know you see it first hand.
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Can you give us an
example of some student that you
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have - without naming
any names - but a challenge
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that is different with a
student that you have now
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versus when you were coming up.
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Well... I mean there
are students who come
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to our campus who
are actually the glue
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that holds their
families together.
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How so?
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Financially. There have
been situations where...
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where we find out that there
are students who are taking out
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student loans to
really support their families.
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And it's really a
tragic thing to find out.
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You have those kinds
of situations happening.
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And it's really hard to
fathom that this young adult
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is carrying that kind of
burden for their families
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along with trying
to get through college.
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So it's really
very challenging today
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for some of the young
adults. And of course,
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you know, there are
others who are really thriving
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and who come from very strong
families and strong backgrounds.
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But you have
those cases as well.
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Yes, yes. You
were in New York City
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last year. What were
you doing in New York City
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evangelistically?
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I was a speaker for
one of the NY13 meetings
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this past summer in Brooklyn.
Back in Brooklyn. OK, OK.
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At the Bushwick. OK.
And it was really a...
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It was an amazing
thing to be back in Brooklyn
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and to be in Brooklyn for
an extended period of time.
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I had been back before, but
just a weekend here and there.
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Right. But to be
there for four weeks
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and to really be
back in Brooklyn and to
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travel around and to get
a feel for the city again
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and to see how drastically
it has changed was just amazing.
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I was just going to ask
you: how has it changed?
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How is it the same
and how is it changed?
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It has... the demographic
has changed tremendously.
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The neighborhoods
have changed tremendously.
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It's just a
completely different mix now.
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And you would not
recognize downtown Brooklyn
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from the days when I grew
up there and what it is today.
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And it just reminded me how
we have to think differently
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about how to
minister to the city
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and how to reach
people in cities today.
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'Cause there are unique
challenges, are there not?
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I mean, unique challenges
to inner city residents
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that perhaps suburban
people don't encounter.
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For example, the gangs.
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You know, you don't have a
lot of gangs in the suburbs
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but you do have the
Bloods and the Crips
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and all that in
the inner cities.
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And so what we're
finding with the inner cities
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is... the absentee fathers.
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The mothers raising boys
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without the fathers. I mean,
this is happening in the suburbs
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but it's happening a
lot in the inner cities.
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And so we have some
really unique challenges.
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Mass incarceration
and all of these things.
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So it's like... To me,
you know, growing up...
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I didn't grow up in Brooklyn
but I went to church in Brooklyn
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and my dad was your principal.
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That's right. By the
way, let me just ask you this:
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did you get the wire
like Pastor Lomacang?
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Did you get the wire?
Everybody got the wire.
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Your father should be very
lucky that he's not a principal
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these days... he'd be in jail.
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We won't talk about that.
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But look how you
turned out. Well, yes.
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And look how Pastor Lomacang
turned out. That's true,
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that's true. We know you
guys got a little spankings, but
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you know... Well, I wouldn't
call them little spankings.
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But we won't talk about that.
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You are here for
Foundation of our Faith,
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and you are our first
speaker for this whole series.
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Yes. Tell us a little bit about
what you're going to be doing
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with this series.
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I'm going to be
dealing with relationships
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because I think that
it's one of the most important
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issues for us to
deal with and talk about.
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I think it's one of the biggest
challenges in our community
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today. Young
people, young adults
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and older people
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have some of the greatest
challenges as it relates to
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relationships. Male, female,
and marital relationships.
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The home is at the
center of our communities.
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And so I felt it
would be good to deal with
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those issues. To talk
about men in relationships,
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women in relationships,
marriage, and then the family.
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And so I wanted to focus on that
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and just spend some time
talking about some real issues.
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Some adult issues. We don't
talk about adult issues in the
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church - mmmm - and so I
wanted to really spend some time
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talking about some
serious adult issues
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in the church as opposed
to letting everybody else
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talk about it. I
think that's so important
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because there's so many things
that sometimes we just tend to
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sweep under the rug or we
just don't deal with at all
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because we don't feel that
they're necessarily appropriate.
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But they are. If we don't
talk about them in church,
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where are we going to really
give a spiritual perspective
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on those issues? So I think that
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the whole relationship
emphasis is critical.
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Because again you know
that, within American society
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anyway, we have the
erosion of the family...
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and particularly in black
communities we have the erosion
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of the family... so we really
need what you're bringing.
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Thank you so very much
for what you're doing for us.
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And I want you to know,
viewers, that these messages
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are so God-sent. I know
you're going to be blessed
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by Dr. Timothy Nixon.
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Thank you so much
for being with us.
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Thank you for
having me. God bless.
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It was so great
to talk to Dr. Nixon
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and to just see where he's come.
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God has brought
him a mighty long way.
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Next I sat and
talked to Brian Ezra Bates
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and I was so
impressed with his transparency.
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He really opened up and shared
some personal information.
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One of the things
that blesses me so much
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about our
speaker and our musician
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is that they've been
on the spiritual path.
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And you can see. You'll
be able to see with Brian
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how God has just led him so far.
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I'm sure it's going to bless
you. It certainly blessed me.
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Let's check it out.
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Join me in
welcoming Brian Ezra Bates
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to the Foundation of our
Faith set and Urban Report.
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How are you? Hello!
I'm great, thank you.
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It's so great to have you.
You are our musical evangelist
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for this set of
Foundation of our Faith - yes -
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and we are just being
blessed by your music.
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Well it's a true blessing to
be here. Well praise the Lord!
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Tell me... Let's hear a little
bit about your background.
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Where'd you come from?
Well, I was born in Jackson, MS.
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I grew up some
in Atlanta, Georgia.
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And I moved to Huntsville,
Alabama, when I was a senior
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in high school. And I
just recently moved from there
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about a year and a half ago to
another little city in Georgia
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next to
Chattanooga, TN. Oh wow, wow.
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And are you in music ministry
full time? 'Cause you certainly
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have the gift. No, no.
Full time I'm a drug and alcohol
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counselor full time.
How did you go there?
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How did you get to be that?
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Well I have a real
passion for addiction -
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all types of addiction -
because of my family background
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and my own
personal history with it.
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Tell us about that.
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Well I grew up in a
family of mostly men...
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with my dad's family.
And every man in my family
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including my dad,
his brothers, my uncles,
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his uncles, his father even
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suffered from
some type of addiction.
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His father died when he was six
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of cirrhosis of the liver.
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He drank himself to death.
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Now this is your grandfather?
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This is my
grandfather who I never met
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because of his alcoholism.
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I have uncles who
were raising alcoholics.
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My father was an alcoholic,
a drug addict, sex addict...
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and his brothers were the same.
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And so addiction just
runs rampant through the men
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in my family. And so once I
had my own personal struggle
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with it I had to really depend
on God to change some things
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in my life. And once He did
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I was able to understand
some of the things that He
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did those things for.
And part of the reason was
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because of my own personal
testimony that He had given me
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and the
responsibility to share that.
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How did? Let's
unpack that a little bit.
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How did you
fall into it as well?
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Well my uncle actually
introduced me to some things.
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Was he a young uncle?
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Well at the time he was younger
but he was older than me.
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He was my dad's age, but at
the time he was a younger man,
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of course. And he
introduced me to pornography
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at a very early age. I
was very intrigued by it.
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Of course. I was a young
boy but definitely too young
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to be exposed to that type
of thing. No man should be,
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but I was very young.
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And I had an empty place
in my spirit because I never
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really had a
connection with my father.
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I never really felt like
he liked me when I was a kid
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growing up. I would do things
for him, but he just never
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really seemed interested. And
so I already had a hole there.
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And so my uncle introduced
me to something that I could
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actually fill that hole with
for a very long time in my life.
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And so I started very early
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delving into pornography
and all of such things.
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And I took it into a
marriage that I ultimately lost.
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And, you know, it ran
rampant through my life as well.
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It's amazing, isn't it
Brian? how... On Urban Report
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I always talk about God's plan.
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And God has a plan for
each person and so does Satan.
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Yes. And Satan's plan is to
ultimately destroy you. Yes.
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And God's plan is
to prosper you - yes -
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and to give you a
future and a hope. Correct.
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And some times
families just get caught up...
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families, generations. Um-hmm.
You know, there are generations
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of issues. Yes. And
so what you're telling us
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is that you had
generational issues
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with addiction... whether it was
pornography or substance abuse
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or whatever. Right,
right. And that is part of what
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Satan's plan was for you. Right.
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Where was your mom in all this?
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Were you raised by your
mom at all? Yeah, my poor mom.
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She was kind of
helpless to the whole thing.
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She married this
man who was a great man.
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My father was a great
man but he had these vices
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that ultimately
destroyed their marriage.
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And so I grew up in
several kinds of homes.
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I grew up in a loving home
with my mom and dad at first.
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And then all of a
sudden tumultuously thrown into
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a single-parent home where...
I stayed with my mom, of course.
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And then I moved
with my dad for a spell
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which was really
rough on my life as well.
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Which is actually where I
discovered my love for music
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was with my father.
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Mmmm. I grew up
with music in the home.
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I mean, all types of
gospel music, secular music.
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And that was... For
a long time my escape
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was into music.
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And so I actually ended
up moving back with my mom
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at some point, and my love for
music continued to just grow.
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And I know it was God
because He knew that I needed
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something to help me keep
grounded during the process
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of delving actually even
further into my addiction.
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And I'm just
grateful to Him for that.
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Yes, yes... He's so good.
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And even when we stray,
even when we go away from Him
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He gently leads us back. Yeah.
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How did you find God?
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How did He become
the Lord of your life?
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Hmmm... I was
searching, I was searching.
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I was sick... I was
tired of being tired.
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And you know, I knew
that... How old were you?
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My relationship... my real
relationship with Him started
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when I was probably about 20.
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19... 18 or 19.
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And I was really tired of
the way that I was living.
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And I had met this beautiful
young lady, and she was a SDA.
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I wasn't Adventist.
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And I started
going to church with her
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and going to
Oakwood College to AYS
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and being exposed
to the music there.
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And I made a promise to God.
I said: "God, if You will bless
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my voice and help me to get
better" - 'cause I thought I was
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pretty good. Turns out I
wasn't very good in fact.
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She let me know that
without any question.
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But I told Him if He blessed my
voice that I would only use it
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for Him. And He
began to do that.
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And it was during that
process of time that I got
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acquainted with the church
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and started studying for myself
for the first time in my life.
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Reading the Bible for myself
and studying these powerful
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messages. And God just...
He just did something for me.
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I mean, and it was
amazing how He turned my life.
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God is amazing
because all of your steps
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were orchestrated
- yes, every one -
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so even when you made mistakes
He was bringing you back.
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He was exposing you to music
- yes - and the things that
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would draw you to Him.
Yes. People and places that
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would draw you to Him. Yes.
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So at what point did you
finally say "I surrender...
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I give my life to You.
" How old were you then?
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I was probably about the
same age. It probably happened
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about a year later
so I was probably 19.
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And that's when I got baptized.
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And I completely
gave my life over to God.
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I tried to carry the
message to everybody I met.
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Even to my family...
who are still not Adventists
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but that's what happened for me.
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That's what happened for me.
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And my struggle with my addic-
tion got a lot worse after that.
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Really? It did. It
really did. How so?
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How did it get worse?
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Because at that point I
was now part of this church.
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And I had experience
with God that was real
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and so I felt like that
experience was going to cure me.
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Hmmm. And it definitely
was the stepping stone
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towards aiding me, but
because I had an expectation
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that wasn't realistic my
addiction got much worse.
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So what did you do?
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What did you do to actually
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get on a different path?
'Cause it was getting worse...
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Um-hmm. How did
you get it better?
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What did God do
through you? He broke me, man.
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He broke me. He broke me and
everything that I held so dearly
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was taken from me and I hit
what they call "rock bottom. "
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And I ended up
actually going to rehab
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and counseling
and support groups.
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With prayer and fasting
and everything that the church
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taught me to do. I
had to not only do that
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but I had to actually join
that with some other things.
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You know, I had a lot
of formulas in my head
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about what I
thought I should do.
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You know, the praying and the
things that the church teaches.
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And I didn't actually grab
onto some of these other things
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as well like
counseling and things.
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Had a lot of Christians
tell me that all I needed
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was to just pray and just
fast and just give it to God.
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And I did all of that
and it just never went away.
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Um-hmm. And when it
actually came to me was one day
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I was praying I said: "God,
I just need You to take this
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from me. " And He spoke
very clearly to me. He said:
00:23:24.80\00:23:27.27
"No, I want you
to give it to Me. "
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Wow! And so that's when my
process of surrender started.
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Wow! What a deep point.
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Not take it from
me but the Lord said
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"give it to Me. " He wanted me
to offer it up to Him as a gift.
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And I was thinking: "Why
would You want this as a gift? "
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You know: "Why would You want
this as my offering to You...
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this awful thing? "
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And He made it very clear
to me that He put it in my life
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at a time when I
actually needed it
00:23:55.16\00:23:58.10
to survive some of the
things that I was going through
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as a way to disconnect from
it so that I could survive it.
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And now I didn't need it
any more so He wanted it back.
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Wow! So you had to
surrender your life
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and God also allowed you to
get the tools that you needed.
00:24:12.75\00:24:16.75
Yes. You needed some tools
- yeah - to get through it.
00:24:16.79\00:24:20.52
Some real stuff, yeah. Right?
Um-hmm. And it wasn't just...
00:24:20.66\00:24:22.99
It's OK to get counseling;
it's OK to get tools - yes -
00:24:23.12\00:24:27.76
and help - yes - you
know, because God works through
00:24:27.93\00:24:31.13
people as well.
That's right; that's right.
00:24:31.17\00:24:32.77
So what a
blessing... what a blessing.
00:24:32.80\00:24:35.00
And your story is so
powerful because you show -
00:24:35.14\00:24:41.14
and your transparency
is a blessing, too -
00:24:41.28\00:24:43.45
and you show that
it's God's work in you.
00:24:43.58\00:24:47.72
God is working through you.
00:24:47.85\00:24:49.52
What do you want? In
about a minute, what do you want
00:24:49.65\00:24:52.39
our viewers to know
about Brian Ezra Bates.
00:24:52.52\00:24:55.62
I am a man saved by grace.
00:24:56.46\00:24:58.46
And He took me
from a place of shame
00:24:58.79\00:25:04.10
to a place of grace.
00:25:04.23\00:25:06.47
And I'm so
grateful... and that's it.
00:25:06.60\00:25:08.84
I mean, for me I
just want to share
00:25:08.97\00:25:11.37
as much as I can with everybody.
00:25:11.51\00:25:13.64
I'm an open
book as you can tell.
00:25:13.78\00:25:16.81
But there's no
shame here any more.
00:25:17.78\00:25:19.71
It's just grace, and I
just want to share that grace
00:25:19.85\00:25:21.98
with others. Amen.
Well, thank you for sharing
00:25:22.02\00:25:24.42
that with us and thank you
for sharing your wonderful gift.
00:25:24.45\00:25:28.12
And viewers: you are
going to be so blessed
00:25:28.26\00:25:30.96
when you hear the
ministry of Brian Ezra Bates.
00:25:31.09\00:25:35.00
Thanks.
00:25:35.13\00:25:36.60
I really enjoy
talking to our guests
00:25:38.40\00:25:41.27
on the sets of their programs.
00:25:41.40\00:25:43.41
It seems to be a comfortable
environment for the guests
00:25:43.54\00:25:46.17
and it's a
change of pace for me.
00:25:46.21\00:25:47.94
I hope that you were
inspired by these interviews
00:25:48.28\00:25:50.98
and that you will
apply any spiritual lessons
00:25:51.11\00:25:53.75
that you learned from them.
00:25:53.78\00:25:55.18
Man, Brian's
testimony is so powerful!
00:25:55.52\00:25:59.22
Just to know that he went
through all of those twists
00:25:59.45\00:26:03.36
and turns and God has him on his
feet standing and ministering
00:26:03.39\00:26:08.46
before people now. It is
such an amazing blessing.
00:26:08.60\00:26:11.93
And wait until you
hear Dr. Nixon's sermons
00:26:12.17\00:26:15.44
and Brian's music.
00:26:15.60\00:26:17.07
Make sure to tune
in to Dare to Dream
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and watch
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Call us and let us
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Send a sample of your
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00:27:17.87\00:27:20.70
it'll work for Magnify Him.
00:27:20.84\00:27:23.20
We are looking for people
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Performance is not
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We're looking for ministry
and of course great voices
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and great musicians. So please,
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Pray for us, and also
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Ask the Lord what
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We really need your prayers
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Well, that's the end
of our program for today.
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I hope that you were blessed.
I hope that you were inspired.
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And I hope that you will
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