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Hello and
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My guest today is Michael
Charles, former NFL player
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and lifestyle consultant.
Welcome to Urban Report Michael.
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Thank you...
thank you for having me.
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It is so great to
have you here. Praise God!
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We've been trying to get
you here for a long time.
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The Lord had me do a few travels
but He finally landed me here
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and I praise Him every
day for just giving me this
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opportunity. Thank you
again for having me. Amen.
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Well thank you so much
for being willing to come
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'cause our viewers
need to know your story.
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Oh, you don't have enough time.
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I know, we have to get
everything... crowd everything
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into a 30-minute spot. But
tell us about your journey.
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Tell us what...
where did you grow up?
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Well, I'm from a big town,
big city: Newark, New Jersey.
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Oh, Newark! You know
New Jersey is literally
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a hop, skip, and
jump from Manhattan.
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You know, you
could hop on the bus,
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take it downtown Newark,
skip through the train station
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there, hop the turnstile
and you're in Manhattan.
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Hope a
turnstile... wait a minute.
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People from that city know
about hopping the turnstile.
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And so right across
from Manhattan. I tell people
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I used to... grew up
playing hooky sometimes
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in Times Square.
They're like "Oh really?
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You've been in Times
Square. " I'm like: "Ahh,
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it's not all that great. "
It was just a nice growing up.
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I was born in Newark
like I said and grew up in
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the Stella Home Project Area,
so that's the west side of the
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city, west side of Newark.
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Newark is plagued with a
lot of crime and blight...
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economic blight. It was
strifeful back at that time.
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The only way of getting out,
the only kind of light at the
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end of the tunnel was through
Satan's way which was drug sales
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and some type of crime industry
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or through God's... I
don't even know if it's God's
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way... Still it was Satan's
other way which was sports.
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Ummm. You know,
organized sports.
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And I see now how
parents treat these kids,
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you know, trying to prod
them to be these great football
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players or great basketball
players, and it's just not right
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I don't think. Tell us
a little bit about that.
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How do they prod
their kids in New Jersey?
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I've seen them pushing
kids. I remember one time going
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to a T-ball baseball game.
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And T-ball is just for
kids to just learn the game,
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understand the game. Right.
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And you put the ball on the T
and then the kids stand up there
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with their bat and swing
and then they run the bases.
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I've seen, you
know, kids miss the ball.
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You know, they do miss the ball.
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Swing and it's right there
and they still miss it. Right.
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And I see parents
just go... become unglued.
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"Hey! It's just a
kid... it's just a game.
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They're not going to ever
make it to the major leagues
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and you're sitting here
screaming at this kid like,
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you know, he's a
loser. And he's not! "
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And same with football.
I've seen, you know, parents
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because their kid was so big.
It's not like: "Well let me stop
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feeding you cake and ice cream
in the middle of the night"
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and something like that.
No, it's "Let me throw you out
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here with these football
coaches" who are trying to live
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their former lives and live
vicariously through these kids.
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And next thing you know they've
got them doing what I perceive
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to be Army grass drills out
there, and these are just kids.
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And they wonder how these
kids get beaten after the games.
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So when they become of
age... of a mature age...
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they don't even
like the sports any more.
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Wow! So what you're seeing
with these kind of back stage
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parents who like if the kid
is going into the entertainment
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industry you have one
kind of parent that's pushing.
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Or for kids going into
sports, that same type of parent
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just kind of pushing them
into something that it's not
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best for them to be
in. And I've never ever
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in all my life seen
parents push their kids
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towards religion. Never
seen no parent push a kid
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to be a pastor... push a
kid to be a Bible worker.
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Push a kid to, you know,
be some type of missionary...
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never seen that.
But you know, for sports
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and entertainment, you
know, they're right behind
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and they're thinking about all
the money that you're going to
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"make for us. " All the money
you're going to make for us.
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Yes. A kid grows with all this
pain and stress in his life.
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I was a little different.
My mom didn't really do that
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with me. She just encouraged
me in any direction I wanted.
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She just wanted me to be a
good citizen and a good man.
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Were you in a
single-parent household?
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Two parents were there.
My father was West Indian,
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so I'm half Trinidad. And my
mother's from North Carolina.
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OK. And I have a younger
brother and two younger sisters.
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And we all are
doing well right now.
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Our parents are dead
now. My mom had died from
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diabetes in 1991 and then my
dad died from prostate cancer
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in 1993. Oh wow! Yeah.
So it took a toll on me
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and now that my last uncle
just passed a few weeks ago
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that left me as the oldest
male matriarch in my family.
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Yeah... patriarch.
Patriarch, yes. So now
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everybody's looking at
me for all their answers
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and to clear up something, as if
I don't have enough on my plate
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now - absolutely - I have to
be the patriarch of my family.
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Absolutely. So you
grew up in Newark. Um-hmm.
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Did you get
drawn into the drugs?
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Did you get drawn into selling
and using and all of that?
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Not into selling.
Using a little bit.
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You know, I had guys who
were my age - friends of mine -
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who were just low key
got into smoking and drinking
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of... back then it
was the Malt Duck. OK.
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I drank a little Malt
Duck, and our neighbor
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sold little bags of weed.
And as we walked his dog for him
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or do something for him
he would repay us like that.
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And it was nothing
major... on a major scale.
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We never thought that we
were going to be like a Scarface
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or anything and get into this
big heavy kind of use and abuse.
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And then shortly after that...
we're talking 6th, 7th grade...
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Wow! We're talking
6th or 7th grade. But then
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shortly after that I
went off to high school.
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It followed me a
little bit to high school
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but then once I got into
college I kind of left it behind
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and drifted off from that
and just really tried to focus
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on sports. I didn't really
start playing organized football
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until I was about a
junior in high school.
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So my third year in high school
I started playing organized
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football. And then
each year it got better.
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I got getter in leaps and
bounds. Like the next year
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I was All-State Performer
and All American in high school.
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Wow! And I had all these
colleges wooing me to come
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to their university.
Now what do you think
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of the whole
organized sports situation?
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What do you think about the
way the players are treated?
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All of that? How? Well, the
players are treated like gold...
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but that's a
commodity. You know that.
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So the players? You can't get
any better treatment than when
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you're a player. OK.
The problem comes... is
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prior to being a player
the way it gets into your head
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and the type of
person it makes some people,
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you know, as far as being
egotistical or self-centered
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or selfish. All these
type of things it makes people.
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And then after you get
in then you get glorified.
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And this kind of glory reminds
you of the gladiator days.
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You know, here I
am. I'm this big man.
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I beat another big man
and I throw and cast my body
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into a man half my
size who has the football,
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drop him to the ground
and stand up on top of him
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and wait for 50,000 people
to start screaming my name
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and cheering me on.
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And so I felt like it was
gladiator days back again.
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And so that kind of gives
you that superiority complex.
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And then you don't
have to pay for anything.
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Everybody wants you everywhere.
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You don't have to wait in line.
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You don't have to...
It's just an open door policy
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for you. Red carpet
treatment everywhere you go.
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And then comes the low is when
you retire, after you retire.
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Yes. Let's talk about
the contrast because I think
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that's a very important point.
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So when you're playing
you're up here on a mountaintop.
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Everybody wants you around.
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You're the man...
that's it. Um-hmm.
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Then you retire. What happens?
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Well for some people I think
if you don't have anything else
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prior to playing football
and all your life geared around
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football, then you hit
this big low part in your life.
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Who'd you play for, Michael? I
played with the Miami Dolphins.
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In '83 I was drafted
by the Miami Dolphins.
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Me and a kid named Dan Marino.
You might have heard of him. OK.
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Me and him were the first
two picks for the Miami Dolphins
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in 1983. And
then four years later
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I got traded to
the San Diego Chargers.
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I stayed there and played
with another great quarterback
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Dan Fouts and a great
tight end Kellen Winslow
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and a great wide
receiver in Wes Chandler.
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And then left there,
and when I left there
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I went and played
with the L.A. Raiders
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when they came down to
L.A. for those two years
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and they left
Oakland and came down to L.A.
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And Art Shell was the coach,
and at that time I played on
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the defensive line with
Howie Long and Bob Golic
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and some of those great players.
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And then after that I retired.
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My knee was bothering me a
little bit. Thought I would
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retire... was tired of the game.
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I went home, and then
when I had gone home to retire
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Jeff Fisher had just
taken over at the defense.
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He's now the head coach
of the Saint Louis Rams.
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But at that time he
was the defense coordinator
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for the L.A. Rams.
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Called me out of retirement;
asked me to come play with him.
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So I completed my final
year with the L.A. Rams.
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It was a nice
term... defensive line.
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I had some great
years; I had some OK years.
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You know, up and
down health wise.
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And when I say health wise,
I had nothing really broken
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or sprained, but I just felt
my body sort of giving away.
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Did you get concussion?
The big thing about that
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now is the concussions
that lead to depression.
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Right. Did you
suffer with concussions?
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No but suffice to say I've
caused a lot of concussions.
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And no... I just...
My position: I felt that
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concussions and injury
came to people going half speed.
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You know, taking
breaks on plays as we call it.
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But me and my defense...
you know, I've never really
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taken a break on playing. As a
defensive lineman I hit somebody
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every play. And so you
figure I played a thousand plays
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a year and I
played for 16 years -
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high school, college, and pros -
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so at 16,000
hits I've hit somebody
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at some point in time...
and hard, aggressive hits.
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And I never really once
came... The Lord blessed me
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with no concussion. Never broke
a leg; never broke an ankle;
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never pulled anything.
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So it's just by His
grace that He kept me alive.
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But I think He just
kept me alive to realize
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that that's not
what He wanted me to do.
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OK, OK... how did
you? Let's talk about:
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Where were you spiritually when
you got involved with the NFL
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and... Let's just start there.
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Where were you? When I
got involved spiritually
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I wasn't with
the NFL at that time.
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All the while I was in
the NFL it was all about self.
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I had this...
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I kind of guided my life.
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Now that I'm a Bible
student and I know Bible now
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I kind of picture my
life as the Prodigal Son.
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OK. That parable in Luke. Yeah.
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The younger man asked his
father to give him his living
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that befall upon him.
So I felt that that was my
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senior year of college.
And I'm asking the Lord...
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As I'm praying I'm not
really praying sincerely.
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I'm just praying, talking,
theoretically. "OK, Lord,
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I've been doing all this
work, all this workout, all this
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lifting, all this
running, all these miles ran,
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all this
strength, all this testing,
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it's time for You to
give me my just due. "
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And my just due, the parable
says, the father gave him -
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um-hmm - all he had. And my
just due was my NFL contract.
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"OK, here...
that's your contract. "
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And then shortly
after that I left school,
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you know, and go
to the football camps.
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And just like the
parable said, shortly after that
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I go to a far country.
That was my far country:
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the world.
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And I spent my life, spent
my substance, on riotous living.
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And that's what I
did: wine, women, and song.
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Party. I was at a
ladies' night every night.
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It was very easy
for me to talk to women.
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Very easy for me to
get involved with the,
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you know, people who had
drugs and drug connections.
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Very easy for me
to be around that.
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Walk into a bar...
they wouldn't take my money.
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They just set up tabs for me
and then cleared the tabs off.
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All I'd do is
just tip the bartender.
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Just as long as I was
there. They liked me there.
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Liked being around. And
then from that I had people
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just liked being
around me for that, too.
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And then it was just...
As I look back, it was just
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a real whirlwind of
just debauchery you know.
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Up and down. And just like
all merry-go-rounds, the rides
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come to an end.
Just as in our parable
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the ride came to an
end for the young man
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and there became a
famine in this land
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and he began to be in want.
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And that was me: a
famine came in my land.
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There's no football now. There's
no football; I've retired.
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What do I do now?
I've got too much pride
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in me to go and just
start self-destructing.
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So now I'm kind of
a functioning person
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that could smoke
blunts, drink... But then
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still work and be
productive and pay my bills.
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So I'm
thinking... What kind of work?
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I was a salesperson. Have
a degree in communications
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so I've always
gotten into sales.
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So I've always had the gift
of gab and I just talk to people
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and they owe me. And I
started selling products...
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different products.
Started with home security sales
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then I went into
cell phone sales.
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Just kind of
branched off from there.
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Morphed off and
back into security sales.
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And I used to
design fire systems.
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So it was just a
sale of securities.
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And then after a while
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I think the Lord was
ready. He knew I was looking.
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I started going... Instead
of hanging out and partying
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and bringing the New Year in
at a party... some wild party...
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I started bringing the
New Year in at a church.
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Oh. And I started
looking for churches on my own.
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Um-huh. And I started looking
for churches and I'm saying
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"OK. " But then the different
churches wasn't my speed.
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I went to a Catholic
church. That wasn't for me.
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I went to some
type of Baptist church
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and the people
got the Holy Spirit
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and they started
running up and down the aisles.
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I was like: "OK...
that's not for me. "
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And somebody
else jumped up to me.
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Just having me seeing somebody
who claims they've got tongues.
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They jumped up and started
blabbing in this gibberish.
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And I was like: "OK, this
is not the place either. "
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But I'm trying, and the
Lord knows that I'm trying -
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right - to find Him. But now
you're on a new spiritual path.
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I'm on a path... Um-hmm - I'm on
a path that I put myself on...
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a self-imposed path. Um-hmm.
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So when I retired, first
place I moved to I guess was to
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introduce me to Adventists.
'Cause all this time now -
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I'm 30 years old
and I had never heard of
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Seventh-day Adventists.
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Never heard of
them... Thirty years old. Wow!
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What an indictment
that is on us, though.
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Really. By 30 and
you hadn't ever heard
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of the Seventh-day Adventist
church. That's an indictment
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on us really. And
here's more of an indictment.
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Guess where He moves me
to? I retire out of L.A.
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I leave my L.A. home to
go to Bowie, Maryland. Wow!
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So I'm in Maryland... Adventist
capitol of the country.
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And still no
Adventist came up to me.
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And it wasn't until one
day I came out of my house
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and I talked to my neighbor...
a nice African woman.
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And she had a nice family.
And when I'm coming from my
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mailbox they're coming
out of their house dressed up
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ready to go. And
I'm thinking: "Oh, OK. "
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I'm joking with them and I say:
"I know I tied one on last night
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but don't tell me it's Sunday
already... I missed a day! "
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They said: "No,
no... it's Saturday. "
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I say: "Oh, y'all going
to a wedding or to a funeral,
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heaven forbid? " "Oh,
no, we're going to church. "
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I said: "Really? Church? "
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So then automatically I went to
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"Oh I didn't know
y'all were Jewish. "
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That's first thing I said:
"I thought you were Jewish. "
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Right, right. I said: "I
didn't know you were Jewish. "
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"No, we're Seventh-day
Adventists. " "Seven who? "
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"Seven what? " "What's
a Seventh-day Adventist? "
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And I said: "I've
never heard of them. "
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And she said: "Oh but
we're running late. Come on over
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for lunch. We'll
talk all about it. "
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And so I came over for
lunch later on that day,
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and first thing I noticed
as I walked up to the house
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I'm like: "OK, maybe I'm
a little early 'cause I'm
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not smelling no meat. "
00:17:01.38\00:17:02.70
Not smelling no meat
cooking; nothing in the oven.
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I'm thinkin' "OK,
maybe I'm a little early. "
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"Oh, you're just in time. "
I'm thinking: "OK, just in time.
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Maybe we're going somewhere. "
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Sit us down, you
know... a big plate of fruit.
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All kinds of different
food. Big bowl of salad.
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There were homemade dressings,
2 or 3 homemade dressings.
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Some freshly baked bread.
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And I'm thinking: "Wow! OK!
This is different. I like it. "
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And then as I start
reading stories I see that,
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you know, back in the
olden days, back in ancient days
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that's how they
ate. It was a big feast.
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It wasn't like... didn't have
no animals they was cooking.
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The real feasts back then
they had platters of fruits...
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all kinds of
fruits and vegetables.
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Just had people eating
like that. I said: "Oh! "
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So your neighbors introduced
you... just to Adventists...
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to Adventism. But then
just like anything, any time
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there's something positive
there Satan puts something
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negative there. So what he
did was put something in my eye
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then had me
move out of Maryland.
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He set up an opportunity.
He wanted t get you away from
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that... all away
from that period. Right.
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So he sent me an opportunity
and I moved to Tucson, Arizona.
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OK. And I'm thinking: "OK. "
00:18:14.32\00:18:16.42
And so I never saw
the family no more.
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I got to Tucson I
forgot all about the Adventists
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just goin' through life. Just
goin' through life every day.
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And then suddenly... Now
were you reading your Bible?
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Were you going to any
church? You were just...
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just kind of out
there? Just kind of out there.
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Sunday was my day
of rest so to speak.
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After I went through Friday
and Saturday - long weekends -
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Sunday what I
needed was to recuperate.
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And I remember I had
a cell phone business.
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Had a cell phone
business in 2002.
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And I've been there 7
years now and I'm looking.
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I really am looking for some...
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I'm looking not
only for something better
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spiritually but I'm
looking for someone better
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than the people I've
been going around with.
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Aahhh. So I've always had
beautiful women in my life.
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Always had exotic-looking women.
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But now as I look
back there was nothing
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no substance with them. There
was just my time spent with them
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and then, OK, ready for my
time spent with the next one.
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Trophies... Basically
trophies and notches. Yes.
00:19:15.49\00:19:19.79
And so I'm like:
"OK. " So then I go and -
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I have a cell phone business
- I sell a nurse some phones.
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She invites me to the
hospital; I deliver the phones.
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While I'm there I say:
"Hey, why don't you show me
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around the hospital,
introduce me to some doctors.
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Maybe I can drum
up some business.
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I'll give out my business card
and drum up some business. "
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"OK. " We do that,
00:19:38.67\00:19:40.84
and I walked into
Tucson Heart Hospital.
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I walked in there, and
there's the most beautiful
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woman I've ever
seen right in my face.
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And I said: "Wow, that's going
to be my wife right there. "
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Wow! And come to find out
00:19:53.94\00:19:55.97
her name is the
former LeniliManako.
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And she is of Tongan descent
00:19:59.26\00:20:02.87
so she's an island girl,
so that struck me right there.
00:20:03.07\00:20:05.91
And she has that exotic
look that I've always liked.
00:20:06.12\00:20:08.99
That struck me, and she's
a third generation Adventist.
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Come on now. I knew
nothing about Adventists.
00:20:12.96\00:20:15.54
Now look at God
'cause He knows that,
00:20:15.64\00:20:18.24
you know, you might have a
penchant for beautiful women.
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So what does He do? He sends
you a beautiful godly woman.
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A godly woman at that
- is that? - godly woman.
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That's the most important
thing. You know what, Michael?
00:20:28.71\00:20:30.52
One of the things that I'd
like to let our viewers know -
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um-hmmm - because so many
of our young men think that
00:20:34.91\00:20:38.62
the answer is in
sports or entertainment.
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The answer is in all
the women you can find
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and all the money you
can make and all the...
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If you would,
share with our young men
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how that's not...
there's nothing to it.
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All those things, young
men, it's how the parable says.
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We are talking about the
parable of the Prodigal Son.
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Towards the end there he
realized that all these things
00:21:04.72\00:21:07.83
he was after when he
was in that far country
00:21:08.03\00:21:09.90
and he began to be in want,
a famine grew up in this land,
00:21:10.10\00:21:13.33
was pig food. It was husk.
00:21:13.53\00:21:16.29
There was things that
just... it spoils your appetite.
00:21:16.49\00:21:20.76
You know, really
no substance to it.
00:21:21.06\00:21:23.15
And so now you're sitting
here you're amongst these husks
00:21:23.45\00:21:26.43
and then two things: you
die and you swindle in it
00:21:26.63\00:21:31.61
and you drown in it.
And you just stay in it,
00:21:31.71\00:21:33.77
and it just brings you
down like a big pot of quagmire
00:21:33.87\00:21:37.51
just sucks you in, or you
wake up... you have an epiphany
00:21:37.61\00:21:41.07
and you go back.
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And I woke up. I had an
epiphany and I went back.
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And in going back...
You don't have to go back
00:21:46.51\00:21:48.65
and just run right into church
00:21:48.85\00:21:50.48
and start being this
whole saintly person.
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No... it takes a while.
00:21:52.51\00:21:53.75
I didn't just become the
person I am today overnight.
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It took a while. It took
a longer time for me to be
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the bad person I was. Now
it took almost just as much
00:22:00.99\00:22:04.28
time to be this good person.
00:22:04.48\00:22:06.43
And in being this good
person it's not like I walk...
00:22:06.73\00:22:09.73
I mean, I still sin.
I'm still a sinful person.
00:22:09.93\00:22:12.13
We all do. But it's not
that... I don't make sin
00:22:12.33\00:22:16.35
I don't put that as
the foremost in my mind.
00:22:16.65\00:22:19.23
I'm not advocating sin.
I'm not trying to be sinful.
00:22:19.63\00:22:23.71
I'm not doing sinful things say-
ing: "Oh, OK God, forgive me. "
00:22:23.91\00:22:27.25
You know, knowing that it's
sinful. Not going into things
00:22:27.55\00:22:29.98
knowing that it's sinful
and making conscious efforts
00:22:30.18\00:22:33.60
to do sinful things.
Now if I do something sinful
00:22:33.80\00:22:36.29
it's like: "Oh, I
didn't realize it. Oh my bad. "
00:22:36.49\00:22:39.82
And I sincerely get
down and ask for forgiveness
00:22:40.02\00:22:43.15
every day. And
even if I can't remember
00:22:43.45\00:22:45.73
if I sinned that day I
still ask for forgiveness
00:22:45.93\00:22:48.82
'cause I know He knows -
yes - that I have done something
00:22:49.02\00:22:51.67
that wasn't favorable to Him.
00:22:51.97\00:22:53.25
Yes. And so I will
just tell people that,
00:22:53.45\00:22:55.46
you know, find your
connection with God.
00:22:55.66\00:22:58.56
You really need to find
your connection with God.
00:22:58.76\00:23:00.52
And that's where we always lose.
00:23:00.82\00:23:02.88
And now they've
taken it out of the school.
00:23:03.08\00:23:04.41
They've taken God out of school.
00:23:04.61\00:23:05.69
They've finally taken
it out of the locker rooms.
00:23:05.79\00:23:07.73
They've taken it
out of the work place.
00:23:07.93\00:23:10.09
You know, they just
don't want you to have...
00:23:10.29\00:23:11.55
They want you to go
out... They're forcing you
00:23:11.75\00:23:13.95
to go out and find
your own connection.
00:23:14.15\00:23:16.04
They don't want to
advocate a connection.
00:23:16.25\00:23:17.91
They don't want to say:
"OK, we have a connection here
00:23:18.11\00:23:21.02
to make it easy for you. " No,
Satan is making it hard on us.
00:23:21.22\00:23:23.73
Yeah. Taking it away from
us. Taking it from around us
00:23:23.94\00:23:26.85
so now you're forced
to go out and find it.
00:23:27.06\00:23:29.41
And then when we do?
We still find pig food.
00:23:29.71\00:23:32.02
You know, we join ourself to
a citizen of that far country
00:23:32.33\00:23:36.21
and then he puts us
in his field to work.
00:23:36.41\00:23:40.27
So whether it be the dope man,
00:23:40.67\00:23:42.40
whether it be
the business owner,
00:23:42.50\00:23:44.46
whether it be some
00:23:44.72\00:23:48.57
kind of get-rich-quick scheme.
00:23:48.77\00:23:51.04
Um-hmm. There's always
something that's out there
00:23:51.24\00:23:53.34
that keeps you away
from the true focus:
00:23:53.54\00:23:55.83
the path that's
straight and narrow. Yes.
00:23:55.93\00:23:58.20
And so we wind up
taking these zigzagged paths
00:23:58.30\00:24:01.36
and these quickie paths thinking
that eventually we'll get there.
00:24:01.56\00:24:04.13
And it's not... it's
pig food. Amen; thank you.
00:24:04.34\00:24:07.49
What would you?
What are you doing now?
00:24:07.89\00:24:10.34
What? You're on a
new path. Yes I am.
00:24:10.54\00:24:13.34
Tell us what you're doing now.
00:24:13.54\00:24:14.89
Well now I am executive
director for The Healing Place.
00:24:14.99\00:24:17.75
And The Healing Place is an
entity of Eden Valley Institute.
00:24:17.95\00:24:21.78
And Eden Valley
Institute is a wellness center,
00:24:22.08\00:24:24.72
a lifestyle wellness
center in Loveland, Colorado.
00:24:24.82\00:24:27.63
OK, and that's been in
business now for about 50 years.
00:24:27.97\00:24:31.39
They've been helping
guide people through health
00:24:31.49\00:24:35.10
to the Lord. Ummm. And
so now they've acquired
00:24:35.30\00:24:38.72
a city ministry. And
you know we're counseled
00:24:38.82\00:24:41.43
to go and reach into the city
to reach those that feel they
00:24:41.63\00:24:45.04
have no time and have no time
to take time out to come find
00:24:45.14\00:24:50.19
the Lord. We are counseled to go
in and bring the Lord to them.
00:24:50.29\00:24:53.18
And so they have a new
city ministry which is a health
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education and
community outreach center.
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And so I direct that.
And what we do is that we...
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we... I've increased it since
I've gotten in since Jan. 1.
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And we've increased the ministry
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and we provide a
community food bank
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and I put out... You
know, I buy about - hmmm -
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I serve about 1,500
pounds of food a month.
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And that services
about 450 families.
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Wow! All right. And
then we have about...
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I have a community clothes bank.
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And this is for the
working poor and the needy too.
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So it's like a thrift store,
and people can come through.
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And it's very
nice stuff that I have.
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And I've partnered
with several agencies around
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that can give me
food and give me clothes.
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And then I also give a
personal Bible study myself.
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I witness to them. I
tell them stories about me
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and I tell them stories
about you. I share Bible stories
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with them and tell them
how it relates to them today.
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Right, you apply it.
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I apply Bible
stories to them today.
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We need to put your website up
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so that people will
know how to reach you.
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Well praise God. So
what you're doing is
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you're reaching them
with food, with clothing,
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and with spiritual food.
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"When I was hungry you
fed Me. " That's right.
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"When I was naked you
clothed Me. " That's right.
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You're meeting them
at their point of need.
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Right at that
point... at that point.
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And it's been a blessing.
It has truly been a blessing.
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I got a lot of formal
training in what I do.
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I picked up some
training at Eden Valley.
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They have a school - talk
about that - a school called
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THE WELL. And THE
WELL is an acronym
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for Training Health Educators
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With Evangelism,
Lifestyle, and Leadership.
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Oh wow! I love it!
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It's a beautiful
school, a beautiful opportunity.
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I came today... I
came to 3ABN today
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with the education
director Matthew Dooley.
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And he's going to
share a little bit about that
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on the Today program.
Wonderful! And so we're excited
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to be able to get
that out and for people to
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see what's going
on at Eden Valley.
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You know, people come
from all over the world
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and they talk about our place.
And they come with various
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stages of lifestyle diseases.
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And when they come there and
they learn about God's healing
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ways - the 8 laws of
health as we coin them -
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and they learn about that
and they see these diseases
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reversing and
subsiding they want to do more.
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The problem is a lot
of times when they come
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they're in a controlled
environment. When you come
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to a lifestyle
center. We prepare the food.
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We get you up; we get you going.
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Right. And then you have to
leave. You go back to your home,
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right, and there's nobody
there doing what you want to do.
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Right. That's where I
step in in the city ministry.
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We also provide
wellness coaching down there.
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So now you can call us and
I can help walk you through
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what you already learned.
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I can show you how to cook.
I'm a certified raw food chef
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and a certified
vegan chef. Come on now.
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Look where God
has brought you to!
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Thank you so much
for being with us.
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Praise God for that. And
thank you for being with us.
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Make sure to join us next time.
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it just wouldn't be
the same without you.
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