Are you caught up and
enslaved by sexual sin?
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Stay tuned to hear
about a program that offers
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practical, biblical,
life-changing information
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that can set you free.
My name is Yvonne Lewis,
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and you are
watching Urban Report.
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Hello, and
welcome to Urban Report.
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My guests today are
Pastor Joshua Nelson and his
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panel from "Pure Choices."
Pure Choices is a program
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that has a new format,
with a variety of hosts and
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ministry teams.
Recently, I talked to them
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on the Pure Choices
set, take a listen...
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It's my privilege
today to introduce the new
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pure choices team. Our
host is Pastor Joshua Nelson
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Pastor Nelson,
welcome to Urban Report.
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Thank you... I know
it's weird because we are
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on the set of Pure
Choices, doing Urban Report, but
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you viewers are used to
me doing that and you know
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I love doing this. So,
it's so good to have you here.
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We were fortunate
enough and blessed enough
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to have had another team...
Pastor Seth Yelorda and his team
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that hosted Pure
Choices previously, and now,
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because they couldn't continue
to do it, we have a new team,
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and God is so faithful,
He continually provides
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for us on Dare to
Dream. So, thank you so much,
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and we are going
to kind of go around,
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and introduce
yourselves to our viewers,
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because you are going to
be on Pure Choices and so,
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we'll start with our new
host, Pastor Joshua Nelson,
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tell us about yourself
Pastor. Where do you Pastor?
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I pastor in South Carolina,
in the great conference of
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South Atlantic Conference,
and I am in the Lake City
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in Marion District and so
I have two churches there,
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and I started out in
ministry about five years ago,
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and I went to Oakwood,
well, I pastored a little bit
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for a couple of
years, I went to Andrews,
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and graduated with my M.Div.
and now I am back in the field
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pastoring... before that,
well, I am from California,
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it's a big part of who
I am... California boy...
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Yeah... I can hear
the California accent
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yeah... Yeah, exactly...
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and so I am very proud of that,
and I have a little sister,
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Shantula, she's two
years younger than me...
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and she's a nurse in
D.C. and my mom and dad,
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who are still in California, my
dad and mom raised me very well,
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I think, hopefully, I
turned out OK, I think,
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they home-schooled me
which was a big part of my life,
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and that was a blessing,
I also went to academy when
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I got into high
school, so... Are you married?
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No, but I am getting married,
All right, give a shout-out
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to your fiancé... I'm
in love with my fiancé,
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Kimberly Doss and we are
getting married very soon,
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so I am very excited,
yes... That's awesome.
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Marquis... Yes, my
name is Marquis Jackson
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and I pastor in Sumter
and Manning, South Carolina,
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also in the great South
Atlantic Conference, amen.
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Just like Josh... Pastor Joshua
Nelson, well, I've also pastored
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for the past five years
as well, my life is similar,
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I didn't go to academy, but when
I graduated from High School
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when I started at
Southern Adventist University,
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I was Biology major,
changed to Accounting major,
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the Lord called me in my
Sophomore year to go into
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Theology, I wrestled
with it for two years,
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but the Lord called
me, kept on calling me,
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and I finally
accepted, and at that time,
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I was not at Southern, I was
at the University of Cincinnati,
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I am from Cincinnati,
Ohio, so all the Ohio people,
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let's get a shout-out as well...
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Then I transferred to
Oakwood University, graduated,
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I went straight to Seminary,
after that, I was doing
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literature evangelism. The
Lord opened the door for me
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to speak with my previous
President, Elder Minninghall,
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and the Lord just
blessed me to be put at the
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District of Marion, Lake City,
and Laurens, South Carolina
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so I pastored the district where
Pastor Nelson pastors now...
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This is my second district, the
Lord has really been blessing,
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I love ministry, its
work, but it's truly a blessing.
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Thank you... Pastor Kory...
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Well, my name is Kory P. Douglas
P. Douglas if you want to
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call me that... K
the initials and the name
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I pastor in the
Central States Conference,
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I'm in Southeast Missouri,
what they call the Bootheel,
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I'm in Charleston, Missouri,
and in Cape Girardeau, Missouri,
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in two weeks, it will make
one full year of pastoring,
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which in itself to me is
a miracle, seeing as though
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I had no intentions when I
was growing up to be in Ministry
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at all, so that's a testimony
of how faithful God is,
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I am originally from Brooklyn,
New York, I don't know if I can
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shout-out my favorite team,
we are having a great year,
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this year, a certain guy who got
traded from a certain city...
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and I love my city, you know,
I love everything New York...
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ok, so shout-out to the New
York viewers, I am the eldest of
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too many kids and you know,
it's a great responsibility,
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I pretty much raised
some of my younger siblings,
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you know, I can tell by
that little out of my different
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experiences in life, how
God has grown me for Ministry,
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even though, you know, I
had no intentions to be in it,
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I just wanted to say
this, is that, God is faithful,
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you know, the call to ministry,
to do something that you don't
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feel equipped to do,
you don't feel worthy to do,
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and yet everyday He
shows you, I can use anybody...
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I just love that about ministry,
like Marquis said, it's work,
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it's challenging sometimes,
you are going to get frustrated,
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but just to see people
give their lives to Christ,
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man! there's nothing like it,
so And that's such an important
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point, you know,
that God can use anybody,
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our viewers need to hear
that, because no matter what
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your circumstances,
no matter where you are,
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God can take you from where you
are and take you on another path
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that you had no idea that
you were going to go on...
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So we praise the Lord for that.
Kean, tell us about yourself,
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Sure, I am a product
of Christian education,
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I thank God for the opportunity
to attend Pine Forge Academy,
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and at that point, I
really started to develop a
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relationship with God and
from the time I graduated,
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I wanted to do God's will
for my life, so I ended up going
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to Oakwood and
studying Social Work,
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and it was such a blessing
just learning how to serve
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the poor, those who are in
need, because I understand that
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this is what Jesus did
when He was on this earth,
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and so I went from there, I
did missionary work for a year
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and then, I did my Masters
in Social Work, and I was a
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Social Worker in D.C. for three
years, first I did Child Welfare
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and then I worked in
an inner city school,
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and learned a lot... how to
deal with all sorts of different
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people from
different circumstances,
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and it has really helped
me to understand God better,
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and as I was working, I started
to hear His voice more clearly,
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as He was leading me, how to
serve Him on a different level,
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so he called me from
there, and although I was very
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reluctant to go to the Seminary,
I finally understood that this
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is what He wanted me to do,
so, as long as it was His will,
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I am going to go for it,
so I went and I realized that
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I am a better person and that
He may have just sent me there
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just to mature me as a
Christian I realized that,
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I didn't really know Him
before, like He wanted me to
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and that I didn't know myself,
so it was a great opportunity,
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I just finished in December,
and I am looking forward to
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furthering my studies so that
I can go into missionary work
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full time...
Praise the Lord, so you,
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you are not looking to pastor,
so you won't be necessarily
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Pastor Kean Baxter,
you'll be... do you want to
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evangelize? Like what is
your goal, do you know yet?
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My focus is on... God does
call some people to pastor,
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and I may at some point...
but, He has laid a burden on me
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for missionary work, I've
had a wonderful opportunity to
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travel to Africa and
Central America, El Salvador,
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Honduras, Guatemala, and it
made an indelible impression
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on my mind to seeing people
hungry for the Word of God,
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many people are very poor and
don't have the basic necessities
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of life.. I've read a book
about the Adventist history and
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about Medical Missionary
work, medical evangelism,
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and this is something
I strongly believe in...
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the gospel and the
health message are supposed to
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go together and both of them
together, have a synergistic
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effect and it makes our
evangelism more powerful,
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because everybody needs to be
healthy, and there are so many
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people... overseas and
even in the inner city,
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who don't understand...
basic understanding of health,
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you know, a lot of people
are dying from heart disease,
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cancer, these things, a
lot of them can be prevented,
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so this is my burden...
Well, good, and I want to come
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back to your burdens
because I think that's really
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important, so thank
you for sharing that...
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Kim Petersen, tell
us about yourself...
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Well my name is Kimberly
Pearson and I am from Maryland,
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I was born and raised,
so shout-out to all of those
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from the DMV area which
is the District, Maryland,
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Virginia, but that's
what we like to call it...
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that's where I was born
and raised and ever since
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I was young, I just
felt a calling on my life,
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my mom used to write these
speeches for me and I would
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stand up and say them in Church,
even from a little girl...
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I preached my first sermon when
I was eight or nine years old
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and from there, they were
like, you know, you are going
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into Ministry but, you know,
I loved Ministry, but I thought
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that Ministry was just a
hobby for me and so, you know,
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I was involved in Church, I
was in Pathfinders, you know,
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shout-out to the Master
Guides, and it was a wonderful
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experience and I went
to Pine Forge Academy,
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where I graduated
from with Kean, we've known
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each other for a long
time, All right... yeah...
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...and from there I went
to Oakwood, strangely enough
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my major initially was Theology,
but I felt like well maybe,
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I don't need a degree
in Ministry to tell people
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about Jesus, because
whatever God calls you to...
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we're called to be a
light, you know, that was fine,
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so I did Elementary Education,
I taught first and second grades
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in Florida Conference at
Jacksonville Adventist Academy
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for about five years, and during
that time, I was working with
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Central States Conference,
doing youth leadership,
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writing plays and productions
for them, you know, just
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doing a lot of speaking,
but I thought Ministry was my
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hobby and then finally
God said, "No, no, honey,
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Ministry is not your
hobby, that's your calling...
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Come on, come on...
That's what I've gifted you with
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and so, from there, I
went to Andrews University,
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Theological Seminary and God...
the call from Oakwood University
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where I am now the
Associate Chaplain there,
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with a team of Chaplains
and I have the privilege of
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ministering to all of
the young ladies on campus
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and it is such a
beautiful, beautiful experience,
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and I would not trade my
job... this ministry or the
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process of being called
to Ministry for anything
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in the world.
Yes, the journey...
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You wouldn't trade the journey,
right, because each of us
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has our own journey...
Sister Jean, tell us about your
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journey... My name
is Jeanne Nikiararu
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Mogusu.. I am the second of four
children. I was born and raised
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in Kenya, East Africa, and
I came to the United States
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when I was an adult...
I came for Graduate School
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and I must admit that
Ministry was never in my cards,
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as they say, it was never
anything that I ever thought
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about because growing up I
never saw women in ministry,
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you know, I never saw
any women in the pulpit,
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so it was never even an inkling
in my life plan and so I went to
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Jackson State University
in Jackson, Mississippi.
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I did my Masters in
Public Policy and Administration
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I went and had a tremendous
time God really blessed me,
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I went to... had a couple
of really great internships,
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went and started my Ph. D.
in Urban and Regional Planning
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had finished my course
work in record... in a year,
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I finished all my Ph. D.
coursework, was working on my
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dissertation...
You're a slouch aren't you...
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well, I was ambitious... I
was ready to get out of school
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because I had always planned,
I would go straight through my
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Ph. D. so that nobody ever
told me to go back to school...
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so that was my life plan and
then, just when I had finished
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my course work, I was
doing my research work,
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my dissertation and then I
started getting this inclination
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of going into Ministry,
and at first I was like,
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"Lord, I am NOT
going into ministry,"
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I've never, you know, seen...
I've never met a female pastor,
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mind you at this point, I
am like, 27, 28 years old,
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so I've never met a female
pastor and never had any notion
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that there were female
pastors, so I was like,
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I am not going to be
the only person... you know,
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being stared down in
a classroom you know,
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You didn't want to be pioneering
I must admit-I am not that brave
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I am not that person,
so, it was a long journey,
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let's just put it that
way, until I buckled down,
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I told the Lord, "You
know, if that's where you want
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me to be," because I
was an international...
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I am an international student,
so if that's where you want
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me to be, you're going
to avail the funds for me
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to go to the Seminary...
The first time my pastor asked
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me to preach a sermon,
was on a Tuesday night,
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the person had cancelled
for Sabbath, and he had,
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you know, multiple
churches, so on that night,
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I had a car accident.. I
was supposed to preach on
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Sabbath... luckily... I
wasn't really badly injured,
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I just had, you
know, minor injuries,
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but that money that I
got from settling my accident
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is actually what
sent me for my first year,
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at the Seminary, so at that
time, I was really confused,
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I was like, "What
on earth is God doing?"
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But it was quite an
interesting take on events,
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I got there and it was a
real struggle because I was
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coming from a place where
it was a Fulbright Scholarship,
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had lots of grants and various
opportunities and literally
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learning to trust God
to do everything for me,
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where I am a financial
freak, I need to know, you know,
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I need for my books to
be balanced and this was the
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first time in my life where
it was like God had to balance
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the books for me... This
was like a walk of faith...
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It was a tremendous walk
of faith and it was an even
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bigger walk of faith
because my family did not quite
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understand what I was doing,
because you can't just go,
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you can't say you're
going from a doctoral program
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and coming, you know, literally
down into a Master's program
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in the name of "doing
what God wants you to do... "
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because logistically, you know,
you cannot... it's just not done
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you know, I remember calling
to the Seminary when I was
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trying to figure out what
to do, and the Program Director
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at that time was just
asking me, he's never had anyone
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do their Post-Doctorate
at the Seminary...
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but God has been
really consistently providing
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and showing me that He has
a plan for me and for my life.
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And that's the important
thing, from each of you,
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I'm hearing that you
might have been on one path,
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but then, God opened your eyes,
and brought you on another path.
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Let's talk a bit...
because I love your stories,
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I love your stories and you
fit right into the whole concept
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of Dare to Dream, you know,
the whole concept of letting
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God lead you to His plan for you
so tell me about Pure Choices...
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what can we expect this
season with Pure Choices...
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I know that you are all
in ministry so that gives you
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a theological foundation,
what gives you the "authority"
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so to speak to
be on Pure Choices?
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What do you think Pastor?
I was just starting to say
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that I have no authority...
to be on Pure Choices,
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it's only Jesus and His grace,
and His mercy that I can even
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sit here, really, when I heard,
that you had asked me to do this
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I really did not want to do
it, frankly because of the past,
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you know in really seeing that,
Oh, you didn't tell me that...
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Oh yeah, oh yeah, I was
really praying about this thing,
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but I felt that God saying,
"Look you are a real person
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who has had real struggles and
now you can give an authentic
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expression of really
what we should be doing...
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and really help somebody
else who is struggling...
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and so that's really
why I decided to do it,
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and it was a struggle between
me and God.. I didn't tell you
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about that... but
you know I worked it out
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and I asked my friends
really to come on with me who
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may have had similar struggles
as well, and really you can
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expect real people who are
pastors now, who have been saved
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by Grace, just presenting
their side and showing you
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how God has really
taken us from that place to...
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and taking us
still... to a better place...
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Because it is a journey,
because it is a process,
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because none of us is
perfect, no one's perfect...
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no one's sitting here and that's
why when I asked you about
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the authority to do it,
no one's sitting here saying,
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"Oh, we've figured it all out...
we're perfect," no, we are
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in process... what
about you, what about you?
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Well, you know part of what
God used to bring me to ministry
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was my discontent with
ministry, you know, growing up
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and listening to pastors
who essentially preach the same
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sermons over and over again,
they would tell you to be clean,
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to be holy, to be pure,
but the sermon never got to
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the "How" part, you
know, it would always be,
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"No, you are not good,
get better, come to the front
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now for the appeal, and you
are coming up for the appeal
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because you know you are not
clean, you know you are not pure
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but you leave the appeal feeling
like, "Well what am I supposed
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to do now?" and as a kid,
all you would do is try harder
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and harder and harder...
but you'd always feel like
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nothing really changed,
and you try to live up to the
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standards and the pressures
that Christianity, you felt,
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placed on you, you know,
that's part of the discontent
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that God used to
bring me to Ministry...
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I felt like, you know,
if I had to just call it,
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we got to go deeper, you know,
and I think one of the issues
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that we struggle with,
especially as young people and
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what we struggle with
growing up, and I mean,
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I can testify for myself,
is that nobody was really
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real with me, you know, I
didn't know what it was like
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for the adults around me,
to show the struggle of the
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Christian walk. I saw the
standard of the Christian walk
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but I never got to
experience the struggle of it
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and so for me, if I
didn't look like them,
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something was wrong with
me, while at the whole time
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I didn't realize that something
was wrong with them too...
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you know and so on this
show, I just want to be real,
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I want young people to see
that, man, we are all struggling
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and it is only by the grace
of God that anybody will be able
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to make pure choices...
And that's such a great point
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because, you know, it's
so important for people to
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understand the
steps, how does Christianity
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translate into everyday
life, you look like you were
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going to say something...
Yeah, I was going to say
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growing up... my father passed
away when I was 17 years old,
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and I was a senior in, you know,
in High School and you know,
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not having my father around as
I began my relationship process
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was major for me... trying
to figure out how to date,
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how did that look like,
what would my dad think of
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this guy... what would he
say to me, and trying to have
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to resolve that and God played
such a big role in being my
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Father and my relationship
counselor and being not God
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but Daddy... and that was
major for me and, you know,
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I didn't start in
ministry fresh out of Oakwood...
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I lived life, you know, and I
dated and I made some mistakes
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and now that I am able to be
in ministry, I am working with
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college students who are
where I was and I know what that
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feels like... and so part of
the reason that I really wanted
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to do this... is to say,
"Hey, you know, I am a woman
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in ministry and I
get it, I've been there,
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I know what it's
like, and I know that God...
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he cares so much about us,
that He's not just our father,
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He's not just Elohim, He's
not just Almighty and Powerful,
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but He's God...
Daddy... who cares about us
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He cares about our heart,
He cares about a heartbreak,
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He cares when we cry, and that's
something I want to convey
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not just to my young
ladies at Oakwood but to
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young ladies across the world.
That's great... Marquis...
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Yeah, I am 33 years of
age, my mom and dad divorced
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when I was 5 years of age,
but they re-married each other
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during my freshman
year in High School
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my little sister, she's 17 years
of age, with her being 17 years
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of age, God really
blessed me to have a sister,
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when I grew up I always
wanted to have a little brother,
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but the thing is... the reason
I wanted a little brother was
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so that I could beat him
up... God said, now hang on,
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I am not going to give
you a little brother but a
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little sister but when I
was in that formative years,
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like about 13 or 14, I
started listening to hip-hop and
00:22:50.39\00:22:52.98
rap music and my mind just
really got caught up with some
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crazy stuff, and so
when my sister was born,
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God then said to me-during this
time I am listening to the bad
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music and He said, "Do
you want your little sister
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to date someone who
listens to that kind of music?"
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With that, that changed my
whole perspective and so, yes,
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my dad is in the
home, my mom is in the home,
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but I am almost 16
years older than my sister,
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So Mariah, my little
sister, she's helped me to be
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accountable, and as I got
accountable with my little
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sister, it has caused me
to change my own lifestyle,
00:23:21.94\00:23:24.49
of course, because
there's things that I want to do
00:23:24.53\00:23:26.84
and I was so focused on it,
and tried to get as many girls
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as I could, my mind was totally
focused on all those things,
00:23:29.41\00:23:31.87
but God changed that perspective
and as He has changed
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my perspective to lead my little
sister, He has also caused me
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to be at my Church
and to tell men and women,
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young men, young women to
be active for Jesus Christ,
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because if not... the
world will sure enough get them.
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So, you know, help out
as He has helped me get
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pure choices, helped all of
us, to develop people more so
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to help share
that to younger people,
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and people our age as well.
Absolutely, God gave you that
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little sister to have
and to interact with a female
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on a certain caring level, I
think, and so, that just changed
00:24:01.36\00:24:06.54
everything for you.
Praise God for that.
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What about you, Kean?
When I got the call from
00:24:08.98\00:24:11.63
Josh, or was it an e-mail,
I knew it was providential
00:24:11.66\00:24:16.72
because just a week before,
I got into a huge discussion
00:24:16.75\00:24:21.77
slash debate with a few
of my friends over Facebook
00:24:21.81\00:24:26.78
on the topic of sex and
there just seemed to be so many
00:24:26.82\00:24:31.76
different views,
and we all grew up...
00:24:31.80\00:24:34.80
born and raised in the
Church, and we still had so many
00:24:34.84\00:24:39.51
different views on the topic,
some of them of course were
00:24:39.55\00:24:44.19
subjective, and not all of them
were Biblical, but I recognized
00:24:44.23\00:24:51.61
that there is just such a
need to be more open and honest
00:24:51.65\00:24:56.21
on this topic like Kory was
saying, unfortunately this has
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been really taboo...
and the older generations
00:25:01.40\00:25:05.47
aren't as open on this
topic that's so important and
00:25:05.51\00:25:09.96
the tendency to be quiet or of
a reserved nature on this topic
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actually produces a
lot of misconceptions...
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and I think that this is exactly
what the devil would like,
00:25:19.33\00:25:22.57
you know, don't talk about it,
pretend like everything is fine,
00:25:22.60\00:25:25.81
meanwhile, we're all
struggling, we're all confused,
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and it breeds a lot of...
just you know, poor choices...
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Poor choices, that's good-I like
that-as opposed to Pure Choices,
00:25:33.94\00:25:40.41
yeah, that's right... and
we cannot have a situation
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where it's taboo to talk about
something that is as pervasive
00:25:43.68\00:25:49.71
as and as much of a blessing
as sex is supposed to be
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in the proper
context. Does anybody have a
00:25:55.43\00:25:58.73
final thought before we go...
just something that you want our
00:25:58.76\00:26:03.19
viewers to know
about Pure Choices...
00:26:03.23\00:26:05.50
I'm going to go with you, Pastor
and put you under the microscope
00:26:05.71\00:26:10.48
right now... Well, I
just want to say that
00:26:10.52\00:26:12.50
Jesus... it's all about Jesus,
you know, it's really, and in my
00:26:12.54\00:26:15.70
journey... through my journey
in which... making pure choices
00:26:15.73\00:26:18.85
and trying to make pure
choices, has all been about
00:26:18.89\00:26:21.15
my relationship with Christ...
and I really want people to
00:26:21.18\00:26:25.48
realize that through this whole
experience on pure choices that
00:26:25.52\00:26:28.38
that's what we are
really trying to bring out...
00:26:28.41\00:26:29.65
you have to get to know Jesus,
you have to get to know Him,
00:26:29.69\00:26:32.33
you have to learn Him,
you have to experience Him,
00:26:32.37\00:26:34.35
because without Him, then
basically you won't want to
00:26:34.38\00:26:36.33
make pure choices... you
won't have a desire to do
00:26:36.37\00:26:38.45
anything of this
nature... you'll be watching and
00:26:38.48\00:26:40.49
say, well I'll make excuses
and I had to be real with myself
00:26:40.53\00:26:43.23
before I got on this show
and say, or program and say,
00:26:43.26\00:26:45.92
I'm going to really do
this, I'm going to make this a
00:26:45.95\00:26:48.04
part of my life... and
really make pure choices...
00:26:48.08\00:26:50.60
so trust me, you do not
want to miss these programs,
00:26:50.63\00:26:53.12
these series on Pure Choices...
You don't want to miss it,
00:26:53.15\00:26:56.84
please tune in... Thank you...
00:26:56.88\00:27:01.84
Just wait until you see
the programs that this team
00:27:05.63\00:27:09.34
has done... they really
demonstrate the practicality
00:27:09.37\00:27:13.20
and relevance of the Bible, as
they deal with sensitive topics.
00:27:13.23\00:27:16.49
You won't want to miss
any of these programs...
00:27:16.52\00:27:19.59
They really had a
profound effect on all of us
00:27:19.62\00:27:22.62
in the control room. We
think that you'll be blessed
00:27:22.65\00:27:25.06
by it too... you
know, some people think that
00:27:25.09\00:27:28.18
well, one sin is worse than
another.. is worse than another,
00:27:28.22\00:27:32.54
but you know what? Sin
is sin... and the things
00:27:32.58\00:27:35.60
that this team does, is
they deal with these issues,
00:27:35.64\00:27:39.36
from a place of God's
ideal... So it's not condemning,
00:27:39.40\00:27:43.09
but it's edifying...
Well, thanks so much for
00:27:43.12\00:27:46.48
tuning in... join us next time.
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It just wouldn't be
the same without you.
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