Hello and welcome to The Missing Peace. 00:00:33.16\00:00:35.26 My name is Jason Bradley 00:00:35.30\00:00:36.77 and our primary host for this program is 00:00:36.80\00:00:38.63 Dr. Nadine Joseph-Collins. 00:00:38.67\00:00:40.37 Dr. Nadine hails from the island of Saint Lucia. 00:00:40.44\00:00:43.44 She's passionate about prayer 00:00:43.47\00:00:45.37 and has been empowering the prayer lives 00:00:45.41\00:00:47.34 of people around the world. 00:00:47.38\00:00:48.71 Dr. Nadine is an Author, Speaker and an affiliate 00:00:48.74\00:00:52.61 of Sanare Life Ministries 00:00:52.65\00:00:54.02 where she works alongside her husband, Nyse Collins. 00:00:54.05\00:00:57.52 Dr. Nadine is going to make our prayer lives go, "Wow!" 00:00:57.55\00:01:00.72 But before she does that, let's have a word of prayer. 00:01:00.76\00:01:03.89 "Dear Heavenly Father, 00:01:03.93\00:01:05.89 we ask for your presence, 00:01:05.93\00:01:07.83 we ask for the presence of the Holy Spirit 00:01:07.86\00:01:09.80 to guide our conversation 00:01:09.86\00:01:12.37 so that you may receive all the honor and the glory. 00:01:12.40\00:01:16.30 We ask that you would please strengthen our prayer lives 00:01:16.37\00:01:20.24 and the prayer lives of our Viewers. 00:01:20.28\00:01:21.61 In Jesus' name we pray, amen. " 00:01:21.64\00:01:23.28 "Amen... amen. " 00:01:23.31\00:01:24.75 So, we've been covering exciting topics... 00:01:24.78\00:01:27.52 what are we going to be talking about today? 00:01:27.55\00:01:31.05 Today, we're going to be talking about 00:01:31.09\00:01:32.99 persistence in praying or Persistent Praying... 00:01:33.02\00:01:35.79 Okay. 00:01:35.82\00:01:37.16 Because the Webster's Dictionary... 00:01:37.19\00:01:39.79 I use dictionaries online a lot 00:01:39.83\00:01:41.76 you know, long ago we would have 00:01:41.80\00:01:43.47 all of these dictionaries there, 00:01:43.50\00:01:45.07 now I just use the ones on Google and stuff 00:01:45.10\00:01:47.57 so the Merriam Webster's Dictionary online 00:01:47.60\00:01:50.01 defines "persistence" as a quality that allows someone 00:01:50.04\00:01:53.41 to continue doing something or trying to do something 00:01:53.44\00:01:57.11 even though it is difficult or opposed by other people. 00:01:57.15\00:02:00.75 Now, interestingly there's a definition there 00:02:00.82\00:02:04.35 for students as well... as it relates to students... 00:02:04.39\00:02:07.92 that definition is that: 00:02:07.96\00:02:09.49 it's the act or fact 00:02:09.52\00:02:10.96 of stubbornly continuing to do something. 00:02:10.99\00:02:13.70 Wait, say that one again. 00:02:13.73\00:02:17.00 The act or fact of stubbornly continuing to do something. 00:02:17.03\00:02:22.10 Okay. 00:02:22.17\00:02:23.51 So they refer to that as "persistence" 00:02:23.54\00:02:25.54 so you do the same thing over and over and over again. 00:02:25.57\00:02:28.01 Hmmm... hmmm... hmmm... hmmm. 00:02:28.04\00:02:29.44 So, that's really what persistence is about. 00:02:29.48\00:02:32.11 It requires patience though 00:02:32.15\00:02:33.98 because just imagine doing the same thing 00:02:34.02\00:02:35.98 over and over and over again. 00:02:36.02\00:02:37.35 Long ago, you'd hear people say, "If... " 00:02:37.39\00:02:39.62 I still hear it sometimes... 00:02:39.65\00:02:40.99 if you do something the same way all the time 00:02:41.02\00:02:43.53 and you get the same results, you shouldn't do it, 00:02:43.56\00:02:45.16 however, when we look at that explanation, 00:02:45.19\00:02:49.10 that's really practice... 00:02:49.13\00:02:50.47 Doing something over and over and over again. 00:02:50.50\00:02:54.64 I think, the other thing you were just saying a minute ago 00:02:54.70\00:02:58.37 is like the definition of insanity 00:02:58.44\00:03:00.58 where you do the same thing over and over and over again 00:03:00.64\00:03:04.31 and expect different results. 00:03:04.35\00:03:05.81 Yes... and that's what people actually say 00:03:05.88\00:03:07.92 but when we look at it on a deep level, 00:03:07.95\00:03:09.92 it's really, really practicing 00:03:09.95\00:03:11.29 because many people who are now popular for certain inventions 00:03:11.32\00:03:15.32 would have done the same thing 00:03:15.36\00:03:17.16 over and over and over and over again... 00:03:17.23\00:03:19.43 failing that it... over and over and over again 00:03:19.46\00:03:21.76 until they got the result that they were looking for 00:03:21.80\00:03:24.43 experiments... and so on... scientists and so on 00:03:24.50\00:03:27.07 now, in our prayer life, we're talking about being persistent, 00:03:27.10\00:03:29.24 being stubborn about something... 00:03:29.27\00:03:32.07 talking about praying about something 00:03:32.11\00:03:35.04 that other people are even opposed to 00:03:35.08\00:03:37.91 because they don't see it the way you see it. 00:03:37.95\00:03:39.61 Hmmm... 00:03:39.65\00:03:40.98 You see, that's what the definition is saying, 00:03:41.02\00:03:42.68 it's trying to do something even though it's difficult 00:03:42.72\00:03:45.75 or opposed by other people 00:03:45.79\00:03:48.69 so, we're looking at our prayer life 00:03:48.72\00:03:51.19 and that act of stubborn praying 00:03:51.26\00:03:52.66 so it requires patience and relentless pursuit. 00:03:52.69\00:03:55.53 Yes. 00:03:55.56\00:03:56.93 A lot of times, sometimes, when a guy is dating a girl 00:03:56.97\00:03:59.73 they'd be like... "Oh, he's so persistent... " 00:03:59.77\00:04:01.50 because sometimes he would come... 00:04:01.54\00:04:03.30 and it doesn't matter how many times you say 00:04:03.34\00:04:04.94 you're not interested, he still keeps coming... 00:04:04.97\00:04:06.31 Hmmm... hmmm... 00:04:06.34\00:04:07.68 You know... and so we look at it as persistence 00:04:07.71\00:04:09.54 and the definition is saying that 00:04:09.58\00:04:10.95 and to be persistent, you have to have a steadfast mind, 00:04:10.98\00:04:13.42 you must be well-grounded 00:04:13.45\00:04:15.08 because for you to be able to keep getting rejected 00:04:15.12\00:04:18.95 about something and going back... 00:04:18.99\00:04:20.39 like going after that girl to date her every time 00:04:20.42\00:04:22.49 and getting rejection and sometimes you hear the stories 00:04:22.52\00:04:25.36 eventually they got married... 00:04:25.39\00:04:27.50 so we see the persistence paying off. 00:04:27.53\00:04:29.56 Yes. 00:04:29.60\00:04:30.97 And so we see persistence here requiring that kind of patience 00:04:31.00\00:04:34.00 and I'm not a parent and neither are you 00:04:34.04\00:04:36.77 but we've heard stories of parents talking about their kids 00:04:36.81\00:04:41.84 they come and ask for something 00:04:41.88\00:04:43.95 and probably the parent is saying, "No" 00:04:44.01\00:04:46.31 and that child will ask and ask and ask 00:04:46.35\00:04:48.62 until... either they embarrass their parents 00:04:48.65\00:04:51.15 if they're in public 00:04:51.19\00:04:52.75 or maybe they throw a temper tantrum 00:04:52.79\00:04:54.76 or something happens and the parent is like, 00:04:54.79\00:04:56.89 "You know what? I'm tired... here have it. " 00:04:56.93\00:04:58.59 Hmmm... hmmm... 00:04:58.63\00:04:59.96 that also is persistence 00:05:00.00\00:05:01.76 though they're testing the parents though 00:05:01.80\00:05:03.47 but it's persistence 00:05:03.50\00:05:04.83 because they're going after that thing stubbornly 00:05:04.87\00:05:07.10 even though the parent is opposing giving it to them 00:05:07.14\00:05:10.61 at the time... and so, I remember as a kid 00:05:10.64\00:05:13.24 asking my dad for something 00:05:13.27\00:05:16.24 but every other time we have a conversation on the phone 00:05:16.28\00:05:19.25 guess what I'd be doing? 00:05:19.28\00:05:20.62 What? 00:05:20.65\00:05:21.98 Reminding him of the thing that I asked for before 00:05:22.02\00:05:23.85 you know, that kind of a thing 00:05:23.89\00:05:25.45 and to the extent that sometimes 00:05:25.52\00:05:27.06 like, when I would be in the same place with him, 00:05:27.09\00:05:29.16 if I would have, let's say, 00:05:29.19\00:05:30.53 asked him to go somewhere with my friends, 00:05:30.56\00:05:31.89 I would not go back and ask again... 00:05:31.93\00:05:33.96 I used to just walk around him 00:05:34.00\00:05:35.90 so every time I walk around him a few times... 00:05:35.96\00:05:38.53 he'd be like, "Okay, go ahead Anna... " 00:05:38.57\00:05:40.10 You know, that kind of a thing, 00:05:40.14\00:05:41.47 I'm sure you have stories of you asking your parents 00:05:41.50\00:05:43.41 for something. 00:05:43.44\00:05:44.77 Oh yeah... I was taking piano lessons... 00:05:44.81\00:05:46.47 my mom had me in piano lessons 00:05:46.51\00:05:48.01 and they were just teaching us like, 00:05:48.04\00:05:49.68 "Row, row, row your boat... " 00:05:49.71\00:05:51.05 I wanted to learn some real songs 00:05:51.08\00:05:52.61 so I asked her to let me quit, 00:05:52.68\00:05:54.28 she would not let me quit so I was persistent 00:05:54.32\00:05:57.02 in trying to get her to let me quit 00:05:57.05\00:06:00.86 and finally, after I wore her down... 00:06:00.89\00:06:02.29 after so many times of saying, 00:06:02.32\00:06:04.39 "Mom, I hate this, let me quit, let me quit, let me quit... " 00:06:04.43\00:06:07.23 she finally let me quit 00:06:07.26\00:06:09.23 and she said, "You're going to regret this when you get older" 00:06:09.26\00:06:12.20 and she was right, because I regret quitting piano lessons. 00:06:12.23\00:06:14.90 Hmmm... hmmm... 00:06:14.94\00:06:16.37 Well, it's not too late... you're here... 00:06:16.40\00:06:18.01 they say, "Where there's life there's hope. " 00:06:18.04\00:06:19.37 That's true. 00:06:19.41\00:06:20.74 And you still have youth on your side so that's okay. 00:06:20.78\00:06:22.44 You know, but persistence in prayer 00:06:22.48\00:06:24.95 can be something that can draw you out 00:06:24.98\00:06:27.42 or it could even be embarrassing 00:06:27.45\00:06:28.82 because if we look at the definition of persistence 00:06:28.85\00:06:31.45 where you know you're doing something relentlessly, 00:06:31.49\00:06:34.06 you're doing something stubbornly... 00:06:34.09\00:06:35.42 other people are opposed to it because probably they're saying, 00:06:35.46\00:06:37.96 "You're praying about that thing so long... 00:06:37.99\00:06:39.36 and nothing is happening... " 00:06:39.39\00:06:41.13 you remember, when Noah was preparing for 00:06:41.16\00:06:47.10 the flood... when he was building the ark 00:06:47.14\00:06:48.80 and he looked like a fool to everybody 00:06:48.84\00:06:50.67 they'd be like, "What are you doing?" 00:06:50.71\00:06:52.47 And he keeps saying, 00:06:52.54\00:06:53.88 "There's going to be rain, there's going to be rain... " 00:06:53.91\00:06:55.24 and he was sure about it... 00:06:55.28\00:06:56.61 he was persistent about that belief that he had 00:06:56.64\00:06:58.51 but he was made a fool of because people thought, 00:06:58.55\00:07:00.85 "This was a mad man... " 00:07:00.88\00:07:02.32 and so, sometimes in our prayer lives, 00:07:02.35\00:07:03.69 there are things that we are praying about 00:07:03.72\00:07:05.35 because God has placed it in our heart 00:07:05.39\00:07:07.02 but when people look at us in the waiting process, 00:07:07.06\00:07:09.92 they think that we are fools, 00:07:09.96\00:07:11.29 you see. 00:07:11.33\00:07:12.66 Yeah, that's why we also don't need to disclose 00:07:12.69\00:07:14.96 our dreams... our visions or anything like that to people 00:07:15.00\00:07:18.67 because sometimes, they have their own... 00:07:18.70\00:07:21.44 because they can't see themselves doing it, 00:07:21.47\00:07:24.14 they don't want to see you doing it 00:07:24.17\00:07:26.34 or they want to crush your dream, 00:07:26.37\00:07:28.11 that's why we take it to God... 00:07:28.14\00:07:29.84 God can open a door that no man can close. 00:07:29.88\00:07:32.48 And the thing is, maybe we also need to surround ourselves 00:07:32.51\00:07:36.18 with people who believe like us 00:07:36.22\00:07:37.69 because sometimes, when you have these people around 00:07:37.72\00:07:40.32 who believe with you and pray with you, 00:07:40.36\00:07:42.56 your dream can be realized 00:07:42.59\00:07:44.23 so we just need to be mindful 00:07:44.26\00:07:45.79 of the people that we have in our lives... 00:07:45.83\00:07:47.46 the people that we share our dreams with 00:07:47.50\00:07:49.00 you know, that kind of a thing 00:07:49.03\00:07:50.53 and one stories that really highlights this 00:07:50.57\00:07:53.17 kind of persistent situation when it comes our prayer life 00:07:53.20\00:07:57.51 is in Luke 11. 00:07:57.54\00:07:59.04 And so we pull that there where we see the model of prayer 00:07:59.07\00:08:03.51 or how prayer was modeled from a parable that Jesus told 00:08:03.55\00:08:07.82 when He was speaking to His disciples 00:08:07.85\00:08:09.88 so, He really wanted them to get that mental picture 00:08:09.92\00:08:13.15 and when I read this story 00:08:13.19\00:08:14.66 I begin to visualize and imagine in my mind... 00:08:14.69\00:08:17.69 I begin to make scripts and movies in my mind 00:08:17.73\00:08:20.66 just seeing the picture of what Jesus is describing here. 00:08:20.70\00:08:23.77 He says... in the middle of the night... 00:08:23.80\00:08:25.33 a friend goes and knocks on the door of another friend... 00:08:25.37\00:08:29.10 Hmmm... Hmmm... 00:08:29.14\00:08:30.47 He didn't just knock on the door, 00:08:30.51\00:08:32.11 let's just use our imaginations now, 00:08:32.14\00:08:34.91 according to the Pastor... the sanctified imagination... 00:08:34.94\00:08:37.31 so he went banging on the door. 00:08:37.35\00:08:38.68 Jason: Hmmm... hmmm... 00:08:38.71\00:08:40.05 Nadine: You like your sleep. 00:08:40.08\00:08:41.42 Jason: Absolutely. 00:08:41.45\00:08:42.78 Nadine: So you could imaging somebody coming... 00:08:42.82\00:08:44.35 knocking on your door at midnight 00:08:44.39\00:08:46.15 or any time after that 00:08:46.19\00:08:47.52 and you didn't expect them, how would you feel? 00:08:47.56\00:08:51.09 I'd be frustrated... depending on the situation... 00:08:51.13\00:08:54.53 Depending on the situation... 00:08:54.56\00:08:55.90 so, I remember a time while canvassing in Canada 00:08:55.93\00:08:59.20 we would go and knock on people's doors 00:08:59.23\00:09:01.70 and, of course, sometimes during the summer, 00:09:01.77\00:09:04.01 the sun sets very late, after 9... almost 10... 00:09:04.04\00:09:06.24 and we would go and knock on these people's doors 00:09:06.27\00:09:08.74 and sometimes, these parents would come to the door 00:09:08.78\00:09:11.21 and let us know, "Hey, my kids are sleeping 00:09:11.25\00:09:13.85 and you just rang the bell... " 00:09:13.88\00:09:16.05 and just bang that door in your face, 00:09:16.08\00:09:18.32 because we were knocking on their doors 00:09:18.35\00:09:20.52 at a time that wasn't convenient for them... 00:09:20.56\00:09:22.42 if we had gone earlier in the day 00:09:22.46\00:09:23.79 they would have been different, 00:09:23.83\00:09:25.16 now, here is this friend going to his friend's house 00:09:25.19\00:09:28.80 after midnight... thereabout... knocking on the door 00:09:28.83\00:09:32.50 not because he was in need 00:09:32.53\00:09:34.70 but because a visitor came to his house that night unexpected 00:09:34.74\00:09:38.97 and he had no food to give the visitor 00:09:39.01\00:09:41.24 and the visitor was hungry 00:09:41.28\00:09:42.61 so, this friend continues to knock 00:09:42.64\00:09:45.28 and I could almost imagine being at the bottom... 00:09:45.31\00:09:48.38 they may be knocking... 00:09:48.42\00:09:49.75 thinking of the houses that were built 00:09:49.78\00:09:51.15 long ago, and I remember the ones in Greece where they have 00:09:51.19\00:09:54.72 they're really on the top there and you can see... 00:09:54.76\00:09:56.89 and this guy kept knocking and knocking 00:09:56.93\00:09:59.06 and his friend is looking down eventually, maybe... 00:09:59.09\00:10:02.76 after the wife maybe says, "You know, somebody's there 00:10:02.83\00:10:05.80 and it sounds like our neighbor... " 00:10:05.83\00:10:07.17 we don't know what the relationship was like 00:10:07.20\00:10:09.57 with the wife and the neighbor but we know that 00:10:09.60\00:10:12.37 for him to have gone to knock on that man's door, 00:10:12.41\00:10:15.11 he will... at that hour of the night 00:10:15.14\00:10:17.38 and to ask for food for a stranger, 00:10:17.41\00:10:19.61 it means that they may have been pretty good friends 00:10:19.65\00:10:21.18 or something, you know, 00:10:21.22\00:10:22.62 and he probably knew that the person's pantry had food 00:10:22.65\00:10:25.15 maybe he would have been blessed from the food before, who knows, 00:10:25.19\00:10:29.09 but the thing is, he went knocking 00:10:29.12\00:10:31.16 and knocking and knocking and the host now... 00:10:31.19\00:10:32.99 which is the friend who goes to knock... 00:10:33.03\00:10:35.53 he didn't think, "Hey, you know what? 00:10:35.56\00:10:38.00 I know you're really hungry, I don't have any food... 00:10:38.03\00:10:41.07 but can we just wait for the morning, 00:10:41.10\00:10:43.87 I'll try to get you something in the morning, 00:10:43.91\00:10:45.77 he bypassed all sorts of rationale 00:10:45.81\00:10:49.28 in his attempt to want to please his guest so much 00:10:49.31\00:10:52.51 and give them food... that he went did that to his friend. 00:10:52.55\00:10:55.32 Now the friend may have been in bed sleeping... 00:10:55.35\00:10:57.65 the wife... you could imagine... 00:10:57.69\00:10:59.02 maybe the wife had a baby a few months ago, 00:10:59.05\00:11:00.69 "Hey, my wife is sleeping... the baby is sleeping... " 00:11:00.72\00:11:03.09 and so on... but he kept on knocking 00:11:03.12\00:11:05.16 until the friend finally got frustrated enough 00:11:05.19\00:11:07.46 to open that door and give him some food. 00:11:07.50\00:11:10.23 Now, the thing about it is that 00:11:10.27\00:11:12.73 this guy kept knocking on somebody's door for food... 00:11:12.77\00:11:15.94 not for himself... but for somebody else... 00:11:15.97\00:11:18.44 and so, when we're thinking about our prayer life, 00:11:18.47\00:11:21.91 we are thinking about the whole issue of intercession 00:11:21.94\00:11:25.31 and so on... 00:11:25.38\00:11:26.92 but one of the things I could imagine happening there 00:11:26.98\00:11:29.48 is the friend saying to him, 00:11:29.52\00:11:30.85 "Hey, can't you wait for tomorrow morning?" 00:11:30.89\00:11:32.42 I mean, my door is already locked... 00:11:32.45\00:11:34.66 I can't open it now... " and so on 00:11:34.69\00:11:36.62 and he may be saying, "No, no, no... 00:11:36.66\00:11:38.53 somebody is there... they need to eat now. " 00:11:38.56\00:11:40.60 But he is doing all of that on behalf of somebody else, 00:11:40.63\00:11:45.43 you know, the friend may have explained 00:11:45.47\00:11:47.04 all kinds of things to him 00:11:47.07\00:11:48.87 but the problem highlights 00:11:48.90\00:11:50.61 what Christ was trying to teach the disciples... 00:11:50.64\00:11:54.41 is that there is beauty and there is a reward 00:11:54.44\00:11:58.15 when we are persistent in praying 00:11:58.18\00:12:00.45 because he gave all that story 00:12:00.48\00:12:02.68 and, of course, we can create the image in our mind 00:12:02.72\00:12:05.02 but the whole point was, 00:12:05.05\00:12:06.39 "Hey, you need to be persistent in praying... " 00:12:06.42\00:12:09.19 he said... even if that friend did not want to open that door, 00:12:09.22\00:12:13.23 because 00:12:13.26\00:12:14.86 his friend was so persistent in knocking on the door, 00:12:14.90\00:12:18.07 he had no choice but to open that door... 00:12:18.10\00:12:20.94 he felt compelled to open that door 00:12:20.97\00:12:23.07 so that he could give the food to his friend 00:12:23.10\00:12:26.17 for the visitor who had just come 00:12:26.24\00:12:28.38 and so, Luke 11:8 says, "I tell you this... though... " 00:12:28.41\00:12:31.51 that's what Jesus said to the disciples, 00:12:31.55\00:12:33.15 "though he won't do it for the friendship's sake, 00:12:33.21\00:12:37.25 if you keep knocking long enough, 00:12:37.29\00:12:39.79 he will get up and give you whatever you need 00:12:39.82\00:12:42.19 because of your shameless persistence. " 00:12:42.22\00:12:44.39 That's the New Living Translation... 00:12:44.43\00:12:46.53 you see, and so he probably didn't do it for the friendship, 00:12:46.56\00:12:50.07 he probably did it for peace 00:12:50.10\00:12:51.43 because you want to go back to sleep. 00:12:51.47\00:12:52.80 That's like the child nagging the parent... 00:12:52.83\00:12:55.14 just so you could keep quiet, they will give it to you 00:12:55.17\00:12:57.64 so you can just go back to playing, 00:12:57.67\00:12:59.01 you know, that kind of persistence there 00:12:59.04\00:13:01.68 and it reminds me a little bit of Hannah 00:13:01.71\00:13:04.38 because Hannah was purposeful 00:13:04.41\00:13:06.82 and also persistent in her prayer 00:13:06.85\00:13:08.32 when we spoke about her purposeful praying. 00:13:08.35\00:13:12.49 You know, she was also persistent... 00:13:12.52\00:13:14.26 she didn't stop when she asked God for that child, 00:13:14.29\00:13:17.03 she kept on praying with purpose persistently 00:13:17.06\00:13:20.76 until God answered her 00:13:20.80\00:13:22.16 and so, the history of intercession 00:13:22.20\00:13:24.57 highlighted in this parable is also important 00:13:24.63\00:13:27.24 you see, in that parable of Luke 11:5 to 8 00:13:27.27\00:13:31.07 because interceding for others is a big part 00:13:31.14\00:13:34.94 of our own prayer experience. 00:13:34.98\00:13:37.85 A lot of times we think it's just about praying for ourselves 00:13:37.88\00:13:40.95 praying for our families, 00:13:40.98\00:13:42.58 praying for our loved ones and so on 00:13:42.62\00:13:45.25 but prayer... a big part of growing in prayer... 00:13:45.29\00:13:48.56 a big part of being able to develop that spiritual muscle 00:13:48.59\00:13:52.69 the spiritual of muscles of praying 00:13:52.73\00:13:54.26 is really when you take time to pray for other people 00:13:54.30\00:13:58.13 and that is what this parable actually demonstrates... 00:13:58.17\00:14:02.20 praying for somebody else, pushing for somebody else, 00:14:02.24\00:14:06.27 knocking for somebody else 00:14:06.31\00:14:07.94 as if you're doing it for yourself 00:14:07.98\00:14:10.45 and that's what this friend did, 00:14:10.48\00:14:12.88 he did it as if his life depended on it 00:14:12.91\00:14:15.32 or his family's life depended on it... 00:14:15.38\00:14:17.65 when really... he was really knocking for 00:14:17.69\00:14:19.95 a stranger who came unannounced 00:14:19.99\00:14:21.89 and so we really need to look at that story, you see, 00:14:21.92\00:14:25.19 there are many of us who will not take time to do that, 00:14:25.23\00:14:28.36 like, when was the last time we actually prayed for somebody 00:14:28.40\00:14:31.07 so much... as if our own life depended on it? 00:14:31.10\00:14:33.70 We prayed for somebody's healing 00:14:33.74\00:14:35.80 from a sickness or disease 00:14:35.84\00:14:38.17 as if it was our own body that was sick, 00:14:38.21\00:14:40.78 when was the last time we prayed 00:14:40.84\00:14:43.11 for somebody who had financial difficulties 00:14:43.14\00:14:45.75 as if our bank account was in the red? 00:14:45.78\00:14:47.88 When was the last time we prayed 00:14:47.92\00:14:50.42 for the children of our neighbors or our friends 00:14:50.45\00:14:53.46 anybody's children... 00:14:53.49\00:14:54.86 as if it was our own children who were wayward? 00:14:54.89\00:14:57.56 And so, that's the kind of intercessory prayer 00:14:57.59\00:15:00.26 we see happening here, bold prayers... 00:15:00.30\00:15:03.26 because the actions of that guy to knock on his neighbor's door 00:15:03.30\00:15:06.50 at that hour of the night for a stranger 00:15:06.53\00:15:08.97 to that person... 00:15:09.00\00:15:10.34 his unannounced visitor was bold... you see, 00:15:10.37\00:15:15.34 it would have even caused problems 00:15:15.38\00:15:16.88 with their friendship the following day 00:15:16.91\00:15:18.95 because somebody might get really mad... 00:15:18.98\00:15:20.98 "Hey, you disturbed my sleep... " 00:15:21.02\00:15:22.48 you know, that kind of a thing 00:15:22.52\00:15:23.89 so, we need to look at this parable 00:15:23.92\00:15:27.72 that God has really brought to light there with the disciples 00:15:27.76\00:15:31.36 and see how it can help us in persisting in our prayer life, 00:15:31.39\00:15:34.96 not just for us, but for others 00:15:35.00\00:15:37.33 because persistent praying is unselfish praying 00:15:37.37\00:15:40.97 and that's what this parable highlights there. 00:15:41.00\00:15:44.57 It's like, "I want God to respond 00:15:44.61\00:15:47.64 even though it's not for me" 00:15:47.68\00:15:49.78 and I remember one of my friends... 00:15:49.81\00:15:52.91 she got... she lost eight babies... 00:15:52.95\00:15:55.72 some... she lost them in stillbirth, 00:15:55.75\00:15:58.42 others of them, they were born and so on... 00:15:58.45\00:16:01.72 but she eight babies 00:16:01.76\00:16:03.09 and I remember when she was pregnant the ninth time, 00:16:03.12\00:16:05.49 about nine of us in our ministry got together... 00:16:05.53\00:16:08.13 we all have different ministries 00:16:08.16\00:16:10.40 but once in a while we would get together to pray 00:16:10.43\00:16:12.43 but this time, we got together to pray for her 00:16:12.47\00:16:14.80 because she was still having some complications 00:16:14.84\00:16:17.11 with that baby, 00:16:17.17\00:16:18.67 and that night, I remember one of our friends praying 00:16:18.71\00:16:22.58 and he cried when he prayed and he said to God... 00:16:22.61\00:16:26.41 these are nine of us here with nine different ministries... 00:16:26.45\00:16:29.48 "If you do not answer this prayer... 00:16:29.55\00:16:31.59 if this child does not come to life, 00:16:31.62\00:16:33.59 nine of us would be discouraged in our ministries... 00:16:33.62\00:16:37.06 and all of these people that we have to influence and impact... 00:16:37.09\00:16:40.33 because of this baby dying... " 00:16:40.40\00:16:42.80 so we all agreed in prayer that, 00:16:42.83\00:16:45.20 "Hey, Lord, you have to bring this baby to term... 00:16:45.23\00:16:48.44 we're tired of death... our friend is not a cemetery, 00:16:48.47\00:16:51.64 we're tired of seeing death... " 00:16:51.67\00:16:54.44 and so, we really petitioned God 00:16:54.51\00:16:55.84 and, you know, tears flowing and everything... 00:16:55.88\00:16:57.75 and God was so good... that we were able to see that baby born, 00:16:57.78\00:17:02.88 we were able to dedicate him and now he is growing strong 00:17:02.92\00:17:07.02 and sometimes I say to him, "You're too strong... " 00:17:07.06\00:17:09.42 because when he was in the womb I remember Roger praying 00:17:09.46\00:17:12.96 that God would make him strong... he's very strong... 00:17:12.99\00:17:16.46 you see, because the thing about it is 00:17:16.50\00:17:18.77 that we are all connected to a common mission 00:17:18.80\00:17:22.14 we all had the same purpose and we are persistent 00:17:22.17\00:17:25.47 that that baby must be brought to term 00:17:25.51\00:17:27.28 and E.M. Bounds says... or encourages us to ask... 00:17:27.31\00:17:30.98 he said, "But to 'asking' we must add 'seeking... '" 00:17:31.01\00:17:34.65 and you know, when you're seeking... 00:17:34.68\00:17:36.52 that means, you are trying to find something 00:17:36.55\00:17:37.95 somebody says, "I'm looking for a job... 00:17:37.99\00:17:39.32 I'm seeking employment" 00:17:39.35\00:17:40.69 it means, you are relentless about it, 00:17:40.72\00:17:42.66 you are very deliberate, you are pursuant... 00:17:42.72\00:17:44.96 you're going and you're going and you're going... looking... 00:17:44.99\00:17:47.30 he said, "So in addition to asking, we need to seek... 00:17:47.33\00:17:50.53 and in addition to seeking, 00:17:50.57\00:17:52.13 we must pass into the full-force effort of knocking. " 00:17:52.17\00:17:55.64 So, that's what happened with this guy, 00:17:55.67\00:17:58.27 he went to his friend, of course, seeking his friend, 00:17:58.31\00:18:01.51 but in our own experiences... and then he was knocking... 00:18:01.54\00:18:04.41 so he says, "Don't just ask, you need to begin to seek 00:18:04.45\00:18:07.32 and then you have to be full-force knocking... 00:18:07.35\00:18:09.02 you need to knock... " 00:18:09.05\00:18:10.39 and that's what we did, we knocked... 00:18:10.42\00:18:11.79 so we had spent scores of prayer sessions... 00:18:12.05\00:18:14.42 lifting them up and that Friday night 00:18:14.46\00:18:17.06 when we prayed... 00:18:17.09\00:18:19.19 I believe that Friday night God really heard us 00:18:19.23\00:18:21.30 because tears... people cried to God as if 00:18:21.33\00:18:25.10 that child depended on their own marriage... 00:18:25.13\00:18:28.84 that child depended upon... 00:18:28.90\00:18:30.24 their own ability to continue to trust God... 00:18:30.27\00:18:32.91 that God could deliver... and stuff like that 00:18:32.94\00:18:35.71 and I remember, on my Facebook Group... 00:18:35.74\00:18:37.68 I have a Facebook Group called: The Prayer Chamber 7:14 00:18:37.71\00:18:41.22 like, Chapter 7 verse 14... but: The Prayer Chamber 7:14 00:18:41.25\00:18:44.69 and one young lady put a question there to us 00:18:44.72\00:18:47.66 because there we're only posting about prayer... 00:18:47.69\00:18:50.56 either prayer requests... 00:18:50.59\00:18:52.26 praise reports of answered prayer... 00:18:52.29\00:18:54.20 names about prayer... thoughts about prayer... 00:18:54.23\00:18:56.36 and one young lady put a question there... 00:18:56.40\00:18:58.47 she asked us, "What do you do when you pray for others 00:18:58.50\00:19:02.44 and God answers them but He doesn't answer you?" 00:19:02.47\00:19:04.77 So, we said to her, "You know what? 00:19:04.81\00:19:08.38 You keep on praying... 00:19:08.44\00:19:09.78 as hard as it might be, you need to keep on praying 00:19:09.81\00:19:12.41 because I think that if you're praying for others 00:19:12.48\00:19:15.65 and God is answering their prayers... 00:19:15.68\00:19:17.02 it means your answers are coming too. " 00:19:17.05\00:19:18.39 It means God is in the neighborhood answering prayers 00:19:18.42\00:19:21.42 and you need to be persistent... " 00:19:21.46\00:19:23.09 so she got a lot of encouragement... 00:19:23.12\00:19:25.33 "Keep praying... when we pray for others 00:19:25.36\00:19:27.60 God also has answered our prayers... " 00:19:27.63\00:19:29.80 and I think, part of that is that God wants to see how... 00:19:29.83\00:19:36.71 first of all... relentless we are... 00:19:36.74\00:19:39.21 how much we are willing to, you know, 00:19:39.27\00:19:41.68 persist in praying for other people... 00:19:41.74\00:19:43.98 and how genuine are we in continuing to pray for others 00:19:44.01\00:19:47.32 when we ourselves are not getting answers to our prayers. 00:19:47.35\00:19:50.52 I remember, I prayed for a friend of mine 00:19:50.55\00:19:52.55 sometime last year, 00:19:52.62\00:19:53.96 we had a powerful prayer session, 00:19:53.99\00:19:55.32 the day we prayed... 00:19:55.36\00:19:57.53 she texted me the following day 00:19:57.56\00:19:59.36 and said... that same day about two hours later, 00:19:59.39\00:20:01.10 she got a call for this big opportunity... 00:20:01.13\00:20:03.57 it was not a day later another big opportunity came 00:20:03.60\00:20:06.70 and I was there and I said to Him, 00:20:06.74\00:20:08.20 "I'm so happy you're answering our prayers, 00:20:08.24\00:20:09.70 I'm waiting for my answers too... " 00:20:09.74\00:20:11.64 because it gave me encouragement 00:20:11.67\00:20:13.61 "because if we prayed there together 00:20:13.64\00:20:15.51 and we brought up these requests to You, 00:20:15.54\00:20:17.71 we ask You for Your guidance and Your leading and direction 00:20:17.75\00:20:20.82 You are opening these doors for her, 00:20:20.85\00:20:22.18 that means You have some doors to open for me too, 00:20:22.22\00:20:23.99 I'm waiting... " 00:20:24.05\00:20:25.39 I was waiting... expecting something from Him 00:20:25.42\00:20:27.59 because He was answering my friend's prayers 00:20:27.62\00:20:30.03 so, many times we get discouraged praying for people, 00:20:30.06\00:20:32.73 because He's answering their prayers and not ours 00:20:32.76\00:20:35.40 but that should really keep us encouraged. 00:20:35.46\00:20:37.20 That's true, especially because He is answering our prayers 00:20:37.23\00:20:40.04 by answering their prayers... 00:20:40.07\00:20:41.70 if we're praying for other people 00:20:41.74\00:20:43.17 and we're seeing Him work in their lives... 00:20:43.20\00:20:45.44 He's answering our prayers. 00:20:45.47\00:20:46.88 Yes, and that's why it's a test of character... 00:20:46.94\00:20:48.98 you see, the blessings that God has for you... 00:20:49.01\00:20:50.98 they're not contingent upon the blessing that He has for me 00:20:51.01\00:20:54.68 or anybody else, 00:20:54.72\00:20:56.05 so sometimes we get a little confused 00:20:56.08\00:20:58.19 because we think... "Oh, He's blessing them... 00:20:58.22\00:21:00.52 He's answering their prayers... He's not answering mine 00:21:00.56\00:21:02.16 but what we don't realize 00:21:02.19\00:21:03.53 is that, whatever God is doing for them 00:21:03.56\00:21:05.59 does not prevent God from doing what He has to do for you 00:21:05.63\00:21:08.56 because the truth of the matter is... 00:21:08.60\00:21:10.97 where these blessings come from, there is so much more. 00:21:11.00\00:21:13.47 We say that, "there's so much more where that came from... " 00:21:13.54\00:21:16.50 so, that's why we don't even need to waste time 00:21:16.54\00:21:19.04 being jealous of people's blessings 00:21:19.07\00:21:20.64 because according to 00:21:20.68\00:21:23.04 how we interpret the Word of God 00:21:23.08\00:21:25.51 and the blessings that He has in store for all of us, 00:21:25.55\00:21:27.38 is that there are blessings that just have our names on it, 00:21:27.42\00:21:30.59 nobody can take the blessing that God has for you 00:21:30.62\00:21:33.66 and the blessings that God has for you 00:21:33.69\00:21:35.89 will not prevent Him from blessing His other child 00:21:35.92\00:21:38.56 or prevent Him from blessing anybody else 00:21:38.59\00:21:40.70 because He has so much more 00:21:40.76\00:21:43.57 where all of these blessings came from 00:21:43.60\00:21:45.13 that we need to begin to rejoice with others 00:21:45.17\00:21:47.64 when God actually answers their prayers 00:21:47.67\00:21:49.24 versus being upset and so we need to be diligent... 00:21:49.27\00:21:53.01 Absolutely. 00:21:53.04\00:21:54.38 I remember one of my friends, Gloria, 00:21:54.41\00:21:57.05 she's an older friend of mine... a mentor 00:21:57.08\00:21:59.65 and for a long time, like... 00:21:59.71\00:22:02.85 in fact, when I was in that prayer group, 00:22:02.88\00:22:04.52 I was the only unmarried person and also the youngest person 00:22:04.55\00:22:09.16 and for a long time she carried that burden to the group 00:22:09.19\00:22:13.76 every time we met 00:22:13.80\00:22:15.13 because we would be doing our individual ministries 00:22:15.16\00:22:17.43 but then would come together, 00:22:17.47\00:22:18.80 when we come together, she insisted every time 00:22:18.83\00:22:21.74 that the group prayed for me about me getting married 00:22:21.77\00:22:24.47 it was like, she was carrying that burden 00:22:24.51\00:22:26.64 for me, and it was something that was dear to her heart 00:22:26.68\00:22:30.51 that she had to see it happen, you know, 00:22:30.55\00:22:33.28 and so, one time she had heart surgery 00:22:33.31\00:22:35.58 but when she got back into the country... 00:22:35.62\00:22:37.72 when we met for the first time after that... 00:22:37.75\00:22:39.75 again she insisted, "Hey, we need to pray for this child" 00:22:39.79\00:22:44.06 and she would have them surround me and pray for me 00:22:44.09\00:22:46.83 because it was something that was on her heart... 00:22:46.90\00:22:49.56 something that was weighing on her spirit 00:22:49.63\00:22:52.30 on my behalf... 00:22:52.33\00:22:53.97 and so, that's why sometimes when we are praying for others, 00:22:54.04\00:22:56.91 we need to have that sort of burden... just like her 00:22:56.94\00:22:59.37 in carrying other people's burdens with us... 00:22:59.44\00:23:02.61 the Bible says, "Share ye one another's burdens" 00:23:02.64\00:23:05.78 and that's what we can do, 00:23:05.81\00:23:07.38 we can share in the burden in praying for these people, 00:23:07.42\00:23:09.88 helping them to carry that load, 00:23:09.92\00:23:11.92 being able to have that strength to carry on and so on... 00:23:11.95\00:23:14.42 and so, if we can't do our part physically, 00:23:14.46\00:23:17.06 if we cannot help provide for their needs and so on, 00:23:17.09\00:23:20.13 we can always go to God in prayer... seeking Him 00:23:20.16\00:23:23.10 so that He can continue to bless and take care of them and so on 00:23:23.13\00:23:26.90 and sometimes we are waiting for God to bless us in certain ways 00:23:26.94\00:23:30.64 or we have been praying about something for decades 00:23:30.67\00:23:32.77 and people are saying, "I'm tired for praying... 00:23:32.81\00:23:34.91 I've been praying about this forever... " 00:23:34.94\00:23:36.28 but what you need to do... 00:23:36.31\00:23:37.65 one of my favorite songs that I minister is, "Pray On... " 00:23:37.68\00:23:40.15 we need to continue to pray 00:23:40.18\00:23:42.38 because that's where the battle is won... 00:23:42.45\00:23:44.09 that's where we get the victory 00:23:44.15\00:23:45.62 but we want to give up, like you said earlier... 00:23:45.65\00:23:47.86 we give up before the blessing actually comes... 00:23:47.92\00:23:49.89 the thing is... 00:23:49.92\00:23:51.26 "Blessings delayed are not blessings denied!" 00:23:51.29\00:23:53.46 and so we need to continue in prayer... 00:23:53.50\00:23:55.96 and another story, I think, 00:23:56.00\00:23:57.93 that really highlights this idea of persistent praying, 00:23:57.97\00:24:01.84 is the story of the Canaanite women in Matthew 15:21 to 28 00:24:01.87\00:24:05.74 in that story, this lady goes to Jesus... 00:24:05.77\00:24:10.88 Jesus had just gone to a new town 00:24:10.91\00:24:12.91 and according to the account of Mark, 00:24:12.95\00:24:14.92 He went into a house... 00:24:14.95\00:24:16.99 but He didn't want people to know that He was there 00:24:17.02\00:24:19.29 but somehow she found out that he was there... 00:24:19.32\00:24:23.22 she's a mother... so this mother goes to Jesus 00:24:23.26\00:24:27.10 and asks Jesus to come 00:24:27.13\00:24:29.33 and deliver her daughter who was demon possessed, 00:24:29.36\00:24:31.93 a Canaanite woman goes to Jesus 00:24:32.00\00:24:34.57 asking Him that, 00:24:34.60\00:24:35.94 the disciples are like, "What's happening?" 00:24:35.97\00:24:38.17 They send the woman away, 00:24:38.21\00:24:39.54 they're asking Him to send the woman away actually 00:24:39.57\00:24:42.38 and stuff... because the Canaanite woman found Him 00:24:42.44\00:24:45.38 and she came crying, "Lord, Son of David, have mercy on me, 00:24:45.41\00:24:48.72 my daughter is suffering terribly from demon possession" 00:24:48.75\00:24:52.02 pause... 00:24:52.05\00:24:53.39 the woman continues to follow Jesus 00:24:53.42\00:24:55.59 and His disciples down the street 00:24:55.62\00:24:58.13 because in the eyes of the disciples, 00:24:58.16\00:25:00.60 Jesus shouldn't help her in the first place 00:25:00.63\00:25:02.33 because she's a Canaanite... she's unclean... 00:25:02.36\00:25:03.97 she's a Gentile... you don't attend to this woman, 00:25:04.03\00:25:06.13 many things happened... that story is really a big story 00:25:06.20\00:25:12.27 but one of the things that we can take from it 00:25:12.31\00:25:14.51 when it comes to persistence in prayer 00:25:14.54\00:25:16.04 is that the woman knelt down before Jesus... 00:25:16.08\00:25:18.98 and she began to scream out, "LORD! Help me!" 00:25:19.01\00:25:21.88 You could imagine that scene, "Help me!" 00:25:21.95\00:25:24.89 Yes, yes... 00:25:24.92\00:25:26.25 Then He said... it's not His place 00:25:26.29\00:25:28.72 and talked about "tossing the food to the dogs" 00:25:28.79\00:25:30.66 and she said, "You know what? 00:25:30.69\00:25:32.03 it's okay Lord, yes... " 00:25:32.06\00:25:33.40 "Yes Lord... " she said, 00:25:33.43\00:25:34.76 "even the dogs eat crumbs 00:25:34.80\00:25:36.13 that fall from the Master's table. " 00:25:36.16\00:25:38.00 So, there this woman is humbling herself before God... 00:25:38.03\00:25:40.77 she's crying out to Him... 00:25:40.80\00:25:42.24 He's giving her the explanation that the Jews would like to hear 00:25:42.27\00:25:45.27 the explanation that the disciples would like to hear... 00:25:45.31\00:25:48.14 "She's a Gentile... don't attend to her... " 00:25:48.18\00:25:50.01 but she said, "You know the dogs... " 00:25:50.05\00:25:52.05 she said, "That's fine... " 00:25:52.08\00:25:53.55 she said, "Even the dogs... dear Jesus... " 00:25:53.58\00:25:55.88 so she was so persistent in her request... 00:25:55.92\00:25:57.75 saying to Him, "Lord, I don't mind... 00:25:57.82\00:25:59.59 I don't have to sit at the table with the children... 00:25:59.62\00:26:02.39 I don't have to even... 00:26:02.42\00:26:03.76 I just need the crumbs that fall... " 00:26:03.79\00:26:05.76 and the Bible says that, Jesus said to her, 00:26:05.79\00:26:08.20 "You know what? Woman, you have great faith... 00:26:08.23\00:26:10.60 your request is granted... " 00:26:10.63\00:26:12.10 He granted her request... 00:26:12.13\00:26:13.54 "From this very hour... " the Bible says, 00:26:13.60\00:26:15.24 "her child was healed. " 00:26:15.27\00:26:16.77 Even though the woman knew her background 00:26:16.81\00:26:19.91 and she knew that in the eyes of the Jews she was unclean... 00:26:19.94\00:26:23.35 it also goes to show... look at this... 00:26:23.38\00:26:25.31 this woman was a Gentile and she was unclean 00:26:25.35\00:26:28.48 and she went to God in faith 00:26:28.55\00:26:29.95 believing that God could actually heal her child... 00:26:29.98\00:26:32.72 deliver her child... 00:26:32.75\00:26:34.09 but Jesus came from a place 00:26:34.12\00:26:36.42 where not even the Jews wanted to have anything to do with Him 00:26:36.46\00:26:39.43 they didn't want to believe Him but a Gentile is here 00:26:39.49\00:26:42.13 seeking Him to deliver her child 00:26:42.16\00:26:44.07 because she would have heard about Him 00:26:44.10\00:26:45.77 and believed in Him and His power. 00:26:45.80\00:26:47.40 So, there are a few take-away points we can have, 00:26:47.44\00:26:50.34 1. God never sleeps... 00:26:50.37\00:26:51.71 because in Luke 11... the friend was asleep 00:26:51.74\00:26:56.04 when his neighbor came knocking 00:26:56.08\00:26:57.85 but we can call on Jesus any time. 00:26:57.91\00:27:00.08 God encourages us to keep asking... 00:27:00.12\00:27:02.25 to keep seeking... and to keep knocking... 00:27:02.28\00:27:04.15 because He wants to grant us the desires of our heart 00:27:04.19\00:27:07.72 and intercessory prayers 00:27:07.76\00:27:09.59 also a true test of character for the Christian... 00:27:09.62\00:27:12.59 it tests our friendship with people 00:27:12.63\00:27:15.20 and how we are going out to God for them 00:27:15.23\00:27:17.97 and then it tests our friendship with God 00:27:18.00\00:27:20.67 because we would have spent so much time with Him... 00:27:20.70\00:27:23.47 we are so sure He will hear us and He will answer us. 00:27:23.51\00:27:26.27 So, let's just say a prayer, 00:27:26.31\00:27:27.88 "Father, there are many lessons for us to learn in this parable 00:27:27.91\00:27:31.15 of Luke 11 and even the story of the Canaanite woman... 00:27:31.18\00:27:33.65 we pray that you would give us 00:27:33.68\00:27:35.35 the spirit to continue to persist in prayer 00:27:35.38\00:27:37.92 even when we have the obstacles in front of us 00:27:37.95\00:27:40.46 that we will continue to believe 00:27:40.49\00:27:41.92 that you can do exceedingly above all that we can ask 00:27:41.96\00:27:45.33 or think... of you, we pray, in the name of Jesus, amen. " 00:27:45.39\00:27:47.33 "Amen. " 00:27:47.36\00:27:48.70 Thank you so much 00:27:48.73\00:27:50.07 for that insight that you've provided us with 00:27:50.10\00:27:51.53 on Persistent Prayer... 00:27:51.57\00:27:52.93 we pray that you were blessed by today's program... 00:27:53.00\00:27:56.07 we need to be persistent in our prayers... 00:27:56.10\00:27:58.64 don't give up on God... hang in there... 00:27:58.67\00:28:00.74 and the Lord will come through for you... 00:28:00.78\00:28:02.84 be sure to tune in next time 00:28:02.88\00:28:04.21 when Dr. Nadine shares more information 00:28:04.25\00:28:06.15 to supply the missing peace. 00:28:06.18\00:28:08.32