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01:04 ♪ >> HELLO AND WELCOME TO OUR
01:16 SPECIAL THURSDAY NIGHT LIVE COMING TO YOU LIVE FROM 01:20 ILLINOIS, AN WE'RE SO GRATEFUL THAT YOU JOIN US EACH AN EVERY 01:24 DAY, ESPECIALLY FOR THE THURSDAY NIGHT PROGRAMS. 01:27 WE APPRECIATE YOUR PRAYERS AND FINANCIAL SUPPORT OF THE 01:32 WE'RE DEFINITELY A TEAM. YOU AND US AND THE LORD JESUS 01:38 CHRIST, AND YOU CAN'T GET ANY BETTER THAN THAT. 01:42 IT'S BEEN A GOOD WEEK HERE AT 3ABN. 01:47 BELIEVE--WE WERE AT ORLANDO, FLORIDA, AT ASI. 01:50 AND HERE WE'RE IN THE BEAUTIFUL CORN FOLDS OF SOUTHERN ILLINOIS. 01:55 I WISH I HAD LIVE DRONE SHOTS, THE DRONES ARE THOSE LITTLE 02:00 HELICOPTERS CONTROLLED BY REMOTE CONTROL, WE COME STRAIGHT TO 02:08 CHARLIE GOOD ROAD, AND THERE IS A BEAUTIFUL CORN FIELD FILLED 02:13 WITH CORN THAT HAS GROWN. WE HAD BEAUTIFUL RAIN HERE. 02:29 TONIGHT WE HAVE A SPECIAL PROGRAM, IT'S TITLED "TO HAVE 02:34 AND TO HOLD ON." WE'RE HERE WITH FAMILY. 02:40 YOUR GUESTS. WELL. 02:48 THEM BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF EXCITEMENT. 02:54 CHRIST. >> I LOVE ASI. 03:03 AND IT MAKES ME EXCITED TO DO MORE FOR THE LORD JESUS CHRIST. 03:07 WE'RE EXCITED FOR TONIGHT'S PROGRAM. 03:17 BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS. THEIR MARRIAGE IS 35 YEARS 03:20 STRONG AND GROWING. AND GREG AND I ARE TO ARE 0 YEARS 03:29 BEHIND THAT. WE COULD BE SAYING THAT IT'S A 03:38 GIFT FROM GOD, BUT THERE ARE KEYS AND PRINCIPLES MAKING THAT 03:42 MARRIAGE. THEY'RE A COACH, AND THEY DO 03:47 RELATIONSHIP COUNSELING, AND YOU KNOW THAT HE'S DIRECTOR OF 03:52 WORLD. EVANGELISM, AND WE KNOW ANGIE, 03:59 HIS HOST FOR CROSSROADS PROGRAM ON CBN RADIO, AND YOU DO A LOT 04:06 OF RADIO EDITING, TOO. I'M EXCITED ABOUT THS PROGRAM. 04:18 IT IS A LIVE PROGRAM SO WE WANT YOU TO CALL IN RIGT NOW WITH 04:23 QUESTIONS REGARDING RELATIONSHIPS. 04:26 PEOPLE WHO ARE MARRIED THOUGH, IS IT? 04:29 >> NO, ACTUALLY IT'S NOT. THAT'S A GOOD POINT. 04:34 HAVE AND HOLD ON, IT'S NOT A RELATIONSHIP, IT'S NOT A 04:39 WITH THIS. I'VE BEEN THROUGH SOMETHING 04:42 HORRIBLE, I'VE BEEN THROUGH A DIVORCE, SOMETHING LIKE THIS, 04:46 CLICK, OFF. >> PASTOR, TELL US WHY THIS IS 04:52 FOR EVERYONE. RIDE A BICYCLE, AND IF YOU NEVER 05:02 HAVE, IT'S GOOD TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN RIDING A BICYCLE 05:07 FOR 35 YEARS TO TRAIN YOU. WHAT DO YOU THINK. 05:21 >> MAYBE THEY HAVE PARENTS WHO GONE THROUGH DIVORCE OR MAYBE 05:25 THEY LOST A HUSBAND OR WIFE. THIS PROGRAM IS FOR YOU. 05:29 THIS IS FOR EVERYONE, ISN'T IT. >> TRUE, WE'RE GOING TO SHARE 05:35 PRE-MARRIAGE EVENTS. BECAUSE WE DATED FOR NINE YEARS. 05:42 IF YOU ADD THAT ON, ON TO THE 35. 05:48 >> THAT'S 44. MAYBE YOU JUST DATED SOMEONE. 06:02 OR YOU'RE COURTING SOMEONE. SHE HAD PRINCIPLES WHEN SHE MET 06:08 ME. PASTOR AND THEY HEAR YOUR 06:12 SERMONS, BUT THIS IS GOING TO BE A DIFFERENT ASPECT THAT PEOPLE 06:16 MAYBE DON'T HEAR YOUR STORY, AND ALSO REGARDING THE RELATIONSHIP 06:19 YOU MENTIONED NINE YEARS. WE'RE GOING TO GET INTO MORE 06:23 DETAIL. >> THAT'S A GOOD POINT. 06:36 YOU KNOW, WE LIVE IN A BUBBLE. BUT WE DON'T WANT THE PROGRAM TO 06:40 BE JUST ABOUT US. YOU COULD POUR CHOCOLATE ON THE 06:48 CAKE AND SAY THEY JUST TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES. 06:52 WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT PRINCIPLES THAT ARE NOT JUST ABOUT US, HOW 06:57 OUR MARRIAGE WORKS, AND HOW WE HAVE GROWN AND HOW WE HAVE 07:00 NAVIGATED THROUGH THE 35 YEARS. WE ALSO WANT TO NAVIGATE 07:05 PRINCIPLES FOR ANYONE WATCHING THE PROGRAM, WHETHER YOU'RE 07:09 PREPARING FOR MARRIAGE OR THIS IS YOUR SECOND MARRIAGE OR THIRD 07:12 MARRIAGE OR YOUR MARRIAGE IS ON THE ROCKS OR RECOVERY, WE'RE 07:17 GOING TO TALK ABOUT THAT. WE'RE GOING TO TALK ABOUT 07:20 UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS, WE'RE GOING TO TALK ABOUT SCRIPT 07:23 ACTUAL PRINCIPLES. STAY TUNE BECAUSE WHEN WE ARE 07:27 DONE WE'RE NOT GOING TO JUST SUGARCOAT THE PROGRAM, WE'RE 07:32 GOING TO SAY, CAN THE MARRIAGE WORK. 07:38 HOLD. WHEN THE TRUMPET SOUNDS WE WANT 07:51 TO RISE TOGETHER. >> WHETHER WE RAISE TOGETHER OR 08:02 IF WE'RE SIDE BY SIDE. WE JUST HOLD ONTO THEY GET BACK 08:07 AND WE RISE TOGETHER. IN A LIGHT-HEARTED WAY WE FIRMLY 08:12 BELIEVE THAT BECAUSE GOD CREATES MARRIAGE, HE HAS A SPECIAL 08:15 PURPOSE FOR IT. ALLOWING OUR INDIVIDUALITY AS 08:20 WELL AS OUR COLLECTIVE COLLECTIVENESS TO FILE EACH OTHER DOWN. 08:25 MY WIFE MAY NOT BE IN THE PUBLIC'S EYE VERY MUCH, BUT WE 08:28 HAVE A STATEMENT THAT IF I DIDN'T HAVE ANGIE, SO MUCH OF 08:33 WHO I AM WOULD NOT BE REAL BECAUSE THE LORD KNEW EXACTLY 08:37 WHO YOU NEEDED IN MY LIFE. A WOMAN WHO HAS HER OWN 08:41 BACKBONE. BE WHO I AM TODAY. 08:47 WE HELP EACH OTHER. WE LIVE FOR THE LORD, BUT WE 08:50 MAKE EACH OTHER HAPPY, TOO. IT'S ALWAYS BEEN THAT WAY. 08:53 BUT WE'LL TALK ABOUT THAT LATER. >> AND ONE EQUATION, TO MAKE 08:58 THIS A MATHEMATICAL EQUATION FOR THE GUYS WATCHING THIS PROGRAM. 09:02 IF YOU THINK THIS MARRIAGE IS 50/50, YOU DON'T KNOW MATH, AND 09:06 YOU DON'T KNOW WOMEN. WE'RE GOING TO TALK ABOUT HOW 09:10 THOSE THINGS WORK. WE HAD A CUTE LITTLE OUTLINE BUT 09:13 WE'RE NOT GOING TO NECESSARILY FOLLOW IT IN SEQUENTIAL ORDER, 09:18 BUT WITH YOUR QUESTIONS AND THE SECOND HOUR WE'LL COVER IT AS 09:21 MUCH AS WE CAN. >> AMEN. 09:27 RIGHT NOW. CALL 618-627-4651. 09:37 OR YOU CAN E-MAIL US LIVE @3ABN @3ABN.TV. 09:50 YOU ARE DATING SOMEONE AND CONSIDERING MARRIAGE, OR 09:54 POSSIBLY YOUR MARRIAGE IS 15 YEARS DOWN THE ROAD AND YOU 09:58 STILL HAVE A QUESTION, OR MAYBE YOUR MARRIAGE IS ON THE ROCKS, 10:01 OR YOU RECENTLY LOT A SPOUSE. ANY OF THOSE CASES, THIS PROGRAM 10:05 IS FOR YOU. SO E-MAIL IN, CALL IN YOUR 10:09 QUESTIONS. ANGIE IN THE HOT SEAT. 10:13 >> WE MAY NEED TO GET SOME COMMENTS. 10:19 WE MIGHT GET 75 YEARS, THAT MIGHT BE NEAT. 10:23 >> WE'LL DO A SHOUT OUT. >> AND MAYBE SOME COMMENTS OF 10:26 WHAT MADE YOUR MARRIAGE STRONG. THIS WILL BE EXCITING. 10:32 MARRIED, AND THIS IS TOTALLY OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD, THE PERSON 10:38 WHO SPEND THE LONGEST MARRIED COUPLE, WE'LL SEND SOMETHING. 10:43 >> WE WILL, YES. >> WELL, DON'T TALK ABOUT IT 10:47 RIGHT NOW. BUT FIRST, THE PEOPLE WHO WERE 10:55 MARRIED THE LONGEST. SOME PEOPLE MAY SAY, WE'VE BEEN 11:00 MARRIED 35 YEARS AND THEN YOU'RE JUST A BABY. 11:02 >> WE WANT TO GET FORWARD. WE HAVE SOME MUSIC WE WANT TO 11:05 GET TO IN JUST A MINUTE. I KNOW YOU HAVE A SCRIPTURE. 11:09 I KNOW MANY OF YOU ARE WONDERING HOW DANNY SHELTON IS DOING. 11:13 HE HAD OPEN HEART OPEN-HEART SURGERY THREE WEEKS AGO TODAY. 11:20 HE'S ON ASI. HE HAS A SHORT LITTLE--TWO OR 11:25 THREE MINUTES--A LITTLE SHOUT OUT ABOUT A WEEK AGO, AND WE HAD 11:30 MANY COMMENTS. AND THEY SAID BOY, MR. DANNY, HE 11:33 LOOKS SO GOOD. HE'S A STRONG MAN. 11:35 GOD HAS DONE A LOT FOR HIM IN THE HEALING PROCESS, BUT HE IS 11:39 VERY MUCH FIT. HE'S IN SHAPE. 11:46 BASKETBALL, AND THAT HAS HELPED IN THE HEALING RECOVERY PROCESS. 11:51 WE SAW HIM ON TUESDAY, AND HE'S DOING VERY WELL. 11:56 DOING EVERYTHING THAT THE DOCTORS ARE ASKING HIM TO DO. 11:58 BUT HE IS JUS AMAZING EVERYONE. >> AND HIS WIFE IS TAKING SUCH 12:03 GOOD CARE OF HIM. SO WE'RE SO THANKFUL FOR HIM. 12:08 >> BUT HE APPRECIATES ALL YOUR HIM AS HE CONTINUES TO RECOVER. 12:12 THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS. >> AMEN. 12:18 >> YES, EPHESIANS 5, IF WE'RE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE AND 12:22 RELATIONSHIPS, YOU KNOW WE HAVE TO GO HERE. 12:27 EPHESIANS 5:22-27. WIVES, SUBMIT TO YOUR HOUSE. 12:33 THE HUSBAND IS HEAD OF THE WIFE AS CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE 12:37 CHURCH. IS SUBJECT TO CHRIST, LET THE 12:42 WIVES BE TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS IN EVERYTHING. 12:46 CHRISTS WILL LOVES THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER THAT HE 12:52 MIGHT SANCTIFY AND CLEANSE HER AND PRESENT TO HIMSELF A 12:58 GLORIOUS CHURCH. ANY SUCH THING BUT THAT SHE 13:02 SHOULD BE HOLY AND WITHOUT BLEMISH. 13:06 TRYING TO JUMP AHEAD, BUT WHEN I READ THAT, PASOR JOHN, WHY DOES 13:12 THE BIBLE TELL THE WIFE TO SUBMIT TO THE HUSBAND BUT THE 13:17 HUSBAND TO LOVE THE WIFE. >> WELL, BECAUSE THE BIBLE, THE 13:21 MARRIAGE IS A PICTURE OF GOD'S RELATIONSHIP TO HIS CHURCH. 13:25 SO THE CHURCH SHOULD SUBMIT TO CHRIST. 13:38 GOD DOESN'T SUBMIT TO THE CHURCH. 13:41 THE CHURCH SUBMITS TO GOD. AND IN THE PRIESTLY BALANCE WHEN 13:47 THE HUSBAND IS THE PRIEST OF THE HOME, THE WIFE CAN FIND COMFORT 13:55 IN SUBMITTING TO THE HUSBAND. BUT IF THE HUSBAND DOESN'T GIVE 14:02 HIS PRIESTLY ROLE THE WIFE IS NOT GOING TO SUBMIT. 14:10 THE CHURCH BENEFITS BY SUBMITTING TO HIM, AND THEY 14:14 NEVER LOSE OUT FROM HIS LOVE. IT'S A PICTURE--AND WE'VE 14:18 LEARNED THROUGH THE YEARS IF YOU WANT TO LEARN ANYTHING ABOUT THE 14:21 RELATIONSHIP THAT GOD HAS WITH HIS CHURCH, LOOK AT THE 14:25 MARRIAGE. >> POWERFUL. 14:29 I KNOW WE NEED TO--AGAIN, THIS IS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS TONIGHT, 14:33 SPECIFICALLY TH MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP. 14:42 HAVE AND TO HOLD ON." WE HAVE A GREAT SONG. 14:45 WE HAVE THE MUSIC PROJECT WHICH WE'LL TOUCH ON BEFORE WE GET 14:48 INTO THE PROGRAM. BECAUSE WE'RE GOING TO GET INTO 14:51 THIS AND WE DON'T WANT TO FORGET SOME IMPORTANT DETAILS. 14:55 TO GIVE GLORY ON THE THREE ANGELS MESSAGE, WHICH WAS JUST 15:01 ABSOLUTELY POWERFUL. FANTASTIC PRAISE REPORTS OF HOW 15:05 PEOPLE'S LIVES ARE CHANGED, BUT WE HAVE THE CD AND DVD, AND IT 15:10 IS ABOUT TO BE RELEASED, AND WE HAVE A NICE LITTLE BOOKLET THAT 15:14 THEY HAVE TO GO WITH THIS. >> YOU SEE THE GRAPHIC. 15:19 ALL THESE FOLKS ARE FOCUSED ON THE 3 ANGELS MESSAGE. 15:24 REVELATION 14, THERE IS ALSO A BONUS CD WITH SOME EXTRA SONGS 15:31 AS WELL. THEN THE DVD IS JUST ABOUT READY 15:41 TO BE RELEASED. WE'RE EXCITED ABOUT THAT, WE HAD 15:44 A PRE-RELEASE AT ASI. BUT THE FOUL DVD WITH THE 15:51 CONCERT--THE FULL DVD WITH THE CONCERT IS COMING SOON. 15:54 AND THE THREE ANGELS MESSAGE IN SUMMARY WITH A WONDERFUL SHARING 15:59 BOOK, PASTOR JOHN. >> I'M EXCITED ABOUT IT BECAUSE 16:03 IT IS A THE THREE ANGLES IS THE ANGEL OF GOD'S MESSAGE, AND IT 16:22 IS A MESSAGE WE SHOULD BE GETTING BACK TO. 16:28 3 ANGELS MESSAGE. 3 ANGELS BROADCASTING. 16:31 I DECIDED TO MAKE IT 46 PAGES, NOT LONG, FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVE 16:35 NOT HEARD ABOUT THE MESSAGE BEFORE. 16:41 BUT IT DEALS WITH ALL THREE MESSAGES SUCCINCTLY, CLEARLY AND 16:46 MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE IT BRINGS OUT THE REDEEMING LOVE 16:50 AND GRACE OF GOD. THE EVERY LASTING GOSPEL. 17:09 AND THE THREE ANGELS MESSAGE IS THE PERIOD OF THE 6,000 YEAR 17:13 MESSAGE. WE READ THE BACK OF THE BOOK, 17:18 NOW WE'RE SHARING THE BACK OF THE BOOK. 17:21 YOU CAN GET THE CD, THE DVD, AND THE BOOK FOR $25. 17:25 >> THAT'S RIGHT. >> THAT'S RIGHT. 17:28 OR ORDER QUANTITIES OF THE CD OR DVD OR THE BOOK BY THE CASE. 17:33 CALL THE CALL CENTER RIGHT NOW. (618)627-4651. 17:44 THE MAIL FOR YOU AND YOU CAN ALWAYS E-MAIL US FOR THAT AS 17:47 WELL. YOUR QUESTIONS OR WE WANT TO 17:51 KNOW WHO THE LONGEST-MARRIED COUPLE IS, SO SEND THAT IN, TOO. 17:57 >> ALL RIGHT, LET'S GO TO SOME MUSIC. 18:03 SINGING "I AM YOURS." ♪ 18:54 ♪ ♪ 21:17 ♪ ♪ 22:24 >> AIM. OUR SPECIAL GUESTS TONIGHT ARE 22:43 PASTOR JOHN AND ANGELA LOMAKING. AND TELL US ABOUT YOUR STORY. 22:48 HOW DID YOU ALL MEET? >> WELL, WE'RE GOING TO BOUNCE 22:52 BACK AND FORTH ON THIS. WE BOTH CAME FROM UNIQUE HOMES. 22:59 I WAS RAISED IN A HOME WHERE MY MOM AND DAD WERE NOT PRESENT. 23:03 I WAS ABANDONED AS THREE MONTHS OLD BY MY BIOLOGICAL PARENTS. 23:11 BUT THE LORD WAS GRACIOUS ENOUGH TO GIVE US TO A FAMILY WHO 23:29 WANTED TO RAISES, ME AND MY SISTER. 23:39 HOME. STRONG DISCIPLINE. 23:51 BUT I WAS RAISED IN A HOME WHERE I SAW MARRIAGE, WHERE I SAW THE 23:58 LOVE OF MR. HANES FOR HIS WIFE CARMEN HANES. 24:04 BUT SHE DIED WHEN I WAS 12 YEARS OLD, JUST BEFORE I TURNED 13. 24:09 SO THAT ANCHOR WAS GONE. AND MAMA WAS THE CONNECTION TO 24:12 CHURCH. HIS LIFE, THEY WERE MARRIED 24:21 30-SOMETHING YEARS WHEN SHE PASSED AWAY. 24:27 LIVED IN MEDIOCRITY AND LOSING MY ANCHOR. 24:32 THEN I MET ANGIE. >> HOW OLD ARE YOU WERE WHEN YOU 24:38 MET ANGIE. >> 16. 24:40 >> WE BOTH WERE. >> WELL, I WAS RAISED IN A 24:46 CHRISTIAN HOME ADVENTIST CHRISTIAN HOME. 24:49 WHEN I MEAT MY DARLING, JOHN. >> THAT'S RIGHT. 24:55 >> YES, MY DARLING. WHEN I MET HIM, HE WAS NOT IN 25:00 THE CHURCH. HE WAS OUT OF THE CHURCH, BUT I 25:05 MET HIM IN CHURCH. >> I WAS IN THE BUILDING, BUT I 25:08 WAS NOT IN CHRIST. >> DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? 25:10 RIGHT. INTRODUCED ME TO HIM, AND I'LL 25:16 JUMP AHEAD. FOR BIBLE STUDY, FRIDAY NIGHT 25:22 WORSHIP. YOUNG MAN TO MY HOUSE WAS IF HE 25:28 WAS COMING FOR WORSHIP. I WAS NOT ALLOWED TO DATE. 25:31 >> SO YOUR PARENTS WERE STRICT. >> VERY STRICT. 25:38 THREE. AND AFTER HE PASSED AWAY, I WAS 25:43 BORN IN ENGLAND, AND HE DIED IN ENGLAND. 25:49 BROOKLYN NEW YORK. ADVENTIST CHURCH. 25:57 THE SAME CHURCH HE WENT TO. WE MET AND HIT IT OFF RIGHT 26:01 AWAY. EVERY WEEK. 26:05 >> THAT'S RIGHT. >> DID YOU GO FOR THE BIBLE 26:10 STUDY OR BECAUSE SHE WAS CUTE? >> WELL, THE REASON I--THIS IS A 26:16 BIG PART I WANT TO ADD HERE. THE REASON WHY SHE HAD TO MAKE 26:21 IT SPIRITUAL REASONS WAS BECAUSE WHILE HER MOM WAS A SWEET LADY, 26:26 SHE HAD FIVE BROTHERS. FIVE JAMAICAN BROTHERS. 26:32 >> YOU BETTER BEHAVE YOURSELF. >> SHE WAS THE YOUNGEST GIRL, 26:35 THE YOUNGEST CHILD, THE YOUNGEST SIBLING, THE LAST OF THE THREE 26:39 GIRLS. AND SO SHE HAD A LOT OF 26:42 PROTECTION. >> SO AT THAT AGE NO GUY IS 26:47 COMING OVER TO DATE MY SISTER. BUT SHE CHOSE THE RIGHT WAY. 26:52 BECAUSE WHEN WE MET I WASN'T IN THE CHURCH, I WASN'T IN THE 26:56 LORD. STARTED, YOU KNOW GUISE, WE GO 27:01 THERE IN A STAGE WHERE WE JUST WANT TO RIDE OUR BIKES AND PLAY 27:06 BASEBALL, AND THEN ONE DAY WE NOTICE A GIRL. 27:10 SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL. THOUGHT I COULD TALK TO HER. 27:15 THEN ONE EVEING, AT NV. >> MISSION VOLUNTEER. 27:23 >> MY FRIEND SAID WANTS TO MEET YOU. 27:29 YEAH SURE, NO, SHE SAID SHE WANTS TO MEET YOU. 27:34 WE EXCHANGED PHONE NUMBERS. BACK THEN THERE WERE NO CELL 27:40 PHONES, HOME PHONE OR PHONE BOOTHS. 27:48 INTRODUCTION WAS FRIDAY NIGHT WORSHIP. 27:54 >> IT HAPPENED A FEW YEARS AFTER AFTER. 28:01 >> NO, THE REAL BREAK THROUGH CAME A FEW YEARS AFTER. 28:05 BUT THE CONNECTION TO FAMILY WORSHIP BECAUSE WHEN IT FIRST 28:08 STARTED, WAS I NERVOUS? >> WHAT? 28:15 JAMAICAN ACCENT. THE SCRIPTURE? 28:20 SO JOHN PICKED UP THE BIBLE, AND THIS IS HIM. 28:32 >> WE-WE-WELLGO-GO-GOD--AND HE WOULD JUST PERSPIRE, HE WAS JUST 28:41 SO NERVOUS TO READ THE WORD OF GOD. 28:45 WEREN'T YOU, HONEY. >> BUT YOU KEPT INVITING ME. 28:49 >> COME FOR WORSHIP. COME FOR WORSHIP. 28:52 THEN ONE FRIDAY EVENING, EVERYBODY WAS DOING THEIR THING. 28:56 I SAID--I THINK WE WERE ABOUT 19 THEN. 29:01 THAT. >> I SAID, JOHN, HAVE YOU SAID 29:08 THIS BOOK "THE GREAT CONTROVERSY." 29:15 ALIVE. >> KEEP THIS IN MIND. 29:20 I'M SLOWLY CRAWLING BACK, BUT I'M STILL PARTYING AND DISK 29:30 JOCKEYING, BUT THE FIRST CHAPTER WAS THE TIME OF TROUBLE. 29:34 IF YOU WANT A WAKE-UP CALL. IT SCARED THE SIN OUT OF ME. 29:39 EARLIER THAT DAY--I WORKED A BANK OF AMERICA. 29:43 I WOULD GO TO BANK OF AMERICA WITH A POOL STICK AND BOOM BOX. 29:49 >> AT AGE 18? BANK OF AMERICA. 29:53 READ THE GREAT CONTROVERSY, I READ THE CHAPTER ON THE PROMISE 29:57 OF CHRIST'S RETURN. THEN I WENT BACK TO BASIC OF 30:01 AMERICA WITH A BIBLE AND THE GREAT CONTROVERSY. 30:04 FROM FRIDAY TO MONDAY. >> THAT'S INCREDIBLE. 30:06 >> IN NEW YORK I WAS LOOKING FOR PEOPLE TO GIVE BIBLE STUDIES TO 30:10 ON THE WAY TO WORK. THIS IS NOT AFTER LONG BIBLE 30:15 STUDIES. HOLY SPIRIT CAME TO AWAKEN IN ME 30:19 WHAT I NEVER HAD A CLUE WOULD BE IN MY LIFE THIS MANY YEARS LATER 30:23 AS IT IS. SO THAT WAS THE BIG--THE BIG 30:28 TURN AROUND. THE WORLD YET UNTIL ONE SUNDAY 30:35 SOMEBODY INVITED US TO DISK JOCKEY FOR THEIR WEDDING. 30:39 I SAID OKAY, LORD, THIS IS THE LAST TIME. 30:45 ON THE WAY TO THIS WEDDING RECEPTION, THE HONDA CIVIC. 30:50 THAT'S WHEN THEY WERE SO SMALL YOU COULD PUT THE ENTIRE CAR--A 30:57 SMART CAR. AN OLD MOBILE. 31:03 HER HEAD BROKE THE WINDSHIELD. MY STEERING WHEEL WENT INTO THE 31:10 WINDSHIELD. OFF. 31:15 AND SURELY AFTER THAT WE WENT TO OAKWOOD TOGETHER. 31:28 >> NOW JUMP AHEAD. >> OFF AND ON WE WOULD DATE, AND 31:33 I WAS HOPING THAT SHE WOULD TAKE ME BACK. 31:36 I WAS REALLY AWAY. ANYTHING SHE SAID I WOULD SAY 31:40 YES, YES. HE WAS SO SOFT. 31:44 WOULD YOU DO THIS, EVERYTHING I WANTED HE WOULD DO. 31:48 I WANT SOMEONE TO NOT ALWAYS AGREE WITH ME. 31:59 >> THAT'S AMAZING. YOU DEFINITELY HAVE PRINCIPLE. 32:02 AND THAT'S INCREDIBLE. >> THAT'S RIGHT. 32:05 >> AND I GOT SOME BROOKLYN BACKBONE. 32:12 TASTES THAT THEY MADE TO GET RID OF ME, THEY DIDN'T HEAR, HERE I 32:17 AM. STORY. 32:24 YEARS. EFFORT. 32:31 I WAS AT THE HOUSE. HE SAID HOW LONG ARE YOU GOING 32:34 TO DATE MY SISTER? I SAID, EXCUSE ME? 32:41 HE SAID ARE YOU GOING TO DATE HER OR MARRY HER? 32:47 I SAID MARRY HER. HE SAID WHEN? 32:50 I SAID, NEXT MONTH, AND WE WERE MARRIED WITHIN 30 DAYS. 32:56 >> REALLY? PROPOSED AND I ACCEPTED. 33:02 >> IF HE DIDN'T ASK HE WOULDN'T HAVE ASKED HIM EQUITY. 33:05 >> NO, HE NEVER ASKED ME TO MARRY HIM. 33:11 >> SO FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO PUT UP THE WEBS AND SENT OUT E-MAILS 33:19 ON YOUR FAVORITE COLORS. IF YOU HAVE A SISTER WHO HAS 33:23 BEEN DATING FOR OUGHT OR NINE YEARS, DO WHAT HER BROTHERS DID. 33:27 >> SO YOU'VE BEEN--WHAT IS IT, THE YEARS? 33:35 >> 9 YEARS. AND NOT EVEN--WHERE IS. 33:49 >> HE WAS OUR YOUTH PASTOR AT THE TIME. 33:54 HE HAD PASSED A FEW TIMES AND IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE AT A 33:58 DIFFERENT LOCATION. BUT WE HAD OUR RECEPTION. 34:09 THEN OUR LIVES JUST TOOK OFF. THEN HER MOM--I HAVE TO TELL 34:12 THIS PART. STORY. 34:17 JUST THREE MONTHS, WE MOVED IN--AND JUST TO ENCOURAGE THOSE 34:21 WHO WANT TO GET EVERYTHING RIGHT, MY HESITANCY WAS THAT I 34:25 WANTED EVERYTHING TO BE RIGHT. MONEY IN THE BANK. 34:27 SOMETHING TO OFFER MY WIFE. I DIDN'T HAVE MONEY IN THE BANK. 34:31 I DIDN'T HAVE A HOUSE FOR HER TO LIVE IN. 34:33 I DIDN'T HAVE AN ARGUMENT THAT WAS EXCLUSIVELY MINE. 34:37 SO WHEN WE GOT MARRIED, SHE MOVED INTO MY ROOM. 34:41 >> THIS IS HIS GREEN AND YELLOW ROOM. 34:48 HOUSE. NO. 34:54 OTHER TENANTS, AND YOU I HAD A SIMILAR IF. AND SO EVERY NIGHT THE 35:08 BED WOULD COME UP. >> AND THIS IS HOW WE LIVED FOR 35:12 THREE MONTHS. >> THREE MONTHS? 35:15 WOW. WEDDING--TO PHOTO PROOF OUR 35:19 WEDDING GOT STOLEN OUGHT OUT OF OUR CAR. 35:28 WE'RE LEAVING THE CITY. WE MOVED TO FLORIDA. 36:03 AND SHE SAID THE SAME WORD THAT DANNY ALWAYS USED. 36:08 SHE TOLD US TO GO. >> THAT'S ALL SHE SAID GO. 36:11 >> GOD IS CALLING YO, YOU BETTER GO. 36:13 >> AND WE HAD NO IDEA. >> HOUR LIFE HAD CHANGED, AND IT 36:16 WAS TOTALLY--IT WAS NEVER THE SAME. 36:22 THE LORD WHAT TO DO AND OFF WE WENT. 36:26 THE SAME. >> BUT OUR MARRIAGE HAS BEEN 36:31 STRENGTHENED THROUGH THE YEARS, AND WE GOT OUR FIRST APARTMENT 36:38 IN FLORDA, . >> THAT'S RIGHT, AND WE ONLY HAD 36:45 ONE CHAIR. A LOT OF CARDBOARD BOXES AND ONE 36:48 RECLINER. TIMES THEY TALK ABOUT THE FIRT 36:53 YEAR OF MARRIAGE, A LOT OF ADJUSTMENT. 37:01 WE KNOW THERE MAY BE PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN MARRIED JUST A WEEK OR 37:06 TWO, AND THEY CAN RELATE TO THE STORIES YOU'VE BEEN TALKING 37:09 ABOUT THAT HAPPENED 35-36 YEARS AGO. 37:15 ADJUSTMENTS. NOT JUST BEING IN YOUR HOUSE BUT 37:21 A ROOM WHERE THE HOUSE BELONGS TO OTHER PEOPLE. 37:24 TELL ME ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE. THE ADJUSTMENTS, TELL ME HOW YOU 37:28 DEALT WITH THOSE. >> WELL, FOR THE FIRST FOUR 37:31 YEARS OF OUR MARRIAGE WHICH WERE NEVER EXCLUSIVELY IN A PLACE 37:35 THAT WAS DOWN OWN. ONLY US. 37:39 SAID IT WAS A GARAGE. >> AND THAT WAS A BUS. 37:44 >> THAT'S RIGHT. WE TRAVELED. 37:50 >> SOME PEOPLE'S MARRIAGES WOULD HAVE FALLEN APART. 37:53 >> WE STAYED IN EACH OTHER'S FACE EVERY DAY, AND WE LOVED IT. 38:00 WE WOULD SIT TOGETHER ON THE BUS WITH THE SINGERS, AND WE LOVED 38:05 BEING WITH EACH OTHER. WE TALKED A LOT. 38:12 EVEN THOUGH WE DATED NINE YEARS, WE TALKED NONSTOP. 38:15 >> THAT TELLS ME THAT YOU MARRIED YOUR BEST FRIEND. 38:18 YOU WERE TOGETHER, DATING FOR NINE YEARS. 38:22 TO THE MARRIAGE. >> THAT'S A GOOD POINT. 38:27 IN COMMON. SOMETIMES PEOPLE GET MARRIED AND 38:30 FIND OUT HOW MUCH TIME THEY CAN SPEND APART. 38:34 WE FEEL THERE IS SOMETHING MISSING WHEN ANGIE IS NOT 38:39 AROUND, OR WHEN I'M NOT AROUND. JUST EVEN UP TO RECENTLY WE WERE 38:44 IN THE VIRGIN ISLANDS, AND WE WERE SWIMMING, AND THIS IS VERY 38:49 AMAZING HOW OUR HEARTS ARE SO CONNECTED. 38:53 MONDAY MONIQUE ANDERSON. >> OH, YES, MOW KNEE ANDERSON. 39:01 >> AND SHE'S NOT A SWMMER AND SHE HAD THIS FLOATY VEST. 39:06 WE WERE AT WATER ISLAND. THEY SAID IF YOU SWIM OUT TO THE 39:16 BOUY YOU CAN SEE SEA LIFE. I SAID SWIM TO THAT DONUT, IF 39:33 YOU CAN MAKE THAT THERE, WE'LL DO. 39:41 FLOATING. DIFFERENT. 39:47 SHE'S FLOATING-SWIMMING, SHE TURNS AROUND, AND BEFORE SHE 39:52 TURNS AROUND TO SAY JOHN WHERE ARE YOU. 39:54 >> HE'S RIGHT THERE. >> AND MY HEART I SAID, I NEED 39:57 TO BE RIGHT BY HER SIDE. AND AS SHE TURNED AROUND, I WAS 40:03 RIGHT THERE. CALL YOU. 40:06 >> I WAS STARTING TO PANIC. I CAN'T SWIM. 40:09 I SAID JOHN--HE SAID I'M RIGHT HERE. 40:14 KNOW THAT HE WAS RIGHT THERE. >> I WAS JUST GOING TO CALL YOU. 40:18 I SAID, YOU KNOW I SENSED THAT, AND HERE I AM. 40:21 AND I'M GOING TO SWIM OUT THERE. AND JUST FOR THE RECORD I NEVER 40:26 LET HER SWIM TO THAT BUOY BECAUSE IT WAS JUST IS TOO FAR. 40:34 WE DID A MISSION TO FIVE DAYS NOT ALONG AGO. 40:40 TIP OF THE ICEBERG. WHAT I WANT TO START, AND WE'RE 40:43 GOING TO BOUNCE BACK AND FORTH ON THIS BECAUSE WE'VE CHOSE AN 40:48 SHORT OUTLINE, WHAT IS MARRIAGE. YOU'RE GOING TO BOUNCE BACK AND 40:53 FORTH. WANT THEM TO KNOW THAT MARRIAGE 41:01 IN THE ROCKS OF MARRIAGE, IN THE SUNNY DAYS OF MARRIAGE, AND THE 41:04 FALL OF MARRIAGE AND WINTER, BECAUSE A DOCTOR GARY CHAPMAN 41:10 WROTE A BOOK CALLED "THE FOUR SEASONS OF MARRIAGE." 41:14 EVERYONE GOES THROUGH SOME OF WINTER, SUMMER, SPRING AND FALL. 41:22 MARRIAGE IS A DIVINE REVELATION IN HUMAN VESSELS. 41:26 >> THAT'S BEAUTIFUL. >> HUSBANDS LOVE YOUR WIVES JUST 41:29 AS CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR HER. 41:33 EVEN AFTER 35 YEARS, GREG AND JILL, I'M LEARNING WHAT IT MEANS 41:38 TO GIVE MYSELF FOR ANGIE. ONE OF THE DANGERS IN BEING 41:41 TOGETHER SO LONG IS YOU COULD ALLOW TIME TO ADJUST YOU TO THE 41:46 POINT WHERE YOU GET USED TO EACH OTHER THAT YOU FORGET THOSE 41:55 VIVID MOMENTS. I HAVE LEARNED SOMETIMES THINGS 41:57 ARE IMPORTANT TO ME. BUT THE THING THAT IS IMPORTANT 42:00 TO ME MUST TAKE SECOND PLACE TO THE WOMAN THAT'S IMPORTANT TO 42:05 ME. >> PUT ANGIE FIRST. 42:11 TO PUT HER FIRST. SO HUSBANDS OUGHT TO LOVE THEIR 42:14 OWN WIVES AS THEIR OWN BODY. HE WHO LOVES HIS WIFE LOVES 42:19 HIMSELF. HUSBAND. 42:24 WIFE IS GOING TO TALK TO THE WIVES AT THE BEGINNING. 42:27 WHEN YOU--IF YOU WANT TO FIND OUT WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT, LOVE 42:31 YOUR WIFE. BECAUSE IT REQUIRES GIVING UP 42:34 SOME OF YOURSELF. BUT I ALSO LEARNED THAT IT 42:38 DOESN'T REQUIRE ME TO GIVE ME UP UP, BUT WHATEVER THERE IS THAT I 42:44 HAVE THAT WILL HINDER THE ENHANCEMENT OF MY RELATIONSHIP 42:48 WITH ANGIE, I HAVE LEANED AFTER 35 YEARS THAT WHATEVER IS IN MY 42:53 CLOSET OR IN MY LEADERSHIP THAT MAY BE HINDERING OUR STRENGTH, 42:57 GIVE IT UP. OR WEAKENING A RELATIONSHIP. 43:03 IT IS A DIVINE RELATIONSHIP IN HUMAN VESSELS. 43:10 >> MARRIAGE IS A REFLECTION OF DIVINE LOVE THROUGH HUMAN 43:14 VESSELS, AND IT'S FROM EPHESIANS 5:22-4 24 WHY IT SAYS WIVES SUBMIT 43:27 TO YOUR HUSBANDS. CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE 43:29 CHURCH. BODY. 43:35 SUBJECT TO CHRIST, SO LET THE WIVES BE TO THEIR OWN HUSBANDS 43:41 IN EVERYTHING. AND IT'S TRUE. 43:46 HOME, OUR HOME AS CYST IS CHRIST IS THE HEAD OF THE CHURCH. 43:53 HE DOESN'T TELL ME, YOU DO THIS OR YOU DO THAT. 43:58 WE'RE A TEAM. YES, I'M THE NECK THAT TURNS THE 44:02 HEAD, AS THEY SAY. [ CHUCKLING ] 44:06 A LOVE FOR EACH OTHER. WHEN WE MAKE A DECISION, HE 44:09 MAKES THE FINAL DECISION IF IT'S A MAJOR DECISION. 44:13 >> IF WE'RE ON THE SPOT, IT'S A CRITICAL DECISION. 44:17 NOW IF IT COMES TO BUYING SOMETHING OR BUYING SOMETHING 44:22 MAJOR WE DON'T TRY TO OVER RIDE EACH OTHER. 44:26 >> BUT WE'VE COME TO THE SAFETY OF SOMETIMES YOU SAY JOHN, WHAT 44:30 SHOULD WE DO? AND I SAY, HONEY, LET ME HANDLE 44:35 THIS. WHERE WE FEEL COMFORTABLE TO DO 44:40 THAT. COMFORT IS THERE. 44:43 YES, WE'RE A REFLECTION OF DIVINE LOVE. 44:48 POINT. PAPER OUT. 44:55 >> MARRIAGE IS A DIVINE REVELATION. 45:00 >> RIGHT. AND THE SECOND ONE IS REFLECTION 45:03 OF DIVINE LOVE. >> AMEN. 45:09 A RELATIONSHIP OF MUTUAL ESTEEM. >> O THAT'S GOOD. 45:13 >> OH, YES. >> A RELATIONSHIP OF MUTUAL 45:16 ESTEEM BETWEEN HUMAN VESSELS. WHEN PEOPLE GET MARRIED, YOU SEE 45:22 THE WEDDING CEREMONIES, THEY HAVE TWO CANDLES AND THEY BLOW 45:26 OUT. OTHER TWO OUT. 45:31 THE BIBLE SAYS YOU'RE NO LONGER TWO BUT ONE. 45:36 ONE SPIRITUALLY, THAT WE ARE--THAT --THAT ANGIE BRINGS TO THE 45:44 TABLE THINGS THAT I DO NOT HAVE. AND I BRING SOMETHING TO THE 45:52 TABLE THAT SHE DOESN'T HAVE. AND IT WAS SAID IF YOU BOTH 45:56 AGREE ON EVERYTHING, THEN SOMEONE IS UNNECESSARY. 46:00 I HAVE LEARNED, THE LORD HAS GIVEN WIVES AND GREG, I DON'T 46:05 WANT YOU TO FEEL BAD ABOUT THIS, BUT THE LORD HAS GIVEN 46:10 WIVES--I'M GOING TO USE THIS PHRASE THE WRONG WAY, BUT THIS 46:15 SPIRITUAL INSIGHT THAT SOMETIMES HUSBANDS LACK. 46:19 SHE'LL SEE THINGS THAT I DON'T SEE AND THEN SHE'LL CATCH UP 46:23 LATER AND SAY, YOU'RE RIGHT. >> I AGREE. 46:27 IN A CROWD OF PEOPLE. AND SOMETIMES SOMEBODY COULD BE 46:32 APPROACHING ME AND SHE'LL SAY, YOU KNOW, BE CAREFUL ABOUT THAT 46:37 PERSON. FRIENDLY, AND THEN LATER ON, NO, 46:42 THEY'RE NOT BEING FRIENDLY. THAT'S A PERCEPTION. 46:45 AND SOMETIMES JUST IN OUR PRAYER LIFE THE LORD WILL REVEAL 46:50 SOMETHING TO MY WIFE THAT SHE'LL SHARE WITH ME. 46:54 I WOULD SAY WOW, I DON'T SEE THAT. 46:58 REVEALED THAT TO ME. AND THE LORD GAVE US WIVES SO WE 47:06 DON'T MAKE FOOLS OF OURSELVES. [ CHUCKLING ] 47:09 DON'T LIVE LONG THAT ARE NOT MARRIED. 47:14 >> BUT YEAH, A LOT OF WOMEN, ESPECIALLY GODLY WOMEN, WE GIVE 47:21 APOLOGIZES TO OUR HUSBAND HAS. WE WANT THEM TO DO PETER. 47:24 AND I'LL SEE THINGS AND I'LL BE LIKE, BE CAREFUL. 47:29 JUST BE CAREFUL. HE'LL SAY, OH, OKAY. 47:32 THEN LATER ON HE'LL SAY ANGIE, YOU WERE RIGHT. 47:36 BUT IT'S JUST SOMETHING THAT GOD GIVES US, YOU KNOW, PERCEPTION, 47:40 I GUESS. >> DIVISION INTERVENTION. 47:49 >> MORE SO, DIVINE. >> THINK THINK WITH DONE TO BE 47:55 SO PROUD TO SAY, YOU GAVE THAT TO MY SPOUSE AND I DIDN'T PICK 48:02 THAT UP? >> WELL, I HAVE TO BE THE PRIEST 48:07 AM. INTEREST IS THAT MUTUAL BACK AND 48:11 FORTHER WORTH THAT GOD GIVES SOMETHING LIKE READING THE 48:16 WOW I NEVER SAW THAT BEFORE. THAT'S POWERFUL. 48:19 MAYBE IT IS WHERE PRIDE GET IN THE WAY. 48:33 TEAM. TIMES. 48:44 IT'S 100 ME, I THINK MARRIAGE CAN BE A "TMENT"--NOT ALASKA. 48:52 TWO TWO POOL AS. >> ANY WAY I KNOW YOU HAVE MORE 49:03 POINT. >> SO WE HAVE THAT IS. 49:09 THAT HAD HAD THAT WILL. >> GOOD POINT. 49:16 >> THAT'S WHY MARRIAGE-- >> THE VIRTUES THAT HE GAVE TO 49:21 THE WOMAN. AND THE NUMBER. 49:30 >> THE IMAGE OF GOD CREATED HE. MALE AND FEMALE, HE CREATED 49:36 THEM. MARRIAGE, THE ALWAYS GOING TO TO 49:43 HAPPEN. NUMBER THE IMAGE OF GOD IS THIS 49:49 PLEATS THE IMAGE OF GOD YOU BUT THE. 49:57 WE'RE GOING TO TAKE OFF REALLY QUICKLY. 50:03 >> SANCTIFICATION OF HUMAN VESSELS. 50:07 >> ER WITH A GOING TO ABOUT. AM THE CLOSER YOU GROW THREW 50:16 GOD, THE CLOSER YOU COME TO EACH OTHER. 50:20 >> THE POINT AGAIN. HUT THOSE WITHIN. 50:26 IF IF MARRIAGE IS. A . 50:39 >> AND IN PART SANCTIFICATION TO HUMAN VESSEL. 50:43 >> REITERATE ING THE TRIANGLE. THIS IS IMPORTANT. 50:46 WHEN WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH--WE HAVE BEEN THROUGH INDIVIDUAL 50:49 TRIALS. WE'VE BEEN THROUGH INTERNAL 50:53 STRUGGLES. HAD TO REAND WE MADE THE 51:03 COMMITMENT THAT WE'RE GOING ALL THE WAY. 51:15 >> FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE MARRIED, SOMETIMES EARLY IN THE 51:19 MARRIAGE THE WIFE MIGHT HAVE AN ISSUE. 51:25 THE DANGER WITH THAT, AND WE'VE NEVER DONE THAT. 51:28 >> NO, NOT ONCE. IN ALL 35 YEARS. 51:33 >> NEVER HAVE WE RUN TO SOMEONE OUTSIDE OF OUR MARRIAGE BECAUSE 51:36 OF SOMETHING THAT I DID SHE DIDN'T LIKE. 51:40 WELL. GRACE FROM MY HUSBAND. 51:45 AND HIM, THE SAME FROM MINE. OTHER WORDS, IT DOESN'T GO 51:51 ANYWHERE. IT VERSE. 51:56 >> YOU HEAR A LOT OF TIMES SPOUSE BASHING AND ALL THAT DOES 52:01 IS TEAR THE MARRIAGE DOWN. >> YOU KNOW WHAT, IN ALL OUR 52:05 YEARS THERE IS A LADY GOING TO OUR CHURCH IN CALIFORNIA, ANNIE 52:11 JOHNSON. FRIEND. 52:17 ABOUT YOU, YOU NEVER SAID ANYTHING BAD ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND. 52:20 >> THAT'S GOOD. IN THE CHURCH. 52:32 YOU NERVE BASHED HIM. YOU NEVER PUT HIM DOWN. 52:35 PRAISE THE LORD. THROUGH, MY HEART IS A 52:42 GRAVEYARD. LEAVE IT THERE. 52:46 IT DOESN'T GO ANYWHERE. YOU'LL NEVER HEAR ME GOSSIP 52:51 ABOUT MY HUSBAND OR SAYING ANYTHING BAD. 52:56 AND SAME WITH HIM. >> THAT MINES YOU CAN TRUST HIM. 53:03 >> WE'VE SIGN COUPLES--IN ALL OF OUR CHURCHES--ONE PERSON--I LIKE 53:10 THE WAY THAT IT WAS ONE SAID. SO, THIS PERSON COMPLAIN, 53:15 COMPLAIN, COMPLAIN. SO TO CONCLUDE. 53:18 YOU HAVE THE BEST OF THE WORST. BECAUSE THEY COULD NOT FIND A 53:22 GOOD THING TO SAY ABOUT THEIR SPOUSE. 53:27 YOU HAVE THE BEST OF THE WORST. WE'VE HAD PEOPLE COME TO US WHO 53:31 HAVE CUT DOWN THEIR SPOUSE. I HEARD SOMEONE SAY THAT'S LIKE 53:35 TAKING A FEATHER PILLOW ON A WINDY DAY AND BEATING IT ON THE 53:44 SIDE OF YOUR HOUSE, AND THE FEATHERS GO EVERYWHERE. 53:47 AND WHEN THE WIND DIES OUT YOU'LL NEVER BE ABLE TO COMPLETE 53:54 THEM. AND WHEN YOU SHARE THAT, IT'S A 53:59 BURDEN FOR THEM TO CARRY FOR WHICH THEY HAVE NO ANSWER. 54:02 AND IT IS FOR GOD TO ANSWER. WE HAVE CHOSEN. 54:05 WE WOULD RATHER FIGHT THIS WITH OUR MARRIAGE. 54:12 MARRIAGE. >> OKAY. 54:17 >> FIGHT OVER THE ISSUES. WE TALK STRAIGHT TO EACH OTHER. 54:25 MY WIFE, I CANSIT HER DOWN AND WE CAN TALK STRAIGHT TO EACH 54:29 OTHER. IT. 54:37 >> SOMETIMES IT CUTS LIKE A KNIFE. 54:42 HONEY, I'M SORRY. I DIDN'T KNOW THAT. 54:45 >> SOMETIMES I WOULD SIT DOWN EYES AND I'LL BECOME CHOKED UP. 54:49 I WILL SAY, I'M SO SORRY. I LOOK IN HER EYES, AND WE SAY 54:55 OKAY, NOW WE CAN GO ON. WE PRAY ABOUT IT AND WE LEAVE IT 54:58 IN THE LORD'S HANDS. FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO ARE TRYING 55:01 TO DEVELOP A RELATIONSHIP, AS MUCH AS YOU THINK THAT GETTING 55:03 PEOPLE AGAINST YOURS HOUSE OR THE PERSON YOU'RE COURTING IS 55:06 GOING TO HELP YOU--NO. IT'S GOING TO DESTROY THEPERSON 55:13 YOU'RE PLANNING ON MARRYING. THAT'S THE THING--YOU KNOW WHAT 55:17 HAPPENS, AND MY SISTER-IN-LAW, ANGIE'S SISTER ALWAYS SAYS, STAY 55:21 OUT OF MARIED'S PEOPLE'S BUSINESS. 55:26 THAT. BUSINESS, DON'T GET INTO THEIR 55:32 BUSINESS. BUT WE DON'T GET INTO I'M 55:43 BUSINESS. PARENTS OR OTHER ABOUT EVERY 55:48 LITTLE THING. BUT YOU LAUGH TOGETHER. 55:52 I WAS THINKING ABOUT, OKAY, WE'RE NOT IN OUR OWN HOUSE. 55:55 WE'RE IN OUR OWN ROOM. THAT'S ALL WE HAVE. 55:58 WE'RE IN A GARAGE. ONE CHAIR. 56:06 EVEN TODAY YOU'RE LAUGHING ABOUT IT. 56:13 WHEN YOU LOOK AT IT, ALL WE HAVE IS ONE CHAIR. 56:17 IS THAT IT? LAUGH ABOUT IT, ALL WE HAVE IS 56:25 ONE. I'LL SIT IN IT TOMORROW. 56:33 >> WE DI HAVE ONE BED. ONE BED ONE CHAIR. 56:38 NO TABLE. THEY WOULD COME TO OUR HOUSE AND 56:42 THEY WOULD RUN TO THAT ONE CHAIR TO SIT DOWN AND WE WOULD EAT ON 56:46 THE FLOOR. >> WHAT AN INCREDIBLE FIRST 56:50 HOUR. QUESTIONS AND COMMENTS. 56:54 AND I'M JUST GOING TO READ THIS ONE REALLY FAST. 57:01 EN'S FAMILY. HER HUSBAND IS 93 AND SHE'S 88 57:07 YEARS OLD. PRAISE THE LORD EVERY DAY. 57:09 >> WELL, I HAVE ONE BUT I'LL WAIT FOR THE SECOND HOUR. 57:14 >> YOU HAVE TO CALL IN AND MAKE SURE YOU CALL IN THIS EVENING. 57:18 618-627-4651 OPPOSITE OR E-MAIL US. LIVE@3ABN.TV. 57:28 LET US KNOW HOW LONG YOU'VE BEEN MARRIED. 57:33 QUESTIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE. I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW FAST THIS 57:37 FIRST HOUR HAS GONE BY. IT'S BEEN AN HOUR OF JOY. 57:40 HEARING WHAT GOD HAS DONE, AND WHAT GOD CONTINUES TO DO IN YOUR 57:44 MARRIAGE. DON'T GO AWAY. 57:49 MOMENT WITH A SECOND HOUR. |
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