¤ I WANT TO SPEND MY
LIFE ¤ ¤ SPENDING MY LIFE ¤
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¤ MENDING BROKEN PEOPLE ¤
¤ I WANT TO SPEND MY LIFE ¤
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¤ REMOVING PAIN ¤ ¤
LORD, LET MY WORDS ¤
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¤ LET MY WORDS ¤ ¤
HEAL UP HEARTS THAT HURT ¤
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¤ I WANT TO SPEND MY LIFE
¤ ¤ MENDING BROKEN PEOPLE ¤
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¤ I WANT TO SPEND MY LIFE
¤ ¤ MENDING BROKEN PEOPLE ¤
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>> HELLO AND WELCOME TO ANOTHER
THURSDAY NIGHT LIFE PROGRAM.
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WE'RE COMING TO YOU HERE LIVE
FROM THOMPSONVILLE, SLASH WEST
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FRANKFORT, ILLINOIS. WE
ARE SO GLAD YOU JOINED US
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THIS EVENING. SOME OF
YOU JOINED US JUST FOR
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THE FIRST TIME MAYBE IN THE LAST
FEW MONTHS, SOME OF YOU HAVE
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BEEN WITH 3ABN NOW -- THIS
IS 2018, SO IT IS GOING TO BE 34
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YEARS. >> YES.
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>> WHEN DANNY DECIDED TO
START THE MINISTRY OF 3ABN.
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ANY WAY, THANK YOU.
HOW HAS YOUR WEEK BEEN?
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I KNOW HERE AT 3ABN
IT HAS BEEN A BUSY ONE.
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I DON'T KNOW OF ANY WEEK
THAT ISN'T BUSY AROUND HERE.
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>> THAT IS LIFE FOR
EVERYONE. >> YEAH, THAT'S TRUE.
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AND I KNOW YOU AT HOME HAVE
PROBABLY HAD A BUSY WEEK, AND
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THANK YOU FOR CARVING OUT
SOME TIME TO MEET WITH US.
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WE CAN'T SEE YOU, BUT WE
KNOW YOU ARE THERE, SO WE JUST
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APPRECIATE WHEN YOU CALL
US, WHEN YOU WRITE US, WHEN
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3ABN -- OR YOU SEND
YOUR LETTERS OR EMAILS --
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>> OR WHEN WE -- >> OH, YEAH.
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THAT'S JUST GREAT. CAMP
MEETING IS A GREAT THING
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TOO. WHICH IS --
WHEN IS THAT COMING
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UP? >> JUNE 6TH THROUGH 9.
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>> GOOD JOB. SHE HAS
ALL OF THE INFORMATION.
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>> WEDNESDAY NIGHT THROUGH
SABBATH, ON THE THREE ANGELS'
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MESSAGES. TONIGHT
WE'RE TALKING ABOUT
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RELATIONSHIPS. WHO
DOESN'T HAVE A RELATIONSHIP?
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WE ALL DO. WHETHER
IT'S AT CHURCH, IN YOUR
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COMMUNITY, WITH YOUR SPOUSE,
WITH YOUR FAMILY, WE'RE TALKING
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ABOUT BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS NOT
ONLY WITH GOD, BUT WITH FAMILY
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MEMBERS, GIRL
FRIENDS OR BOYFRIENDS.
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AND WE'RE COMING
UP ON VALENTINE'S DAY.
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AND IT'S THE TOPIC OF
LOVE, BUT REALLY IT IS ALL ABOUT
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RELATIONSHIPS. >> IT REALLY IS.
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AND WE DON'T WANT YOU TO TURN
THE TV OR RADIO OFF IF YOU ARE
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NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP, BU
LIKE JILL SAID WE INTERACT WITH
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PEOPLE ALL THE TIME. AND
WE HAVE SPECIAL PEOPLE WITH
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US THIS EVENING THAT ARE JOINING
US, AND THEY ARE NOT GUESTS.
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THEY ARE PART
OF OUR 3ABN FAMILY.
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AND GREAT FRIENDS AND MENTORS.
WE HAVE SITTING NEXT TO ME
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PASTOR JOHN
LOMACANG. >> GOOD TO BE HERE.
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>> YOU OR OUR PASTOR. AND
YOU HAVE YOUR WIFE SITTING
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RIGHT NEXT TO
YOU. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
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THE BEST PERSON TO HAVE NEXT
TO ME TALKING ABRELATIONSHIPS.
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>> AMEN. BUT WE
APPRECIATE BOTH OF YOU,
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AND YOUR HARD WORK FOR THE LORD.
WE KNOW THEY ARE PULLED IN IT
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SEEMS LIKE A MILLION DIRECTIONS.
THEY ARE PULLED IN LOTS OF
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DIRECTIONS, BECAUSE THEY
ARE ALSO A CONFERENCE PASTOR.
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HE IS AN AMBASSADOR FOR
3ABN. HE ALSO DOES A LOT OF
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PROGRAMMING. AND
ANGIE, WE DON' HAVE YOU ON,
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IT SEEMS LIKE NEAR
ENOUGH. SO YOU WORK IN RADIO.
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TELL US ABOUT WHAT YOU DO.
>> I WORK HERE AT 3ABN RADIO.
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I DO EDITING. QUITE A
BIT OF EDITING, AND I DO
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HOST A PROGRAM
CALLED CROSS ROADS.
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>> OH, YEAH. >>
THAT'S A GREAT PROGRAM.
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>> OH, PRAISE THE LORD,
AND I HAVE GREAT GUESTS.
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THE LORD ALWAYS GIVES ME
AMAZING GUESTS, AND SO I'M JUST
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PRIVILEGED TO BE HERE, HAPPY
TO BE HERE FOR WHAT, 14 YEARS.
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>> WOW. AND YOU
ALL HAVE BEEN MARRIED
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HOW MANY YEARS? >> GOING ON 35.
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>> INCREDIBLE. >>
THAT MAKES OUR 15 SEEM KIND
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OF SMALL. >> I'M
STILL EXCITED ABOUT IT.
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>> I AM TOO IT'S
GREAT TO HAVE YOU ON.
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>> AND ANGIE, I WAS JUST
GOING TO SAY WHAT A BLESSING A
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PASTOR'S WIFE IS. THE
PREACHING AND LEADING THE
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FLOCK IS SO VITAL, BUT ANGIE,
YOUR ROLE IS JUST AS IMPORTANT.
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>> I AGREE. >>
SHE IS A WOMAN OF GOD.
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SHE LISTENS TO GOD. SHE
LISTENS TO OTHER PEOPLE.
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AND GOD HAS JUST BLESSED
YOU WITH SO MANY AMAZING GIFTS.
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AND WE ARE BLESSED TO HAVE YOU
AS OUR PASTORAL COUPLE IN OUR
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CHURCH. >> AND IF
MY WIFE DIDN'T HAVE
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HER OWN RELATIONSHIP WITH THE
LORD, OUR RELATIONSHIP WOULDN'T
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BE AS STRONG AS IT IS.
BECAUSE THERE ARE MANY DAYS I'M
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TIRED, AND I DON'T HAVE THE
TIME TO FEED MYSELF SPIRITUALLY.
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AND MY WIFE WOULD
LIGHT THE WICK SPIRITUALLY.
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AND I WOULD GET NOURISHED.
AND THEN I WOULD END UP STAYING
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UP FOR AN HOUR AND A HALF, WHEN
SHE IS SAYING, I WANT TO TRY TO
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GET TO BED BY 11:00.
AND I BELIEVE A LOT OF
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MINISTRIES COULD NOT BE
EFFECTIVE AT WHAT THEY DO, IF
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GOD DIDN'T ALSO
ANOINT THEIR WIVES.
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>> THAT'S RIGHT. >> THAT'S TRUE.
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>> AND WE TRAVEL ALL THE
TIME TOGETHER WHEREVER WE GO.
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BECAUSE I KNOW I HAVE SEEN
PEOPLE THAT ARE WELL-KNOWN IN
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THE -- SPEAKING AND -- VISUAL
WORLD, AND IN MANY CASES, I
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DON'T KNOW WHO
THEIR WIVES ARE. >> YEAH.
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>> BUT I BELIEVE THE LORD CALLED
US, CHOSE US, AND WE'LL TALK
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ABOUT THAT MORE WHEN WE TALK
ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, BUT, YEAH,
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I RAISE THE LORD FOR HER.
AND THE MORE WE TRAVEL PEOPLE
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RECOGNIZE HER ON 3ABN, AND SAY I
LISTEN TO CROSS ROADS, WHICH IS
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EASIER, WHEN YOU DRIVE YOU CAN
LISTEN TO THE RADIO, AS OPPOSED
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TO SITTING DOWN
TO WATCH TELEVISION.
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>> YOU HAVE BEEN
IN MINISTRY HOW LONG?
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>> GOING ON 31.
>> PRAISE THE LORD.
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>> I DIDN'T EVEN
HAVE A CHANCE TO GET GRAY.
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[ LAUGHTER ] >> OH, YEAH, RIGHT.
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>> YOU HIDE IT
WELL, PASTOR. [ LAUGHTER ]
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>> AND THEN SITTING NEXT TO YOU,
ANGIE, IS JASON BRADLEY, WHO I
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CONSIDER MY -- MY NEIGHBOR,
AND HE IS MY OFFICE NEIGHBOR,
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BECAUSE MY OFFICE IS
SORT OF AN A DIAGONAL.
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AND YOU ARE THE ASSISTANT TO THE
GENERAL MANAGER DARE TO DREAM
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NETWORK. I HAVE A
LITTLE PURPLE PEN IN MY
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POCKET. I NEEDED
AN INK PEN BEFORE THIS
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PROGRAM STARTED AND JASON HANDED
ME A PEN AND IT IS PURPLE.
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GOOD JOB. >> YOU ARE WELCOME.
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>> BUT IT IS A BLESSING
TO HAVE YOU ON THIS EVENING.
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>> IT'S A BLESING TO BE HERE.
>> AND I KNOW THAT RELATIONSHIPS
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AS WE WERE TALKING ABOUT
EARLIER -- I KNOW YOU ARE NOT
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MARRIED, JASON, BUT STILL WE'RE
ALL INVOLVED WITH PEOPLE WE'RE
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IN CONTACT WITH,
COWORKERS PEOPLE AT CHURCH.
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IT'S IMPORTANT,
ISN'T IT? >> ABSOLUTELY.
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IT IS VERY IMPORTANT. IT
IS OUR VERY BEING, YOU KNOW?
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WHEN WE GO BACK TO CREATION,
AND WE TAKE A LOOK AT GENESIS
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1:26 -- >> LET ME TURN THERE.
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>> OKAY. AND WE'RE
GOING TO BEGIN IN 26
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AND GO DOWN TO VERSE 29.
>> THAT'S THE BEGINNING OF THE
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BIBLE. >> YES.
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YES. TAKE IT
BACK TO THE BEGINNING.
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>> YEAH. >> WHERE
IT ALL BEGAN, WHERE IT
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ALL STARTED. ARE YOU THERE?
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>> YEAH. >> OKAY.
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THEN GOD SAID LET US MAKE MAN
IN OUR IMAGE ACCORDING TO OUR
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LIKENESS. LIKE THEM
HAVE DOMINION OVER THE
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FISH, BIRDS, AND CATTLE, OVER
ALL OF THE EARTH AND OVER EVERY
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CREEPING THING. SO
GOD CREATED MAN IN HIS OWN
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IMAGE. IN THE
IMAGE OF GOD HE CREATED
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HIM. MALE AND
FEMALE HE CREATED THEM.
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THEN GOD BLESSED THEM, AND GOD
SAID TO THEM, BE FRUITFUL AND
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MULL TIPLY. HAVE DO
MINNIAN OVER THE FISH OF
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THE SEA, OVER THE BIRDS IN THE
AIR, AND EVERY THING THAT MOVES
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ON EARTH. AND GOD
SAID I HAVE GIVEN YOU
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YIELD OVER ALL. SO GOD
CREATED US, YOU KNOW, TO
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BE IN A RELATIONSHIP,
TO BE MARRIED AS WELL.
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TO REFLECT HIS
CHARACTER TO ONE ANOTHER.
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AND EVEN WITH THE -- THE PLANTS
AND -- AND HERBS, WE CREATED
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THEM WITH SEED, SO THEY
COULD BE FRUITFUL AND MULTIPLY.
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SO RELATIONSHIPS
ARE VERY IMPORTANT.
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WHETHER IT'S PEOPLE YOU WORK
WITH, GIRLFRIEND, OR MARRIAGE,
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YOU KNOW, VERY, VERY IMPORTANT.
>> AND I THINK ULTIMATELY WHAT
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WE'RE GOING TO TOUCH ON THIS
EVENING IS OUR RELATIONSHIP TO
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GOD. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
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>> AND HE WANTS TO
HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH US.
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THIS IS THE CREATOR, GOD, WHO
YOU WOULD THINK HE IS SO BUSY,
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HE WOULDN'T EVEN
NOTICE US, BUT HE DOES.
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>> I JUST WANT TO
PUT A PLUG IN FOR JASON.
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JASON IS AN INCREDIBLE MAN OF
GOD, AN IT'S SO EXCITING TO SEE
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THE WAY GOD HAS GROWN YOU.
I THINK OF WHEN YOU FIRST CAME
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TO 3ABN, AND JUST MAKING CHOICES
FOR GOD, BUT JUST AT THAT TIME,
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MAKING CHOICES, AND THEN TO SEE
GOD GROW YOUR WALK WITH HIM, AND
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YOUR TIME WITH HIM, AND YOUR
SPEAKING THE WORD NOW, WHERE
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JUST A FEW YEARS AGO
THAT WOULDN'T HAVE HAPPENED.
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SO TO SEE YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH
GOD GROWING, AND WE JUT LOVE
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JASON HERE, AND HE IS GOING
TO MAKE A FABULOUS HUSBAND.
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>> THANK YOU FOR THAT
PLUG, JILL.-[ LAUGHTER ]
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>> YEAH, NO -- I THINK GOING
BACK TO, YOU KNOW, YOU BUILDING
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THAT RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD,
THAT'S JUST A BEAUTIFUL THING,
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BECAUSE ALL OF US -- NONE OF
US HAVE ARRIVED, HAVE WE PASTOR?
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>> WELL, NO. >> IT'S
THAT DAILY SUBMITTING TO
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CHRIST, AND INVITING
CHRIST INTO OUR HEARTS.
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IT'S A BUILDING RELATIONSHIP.
AND RELATIONSHIPS ARE EVERYTHING
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IN GOD, IN CHURCH, IN YOUR
COMMUNITY, IN YOUR FAMILY, AND
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RELATIONSHIPS
ARE NOT EASY. >> YES.
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>> ESPECIALLY WHEN
YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN.
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RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT
BASED ON A ONE WAY DYNAMIC.
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RELATIONSHIPS
ARE ALWAYS TWO WAY.
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THE LORD AMAZINGLY ENOUGH, WHEN
HE TALKS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS, HE
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LOVED US FIRST. WE
LOVE HIM BECAUSE HE FIRST
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LOVED US. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
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>> SO IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A
GENUINE RELATIONSHIP DON'T WAIT
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FOR THE OTHER PERSON TO
LOVE YOU, FIRST LOVE THEM.
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RELATIONSHIPS ARE -- BECAUSE
SOME PEOPLE RIGHT SAY, THEY
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DON'T LIKE ME.
I DON'T LIKE THEM.
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>> SO I'M NOT
GOING TO LOVE THEM.
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>> YEAH. AND I
SHUTTER WHEN I HEAR
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CHRISTIANS SAY
THAT. THEY DON'T LIKE ME.
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I DON'T LIKE THEM.
I'M GOING TO BE PLASTIC.
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WELL, IF YOU ARE A CHRISTIAN AND
YOU DON'T LIKE SOMEBODY BECAUSE
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THEY DON'T LIKE
YOU, YOU ARE A HYPOCRITE.
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>> THAT'S GOOD. >>
BECAUSE THE FIRST EVIDENCE OF
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CHRIST IN YOUR LIFE,
THE FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT IS?
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>> LOVE. >> LOVE.
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THE FIRST THING. >> UH-HUH.
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>> THE FIRST INGREDIENT, AND
IT'S NOT DIFFERENT INGREDIENTS,
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OR FRUITS, IT'S ONE FRUIT.
SO WHAT I HAVE LEARNED -- AND
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NOT ONLY IN OUR RELATIONSHIP
AS HUSBAND AND WIFE, BUT WITH
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PEOPLE. I KNOW [
INAUDIBLE ] IS NOT
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GOING TO KILL ME, BECAUSE
WE HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP --
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>> SHE IS OUR
PRODUCTION COORDINATOR.
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>> AND DEE IS
ALWAYS ON THE MOVE.
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>> SHE IS TYPE A
PERSONALITY. >> TYPE AAAAAAA.
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SHE GETS THINGS DONE. >>
AND SHE IS INVOLVED IN THE
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CHURCH TOO. >> SHE
ALWAYS GETS IT DONE, AND
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I CAN ALWAYS RELY ON HER.
LOVE YOU DEE, THAT'S WHY I'M
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USING THIS EXAMPLE. WE
HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP.
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>> YES. >> BUT A
NUMBER OF YEARS AGO
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WHEN PASTOR CA JUST CAME HERE.
DEE WAS TELLING ME SOMETHING
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THAT I ALREADY KNEW.
AND HE KNEW I KNEW IT.
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AND SHE WAS TELLING ME ALL
OF THE DETAILS AND I LISTENED TO
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HER.-pAND HE SAID I
APPRECIATE THAT ABOUT YOU.
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AND YOU DIDN'T GET UPSET BECAUSE
SOMETIMES PEOPLE SAY, I KNOW.
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YOU DON'T HAVE TO
TELL ME THAT. >> YEAH.
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>> THAT'S RIGHT. >>
AND SO HE SAID TO ME -- I
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LIKE THE PHRASE, HE
SAID, YOU LET HER DO HER JOB.
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AND SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO
LET PEOPLE DO THEMSELVES AND NOT
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HAVE TO PREDESIGN THEM SO THAT
WE CAN NOW IN OUR CONSTRUCTION
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AND RECONSTRUCTION OF THEM
SAY WELL, NOW YOU ARE AT A PLACE
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WHERE I CAN LIKE OR LOVE
YOU. SO WHAT I WANT TO BEGIN BY
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SAYING IS YOU -- YOU STARTED
WITH THE QUESTION, WHAT -- WHY
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DO RELATIONSHIPS MATTER.
BECAUSE IF YOU THINK ABOUT
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RELATIONSHIP, RELATIONSHIPS
MATTER BECAUSE THE END RESULT OF
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EVERYTHING ALWAYS BEGINS WITH
A RELATIONSHIP, AND SO MAN IS AN
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ISLAND. >> NO, THAT'S GOOD.
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DID YOU WANT TO
READ THE SCRIPTURE?
00:15:06.07\00:15:08.90
>> SURE, ABSOLUTELY. >>
AND GO TO A LITTLE MUSIC.
00:15:08.90\00:15:12.21
>> WE JUST JUMPED IN. >> WE DID.
00:15:12.21\00:15:14.98
[ LAUGHTER ] >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:15:14.98\00:15:16.28
>> HOPEFULLY YOU
DIDN'T JUST TUNE IN.
00:15:16.28\00:15:19.15
LET'S TURN TO THE
BIBLE SCRIPTURE HERE.
00:15:19.15\00:15:21.88
>> 1 JOHN 1:7. >> I LOVE THIS
00:15:21.88\00:15:25.85
>> ME TOO. >> AND
WE OFTEN QUOTE 1 JOHN
00:15:25.85\00:15:33.66
1:9. BUT WE'RE
GOING TO GO BACK A
00:15:33.66\00:15:35.86
COUPLE OF VERSES 1:7. BUT
IF WE TALK IN THE LIGHT AS
00:15:35.86\00:15:39.57
HE IS IN THE LIGHT, WE HAVE
FELLOWSHIP WITH ONE ANOTHER.
00:15:39.57\00:15:45.27
AND THE BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST,
HIS SON CLEANSES US FROM ALL
00:15:45.27\00:15:49.68
SINS. >> AMEN.
00:15:49.68\00:15:50.95
>> THAT WORD FELLOWSHIP IN THE
GREEK PASTOR, YOU WANT TO UNPACK
00:15:50.95\00:15:55.22
THAT FOR US. WHAT
DOES THAT MEAN FELLOWSHIP?
00:15:55.22\00:15:58.79
>> IT'S GREEK WORD THAT IS
MORE POWERFUL THAN FRIENDSHIP.
00:15:58.79\00:16:03.26
IT INCLUDES FRIENDSHIP. IT
INCLUDES RELATIONSHIPS, BUT
00:16:03.26\00:16:07.40
IT DOESN'T JUST
INCLUDE -- FELLOWSHIP OR THE
00:16:07.40\00:16:11.30
GREEK WORD RECOGNIZES THAT WE
ARE BOTH WALKING IN THE LIGHT.
00:16:11.30\00:16:14.94
IT DOESN'T SAY I'M IN THE LIGHT
AND YOU ARE NOT IN THE LIGHT.
00:16:14.94\00:16:18.17
IT SAYS I'M IN THE LIGHT
AND YOU ARE IN THE LIGHT.
00:16:18.17\00:16:22.14
AND THAT CREATES
A CHRIST CONNECTION.
00:16:22.14\00:16:24.45
IF I'M TALKING IN THE LIGHT AND
YOU ARE WALKING IN THE LIGHT,
00:16:24.45\00:16:27.98
THERE IS SOMETHING THAT SHOULD
BE DIFFERENT ABOUT THAT THAN
00:16:27.98\00:16:32.45
JUST I DON'T KNOW IF YOU
ARE WALKING IN THE LIGHT AND I'M
00:16:32.45\00:16:34.79
WALKING IN THE LIGHT -- SO THIS
IS LITERALLY A CONDITION FOR
00:16:34.79\00:16:38.53
CHRISTIANS. AND
WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL ABOUT
00:16:38.53\00:16:39.83
THAT, IS IF YOU WANT THE BLOOD
OF JESUS CHRIST TO CLEANSE YOU
00:16:39.83\00:16:45.57
FROM SIN -- >> I
HAD NEVER PROCESSED THAT
00:16:45.57\00:16:49.00
BEFORE. COMES BEFORE THE VERSE.
00:16:49.00\00:16:53.14
>> YOUR FELLOWSHIP
WITH ME HAS TO BE GODLY.
00:16:53.14\00:17:00.58
MY FELLOWSHIP WITH
YOU HAS TO BE GADLY.
00:17:00.58\00:17:04.39
BECAUSE WE'RE BOTH WALKING
IN THE LIGHT, AND SAY JESUS HAS
00:17:04.39\00:17:09.32
FORGIVEN ME OF SIN, BECAUSE
YOU SAY YOU WALK IN THE LIGHT,
00:17:09.32\00:17:13.26
YOU -- YOU HAVE AN
OBLIGATION TO LOVE ME.
00:17:13.26\00:17:15.50
>> YES. >> AND I
CAN'T TAKE -- I CAN'T
00:17:15.50\00:17:18.77
TAKE THE
OBLIGATION AWAY FROM ME.
00:17:18.77\00:17:21.07
BECAUSE IF I SAY I WALK IN THE
LIGHT, I HAVE AN OBLIGATION TO
00:17:21.07\00:17:25.31
LOVE YOU. SO THIS IS OBLIGATORY
00:17:25.31\00:17:32.95
RELATIONSHIP. IT'S A
WORD THAT DEMANDS THAT WE
00:17:32.95\00:17:36.42
REREFLECT CHRIST, NOT BECAUSE
THE OTHER PERSON HAS OR HASN'T,
00:17:36.42\00:17:40.32
BUT BECAUSE WE SAY
WE WALK IN THE LIGHT.
00:17:40.32\00:17:42.22
>> THAT'S GREAT. >> THAT IS.
00:17:42.22\00:17:44.43
THAT'S POWERFUL. I'M
SO EXCITED ABOUT TONIGHT'S
00:17:44.43\00:17:47.60
PROGRAM ON BUILDING
RELATIONSHIPS, AND WE KNOW GOD
00:17:47.60\00:17:51.23
WANTS EACH ONE OF US TO WALK IN
THE LIGHT, WHETHER YOU ARE -- I
00:17:51.23\00:17:56.34
DON'T KNOW WHERE YOU ARE TODAY,
MAYBE YOU ARE FEELING LIKE YOUR
00:17:56.34\00:18:00.21
RELATIONSHIPS ARE FRACTURED.
THE ONES IN YOUR LIFE, TONIGHT
00:18:00.21\00:18:05.71
WE'LL GIVE KEYS AND
PRINCIPLES FOR BUILDING THOSE
00:18:05.71\00:18:09.48
RELATIONSHIPS, FOR HEALING TOEZ
BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS, AND NO
00:18:09.48\00:18:14.26
MATTER HOW GOD YOUR RELATIONSHIP
IS, BECAUSE I CONSIDER WE HAVE A
00:18:14.26\00:18:17.96
GOOD MARRIAGE, BUT GOD
HAS ALWAYS MAKE IT BETTER.
00:18:17.96\00:18:22.16
>> IT REQUIRES
WORK TOO. >> IT DOES.
00:18:22.16\00:18:25.37
>> SO LET'S GO TO OUR MUSIC, AND
JUMP INTO WHY DO RELATIONSHIP
00:18:25.37\00:18:31.91
MATTER. WE HAVE
SAM OCAMPO WITH US.
00:18:31.91\00:18:33.58
AND HE IS GOING TO BE PLAYING
A SONG -- HE IS AN INCREDIBLE
00:18:33.58\00:18:39.61
PIANIST. AND THE
SONG HE IS DOING TONIGHT
00:18:39.61\00:18:42.22
IS "IT TOOK A MIRACLE MEDLEY."
00:18:42.22\00:18:47.89
¤ ¤
00:18:49.12\00:22:26.61
¤ ¤
00:22:26.61\00:23:37.45
>> WOW. AMEN.
00:23:41.22\00:23:42.62
>> AMEN. >> HE
CERTAINLY GETS INTO HIS
00:23:42.62\00:23:45.22
MUSIC. AND HE ENJOYS IT.
00:23:45.22\00:23:47.42
CAN'T YOU SEE
THAT. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:23:47.42\00:23:49.99
>> "IT TOOK A MIRACLE MEDLEY."
THANK YOU MR. SAM OCAMPO.
00:23:49.99\00:23:52.09
>> AMEN. AND ALL
RELATIONSHIPS TAKE
00:23:52.09\00:23:56.70
MIRACLES. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:23:56.70\00:23:59.13
THAT WAS PASTOR LOMACANG
SAID THAT IS A GREAT SEGUE RIGT
00:23:59.13\00:24:04.61
THERE. SO THANK YOU, PASTOR.
00:24:04.61\00:24:07.18
GREAT SONG. WHAT A GIFT.
00:24:07.18\00:24:08.88
>> WE HAVE PASTOR JOHN LOMACANG.
HIS WIFE ANGIE, AND JASON
00:24:08.88\00:24:14.38
BRADLEY. WE'RE
TALKING ABOUT BUILDING
00:24:14.38\00:24:16.62
RELATIONSHIPS. AND AS
WE GET INTO THAT, WHY DO
00:24:16.62\00:24:20.96
RELATIONSHIPS EVEN
MATTER. WHY DO THEY MATTER?
00:24:20.96\00:24:24.43
>> I CAN SEE ANGIE IS THINKING
THERE, WHY DO THEY MATTER?
00:24:24.43\00:24:28.90
>> IT DOES MATTER
TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP.
00:24:28.90\00:24:31.90
IT MATTERS TO
GOD. IT MATTERS TO US.
00:24:31.90\00:24:35.57
TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH
PEOPLE WE WORK WITH, AND GO TO
00:24:35.57\00:24:43.18
CHURCH WITH. AND IN
HEAVEN WE WILL HAVE A
00:24:43.18\00:24:48.52
RELATIONSHIP TOO,
WON'T WE? >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:24:48.52\00:24:53.39
>> I BELIEVE OUR RELATIONSHIPS
HERE ON EARTH ARE PREPARING US
00:24:53.39\00:24:59.66
FOR OUR HEAVENLY RELATIONSHIP.
>> AND LIKE YOU SAID, IT'S
00:24:59.66\00:25:04.57
IMPORTANT TO
GOD. AND THAT'S KEY.
00:25:04.57\00:25:07.00
IN HEAVEN WE WON'T HAVE, THIS
PART OF TOWN DOESN'T LIKE THIS
00:25:07.00\00:25:11.31
PART OF TOWN. WE'LL
ALL BE NEIGHBORS AND
00:25:11.31\00:25:14.41
FRIENDS AND THE
GREAT MULTITUDE TOGETHER.
00:25:14.41\00:25:17.58
PASTOR? >> AND
EVERYTHING IS ABOUT
00:25:17.58\00:25:19.88
RELATIONSHIPS. >> IT IS.
00:25:19.88\00:25:20.68
THE BIBLE DESCRIBES
THE CHURCH AS THE BODY --
00:25:20.68\00:25:23.99
>> THAT'S RIGHT. >> HUM.
00:25:23.99\00:25:25.49
>> AND HAVE YOU EVER
HIT YOUR PINKY BEFORE?
00:25:25.49\00:25:28.82
>> I HAVE. I HAVE
A BLOOD BLISTER UNDER
00:25:28.82\00:25:33.09
THIS ONE RIGHT NOW.
>> WHEN THAT HAPPENED --
00:25:33.09\00:25:35.96
>> YES. >> -- OUR
WHOLE BODY FELT IT.
00:25:35.96\00:25:38.97
>> OH, YEAH. >> IN
RELATIONSHIPS ROMANS 14:7
00:25:38.97\00:25:44.57
SAYS FOR NONE OF US LIVES
TO HIMSELF, AND NO ONE DIES TO
00:25:44.57\00:25:48.61
HIMSELF, WHICH MEANS EVERYTHING
THAT WE DO IN LIFE AND EVEN WHEN
00:25:48.61\00:25:51.31
WE DIE --
SOMEBODY IS AFFECTED BY IT.
00:25:51.31\00:25:54.28
>> BOY THAT'S TRUE. >>
THE REASON I USE A PINKY AS
00:25:54.28\00:25:59.19
AN EXAMPLE IS BECAUSE WE OFTEN
THINK OF THE SMALL PINKY OR THE
00:25:59.19\00:26:03.63
TINY TOE. BUT, MAN,
THE SMALLER TOE WILL
00:26:03.63\00:26:06.29
BRING YOU MORE
PAIN THAN THE BIG TOE.
00:26:06.29\00:26:08.60
>> THAT'S RIGHT. >> SO
SOMETIMES THE SMALL THINGS
00:26:08.60\00:26:10.97
IN RELATIONSHIPS BRING YOU
GREATER PAIN THAN THE THINGS WE
00:26:10.97\00:26:16.00
THINK ARE THE BIG THINGS.
>> FOR EXAMPLE WHAT WOULD BE
00:26:16.00\00:26:20.18
SOMETHING MAYBE SMALL.
>> WELL, I THINK THAT WE
00:26:20.18\00:26:23.55
CATEGORIZE IT AS
SMALL, BUT IN FACT IT ISN'T.
00:26:23.55\00:26:26.55
>> GOOD POINT. >>
THAT'S THE POINT I WANT TO
00:26:26.55\00:26:30.82
MAKE. SOMEBODY MAY
SAY I CAN DO MY JOB
00:26:30.82\00:26:33.19
WITHOUT EVEN
TALKING TO YOU. >> OKAY.
00:26:33.19\00:26:35.16
>> OH. >> IT'S TRUE.
00:26:35.16\00:26:37.93
I DON'T NEED TO TALK TO YOU.
I'M JUST TRYING TO TELL YOU WHAT
00:26:37.93\00:26:41.40
TO DO. AND I HAVE
HEARD PEOPLE DO THAT
00:26:41.40\00:26:44.67
IN COMPANIES,
CHRISTIAN CHURCHES.
00:26:44.67\00:26:47.04
WE HAVE BEEN TO CHURCHES
WHERE -- HONEY, WE HAVE SEEN
00:26:47.04\00:26:52.24
RELATIONSHIPS. >>
YEAH, YOU SPOKE ABOUT
00:26:52.24\00:26:55.14
ONCE -- IN ONE OF OUR CHURCHES
THE LADY WAS SO UPSET WITH THE
00:26:55.14\00:27:04.19
D DEACON SHE BROUGHT A BIBLE BAT
00:27:04.19\00:27:08.29
TO BEAT HIM UP. >>
YEAH, SHE ANNOUNCED I'M GOING
00:27:08.29\00:27:13.90
TO BEAT UP THE HEAD DEACON.
AND SHE KEPT THE BAT UNTIL AFTER
00:27:13.90\00:27:23.37
SABBATH SCHOOL, WENT HOME, CAME
BACK, BUT THE DEACON HAD TWO
00:27:23.37\00:27:29.18
OTHER DEACONS AROUND
HIM FOR THE REST OF THE DAY.
00:27:29.18\00:27:32.65
BUT IT'S WHAT WE DESIGN AS
INSIGNIFICANT THAT IS OFTEN
00:27:32.65\00:27:37.89
SIGNIFICANT. SOMEBODY
RIGHT SAY, I DON'T LIKE
00:27:37.89\00:27:40.59
JAY, BUT I'M IN
JAY'S DEPARTMENT.
00:27:40.59\00:27:42.96
SO I DON'T CARE ABOUT
JAY. I'M IN PRODUCTION.
00:27:42.96\00:27:46.86
JAY IS IN DARE TO DREAM.
I'LL WORK WITH HIM, BUT I DON'T
00:27:46.86\00:27:50.37
HAVE TO BE HIS FRIEND.
AND WHEN YOU ARE WORKING IN AN
00:27:50.37\00:27:55.44
ORGANIZATION, THAT IS
NOT AN INSIGNIFICANT THING.
00:27:55.44\00:27:59.57
I DON'T HAVE TO
TALK TO TO -- ANGIE.
00:27:59.57\00:28:09.48
WE MIGHT THINK THAT IS
INSIGNIFICANT, BUT WHEN YOU
00:28:09.48\00:28:15.29
REFOCUS THAT. LET'S
USE THE PEEPHOLE EXAMPLE.
00:28:15.29\00:28:18.36
>> THE WHAT? >> THE PEEPHOLE.
00:28:18.36\00:28:21.13
THE PEEPHOLE IS SMALL, BUT WHAT
IS ON THE OTHER SIDE IS HUGE,
00:28:21.13\00:28:24.77
BUT YOU ARE JUST LOOKING AT
IT FROM A SMALL PERSPECTIVE.
00:28:24.77\00:28:30.07
IF YOU OPEN THE DOOR YOU WILL
SEE WHAT IS ON THE OTHER SIDE IS
00:28:30.07\00:28:37.28
MORE SIGNIFICANT. SO WE
SAY I'M JUST GOING TO KEEP
00:28:37.28\00:28:40.25
THIS REAL WITH YOU.
I DON'T LIKE YOU JILL.
00:28:40.25\00:28:43.45
SO LET'S JUST KEEP IT
REAL. YOU DO YOUR JOB.
00:28:43.45\00:28:47.16
I'LL DO MY JOB.
LET'S KEEP IT REAL.
00:28:47.16\00:28:49.76
BUT I LOVE THE LORD.
YOU LOVE THE LORD, SO LET'S
00:28:49.76\00:28:52.76
JUST -- WE DON'T HAVE TO BE
FRIENDS DOWN HERE, BUT WHEN GET
00:28:52.76\00:28:57.87
TO HEAVEN MAYBE
THINGS WILL BE BETTER.
00:28:57.87\00:29:00.60
AND I HAVE
HEARD PEOPLE SAY THAT.
00:29:00.60\00:29:02.74
IN BIG CHURCHES. THE
BIGGER THE CHURCH SOMETIMES
00:29:02.74\00:29:07.24
THE MORE SPLIT IT IS. >>
AND EVEN IN LITTLE CHURCHES.
00:29:07.24\00:29:11.18
>> DON'T YOU THINK
THAT SHOWS A HEART ISSUE?
00:29:11.18\00:29:16.25
DON'T YOU THINK THAT THAT
ACTUALLY SHOWS SOMETHING IS
00:29:16.25\00:29:19.49
WRONG WITH ME SPIRITUALLY.
>> SO OUR RELATIONSHIP TO GOD.
00:29:19.49\00:29:23.93
. >> YOU ARE RIGHT, SWEETY.
00:29:23.93\00:29:27.40
MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH GOD IS DISCONNECTED.
00:29:27.40\00:29:30.67
IF MY RELATIONSHIP WITH
OTHER PEOPLE IS FRACTURED OR
00:29:30.67\00:29:34.84
FRAGMENTED THAT MEANS I HAVE A
PROBLEM IN MY RELATIONSHIP WITH
00:29:34.84\00:29:40.21
GOD. >> ALL
RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED
00:29:40.21\00:29:42.31
ON TWO PRINCIPLES. ALL
RELATIONSHIPS MATTHEW 22:37
00:29:42.31\00:29:51.12
TO 39. >>
HOPEFULLY YOU ARE JOINING
00:29:51.12\00:29:53.92
WITH US AT HOME. >> YES.
00:29:53.92\00:29:56.49
JESUS SAID TO THEM, YOU SHALL
LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL
00:29:56.49\00:30:00.50
OF YOUR HEART, WITH ALL OF
YOUR SOUL, WITH ALL OF YOU MIND.
00:30:00.50\00:30:07.14
THIS IS THE FIRST
AND GREAT COMMANDMENT.
00:30:07.14\00:30:09.74
AND THE SECOND IS LIKE IT.
YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS
00:30:09.74\00:30:15.18
YOURSELF. >> OKAY.
00:30:15.18\00:30:16.14
I'M JUST GOING TO COMMENT
ON -- AND THROW IT BACK OUT
00:30:16.14\00:30:19.11
THERE. BECAUSE I
WANT JAY TO BE OUT
00:30:19.11\00:30:20.78
THERE ON THE PERIPHERY.
VERSE 37 IS HUGE, BECAUSE IT
00:30:20.78\00:30:27.92
SAYS THE LORD GOD
WITH HOW MUCH? >> ALL.
00:30:27.92\00:30:30.19
>> ALL, ALL, ALL. IF
YOU LOVE WITH ALL, WHAT IS
00:30:30.19\00:30:33.83
LEFT TO LOVE YOUR
NEIGHBOR. NOW THIS IS HUGE.
00:30:33.83\00:30:36.33
IF YOU LOVE HIM WITH ALL OF YOUR
HEART, ALL OF YOUR MIND, ALL OF
00:30:36.33\00:30:40.54
YOUR SOUL, ALL MEANS HE HAS GOT
IT ALL, SO WHAT IS LEFT TO LOVE
00:30:40.54\00:30:44.91
YOUR NEIGHBOR? THIS IS POWERFUL.
00:30:44.91\00:30:47.14
IF HE HAS IT ALL, YOU ARE
NOW LOVING YOUR NEIGHBOR THROUGH
00:30:47.14\00:30:50.98
HIM. >> GOOD.
00:30:50.98\00:30:51.58
GOOD. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:30:51.58\00:30:53.05
>> BOY, YEAH, THAT'S GOOD.
>> IF HE HAS YOUR HEART, YOUR
00:30:53.05\00:30:56.82
MIND, YOUR SOUL, YOU ARE LOVING
YOUR NEIGHBOR THROUGH HIM, WHICH
00:30:56.82\00:31:00.66
MAKES THE LOVE TO YOUR
NEIGHBOR DIVINE, NOT HUMAN.
00:31:00.66\00:31:04.43
BECAUSE YOU GAVE THE LORD
EVERYTHING, YUR HEART, YOUR
00:31:04.43\00:31:06.90
MIND, YOUR SOUL. SO
SOMETIMES WE TRY TO LOVE OUR
00:31:06.90\00:31:10.53
NEIGHBOR NATURALLY. AND
WHEN WE TRY TO LOVE SOMEBODY
00:31:10.53\00:31:15.14
NATURALLY, WE PICK AT THEIR
FLAWS, BUT WHEN WE LOVE THEM
00:31:15.14\00:31:19.94
THROUGH CHRIST, WE
CAN'T PICK AT THEIR FLAWS.
00:31:19.94\00:31:25.08
SO RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON
TWO PRINCIPALS, GIVE EVERYTHING
00:31:25.08\00:31:27.95
TO GOD, AND IF YOU DO GIVE
EVERYTHING TO GOD, THEN IT MAKES
00:31:27.95\00:31:32.29
IT DIVINE TO LOVE YOUR
NAIB. AND WHO IS YOUR NEIGHBOR.
00:31:32.29\00:31:37.56
>> EVERYONE. JASON
YOU HAVE YOUR FINGERS IN
00:31:37.56\00:31:41.20
MULTIPLE SPOTS IN YOUR BIBLE.
>> THOSE WERE TWO OF THE VERSES
00:31:41.20\00:31:44.67
I HAD WRITTEN DOWN AS WELL.
BUT, YOU KNOW, RELATIONSHIPS ARE
00:31:44.67\00:31:49.84
SO IMPORTANT, YOU SEE HOW
THE DEVIL TRIES TO DIVIDE AND ON
00:31:49.84\00:31:53.14
CURE, AND HE WANTS TO PUT A
WEDGE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH
00:31:53.14\00:31:58.38
GOD, HE BREAKS
UP THE FAMILY UNIT.
00:31:58.38\00:32:01.55
BACK IN THE BEGINNING OF TIME
WHEN HE WAS A SERPENT, AND HE
00:32:01.55\00:32:08.02
TEMPTED EVE TO EAT THE FRUIT.
AND HE WANTED TO SEPARATE HER
00:32:08.02\00:32:12.36
FROM GOD AND
SEPARATE THAT RELATIONSHIP.
00:32:12.36\00:32:16.16
>> TRUE. >> WE
SEE WHEN HE WAS THIS
00:32:16.16\00:32:20.74
HEAVEN AS LUCIFER, AND
HE DECEIVED ONE THIRD OF THE
00:32:20.74\00:32:26.81
ANGELS. HE
WANTED TO SEPARATE THAT
00:32:26.81\00:32:30.65
RELATIONSHIP
BETWEEN THEM AND GOD.
00:32:30.65\00:32:32.38
SO WE SEE HOW IMPORTANT
RELATIONSHIPS ARE, AND WHEN WE
00:32:32.38\00:32:37.29
TRULY SURRENDER AS WE ARE
SPEAKING HERE IN MATTHEW, LOVING
00:32:37.29\00:32:41.92
GOD WITH ALL OF OUR HEART.
YOU KNOW, LOVE -- ALL OF OUR
00:32:41.92\00:32:47.36
MOTIVES -- WE SHOULD
BE MOTIVATED BY LOVE.
00:32:47.36\00:32:50.23
>> THAT'S GOOD. >>
SO WHEN WE ARE TRULY
00:32:50.23\00:32:55.24
MOTIVATED BY LOVE, WE ARE GOING
TO BE SELFLESS AS CHRIST IS
00:32:55.24\00:32:59.07
SELFLESS. WE'RE NOT
GOING TO BE SELFISH,
00:32:59.07\00:33:03.24
WHERE WE HAVE ULTERIOR MOTIVES,
AND DOING THINGS FOR THE WRONG
00:33:03.24\00:33:08.15
REASONS. SO HOW WE LOVE IS VERY
00:33:08.15\00:33:10.32
IMPORTANT. HOW WE
CONDUCT OURSELVES IN
00:33:10.32\00:33:13.32
RERELATIONSHIPS
IS VERY IMPORTANT.
00:33:13.32\00:33:16.06
AND OUR WALK WITH GOT IS
OF THE UP MOST IMPORTANCE.
00:33:16.06\00:33:19.43
>> THAT'S A GOOD POINT.
YOU JUST TOUCHED ON SOMETHING
00:33:19.43\00:33:23.87
OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD,
I THINK EVEN WHEN WE WALK
00:33:23.87\00:33:28.17
THROUGH -- LET'S SAY WE'RE
AT WAL-MART OR THE GAS STATION.
00:33:28.17\00:33:32.41
WE MAY NOT KNOW THEM BY NAME,
BUT I THINK EVEN HOW WE CONDUCT
00:33:32.41\00:33:36.75
OURSELVES IF A PERSON -- IF
I GOT MAD AT THE GAS PUMP AND
00:33:36.75\00:33:41.62
STARTED SLAMMING ON THE GAS
PUMP, OR SOMONE IS IN THE CAR
00:33:41.62\00:33:45.15
AND I'M YELLING AT THEM.
OR SLAMMING THE CAR DOOR, THE
00:33:45.15\00:33:50.09
PERSON OVER THERE IS GOING TO
SAY, I'M GLAD I DON'T KNOW THAT
00:33:50.09\00:33:54.10
MAN. BUT JUST HOW WE CONDUCT
00:33:54.10\00:33:57.17
OURSELVES EVEN IF
WE DON'T SAY A WORD.
00:33:57.17\00:33:59.30
WE WANT SOMEONE TO
SAY, WOW, ISN'T THAT NICE.
00:33:59.30\00:34:01.90
SO SOMETIMES JUST A GREETING
LIKE, HELLO, HEY, HOW IS YOUR
00:34:01.90\00:34:05.91
DAY GOING? IT CAN BE JUST --
00:34:05.91\00:34:08.44
>> YEAH. >> GO AHEAD.
00:34:08.44\00:34:10.58
JASON. >> NO.
00:34:10.58\00:34:12.05
NO. OKAY.
00:34:12.05\00:34:12.61
EVERYBODY EXCERPTS AN INFLUENCE,
WHETHER IT'S FOR GOOD OR BAD.
00:34:12.61\00:34:17.62
SO EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE SAYING.
YOU DON'T KNOW HOW YOU ARE
00:34:17.62\00:34:21.62
IMPACTING SOMEBODY'S
LIFE. >> I HAVE A AN ELLEN WHITE
00:34:21.62\00:34:28.66
QUOTE. IT SAYS
WHAT A MAN IS HAS MORE
00:34:28.66\00:34:31.77
INFLUENCE THAN WHAT
HE SAYS. >> BEAUTIFUL.
00:34:31.77\00:34:34.07
>> AND THEN IT SAYS THE
STRONGEST ARGUMENT -- AND WE
00:34:34.07\00:34:37.54
KNOW THIS QUOTE -- THE STRONGEST
ARGUMENT IN FAVOR OF THE GOSPEL
00:34:37.54\00:34:42.88
IS A LOVING AND
LOVABLE CHRISTIAN.
00:34:42.88\00:34:48.78
SO IT ISN'T EVEN
THE WORDS THAT WE SPEAK.
00:34:48.78\00:34:51.22
IT'S WHO WE ARE. >>
AND EVEN CHURCH MEMBERS,
00:34:51.22\00:34:59.76
COWORKERS, FAMILY
MEMBERS. IT'S ALL KEY.
00:34:59.76\00:35:05.80
>> LET'S LOOK AT SOME
KEYS. SO IF I WERE TO SAY TIME.
00:35:05.80\00:35:10.71
IS TIME IMPORTANT
IN A RELATIONSHIP?
00:35:10.71\00:35:12.91
>> OH, YEAH. >>
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY ABOUT
00:35:12.91\00:35:18.48
THAT. >> LET'S TALK ABOUT TIME.
00:35:18.48\00:35:20.35
>> YEAH, 35 YEARS
YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER.
00:35:20.35\00:35:24.55
>> WE ARE SO BUSY, GO, GO, GO.
WE HAVE TO MAKE TIME FOR EACH
00:35:24.55\00:35:30.56
OTHER. >> UH-HUH.
00:35:30.56\00:35:34.30
>> OUR SPECIAL
TIME. >> [ INAUDIBLE ].
00:35:34.30\00:35:36.16
>> THAT'S RIGHT. WE
TRY TO GUARD THURSDAY
00:35:36.16\00:35:40.00
EVENING. >> SO
HERE YOU ARE DOING A
00:35:40.00\00:35:42.64
LIVE -- >> YEAH, I KNOW.
00:35:42.64\00:35:44.21
>> BUT YOU ARE
DOING IT TOGETHER.
00:35:44.21\00:35:47.38
>> THAT'S OKAY. >> BUT
EVEN SUNDAYS SOMETIMES.
00:35:47.38\00:35:51.41
>> THAT'S GOOD YOU ARE
SPECIFIC. >> AND WE HAVE TO.
00:35:51.41\00:35:55.02
>> AND WE CELEBRATE.
>> WE CELEBRATE LOVE.
00:35:55.02\00:35:59.12
WE CELEBRATE ANNIVERSARIES.
EVERY YEAR OUR ANNIVERSARY, WE
00:35:59.12\00:36:04.86
DO SOMETHING SPECIAL. >>
WHEN MY WIFE'S BIRTHDAY CAME
00:36:04.86\00:36:08.73
AROUND, WE CELEBRATED
YOUR BIRTHDAY THIS YEAR.
00:36:08.73\00:36:12.47
>> UH-HUH? IN JANUARY.
00:36:12.47\00:36:16.77
>> WITH FAMILY. BECAUSE
THOSE ARE TIME ELEMENTS.
00:36:16.77\00:36:19.54
SOME MIGHT SAY
IT'S NOT QUANTITY.
00:36:19.54\00:36:25.31
IT'S -- QUANTITY. IT'S QUALITY.
00:36:25.31\00:36:29.22
I HAVE SEEN RELATIONSHIPS BREAK
OUT -- WORKAHOLICS, I HAVE NEVER
00:36:29.22\00:36:35.52
SEEN ANYBODY ON THEIR DEATH
BED SAY I WISH I WORKED LONGER.
00:36:35.52\00:36:38.96
BUT THEY SAID I WISH I SPENT
MORE TIME WITH MY KIDS, WITH MY
-FAMILY, WITH MY WIFE OR MY
00:36:38.96\00:36:44.93
HUSBAND. >> UH-HUH.
00:36:44.93\00:36:46.23
>> IF I HAD ONE MORE DAY -- AND
SO THE THINGS THAT YOU OFTEN PUT
00:36:46.23\00:36:50.64
OFF FOR RAINY DAY. THAT
RAINY DAY MAY NEVER COME.
00:36:50.64\00:36:56.78
I HEARD A SAD STORY ABOUT A
MAN -- REMEMBER THAT STORY -- HE
00:36:56.78\00:37:00.78
BOUGHT A SPECIFIC
GARMENT FOR HIS WIFE.
00:37:00.78\00:37:04.22
AND HE WAS PLANNING FOR THAT
TO BE ON A SPECIAL OCCASION, AND
00:37:04.22\00:37:08.69
ONE DAY HIS NEIGHBOR SAW HIM
LEAVING THE HOUSE, AND HE SAID
00:37:08.69\00:37:12.19
WHAT IS THAT YOU HAVE? HE
SAID IT'S THIS GARMENT THAT
00:37:12.19\00:37:15.90
I'M TAKING WITH ME.
AND HE EXPLAINED, WE WERE
00:37:15.90\00:37:19.30
PUTTING THIS ASIDE FOR A RAINY
DAY, AND HE WAS ON HIS WAY TO
00:37:19.30\00:37:23.71
THE FUNERAL
PARLOR. >> FOR HIS WIFE.
00:37:23.71\00:37:26.61
>> SO HE NEVER GAVE IT TO HER?
>> THEY NEVER HAD THE TIME TO
00:37:26.61\00:37:30.85
USE IT, BECAUSE THEY
WERE PLANNING FOR A RAINY DAY.
00:37:30.85\00:37:34.65
WE ARE OF THE OPINION -- HE IS
RESTING IN JESUS NOW, HE TOLD ME
00:37:34.65\00:37:39.12
WHEN YOU GET OLDER AND ALL YOU
HAVE ARE MEMORIES AND PICTURES,
00:37:39.12\00:37:43.66
MAKE SURE BOTH
OF YOU ARE IN THEM.
00:37:43.66\00:37:45.49
>> OH, WOW. >> AND
WE GOT LIKE A HUNDRED
00:37:45.49\00:37:48.03
THOUSAND PICTURES. THANK
YOU TO DIGITAL TECHNOLOGY.
00:37:48.03\00:37:51.03
>> AMEN. >> BUT WE
DO SPENDING TIME, AND
00:37:51.03\00:37:54.47
TIME TOGETHER GIVES YOU A
CHANCE -- AND WE KNOW THIS, TO
00:37:54.47\00:37:57.74
IRON OUT THE COMFORTABLE
AND THE UNCOMFORTABLE THINGS.
00:37:57.74\00:38:00.84
>> YES. >> UH-HUH.
00:38:00.84\00:38:02.34
>> THAT'S WHAT A RELATIONSHIP IS
ALL ABOUT -- RELATIONSHIPS, AND
00:38:02.34\00:38:08.18
I'M SPEAKING RIGHT NOW ABOUT
MARRIAGE, BUT IF YOU SPENDING
00:38:08.18\00:38:11.49
TIME WITH EMPLOYEES OUTSIDE OF
WORK, IF YOU SPENDING TIME WITH
00:38:11.49\00:38:15.42
CHURCH MEMBERS OUTSIDE OF
SERVICE LIKE FOR SOCIALS OR
00:38:15.42\00:38:18.23
SATURDAY NIGHT OR OUTINGS, YOU
BEGIN TO SEE THEM ON A DIFFERENT
00:38:18.23\00:38:22.56
PLAIN, AND WHEN YOU DO THAT,
IN RELATIONSHIPS YOU BUILD A
00:38:22.56\00:38:27.07
STRONGER MARRIAGE.
EVERY YEAR OUR MARRIAGE GETS
00:38:27.07\00:38:32.17
STRONGER. AND IF
YOU REMEMBER THAT TIME
00:38:32.17\00:38:34.34
GIVEN TO US BY GOD TO BUILD ON
THE THINGS THAT MATTER, AND THEN
00:38:34.34\00:38:38.21
TO ALSO ADDRESS THE THINGS THAT
ARE HURTFUL, THAT ARE INJURIOUS,
00:38:38.21\00:38:44.22
AND FIND SOLUTIONS TO
IT. AND WE HAVE DONE THAT.
00:38:44.22\00:38:47.36
SO TIME REALLY MATTERS. HUGE.
00:38:47.36\00:38:49.99
>> WHAT ARE YOUR
THOUGHTS ON TIME, JASON?
00:38:49.99\00:38:53.13
>> I THINK TIME IS VERY
PRECIOUS, AND IT'S SOMETHING
00:38:53.13\00:38:55.70
THAT YOU CAN'T
GET BACK. >> NEVER.
00:38:55.70\00:38:58.03
>> SO YOU HAVE TO CEASE EVERY
MOMENT, CEASE EVER OPPORTUNITY,
00:38:58.03\00:39:02.34
BECAUSE YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN
IT WILL PRESENT ITSELF AGAIN.
00:39:02.34\00:39:05.61
IT IS JUST LIKE ACCEPTING THE
LORD AS YOUR PERSONAL SAVIOR.
00:39:05.61\00:39:11.75
NOW IS THE TIME. YOU
DONT KNOW WHAT COULD HAPPEN
00:39:11.75\00:39:14.12
IN THE NEXT FIVE MINUTES, LET
ALONE TOMORROW, SO TIME IS VERY
00:39:14.12\00:39:18.15
PRECIOUS, AND WE'RE GOING TO BE
HELD ACCOUNTABLE AS TO WHAT WE
00:39:18.15\00:39:21.99
DID WITH OUR TIME. >> YES.
00:39:21.99\00:39:23.76
>> YOU SEE THESE DATES
ON -- RECENTLY IN A CEMETERY
00:39:23.76\00:39:28.36
BECAUSE THERE WAS A FUNERAL.
AND YOU SEE THESE DATES 1975 TO
00:39:28.36\00:39:38.41
2017 OR WHATEVER. YOUNG PERSON.
00:39:38.41\00:39:40.11
THE BEGINNING DAY AND THEN DATE,
YOU KNOW, DON'T HOLD AS MUCH
00:39:40.11\00:39:47.35
SIGNIFICANCE AS
THAT DASH IN BETWEEN.
00:39:47.35\00:39:48.98
WHAT DID YOU DO WITH YOUR TIME?
YOU KNOW, DID YOU SPEND YOUR
00:39:48.98\00:39:52.49
TIME SHARING THE LOVE
OF CHRIST WITH OTHERS?
00:39:52.49\00:39:54.59
DID YOU SPENDING YOUR TIME
CULTIVATING RELATIONSHIPS WITH
00:39:54.59\00:39:59.39
PEOPLE. DID YOU
SPEND YOUR TIME LEADING
00:39:59.39\00:40:01.16
PEOPLE TO CHRIST, OR DID
YOU SPEND YOUR TIME LEADING THEM
00:40:01.16\00:40:05.50
AWAY FROM CHRIST?
TIME IS SOMETHING THAT IS
00:40:05.50\00:40:07.74
EXTREMELY VALUABLE. >> IT IS.
00:40:07.74\00:40:08.87
>> AND WE HAVE TO USE IT
TO BRING GOD ALL OF THE GLORY.
00:40:08.87\00:40:12.64
>> I'M THINKING ABOUT -- YOU
KNOW, COWORKERS HERE AT 3ABN,
00:40:12.64\00:40:20.35
WE'RE ALL BUSY. I'M
GUILTY OF THIS, I'M RUNNING
00:40:20.35\00:40:23.92
DOWN THE HALLWAY LIKE
HEY, HOW ARE YOU DOING?
00:40:23.92\00:40:28.39
AND I'M ALREADY DOWN THE HALL.
OR THIS IS WHAT WE NEED TO DO
00:40:28.39\00:40:32.03
TODAY. AND
SOMETIMES I NEED TO SAY, HOW
00:40:32.03\00:40:35.60
ARE YOU DOING? HOW IS MOM?
00:40:35.60\00:40:39.43
HOW IS DAD? HOW
WAS YOUR WEEKEND?
00:40:39.43\00:40:42.50
WHAT DID YOU DO? SO
IT'S VERY EASY EVEN IN OUR
00:40:42.50\00:40:49.24
RELATIONSHIPS AT WORK, THAT IT'S
SO EASY TO GET CAUGHT UP IN GOOD
00:40:49.24\00:40:53.92
THINGS, BUT TIME IS IMPORTANT,
I THINK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
00:40:53.92\00:40:56.89
WITH EACH OTHER. AS
HUSBAND AND WIFE, I KNOW FOR
00:40:56.89\00:41:00.16
US -- >> IT'S TUESDAY.
00:41:00.16\00:41:01.92
>> YEAH, WE
CARVED OUT TUESDAY NIGHT.
00:41:01.92\00:41:04.73
99% OF THE TIME WE'RE
ABLE TO PULL THAT OFF.
00:41:04.73\00:41:07.36
>> THAT MEANS NO CELL PHONE,
NO EMAIL, NO PHONE CALL, NO TEXT
00:41:07.36\00:41:11.33
DURING THAT TIME.
IT'S JUST GREG AND I.
00:41:11.33\00:41:14.27
AND THAT'S PRECIOUS. >> YES.
00:41:14.27\00:41:15.90
>> AND AT THE TIME, LIKE YOU
WERE MENTIONING COMMUNICATION.
00:41:15.90\00:41:20.84
I'LL TALK ABOUT DIFFERENT
THINGS, AND IT'S NICE TO BE ABLE
00:41:20.84\00:41:23.51
TO DO THAT, BECAUSE TIME
AND TALKING TO EACH OTHER -- WE
00:41:23.51\00:41:27.98
ENJOY THAT. >> OH, OR SURE.
00:41:27.98\00:41:30.29
>> I GUESS WE'LL NEVER GET
YOU OUT ON THE BASKETBALL COURT.
00:41:30.29\00:41:37.69
[ LAUGHTER ] >>
THAT'S THEIR NIGHT.
00:41:37.69\00:41:41.40
>> BASKETBALL, YEAH, I
PLAYED WHEN I FIRST CAME HERE.
00:41:41.40\00:41:46.17
AND I -- THIS IS NO
EXCUSE -- BUT I HAD A SEVERE
00:41:46.17\00:41:51.11
STRAIN AND I SAID I'M
NOT GOING TO DO THIS AGAIN.
00:41:51.11\00:41:54.58
[ LAUGHTER ] >> BUT I
SHOULD AT LEAST ATTEND
00:41:54.58\00:41:56.88
AND CHEER YOU GUYS
ON. >> NO, YOU SHOULDN'T.
00:41:56.88\00:41:59.91
THAT'S YOUR TIME. >> THANK YOU.
00:41:59.91\00:42:01.62
>> OH, YEAH, THAT'S RIGHT.
>> WE ALMOST GOT YOU IN TROUBLE.
00:42:01.62\00:42:06.52
[ LAUGHTER ] >> I
GUESS WE CAN'T EDIT.
00:42:06.52\00:42:08.56
OKAY. GO AHEAD.
00:42:08.56\00:42:10.13
>> OKAY. ANOTHER
THING WITH -- WITH TIME
00:42:10.13\00:42:12.19
IS YOU CAN'T REALLY GET TO KNOW
SOMEBODY UNLESS YOU SPENDING
00:42:12.19\00:42:15.66
TIME WITH THEM. YOU ARE
NOT GOING TO GET TO KNOW
00:42:15.66\00:42:19.80
GOD UNLESS YOU SPENDING TIME
IN HIS WORD, GETTING TO KNOW HIS
00:42:19.80\00:42:23.64
LIKES AND DISLIKES.
AND DATING OR COURTING OR
00:42:23.64\00:42:26.81
WHATEVER, YOU ARE NOT GOING TO
GET TO KNOW THE INDIVIDUAL THAT
-pYOU ARE COURTING UNLESS YOU
00:42:26.81\00:42:31.18
SPENDING TIME WITH THEM.
YOU HAVE TO LEARN WHAT THEY
00:42:31.18\00:42:33.55
LIKE, WHAT THEY DON'T LIKE.
THINGS THAT WILL FRUSTRATE THEM
00:42:33.55\00:42:37.59
AND ALL OF THAT STUFF. YOU
ARE ONLY GOING TO FIND THAT
00:42:37.59\00:42:40.62
OUT BY TIME AND
COMMUNICATION. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:42:40.62\00:42:43.76
>> GO AHEAD. >>
ANGIE I WAS THINKING TOO,
00:42:43.76\00:42:47.40
EVEN WHEN WE COMMUNICATE LIKE
JASON WAS SAYING, LET'S SAY IN A
00:42:47.40\00:42:54.10
MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP YOU AND
PASTOR JOHN, IF ONLY ONE DOES
00:42:54.10\00:42:57.34
THE TALKING AND ONLY ONE DOES
THE LISTENING, THAT DOESN'T WORK
00:42:57.34\00:43:05.58
EITHER. >> YEAH, YEAH.
00:43:05.58\00:43:07.35
WE TALK ALL THE TIME, DON'T WE?
WE LAUGH TOGETHER, WHICH IS SO
00:43:07.35\00:43:11.82
GOOD. >> IT IS.
00:43:11.82\00:43:12.49
>> EVERY DAY WE HAVE A LAUGH.
>> WE LAUGH WITH EACH OTHER,
00:43:12.49\00:43:16.86
ABOUT EACH OTHER,
ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE.
00:43:16.86\00:43:19.43
[ LAUGHTER ] >> NOW WE KNOW.
00:43:19.43\00:43:20.96
[ LAUGHTER ] >> WE
ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO
00:43:20.96\00:43:22.63
LAUGH ABOUT. >>
THAT'S IMPORTANT, ACTUALLY.
00:43:22.63\00:43:24.93
>> YEAH, LAUGHTER IS
MEDICINE, THE BIBLE SAYS.
00:43:24.93\00:43:29.04
WE LAUGH. WE
PRAY, WE READ OUR BIBLES
00:43:29.04\00:43:32.17
TOGETHER. IT'S THE FULL CIRCLE.
00:43:32.17\00:43:35.54
WE HAVE THE
FULL SOCIAL MENTAL --
00:43:35.54\00:43:37.55
>> WE EVEN GO TO WAL-MART
TOGETHER.->> EVEN TO THE MALL.
00:43:37.55\00:43:40.95
>> ABSOLUTELY.
>> HE'LL GO WITH ME.
00:43:40.95\00:43:43.65
>> JUST THIS MORNING -- OR MAYBE
LAST NIGHT, I SAID, HONEY DO YOU
00:43:43.65\00:43:48.12
REALIZE EVERY DAY IN THE WEEK
WE'RE IN EACH OTHER'S SPACE.
00:43:48.12\00:43:53.80
WE HAVE WORKED AT
FOUR COMPANIES TOGETHER.
00:43:53.80\00:43:56.03
>> OH, WOW. >> IN
NEW YORK WE WORKED AT TWO
00:43:56.03\00:44:00.47
COMPANIES TOGETHER. WE
WENT TO [ INAUDIBLE ] IN THE
00:44:00.47\00:44:04.37
SAME SPACE, NOT AN INCH
BETWEEN US -- I'M SPEAKING
00:44:04.37\00:44:08.18
SPECIFICALLY -- >> RIGHT.
00:44:08.18\00:44:09.61
>> IN THE SAME SPACE HERE
AT 3ABN EVERY DAY TOGETHER.
00:44:09.61\00:44:13.08
WE TRAVEL TOGETHER. HOW
MANY COUPLES COULD SURVIVE
00:44:13.08\00:44:16.25
THAT? AND SOME
PEOPLE GET MARRIED TO
00:44:16.25\00:44:18.45
FIND OUT HOW MUCH TIME
THEY CAN SPENDING APART.
00:44:18.45\00:44:20.86
>> HOW SAD. >> AND
THEY TALK ABOUT QUALITY
00:44:20.86\00:44:23.46
TIME. SO I WOULD
PUT A PLUG HERE FOR
00:44:23.46\00:44:25.56
THE HUSBANDS, DON'T LOOK AT YOUR
WIFE AS A QUALITY TIME PERSON,
00:44:25.56\00:44:31.97
BUT LOOK AT YOUR LIFE -- LOOK
AT YOUR WIFE AS A PERSON WHO
00:44:31.97\00:44:36.67
REQUIRES YOUR --
YOUR BREATHING. >> UH-HUH.
00:44:36.67\00:44:41.01
>> YOUR TOUCH. LIKE
-- WE WERE COMING BACK ON
00:44:41.01\00:44:46.68
THE PLANE JUST TWO DAYS
AGO. AND I WENT LIKE THIS.
00:44:46.68\00:44:49.85
SHE SAID WHY ARE YOU DOING THAT?
I SAID I JUST WANT TO TOUCH YOUR
00:44:49.85\00:44:56.39
FACE. AND I SAID
COULD YOU TOUCH MY
00:44:56.39\00:44:58.96
FACE. >> HE DID OUT OF NOWHERE.
00:44:58.96\00:45:00.50
>> AND SOMETIMES WE JUST LUG.
BUT WE HAVE THE PERMISSION TO BE
00:45:00.50\00:45:04.17
MORE INTIMATE. CAN I
JUST TOUCH YOUR FACE.
00:45:04.17\00:45:08.44
CAN I PINCH YOUR
EAR LOBE. >> OKAY.
00:45:08.44\00:45:11.04
OKAY. >> BUT I'M JUST SAYING.
00:45:11.04\00:45:12.84
>> BUT WE DO. WE DO.
00:45:12.84\00:45:14.91
>> AND THOSE ARE THOSE TIME
MOMENTS THAT YOU LOOK BACK ON,
00:45:14.91\00:45:18.91
AND SOMETIMES I SAY
MY LOVE CUP IS EMPTY.
00:45:18.91\00:45:22.22
CAN I GET A HUG. AND
I'M TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE
00:45:22.22\00:45:26.39
RIGHT NOW. >> OF COURSE.
00:45:26.39\00:45:27.72
>> BUT IN THE SAME WAY WE COULD
BUILD RELATIONSHIPS WITH OUR
00:45:27.72\00:45:32.83
OTHER CHURCH MEMBERS.
AND INTIMACY TAKES ON A
00:45:32.83\00:45:37.27
SPIRITUAL -- BECAUSE REMEMBER
THERE IS A PRINCIPLE IN THE
00:45:37.27\00:45:39.57
BIBLE -- LET'S LOOK AT THIS
TOGETHER -- YEAH, LOVE IS RESIP
00:45:39.57\00:45:47.41
CALL. LUKE 6:31.
00:45:47.41\00:45:49.98
>> AND JUST AS YOU WANT MAN TO
DO TO YOU, YOU ALSO DO TO THEM
00:45:49.98\00:45:55.75
LIKEWISE. >> AMEN.
00:45:55.75\00:45:56.45
>> WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THAT IN
THE CONTEXT OF A CHURCH, DO YOU
00:45:56.45\00:46:01.06
WANT PEOPLE TO
RESPECT YOU? >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:46:01.06\00:46:03.12
>> WHAT SHOULD YOU
DO? >> RESPECT THEM.
00:46:03.12\00:46:05.09
>> THAT'S RIGHT. >> OR
JUST LIKE THIS PERSON THAT
00:46:05.09\00:46:07.73
YOU MENTIONED EARLIER, THEY
PROBABLY WOULDN'T LIKE A BIBLE
00:46:07.73\00:46:10.83
BAT TAKEN AFTER
THEM. >> EXACTLY.
00:46:10.83\00:46:14.94
>> AND THEN THERE ARE SOME
CHURCH MEMBERS THAT JUST -- THE
00:46:14.94\00:46:18.07
OTHER THING -- WE'RE
TALKING ABOUT ALL KINDS OF
00:46:18.07\00:46:21.81
RELATIONSHIPS. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:46:21.81\00:46:22.71
>> WE'RE GOING IN AND OUT
OF DIFFERENT RELATIONSHIPS AT
00:46:22.71\00:46:28.42
ANYTIME, ANYBODY. BUT
AS CHRISTIANS -- LET ME NOT
00:46:28.42\00:46:32.09
JUST SAY CHURCH MEMBERS, BUT
CHRISTIANS, WE SHOULD MAKE IT A
00:46:32.09\00:46:37.03
HIGH OBLIGATION OF OUR OWN TO
IRON OUT RELATIONSHIPS WITH EACH
00:46:37.03\00:46:41.40
OTHER. >> THANK YOU.
00:46:41.40\00:46:42.13
>> UH-HUH. >> SO TRUE.
00:46:42.13\00:46:43.77
>> RIGHT. >> YOU KNOW?
00:46:43.77\00:46:45.50
>> IT'S
IMPORTANT. >> IT'S IMPORTANT.
00:46:45.50\00:46:47.30
I SAT DOWN AS PASTOR IN OFFICE
WITH PEOPLE JUST REALLY AT
00:46:47.30\00:46:55.48
ODDED, AND ONE WANTS TO
RECONCILE, AND ONE HOLDS A
00:46:55.48\00:46:59.91
STANDARD HIGHER THAN
GOD. BUT THE OTHER PERSON HAS
00:46:59.91\00:47:03.62
SUCH -- NO, BUT YOU HURT
ME. NO, I DON'T WANT TO HAVE
00:47:03.62\00:47:07.49
ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU. NO
-- AND THE OTHER ONE IS JUST
00:47:07.49\00:47:10.83
CRYING OUT, BUT
PLEASE FORGIVE ME.
00:47:10.83\00:47:12.93
I'M SO SORRY. I
DIDN'T MEAN THAT -- I -- I
00:47:12.93\00:47:17.50
APOLOGIZE. THE
OTHER ONE IS JUST NO, I
00:47:17.50\00:47:19.40
DON'T WANT TO PRAY WITH YOU.
I DON'T WANT TO TOUCH, BUT THEN
00:47:19.40\00:47:23.41
THEY GO ON TO SING EVERY
SABBATH, WORSHIP EVERY SABBATH
00:47:23.41\00:47:28.58
AND I SAY THERE IS SOMETHING
SERIOUSLY WRONG WITH THAT.
00:47:28.58\00:47:32.11
SO AS YOU WANT PEOPLE TO
DO TO YOU, DO ALSO TO THEM.
00:47:32.11\00:47:36.65
IT'S A RECIPROCAL PRINCIPAL.
>> LET'S TALK ABOUT THAT A
00:47:36.65\00:47:40.79
MINUTE. BECAUSE THIS IS HUGE.
00:47:40.79\00:47:42.09
IN RELATIONSHIPS THERE ARE MANY
PEOPLE WHO ARE AT ODD AGAINST
00:47:42.09\00:47:48.20
SOMEBODY ELSE, AND MAYBE AT HOME
YOU ARE THE PERSON WHO HAS THE
00:47:48.20\00:47:51.93
HARD HEART AND SAY I DON'T WANT
TO FORGIVE SO AND SO, BECAUSE
00:47:51.93\00:47:56.44
THEY HURT ME TOO DEEPLY.
LET'S TALK FROM THAT PERSPECTIVE
00:47:56.44\00:48:00.24
FIRST, AND THEN GO
FROM THE OTHER PERSPECTIVE.
00:48:00.24\00:48:02.98
WHAT DO PEOPLE DO IF THEY
WANT TO RECONCILE AND THE OTHER
00:48:02.98\00:48:08.65
PERSON DOESN'T WANT TO.
LET'S TALK ABOUT THE PERSON WHO
00:48:08.65\00:48:12.29
SAYS I CAN'T FORGIVE. I
CAN'T LET GO OF THAT PAIN.
00:48:12.29\00:48:16.52
>> I THINK THAT PERSON
NEEDS TO TAKE A LOOK AT THEIR
00:48:16.52\00:48:22.30
RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD AND THINK
ABOUT HOW GOD HAS FORGIVEN THEM
00:48:22.30\00:48:26.00
SO MANY TIMES FOR THE THINGS
THAT -- THAT THEY HAVE DONE YOU
00:48:26.00\00:48:29.70
KNOW? THEY NEEDED
TO -- I GUESS HAVE A
00:48:29.70\00:48:32.67
HUMBLING EXPERIENCE. >> YEAH.
00:48:32.67\00:48:35.11
IT'S SAD, BUT
THEY DON'T. >> GOOD.
00:48:35.11\00:48:37.25
>> THEY DON'T
LOOK AT THEIR LIVES.
00:48:37.25\00:48:38.98
IT'S -- A LOT OF
THEM DON'T. >> YEAH.
00:48:38.98\00:48:42.35
IT'S EVERYBODY ELSE'S FAULT.
>> EVERYBODY ELSE'S FAULT.
00:48:42.35\00:48:48.36
YEAH. WE HAVE
FAMILY MEMBERS LIKE THAT
00:48:48.36\00:48:51.03
TOO. WHICH IS
RELATION, ISN'T IT?
00:48:51.03\00:48:54.73
>> THAT'S RIGHT.
COMING FROM A BIG FAMILY, SHE
00:48:54.73\00:48:58.90
HAD EIGHT SIBLINGS,
SEVEN NOW, ONE IS DECEASED.
00:48:58.90\00:49:06.21
BUT YEAH. YOU
CAN TALK ABOUT THAT.
00:49:06.21\00:49:08.51
>> STRONG HEADED ONES THAT'S
LIKE, LORD -- AND PEOPLE LIKE
00:49:08.51\00:49:12.85
THIS IN MY FAMILY, I PRAY FOR
THEM, BECAUSE I DON'T KNOW HOW
00:49:12.85\00:49:16.48
THEY DO IT MYSELF. I
JUST HAVE TO ASK THE LORD FOR
00:49:16.48\00:49:21.42
WISDOM AND
GUIDANCE. RIGHT, HONEY?
00:49:21.42\00:49:23.73
>> UH-HUH. >> AND
JUST ASK THE LORD, AND
00:49:23.73\00:49:26.36
JUST KEEP PRAYING FOR THEM,
LORD, HELP THEM, HELP THEM.
00:49:26.36\00:49:30.33
I KNOW I WAS WORKING AT A JOB IN
CALIFORNIA, AND ONE LADY -- MY
00:49:30.33\00:49:35.70
SUPERVISOR WAS THERE -- REMEMBER
I TOLD YOU ABOUT THIS HON --
00:49:35.70\00:49:38.54
>> UH-HUH. >> -- AND
MY SUPERVISOR CAME IN
00:49:38.54\00:49:42.11
AND THIS LADY
DOES SO AWFUL TO ME --
00:49:42.11\00:49:45.25
>> ANOTHER
COWORKER. >> ANOTHER COWORKER.
00:49:45.25\00:49:48.95
SHE CAME IN AND SHE
SAID ANGELA -- YAW, YAW, YAW.
00:49:48.95\00:49:53.82
SHE WAS JUST YELLING AT ME.
AND MY SUPERVISOR WAS THERE THAT
00:49:53.82\00:49:58.29
DAY. SHE DIDN'T
WORK IN THAT OFFICE,
00:49:58.29\00:50:00.26
BUT SHE WAS THERE THAT
DAY. AND I DIDN'T SAY A WORD.
00:50:00.26\00:50:03.70
I WAS LIKE, WHY IS
SHE SAYING THIS TO ME?
00:50:03.70\00:50:08.34
THAT'S NOT TRUE
I JUST KEPT QUIET.
00:50:08.34\00:50:10.71
AND AFTER THE LADY LEFT --
SHE JUST STORMED OUT OF THERE.
00:50:10.71\00:50:15.21
MY SUPERVISOR SAID
ANGELA, I'M SO PROUD OF YOU.
00:50:15.21\00:50:19.15
YOU DIDN'T SAY
ANYTHING TO REBUTTAL HER.
00:50:19.15\00:50:22.62
I KNOW HOW THAT LADY
IS. I KNOW HOW MEAN SHE IS.
00:50:22.62\00:50:26.92
BUT SHE SAID I DON'T
KNOW HOW YOU TOOK ALL OF THAT.
00:50:26.92\00:50:29.52
AND SOMETIMES IT'S
GOOD TO JUST KEEP QUIET.
00:50:29.52\00:50:32.43
BECAUSE YOU WANT TO SAY
SOMETHING AND GET BACK -- JUST
00:50:32.43\00:50:36.00
KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT --
WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY --
00:50:36.00\00:50:39.53
>> A SOFT ANSWER
[OVERLAPPING SPEAKERS]
00:50:39.53\00:50:41.07
>> YES. YES.
00:50:41.07\00:50:42.27
I WOULD HAVE SELLED AT HER
AND SCREAMED, BUT I DIDN'T.
00:50:42.27\00:50:49.04
>> AND TELL THEM THE END
RESULT. >> I GOT A RAISE.
00:50:49.04\00:50:52.81
THE NEXT WEEK MY
BOSS GAVE ME A RAISE.
00:50:52.81\00:50:54.92
[ LAUGHTER ] >>
IT WAS A BLESSING.
00:50:54.92\00:50:57.85
>> I HAVE HAD THAT
HARD HEART AT TIMES.
00:50:57.85\00:51:00.86
YOU GET HURT, AND
IT'S LIKE, OH, MAN.
00:51:00.86\00:51:03.19
>> YES. >> I FEEL
LIKE I'M IN THE RIGHT,
00:51:03.19\00:51:06.73
BUT I HAVE HAD THAT HARD HEAR,
AND THAT'S WHERE MY OWN PERSONAL
00:51:06.73\00:51:11.07
EXPERIENCE, I HAVE HAD TO
SAY, GOD, PLEASE TAKE THAT STONY
00:51:11.07\00:51:15.04
HEART AND GIVE
ME A HEART OF FLESH.
00:51:15.04\00:51:19.57
>> THAT'S THE
SCRIPTURE I HAVE OPEN.
00:51:19.57\00:51:22.51
>> OKAY. GO FOR IT.
00:51:22.51\00:51:24.28
GO AHEAD, READ IT. >>
IT SAYS -- BECAUSE I LOVE
00:51:24.28\00:51:27.55
THIS -- BECAUSE WE
CAN'T CHANGE OUR HEARTS.
00:51:27.55\00:51:33.05
AND THAT'S THE
BEAUTY OF THE GOSPEL.
00:51:33.05\00:51:36.52
GOD DOES IT. EZEKIEL
36:26, SAYS I WILL TAKE
00:51:36.52\00:51:46.77
THE HEART OF STONE OUT OF YOUR
FLESH -- I WILL TAKE THAT HEART
00:51:46.77\00:51:51.77
OF STONE OUT OF YOUR FLESH,
AND GIVE YOU ARE HEART OF FLESH.
00:51:51.77\00:51:55.94
I WILL PUT MY SPIRIT WITHIN
YOU, AND CAUSE YOU TO WALK IN MY
00:51:55.94\00:52:02.15
STATUES, AND YOU WILL DEEP MY
JUDGMENTS AND DO THAT, AND YOU
00:52:02.15\00:52:06.72
SHALL BE MY PEOPLE. >> AMEN.
00:52:06.72\00:52:08.42
>> AND I WILL BE YOUR GOD.
GOD IS THE ONE WHO DOES THAT.
00:52:08.42\00:52:13.29
>> ABSOLUTELY. IT'S GREAT -- NO.
00:52:13.29\00:52:15.63
BUT JUST THAT -- YEAH, FOR ME
IN MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE JUST
00:52:15.63\00:52:19.70
PRAYING THAT TO GOD,
SAYING GOD, YOU HAVE TO DO THIS.
00:52:19.70\00:52:24.51
I KNOW I SHOULD FORGIVE, BUT BY
FAITH, I'M GOING TO GO OUT THERE
00:52:24.51\00:52:28.58
AND SAY, YEAH, GOD, PUT
THAT FORGIVING SPIRIT IN ME.
00:52:28.58\00:52:34.12
TAKE MY STONY OLD HEART
AND MAKE IT SOFT AND PLIABLE.
00:52:34.12\00:52:41.86
IT'S GOD THAT CREATES IT.
SO PRAYING THOSE SCRIPTURES TO
00:52:41.86\00:52:47.73
GOD. AND GOD DOES
A MIRACLE -- GOING
00:52:47.73\00:52:50.53
BACK TO THAT SONG, SAM
OCAMPO -- >> IT TAKES A MIRACLE.
00:52:50.53\00:52:56.91
>> IF SOMEBODY HAS WRONGED
YOU IN A TERRIBLE WAY, JUST SAY,
00:52:56.91\00:53:00.51
GOD, I WANT TO
FORGIVE, I NEED TO FORGIVE.
00:53:00.51\00:53:05.31
TAKE THAT OLD HEART OUT OF ME,
AND GIVE ME A HEART OF FLESH.
00:53:05.31\00:53:09.68
>> JASON. >> I'M
GOING TO TRY TO READ THIS
00:53:09.68\00:53:12.99
QUICK. >> NO, YOU ARE FINE.
00:53:12.99\00:53:17.29
THIS IS MATTHEW 18:21
-- STARTING WITH VERSE 21.
00:53:17.29\00:53:23.83
THEN PETER CAME TO HIM AND SAID
LORD HOW OFTEN SHALL MY BROTHER
00:53:23.83\00:53:27.67
SIN AGAINST ME
AND I FORGIVE HIM?
00:53:27.67\00:53:30.47
UP TO SEVEN TIMES? JESUS
SAID TO HIM, I DO NOT SAY
00:53:30.47\00:53:33.78
TO YOU UP TO SEVEN
TIMES, BUT UP TO 70 TIMES SEVEN.
00:53:33.78\00:53:38.88
THEREFORE THE KINGDOM OF
HEAVEN IS LIKE A CERTAIN KING.
00:53:38.88\00:53:42.82
AND WHEN HE HAD BEGUN TO SETTLE
ACCOUNTS ONE WAS BROUGHT TO HIM
00:53:42.82\00:53:47.26
WHO OWED HIM 10,000 TALENTS, BUT
AS HE WAS NOT ABLE TO PAY, HIS
00:53:47.26\00:53:51.36
MATSER COMMANDED THAT HE BE SOLD
WITH HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN AND
00:53:51.36\00:53:55.13
ALL THAT HE HAD,
THAT PAYMENT BE MADE.
00:53:55.13\00:53:58.80
THE SERVANT THEREFORE FELL DOWN
BEFORE HIM SAYING MASTER HAVE
00:53:58.80\00:54:02.80
PATIENCE WITH ME AND I WILL
PAY YOU OFF, THEN THE MASTER WAS
00:54:02.80\00:54:06.24
MOVED WITH COMPASSION, RELEASED
HIM AND FORGAVE HIM THE DEBT.
00:54:06.24\00:54:10.08
BUT THAT SERVANT WENT OUT AND
FOUND ONE OF HIS FELLOW SERVANTS
00:54:10.08\00:54:15.15
WHO OWED HIM 100 DENARI, AND HE
LAID HANDS ON HIM AND TOOK HIM
00:54:15.15\00:54:21.56
BY THE THROAT
SAYING PAY ME WHAT YOU OWE.
00:54:21.56\00:54:24.33
SO HE THE FELLOW SERVANT FELL
DOWN AT HIS FEET AND SAID HAVE
00:54:24.33\00:54:29.60
PATIENCE WITH ME,
AND I WILL PAY YUF.
00:54:29.60\00:54:33.20
AND HE WOULD NOT BUT WENT AND
THROUGH HIM INTO PRISON UNTIL HE
00:54:33.20\00:54:36.14
SHOULD PAY THE DEBT. WHEN
HIS FELLOW SERVANT SAW THAT
00:54:36.14\00:54:39.51
HAD BEEN DONE, THEY CAME AND
TOLD THEIR MASTER ALL THAT HAD
00:54:39.51\00:54:43.71
BEEN DONE, THEN HIS MASTER AFTER
HE HAS CALLED HIM, SAID TO HIM,
00:54:43.71\00:54:47.48
YOU WICKED SERVANT, I FORGAVE
YOU ALL OF THAT DEBT BECAUSE YOU
00:54:47.48\00:54:51.82
BEGGED ME. SHOULD
YOU NOT ALSO HAVE HAD
00:54:51.82\00:54:54.46
COMPASSION ON YOUR FELLOW
SERVANT JUST AS I HAD PITY ON
00:54:54.46\00:54:58.03
YOU, AND HIS MASTER WAS
ANGRY, AND DELIVERED HIM TO THE
00:54:58.03\00:55:02.23
TORTURES UNTIL HE SHOULD
PAY ALL THAT WAS DUE TO HIM.
00:55:02.23\00:55:05.43
SO MY HEAVENLY FATHER WILL ALSO
DO TO YOU IF EACH OF YOU FROM
00:55:05.43\00:55:11.54
HIS HEART DOES NOT FORGIVE
HIS BROTHER HIS TRESPASSES.
00:55:11.54\00:55:15.91
GOD HAS FORGIVEN US OF SO MANY
-THINGS THAT WE HAVE DONE, THAT
IT WOULD BE CRAZY FOR US NOT TO
00:55:15.91\00:55:24.79
FORGIVE SOMEBODY WHO HAS WRONGED
US, AND THAT PARABLE SPEAKS TO
00:55:24.79\00:55:29.36
THAT. IT IS POWERFUL.
00:55:29.36\00:55:31.06
>> OH, IT IS. YEAH,
THAT'S A GREAT PASSAGE,
00:55:31.06\00:55:34.40
ISN'T IT? >> YOU
KNOW, FORGIVENESS IS
00:55:34.40\00:55:37.20
DIVINE. IT IS NOT HUMAN.
00:55:37.20\00:55:38.73
>> THAT'S RIGHT. >>
BECAUSE IF I'M LOOKING AT THE
00:55:38.73\00:55:42.40
EXAMPLES THAT ARE GIVEN HERE, IT
COMES BACK -- NOT ONLY THE FRUIT
00:55:42.40\00:55:46.11
OF THE SPIRIT'S LOVE.
BUT IT'S LONG SUFFERING.
00:55:46.11\00:55:51.31
GENTLENESS, MEEKNESS, PATIENCE.
AND I USE THE WORD -- I THINK
00:55:51.31\00:55:56.52
THE PRINCIPLE, I THINK, BUT
LORD -- I'LL SHARE THIS MAYBE IN
00:55:56.52\00:56:01.22
THE SECOND HOUR -- >> OKAY.
00:56:01.22\00:56:02.89
>> ABOUT HOW -- AND I
APPRECIATE WHAT YOU SAID.
00:56:02.89\00:56:06.70
WE CAN MAKE A CHANGE.
REALLY, WE CAN CHOOSE TO MAKE A
00:56:06.70\00:56:10.77
CHANGE. >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:56:10.77\00:56:11.57
>> AND THE CHANGE IS MADE BY THE
LORD, BECAUSE WHAT YOU READ IN
00:56:11.57\00:56:17.47
EZEKIEL 37? >> 36.
00:56:17.47\00:56:19.51
>> 36. HE SAID I WILL.
00:56:19.51\00:56:22.01
IT WAS NOTHING
ON EZEKIEL'S PART.
00:56:22.01\00:56:25.68
THE LORD SAID I WILL, I WILL.
IT'S NO LONGER MY WILL, BUT HIS
00:56:25.68\00:56:30.49
WILL. >> AMEN.
00:56:30.49\00:56:31.52
>> SO IT'S WHAT HE DOES.
IF THERE IS FIRST A WILLING
00:56:31.52\00:56:37.59
HEART, IF WE ARE WILLING AND
OBEDIENT, ISAIAH 1 -- IF WE ARE
00:56:37.59\00:56:44.87
WILLING AND' BEET YENT WE WILL
EAT OF THE FRUIT OF THE LAND.
00:56:44.87\00:56:48.14
WE HAVE TO BE WILLING AND
OBEDIENT, AND I THINK WE'LL TALK
00:56:48.14\00:56:52.31
ABOUT HOW TO BE
WILLING AND OBEDIENT.
00:56:52.31\00:56:55.28
>> AMEN. THAT'S SO EXCITING.
00:56:55.28\00:56:58.28
I LOVE PHILLIPIANS,
IT'S GOD WHO WORKS IN YOU.
00:56:58.28\00:57:01.45
AND I SAY THIS VERSE ALL THE
TIME, BUT I BELIEVE IT WITH ALL
00:57:01.45\00:57:05.49
OF MY HEART. BECAUSE
GOD GIVES US THE DESIRE
00:57:05.49\00:57:08.32
TO FOLLOW HIM. HE
GIVES US THE DESIRE TO EVEN
00:57:08.32\00:57:11.46
CHANGE. AND THEN
HE GIVE US THE POWER.
00:57:11.46\00:57:14.20
SO IT'S GOD ALL THE
WAY. AND YOU ARE RIGHT.
00:57:14.20\00:57:17.43
IT'S US CHOOSING
TO MAKE A CHOICE.
00:57:17.43\00:57:19.57
JUST SAYING GOD
WILL YOU CHANGE ME.
00:57:19.57\00:57:21.77
WILL YOU GIVE ME
THE HEART OF FLESH.
00:57:21.77\00:57:23.64
I'M SO EXCITED WE HAVE A WHOLE
OTHER HOUR TO TALK ABOUT THIS,
00:57:23.64\00:57:31.75
BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS.
SO PRAISE THE LORD FOR THAT,
00:57:31.75\00:57:37.09
SWEETHEART. HE WANTS
TO DO THAT WHETHER IT'S
00:57:37.09\00:57:38.99
CHURCH, COWORKERS, MARRIAGES
SPOUSE, WHATEVER IT IS.
00:57:38.99\00:57:46.49
WE'LL BE RIGHT BACK
FOR THE SECOND HOUR.
00:57:46.49\00:57:47.93
¤
00:57:47.93\00:57:51.97