¤ >> WELCOME BACK TO THE SECOND
00:00:08.84\00:00:15.38
HOUR OF OUR LIVE
SITTING TOGETHER HERE.
00:00:15.38\00:00:17.71
WE'RE TALKING ABOUT THE FREEDOM
IN FORGIVENESS, AND HOW WE CAN
00:00:17.71\00:00:22.05
EXPERIENCE THAT, HOW WE
CAN EXTEND GOD'S FORGIVENESS TO
00:00:22.05\00:00:27.36
OTHERS, HOW WE CAN BREAK FREE
FROM THOSE HURTS AND PAINS AND
00:00:27.36\00:00:31.43
WOUNDS THAT MANY OF US HAVE
CARRIED EVEN FROM CHILDHOOD.
00:00:31.43\00:00:35.20
MY HUSBAND GREG
IS PRODUCING TONIGHT.
00:00:35.20\00:00:37.33
SO I JUST GOT TO SEE
HIM. HE WALKED OUT ON SET.
00:00:37.33\00:00:42.44
AND WE HAVE SO FAR 12,500 OF
THESE LITTLE BOOKLETS "AFTER THE
00:00:42.44\00:00:49.08
STORM" HAVE
ALREADY BEEN REQUESTED.
00:00:49.08\00:00:50.65
THEY ARE COMING FROM THE STATES
OF TEXAS AND FLORIDA, WHICH IS
00:00:50.65\00:00:54.58
SPECIFICALLY WHAT
WE HAVE ASKED FOR.
00:00:54.58\00:00:56.32
SO WE'RE EXCITED ABOUT THAT,
WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU TO KEEP
00:00:56.32\00:01:01.09
CALLING IN. CALL US
AT 618-627-4651, OR SEND
00:01:01.09\00:01:05.16
AN EMAIL, MAILROOM@3ABN.TV.
THE EMAIL IS MAILROOM@3ABN.TV
00:01:05.16\00:01:13.80
NFL THESE BOOKLETS ARE FREE.
NO SHIPPING, NO CHARGE FOR THE
00:01:13.80\00:01:18.11
BOOKLETS. ALL YOU
HAVE TO DO IS CALL OR
00:01:18.11\00:01:21.51
EMAIL, AND WE WILL SEND
THEM OUT, ESPECIALLY CHURCHES.
00:01:21.51\00:01:24.75
WE'RE ENCOURAGING CHURCHES
TO -CONTACT US. GET 500, 1,000,
00:01:24.75\00:01:33.79
2,000, WHATEVER YOU THINK YOU
CAN GIVE OUT IN YOUR
STORM-RAVAGED COMMUNITY.
00:01:33.79\00:01:38.16
LET'S TAKE A LOOK AT A
COUPLE OF QUESTIONS HERE.
00:01:38.16\00:01:41.30
THIS IS FROM SHARON.
AND SHE IS FROM THE UNITED
00:01:41.30\00:01:44.80
KINGDOM. MY
HUSBAND CHEATED ON ME WITH
00:01:44.80\00:01:47.14
ANOTHER WOMAN. TAKING
HER AWAY TO A HOTEL FOR A
00:01:47.14\00:01:50.97
FULL WEEKEND. HOW DO
I FORGIVE HIM AND STILL
00:01:50.97\00:01:54.64
LOVE HIM AS A HUSBAND?
HE ADMITTED WHAT HE DID.
00:01:54.64\00:01:57.61
AND ASKED ME TO FORGIVE HIM
AFTER I SHOWED HIM PROOF OF THE
00:01:57.61\00:02:03.32
HOTEL BILL. >> BOY.
00:02:03.32\00:02:04.59
THAT'S PROBABLY ONE
OF THE HARDEST, I THINK.
00:02:04.59\00:02:06.86
>> YEAH. >>
BECAUSE THAT IS SUCH A
00:02:06.86\00:02:10.33
BETRAYAL OF THE ONENESS THAT YOU
SHARED WITH YOUR HUSBAND THAT
00:02:10.33\00:02:13.96
HAS BEEN -- HAS
BEEN RIPPED APART.
00:02:13.96\00:02:20.77
FIRST OF ALL, HAVING PRAISE GOD
NEVER EXPERIENCES THAT, THIS IS
00:02:20.77\00:02:25.94
AN ISSUE WHERE YOU REALLY HAVE
TO SURRENDER THIS TO THE LORD,
00:02:25.94\00:02:30.18
AND ASK GOD TO HELP
YOU IN THIS SITUATION.
00:02:30.18\00:02:34.05
BUT I THINK THAT YOUR HUSBAND
NEEDS TO -- IF I WERE GOING
00:02:34.05\00:02:38.85
THROUGH THIS, I WOULD BE WANT TO
BE GOING TO COUNSELING, I WOULD
00:02:38.85\00:02:43.49
WANT TO MAKE SURE HE IS
REPENTANT AND HE IS NOT JUST
00:02:43.49\00:02:47.56
CONFESSING AND ASKING FOR
YOUR FORGIVENESS BECAUSE HE GOT
00:02:47.56\00:02:51.57
CAUGHT. YOU WANT
TO MAKE SURE -- WHAT
00:02:51.57\00:02:54.40
HAPPENED? WHY DID HE DO THIS?
00:02:54.40\00:02:56.14
BUT HE WOULD HAVE
TO EARN MY TRUST AGAIN.
00:02:56.14\00:02:58.94
>> OKAY. GOOD.
00:02:58.94\00:03:01.64
>> I DON'T THINK -- YOU KNOW,
AND DON'T YOU THINK THAT -- BOY.
00:03:01.64\00:03:07.25
HAVING FAITH IN SOMEBODY IS
JUST -- EVEN HAVING FAITH IN GOD
00:03:07.25\00:03:10.85
IS -- TRUST IS THE
FOUNDATION FOR FAITH.
00:03:10.85\00:03:12.99
>> IT IS. >> SO IT WOUL BE
00:03:12.99\00:03:15.39
VERY -- THAT'S -- THAT'S
SOMETHING THAT GOD HAS TO DO,
00:03:15.39\00:03:18.19
AND IT HELPS WITH
YOU BEGINNING TO PRAY.
00:03:18.19\00:03:20.83
AND I'M RAMBLING. GO MOLLIE.
00:03:20.83\00:03:27.00
[ LAUGHTER ] >> IT WAS HARD.
00:03:27.00\00:03:28.00
>> YEAH, IT WAS. IT
SEEMS LIKE HER QUESTION WAS
00:03:28.00\00:03:32.77
DO I HAVE TO FORGIVE HIM?
>> SHE SAID HOW DO I FORGIVE
00:03:32.77\00:03:37.78
HIM? AND STILL
LOVE HIM AS A HUSBAND?
00:03:37.78\00:03:40.62
>> OKAY. SEE THOSE ARE DIFFICULT
00:03:40.62\00:03:43.45
QUESTIONS. HOW DO I FORGIVE HIM?
00:03:43.45\00:03:45.75
YOU FORGIVE HIM -- THE
HOW IS WITH GOD'S FORGIVENESS?
00:03:45.75\00:03:50.43
DO YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE HIM?
THE ANSWER WOULD BE YES, BECAUSE
00:03:50.43\00:03:54.56
IF YOU DON'T FORGIVE HIM, THEN
THAT UNFORGIVENESS IN YOUR HEART
00:03:54.56\00:03:59.77
IS DOING MORE HARM
THAN IT IS DOING HIM.
00:03:59.77\00:04:02.34
DO YOU HAVE TO TRUST HIM AND
PUT YOURSELF IN THAT POSITION?
00:04:02.34\00:04:06.64
NOW THAT IS
SOMETHING YOU HAVE TO WORK OUT.
00:04:06.64\00:04:09.04
YOU HAVE TO DETERMINE IN
COUNSELING, OR WITH HIS BEHAVIOR
00:04:09.04\00:04:13.31
AND HOW HE PRESENTS HIMSELF IN
HIS CONVINCING YOU THAT THIS WAS
00:04:13.31\00:04:21.42
MAYBE A ONETIME ACT OR
WHATEVER,-BUT, YOU KNOW, AS YOU
FORGIVE HIM, THEN YOU WALK OUT
00:04:21.42\00:04:29.16
FROM UNDER THAT BONDAGE OF THAT
UNFORGIVENESS IN YOUR LIFE, BUT
00:04:29.16\00:04:32.63
THEN PUTTING -- PUTTING -- AS
SHELLEY SAID THE TRUST BACK INTO
00:04:32.63\00:04:36.40
THE MARRIAGE, PUTTING THAT
RELATIONSHIP BACK INTO WHAT
00:04:36.40\00:04:43.91
EVERY WOMAN WANTS IN A MARRIAGE
RELATIONSHIP, NOW THOSE ARE THE
00:04:43.91\00:04:48.12
DIFFICULT STEPS THAT YOU HAVE TO
WALK THROUGH, AND YOU NEED HELP
00:04:48.12\00:04:52.15
TO WALK THROUGH THAT, COUNSELING
IN YOUR LOCAL CHURCH OR
00:04:52.15\00:04:56.06
WHATEVER. BUT --
OH, HONEY, DO -- DON'T
00:04:56.06\00:04:59.83
LET THAT HEAVINESS OF
UNFORGIVENESS WEIGH IN YOUR
00:04:59.83\00:05:04.60
HEART. >> AND I'M GOING TO ADD
00:05:04.60\00:05:06.57
SOMETHING. AND YOU
MAY ALL WANT TO POP ME
00:05:06.57\00:05:09.20
AFTER I SAY THIS. YES,
YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE HIM.
00:05:09.20\00:05:13.27
THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOU'LL
END UP MARRIED TO THIS MAN.
00:05:13.27\00:05:16.61
>> ABSOLUTELY. ABSO
00:05:16.61\00:05:20.38
ABSOLUTELY. >> IT
DEPENDS ON IS THIS THE
00:05:20.38\00:05:22.28
FIRST TIME HE HAS DONE THIS?
IT'S JUST LIKE I WANT TO TALK TO
00:05:22.28\00:05:26.42
SOMEBODY TONIGHT WHO MAY BE
LIVING WITH AN ABUSIVE HUSBAND
00:05:26.42\00:05:30.23
WHO COMES AND REPENTS AND BEGS
FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS, AND YOU
00:05:30.23\00:05:35.73
FORGIVE, BUT THEN IT HAPPENS
AGAIN AND IT HAPPENS AGAIN.
00:05:35.73\00:05:39.17
THEY ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE
UNTIL THEY HAVE SERIOUS HELP
00:05:39.17\00:05:44.01
AND -- OR A TRUE
CONVERSION FROM THE LORD.
00:05:44.01\00:05:47.68
SO FORGIVING SOMEONE
DOESN'T MEAN -- I FORGIVE YOU.
00:05:47.68\00:05:52.45
DO IT TO ME
AGAIN. >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:05:52.45\00:05:54.95
>> FORGIVING SOMEONE
MEANS THAT YOU ARE RELEASING --
00:05:54.95\00:05:58.39
>> YES. >> AND -- AND YOU CAN
00:05:58.39\00:06:01.89
EVEN -- YOU KNOW, WHEN JESUS
TALKED ABOUT HEAPING COALS UPON
00:06:01.89\00:06:05.43
THEIR HEAD. HOW DOES
THAT SCRIPTURE GO IN I
00:06:05.43\00:06:08.56
CAN'T THINK OF IT
RIGHT NOW. >> ROMANS 12 --
00:06:08.56\00:06:12.90
>> I DON'T KNOW
WHERE IT IS. >> OKAY.
00:06:12.90\00:06:15.90
>> BUT IT'S A WHEN YOU FORGIVE
SOMEONE YOU ARE HEAPING BURNING
00:06:15.90\00:06:21.81
COALS UPON THEIR HEAD.
DID YOU KNOW IN THAT DAY AND
00:06:21.81\00:06:24.71
AGE -- AND IT IS STILL
IN CERTAIN CIRCLES IT IS
00:06:24.71\00:06:28.28
HAPPENING -- >>
ROMANS 12:20 THEREFORE IF
00:06:28.28\00:06:31.55
YOUR ENEMY IS HUNGRY FEED
HIM, IF HE IS THIRSTY GIVE HIM A
00:06:31.55\00:06:39.03
DRINK, FOR IN SO DOING YO
WILL HEAP COALS OF FIRE UPON HIS
00:06:39.03\00:06:44.53
HEAD. >> WHAT HAPPENED IS WHEN
00:06:44.53\00:06:46.20
SOMEBODY WAS IN REPENTANCE THEY
WORE THAT HEAD DRESS THAT HAD
00:06:46.20\00:06:52.94
THIS PANEL, AND THEY WOULD PUT
HOT COALS UPON THEIR HEAD, AND
00:06:52.94\00:06:59.08
THAT WAS TO SHOW THE REPENTANCE.
>> DID THEY FEEL THE HOT COALS?
00:06:59.08\00:07:06.09
>> I WOULD GUESS THEY HAD SOME
PROTECTION, BUT THEY ARE STILL
00:07:06.09\00:07:09.82
DOING THIS PRACTICE OF
WEARING COALS UPON THEIR HEAD.
00:07:09.82\00:07:14.36
BUT IT SAYS WHEN YOU ARE BEING
KIND TO YOUR ENEMY, YOU ARE MORE
00:07:14.36\00:07:19.93
LIKELY TO MAKE THEM REPENT.
YOU THINK ABOUT PEOPLE WHO -- I
00:07:19.93\00:07:23.37
HEARD A STORY OF SOMEONE WHO WAS
IN PRISON RECENTLY, AND HE MADE
00:07:23.37\00:07:27.88
FRIENDS -- HE HAD BEEN TORTURED
AND -- AND ABUSED BY THIS GUARD,
00:07:27.88\00:07:35.32
AND HE MADE FRIENDS -- HE
DECIDED HE WAS GOING TO MAKE
00:07:35.32\00:07:39.12
FRIENDS WITH THIS GUARD, AND THE
GUARD SAID WHY DO YOU WANT TO BE
00:07:39.12\00:07:43.06
MY FRIEND? AND HE
SAID, WELL, I'M GOING TO
00:07:43.06\00:07:46.13
BE WITH YOU SOMETIME.
WELL, BECAUSE HE FORGAVE THE
00:07:46.13\00:07:49.96
GUARD AND WAS NICE TO
HIM, THE GUARD REPENTED.
00:07:49.96\00:07:53.70
BUT ANYWAY HONEY WHAT YOU NEED
IS A LOT OF PRAYER, AND YOU NEED
00:07:53.70\00:07:57.41
TO SEEK THE LORD AND FIND OUT,
IS THIS A PATTERN OR IS THIS
00:07:57.41\00:08:02.31
SOMETHING THAT HE
SNUCK AROUND AND DONE BEFORE?
00:08:02.31\00:08:05.85
AND PERSONALLY, YOU NEED TO MAKE
SURE THAT HE IS TESTED FO HIV.
00:08:05.85\00:08:11.05
I WOULDN'T LET -- YOU KNOW, CA
TELLS THE STORY OF -- OF A DEAR
00:08:11.05\00:08:19.26
WOMAN IN HIS CHURCH WHO'S
HUSBAND WAS A PHILANDERER.
00:08:19.26\00:08:30.97
HE BROUGHT HOME AIDS. HE
NEVER GOT IT, AND SHE DIED
00:08:30.97\00:08:36.01
FROM AIDS >>
FORGIVENESS ISN'T GRANTED
00:08:36.01\00:08:38.85
BECAUSE A PERSON
DESERVES TO BE FORGIVEN.
00:08:38.85\00:08:42.88
IT'S AN ACT OF LOVE.
FORGIVENESS IS AN ACT OF GRACE.
00:08:42.88\00:08:46.55
SO IT'S NOT BECAUSE YOUR HUSBAND
DESERVES TO BE FORGIVEN, OR THE
00:08:46.55\00:08:52.99
PERSON THAT SINNED AGAINST
YOU, IT'S AN ACT OF -- FROM YOUR
00:08:52.99\00:08:58.40
HEART. AND ALSO
WHEN WE HAVE FORGIVEN
00:08:58.40\00:09:01.17
OFFENSE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE
ARE CONDONING THE OFFENSE, THAT
00:09:01.17\00:09:07.24
WE'RE PRETENDING THE OFFENSE
DIDN'T HAPPEN, THAT WE'RE GOING
00:09:07.24\00:09:11.31
TO FORGIVE THE OFFENSE.
WE'RE NOT GOING TO FORGIVE THE
00:09:11.31\00:09:20.82
OFFENSE. THAT
WOULD MEAN THERE IS
00:09:20.82\00:09:23.12
SOMETHING WRONG
WITH OUR REBERER.
00:09:23.12\00:09:27.10
[ LAUGHTER ] >> THIS
PERSON PUTS THEMSELVES
00:09:27.10\00:09:28.70
IN A PLACE WHERE YOU HAVE
CONFIDENCE THAT THEY ARE NOT
00:09:28.70\00:09:32.27
GOING TO DO IT TO YOU AGAIN.
AND IT IS NEVER ALLOWING ANOTHER
00:09:32.27\00:09:36.77
PERSON TO CONTINUE TO
TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU.
00:09:36.77\00:09:39.27
THAT'S NOT PART OF FORGIVENESS.
FORGIVENESS IS GETTING OUR
00:09:39.27\00:09:43.81
HEARTS CLEANSED, OUR HEARTS
CLEAN AND PURE BEFORE THE LORD,
00:09:43.81\00:09:46.95
AND US STANDING IN
RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.
00:09:46.95\00:09:49.78
>> AMEN. >> YOU
KNOW, YOU MENTIONED ONE
00:09:49.78\00:09:51.79
OF THE WORDS -- THERE'S
DIFFERENT WORDS IN THE NEW TEST
00:09:51.79\00:09:55.19
FOR FORGIVENESS, AND ONE YOU
MENTIONED MEANS TO RELEASE OR
00:09:55.19\00:09:59.53
LET GO. THERE IS
ANOTHER WORD, WHICH IS
00:09:59.53\00:10:03.97
FROM THE SAME ROOT AS GRACE.
AND IT MEANS TO GRANT AS A FAVOR
00:10:03.97\00:10:09.84
IN KINDNESS, PARDON OR RESCUE,
TO DELIVER, TO FRANKLY FORGIVE
00:10:09.84\00:10:16.18
AND FREELY GIVE OR GRANT THERE
SO THIS IS HOW GOD FORGIVES US.
00:10:16.18\00:10:21.02
IT'S -- IT'S
SOMETHING THAT HIS PARDON TO US.
00:10:21.02\00:10:24.12
WE DON'T SDEFSH TO BE FORGIVEN.
WHEN HE SAYS WHEN WE CONFESS OUR
00:10:24.12\00:10:29.72
SINS HE IS FAITHFUL AND JUST TO
FORGIVE US OF OUR SINS, AND TO
00:10:29.72\00:10:35.36
CLEANSE US OF
ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.
00:10:35.36\00:10:38.10
>> AMEN. >> SO IT
-- IT IS SOMETHING THAT
00:10:38.10\00:10:41.47
NO MATTER WHAT GOES ON IN
OUR LIFE, WE NEED TO BE ABLE TO
00:10:41.47\00:10:47.51
FORGIVE, SO WE DON'T
HAVE THAT WIRE OF BITTERNESS.
00:10:47.51\00:10:52.38
SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO FORGIVE
SOMEBODY AND THEN LOVE THEM FROM
00:10:52.38\00:10:55.42
A DISTANCE. AND BY
THE WAY, ASK GOD TO PUT
00:10:55.42\00:10:59.32
HIS LOVE INTO YOUR
HEART FOR THIS MAN.
00:10:59.32\00:11:01.72
>> LET'S HAVE A
PRAYER FOR SHARON.
00:11:01.72\00:11:04.46
>> AMEN. >> CAN WE DO THAT?
00:11:04.46\00:11:06.70
AND THEN WE'LL
HAVE ONE MORE QUESTION.
00:11:06.70\00:11:11.03
SHARON KNOW THAT WE
LOVE YOU HERE AT 3ABN.
00:11:11.03\00:11:13.60
THAT OUR HEARTS HURT FOR
WHAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH.
00:11:13.60\00:11:16.71
BUT I KNOW THAT GOD IS
GOING TO BRING YOU DELIVERANCE.
00:11:16.71\00:11:21.68
FATHER WE LIFT UP OUR SISTER
SHARON, AND AS I MENTION HER
00:11:21.68\00:11:27.45
NAME, LORD, I KNOW THERE ARE
MANY OTHER WOMEN AND MEN IN THIS
00:11:27.45\00:11:32.69
SAME SITUATION. YOU
HAVE THEIR NAMES ENGRAZENED
00:11:32.69\00:11:37.56
ON THE PALM OF YOUR HAND, YOU
LOVE THEM WITH AN EVER LASTING
00:11:37.56\00:11:41.96
LAND. AND WE'RE
ASKING THAT YOU WOULD
00:11:41.96\00:11:44.73
POUR IN YOUR FORGIVENESS.
THAT YOU WOULD POUR IN YOUR
00:11:44.73\00:11:48.14
LOVE, SO THAT THAT COULD BE IN
TURN EXTENDED TO THOSE PEOPLE,
00:11:48.14\00:11:52.47
THEIR SPOUSES THAT
HAVE HURT THEM SO DEEPLY.
00:11:52.47\00:11:56.04
FATHER I ASK FOR
GREAT WISDOM FOR SHARON.
00:11:56.04\00:11:59.61
I ASK THAT YOU GIVE HER
DISCERNMENT TO KNOW WHAT SHE
00:11:59.61\00:12:05.99
SHOULD DO, BUT RIGHT NOW WE JUST
ASK THAT YOU RELEASE HER FROM
00:12:05.99\00:12:10.79
THIS BURDEN OF THE
ROOT OF UNFORGIVENESS.
00:12:10.79\00:12:14.36
GIVE HER FREEDOM. THANK
YOU THAT YOU SAID, WHOEVER
00:12:14.36\00:12:19.33
THE SON SETS
FREE IS FREE INDEED.
00:12:19.33\00:12:23.51
AND WE PRAY FOR
SHARON AND HER HUSBAND.
00:12:23.51\00:12:26.24
WE ASK LORD JESUS FOR
A SPIRIT OF REPENTANCE.
00:12:26.24\00:12:30.08
WE ASK THAT YOU WOULD CONVICT
HIS HEART, AND DRAW HIM WITH
00:12:30.08\00:12:33.21
YOUR LOVING KINDNESS, AND THAT
HE WOLD MAKE A CHOICE FOR YOU.
00:12:33.21\00:12:37.75
HE WOULD CHOOSE YOU, AND YOU
WOULD CHAGE HIM AND TRANSFORM
00:12:37.75\00:12:41.09
HIM. AND GOD THAT
YOU COULD DO A NEW
00:12:41.09\00:12:43.59
THING IN HIS LIFE AND HEART, AND
THAT IT WOULD BE A TESTIMONY TO
00:12:43.59\00:12:47.00
YOUR GOODNESS AND
GRACE. AND WE THANK YOU, IN THE
00:12:47.00\00:12:50.67
PRECIOUS AND HOLY
NAME OF JESUS, AMEN.
00:12:50.67\00:12:54.24
>> AMEN. LET'S DO
ANOTHER QUESTION BEFORE
00:12:54.24\00:12:56.47
WE GO ON. THIS IS FROM LENNET.
00:12:56.47\00:13:01.21
HOW DO YOU WORK WITH SOMEONE WHO
REGARDLESS OF HOW MANY TIMES YOU
00:13:01.21\00:13:05.68
FORGIVE, CONTINUES TO DO
THE SAME MEAN-SPIRITED THINGS TO
00:13:05.68\00:13:09.98
YOU. SO SHE HAS
FORGIVEN, BUT YET THE
00:13:09.98\00:13:12.89
PERSON IS STILL ACTING UP
AGAIN, AND HURTING HER AGAIN.
00:13:12.89\00:13:17.79
>> I HAVE HAD A REAL STRONG
PERSONAL EXPERIENCE WITH SOMEONE
00:13:17.79\00:13:22.60
THAT I ALSO HAD WORKED WITH, AND
A PERSON WHO WAS MANIPULATIVE
00:13:22.60\00:13:27.47
AND CONTROLLING AND BACK BITING
AND TOLD LIES AND -- AND I
00:13:27.47\00:13:32.47
WOULD -- OH, I WOULD ASK GOD,
HELP ME FORGIVE THIS PERSON, AND
00:13:32.47\00:13:39.51
I JUST KEPT IT UP AND UP, AND I
WOULD FEEL LIKE I HAVE FORGIVEN,
00:13:39.51\00:13:45.69
AND IT WOULD HAPPEN
AGAIN. THIS WAS A DAILY PRAYER.
00:13:45.69\00:13:48.56
IT HELPED THAT I STARTED PRAYING
FOR HER BLESSINGS, AS YOU DID.
00:13:48.56\00:13:53.19
SOMETHING ELSE THAT HELPED WAS
I PUT A LITTLE DISTANCE BETWEEN
00:13:53.19\00:13:57.30
US, BUT I THINK THAT THE
MOST IMPORTANT THING WAS THAT I
00:13:57.30\00:14:01.34
PRAYED AND ASKED GOD HELP
ME TO SEE HER AS YOU SEE HER.
00:14:01.34\00:14:09.41
AND THAT'S SOMETHING THAT PAUL
SAYS IN -- LET ME SEE IF I CAN
00:14:09.41\00:14:13.78
FINE THOUGH
SCRIPTURE. 2 CORINTHIANS 5:16.
00:14:13.78\00:14:19.19
HE WAS TALKING ABOUT JESUS,
BUT HE SAYS, SO FRO NOW ON WE
00:14:19.19\00:14:24.69
REGARD NO ONE FROM
THE WORLDLY POINT OF VIEW.
00:14:24.69\00:14:27.76
BECAUSE THEY MISSED -- THEY
MISSED JESUS, AND THE PEOPLE
00:14:27.76\00:14:30.90
DIDN'T UNDERSTAND WHO HE WAS.
AND PALL  -- PAUL WAS SAYING WE
00:14:30.90\00:14:38.71
SHOULDN'T BE REGARDING ANYONE
FROM A WORLDLY POINT OF VIEW.
00:14:38.71\00:14:42.71
BUT THEN IF YOU ASK GOD HELP ME
TO SEE THIS PERSON AS YOU SEE,
00:14:42.71\00:14:48.88
LET ME UNDERSTAND THE VALUE
THAT -- THAT SHE'S WORTH NOTHING
00:14:48.88\00:14:52.72
LESS THAN THE PRICE THAT
YOU PAID WITH YOUR PRECIOUS LIFE
00:14:52.72\00:14:57.76
BLOOD, AND -- AND THEN PRAY FOR
HER BLESSINGS, AND ALSO, I WOULD
00:14:57.76\00:15:02.63
PRAY -- AS -- AS I HAVE, THAT
GOD WOULD HELP OPEN DOORS TO
00:15:02.63\00:15:09.24
IMPROVE THIS
RELATIONSHIP. >> YES.
00:15:09.24\00:15:12.77
ABSOLUTELY. MISS MOLLIE?
00:15:12.77\00:15:14.04
>> WELL, I -- I
UNDERSTAND HOW SHE FEELS.
00:15:14.04\00:15:19.61
BUT MINE WAS A -- SITUATION
THAT I HAD WAS A FATHER THAT WAS
00:15:19.61\00:15:24.22
REALLY ROUGH AND COULD BE
-- HE -- ABUSIVE IN THAT HE
00:15:24.22\00:15:29.16
WAS -- WELL, HE WAS AN
ALCOHOLIC, AND WAS JUST ROUGH.
00:15:29.16\00:15:34.93
AND I CAN REMEMBER MUCH OF
MY LIFE WHERE I WOULD HAVE SUCH
00:15:34.93\00:15:39.97
ANGER AND RESENTMENT
AND BITTERNESS TOWARD HIM,
00:15:39.97\00:15:45.61
AND -- AND IN MY LATER YEARS
AFTER I BECAME A CHRISTIAN, OF
00:15:45.61\00:15:49.84
PRAYING AND ASKING, YOU KNOW,
GOD TO HELP ME FORGIVE HIM, AND
00:15:49.84\00:15:53.58
I WOULD FORGIVE HIM, AND I WOULD
STAND BEFORE HIM, PARTICULARLY
00:15:53.58\00:15:57.15
AFTER I LEFT HOME, YOU KNOW,
IT -- I WOULD GET CONFESSED UP,
00:15:57.15\00:16:02.46
AND REPENTHED UP, AND I WOULD
HAVE THE UNFORGIVENESS OUT OF MY
00:16:02.46\00:16:07.50
HEART, AND I -- I CAN REMEMBER
CALLING HIM AND TELLING HIM I
00:16:07.50\00:16:12.27
LOVE HIM. WHICH WE
WEREN'T A HOME THAT
00:16:12.27\00:16:15.64
WOULD BE EXPRESSED -- I KNOW WE
CHILDREN HAVE TALKED ABOUT IT WE
00:16:15.64\00:16:21.38
WERE THE FIRST ONES TO
INITIATE THE WORDS I LOVE NOW.
00:16:21.38\00:16:27.75
NOT FROM OUR FATHER. SO
EVERYTHING WOULD BE FORGIVEN,
00:16:27.75\00:16:32.49
AND THEN HE WOULD
DO SOMETHING ELSE.
00:16:32.49\00:16:34.06
HE WOULD BE ABUSIVE PERHAPS
TO MY MOTHER OR WHATEVER.
00:16:34.06\00:16:37.99
AND THIS IS WHAT I
FOUND I HAD TO CONTEND WITH.
00:16:37.99\00:16:45.20
IT WASN'T JUST HIS LATEST
INDISCRETION THAT I HAD TO DEAL
00:16:45.20\00:16:50.24
WITH, IT FELT LIKE EVERYTHING
WOULD COME BACK FROM DAY ONE.
00:16:50.24\00:16:53.84
AND THEN I DIDN'T JUST HAVE
TO FORGIVE HIM FOR -- FOR HIS
00:16:53.84\00:16:58.15
LATEST THING THAT HE DID. I
WOULD HAVE TO GO ALL THE WAY
00:16:58.15\00:17:02.52
BACK TO SQUARE 1, BUT IT WAS
ONLY THROUGH THE POWER OF GOD,
00:17:02.52\00:17:06.62
AND -- AND I'LL SAY
THIS. AT -- AT HIS PASSING, HE
00:17:06.62\00:17:12.56
HAD -- HE HAD -- AND I THINK IT
WAS THROUGH THE LOVE AND GRACE
00:17:12.56\00:17:17.07
AND MERCY OF A GODLY WIFE
THAT -- THAT HE HAD COME TO
00:17:17.07\00:17:21.94
BRING HIMELF -- THROUGH THE
POWER OF GOD INTO A RELATIONSHIP
00:17:21.94\00:17:25.57
WITH GOD, AND AS HE -- AS WE
WALKED IN THE LIGHT OF THE WORD
00:17:25.57\00:17:32.25
OF GOD, THEN IT WAS -- AND THESE
INDISCRETIONS WOULD FALL AWAY,
00:17:32.25\00:17:38.39
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER FOR
MY HEART TO BE SOFT AND TENDER
00:17:38.39\00:17:42.26
TOWARD HIM, AND TO HAVE THE
REPENTING AND TO CONTINUE TO
00:17:42.26\00:17:45.43
WALK IN -- IN THAT RELATIONSHIP,
AND SO I'M THINKING OF AS YOU
00:17:45.43\00:17:51.07
ARE WALKING -- AND -- A
DAILY RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE
00:17:51.07\00:17:56.10
THAT -- AT WORK THAT WOULD
CONTINUE TO CAUSE YOU HARDSHIP
00:17:56.10\00:18:01.01
AND PAIN, THAT IS A DIFFICULT
PLACE TO BE, BUT I THINK SHELLEY
00:18:01.01\00:18:05.08
REALLY HIT ON THIS, THAT IF YOU
ASK GOD TO PUT -- TO JUST GIVE
00:18:05.08\00:18:09.85
YOU A GLIMPSE OF HOW HE VIEWS
HER, THAT IT WILL CHANGE YOUR
00:18:09.85\00:18:13.82
PERSPECTIVE OF HER, AND
HOPEFULLY, THEN AS SHE IS DOING
00:18:13.82\00:18:17.46
THE THINGS THAT SHE IS TO
YOU, IT WON'T HURT YOU AS BADLY.
00:18:17.46\00:18:21.76
>> AND, YOU KNOW, THERE ARE
TIMES WHEN YOU CAN -- THROUGH
00:18:21.76\00:18:24.67
YOUR OWN -- THROUGH YOUR WITNESS
AS GOD IS WITNESSING THROUGH
00:18:24.67\00:18:28.04
YOU, THAT YOU CAN MAKE A
DIFFERENCE IN THIS WOMAN'S LIFE.
00:18:28.04\00:18:30.67
>> AMEN. >> I MEAN,
THIS IS SOMEBODY YOU
00:18:30.67\00:18:33.88
NEED TO PRAY FOR HER SALVATION.
I WANTED TO READ YOU A
00:18:33.88\00:18:37.55
SCRIPTURE, BUT THE THOUGHT
THAT I HAD WENT IN AND OUT OF MY
00:18:37.55\00:18:40.98
HEAD, AND IT WAS A GOOD
ONE, I HOPE IT COME BACK.
00:18:40.98\00:18:46.62
LUKE 17:3-4. OH, I KNOW.
00:18:46.62\00:18:50.03
DID YOUR FATHER EVER
ASK FOR YOUR FORGIVENESS.
00:18:50.03\00:18:54.73
>> NEVER. >> TO ME THIS IS
00:18:54.73\00:18:56.70
WHERE -- BECAUSE I UNDERSTAND
COMPLETELY -- WHERE IF YOU HAVE
00:18:56.70\00:19:02.40
FORGIVEN SOMEBODY OVER AND OVER
AND OVER AGAIN, AND THEN THEY DO
00:19:02.40\00:19:06.37
SOMETHING, AND ALL OF THOSE
SKELETONS RISE UP, AND YOU ARE
00:19:06.37\00:19:11.48
THINKING IT'S LIKE YOU
HAVE TO START BACK AT SQUARE 1.
00:19:11.48\00:19:15.78
BUT ONCE SOMEBODY ASKS FOR
FORGIVENESS, IT'S LIKE YOU CAN
00:19:15.78\00:19:19.72
PUT THOSE SKELETONS
AWAY, AND THOSE DON'T POP UP.
00:19:19.72\00:19:24.16
SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT
WHE HE SAYS FORGIVE AS YOU ARE
00:19:24.16\00:19:28.30
FORGIVEN, THAT THAT MEANS WE
HAVE -- THAT THE PERSON HAS TO
00:19:28.30\00:19:35.17
REPENTH, CONFESS THEIR SIN TO
US AND REPENT BEFORE WE FORGIVE
00:19:35.17\00:19:40.64
THEM. AND THERE
ARE A FEW SCRIPTURES
00:19:40.64\00:19:42.74
THAT MAKE IT SOUND THAT WAY,
BUT THEN WE HAVE TO REMEMBER, IF
00:19:42.74\00:19:46.38
WE'RE GOING TO FORGIVE AS CHRIST
FORGAVE US, WHEN HE WAS HANGING
00:19:46.38\00:19:50.95
ON THE CROSS, HE SAID FATHER
FORGIVE THEM, FOR THEY KNOW NOT
00:19:50.95\00:19:55.59
WHAT THEY ARE DOING. SO
THOSE PEOPLE CERTAINLY DIDN'T
00:19:55.59\00:20:01.46
REPENT. LET'S LOOK
AT LUKE 17, BECAUSE I
00:20:01.46\00:20:05.57
THINK MAYBE FOR LYNETTE THIS
MIGHT HAVE A GOOD MESSAGE IN IT.
00:20:05.57\00:20:11.44
JILL YOU WANT TO
READ THAT. >> LUKE 17:3-4.
00:20:11.44\00:20:16.61
IF YOUR BOTHER SINS AGAINST HIM,
REBUKE HIM, AND IF HE REPENTS
00:20:16.61\00:20:22.92
FORGIVE HIM, AND IF HE SINS
AGAINST YOU SEVEN TIMES IN A
00:20:22.92\00:20:26.02
DAY, AND SEVEN TIMES IN A DAY
RETURNS TO YOU SAYING I REPENT,
00:20:26.02\00:20:30.56
YOU SHALL FORGIVE HIM. >>
WELL, THE -- THE FIRST THING
00:20:30.56\00:20:34.23
THAT I WANT TO POINT OUT HERE
IS WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF THE
00:20:34.23\00:20:41.57
REBUKE? THE
PURPOSE OF THE REBUKE IS TO
00:20:41.57\00:20:43.37
GET THEM TO REPENT. >> UH-HUH.
00:20:43.37\00:20:47.61
>> SO FOR LYNETTE MAYBE IF YOU
CAN GET ON NEUTRAL GROUND WITH
00:20:47.61\00:20:57.29
THIS PERSON, AND TO RE BUK
DOESN'T MEAN DO YOU KNOW WHAT
00:20:57.29\00:21:02.79
YOU HAVE DONE TO ME?
>> IT'S NOT HARSHNESS.
00:21:02.79\00:21:07.86
>> IT'S NOT HARSHNESS.
BUT IF YOU CAN SHARE WITH HER
00:21:07.86\00:21:14.44
THE OFFENSE, WHEN JESUS SAID
SEVEN TIMES A DAY YOU FORGIVE
00:21:14.44\00:21:24.95
OVER AND OVER. I
DON'T THINK THIS IS THE SAME
00:21:24.95\00:21:29.32
OFFENSE. IT'S NOT A REPEAT SIN.
00:21:29.32\00:21:31.32
I THINK IT'S -- IF THEY ARE
SINNING AGAINST YOU IN VARIOUS
00:21:31.32\00:21:35.52
WAYS. >> CAN I JUMP IN A SECOND.
00:21:35.52\00:21:37.43
>> SURE. >> IF
SOMEONE DOES A REPEAT
00:21:37.43\00:21:43.00
OFFENSE OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
IF YOU ARE BEING ABUSED, YOU
00:21:43.00\00:21:46.87
NEED TO PROTECT YOURSELF.
BUT IF SOMEONE DOES A REPEAT
00:21:46.87\00:21:50.17
THING, OVER AND OVER AGAIN.
ARE WE NOT SUPPOSED TO FORGIVE
00:21:50.17\00:21:53.78
THEM OVER AND OVER AGAIN?
>> WELL, THE INTERESTING THING
00:21:53.78\00:21:58.48
IS, ARE THEY REALLY
REPENTING? >> PROBABLY NOT.
00:21:58.48\00:22:03.18
>> WE FORGIVE FOUR OUR
SAKES, BUT THAT'S WHEN YOU START
00:22:03.18\00:22:07.62
ESTABLISHING THE BOUNDARIES
AND LOVING THEM FROM A DISTANCE.
00:22:07.62\00:22:11.26
YOU TAUGHT ME THAT TERM.
SOMETIMES YOU JUST GOT TO LOVE
00:22:11.26\00:22:14.56
PEOPLE FROM A
DISTANCE. BUT THE IDEA OF SEVEN
00:22:14.56\00:22:18.60
TIMES -- SEVEN IN THE BIBLE
IS THE NUMBER OF PERFECTION.
00:22:18.60\00:22:21.70
SO BASICALLY WHAT JESUS WAS
SAYING IS THERE NO END TO OUR
00:22:21.70\00:22:25.97
FORGIVENESS, WE CONTINUALLY
ARE FORGIVING, BUT ONCE AGAIN,
00:22:25.97\00:22:30.01
YOU -- YOU KNOW, HE SAYS
HERE IF WE REPENTS, FORGIVE HIM.
00:22:30.01\00:22:36.65
>> UH-HUH. >> SO ANYWAY.
00:22:36.65\00:22:38.59
THAT'S THE THOUGHT. >> ALSO --
00:22:38.59\00:22:41.72
>> GREAT THOUGHT. >> --
TO AD TO THAT, IF WE KNOW
00:22:41.72\00:22:47.23
EVERY TIME WE GET AROUND A
PERSON, THEY ARE GOING TO OFFEND
00:22:47.23\00:22:51.67
US IN SOME WAY, THAT'S WHERE WE
HAVE THE SCRIPTURE THAT TELLS US
00:22:51.67\00:22:55.97
WE CAN MARK THEM AND AVOID THEM.
SO IF SOME -- IF I KNOW EVERY
00:22:55.97\00:23:00.21
TIME I GO OVER TO YOUR HOUSE,
YOUR DOG IS GOING TO BITE ME.
00:23:00.21\00:23:03.95
[ LAUGHTER ] >> THEN
AT SOME POINT, I'M GOING
00:23:03.95\00:23:06.45
TO QUIT GOING OVER TO YOUR HOUSE
BECAUSE I DON'T WANT TO GET HURT
00:23:06.45\00:23:11.09
ANYMORE. [ LAUGHTER ]
00:23:11.09\00:23:12.25
>> SO IT'S NOT THAT I MAY NOT
LOVE YOU, AND PRAY FOR YOU, WISH
00:23:12.25\00:23:16.93
THE BEST FOR YOU, BUT IF
SOMEBODY CONTINUES TO HURT YOU,
00:23:16.93\00:23:21.63
THEN YOU NEED NOT PUT YOURSELF
IN A POSITION TO CONTINUE TO BE
00:23:21.63\00:23:25.40
HURT. >> YES.
00:23:25.40\00:23:26.23
>> NOW WHAT ABOUT WHEN THAT
OFFENDER IS A CHURCH MEMBER?
00:23:26.23\00:23:32.41
WHEN SOMEONE IS SINNING AGAINST
YOU -- LET'S LOOK AT MATTHEW 18.
00:23:32.41\00:23:37.25
BECAUSE THIS IS SUCH
WONDERFUL COUNSELING.
00:23:37.25\00:23:40.52
>> GOOD COUNSELING.
>> MATTHEW 18:15-17.
00:23:40.52\00:23:49.69
MOLLIE YOU WANT
TO READ THAT ONE.
00:23:49.69\00:23:52.13
>> I HAVE MINE IN ANY KIG JAMES.
00:23:52.13\00:23:55.53
MORE OVER IF A BROTHER SHOULD
TRESPASS AGAINST YOU, GO AND
00:23:55.53\00:24:01.50
TELL HIM HIS FAULT. IF
HE SHALL HEAR, THOU HAS
00:24:01.50\00:24:06.68
GAINED A BROTHER. BUT
IF HE WILL NOT HEAR, TAKE
00:24:06.68\00:24:11.28
ONE OR TWO MORE, THAT IN THE
MOUTH OF ONE OR TWO WITNESSES,
00:24:11.28\00:24:17.22
EVERY WORD
SHOULD BE ESTABLISHED.
00:24:17.22\00:24:19.65
BUT IF HEEL NEXTS TO HEAR THE
CHURCH, LET HIM BE UNTO THEE AS
00:24:19.65\00:24:31.10
A HEATHAN. >> SO WHAT IS THAT
SAYING HERE?->> IT SAYS TO ME,
00:24:31.10\00:24:39.47
THAT WE HAVE TO HAVE COURAGE.
BECAUSE SOMETIMES WHEN SOMEBODY
00:24:39.47\00:24:43.41
SAYS SOMETHING AGAINST YOU, MY
RESPONSE IS, OKAY, I WON'T SAY
00:24:43.41\00:24:47.82
ANYTHING. BUT IT
TAKES COURAGE TO GO TO
00:24:47.82\00:24:50.45
YOUR BROTHER OR SISTER
AND ACTUALLY SAY SOMETHING.
00:24:50.45\00:24:58.46
>> I AGREE. I THINK
MOST OF US DON'T LIKE
00:24:58.46\00:25:02.86
CONFRONTATION. THERE
ARE SOME PEOPLE WHO THRIVE
00:25:02.86\00:25:07.77
ON CONFRONTATION. BUT IT
IS ALSO WHEN SOMEBODY HAS
00:25:07.77\00:25:12.44
SINNED AGAINST YOU, ONE OF
THE STEPS THAT I HAVE LEARNED
00:25:12.44\00:25:17.61
IN -- NOT ONLY, AS I GO BEFORE
THE LORD TO PRAY, IS I ASK GOD
00:25:17.61\00:25:21.98
SHOW ME WHAT IS
GOING ON IN MY OWN HEART.
00:25:21.98\00:25:25.39
>> GOOD.->> BECAUSE SOMETIMES
THE OFFENSE IS -- YOU KNOW, THE
00:25:25.39\00:25:30.03
PERSON THAT I MAY BE ANGRY WITH,
AND FEEL LIKE I HAVE TO FORGIVE,
00:25:30.03\00:25:33.76
THEY DIDN'T INTEND
IT AT ALL THAT WAY.
00:25:33.76\00:25:37.80
>> ABSOLUTELY. >> SO
IT CAN BE SOMETHING THAT
00:25:37.80\00:25:39.83
IS GOING ON IN MY HEART.
BUT WHAT IT IS, IS, WE GET SOME
00:25:39.83\00:25:45.94
KIND OF A -- WHAT IS
THE WORD I'M LOOKING FOR?
00:25:45.94\00:25:49.04
WHEN SOMEBODY IS DOING SOMETHING
AGAINST US TO HARM US, WE DON'T
00:25:49.04\00:25:52.88
GO TALKING TO EVERYBODY
ELSE. YOU KNOW WHAT SHE DID?
00:25:52.88\00:25:55.78
BLAH BLAH BLAH. >> RIGHT.
00:25:55.78\00:25:58.32
>> SEE THAT IS THE
REACTION OF MOST PEOPLE.
00:25:58.32\00:26:01.09
>> UH-HUH. >> YOU
GET SINNED AGAINST --
00:26:01.09\00:26:03.96
>> AND YOU GO OUT AND SIN.
REALLY, IT'S GOING OUT AND SIN
00:26:03.96\00:26:07.86
IF YOU GOSSIP. >> YOU
CANNOT BELIEVE SHE DID IT
00:26:07.86\00:26:11.93
AGAIN. WOULD YOU BELIEVE THAT?
00:26:11.93\00:26:15.24
SO WHAT JESUS IS SAYING HERE IS
WE ARE TO, I BELIEVE, TAKE IT TO
00:26:15.24\00:26:22.38
THE LORD IN PRAYER, AND THEN
GO TO THAT PERSON, AND SAY, YOU
00:26:22.38\00:26:26.75
KNOW, SOMETHING HAPPENED THAT
MADE ME VERY UNCOMFORTABLE, AND
00:26:26.75\00:26:31.29
REALLY UPSET ME. I
WOULD LIKE TO DISCUSS THIS
00:26:31.29\00:26:34.52
WITH YOU. AND IF
THEY DON'T HEAR YOU, AND
00:26:34.52\00:26:37.29
THEY BLOW YOU OFF, AND IT'S
SOMETHING THAT IS SERIOUSLY BAD,
00:26:37.29\00:26:40.93
THEN HE SAYS, ALL RIGHT.
GO GET SOMEONE ELSE FROM THE
00:26:40.93\00:26:44.03
CHURCH TO GO. BECAUSE
-- NOW THIS IS SOMEBODY
00:26:44.03\00:26:47.44
REALLY SINNING
AGAINST YOU. >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:26:47.44\00:26:49.67
>> SO THAT'S THE NEXT
STEP, BUT HOW INTERESTING.
00:26:49.67\00:26:53.54
HOW DID THAT END? JILL?
00:26:53.54\00:26:57.35
>> TIEKT THE CHURCH AND IF YOU
REFUSE TO HEAR THE CHURCH LET
00:26:57.35\00:27:03.32
HIM BE LIKE A
HETHAN AND A TAX COLLECTOR.
00:27:03.32\00:27:10.99
YOU KNOW WHAT WE'RE SUPPOSED
TO DO TO THE HETHAN, WE ARE
00:27:10.99\00:27:16.20
SUPPOSED TO WITNESS TO THEM.
WE'RE SUPPOSED TO REACH OUT WITH
00:27:16.20\00:27:20.34
THE LOVE OF CHRIST. SO
JESUS IS NOT SAYING IF YOU
00:27:20.34\00:27:24.37
DON'T HEAR THEM, YOU
JUST CAST THEM ASIDE.
00:27:24.37\00:27:27.81
WE'RE SUPPOSED TO STILL REACH
OUT TO WIN THEM BACK TO JESUS.
00:27:27.81\00:27:31.95
>> BUT IT'S ALSO SOMETHING
THAT I THINK THERE IS -- THIS IS
00:27:31.95\00:27:39.09
WHERE THE LEVEL
OF TRUST -- >> YES.
00:27:39.09\00:27:43.46
>> -- THEY DIDN'T TRUST THE
HETHAN OR THE TAX COLLECTOR.
00:27:43.46\00:27:47.50
SO IT'S LIKE, ALL RIGHT.
WE'RE GOING TO WITNESS TO YOU
00:27:47.50\00:27:52.43
NOW. WE'RE GOING TO MAKE YOU A
00:27:52.43\00:27:55.20
PROJECT, BUT DON'T PUT
THAT PERSON IN A POSITION OF
00:27:55.20\00:27:59.71
RESPONSIBILITY OR --
WHERE THEY CAN HURT YOU AGAIN.
00:27:59.71\00:28:02.54
>> UH-HUH. >> AND
I KEEP WANTING TO SAY
00:28:02.54\00:28:05.25
THAT, BECAUSE THERE ARE
SO MANY -- I KNOW AS I GO OUT
00:28:05.25\00:28:08.48
SPEAKING SO OFTEN, I'LL
HAVE SOMEBODY COME UP TO ME WHO
00:28:08.48\00:28:13.49
IS -- YOU KNOW, THEY ARE
EXPERIENCING ABUSE IN THEIR
00:28:13.49\00:28:16.83
HOME. AND WE
THINK IT DOESN'T HAPPEN
00:28:16.83\00:28:18.49
IN THE CHURCH. IT
HAPPENS IN THE CHURCH.
00:28:18.49\00:28:20.83
>> ABSOLUTELY. >>
AND SO THIS IS SOMETHING
00:28:20.83\00:28:23.30
THAT -- ESPECIALLY
IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN.
00:28:23.30\00:28:26.70
YES, WE'RE TO BE FORGIVING, AND
YES, SOMETIMES YOU DON'T EVEN
00:28:26.70\00:28:31.64
KNOW HOW YOU WILL SUPPORT YOUR
CHILDREN, BUT I WANT TO SAY, IF
00:28:31.64\00:28:34.88
YOUR SPOUSE IS BEING ABUSIVE,
YOUR CHILDREN ARE BEING ABUSED,
00:28:34.88\00:28:38.91
OR YOU ARE BEING ABUSED, YOU
NEED TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL HELP.
00:28:38.91\00:28:44.35
YOU NEED TO HAVE AN ESCAPE PLAN.
YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THERE,
00:28:44.35\00:28:49.49
BECAUSE CHILDREN
ARE SO DAMAGED --
00:28:49.49\00:28:52.79
>> UH-HUH. >> --
WHEN THEY GROW UP IN AN
00:28:52.79\00:28:56.00
ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP, WITNESSING
AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP.
00:28:56.00\00:29:00.80
IT IS LIKE YOU ARE PACKING THEIR
BAGS DOWN WITH ROCKS, AND THEY
00:29:00.80\00:29:04.71
ARE GOING TO HAVE TO
CARRY THAT AROUND A WHILE.
00:29:04.71\00:29:07.88
YOU KNOW, THERE ARE A LOT
OF PEOPLE WHO ARE -- ARE -- YOU
00:29:07.88\00:29:10.78
TALK TO A LOT OF DRUG
ADDICTS OR A LOT OF ALCOHOLICS.
00:29:10.78\00:29:15.22
YOU TALK WITH PEOPLE, IF
THEY CAME FROM AN ABUSIVE
00:29:15.22\00:29:20.12
RELATIONSHIP, OFTEN THEY WILL
WALK RIGHT INTO THE SAME PAT --
00:29:20.12\00:29:22.52
>> ABSOLUTELY. >>
BECAUSE THEY HAVE A LOT OF
00:29:22.52\00:29:25.23
DAMAGE. >> I WAS
JUST READING SOMETHING
00:29:25.23\00:29:27.03
ABOUT THE CYCLE OF
UNFORGIVENESS, AND THIS WOMAN
00:29:27.03\00:29:30.03
WHO WROTE THIS BOOK, SHE IS
CHRISTIAN, AND SHE SAID THAT IN
00:29:30.03\00:29:33.44
HER HOME, SHE WAS -- SHE
WENT TO PROFESSIONAL COUNSELING.
00:29:33.44\00:29:37.47
THERE WAS A LOT
OF ABUSE IN HER HOME.
00:29:37.47\00:29:40.38
IN FACT, THE COUNSELOR
WHO HELPED HER, SAID THAT HER
00:29:40.38\00:29:45.45
UPBRINGING WAS ONE OF THE TOP
TEN WORST CASES THEY HAD HEARD
00:29:45.45\00:29:50.85
OF. AND SHE SAID
I MADE A DECISION
00:29:50.85\00:29:53.02
THAT THE CYCLE OF UNFORGIVENESS
WOULD STOP WITH ME.
00:29:53.02\00:29:56.93
>> PRAISE GOD. >> I
WOULD NOT CARRY ON THAT
00:29:56.93\00:29:59.89
CYCLE OF UNFORGIVENESS INTO
MY HOME INTO MY MARRIAGE WITH MY
00:29:59.89\00:30:04.90
HUSBAND. SHE IS
MARRIED OVER 36 YEARS.
00:30:04.90\00:30:07.94
HER KIDS ARE NOW GROWN, AND
THEY HAVE -- SHE SAID INSTEAD OF
00:30:07.94\00:30:12.67
BEING IDENTIFIED AS SOMEONE WHO
IS BITTER AND RESENTFUL AND A
00:30:12.67\00:30:16.61
VICTIM, GOD HAS RELEASED
ME AND GOD HAS FREED ME.
00:30:16.61\00:30:20.98
IT WAS AN INCREDIBLE TESTIMONY,
AND SHE IS NOT -- NO LONGER IN
00:30:20.98\00:30:25.49
THAT CYCLE. GOD HAS
GIVEN HER DELIVERANCE
00:30:25.49\00:30:28.99
AND FREEDOM. >> YOU
KNOW, IT'S SO INTERESTING
00:30:28.99\00:30:32.56
HOW PEOPLE CAN GROW UP IN
THE EXACT SAME ENVIRONMENT.
00:30:32.56\00:30:36.73
YOU TAKE TWO SIBLINGS GROWING
UP IN THE SAME ENVIRONMENT, AND
00:30:36.73\00:30:41.34
I'LL USE MY SISTER AND
MYSELF. AND I LOOKED AROUND, AND
00:30:41.34\00:30:44.74
EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED, I'M
SAYING, I'M NOT EVER GOING TO DO
00:30:44.74\00:30:48.44
THIS OR THAT. I MEAN
IT WAS LIKE I HAD THIS
00:30:48.44\00:30:51.98
CHECKLIST OF WHAT I KNEW I
WASN'T GOING TO DO WHEN I LEFT
00:30:51.98\00:30:55.32
HOME. NOW MY
SISTER ON THE OTHER HAND,
00:30:55.32\00:30:59.65
AND SHE WAS QUITE SPOILED AND
FAVORED, WHICH IS INTERESTING,
00:30:59.65\00:31:05.46
BUT SHE REPEATED ALMOST EVERY
MISTAKE, AND SHE SELF MEDICATED,
00:31:05.46\00:31:14.90
I WOULD SAY IN MANY WAYS,
BUT ONE THING THAT SHE NEVER
00:31:14.90\00:31:18.71
DID -- SHE DID BECOME A DRUG
ADDICT FOR A GOOD 15 YEARS SHE
00:31:18.71\00:31:23.38
WAS REALLY INTO THE HARD STUFF.
ONE THING SHE NEVER DID -- MY
00:31:23.38\00:31:28.32
AUNT ONCE SAID TO ME, THAT
SHE -- MY SISTER COULDN'T HELP
00:31:28.32\00:31:33.76
HERSELF. IT'S NOT
HER FAULT BECAUSE SHE
00:31:33.76\00:31:35.99
WAS SO SPOILED ROTTEN
AND NEVER HELD ACCOUNTABLE.
00:31:35.99\00:31:39.26
AND MY SISTER ALWAYS SAID
I ALWAYS KNEW THERE WAS GREAT
00:31:39.26\00:31:47.00
DISPARITY. BUT YOU
HAD THE GOOD PART OF IT,
00:31:47.00\00:31:49.84
SHELLEY. BECAUSE
WHEN YOU WENT OUT, YOU
00:31:49.84\00:31:52.41
KNEW HOW TO TAKE
CARE OF YOURSELF.
00:31:52.41\00:31:55.41
AND SHE SAID I DIDN'T.
SO I TOOK THE EASY WAY OUT.
00:31:55.41\00:31:59.21
BUT SHE NEVER BLAMED -- SHE SAID
I DON'T BLAME MOMMA, I DON'T
00:31:59.21\00:32:06.25
BLAME MINI AND
PAPI. IT WAS MY CHOICE.
00:32:06.25\00:32:10.39
AND THIS IS WHERE
WE ALL HAVE TO GET.
00:32:10.39\00:32:13.23
WHEN WE HAVE GOT UNFORGIVENESS
IN OUR LIFE, IT CAN MAKE US DO
00:32:13.23\00:32:17.97
SOME PRETTY CRAZY
THINGS. >> UH-HUH.
00:32:17.97\00:32:21.20
>> BUT IT IS A
CHOICE TO FORGIVE.
00:32:21.20\00:32:24.74
EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS IN OUR
LIFE -- I DON'T CARE WHAT YOU
00:32:24.74\00:32:28.38
COME FROM. I MEAN
THERE'S THINGS THAT
00:32:28.38\00:32:30.81
HAPPENED TO ME WHEN I WAS A KID
THAT SHOULD NEVER HAPPEN TO ANY
00:32:30.81\00:32:34.02
KID, BUT NO MATTER WHAT
YOU COME FROM, IT IS A CHOICE.
00:32:34.02\00:32:38.15
EVERYTHING THAT YOU
DO. IT'S YOUR CHOICE.
00:32:38.15\00:32:40.12
JUST LIKE THIS
WOMAN. SHE CHOSE --
00:32:40.12\00:32:42.49
>> THAT'S RIGHT. >> --
TO STOP THE CYCLE OF ABUSE
00:32:42.49\00:32:48.66
AND UNFORGIVENESS.
AND THIS IS WHY IT'S SO
00:32:48.66\00:32:51.77
IMPORTANT TO CHOOSE
THE LORD -- >> AMEN.
00:32:51.77\00:32:54.40
>> -- BECAUSE WHO CAN DO
THAT IN YOUR OWN STRENGTH.
00:32:54.40\00:32:57.17
>> AMEN. I JUST
WANT TO TAKE A SHORT
00:32:57.17\00:33:00.14
COMMERCIAL BREAK, I GUESS YOU
COULD SAY, AND ENCOURAGE YOU TO
00:33:00.14\00:33:04.11
SEND IN YOUR QUESTIONS.
EMAIL US AT LIVE@3ABN.TV.
00:33:04.11\00:33:10.69
THAT'S LIVE@3ABN.TV.
THESE ARE QUESTIONS OR COMMENTS.
00:33:10.69\00:33:18.79
AND YOU CAN ALSO
CALL US AT 618-627-4651.
00:33:18.79\00:33:23.87
THAT'S 618-627-4651, OR IF YOU
ARE INTERESTED IN THIS BOOKLET
00:33:23.87\00:33:28.34
THAT DANNY SHELTON WROTE AND
THAT IS JUST BEING REPRINTED BY
00:33:28.34\00:33:32.14
PACIFIC PRESS. THEY
ARE REPRINTING 200,000 OF
00:33:32.14\00:33:37.28
THESE BOOKETS.
IT'S "AFTER THE STORM."
00:33:37.28\00:33:40.85
AFTER TROUBLE AND DEVASTATION.
ESPECIALLY AFTER HURRICANE
00:33:40.85\00:33:44.15
HARVEY AND WHAT IS
HAPPENING WITH HURRICANE IRMA.
00:33:44.15\00:33:47.42
THIS TALKS ABOUT WHERE DO
WE TURN FOR HELP AND HOPE?
00:33:47.42\00:33:51.36
SO WE'RE OFFERING
THIS BOOKLET FOR FREE.
00:33:51.36\00:33:55.43
YOU CAN GET ONE CASE,
ONE BOX WITH 500 OF THEM.
00:33:55.43\00:33:59.87
YOU CAN GET A
THOUSAND OR TWO OR THREE.
00:33:59.87\00:34:03.44
ESPECIALLY CHURCHES, INDIVIDUALS
IN THE COMMUNITIES THAT HAVE
00:34:03.44\00:34:06.51
BEEN DEVASTATED BY
THAT. YOU CAN CONTACT US
00:34:06.51\00:34:15.02
MAILROOM@3ABN.TV.
THAT'S MAILROOM@3ABN.TV.
00:34:15.02\00:34:18.72
YOU CAN EMAIL US OR
CALL US, 618-627-4651.
00:34:18.72\00:34:22.82
AND JUST SAY, HEY, I WANT A
CASE OR TWO OR THREE OR FIVE OR
00:34:22.82\00:34:28.23
WHATEVER. JUST LET
US KNOW, AND WE JUST
00:34:28.23\00:34:30.57
WANT TO MAKE SURE YOU PASS
THEM OUT IN YOUR COMMUNITY,
00:34:30.57\00:34:33.87
ESPECIALLY THOSE COMMUNITIES
THAT HAVE BEEN DEVASTATED.
00:34:33.87\00:34:37.24
WE'RE COMING DOWN -- I CAN'T
EVEN BELIEVE IT TOWARD THE END
00:34:37.24\00:34:40.54
OF OUR SECOND HOUR. AND
I WANT TO GET THROUGH SOME
00:34:40.54\00:34:42.94
OF THESE QUESTIONS. THIS
IS FROM BILLY, I'M NOT SURE
00:34:42.94\00:34:46.35
IF THAT IS HER NAME
OR NOT. HI, MY SISTERS.
00:34:46.35\00:34:49.38
I WANT THE LADIES THAT ARE
LISTENING TO KNOW IF THEY HAVE
00:34:49.38\00:34:52.52
HAD AN ABORTION, AND ARE
STRUGGLING, AND HAVE ASKED GOD
00:34:52.52\00:34:56.52
FOR FORGIVENESS, THEN
YOU HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN.
00:34:56.52\00:35:01.36
SATAN IS GOING TO TRY TO SHOVE
IT IN YOUR FACE TO SHAME YOU.
00:35:01.36\00:35:05.33
YOU HAVE BEEN
FORGIVEN. NOW FORGIVE YOURSELF.
00:35:05.33\00:35:09.17
IT WAS HARD FOR ME,
BECAUSE I DID NOT FEEL IT.
00:35:09.17\00:35:12.37
BUT NOW I KNOW IN MY
MIND I HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN.
00:35:12.37\00:35:17.98
SATAN IS A
LIAR. THANK YOU, LORD.
00:35:17.98\00:35:20.48
SO BILLY
OBVIOUSLY HAD AN ABORTION.
00:35:20.48\00:35:24.02
FELT SHAME FOR YEARS.
FELT LIKE SHE COULD NOT BE
00:35:24.02\00:35:27.46
FORGIVEN, AND NOW SHE
HAS EXPERIENCED FORGIVENESS.
00:35:27.46\00:35:30.33
LET'S TALK ABOUT
THAT FOR A MOMENT.
00:35:30.33\00:35:32.43
WHAT IF YOU FEEL
LIKE, I CAN'T BE FORGIVEN?
00:35:32.43\00:35:35.26
HOW CAN YOU
EXPERIENCE GOD'S FORGIVENESS?
00:35:35.26\00:35:38.93
>> YOU MEAN AS IN
FORGIVING YOURSELF?
00:35:38.93\00:35:41.40
>> YEAH. >> I
THINK -- YOU KNOW, I HAVE
00:35:41.40\00:35:43.47
THOUGHT ABOUT THIS -- I
THINK IT'S THE SAME THING.
00:35:43.47\00:35:46.71
IF -- IF YOU DON'T FEEL YOU CAN
FORGIVE YOURSELF, IT IS JUST THE
00:35:46.71\00:35:51.98
SAME PRINCIPLE IS INVOLVED.
IF I NEED TO -- TO FORGIVE
00:35:51.98\00:35:56.72
SOMEONE ELSE, TO ASK GOD TO PUT
HIS FORGIVENESS IN MY HEART, GOD
00:35:56.72\00:36:05.96
WILL DO IT. WE ARE SO
BURDENED DOWN, WHEN WE
00:36:05.96\00:36:09.96
ARE FEELING SO CONDEMNED,
BECAUSE IF WE CAN'T FORGIVE
00:36:09.96\00:36:14.57
OURSELVES THAT IS SUC A
FEELING OF CONDEMNATION.
00:36:14.57\00:36:17.54
AND WE CAN'T BE A HEALTHY,
PRODUCTIVE CHRISTIAN WHEN WE'RE
00:36:17.54\00:36:23.11
WALKING UNDER SO
MUCH CONDEMNATION.
00:36:23.11\00:36:25.41
GOD WANTS TO
FORGIVE YOU AND CLEANSE YOU.
00:36:25.41\00:36:28.72
I'LL GO BACK TO 1 JOHN
1:9. I HAVEN'T QUOTED THAT YET.
00:36:28.72\00:36:34.82
>> YOU HAVEN'T.
>> CONFESS OUR SINS.
00:36:34.82\00:36:37.26
AND YES, HAVING AN
ABORTION, THAT'S A SIN.
00:36:37.26\00:36:44.40
FATHER I HAVE DONE A HORRIBLE
THING, PLEASE FORGIVE ME.
00:36:44.40\00:36:48.77
THE SCRIPTURES SAY IF WE CONFESS
OUR SINS, HE IS FAITHFUL AND
00:36:48.77\00:36:54.98
JUST IN FORGIVE YOU.
AND THEN WHAT DOES HE DO IN
00:36:54.98\00:36:58.95
CLEANSES YOU FROM THAT
THING? CLEANSES YOU FROM ALL
00:36:58.95\00:37:04.15
UNRIGHTEOUSNESS. SO
HERE WE STAND FORGIVEN AND
00:37:04.15\00:37:08.09
CLEANSED. I THINK I
MENTIONED IT EARLIER,
00:37:08.09\00:37:10.69
WHEN GOD LOOKS AT US, HE LOOKS
AT US THROUGH THE BLOOD OF THE
00:37:10.69\00:37:15.63
LORD JESUS CHRIST. >> AMEN.
00:37:15.63\00:37:17.23
>> THE SCRIPTURE SAYS THE BLOOD
OF JESUS SPEAKS BETTER THINGS
00:37:17.23\00:37:22.04
THAN THE BLOOD OF ABLE.
ABLE'S BLOOD CRIED OUT FROM THE
00:37:22.04\00:37:27.78
GROUND FOR JUSTICE. BUT
CHRIST'S BLOOD CRIES OUT FOR
00:37:27.78\00:37:33.35
US, FOR FORGIVENESS FOR MERCY.
FOR GOD TO LOOK AT YOU, HE LOOKS
00:37:33.35\00:37:39.15
AT YOU THROUGH THE BLOOD, AND,
YOU KNOW, HE SEES YOU AS THOUGH
00:37:39.15\00:37:42.62
YOU HAVE NEVER SINNED.
NOT ONE TIME FROM THE -- FROM
00:37:42.62\00:37:47.86
YOUR VERY BIRTH EVEN UP UNTIL
NOW WHEN HE LOOKS AT YOU, HE
00:37:47.86\00:37:52.47
LOOKS AT YOU THROUGH THE BLOOD
OF HIS SON, AND SEES YOU PURE
00:37:52.47\00:37:57.74
AND CLEAN BEFORE YOU.
AND NOW LET'S ASK GOD BY THE
00:37:57.74\00:38:02.88
POWER OF HIS SPIRIT TO GIVE YOU
JUST A GLIMPSE OF HOW HE SEES
00:38:02.88\00:38:07.82
YOU. >> AMEN.
00:38:07.82\00:38:09.05
>> PURE AND CLEAN BEFORE
HIM. YOU HAVE BEEN FORGIVEN.
00:38:09.05\00:38:13.22
YOU WALK AWAY FREE. >> AMEN.
00:38:13.22\00:38:16.26
>> BUT I HAVE A DEAR
FRIEND. ACTUALLY SHE WORKS HERE.
00:38:16.26\00:38:19.93
AND SHE SAID THAT WHEN SHE
REALLY TURNED HER LIFE AROUND
00:38:19.93\00:38:25.83
AND CAME TO THE LORD, SHE
KNEW GOD HAS FORGIVEN HER.
00:38:25.83\00:38:32.44
EVERYTHING YOU JUST
SAID SHE COULD ACCEPT.
00:38:32.44\00:38:35.98
BUT SHE
WOULDN'T FORGIVE HERSELF.
00:38:35.98\00:38:38.21
SO SHE WAS TALKING WITH HER
PASTOR, AND I WISH -- I HAVE GOT
00:38:38.21\00:38:42.85
IT IN A BOOK, I WROTE IT DOWN.
BUT SHE SAID TO HIM, I CAN'T
00:38:42.85\00:38:48.29
FORGIVE MYSELF. AND HE
SAID BUT YOU BELIEVE THAT
00:38:48.29\00:38:53.09
GOD HAS FORGIVEN
YOU. AND HE SAID YES.
00:38:53.09\00:38:56.43
AND HE SAID SOMETHING TO THE
EFFECT OF WELL, THEN YOU THINK
00:38:56.43\00:39:01.54
YOUR OPINION IS
GREATER THAN GODS.
00:39:01.54\00:39:03.84
SHE SAID I DO NOT. AND
HE SAID IF GOD CAN FORGIVE
00:39:03.84\00:39:09.18
YOU, BUT YOU CAN'T FORGIVE
YOURSELF, THEN IT'S LIKE YOU ARE
00:39:09.18\00:39:12.41
SETTING YOUR
JUDGMENT UP ABOVE GOD.
00:39:12.41\00:39:15.72
SHE SAID SHE WAS SO MAD,
SHE COULD HAVE JUST SPIT NAILS.
00:39:15.72\00:39:19.92
AND SO SHE WENT AWAY, AND THEN
IT WAS ON A SABBATH, AND SHE
00:39:19.92\00:39:24.79
SAID, BEFORE THE SABBATH
ENDED, SHE REALIZED THAT SHE WAS
00:39:24.79\00:39:29.00
PUTTING HER
OPINION ABOVE THE LORD'S.
00:39:29.00\00:39:31.50
AND SO SHE WA FINALLY ABLE TO
ASK GOD TO FORGIVE HER FOR NOT
00:39:31.50\00:39:37.74
GOR -- FORGIVING HERSELF.
AND SHE WAS ABLE TO LET GO OF
00:39:37.74\00:39:43.11
THE GUILT AND CONDEMNATION.
BECAUSE HEE IS WHAT SATAN WANTS
00:39:43.11\00:39:46.82
TO DO. THE BIBLE
SAYS THERE IS NOW
00:39:46.82\00:39:51.02
THEREFORE NO CONDEMNATION FOR
THOSE WHO ARE IN CHRIST JESUS.
00:39:51.02\00:39:55.92
NOT ACCORDING TO THE FLESH,
BUT ACCORDING TO THE SPIRIT.
00:39:55.92\00:39:59.63
BY WHAT SATAN WANTS TO DO IS
HE ROLLS UP THIS SCROLL OF YOUR
00:39:59.63\00:40:05.37
SINS, AND IT'S LIKE A BATON, AND
HE WANTS TO HAND OFF THE BATON
00:40:05.37\00:40:10.34
TO YOU, SO YOU ARE LOOKING AT
SINS ALL THE TIME, AND IT'S LIKE
00:40:10.34\00:40:19.71
YOU ARE HITTING YOURSELF OF
THE HEAD ALL THE TIME WITH THIS
00:40:19.71\00:40:23.89
BATON. AND THIS IS
A TECH -- TACTIC OF
00:40:23.89\00:40:32.56
THE DEVIL. >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:40:32.56\00:40:35.73
AMEN. AMEN.
00:40:35.73\00:40:37.10
SATAN BRINGS CONDEMNATION,
AND THERE IS A VAST DIFFERENCE
00:40:37.10\00:40:45.24
BETWEEN
CONVICTION AND CONDEMNATION.
00:40:45.24\00:40:48.34
MOLLY  -- MOLLY DID
YOU HAVE A SCRIPTURE IN
00:40:48.34\00:40:55.58
>> YES. LEAVE
ME IN THE PATH EVER
00:40:55.58\00:40:59.85
LASTING. AND THAT
IS PROVERBS 129:23.
00:40:59.85\00:41:07.30
>> PSALMS? >>
DID I SAY PROVERBS?
00:41:07.30\00:41:11.00
>> YES, MA'AM. >>
BECAUSE YOU ARE ALWAYS
00:41:11.00\00:41:16.07
QUOTING PROVERBS.
>> NO, IT'S PROVERBS --
00:41:16.07\00:41:25.31
>> SMPSALMS. >> I DID IT AGAIN.
00:41:25.31\00:41:27.18
SO WE WANT GOD TO LOOK INTO
OUR HEARTS AND SEE IF THERE IS
00:41:27.18\00:41:33.79
ANYTHING THAT IS UNLIKE
HIM. AND THEN AS THE LORD BRINGS
00:41:33.79\00:41:37.96
THOSE THINGS TO THE SURFACE,
WE CONFESS OUR SINS, AND THEN WE
00:41:37.96\00:41:48.37
CAN STAND IN FRONT OF THE LORD.
AND PSALMS 110, OH, LORD, MY
00:41:48.37\00:41:56.31
STRENGTH AND MY
REDEEMER. >> AMEN.
00:41:56.31\00:41:58.65
>> AMEN. NEXT
QUESTION IS VERY SHORT.
00:41:58.65\00:42:02.25
IT ONLY HAS FOUR
WORDS. IT IS FROM ERNEST.
00:42:02.25\00:42:12.49
HE SAID ONCE
FORGIVEN ALWAYS FORGIVEN?
00:42:12.49\00:42:19.33
>> WE TALKED ABOUT THAT WHEN WE
TALKED ABOUT THE SKELETONS THAT
00:42:19.33\00:42:26.68
COME UP. MAYBE WE
FEEL LIKE WE ARE MOVING
00:42:26.68\00:42:29.24
ON, AND THEN THEY DO SOMETHING,
THE SAME KIND OF REPEAT -- LET'S
00:42:29.24\00:42:34.15
JUST USE ADULTERY AS OF -- MAYBE
YOU HAVE FORGIVEN YOUR SPOUSE
00:42:34.15\00:42:44.66
FOR ADULTERY, AND YOU ARE MOVING
ON, AND A FEW YEARS DOWN THE
00:42:44.66\00:42:48.96
ROAD, THEY DO IT AGAIN.
WHAT IS THE FIRST THING THAT
00:42:48.96\00:42:54.07
HAPPENS? YOU GO BACK AGAIN.
00:42:54.07\00:42:55.57
AND IT'S LIKE THAT WHOLE PROCESS
OF FORGIVENESS, NOW YOU HAVE TO
00:42:55.57\00:42:59.41
GO THROUGH THE
SAME THING. >> UH-HUH.
00:42:59.41\00:43:02.21
>> SO -- >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:43:02.21\00:43:03.78
>> OH, WAIT, I HAVE GOT A
PERFECT SCRIPTURE FOR HIM.
00:43:03.78\00:43:07.68
>> OKAY. GOOD.
00:43:07.68\00:43:09.15
>> ONCE
FORGIVEN, ALWAYS FORGIVEN.
00:43:09.15\00:43:12.52
HOW COULD I NOT
HAVE THOUGHT OF THIS.
00:43:12.52\00:43:16.79
MATTHEW 18:22-35.
JESUS ANSWERED THEREFORE THE
00:43:16.79\00:43:24.10
KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS LIKE A KING
WHO WANTED TO SETTLE ACCOUNTS
00:43:24.10\00:43:27.44
WITH HIS SERVANTS AND HE BEGAN
THE SETTLEMENT, A MAN WHO OWED
00:43:27.44\00:43:32.44
HIM 10,000 TALENTS
WAS BROUGHT TO HIM.
00:43:32.44\00:43:35.08
SINCE HE WAS NOT ABLE TO PAY,
THE MASTER ORDERED ALL THAT HE
00:43:35.08\00:43:39.68
HAD SOLD -- ALL THAT HE HAD
TO BE SOLD TO REPAY THE DEBT.
00:43:39.68\00:43:45.49
THE SERVANT FELL ON HIS
KNEES, OH, BE PATIENT WITH ME.
00:43:45.49\00:43:50.53
AND I WILL PAY BACK EVERYTHING.
THE SERVANT'S MASTER TOOK PITY
00:43:50.53\00:43:55.00
ON HIM. CANCELED
THE DEBT AND LET HIM
00:43:55.00\00:43:59.17
GO. BUT WHEN HE
WENT OUT -- HE HAD
00:43:59.17\00:44:01.87
THIS HUGE DEBT
THAT WAS FORGIVEN.
00:44:01.87\00:44:05.44
BUT THE SERVANT FOUND ONE OF
HIS FELLOW SERVANTS WHO OWED HIM
00:44:05.44\00:44:12.55
100. PAY BACK
WHAT YOU OWE ME, HE
00:44:12.55\00:44:16.02
DEMANDED AND HIS FELLOW SERVANT
FELL TO HIS KNEES AND BEGGED, BE
00:44:16.02\00:44:20.89
PATIENT WITH ME AND
I WILL PAY YOU BACK.
00:44:20.89\00:44:23.26
BUT HE REFUSED. HE
WENT OFF AND HAD THE MAN
00:44:23.26\00:44:29.70
THROWN INTO PRISON. AND
WHEN THE OTHER SERVANT SAW
00:44:29.70\00:44:33.94
WHAT HAPPENED THEY TOLD
THE MASTER WHAT HAPPENED.
00:44:33.94\00:44:37.27
AND THE MASTER SAID YOU WICKED
SERVANT, I C-- CANCELED ALL OF
00:44:37.27\00:44:46.88
THAT DEBT. HIS
MASTER TURNED HIM OVER TO
00:44:46.88\00:44:49.22
THE JAILERS TO BE TORTURED UNTIL
HE COULD PAY BACK ALL THAT HE
00:44:49.22\00:44:54.52
OWED. THIS IS HOW
MY HEAVENLY FATHER
00:44:54.52\00:44:56.73
WILL TREAT EACH OF YOU, UNLESS
YOU FORGIVE YOUR BROTHER FROM
00:44:56.73\00:45:00.40
YOUR HEART. SO THAT
SERVANT HAD HAD A DEBT
00:45:00.40\00:45:04.50
FORGIVEN, BUT BECAUSE HE WAS NOT
FORGIVING, HE ENDED UP HAVING TO
00:45:04.50\00:45:08.60
PAY HIS DEBT. >> YEAH.
00:45:08.60\00:45:10.61
WE HAVE JUST A FEW MINUTES LEFT.
SO LET'S SEE HOW MANY MORE WE
00:45:10.61\00:45:16.31
CAN GET THROUGH.
THIS IS FROM VICKY.
00:45:16.31\00:45:18.95
IF WE HAVE TRULY FORGIVEN
SOMEONE, DOES THAT MEAN WE NO
00:45:18.95\00:45:23.45
LONGER FEEL THE PAIN IN
>> THAT'S A GOOD QUESTION.
00:45:23.45\00:45:25.72
>> IT'S A GREAT QUESTION.
>> I THINK THE PAIN LESSENS.
00:45:25.72\00:45:31.19
I THINK -- YOU KNOW, IT
COMES -- HEALING COMES FROM GOD.
00:45:31.19\00:45:35.10
>> UH-HUH. >> AS
LONG AS THE PAIN IS THERE,
00:45:35.10\00:45:37.70
YOU ARE NOT HEALED. I
BELIEVE YOU CAN FORGIVE
00:45:37.70\00:45:41.27
SOMEONE AND STILL HAVE PAIN.
>> BUT AS YOU HOLD ON TO THAT
00:45:41.27\00:45:45.84
FORGIVENESS, AND AS YOU TRUST
GOD, HEALING COMES FROM THE
00:45:45.84\00:45:48.74
LORD. >> YEAH.
00:45:48.74\00:45:49.38
>> THERE IS A SAYING
TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS.
00:45:49.38\00:45:53.92
NA. GOD IS THE ONLY HEALER.
00:45:53.92\00:45:55.85
>> AMEN. AMEN.
00:45:55.85\00:45:57.52
>> SO YOUR HEALING
WILL COME FROM GOD.
00:45:57.52\00:46:00.06
>> AND TO ME
FORGIVENESS IS A JOURNEY.
00:46:00.06\00:46:02.66
AND I THINK THAT -- I THINK
ABOUT THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A
00:46:02.66\00:46:08.20
SCAR AND AN OPEN
WOUND. AS YOU ARE STARTING TO
00:46:08.20\00:46:14.74
HEAL -- SAY YOU CUT YOURSELF,
AND THERE'S PAIN AND IT'S
00:46:14.74\00:46:21.61
SCABBING, AND EVENTUALLY IT GETS
TO THE POINT WHERE THERE IS A
00:46:21.61\00:46:26.05
SCAR. I THINK WE
WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER,
00:46:26.05\00:46:28.55
BUT TO ME THAT MEANS THE OOZING,
AND THE BLOOD, AND ALL OF THAT
00:46:28.55\00:46:33.62
PAIN EVENTUALLY
COMES OUT. >> UH-HUH.
00:46:33.62\00:46:37.46
YOU KNOW, I HAVE SITUATIONS IN
MY LIFE THAT WERE VERY PAINFUL.
00:46:37.46\00:46:40.73
AND ON THIS SIDE OF IT -- IT'S
NOT THAT I DON'T REMEMBER THE
00:46:40.73\00:46:47.04
SITUATIONS, BUT I
REMEMBER THEM WITHOUT THE PAIN.
00:46:47.04\00:46:49.84
AND THAT IS BECAUSE
THE LORD -- >> HEALED YOU.
00:46:49.84\00:46:52.47
>> ABSOLUTELY.
THIS ONE IS ANONYMOUS.
00:46:52.47\00:46:56.34
BUT IF A PERSON CONTINUOUSLY
HURTS YOU, AND YOU PRAY FOR
00:46:56.34\00:47:02.15
THEM, YET THE HURT STILL STAYS,
WHEN THE THOUGHT OF THE PERSON
00:47:02.15\00:47:15.26
JUST HURTS YOU AFRESH.
>> THAT MEANS YOU HAVE NOT
00:47:15.26\00:47:18.97
EXPERIENCED
HEALING. >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:47:18.97\00:47:20.50
STILL IN PAIN. >>
YEAH, WHEN YOU ARE IN THAT
00:47:20.50\00:47:25.24
MUCH PAIN. I ONCE
INTERVIEWED A WOMAN WHO
00:47:25.24\00:47:28.18
HAD BEEN ABUSED TERRIBLY AS
A CHILD, BY HER HUSBAND, ON THE
00:47:28.18\00:47:35.95
STREETS, AND SHE COULD SIT AND
TELL THESE HORRIBLE TAILS DRY
00:47:35.95\00:47:41.66
EYED, BCAUSE SHE WAS TOTALLY
HEALED, BUT SHE SAID, IT DOESN'T
00:47:41.66\00:47:47.13
MEAN THAT THERE
ISN'T A TWINGE OF PAIN.
00:47:47.13\00:47:49.66
>> YES. >> SHE
SAID THERE ARE THINS
00:47:49.66\00:47:51.43
THAT HAPPENED IN MY LIFE, AND
SHE SAID IT IS JUST KIND OF LIKE
00:47:51.43\00:47:56.10
THAT TWINGE OF PAIN FROM
SOMEBODY FROM THE PAST, BUT IT
00:47:56.10\00:48:00.24
IS MORE OF -- MAYBE THE PAIN OF
A SCAR, AS YOU SAID, INSTEAD OF
00:48:00.24\00:48:04.45
THE PAIN OF THE OPEN WOUND.
>> AND THIS PERSON SAYS IT IS
00:48:04.45\00:48:11.69
CONTINUOUSLY HAPPENING.
SO WHAT WE WANT TO SAY IS GET
00:48:11.69\00:48:14.66
AWAY FROM THE SITUATION.
BUT SOMETIMES YOU CAN'T.
00:48:14.66\00:48:18.66
SAY IT'S HER ABUSIVE MOTHER THAT
IS IN A -- HAVING -- IN A HEALTH
00:48:18.66\00:48:23.53
SITUATION, AND SHE HAS TO
CONTINUALLY BE THE CAREGIVER TO
00:48:23.53\00:48:27.37
HER MOTHER. THIS IS
VERY HYPOTHETICAL, BUT
00:48:27.37\00:48:32.41
SHE IS THE
CAREGIVER FOR HER MOTHER.
00:48:32.41\00:48:35.38
AND HER MOTHER
CONTINUES TO HURT HER.
00:48:35.38\00:48:37.51
THAT'S A HARD PLACE TO WALK IN,
AND TO CONTINUALLY WALK IN PAIN,
00:48:37.51\00:48:42.18
BUT THEN THAT'S WHERE
WE PRESENT IT TO THE LORD.
00:48:42.18\00:48:46.42
GODS IS YOUR ONLY HOPE
IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT.
00:48:46.42\00:48:50.26
>> I WAS IN A SIMILAR SITUATION
TO WHAT YOU JUT SET UP, AND I
00:48:50.26\00:48:54.93
REMEMBER GOING TO THE LORD,
AND SAYING OH, LORD, CHANGE HER,
00:48:54.93\00:48:59.40
CHANGE HER. I
CONTACT TAKE THIS ANYMORE,
00:48:59.40\00:49:02.00
CHANGE HER. AND IN A
SMALL VOICE, THE LORD
00:49:02.00\00:49:05.27
SAID, LET ME CHANGE YOU. >> YES.
00:49:05.27\00:49:06.98
>> AND IT WAS LIKE WHAT?
AND HE SAID, I WILL SHOW YOU HER
00:49:06.98\00:49:11.81
THROUGH MY EYES, AND YOU WILL
UNDERSTAND, AND, YOU KNOW, THIS
00:49:11.81\00:49:15.48
WAS SOMETHING THAT -- BOY
THAT WAS A GROWING EXPERIENCE,
00:49:15.48\00:49:22.66
BECAUSE ALL I UNDERSTOOD
SUDDENLY IT WASN'T SO PAINFUL,
00:49:22.66\00:49:25.66
BECAUSE I WAS SEEING IT THROUGH
GOD'S EYES, WHY -- WHAT WAS THE
00:49:25.66\00:49:30.80
REASON THAT SHE WAS DOING THE
THINGS THAT SHE WAS DOING, AND
00:49:30.80\00:49:35.50
EVENTUALLY WE
OVERCAME THAT. >> AMEN.
00:49:35.50\00:49:37.47
THIS IS FROM DOROTHY. SHE
SAYS WHEN SHE WAS RECOVERING
00:49:37.47\00:49:40.68
FROM SURGERY, A FRIEND CAME
TO STAY WITH HER FOR A WEEK, AND
00:49:40.68\00:49:45.68
HER FRIEND HELPED HER GET
RID OF CLUTTER AND THINGS.
00:49:45.68\00:49:49.72
HOWEVER, INSTEAD OF THE FRIEND
SAYING OKAY, GET RID OF THIS.
00:49:49.72\00:49:53.46
OKAY, DO YOU WANT TO KEEP THIS?
THE FRIEND WENT AHEAD AND TOSSED
00:49:53.46\00:49:59.83
SOME THINGS THAT SHE
CONSIDERED VERY VALUABLE.
00:49:59.83\00:50:03.26
I HAVE ONLY SPOKEN TO HER TWICE
SINCE TO ASK WHERE THINGS WERE,
00:50:03.26\00:50:09.07
ONLY TO DISCOVER
THINK THINGS WERE TOSSED.
00:50:09.07\00:50:12.51
IT BRINGS TEARS TO MY
EYES JUST THINKING ABOUT IT.
00:50:12.51\00:50:16.18
I THINK I SHOULD
FORGIVE. BUT I AM NOT ABLE TO.
00:50:16.18\00:50:20.55
HELP. >> OKAY.
00:50:20.55\00:50:21.32
WE HAD A PHONE CALL
TODAY. A WOMAN WHO JUST LOST HER
00:50:21.32\00:50:28.69
BROTHER, AND WAS VERY SAD
BECAUSE IT WAS SEVEN YEARS THAT
00:50:28.69\00:50:32.79
SHE HAD NOT
SPOKEN TO HER BROTHER.
00:50:32.79\00:50:36.90
SHE HAD OTHER SIBLINGS WITH WHOM
SHE WAS VERY CLOSE, BUT SHE AND
00:50:36.90\00:50:41.24
THIS BROTHER HAD HAD A FALLING
OUT, AND SHE WAS DEVASTATED
00:50:41.24\00:50:45.61
BECAUSE HE HAD PASSED, AND THEY
NEVER HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO
00:50:45.61\00:50:50.18
REALLY HEAL. JUST REMEMBER THIS.
00:50:50.18\00:50:54.52
YOUR FRIEND WAS IN ERROR, YES.
SHE SHOULD NOT HAVE DONE THAT.
00:50:54.52\00:51:01.29
BUT FRIENDSHIP IS MORE IMPORTANT
THAN THESE MATERIAL THINGS.
00:51:01.29\00:51:08.83
PROVERBS 17:9. HE
SAYS HE WHO COVERS AND
00:51:08.83\00:51:14.10
FORGIVES IN A SENSE, SEEKS LOVE,
BUT HE WHO REPEATS OR HARPS ON A
00:51:14.10\00:51:19.94
MATTER SEPARATES
EVEN CLOSE FRIENDS.
00:51:19.94\00:51:22.21
>> YES. >> SO AT
THIS POINT, IF YOU ARE
00:51:22.21\00:51:26.45
REALLY A CLOSE FRIEND, YOU
KNOW SIT DOWN AND TALK TO HER OR
00:51:26.45\00:51:31.62
WRITE HER AND SAY, YOU
KNOW -- IT'S REALLY HARD IN AN
00:51:31.62\00:51:36.39
EMAIL. I WOULD TALK.
00:51:36.39\00:51:38.23
AND SAY I'M JUST SO
SAD THAT YOU DID THIS.
00:51:38.23\00:51:40.90
WHY WOULD YOU HAVE DONE THIS?
GIVE HER A CHANCE TO EXPLAIN.
00:51:40.90\00:51:45.23
AND MAYBE TO ASK FOR YOUR
FORGIVENESS, AND THAT -- IT
00:51:45.23\00:51:48.77
ALWAYS MAKES IT EASIER TO GIVE
FORGIVENESS WHEN SOMEBODY ASKS
00:51:48.77\00:51:53.48
FOR FORGIVENESS. >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:51:53.48\00:51:56.04
>> AND A SCRIPTURE
THAT MAY HELP IS PSALMS 119.
00:51:56.04\00:52:05.09
SHE OFFENDED YOU. AND
WE'RE NOT JUSTIFYING THAT.
00:52:05.09\00:52:08.76
IN THAT WAS WRONG. SHE
SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE IT.
00:52:08.76\00:52:13.23
>> I WOULD HAVE BEEN
MADDER THAN A WET HEN.
00:52:13.23\00:52:16.56
[ LAUGHTER ] >> BUT
LET'S NOT LET THIS OFFEND
00:52:16.56\00:52:20.40
YOU. NOTHING SHALL AFENGD THEE.
00:52:20.40\00:52:24.07
AND I WANT TO GIVE YOU A FEW
LITTLE QUOTES FROM THE DESIRE OF
00:52:24.07\00:52:29.31
AGES. AND IT TALKS ABOUT -- IT'S
00:52:29.31\00:52:31.85
CHAPTER 1. IT'S THE
LAW OF LIFE FOR HEAVEN
00:52:31.85\00:52:38.12
AND EARTH.-THE LAW OF SELF
RENOUNCING LOVE. IN THAT LOVE
00:52:38.12\00:52:45.49
WHICH SEEKTH NOT HER OWN.
THE GLORY SHINING IN THE FACE OF
00:52:45.49\00:52:49.03
JESUS IS THE GLORY OF
SELF-SACRIFICING LOVE.
00:52:49.03\00:52:53.00
IN THIS CASE, YOU ARE
HAVING AN OPPORTUNITY TO DO SOME
00:52:53.00\00:52:56.60
SACRIFICING. AND
THAT IS SACRIFICING
00:52:56.60\00:52:58.54
SOMETHING THAT -- YOU FEEL LIKE
WHAT SHE DID TO YOU WAS TOTALLY
00:52:58.54\00:53:03.88
UNJUSTIFIABLE. AND WE
TEND TO AGREE WITH YOU ON
00:53:03.88\00:53:06.15
THIS. BUT FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR
00:53:06.15\00:53:08.82
WELL-BEING, FOR THE SAKE OF
YOU WALKING WITH A HEART THAT IS
00:53:08.82\00:53:12.65
PURE BEFORE THE
LORD, THEN YOU FORGIVE HER.
00:53:12.65\00:53:15.66
YOU FORGIVE. YOU --
YOU DON'T FOCUS ON SELF.
00:53:15.66\00:53:19.53
YOU FOCUS ON THE SCRIPTURE THAT
SAYS THAT WE -- THAT -- AS HE
00:53:19.53\00:53:25.03
FORGIVES US, WE
MUST FORGIVE OTHERS.
00:53:25.03\00:53:27.60
>> AMEN. >> AND
THEN YOU LAY IT AT THE
00:53:27.60\00:53:30.44
FEET OF JESUS AND
ALLOW HIS LOVE TO TOUCH YOU.
00:53:30.44\00:53:33.07
>> AMEN. I JUST
ALSO WANT TO ENCOURAGE
00:53:33.07\00:53:37.85
YOU IN THIS, THAT WE CAN
REMEMBER THAT GOD FORGAVE US,
00:53:37.85\00:53:42.52
AND PSALM 129:4
SAYS THE LORD IS RIGH
00:53:42.52\00:53:48.69
RIGHTEOUS, ASK GOD, SAY, LORD,
I KNOW YOU ARE RIGHTEOUS, CUT ME
00:53:48.69\00:53:53.16
FREE FROM THIS
CHORD THAT IS BINDING ME.
00:53:53.16\00:53:58.57
BECAUSE $0.01 CORINTHIANS,
IN KING JAMES IT SAYS THAT
00:53:58.57\00:54:07.11
LOVE -- HOW DOES IT
SAY -- SEEKS NO EVIL.
00:54:07.11\00:54:10.61
BUT IN THE AMPLIFIED IT SAYS
LOVE IS NOT -- IT DOES NOT KEEP
00:54:10.61\00:54:15.12
A RECORD OF WRONGDOING. >> AMEN.
00:54:15.12\00:54:18.05
>> SO YOU WANT -- YOU DON'T
WANT THAT TO BE IN YOUR HEART,
00:54:18.05\00:54:21.99
BECAUSE THAT IS GOING TO
COME BETWEEN YOU AND THE LORD.
00:54:21.99\00:54:26.73
SO YOU HAVE GOT
FORGIVE HER. IT'S A CHOICE.
00:54:26.73\00:54:29.93
YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER THAT GOD
FORGAVE YOU, BUT AS YOU DO ASK
00:54:29.93\00:54:35.30
GOD FOR HIS LOVE INTO YOUR
HEART, THEN HE CAN HELP YOU TO
00:54:35.30\00:54:39.61
FORGIVE HER. >> AMEN.
00:54:39.61\00:54:41.38
I CAN'T BELIEVE WE'RE ALL
THE WAY DOWN TO THE END OF THE
00:54:41.38\00:54:44.15
SECOND HOUR. IT
HAS GONE SO QUICKLY.
00:54:44.15\00:54:46.08
I WANT TO TAKE A MOMENT AT
THE END, AND GO TO THE LORD IN
00:54:46.08\00:54:50.29
PRAYER. I KNOW
THAT MANY OF YOU ARE
00:54:50.29\00:54:52.19
HURTING, AND WE
WANT TO PRAY FOR YOU.
00:54:52.19\00:54:55.12
WE WANT TO PRAY THAT GOD
WOULD GIVE YOU HIS FORGIVENESS.
00:54:55.12\00:55:00.60
THAT HE WOULD GRANT FORGIVENESS,
AND YOU COULD POUR THAT OUT INTO
00:55:00.60\00:55:04.63
THE LIVES OF THOSE
WHO MAYBE HURT YOU.
00:55:04.63\00:55:09.74
VERONICA, ASKS -- SHE SAYS SHE
STRUGGLES WITH FORGIVENESS AND
00:55:09.74\00:55:16.01
WOULD LIKE PRAYER
TO HELP HER FORGIVE.
00:55:16.01\00:55:20.48
AND SHELLEY THIS IS FROM ALFRED,
AND ASKING PRAYER FOR ERIC AND
00:55:20.48\00:55:24.42
HIS CONVERSION. AND
WE DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME.
00:55:24.42\00:55:27.59
>> HOLY FATHER I DO BRING
VERONICA BEFORE YOUR THROWN OF
00:55:27.59\00:55:33.09
GRACE AND I PRAISE YOU THAT YOU
HAVE GIVEN HER A HEART TO WANT
00:55:33.09\00:55:39.27
TO. I ASK THAT
YOU DRAW HER INTO A
00:55:39.27\00:55:41.50
CLOSER AND DEEPER RELATIONSHIP
WITH YOU, PUT YOUR LOE IN HER
00:55:41.50\00:55:47.24
HEART AND GIVE HER YOUR COURAGE,
GRACE, LOVE, AND JOY, AND USE
00:55:47.24\00:55:53.68
HER TO BRING
HONOR TO YOUR KINGDOM.
00:55:53.68\00:55:57.59
>> FATHER WE PRAY THAT YOU WILL
OPEN ERIC'S EYES, THAT HE MIGHT
00:55:57.59\00:56:04.46
ENJOY THE INHERITANCE AND
BE AMONG THOSE WHO HAVE AN
00:56:04.46\00:56:08.90
INHERITANCE, BECAUSE THEY ARE
SANCTIFIED BY CHRIST IN JESUS.
00:56:08.90\00:56:15.07
>> AMEN. FATHER
WE THANK YOU FOR YOUR
00:56:15.07\00:56:19.07
FORGIVENESS, WE RECEIVE IT.
AND WE THANK YOU FOR POURING
00:56:19.07\00:56:22.38
THAT INTO OUR HEARTS TO EXTEND
TO OUR BROTHERS AND SISTERS.
00:56:22.38\00:56:27.62
WE ASK THIS IN THE
PRECIOUS AND HOLY NAME OF JESUS.
00:56:27.62\00:56:32.15
>> AMEN. >> THANK
YOU SO MUCH, MOLLIE AND
00:56:32.15\00:56:37.36
SHELLEY, IT HAS BEEN A
BLESSING TO BE WITH EACH OF YOU.
00:56:37.36\00:56:40.20
>> THANK YOU. >> AND
WE THANK YOU FOR JOINING
00:56:40.20\00:56:43.80
US. KNOW THAT WE
CONSIDER YOU AS A
00:56:43.80\00:56:45.80
PART OF OUR 3ABN FAMILY.
THAT YOU ARE NOT ONLY SPECIAL TO
00:56:45.80\00:56:49.27
US HERE, AND WE PRAY FOR YOU,
BUT YOU ARE MOST IMPORTANTLY
00:56:49.27\00:56:52.61
SPECIAL TO THE HEART OF GOD,
THAT HE HAS YOUR NAME ENGRAVENED
00:56:52.61\00:56:57.85
ON THE PALM OF HIS HAND,
THAT HE SAYS HE LOVES YOU WITH
00:56:57.85\00:57:03.75
EVER-LASTING LOVE. AND
THAT HE WANTS TO TRANSFORM
00:57:03.75\00:57:06.62
YOUR LIFE, AND
MAKE YOU FREE IN CHRIST.
00:57:06.62\00:57:09.02
WE'LL SEE YOU
AGAIN, BYE-BYE. >> AMEN.
00:57:09.02\00:57:10.86
¤
00:57:10.86\00:57:16.83