Participants: Mollie Steenson (Host), Shelley Quinn (Host), Cherie Peters
Series Code: TL
Program Code: TL016515B
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00:10 >>> HELLO AND WELCOME BACK TO 3ABN LIVE.
00:15 I'M SHELLEY QUINN, AND THIS IS MOLLIE STEENSON RIGHT NEXT TO 00:19 ME. AND OUR SPECIAL GUEST TONIGHT IS 00:21 CHERI PETERS WHO IS THE FOUNDER OF TRUE STEP MINISTRIES, AND WE 00:25 ARE TALKING -- WELL, THE TITLE IS BENEFITS AND DANGERS OF 00:30 SOCIAL MEDIA. I THINK WE HAVE JUST BEGUN TO 00:35 KIND OF SCRAPE OFF THE TOP LAYER HERE OF SOME OF THE DANGERS OF 00:40 SOCIAL MEDIA, AND -- AND I KNOW THAT THIS IS RATHER ALARMING. 00:45 WE HAVE GOT SOME EVEN MORE ALARMING THINGS COMING UP. 00:48 THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT, BUT BEFORE WE GO 00:52 FURTHER INTO THIS, IT IS A LIVE PROGRAM. 00:56 WE'LL TALK ABOUT OUR FREE OFFER IN A SECOND, BUT WHAT WE WOULD 00:59 LIKE TO DO IS INTRODUCE TO YOU JAMIE GEORGE, JAMIE IS AN 01:06 INCREDIBLE YOUNG MAN WHO HAS SUCH A GIFT ON -- HE CAN 01:11 MAKE -- HE CAN TELL A SERMON WITH HIS VIOLIN. 01:16 AND RIGHT NOW JAMIE IS GOING TO PLAY FOR US "TURN YOUR EYES UP 01:22 ON JESUS." ♪ 03:09 ♪ >> WE APPRECIATE JAMIE SO MUCH. 04:24 IN THAT IS SO BEAUTIFUL. >> BEAUTIFUL. 04:26 >> I REMEMBER ONCE WE WERE IN LAS VEGAS, NEVADA, WE WERE DOING 04:32 IT LIVE, AND JAMIE WAS PLAYING RIGHT BEFORE I SPOKE. 04:37 AND HE PLAYED -- IT WAS "WERE YOU THERE WHEN YOU CRUCIFIED MY 04:44 LORD." AND IT WAS -- HAD SUCH AN 04:47 IMPACT, THAT I'M BACKSTAGE CRYING RIGHT BEFORE I COME OUT. 04:51 BECAUSE I JUST GOT SO SWEPT UP INTO THE MUSIC. 04:54 IT WAS INCREDIBLE. >> YEAH. 04:56 >> WELL, THIS IS A LIVE PROGRAM. YOU CAN SEND YOUR QUESTIONS TO 05:02 US BY CALLING OR YOU CAN I'M US AT LIVE@3ABN.TV, AND WE'LL BE 05:10 CHERI PETERS ON THE HOT SEAT TONIGHT. 05:11 WE ALSO HAVE A FREE OFFER, MOLLIE, DO YOU WANT TO TELL US 05:15 ABOUT THAT. >> YES, IT'S A DVD. 05:18 IT'S -- HOW LONG? SIX MINUTES? 05:20 >> IT'S ABOUT SIX MINUTES. IT'S AMAZING. 05:24 >> ABOUT SIX AND A HALF MINUTES. AND IT'S A POEM WRITTEN BY SAM 05:29 SHOEMAKER, AND READ BY CHERI PETERS. 05:31 SHE DID AN INCREDIBLE JOB. THE NAME OF THE POEM IS "I STAND 05:37 AT THE DOOR." AND I JUST WANT TO ENCOURAGE 05:42 YOU. IT WILL MOVE YOUR HEART. 05:44 AND IT ALSO HAS SUCH A PROFOUND MESSAGE. 05:53 SO WE WOULD LIKE TO GET THIS IN YOUR HANDS. 05:57 >> AMEN. DURING THE BREAK, WE WERE 05:59 TALKING ABOUT THE BENEFITS -- AND WE WANT TO TALK 06:02 ABOUT THAT. WE LIVE IN SUCH A TIME WHEN 06:06 TECHNOLOGY PUTS AT OUR FINGERTIPS -- I MEAN THERE'S NOT 06:09 A QUESTION THAT I CAN'T -- CAN'T GOOGLE THAT THEY HAVEN'T BEEN 06:13 ABLE TO ANSWER SO FAR. >> UH-HUH. 06:16 >> IT IS JUST SO AMAZING TO HAVE THIS TECHNOLOGY AND YOU WERE 06:21 SAYING, HOW -- AND J.D. IS MUCH THE SAME WAY, OUR HUSBANDS FEEL 06:25 SECURE WHEN WE HAVE OUR PHONES WITH US. 06:28 THEY KNOW -- >> OR THEY KNOW IF WE NEED THEM, 06:31 THEN WE CAN CALL THEM. >> RIGHT. 06:34 SO THERE ARE SO MANY WONDERFUL THINGS ABOUT THE SMARTPHONE AND 06:39 WHAT IS AVAILABLE, BUT NOW WE WANT TO POINT OUT, BECAUSE SOME 06:44 OF US -- AND I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME. 06:46 I FEEL LIKE I LIVE IN A CHRISTIAN BUBBLE SOMETIMES. 06:51 BECAUSE I WORK AT 3ABN, WHERE CHRISTIANS, GO TO CHURCH WITH 06:58 THE SAME PEOPLE, ALMOST EVERYBODY I KNOW IS A CHRISTIAN, 07:01 AND IT'S GOOD TO LOOK AT WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON IN THE WORLD, 07:06 BECAUSE WE WON'T BE EFFECTIVE IN OUR MINISTRY, IF WE DON'T 07:09 UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEMS OF THE WORLD. 07:11 >> THAT'S A GREAT POINT, SHELLEY, BECAUSE EVEN 07:14 THOUGH -- I STAND AT THE DOOR, I HOPE THIS PROGRAM WAKES UP 07:19 PEOPLE THAT ARE 15 YEARS OLD, 16 YEARS OLD, 20 YEARS OLD, THAT 07:23 ARE GOING INTO MINISTRY. REACH OUT TO THE PEOPLE ALL 07:27 AROUND YOU THAT MAY HAVE GOTTEN LOST IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD. 07:31 BECAUSE PART OF THE MINISTRY IS GOING TO BE OUR HEALTH MESSAGE, 07:35 YOU KNOW, THAT WE HAVE GOT TO GET OUTSIDE, THE SUN HIT OUR 07:39 SKIN. THERE WAS A CLIP THAT WAS SO 07:42 FUNNY, AND IT'S THIS GUY THAT SAYS, YOU KNOW, 20 YEARS AGO IF 07:46 SOMEBODY KNOCKED AT YOUR DOOR, EVERYBODY -- IF THE WHOLE FAMILY 07:51 WAS TOGETHER WATCHING TV, EVERYBODY WOULD BE GOING LIKE 07:54 SOMEONE IS HERE! WE HAVE COMPANY! 07:56 THE KIDS WOULD SLIDE AT THE DOOR. 07:59 THEY WOULD OPEN THE DOOR, LIKE NO WAY. 08:01 YOU ARE HERE. COME ON IN. 08:03 THAT'S INCREDIBLE. YOU WOULD GET OUT SOME CAKE. 08:07 MOMMA WOULD PUT SOMETHING ON TO DRINK, AND EVERYBODY WOULD HAVE 08:10 A GREAT TIME. AND IF THE PHONE RANG, DAD OR 08:14 SOMEBODY WOULD SAY, NO, NO, NO. DON'T ANSWER THAT. 08:17 WE HAVE COMPANY. >> YEAH. 08:19 >> REMEMBER THAT WAS A WHOLE DIFFERENT TIME. 08:22 NOWADAYS SOMEBODY KNOCKS ON THE DOOR EVERYBODY IS SHHHHHH. 08:28 [ LAUGHTER ] >> YOU KNOW, LIKE TURNING THE TV 08:29 DOWN. MY SON-IN-LAW SAYS HE'LL TURN 08:32 THE GAMES DOWN, HE'LL TELL THE DOGS TO BE QUIET. 08:37 LIKE TWO INVITED SOMEONE. GRANDMA GET A KNIFE, WHO IS AT 08:42 THE DOOR. I JUST CAME OVER TO VISIT. 08:45 IS THAT YOUR MOM WITH A KNIFE. IT'S JUST THE DIFFERENCE THAT 08:49 OUR SOCIAL MEDIA HAS DONE. WE LITERALLY AT ONE POINT USED 08:54 TO HAVE PEOPLE DROP BY AND ALL OF THAT STUFF, NOWADAYS REALLY, 08:59 I HAVE A LOT OF FOLKS IN LIFE THAT DON'T EVEN WANT YOU TO CALL 09:04 THEM. JUST SEND ME A TEXT. 09:06 MY DAUGHTER IS LIKE JUST SEND ME A TET -- TEXT. 09:14 I WANT TO HEAR HER VOICE. SO I CALL HER. 09:18 AND I KNOW SHE IS THERE. AND I WON'T LEAVE A MESSAGE. 09:23 AND IT KILLS HER. SO SHE'LL CALL ME RIGHT BACK. 09:29 SO WE'RE LEARNING TO CONNECT DIFFERENTLY, OUR HOMES ARE 09:32 DIFFERENT BECAUSE OF OUR MEDIA AND OUR DIGITAL WORLD, SO LOOK 09:35 AT WHAT IS GOOD. REALLY LOOK AT WHAT IS GOOD. 09:37 BECAUSE THERE IS INCREDIBLE STUFF THAT IS GOOD. 09:40 BUT ALSO LOOK AT WHAT IS CHANGING US. 09:42 REWIRING US. CHANGING THE WORLD THAT WE LIVE 09:45 IN. INTERFERING WITH OUR BODIES. 09:50 NEUROCHEMICALLY WHEN I CHANGE NEUROCH 09:56 NEUROCHEMICALLY, MY STRESS IS DIFFERENT, WE HAVE NERVE IN THE 10:00 FRONT OF YOUR HEAD THAT ACTUALLY GETS DAMAGED BY THIS STUFF. 10:04 SO IF I'M CHANGING ALL OF THAT, DO I NEED TO JUST SAY HEAD'S UP? 10:13 HOW DO I STAY WITH THIS TECHNOLOGY THAT IS AMAZING, BUT 10:17 HOW DO I STAY CONNECTED WITH THE WAY I WAS CREATED? 10:24 AND IT IS REALLY CHANGING US. >> WELL, PEOPLE WHO ARE WALKING 10:28 OR TECHING -- TEXTING AND WALKING ABOUT GET RUN OVER. 10:35 >> THAT HAPPENS. >> IT DOES. 10:37 >> JUST REPEAT A LITTLE BIT OF WHAT YOU TALKED ABOUT DURING THE 10:42 FIRST HOUR ABOUT BEING AN AHEE DONE -- AHE DONE NISIC QUALITY. 10:55 >> YOU CAN TEST LEVELS. IT IS CHANGING -- THE WAY WE'RE 11:00 GETTING LOST IN ADDICTION, THERE IS A BOOK THAT I LOVE, AND THE 11:06 NAME IS -- IT'S SLIPPING ME, BUT ANYHOW THERE ARE STUDIES THAT 11:11 ARE SAYING WE LITERALLY CAN -- CAN TAKE A BLOOD DRAW AND 11:20 SEE THE CHANGES IN THE MELATONIN LEVELS AND ADRENALINE AND ALL OF 11:25 THAT STUFF, BUT WHAT CHANGES TO CHANGE THAT IS OUR PLEASURE 11:29 CENTERS. AND OUR PLEASURE CENTERS, LIKE 11:31 WHEN I WALK OUTSIDE AND TAKE A BREATH, AND THE SUN HITS MY 11:37 SKIN, OR I SMELL A FLOWER OR AN ORANGE, SOMETHING CHANGES NE 11:48 NEUROCH NEUROCHEMICALLY. 11:51 IF I TRASH THAT PLEASURE CENTER, MY PLEASURE CENTER ACTUALLY FLAT 11:55 LINES. AND YOU CAN SEE THAT. 11:57 IN ADDICTION YOU CAN SEE IT REALLY CLEARLY. 12:00 LIKE ADDICTIONS LIKE METH AND SEXUAL ADDICTIONS AND ALL OF 12:04 THAT. BUT ONLINE ADDICTIONS ARE THE 12:06 SAME. >> THAT'S WHAT IS SCARING. 12:09 >> IT'S SCARING BECAUSE WE THINK I'M NOT SLAMMING COKE, OR 12:15 SLAPPING HEROIN, BUT ONLINE ADDICTIONS IS THE SAME AS ANY 12:20 OTHER ADDICTIONS. SO I'M FLAT LINING THAT PLEASURE 12:24 CENTER. IT'S EXHAUSTED. 12:26 IT'S NOT WORKING. SO HEDONISM MEANS I'M A SEEKER 12:35 OF PLEASURE. ANHEDONISTIC MEANS I CAN'T FIND 12:43 IT. IF I'M NOT ONLINE, OR SEEING 12:46 THOSE IMAGES THAT CHANGE, SOME OF THESE LOOPS ARE 30-SECOND 12:50 LOOPS. VIDEOS THAT PEOPLE ARE SENDING 12:52 ARE REALLY KIND OF SHORT THINGS THAT ARE FUNNY, CREATIVE, OR 12:56 COOL, OR THEY ARE PRETTY RAUNCHY, SO YOU CAN HAVE ALL OF 13:01 THAT. I KNOW KIDS THAT ARE REALLY 13:03 YOUNG THAT SOME OF THIS PORN STUFF OR -- OR LANGUAGE OR 13:09 CUSSING, IT'S JUST PART OF THE WORLD, AND IT'S NO BIG DEAL TO 13:14 THEM. IT DOESN'T BOTHER THEM AT ALL 13:16 IF -- IF YOUR MOM WOULD WALK IN OR YOUR DAD WOULD WALK IN, THEY 13:20 WOULD DIE AT SOME OF THE STUFF THAT IS BEING TALKED ABOUT IN A 13:24 CHAT ROOM, BUT THESE KIDS IT'S THEIR WORLD. 13:28 ONE APP, 240 MILLION KIDS. >> THAT'S KIK, K-I-K. 13:35 >> THERE ARE ALL KINDS OF STUFF. LIKE MICROBLOGING, OR DATING -- 13:46 >> MICROBLOGING? >> THEY ARE TINY. 13:49 >> KIND OF LIKE TWITTER? >> KIND OF LIKE A TWITTER. 13:52 PEOPLE ARE NOT ON FACEBOOK AND TWITTER MUCH ANYMORE, THEY ARE 13:56 ON THESE OTHER ONES. >> I HAVEN'T EVEN MADE IT TO 14:00 TWITTER YET. [ LAUGHTER ] 14:01 >> YOU MIGHT SAY THANK GOD FOR THAT. 14:03 SO THESE LITTLE THINGS ARE JUST -- YOU ARE SENDING THINGS 14:06 BACK AND FORTH. THERE'S AN APP CALLED SNAPCHAT 14:10 THAT YOU CAN SEND SOMETHING -- LIKE I SEND A VIDEO 14:14 TO YOU, AND I DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANYBODY FINDING IT, 14:17 BECAUSE IT WILL STAY FOR A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIME AND THEN 14:20 IT IS SUPPOSED TO DISAPPEAR. NOTHING ONLINE EVER DISAPPEARS, 14:24 SO THAT'S NOT ACTUALLY TRUE. SO IF I SEND YOU A NUDE PICTURE 14:29 AND YOU TAKE A SCREEN SHOT, YOU CAN SEND IT ALL OVER THE WORLD, 14:33 AND I THINK IT DISAPPEARED IN 30 SECONDS. 14:36 BUT WHAT THEY HAVE ON THAT SCARES ME ABOUT SOME OF THESE 14:40 APPS, IS THEY HAVE A GPS LOCATER. 14:44 AND LET'S SAY THAT I WANT TO CONNECT WITH MY FRIENDS, BUT I 14:48 DON'T WANT TO CONNECT WITH PEOPLE FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD. 14:52 JUST FROM WITHIN 50 MILES. IF I WANT TO MEET THEM. 14:55 OR WHATEVER. SO I JUST WANT IT WITHIN CERTAIN 14:58 MILES. SO IT ACTUALLY HOOKS ME UP WITH 15:02 WHOEVER IS ON THAT APP WITHIN THAT MILE. 15:04 AND IT HAS LOCATED ME ON THE GPS, RIGHT? 15:07 SO IT KNOWS THAT. AND THAT'S FUN IF YOU ARE 15:11 HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS FROM HIGH SCHOOL OR WHATEVER. 15:15 BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN PERPETRATORS GET ON THERE. 15:18 IF IT'S NOT SAFE, ALL OF A SUDDEN SOMEBODY SAYS I WANT TO 15:22 KNOW WHERE THIS KID IS, I'M GROOMING THIS KID, AND I KNOW 15:26 I'M WITHIN 20 MILES OF THIS KID. >> AND THIS HAPPENS IN -- AND 15:29 THIS IS WHAT WE WANT TO EMPHASIZE, IS DON'T THINK IT'S 15:33 NOT HAPPENING IN THIS THE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY, BECAUSE WE 15:36 CAN SIT HERE AND WE KNOW PEOPLE IN OUR OWN CHURCH THAT THESE 15:41 KIND OF THINGS HAVE HAPPENED TO. SO IT IS SOMETHING THAT ALL 15:46 TEENAGERS ARE DOING IT, AND -- AND AS WE SAID EARLIER, 15:50 IT'S NOT JUST THE TEENS WE'RE WORRIED ABOUT, BUT THERE ARE 15:54 RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE BEING RUINED, MARRIAGES THAT ARE BEING 15:57 RUINED BECAUSE OF THE DARK SIDE OF THIS. 15:59 >> IT'S A DIGITAL COMMUNITY. IT'S A DIGITAL WORLD. 16:03 >> YEAH. >> SO WHEN WE SAY THAT -- WHEN 16:05 YOU GO INTO COLLEGES -- I WISH THERE WAS SOMEBODY THAT WAS 16:09 BRAVE ENOUGH THAT WOULD LET US KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE FOR YOU AS 16:13 A TEEN. BUT PORN IS EASY TO FIND. 16:16 IT'S LAUGHABLE. PEOPLE WILL LAUGH AT SOME OF THE 16:19 IMAGES -- LIKE THAT YOU GOT. YOU KNOW, YOU GET FIFTH AND 16:24 SIXTH, SEVENTH GRADERS JUST LAUGHING AT THAT STUFF. 16:28 THEY ARE SO DESENSITIZED, THAT IT IS JUST LAUGHABLE. 16:32 THIS ONE COUPLE DECIDED THAT THEY WANTED TO FIND 16:35 SOMEONE -- THEY WANTED TO MURDER SOMEONE FOR WHATEVER REASON, AND 16:38 SO THEY -- THEY GOT THIS GIRL -- SHE WAS 11. 16:42 SHE WAS KIND OF SOCIALLY ISOLATED ANYWAY, WAS NOT REALLY 16:46 POPULAR, SO STARTED TO CHAT WITH THIS GUY THAT WAS -- THE PICTURE 16:50 HE SENT HER WAS A GORGEOUS -- HE WAS IMMEDIATELY ASKED HER TO 16:56 SEND NUDE SHOTS AND SHE IS YOUNG. 16:58 SHE IS SENDING NUDE SHOTS ALL OF THAT STUFF. 17:01 THEY HAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. THEY SEND INFORMATION OF WHO 17:05 THEY ARE, WHERE THEY ARE LOCATED, AND SHE MEETS THEM. 17:10 SHE TELLS HER FRIENDS I'M IN LOVE. 17:13 AND I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. SHE WAS STABBED A NUMBER OF 17:18 TIMES BY THIS COUPLE THAT SET HER UP TO MEET. 17:21 AND I'M THINKING ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 17:24 TO ME I THINK SOMEBODY -- THIS IS SOMEBODY'S KID. 17:27 YOU KNOW? THIS IS -- SHE -- YOU KNOW, SHE 17:29 WAS GETTING SOME KIND OF REINFORCEMENT, FELT ALIVE, 17:34 RIGHT? FELT CONNECTED, FELT LOVED, FELT 17:38 CHERISHED, ALL OF THE THINGS THAT KID WANT TO FEEL AND THEY 17:41 SHOULD FEEL. BUT WHEN THEY FEEL IT, THEY FEEL 17:44 IT IN AN UNSAFE ENVIRONMENT WITHOUT BEING MONITORED OR 17:48 SUPERVISED OR EDUCATED, IT'S DANGEROUS. 17:51 >> AND THERE'S -- HOW MANY MORE -- YOU HAVE TOLD US ABOUT 17:56 K-I-K. AND E-N-V-O. 17:59 >> LET ME GET BACK TO THAT. THERE IS VINE, WHICH IS ONE. 18:04 VINE IS VERY CREATIVE, FUNNY. IT'S INCREDIBLE. 18:08 AND PEOPLE CAN -- PEOPLE CAN EVEN VIDEOTAPE THEIR PARENTS 18:12 DOING SOMETHING STUPID AND THEN PUT IT ON -- 18:15 >> OH, BOY. [ LAUGHTER ] 18:16 >> AND IT'S REALLY FUN BECAUSE A LOT OF PARENTS ARE LIKE THE STAR 18:20 OF THE SHOW. BUT -- SO IT'S FULL OF 18:23 INAPPROPRIATE VIDEO, BUT VERY FUNNY STUFF, SO YOU GET REALLY 18:27 KIND OF SEDUCED INTO THAT. SO YOU HAVE GOT -- YOU HAVE GOT 18:31 THE INSTAGRAM WHICH IS INCREDIBLE. 18:33 YOU SHARE PICTURES AND VIDEOS AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 18:37 THERE IS LIVE STREAMING ON A LOT OF THESE APPS NOW. 18:40 THAT MEANS I CAN JUST TURN IT ON -- AND IT CAN BE LIVE. 18:44 BUT MOST KIDS, WHERE ARE THEY STREAMING, DO YOU THINK? 18:48 >> I HAVE NO IDEA. >> IN THEIR ROOMS. 18:52 >> WELL, SURE. >> THEIR BEDROOMS. 18:54 >> IN THEIR BEDROOMS WITH THE DOOR SHUT. 18:56 AND IT'S REALLY CRAZY, BECAUSE I DON'T THINK WE REALIZE THAT YOU 19:00 HAVE GOT THESE -- THESE KIDS -- SOME REALLY YOUNG, AND 19:05 THEY HAD THIS ONE REPORTER THAT GOT ONLINE AND GOT ON ONE OF 19:08 THESE APPS, AND SHE POSED AS A 12-YEAR-OLD KID, GIRL, RIGHT? 19:13 AND SO SHE PUTS ALL OF THE INFORMATION IN. 19:15 AND SIGNS UP, AND SHE SAID WITHIN MINUTES, SHE IS GETTING 19:20 PRESSURED TO SEND NUDE PICTURES TO THIS PERSON, THAT SAID 19:24 EVERYBODY DOES THAT HERE. YOU KNOW, ARE YOU TOO LITTLE? 19:27 ARE YOU TOO YOUNG? DOES YOUR MOM KNOW -- NO, NO. 19:31 I'M 15. AND SO THEY SEND A PICTURE. 19:34 SO IT'S LIKE WITHIN MINUTES SHE GOT PRESSURED TO SEND NUDE 19:39 PICTURES. SO YOU GET THIS NORMAL 19:41 CONVERSATION WITH KIDS, AND YOU GET THESE NORMAL CONVERSATIONS 19:45 WITH THIS AMAZING STUFF, BUT YOU CAN GET SOME PRETTY TWISTED 19:49 CONVERSATIONS WITH PEOPLE THAT SAY I WANT YOU TO SEND ME SOME 19:54 PICTURES, AND ONCE THEY SEND PICTURES, AND THIS REPORTER 19:57 FOLLOWED THIS ALL THE WAY THROUGH -- ONCE THEY SEND 20:00 PICTURE, IT IS LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT, I WANT YOU TO SEND ME THIS 20:05 NOW, AND POSES, OR I'M GOING TO TELL YOUR MOM WHAT YOU DID, 20:12 BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE PICTURES. AND THIS ONE GIRL ALMOST CAME TO 20:18 THE POINT OF SUICIDE, BECAUSE SHE WAS A LITTLE KID WHO DOESN'T 20:21 KNOW HOW TO GET OUT OF THOSE SITUATIONS. 20:24 AND YOU HAVE A PEDOPHILE THAT KNOWS HOW TO MANIPULATE AND SHE 20:27 ALMOST KILLED HERSELF. A LOT OF PEOPLE WILL KILL 20:31 THEMSELVES. >> AND YOU HAVE GOT PARENTS WHO 20:32 ARE THINKING THAT THEIR -- WHO ARE FEELING MY CHILDREN ARE 20:36 SAFE. THEY ARE IN THE HOME. 20:37 >> UH-HUH. >> YOU KNOW, THEY ARE UP IN 20:40 THEIR ROOM STUDYING. GETTING READY TO GO TO BED, AND 20:43 NOT REALIZING. >> BUT WITH THIS GPS, AND ALSO 20:48 WITH -- YOUR PHONE NUMBER IS ATTACHED TO -- WHEN YOU ARE 20:52 SENDING INFORMATION. >> ON SOME OF THE APPS. 20:55 >> YEAH. >> WHAT IS REALLY INTERESTING ON 20:58 SOME OF THE APPS THAT KIDS HAVE, THAT THEY DON'T HAVE TO HAVE IT 21:02 HOOKED UP TO A PHONE NUMBER. SO THAT'S WHY WHEN YOU ARE 21:06 FILMING SOMEBODY THAT IS REALLY CLEVER WILL START TO LOOK AT ANY 21:09 CLUES IN THE ROOM. >> UH-HUH. 21:11 >> WHAT IS REALLY INTERESTING TOO IS A LOT OF -- A LOT OF 21:16 PEOPLE WILL -- KIND OF JUDGE WHO THEY ARE AND THEIR POPULARITY BY 21:21 HOW MANY LIKES THEY HAVE. HOW MANY PEOPLE SEE THEIR 21:24 VIDEOS. SOME VIDEOS GO VIRAL, AND THERE 21:27 ARE LIKE 3 MILLION PEOPLE THAT WATCH THE VIDEO, AND THERE ARE 21:31 SOME PEOPLE THAT DO ALL KINDS OF STUFF. 21:34 IT'S LIKE YOU DO ALL KINDS OF STUFF TO GET YOUR LITTLE FAN 21:39 GROUP OR PEOPLE THAT FOLLOW YOU AND THE STUFF THAT YOU POST. 21:43 BUT WITH THE LIVE STREAMING, THERE WAS A GIRL NOT LONG AGO 21:47 THAT WENT -- THEY MET THIS GUY WHO WAS REALLY KIND OF A 21:50 GOOD-LOOKING GUY. THEY THOUGHT HE WAS CLOSER TO 21:53 THEIR AGE, BUT HE WAS MUCH OLDER. 21:56 SEDUCED BOTH OF THE GIRLS, GOT THEM DRUNK, TOOK THEM SOMEWHERE, 21:59 AND ONE OF THE GIRLS WAS LIVE STREAMING AS HE RAPED HER 22:04 FRIEND. >> OH, NO. 22:05 >> LIVE STREAMING, AND SHE DIDN'T THINK TWICE ABOUT IT, 22:09 BECAUSE IT WAS KIND OF FOR THE LIKES AND THE VIDEO AND WHAT WAS 22:14 HAPPENING. AND SHE -- ACTUALLY EVERYBODY 22:16 GOT ARRESTED. EVERYBODY WAS TALKING ABOUT THIS 22:18 CASE, AND SO -- YOU KNOW, AND SOMEONE SAYS HOW COULD THAT 22:23 HAPPEN? LOOK AT THE CELEBRITIES THAT WE 22:26 PUT ON THIS PEDESTAL, YOU KNOW, THEY ARE DOING SEX VIDEOS, THEY 22:30 ARE SENDING NAKED PICTURES. THEY ARE DOING ALL OF THIS 22:35 POSING. THEY ARE FAMOUS FOR NO OTHER 22:37 REASON THAN WHAT THEY HAVE POSTED ONLINE. 22:39 AND THEN YOU HAVE THESE LITTLE KIDS THAT WANT TO BE FAMOUS. 22:42 AND THEY DON'T HAVE THE JUDGMENT OR THE -- THEY -- THEY ARE NOT 22:48 THINKING CLEARLY YET. THEIR FRONTAL LOBES AREN'T 22:52 COMPLETELY DEVELOPED YET. >> THEY ARE JUST BABIES. 22:56 AND DON'T THINK THEY REALIZE -- AND THEY DEFINITELY 22:58 DON'T REALIZE, BECAUSE I HAVE MET SOME KIDS THAT ARE JUST SO 23:03 AMAZING, AND THEY DON'T REALIZE THIS IS CHANGING YOU. 23:05 IT IS CHANGING HOW YOU SEE THE WORLD, HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF. 23:10 >> THEIR BRAIN IS BEING REWIRED, AND THAT IS GOING TO BE WITH 23:16 THEM FROM NOW ON. >> THEIR DESIRES ARE REWIRED. 23:19 WHEN I WAS GETTING INTO ADDICTIONS, I DIDN'T REALIZE 23:22 THAT I ACTUALLY CREATED AN ADDICT, YOU KNOW? 23:26 SO I SAW THE WORLD IN ONE WAY BEFORE I BECOME AN ADDICT. 23:31 AND AN ADDICT SEES THE WORLD IN A WHOLE DIFFERENT WAY. 23:35 HE SEE OURSELVES DIFFERENT. WHEN SOMEBODY IS LOST AND TORN, 23:39 BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS, MEN AND WOMEN, WHEN SOMEBODY WALKS IN 23:43 THE ROOM, I DON'T LOOK AT WHO YOU ARE AND YOUR SMILE, EXCUSE 23:47 ME -- I LOOK AT YOUR BREASTS OR I LOOK AT YOUR BODY. 23:51 SO IT'S LIKE WE'RE TRAINED TO EVEN VIEW EACH OTHER IN 23:55 POSITIONS OR BODY PARTS OR AS OBJECTS OR -- OUR DESIRES ARE 24:00 DIFFERENT. SO ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF 24:02 CHANGES. SO WHEN WE GET HIJACKED REALLY 24:05 YOUNG, MAN, WHEN WE GET INTO RECOVERY OR GOD GETS AHOLD OF 24:11 US, OR WE JUST DECIDE TO STOP, IT TAKES A LOT. 24:15 AND WHAT IS REALLY COOL NOWADAYS, AND SOME OF THE SIGHTS 24:18 OUT THERE, BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT CHRISTIAN, AND THE LANGUAGE MAY 24:22 OFFEND SOMETHING, BUT THERE IS XXX CHURCH THAT DOES RECOVERY 24:29 FROM DIGITAL SITES. BUT NOT BECAUSE SOMEBODY DECIDED 24:32 THAT WE HAVE GOT TO GO AFTER THIS GROUP AND HELP THEM. 24:35 BUT IT IS SOMEBODY THAT GOT FREE THEMSELVES. 24:38 SO I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW LOST I WAS. 24:40 I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW ISOLATED I WAS. 24:42 I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I ACTUALLY CHANGED MY NEUROCHEMISTRY. 24:47 AND THERE IS ONE SITE THAT SAYS WE HAVE TO REBOOT. 24:50 WE HAVE GOT TO LITERALLY -- OUR BRAIN WAS HIJACKED AND WE HAVE 24:54 TO LITERALLY BRING IT BACK INTO LINE. 24:56 AND WITH PET SCANS, AND THAT KIND OF STUFF, IT TAKES ABOUT 15 25:01 MONTHS TO GET THAT NEUROCHEMISTRY UP AND RUNNING 25:04 AGAIN, WHERE I'M IN MY FRONTAL LOBES AND I CAN LAUGH OUT LOUD 25:11 BECAUSE JUST IT IS FUNNY IS. >> SOMEBODY WHO WAS NORMAL AND 25:15 THEN DESCENDED INTO THE PITS OF HELL, AND SOMETHING WOKE THEM UP 25:21 AND THEY CAME BACK AND WANTED THE NORMALCY AGAIN. 25:26 BUT WHAT ABOUT CHILDREN WHO NEVER REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT 25:29 NORMAL IS, BECAUSE THEY ARE SO DESENSITIZED TO THINGS? 25:33 LIKE WHAT COUNTRY WAS IT YOU SAID THE BIRTHRATE WAS GOING 25:37 ON -- >> JAPAN. 25:39 >> ALL RIGHT. SO BECAUSE NOW SUDDENLY THEY 25:42 HAVE BEEN WATCHING THESE -- IS IT VIRTUAL REALITY -- WHAT ARE 25:46 THEY WATCHING? >> SOME OF THE GAMES LITERALLY 25:51 MORPH PEOPLE INTO ANIMALS. SO YOU HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN 25:55 IN THIS NICE OUTFIT WITH A GORGEOUS BODY, BUT IT WOULD BE A 26:00 LIZARD HEAD OR KIND OF A STAR WARS KIND OF CHARACTER HEAD. 26:05 SO THE CHARACTERS ARE MORPHED. OR YOU HAVE SOME ANIMATED 26:12 CARTOON CHARACTERS THAT ARE VERY SEXUALLIZED IN THE VIDEO, AND 26:15 YOU START TO BE TURNED ON BY THESE THINGS. 26:18 AND WHEN YOU GO INTO RECOVERY, LIKE ANY ADDICT, WE HAVE TO 26:23 RELEARN. GOD SAYS I'LL CHANGE YOUR VERY 26:26 DESIRES. I LITERALLY WILL TAKE WHAT THE 26:29 ENEMY HAS TWISTED. LIKE LOOKING WHO HE CAN DEVOUR 26:33 AND KILL. I'LL TAKE WHAT WAS TWISTED AND 26:36 BRING YOU BACK TO A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN BE IN YOUR OWN SKIN AND 26:41 CONNECT WITH PEOPLE. BUT THAT'S -- I THINK IT'S A 26:44 MIRACLE. AND NOWADAYS IT IS ACTUALLY 26:47 GOING TO BE BIGGER THAN IT EVER WAS. 26:50 AND IF WE ARE GOING TO BE MANY MINISTRY, DON'T -- LET'S NOT 26:55 FORGET THIS DIGITAL WORLD. >> YOU KNOW, WHAT SHELLEY WAS 26:58 TALKING ABOUT, THE YOUNG ONES, THE ONES THAT GET THEIR BRAIN 27:02 MESSED UP AT A REALLY EARLY AGE -- 27:03 >> UH-HUH. >> -- THEY NEVER NEW WHAT NORMAL 27:08 WAS. >> RIGHT. 27:09 >> WE OLDER ONES WOULD KNOW. BUT ABNORMAL IS THEIR NORMAL. 27:14 >> EXACTLY. >> AND SO THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT 27:18 IT IS TO BE NORMAL -- >> IT IS INTERESTING TO WATCH 27:23 SOMEBODY LAUGH ABOUT PORN AND VIOLENCE AND ALL OF THAT STUFF 27:26 AT A LEVEL THAT ALMOST WOULD BE REPULSIVE, BUT IN THEIR WORLD IT 27:30 IS VERY FUNNY AND VERY NORMAL. SO IT IS LIKE WHAT YOU SAID. 27:36 IT IS SO DIFFERENT. BUT EVEN AS ADULTS, IF YOU WALK 27:42 INTO SOMEBODY'S WORLD AND YOU START SEEING THAT STUFF, YOU 27:45 HAVE TO SAY, LORD DO NOT LET ME BE REPULSED, HOW DO I REACH THIS 27:55 PERSON. NOW IN TEENSAFE. 28:03 >> TEEN SAFE.COM. >> TEENSAFE.COM. 28:10 90% OF TEENS ARE ONLINE. SO WORLDWIDE -- I -- I DON'T 28:18 CARE. YOU CAN SEE SOME LITTLE VILLAGE 28:20 IN AFRICA, AND YOU HAVE GOT SOMEBODY ON A SMARTPHONE. 28:24 IT'S RIDICULOUS. SO 90% OF TEENS ARE ONLINE. 28:31 TEENS ARE ONLINE IN AVERAGE OF -- THEY ARE ON LINE AN 28:36 AVERAGE OF FIVE HOURS A DAY. >> UNREAL. 28:39 >> AND SO FIVE HOURS A DAY. AND SO MOST TEENS ARE LIKE -- IF 28:43 THEY HEARD ME SAY THAT, THEY WOULD BE GOING LIKE, WHAT IS 28:46 WRONG WITH THAT? MOST ADULTS WOULD SAY, ARE YOU 28:50 KIDDING ME? MOST PARENTS FEEL AT THE MOST, 28:53 THEIR TEENS ARE ONLINE FOR THREE HOURS A DAY. 28:57 >> EVEN THAT IS A LOT. >> THAT'S A LOT. 28:59 BUT -- BUT, MAN, I HOPE SOMEBODY HEARS ME WITH THIS, IF YOU ARE 29:05 GOING TO START TO GIVE YOUR -- YOUR KIDS, OUR YOUR 29:10 LOVED ONES OR YOUR FRIENDS, A MORE CONNECTED LIFE, THEN NOT 29:14 ONLY DO YOU HAVE TO GET THEM DISCONNECTED FROM ONLINE, BUT 29:17 MAN, YOU HAVE TO TURN THE TV OFF YOURSELF. 29:20 >> YEAH. >> SO THERE ARE THINGS THAT 29:22 WE'RE DOING THAT MODELS TO THEM THEIR ESCAPE, AND THEY HAVE 29:27 ESCAPED INTO A WORLD THAT IS MUCH BIGGER THAN OURS. 29:30 MOST TEENS DON'T WATCH TV. EVERYTHING THEY GET IS ONLINE. 29:33 IF THEY WANT TO SEE A SHOW, IT'S ONLINE. 29:36 I MEAN, EVERYTHING. SO THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO 29:41 ENGAGE IN THE SAME WAY WE DO. 70% OF TEENS ARE ON SOME KIND OF 29:47 SOCIAL NETWORK AND CONNECTED, TALKING WITH EVERYBODY, MEETING 29:50 FOLKS, ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 29:54 37% SEND MESSAGES TO FRIEND MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY. 29:58 SO IT'S THAT THEY ARE ONLINE AND TEXTING. 30:01 AND YOU HAVE SEEN PEOPLE JUST IN ACCIDENTS, TEXTING, DRIVING, ALL 30:04 OF THAT KIND OF STUFF, THEY ARE GOING DOWN FREEWAYS AT WHATEVER 30:08 SPEEDS AND SENDING AND RECEIVING TEXTS. 30:11 SO IT'S MORE UNUSUAL THAN NOT TO HAVE SOMEBODY THAT'S NOT 30:17 INVOLVED. MONITORING IS MANDATORY. 30:20 IF YOU HAVE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU LOVE, FIGURE OUT HOW TO 30:26 KEEP EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE. AND I'M NOT TALKING JUST TEENS. 30:29 SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS AND WITH EACH OTHER, AND, YOU KNOW, ALL 30:33 OF OUR SOCIAL MEDIA AND APPS AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF IS HOW 30:37 DO WE STAY IN EACH OTHER'S LIVES EVEN IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD. 30:41 SOME OF THESE SITES WILL TEACH PARENTS HOW TO DO THAT. 30:45 HOW TO FIND -- EVEN CONTRACTS. HOW DO YOU SIGN A CONTRACT WITH 30:49 YOUR KID SO YOU KNOW WHAT THEY KNOW AS FAR AS WHAT YOU BELIEVE, 30:53 WHAT THE EXPECTATIONS OF THEM ARE, AND WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES 30:58 ARE. IF I FIND -- MOLLIE IF YOU ARE 31:02 MY CHILD AND I FIND YOU ONLINE IN AN APPROPRIATE SITE, AND WE 31:11 HAVE TALKED ABOUT IT, AND WE TALKED ABOUT IF I FIND YOU 31:19 ONLINE, YOU CAN'T HAVE A FIEND FOR HOWEVER LONG OF TIME. 31:22 YOU CAN'T JUST DISCONNECT THEM FROM THE WORLD. 31:25 BECAUSE THIS IS THE WORLD THEY LIVE IN. 31:27 DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? >> SURE. 31:29 >> SO OVER HALF OF THE KIDS ARE ONLINE. 31:32 SO OUT OF THAT 90%, OVER HALF OF THEM ARE BEING BULLIED OR 31:37 BULLYING, SO THAT THE BEHAVIOR IS TO EACH OTHER, AND THE THINGS 31:42 THAT THEY LEARN, AND THEIR -- I THINK THEIR LITTLE HEARTS JUST 31:46 GET ATTACKED SOMETIMES, AND ATTACKED IN SUCH INTENSE WAYS, 31:49 BECAUSE IT'S FUNNY, AND BECAUSE SOMEBODY CAN DO IT, AND THEY CAN 31:53 DO IT ANONYMOUSLY. SO I CAN SAY THINGS THAT I CAN 31:59 HIDE BEHIND THIS SCREEN. >> DID YOU SEE RECENTLY IN THE 32:03 NEWS, A FIREFIGHTER, A WOMAN FIREFIGHTER, COMMITTED SUICIDE 32:07 BECAUSE OF ONLINE BULLYING. NOW THIS IS AN ADULT WOMAN, 32:12 MARRIED, HAPPILY MARRIED, BUT SHE WAS EXPERIENCING BULLYING 32:17 AND SHE COMMITTED SUICIDE. WE'RE SEEING SO MANY KIDS -- I 32:21 MEAN, YOU WOULD THINK AN ADULT WOULD BE MATURE ENOUGH, OR HAVE 32:27 ENOUGH AVENUES THAT THEY COULD FIGURE OUT HOW TO HANDLE ONLINE 32:32 BULLYING. >> UH-HUH. 32:34 >> BUT KIDS DON'T HAVE. >> THEY DON'T. 32:36 >> AND HALF OF THEM ARE BULLYING. 32:39 >> OR BEING BULLIED. >> OVER HALF. 32:43 THEY ARE EITHER BEING BULLIED OR BULLYING. 32:47 AND WHEN YOU LEARN THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, IT'S NOT GOOD FOR YOUR 32:51 SOUL. IT'S JUST NOT GOOD FOR YOU. 32:53 WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT ADULTS, THERE WAS A WOMAN REPORTER THAT 32:56 SOMEBODY SNUCK A -- A VIDEO AND DID KIND OF A LIVE STREAM OR 33:01 VIDEO OF HER IN HER HOTEL ROOM AND POSTED IT. 33:05 AND SHE JUST WON A LAWSUIT IN THE MILLIONS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE 33:08 OF HOW TRAUMATIC IT WAS FOR HER. AND SHE SAID I JUST WALKED 33:13 AROUND FEELING UNSAFE, YOU KNOW? AND SHE IS AN ADULT WOMAN. 33:16 SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A LITTLE KID IS IN A SOCIAL NETWORK, 33:21 DOING LIVE STREAMING IN THEIR BEDROOM, AND ALL OF A SUDDEN 33:25 SOMEBODY USES THAT FOOTAGE FOR SOMETHING ELSE. 33:34 SO SEXTING IS -- 20% OF TEENS ARE INVOLVED IN SEXTING. 33:39 >> EXPLAIN WHAT SEXTING IN. >> WHEN SOMEBODY SAYS EVERYBODY 33:43 IS DOING IT. REALLY NOT EVERYBODY IS DOING 33:46 IT. BUT SEXTING IS WHERE WE 33:48 ACTUALLY -- AND I'M LOOKING AT YOU GUYS AND NOT SURE WHAT THE 33:51 ANSWER TO THIS IS GOING TO BE. DO YOU REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME 33:55 YOU SAID LIKE A BAD WORD? >> YEAH. 33:57 >> DO YOU REMEMBER -- >> I WAS IN COLLEGE. 34:00 [ LAUGHTER ] >> OKAY. 34:01 >> I WAS LIKE SIX. >> I WAS IN COLLEGE. 34:05 I REMEMBER IT. >> I DON'T REMEMBER. 34:07 >> UH-HUH. >> HOWEVER, THERE WAS A FIRST 34:10 TIME. >> I REMEMBER BECAUSE I DID IT 34:12 ON PURPOSE JUST TO GET SOMEBODY'S ATTENTION. 34:15 >> AND YOU FELT A LITTLE BIT EMPOWERED, RIGHT? 34:19 AND SO WE -- >> GOSH IT FELT GOOD. 34:22 >> YOU ARE SO FUNNY. I LOVE YOU. 34:24 I JUST LOVE BOTH OF YOU. BUT I WAS VERY YOUNG AND I FELT 34:29 EMPOWERED -- >> I DO REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME 34:32 SOMEBODY CALLED ME LITTLE MISS GOODY TWO SHOES. 34:38 I WAS IN MY LATE 20S, AND I WAS JUST THRILLED. 34:43 BECAUSE I HAD BEEN SO BAD FOR SO LONG, THAT I WAS JUST THRILLED. 34:48 >> THAT IS TOO FUN. BUT WITH SEXTING THERE IS 34:53 SOMETHING ABOUT -- >> EXPLAIN WHAT THAT IS. 34:55 >> SEXTING IS WHEN I CAN GET INTO CHAT ROOMS OR SEND 34:59 SOMETHING THAT IS VERY SEXUALIZED. 35:02 >> A TEXT MESSAGE THAT IS SEXUALIZED? 35:04 THIS >> OR A VIDEO. 35:07 OR A CHAT. >> OKAY. 35:09 >> SO I CAN SEND IMAGES. I CAN GO INTO CHAT ROOMS. 35:13 I CAN -- IT'S REALLY FLIRTY, AND WITH SOME KIDS, IT'S LIKE YOUR 35:17 HEART IS GOING A HUNDRED MILES AN HOUR, AND YOU CAN'T BELIEVE 35:21 YOU ARE GETTING AWAY WITH THIS. AND IT'S JUST A CRAZY THING. 35:26 BUT IT STARTS GETTING -- YOUR ADDICTION ALMOST IS TO THAT 35:30 EXCITEMENT AND THAT -- >> SO SOME YOUNG CHILD -- I MEAN 35:34 I HAVE HEARD THIS FROM THE PARENT OF A 12 YEAR OLD, THAT 35:39 SOME 15-YEAR-OLD BOY ASKED HER TO SEND HIM A PICTURE WITHOUT 35:45 HER BLOUSE ON. >> YEAH. 35:47 >> AND SHE DID. >> RIGHT. 35:49 >> AND THEN HE UPPED THE ANTI. AND THEN HE THREATENED TO TELL 35:53 HER PARENTS. >> UH-HUH. 35:55 >> THE KIDS ON THE BUS -- THOSE FIFTH GRADERS, YOU KNOW, THAT 36:00 ONE KID -- HIS MOM WAS DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, RIGHT? 36:04 DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, AND SHE HAS SINCE PASSED. 36:08 SHE WAS A FRIEND OF MINE. AND DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, AND 36:12 HE ENDS UP GOING ONLINE, AND THE ONLY TIME HE IS NOT FEELING 36:16 AFRAID BECAUSE HIS MOTHER IS DYING, A WHEN HE GET LOST IN 36:20 THIS WORLD. HE STARTS SEXTING, AND SEEING 36:23 STUFF. AND IT WAS THE ONLY TIME HE 36:25 DIDN'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE REALITY OF WHAT WAS HAPPENING IN 36:28 HIS HOME. BUT THEN HE WANTS TO EXPERIMENT 36:31 AND DO VIDEOS HIMSELF AND HAVE PEOPLE SEE HIM NAKED AND ALL OF 36:36 THAT KIND OF STUFF. SO HE STARTS PLAYING AROUND WITH 36:39 SOME PORN STUFF, AND THEN ACTUALLY GETS SEXUALLY VIOLENT 36:43 WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM. SO SEXTING IS -- FOR MOST KIDS, 36:48 I THINK THEY WILL SAY IT'S NO BIG DEAL. 36:51 IT'S NO BIG DEAL. IT'S JUST FUN. 36:54 >> IS THAT KIND OF LIKE MARIJUANA BEING THE GATEWAY DRUG 36:57 TO OTHER STUFF. THAT SEXTING IS JUST KIND OF A 37:02 GATEWAY MEDIA TO -- TO PORNOGRAPHY AND EVERYTHING ELSE? 37:06 >> YEAH. I -- I WISH. 37:08 I THINK THIS IS THE DRUG. I DON'T THINK IT'S A GATEWAY. 37:11 I THINK THAT WHEN YOU GET LOST IN THAT, YOU ARE CHANGING -- YOU 37:16 ARE CHANGING SO MUCH. YOU ARE CHANGING SO MUCH. 37:19 WE WERE NEVER MEANT TO SPEAK TO EACH OTHER THIS WAY. 37:23 WE NEVER MEANT TO -- INDISCRIMINATELY OPEN 37:32 OURSELVES UP SEXUALLY IN THIS WAY. 37:34 SO TO ME, I WISH I COULD SAY I THINK IT'S NO BIG DEAL. 37:40 61% OF THE KIDS ONLINE HAVE SENT NUDE PICTURES AND RECEIVED NUDE 37:45 PICTURES FROM EACH OTHER. 25% OF THE TEEN GIRLS HAD NUDE 37:49 OR SEMINUDE PICTURES SENT TO THEM ACCIDENTALLY. 37:53 SO ALL OF A SUDDEN LIKE WHAT HAPPENED WITH YOU, YOU GET THIS 37:58 PICTURE AND YOU ARE THINKING WHAT DO I DO WITH THAT? 38:02 AND NOW THE IMAGES CHANGE US IN SUCH DEEP WAYS THAT WE DON'T 38:08 REALIZE WE ARE CHANGED BY THIS. WHEN GOD SAYS -- HE REALLY 38:12 GIFTED US WITH OUR SEXUALITY, AND MAN, WE'RE AT A PLACE 38:17 WHERE -- IS ANYBODY DOING IT RIGHT? 38:20 IS ANYBODY PURE? AND -- AND I THINK THAT WE THINK 38:23 WE ARE, BECAUSE WE'RE NOT HAVING SEX WITH EACH OTHER ANYMORE. 38:28 WE'RE JUST ONLINE. WE'RE WITH VIRTUAL REALITY 38:31 GLASSES. WE'RE ON APPS. 38:34 WE'RE EXPERIMENTING IN ALL DIFFERENT WAYS, WELL, UNTIL THE 38:40 FBI COMES AND REMOVES YOUR COMPUTER FROM YOUR HOME. 38:43 BUT IT LITERALLY CHANGES US. >> AND YOU ARE SAYING IT 38:49 DESENSITIZES US, HARDENS US, AND WHAT ARE THE OPPORTUNITIES OR 38:54 POSSIBILITIES THEN FOR GOD, BY THE POWER OF HIS HOLY SPIRIT TO 38:58 PENETRATE ALL OF THAT HARDENING AND DESENSITIZING. 39:02 IT'S -- >> IT'S A MIRACLE. 39:04 >> IT WOULD BE A MIRACLE FOR GOD TO REACH IN AND BE ABLE TO. 39:08 BUT THANK GOD HE IS A MIRACLE-WORKING GOD. 39:12 >> MOLLIE I LOVE WHEN YOU SAY THAT. 39:16 BECAUSE IF WE ARE A CHURCH AT THEN OF THE GREAT CONTROVERSY, 39:20 AND THIS IS THE AVENUE THAT THE DEVIL IS USING. 39:23 ONLINE PERPETRATORS, COULD YOU IMAGINE -- IT'S A PLAYGROUND FOR 39:27 THEM. >> UH-HUH. 39:28 >> IT LITERALLY IS A PLAYGROUND FOR THEM. 39:30 IT IS EASY TO FIND KIDS, SEDUCE KIDS, AND EASY TO GET THEM NOT 39:36 TO SPEAK ABOUT ANYTHING, BECAUSE THEY ARE SENDING PICTURES AND 39:40 THEY HAVE BLACKMAIL STUFF. IT IS JUST RIDICULOUS. 39:42 THE PLAYGROUND IS SO UGLY AND SO DARK. 39:47 82% OF THE PERPETRATORS THAT GET ON TO THESE APPS AND SITES WILL 39:51 LIKE AND JUST PLAY WITH THAT PERSON'S EGO, AND THEIR 39:56 INSECURITIES AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF WILL -- COMPLIMENT 39:59 AND THEY JUST KNOW HOW TO GROOM THEM. 40:01 SO YOU HAVE ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 40:04 YOU HAVE 65% OF THIS GROUP THAT IS ONLINE SEXTING AND BEING OPEN 40:09 TO THESE PERPETRATORS ARE HOME SCHOOLERS. 40:12 >> OH, MY GOODNESS. >> I KNOW. 40:16 >> YOU JUST GOT SOME HONEST REACTION HERE. 40:18 >> I KNOW. WE THINK WE HAVE THESE HOME 40:23 SCHOOL KIDS, AND THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL, WHEN I GO TO A SCHOOL 40:26 AND PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR BEING ANGRY ABOUT THIS, BUT I'LL GO TO 40:31 A SCHOOL OR UNIVERSITY OR COLLEGE, AND THEY WILL TRY 40:34 TO -- IT'S LIKE CHERI PETERS IS COMING? 40:37 CAN SHE NOT TALK ABOUT SEX? I'M THINKING ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 40:42 WE'RE IN A DIGITAL WORLD WHERE THESE KIDS -- ONE TIME I WENT TO 40:46 A SCHOOL -- A UNIVERSITY, GAVE A TALK, THREE TALKS, WAS DONE, WAS 40:51 FLYING OUT THE NEXT DAY, DONE AT 4:30 IN THE AFTERNOON. 40:56 WE GOT DONE PRAYING WITH THESE KIDS AT 2:30, 3:30 IN THE 41:03 MORNING. HAVING THIS CONVERSATION ABOUT 41:04 WHERE THEY ARE LOST AND DOES GOD STILL LOVE ME? 41:09 EVEN TO OPEN UP TO GOD, TO GET DOWN AND PRAY WHEN YOU KNOW THIS 41:13 IS THE WORLD YOU HAVE BEEN INVOLVED IN, THE DEVIL WILL TELL 41:17 YOU, HE DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU, AND THAT IS NOT TRUE. 41:22 AND I JUST WANT TO SHOUT OUT LOUD AS A CHURCH WE HAVE TO 41:30 EDUCATE OURSELVES. BECAUSE WE WON'T BE EFFECTIVE IN 41:33 THIS WORLD IF WE DON'T KNOW -- WE'RE IN THE BATTLEFIELD 41:37 AND WE DON'T HAVE ANY WEAPONS. WE HAVE THE WORD OF GOD AND WE 41:41 HAVE -- YOU KNOW, THE STUDIES THAT WE DO, AND THE HEALTH 41:45 MESSAGE, BUT MAN WE HAVE GOT TO GET TO THEM AND THEIR HEART AND 41:48 THEIR DAMAGE. WE HAVE TO LITERALLY GO INTO 41:51 THIS WORLD AND STANDING AT THE DOOR AND JUST SAY, YOU KNOW, 41:55 THIS IS WHAT I KNOW. AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. 41:58 AND YOU WERE CREATED BY GOD. AND YOUR SEXUAL STUFF AND WHO 42:06 YOU ARE AS -- AS A GIRL OR BOYF 42:12 -- BOY, AND THE TALENT THAT YOU HAVE TO REALLY CHANGE THE WORLD, 42:17 NOT ON AN ONLINE GAME BUT ACTUALLY CHANGE THE WORLD, AND 42:20 WE HAVE GOT TO GO AND REACH THEM. 42:22 >> ALL RIGHT. THIS SITE IS TEENSAFE.COM. 42:27 AND YOU CAN GET ON THERE AND LEARN A LOT OF WHAT YOU ARE 42:30 SHARING. >> A LOT. 42:32 >> AND WAYS TO MONITOR. CHERI WE ONLY HAVE ABOUT 14 42:36 MINUTES LEFT. I WOULD LIKE -- IF YOU HAVE GOT 42:40 SOMETHING ELSE, BUT WE NEED TO GET TO WHERE WE TALK ABOUT WHAT 42:44 PARENTS CAN DO. >> ONE THING IS -- YOU CAN GO ON 42:48 ANY OF THESE WEBSITES, SEARCH OUT, EDUCATION YOURSELF. 42:52 IF YOU JUST SAY WHAT ARE THE APPS? 42:54 PLUSES AND MINUSES? HOW DO I -- THE HIDDEN APP, HOW 43:00 DO ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. IT'S EVERYWHERE. 43:04 TO ME, I FOUND A LOT OF SITES, BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST -- THEY 43:08 ARE NOT CHRISTIAN SITES, AND THEY ARE PEOPLE TRYING TO KIND 43:12 OF SAVE EACH OTHER, AND THEY ARE BRILLIANT. 43:15 THEY ARE JUST BRILLIANT. BUT I KNOW THAT MY FAVORITE HAS 43:18 A BIT OF LANGUAGE IN IT, SO YOU HAVE GOT TO FIND YOUR OWN SITES. 43:24 SO DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH. IF YOU CARE ABOUT THIS, RESEARCH 43:28 IT. IF YOU ARE GOING INTO MINISTRY, 43:31 ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE YOUNG, IF YOU ARE IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD, 43:35 MAN, GET INTO MINISTRY AND LET THIS BE YOUR PASSION. 43:38 MY PASSION IS PEOPLE IN RECOVERY. 43:41 PEOPLE THAT ARE -- ARE LITERALLY TRYING TO CHANGE THEIR LIFE. 43:46 WE HAVE A PASSION TO TAKE THE UNDERLYING DILUTED TRUTH TO A 43:51 WORLD THAT IS LOST. THAT'S AMAZING. 43:53 BUT I WANT TO SAY, WAKE UP AND LET YOUR PASSION BE RESCUING 43:59 PEOPLE FROM THIS DIGITAL WORLD. AND LET THEM KNOW THAT GOD CAN 44:04 REWIRE YOUR BRAIN. GOD CAN SHOW US HOW TO STEP OUT 44:07 OF ONE WORLD AND BACK INTO OUR OWN SKIN. 44:10 SO FOR PEOPLE IN MINISTRY THAT IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. 44:15 TEENSAFE.COM IS VERY SAFE. THERE ARE CONTRACTS THAT PARENTS 44:18 CAN HAVE. DIALOGUES. 44:19 THEY HAVE LITTLE VIDEO CLIPS THAT WILL SHOW YOU DIALOGUES 44:23 THAT YOU CAN HAVE WITH YOUR KIDS, SO THAT YOU ARE 44:27 NOT -- DON'T APPROACH THEM IN YOUR IGNORANCE, BECAUSE -- 44:30 >> YEAH, IN YOUR IGNORANCE, YOU JUST WANT TO RUN IN THERE AND 44:35 YANK THEIR PHONE AWAY. >> ABSOLUTELY. 44:37 >> YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO ONLINE AGAIN. 44:40 >> SO PARENTS -- IF I WERE A PARENT -- I'M SITTING HERE 44:43 THINKING WHAT I WOULD BE DOING IS PERHAPS HAVE THIS TALK WITH 44:47 YOUR CHILD, HAVE THAT CONTRACT, HAVE THE INTERNET -- THE 44:52 COMPUTER BE IN A MULTI-PURPOSE ROOM, NOT IN THEIR BEDROOM. 44:59 >> UH-HUH. >> I WOULD NOT LET MY CHILD BE 45:03 ALONE IN HER ROOM WITH THEIR SMARTPHONE. 45:06 I WOULD PLUG IT IN AND LET IT BE CHARGING UP ALL NIGHT. 45:11 >> BUT IT'S MORE THAN JUST BEING DILIGENT. 45:14 YOU HAVE TO BE PROACTIVE. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE -- YOU 45:19 SAID SOMETHING ABOUT SATAN, WHAT HE IS DOING HERE. 45:22 I'LL GO A STEP FURTHER AND SAY THAT SATAN LOVES FACEBOOK. 45:30 BECAUSE IF HE CAN GET SOMEBODY ADDICTED TO FACEBOOK OR THEY ARE 45:34 SPENDING -- THAT'S A COUPLE OF HOURS THAT YOU ARE NOT SPENDING 45:38 STUDYING THE BIBLE. THIS IS WHY -- 45:40 >> OR BREATHING. WALKING OUTSIDE. 45:42 >> YEAH, IT'S JUST SO -- SO -- BUT AS PARENT, IN 45:48 PARTICULAR, I NEED TO BE ABLE TO DO FUN ACTIVITIES WITH MY 45:54 FAMILY. SHOW THEM THAT I'M NOT USING THE 45:57 TELEVISION AS A SEDATIVE. THAT I'M DOING SOMETHING 46:01 APPROPRIATE. >> RIGHT. 46:02 >> AND INVOLVE MY CHILDREN SO THAT THEY WOULD -- 46:05 >> AND WE ARE RUNNING SO FAST, I BELIEVE, AS ADULTS, IS 46:09 THAT -- AND MAN, I JUST WANT TO APOLOGIZE FOR MY OWN CHILD 46:13 THROUGH THE YEARS, BUT WE'RE RUNNING SO FAST THAT WE REALLY 46:16 DON'T HAVE TIME TO JUST HANG OUT. 46:18 SO WE'RE SAYING WE DON'T HAVE TIME. 46:20 I HAVE GOT TO MAKE DINNER, CLEAN THE HOUSE, DO THIS. 46:23 I JUST GOT OFF OF WORK. I'M EXHAUSTED. 46:27 AND SO YOU HAVE THESE KIDS THAT ARE RIGHT NOW DEVELOPING IN 46:31 EVERY SINGLE WAY, AND WE'RE SAYING WE DON'T HAVE TIME. 46:34 SOMEBODY HAS TIME FOR THEM IF YOU DON'T. 46:36 SO I THINK ON THIS SITE -- A LOT OF THE SITES THEY WILL TELL YOU, 46:41 SMARTPHONE MONITORS, HOW TO PLACE THOSE ON THE PHONE. 46:45 KIDS WILL ALWAYS KIND A WAY TO GET AROUND THAT. 46:48 THERE ARE THOSE HIDDEN APPS AND ALL OF THAT STUFF, SO THE BEST 46:52 YOU CAN DO -- SOMEBODY ELSE IS TEACHING YOUR KIDS HOW TO GET 46:55 AROUND IT. RIGHT? 46:57 SO IF THAT'S TRUE, WHAT DO YOU THINK I NEED TO DO IN ORDER 47:00 TO -- TO KIND OF EQUIP THEM NOT TO GET INVOLVED IN THIS AT ALL 47:06 AT THAT LEVEL. >> TALK. 47:07 >> TALK IS ONE. >> PRAY. 47:09 >> OR GIVE THEM SOME REALLY GOOD INFORMATION. 47:12 YOU KNOW, LIKE EVEN THIS -- I JUST WANT TO SHOW YOU THIS. 47:15 I HOPE YOU CAN SEE THIS ON THE MONITOR, BUT IT TALKS ABOUT THE 47:19 BRAIN AND THE DAMAGE. MOST SITES THAT YOU GO TO WILL 47:22 SHOW YOU WHAT THE STATS ARE, WHAT THE STUDIES ARE. 47:26 IF YOU CALL OUR MINISTRY TRUESTEP.ORG, AND YOU WANT TO 47:31 GET STUDIES, I HAVE GREAT STUDIES ON WHAT HAPPENS TO THE 47:34 BRAIN. BUT WHEN YOU START -- WHEN YOU 47:37 START SHOWING SOMEONE SOME -- THIS IS HARD CORE STUFF. 47:43 THIS IS THE CHANGES THAT ARE HAPPENING TO YOU. 47:46 THIS IS WHY IT'S IMPORTANT. AND YOU EDUCATE THEM. 47:49 YOU WANT TO GET THESE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG ADULTS THAT WE HAVE THE 47:52 PRIVILEGE OF RAISING. YOU WANT TO GET THEM TO ACTUALLY 47:57 MONITOR THEMSELVES. RIGHT? 47:58 CHOOSE THEMSELVES. BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF GREAT 48:01 STUFF DIGITALLY. IF WE ARE GIVING THEM A HEALTHY 48:04 ENVIRONMENT IN THE HOME. SPENDING TIME WITH THEM. 48:06 EDUCATING THEM. WE'RE LITERALLY TALKING ABOUT 48:09 THE DAMAGES, A LOT OF TIMES FOR A LOT OF KIDS THAT'S GOING TO BE 48:13 ENOUGH. SOME KIDS STILL NOT ENOUGH. 48:15 THERE WAS ONE GUY THAT WENT OUT AND SAID TO A PARENT, HAVE YOU 48:19 EDUCATED YOUR KIDS? AND THAT PARENT SAID YES. 48:24 I BET I CAN GET THEM TO MEET ME AT NIGHT AFTER YOU GO TO BED. 48:29 AND SO THEY GROOMED THEM. GOT THEM ONLINE WITH THE 48:34 PARENT'S CONSENT. AND THE KID 12 YEARS OLD SNUCK 48:37 OUT OF THE HOUSE AND GOT INTO A VAN WITH A TOTAL STRANGER. 48:42 SO SOME KIDS EVEN WHEN YOU EDUCATE -- THE PARENTS SAID NO 48:46 WAY, WE TALKED ABOUT ALL OF THIS STUFF. 48:49 SO SOME KIDS ARE JUST MAKING POOR CHOICES, BUT THE BEST WE 48:53 CAN DO OUTSIDE OF EDUCATING OURSELVES, AND GETTING THOSE 48:56 CONTRACTS, AND MONITORING SOME OF THIS STUFF, IS MAN, HAVE A 49:00 RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS, AND TEACH THEM -- TEACH THEM WHAT 49:05 THE DANGERS ARE. I HAVE TALKED TO INCREDIBLE 49:08 PARENTS THAT SAY -- I SAID HAVE YOU EVER TALKED WITH YOUR KIDS 49:12 EVEN ABOUT SEX AND THAT KIND OF STUFF? 49:14 AND THEY LOOK AT ME SHOCKED. WE DON'T TALK TO EACH OTHER 49:18 ABOUT SEX. ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 49:20 WE'RE AT THE END OF THE GREAT CONTROVERSY. 49:23 WE HAVE TO STOP BEING AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT THESE THINGS THAT ARE 49:27 BEING TALKED ABOUT FREELY BY SEVEN YEAR OLDS, EIGHT YEAR 49:31 OLDS, AND WE'RE TRYING TO PROTECT THEM AS IF BEING SILENT 49:36 IS PROTECTION. >> TO THAT END, LET ME SAY 49:40 SOMETHING THAT I ADMIRE THE WAY MY MOTHER HANDLED THIS BECAUSE 49:44 SHE ALWAYS TOLD ME ANYTHING YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT SEX, COME ASK 49:49 ME, AND ANYTHING YOU HEAR, COME TELL ME, AND I'LL TELL YOU 49:52 WHETHER IT'S TRUE OR NOT. >> YEAH. 49:55 >> AND SHE HELD TO HER WORD. I WOULD HEAR SOMETHING AT 50:01 SCHOOL, AND I WOULD COME TELL HER. 50:03 AND SHE MADE ME KNOW THAT SEX WAS -- I MEAN, SHE TRAINED ME 50:08 THAT SEX WAS SOMETHING THAT GOD GAVE US AS A GIFT TO BE SHARED. 50:14 BUT I UNDERSTOOD IT WASN'T LIKE -- KIDS CAN TELL YOU A LOT 50:17 OF THINGS. AND YOU HAVE GOT CURIOSITY, YOU 50:21 KNOW. SO THEY PLANT THESE THINGS IN 50:22 YOUR MIND. SHE SATISFIED MY CURIOSITY. 50:26 SO HAVING THOSE TALKS, OPEN TALKS, I BELIEVE IT'S A VERY 50:32 GODLY THING TO DO. SO KIDS WILL UNDERSTAND. 50:35 I CAN RECALL WHEN WE WERE IN HOUSTON AT OUR CHURCH, THAT WE 50:39 WERE DOING -- I CAN'T REMEMBER THE NAME OF THE PROGRAM RIGHT 50:43 NOW, BUT IT WAS ABOUT PRESERVING YOURSELF UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED. 50:49 >> YEAH. ABSTINENCE. 50:51 >> ABSTINENCE, THANK YOU. AND THERE WAS A LITTLE 50:57 12-YEAR-OLD GIRL THAT SHE WAS JUST BOO-HOOING, BECAUSE SHE HAS 51:06 ALREADY -- AND I'M GOING 12 YEARS OLD? 51:09 THE SHOCK OF IT ALL. BUT SHE HAD TO LEARN THAT SHE 51:12 COULD BE RESTORED. >> I WOULD LIKE TO JUMP IN AND 51:15 SAY THAT MOST KIDS WHEN I TRIED TO TEACH JACKIE AND SAT WITH 51:20 HER. SHE SAID NOBODY CARES ABOUT THIS 51:22 ANYMORE, MOM. AND I STARTED TO RESEARCH THAT, 51:25 AND SHE IS RIGHT. >> WHAT DO YOU MEAN -- 51:28 >> NOBODY CARES ABOUT WHETHER YOU ARE A VIRGIN OR WHETHER YOU 51:33 ARE PURE, AND SHE WAS RIGHT. SO WHAT I HAD TO TELL HER WAS 51:38 GOD CARES. >> THAT'S RIGHT. 51:40 >> WE HAVE TO BE SMART. WE CAN'T SAY STUPID THINGS, 51:44 THINGS LIKE WHEN PEOPLE TRIED TO SCARE YOU ABOUT POT, THEY SAID 51:47 YOU ARE GOING TO GO BLIND OR YOU ARE GOING TO LEAD TO HEROIN, AND 51:52 PEOPLE WOULD SMOKE POT AND SAY I'M NOT BLIND OR CRAZY OR 51:57 SHOOTING UP HEROIN. SO WE HAVE TO REALLY EDUCATE 52:02 YOURSELF AND NOT SAY CRAZY THINGS. 52:05 MOST PEOPLE ARE SEXUALLY EXPERIMENTING VERY YOUNG IN AND 52:09 OUT OF THE CHURCH, SO IF WE ARE GOING TO SAY WHAT DOES GOD SAY? 52:14 AND WHY DOES HE SAY IT? WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS FALLING 52:19 APART ALL AROUND US? IT IS BECAUSE WE'RE NOT DOING IT 52:22 THE WAY GOD SAYS IT. GOD SAYS YOU ARE PRECIOUS TO ME. 52:26 MAN, EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS INCREDIBLE TO ME, AND THAT'S 52:29 WHAT WE HAVE GOT TO START TEACHING EVERYBODY TO NOT BE 52:33 SEDUCED ON THE DARK SIDE, BECAUSE THE LIGHT IS SO 52:37 ATTRACTIVE. JESUS HAS RAISED ME UP AND I 52:40 WILL DRAW ALL MEN. >> I KNOW YOUR TESTIMONY, AND I 52:43 KNOW WHERE THE LORD BROUGHT YOU FROM, AND THE ONLY THING THAT 52:47 COULD HAVE DELIVERED YOU OUT OF WHERE YOU WERE IS THE POWER OF 52:52 GOD. >> AMEN. 52:53 >> AND WE HAVE TO RELY ON -- ON GOD TO GIVE US STRENGTH, 52:59 UNDERSTANDING, INCITE, AND JUST PURE WISDOM ON HOW TO MINISTER 53:04 TO OUR CHILDREN AND HOW TO PROTECT OUR CHILDREN. 53:07 >> AND OURSELVES. >> AND OURSELVES. 53:10 >> AND WE HAVE GOT TO BE -- WHICH CHERI HAS DONE A 53:14 BEAUTIFUL JOB, AT LEAST WAVING THE RED FLAG SAYING PARENTS WE 53:21 HAVE A PROBLEM. WE HAVE TO BE ARMED WITH 53:23 INFORMATION. AND SEASON SOMETHING YOU SAID 53:25 CHERI THAT PEOPLE COULD CONTACT YOUR MINISTRY, AND YOU HAVE SOME 53:31 INFORMATION THAT YOU COULD SHARE -- 53:33 >> UH-HUH. >> THAT WOULD JUST ARM THEM WITH 53:38 SOME DEFENSIVE THINGS THAT THEY CAN DO TO PROTECT THEIR 53:42 CHILDREN. >> I'LL EVEN PUT SOME OF THESE 53:44 MONITORING THINGS RIGHT ON OUR WEBSITE. 53:45 IF YOU CONTACT US, WE WILL HAVE SOME OF THIS STUFF AVAILABLE FOR 53:52 YOU. >> WE HAVE YOUR ADDRESS ROLL 53:53 READY. IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO GET IN 53:55 TOUCH WITH CHERI, OR IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE HER TALK AT 53:59 YOUR UNIVERSITY OR SCHOOL -- >> MEANT TRY SCHOOL. 54:02 >> ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. >> OR YOUR CHURCH. 54:05 >> OR YOUR CHURCH. HERE IS HOW YOU CAN GET IN 54:06 TOUCH. ♪ 54:57 >> IN SOME WAYS, SOME OF THE THINGS WE HAVE DISCUSSED TONIGHT 55:01 HAVE BEEN VERY ALARMING TO ME, AND I'M SURE TO YOU. 55:06 BUT WE CANNOT PUT OUR HEAD IN THE SAND. 55:09 WE -- WE HAVE GOT TO BE ALERT. BE SOBER. 55:13 YOUR ENEMY THE DEVIL IS PROWLING AROUND LIKE A LION. 55:18 >> AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING IS MAKE SURE 55:23 THAT YOU ANALYZE WITH YOUR KIDS, AND WALK ALONGSIDE OF THEM, 55:28 DON'T CRITICIZE. SO IN YOUR ALARM, YOU CAN'T JUST 55:31 RUN IN THE HOUSE AND SAY ALL MEDIA IS GONE, OR WHAT ARE YOU 55:36 DOING? OR I KNOW YOU ARE LYING, OR 55:40 WHATEVER. IT'S LIKE WE HAVE THE PRIVILEGE 55:43 OF WALKING IN, AND LET THEM EDUCATE YOU ON SOME OF THEIR 55:47 STUFF. BUT IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT NOT TO 55:50 CRITICIZE, NOT TO WALK IN AND JUST PUSH THEM FURTHER INTO THE 55:54 WORLD. >> AMEN. 55:56 SO ONE OF THE RESOURCES THAT CHERI HAS BEEN TELLING US ABOUT 56:00 TONIGHT AND IT'S MARVELOUS RESOURCE IS A WEBSITE CALLED 56:07 TEENSAFE.COM. T-E-E-N-S-A-F-E. 56:18 WELL, CHERI AS ALWAYS TIME FLIES WHEN YOU ARE HERE. 56:20 AND IT IS ALWAYS INTERESTING. IT'S ALWAYS CHALLENGING. 56:23 >> CRAZY. >> WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH. 56:26 >> I LOVE YOU. >> YEAH, YOU ATTACK SUBJECTS 56:28 THAT THE REST OF US DON'T HAVE THE -- WE'RE NOT EQUIPPED TO 56:33 ATTACK, AND YOU DO A FANTASTIC JOB. 56:36 CHERI. THANK YOU. 56:37 >> THANK YOU. >> AMEN. 56:39 AND WE'RE SO EXCITED ABOUT YOUR NEW ALLIE, WHO IS NOT QUITE 56:46 THREE WEEKS OLD, IS THAT CORRECT? 56:47 >> AMAZING. IT'S HARD FOR ME TO TRAVEL NOW, 56:51 BECAUSE I WANT TO BE HOME HOLDING HER. 56:53 >> AMEN. CHERI THANK YOU. 56:56 MOLLIE IT IS ALWAYS FUN BEING WITH YOU. 56:58 OUR PRAYER FOR YOU AT HOME, YOUR GRACE AND SAVIOR, THE LOVE OF 57:02 THE FATHER AND THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT WILL BE 57:07 WITH YOU ALWAYS. THANKS FOR JOINING US. 57:09 ♪ |
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