>>> HELLO AND WELCOME BACK TO 3ABN LIVE. 00:00:10.87\00:00:15.01 I'M SHELLEY QUINN, AND THIS IS MOLLIE STEENSON RIGHT NEXT TO 00:00:15.01\00:00:19.11 ME. AND OUR SPECIAL GUEST TONIGHT IS 00:00:19.11\00:00:21.68 CHERI PETERS WHO IS THE FOUNDER OF TRUE STEP MINISTRIES, AND WE 00:00:21.68\00:00:25.79 ARE TALKING -- WELL, THE TITLE IS BENEFITS AND DANGERS OF 00:00:25.79\00:00:30.43 SOCIAL MEDIA. I THINK WE HAVE JUST BEGUN TO 00:00:30.43\00:00:35.73 KIND OF SCRAPE OFF THE TOP LAYER HERE OF SOME OF THE DANGERS OF 00:00:35.73\00:00:40.37 SOCIAL MEDIA, AND -- AND I KNOW THAT THIS IS RATHER ALARMING. 00:00:40.37\00:00:45.37 WE HAVE GOT SOME EVEN MORE ALARMING THINGS COMING UP. 00:00:45.37\00:00:48.64 THIS IS SOMETHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT, BUT BEFORE WE GO 00:00:48.64\00:00:52.85 FURTHER INTO THIS, IT IS A LIVE PROGRAM. 00:00:52.85\00:00:56.22 WE'LL TALK ABOUT OUR FREE OFFER IN A SECOND, BUT WHAT WE WOULD 00:00:56.22\00:00:59.85 LIKE TO DO IS INTRODUCE TO YOU JAMIE GEORGE, JAMIE IS AN 00:00:59.85\00:01:06.90 INCREDIBLE YOUNG MAN WHO HAS SUCH A GIFT ON -- HE CAN 00:01:06.90\00:01:11.27 MAKE -- HE CAN TELL A SERMON WITH HIS VIOLIN. 00:01:11.27\00:01:16.87 AND RIGHT NOW JAMIE IS GOING TO PLAY FOR US "TURN YOUR EYES UP 00:01:16.87\00:01:22.88 ON JESUS." ¤ 00:01:22.88\00:01:27.25 ¤ >> WE APPRECIATE JAMIE SO MUCH. 00:03:09.48\00:04:24.69 IN THAT IS SO BEAUTIFUL. >> BEAUTIFUL. 00:04:24.69\00:04:26.23 >> I REMEMBER ONCE WE WERE IN LAS VEGAS, NEVADA, WE WERE DOING 00:04:26.23\00:04:32.70 IT LIVE, AND JAMIE WAS PLAYING RIGHT BEFORE I SPOKE. 00:04:32.70\00:04:37.27 AND HE PLAYED -- IT WAS "WERE YOU THERE WHEN YOU CRUCIFIED MY 00:04:37.27\00:04:44.41 LORD." AND IT WAS -- HAD SUCH AN 00:04:44.41\00:04:47.42 IMPACT, THAT I'M BACKSTAGE CRYING RIGHT BEFORE I COME OUT. 00:04:47.42\00:04:51.05 BECAUSE I JUST GOT SO SWEPT UP INTO THE MUSIC. 00:04:51.05\00:04:54.32 IT WAS INCREDIBLE. >> YEAH. 00:04:54.32\00:04:56.39 >> WELL, THIS IS A LIVE PROGRAM. YOU CAN SEND YOUR QUESTIONS TO 00:04:56.39\00:05:02.70 US BY CALLING OR YOU CAN I'M US AT LIVE@3ABN.TV, AND WE'LL BE 00:05:02.70\00:05:10.11 CHERI PETERS ON THE HOT SEAT TONIGHT. 00:05:10.11\00:05:11.84 WE ALSO HAVE A FREE OFFER, MOLLIE, DO YOU WANT TO TELL US 00:05:11.84\00:05:15.01 ABOUT THAT. >> YES, IT'S A DVD. 00:05:15.01\00:05:18.85 IT'S -- HOW LONG? SIX MINUTES? 00:05:18.85\00:05:20.98 >> IT'S ABOUT SIX MINUTES. IT'S AMAZING. 00:05:20.98\00:05:24.65 >> ABOUT SIX AND A HALF MINUTES. AND IT'S A POEM WRITTEN BY SAM 00:05:24.65\00:05:29.72 SHOEMAKER, AND READ BY CHERI PETERS. 00:05:29.72\00:05:31.73 SHE DID AN INCREDIBLE JOB. THE NAME OF THE POEM IS "I STAND 00:05:31.73\00:05:37.27 AT THE DOOR." AND I JUST WANT TO ENCOURAGE 00:05:37.27\00:05:42.74 YOU. IT WILL MOVE YOUR HEART. 00:05:42.74\00:05:44.87 AND IT ALSO HAS SUCH A PROFOUND MESSAGE. 00:05:44.87\00:05:53.48 SO WE WOULD LIKE TO GET THIS IN YOUR HANDS. 00:05:53.48\00:05:57.12 >> AMEN. DURING THE BREAK, WE WERE 00:05:57.12\00:05:59.69 TALKING ABOUT THE BENEFITS -- AND WE WANT TO TALK 00:05:59.69\00:06:02.36 ABOUT THAT. WE LIVE IN SUCH A TIME WHEN 00:06:02.36\00:06:06.16 TECHNOLOGY PUTS AT OUR FINGERTIPS -- I MEAN THERE'S NOT 00:06:06.16\00:06:09.66 A QUESTION THAT I CAN'T -- CAN'T GOOGLE THAT THEY HAVEN'T BEEN 00:06:09.66\00:06:13.87 ABLE TO ANSWER SO FAR. >> UH-HUH. 00:06:13.87\00:06:16.74 >> IT IS JUST SO AMAZING TO HAVE THIS TECHNOLOGY AND YOU WERE 00:06:16.74\00:06:21.14 SAYING, HOW -- AND J.D. IS MUCH THE SAME WAY, OUR HUSBANDS FEEL 00:06:21.14\00:06:25.55 SECURE WHEN WE HAVE OUR PHONES WITH US. 00:06:25.55\00:06:28.82 THEY KNOW -- >> OR THEY KNOW IF WE NEED THEM, 00:06:28.82\00:06:31.72 THEN WE CAN CALL THEM. >> RIGHT. 00:06:31.72\00:06:34.59 SO THERE ARE SO MANY WONDERFUL THINGS ABOUT THE SMARTPHONE AND 00:06:34.59\00:06:39.93 WHAT IS AVAILABLE, BUT NOW WE WANT TO POINT OUT, BECAUSE SOME 00:06:39.93\00:06:44.60 OF US -- AND I SAY THIS ALL THE TIME. 00:06:44.60\00:06:46.97 I FEEL LIKE I LIVE IN A CHRISTIAN BUBBLE SOMETIMES. 00:06:46.97\00:06:51.54 BECAUSE I WORK AT 3ABN, WHERE CHRISTIANS, GO TO CHURCH WITH 00:06:51.54\00:06:58.01 THE SAME PEOPLE, ALMOST EVERYBODY I KNOW IS A CHRISTIAN, 00:06:58.01\00:07:01.22 AND IT'S GOOD TO LOOK AT WHAT IS REALLY GOING ON IN THE WORLD, 00:07:01.22\00:07:06.15 BECAUSE WE WON'T BE EFFECTIVE IN OUR MINISTRY, IF WE DON'T 00:07:06.15\00:07:09.29 UNDERSTAND THE PROBLEMS OF THE WORLD. 00:07:09.29\00:07:11.23 >> THAT'S A GREAT POINT, SHELLEY, BECAUSE EVEN 00:07:11.23\00:07:14.83 THOUGH -- I STAND AT THE DOOR, I HOPE THIS PROGRAM WAKES UP 00:07:14.83\00:07:19.67 PEOPLE THAT ARE 15 YEARS OLD, 16 YEARS OLD, 20 YEARS OLD, THAT 00:07:19.67\00:07:23.97 ARE GOING INTO MINISTRY. REACH OUT TO THE PEOPLE ALL 00:07:23.97\00:07:27.71 AROUND YOU THAT MAY HAVE GOTTEN LOST IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD. 00:07:27.71\00:07:31.38 BECAUSE PART OF THE MINISTRY IS GOING TO BE OUR HEALTH MESSAGE, 00:07:31.38\00:07:35.05 YOU KNOW, THAT WE HAVE GOT TO GET OUTSIDE, THE SUN HIT OUR 00:07:35.05\00:07:39.39 SKIN. THERE WAS A CLIP THAT WAS SO 00:07:39.39\00:07:42.12 FUNNY, AND IT'S THIS GUY THAT SAYS, YOU KNOW, 20 YEARS AGO IF 00:07:42.12\00:07:46.19 SOMEBODY KNOCKED AT YOUR DOOR, EVERYBODY -- IF THE WHOLE FAMILY 00:07:46.19\00:07:51.00 WAS TOGETHER WATCHING TV, EVERYBODY WOULD BE GOING LIKE 00:07:51.00\00:07:54.17 SOMEONE IS HERE! WE HAVE COMPANY! 00:07:54.17\00:07:56.60 THE KIDS WOULD SLIDE AT THE DOOR. 00:07:56.60\00:07:59.27 THEY WOULD OPEN THE DOOR, LIKE NO WAY. 00:07:59.27\00:08:01.58 YOU ARE HERE. COME ON IN. 00:08:01.58\00:08:03.35 THAT'S INCREDIBLE. YOU WOULD GET OUT SOME CAKE. 00:08:03.35\00:08:07.98 MOMMA WOULD PUT SOMETHING ON TO DRINK, AND EVERYBODY WOULD HAVE 00:08:07.98\00:08:10.92 A GREAT TIME. AND IF THE PHONE RANG, DAD OR 00:08:10.92\00:08:14.26 SOMEBODY WOULD SAY, NO, NO, NO. DON'T ANSWER THAT. 00:08:14.26\00:08:17.59 WE HAVE COMPANY. >> YEAH. 00:08:17.59\00:08:19.69 >> REMEMBER THAT WAS A WHOLE DIFFERENT TIME. 00:08:19.69\00:08:22.63 NOWADAYS SOMEBODY KNOCKS ON THE DOOR EVERYBODY IS SHHHHHH. 00:08:22.63\00:08:28.40 [ LAUGHTER ] >> YOU KNOW, LIKE TURNING THE TV 00:08:28.40\00:08:29.87 DOWN. MY SON-IN-LAW SAYS HE'LL TURN 00:08:29.87\00:08:32.37 THE GAMES DOWN, HE'LL TELL THE DOGS TO BE QUIET. 00:08:32.37\00:08:37.38 LIKE TWO INVITED SOMEONE. GRANDMA GET A KNIFE, WHO IS AT 00:08:37.38\00:08:42.88 THE DOOR. I JUST CAME OVER TO VISIT. 00:08:42.88\00:08:45.99 IS THAT YOUR MOM WITH A KNIFE. IT'S JUST THE DIFFERENCE THAT 00:08:45.99\00:08:49.22 OUR SOCIAL MEDIA HAS DONE. WE LITERALLY AT ONE POINT USED 00:08:49.22\00:08:54.76 TO HAVE PEOPLE DROP BY AND ALL OF THAT STUFF, NOWADAYS REALLY, 00:08:54.76\00:08:59.57 I HAVE A LOT OF FOLKS IN LIFE THAT DON'T EVEN WANT YOU TO CALL 00:08:59.57\00:09:04.67 THEM. JUST SEND ME A TEXT. 00:09:04.67\00:09:06.44 MY DAUGHTER IS LIKE JUST SEND ME A TET -- TEXT. 00:09:06.44\00:09:14.88 I WANT TO HEAR HER VOICE. SO I CALL HER. 00:09:14.88\00:09:18.95 AND I KNOW SHE IS THERE. AND I WON'T LEAVE A MESSAGE. 00:09:18.95\00:09:23.16 AND IT KILLS HER. SO SHE'LL CALL ME RIGHT BACK. 00:09:23.16\00:09:29.06 SO WE'RE LEARNING TO CONNECT DIFFERENTLY, OUR HOMES ARE 00:09:29.06\00:09:32.03 DIFFERENT BECAUSE OF OUR MEDIA AND OUR DIGITAL WORLD, SO LOOK 00:09:32.03\00:09:35.14 AT WHAT IS GOOD. REALLY LOOK AT WHAT IS GOOD. 00:09:35.14\00:09:37.64 BECAUSE THERE IS INCREDIBLE STUFF THAT IS GOOD. 00:09:37.64\00:09:40.11 BUT ALSO LOOK AT WHAT IS CHANGING US. 00:09:40.11\00:09:42.81 REWIRING US. CHANGING THE WORLD THAT WE LIVE 00:09:42.81\00:09:45.35 IN. INTERFERING WITH OUR BODIES. 00:09:45.35\00:09:50.85 NEUROCHEMICALLY WHEN I CHANGE NEUROCH 00:09:50.85\00:09:56.56 NEUROCHEMICALLY, MY STRESS IS DIFFERENT, WE HAVE NERVE IN THE 00:09:56.56\00:10:00.13 FRONT OF YOUR HEAD THAT ACTUALLY GETS DAMAGED BY THIS STUFF. 00:10:00.13\00:10:04.40 SO IF I'M CHANGING ALL OF THAT, DO I NEED TO JUST SAY HEAD'S UP? 00:10:04.40\00:10:13.38 HOW DO I STAY WITH THIS TECHNOLOGY THAT IS AMAZING, BUT 00:10:13.38\00:10:17.21 HOW DO I STAY CONNECTED WITH THE WAY I WAS CREATED? 00:10:17.21\00:10:24.42 AND IT IS REALLY CHANGING US. >> WELL, PEOPLE WHO ARE WALKING 00:10:24.42\00:10:28.72 OR TECHING -- TEXTING AND WALKING ABOUT GET RUN OVER. 00:10:28.72\00:10:35.66 >> THAT HAPPENS. >> IT DOES. 00:10:35.66\00:10:37.60 >> JUST REPEAT A LITTLE BIT OF WHAT YOU TALKED ABOUT DURING THE 00:10:37.60\00:10:42.24 FIRST HOUR ABOUT BEING AN AHEE DONE -- AHE DONE NISIC QUALITY. 00:10:42.24\00:10:55.85 >> YOU CAN TEST LEVELS. IT IS CHANGING -- THE WAY WE'RE 00:10:55.85\00:11:00.72 GETTING LOST IN ADDICTION, THERE IS A BOOK THAT I LOVE, AND THE 00:11:00.72\00:11:06.73 NAME IS -- IT'S SLIPPING ME, BUT ANYHOW THERE ARE STUDIES THAT 00:11:06.73\00:11:11.53 ARE SAYING WE LITERALLY CAN -- CAN TAKE A BLOOD DRAW AND 00:11:11.53\00:11:20.21 SEE THE CHANGES IN THE MELATONIN LEVELS AND ADRENALINE AND ALL OF 00:11:20.21\00:11:25.51 THAT STUFF, BUT WHAT CHANGES TO CHANGE THAT IS OUR PLEASURE 00:11:25.51\00:11:29.05 CENTERS. AND OUR PLEASURE CENTERS, LIKE 00:11:29.05\00:11:31.95 WHEN I WALK OUTSIDE AND TAKE A BREATH, AND THE SUN HITS MY 00:11:31.95\00:11:37.59 SKIN, OR I SMELL A FLOWER OR AN ORANGE, SOMETHING CHANGES NE 00:11:37.59\00:11:48.67 NEUROCH NEUROCHEMICALLY. 00:11:48.67\00:11:51.91 IF I TRASH THAT PLEASURE CENTER, MY PLEASURE CENTER ACTUALLY FLAT 00:11:51.91\00:11:55.71 LINES. AND YOU CAN SEE THAT. 00:11:55.71\00:11:57.35 IN ADDICTION YOU CAN SEE IT REALLY CLEARLY. 00:11:57.35\00:12:00.22 LIKE ADDICTIONS LIKE METH AND SEXUAL ADDICTIONS AND ALL OF 00:12:00.22\00:12:04.29 THAT. BUT ONLINE ADDICTIONS ARE THE 00:12:04.29\00:12:06.79 SAME. >> THAT'S WHAT IS SCARING. 00:12:06.79\00:12:09.29 >> IT'S SCARING BECAUSE WE THINK I'M NOT SLAMMING COKE, OR 00:12:09.29\00:12:15.80 SLAPPING HEROIN, BUT ONLINE ADDICTIONS IS THE SAME AS ANY 00:12:15.80\00:12:20.77 OTHER ADDICTIONS. SO I'M FLAT LINING THAT PLEASURE 00:12:20.77\00:12:24.37 CENTER. IT'S EXHAUSTED. 00:12:24.37\00:12:26.78 IT'S NOT WORKING. SO HEDONISM MEANS I'M A SEEKER 00:12:26.78\00:12:35.88 OF PLEASURE. ANHEDONISTIC MEANS I CAN'T FIND 00:12:35.88\00:12:43.79 IT. IF I'M NOT ONLINE, OR SEEING 00:12:43.79\00:12:46.09 THOSE IMAGES THAT CHANGE, SOME OF THESE LOOPS ARE 30-SECOND 00:12:46.09\00:12:50.80 LOOPS. VIDEOS THAT PEOPLE ARE SENDING 00:12:50.80\00:12:52.90 ARE REALLY KIND OF SHORT THINGS THAT ARE FUNNY, CREATIVE, OR 00:12:52.90\00:12:56.87 COOL, OR THEY ARE PRETTY RAUNCHY, SO YOU CAN HAVE ALL OF 00:12:56.87\00:13:01.08 THAT. I KNOW KIDS THAT ARE REALLY 00:13:01.08\00:13:03.61 YOUNG THAT SOME OF THIS PORN STUFF OR -- OR LANGUAGE OR 00:13:03.61\00:13:09.22 CUSSING, IT'S JUST PART OF THE WORLD, AND IT'S NO BIG DEAL TO 00:13:09.22\00:13:14.52 THEM. IT DOESN'T BOTHER THEM AT ALL 00:13:14.52\00:13:16.76 IF -- IF YOUR MOM WOULD WALK IN OR YOUR DAD WOULD WALK IN, THEY 00:13:16.76\00:13:20.50 WOULD DIE AT SOME OF THE STUFF THAT IS BEING TALKED ABOUT IN A 00:13:20.50\00:13:24.93 CHAT ROOM, BUT THESE KIDS IT'S THEIR WORLD. 00:13:24.93\00:13:28.64 ONE APP, 240 MILLION KIDS. >> THAT'S KIK, K-I-K. 00:13:28.64\00:13:35.58 >> THERE ARE ALL KINDS OF STUFF. LIKE MICROBLOGING, OR DATING -- 00:13:35.58\00:13:46.19 >> MICROBLOGING? >> THEY ARE TINY. 00:13:46.19\00:13:49.06 >> KIND OF LIKE TWITTER? >> KIND OF LIKE A TWITTER. 00:13:49.06\00:13:52.46 PEOPLE ARE NOT ON FACEBOOK AND TWITTER MUCH ANYMORE, THEY ARE 00:13:52.46\00:13:56.67 ON THESE OTHER ONES. >> I HAVEN'T EVEN MADE IT TO 00:13:56.67\00:14:00.70 TWITTER YET. [ LAUGHTER ] 00:14:00.70\00:14:01.70 >> YOU MIGHT SAY THANK GOD FOR THAT. 00:14:01.70\00:14:03.97 SO THESE LITTLE THINGS ARE JUST -- YOU ARE SENDING THINGS 00:14:03.97\00:14:06.98 BACK AND FORTH. THERE'S AN APP CALLED SNAPCHAT 00:14:06.98\00:14:10.81 THAT YOU CAN SEND SOMETHING -- LIKE I SEND A VIDEO 00:14:10.81\00:14:14.02 TO YOU, AND I DON'T HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT ANYBODY FINDING IT, 00:14:14.02\00:14:17.85 BECAUSE IT WILL STAY FOR A CERTAIN AMOUNT OF TIME AND THEN 00:14:17.85\00:14:20.39 IT IS SUPPOSED TO DISAPPEAR. NOTHING ONLINE EVER DISAPPEARS, 00:14:20.39\00:14:24.89 SO THAT'S NOT ACTUALLY TRUE. SO IF I SEND YOU A NUDE PICTURE 00:14:24.89\00:14:29.86 AND YOU TAKE A SCREEN SHOT, YOU CAN SEND IT ALL OVER THE WORLD, 00:14:29.86\00:14:33.60 AND I THINK IT DISAPPEARED IN 30 SECONDS. 00:14:33.60\00:14:36.74 BUT WHAT THEY HAVE ON THAT SCARES ME ABOUT SOME OF THESE 00:14:36.74\00:14:40.51 APPS, IS THEY HAVE A GPS LOCATER. 00:14:40.51\00:14:44.45 AND LET'S SAY THAT I WANT TO CONNECT WITH MY FRIENDS, BUT I 00:14:44.45\00:14:48.28 DON'T WANT TO CONNECT WITH PEOPLE FROM ALL OVER THE WORLD. 00:14:48.28\00:14:52.59 JUST FROM WITHIN 50 MILES. IF I WANT TO MEET THEM. 00:14:52.59\00:14:55.89 OR WHATEVER. SO I JUST WANT IT WITHIN CERTAIN 00:14:55.89\00:14:58.99 MILES. SO IT ACTUALLY HOOKS ME UP WITH 00:14:58.99\00:15:02.70 WHOEVER IS ON THAT APP WITHIN THAT MILE. 00:15:02.70\00:15:04.80 AND IT HAS LOCATED ME ON THE GPS, RIGHT? 00:15:04.80\00:15:07.80 SO IT KNOWS THAT. AND THAT'S FUN IF YOU ARE 00:15:07.80\00:15:11.57 HANGING OUT WITH YOUR FRIENDS FROM HIGH SCHOOL OR WHATEVER. 00:15:11.57\00:15:15.58 BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN PERPETRATORS GET ON THERE. 00:15:15.58\00:15:18.48 IF IT'S NOT SAFE, ALL OF A SUDDEN SOMEBODY SAYS I WANT TO 00:15:18.48\00:15:22.62 KNOW WHERE THIS KID IS, I'M GROOMING THIS KID, AND I KNOW 00:15:22.62\00:15:26.55 I'M WITHIN 20 MILES OF THIS KID. >> AND THIS HAPPENS IN -- AND 00:15:26.55\00:15:29.92 THIS IS WHAT WE WANT TO EMPHASIZE, IS DON'T THINK IT'S 00:15:29.92\00:15:33.29 NOT HAPPENING IN THIS THE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY, BECAUSE WE 00:15:33.29\00:15:36.67 CAN SIT HERE AND WE KNOW PEOPLE IN OUR OWN CHURCH THAT THESE 00:15:36.67\00:15:41.10 KIND OF THINGS HAVE HAPPENED TO. SO IT IS SOMETHING THAT ALL 00:15:41.10\00:15:46.01 TEENAGERS ARE DOING IT, AND -- AND AS WE SAID EARLIER, 00:15:46.01\00:15:50.78 IT'S NOT JUST THE TEENS WE'RE WORRIED ABOUT, BUT THERE ARE 00:15:50.78\00:15:54.65 RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE BEING RUINED, MARRIAGES THAT ARE BEING 00:15:54.65\00:15:57.82 RUINED BECAUSE OF THE DARK SIDE OF THIS. 00:15:57.82\00:15:59.52 >> IT'S A DIGITAL COMMUNITY. IT'S A DIGITAL WORLD. 00:15:59.52\00:16:03.19 >> YEAH. >> SO WHEN WE SAY THAT -- WHEN 00:16:03.19\00:16:05.36 YOU GO INTO COLLEGES -- I WISH THERE WAS SOMEBODY THAT WAS 00:16:05.36\00:16:09.50 BRAVE ENOUGH THAT WOULD LET US KNOW WHAT IT IS LIKE FOR YOU AS 00:16:09.50\00:16:13.34 A TEEN. BUT PORN IS EASY TO FIND. 00:16:13.34\00:16:16.10 IT'S LAUGHABLE. PEOPLE WILL LAUGH AT SOME OF THE 00:16:16.10\00:16:19.17 IMAGES -- LIKE THAT YOU GOT. YOU KNOW, YOU GET FIFTH AND 00:16:19.17\00:16:24.98 SIXTH, SEVENTH GRADERS JUST LAUGHING AT THAT STUFF. 00:16:24.98\00:16:28.48 THEY ARE SO DESENSITIZED, THAT IT IS JUST LAUGHABLE. 00:16:28.48\00:16:32.62 THIS ONE COUPLE DECIDED THAT THEY WANTED TO FIND 00:16:32.62\00:16:35.12 SOMEONE -- THEY WANTED TO MURDER SOMEONE FOR WHATEVER REASON, AND 00:16:35.12\00:16:38.86 SO THEY -- THEY GOT THIS GIRL -- SHE WAS 11. 00:16:38.86\00:16:42.13 SHE WAS KIND OF SOCIALLY ISOLATED ANYWAY, WAS NOT REALLY 00:16:42.13\00:16:46.10 POPULAR, SO STARTED TO CHAT WITH THIS GUY THAT WAS -- THE PICTURE 00:16:46.10\00:16:50.47 HE SENT HER WAS A GORGEOUS -- HE WAS IMMEDIATELY ASKED HER TO 00:16:50.47\00:16:56.48 SEND NUDE SHOTS AND SHE IS YOUNG. 00:16:56.48\00:16:58.55 SHE IS SENDING NUDE SHOTS ALL OF THAT STUFF. 00:16:58.55\00:17:01.02 THEY HAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP. THEY SEND INFORMATION OF WHO 00:17:01.02\00:17:05.35 THEY ARE, WHERE THEY ARE LOCATED, AND SHE MEETS THEM. 00:17:05.35\00:17:10.83 SHE TELLS HER FRIENDS I'M IN LOVE. 00:17:10.83\00:17:13.26 AND I HAVE A BOYFRIEND. SHE WAS STABBED A NUMBER OF 00:17:13.26\00:17:18.57 TIMES BY THIS COUPLE THAT SET HER UP TO MEET. 00:17:18.57\00:17:21.64 AND I'M THINKING ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 00:17:21.64\00:17:24.04 TO ME I THINK SOMEBODY -- THIS IS SOMEBODY'S KID. 00:17:24.04\00:17:27.71 YOU KNOW? THIS IS -- SHE -- YOU KNOW, SHE 00:17:27.71\00:17:29.64 WAS GETTING SOME KIND OF REINFORCEMENT, FELT ALIVE, 00:17:29.64\00:17:34.52 RIGHT? FELT CONNECTED, FELT LOVED, FELT 00:17:34.52\00:17:38.19 CHERISHED, ALL OF THE THINGS THAT KID WANT TO FEEL AND THEY 00:17:38.19\00:17:41.22 SHOULD FEEL. BUT WHEN THEY FEEL IT, THEY FEEL 00:17:41.22\00:17:44.66 IT IN AN UNSAFE ENVIRONMENT WITHOUT BEING MONITORED OR 00:17:44.66\00:17:48.70 SUPERVISED OR EDUCATED, IT'S DANGEROUS. 00:17:48.70\00:17:51.37 >> AND THERE'S -- HOW MANY MORE -- YOU HAVE TOLD US ABOUT 00:17:51.37\00:17:56.97 K-I-K. AND E-N-V-O. 00:17:56.97\00:17:59.84 >> LET ME GET BACK TO THAT. THERE IS VINE, WHICH IS ONE. 00:17:59.84\00:18:04.21 VINE IS VERY CREATIVE, FUNNY. IT'S INCREDIBLE. 00:18:04.21\00:18:08.48 AND PEOPLE CAN -- PEOPLE CAN EVEN VIDEOTAPE THEIR PARENTS 00:18:08.48\00:18:12.99 DOING SOMETHING STUPID AND THEN PUT IT ON -- 00:18:12.99\00:18:15.12 >> OH, BOY. [ LAUGHTER ] 00:18:15.12\00:18:16.62 >> AND IT'S REALLY FUN BECAUSE A LOT OF PARENTS ARE LIKE THE STAR 00:18:16.62\00:18:20.33 OF THE SHOW. BUT -- SO IT'S FULL OF 00:18:20.33\00:18:23.37 INAPPROPRIATE VIDEO, BUT VERY FUNNY STUFF, SO YOU GET REALLY 00:18:23.37\00:18:27.10 KIND OF SEDUCED INTO THAT. SO YOU HAVE GOT -- YOU HAVE GOT 00:18:27.10\00:18:31.27 THE INSTAGRAM WHICH IS INCREDIBLE. 00:18:31.27\00:18:33.78 YOU SHARE PICTURES AND VIDEOS AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 00:18:33.78\00:18:37.75 THERE IS LIVE STREAMING ON A LOT OF THESE APPS NOW. 00:18:37.75\00:18:40.78 THAT MEANS I CAN JUST TURN IT ON -- AND IT CAN BE LIVE. 00:18:40.78\00:18:44.82 BUT MOST KIDS, WHERE ARE THEY STREAMING, DO YOU THINK? 00:18:44.82\00:18:48.99 >> I HAVE NO IDEA. >> IN THEIR ROOMS. 00:18:48.99\00:18:52.13 >> WELL, SURE. >> THEIR BEDROOMS. 00:18:52.13\00:18:54.40 >> IN THEIR BEDROOMS WITH THE DOOR SHUT. 00:18:54.40\00:18:56.63 AND IT'S REALLY CRAZY, BECAUSE I DON'T THINK WE REALIZE THAT YOU 00:18:56.63\00:19:00.64 HAVE GOT THESE -- THESE KIDS -- SOME REALLY YOUNG, AND 00:19:00.64\00:19:05.11 THEY HAD THIS ONE REPORTER THAT GOT ONLINE AND GOT ON ONE OF 00:19:05.11\00:19:08.61 THESE APPS, AND SHE POSED AS A 12-YEAR-OLD KID, GIRL, RIGHT? 00:19:08.61\00:19:13.38 AND SO SHE PUTS ALL OF THE INFORMATION IN. 00:19:13.38\00:19:15.98 AND SIGNS UP, AND SHE SAID WITHIN MINUTES, SHE IS GETTING 00:19:15.98\00:19:20.96 PRESSURED TO SEND NUDE PICTURES TO THIS PERSON, THAT SAID 00:19:20.96\00:19:24.13 EVERYBODY DOES THAT HERE. YOU KNOW, ARE YOU TOO LITTLE? 00:19:24.13\00:19:27.76 ARE YOU TOO YOUNG? DOES YOUR MOM KNOW -- NO, NO. 00:19:27.76\00:19:31.43 I'M 15. AND SO THEY SEND A PICTURE. 00:19:31.43\00:19:34.17 SO IT'S LIKE WITHIN MINUTES SHE GOT PRESSURED TO SEND NUDE 00:19:34.17\00:19:39.94 PICTURES. SO YOU GET THIS NORMAL 00:19:39.94\00:19:41.74 CONVERSATION WITH KIDS, AND YOU GET THESE NORMAL CONVERSATIONS 00:19:41.74\00:19:45.05 WITH THIS AMAZING STUFF, BUT YOU CAN GET SOME PRETTY TWISTED 00:19:45.05\00:19:49.12 CONVERSATIONS WITH PEOPLE THAT SAY I WANT YOU TO SEND ME SOME 00:19:49.12\00:19:54.02 PICTURES, AND ONCE THEY SEND PICTURES, AND THIS REPORTER 00:19:54.02\00:19:57.49 FOLLOWED THIS ALL THE WAY THROUGH -- ONCE THEY SEND 00:19:57.49\00:20:00.70 PICTURE, IT IS LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT, I WANT YOU TO SEND ME THIS 00:20:00.70\00:20:05.63 NOW, AND POSES, OR I'M GOING TO TELL YOUR MOM WHAT YOU DID, 00:20:05.63\00:20:12.17 BECAUSE THEY HAVE THE PICTURES. AND THIS ONE GIRL ALMOST CAME TO 00:20:12.17\00:20:18.28 THE POINT OF SUICIDE, BECAUSE SHE WAS A LITTLE KID WHO DOESN'T 00:20:18.28\00:20:21.65 KNOW HOW TO GET OUT OF THOSE SITUATIONS. 00:20:21.65\00:20:24.09 AND YOU HAVE A PEDOPHILE THAT KNOWS HOW TO MANIPULATE AND SHE 00:20:24.09\00:20:27.96 ALMOST KILLED HERSELF. A LOT OF PEOPLE WILL KILL 00:20:27.96\00:20:31.33 THEMSELVES. >> AND YOU HAVE GOT PARENTS WHO 00:20:31.33\00:20:32.99 ARE THINKING THAT THEIR -- WHO ARE FEELING MY CHILDREN ARE 00:20:32.99\00:20:36.46 SAFE. THEY ARE IN THE HOME. 00:20:36.46\00:20:37.67 >> UH-HUH. >> YOU KNOW, THEY ARE UP IN 00:20:37.67\00:20:40.60 THEIR ROOM STUDYING. GETTING READY TO GO TO BED, AND 00:20:40.60\00:20:43.84 NOT REALIZING. >> BUT WITH THIS GPS, AND ALSO 00:20:43.84\00:20:48.41 WITH -- YOUR PHONE NUMBER IS ATTACHED TO -- WHEN YOU ARE 00:20:48.41\00:20:52.38 SENDING INFORMATION. >> ON SOME OF THE APPS. 00:20:52.38\00:20:55.88 >> YEAH. >> WHAT IS REALLY INTERESTING ON 00:20:55.88\00:20:58.29 SOME OF THE APPS THAT KIDS HAVE, THAT THEY DON'T HAVE TO HAVE IT 00:20:58.29\00:21:02.12 HOOKED UP TO A PHONE NUMBER. SO THAT'S WHY WHEN YOU ARE 00:21:02.12\00:21:06.23 FILMING SOMEBODY THAT IS REALLY CLEVER WILL START TO LOOK AT ANY 00:21:06.23\00:21:09.66 CLUES IN THE ROOM. >> UH-HUH. 00:21:09.66\00:21:11.83 >> WHAT IS REALLY INTERESTING TOO IS A LOT OF -- A LOT OF 00:21:11.83\00:21:16.91 PEOPLE WILL -- KIND OF JUDGE WHO THEY ARE AND THEIR POPULARITY BY 00:21:16.91\00:21:21.48 HOW MANY LIKES THEY HAVE. HOW MANY PEOPLE SEE THEIR 00:21:21.48\00:21:24.85 VIDEOS. SOME VIDEOS GO VIRAL, AND THERE 00:21:24.85\00:21:27.88 ARE LIKE 3 MILLION PEOPLE THAT WATCH THE VIDEO, AND THERE ARE 00:21:27.88\00:21:31.92 SOME PEOPLE THAT DO ALL KINDS OF STUFF. 00:21:31.92\00:21:34.76 IT'S LIKE YOU DO ALL KINDS OF STUFF TO GET YOUR LITTLE FAN 00:21:34.76\00:21:39.19 GROUP OR PEOPLE THAT FOLLOW YOU AND THE STUFF THAT YOU POST. 00:21:39.19\00:21:43.50 BUT WITH THE LIVE STREAMING, THERE WAS A GIRL NOT LONG AGO 00:21:43.50\00:21:47.04 THAT WENT -- THEY MET THIS GUY WHO WAS REALLY KIND OF A 00:21:47.04\00:21:50.94 GOOD-LOOKING GUY. THEY THOUGHT HE WAS CLOSER TO 00:21:50.94\00:21:53.07 THEIR AGE, BUT HE WAS MUCH OLDER. 00:21:53.07\00:21:56.54 SEDUCED BOTH OF THE GIRLS, GOT THEM DRUNK, TOOK THEM SOMEWHERE, 00:21:56.54\00:21:59.85 AND ONE OF THE GIRLS WAS LIVE STREAMING AS HE RAPED HER 00:21:59.85\00:22:04.25 FRIEND. >> OH, NO. 00:22:04.25\00:22:05.52 >> LIVE STREAMING, AND SHE DIDN'T THINK TWICE ABOUT IT, 00:22:05.52\00:22:09.72 BECAUSE IT WAS KIND OF FOR THE LIKES AND THE VIDEO AND WHAT WAS 00:22:09.72\00:22:14.73 HAPPENING. AND SHE -- ACTUALLY EVERYBODY 00:22:14.73\00:22:16.60 GOT ARRESTED. EVERYBODY WAS TALKING ABOUT THIS 00:22:16.60\00:22:18.97 CASE, AND SO -- YOU KNOW, AND SOMEONE SAYS HOW COULD THAT 00:22:18.97\00:22:23.20 HAPPEN? LOOK AT THE CELEBRITIES THAT WE 00:22:23.20\00:22:26.24 PUT ON THIS PEDESTAL, YOU KNOW, THEY ARE DOING SEX VIDEOS, THEY 00:22:26.24\00:22:30.35 ARE SENDING NAKED PICTURES. THEY ARE DOING ALL OF THIS 00:22:30.35\00:22:35.05 POSING. THEY ARE FAMOUS FOR NO OTHER 00:22:35.05\00:22:37.39 REASON THAN WHAT THEY HAVE POSTED ONLINE. 00:22:37.39\00:22:39.65 AND THEN YOU HAVE THESE LITTLE KIDS THAT WANT TO BE FAMOUS. 00:22:39.65\00:22:42.89 AND THEY DON'T HAVE THE JUDGMENT OR THE -- THEY -- THEY ARE NOT 00:22:42.89\00:22:48.56 THINKING CLEARLY YET. THEIR FRONTAL LOBES AREN'T 00:22:48.56\00:22:52.67 COMPLETELY DEVELOPED YET. >> THEY ARE JUST BABIES. 00:22:52.67\00:22:56.30 AND DON'T THINK THEY REALIZE -- AND THEY DEFINITELY 00:22:56.30\00:22:58.97 DON'T REALIZE, BECAUSE I HAVE MET SOME KIDS THAT ARE JUST SO 00:22:58.97\00:23:03.24 AMAZING, AND THEY DON'T REALIZE THIS IS CHANGING YOU. 00:23:03.24\00:23:05.68 IT IS CHANGING HOW YOU SEE THE WORLD, HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF. 00:23:05.68\00:23:10.92 >> THEIR BRAIN IS BEING REWIRED, AND THAT IS GOING TO BE WITH 00:23:10.92\00:23:16.36 THEM FROM NOW ON. >> THEIR DESIRES ARE REWIRED. 00:23:16.36\00:23:19.46 WHEN I WAS GETTING INTO ADDICTIONS, I DIDN'T REALIZE 00:23:19.46\00:23:22.56 THAT I ACTUALLY CREATED AN ADDICT, YOU KNOW? 00:23:22.56\00:23:26.23 SO I SAW THE WORLD IN ONE WAY BEFORE I BECOME AN ADDICT. 00:23:26.23\00:23:31.37 AND AN ADDICT SEES THE WORLD IN A WHOLE DIFFERENT WAY. 00:23:31.37\00:23:35.58 HE SEE OURSELVES DIFFERENT. WHEN SOMEBODY IS LOST AND TORN, 00:23:35.58\00:23:39.68 BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS, MEN AND WOMEN, WHEN SOMEBODY WALKS IN 00:23:39.68\00:23:43.72 THE ROOM, I DON'T LOOK AT WHO YOU ARE AND YOUR SMILE, EXCUSE 00:23:43.72\00:23:47.96 ME -- I LOOK AT YOUR BREASTS OR I LOOK AT YOUR BODY. 00:23:47.96\00:23:51.33 SO IT'S LIKE WE'RE TRAINED TO EVEN VIEW EACH OTHER IN 00:23:51.33\00:23:55.60 POSITIONS OR BODY PARTS OR AS OBJECTS OR -- OUR DESIRES ARE 00:23:55.60\00:24:00.57 DIFFERENT. SO ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF 00:24:00.57\00:24:02.70 CHANGES. SO WHEN WE GET HIJACKED REALLY 00:24:02.70\00:24:05.61 YOUNG, MAN, WHEN WE GET INTO RECOVERY OR GOD GETS AHOLD OF 00:24:05.61\00:24:11.85 US, OR WE JUST DECIDE TO STOP, IT TAKES A LOT. 00:24:11.85\00:24:15.22 AND WHAT IS REALLY COOL NOWADAYS, AND SOME OF THE SIGHTS 00:24:15.22\00:24:18.49 OUT THERE, BECAUSE THEY ARE NOT CHRISTIAN, AND THE LANGUAGE MAY 00:24:18.49\00:24:22.96 OFFEND SOMETHING, BUT THERE IS XXX CHURCH THAT DOES RECOVERY 00:24:22.96\00:24:29.46 FROM DIGITAL SITES. BUT NOT BECAUSE SOMEBODY DECIDED 00:24:29.46\00:24:32.37 THAT WE HAVE GOT TO GO AFTER THIS GROUP AND HELP THEM. 00:24:32.37\00:24:35.74 BUT IT IS SOMEBODY THAT GOT FREE THEMSELVES. 00:24:35.74\00:24:38.27 SO I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW LOST I WAS. 00:24:38.27\00:24:40.41 I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW ISOLATED I WAS. 00:24:40.41\00:24:42.38 I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I ACTUALLY CHANGED MY NEUROCHEMISTRY. 00:24:42.38\00:24:47.32 AND THERE IS ONE SITE THAT SAYS WE HAVE TO REBOOT. 00:24:47.32\00:24:50.29 WE HAVE GOT TO LITERALLY -- OUR BRAIN WAS HIJACKED AND WE HAVE 00:24:50.29\00:24:54.49 TO LITERALLY BRING IT BACK INTO LINE. 00:24:54.49\00:24:56.93 AND WITH PET SCANS, AND THAT KIND OF STUFF, IT TAKES ABOUT 15 00:24:56.93\00:25:01.30 MONTHS TO GET THAT NEUROCHEMISTRY UP AND RUNNING 00:25:01.30\00:25:04.50 AGAIN, WHERE I'M IN MY FRONTAL LOBES AND I CAN LAUGH OUT LOUD 00:25:04.50\00:25:11.31 BECAUSE JUST IT IS FUNNY IS. >> SOMEBODY WHO WAS NORMAL AND 00:25:11.31\00:25:15.48 THEN DESCENDED INTO THE PITS OF HELL, AND SOMETHING WOKE THEM UP 00:25:15.48\00:25:21.85 AND THEY CAME BACK AND WANTED THE NORMALCY AGAIN. 00:25:21.85\00:25:26.69 BUT WHAT ABOUT CHILDREN WHO NEVER REALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT 00:25:26.69\00:25:29.09 NORMAL IS, BECAUSE THEY ARE SO DESENSITIZED TO THINGS? 00:25:29.09\00:25:33.93 LIKE WHAT COUNTRY WAS IT YOU SAID THE BIRTHRATE WAS GOING 00:25:33.93\00:25:37.50 ON -- >> JAPAN. 00:25:37.50\00:25:39.10 >> ALL RIGHT. SO BECAUSE NOW SUDDENLY THEY 00:25:39.10\00:25:42.34 HAVE BEEN WATCHING THESE -- IS IT VIRTUAL REALITY -- WHAT ARE 00:25:42.34\00:25:46.88 THEY WATCHING? >> SOME OF THE GAMES LITERALLY 00:25:46.88\00:25:51.91 MORPH PEOPLE INTO ANIMALS. SO YOU HAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL WOMAN 00:25:51.91\00:25:55.58 IN THIS NICE OUTFIT WITH A GORGEOUS BODY, BUT IT WOULD BE A 00:25:55.58\00:26:00.72 LIZARD HEAD OR KIND OF A STAR WARS KIND OF CHARACTER HEAD. 00:26:00.72\00:26:05.33 SO THE CHARACTERS ARE MORPHED. OR YOU HAVE SOME ANIMATED 00:26:05.33\00:26:12.20 CARTOON CHARACTERS THAT ARE VERY SEXUALLIZED IN THE VIDEO, AND 00:26:12.20\00:26:15.94 YOU START TO BE TURNED ON BY THESE THINGS. 00:26:15.94\00:26:18.41 AND WHEN YOU GO INTO RECOVERY, LIKE ANY ADDICT, WE HAVE TO 00:26:18.41\00:26:23.18 RELEARN. GOD SAYS I'LL CHANGE YOUR VERY 00:26:23.18\00:26:26.98 DESIRES. I LITERALLY WILL TAKE WHAT THE 00:26:26.98\00:26:29.52 ENEMY HAS TWISTED. LIKE LOOKING WHO HE CAN DEVOUR 00:26:29.52\00:26:33.62 AND KILL. I'LL TAKE WHAT WAS TWISTED AND 00:26:33.62\00:26:36.46 BRING YOU BACK TO A PLACE WHERE YOU CAN BE IN YOUR OWN SKIN AND 00:26:36.46\00:26:41.26 CONNECT WITH PEOPLE. BUT THAT'S -- I THINK IT'S A 00:26:41.26\00:26:44.03 MIRACLE. AND NOWADAYS IT IS ACTUALLY 00:26:44.03\00:26:47.90 GOING TO BE BIGGER THAN IT EVER WAS. 00:26:47.90\00:26:50.07 AND IF WE ARE GOING TO BE MANY MINISTRY, DON'T -- LET'S NOT 00:26:50.07\00:26:55.34 FORGET THIS DIGITAL WORLD. >> YOU KNOW, WHAT SHELLEY WAS 00:26:55.34\00:26:58.35 TALKING ABOUT, THE YOUNG ONES, THE ONES THAT GET THEIR BRAIN 00:26:58.35\00:27:02.35 MESSED UP AT A REALLY EARLY AGE -- 00:27:02.35\00:27:03.99 >> UH-HUH. >> -- THEY NEVER NEW WHAT NORMAL 00:27:03.99\00:27:08.66 WAS. >> RIGHT. 00:27:08.66\00:27:09.46 >> WE OLDER ONES WOULD KNOW. BUT ABNORMAL IS THEIR NORMAL. 00:27:09.46\00:27:14.03 >> EXACTLY. >> AND SO THEY DON'T KNOW WHAT 00:27:14.03\00:27:18.93 IT IS TO BE NORMAL -- >> IT IS INTERESTING TO WATCH 00:27:18.93\00:27:23.71 SOMEBODY LAUGH ABOUT PORN AND VIOLENCE AND ALL OF THAT STUFF 00:27:23.71\00:27:26.41 AT A LEVEL THAT ALMOST WOULD BE REPULSIVE, BUT IN THEIR WORLD IT 00:27:26.41\00:27:30.98 IS VERY FUNNY AND VERY NORMAL. SO IT IS LIKE WHAT YOU SAID. 00:27:30.98\00:27:36.25 IT IS SO DIFFERENT. BUT EVEN AS ADULTS, IF YOU WALK 00:27:36.25\00:27:42.12 INTO SOMEBODY'S WORLD AND YOU START SEEING THAT STUFF, YOU 00:27:42.12\00:27:45.69 HAVE TO SAY, LORD DO NOT LET ME BE REPULSED, HOW DO I REACH THIS 00:27:45.69\00:27:55.54 PERSON. NOW IN TEENSAFE. 00:27:55.54\00:28:03.38 >> TEEN SAFE.COM. >> TEENSAFE.COM. 00:28:03.38\00:28:10.35 90% OF TEENS ARE ONLINE. SO WORLDWIDE -- I -- I DON'T 00:28:10.35\00:28:18.39 CARE. YOU CAN SEE SOME LITTLE VILLAGE 00:28:18.39\00:28:20.60 IN AFRICA, AND YOU HAVE GOT SOMEBODY ON A SMARTPHONE. 00:28:20.60\00:28:24.37 IT'S RIDICULOUS. SO 90% OF TEENS ARE ONLINE. 00:28:24.37\00:28:31.54 TEENS ARE ONLINE IN AVERAGE OF -- THEY ARE ON LINE AN 00:28:31.54\00:28:36.64 AVERAGE OF FIVE HOURS A DAY. >> UNREAL. 00:28:36.64\00:28:39.18 >> AND SO FIVE HOURS A DAY. AND SO MOST TEENS ARE LIKE -- IF 00:28:39.18\00:28:43.32 THEY HEARD ME SAY THAT, THEY WOULD BE GOING LIKE, WHAT IS 00:28:43.32\00:28:46.92 WRONG WITH THAT? MOST ADULTS WOULD SAY, ARE YOU 00:28:46.92\00:28:50.33 KIDDING ME? MOST PARENTS FEEL AT THE MOST, 00:28:50.33\00:28:53.80 THEIR TEENS ARE ONLINE FOR THREE HOURS A DAY. 00:28:53.80\00:28:57.13 >> EVEN THAT IS A LOT. >> THAT'S A LOT. 00:28:57.13\00:28:59.90 BUT -- BUT, MAN, I HOPE SOMEBODY HEARS ME WITH THIS, IF YOU ARE 00:28:59.90\00:29:05.47 GOING TO START TO GIVE YOUR -- YOUR KIDS, OUR YOUR 00:29:05.47\00:29:10.21 LOVED ONES OR YOUR FRIENDS, A MORE CONNECTED LIFE, THEN NOT 00:29:10.21\00:29:14.18 ONLY DO YOU HAVE TO GET THEM DISCONNECTED FROM ONLINE, BUT 00:29:14.18\00:29:17.65 MAN, YOU HAVE TO TURN THE TV OFF YOURSELF. 00:29:17.65\00:29:20.12 >> YEAH. >> SO THERE ARE THINGS THAT 00:29:20.12\00:29:22.29 WE'RE DOING THAT MODELS TO THEM THEIR ESCAPE, AND THEY HAVE 00:29:22.29\00:29:27.50 ESCAPED INTO A WORLD THAT IS MUCH BIGGER THAN OURS. 00:29:27.50\00:29:30.60 MOST TEENS DON'T WATCH TV. EVERYTHING THEY GET IS ONLINE. 00:29:30.60\00:29:33.87 IF THEY WANT TO SEE A SHOW, IT'S ONLINE. 00:29:33.87\00:29:36.94 I MEAN, EVERYTHING. SO THEY DON'T EVEN HAVE TO 00:29:36.94\00:29:41.41 ENGAGE IN THE SAME WAY WE DO. 70% OF TEENS ARE ON SOME KIND OF 00:29:41.41\00:29:47.35 SOCIAL NETWORK AND CONNECTED, TALKING WITH EVERYBODY, MEETING 00:29:47.35\00:29:50.89 FOLKS, ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 00:29:50.89\00:29:54.96 37% SEND MESSAGES TO FRIEND MULTIPLE TIMES A DAY. 00:29:54.96\00:29:58.49 SO IT'S THAT THEY ARE ONLINE AND TEXTING. 00:29:58.49\00:30:01.06 AND YOU HAVE SEEN PEOPLE JUST IN ACCIDENTS, TEXTING, DRIVING, ALL 00:30:01.06\00:30:04.97 OF THAT KIND OF STUFF, THEY ARE GOING DOWN FREEWAYS AT WHATEVER 00:30:04.97\00:30:08.70 SPEEDS AND SENDING AND RECEIVING TEXTS. 00:30:08.70\00:30:11.07 SO IT'S MORE UNUSUAL THAN NOT TO HAVE SOMEBODY THAT'S NOT 00:30:11.07\00:30:17.45 INVOLVED. MONITORING IS MANDATORY. 00:30:17.45\00:30:20.12 IF YOU HAVE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE THAT YOU LOVE, FIGURE OUT HOW TO 00:30:20.12\00:30:26.22 KEEP EACH OTHER ACCOUNTABLE. AND I'M NOT TALKING JUST TEENS. 00:30:26.22\00:30:29.99 SOMETIMES RELATIONSHIPS AND WITH EACH OTHER, AND, YOU KNOW, ALL 00:30:29.99\00:30:33.40 OF OUR SOCIAL MEDIA AND APPS AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF IS HOW 00:30:33.40\00:30:37.33 DO WE STAY IN EACH OTHER'S LIVES EVEN IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD. 00:30:37.33\00:30:41.07 SOME OF THESE SITES WILL TEACH PARENTS HOW TO DO THAT. 00:30:41.07\00:30:45.37 HOW TO FIND -- EVEN CONTRACTS. HOW DO YOU SIGN A CONTRACT WITH 00:30:45.37\00:30:49.51 YOUR KID SO YOU KNOW WHAT THEY KNOW AS FAR AS WHAT YOU BELIEVE, 00:30:49.51\00:30:53.68 WHAT THE EXPECTATIONS OF THEM ARE, AND WHAT THE CONSEQUENCES 00:30:53.68\00:30:58.42 ARE. IF I FIND -- MOLLIE IF YOU ARE 00:30:58.42\00:31:02.39 MY CHILD AND I FIND YOU ONLINE IN AN APPROPRIATE SITE, AND WE 00:31:02.39\00:31:11.87 HAVE TALKED ABOUT IT, AND WE TALKED ABOUT IF I FIND YOU 00:31:11.87\00:31:19.01 ONLINE, YOU CAN'T HAVE A FIEND FOR HOWEVER LONG OF TIME. 00:31:19.01\00:31:22.94 YOU CAN'T JUST DISCONNECT THEM FROM THE WORLD. 00:31:22.94\00:31:25.38 BECAUSE THIS IS THE WORLD THEY LIVE IN. 00:31:25.38\00:31:27.18 DOES THAT MAKE SENSE? >> SURE. 00:31:27.18\00:31:29.15 >> SO OVER HALF OF THE KIDS ARE ONLINE. 00:31:29.15\00:31:32.15 SO OUT OF THAT 90%, OVER HALF OF THEM ARE BEING BULLIED OR 00:31:32.15\00:31:37.46 BULLYING, SO THAT THE BEHAVIOR IS TO EACH OTHER, AND THE THINGS 00:31:37.46\00:31:42.76 THAT THEY LEARN, AND THEIR -- I THINK THEIR LITTLE HEARTS JUST 00:31:42.76\00:31:46.30 GET ATTACKED SOMETIMES, AND ATTACKED IN SUCH INTENSE WAYS, 00:31:46.30\00:31:49.74 BECAUSE IT'S FUNNY, AND BECAUSE SOMEBODY CAN DO IT, AND THEY CAN 00:31:49.74\00:31:53.58 DO IT ANONYMOUSLY. SO I CAN SAY THINGS THAT I CAN 00:31:53.58\00:31:59.11 HIDE BEHIND THIS SCREEN. >> DID YOU SEE RECENTLY IN THE 00:31:59.11\00:32:03.65 NEWS, A FIREFIGHTER, A WOMAN FIREFIGHTER, COMMITTED SUICIDE 00:32:03.65\00:32:07.66 BECAUSE OF ONLINE BULLYING. NOW THIS IS AN ADULT WOMAN, 00:32:07.66\00:32:12.46 MARRIED, HAPPILY MARRIED, BUT SHE WAS EXPERIENCING BULLYING 00:32:12.46\00:32:17.63 AND SHE COMMITTED SUICIDE. WE'RE SEEING SO MANY KIDS -- I 00:32:17.63\00:32:21.60 MEAN, YOU WOULD THINK AN ADULT WOULD BE MATURE ENOUGH, OR HAVE 00:32:21.60\00:32:27.88 ENOUGH AVENUES THAT THEY COULD FIGURE OUT HOW TO HANDLE ONLINE 00:32:27.88\00:32:32.68 BULLYING. >> UH-HUH. 00:32:32.68\00:32:34.02 >> BUT KIDS DON'T HAVE. >> THEY DON'T. 00:32:34.02\00:32:36.05 >> AND HALF OF THEM ARE BULLYING. 00:32:36.05\00:32:39.75 >> OR BEING BULLIED. >> OVER HALF. 00:32:39.75\00:32:43.19 THEY ARE EITHER BEING BULLIED OR BULLYING. 00:32:43.19\00:32:47.10 AND WHEN YOU LEARN THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, IT'S NOT GOOD FOR YOUR 00:32:47.10\00:32:51.00 SOUL. IT'S JUST NOT GOOD FOR YOU. 00:32:51.00\00:32:53.44 WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT ADULTS, THERE WAS A WOMAN REPORTER THAT 00:32:53.44\00:32:56.67 SOMEBODY SNUCK A -- A VIDEO AND DID KIND OF A LIVE STREAM OR 00:32:56.67\00:33:01.78 VIDEO OF HER IN HER HOTEL ROOM AND POSTED IT. 00:33:01.78\00:33:05.25 AND SHE JUST WON A LAWSUIT IN THE MILLIONS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE 00:33:05.25\00:33:08.25 OF HOW TRAUMATIC IT WAS FOR HER. AND SHE SAID I JUST WALKED 00:33:08.25\00:33:13.09 AROUND FEELING UNSAFE, YOU KNOW? AND SHE IS AN ADULT WOMAN. 00:33:13.09\00:33:16.79 SO WHAT HAPPENS WHEN A LITTLE KID IS IN A SOCIAL NETWORK, 00:33:16.79\00:33:21.00 DOING LIVE STREAMING IN THEIR BEDROOM, AND ALL OF A SUDDEN 00:33:21.00\00:33:25.57 SOMEBODY USES THAT FOOTAGE FOR SOMETHING ELSE. 00:33:25.57\00:33:34.71 SO SEXTING IS -- 20% OF TEENS ARE INVOLVED IN SEXTING. 00:33:34.71\00:33:39.28 >> EXPLAIN WHAT SEXTING IN. >> WHEN SOMEBODY SAYS EVERYBODY 00:33:39.28\00:33:43.12 IS DOING IT. REALLY NOT EVERYBODY IS DOING 00:33:43.12\00:33:46.35 IT. BUT SEXTING IS WHERE WE 00:33:46.35\00:33:48.22 ACTUALLY -- AND I'M LOOKING AT YOU GUYS AND NOT SURE WHAT THE 00:33:48.22\00:33:51.63 ANSWER TO THIS IS GOING TO BE. DO YOU REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME 00:33:51.63\00:33:55.30 YOU SAID LIKE A BAD WORD? >> YEAH. 00:33:55.30\00:33:57.27 >> DO YOU REMEMBER -- >> I WAS IN COLLEGE. 00:33:57.27\00:34:00.17 [ LAUGHTER ] >> OKAY. 00:34:00.17\00:34:01.24 >> I WAS LIKE SIX. >> I WAS IN COLLEGE. 00:34:01.24\00:34:05.17 I REMEMBER IT. >> I DON'T REMEMBER. 00:34:05.17\00:34:07.74 >> UH-HUH. >> HOWEVER, THERE WAS A FIRST 00:34:07.74\00:34:10.81 TIME. >> I REMEMBER BECAUSE I DID IT 00:34:10.81\00:34:12.81 ON PURPOSE JUST TO GET SOMEBODY'S ATTENTION. 00:34:12.81\00:34:15.15 >> AND YOU FELT A LITTLE BIT EMPOWERED, RIGHT? 00:34:15.15\00:34:19.59 AND SO WE -- >> GOSH IT FELT GOOD. 00:34:19.59\00:34:22.39 >> YOU ARE SO FUNNY. I LOVE YOU. 00:34:22.39\00:34:24.63 I JUST LOVE BOTH OF YOU. BUT I WAS VERY YOUNG AND I FELT 00:34:24.63\00:34:29.53 EMPOWERED -- >> I DO REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME 00:34:29.53\00:34:32.17 SOMEBODY CALLED ME LITTLE MISS GOODY TWO SHOES. 00:34:32.17\00:34:38.41 I WAS IN MY LATE 20S, AND I WAS JUST THRILLED. 00:34:38.41\00:34:43.71 BECAUSE I HAD BEEN SO BAD FOR SO LONG, THAT I WAS JUST THRILLED. 00:34:43.71\00:34:48.78 >> THAT IS TOO FUN. BUT WITH SEXTING THERE IS 00:34:48.78\00:34:53.32 SOMETHING ABOUT -- >> EXPLAIN WHAT THAT IS. 00:34:53.32\00:34:55.62 >> SEXTING IS WHEN I CAN GET INTO CHAT ROOMS OR SEND 00:34:55.62\00:34:59.59 SOMETHING THAT IS VERY SEXUALIZED. 00:34:59.59\00:35:02.23 >> A TEXT MESSAGE THAT IS SEXUALIZED? 00:35:02.23\00:35:04.80 THIS >> OR A VIDEO. 00:35:04.80\00:35:07.24 OR A CHAT. >> OKAY. 00:35:07.24\00:35:09.24 >> SO I CAN SEND IMAGES. I CAN GO INTO CHAT ROOMS. 00:35:09.24\00:35:13.31 I CAN -- IT'S REALLY FLIRTY, AND WITH SOME KIDS, IT'S LIKE YOUR 00:35:13.31\00:35:17.81 HEART IS GOING A HUNDRED MILES AN HOUR, AND YOU CAN'T BELIEVE 00:35:17.81\00:35:21.38 YOU ARE GETTING AWAY WITH THIS. AND IT'S JUST A CRAZY THING. 00:35:21.38\00:35:26.19 BUT IT STARTS GETTING -- YOUR ADDICTION ALMOST IS TO THAT 00:35:26.19\00:35:30.19 EXCITEMENT AND THAT -- >> SO SOME YOUNG CHILD -- I MEAN 00:35:30.19\00:35:34.40 I HAVE HEARD THIS FROM THE PARENT OF A 12 YEAR OLD, THAT 00:35:34.40\00:35:39.07 SOME 15-YEAR-OLD BOY ASKED HER TO SEND HIM A PICTURE WITHOUT 00:35:39.07\00:35:45.64 HER BLOUSE ON. >> YEAH. 00:35:45.64\00:35:47.28 >> AND SHE DID. >> RIGHT. 00:35:47.28\00:35:49.14 >> AND THEN HE UPPED THE ANTI. AND THEN HE THREATENED TO TELL 00:35:49.14\00:35:53.52 HER PARENTS. >> UH-HUH. 00:35:53.52\00:35:55.12 >> THE KIDS ON THE BUS -- THOSE FIFTH GRADERS, YOU KNOW, THAT 00:35:55.12\00:36:00.26 ONE KID -- HIS MOM WAS DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, RIGHT? 00:36:00.26\00:36:04.36 DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, AND SHE HAS SINCE PASSED. 00:36:04.36\00:36:08.43 SHE WAS A FRIEND OF MINE. AND DYING OF BRAIN CANCER, AND 00:36:08.43\00:36:12.40 HE ENDS UP GOING ONLINE, AND THE ONLY TIME HE IS NOT FEELING 00:36:12.40\00:36:16.64 AFRAID BECAUSE HIS MOTHER IS DYING, A WHEN HE GET LOST IN 00:36:16.64\00:36:20.68 THIS WORLD. HE STARTS SEXTING, AND SEEING 00:36:20.68\00:36:23.75 STUFF. AND IT WAS THE ONLY TIME HE 00:36:23.75\00:36:25.51 DIDN'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE REALITY OF WHAT WAS HAPPENING IN 00:36:25.51\00:36:28.52 HIS HOME. BUT THEN HE WANTS TO EXPERIMENT 00:36:28.52\00:36:31.12 AND DO VIDEOS HIMSELF AND HAVE PEOPLE SEE HIM NAKED AND ALL OF 00:36:31.12\00:36:36.26 THAT KIND OF STUFF. SO HE STARTS PLAYING AROUND WITH 00:36:36.26\00:36:39.63 SOME PORN STUFF, AND THEN ACTUALLY GETS SEXUALLY VIOLENT 00:36:39.63\00:36:43.67 WITH THE PEOPLE AROUND HIM. SO SEXTING IS -- FOR MOST KIDS, 00:36:43.67\00:36:48.10 I THINK THEY WILL SAY IT'S NO BIG DEAL. 00:36:48.10\00:36:51.11 IT'S NO BIG DEAL. IT'S JUST FUN. 00:36:51.11\00:36:54.04 >> IS THAT KIND OF LIKE MARIJUANA BEING THE GATEWAY DRUG 00:36:54.04\00:36:57.81 TO OTHER STUFF. THAT SEXTING IS JUST KIND OF A 00:36:57.81\00:37:02.88 GATEWAY MEDIA TO -- TO PORNOGRAPHY AND EVERYTHING ELSE? 00:37:02.88\00:37:06.72 >> YEAH. I -- I WISH. 00:37:06.72\00:37:08.36 I THINK THIS IS THE DRUG. I DON'T THINK IT'S A GATEWAY. 00:37:08.36\00:37:11.63 I THINK THAT WHEN YOU GET LOST IN THAT, YOU ARE CHANGING -- YOU 00:37:11.63\00:37:16.33 ARE CHANGING SO MUCH. YOU ARE CHANGING SO MUCH. 00:37:16.33\00:37:19.93 WE WERE NEVER MEANT TO SPEAK TO EACH OTHER THIS WAY. 00:37:19.93\00:37:23.64 WE NEVER MEANT TO -- INDISCRIMINATELY OPEN 00:37:23.64\00:37:32.08 OURSELVES UP SEXUALLY IN THIS WAY. 00:37:32.08\00:37:34.58 SO TO ME, I WISH I COULD SAY I THINK IT'S NO BIG DEAL. 00:37:34.58\00:37:40.29 61% OF THE KIDS ONLINE HAVE SENT NUDE PICTURES AND RECEIVED NUDE 00:37:40.29\00:37:45.19 PICTURES FROM EACH OTHER. 25% OF THE TEEN GIRLS HAD NUDE 00:37:45.19\00:37:49.43 OR SEMINUDE PICTURES SENT TO THEM ACCIDENTALLY. 00:37:49.43\00:37:53.37 SO ALL OF A SUDDEN LIKE WHAT HAPPENED WITH YOU, YOU GET THIS 00:37:53.37\00:37:58.07 PICTURE AND YOU ARE THINKING WHAT DO I DO WITH THAT? 00:37:58.07\00:38:02.78 AND NOW THE IMAGES CHANGE US IN SUCH DEEP WAYS THAT WE DON'T 00:38:02.78\00:38:08.58 REALIZE WE ARE CHANGED BY THIS. WHEN GOD SAYS -- HE REALLY 00:38:08.58\00:38:12.65 GIFTED US WITH OUR SEXUALITY, AND MAN, WE'RE AT A PLACE 00:38:12.65\00:38:17.99 WHERE -- IS ANYBODY DOING IT RIGHT? 00:38:17.99\00:38:20.86 IS ANYBODY PURE? AND -- AND I THINK THAT WE THINK 00:38:20.86\00:38:23.40 WE ARE, BECAUSE WE'RE NOT HAVING SEX WITH EACH OTHER ANYMORE. 00:38:23.40\00:38:28.10 WE'RE JUST ONLINE. WE'RE WITH VIRTUAL REALITY 00:38:28.10\00:38:31.64 GLASSES. WE'RE ON APPS. 00:38:31.64\00:38:34.48 WE'RE EXPERIMENTING IN ALL DIFFERENT WAYS, WELL, UNTIL THE 00:38:34.48\00:38:40.15 FBI COMES AND REMOVES YOUR COMPUTER FROM YOUR HOME. 00:38:40.15\00:38:43.99 BUT IT LITERALLY CHANGES US. >> AND YOU ARE SAYING IT 00:38:43.99\00:38:49.32 DESENSITIZES US, HARDENS US, AND WHAT ARE THE OPPORTUNITIES OR 00:38:49.32\00:38:54.00 POSSIBILITIES THEN FOR GOD, BY THE POWER OF HIS HOLY SPIRIT TO 00:38:54.00\00:38:58.90 PENETRATE ALL OF THAT HARDENING AND DESENSITIZING. 00:38:58.90\00:39:02.20 IT'S -- >> IT'S A MIRACLE. 00:39:02.20\00:39:04.04 >> IT WOULD BE A MIRACLE FOR GOD TO REACH IN AND BE ABLE TO. 00:39:04.04\00:39:08.68 BUT THANK GOD HE IS A MIRACLE-WORKING GOD. 00:39:08.68\00:39:12.88 >> MOLLIE I LOVE WHEN YOU SAY THAT. 00:39:12.88\00:39:16.72 BECAUSE IF WE ARE A CHURCH AT THEN OF THE GREAT CONTROVERSY, 00:39:16.72\00:39:20.72 AND THIS IS THE AVENUE THAT THE DEVIL IS USING. 00:39:20.72\00:39:23.76 ONLINE PERPETRATORS, COULD YOU IMAGINE -- IT'S A PLAYGROUND FOR 00:39:23.76\00:39:27.30 THEM. >> UH-HUH. 00:39:27.30\00:39:28.50 >> IT LITERALLY IS A PLAYGROUND FOR THEM. 00:39:28.50\00:39:30.83 IT IS EASY TO FIND KIDS, SEDUCE KIDS, AND EASY TO GET THEM NOT 00:39:30.83\00:39:36.24 TO SPEAK ABOUT ANYTHING, BECAUSE THEY ARE SENDING PICTURES AND 00:39:36.24\00:39:40.08 THEY HAVE BLACKMAIL STUFF. IT IS JUST RIDICULOUS. 00:39:40.08\00:39:42.81 THE PLAYGROUND IS SO UGLY AND SO DARK. 00:39:42.81\00:39:47.25 82% OF THE PERPETRATORS THAT GET ON TO THESE APPS AND SITES WILL 00:39:47.25\00:39:51.55 LIKE AND JUST PLAY WITH THAT PERSON'S EGO, AND THEIR 00:39:51.55\00:39:56.29 INSECURITIES AND ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF WILL -- COMPLIMENT 00:39:56.29\00:39:59.93 AND THEY JUST KNOW HOW TO GROOM THEM. 00:39:59.93\00:40:01.90 SO YOU HAVE ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. 00:40:01.90\00:40:04.77 YOU HAVE 65% OF THIS GROUP THAT IS ONLINE SEXTING AND BEING OPEN 00:40:04.77\00:40:09.97 TO THESE PERPETRATORS ARE HOME SCHOOLERS. 00:40:09.97\00:40:12.97 >> OH, MY GOODNESS. >> I KNOW. 00:40:12.97\00:40:16.01 >> YOU JUST GOT SOME HONEST REACTION HERE. 00:40:16.01\00:40:18.75 >> I KNOW. WE THINK WE HAVE THESE HOME 00:40:18.75\00:40:23.02 SCHOOL KIDS, AND THEY ARE SO BEAUTIFUL, WHEN I GO TO A SCHOOL 00:40:23.02\00:40:26.96 AND PLEASE FORGIVE ME FOR BEING ANGRY ABOUT THIS, BUT I'LL GO TO 00:40:26.96\00:40:31.59 A SCHOOL OR UNIVERSITY OR COLLEGE, AND THEY WILL TRY 00:40:31.59\00:40:34.03 TO -- IT'S LIKE CHERI PETERS IS COMING? 00:40:34.03\00:40:37.03 CAN SHE NOT TALK ABOUT SEX? I'M THINKING ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 00:40:37.03\00:40:42.64 WE'RE IN A DIGITAL WORLD WHERE THESE KIDS -- ONE TIME I WENT TO 00:40:42.64\00:40:46.17 A SCHOOL -- A UNIVERSITY, GAVE A TALK, THREE TALKS, WAS DONE, WAS 00:40:46.17\00:40:51.58 FLYING OUT THE NEXT DAY, DONE AT 4:30 IN THE AFTERNOON. 00:40:51.58\00:40:56.65 WE GOT DONE PRAYING WITH THESE KIDS AT 2:30, 3:30 IN THE 00:40:56.65\00:41:03.09 MORNING. HAVING THIS CONVERSATION ABOUT 00:41:03.09\00:41:04.89 WHERE THEY ARE LOST AND DOES GOD STILL LOVE ME? 00:41:04.89\00:41:09.63 EVEN TO OPEN UP TO GOD, TO GET DOWN AND PRAY WHEN YOU KNOW THIS 00:41:09.63\00:41:13.84 IS THE WORLD YOU HAVE BEEN INVOLVED IN, THE DEVIL WILL TELL 00:41:13.84\00:41:17.87 YOU, HE DOESN'T WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU, AND THAT IS NOT TRUE. 00:41:17.87\00:41:22.11 AND I JUST WANT TO SHOUT OUT LOUD AS A CHURCH WE HAVE TO 00:41:22.11\00:41:30.09 EDUCATE OURSELVES. BECAUSE WE WON'T BE EFFECTIVE IN 00:41:30.09\00:41:33.49 THIS WORLD IF WE DON'T KNOW -- WE'RE IN THE BATTLEFIELD 00:41:33.49\00:41:37.23 AND WE DON'T HAVE ANY WEAPONS. WE HAVE THE WORD OF GOD AND WE 00:41:37.23\00:41:41.40 HAVE -- YOU KNOW, THE STUDIES THAT WE DO, AND THE HEALTH 00:41:41.40\00:41:45.57 MESSAGE, BUT MAN WE HAVE GOT TO GET TO THEM AND THEIR HEART AND 00:41:45.57\00:41:48.77 THEIR DAMAGE. WE HAVE TO LITERALLY GO INTO 00:41:48.77\00:41:51.84 THIS WORLD AND STANDING AT THE DOOR AND JUST SAY, YOU KNOW, 00:41:51.84\00:41:55.61 THIS IS WHAT I KNOW. AND YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. 00:41:55.61\00:41:58.41 AND YOU WERE CREATED BY GOD. AND YOUR SEXUAL STUFF AND WHO 00:41:58.41\00:42:06.39 YOU ARE AS -- AS A GIRL OR BOYF 00:42:06.39\00:42:12.39 -- BOY, AND THE TALENT THAT YOU HAVE TO REALLY CHANGE THE WORLD, 00:42:12.39\00:42:17.37 NOT ON AN ONLINE GAME BUT ACTUALLY CHANGE THE WORLD, AND 00:42:17.37\00:42:20.54 WE HAVE GOT TO GO AND REACH THEM. 00:42:20.54\00:42:22.77 >> ALL RIGHT. THIS SITE IS TEENSAFE.COM. 00:42:22.77\00:42:27.14 AND YOU CAN GET ON THERE AND LEARN A LOT OF WHAT YOU ARE 00:42:27.14\00:42:30.95 SHARING. >> A LOT. 00:42:30.95\00:42:32.05 >> AND WAYS TO MONITOR. CHERI WE ONLY HAVE ABOUT 14 00:42:32.05\00:42:36.25 MINUTES LEFT. I WOULD LIKE -- IF YOU HAVE GOT 00:42:36.25\00:42:40.32 SOMETHING ELSE, BUT WE NEED TO GET TO WHERE WE TALK ABOUT WHAT 00:42:40.32\00:42:44.73 PARENTS CAN DO. >> ONE THING IS -- YOU CAN GO ON 00:42:44.73\00:42:48.70 ANY OF THESE WEBSITES, SEARCH OUT, EDUCATION YOURSELF. 00:42:48.70\00:42:52.30 IF YOU JUST SAY WHAT ARE THE APPS? 00:42:52.30\00:42:54.80 PLUSES AND MINUSES? HOW DO I -- THE HIDDEN APP, HOW 00:42:54.80\00:43:00.61 DO ALL OF THAT KIND OF STUFF. IT'S EVERYWHERE. 00:43:00.61\00:43:04.11 TO ME, I FOUND A LOT OF SITES, BUT SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST -- THEY 00:43:04.11\00:43:08.82 ARE NOT CHRISTIAN SITES, AND THEY ARE PEOPLE TRYING TO KIND 00:43:08.82\00:43:12.39 OF SAVE EACH OTHER, AND THEY ARE BRILLIANT. 00:43:12.39\00:43:15.06 THEY ARE JUST BRILLIANT. BUT I KNOW THAT MY FAVORITE HAS 00:43:15.06\00:43:18.13 A BIT OF LANGUAGE IN IT, SO YOU HAVE GOT TO FIND YOUR OWN SITES. 00:43:18.13\00:43:24.10 SO DO YOUR OWN RESEARCH. IF YOU CARE ABOUT THIS, RESEARCH 00:43:24.10\00:43:28.70 IT. IF YOU ARE GOING INTO MINISTRY, 00:43:28.70\00:43:31.24 ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE YOUNG, IF YOU ARE IN THIS DIGITAL WORLD, 00:43:31.24\00:43:35.58 MAN, GET INTO MINISTRY AND LET THIS BE YOUR PASSION. 00:43:35.58\00:43:38.78 MY PASSION IS PEOPLE IN RECOVERY. 00:43:38.78\00:43:41.35 PEOPLE THAT ARE -- ARE LITERALLY TRYING TO CHANGE THEIR LIFE. 00:43:41.35\00:43:46.19 WE HAVE A PASSION TO TAKE THE UNDERLYING DILUTED TRUTH TO A 00:43:46.19\00:43:51.96 WORLD THAT IS LOST. THAT'S AMAZING. 00:43:51.96\00:43:53.96 BUT I WANT TO SAY, WAKE UP AND LET YOUR PASSION BE RESCUING 00:43:53.96\00:43:59.43 PEOPLE FROM THIS DIGITAL WORLD. AND LET THEM KNOW THAT GOD CAN 00:43:59.43\00:44:04.74 REWIRE YOUR BRAIN. GOD CAN SHOW US HOW TO STEP OUT 00:44:04.74\00:44:07.88 OF ONE WORLD AND BACK INTO OUR OWN SKIN. 00:44:07.88\00:44:10.38 SO FOR PEOPLE IN MINISTRY THAT IS ABSOLUTELY AMAZING. 00:44:10.38\00:44:15.68 TEENSAFE.COM IS VERY SAFE. THERE ARE CONTRACTS THAT PARENTS 00:44:15.68\00:44:18.29 CAN HAVE. DIALOGUES. 00:44:18.29\00:44:19.95 THEY HAVE LITTLE VIDEO CLIPS THAT WILL SHOW YOU DIALOGUES 00:44:19.95\00:44:23.63 THAT YOU CAN HAVE WITH YOUR KIDS, SO THAT YOU ARE 00:44:23.63\00:44:27.13 NOT -- DON'T APPROACH THEM IN YOUR IGNORANCE, BECAUSE -- 00:44:27.13\00:44:30.83 >> YEAH, IN YOUR IGNORANCE, YOU JUST WANT TO RUN IN THERE AND 00:44:30.83\00:44:35.44 YANK THEIR PHONE AWAY. >> ABSOLUTELY. 00:44:35.44\00:44:37.77 >> YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO ONLINE AGAIN. 00:44:37.77\00:44:40.01 >> SO PARENTS -- IF I WERE A PARENT -- I'M SITTING HERE 00:44:40.01\00:44:43.28 THINKING WHAT I WOULD BE DOING IS PERHAPS HAVE THIS TALK WITH 00:44:43.28\00:44:47.18 YOUR CHILD, HAVE THAT CONTRACT, HAVE THE INTERNET -- THE 00:44:47.18\00:44:52.82 COMPUTER BE IN A MULTI-PURPOSE ROOM, NOT IN THEIR BEDROOM. 00:44:52.82\00:44:59.49 >> UH-HUH. >> I WOULD NOT LET MY CHILD BE 00:44:59.49\00:45:03.73 ALONE IN HER ROOM WITH THEIR SMARTPHONE. 00:45:03.73\00:45:06.87 I WOULD PLUG IT IN AND LET IT BE CHARGING UP ALL NIGHT. 00:45:06.87\00:45:11.04 >> BUT IT'S MORE THAN JUST BEING DILIGENT. 00:45:11.04\00:45:14.21 YOU HAVE TO BE PROACTIVE. YOU HAVE TO MAKE SURE -- YOU 00:45:14.21\00:45:19.08 SAID SOMETHING ABOUT SATAN, WHAT HE IS DOING HERE. 00:45:19.08\00:45:22.62 I'LL GO A STEP FURTHER AND SAY THAT SATAN LOVES FACEBOOK. 00:45:22.62\00:45:30.43 BECAUSE IF HE CAN GET SOMEBODY ADDICTED TO FACEBOOK OR THEY ARE 00:45:30.43\00:45:34.00 SPENDING -- THAT'S A COUPLE OF HOURS THAT YOU ARE NOT SPENDING 00:45:34.00\00:45:38.30 STUDYING THE BIBLE. THIS IS WHY -- 00:45:38.30\00:45:40.77 >> OR BREATHING. WALKING OUTSIDE. 00:45:40.77\00:45:42.87 >> YEAH, IT'S JUST SO -- SO -- BUT AS PARENT, IN 00:45:42.87\00:45:48.91 PARTICULAR, I NEED TO BE ABLE TO DO FUN ACTIVITIES WITH MY 00:45:48.91\00:45:54.42 FAMILY. SHOW THEM THAT I'M NOT USING THE 00:45:54.42\00:45:57.59 TELEVISION AS A SEDATIVE. THAT I'M DOING SOMETHING 00:45:57.59\00:46:01.16 APPROPRIATE. >> RIGHT. 00:46:01.16\00:46:02.42 >> AND INVOLVE MY CHILDREN SO THAT THEY WOULD -- 00:46:02.42\00:46:05.29 >> AND WE ARE RUNNING SO FAST, I BELIEVE, AS ADULTS, IS 00:46:05.29\00:46:09.40 THAT -- AND MAN, I JUST WANT TO APOLOGIZE FOR MY OWN CHILD 00:46:09.40\00:46:13.00 THROUGH THE YEARS, BUT WE'RE RUNNING SO FAST THAT WE REALLY 00:46:13.00\00:46:16.64 DON'T HAVE TIME TO JUST HANG OUT. 00:46:16.64\00:46:18.24 SO WE'RE SAYING WE DON'T HAVE TIME. 00:46:18.24\00:46:20.48 I HAVE GOT TO MAKE DINNER, CLEAN THE HOUSE, DO THIS. 00:46:20.48\00:46:23.98 I JUST GOT OFF OF WORK. I'M EXHAUSTED. 00:46:23.98\00:46:27.55 AND SO YOU HAVE THESE KIDS THAT ARE RIGHT NOW DEVELOPING IN 00:46:27.55\00:46:31.22 EVERY SINGLE WAY, AND WE'RE SAYING WE DON'T HAVE TIME. 00:46:31.22\00:46:34.69 SOMEBODY HAS TIME FOR THEM IF YOU DON'T. 00:46:34.69\00:46:36.52 SO I THINK ON THIS SITE -- A LOT OF THE SITES THEY WILL TELL YOU, 00:46:36.52\00:46:41.30 SMARTPHONE MONITORS, HOW TO PLACE THOSE ON THE PHONE. 00:46:41.30\00:46:45.47 KIDS WILL ALWAYS KIND A WAY TO GET AROUND THAT. 00:46:45.47\00:46:48.40 THERE ARE THOSE HIDDEN APPS AND ALL OF THAT STUFF, SO THE BEST 00:46:48.40\00:46:52.31 YOU CAN DO -- SOMEBODY ELSE IS TEACHING YOUR KIDS HOW TO GET 00:46:52.31\00:46:55.94 AROUND IT. RIGHT? 00:46:55.94\00:46:57.18 SO IF THAT'S TRUE, WHAT DO YOU THINK I NEED TO DO IN ORDER 00:46:57.18\00:47:00.48 TO -- TO KIND OF EQUIP THEM NOT TO GET INVOLVED IN THIS AT ALL 00:47:00.48\00:47:06.05 AT THAT LEVEL. >> TALK. 00:47:06.05\00:47:07.39 >> TALK IS ONE. >> PRAY. 00:47:07.39\00:47:09.52 >> OR GIVE THEM SOME REALLY GOOD INFORMATION. 00:47:09.52\00:47:12.76 YOU KNOW, LIKE EVEN THIS -- I JUST WANT TO SHOW YOU THIS. 00:47:12.76\00:47:15.06 I HOPE YOU CAN SEE THIS ON THE MONITOR, BUT IT TALKS ABOUT THE 00:47:15.06\00:47:19.63 BRAIN AND THE DAMAGE. MOST SITES THAT YOU GO TO WILL 00:47:19.63\00:47:22.87 SHOW YOU WHAT THE STATS ARE, WHAT THE STUDIES ARE. 00:47:22.87\00:47:26.27 IF YOU CALL OUR MINISTRY TRUESTEP.ORG, AND YOU WANT TO 00:47:26.27\00:47:31.01 GET STUDIES, I HAVE GREAT STUDIES ON WHAT HAPPENS TO THE 00:47:31.01\00:47:34.98 BRAIN. BUT WHEN YOU START -- WHEN YOU 00:47:34.98\00:47:37.82 START SHOWING SOMEONE SOME -- THIS IS HARD CORE STUFF. 00:47:37.82\00:47:43.12 THIS IS THE CHANGES THAT ARE HAPPENING TO YOU. 00:47:43.12\00:47:46.16 THIS IS WHY IT'S IMPORTANT. AND YOU EDUCATE THEM. 00:47:46.16\00:47:49.40 YOU WANT TO GET THESE BEAUTIFUL YOUNG ADULTS THAT WE HAVE THE 00:47:49.40\00:47:52.83 PRIVILEGE OF RAISING. YOU WANT TO GET THEM TO ACTUALLY 00:47:52.83\00:47:57.17 MONITOR THEMSELVES. RIGHT? 00:47:57.17\00:47:58.57 CHOOSE THEMSELVES. BECAUSE THERE IS A LOT OF GREAT 00:47:58.57\00:48:01.31 STUFF DIGITALLY. IF WE ARE GIVING THEM A HEALTHY 00:48:01.31\00:48:04.25 ENVIRONMENT IN THE HOME. SPENDING TIME WITH THEM. 00:48:04.25\00:48:06.98 EDUCATING THEM. WE'RE LITERALLY TALKING ABOUT 00:48:06.98\00:48:09.12 THE DAMAGES, A LOT OF TIMES FOR A LOT OF KIDS THAT'S GOING TO BE 00:48:09.12\00:48:13.56 ENOUGH. SOME KIDS STILL NOT ENOUGH. 00:48:13.56\00:48:15.26 THERE WAS ONE GUY THAT WENT OUT AND SAID TO A PARENT, HAVE YOU 00:48:15.26\00:48:19.93 EDUCATED YOUR KIDS? AND THAT PARENT SAID YES. 00:48:19.93\00:48:24.97 I BET I CAN GET THEM TO MEET ME AT NIGHT AFTER YOU GO TO BED. 00:48:24.97\00:48:29.80 AND SO THEY GROOMED THEM. GOT THEM ONLINE WITH THE 00:48:29.80\00:48:34.18 PARENT'S CONSENT. AND THE KID 12 YEARS OLD SNUCK 00:48:34.18\00:48:37.28 OUT OF THE HOUSE AND GOT INTO A VAN WITH A TOTAL STRANGER. 00:48:37.28\00:48:42.32 SO SOME KIDS EVEN WHEN YOU EDUCATE -- THE PARENTS SAID NO 00:48:42.32\00:48:46.49 WAY, WE TALKED ABOUT ALL OF THIS STUFF. 00:48:46.49\00:48:49.09 SO SOME KIDS ARE JUST MAKING POOR CHOICES, BUT THE BEST WE 00:48:49.09\00:48:53.13 CAN DO OUTSIDE OF EDUCATING OURSELVES, AND GETTING THOSE 00:48:53.13\00:48:56.53 CONTRACTS, AND MONITORING SOME OF THIS STUFF, IS MAN, HAVE A 00:48:56.53\00:49:00.30 RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR KIDS, AND TEACH THEM -- TEACH THEM WHAT 00:49:00.30\00:49:05.54 THE DANGERS ARE. I HAVE TALKED TO INCREDIBLE 00:49:05.54\00:49:08.44 PARENTS THAT SAY -- I SAID HAVE YOU EVER TALKED WITH YOUR KIDS 00:49:08.44\00:49:12.05 EVEN ABOUT SEX AND THAT KIND OF STUFF? 00:49:12.05\00:49:14.08 AND THEY LOOK AT ME SHOCKED. WE DON'T TALK TO EACH OTHER 00:49:14.08\00:49:18.22 ABOUT SEX. ARE YOU KIDDING ME? 00:49:18.22\00:49:20.22 WE'RE AT THE END OF THE GREAT CONTROVERSY. 00:49:20.22\00:49:23.43 WE HAVE TO STOP BEING AFRAID TO TALK ABOUT THESE THINGS THAT ARE 00:49:23.43\00:49:27.23 BEING TALKED ABOUT FREELY BY SEVEN YEAR OLDS, EIGHT YEAR 00:49:27.23\00:49:31.63 OLDS, AND WE'RE TRYING TO PROTECT THEM AS IF BEING SILENT 00:49:31.63\00:49:36.60 IS PROTECTION. >> TO THAT END, LET ME SAY 00:49:36.60\00:49:40.21 SOMETHING THAT I ADMIRE THE WAY MY MOTHER HANDLED THIS BECAUSE 00:49:40.21\00:49:44.81 SHE ALWAYS TOLD ME ANYTHING YOU WANT TO KNOW ABOUT SEX, COME ASK 00:49:44.81\00:49:49.08 ME, AND ANYTHING YOU HEAR, COME TELL ME, AND I'LL TELL YOU 00:49:49.08\00:49:52.39 WHETHER IT'S TRUE OR NOT. >> YEAH. 00:49:52.39\00:49:55.52 >> AND SHE HELD TO HER WORD. I WOULD HEAR SOMETHING AT 00:49:55.52\00:50:01.20 SCHOOL, AND I WOULD COME TELL HER. 00:50:01.20\00:50:03.40 AND SHE MADE ME KNOW THAT SEX WAS -- I MEAN, SHE TRAINED ME 00:50:03.40\00:50:08.77 THAT SEX WAS SOMETHING THAT GOD GAVE US AS A GIFT TO BE SHARED. 00:50:08.77\00:50:14.04 BUT I UNDERSTOOD IT WASN'T LIKE -- KIDS CAN TELL YOU A LOT 00:50:14.04\00:50:17.35 OF THINGS. AND YOU HAVE GOT CURIOSITY, YOU 00:50:17.35\00:50:21.02 KNOW. SO THEY PLANT THESE THINGS IN 00:50:21.02\00:50:22.88 YOUR MIND. SHE SATISFIED MY CURIOSITY. 00:50:22.88\00:50:26.65 SO HAVING THOSE TALKS, OPEN TALKS, I BELIEVE IT'S A VERY 00:50:26.65\00:50:32.96 GODLY THING TO DO. SO KIDS WILL UNDERSTAND. 00:50:32.96\00:50:35.83 I CAN RECALL WHEN WE WERE IN HOUSTON AT OUR CHURCH, THAT WE 00:50:35.83\00:50:39.97 WERE DOING -- I CAN'T REMEMBER THE NAME OF THE PROGRAM RIGHT 00:50:39.97\00:50:43.61 NOW, BUT IT WAS ABOUT PRESERVING YOURSELF UNTIL YOU ARE MARRIED. 00:50:43.61\00:50:49.31 >> YEAH. ABSTINENCE. 00:50:49.31\00:50:51.71 >> ABSTINENCE, THANK YOU. AND THERE WAS A LITTLE 00:50:51.71\00:50:57.25 12-YEAR-OLD GIRL THAT SHE WAS JUST BOO-HOOING, BECAUSE SHE HAS 00:50:57.25\00:51:06.03 ALREADY -- AND I'M GOING 12 YEARS OLD? 00:51:06.03\00:51:09.40 THE SHOCK OF IT ALL. BUT SHE HAD TO LEARN THAT SHE 00:51:09.40\00:51:12.17 COULD BE RESTORED. >> I WOULD LIKE TO JUMP IN AND 00:51:12.17\00:51:15.74 SAY THAT MOST KIDS WHEN I TRIED TO TEACH JACKIE AND SAT WITH 00:51:15.74\00:51:20.51 HER. SHE SAID NOBODY CARES ABOUT THIS 00:51:20.51\00:51:22.54 ANYMORE, MOM. AND I STARTED TO RESEARCH THAT, 00:51:22.54\00:51:25.08 AND SHE IS RIGHT. >> WHAT DO YOU MEAN -- 00:51:25.08\00:51:28.35 >> NOBODY CARES ABOUT WHETHER YOU ARE A VIRGIN OR WHETHER YOU 00:51:28.35\00:51:33.19 ARE PURE, AND SHE WAS RIGHT. SO WHAT I HAD TO TELL HER WAS 00:51:33.19\00:51:38.53 GOD CARES. >> THAT'S RIGHT. 00:51:38.53\00:51:40.16 >> WE HAVE TO BE SMART. WE CAN'T SAY STUPID THINGS, 00:51:40.16\00:51:44.80 THINGS LIKE WHEN PEOPLE TRIED TO SCARE YOU ABOUT POT, THEY SAID 00:51:44.80\00:51:47.47 YOU ARE GOING TO GO BLIND OR YOU ARE GOING TO LEAD TO HEROIN, AND 00:51:47.47\00:51:52.74 PEOPLE WOULD SMOKE POT AND SAY I'M NOT BLIND OR CRAZY OR 00:51:52.74\00:51:57.21 SHOOTING UP HEROIN. SO WE HAVE TO REALLY EDUCATE 00:51:57.21\00:52:02.85 YOURSELF AND NOT SAY CRAZY THINGS. 00:52:02.85\00:52:05.15 MOST PEOPLE ARE SEXUALLY EXPERIMENTING VERY YOUNG IN AND 00:52:05.15\00:52:09.12 OUT OF THE CHURCH, SO IF WE ARE GOING TO SAY WHAT DOES GOD SAY? 00:52:09.12\00:52:14.46 AND WHY DOES HE SAY IT? WHY ARE RELATIONSHIPS FALLING 00:52:14.46\00:52:19.50 APART ALL AROUND US? IT IS BECAUSE WE'RE NOT DOING IT 00:52:19.50\00:52:22.44 THE WAY GOD SAYS IT. GOD SAYS YOU ARE PRECIOUS TO ME. 00:52:22.44\00:52:26.47 MAN, EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU IS INCREDIBLE TO ME, AND THAT'S 00:52:26.47\00:52:29.01 WHAT WE HAVE GOT TO START TEACHING EVERYBODY TO NOT BE 00:52:29.01\00:52:33.25 SEDUCED ON THE DARK SIDE, BECAUSE THE LIGHT IS SO 00:52:33.25\00:52:37.82 ATTRACTIVE. JESUS HAS RAISED ME UP AND I 00:52:37.82\00:52:40.19 WILL DRAW ALL MEN. >> I KNOW YOUR TESTIMONY, AND I 00:52:40.19\00:52:43.73 KNOW WHERE THE LORD BROUGHT YOU FROM, AND THE ONLY THING THAT 00:52:43.73\00:52:47.66 COULD HAVE DELIVERED YOU OUT OF WHERE YOU WERE IS THE POWER OF 00:52:47.66\00:52:52.27 GOD. >> AMEN. 00:52:52.27\00:52:53.50 >> AND WE HAVE TO RELY ON -- ON GOD TO GIVE US STRENGTH, 00:52:53.50\00:52:59.31 UNDERSTANDING, INCITE, AND JUST PURE WISDOM ON HOW TO MINISTER 00:52:59.31\00:53:04.91 TO OUR CHILDREN AND HOW TO PROTECT OUR CHILDREN. 00:53:04.91\00:53:07.88 >> AND OURSELVES. >> AND OURSELVES. 00:53:07.88\00:53:10.09 >> AND WE HAVE GOT TO BE -- WHICH CHERI HAS DONE A 00:53:10.09\00:53:14.69 BEAUTIFUL JOB, AT LEAST WAVING THE RED FLAG SAYING PARENTS WE 00:53:14.69\00:53:21.10 HAVE A PROBLEM. WE HAVE TO BE ARMED WITH 00:53:21.10\00:53:23.90 INFORMATION. AND SEASON SOMETHING YOU SAID 00:53:23.90\00:53:25.97 CHERI THAT PEOPLE COULD CONTACT YOUR MINISTRY, AND YOU HAVE SOME 00:53:25.97\00:53:31.81 INFORMATION THAT YOU COULD SHARE -- 00:53:31.81\00:53:33.07 >> UH-HUH. >> THAT WOULD JUST ARM THEM WITH 00:53:33.07\00:53:38.31 SOME DEFENSIVE THINGS THAT THEY CAN DO TO PROTECT THEIR 00:53:38.31\00:53:42.22 CHILDREN. >> I'LL EVEN PUT SOME OF THESE 00:53:42.22\00:53:44.19 MONITORING THINGS RIGHT ON OUR WEBSITE. 00:53:44.19\00:53:45.99 IF YOU CONTACT US, WE WILL HAVE SOME OF THIS STUFF AVAILABLE FOR 00:53:45.99\00:53:52.09 YOU. >> WE HAVE YOUR ADDRESS ROLL 00:53:52.09\00:53:53.93 READY. IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO GET IN 00:53:53.93\00:53:55.63 TOUCH WITH CHERI, OR IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO HAVE HER TALK AT 00:53:55.63\00:53:59.20 YOUR UNIVERSITY OR SCHOOL -- >> MEANT TRY SCHOOL. 00:53:59.20\00:54:02.80 >> ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. >> OR YOUR CHURCH. 00:54:02.80\00:54:05.04 >> OR YOUR CHURCH. HERE IS HOW YOU CAN GET IN 00:54:05.04\00:54:06.91 TOUCH. ¤ 00:54:06.91\00:54:57.66 >> IN SOME WAYS, SOME OF THE THINGS WE HAVE DISCUSSED TONIGHT 00:54:57.66\00:55:01.70 HAVE BEEN VERY ALARMING TO ME, AND I'M SURE TO YOU. 00:55:01.70\00:55:06.80 BUT WE CANNOT PUT OUR HEAD IN THE SAND. 00:55:06.80\00:55:09.44 WE -- WE HAVE GOT TO BE ALERT. BE SOBER. 00:55:09.44\00:55:13.81 YOUR ENEMY THE DEVIL IS PROWLING AROUND LIKE A LION. 00:55:13.81\00:55:18.68 >> AND ONE OF THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING IS MAKE SURE 00:55:18.68\00:55:23.35 THAT YOU ANALYZE WITH YOUR KIDS, AND WALK ALONGSIDE OF THEM, 00:55:23.35\00:55:28.52 DON'T CRITICIZE. SO IN YOUR ALARM, YOU CAN'T JUST 00:55:28.52\00:55:31.99 RUN IN THE HOUSE AND SAY ALL MEDIA IS GONE, OR WHAT ARE YOU 00:55:31.99\00:55:36.73 DOING? OR I KNOW YOU ARE LYING, OR 00:55:36.73\00:55:40.84 WHATEVER. IT'S LIKE WE HAVE THE PRIVILEGE 00:55:40.84\00:55:43.24 OF WALKING IN, AND LET THEM EDUCATE YOU ON SOME OF THEIR 00:55:43.24\00:55:47.71 STUFF. BUT IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT NOT TO 00:55:47.71\00:55:50.41 CRITICIZE, NOT TO WALK IN AND JUST PUSH THEM FURTHER INTO THE 00:55:50.41\00:55:54.72 WORLD. >> AMEN. 00:55:54.72\00:55:56.22 SO ONE OF THE RESOURCES THAT CHERI HAS BEEN TELLING US ABOUT 00:55:56.22\00:56:00.62 TONIGHT AND IT'S MARVELOUS RESOURCE IS A WEBSITE CALLED 00:56:00.62\00:56:07.86 TEENSAFE.COM. T-E-E-N-S-A-F-E. 00:56:07.86\00:56:18.11 WELL, CHERI AS ALWAYS TIME FLIES WHEN YOU ARE HERE. 00:56:18.11\00:56:20.94 AND IT IS ALWAYS INTERESTING. IT'S ALWAYS CHALLENGING. 00:56:20.94\00:56:23.81 >> CRAZY. >> WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH. 00:56:23.81\00:56:26.05 >> I LOVE YOU. >> YEAH, YOU ATTACK SUBJECTS 00:56:26.05\00:56:28.75 THAT THE REST OF US DON'T HAVE THE -- WE'RE NOT EQUIPPED TO 00:56:28.75\00:56:33.56 ATTACK, AND YOU DO A FANTASTIC JOB. 00:56:33.56\00:56:36.73 CHERI. THANK YOU. 00:56:36.73\00:56:37.43 >> THANK YOU. >> AMEN. 00:56:37.43\00:56:39.46 AND WE'RE SO EXCITED ABOUT YOUR NEW ALLIE, WHO IS NOT QUITE 00:56:39.46\00:56:46.33 THREE WEEKS OLD, IS THAT CORRECT? 00:56:46.33\00:56:47.80 >> AMAZING. IT'S HARD FOR ME TO TRAVEL NOW, 00:56:47.80\00:56:51.31 BECAUSE I WANT TO BE HOME HOLDING HER. 00:56:51.31\00:56:53.44 >> AMEN. CHERI THANK YOU. 00:56:53.44\00:56:56.28 MOLLIE IT IS ALWAYS FUN BEING WITH YOU. 00:56:56.28\00:56:58.48 OUR PRAYER FOR YOU AT HOME, YOUR GRACE AND SAVIOR, THE LOVE OF 00:56:58.48\00:57:02.62 THE FATHER AND THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE HOLY SPIRIT WILL BE 00:57:02.62\00:57:07.86 WITH YOU ALWAYS. THANKS FOR JOINING US. 00:57:07.86\00:57:09.56 ¤ 00:57:09.56\00:57:13.73