[MUSIC] 00:00:00.26\00:00:04.90 [MUSIC] 00:00:04.90\00:00:10.81 >> Welcome back. I'm Sheli Quinlan, JD quell and we are so 00:00:10.81\00:00:14.64 glad if you missed the first, are you missing a family man? 00:00:14.64\00:00:17.95 But we are about to get into a very interesting topic. It is 00:00:17.95\00:00:25.89 balance finding God's path in a world of extremes. And our 00:00:25.89\00:00:32.46 special guest tonight is John Bradshaw. President of it is 00:00:32.46\00:00:37.77 scripted. 00:00:37.77\00:00:39.10 John, we always enjoy having you here was enjoyed being. 00:00:39.10\00:00:42.34 It's great fun. Great fun to see you. And we talked about 00:00:42.34\00:00:45.04 great stuff. So 00:00:45.04\00:00:46.51 this is good. Yes, thanks for having me. Yes. 00:00:46.51\00:00:49.38 >> And this is a topic that only extremes that I think that 00:00:49.38\00:00:52.88 most of us, Kim, 00:00:52.88\00:00:54.45 you can feel that something is going on. 00:00:54.45\00:00:56.75 >> I mean, times are changing. The world is becoming more 00:00:56.75\00:00:59.95 extreme and you show used to it polarizing. We we're being 00:00:59.95\00:01:06.06 pushed to the extremes. The media is pushing us to run. 00:01:06.06\00:01:09.80 I think there are some pretty benign but but meaningful 00:01:09.80\00:01:15.24 reasons for that. We'll talk about some of that. Why things 00:01:15.24\00:01:17.74 are getting so extreme. 00:01:17.74\00:01:20.88 We're getting to the place now, 6,000 years after creation that 00:01:20.88\00:01:24.21 people are saying 00:01:24.21\00:01:25.88 I'll do whatever I want, then they'd that conformity is no 00:01:25.88\00:01:31.35 longer in the lexicon. And, you know, you do you and you do 00:01:31.35\00:01:36.09 your truth and speak your truth. 00:01:36.09\00:01:39.69 People rushing to the extremes for varying reasons. 00:01:39.69\00:01:44.33 And we see that in the church is will politically socially 00:01:44.33\00:01:47.34 within the church. Theologically, it's way too 00:01:47.34\00:01:50.87 easy for people to become extreme in some areas with a 00:01:50.87\00:01:53.44 really low to moderate just a little bit and find not what I 00:01:53.44\00:01:56.95 would cold the middle ground but find Christ ground. That's 00:01:56.95\00:02:01.35 what we want to find. 00:02:01.35\00:02:02.48 >> And then and then so when we look at this polarization, 00:02:02.48\00:02:07.86 as you said earlier, 00:02:07.86\00:02:10.49 it is getting to the point that it's very difficult if you have 00:02:10.49\00:02:16.40 an opinion that is different than someone else's. It's very 00:02:16.40\00:02:20.14 difficult to have the civil 00:02:20.14\00:02:22.47 conversation even in the church I found I don't talk politics. 00:02:22.47\00:02:27.58 I'm a citizen of the kingdom. Haha and I just I don't talk 00:02:27.58\00:02:32.61 politics because if you express innocent late 00:02:32.61\00:02:37.22 and amazement at something that you've seen on television, 00:02:37.22\00:02:40.26 people can get 00:02:40.26\00:02:41.86 really bent out of shape. Very hostile. Yeah, very much 00:02:41.86\00:02:45.99 so. I need I don't understand when you see what people are 00:02:45.99\00:02:49.36 putting on their Facebook page and Christians who are posting 00:02:49.36\00:02:54.20 things, that 00:02:54.20\00:02:56.30 they're just tearing other people apart because of their 00:02:56.30\00:02:59.67 opinions. What do you think is stirring all of this extreme is 00:02:59.67\00:03:06.38 some. There are a couple of things. 00:03:06.38\00:03:08.85 One thing I think is happening, I believe I know it's 00:03:08.85\00:03:11.62 happening. 00:03:11.62\00:03:13.12 >> Is it slowly? But surely the spirit of God is being 00:03:13.12\00:03:14.69 withdrawn from the lovely, but surely. So there's that 00:03:14.69\00:03:18.83 at the same time when I sit some of the reasons about the 00:03:18.83\00:03:21.26 media, a fairly benign, he is what I mean. 00:03:21.26\00:03:24.77 We have a 24 hour news cycle now. How much news is they 00:03:24.77\00:03:28.90 really? You can get most of it out and about 38 to 40 minutes 00:03:28.90\00:03:34.21 after that. 00:03:34.21\00:03:35.38 You just got to keep going back and keep going back and keep 00:03:35.38\00:03:38.41 going back. And so to the news channels, too. 00:03:38.41\00:03:41.15 They tell you the news 00:03:41.15\00:03:43.75 and then they coming to on the news 00:03:43.75\00:03:46.05 and then they come in on the commentators. 00:03:46.05\00:03:49.16 And because what news channels have done is that they're not 00:03:49.16\00:03:52.99 interested in telling you all of the news. They want to tell 00:03:52.99\00:03:55.73 you they version of the news. 00:03:55.73\00:03:57.70 So what they've done is they've carved out a ground and they 00:03:57.70\00:04:00.40 become financially beholden to that ground. 00:04:00.40\00:04:04.17 According to news channel you want and I'm sitting up going 00:04:04.17\00:04:06.07 into the politics of it. 00:04:06.07\00:04:07.58 But they've staked out a certain amount of ground and 00:04:07.58\00:04:10.58 they know that they can get. Some of the view is 00:04:10.58\00:04:14.58 CNN is never going to get 80% of the viewing audience. 00:04:14.58\00:04:17.99 FOX News is never going to get 75% of the audience. They don't 00:04:17.99\00:04:21.32 need it. 00:04:21.32\00:04:22.42 They just need that slice of the viewing audience. They'd 00:04:22.42\00:04:25.53 like to grow it. But they know that they're never going to 00:04:25.53\00:04:27.86 have true dominance that need it, though. If they just get 00:04:27.86\00:04:30.63 these views, 00:04:30.63\00:04:32.00 then they know that they're going to be economically 00:04:32.00\00:04:35.34 profitable, financially profitable. So they tell you 00:04:35.34\00:04:39.31 what a certain demographic wants to know, 00:04:39.31\00:04:42.98 happens to be what they want to tell. So you end up in an echo 00:04:42.98\00:04:46.38 chamber where 00:04:46.38\00:04:48.58 me if you're watching Bradshaw News, I'm telling you what I 00:04:48.58\00:04:52.39 think OSHA telling you that everybody else is not only 00:04:52.39\00:04:55.32 wrong but that dangerous. They want to end democracy. 00:04:55.32\00:04:59.29 It's really interesting how one side says Donald Trump is going 00:04:59.29\00:05:02.03 to end a democracy. And the other side says Joe Biden is 00:05:02.03\00:05:05.70 going into democracy. And right now there are people listening 00:05:05.70\00:05:08.40 to be going the both say he's right about Biden or Trump, 00:05:08.40\00:05:12.27 you know, because it's what a funny old thing. 00:05:12.27\00:05:15.18 But I do icon just share the news. Now. I've got to go to 00:05:15.18\00:05:18.45 the extreme and say the people who tell you something 00:05:18.45\00:05:20.98 different to me, they're going to cause the ruination of the 00:05:20.98\00:05:23.72 world. That may be true in some cases. So now has a view little 00:05:23.72\00:05:28.46 one day. All from that. Keep us in on what it what it is. 00:05:28.46\00:05:31.96 Your thanks so much. So, Matt, 00:05:31.96\00:05:34.36 as I read that later, I realized what was feeling that 00:05:34.36\00:05:37.10 individual, this cable news, 00:05:37.10\00:05:39.93 he was just mentioning all the points that he was just so you 00:05:39.93\00:05:42.80 sit at home and watch cable news all day long. 00:05:42.80\00:05:47.51 You're going to get you going to be coming stream. I don't 00:05:47.51\00:05:50.28 mean annex dream missed. I mean, you're going to you're 00:05:50.28\00:05:53.78 going to be pushed just to one side, one much of the other. 00:05:53.78\00:05:57.95 So that's one reason. That's what we're getting food from 00:05:57.95\00:06:00.39 the media. The media don't try to tell you all the news they 00:06:00.39\00:06:04.73 do try and show you their version of the news that will 00:06:04.73\00:06:07.86 advance their political agenda. We are feeding on that. So we 00:06:07.86\00:06:11.87 become like that. But holding become changed. 00:06:11.87\00:06:15.20 >> And I just was getting ready to say that. Also, you look at 00:06:15.20\00:06:19.71 the internet and most of the media we go. And it is so 00:06:19.71\00:06:24.15 amazing to me that people sometimes to approach me and 00:06:24.15\00:06:27.45 they'll tell me a story and I'll say what is your source? 00:06:27.45\00:06:31.39 JD told me something the other day. And I thought, well, 00:06:31.39\00:06:34.46 that doesn't have support us the source because it got said 00:06:34.46\00:06:37.63 into his phone. Yes, some people believe that anything 00:06:37.63\00:06:41.43 they read on the Internet. It's true. That's right. 00:06:41.43\00:06:45.17 And we've got 00:06:45.17\00:06:47.40 foreign governments for crying out loud, but in 2 feet as 00:06:47.40\00:06:51.87 yeah, some things that are far from tray. 00:06:51.87\00:06:55.34 >> Yes, to talk about cable news minute ago, the Internet. 00:06:55.34\00:06:58.55 So it used to be that if that if you were at a bar with your 00:06:58.55\00:07:02.48 buddies, I don't mean to you, but fellows at the bottom with 00:07:02.48\00:07:06.55 his buddies and he had some 00:07:06.55\00:07:09.02 hair brained opinion. 00:07:09.02\00:07:10.93 It stayed right there in the BAA 3 people knew about it. 00:07:10.93\00:07:14.20 No one can know that guy gets online and tweet and 00:07:14.20\00:07:16.63 potentially millions of people years, cockamamie ideas 00:07:16.63\00:07:19.97 and then you get people who develop a following. 00:07:19.97\00:07:23.04 What the Internet does it on your YouTube fee to what it 00:07:23.04\00:07:27.21 feed you, the stuff you like. 00:07:27.21\00:07:29.88 So if you've got an itch that needs scratching a, you've 00:07:29.88\00:07:33.35 gotten a Jane Doe one and that you just feeding on that, 00:07:33.35\00:07:37.19 it becomes very unhelpful. 00:07:37.19\00:07:39.22 >> Showing people don't realize that there are algorithms. 00:07:39.22\00:07:42.16 She knew the social media companies. If they see you've 00:07:42.16\00:07:46.19 got an interest in a certain type of the news or certain 00:07:46.19\00:07:50.13 topics, they have an algorithm and now they start feeding you 00:07:50.13\00:07:54.47 all of that thing in there, which which on one level it's 00:07:54.47\00:07:58.31 kind of good. 00:07:58.31\00:07:59.47 >> But on every other level is very unhealthy because you get 00:07:59.47\00:08:03.38 stuck again in a coach, the and on the Internet. You can rush 00:08:03.38\00:08:06.75 to the extremes because the is every crazy and known crazy 00:08:06.75\00:08:10.85 group of people have a following. The if you want to 00:08:10.85\00:08:13.56 push you the most unhealthy stuff in the world, whether 00:08:13.56\00:08:16.06 it's physical emotional, what did you find it online and 00:08:16.06\00:08:19.66 there's nothing to stop it down because we believe in freedom 00:08:19.66\00:08:21.86 of speech, even if the speech is unhealthy. And so extremism 00:08:21.86\00:08:26.07 is born and I don't just mean religious fundamental extremism 00:08:26.07\00:08:30.34 of what a kind but extreme ideas. Extreme views, extreme 00:08:30.34\00:08:34.01 reactions. 00:08:34.01\00:08:35.41 Jesus didn't call us to be extreme in anything but a now 00:08:35.41\00:08:38.78 faith in God and any did call us to be extreme in a 00:08:38.78\00:08:42.92 commitment to God. I I don't want anyone to think that I'm 00:08:42.92\00:08:45.75 saying 00:08:45.75\00:08:46.89 just take the middle of the road, but I would say is that 00:08:46.89\00:08:50.26 Romans 12 says I beseech you the full brother and by the 00:08:50.26\00:08:53.63 most seasoned dog. 00:08:53.63\00:08:55.10 Listen to this. That you present your bodies, a living 00:08:55.10\00:09:00.57 sacrifice. Now, that's an oxymoron. Of course, polls 00:09:00.57\00:09:03.57 pending a lewd picture or using a device, a literary device, 00:09:03.57\00:09:08.28 but a living sacrifice. The book offering was slaughtered, 00:09:08.28\00:09:12.48 placed on the old to and completely consumed. Poor sees 00:09:12.48\00:09:16.18 debts how you want to be living but fully can shoe by the 00:09:16.18\00:09:21.32 spirit of God and given completely to the Christ of the 00:09:21.32\00:09:24.86 Bible and the Gospel. That's extreme that a good extreme 00:09:24.86\00:09:29.30 that saying you all in for Jesus, you've you've 00:09:29.30\00:09:31.80 surrendered your life to, you know, here's why. 00:09:31.80\00:09:34.47 >> Have that. If 00:09:34.47\00:09:37.61 people will say that truth is relevant, you've got your 00:09:37.61\00:09:40.74 truth. That got my. I think that part of our problem today, 00:09:40.74\00:09:45.85 please hear what I'm saying. We need to put the phones down. 00:09:45.85\00:09:49.02 We need to get kids off Twitter and you can get the people have 00:09:49.02\00:09:53.32 developed and attention span. 00:09:53.32\00:09:56.46 That is like a hummingbird. They sip from this four-minute. 00:09:56.46\00:10:01.06 They sip from that and they just split from flower to 00:10:01.06\00:10:03.57 flower and topic to topic. 00:10:03.57\00:10:05.87 Truth is not relevant or there would be no truth. But no one 00:10:05.87\00:10:09.87 is going to know truth without reading this. Right. And here's 00:10:09.87\00:10:13.48 what I'm saying. Correct me. If if you think I'm off, 00:10:13.48\00:10:19.05 I don't believe that death cares which side of the ditch 00:10:19.05\00:10:23.52 to fall out. You know, if it's in this ditch or that cage, 00:10:23.52\00:10:28.66 you say people 00:10:28.66\00:10:31.13 in the church who are listening to maybe somebody that on 00:10:31.13\00:10:37.73 how can say this and extend extra arson shows on the 00:10:37.73\00:10:42.14 Internet or something. And all of a sudden they become very 00:10:42.14\00:10:46.31 legalistic. They become very and they're falling out over 00:10:46.31\00:10:49.64 here yet. You see other people 00:10:49.64\00:10:52.61 who all say, oh, I've saved by grace through faith. I want to 00:10:52.61\00:10:56.18 say, do we say we see it even in our own church, every church 00:10:56.18\00:11:00.22 as the ship? That's correct. And they're following up on 00:11:00.22\00:11:03.32 this side. 00:11:03.32\00:11:04.49 How do we gain true how you can find God's path that it's a 00:11:04.49\00:11:09.96 question at such an important question. 00:11:09.96\00:11:12.63 >> Extreme legalism and extreme liberalism. I'm very closely 00:11:12.63\00:11:16.81 related. 00:11:16.81\00:11:18.27 >> They add let me let me quickly say this because I 00:11:18.27\00:11:20.61 mentioned the term liberalism. What on a program in Somebodys 00:11:20.61\00:11:25.11 said my wife turned you off because she thought we're not 00:11:25.11\00:11:27.68 talking liberalism in politics. Well, talking liberalism has Im 00:11:27.68\00:11:34.29 thinking 00:11:34.29\00:11:35.62 you don't need to even worry about following God's will, 00:11:35.62\00:11:39.83 OK, we thanks, bedding that because someone might get the 00:11:39.83\00:11:43.03 wrong end of the stick, 00:11:43.03\00:11:44.63 they are simply different sides of the same coin, a man because 00:11:44.63\00:11:49.50 the legal us says. 00:11:49.50\00:11:50.87 >> I got to do all this in order to be saved. And then 00:11:50.87\00:11:55.14 once he or she checks it off, I would say the person on the 00:11:55.14\00:11:58.71 other, the Nikkei list, a lackadaisical person says I 00:11:58.71\00:12:02.38 just got to choose Jesus and I'm saved 00:12:02.38\00:12:06.35 nothing wrong with that on the face of it. But both people I 00:12:06.35\00:12:09.86 saved by something they've done. Yeah, not saved by grace 00:12:09.86\00:12:14.63 through faith in Christ who will live his life in. Dan, 00:12:14.63\00:12:18.93 I just got to I accepted Jesus when I was a living. All is 00:12:18.93\00:12:22.60 good or on. The members should show. That's good. That's that. 00:12:22.60\00:12:26.78 Kayla says nothing conscientious about that. 00:12:26.78\00:12:29.01 But over here, you know, I won on committee and so I probably 00:12:29.01\00:12:32.68 lost my salvation. That's that's another extreme piling 00:12:32.68\00:12:37.89 up. The do's and the deeds. We've got to show them that and 00:12:37.89\00:12:41.92 the gospel is the antidote to that. 00:12:41.92\00:12:46.29 We're going to get into some of his lifestyle. So I want to 00:12:46.29\00:12:48.70 talk about Nashville being destroyed by 5 goals in a 00:12:48.70\00:12:51.73 moment in a moment, just catch somebody's attention 00:12:51.73\00:12:57.87 in relationship to 14 of those 12 00:12:57.87\00:13:00.68 we read. Here is the patience of the Saints. The say he 00:13:00.68\00:13:03.24 robbed a now 2 things that keep the commandments of God 00:13:03.24\00:13:07.95 and the faith of Jesus. If you love me, you'll keep my come 00:13:07.95\00:13:12.35 on. That's Jesus. Wasn't saying if you love me, you'll prove 00:13:12.35\00:13:14.69 that he was saying if you love me, then look at this. You're 00:13:14.69\00:13:18.49 going to be keeping my key moments because love this. 00:13:18.49\00:13:21.00 The fulfilling of the role that extremism. When you get people 00:13:21.00\00:13:25.33 who like Whoah Whoah K less about the fight 00:13:25.33\00:13:29.24 standards don't matter. That's extreme. Isn't you've gone all 00:13:29.24\00:13:33.41 the way over to the left in your faith in God, you think 00:13:33.41\00:13:36.51 that showing up in church once in a while a sufficient you're 00:13:36.51\00:13:39.31 not having a living vital moment by moment relationship 00:13:39.31\00:13:43.22 with Jesus Christ. That's just that's an extreme position over 00:13:43.22\00:13:48.06 here where you can find enough things to do to be good enough 00:13:48.06\00:13:51.53 to go to that extreme as well in the middle is probably 00:13:51.53\00:13:57.03 Romans 6. 00:13:57.03\00:13:58.97 How how shall we continue in since the grace mad about God 00:13:58.97\00:14:04.14 forbid pull, right? How shall we? That did Tucson. Yes, 00:14:04.14\00:14:07.78 live any longer there. He that is dead is for. She is freed 00:14:07.78\00:14:12.05 from sun. So the direction we want to goes is to calvary 00:14:12.05\00:14:17.05 with through faith in Jesus. We die to sin and we died 00:14:17.05\00:14:19.99 itself. Jesus lives in lives now so is rum and 6 of U.S. 00:14:19.99\00:14:23.53 forces. We walk in newness of life. That's what you want. 00:14:23.53\00:14:28.16 You can be the you can sing the loudest in the choir and same 00:14:28.16\00:14:31.80 as much as you want. But if you haven't died to self, you know, 00:14:31.80\00:14:35.00 his real Christian, you can be the he you can be the biggest, 00:14:35.00\00:14:38.67 the gun and the whatever it wanted to. But if you haven't 00:14:38.67\00:14:41.58 died to self, you're you're a pharisee. Get your your your 00:14:41.58\00:14:45.88 under the Old Covenant of Works and not the new coming to 00:14:45.88\00:14:48.85 grace. 00:14:48.85\00:14:50.25 >> And the and the 00:14:50.25\00:14:52.85 I had a thought that just escape me happens to me. 00:14:52.85\00:14:55.52 Show you get given the great in the region encourage meant one 00:14:55.52\00:15:00.73 thing I know what was going to say is that people often say be 00:15:00.73\00:15:05.43 dance is legal. It's it's crazy. Isn't 00:15:05.43\00:15:08.24 OPD and is slap. Not let let me read since we're in Rome in 6, 00:15:08.24\00:15:12.24 1, to say this, right. And in 6.16, Paul says, do you not 00:15:12.24\00:15:18.15 know that too? Well, new prison secure south slaves to obey. 00:15:18.15\00:15:24.02 You are at that one. Slate whom you OK? We're all slaves to 00:15:24.02\00:15:29.02 something like this. Whether of San, if you're a slate of sand 00:15:29.02\00:15:34.30 leading to death or of the PD and its leading to 00:15:34.30\00:15:41.10 righteousness, well, it's righteousness is by face. 00:15:41.10\00:15:45.74 How can he says obedience obedience doesn't say this. 00:15:45.74\00:15:48.94 Only God can save us were saved by grace through faith. 00:15:48.94\00:15:53.62 If we are I adopted to become a child of God. 00:15:53.62\00:15:58.12 We love him because he first loved us. And you know what? 00:15:58.12\00:16:02.52 In first, John, he tells us that want anyone 00:16:02.52\00:16:08.06 who is righteous will practice righteousness. 00:16:08.06\00:16:12.07 >> So God works in is to willing to do. And we practice 00:16:12.07\00:16:16.40 right to show you what if people realize it or not, 00:16:16.40\00:16:18.64 this is what they want. They want this in Roman 6 synge 00:16:18.64\00:16:22.94 shall not have dominion of the same in one of blessing. 00:16:22.94\00:16:27.22 So I didn't have to be that that Kayla schedule, Christian 00:16:27.22\00:16:30.22 Obi who says well might be living like the devil. But I 00:16:30.22\00:16:33.32 did choose Jesus or Rick. And that's OK and you don't 00:16:33.32\00:16:36.26 have to be that of pushing out here who can't sleep at night 00:16:36.26\00:16:39.56 because the wondering with this something they did that 00:16:39.56\00:16:41.76 offended dog 00:16:41.76\00:16:43.63 in the middle in the middle. You decide whether it's in the 00:16:43.63\00:16:46.70 middle or not. 00:16:46.70\00:16:48.04 But when you come to Christ and he lives his life anew, 00:16:48.04\00:16:52.17 thank God send. Doesn't have to mean you know you anymore. 00:16:52.17\00:16:55.28 This person of the year on the one extreme isn't wallowing in 00:16:55.28\00:16:57.95 the mud of sun. This person of the year has got nothing to 00:16:57.95\00:17:00.62 prove they are with G says the spirit of God has brought life 00:17:00.62\00:17:04.79 into the lives and now they are in the woods of the of the 00:17:04.79\00:17:08.16 Bible, right? Free from sun. And that's where you want to 00:17:08.16\00:17:11.76 be. Not not an extreme, not extremely 00:17:11.76\00:17:14.96 lackadaisical about your faith. There are no standards doesn't 00:17:14.96\00:17:18.03 matter what I eat with drink. When I worship how they 00:17:18.03\00:17:22.67 worship, 00:17:22.67\00:17:23.77 you don't be like to push another. He I've every single 00:17:23.77\00:17:26.68 thing is life and death. And because I put it, I stepped 00:17:26.68\00:17:29.91 on a crack. I'm somehow not righteous anymore. No, no. 00:17:29.91\00:17:34.48 The true ground avoid those extremes. Christ wants you to 00:17:34.48\00:17:38.59 have. He's being justified by faith. We have peace with God 00:17:38.59\00:17:42.89 through Jesus Christ. What we've got to live in that piece 00:17:42.89\00:17:45.26 and a must to not do so. You are out on the extremes and 00:17:45.26\00:17:49.56 in a world that's filled with crisis, you got to be with 00:17:49.56\00:17:52.83 Jesus is and have a hot field with the piece of crushed and 00:17:52.83\00:17:56.91 you may 00:17:56.91\00:17:59.41 well, well, we sit here and will will nod and a man. 00:17:59.41\00:18:03.18 What we both know is that someone's watching say 00:18:03.18\00:18:07.42 my eye can have peace. After all. I've done the on through 00:18:07.42\00:18:11.92 the answer is yes. After all, you've done. But I've been back 00:18:11.92\00:18:14.86 to you. Yes, you being bad and God knows you being bad because 00:18:14.86\00:18:19.76 you bag. We're all sinners. The Bible says, 00:18:19.76\00:18:22.76 but you can have peace. Now. You've got some habitats, 00:18:22.76\00:18:26.50 destroying some addiction of some lifestyle issue. Whatever 00:18:26.50\00:18:29.47 it is, you got a weakness. Listen, Jesus is you come to 00:18:29.47\00:18:33.01 me. I will give you rest is hope at the foot of the cross 00:18:33.01\00:18:37.51 for you. And 00:18:37.51\00:18:39.68 I think that's good news. If you don't understand that 00:18:39.68\00:18:42.92 just asked the Lord could like, yes, yes, yes, yes, let loose. 00:18:42.92\00:18:47.29 Some people say, yes, that's what I want. But how do I get 00:18:47.29\00:18:50.36 it like I did when I was the 22 year old wandering around 00:18:50.36\00:18:54.83 Limerick, Ireland, I'm not going to church again until you 00:18:54.83\00:18:57.77 show me the man. You pray to God. I don't understand this. 00:18:57.77\00:19:01.30 You shot me. He's gone. Maybe wants to show you that his 00:19:01.30\00:19:05.24 business, you'd be happy to do it. 00:19:05.24\00:19:06.84 >> JD has the news from more than one occasion where someone 00:19:06.84\00:19:10.31 has COVID to the pastoral department and they want to 00:19:10.31\00:19:13.48 argue there is no god or something JD would just say, 00:19:13.48\00:19:17.39 well, 00:19:17.39\00:19:19.29 I just want to encourage to do this some night when you're not 00:19:19.29\00:19:21.99 sleeping, 00:19:21.99\00:19:23.19 just ask the Lord, if you're there, proved to be a. 00:19:23.19\00:19:26.36 >> And hopefully it will. He wore. You're all of a 00:19:26.36\00:19:28.80 sudden, you know, you you're probably paying attention to 00:19:28.80\00:19:31.10 how restless shoe or 00:19:31.10\00:19:32.87 and then all of a sudden, you know that little drop us. 00:19:32.87\00:19:37.64 I remember he said, Ask show Me, Lord, show me 00:19:37.64\00:19:42.11 and boy, the Holy Spirit. I mean, 00:19:42.11\00:19:45.48 I understand the way that my mind works. If it takes 10,000 00:19:45.48\00:19:49.78 major giant angels to come down at that particular moment, 00:19:49.78\00:19:53.39 they will. They sure will, you know whatever it takes. Yeah. 00:19:53.39\00:19:56.93 And but you've got to just say, helping to suss what I don't 00:19:56.93\00:20:01.13 know the go. I mean. 00:20:01.13\00:20:03.20 >> Mention Nashville. Can a candidate can get a shock 00:20:03.20\00:20:06.30 because here we are with with these are extreme ideas and 00:20:06.30\00:20:09.97 this is where I think the Internet 00:20:09.97\00:20:12.31 helps people become. 00:20:12.31\00:20:15.34 I'm balanced 00:20:15.34\00:20:18.11 now an inch to them. You know, 00:20:18.11\00:20:22.98 when I want was a church pastas greatest job in the history of 00:20:22.98\00:20:27.89 great jobs, not even a job. Just wonderful experience. 00:20:27.89\00:20:31.66 Fantastic congregations. I I I was I think the little 00:20:31.66\00:20:36.63 knew I couldn't deal with the hog. It congregation gave me 00:20:36.63\00:20:39.40 the 2 best congregations in history, a man o well as a 00:20:39.40\00:20:43.17 church bus. I would say when I when I get there early, 00:20:43.17\00:20:46.61 really in my ministry, if you hear me say something that you 00:20:46.61\00:20:49.28 need to hood before, it's probably a sign that there's 00:20:49.28\00:20:51.95 something wrong. 00:20:51.95\00:20:53.42 I there with you all with me because as a gospel minustah 00:20:53.42\00:20:57.35 shouldn't be telling you a whole bunch of stuff you never 00:20:57.35\00:20:58.99 heard before. Unless, of course you knew. 00:20:58.99\00:21:01.56 I wish you knew to the fact that you you, you, you growing 00:21:01.56\00:21:03.83 Ali, 00:21:03.83\00:21:05.03 my role on this lease to tell you the old old story, tell you 00:21:05.03\00:21:07.73 stuff your eating up now go to somehow bring out of my tool 00:21:07.73\00:21:11.30 kit ways of sharing it with you. That makes it relevant and 00:21:11.30\00:21:15.34 applicable and so on. 00:21:15.34\00:21:18.37 So so what I find interesting is that, you know, while ago, 00:21:18.37\00:21:21.28 some people seized on on something that being written 00:21:21.28\00:21:24.25 100 or so years ago 00:21:24.25\00:21:25.91 saying that an ash was going to be destroyed by 5 goals. 00:21:25.91\00:21:29.45 I mean, which of course it will, because the entire will 00:21:29.45\00:21:31.92 give them a whole world will. 00:21:31.92\00:21:34.29 But now the eclipse is coming up. April 8, someone's going to 00:21:34.29\00:21:38.13 be watching this month from now. So, yeah, oh, yeah. 00:21:38.13\00:21:40.76 And nothing happened 00:21:40.76\00:21:42.36 and people that saying the into the world is coming in judgment 00:21:42.36\00:21:46.03 is coming from dog. 00:21:46.03\00:21:47.70 I think what drives that is the opportunity for people to get 00:21:47.70\00:21:50.71 likes on YouTube. I think I think that's it. 00:21:50.71\00:21:54.94 Somebody contacted me the other day. It is written not somebody 00:21:54.94\00:21:58.35 from it is written but somebody contacted me at my office 00:21:58.35\00:22:01.75 and said I'm so scared of who that Nashville is about to be 00:22:01.75\00:22:04.59 destroyed by 5 goals with this eclipse. 00:22:04.59\00:22:09.46 No, you know that Nashville is just 3 hours from. We'll live 00:22:09.46\00:22:13.43 in about 2 and a half hours where I live. So I guess we 00:22:13.43\00:22:16.63 look outside on the eclipse day. We may see way off in the 00:22:16.63\00:22:19.93 distance. 00:22:19.93\00:22:21.04 An orange glow on the horizon. 00:22:21.04\00:22:25.07 Spoiler alert. 00:22:25.07\00:22:27.18 Nothings about to happen in Nashville. Not anytime soon. 00:22:27.18\00:22:30.55 And other than the usual stuff. 00:22:30.55\00:22:32.68 April 8 is going to come and go and Nash was going to be 00:22:32.68\00:22:35.28 completely intact. 00:22:35.28\00:22:37.19 In fact, God isn't going to single Nashville out for any 00:22:37.19\00:22:40.36 treatment that he's not going to bestow upon any other. 00:22:40.36\00:22:43.46 What will the city that chooses not to repeat? 00:22:43.46\00:22:46.93 People are convinced there's a little cottage industry in 00:22:46.93\00:22:50.00 seizing on the sensational and exploiting it in order to know 00:22:50.00\00:22:54.24 what people do it. 00:22:54.24\00:22:56.30 It's just base to shy away from that that extreme. There's 00:22:56.30\00:23:00.48 nothing biblical that suggests is nothing in any inspired 00:23:00.48\00:23:04.01 writing. You're going to read that suggest that Nationals 00:23:04.01\00:23:07.48 being singled out for treatment that no one else is is going to 00:23:07.48\00:23:11.49 get San Francisco, Los Angeles, Oakland, Detroit, Cleveland, 00:23:11.49\00:23:15.82 Columbus would only what Houston, Dallas, San Antonio, 00:23:15.82\00:23:21.13 Chattanooga, Nashville, Memphis. 00:23:21.13\00:23:24.47 They're all going to go. What we've done 00:23:24.47\00:23:28.64 is we've allowed ourselves to go from being people of the 00:23:28.64\00:23:31.47 book 00:23:31.47\00:23:32.67 to being people of 00:23:32.67\00:23:34.98 who knows what 00:23:34.98\00:23:36.34 you want to stay with the Bible. And I want to show you 00:23:36.34\00:23:39.18 this one about to say I fully realize could be 00:23:39.18\00:23:42.05 misinterpreted. 00:23:42.05\00:23:44.65 So let's see how this works out. 00:23:44.65\00:23:47.76 You know, there's a reason the Bible says we are the body of 00:23:47.76\00:23:51.89 Christ 00:23:51.89\00:23:53.33 and you don't want to amputate yourself from the body of 00:23:53.33\00:23:56.16 Christ for no good reason. 00:23:56.16\00:23:58.67 Now, I don't mean to say listen to the pope when he speaks 00:23:58.67\00:24:02.97 excuse cedar and only followed, he says, I mean, to say the 00:24:02.97\00:24:06.27 mine for yourself. 00:24:06.27\00:24:08.64 But I have been of a mind to think that if I know godly 00:24:08.64\00:24:11.95 consecrated Bible students 00:24:11.95\00:24:14.85 who are the least bit concerned about something 00:24:14.85\00:24:17.95 probably in my best interest not to stand up and tell the 00:24:17.95\00:24:21.52 world that this and that is going to take place. 00:24:21.52\00:24:25.29 It's possible the angel of the Lord PA asked the every pastor 00:24:25.29\00:24:30.00 in Bible teacher in pasta overall, the scholars and 00:24:30.00\00:24:32.63 academics, the academics on right about everything. It's 00:24:32.63\00:24:35.57 possible that the spirit of the Lord posh they love 00:24:35.57\00:24:39.61 and came to me. 00:24:39.61\00:24:41.48 It's possible, 00:24:41.48\00:24:44.78 but it's not very possible. Probable is not possible but 00:24:44.78\00:24:49.35 not probable, right? Yeah. So there's a need to stay with 00:24:49.35\00:24:53.62 the body. 00:24:53.62\00:24:54.86 Stay with the body. Now this is where I'm worried about someone 00:24:54.86\00:24:57.56 misinterpreted. What to me. I don't mean don't have an 00:24:57.56\00:25:00.53 original thought. I don't mean pro. Don't pray to God and she 00:25:00.53\00:25:03.70 lied. I don't mean that. 00:25:03.70\00:25:05.43 But I cannot tell you how many people with extreme views share 00:25:05.43\00:25:09.94 the views of me as a huge check this with well, I would. 00:25:09.94\00:25:13.01 Why wouldn't you want other people you trust saying about 00:25:13.01\00:25:16.88 what you're sharing? 00:25:16.88\00:25:18.85 Doesn't seem to matter. If I can get a following all that 00:25:18.85\00:25:21.32 goes out the window. Now I can be someone 00:25:21.32\00:25:24.35 because I've got a new view. I've got a point that differs 00:25:24.35\00:25:27.72 from the wrist and not that's not. I do want to tell you 00:25:27.72\00:25:31.46 something about the Bible that no one else in our church 00:25:31.46\00:25:34.13 believes. Good to me. Yeah. The John the Baptist, really 00:25:34.13\00:25:38.60 each locus chores at the care of. But I believe what you 00:25:38.60\00:25:41.54 want. But he did in consequential. 00:25:41.54\00:25:44.81 But I'm not company with new light until I got to check out 00:25:44.81\00:25:47.64 the whole bunch of people. And I know that I'm not leading 00:25:47.64\00:25:51.38 you astray. 00:25:51.38\00:25:53.58 You don't have to go find Christianity to find Bible 00:25:53.58\00:25:55.95 teaches who are off the wall men. And yet they managed to 00:25:55.95\00:26:00.99 pull together a significant following and a massive income. 00:26:00.99\00:26:05.86 You don't need to be theologically orthodox 00:26:05.86\00:26:10.63 in order to be successful. Sometimes the crazier, the 00:26:10.63\00:26:13.87 better 00:26:13.87\00:26:15.00 but in the eyes of God, we want to be sure to richly 6, 6, 00:26:15.00\00:26:18.17 but we do not want to cough up our integrity. 00:26:18.17\00:26:21.44 You want to stay with the Bible. 00:26:21.44\00:26:23.65 Avoid speculation. 00:26:23.65\00:26:26.75 Speculation is extreme 00:26:26.75\00:26:30.12 and that should expect a road. You don't want to go down 00:26:30.12\00:26:32.55 because there are a week people around you who are going to 00:26:32.55\00:26:35.02 swallow that stuff, Hoke line and sinker because they put 00:26:35.02\00:26:38.46 their faith in you rather than did faith in God. I mean, 00:26:38.46\00:26:42.23 so these are extreme is the sensation was strucked stuff. 00:26:42.23\00:26:46.03 Is an extremely want to Sean. 00:26:46.03\00:26:47.37 >> In some ways, I think that 00:26:47.37\00:26:52.14 some churchgoers want to be entertained 100% true. And so 00:26:52.14\00:26:57.75 they encourage be careful how you 00:26:57.75\00:27:01.15 compliment 00:27:01.15\00:27:02.68 someone who speaking be careful about getting too excited about 00:27:02.68\00:27:07.56 somebody just, you know, Paulson Per-screen teens to 2. 00:27:07.56\00:27:11.46 When I was among you, I I resolve not to know anything 00:27:11.46\00:27:15.83 but Christ and him crucified. 00:27:15.83\00:27:18.40 Sometimes we encourage people to deep delap a style. Do you 00:27:18.40\00:27:24.21 that? 00:27:24.21\00:27:25.11 It's entertaining. 00:27:25.11\00:27:27.64 I think that the church members are as much at fault as the as 00:27:27.64\00:27:31.75 the person who delivers that way and with media now, whether 00:27:31.75\00:27:35.22 it's TV or the Internet. 00:27:35.22\00:27:36.75 >> A person can become the flavor of the month. Pretty 00:27:36.75\00:27:38.69 quickly. Yes. And and it's not uncommon to to seize on the new 00:27:38.69\00:27:44.19 personality aimed elevating someone real quick. It is is 00:27:44.19\00:27:49.40 being proven frequently to be in unhealthy. Other extremes. 00:27:49.40\00:27:53.40 Diet. Don't be careful here 00:27:53.40\00:27:57.11 because one person's extreme is another person's knoll. 00:27:57.11\00:28:01.51 Now, what would an extreme? And I'd be one extremist. 00:28:01.51\00:28:04.35 Did you see what you want? I don't care. All do what I 00:28:04.35\00:28:07.35 want to go to with my body. You go to die. Something 00:28:07.35\00:28:10.55 the other extreme would be vegetarianism. No, I think 00:28:10.55\00:28:14.12 that's mainstream. I think that's sensible veganism that 00:28:14.12\00:28:17.09 was seen to be extreme want. It's not now particularly in 00:28:17.09\00:28:20.43 certain countries of the world which soup a mainstream. 00:28:20.43\00:28:24.07 So, you know, Whole Foods, it's it's full of the gun, some of 00:28:24.07\00:28:28.17 them wearing Birkenstocks and some of them and off. So 00:28:28.17\00:28:32.71 there's that 00:28:32.71\00:28:34.31 fruit. Harry in this 00:28:34.31\00:28:37.11 right. But they may be times from additional reasons, 00:28:37.11\00:28:41.15 right? You just don't eat fruit 00:28:41.15\00:28:43.49 Rhule. Food only. No, I don't want to criticize the push and 00:28:43.49\00:28:48.19 we want the rule food, even though I can promise you I'm 00:28:48.19\00:28:51.09 not only going to eat real food. 00:28:51.09\00:28:53.29 I went to a restaurant. It's run by a a Asian religious 00:28:53.29\00:28:57.73 organization. And probably it's a gift to me from God that I 00:28:57.73\00:29:01.80 can't remember the name of the restaurants. I was going to 00:29:01.80\00:29:04.64 take my wife Melissa and say what saying that place and was 00:29:04.64\00:29:08.24 soon as we go off here. Remember it. But it's good that 00:29:08.24\00:29:10.31 I don't 00:29:10.31\00:29:11.78 we're in the you know, you know, there's this lovely Asian 00:29:11.78\00:29:13.18 food, the kindly priced. 00:29:13.18\00:29:16.45 And there's a video on the wall playing in. This is the not a 00:29:16.45\00:29:20.02 good rookie. She's not Indian. But this is to 00:29:20.02\00:29:22.96 the spiritual leader. 00:29:22.96\00:29:25.79 They're asking her what they're asking her about Bri Ferrier 00:29:25.79\00:29:29.16 and isn't. 00:29:29.16\00:29:30.30 Do you think I'm making this up? We watched it with our own 00:29:30.30\00:29:33.27 eyes. People who'd arrived old in nutrition from breathing. 00:29:33.27\00:29:38.17 Yeah. 00:29:38.17\00:29:39.31 And the question is what about these break? Derrion's who'd 00:29:39.31\00:29:42.04 died? You know it surprise you that 00:29:42.04\00:29:45.41 Swami the religious leadership, what they would they would 00:29:45.41\00:29:49.48 doing it wrong, migrated to funny that they would play this 00:29:49.48\00:29:52.62 in a restaurant, encouraging people to eat by breathing. 00:29:52.62\00:29:56.52 Now that's extreme. That's destructive that I've been can 00:29:56.52\00:29:59.56 accused of inhaling my food, though. Yahoo. I see what you 00:29:59.56\00:30:04.80 do. They will play. That was a good one so that we can agree 00:30:04.80\00:30:09.10 is an extreme. 00:30:09.10\00:30:11.11 I want to be careful of labeling someone who doesn't 00:30:11.11\00:30:14.18 want to show you're a fruit area. Well, for each cool, 00:30:14.18\00:30:17.95 unique role, food. Well, I hope you're monitoring your health, 00:30:17.95\00:30:21.38 but if it's working for you, 00:30:21.38\00:30:23.39 it's working for you. 00:30:23.39\00:30:25.99 And you may say it's a healthy. I'm not here to criticize it. 00:30:25.99\00:30:29.49 He's the extreme. 00:30:29.49\00:30:31.46 The extreme as we you don't get another push in the grace. 00:30:31.46\00:30:35.33 It meant to be what they feel like they need to be. But that 00:30:35.33\00:30:38.57 person eats meat 00:30:38.57\00:30:39.87 and not just teachers, vegetarianism 00:30:39.87\00:30:43.44 and you'll proud. And the Bible teaches at pride is an 00:30:43.44\00:30:46.44 abomination while you can share and about the beef but not 00:30:46.44\00:30:50.15 concerned about your pride. 00:30:50.15\00:30:52.88 The Bible says don't don't destroy the kingdom of God of 00:30:52.88\00:30:55.28 the meat and drink. So what I'm what I'm suggesting is the 00:30:55.28\00:30:59.22 extreme here is judgmental isn't. 00:30:59.22\00:31:02.72 >> And now I have to tell you thought you loved this. 00:31:02.72\00:31:06.90 I was thinking about jet people who are judgmental the other 00:31:06.90\00:31:11.03 day of the spring for someone actually left. 00:31:11.03\00:31:13.34 And all of a sudden what gave me this thought when we put 00:31:13.34\00:31:17.77 ourselves in 00:31:17.77\00:31:20.54 when we become an accuser of the threat of yet more pointing 00:31:20.54\00:31:23.98 a finger in judging them, 00:31:23.98\00:31:25.71 we're playing the role of say who was the acute or accuser 00:31:25.71\00:31:29.32 that where the lion the goal of Saint. Would that be quick not 00:31:29.32\00:31:34.16 to accuse? Yeah, one. Yeah, you know, because people are very 00:31:34.16\00:31:36.96 quick sometimes to just say I wanted, you know, they did this 00:31:36.96\00:31:40.40 this flight. 00:31:40.40\00:31:41.50 >> I was in the church recently and they have these very, 00:31:41.50\00:31:43.77 very healthy potlucks great. 00:31:43.77\00:31:46.63 I thought, I mean, under the gun. So it's vegan food. 00:31:46.63\00:31:50.34 I it's open season. You know, I got to be careful. Cuss a 00:31:50.34\00:31:55.34 balloon in recent times that you can 00:31:55.34\00:31:58.58 vegan food and put on an unhealthy amount of weight. 00:31:58.58\00:32:02.08 He too much. 00:32:02.08\00:32:03.59 So you might have the right kind of food that at least how 00:32:03.59\00:32:06.99 I say it is over, but too much of it. Others will be John. 00:32:06.99\00:32:11.49 You know, yeah, so, but but they should, you know, in this 00:32:11.49\00:32:14.36 church we used to it used to be more diverse, what but that it 00:32:14.36\00:32:18.20 was done this unfold. 00:32:18.20\00:32:20.40 But since that the food police have established a little more 00:32:20.40\00:32:25.74 authority to that telling people you can't bring that. 00:32:25.74\00:32:30.51 We don't want that here and making people feel 00:32:30.51\00:32:33.75 pool and we can and judged. 00:32:33.75\00:32:36.89 You know, if Missus Smith wants to bring a fish casserole 00:32:36.89\00:32:40.69 and she rose up the pot luck with the fish. Casserole 00:32:40.69\00:32:44.36 of Mister Brown wants to bring his didn't know what it would 00:32:44.36\00:32:47.76 be as she she's she says I yeah, yeah. You know what you 00:32:47.76\00:32:52.37 say. 00:32:52.37\00:32:53.54 Thank you. Yes. Thank you. Missus Smith. Thank you, 00:32:53.54\00:32:57.34 Mister Brown. Thank you. Missus. Washington was so 00:32:57.34\00:33:00.78 grateful. We're going to put that right here on the table. 00:33:00.78\00:33:03.48 If you didn't line them up a little label on it. So people 00:33:03.48\00:33:05.78 know what it is. 00:33:05.78\00:33:07.28 And and you know what? When someone sees this fish is going 00:33:07.28\00:33:10.49 to be feeding frenzy, 00:33:10.49\00:33:12.32 it will be gone big on 45 seconds? No, no, I'm not saying 00:33:12.32\00:33:17.36 anything goes. I'm saying what goes is kindness. And if that 00:33:17.36\00:33:23.10 fish dish would offend the congregation? 00:33:23.10\00:33:27.00 >> Well, then maybe people will Smith. 00:33:27.00\00:33:29.30 >> On enough, you know this 00:33:29.30\00:33:31.24 and then you have a kind would make this a way to do it. 00:33:31.24\00:33:33.34 And Mister Smith is going to kind of funny because that was 00:33:33.34\00:33:35.88 the first issue gone to know what you're talking about. 00:33:35.88\00:33:39.21 Where is the love, right? There's got to be love. 00:33:39.21\00:33:42.85 Anything way. You are not love it. I know somebody's going to 00:33:42.85\00:33:46.69 read sure has no standards. When it comes to an I told you 00:33:46.69\00:33:50.46 my personal stand. It is. 00:33:50.46\00:33:54.66 So this isn't what without children think 00:33:54.66\00:33:57.77 I peoples of what with teaching our children to be raised a 00:33:57.77\00:34:00.70 certain way to be one of the it. 00:34:00.70\00:34:03.10 I said, well, listen, here's what we do. 00:34:03.10\00:34:05.81 What we used to do. 00:34:05.81\00:34:07.34 We would say when the kids were little, 00:34:07.34\00:34:09.58 this is how we live. It's what we've chosen this, what we feel 00:34:09.58\00:34:12.81 God wants us to do. 00:34:12.81\00:34:15.78 But what we know is that there are some people who don't share 00:34:15.78\00:34:19.19 a point. If you, you know, we respect them. We don't agree 00:34:19.19\00:34:22.86 with him, but we respect you. Expect we expect you to respect 00:34:22.86\00:34:25.96 them too. 00:34:25.96\00:34:27.03 Well, the kids on all of a sudden going to run over and 00:34:27.03\00:34:29.03 this is Smith's fish. 00:34:29.03\00:34:31.03 They're going to do what they've seen. You do it. 00:34:31.03\00:34:33.03 And and you've told them kindly, we love those people 00:34:33.03\00:34:36.14 there, friends and neighbors. We don't agree with all the 00:34:36.14\00:34:38.94 decisions. They probably don't agree with some of those. 00:34:38.94\00:34:42.14 So we're going to do. We think God wants us to do and will 00:34:42.14\00:34:44.98 respect them. How about that? It worked for my kids 00:34:44.98\00:34:49.28 and that it would it work. Well extremes. So you get these 00:34:49.28\00:34:53.09 guy. I'm going to step on. Somebody tells you, but no 00:34:53.09\00:34:56.79 agenda goes. So 00:34:56.79\00:35:00.20 this this was big a few years ago. 00:35:00.20\00:35:02.90 We'll have to go live in the country, but no prom with that. 00:35:02.90\00:35:07.64 But the dad who's in the U.S. 00:35:07.64\00:35:09.47 cuts down to one day week so we can spend 6 days a week raising 00:35:09.47\00:35:13.01 his kids 00:35:13.01\00:35:15.68 again. Again, I do want to criticize anybody's lifestyle 00:35:15.68\00:35:18.91 choice, but I think your kids want to see that much. 00:35:18.91\00:35:22.82 I think, you know, kids need to know that dads go to work now, 00:35:22.82\00:35:25.69 by the way, if you if you can pull it off, you could you 00:35:25.69\00:35:28.56 insomuch one day week? 00:35:28.56\00:35:30.53 Well, the new with today's weekend in more. 00:35:30.53\00:35:33.83 Yeah. If you if you can pull it off, I guess that's fine. 00:35:33.83\00:35:38.20 But really what do you what do you not? What do you not 00:35:38.20\00:35:41.84 telling a kid about the value of hard work? 00:35:41.84\00:35:45.37 What do you not telling your children about the blessing of 00:35:45.37\00:35:50.78 of being at work in and being a provide a in what what do you 00:35:50.78\00:35:54.65 not giving them to aspire to? I think it's an extreme on 00:35:54.65\00:35:59.42 another room with you live in the country. I love to live in 00:35:59.42\00:36:01.72 the country living in a boat and nice and they would love to 00:36:01.72\00:36:04.36 live in the actual good. 00:36:04.36\00:36:06.09 But when it became fashionable for people to ditch the job 00:36:06.09\00:36:09.46 done runoff and live in the wilderness, 00:36:09.46\00:36:12.10 another question for you who you sheen to out day. I'm glad 00:36:12.10\00:36:15.00 that fit what sticks in Franco's coming 8 out of your 00:36:15.00\00:36:17.04 hands. But, you know, go to baptize the D a 00:36:17.04\00:36:20.88 ways you'll feel the delay. But you got to tell me those 6 00:36:20.88\00:36:24.21 days you're traveling into the city where you don't put your 00:36:24.21\00:36:26.51 little kid's mind by going into the city. Do you 00:36:26.51\00:36:29.58 the is going to be a balance somewhere. 00:36:29.58\00:36:32.32 You don't be so sorry for the cliche heavenly minded that you 00:36:32.32\00:36:35.59 have no 3 good. The 00:36:35.59\00:36:37.86 if you're a successful shoe sales person 00:36:37.86\00:36:41.30 or successful seamstress for successful school teacher 00:36:41.30\00:36:45.20 rocket hit the water that are you going to be busy and you're 00:36:45.20\00:36:48.74 going you're going to struggle to find the balance between 00:36:48.74\00:36:52.41 wook 00:36:52.41\00:36:53.94 and family life. So let's talk about that 00:36:53.94\00:36:57.11 because you can get people who become so extreme with work. 00:36:57.11\00:36:59.91 The kids never see them. So here I am telling that the 00:36:59.91\00:37:02.52 one-day week guy that he probably ought to 00:37:02.52\00:37:05.52 go to the office more. 00:37:05.52\00:37:07.19 I understand that's a personal decision and someone's incensed 00:37:07.19\00:37:10.49 that I would say that my children would welcome you 00:37:10.49\00:37:13.53 going to work more often. 00:37:13.53\00:37:16.26 But how about the dad? Who's at the office all the time? 00:37:16.26\00:37:20.07 Orange running a business. I've never run a business. 00:37:20.07\00:37:24.91 I don't know personally how demanding that is. Why a lot of 00:37:24.91\00:37:27.61 people have it to put demonte. It will consume you. 00:37:27.61\00:37:32.41 I could you know who I have Kathy Smith recently from 00:37:32.41\00:37:36.08 Sylvan Hills Bakery 00:37:36.08\00:37:37.75 on a podcast called Faith on top run by couple English guys 00:37:37.75\00:37:42.26 that the 10 episode it's worth listening to its Christians in 00:37:42.26\00:37:46.80 business 00:37:46.80\00:37:47.93 and how they can be people of faith 00:37:47.93\00:37:50.70 and people of business. 00:37:50.70\00:37:53.20 And Kathy said something really interesting about how 00:37:53.20\00:37:56.60 businesses so that he sometimes 00:37:56.60\00:37:58.94 and it has been is going to be a way and and things you got to 00:37:58.94\00:38:02.48 get picked up at home and maybe she can to dad. 00:38:02.48\00:38:05.81 You recognize 00:38:05.81\00:38:08.65 sometimes how it's going to be. She was very down and very 00:38:08.65\00:38:11.89 appropriate. Yeah. She spoke about that. 00:38:11.89\00:38:14.29 Sometimes that happens. So you compensate for that another 00:38:14.29\00:38:17.69 way. If you say I'm only going to work 40 hours all the rest 00:38:17.69\00:38:20.36 of my time, is it on? Maybe you can do that? I count. Maybe you 00:38:20.36\00:38:24.40 can. 00:38:24.40\00:38:25.27 But when I was at home, I was home. 00:38:25.27\00:38:27.44 I didn't come home from work until the kids don't bother me. 00:38:27.44\00:38:29.54 I'm going into my office when I was home and I had office work 00:38:29.54\00:38:32.64 that wait until after the kids went to bed and all my time was 00:38:32.64\00:38:36.34 the A's. Then they look for to daddy coming home because we're 00:38:36.34\00:38:39.18 going to hang out. We're going to play. We're going have a 00:38:39.18\00:38:41.55 good time 00:38:41.55\00:38:43.82 when it comes to work-life balance. 00:38:43.82\00:38:46.45 There's no such thing. What I mean is there is no valent ox 00:38:46.45\00:38:51.73 perfectly in balance now. Know this week, my family 00:38:51.73\00:38:55.06 didn't see me because things at the business were out of 00:38:55.06\00:38:57.93 control 00:38:57.93\00:38:59.47 and maybe you put that energy and nail. So the later on you 00:38:59.47\00:39:03.04 the comfortable life and more to give to God. Mort, you can 00:39:03.04\00:39:07.34 take time off more time in ministry. 00:39:07.34\00:39:10.11 I'm not saying everybody needs to pursue the same lifestyle 00:39:10.11\00:39:12.68 far from it on looking at this work life balance which I think 00:39:12.68\00:39:16.55 is a phrase that doesn't mean very much. I call it work live 00:39:16.55\00:39:20.79 with them. That's a much better way of putting it. Yeah, 00:39:20.79\00:39:23.56 yeah, you can get into a certain rhythm. 00:39:23.56\00:39:25.59 >> Yes, and it's it's something that to 00:39:25.59\00:39:28.76 if a few we've owned our own business. But if you're working 00:39:28.76\00:39:32.40 in a, you know, ministry you there's no such thing as having 00:39:32.40\00:39:36.84 a perfect balance between your personal cushy. Don't know 00:39:36.84\00:39:39.57 what's coming. That's right. But 00:39:39.57\00:39:42.34 you get in this rig, it's it's the same with the Lord your 00:39:42.34\00:39:45.68 relationship with them or you can get in working so much that 00:39:45.68\00:39:50.22 you lose that rhythm with the Lord because you're not 00:39:50.22\00:39:53.19 spending that quality time. But it's all about getting into 00:39:53.19\00:39:58.83 a rhythm and make sure that what's important to the Lord 00:39:58.83\00:40:03.23 and that here 00:40:03.23\00:40:05.50 spouse your children. 00:40:05.50\00:40:07.37 >> People are getting your quality to chapel struggle with 00:40:07.37\00:40:10.14 this. It's a real thing said. So if you're aware all that, 00:40:10.14\00:40:13.84 that's half the battle right there, being no error of it. 00:40:13.84\00:40:16.88 And then you say, watch, 00:40:16.88\00:40:19.41 I'm out of my available time. Am I dedicated my family? 00:40:19.41\00:40:24.12 You know, it's one thing is I worked so hard now going to 00:40:24.12\00:40:26.52 play golf for 4 hours and then go with my buddies in the 00:40:26.52\00:40:29.06 evening. 00:40:29.06\00:40:30.96 No, if businesses consuming you, I probably let the Gulf 00:40:30.96\00:40:33.96 go. I I think it said that I can spend some time with my 00:40:33.96\00:40:36.73 family. 00:40:36.73\00:40:38.83 You just want to be certain that you not. 00:40:38.83\00:40:42.54 I saw the other day talking about how he was successful. 00:40:42.54\00:40:45.54 We start to make money and start to really get hit. 00:40:45.54\00:40:47.84 Really good. Really good. 00:40:47.84\00:40:49.98 And his wife 00:40:49.98\00:40:52.28 sit a couple of things to that were a wake-up call and he 00:40:52.28\00:40:54.82 realized I'm not given my family anything. I thought I 00:40:54.82\00:40:58.22 was giving them everything. 00:40:58.22\00:40:59.95 But they need more than material stuff. 00:40:59.95\00:41:03.39 They need me there. And so we figured it out and he could. 00:41:03.39\00:41:06.66 He could still work. But he's making himself available for 00:41:06.66\00:41:09.66 the family. 00:41:09.66\00:41:10.73 It becomes extreme when it's all about 00:41:10.73\00:41:13.27 business. How you got to pull it back. You probably don't 00:41:13.27\00:41:15.97 need that super expensive cars. So you don't need that much 00:41:15.97\00:41:19.37 money. I'm not against expensive cars. You can afford 00:41:19.37\00:41:21.58 not yourself out. 00:41:21.58\00:41:22.78 You probably don't need yet another house. You probably 00:41:22.78\00:41:25.75 don't need more stuff. If that's what's driving, you pull 00:41:25.75\00:41:30.12 back. Do you want and say what's most important? God 00:41:30.12\00:41:34.46 first family second, all the other stuff. Is it? 00:41:34.46\00:41:36.93 >> Distant 3rd, at this least repeat because I've been trying 00:41:36.93\00:41:41.26 to teach someone to say that who soon industry that, you 00:41:41.26\00:41:45.03 know, 00:41:45.03\00:41:46.10 Paula says that if someone can't man eat his home, how 00:41:46.10\00:41:49.84 maintaining you with love, then he can manage the church. 00:41:49.84\00:41:54.38 It's God first. Didn't family in your ministry. So true. 00:41:54.38\00:41:59.01 >> We don't talk about that a lot. We knew we need to talk 00:41:59.01\00:42:01.78 about that a whole lot more. So people who are successful in 00:42:01.78\00:42:04.69 ministry and the families here in absolute miss want to miss, 00:42:04.69\00:42:09.56 you know, be careful telling the story. I will not name 00:42:09.56\00:42:12.19 names, but I see 2 of Angeles once. Can you give me some 00:42:12.19\00:42:14.93 advice? He looked very content on the show. What about, 00:42:14.93\00:42:18.20 you know, just give me some advice. I'd like some advice 00:42:18.20\00:42:20.90 from you. 00:42:20.90\00:42:22.10 He did this. She looked to him one way. He looked back. 00:42:22.10\00:42:27.78 Put your family first 00:42:27.78\00:42:32.18 son of a very well-known minister. 00:42:32.18\00:42:35.42 I thought that's telling you. He's dead famous as famous. 00:42:35.42\00:42:40.06 Never put his family first. Yes. 00:42:40.06\00:42:42.82 >> This is 2 things I want to mention here and I I think this 00:42:42.82\00:42:46.93 is a decent statement. Hope it is. Yeah. Monkey see monkey do 00:42:46.93\00:42:51.00 sure. No question about our main boy. You can set yourself 00:42:51.00\00:42:54.70 up real quick being a workaholic, 00:42:54.70\00:42:59.44 Melissa in Shannon and Jake Upper city here. 00:42:59.44\00:43:04.88 They just might follow suit. Yeah. 00:43:04.88\00:43:06.95 >> Yeah. Your wife had been Jacob can shade into this thing 00:43:06.95\00:43:11.32 like it's like they don't like that old song catching the 00:43:11.32\00:43:13.42 Cradle move. That song asked. Yes song. Yeah. Ad was away so 00:43:13.42\00:43:17.03 much. That was boy grew up. He didn't want to be around a 00:43:17.03\00:43:19.06 stay at the well. That's a wake-up call. 00:43:19.06\00:43:21.90 >> Second thing, boy, and this is to make this. This is a 00:43:21.90\00:43:24.90 major lesson we will take to all 00:43:24.90\00:43:27.97 when my best friends growing up 00:43:27.97\00:43:30.67 this time for his senior year in high school, 00:43:30.67\00:43:33.88 we're going to go what we learned the so we're saying, 00:43:33.88\00:43:36.24 well, I want to go to this college. I'm going to go this 00:43:36.24\00:43:38.25 cause and then the valedictorian of our class, 00:43:38.25\00:43:41.82 the best looking guy in our class. 00:43:41.82\00:43:43.95 He says that 00:43:43.95\00:43:46.32 I'm going to 00:43:46.32\00:43:48.36 get a job 00:43:48.36\00:43:50.03 and stay with it for 30 years. 00:43:50.03\00:43:52.43 What we did know is that his father was the one. He was the 00:43:52.43\00:43:56.70 center of all the attractions. Hasan want to take us all out 00:43:56.70\00:43:59.43 would go 100 miles an hour and everything. But what we didn't 00:43:59.43\00:44:02.70 know is that his father couldn't keep a job more than a 00:44:02.70\00:44:05.14 month. Oh, interesting. There was really interesting is. 00:44:05.14\00:44:09.31 And so 00:44:09.31\00:44:10.61 the lesson here is 00:44:10.61\00:44:13.45 we may not know what we wanted to, 00:44:13.45\00:44:16.65 but we certainly know what we don't want to do that. You're a 00:44:16.65\00:44:20.12 big lesson right there. And so it it's far as being ballots. 00:44:20.12\00:44:27.00 >> I was at a a conference ministers meeting recently with 00:44:27.00\00:44:31.90 the ministers at a certain region of the country together. 00:44:31.90\00:44:34.27 In the end, the president, the leader of that organization 00:44:34.27\00:44:37.24 said to the ministers, he said, 00:44:37.24\00:44:39.77 you make sure 00:44:39.77\00:44:41.61 you're taking time with your family needs to make sure at 00:44:41.61\00:44:45.21 least an entire day, at least one and tied a note saying, 00:44:45.21\00:44:49.75 but at least how that one entire day 00:44:49.75\00:44:52.75 as well as the other. 00:44:52.75\00:44:54.22 And if you church members squeal you, you say 00:44:54.22\00:44:58.06 the president's council. Well, I like that. That was not 00:44:58.06\00:45:01.36 present because otherwise we can go saving the world. 00:45:01.36\00:45:05.23 Losing out families. Yes, it's extreme, but you don't back 00:45:05.23\00:45:08.70 cough. You don't sell. Not taking that phone call on off 00:45:08.70\00:45:11.64 the clock. No. You do make that 10:30PM, Hospital visit all 00:45:11.64\00:45:16.41 that one in the hospital visit because you're a servant and 00:45:16.41\00:45:19.28 now that being you God time, I don't make it sound easy there. 00:45:19.28\00:45:23.69 Pastas everywhere in ministry workers, Evers icon figured 00:45:23.69\00:45:26.59 out, but you can. God did not call you sacrificed your 00:45:26.59\00:45:31.73 children equal Abraham to do that. 00:45:31.73\00:45:34.23 Even then he stopped him. 00:45:34.23\00:45:35.83 He didn't hold me to do that. Yeah. Yeah. He didn't call. 00:45:35.83\00:45:38.70 You may get another one extreme 00:45:38.70\00:45:41.54 criticism. 00:45:41.54\00:45:44.91 I would like to say 00:45:44.91\00:45:48.18 I don't have the right eye was about to say you the generic 00:45:48.18\00:45:53.58 you nobody has the right to publicly criticize another 00:45:53.58\00:46:00.79 human genome. Thank you. Use should we don't have the 00:46:00.79\00:46:04.86 right 00:46:04.86\00:46:05.76 to publicly criticize church leaders. 00:46:05.76\00:46:08.86 You got to hear that with balance because their time we 00:46:08.86\00:46:11.77 need to have discussions. Should we do? We can have 00:46:11.77\00:46:14.50 discussions. 00:46:14.50\00:46:16.00 You almost never know what's going on inside those meetings. 00:46:16.00\00:46:19.77 You almost never know how a decision was reached. Almost 00:46:19.77\00:46:23.04 never. 00:46:23.04\00:46:25.41 You have not walked a mile in the shoes of that man with that 00:46:25.41\00:46:28.38 woman. 00:46:28.38\00:46:29.52 And so to be one of these extremists firing off criticism 00:46:29.52\00:46:33.76 left and right, 00:46:33.76\00:46:35.56 you know what I wouldn't want to do. I wouldn't want to face 00:46:35.56\00:46:37.89 Ted in the judgment and I wouldn't want to he's not that 00:46:37.89\00:46:41.30 the walleye won. Why? When I say listen, I I spent the 00:46:41.30\00:46:45.57 evening with Jillian JT quick change. I can tell you 00:46:45.57\00:46:49.67 and you know what, you don't know about them. And I got to 00:46:49.67\00:46:52.57 you know what I'm doing that not only my tearing you down 00:46:52.57\00:46:54.84 upon being negative, but these this person they looked up to 00:46:54.84\00:46:58.38 you 00:46:58.38\00:46:59.55 and what would have rushed in and they seem like such 00:46:59.55\00:47:01.42 Christians 00:47:01.42\00:47:02.52 and now that she's disappointed that you're a hypocrite, 00:47:02.52\00:47:06.72 it could cause this person lose his will, who would know it 00:47:06.72\00:47:09.99 could cause him to lose their way. 00:47:09.99\00:47:12.46 And and that not only have I done the devil's work in 00:47:12.46\00:47:15.76 maligning somebody, but I'm also placed a stumbling block 00:47:15.76\00:47:19.33 before that person who looked up to the lead. Even if it's 00:47:19.33\00:47:23.07 true, they don't need to know. 00:47:23.07\00:47:26.24 You know, one of the witnesses is one ups. One, 00:47:26.24\00:47:29.31 nobody wants to get in the group and not somebody always 00:47:29.31\00:47:32.18 wants. Well, I know something. You don't know that you're on. 00:47:32.18\00:47:35.38 And more than all the sudden 00:47:35.38\00:47:37.89 it takes a life of its own yet. Should us things are said that 00:47:37.89\00:47:41.19 shouldn't be said 00:47:41.19\00:47:42.82 making up stories that should have been tried in the ocean 00:47:42.82\00:47:45.46 stories. Yes, yeah. So so as as Bracho saying, well, if you see 00:47:45.46\00:47:49.40 something, you like that, you that you just got to s*** it up 00:47:49.40\00:47:51.47 and saying nothing know first, you have a good talk with God, 00:47:51.47\00:47:55.54 but over the head of the Lord says what you need to say 00:47:55.54\00:47:58.67 something you're going to write the kind of slip 00:47:58.67\00:48:01.51 the kindest email you're going to put, maybe if you can 00:48:01.51\00:48:04.18 approach the person to person to person and you be so kind so 00:48:04.18\00:48:07.65 that when you say what they've said, that person's going to 00:48:07.65\00:48:10.02 say, well, that was a Christian person. My goodness that really 00:48:10.02\00:48:13.29 spoke highly spoke like Jesus would speak. You go in, you go 00:48:13.29\00:48:17.13 face-to-face, push and push Matthew, 18 men. You be so kind 00:48:17.13\00:48:21.26 and so sweet that the push will be happy that you expressed 00:48:21.26\00:48:23.80 your consent. Yes. After that, you don't start a civil war, 00:48:23.80\00:48:28.04 you don't. But now, you know, so often people will. 00:48:28.04\00:48:32.57 >> One our opinion on some poll. Yeah. And you know, 00:48:32.57\00:48:35.81 you've got be careful when sharing an opinion in and like 00:48:35.81\00:48:39.25 you said, people are quick to share opinions be. It was it 00:48:39.25\00:48:43.72 makes them look important. JT has a saying in and we've 00:48:43.72\00:48:47.39 adopted this and this is how we do it. Somebody last what we 00:48:47.39\00:48:51.09 think about certain news story or something he just says, 00:48:51.09\00:48:55.10 I just don't have enough information. And as you said, 00:48:55.10\00:48:58.90 we don't know what goes high and dry with just got to be 00:48:58.90\00:49:02.50 king careful by your word, too. Few quid I were to peak and and 00:49:02.50\00:49:07.58 it's right. 00:49:07.58\00:49:08.61 Put a guard over the door-post. Yeah, my lips, Lord. 00:49:08.61\00:49:11.68 >> The church is as someone wrote, 00:49:11.68\00:49:15.92 though, it's week enfeebled and effective. 00:49:15.92\00:49:18.92 It is the one object upon this upon which Christ peace toes in 00:49:18.92\00:49:22.99 a special since he's supremely got Bible, right? A cold or the 00:49:22.99\00:49:26.90 apple of God's eye. 00:49:26.90\00:49:29.33 You know, I don't want you even if you know something about my 00:49:29.33\00:49:33.97 mother. 00:49:33.97\00:49:35.04 That's all full and true. I want to know me because I 00:49:35.04\00:49:39.01 just don't know, according to church, my mother. But even if 00:49:39.01\00:49:43.28 you know something about the church, that's often true. 00:49:43.28\00:49:45.78 You know, if it's to guide and God somebody and keep them from 00:49:45.78\00:49:49.32 evil, you may want you may want to talk to. 00:49:49.32\00:49:52.35 But because you know that the church really did did something 00:49:52.35\00:49:55.19 this so that was room. That's too no, you don't want to 00:49:55.19\00:49:58.29 criticize. That's so next. Stream really bad when you rush 00:49:58.29\00:50:04.20 to that now now with the Internet, we can tell the 00:50:04.20\00:50:06.37 entire world the supposed sins of some into tea, some should 00:50:06.37\00:50:12.14 some church lead. And why would you do that? 00:50:12.14\00:50:16.91 Someone said something somewhere. First thing I'm 00:50:16.91\00:50:19.68 going to do is tell the world 00:50:19.68\00:50:24.29 maybe they should and maybe they didn't. But have you 00:50:24.29\00:50:26.99 thought about what that person is going to go through now 00:50:26.99\00:50:29.89 being being being lambasted 00:50:29.89\00:50:33.70 from sea to shining sea? I think you want you want to be 00:50:33.70\00:50:37.17 rid, didn't don't you came out this. You've got to be 00:50:37.17\00:50:39.93 redemptive. But now it's so easy to be extreme. Extremely 00:50:39.93\00:50:44.44 critical. 00:50:44.44\00:50:45.64 You know what you do it now, if you're willing to die for that 00:50:45.64\00:50:48.44 person, 00:50:48.44\00:50:49.41 then then you're you're in it 00:50:49.41\00:50:52.11 too big to begin with you. You're in a good place. 00:50:52.11\00:50:55.02 What you're going to do is, you know, talk to Jea says, and 00:50:55.02\00:50:57.85 you're going to be guided by the Holy Spirit, going the with 00:50:57.85\00:51:01.12 God that you cause no hom that you don't. Of course, somebody 00:51:01.12\00:51:05.36 to stumble. What is gained by ripping someone like 00:51:05.36\00:51:10.73 criticizing? 00:51:10.73\00:51:14.04 I think it probably happens in 00:51:14.04\00:51:16.91 every church. 00:51:16.91\00:51:18.91 They re denomination everywhere. If it doesn't, 00:51:18.91\00:51:23.24 that's the exception. And I think we can do better. That's 00:51:23.24\00:51:26.65 the devil's work. And we do want to give ground to the 00:51:26.65\00:51:29.72 devil. You know, 00:51:29.72\00:51:31.62 the reason I believe this is so important 00:51:31.62\00:51:34.22 is because you said it really Shelley, 00:51:34.22\00:51:36.86 the devil does not care whether you get you here or there just 00:51:36.86\00:51:39.89 as long as you get you. We are living in a time of absolute 00:51:39.89\00:51:44.03 crisis. 00:51:44.03\00:51:45.20 The devil as a roaring lion walks about seeking whom he may 00:51:45.20\00:51:50.27 devour. We will have a target right on us. The devil is angry 00:51:50.27\00:51:56.01 with the church and has gone to make war with the rim and other 00:51:56.01\00:51:59.91 seed that's taking place. Now, when we're in a spiritual 00:51:59.91\00:52:03.99 crisis, 00:52:03.99\00:52:05.12 the world has changed. The nuclear family is and a massive 00:52:05.12\00:52:08.99 attack. The devil is seen to be that way. 00:52:08.99\00:52:11.86 When I grew up my file that was at blue collar work to do 00:52:11.86\00:52:16.13 enough blue collar work at you and Ian Little. Nothing. 00:52:16.13\00:52:19.73 Mom stayed home. 00:52:19.73\00:52:21.44 We came home from school. Was there? 00:52:21.44\00:52:25.71 I think that's great. I actually think that's ideal. 00:52:25.71\00:52:28.41 Yes. But for many families, it's unattainable. Yeah, 00:52:28.41\00:52:31.51 because prices are so high, mortgage rate mortgages are so 00:52:31.51\00:52:36.42 big. The cost of housing has gone through the roof. So what 00:52:36.42\00:52:40.76 that does is it stretches the family whose home for the kids 00:52:40.76\00:52:44.69 that they raising themselves. Are they being raised by an 00:52:44.69\00:52:47.56 iPad and a television screen that's not healthy and not 00:52:47.56\00:52:51.37 criticizing acknowledging that society has forced us to that 00:52:51.37\00:52:55.80 place where it's more and more and more. I was at a high 00:52:55.80\00:52:58.97 school. I said to a kid, you looking tired, man. He got the 00:52:58.97\00:53:01.68 jobs up to 4 o'clock this morning has what you do in a 00:53:01.68\00:53:04.68 fall clock homework. He said not Netflix. My life is 00:53:04.68\00:53:10.12 I don't think he was watching Bambi for 00:53:10.12\00:53:13.69 our own little or no. He would not watching. Yeah, 00:53:13.69\00:53:18.86 but that will be live in now. 00:53:18.86\00:53:20.96 It's a really, really difficult world. So to find balance in 00:53:20.96\00:53:25.67 that hat, I can tell you how 00:53:25.67\00:53:28.40 I can tell you how to parents working hard to provide a roof 00:53:28.40\00:53:31.87 over the head of the children. 00:53:31.87\00:53:33.41 You can do everything perfectly. I don't know. 00:53:33.41\00:53:36.24 But I know it's possible God doesn't condemn or criticize 00:53:36.24\00:53:39.01 those who find themselves working more than they want to. 00:53:39.01\00:53:41.72 We've got to have some way to live. We need to feed our kids. 00:53:41.72\00:53:45.05 We did. Church school is not cheap. 00:53:45.05\00:53:47.82 And so we do this. But in the you've got to find that balance 00:53:47.82\00:53:50.66 somehow that puts geez is at the center of the the center of 00:53:50.66\00:53:55.06 the and he'll be that thing that the home balances on 00:53:55.06\00:54:00.17 with. There's no balance if we're not leaving our children 00:54:00.17\00:54:02.57 to Jesus every day. If you pray with your kit with the with the 00:54:02.57\00:54:07.64 hat, family worship 00:54:07.64\00:54:09.34 ideally twice a day, but schedules don't away so loud 00:54:09.34\00:54:11.91 that so you have family worship, pray for you, cut and 00:54:11.91\00:54:16.15 pray. Now, if you're too busy to pray, 00:54:16.15\00:54:20.26 then something's got. You've got to give something back to 00:54:20.26\00:54:23.29 the devil because he's the one who load your plate up so big 00:54:23.29\00:54:26.80 that God got squeezed off the plate. 00:54:26.80\00:54:30.33 We first got to be praying yourself. We've got to be 00:54:30.33\00:54:33.17 reading a Bible South zone, then otherwise we're 00:54:33.17\00:54:35.94 unbalanced. It's the it's the Bible. It's the would have 00:54:35.94\00:54:38.84 gone. It's pretty that keeps us balance. Keeps us oriented in 00:54:38.84\00:54:42.94 the right direction. Balance is found in a complete commitment 00:54:42.94\00:54:48.38 to Jesus being that living sacrifice now lives around 00:54:48.38\00:54:52.29 mixed right now because we stretch in 100 different ways. 00:54:52.29\00:54:55.02 We think we can have it all. You can have a goal 00:54:55.02\00:54:58.29 you want to. You want to live in a palace by the time. 00:54:58.29\00:55:00.33 You're 35. You kidding me. You want to own every latest 00:55:00.33\00:55:03.73 vehicle. It was grow up. Make make some decisions that 00:55:03.73\00:55:08.00 are based not on your ego but on your income. You want it. 00:55:08.00\00:55:10.94 You want to do it all. You can do it all. So do what you can 00:55:10.94\00:55:15.21 do, what you must. But put your put Jesus first family first, 00:55:15.21\00:55:20.82 faith in God. First, if those things on first us so far out 00:55:20.82\00:55:25.49 of balance, it's not funny. 00:55:25.49\00:55:27.52 >> You know, it takes intentional effort is a 00:55:27.52\00:55:29.89 steadfast commitment coming. You've got to encourage your 00:55:29.89\00:55:32.73 life on the truth of God's word. Quickly. The Preakness, 00:55:32.73\00:55:37.33 some 20 00:55:37.33\00:55:39.40 5 and verse 8 to 10. 00:55:39.40\00:55:42.54 Good enough for it. It's the Nord. Therefore he teaches 00:55:42.54\00:55:46.11 centers. We're all sinners in the way the humble he guides 00:55:46.11\00:55:51.11 injustice. Humility is depending on him all the past, 00:55:51.11\00:55:55.32 the Lord of Mercy and truth to such as keep his company and 00:55:55.32\00:55:59.55 his testimonies. So we are in a cup of the relationship of 00:55:59.55\00:56:03.76 righteousness by faith with the Lord you can count on him. 00:56:03.76\00:56:08.26 John Brennan show, thank you so much for me. I hope we've 00:56:08.26\00:56:11.90 covered some ground that's helped my body. So I think we 00:56:11.90\00:56:15.30 could probably talk about this festival more shun. The 00:56:15.30\00:56:17.94 extremes, embrace Jesus and in Clinton like Olympic clings to 00:56:17.94\00:56:22.11 the holiday ship. 00:56:22.11\00:56:24.58 And I want you mentioned to someone watching that maybe 00:56:24.58\00:56:27.92 saying, can I really be safety issue can and you know what? 00:56:27.92\00:56:32.12 When he goes you with this holy Spirit, he works in you, 00:56:32.12\00:56:35.16 too. Willing to do is get play yes. And he promises to 00:56:35.16\00:56:39.39 complete the good work case began anew. I got to do is 00:56:39.39\00:56:43.26 pray. 00:56:43.26\00:56:44.20 Why didn't you 00:56:44.20\00:56:45.60 give up 00:56:45.60\00:56:47.47 10 seconds. 00:56:47.47\00:56:48.57 >> Advice. Yeah. I want to encourage you to know that God 00:56:48.57\00:56:50.77 loves you. He wants the very best view of things are out of 00:56:50.77\00:56:53.01 balance. It's not too late to bring you back. Give your heart 00:56:53.01\00:56:56.01 to Jesus pray. Those pray of commitment will hold you in the 00:56:56.01\00:56:59.15 hollow of his hand. 00:56:59.15\00:57:00.42 >> Thank you so make you thank you for being with us with that 00:57:00.42\00:57:03.62 thing. Plus, the pressure 00:57:03.62\00:57:05.82 [MUSIC] 00:57:05.82\00:57:10.83 [MUSIC] 00:57:10.83\00:57:15.80 [MUSIC] 00:57:15.80\00:57:20.80 [MUSIC] 00:57:20.80\00:57:25.81 [MUSIC] 00:57:25.81\00:57:30.81 [MUSIC] 00:57:30.81\00:57:35.75 [MUSIC] 00:57:35.75\00:57:40.76 [MUSIC] 00:57:40.76\00:57:45.76 [MUSIC] 00:57:45.76\00:57:50.73 [MUSIC] 00:57:50.73\00:57:55.74 [MUSIC] 00:57:55.74\00:58:10.82