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>> Hello, I'm Joe Morricone. I
just want to welcome you to
03:00PM Thursday night Live.
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>> notice on the wide shot that
there's a whole bunch of ladies
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on the set. That's right. It's
ladies night out here at 3ABN
and I'm here on the set with my
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sisters now, whether you are a
brother or a sister or a parent
or a child or a grandparent,
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whether you're single or
married. This program is for
you. We're talking about faces
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of Love. You know, First
Corinthians chapter 13, we won't
read the whole chapter, although
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we might read many portions
tonight. But first, Corinthians
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13 verse 4 says Love it suffers
long and his kind love does not
envy. It does not parade itself
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is not puffed up. It does not
behave. Rudely does not seek its
own. Thanks. No evil does not
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rejoice in Iniquity but rejoices
in the truth bears. All things
believes all things
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hopes all things endures, all
things. But what if you love
someone else, whether it's a
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sibling or a parent or a spouse
or a co-worker or even God. And
yet they can't sense.
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Your love because you're not
revealing it in a way that they
understand. That's what
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we're talking about tonight.
It's what they call the 5 love
languages. When you think
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about the faces, a lot of heres
a rose here that my husband
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great got me for Valentine's
Day. I'm gonna pass to all you
ladies arose. So this is D held
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a brand right here. Here's our
roads for She is 3 D and special
projects and like it to have
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you here tonight. I have so much
fun during special projects and
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they don't have. >> Hard Hard
time >> he our production heard
Sadr's stepped in and took
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these job pretty We have job in
high heels and run around all
the She still runs around.
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But, you know, have all those
deadlines and all that stress.
Yeah, I gave all my statistic.
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Curtis haha, he wears it. Well,
hall. >> total opposite of did a
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fabulous job and you still do a
great job. And Curtis is doing a
great job. Yes, this
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and this rose is going to my
sister and Geelong. >> You hand
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and she of course, is the wife
of Pastor John McCain R Pastor
and Director World Evangelism
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and you are an editor and host
for TV and radio which I enjoy.
I love doing what I do.
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>> Because it brings people
closer to the Lord be from the
e-mails and things like that
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that we get it just warms my
heart to be a part of this
ministry and around the
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circle. This rose is going on.
France. >> Yeah. Oh, Francine
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Bergman is of course kids
network general manager. You
doing Incre Chop your husband.
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Jason is our C F O and I to your
daughter, Amanda, some are just
so glad you're here Thank
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you. I'm delighted to be here. A
man and I'm going to try to
reach across the table this is
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going to go very well. this is
tough for Angela Van der Valk
who works in our comedian
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production department. Angela
always does our hair makeup and
Florida wrapped in so many
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things. A light in your
husband's in the control room
tonight yes, he is. I'm so
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excited to be here with my
sisters and and last, but not
least we come around the
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circle and we have Jim now I was
Moore County because my their
b***. We're delighted to
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have you here to now work since
we've publishing department, her
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husband, Donald works in
pastoral. We're just so glad
you're here thank you. It's
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great to be here. It's going to
be a fun night. man. >> I'm very
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excited about it. So if you
think about the faces of you
could give someone a rose or a
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piece of chocolate like Angie
gave us all. And for some people
that makes them feel fulfilled
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right receive a gift. And
they're so excited because it
makes them feel left. But for
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other people, they want to hug.
Just give me a hug. And then
I'll feel loved or spent
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time with me. And then that
makes me feel love the boar.
Speak encouraging words to me.
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Tell me that I look pretty
tonight or tell me that I did a
chop with something or maybe
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come home and wash the dishes
and that's how I'm going to feel
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a lot. So it's interesting. I
think it was back in 1992. I'm
Gary Chapman came out with a
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book, the 5 Love languages and
what's going around the circle
again and talk of just a little
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bit about what those languages
are. We're going to talk tonight
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about the faces of Love, which
is these 5 different languages.
But let's somebody jump in and
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tell me what the languages are
or what your language is you're
talking about tonight. I'm
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talking about acts of service
and I'm excited to talk about
that because that's actually
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my leveling And I >> really
enjoy sharing with others, the
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men and what is acts of service
me acts of service. A means to
me >> it means Washington Tyne
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to others and yes, absolutely
washing dishes and >> doing for
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others. You know, you're always
doing little. She is Yeah. All
wear them. you're making sure
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the ones taking care. Yes, yes.
And I love to help other people.
It's just I was a little girl.
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It just we look for that need
to. Yes, I do. Yeah. And then
we'll be talking about
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physical touch like that. The
importance of touch. So it's
what kind of touch just. Well,
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somebody's shoulder. good. And I
want to make that point to that.
It's, you know, what
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I'll be sharing is more based
There's inappropriate touch
which we know with that
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entails. But I'll be talking
appropriate touch like a on the
shoulder. You know,
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there's all kinds of different
>> And it depends on the level
of the relations, right? Yeah.
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Yeah, I'm but if you know them
or their your spouse different
level, right? Yeah.
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Absolutely. For sure. Minus time
quality time. Nobody has time
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face. So have been spending
quality time with who you love
is so special. So I'm going to
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be sharing about quality time So
I mean, if pastors, why the
perfect person to have enough
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time. But quality time is so
important, especially in these
days when no one has time for
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anything. So I'm just going to
share a few little nuggets
tonight. I like it talking
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about words of affirmation, not
is my love language. I didn't
know that for many,
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many and so that that can be on
so many different levels in it.
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>> It touches all of us. >> No
one minds on gifts. but the
meaning behind some of
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those gifts, it's not just
necessarily the gifts but
different kinds of gifts that
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we can given. They've even what
we can give gun. >> I mean that
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I love that. We're going to be
talking tonight about each one
of these love languages. Each
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one of these faces of love and
how you can express that to
those who mean the most to you
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in your life and your
relationships. >> But also, how
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does God express his love to us
through each one of these 5
languages and how you and I can
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in turn express our love to God
in that way as well. We'll have
some biblical stories for you,
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but I want to remind you, this
is a life program and we want to
hear from you. We want to
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take your prayer needs or prayer
requests. Maybe you're going
through a difficulty in
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relationship or a marriage or
something with your children you
want to. Tonight here is
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woman to pray over those needs
to maybe you have questions you
have for the ladies here.
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So feel free right now. You can
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to let you know that we are
going to pray over them. I'm
here tonight and will continue
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to this next week and pastoral
cause. I know in pastoral they
pray over these requests. So
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you're part of the family,
whether you feel like you're
alone and you're just watching
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know that you are not alone that
you are loved by God. And by us
here at 03:00PM. And
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tonight is your opportunity to
connect with us. And we can
share together. And when you
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text in or when you email in, be
sure. And let us know where
you're from. Hey, I'm so and
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so from California or from
Alabama. And we love to share
that as well. Before we go any
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further, prayer, then we'll have
our music. And then we're going
to jump into our topic
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and you know what? You pay for
SUVs. To have only father. We
thank you for this beautiful
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opportunity. >> could be for us
tonight to talk about these love
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languages and all the love that
we see from you in different
ways. We thank you,
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Lord, that you you love us with
an everlasting love. So we don't
even comprehend. But
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we thank you for this time. And
we ask that your Holy Spirit
will be president and
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that you would fill our minds
and hearts and show your love to
others in Jesus name we
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Thank you so much. >> So our
song tonight is brought to us by
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another woman. This is a fund
and beer she was here some time
ago and she'll be bringing is
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what love is in that?
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>> seeing. >> You cone
might on >> You stay this
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>> it's >> you E. >>
And really need to the
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>> world. ¤ ¤
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>> years. >> seems
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¤ ¤ >> Amen. Thank you so much.
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Fun of airman. What love is this
and truly Jesus is the ultimate
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lover. He is our father. He is
our husband and he loves us with
an everlasting love and gave his
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life for you. And for me, if
you're just joining it's ladies
night out here at 3ABN,
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and we're talking about the
faces of Love. The 5 love
languages that we can use to
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express love to other people
that faith can receive that
love. And then how we can
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share that with God and how he
expresses it to us through his
word and other means. So we're
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so glad you joined us. Our
special guests. They're not
family here D held a grand
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who's talking about words of
affirmation, Angelo McCain,
who's talking about quality
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time. Francine Burton, talking
about Angela vendor Vulcans
talking about quality. Now
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just when he's talking about
physical touch. So we're looking
forward to each one of
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you Let's start with you tonight
and quality time. Talk to us
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about that. OK? >> We never have
enough time to I'm going to sell
with the clean csc's 3 verse one
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and it says to everything there
is a season a time for every
purpose under the sun on the
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heaven. And they have 5 seasons
in my life for them going talk
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about tonight when it comes to
time. okay God's time towards
me. That's the first one is so
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important. We know that the
Sabbath this got special time
right? Every day when he allowed
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me to wake up. So is open my
eyes to say thank you, Lord. I
don't even get out a bit. So as
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I know that I'm I say thank you.
Lot host. Always good to be
grateful to the So I express
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my love towards him. I worship
him in the morning. And in the
evening, of course. And David,
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the SAMA says in Psalms some 5
U.S. 3, my voice, you shall hear
in the Lloyd in the
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morning. I will direct you to
you and I will look up this is a
that I adopted over the
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years, which I got from one of
church ladies in California. And
she used to say every day
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above the ground is a good. >>
Above the ground, right? This of
wonderful day, OK, now
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let's talk about my time toward
Scott. I do love studying God's
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word. Every time I open my
Bible, I have dates. I'm certain
things I put him might date. I
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even put nephew's name that I'm
praying for. I put his name
there, Ken. So he knows that I
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am praying for him. And I even
tell them I'm praying for him. I
highlight stuff. I where I
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says prayer, things like that
May 10th 2019. So when I look
back and I get old and I can't
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remember anything but the how
go back and look back at those
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states and say, >> OK, November,
13 night, 2020 Phoenix, Arizona,
Soul little things like that. I
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the little pin there. So my time
towards God is so important.
What about time with my that
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time is so special. John, I
would like to go out together.
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Let's go to tidy. >> Who we all
favorite little restaurant a
great restaurant Thai
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restaurant. Thank area. So we
have our little date night. Date
night is so special to us and I
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heart my date nights. I'd love
it. >> Because it means so much
to me. We talk a lot together.
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Talking communicating with just
spouse. doesn't have to be a
spouse. If you have
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children, you alone know,
speaking with family offense
that is so good to have that
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open communication. As you know,
my husband, I travel together.
Even 1, 1, The plane
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were holding hands and want a
flight attendant said all, you
know, Ali know every 38.
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>> Exactly. To some
people. Yeah. >> Together. Yeah.
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>> I have my the word came out
to my little board game on my
iPad and he'll help me with
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the memory game and all that. So
we do like to do that and
spending time quality time
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with my spouse is just
wonderful. OK, what about my
time with my family? Well, my
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birthday was January. 12th and I
celebrated special I celebrated
my birthday with 22
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family members in Jamaica with
my family is from my mom and dad
is from so. Quality. Time
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with my siblings and cousins. It
priceless. Know time goes fast
of nieces and nephews.
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They grow up so quickly. And I I
want to spend time with them and
it means so much to me. So
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when we all got together, we
laughed. We talked, we reminisce
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and we just had so much fun. And
one thing I do, I don't want to
ever regret and say I didn't
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spend enough time. The
sister-in-law that passed away
at 35 years old and she worked
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worked, worked, worked And it
was just constant work in and
she had 2 jobs had one daughter.
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And when she got cancer, she
says my biggest regret is not
spending time with my family.
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So spending family time is pre
ISIS. I just can't say enough
about that. about my time
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this? OK? People always say you
guys all so busy. Yeah. Busy.
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>> Sure. But we take time to get
to know. Watch church members of
church founded come
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to my house. Come have lunch
outside of work outside of
church and not get to know
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them. >> You come to my house
will talk and I get to know
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people in such an intimate way
in it. It really means a lot.
Some of it. Some of the church
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members go on vacation with us
right I celebrated my 25th
anniversary was quite a bit of
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us. Went down to there are
memories but we don't bring them
back. And >> And so I think it
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is a haha. But members have gone
on vacation with the sun is just
beautiful because I do get to
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know them outside of home in
southern Illinois. But when it
comes to problems that people
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have illness and death has been
an eye on we don't waste time.
If somebody dies on
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>> Illness call us. We will stop
everything. So many things I
can't even tell you
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about, because we we have such a
privacy us a little thing that
we do not tell abroad
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what's going on with other
people's lives. So we have you
come over time. How so many
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times people come over and we
talk and have a wonderful time
and sometime Saturday night
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right up to vespas. Come on over
to my house and now the Times it
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happens during the week. The
values of Time is Dan
demonstrate in has the highest
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life as a Life was extended. We
know. And I say a 38 one through
5 when Hezekiah was sick. He was
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death. And he was crying out to
the Lord. The Lord said to him
such a house in order because
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you're gonna die. And he was
just he was so sad. His face. he
turned his face, told the
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ball. He prayed and he cried.
And he says, remember, Lord, I
pray how I have watched the
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full U in truth and with a loyal
hot and done what is couldn't
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yes site. And the word of the
Lord in verse 4 came to saying
going till Hezekiah that says
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the Lord, the God of David, Jill
father, I have heard prayer. I
have seen your tears. Surely I
00:23:58.27\00:24:03.54
will add to your days, 15 years.
Wow. What a blessing. Oh, this
is so beautiful. But there are
00:24:03.54\00:24:12.65
3 lessons taught to Hezekiah is
experience and I'm going and
with this, I like them.
00:24:12.65\00:24:17.52
Number one time is valuable.
Some 90 verse 12. So teach us to
number days that we heart
00:24:17.52\00:24:25.99
of wisdom. Time is short. Number
2, some 89. 47, I'm just going
00:24:25.99\00:24:35.17
to be the first part. Remember
how short my time Wow. You know,
we grew so many of us to cite
00:24:35.17\00:24:42.28
what happened. You know, you I'm
2030 40 50. What happened to
time being though? And the
00:24:42.28\00:24:49.45
last one life is on predictable,
James for 14 says what is your
00:24:49.45\00:24:56.79
life? It is even a par. That
appears for little time that
that issue is away. Good to have
00:24:56.79\00:25:05.53
a cup of hot tea is something
you just see that smoke just
just disappear. Yeah, it's a
00:25:05.53\00:25:12.91
vapor. So my what to you is how
you time time is precious family
time. Time with you loved ones.
00:25:12.91\00:25:18.58
You can never get that. And then
never. So that's my were it to
you? I ran out of he and you
00:25:18.58\00:25:37.37
should mild that time. What if
someone were to say? But >> I
don't have time. What
00:25:37.37\00:25:42.34
would you say to them? You know,
maybe their job. And, you know,
you could say, well,
00:25:42.34\00:25:47.21
maybe you need to learn to
balance that. But maybe what if
it's a single parent by
00:25:47.21\00:25:50.51
someone who hast to provide for
their family. And what would you
say then? How do you
00:25:50.51\00:25:56.48
find quality time with those
that you love when usually get a
00:25:56.48\00:26:01.12
busy schedule? >> Well, everyone
has a busy schedule, but it's
amazing how we find a way to
00:26:01.12\00:26:07.76
make time that we want to thank
you. And I realize that. >> That
00:26:07.76\00:26:11.87
there are single parents out
there that just seem like
they're busy all the time. But
00:26:11.87\00:26:14.90
you maybe need to look at. At.
Can you really just something
put your priorities play was
00:26:14.90\00:26:22.38
going to say priority. Yeah. >>
And when you make it a priority,
00:26:22.38\00:26:28.75
you you find the time. >> Right.
And you can make quality time.
00:26:28.75\00:26:31.05
Maybe you do only get 10 minutes
to do something. But make it be
very focused on what you're
00:26:31.05\00:26:37.16
doing. People find time for
things that they lot right.
Exactly. They always findings
00:26:37.16\00:26:42.43
they do. And even starting small
because even if you we just a
few verses in the Bible,
00:26:42.43\00:26:47.07
that's already a progress than
what you've done before. Said
even making that effort. First
00:26:47.07\00:26:50.57
thing in the morning when you're
really busy. >> You find out
00:26:50.57\00:26:53.44
that that time with God sets.
The stage show most for the day.
Making at on really is valuable
00:26:53.44\00:27:04.02
even just to say, I love you
too. I loved Just that moment.
Even though it's sporadic,
00:27:04.02\00:27:12.26
whatever that goes a long way.
Yes, I have to say to I
appreciate that. You and pastor
00:27:12.26\00:27:17.63
take time your congregation and
there is so special and it's
it's it's very much appreciated.
00:27:17.63\00:27:24.67
And yeah, we all feel church
members. Yeah, is our priority.
00:27:24.67\00:27:27.08
Even though people say all you,
he's so busy. We always say
don't say that. Yes, we're busy,
00:27:27.08\00:27:32.55
but we have time for OK? >>
And then they'll come up at all.
00:27:32.55\00:27:37.75
>> Many of us have benefited
from that time. So thank you.
Yes, love. Go into your of
00:27:37.75\00:27:45.46
having people over >> I love
that. That's fabulous. So that I
00:27:45.46\00:27:52.23
I like you talk about making a
priority. Yes. And then
Francine, you talk to that was
00:27:52.23\00:27:57.01
precious about incorporating
Jesus making time for Jason, you
know, with the word making
00:27:57.01\00:28:01.08
heist that. >> What quality time
is not your love language. I
00:28:01.08\00:28:07.48
guess what I mean by that is
what if mine is words of
affirmation and I get that. And
00:28:07.48\00:28:12.25
so usually what you enjoy is
what you get is not right. >> So
then you're giving that
00:28:12.25\00:28:16.59
your spouse or someone who is
really important in your life
and I'm giving them all. I
00:28:16.59\00:28:21.16
really appreciate you, Honey.
Oh, you're doing a great job and
00:28:21.16\00:28:24.37
they're thinking. >> All I want
is your time? Yeah. >> I know.
How do we how do we
00:28:24.37\00:28:30.34
learned what someone else
language even and how do we
learn how to then give that
00:28:30.34\00:28:35.88
even if it's not something that
we would naturally do. >> But if
you love someone, if
00:28:35.88\00:28:41.88
you love someone, you one, I
took a time. When it all came
out. David Knife only learned
00:28:41.88\00:28:46.55
our love language. And so then
you make it then you do
something I love of learning
00:28:46.55\00:28:54.50
that love language. And if if if
if time is their gift and it's
not yours, you need to
00:28:54.50\00:29:01.40
figure out a way to give them
some time. But if you are a and
then maybe even Corp
00:29:01.40\00:29:08.04
incorporate your love language
into part of that time giving.
>> All right. That any other
00:29:08.04\00:29:14.15
thoughts? >> Well, there
is. I mean, bet the one for the
00:29:14.15\00:29:20.76
children once upon a time. And
so it's to know what a child's
love languages, for example. And
00:29:20.76\00:29:27.76
so how do you do that? Well,
sometimes you can say, do you
know it that you're allowed?
00:29:27.76\00:29:31.93
Yeah. And then when you ask that
question, OK, if they do feel
loved. How do you know
00:29:31.93\00:29:35.50
you feel loved? And by what they
say if it's a gift, if it's the
time that you spend 2
00:29:35.50\00:29:43.58
hits affirmation, you don't.
You'll start seeing by what they
say. You love me because
00:29:43.58\00:29:48.85
you that's that's kind of clue
that was going adults to whey I
meant to do it more subtly
00:29:48.85\00:30:02.16
with. >> Yeah, the I think
we have to really get out of our
00:30:02.16\00:30:06.07
comfort zone. Like what you're
talking about is, you know, if
it's something that's not
00:30:06.07\00:30:09.27
natural for us, that we enjoy
receiving is kind of like how do
I do Because it's not
00:30:09.27\00:30:13.74
something I normally do. >> And
being willing to get out of our
00:30:13.74\00:30:19.41
comfort zone to do that for that
person that we're trying to show
that love to. But something we
00:30:19.41\00:30:24.32
have to actually think about it.
Yes, something you've got to be
intentional about. Yeah, you
00:30:24.32\00:30:30.33
how? I like that. Getting out.
You know, I started with the
first Corinthians 13 verse 4
00:30:30.33\00:30:36.26
hits as love suffers long and
his kind. >> And love suffering
00:30:36.26\00:30:41.40
long. This might seem strange to
you. But to me love suffering
long. We often think of his
00:30:41.40\00:30:45.04
patients might. But quality time
is patients with someone else to
have you ever talk on
00:30:45.04\00:30:50.45
the phone with someone. I have
done this in hurry. like, OK,
could you hurry up, right? I
00:30:50.45\00:30:55.55
don't really have time. Well,
that's me. Not suffering long.
I'm not being stations. So if
00:30:55.55\00:31:01.09
I am patients, then I'm going to
get quality time to maybe kind
of go together. I don't
00:31:01.09\00:31:08.76
know if like that quality time
is also the eye contact. Well,
yeah, looking at each Your
00:31:08.76\00:31:17.37
phone? Yeah. It's giving the
undivided active listening. You
said the right? Yeah.
00:31:17.37\00:31:21.78
>> And what is active listening?
And I've heard it defined in
different ways. But
00:31:21.78\00:31:28.48
to me, it's kind of like your.
>> Sometimes repeating what
they're saying, acknowledging
00:31:28.48\00:31:36.16
that you heard what they're
saying. So what I hear you
saying is and that type of
00:31:36.16\00:31:38.89
thing and just to show that you
are actually paying attention.
And you're not just
00:31:38.89\00:31:45.53
though, because if you need to
out. Yeah. And so it's easy to
00:31:45.53\00:31:54.88
just. Shake your >> Have also
know you're not actually been in
the city of to buy a stop
00:31:54.88\00:31:58.91
talking that you start telling
something different yourself a
way to get to get yes out. I
00:31:58.91\00:32:04.72
have something get the several
years ago. Sister Jean. >> to
me. He says I'm not
00:32:04.72\00:32:12.16
because he was just doing stuff
said, look at me, you're not
listening to me. And he
00:32:12.16\00:32:15.60
stopped everything in his life.
Oh, okay. And kuz. You just
going on doing his own
00:32:15.60\00:32:22.34
thing and I'm talking to him and
he's looking this way that way.
00:32:22.34\00:32:25.74
>> Said, listen, just listen
to me. And from then on, I never
00:32:25.74\00:32:35.62
had a problem. >> What >> I'm
say something you just stop and
say, he looked me in
00:32:35.62\00:32:38.49
my eyes and say, OK, OK on this
people don't do things out of
ignorance then to it.
00:32:38.49\00:32:45.96
women kind of guilty about about
you should know who should be
able to read my ma.
00:32:45.96\00:32:52.10
read my heart. >> You should
know. And the poor guys. Yeah,
00:32:52.10\00:32:59.41
don't know. And then, yeah.
Because you were honest and open
with him and told him I did.
00:32:59.41\00:33:05.01
Then he listened that that's
what I never had a problem that
I think a lot of husbands. But
00:33:05.01\00:33:08.62
listen, if the wife was.
Expressed, what she really wants
do, so to tell that
00:33:08.62\00:33:15.96
makes such a difference. Just I
know Greg asking me do this and
I love this about Say.
00:33:15.96\00:33:22.90
>> So your heart like when I'm
telling we heart, is this the
time you just want me to
00:33:22.90\00:33:25.40
listen and hold you? Are you on
He's a woman be heard to fix
Heard. I want to fix the
00:33:25.40\00:33:40.85
problem. And then other times
it's like, no, I really need a
solution to do something. But
00:33:40.85\00:33:45.39
I love that because literally
say. >> Occasionally want you
00:33:45.39\00:33:52.23
hold you in. Listen. Or is this
a time where you need me give
you advice? There's times for
00:33:52.23\00:33:57.93
both them and time the open.
That's communication meant
sometimes when Dave and I were
00:33:57.93\00:34:04.24
talking about different things
that we person, maybe work or
something it would meet more
00:34:04.24\00:34:06.07
obviously, were kids say. >> D I
need to know what time it is.
Not how to build the
00:34:06.07\00:34:12.88
wall. >> Haha. >>
So don't get so many
00:34:12.88\00:34:17.79
details, right? And so, I and
women the detainee would want
that to it. And I in my mind
00:34:17.79\00:34:24.09
ago, Danny West over time, it is
don't build a watch for today.
the when that so want
00:34:24.09\00:34:32.80
to remind you, this is a live
program we're talking tonight
about the faces of love. We've
00:34:32.80\00:34:36.17
been talking about quality time.
>> But if you have a prayer
00:34:36.17\00:34:40.81
need, if you're struggling in
your relationship, if you want
us to pray for you or you have
00:34:40.81\00:34:45.91
questions for the ladies here
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00:34:55.49\00:35:04.67
at Life. L I V E at 3ABN Dot TV
l I V E at 3ABN Dot TV. We're
going to switch to a
00:35:04.67\00:35:11.87
different love languages how
we're coming around the corner
to Angela who and you have
00:35:11.87\00:35:18.11
acts up service. So talk to us
about that. Okay. So I have acts
00:35:18.11\00:35:25.45
of service acts of service just
for me since I was a little ice
to go to my aunt's house and she
00:35:25.45\00:35:30.59
used to always like eat are she
wants something to drink. I
still love serving her.
00:35:30.59\00:35:34.30
>> And just picking up her
played and I just always felt
special doing that. growing up
00:35:34.30\00:35:40.40
and I'm getting married, you
know? With my husband, I would
go in clean and cook dinner
00:35:40.40\00:35:47.94
and to certain, you know, stuff
to make him feel special and
00:35:47.94\00:35:52.78
everything. But >> when I was
doing it, I was, you know, I
want him to do it back to White
00:35:52.78\00:36:00.26
making dinner and be like, OK,
I'm away from cooking dinner and
then he'll come up behind me and
00:36:00.26\00:36:06.06
feel like they've ice want can
like, do I can't keep your
hovering? Burn your food or
00:36:06.06\00:36:11.97
I'll doing dishes. And if you
like, kind of get key to
stopping community be like,
00:36:11.97\00:36:17.74
I'm trying to keep the kitchen
You know, overall the vacuum in
itself and later on in life
00:36:17.74\00:36:24.21
as we moved on and he got closer
cry. So he gave his heart to God
00:36:24.21\00:36:31.35
when I started, I started
actually praying for God to >>
help me with Mike because I
00:36:31.35\00:36:35.66
was a Christian and the home.
So it's like. >> You know, I'm
00:36:35.66\00:36:39.96
doing all these things. Why some
has been helping me like, what
am I right? I'm Christian. I
00:36:39.96\00:36:44.90
should be the one praying for my
husband should be praying for
myself. God, what am I
00:36:44.90\00:36:48.87
doing wrong? We're so quick to
put the blame on the other
person. And I was very quick
00:36:48.87\00:36:54.71
to be like my son, my husband,
you know, taking the trash out.
00:36:54.71\00:36:59.45
I'm not his mother actually have
to tell him to do this. He
should know to do that you know
00:36:59.45\00:37:05.05
or why can't he come home and
cook for me or do the dishes?
You know, but as I was praying
00:37:05.05\00:37:09.26
to God, God Open my eyes and
said, Angela, what this year has
been which what is he like and
00:37:09.26\00:37:14.93
then when you look back, like
week. He just wants a hug us
right? You just want 5 seconds.
00:37:14.93\00:37:22.90
You know, I care about all the
stuff that he could care less.
But the house looks like he just
00:37:22.90\00:37:27.38
want my he just it. My husband's
very touchy in love and faction
00:37:27.38\00:37:32.41
it. And he just he just loves My
husband can sit there for like 5
minutes. he just loves to hug.
00:37:32.41\00:37:40.22
So when I started doing that, it
was like a light like us, which
light just went on. he's I
00:37:40.22\00:37:46.56
used to come home and he's to do
the dishes for little by little
00:37:46.56\00:37:54.07
things started changing, have
like, wow, just how something
simple like that at the service,
00:37:54.07\00:37:58.44
but learn each other's active
service. And that was very
special to me as we grew closer
00:37:58.44\00:38:04.18
price, it just came so much
better and another thing I like
to talk about of act. service
00:38:04.18\00:38:11.45
is, you know, when we're at
work, you know how we sit there
at work. How were maybe that
00:38:11.45\00:38:19.26
your position, you know, you may
see somebody needs help, but
you're like, well, that's not
00:38:19.26\00:38:23.00
my job. I don't need to help
that person, you know, they know
how to do that. But you
00:38:23.00\00:38:26.94
may look at that what they have
to do, NT like I can do that.
You know, but choose
00:38:26.94\00:38:34.88
have choice. You can choose to
or you can choose to turn or a,
you know, and what you do.
00:38:34.88\00:38:40.75
Something nice for someone. It's
it's amazing how you can make
that person day. Just
00:38:40.75\00:38:46.09
change and just show Christ's
love someone and also one thing
I love to do my husband
00:38:46.09\00:38:53.03
think you've got too many
clothes. started giving away my
clothes I love giving away
00:38:53.03\00:39:02.64
my clothes and that I have just
too many of. And so I give them
00:39:02.64\00:39:07.38
away. >> And I feel like so
joyful doing it. It's like I do
it. You know, to give them away
00:39:07.38\00:39:12.11
and but when I opened my hand, I
bless somebody. It's amazing
what God does when he opens
00:39:12.11\00:39:18.42
his and it might have been times
like today, Tony, get review
close. I'm like I did.
00:39:18.42\00:39:23.63
God just keep blasting me
with more. >> it's so true. Like
00:39:23.63\00:39:27.40
everything like anything we it
anything we do and love as and
>> helping the sick. You know,
00:39:27.40\00:39:35.80
when somebody sick, COVID it's
been going around or the flu and
us just, you know, we time
00:39:35.80\00:39:41.98
is very precious. But put in in
a crock some soup and bring it
to some I leave in their
00:39:41.98\00:39:47.02
porch or whatever the case may
be. That is so special. And let
me tell you, when you help
00:39:47.02\00:39:52.15
other people. How do you feel
when you help someone like have
you ever helps lame? you
00:39:52.15\00:40:02.23
feel amazing? You you know, you
do it for But whose really yeah.
00:40:02.23\00:40:08.47
night. >> We've helped guide
tells us to help our neighbors
to be kind. Is it really for
00:40:08.47\00:40:14.44
them? I feel like it's more for
Yeah, because when I help
somebody, I just I get this,
00:40:14.44\00:40:22.15
joy, this is love and joy. I
feel so special Godchild. I'm
I'm I'm how I'm doing what God
00:40:22.15\00:40:28.66
called unity on being got hands
and feet. I just love that. you
know, another thing I want to
00:40:28.66\00:40:33.36
talk about is, you know, there's
a lot of acts of service that
00:40:33.36\00:40:39.93
you know, you may not be able to
afford and my 5. Alright, now
there's something in somebody
00:40:39.93\00:40:46.81
from the church, Jamie,
something from Turkey. And I
want to show that it's a foot
00:40:46.81\00:40:52.35
mark from Turkey. And everyone
knows what's going on in And I
feel like. If we're able to give
00:40:52.35\00:40:59.32
acts of service, And if we're if
we're not prayer is so powerful.
00:40:59.32\00:41:07.03
you know, we're so busy and
we're just a pray for you, just
pray for you. But to me, really
00:41:07.03\00:41:12.50
pray for them. You know, I have
happened my phone, that ID when
somebody tells me to pray for
00:41:12.50\00:41:17.81
somebody pray with them, right,
right there for all. It can take
that app, though. And a pit
00:41:17.81\00:41:23.14
friends and now say what it's
for and then my phone has a
little thing and then all day
00:41:23.14\00:41:28.85
long, I have a live out to say a
little prayer for and just lift
them up in prayer one of
00:41:28.85\00:41:36.59
the persons as far as going
into, you know, by I want to
talk about the best person and
00:41:36.59\00:41:44.40
her second think of is Jesus and
demonstrated. Acts of service
and who is our example
00:41:44.40\00:41:56.41
Jesus. he modeled servant
servant Hood when week when he
came to dwell among us as a
00:41:56.41\00:41:59.91
man, he became a servant. the
creator became a servant much
more so should be servants to
00:41:59.91\00:42:09.09
others. And you know what? My
humble in their cells. I feel
like it. Some people. Well, we
00:42:09.09\00:42:14.13
need to bore some don't feel
like because we have this name
behind us or in front of us
00:42:14.13\00:42:21.54
that were better than somebody
has guides looks that and so we
all should Hummer cells and
00:42:21.54\00:42:29.44
Jesus was always to an act of
service. He was he the sick. He
was making the blind. he
00:42:29.44\00:42:36.45
was making the lame walk. Hughes
just. He was always being about
00:42:36.45\00:42:42.52
his father's business, the man
Jesus, the creator. And how much
more do we need to be about her
00:42:42.52\00:42:46.03
business a little note that and
his most >> act. He did was when
00:42:46.03\00:42:55.10
he died on the cross. you know,
that's something we can't You
know, we cannot save or so.
00:42:55.10\00:43:02.44
So, Tony, through Jesus. >> That
we can be saved. >> And there's
00:43:02.44\00:43:08.22
somebody else in the Bible that
I was reading. is like God who
ousted him like you're just
00:43:08.22\00:43:13.36
and how everything you did for
us. It's just amazing. And then.
00:43:13.36\00:43:17.39
>> How we need to be example.
But is another servant you have
in the Bible that I can
00:43:17.39\00:43:21.66
talk about and he brought up a
string 7 school lesson and he
brought up So let's see what
00:43:21.66\00:43:28.64
Joe did in the Bible as acts of
service and joked. 29 12, 31
this that if you have a
00:43:28.64\00:43:40.22
what the remnant page I love the
Sit there and say that Tate and
I'm Joe 29th 12 to 16
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to think that read that because
I deliver the poor that cry and
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the fatherless and him that had
none to help him. >> The
blessing of him that
00:43:55.96\00:43:59.40
was ready to perish came upon me
and I caused the widows heart to
sing for joy. I put
00:43:59.40\00:44:06.07
on righteousness and it closed
me. My judgment was as a robe
and a diadem. I was eyes to
00:44:06.07\00:44:11.48
the blind and feet. Was it the I
was father to the poor and the
cause which I knew not I
00:44:11.48\00:44:16.69
searched out. A man. So Jones
didn't simply wait for a beggar
to approach He wait for
00:44:16.69\00:44:25.76
someone to hand him out
something instead, Joe. >>
Proactive in seeking out
00:44:25.76\00:44:31.37
news and acting on them. So he
seek out someone that was you
mean and I feel like. Lord,
00:44:31.37\00:44:38.64
help me every day, too. Kind to
someone in the past and the way
that you want me not in a
00:44:38.64\00:44:47.32
way I want to because sometimes
we can be selfish. Sometimes we
00:44:47.32\00:44:52.49
don't have time. You know, it's
like, oh, that's their problem.
But you know what our problem to
00:44:52.49\00:44:56.56
we're all brothers and sisters.
We're all going to heaven
together are brothers keeper.
00:44:56.56\00:45:01.46
That's right. We are. if we
don't perfect or character now,
00:45:01.46\00:45:05.00
>> you know, God wants us to
perfect their character. Now I'm
going to close Ellen
00:45:05.00\00:45:09.97
White's sister, White says in
testimony for the church Value 5
page one. 51 do not wait for
00:45:09.97\00:45:16.11
them. The poor to call your
attention to their needs act as
did Joe. That thing that he
00:45:16.11\00:45:22.88
knew not he searched out. Go on
inspecting Torre and learn what
is needed and how it can
00:45:22.88\00:45:29.72
be supplied That's beautiful.
Thank you so much, Angela.
That's really powerful. Yeah.
00:45:29.72\00:45:38.47
What you references at the end,
I really like this. What if our
00:45:38.47\00:45:43.14
heart becomes calloused? Yeah,
you know, there's a lot of need
in the and sometimes I think. I
00:45:43.14\00:45:48.91
don't know if you've ever
experienced this, but I know I
have. When you pit it's so
00:45:48.91\00:45:53.75
painful to look at the need.
It's so painful to see the hurt
that you want to start to
00:45:53.75\00:45:57.25
build a wall. >> Because you're
it I don't know. Sometimes. You
00:45:57.25\00:46:02.46
know, when you see people in
need or you see people are
hurting. You see what people go
00:46:02.46\00:46:05.79
through when you think, wow, I
just can't even deal with that.
So you want to start to push it
00:46:05.79\00:46:11.90
away? Yeah. So what happens if
your heart's calloused? How do
you break that down so that
00:46:11.90\00:46:15.94
you will reach out and you will
help those in need and you will
00:46:15.94\00:46:21.71
do those access or feel like
once you start helping someone
and you feel that joy.
00:46:21.71\00:46:26.75
>> There's so many homeless
people, place to live in
Florida. They're everywhere.
00:46:26.75\00:46:32.09
It's so sad. And some people
feel like I'm not give them no
money or I'm not giving them
00:46:32.09\00:46:35.76
food or, you know, that's not
for us to judge. In my opinion,
00:46:35.76\00:46:41.00
outgoing, give somebody food and
now feel like what do you what
do you want to eat? Have you
00:46:41.00\00:46:44.77
even today? Most his time they
have and have to come. You go a
day without eating.
00:46:44.77\00:46:48.37
>> Then you go a day without
water. And so just doing one
little simple act. You know, I
00:46:48.37\00:46:55.31
feel like God would open your
heart and want to do one. >> God
will lead to another
00:46:55.31\00:47:01.28
and another. and it yes, see, I
think that's the secret. I think
our heart gets callous
00:47:01.28\00:47:07.82
because we're looking at the big
picture. The overall God is the
only one that can I
00:47:07.82\00:47:11.86
don't know how he stands it. I
don't know how right. But we. >>
What it will in member the
00:47:11.86\00:47:17.53
the little boy's picking up
joining the starfish. And they
said, well, you can't use I
00:47:17.53\00:47:20.77
well, I could save that one. So
you're looking at individuals.
00:47:20.77\00:47:25.31
You didn't feed every home.
That's right. And I R a you fed
the one that came into your
00:47:25.31\00:47:32.21
past. And so if we start, if we
narrow our vision to who can,
oh, my goodness as overwhelming,
00:47:32.21\00:47:37.02
there's so much I need that. Who
can I health? What is the one
person I can help even at
00:47:37.02\00:47:43.49
your local churned, right? Yeah.
a pray for you to help them and
you may be then the
00:47:43.49\00:47:50.03
answer to their and God using
you because you have that
connection with how many of
00:47:50.03\00:47:54.40
you that grocery secretly on
port. Yeah, absolutely. And
that's you know, yeah, I'm a
00:47:54.40\00:48:03.18
church member in a lot of times.
We're not aware of our members
00:48:03.18\00:48:07.25
who are suffering because they
don't always share right intro.
Our Yeah, we've taken church
00:48:07.25\00:48:16.39
Memphis. Shop. Take them in the
Ross and say let's buy some
things for we pay for somebody.
00:48:16.39\00:48:19.43
yeah. You know, you see
somebody. >> They have just a
few things and you can tell they
00:48:19.43\00:48:25.00
don't have the money goes
further and be like, hey, please
pay for this morning must win to
00:48:25.00\00:48:30.54
stay at the open and you can be
a secret plan to have to put it
on the circumstances
00:48:30.54\00:48:34.94
situated. Some was done that to
me when driving through the
tollbooth and the person
00:48:34.94\00:48:38.85
ahead, they say keep going. This
is Florida person ahead paid
full. You have to go
00:48:38.85\00:48:42.72
through that hole acts of I love
that. >> We're getting questions
00:48:42.72\00:48:52.49
prayer Let's jump into that
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This is a question. From
00:49:05.94\00:49:16.05
Trinidad and Tobago. What are
the best ways a young person can
fall in love with Jesus in
00:49:16.05\00:49:22.62
seen his beauty in times like
these. I don't know who wants to
jump in first, but one of
00:49:22.62\00:49:29.60
the best way someone can fall in
love with Jesus and especially a
00:49:29.60\00:49:35.47
young person. He I almost think
they should find out with their
love languages first and then
00:49:35.47\00:49:39.21
look at the Bible. >> That feeds
that particular Loveline region
00:49:39.21\00:49:45.98
start The prayers, the first
thing. >> Yeah. When you when
you >> talk to the Lord and you
00:49:45.98\00:49:51.92
pray to him and say I want to
love you, Lord, show me how help
help stir my heart to
00:49:51.92\00:49:57.96
fall in love with you. But acts
of service helping other people.
When you when you do
00:49:57.96\00:50:05.23
things for someone else to get
outside of yourself. So if
you're doing 2 different
00:50:05.23\00:50:08.34
things, help others and pray to
the Lord and to increase the
love in your heart, you
00:50:08.34\00:50:14.64
and show you how to fall in love
with him. And I think is a
start. Sometimes people just
00:50:14.64\00:50:18.95
want to see lived out. I
thinking, you know, some banter,
someone, especially
00:50:18.95\00:50:25.09
young people, they they watch
everything that we do. If we're
saying we're Christian.
00:50:25.09\00:50:28.92
>> They're going to watch
everything. I mean, people make
mistakes. But I think
00:50:28.92\00:50:31.76
it's when you see a person
that's honest about your
mistakes. And, you know, that
00:50:31.76\00:50:39.07
would make me want respect And
so if someone is learning, God
wants to learn more. Serving
00:50:39.07\00:50:47.88
people, that if there's someone
the shows that they can ask
enter be open. Yeah.
00:50:47.88\00:50:54.55
And as a young person, a lot of
young people have a distorted
view of love. I want
00:50:54.55\00:50:58.12
to say because of the media. >>
And so that is another thing to
keep in mind that you
00:50:58.12\00:51:04.93
almost need to look for those
role models. Yeah, of when God
would see love love to that
00:51:04.93\00:51:11.97
yeah, there's too much out there
that I see so many young people
00:51:11.97\00:51:18.14
on the they love language and
what's happening in the home is
not there. Yeah. And so that is
00:51:18.14\00:51:23.78
a good question because you do
need to look for those
affirmations of how you see
00:51:23.78\00:51:28.72
Christ and sometimes it is
through other Absolutely. This
is prayer from Sandra. It
00:51:28.72\00:51:33.72
doesn't say where she's from. I
need prayer. I need forgiveness
from the Lord. I have been
00:51:33.72\00:51:39.39
unfaithful to him. >> Please
pray for me. I know this is not
00:51:39.39\00:51:46.63
a question, but when you've you
have anything, we will pray
before the end of this hour. But
00:51:46.63\00:51:49.90
would any of you have anything
you want to share with Sandra
right now? >> Having all of us
00:51:49.90\00:51:55.71
felt like we've been unfaithful
at one time absolutely I stumble
way more than I want to. And the
00:51:55.71\00:52:00.88
most important thing is that you
run to the Lord. This is really
a man vile, just submit
00:52:00.88\00:52:07.86
to him immediately and not
struggle against it, not let
state and put that guilt on
00:52:07.86\00:52:13.13
all go. Did you go to God
quickly Lord, I've stumbled,
please forgive me. And he will
00:52:13.13\00:52:20.27
it. Learn from your mistakes.
Don't don't do well. anyone I
was going to see limitations.
00:52:20.27\00:52:28.68
3.22. Or 23 thinking that his
mercies are new every morning >>
Every David, he gives us is
00:52:28.68\00:52:33.82
an opportunity to for his mercy
and his faithfulness and its his
00:52:33.82\00:52:42.19
faithfulness is so much bigger
than our mistakes and that we
can come to him and he'll
00:52:42.19\00:52:45.89
forgive us and we have a new
clean slate. >> You know what I
love. This was transformational
00:52:45.89\00:52:51.93
in my own walk with God. When I
discovered that I could claim
the promises and the word by
00:52:51.93\00:52:55.87
faith and I didn't have to go by
how I felt. I don't know how
many times I went before.
00:52:55.87\00:53:00.24
God, you know, first 1, 9, it's
as if we confess our sins. He is
00:53:00.24\00:53:04.78
faithful and just to forgive and
to cleanse us from all
unrighteousness the so many
00:53:04.78\00:53:10.19
times I'd say, but I'm not
forgiving. It got we forgive me,
but but I'm not forgiving God.
00:53:10.19\00:53:14.06
Would you forgive And I would
myself. Yes, Act me, please. >>
I'm asking you. And the
00:53:14.06\00:53:20.03
word says he forgives instantly
and you don't have to do
penance. You don't have
00:53:20.03\00:53:24.97
to bake you ask and whether you
feel it or not, his word is true
team. so we base our
00:53:24.97\00:53:29.97
faith on that. This is from
Bernadette and Maryland. Please
lift up my son, Jaycee
00:53:29.97\00:53:35.94
in your prayers. Pray that God
will bring him back into the
fold and have a closer walk
00:53:35.94\00:53:41.65
with him. Pray for his siblings
as well. We need them saved in
00:53:41.65\00:53:47.69
God's kingdom. And I'm going to
read to more prayers and then
more prey. This is from Michigan
00:53:47.69\00:53:52.03
requesting prayers for my adult
kids who are no longer in church
and the agony I have
00:53:52.03\00:53:59.63
from relationships are strained
in all ways. >> You're not
00:53:59.63\00:54:04.44
alone. just as Roger in Utah
pray for my brother, Denis. We
found out today he will need
00:54:04.44\00:54:12.15
bypass surgery. He loves and
trusts the There's another
question, but we'll wait for the
00:54:12.15\00:54:18.05
start of the second hour ask
that. But let's pray over this.
Francine, you want to start.
00:54:18.05\00:54:25.26
And then if anyone else wants to
jump in. >> Definitely father,
00:54:25.26\00:54:29.50
thank you. That we can come to
you in and that we left this
pair requesting a special way,
00:54:29.50\00:54:36.71
especially for loved ones. And
you know each need? And I'm sure
that there's so many more
00:54:36.71\00:54:40.84
likely does that we pray for our
children we know that your love
abound. So please, lord
00:54:40.84\00:54:48.42
and on their behalf. Show your
love give them the wisdom and
that the Holy Spirit influence
00:54:48.42\00:54:57.93
hearts. if even if they seem
colder, they don't want you holy
00:54:57.93\00:55:06.80
spirit, can of >> Lord, you said
contend with me now contend.
With you and I'll save my save
00:55:06.80\00:55:12.61
your children Florida. promise
me we pray for the parents at
all. That word about their
00:55:12.61\00:55:20.72
children. But Lord, you love
them. want them in the kingdom
lot. The person with a heart
00:55:20.72\00:55:25.75
issue. Yeah. I pray for that
person. He was going to have the
surgery. I have a brother
00:55:25.75\00:55:33.06
and a nephew that's about to
have heart surgery. I know it's
a very serious matter. So
00:55:33.06\00:55:39.47
Lord, be mask position, give
comfort and peace to the family
help them to know that
00:55:39.47\00:55:47.31
they loved and cared for by. You
can Lord every prayer that is
sent top to have will be
00:55:47.31\00:55:53.01
answered by you and we
thank you. grace and humor ¤
00:55:53.01\00:56:02.26
Other help us to continue
praying for our children. just
give up on them. You never
00:56:02.26\00:56:08.80
give up shoulders. >> And
father, let us persevere and to
00:56:08.80\00:56:15.00
continue asking father, you
know, the hearts and, you know,
our hearts and our our love. We
00:56:15.00\00:56:18.91
have for them. Other help us
give our children to you and to
trust children. Father.
00:56:18.91\00:56:27.28
¤ >> You know this family and be
with The one that having heart
00:56:27.28\00:56:39.03
surgery lowered, he's been with
the doctors pits right doctors
and guide their hands
00:56:39.03\00:56:41.56
as they do that delicate surgery
lore. I prayed for my husband
for 11 years. I know
00:56:41.56\00:56:50.21
your I know in your time just
help the parents to be faithful.
00:56:50.21\00:56:57.65
Help teach them to lean on, you
take guide them to guide their
children. More. We continue to
00:56:57.65\00:57:01.92
be that example. You know, ice
>> Time and thank you all so
much to know. What have you
00:57:01.92\00:57:07.76
pray next hour for like that? We
ran out of time. We're coming to
the end of the first
00:57:07.76\00:57:12.49
hours. We talk about the face
of self-love. >> McCain talked
00:57:12.49\00:57:16.80
about quality time in the
importance of spending that time
with those that you love and
00:57:16.80\00:57:21.67
spending time with Jesus. Angela
van der Valk talk about acts of
service and the importance of
00:57:21.67\00:57:29.28
sharing and doing things for
others and that the Lord Jesus
gave the ultimate sacrifice
00:57:29.28\00:57:35.98
with the gift of his son. So we
have 3 more faces up to love.
Coming up the next hour
00:57:35.98\00:57:40.86
with more of your questions and
your prayer requests. So stay
00:57:40.86\00:57:45.56
with us. >> We'll be right. ¤ ¤
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