Welcome back to the second hour
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of the prayer and praise program
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where we are emphasizing
the fruit of the Spirit
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found in Galatians 5,
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and what powerful
lessons we've learned
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and great
testimonies you've all shared.
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Thank you for your
insight and your input.
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And that's definitely
a sign of the overflow
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of the fruit of
Christ in your lives.
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And, John, I think it
was you that mentioned,
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if we don't look like Christ
then how can we proclaim Him?
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How can people see Him in us?
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How can we
represent Him to the world
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if we don't look like Him?
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So as we study,
we know that the...
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As we can talk about these,
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we know that the
fruit of the Spirit,
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they don't flow from
rules that we follow.
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They flow from who we follow,
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as Christ lives
out His life in us.
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So I just think
that this is a good time
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to maybe just
focus our minds and say.
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This is my desire
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To honor You
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Lord with all my heart
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I worship You
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All I have within me
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I give You praise
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All that I adore
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Is in You
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Sing Lord, I give You my heart.
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Lord, I give You my heart
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I give You my soul
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I live for You alone
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Every breath that I take
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Every moment I'm awake
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Lord, have Your way in me
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Now we continue with
the fruit of the Spirit
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as Jill Morikone
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gives us kindness.
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You know when I
read Galatians Chapter 5.
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I'm always
struck by the contrast
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between the works of the flesh
and the fruit of the Spirit.
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You know, just before the
fruit of the Spirit comes that
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tremendous list of
the works of the flesh
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and it reminds me of
a self-centered heart
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versus a Christ-centered heart.
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You know, you can be a
self-centered Christian.
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I have walked
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as a self-centered
Christian in my past,
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sometimes in my present.
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A self-centered Christian
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is someone who is
controlled by passion.
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The Christ-centered Christian
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is controlled
by the Holy Spirit.
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A self-centered
Christian is a slave to sin.
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A Christ-centered Christian
dies to self and to sin.
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A self-centered Christian
shows the fruit of sin.
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A Christ-centered Christian
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exhibits the
fruit of the Spirit.
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A self-centered
Christian walks in lust.
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A Christ-centered
Christian walks in love.
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A self-centered
Christian is an idolater,
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and a Christ-centered
Christian lives for others.
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You and I can never
have the fruit of the Spirit
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without the
Spirit dwelling in us.
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Only when we have Christ
in us, the hope of glory,
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only when we walk and
allow Him to walk in us,
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to live out His
life in us, can we hope
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to exhibit any of
those fruit of the Spirit.
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My fruit, kindness.
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The essence of
kindness is thoughtfulness
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for other people above yourself.
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It's the desire to
encourage and help other people
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to reach out and minister.
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In the Greek for
Galatians for kindness.
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It actually is useful kindness.
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I like that word.
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Useful kindness,
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not just kindness that's put on.
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Kindness that's a show,
but kindness that's practical.
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Kindness that is
a smile for someone.
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Kindness that is
a word for someone.
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Kindness that is getting
out of your own busy schedule
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and ministering to
the needs of someone else.
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You know, recently
I've been revisiting
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the Last Supper and
the disciples there,
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and three words
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have been impressed on my mind.
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And I keep thinking them
for some reason over and over.
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And those three
words are, is it I?
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Remember when Jesus said,
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"One of you are
going to betray Me."
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And the disciples
looked at each other
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and then they
looked at their master
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and they said, "Is it I?"
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And I thought, what
was wrong with them?
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Did they think
they're going to betray Jesus?
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Why did they even question that?
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Did they even
know their own heart?
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And then just, I wish
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I could tell you this
is a last, long time ago,
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just a week ago, I
had an is it I moment.
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And I was in a
discussion with someone.
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And my unkindness came out.
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My pride came out.
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And I was reminded again,
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that I need Jesus.
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I need His kindness in my heart
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and in my life and I
looked at the person and I said,
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"I'm so sorry, can we pray?"
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And we did.
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And then the
person left my office
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and I walked out the
back door, here at work,
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and I just walked down the road,
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crying, "Father, is it I?"
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Yes, it is.
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I'm the one who
put you on the cross.
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I'm the one who indulged
in a self-centered heart
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instead of
allowing You to live in me
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with your Christ-centered heart.
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I want Jesus to
live in my heart.
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This new year,
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I want to walk in
the fruit of the Spirit.
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I want to have
Him dwelling inside
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and I want to exhibit
this fruit of kindness.
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I love Romans 2:4,
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"Do you think lightly of
the riches of His kindness,
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and tolerance, and patience
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not knowing it is the goodness,
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it is the kindness of God
that draws us to repentance."
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Jesus responded with
kindness to so many people,
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so many interruptions,
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the children who came to Him
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and the
disciples said, "Go away."
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And He said, "Come, come,
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of such they are of
the kingdom of heaven."
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And the woman with the
issue of blood pressing forward
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to touch the hem of His garment.
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And Jesus stopped
everything that went on.
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And He reached out
and He healed that woman
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exhibiting kindness.
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I love this.
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And this is why
this fruit is for me.
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It says we often
fail to show kindness,
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because we think we're too busy,
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or we don't want
to be interrupted.
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We can become self-absorbed.
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We must always
consider what would Jesus do?
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So I want to
challenge you in the new year.
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Reach out with kindness.
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Reach out with love.
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Take a moment from your schedule
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to see the needs of people,
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your neighbor, your coworker,
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your friend, your spouse,
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a church member and reach
out with kindness toward them.
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And I want to
pray for you just now.
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Holy Father, we come
before You right now.
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And we ask for
opportunities for kindness.
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God, would You show us?
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We are naturally selfish.
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The heart is
deceitful above all things
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and desperately
wicked, who can know it?
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So we ask as we
start this new year,
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would You give us
clean hands and a pure heart?
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Would You come into our hearts?
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Would You wash us clean?
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Would You fill
us with Your Spirit?
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And, God, would
You open up our eyes
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to see
opportunities for kindness,
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opportunities
where we can reach out
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with a smile and with a
word with encouragement.
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Maybe it's taking
time for someone else.
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God, when You give us
opportunities for kindness.
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We want to pray
against the opposite
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of that kindness,
pride in our heart,
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a bitter tongue, hatefulness.
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Father, we ask that
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if that is
resident in our hearts,
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would You root it out
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by the power of
Your Holy Spirit?
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We pray that You
would reveal to us
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those areas of our
lives that we don't even know.
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We come before
you and say, "Is it I?
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Would You show us our heart?
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Would You convict us
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by the power of
Your Holy Spirit?
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Would You wash us with a washing
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of the water of Your Word?
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Would You convert us?
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And would You
enable us to reach out
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with kindness
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toward each person that we meet?
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And we ask this
in Jesus' name, amen.
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I like kindness and the
couple these that are following.
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They get to the nitty-gritty
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of not only
what's going on in us
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but how it affects others.
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Of course, I guess all
of them can be that way
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but kindness especially,
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and we find that
even non-believers,
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they can have a
counterfeit kindness.
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They can put on, as you said,
and even Christians can put on,
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but only through Christ,
can we produce such fruit,
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which is really
what we're called to do.
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And that's what the
Holy Spirit does in us.
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He's not a counterfeit.
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He's actually
producing these fruit in us.
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And so that's the power of
all of this fruit in our lives.
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So thank you, Jill, for that.
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And next we come to
the fruit of the Spirit,
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goodness.
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Greg, begins with G.
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Yeah, Greg, goodness. Okay.
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Thank you, Brother Tim,
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though, for putting
this program together.
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You know, it's a
great way to start the year.
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Hard to believe
that we're in 2022.
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You know, I think about
this past year and, as Tim said,
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if I have the fruit
of the Spirit of goodness
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and I just want to say thank you
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for being a part
of our 3ABN family.
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Thank you for reaching
out to the Ministry of 3ABN.
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We're here as family on the set,
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great, having a
great time together,
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opening the Word of God,
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music too, Tim,
appreciate that so very much.
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But to spend this time with you,
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we look forward to
that each and every day,
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as Mr. Danny always says,
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"Thank you for allowing us
to come into your living room
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or wherever you're
watching or listening
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to this program from."
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But this past year, we received
a lot of letters from you.
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And I have to say
that in those letters,
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there's a lot of heartache.
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You're writing in there
about the loss of a job,
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a loss of a loved one
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or you're
worried about the future.
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But an underlying theme
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through the majority of
the letters that we receive,
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and I'm so encouraged by this.
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And that is that you say
you say it different ways
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in these different
letters that we receive
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but basically it
comes down to this,
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God is good.
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We appreciate your faith,
you know, that inspires us
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here at 3ABN
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because, yeah, there's a lot
of turmoil and stuff going on
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in this world,
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but God is good.
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And another theme that
we find in your letters
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that you send to us here
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is that this
world is not our home,
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we have something much
better to look forward to.
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So there's hope, right?
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In the midst of
everything that's going on,
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boy, there's so much hope.
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One being that God is good,
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we can trust Him in
the midst of everything.
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And I'm going
back to the first hour,
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hopefully you were
tuned into the first hour.
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Mr. Danny was
talking about his dad.
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And I have to also
reflect on my father as well.
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Someone that we looked up to,
you're looking up to your dad.
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Well, I look up
to my mom and dad,
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especially my dad.
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And we also, it's
kind of interesting,
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we didn't have a lot
growing up kind of like you
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as well and I'm
sure many of you at home,
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and I just have to
appreciate my father so much.
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We didn't have a lot
and, of course, me being,
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I hate to say it, at times
probably a bit spoilt maybe.
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I would just say,
"Dad, I want this.
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I want a new motorcycle."
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Well, my parents
couldn't afford that.
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My dad worked extremely hard.
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But things always
didn't just work out right.
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And sometimes my dad
would be driving home from work
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and he would pass,
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may I say this, somebody's
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where they're
throwing out their trash
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by the side of the
road or a little yard sale.
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And one day I'll
never forget this,
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he came home
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with a little 50
cc Honda motorcycle
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that didn't run.
00:14:04.04\00:14:05.37
He said, "Son, we're
going to work on this together."
00:14:08.48\00:14:11.11
So we got it running.
00:14:11.15\00:14:12.91
And it didn't even
have a gas cap on it.
00:14:12.95\00:14:14.88
So every time
you ride over a bump,
00:14:14.92\00:14:16.25
the gas would slosh out.
00:14:16.28\00:14:18.32
So this is what my dad did.
00:14:18.35\00:14:19.69
We couldn't
afford a new gas cap.
00:14:19.72\00:14:21.06
So what we did, we took
a little piece of tinfoil
00:14:21.09\00:14:22.79
put a rubber band
around the tin foil.
00:14:22.82\00:14:24.86
Well, petroleum
also eats out rubber.
00:14:24.89\00:14:27.10
So every so often we have
to replace that rubber band
00:14:27.13\00:14:29.10
because the rubber band
00:14:29.13\00:14:30.47
would be
disintegrated by the gasoline
00:14:30.50\00:14:31.83
that was sloshing out
but that kind of kept it
00:14:31.87\00:14:33.20
from coming out.
00:14:33.23\00:14:34.57
What I'm getting to is
the goodness of my dad.
00:14:34.60\00:14:36.30
He couldn't provide
00:14:36.34\00:14:37.87
the best brand
new motorcycle for me
00:14:37.91\00:14:39.87
but he saw something and said,
00:14:39.91\00:14:41.24
"You know, my
son would like this.
00:14:41.28\00:14:42.61
Let's do that together."
00:14:42.64\00:14:43.98
So what a great time.
00:14:44.01\00:14:45.35
Now this transition, of course,
to the goodness of God, right?
00:14:45.38\00:14:47.72
Because the Bible
talks about, Tim, right?
00:14:47.75\00:14:50.75
How much our
own earthly parents,
00:14:50.79\00:14:52.35
I was blessed with great folks,
00:14:52.39\00:14:53.99
want to give us good
gifts but how much more, what?
00:14:54.02\00:14:58.43
He wants to
provide for us, right?
00:14:58.46\00:14:59.89
That's the goodness of God.
00:14:59.93\00:15:01.46
We've got a great dad.
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I'm blessed with an earthly
father that was wonderful,
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so is Mr. Danny.
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I'm sure all of us
can testify to our dads.
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Some of you may not have a
really good home situation.
00:15:07.97\00:15:11.81
God's your father,
He's the ultimate father
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and He's got good gifts for you.
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Psalm 107:1 says,
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"Oh, Give thanks
unto the Lord for," what?
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"He's good." Praise the Lord.
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Psalm 119:68 says,
00:15:26.22\00:15:28.92
"You are good,
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and all you do is good."
00:15:30.39\00:15:35.86
Another characteristic
of goodness makes people do
00:15:35.90\00:15:39.30
what they say they will do.
00:15:39.33\00:15:40.80
Goodness does what it does
00:15:40.84\00:15:43.87
because it's the
right thing to do.
00:15:43.91\00:15:45.94
It's closely
associated with kindness
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because good people
act out of good intentions
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and the kindness of heart.
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You know, we're
talking about goodness,
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you know, my dad was just good.
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He was looking for something,
he couldn't provide brand new
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but he found something.
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It's goodness, right?
00:16:00.22\00:16:02.09
Talking about God,
He's perfect goodness.
00:16:02.12\00:16:05.29
So my dad would always tell me,
"Son, anything you see in me."
00:16:05.33\00:16:08.96
He said, "Don't look at me."
00:16:09.00\00:16:10.33
He said, "Look to God
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because He's the one
you need to emulate."
00:16:11.73\00:16:13.40
So my prayer for this new year,
00:16:13.44\00:16:15.87
Brother Tim, is
to have the goodness,
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not of just my dad, right?
00:16:18.57\00:16:19.91
But the goodness
of my Heavenly Dad,
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that is Jesus Christ.
00:16:22.28\00:16:23.95
I want to be good
through and through.
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You know, I like apples.
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I, right? I love apples.
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He eats one every day.
00:16:31.92\00:16:33.25
Yeah, maybe two or three a day.
00:16:33.29\00:16:34.79
Yeah. We buy a
lot of apples at home.
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We do.
00:16:36.89\00:16:38.23
And there's some nice
apple orchards just south
00:16:38.26\00:16:39.89
toward Carbondale area.
00:16:39.93\00:16:41.26
Yeah.
00:16:41.30\00:16:42.63
So, one time I
saw this great apple
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I said, "Man, this is great."
00:16:44.37\00:16:45.77
Man, I took a big
bite. I mean, a big bite.
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Jill says I have a
big mouth at times, right?
00:16:48.44\00:16:50.21
Sorry.
00:16:50.24\00:16:51.57
So I took a big bite.
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Not literally just that
the jaw is large, that's all.
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Well, I do tend to talk a
little bit sometimes, Tim.
00:16:56.51\00:16:58.51
Is that kindness
showing there literally?
00:16:58.55\00:17:01.75
So I took a bite of
this really good juicy apple.
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Man, it was good.
00:17:05.05\00:17:06.42
Wow, the juice and
everything, you know, you just.
00:17:06.45\00:17:08.42
That was great and I
pulled the apple away
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and there was half
a worm in the apple.
00:17:09.96\00:17:13.93
So the other half of the worm
was in my mouth, Brother Tim.
00:17:13.96\00:17:16.73
Wow.
00:17:16.77\00:17:18.10
Well, I won't tell you
what happened really next
00:17:18.13\00:17:19.47
so but anyway,
00:17:19.50\00:17:21.50
that apple was not
good through and through.
00:17:21.54\00:17:23.61
Yeah, I did get some protein.
00:17:23.64\00:17:24.97
So what I'm getting at
that apple was not good
00:17:25.01\00:17:27.98
through and through.
00:17:28.01\00:17:29.34
It looked good,
right? On the outside.
00:17:29.38\00:17:30.71
I don't want to be a
Christian that just looks good
00:17:30.75\00:17:32.95
on the outside and on the inside
00:17:32.98\00:17:34.32
I'm rotten and I got worms
00:17:34.35\00:17:35.68
and stuff going
on in the inside.
00:17:35.72\00:17:37.05
Well, I want to be
good through and through.
00:17:37.09\00:17:38.42
But like Tim just said,
boy, we can become discouraged
00:17:38.45\00:17:41.66
saying there's no way
I can make myself good.
00:17:41.69\00:17:43.66
That's the problem. You
can't make yourself good.
00:17:43.69\00:17:45.96
The Heavenly Father is
the one that makes you good.
00:17:45.99\00:17:48.20
So let's pray about getting the
goodness of God in our hearts.
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Father in Heaven, wow, we
have so much to praise You
00:17:51.87\00:17:55.34
for and right now in
this program of prayer
00:17:55.37\00:17:58.07
and praise,
00:17:58.11\00:17:59.67
we are praising
You for Your goodness.
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Of ourselves, all
the fruit of the Spirit
00:18:04.41\00:18:06.08
that we're
talking about here today,
00:18:06.11\00:18:08.15
we can't muster
that up in ourselves,
00:18:08.18\00:18:12.19
that comes from You.
00:18:12.22\00:18:14.22
And the song that we
sang here a little while back
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about surrendering all to you
00:18:16.29\00:18:18.93
that's what we do again
right now in this program
00:18:18.96\00:18:21.26
is surrender our
lives to you saying,
00:18:21.30\00:18:23.70
"Father fill me,
make me like You.
00:18:23.73\00:18:27.27
We pray for Your
goodness to shine out of us."
00:18:27.30\00:18:31.04
Not my goodness or you at home,
your goodness, it's not ours,
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it's God's.
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And so, Father,
thank You for filling us.
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We look forward with great hope
00:18:37.28\00:18:39.25
and anticipation
to this new year 2022.
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What great things you have in
store for the ministry of 3ABN,
00:18:42.72\00:18:46.15
for our dear family at home.
00:18:46.19\00:18:47.89
Together, Father,
00:18:47.92\00:18:49.32
we be able to
finish this work together
00:18:49.36\00:18:50.76
and soon and very soon,
we will be home with you
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and in Jesus' name we pray.
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Amen.
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It's great, Greg.
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Love the goodness of God.
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Oh, Lord
00:19:01.24\00:19:05.01
You have been good
00:19:05.04\00:19:09.71
You have been faithful
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To all generation
00:19:14.48\00:19:19.49
Oh, Lord
00:19:19.52\00:19:23.99
Your steadfast love
00:19:24.03\00:19:28.66
And tender mercy
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Have been our salvation
00:19:33.20\00:19:38.31
For by your hand
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We have been filled
00:19:42.91\00:19:47.68
And by Your Spirit
00:19:47.72\00:19:52.72
We have been led
00:19:52.75\00:19:57.96
Oh, Lord
00:19:57.99\00:20:02.53
Almighty God
00:20:02.56\00:20:07.07
Father unchanging
00:20:07.10\00:20:11.47
So upright and holy
00:20:11.51\00:20:17.01
Oh, Lord
00:20:17.05\00:20:21.68
You have been good
00:20:21.72\00:20:26.45
You have been faithful
00:20:26.49\00:20:31.99
You have
00:20:32.03\00:20:33.73
Been good
00:20:33.76\00:20:39.47
Then there's another
song that reminds me of that.
00:20:39.50\00:20:43.81
All my life
00:20:43.84\00:20:45.67
You have been faithful
00:20:45.71\00:20:51.35
And all my life
00:20:51.38\00:20:52.95
You have been so, so good
00:20:52.98\00:20:58.89
With every breath that I am able
00:20:58.92\00:21:04.73
I will sing
00:21:04.76\00:21:07.23
Of the goodness of God
00:21:07.26\00:21:14.24
'Cause your
goodness is running after
00:21:14.27\00:21:17.67
It's running after me
00:21:17.71\00:21:22.14
Your goodness is running after
00:21:22.18\00:21:25.35
It's running after me
00:21:25.38\00:21:28.58
With my life laid down
00:21:28.62\00:21:30.99
I'm surrendered now
00:21:31.02\00:21:32.99
I'm giving you everything
00:21:33.02\00:21:37.59
'Cause your
goodness is running after
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It's running after me
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That's what the
Psalm 1 said, right?
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Surely goodness and mercy
00:21:45.73\00:21:47.70
will run after me
all the days of my life.
00:21:47.74\00:21:49.60
You've been good to me
00:21:49.64\00:21:53.11
Through all, all the years
00:21:53.14\00:21:58.38
You've been good to me
00:21:58.41\00:22:01.65
Through joys and tears
00:22:01.68\00:22:07.36
I want to thank You, Lord
00:22:07.39\00:22:11.79
For all You've done
00:22:11.83\00:22:15.80
You've been good to me
00:22:15.83\00:22:21.60
Through all the years
00:22:21.64\00:22:26.27
You've been good to me,
00:22:26.31\00:22:30.88
Lord You've been
so very good to me
00:22:30.91\00:22:34.75
Very good to me
00:22:34.78\00:22:38.75
Through all, all the years
00:22:38.79\00:22:44.29
God is so good.
00:22:44.33\00:22:46.23
All the time, He is really good.
00:22:46.26\00:22:50.60
Wow.
00:22:50.63\00:22:51.97
See now, Mr. Tim, I
want to just comment on that
00:22:52.00\00:22:53.74
'cause I'm thinking
about that song, Mr. Danny,
00:22:53.77\00:22:55.24
just recently
there was a young man
00:22:55.27\00:22:57.24
that came here as
a general contractor,
00:22:57.27\00:22:59.21
never been to 3ABN before
00:22:59.24\00:23:01.34
and told him briefly
the story here and I said,
00:23:01.38\00:23:03.35
"Hey, you know, let's
go over to the Uplink."
00:23:03.38\00:23:04.95
He said, "The Uplink?" I said,
"Yeah, let's go over there.
00:23:04.98\00:23:06.98
You got a
minute." He said, "Sure."
00:23:07.02\00:23:08.35
Well, the Uplink's
the original 3ABN spot
00:23:08.38\00:23:10.35
where God just worked a miracle.
00:23:10.39\00:23:12.35
And I think about
the goodness of the Lord.
00:23:12.39\00:23:14.46
I'm thinking
about your faithfulness
00:23:14.49\00:23:16.16
to the Lord's calling.
00:23:16.19\00:23:17.53
And I took this
young man over there.
00:23:17.56\00:23:19.36
And there's nothing like
actually seen in real life,
00:23:19.39\00:23:21.03
right?
00:23:21.06\00:23:22.40
So I took him there
and we looked at the dish,
00:23:22.43\00:23:23.77
I said, "Do you realize
that this land that was donated,
00:23:23.80\00:23:26.57
that there was a
free signal to space
00:23:26.60\00:23:27.94
with that satellite dish?
00:23:27.97\00:23:29.30
That was the only spot in
this area in southern Illinois.
00:23:29.34\00:23:31.51
God knew all about that."
00:23:31.54\00:23:32.87
"Wow,
incredible." He's just there.
00:23:32.91\00:23:34.41
This young man's
like, "Wow, that's amazing."
00:23:34.44\00:23:37.31
I said, "Look down that drive.
00:23:37.35\00:23:38.85
You see that three
phase power down there?"
00:23:38.88\00:23:40.48
"Yeah, I do."
00:23:40.52\00:23:41.85
I said, "That was
here before 3ABN was here
00:23:41.88\00:23:45.52
and we needed three phase power.
00:23:45.55\00:23:47.62
Why was three phase power out
in the middle of a cornfield?"
00:23:47.66\00:23:52.69
I didn't really know
his religious experience
00:23:52.73\00:23:55.46
and he didn't really
acknowledge God in a way.
00:23:55.50\00:23:58.10
But he just
looked at me and he said,
00:23:58.13\00:23:59.80
"You couldn't
plan that, could you?"
00:23:59.83\00:24:01.64
I said, "No."
00:24:01.67\00:24:03.10
I said, "That's
the divine appointment
00:24:03.14\00:24:05.14
that God had those things
in place for 3ABN to start."
00:24:05.17\00:24:09.18
And I mentioned to him
also, I said, "Mr. Danny."
00:24:09.21\00:24:10.81
I said, "The founder of 3ABN,
this road that you see here,
00:24:10.85\00:24:14.32
the foundation that was
done five gallons at a time
00:24:14.35\00:24:16.38
with diesel fuel,
that's all we could afford."
00:24:16.42\00:24:18.05
I said, "Then the money came in,
00:24:18.09\00:24:20.02
as you stepped out in faith."
00:24:20.06\00:24:22.22
This young man blown
away, talking about, of course,
00:24:22.26\00:24:25.09
the goodness of God, the
faithfulness of His people,
00:24:25.13\00:24:27.53
the faithfulness of you,
what an absolute inspiration.
00:24:27.56\00:24:30.07
So if you just sing
that song, boy, well,
00:24:30.10\00:24:32.23
it just touches
me in a special way.
00:24:32.27\00:24:34.97
Yeah,
absolutely. That's wonderful.
00:24:35.00\00:24:36.67
And which leads us to,
of course, the faithfulness,
00:24:36.71\00:24:40.34
the fruit of the
Spirit in faithfulness
00:24:40.38\00:24:42.68
and we will find
that it's the faithfulness
00:24:42.71\00:24:46.15
that the Spirit produces in us
00:24:46.18\00:24:48.95
that's what as I was
preparing for this study,
00:24:48.98\00:24:54.36
that's one of the
things that I noticed.
00:24:54.39\00:24:56.32
So maybe, John, you
can expound on the fruit
00:24:56.36\00:24:58.79
of the Spirit or is it
do you have faithfulness?
00:24:58.83\00:25:00.96
Jill, I mean, you
have faithfulness?
00:25:01.00\00:25:02.33
I have faithfulness.
Okay. All right. Good.
00:25:02.36\00:25:03.87
Jill is going to
expound on it then so well.
00:25:03.90\00:25:06.13
I love the word faithfulness
in the Greek is pistis.
00:25:06.17\00:25:10.21
And it can be translated
faith or faithfulness.
00:25:10.24\00:25:15.28
And I don't know in your life
00:25:15.31\00:25:17.05
maybe people
haven't been very faithful.
00:25:17.08\00:25:19.55
Maybe you say my
spouse wasn't faithful
00:25:19.58\00:25:21.62
and my parents weren't faithful.
00:25:21.65\00:25:24.05
And the people in my
life when I need faithfulness,
00:25:24.09\00:25:27.49
when I need
someone to be steady,
00:25:27.52\00:25:28.99
somebody I can hold on
to, they haven't been there.
00:25:29.02\00:25:32.89
But I want to tell you
that your God is faithful.
00:25:32.93\00:25:37.10
Lamentations 3 says,
"It is of the Lord's mercies
00:25:37.13\00:25:40.37
that we are not
consumed because His compassions
00:25:40.40\00:25:42.40
they fail not.
00:25:42.44\00:25:43.77
They are new every morning."
00:25:43.81\00:25:45.14
Great is your faithfulness.
00:25:45.17\00:25:48.61
Great is God's faithfulness.
00:25:48.64\00:25:50.85
When you don't know
where to turn, God is there.
00:25:50.88\00:25:53.55
When you don't know
where the money is going
00:25:53.58\00:25:55.15
to come in for
groceries, God will provide.
00:25:55.18\00:25:58.92
When you don't see your
way out of a difficulty,
00:25:58.95\00:26:01.89
God is faithful.
00:26:01.92\00:26:03.86
When your marriage is crumbling
or hope has disintegrated,
00:26:03.89\00:26:07.40
when your kids have
turned their back on God
00:26:07.43\00:26:10.00
or people don't talk to you
anymore when you go to church,
00:26:10.03\00:26:13.20
God is faithful.
00:26:13.23\00:26:16.57
God is faithful in your life.
00:26:16.60\00:26:21.08
I love this.
00:26:21.11\00:26:22.44
We think about the
faithfulness we ought to exhibit
00:26:22.48\00:26:25.55
and truly we should
exhibit faithfulness.
00:26:25.58\00:26:27.92
Hebrews 11 is filled
with a list of those men
00:26:27.95\00:26:32.39
and women in the Word,
00:26:32.42\00:26:34.46
who had their mess
ups and their mistakes
00:26:34.49\00:26:37.39
and yet they exhibited faith.
00:26:37.43\00:26:40.36
Pistis or
faithfulness, the same word.
00:26:40.40\00:26:44.17
They walked in faith,
00:26:44.20\00:26:46.17
they walked in faithfulness
00:26:46.20\00:26:49.37
but it's not our faithfulness.
00:26:49.40\00:26:51.51
It is God's
faithfulness that resides in us,
00:26:51.54\00:26:56.18
that even enables
you and I to be faithful
00:26:56.21\00:27:00.32
towards someone else,
to be faithful toward God.
00:27:00.35\00:27:04.65
The words of Moses
in Deuteronomy 32:4,
00:27:04.69\00:27:09.19
"The Rock, His work is
perfect, all His ways are just,
00:27:09.22\00:27:14.03
a God of
faithfulness without injustice,
00:27:14.06\00:27:18.00
righteous and upright is He."
00:27:18.03\00:27:20.64
I think about Moses, you
know, he was in that line
00:27:20.67\00:27:23.17
of Hebrews 11,
those heroes of the faith
00:27:23.20\00:27:25.57
and you think about
the children of Israel
00:27:25.61\00:27:27.31
at the golden calf
experience and Moses said,
00:27:27.34\00:27:30.45
"Wait a minute, what
are these people doing?"
00:27:30.48\00:27:32.28
And God said, "I'm
going to blot them out
00:27:32.31\00:27:34.68
and I'm going create a
whole new people from you."
00:27:34.72\00:27:36.75
And what did Moses do?
00:27:36.79\00:27:38.19
He went up and He interceded
his faithfulness for the people
00:27:38.22\00:27:43.63
that God had called him to lead,
00:27:43.66\00:27:47.26
called him to minister for.
00:27:47.30\00:27:50.27
And he said, "God,
You are our faithful God.
00:27:50.30\00:27:52.27
God, You are our loving God.
00:27:52.30\00:27:54.10
God, honor your
word for these people.
00:27:54.14\00:27:57.34
Do not blot them out.
00:27:57.37\00:27:58.81
And if you do, take my
name out of the book of life."
00:27:58.84\00:28:04.58
The faithfulness of God,
00:28:04.61\00:28:06.58
do you want to
experience faithfulness,
00:28:06.61\00:28:09.62
pistis, in your walk with God?
00:28:09.65\00:28:13.39
Ask Him to give it to you.
00:28:13.42\00:28:16.12
Ask Him to in birth His faith,
00:28:16.16\00:28:20.30
His faithfulness in
your life, as a believer.
00:28:20.33\00:28:24.67
2 Timothy 4, this is, of course,
00:28:24.70\00:28:28.64
Paul's last book, right?
00:28:28.67\00:28:30.47
Right before he's beheaded,
00:28:30.51\00:28:33.34
written to his son
in the faith, Timothy.
00:28:33.38\00:28:35.28
He is in prison
knowing that he's going to die.
00:28:35.31\00:28:39.35
And he says, "I
fought the good fight.
00:28:39.38\00:28:42.02
I finished the
course, I have kept the faith.
00:28:42.05\00:28:47.72
Henceforth, there is laid out
for me a crown of righteousness
00:28:47.76\00:28:52.59
which the Lord,
the Righteous Judge,
00:28:52.63\00:28:54.26
will give me at that day
00:28:54.30\00:28:55.76
and not to me only
but to all them also
00:28:55.80\00:28:57.97
who love His appearing."
00:28:58.00\00:28:59.53
Do you want that?
00:28:59.57\00:29:00.90
Do you want to walk in
such faithfulness toward God,
00:29:00.94\00:29:05.14
toward other people,
that you can say, "Yes, God,
00:29:05.17\00:29:08.14
I have fought the good fight."
00:29:08.18\00:29:10.25
Let's pray.
00:29:10.28\00:29:11.61
Holy Father, of ourselves,
we don't have faithfulness.
00:29:11.65\00:29:13.92
We can't walk in that.
00:29:13.95\00:29:15.38
But first of all,
we are grateful that
00:29:15.42\00:29:17.02
You are faithful toward us.
00:29:17.05\00:29:19.05
Thank You for Your faithfulness.
00:29:19.09\00:29:21.46
Thank You that
while I was a sinner,
00:29:21.49\00:29:25.49
You died for me.
00:29:25.53\00:29:27.66
Lord, I pray for my
brothers and sisters just now.
00:29:27.70\00:29:30.13
Those who have not yet
experienced Your faithfulness
00:29:30.17\00:29:33.74
or maybe they're
just in a dry time,
00:29:33.77\00:29:35.74
a time where they can't
see or sense or hear or know
00:29:35.77\00:29:40.51
or feel that You are with them.
00:29:40.54\00:29:43.55
God, would You reveal
Your faithfulness to them?
00:29:43.58\00:29:48.75
Would they see
You for who You are?
00:29:48.78\00:29:52.39
And, Father, we want to respond
in faithfulness toward You.
00:29:52.42\00:29:56.89
Not because of
anything we have done,
00:29:56.93\00:29:59.39
but we open up our hearts
to receive Your faithfulness,
00:29:59.43\00:30:03.06
no matter the test,
no matter the trial,
00:30:03.10\00:30:07.80
no matter what we face,
00:30:07.84\00:30:10.24
we say just now as
for me and my house,
00:30:10.27\00:30:15.48
we will serve the Lord.
00:30:15.51\00:30:18.98
And we thank You
00:30:19.01\00:30:20.85
that You will help us seal
that commitment in Jesus' name.
00:30:20.88\00:30:25.09
Amen.
00:30:25.12\00:30:26.45
That's great.
00:30:26.49\00:30:27.82
And while we're praying,
00:30:27.86\00:30:29.19
I just want to pray
for the missionaries
00:30:29.22\00:30:31.79
who are faithful
to give their lives
00:30:31.83\00:30:35.33
to the cause of Christ,
00:30:35.36\00:30:36.93
to the effect of Christ.
00:30:36.97\00:30:40.34
So, Father, I just ask
that You would be with those
00:30:40.37\00:30:42.60
who are in harm's way,
00:30:42.64\00:30:47.64
in disease, in
the way of disease
00:30:47.68\00:30:49.81
and they don't
have maybe clean water
00:30:49.84\00:30:53.48
and safe conditions.
00:30:53.52\00:30:55.88
They've given their lives.
00:30:55.92\00:30:57.25
They've been
faithful to the cross,
00:30:57.29\00:30:59.99
faithful to the call.
00:31:00.02\00:31:03.73
Father, I thank You
for those who are sharing,
00:31:03.76\00:31:06.39
spreading the good
news around the world.
00:31:06.43\00:31:09.23
God, be their protector,
00:31:09.26\00:31:12.20
be their defense,
be their strength.
00:31:12.23\00:31:17.71
You are their strength,
You are their faithfulness.
00:31:17.74\00:31:20.88
It's just shining through
them, so I thank You for them.
00:31:20.91\00:31:23.98
God, encourage them today.
00:31:24.01\00:31:26.41
And again we thank You for being
00:31:26.45\00:31:28.45
so faithful to
us in Jesus' name.
00:31:28.48\00:31:32.49
It reminds me
of that great song.
00:31:32.52\00:31:35.39
What a friend
00:31:35.42\00:31:38.36
We have in Jesus
00:31:38.39\00:31:44.07
All our sins
00:31:44.10\00:31:46.53
And grieves to bear
00:31:46.57\00:31:51.51
What a privilege
00:31:51.54\00:31:55.24
To carry
00:31:55.28\00:31:59.48
Everything to God
00:31:59.51\00:32:03.35
In prayer
00:32:03.39\00:32:07.46
Oh, what peace
00:32:07.49\00:32:10.23
We often forfeit
00:32:10.26\00:32:15.60
Oh, what needless pain
00:32:15.63\00:32:19.47
We bear
00:32:19.50\00:32:23.51
All because
00:32:23.54\00:32:26.24
We do not carry
00:32:26.27\00:32:31.51
Everything to God
00:32:31.55\00:32:35.55
In prayer
00:32:35.58\00:32:39.52
Have we trials
00:32:39.55\00:32:42.62
And temptations
00:32:42.66\00:32:47.33
Is there trouble
00:32:47.36\00:32:50.57
Anywhere
00:32:50.60\00:32:54.90
We should never
00:32:54.94\00:32:58.04
Be discouraged
00:32:58.07\00:33:02.84
Just take it to the Lord
00:33:02.88\00:33:06.01
In prayer
00:33:06.05\00:33:10.19
Can we find a friend
00:33:10.22\00:33:13.89
So faithful
00:33:13.92\00:33:18.39
Who will our sorrows
00:33:18.43\00:33:22.66
Share
00:33:22.70\00:33:26.33
Jesus knows
00:33:26.37\00:33:29.14
Our every weakness
00:33:29.17\00:33:34.48
Take it to the Lord in prayer
00:33:34.51\00:33:40.72
John, you want
to sing this verse.
00:33:40.75\00:33:43.62
Are we weak and heavy-laden
00:33:43.65\00:33:50.23
Yes.
00:33:50.26\00:33:52.03
Cumbered with
00:33:52.06\00:33:54.60
A load of care
00:33:54.63\00:33:59.87
Precious Savior
00:33:59.90\00:34:03.14
Still our refuge
00:34:03.17\00:34:07.74
I'm going to take it to You Lord
00:34:07.78\00:34:12.88
In prayer
00:34:12.91\00:34:16.95
Do your friends
00:34:16.99\00:34:20.09
Despise or forsake you
00:34:20.12\00:34:25.53
Take it to the Lord
00:34:25.56\00:34:30.07
In prayer
00:34:30.10\00:34:34.34
In His arms
00:34:34.37\00:34:37.71
He'll take and shield me
00:34:37.74\00:34:43.68
You will find a solace there
00:34:43.71\00:34:50.52
Yes, you will.
00:34:50.55\00:34:51.89
Thank the Lord
for His faithfulness.
00:34:55.06\00:34:56.76
Man, we're coming close
00:35:01.56\00:35:02.90
to the end of this
fruit that never ends.
00:35:02.93\00:35:07.94
But, John, I believe you have
the next fruit of gentleness.
00:35:07.97\00:35:13.14
Gentleness.
00:35:13.17\00:35:15.34
You know, the
picture of the shepherd
00:35:15.38\00:35:16.78
is one that came to my mind
00:35:16.81\00:35:18.15
when I thought of gentleness.
00:35:18.18\00:35:20.78
Because, you
know, the Bible says
00:35:20.82\00:35:22.22
all we like
sheep have gone astray.
00:35:22.25\00:35:25.05
And sheep don't like people
00:35:25.09\00:35:26.69
that are not gentle.
00:35:26.72\00:35:28.16
I mean, it's just bottom line.
00:35:28.19\00:35:29.79
We don't, we
can't guide ourselves,
00:35:29.82\00:35:31.93
sheep.
00:35:31.96\00:35:33.29
And I don't want to really say
too many bad things about us.
00:35:33.33\00:35:35.96
But when the Bible
uses the word sheep,
00:35:36.00\00:35:38.60
sheep are not very smart.
00:35:38.63\00:35:39.97
Yes.
00:35:40.00\00:35:41.34
They could be on the
other side of a boulder
00:35:41.37\00:35:43.07
and can't find their way around
the other side of the boulder
00:35:43.10\00:35:45.54
and just starve to death.
00:35:45.57\00:35:47.08
But the Bible says,
00:35:47.11\00:35:48.44
all we like
sheep have gone astray.
00:35:48.48\00:35:51.85
But the shepherd has a
staff, a rod and a staff.
00:35:51.88\00:35:56.85
The rod is to keep
the pursuing enemies away
00:35:56.89\00:36:00.06
from devouring the sheep,
00:36:00.09\00:36:01.42
the wolves, the bears,
00:36:01.46\00:36:02.79
whatever vicious
animal will come,
00:36:02.82\00:36:04.73
but he has the staff.
00:36:04.76\00:36:06.76
And he doesn't yank
the neck of the sheep
00:36:06.80\00:36:09.80
and say, "Get over here."
00:36:09.83\00:36:12.17
He gently, he's saying what?
00:36:12.20\00:36:15.94
I see my mother do that.
00:36:15.97\00:36:19.47
Yeah, we've all
been there before.
00:36:19.51\00:36:22.11
We survived.
00:36:22.14\00:36:24.38
But He's gentle.
00:36:24.41\00:36:25.75
He's a gentle shepherd.
00:36:25.78\00:36:27.45
And the Apostle
Paul, Philippians 4:5.
00:36:27.48\00:36:31.82
The context of this is
just so apropos to today.
00:36:31.85\00:36:35.02
He says, "Let your
gentleness be known to all men,
00:36:35.06\00:36:38.99
the Lord is at hand."
00:36:39.03\00:36:41.63
And he puts it in the
context of the last days
00:36:41.66\00:36:44.07
even though he wrote
this about 2000 years ago.
00:36:44.10\00:36:47.57
But He's saying for people
00:36:47.60\00:36:49.47
who are living in the last days,
00:36:49.50\00:36:51.51
one of the
earmarks of the evidence
00:36:51.54\00:36:53.51
of the presence of
Jesus in our lives,
00:36:53.54\00:36:56.44
in your marriage, in your home,
00:36:56.48\00:36:58.05
in your church, is gentleness.
00:36:58.08\00:37:00.92
And how often do
we allow gentleness
00:37:00.95\00:37:02.78
to just kind of
pull us out of our pew.
00:37:02.82\00:37:06.86
You know, I have a
crazy thought in my mind,
00:37:06.89\00:37:09.59
I won't even let it come out.
00:37:09.62\00:37:11.66
But they call a pew because
sometimes our religion stinks.
00:37:11.69\00:37:16.23
And so, we'd like
aisles because it keeps us
00:37:16.26\00:37:19.43
from people that we don't like.
00:37:19.47\00:37:20.80
We choose our aisles,
00:37:20.84\00:37:22.17
because we don't
choose to allow those aisles
00:37:22.20\00:37:24.07
to close up the
distance between us.
00:37:24.11\00:37:26.37
But I want to be gentle.
00:37:26.41\00:37:28.31
You know, let your gentleness
be made known to all men,
00:37:28.34\00:37:32.31
the Lord is at hand
and say that again, honey.
00:37:32.35\00:37:36.92
I said be a gentleman.
00:37:36.95\00:37:40.16
I like that.
00:37:40.19\00:37:41.52
That was good.
That was a good one.
00:37:41.56\00:37:43.16
She always has
these golden nuggets
00:37:43.19\00:37:44.79
that she whispers
00:37:44.83\00:37:46.16
and I say honey, say that again.
00:37:46.19\00:37:47.93
But the Lord says,
00:37:47.96\00:37:49.30
"Take My yoke upon
you and learn from Me,
00:37:49.33\00:37:52.10
for I am gentle and lowly,
00:37:52.13\00:37:55.54
that's humble at heart
00:37:55.57\00:37:57.21
and you will find
rest for your soul."
00:37:57.24\00:37:59.11
So I want to encourage you
00:37:59.14\00:38:00.51
to those of you
that are wondering,
00:38:00.54\00:38:02.04
you may be a parent dealing
with a recalcitrant child.
00:38:02.08\00:38:06.11
You may be an employee
that has a hard-headed employer
00:38:06.15\00:38:10.99
or you may be an employer
00:38:11.02\00:38:13.42
that has a hard-headed employee.
00:38:13.46\00:38:15.96
You may be the kind
of person that just says,
00:38:15.99\00:38:18.26
"You know, for this year,
I'm not taking it anymore."
00:38:18.29\00:38:20.56
And the Lord says,
"Now, this year take it also."
00:38:20.60\00:38:24.53
Because gentleness
00:38:24.57\00:38:26.23
when we are in the
belly of affliction,
00:38:26.27\00:38:29.60
the gentleness calls
for the evidence of Christ
00:38:29.64\00:38:32.17
to be seen.
00:38:32.21\00:38:33.58
When we are in the vice
grips of unjust, injustice.
00:38:33.61\00:38:37.55
The Lord says, "Be gentle,
00:38:37.58\00:38:38.91
let your
gentleness be made known."
00:38:38.95\00:38:41.25
And the people that we
remember the most in history,
00:38:41.28\00:38:43.55
people like Mahatma
Gandhi, Mother Teresa,
00:38:43.59\00:38:48.26
Nelson Mandela,
Martin Luther King,
00:38:48.29\00:38:51.66
these people that were gentle
in the middle of the fires.
00:38:51.69\00:38:55.03
Can you... How can you be...
00:38:55.06\00:38:56.40
I think of Nelson Mandela story.
00:38:56.43\00:38:58.53
How can you be
so unjustly accused
00:38:58.57\00:39:00.74
and put in prison
for so long a time
00:39:00.77\00:39:02.94
and come out and say
00:39:02.97\00:39:04.31
to those who have supported you,
00:39:04.34\00:39:06.24
let us not do the same to
those who have persecuted us.
00:39:06.27\00:39:11.05
Let us set a
standard to be gentle.
00:39:11.08\00:39:13.72
But who set that standard?
00:39:13.75\00:39:15.75
You can't be gentle
without the presence
00:39:15.78\00:39:17.95
of Jesus in your life.
00:39:17.99\00:39:19.59
And so I'm going
to take your advice,
00:39:19.62\00:39:20.96
I want to be a gentleman,
00:39:20.99\00:39:22.79
not just to my wife.
00:39:22.82\00:39:24.83
But Galatians one
of those is gentleness.
00:39:24.86\00:39:28.73
And here's another one
brethren, Galatians 6:1,
00:39:28.76\00:39:31.50
"If a man is
overtaken in any trespass,
00:39:31.53\00:39:34.90
you are spiritual,
00:39:34.94\00:39:36.97
restore such a one in
a spirit of gentleness."
00:39:37.01\00:39:41.54
Sometimes we feel like
saying and I could confess.
00:39:41.58\00:39:45.28
We felt like
saying, good for you.
00:39:45.31\00:39:47.48
I told you
shouldn't have done that,
00:39:47.52\00:39:49.42
didn't I tell you?
00:39:49.45\00:39:50.89
Yeah, that's exactly
what I tried to warn you of.
00:39:50.92\00:39:53.96
But the Lord says, "A
bruised reed, I won't break.
00:39:53.99\00:39:59.36
And a smoking
flax, I won't quench."
00:39:59.39\00:40:01.86
I had an experience
one Sabbath morning,
00:40:01.90\00:40:04.43
where a church
member went off on me
00:40:04.47\00:40:06.60
in the middle of communion.
00:40:06.63\00:40:08.54
And just as we were
breaking for footwashing,
00:40:08.57\00:40:10.41
they said, "How dare you?"
00:40:10.44\00:40:12.27
At the top of her voice
00:40:12.31\00:40:14.98
in our church
right here in little,
00:40:15.01\00:40:17.18
gentle Thompsonville.
00:40:17.21\00:40:19.28
And it was a
moment when I could have.
00:40:19.31\00:40:20.78
So much detail, go ahead. Yeah.
00:40:20.82\00:40:23.32
I'm not going to give her name.
00:40:23.35\00:40:24.69
But I want to tell you
the story for a reason.
00:40:24.72\00:40:26.65
I want to live in
the real world right now.
00:40:26.69\00:40:29.49
It was the moment
that I could have taken
00:40:29.52\00:40:30.86
my pastor or leadership and say,
00:40:30.89\00:40:32.99
you know, you need to go
home and get your life right
00:40:33.03\00:40:34.96
and then come
back for communion.
00:40:35.00\00:40:37.33
But I didn't say that,
00:40:37.37\00:40:38.73
you know, you go
through the cards that say,
00:40:38.77\00:40:40.50
what will my reaction be?
00:40:40.54\00:40:41.87
What was my
reaction going to be?
00:40:41.90\00:40:43.67
And I just kept my voice low.
00:40:43.71\00:40:46.11
And I said, I'm so sorry.
00:40:46.14\00:40:49.34
I'm sorry, that I
made you feel that way?
00:40:49.38\00:40:53.18
What can I do to
make it different?
00:40:53.21\00:40:56.89
And she was still going in
00:40:56.92\00:40:58.59
and listened to
what the pastor saying,
00:40:58.62\00:41:00.36
I'm so sorry, that I
made you feel that way.
00:41:00.39\00:41:03.69
And I explained the situation.
00:41:03.73\00:41:05.63
And I told her how
we're going to fix it.
00:41:05.66\00:41:08.43
And I said, today, honey,
why don't you wash your feet
00:41:08.46\00:41:11.87
and I'll wash
her husband's feet.
00:41:11.90\00:41:13.90
You know, just by
being gentle in a moment
00:41:13.94\00:41:15.87
when we could
have been bombastic
00:41:15.90\00:41:17.61
and assert our authority.
00:41:17.64\00:41:19.81
She was the first person
at prayer meeting next week,
00:41:19.84\00:41:22.24
the next week.
00:41:22.28\00:41:23.61
She walked in
with a gigantic smile.
00:41:23.65\00:41:25.35
And from across
"Pastor, I'm here."
00:41:25.38\00:41:28.62
You know, we could win
people or we could repel people.
00:41:28.65\00:41:31.65
Authority is something
that Jesus had the ultimate of,
00:41:31.69\00:41:37.16
He could have
said to His accusers,
00:41:37.19\00:41:39.23
"Be gone," and could
bounce them off a plateau.
00:41:39.26\00:41:42.63
He could have just started
00:41:42.66\00:41:44.00
and all of His
accusers could have disappeared.
00:41:44.03\00:41:46.84
He could have
said to the Pharisees,
00:41:46.87\00:41:49.30
"I've been dealing
with you guys for how long?"
00:41:49.34\00:41:53.81
They had been
dropped into the ground
00:41:53.84\00:41:55.34
in just a pile of dust.
00:41:55.38\00:41:56.91
But He allowed the
turbulence of the moment
00:41:56.95\00:41:59.55
to reveal that I
am the good Shepherd,
00:41:59.58\00:42:02.62
I am the gentle Shepherd.
00:42:02.65\00:42:03.99
So for this year, let
me encourage you leaders.
00:42:04.02\00:42:07.82
Let's start with the
leaders, you authority people,
00:42:07.86\00:42:10.79
you guys who just can't take
those hard-headed employees,
00:42:10.83\00:42:14.10
the employee, they're just sick
00:42:14.13\00:42:15.46
and tired of that person
00:42:15.50\00:42:16.83
who keeps coming to work late
00:42:16.87\00:42:18.20
or never get their work done
00:42:18.23\00:42:19.57
or the guy that's
tired of being charged
00:42:19.60\00:42:20.94
more than he
should have been charged.
00:42:20.97\00:42:22.64
As a leader, let your gentleness
00:42:22.67\00:42:25.07
be made known to all.
00:42:25.11\00:42:27.08
And then as that person who's,
00:42:27.11\00:42:29.48
and I've seen this,
this always irritates me.
00:42:29.51\00:42:32.58
You know, nothing irritates me
00:42:32.61\00:42:33.95
more than a
person in a parking lot.
00:42:33.98\00:42:36.82
And they start their car
00:42:36.85\00:42:38.35
and you can't
find another space.
00:42:38.39\00:42:40.79
And they sit there.
00:42:40.82\00:42:42.59
They know you are
waiting to get in that space
00:42:42.62\00:42:45.89
and you gonna like...
00:42:45.93\00:42:47.26
And so you kind of,
00:42:52.20\00:42:53.90
you tweak your head so
hoping they can see it.
00:42:53.94\00:42:56.67
And you go like.
00:42:56.71\00:43:02.11
So I know the story of a pastor
00:43:02.14\00:43:03.98
once he was on
his way to church.
00:43:04.01\00:43:05.85
But have you been there?
00:43:05.88\00:43:07.22
You know what I'm talking about?
00:43:07.25\00:43:08.58
I know it.
00:43:08.62\00:43:09.95
And then sometimes
there's two of them.
00:43:09.98\00:43:11.32
And let's say which
one's going move first.
00:43:11.35\00:43:12.69
Let's just go
ahead and rake them.
00:43:12.72\00:43:14.06
So I know this pastor
he was on his way to church
00:43:14.09\00:43:15.42
on Sabbath morning.
00:43:15.46\00:43:16.79
And he likes to drive.
00:43:16.83\00:43:18.59
Now, this is not my story.
00:43:18.63\00:43:19.96
Just want to tell you.
00:43:20.00\00:43:21.40
And he beeped at the person
00:43:21.43\00:43:23.10
and went around and
gave him a look like,
00:43:23.13\00:43:25.30
"I'm on the way to worship God.
00:43:25.33\00:43:27.87
How dare you slow me down?"
00:43:27.90\00:43:29.84
And he got to church,
00:43:29.87\00:43:31.31
back to the parking
lot, got in to the pulpit.
00:43:31.34\00:43:33.51
And as he was about to
come up and do the prayer,
00:43:33.54\00:43:37.11
he saw that person
walk through the back door.
00:43:37.15\00:43:41.78
He saw them turn
into the parking lot
00:43:41.82\00:43:43.79
but then and he thought,
00:43:43.82\00:43:45.82
"Oh, I'm doing a sermon today."
00:43:45.85\00:43:50.06
And so from the
pulpit, he sheepishly
00:43:50.09\00:43:54.56
confessed his fault
and said, "Forgive me."
00:43:54.60\00:43:59.40
And then that was probably
one of the gentlest sermons
00:43:59.43\00:44:02.34
he preached that day.
00:44:02.37\00:44:04.44
So let your
gentleness be made known to all,
00:44:04.47\00:44:07.31
mothers, fathers, leaders,
00:44:07.34\00:44:10.35
employees, employers, husbands.
00:44:10.38\00:44:13.35
When you've been married
38, 39 years going on, 39, wow!
00:44:13.38\00:44:17.52
My wife has
made me a gentle man.
00:44:17.55\00:44:19.52
You made me a gentle woman.
00:44:19.55\00:44:20.92
Yes, and I'm going to...
00:44:20.96\00:44:22.72
And by 20, by God's grace,
00:44:22.76\00:44:25.63
I want to be even more
gentle because I love you.
00:44:25.66\00:44:28.36
And together, honey,
00:44:28.40\00:44:30.13
pray together forever,
00:44:30.17\00:44:32.03
eternity in view.
00:44:32.07\00:44:33.57
And if you think I'm gentle now,
00:44:33.60\00:44:34.94
you wait till eternity.
00:44:34.97\00:44:36.54
So let me
encourage you husbands.
00:44:36.57\00:44:37.94
You have patience now.
00:44:37.97\00:44:42.08
I was asking for that.
00:44:42.11\00:44:44.31
Let your
gentleness and your patience
00:44:44.35\00:44:46.31
be made known in your family
00:44:46.35\00:44:48.42
because what has made
our ministry so beautiful
00:44:48.45\00:44:51.49
people have said to me,
00:44:51.52\00:44:52.85
"I've heard your sermon,
00:44:52.89\00:44:54.22
but I see your
relationship with your wife.
00:44:54.26\00:44:56.12
That speaks more."
00:44:56.16\00:44:57.49
We did a family seminar,
00:44:57.53\00:44:58.86
remember down in
the Bahamas somewhere,
00:44:58.89\00:45:00.23
Danny, and it
was on family life.
00:45:00.26\00:45:02.70
And they said, "I
heard what you said,
00:45:02.73\00:45:04.07
but I watch you and your wife,
00:45:04.10\00:45:05.43
which meant a
whole lot more to me."
00:45:05.47\00:45:07.34
So let your gentleness be
made known, the Lord is at hand.
00:45:07.37\00:45:10.21
Amen.
00:45:10.24\00:45:11.57
John, why don't you pray for
our viewers to have gentleness?
00:45:11.61\00:45:14.04
Gentle Shepherd, we
often say, "Lord, and Redeemer,
00:45:14.08\00:45:17.85
and Savior, and
Defender, and Friend,
00:45:17.88\00:45:20.08
but gentle Shepherd."
00:45:20.12\00:45:22.38
Teach us what it
means to be under shepherds.
00:45:22.42\00:45:26.02
People that we
work with that sometimes
00:45:26.05\00:45:27.89
we want to crack the whip
and say, hurry up, get it done.
00:45:27.92\00:45:32.23
Help us to understand
what they've had to deal
00:45:32.26\00:45:34.06
with before they came to work
00:45:34.10\00:45:36.90
or how they may have
tried their best to get out
00:45:36.93\00:45:38.50
of the door with
wiping their tears away.
00:45:38.53\00:45:41.00
We don't know, the turbulent
world that people live in.
00:45:41.04\00:45:44.24
We don't know the
stresses they carry.
00:45:44.27\00:45:46.54
We don't know
the bad news they got
00:45:46.57\00:45:48.08
just before they
came out of the door.
00:45:48.11\00:45:50.05
We don't know how hard it was
to find their keys and to say,
00:45:50.08\00:45:54.18
"I'll come back and I
know you're not feeling well,
00:45:54.22\00:45:56.22
but I'll do my best
00:45:56.25\00:45:57.59
and I'll bring
the medication back."
00:45:57.62\00:45:58.95
We don't know the
circumstances of life.
00:45:58.99\00:46:02.09
Help us to be gentle,
00:46:02.12\00:46:03.89
a heart of understanding
and we don't need to know.
00:46:03.93\00:46:06.73
People don't need to
tell us their struggles for us
00:46:06.76\00:46:09.00
to be gentle.
00:46:09.03\00:46:10.37
But help us to be gentle.
00:46:10.40\00:46:12.40
Because whatever the struggle,
we want to be a supportive arm.
00:46:12.43\00:46:16.44
So guide us, Lord, to
be Christians in a world
00:46:16.47\00:46:18.77
that's not gentle, in
a world where politics
00:46:18.81\00:46:22.18
and religion sometimes
00:46:22.21\00:46:23.55
could be the
greatest stumbling block.
00:46:23.58\00:46:26.72
Help us to be gentle shepherds.
00:46:26.75\00:46:28.55
I pray that for
me as a shepherd,
00:46:28.58\00:46:30.45
as an under shepherd
to be gentle to my flock,
00:46:30.49\00:46:33.32
to the people I
minister to, to those who watch
00:46:33.36\00:46:36.06
and those who
know me off the pulpit.
00:46:36.09\00:46:38.46
Help me to be
gentle to my family,
00:46:38.49\00:46:40.80
those close to me, to
my sister, to my in-laws.
00:46:40.83\00:46:44.37
May I be gentle, so
that when You return, Lord,
00:46:44.40\00:46:48.87
I'll look at You
and You'll say to me,
00:46:48.90\00:46:51.37
"I'm thanking you
John for being gentle,
00:46:51.41\00:46:53.91
because when I
should have taken you out,
00:46:53.94\00:46:56.44
when I should have treated you
harshly, I was gentle to you."
00:46:56.48\00:47:00.68
I just want to
reflect You, Lord.
00:47:00.72\00:47:02.68
May we all
desire for this new year
00:47:02.72\00:47:05.25
to be reflective of a
gentle shepherd in Jesus' name.
00:47:05.29\00:47:09.89
Amen.
00:47:09.92\00:47:12.36
Gentle Shepherd
00:47:12.39\00:47:19.03
Come and lead us
00:47:19.07\00:47:25.67
For we need You to help us
00:47:25.71\00:47:32.51
Find our way
00:47:32.55\00:47:38.95
Gentle Shepherd
00:47:38.99\00:47:45.53
come and feed us
00:47:45.56\00:47:52.27
For we need your strength
00:47:52.30\00:47:58.44
From day to day
00:47:58.47\00:48:05.38
There's no other
00:48:05.41\00:48:12.02
we can turn to
00:48:12.05\00:48:18.56
Who can help us
00:48:18.59\00:48:23.60
face another
00:48:23.63\00:48:27.24
Day
00:48:27.27\00:48:32.17
Gentle Shepherd
00:48:32.21\00:48:39.11
Come and lead us
00:48:39.15\00:48:46.12
For we need
00:48:46.15\00:48:50.83
You to help us
00:48:50.86\00:48:53.26
find our way
00:48:53.29\00:48:57.67
We come to the
last fruit of the Spirit
00:49:00.74\00:49:04.94
and it's self-control.
00:49:04.97\00:49:07.41
And I'm going to just
talk a little bit about this.
00:49:07.44\00:49:11.61
Self-control points to
the works of the flesh,
00:49:11.65\00:49:15.78
which are the
opposite of self-control.
00:49:15.82\00:49:20.86
It depicts power under control.
00:49:20.89\00:49:25.13
Self-control is
power under control.
00:49:25.16\00:49:30.03
The words of
James in James 1:12-13,
00:49:30.07\00:49:34.24
"Blessed is a man who
perseveres under trial,
00:49:34.27\00:49:38.07
for once he has been approved,
he will receive the crown
00:49:38.11\00:49:41.24
of life which
the Lord has promised
00:49:41.28\00:49:43.04
to those who love Him.
00:49:43.08\00:49:45.18
Let no one say
when he is tempted,
00:49:45.21\00:49:47.48
'I am being tempted by God, '
00:49:47.52\00:49:49.65
for God cannot
be tempted by evil,
00:49:49.68\00:49:52.49
and He Himself
does not tempt anyone.'"
00:49:52.52\00:49:57.56
We think of Joseph,
00:49:57.59\00:50:01.33
when he fled the
temptation of Potiphar's wife.
00:50:01.36\00:50:06.53
We think of David,
00:50:09.70\00:50:12.07
when he didn't flee the
temptation with Bathsheba
00:50:12.11\00:50:16.85
and then went on
further to kill her husband.
00:50:16.88\00:50:20.75
All because they
practiced or didn't practiced
00:50:23.82\00:50:27.89
self-control every day.
00:50:27.92\00:50:30.33
My goodness, you just think
back at the end of the day,
00:50:30.36\00:50:32.63
you think back to
the many opportunities
00:50:32.66\00:50:35.43
that you have to
display self-control.
00:50:35.46\00:50:39.13
Things you say or don't say,
00:50:39.17\00:50:42.24
ways you act or don't
act to the drivers passing by
00:50:42.27\00:50:47.04
or people walking by you at work
00:50:47.08\00:50:49.58
or even perfect strangers,
00:50:49.61\00:50:52.05
especially perfect
strangers, because again,
00:50:52.08\00:50:53.92
how are you
going to show Christ?
00:50:53.95\00:50:56.25
How are they going to see Christ
00:50:56.28\00:50:58.52
if you don't display that?
00:50:58.55\00:51:01.32
So through our temper,
00:51:01.36\00:51:06.93
through our appetites,
00:51:06.96\00:51:08.30
through our thoughts,
controlling our thoughts
00:51:11.50\00:51:13.57
and our imaginations,
00:51:13.60\00:51:15.17
and our desires and most of all,
00:51:15.20\00:51:19.77
the self-control of our tongue.
00:51:19.81\00:51:23.65
So, thank God for
the fruit of the Spirit.
00:51:23.68\00:51:27.78
As He,
00:51:27.82\00:51:29.68
as Christ grows in me
00:51:29.72\00:51:34.46
as I study His
Word more and pray,
00:51:34.49\00:51:38.96
the fruit of that
Spirit is developed in me.
00:51:38.99\00:51:42.43
And so I just
want to pray for that
00:51:42.46\00:51:45.73
to be ever more present in
my life and in yours as well.
00:51:45.77\00:51:48.44
Father, thank You so
much for this beautiful fruit
00:51:48.47\00:51:53.64
that we can
display only through You,
00:51:53.68\00:51:56.48
only You give us the power,
00:51:56.51\00:51:57.91
only You give us
the strength to do this.
00:51:57.95\00:52:00.08
And they're all
things that You are.
00:52:00.12\00:52:03.08
What a beautiful pictures
00:52:03.12\00:52:06.52
of the
characteristics of Christ.
00:52:06.55\00:52:10.73
So, Father, I pray for
those who are struggling
00:52:10.76\00:52:13.70
with self-control,
00:52:13.73\00:52:16.33
struggling to
control your tongue,
00:52:16.36\00:52:20.84
struggling to
control your appetite.
00:52:20.87\00:52:23.44
God, give them strength.
00:52:23.47\00:52:26.78
Help them, Lord.
00:52:26.81\00:52:30.21
Only by Your power,
00:52:30.25\00:52:32.65
can they make these choices.
00:52:32.68\00:52:34.68
They can take a pill for things.
00:52:34.72\00:52:39.85
But, Lord,
00:52:39.89\00:52:42.02
I just ask that You will magnify
00:52:42.06\00:52:45.03
Yourself in their lives,
00:52:45.06\00:52:49.03
that You get the glory.
00:52:49.06\00:52:50.50
Father, thank You that You
are working Your perfect will
00:52:53.54\00:52:56.71
out in our lives
through self-control.
00:52:56.74\00:52:59.91
And it's all because we
want to be witnesses of You.
00:52:59.94\00:53:03.18
We want to show
examples of what it is like
00:53:03.21\00:53:06.88
to be a Christian.
00:53:06.92\00:53:10.69
So, Father, I pray
that self-control will rise
00:53:10.72\00:53:15.52
in those who are watching.
00:53:15.56\00:53:19.69
And for all of us,
00:53:19.73\00:53:23.13
remember that
we don't bear fruit
00:53:23.16\00:53:26.57
for our own consumption.
00:53:26.60\00:53:29.24
So we don't do
things just to look good.
00:53:29.27\00:53:31.84
We don't show off
these, any of these fruit.
00:53:31.87\00:53:36.44
We bear that
others may be helped
00:53:36.48\00:53:38.81
and that Christ
may be glorified.
00:53:38.85\00:53:40.78
So may Christ be glorified
in all our lives in Jesus' name.
00:53:40.82\00:53:46.32
Amen. Great.
00:53:46.35\00:53:47.69
Precious. Amen.
00:53:47.72\00:53:49.06
You know, Tim, I'd like
to end if I can quick story,
00:53:49.09\00:53:52.09
but the embodiment of everything
00:53:52.13\00:53:54.26
that we've learned here
today may not come through
00:53:54.30\00:53:56.97
your priest or your
rabbi or your pastor
00:53:57.00\00:53:59.67
or whatever else.
00:53:59.70\00:54:01.07
But in each one of us,
may we rightly represent Jesus
00:54:01.10\00:54:04.81
and may we do what is
right, because it's right.
00:54:04.84\00:54:07.41
Not for any
other reason to show,
00:54:07.44\00:54:09.54
to be showy, to whatever.
00:54:09.58\00:54:11.41
I think Mr.
Gallio lived behind us
00:54:11.45\00:54:13.95
when we were kids growing up
00:54:13.98\00:54:15.32
and we had an alley between
our houses and he had the,
00:54:15.35\00:54:20.46
he was coal miner,
so they lived okay.
00:54:20.49\00:54:22.72
We were very poor
as I mentioned earlier.
00:54:22.76\00:54:25.16
Every Tuesday or so,
00:54:25.19\00:54:26.53
the garbage
collectors would come.
00:54:26.56\00:54:28.13
But Monday evening,
00:54:28.16\00:54:29.50
we would go to the Gallio's
barrel, they had three sons.
00:54:29.53\00:54:32.20
And we would turn
it over about dark
00:54:32.23\00:54:34.24
and pick out through toys,
00:54:34.27\00:54:35.60
maybe a truck with one wheel
00:54:35.64\00:54:37.41
or something
that wasn't you know,
00:54:37.44\00:54:39.67
there and then we'd
take it home and play with it
00:54:39.71\00:54:41.48
because we
didn't, so we would wait
00:54:41.51\00:54:43.58
till there's almost
dark every Tuesday night.
00:54:43.61\00:54:46.18
Then we noticed we
got such great toys.
00:54:46.21\00:54:48.28
They were just nice toys
00:54:48.32\00:54:50.22
and we're like,
"Man, these boys.
00:54:50.25\00:54:51.65
They're just not grateful.
00:54:51.69\00:54:53.02
They throw everything
away and man needs you know,
00:54:53.05\00:54:54.99
they've just must
have a lot of money."
00:54:55.02\00:54:57.43
Fifty years later,
00:54:57.46\00:54:58.79
I'm at Penny's in
Carbondale around Christmas,
00:54:58.83\00:55:02.43
I see Mr. Gallio.
00:55:02.46\00:55:03.93
I say, "Mr.
Gallio, how are you doing?"
00:55:03.97\00:55:06.13
He's close to 90.
"I'm doing fine," I said.
00:55:06.17\00:55:08.74
He said, "I'm
doing fine Shelton."
00:55:08.77\00:55:10.11
I said, I got a little
confession when we were young.
00:55:10.14\00:55:13.11
And I said back in the late 50s,
00:55:13.14\00:55:14.68
early 60s, we used
to go to your house
00:55:14.71\00:55:17.15
and I told him the story.
00:55:17.18\00:55:18.51
And I'm doing it
quickly. I'm about out of time.
00:55:18.55\00:55:20.18
But as we turn over the barrel,
00:55:20.22\00:55:22.18
we'd notice all these nice
toys that your boys throw away.
00:55:22.22\00:55:25.85
So I said we didn't
think it was stealing.
00:55:25.89\00:55:27.96
But since you guys
were throwing them away,
00:55:27.99\00:55:30.26
but we had plenty of toys.
00:55:30.29\00:55:32.06
He looked at me and said,
"Son, that was no accident."
00:55:32.09\00:55:37.27
He said, "My wife and
I knew your situation.
00:55:37.30\00:55:40.64
We know you
didn't have anything.
00:55:40.67\00:55:42.34
So we bought those toys
and we put them in there.
00:55:42.37\00:55:44.67
We saw you guys
going through the garbage.
00:55:44.71\00:55:48.41
We wanted to
have something nice.
00:55:48.44\00:55:49.78
You were good boys.
You had a great daddy.
00:55:49.81\00:55:51.75
He just was disabled."
00:55:51.78\00:55:53.58
And I said 50 years
you've never told me that.
00:55:53.62\00:55:56.89
He said, "No.
00:55:56.92\00:55:58.25
There's no reason
to ever tell you that."
00:55:58.29\00:55:59.62
Had I not met him that
embodied to me the care,
00:55:59.65\00:56:02.36
the passion, the love,
all of this long suffering.
00:56:02.39\00:56:05.59
We'd go play in his
basketball in his yard
00:56:05.63\00:56:08.03
when it was muddy
and tear up his yard.
00:56:08.06\00:56:10.43
Patience and love.
00:56:10.47\00:56:11.80
I'm not sure, I
think they were Catholic.
00:56:11.83\00:56:13.57
But he's wonderful man.
00:56:13.60\00:56:15.04
This is what people
need to see is Jesus in us.
00:56:15.07\00:56:17.84
Fifty years he did,
because it was the right thing.
00:56:17.87\00:56:20.78
Not to tell anybody,
00:56:20.81\00:56:22.14
not to do get any
glory but to do it
00:56:22.18\00:56:25.65
because it's the
right thing to do.
00:56:25.68\00:56:27.38
Because sharing
the love of Jesus
00:56:27.42\00:56:29.58
to the lost and dying world.
00:56:29.62\00:56:31.09
So... Amen.
00:56:31.12\00:56:35.02
You guys have
made me rich today.
00:56:35.06\00:56:36.62
Thank you very
much. I love your stories.
00:56:36.66\00:56:38.46
I love your hearts.
00:56:38.49\00:56:39.83
I love everything
that you stand for.
00:56:39.86\00:56:41.63
And I'm praying that
2022 will be your most
00:56:41.66\00:56:45.10
fruitful year ever.
00:56:45.13\00:56:47.20
And that you will be like Jesus,
00:56:47.24\00:56:50.14
no better person to be like,
00:56:50.17\00:56:52.41
He's got it all.
00:56:52.44\00:56:53.78
And He wants to
freely give it to you
00:56:53.81\00:56:55.34
if you don't know Him.
00:56:55.38\00:56:57.01
Just ask Him and believe in Him.
00:56:57.05\00:56:59.55
Trust Him, follow Him
00:56:59.58\00:57:01.18
and then follow His
spirit and grow in Him.
00:57:01.22\00:57:03.55
God bless you.
00:57:03.59\00:57:04.95