WE'RE LIVING IN UNPRECEDENTED
TIMES JOIN US NOW FOR TODAY'S
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SPECIAL PROGRAMMING.
[MUSIC PLAYING] HIM [MUSIC
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PLAYING]. >> HELLO
AND WELCOME TO THREE
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ABN LIVE. WE ARE SO
EXCITED ABOUT TONIGHT
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IT'S A WONDERFUL PROGRAM AND
I WANT TO TELL YOU IN ADVANCE IT
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WILL BE WONDERFUL BECAUSE WE
HAVE SOME ANOINTED GUESTS THAT
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WE WILL TALK ABOUT.
SOMETHING THEY PUT A LOT OF
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EFFORT INTO YOU AND
THAT IS RELATIONSHIPS.
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I. >> I OUGHT TO
GIVE HIM A CHANCE
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TO GET A WORD IN EDGE WISE BUT
YOU DO YOU KNOW WHAT THE PROBLEM
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IS WITH THE
CHRISTIAN WORLD TODAY?
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THERE IS TOO MUCH RELIGION
AND NOT ENOUGH CHRISTIANITY.
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CHRISTIANITY IS
ALL ABOUT RELATIONSHIP.
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OUR GOD IS THE GOD OF COVENANT
RELATIONSHIP AND IT IS NOT ONLY
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THAT WILL ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP
WITH THE LORD BUT IT IS ABOUT
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HOW HE EXPECTS US TO THE
COVENANT COMMUNITY AND WITH
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THOSE WE -- DON'T KNOW HIS NAME.
TONIGHT WE WILL BE TALKING ABOUT
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RELATIONSHIPS THAT ARE IMPORTANT
AND LET ME GO AHEAD AND
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INTRODUCE OUR SPECIAL GUEST WHO
IS PART OF THE FAMILY NOW AND WE
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ARE SO EXCITED ABOUT THT.
WE HAVE PASTOR JAMES JAMES A
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REFEREE AND YOU ARE THE THREE
ABN DIRECTOR OF DISCIPLESHIP.
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>> WHAT A
PRIVILEGE AND BLESSING.
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>> AND WEIGHT HAVE BEEN BREAKING
THIS IN RIGHT TODAY HE HAS
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ALREADY DONE THREE PROGRAMS
TODAY AND NOW HE'S ON THE NEXT
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WEEK WE WILL DO 13 SABBATH
SCHOOL PROGRAMS IN FOUR DAYS AND
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IT'S SO YOU ARE HITTING THE
GROUND RUNNING AND THEN HE WILL
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INFORM US THEN BUT
WHAT DID THINK OF THAT.
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I DIDN'T REALIZE HOW INTENSE IT
WOULD BE INTO A GOT ON THE SET
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AND THEN I THOUGHT THERE'S
NO WAY WE CAN GO THROUGH THE
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SOMEONE WILL HAVE TO'S BUT I
WILL HAVE TO SUMMARIZE THIS AND
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HIGHLIGHT THE MAIN TEXT. AS
WE SPOKE ABOUT THIS IT BECAME
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FREE -- CLEAR THAT YOU HAD
ANSWERS TO PEOPLE THAT WERE
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HUNGRY TO UNDERSTAND. >>
IT IS A SOMETIMES I FEEL LIKE
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I AM AN AUCTIONEER HERE AND ALSO
THIS IS ANOTHER NEW ABN FAMILY
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AND THAT IS THE NEVER AGING
BEAUTIFUL BRIDE OF PASTOR JAMES
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AND THAT'S GREASY RAFFERTY.
ARE THE HEALTH MINISTER AND WE
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BROKE YOU IN IT RIGHT TELL
US HOW MANY PROGRAMS YOU DID.
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>> WE BUILD 481 HALF MINUTE
SECTIONS THROUGH THE EYES OF A
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FOODIE IS WHAT IT'S CALLED WHEN
PEOPLE SEE THAT THAT'S WHAT WE
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DO THIS QUICK FILLER
IN BETWEEN PROGRAMS CELL.
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>> WHEN PEOPLE THINK COMPARED TO
DEVELOPING A 50 MINUTES SERVING
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SOMETIMES THE SHORT
ONES ARE THE MOST DIFFICULT.
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IT'S STILL A STAR THAT HAS AN
IMPACT AND THAT PUTS IT IN BUT
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WE ARE SO GLAD THAT YOU ARE HERE
TONIGHT AND WE ARE GLAD THAT YOU
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HAVE PUT SO MUCH EFFORT BUT ALSO
THE BEGINNING OF THE PROGRAM HAS
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A SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT AND THIS
IS OUR PASTOR TO WE DEARLY LOVE
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AMERICA, WHAT IS NEXT, THANK YOU
BECAUSE OF THE RAFFERTY'S STAFF
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WITH TWO HEALTHY LOOKING PEOPLE.
THEY ARE GIFTED AND I THINK THEY
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WERE HERE BEFORE ME. YOU
WERE HERE BEFORE I GOT HERE
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AND THEN I BECAME PART OF OUR
FAMILY THANK YOU FOR HAVING US
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HERE BUT THIS IS SOMETHING THE
LORD PUT ON MY HEART ABOUT 2019
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MARCH OF 2019 I WAS AWAKENED IN
THE MORNING AND I KNOW WHAT THE
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BIBLE PROPHETS MEAN WHEN THEY
SAY IN MY NIGHT VISION BECAUSE I
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WAS AND -- FOR 4:00 A.M. I WOKE
UP AND I REACHED MY BEDSIDE TO
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PICK UP MY PHONE AND THE LORD
IMPRESSED ME OPEN THE BOOK, AND
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THESE ARE CHRIST LESSONS
FROM CHAPTER 18 I WAS NOT EVEN
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READING THIS AT ALL DURING THE
WEEK OR ANY RECENT TIME FOR THIS
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BUT HE SAID READ THAT CHAPTER
AND SO I WAS IMPRESSED AS I READ
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THE CHAPTER THE HIGHLIGHT
WAS ABOUT THE THREE CLASSICS
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EXTENDED TO THE JEWISH
LEADERS AND THE BROAD COMMUNITY.
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ABOUT A PIECE OF PROPERTY AND
IN THE LAST DATE THE FIRST CALL
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SHOULD GO TO MEN IN
HIGH POSITIONS OF OF SOCIETY
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TEACHERS, POLITICIANS, LAWYERS,
DOCTORS, EDUCATED SCIENTISTS AND
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SHE SAID WHEN YOU REACH
ONE THEY WILL REACH THOUSANDS.
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AND I HIGHLIGHTED THAT AND IT
STUCK IN MY MIND AND SO THE NEXT
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DAY I WAS FIRED UP AND I
SAID JILL WE HAVE TO DO AN
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EVANGELISTIC SEARCH FOR OUR
COMMUNITY BUT YOU KNOW HOW HARD
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IT IS TO DO THIS. SHE
SAID LET'S TRY NEXT YEAR AND
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SO NEXT YEAR WAS 2020 AND WE
ALL OF THE REST OF THE STORY.
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THE LORD FOR THE AND FOR HER THE
LORD SAID YOU DO IT AND I SAID
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OKAY AND SO I RAN T THE BENTON
CIVIC CENTER AND I CHOSE THREE
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SERVANTS AND THEY SAID DO NOT DO
SERMONS THAT CAN BE HEARD IN ANY
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CHURCH. AND SO I
PREACHED ON THE SECOND
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COMING OF CHRIST AND ENTITLED IT
AMERICA PROPHECY AND THE THIRD
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WAS THE FALL O BABYLON AND
HOW'S THAT FOR NOT HERE HEARING
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REVELATIONS AT ALL. THE
SECOND NIGHT A PASTOR CAME
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IN AND HE WALKED IN AND HE CAME
TO HEAR THAT LENNY WOLF AND HE
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WAS NOT CONCERNED ABOUT THE
MESSAGE BUT WHEN I DID AMERICAN
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PROPHECY AFTER THE SERMON HE
SAID TO ME, WE DON'T KNOW THAT
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SERMON AND HE SAID WE WHO?
ANY INTERVIEW DEUCED HIMSELF AND
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HE SAID HE WAS THE PASTOR FOR
40 YEARS AND HE SAID HE WAS AN
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EVANGELICAL PASTOR AND HE SAID
WE DON'T KNOW THIS MESSAGE AND
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THIS IS WHAT WE NEED.
WE HAD NEVER HEARD IT.
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WHEN HE CAME IN HE DID NOT
REGISTER BUT WHEN SIX GREAT
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CONTROVERSIES ALL OF THE
LESSONS, A STACK OF THREE ANGELS
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MESSAGES AND SUMMARIES AND
HE AND HIS WIFE SAID, PASTOR, I
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WANT TO TELL YOU SOMETHING I
KNOW YOU'RE DISAPPOINTED BECAUSE
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ALL THE FLYERS DID NOT GO OUT
FOR THE ADVERTISING BUT THE LORD
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KNEW WE NEEDED TO BE HERE AND WE
WERE HERE AND WE HAVE HEARD AND
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PRETTY MUCH EVERYONE ELSE WILL
HERE IN THE NEXT FRIDAY I WAS
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INVITED TO MARY IN ILLINOIS
TO A LARGE EVANGELICAL PASTOR
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CONFERENCE AND THEY INTRODUCED
MY WIFE AND I MET THEM A WEEK IN
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TWO DAYS EARLIER AND THEY SAID
THE LORD PUT THIS MADE MY LIFE
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FOR A REASON. AND THE
THIRD NIGHT WAS THE FALL
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OF BABYLON AT THE END OF THAT
IS PASTOR SAID THE STATE SENATOR
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WANTS TO MEET
YOU AND I SAID HERE?
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AND HIS IT HOW DID HE HEAR IT
AND HE SAID WHEN YOU BEGIN YOUR
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SERMON I BEGAN MY PHONE CALL
AND I LET HIM LISTEN TO THE HOLE
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SERMON AND HE WANTS TO MEET AND
I MET HIM AT FRIDAY NIGHT AT THE
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MARION CIVIC CENTER AND ALMOST
EVERY WEDNESDAY FROM OCTOBER 20
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WE HAVE MET THESE
BIBLE STUDIES IN PRAYER.
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WITH THIS THOUGHT CAME TO
MY MIND I HAD ALREADY HAD A
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SIX-HOUR BIBLE STUDY WITH THE
PASTOR AND MUCH OF REVELATION
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TALK ABOUT GOD OPENING AMAZING
DOORS BUT I SAID WHAT DO YOU
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THINK ABOUT THIS COMMITMENT
-- THIS IDEA TO COMMEMORATE 911
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THIS IS THE 20th YEAR END
SO OUR CHURCH IS HAVING THIS ON
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SATURDAY AND HE SAID PENNED ME
AND I WILL BE THERE THE PASTORS
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THAT I WILL BE THERE AND THEN
THEY BOTH LENT THEIR SUPPORT AND
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I CAN GIVE YOU A LIST OF
POLITICIANS TO INVITE THE
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SENATOR SAID IN THE PAST IS THAT
I CAN GIVE YOU A LIST OF 249
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PASTORS TO INVITE AND THE NEXT
DAY THEY SENT ME THAT LIST AND
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WE SENT TO THE LIST OUT AND WE
DIDN'T KNOW WHO WOULD RESPOND.
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BUT GOD GOT US URGENT I TOLD THE
COMMITTEE TO GET IN A CHURCH AND
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FILL IT WITH PEOPLE WHO WORK
HERE AT THREE ABN AND THE FIRE
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WAS LIT LIKE NEHEMIAH TELLING
THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL WHAT GOD
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HAD TOLD THEM TO DO THE PEOPLE
HAD A MIND TO WORK AMERICA WHAT
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IS NEXT TO A GRAPHIC DESIGN
IS ANIMATORS PEOPLE GOOD WITH
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WEBSITES AND FACEBOOK
ADVERTISING ALL THE DIFFERENT
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THINGS THEY GOT TOGETHER
AND WORK HARD AND IT WAS THIS IS
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SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 11th WE PUT
THIS WEBSITE TOGETHER AND THE
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DEVIL TRIED HIS BEST TO IT --
JUST STOP IT AND IF YOU'RE NOT
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DOING ANYTHING WORTHY OF THE
DEVIL'S NOTICE HE WILL LEAVE IT
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ALONE BUT WE BEGIN TO MAKE IT A
PUBLIC EVENT AND ADMINISTRATION
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AND THE CAUSE THE ADVERTISING
ON CHANNEL SEVEN NEWS, STOP ON
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FACEBOOK, DON'T SEND HER ANY
MORE FLYERS WE DON'T WANT ANYONE
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OF THE COMMUNITY IN OUR
BUILDING TO INCREASE COVID.
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AND I WAS CRUSHED. AND
I SAID WHAT IS THAT ALL
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ABOUT BECAUSE A WEEK BEFORE
THERE WAS NO ISSUE LIKE THAT BUT
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I PRAYED AND I WAS STILL IN MY
PAJAMAS EDITING AND I CALLED MY
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TEAM AND SAID LET'S.
AND THE LORD POURED POURED
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DIVISIONS IN THEIR HEAD AND SAID
PASTOR THAT'S NOT A BAD IDEA AT
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ALL LET'S NOT DECREASE THEIR
ADVERTISING LET'S INCREASE IT
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LET'S NOT MAKE IT A LOCAL EVENT
LET'S MAKE IT GLOBAL LET'S NOT
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MAKE IT A WALK IN THE BUILDING
LET'S MAKE IT A WIDE STREAM
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BECAUSE THEY SAID YOU GET
THE CHURCH MEMBERS AND IF ANYONE
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ELSE HAS ALREADY INVITED THEM
LET THEM COME ALSO BUT DON'T
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INVITE ANYONE ELSE AND ONE OF MY
MEMBERS BOBBY CALLED ME AND SAID
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IF I DON'T TALK TO YOU RIGHT
NOW I'M GOING TO EXPLODE IN THE
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PARKING LOT. HE PLANT
A CHERRY BOMB EVENT AND
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GOD PLANNED AN ATOMIC
BLAST EVENT SO AS OF NOW AS I'M
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SPEAKING TO YOU THIS HAS BEEN
ADVERTISED FAR AND WIDE ON ABC
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AFFILIATE RIGHT HERE. BUT
THIS IS 40 DAYS IN IN A ROW
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WE HAD THIS 32nd AD AND I WILL
ASK PRODUCTION IF THEY HAVE THAT
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AD TO RUN THE AD AND LET THEM
SAY AND I GUESS RICKIE CARTER I
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WILL GIVE KUDOS TO THE MAN
WHO UNDERSTANDS THE MESSAGE OF
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COMMUNICATING RIGHT
NOW. >> THAT AD WENT VIRAL.
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PEOPLE WENT TO THE WEBSITE AND
I HAD PEOPLE REGISTERING FROM
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AFGHANISTAN AND KABUL AND
GERMANY ALL OVER AMERICA AND I
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WANT TO SHOW YOU A WEBSITE HERE
HOW YOU CAN GET INVOLVED WITH
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YOUR COMMUNITY THERE WILL BE A
LIVE STREAMING EVENT ARE CHURCH
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MEMBERS WILL BE PRESENT IN
ANYONE ELSE THAT WAS ALREADY
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INVITED BUT YOU CAN SHARE THIS
LINK AND BRING THE LINK UP FOR A
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SLATE ON THE WEBSITE AND I WILL
TELL YOU HOW TO GO AND WHAT TO
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DO. AMERICAN NEXT .COM IS THE
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WEBSITE AND SHARE THAT WEBSITE
THERE IS THE WEB ADDS STRESS
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BELOW IT GO TO THAT WEBSITE AND
YOU CAN FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THIS
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INFORMATION AND SHARE THAT WITH
YOUR CHURCH FAMILY IT WILL BE A
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SABBATH MORNING SEPTEMBER 11th
BEGINNING AT 11:00 A.M. CENTRAL
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TIME THAT'S IMPORTANT.
AND LASTLY AFTER THIS EVENT IS
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DONE WE ARE
JUST GETTING STARTED.
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WE WILL REPUBLISH THE WEBSITE
WITH THE SAME LOOK AND BREAK IT
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DOWN FOR YOU TO REACH INTO YOUR
POCKET AND WE WILL SET UP THREE
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AREAS WHEN WHEN I'M AND ANOTHER
ON KNOWING CHRIST AND THE THIRD
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ONE ON TEACHINGS LIKE THE
SABBATH THE STATE OF THE DEAD.
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WE WILL CONNECT THE VIDEO
FROM DIFFERENT TEACHERS AND
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INFORMATION SOLID INFORMATION
TO BEGIN SO WE CAN SERIOUS ABOUT
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HARVESTING THIS THROUGH
THREE ABN FOR THE LAST 35 YEARS.
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>> I'M SO EXCITED ABOUT YOUR
DEDICATION ACTUALLY AND WORKING
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AND DOING THESE BIBLE STUDIES
AND TRAINING IN THESE PASSAGES.
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IT'S REALLY EXCITING. AND
YOU MAY HAVE NOTICED THIS IS
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A BEAUTIFUL CROSS-STITCH WORK
IN THIS WAS DONE AS A MEMORIAL.
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THAT WAS THE REGULATION OF THE
THOUGHT BUT JERRY AUSTIN'S MIND
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JERRY WITH A BEAUTIFUL WILL BID
-- WAS A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN FROM
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MAINE AND IT TOOK HER A
ONE YEAR TO THE DAY TO FINISH.
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SHE ACTUALLY FINISHED THIS
ON SEPTEMBER THE 11th 2000 AND
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DETAILED AND SO
SHE SAID THIS TO TO.
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IT WAS HANGING IN OUR HALLWAYS
FOR A LONG TIME BUT SHE SENT US
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WITH HIS BEAUTIFUL LETTER AND
SHE SENT ANOTHER LETTER HERE AND
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SHE SAID MY PRAYER IS THAT GOD
CONTINUES TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR
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TEAM AS YOU CONTINUE TO SHARE
THE THE UNDILUTED DREAM AROUND
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THE WORLD. O THE JOY
THAT COME TO ME AND I
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ENJOYED WATCHING ALL THE
MIRACLES THAT HAPPEN AT THREE
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ABN AS THE MESSAGE GOES FORTH.
AND EVER THE FIRST TIME WHEN I
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WAS YOUNG. BUT I
REMEMBER SEEING THE LITTLE
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ON THE RIGHT TO THE
LEFT ON THE FOOTSTEPS.
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HE WENT IN AND JERRY AUSTIN --
YOU WANT TO THANK JERRY AUSTIN
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AND WE ARE BLESSED BY OUR MANY
MANY THREE WE WANT TO THINK ALL
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OF YOU TO DO FOR YOUR PRAYERS
AND YOUR FINANCIAL SUPPORT OF
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THREE ABN. WE
KNOW YOU LIKE MUSIC.
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>> THE MESSAGE WILL BE
CULMINATING IN AMERICA WHAT NEXT
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ABOUT AMERICA BIBLE PROPHECIES
AND WE WILL GET YOU LINKS WHERE
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YOU CAN DOWNLOAD SOME
MATERIAL THAT WILL BE PRESENTED.
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>> WE HAVE SOME ADDITIONAL
CHURCH MEMBERS SARAH WILL BE
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SINGING AND PLAYING
THE SAVIOR IS WAITING.
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[MUSIC
PLAYING]. [MUSIC PLAYING].
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[MUSIC PLAYING].
[MUSIC PLAYING] >> ISN'T THAT
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FANTASTIC. I WANT
TO MENTION THAT IS A
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MOTHER DAUGHTER
THEY ARE SO GIFTED.
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>> AND MOMMA
LOOKS LIKE A SISTER.
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>> IF YOU'RE JUST JOINING ME
OUR GUESTS ARE JAMES AND RECEIVE
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PROPERTY AND WE ARE GOING
TO TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS.
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YOU'VE STUDIED THIS A LOT AND
WHAT ARE YOU DOING THIS WEEKEND
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FOR TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO? >>
WE ARE DOING A FAMILY SERMON.
00:22:46.36\00:22:56.20
THEY ARE GOING TO THE BIBLICAL
28 FUNDAMENTALS AND THERE ARE
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NUMBER 23 AND WE GOT HERE
AND CHILL PASSED ON TO US THIS
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REQUEST AND I SAID WE COULD
DO THAT BECAUSE OUR MINDS AND
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HEARTS RIGHT NOW ON
RELATIONSHIPS SINCE WE JUST HAD
00:23:08.28\00:23:13.59
OUR 32nd ANNIVERSARY. >>
THIS WILL BE AIRED ON THE
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YOUTUBE CHANNEL FOR THE
MIRABELLE SEVENTH-DAY ADVENTIST
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CHURCH FOR TRINIDAD AND TOBAGO
THAT IS THE YOUTUBE CHANNEL LIVE
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I BELIEVE. >> HOW
DO YOU SPELL MIRABELLA?
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>> THIS WILL BE SABBATH
MORNING. >> THAT'S WONDERFUL.
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>> I KNOW REYNOLDS THE GUY IS
A FANTASTIC JOB SHADOW TO HIM HE
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IS A MAN OF GOD THIS IS A
LIVE PROGRAM AND WE TAKING YOUR
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QUESTIONS AND WE WILL PUT THEM
ON THE HOT SEAT IN THE SECOND
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GET TO THOSE QUESTIONS IN THE
SECOND HOUR BUT WE HAVE A LOT TO
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COVER AND RECEIPT I AM GOOD
THROW IT TO YOU >> WE DID NOT
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CHOOSE THIS TOPIC THREE ABN SAID
LET'S DO A LIVE ON RELATIONSHIPS
00:24:55.62\00:25:01.86
AND WHEN WE WERE GIVEN A TOPIC
I WAS STUDYING MATTHEW 24 AND TO
00:25:01.86\00:25:07.24
ME THE CHAPTER IS THAT I
HAD NEVER SEEN IS PRIORITIZING
00:25:07.24\00:25:12.47
RELATIONSHIPS AND
THAT IS WHAT POPPED OUT.
00:25:12.47\00:25:16.54
MATTHEW 2425 WE THINK OF THIS IN
TERMS OF EVENTS BUT NOT SO MUCH
00:25:16.54\00:25:20.85
IN TERMS OF OUR RELATIONSHIP AND
WITH OUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH EACH
00:25:20.85\00:25:25.85
OTHER AND GOD ARE DEFINING ABOUT
WHO WE ARE AND I THOUGHT JESUS
00:25:25.85\00:25:29.26
WAS EXPRESSING THAT AS WELL
THROUGH PARABLES AND STORIES
00:25:29.26\00:25:33.80
THAT WE HAD IN THIS CHAPTER >>
ANY PARTICULAR PLACE YOU WANT TO
00:25:33.80\00:25:40.20
GO. YOU
MENTIONED STARTING OFF IN
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VERSE 42. >> LET'S
START IN MATTHEW >>
00:25:43.07\00:25:51.35
MATTHEW CHAPTER SEVEN IT
REVEALS THE KEY PRINCIPLE.
00:25:51.35\00:25:59.65
AND WHEN WE LOOK AT THESE VERSUS
WE WILL REALIZE THE SIGNIFICANCE
00:25:59.65\00:26:03.86
OF RELATIONSHIPS IN THE
CHRISTIAN EXPERIENCE AS IT
00:26:03.86\00:26:10.07
RELATES TO US IN OUR
RELATIONSHIPS BUT ALSO A
00:26:10.07\00:26:12.67
RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS IN
MATTHEW CHAPTER SEVEN STARTING
00:26:12.67\00:26:15.54
WITH VERSE 21 AND EVERYONE IS
SPEAKING HERE THEY SAID THAT THE
00:26:15.54\00:26:19.94
LORD SHALL ENTER INTO THE
KINGDOM OF HEAVEN BUT HE WILL DO
00:26:19.94\00:26:24.81
THE WILL OF MY FATHER AND MANY
WILL SAY TO ME IN THAT DAY LORD
00:26:24.81\00:26:30.19
LORD HAVE WE NOT PROPHESY IN
THE NAME I WANT TO HOLD ON FOR A
00:26:30.19\00:26:35.39
SECOND
PROPHECIES WERE KNOWN FOR.
00:26:35.39\00:26:37.93
AS A CHURCH.
PROPHECY IS WHAT WE ARE KNOWN
00:26:37.93\00:26:41.23
FOR. IN THE NAME WE DONE MANY
00:26:41.23\00:26:52.94
WONDERFUL WORKS THESE PEOPLE ARE
CHRISTIANS WHO HAVE DONE A LOT
00:26:52.94\00:27:00.12
OF SHARING PROPHECY AND A LOT
OF OTHER WORKS IN THE NAME JESUS
00:27:00.12\00:27:04.55
CHRIST. >> PROFESSED CHRISTIANS.
00:27:04.55\00:27:09.49
>> THE PRESS CHRISTIANS HAVE
A LOT OF STUFF COMING THEY ARE
00:27:09.49\00:27:12.69
DOING STUFF
THEY ARE DOING STUFF.
00:27:12.69\00:27:15.30
AND THEN JESUS SAYS TO WILL I
PROFESS UNTO THEM I NEVER KNEW
00:27:15.30\00:27:21.24
YOU DEPART FROM
ME YOUR INIQUITY.
00:27:21.24\00:27:25.47
AND SO WE THOUGHT THIS WAS
A GREAT PLACE TO START BECAUSE
00:27:25.47\00:27:30.68
THIS REALLY EMPHASIZES THE
IMPORTANCE OF RELATIONSHIPS
00:27:30.68\00:27:33.21
BEYOND PROPHECY AND BEYOND THE
MANY WONDERFUL WORKS THAT WE CAN
00:27:33.21\00:27:36.65
DO AND BEYOND ALL THE THINGS
BECAUSE OF THESE POPLE ARE
00:27:36.65\00:27:39.25
SAYING IS WE DESERVE HEAVEN AS
RIGHTEOUSNESS BY WORKS WHEN WE
00:27:39.25\00:27:46.09
AS ADVENTISTS ARE PROBABLY
TENDING MORE TO THIS AND ANY
00:27:46.09\00:27:51.43
OTHER CHURCH BECAUSE ALL THE
PROPHECY WE KNOW EVERYTHING WE
00:27:51.43\00:27:55.04
DO HAS A LOT OF STUFF GOING FOR
US AND DO SO AS WE SPOKE ABOUT
00:27:55.04\00:28:02.28
RELATIONSHIPS ARE KEY IN ITS
DIVERSE AND ARE THEY ALSO KEY IN
00:28:02.28\00:28:06.48
MATTHEW 24 AND 25? >>
AND BEFORE THIS REPEATING
00:28:06.48\00:28:13.56
FROM THE SIX THAT WHAT JESUS
SAID IS THAT THE MOST IMPORTANT
00:28:13.56\00:28:22.03
COMMANDMENT HE SAID HERE
YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD
00:28:22.03\00:28:26.63
WITH ALL OF YOUR HEART MIND AND
STRENGTH AND LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR
00:28:26.63\00:28:33.24
AS YOURSELF. AND SO
WE DO SEE THAT DOING THE
00:28:33.24\00:28:36.61
FATHER'S WILL IS BEING MOTIVATED
BY LOVE TO WALK IN OBEDIENCE BUT
00:28:36.61\00:28:45.45
IT IS TO DO ALSO ALL ABOUT
RELATIONSHIPS THAT TO GOD IS.
00:28:45.45\00:28:51.26
>> A RELATIONSHIPS.
>> LOVING RELATIONSHIPS.
00:28:51.26\00:28:53.66
>> WHAT DOES THAT
LOOK LIKE? >> LET'S GO.
00:28:53.66\00:28:59.00
>> IT'S INTERESTING THERE
BECAUSE PERHAPS HE RECOGNIZED
00:28:59.00\00:29:05.11
BUT HE REALLY
WASN'T ACQUAINTED WITH YOU.
00:29:05.11\00:29:09.48
>> HE KNOWS WHO WE ARE >> AMEN.
>> MATTHEW 24 WE SEE HERE IN
00:29:09.48\00:29:20.66
VERSE 45, THAT JESUS IS TALKING
ABOUT HIS SERVICE AND JUST LIKE
00:29:20.66\00:29:25.26
THE VERSE YOU JUST SHARED WE
WILL TALK ABOUT GOD'S SERVICE
00:29:25.26\00:29:29.66
BUT HE DESCRIBES THIS INTO
DIFFERENT CATEGORIES AND ONE IS
00:29:29.66\00:29:33.97
FAITHFUL AND THE
OTHER IS EVIL. FAITHFUL AND.
00:29:33.97\00:29:45.21
SERVICEABLE. >>
ASSUREDLY I SAY TO YOU HE
00:29:45.21\00:29:50.45
WILL MAKE HIM RULER OVER ALL OF
THESE GOODS BUT THE EVIL SERVANT
00:29:50.45\00:29:55.09
SAYS IN MY HEART MY MASTER WILL
BEGIN TO BEAT HIS FELLOW SERVICE
00:29:55.09\00:30:02.30
BECAUSE THAT'S THE PART THAT
TALKS ABOUT THE DISTINCTION AND
00:30:02.30\00:30:05.00
HOW THESE TWO GROUPS PROBABLY DO
RELATIONSHIPS HERE WE SEE THAT
00:30:05.00\00:30:09.84
THESE EVIL SERVANTS ARE TURNING
AGAINST THE FAITHFUL THEIR
00:30:09.84\00:30:13.11
FELLOW SERVANTS HOW ARE THEY
TREATING THEIR FELLOW SERVANTS?
00:30:13.11\00:30:17.25
THEY ARE SMITING THEM
THAT IS WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS.
00:30:17.25\00:30:21.42
AND I FOUND THIS VERSE IN PSALM
1415 THAT SAYS LET THE RIGHTEOUS
00:30:21.42\00:30:25.62
CAN'T BE KIND AND LET
THEM APPROVE ME THE WILL BE
00:30:25.62\00:30:30.03
EXCELLENT. IT IS A
SMITING THAT WE WOULD
00:30:30.03\00:30:32.13
SAY IS A BLESSING AND MAYBE WHEN
JAMES GENTLY APPROVES HE WOULD
00:30:32.13\00:30:36.97
SAY I THINK YOU MIGHT WANT
TO THINK ABOUT THAT TWICE OR HOW
00:30:36.97\00:30:40.84
YOU'RE COMING ACROSS OR WHATEVER
IT IS IT WOULD BE A BLESSING TO
00:30:40.84\00:30:44.04
ME BUT YOU HAD A THOUGHT
ABOUT THE WORD SMITING MAKING IT
00:30:44.04\00:30:48.58
DIFFERENT THAN JUST APPROVED
THIS IS ACTUALLY A PATTERN A
00:30:48.58\00:30:51.65
WAVE RELATING. >> AND
THE WORD INDICATES THE
00:30:51.65\00:30:57.05
PATTERN REPEATED PATTERN OF
ABUSE AND SO YOU KNOW HOW WE ARE
00:30:57.05\00:31:00.09
SOMETIMES WE SLIP OFF A BIG
MISTAKE WE SAY I'M SORRY WHAT
00:31:00.09\00:31:03.43
EVER AND THAT IS SOMETHING THAT
WE ARE ALL GUILTY OF AS COUPLES.
00:31:03.43\00:31:08.20
BUT THIS SERVANT HAS A PATTERN
OF SMITING IT IS A HABIT IN
00:31:08.20\00:31:13.87
OTHER WORDS AND THAT IS THE
PLACE WHERE WE NEED TO BE AWARE
00:31:13.87\00:31:18.61
OF THE TYPE OF CHARACTER WE
ARE DEVELOPING AND HAD HOW DO WE
00:31:18.61\00:31:22.41
BECOME AWARE THAT WHAT IS COOL
IS MATTHEW 24 IS TALKING ABOUT
00:31:22.41\00:31:26.92
THE SIGNS OF THE TIMES THAT
BRING US INTO CRISIS AND YOU
00:31:26.92\00:31:31.85
KNOW WHAT CRISIS DOES.
>> IT BRINGS CHARACTER.
00:31:31.85\00:31:36.79
>> IS A REVELATION. >> WE
CAN THANK THE LORD FOR THE
00:31:36.79\00:31:41.00
PRESENT CRISIS AND THIS IS A
BLESSING BECAUSE THIS REVEALS
00:31:41.00\00:31:47.10
OUR CHARACTER. THIS
BRINGS US TO THE TOP AND
00:31:47.10\00:31:50.84
HELPS TO SEE WHO WE ARE IN
JEREMIAH CHAPTER SEVEN OR SIX IT
00:31:50.84\00:32:00.85
SAYS IF YOU WALK WITH THE
FOOTMAN AND WEARY THEY HOW
00:32:00.85\00:32:06.09
CONTEND WITH THE
HORSES? >> YOU ARE WORN OUT.
00:32:06.09\00:32:11.23
HOW WOULD YOU CONTEND
WITH THE FLOODING OF THE WATER?
00:32:11.23\00:32:14.83
WE ARE LIVING RIGHT NOW IN
A TIME I THINK WHERE GOD IS
00:32:14.83\00:32:20.84
ALLOWING US WE WOULD DO IN A
CRISIS SITUATION AND HOW DO WE
00:32:20.84\00:32:24.27
RESPOND IN A CRISIS SITUATION
AND ONE OF THE KEY FACTORS THAT
00:32:24.27\00:32:28.08
WE ARE SEEING NOT JUST IN THE
WORLD BUT IN THE CHURCH IS HOW
00:32:28.08\00:32:31.71
WE ARE RELATING TO DIFFERENCES
WE HAVE ABOUT CERTAIN ISSUES.
00:32:31.71\00:32:42.19
>> WERE TALKING ABOUT SMITING
SOMEONE WITH THE FRUIT OF YOUR
00:32:42.19\00:32:49.36
LIPS. PSALM 143
TALKING ABOUT THE AND
00:32:49.36\00:32:59.57
YOU NOW I'M SHOCKED BECAUSE
WE SEE THIS IN THE WORLD, WE SEE
00:32:59.57\00:33:04.31
PEOPLE YELLING AND FIGHTING
AND VERBALLY ABUSIVE TOWARD ONE
00:33:04.31\00:33:07.62
ANOTHER BUT YOU KNOW WHAT?
IT'S HAPPENING IN THE CHURCHES
00:33:07.62\00:33:11.05
AS WELL. IT IS FRIGHTENING.
00:33:11.05\00:33:15.86
>> AND THAT'S WHAT'S HAPPENING
HERE IN MATTHEW 24 >> I LOVE THE
00:33:15.86\00:33:22.40
THOUGHT THAT GOD IS REVEALING
OUR CHARACTER IN THIS CRISIS
00:33:22.40\00:33:26.60
BECAUSE WE HAVE
SOME GROWING TO DEAL.
00:33:26.60\00:33:28.97
>> AND THEY THERE IS OPPORTUNITY
FOR THAT GROWTH TO TAKE PLACE.
00:33:28.97\00:33:34.04
>> AND BEING DIFFERENT IS NORMAL
FOR OUR RELATIONSHIPS TO HAVE
00:33:34.04\00:33:36.91
DIFFERENT OPINIONS ARE DIFFERENT
PERSPECTIVES THAT'S NORMAL BUT
00:33:36.91\00:33:39.35
HOW DO WE PROCESS THIS AND HOW
DO WE COMMUNICATE THROUGH THOSE
00:33:39.35\00:33:45.05
DIFFERENCES THAT'S CRUCIAL.
TO OUR TIME TO SMITE EACH OTHER
00:33:45.05\00:33:51.99
IN A WICKED WAY OR IN
A GENTLE AND LOVING WAY.
00:33:51.99\00:33:55.16
>> AND THEN THERE ARE PEOPLE
WHO ARE HAPPY WHERE THEY ARE.
00:33:55.16\00:34:01.87
FAT AND SASSY AND FULL.
>> I HAVE MET A COUPLE BEFORE
00:34:01.87\00:34:11.15
WHERE MY WIFE AND I ARE SAID TO
HAVE NEVER ARGUED AND THEY SAY
00:34:11.15\00:34:19.02
AM IN THE PRESENCE OF TWO REALLY
HOLY PEOPLE BUT AS TIME GOES ON
00:34:19.02\00:34:24.06
I END UP FEELING SORRY FOR ONE
OF THEM AND I GO WHICH ONE OF
00:34:24.06\00:34:27.40
YOU DIDN'T HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY
TO EXPRESS THEIR OWN OPINION
00:34:27.40\00:34:32.33
THAT'S DIFFERENT THAN YOURS
OR DOES SHE HAVE TO THINK YOUR
00:34:32.33\00:34:35.80
EXACT THOUGHTS? IT'S
NOT NATURAL, IT'S NOT THE
00:34:35.80\00:34:38.21
WAY GOD MADE US HE DESIGNED
FOR DIVERSITY AND FOR YOU AND
00:34:38.21\00:34:43.61
ADVOCATING EXPERIENCES BUT HOW
DO WE HANDLE THOSE DIFFERENCES
00:34:43.61\00:34:46.45
THAT IS CRUCIAL AND THERE IS
A GODLY WAY AND THERE'S PROBABLY
00:34:46.45\00:34:51.65
AN UNGODLY WAY. UNGODLY WAY.
00:34:51.65\00:34:55.12
>> I WANT TO READ THIS PROVERBS
24, 26 HE WHO GIVES THE RIGHT
00:34:55.12\00:35:03.83
AND A KISS ON THE LIPS BACK
IN ANCIENT TIMES WASN'T ALWAYS
00:35:03.83\00:35:10.21
ROMANTIC IT WAS SHOWING SINCERE
AFFECTION AND RESPECT AND SO ARE
00:35:10.21\00:35:14.41
RIGHT ANSWER CAN ONLY BE LED BY
THE HOLY SPIRIT BUT THAN ONE IS
00:35:14.41\00:35:21.42
CONFLICTING INSULT AND INJURY
AND THAT ALL WE SEE NOWADAYS
00:35:21.42\00:35:26.22
PEOPLE WHO ARE INSULTING OTHERS
AND INJURING AND PEOPLE ARE
00:35:26.22\00:35:31.19
POSTING BRANDS ON THE
INTERNET AND DO YOU WHAT?
00:35:31.19\00:35:35.60
THE HOLY SPIRIT IS NOT
THE AUTHOR OF THOSE WORDS.
00:35:35.60\00:35:39.00
THAT IS WHERE SOME 140
VERSE THREE COMES IN SAYING THEY
00:35:39.00\00:35:44.77
SHARPEN THEIR
TONGUES LIKE AS SERPENT.
00:35:44.77\00:35:49.41
THE POISON. AND SO
OUR WORDS REVEAL WHO IS
00:35:49.41\00:35:56.79
DIRECTING OUR CONVERSATION AND
WHEN WE TALK ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS
00:35:56.79\00:35:59.35
I BELIEVE CONVERSATION
IS THE RELATIONSHIP.
00:35:59.35\00:36:07.93
EVEN WITH GOD IF WERE NOT
PRAYING -- I DIDN'T KNOW THAT
00:36:07.93\00:36:14.77
WELL UNTIL I WENT TO MY SURGERY
MY RECOVERY AND WE STARTED
00:36:14.77\00:36:20.61
TALKING EVERY DAY AND NOW SHE IS
THE MOST PRECIOUS FRIEND OF THE
00:36:20.61\00:36:24.61
EARTH TO ME BECAUSE I HAVE
NOT SEEN HER BECAUSE OF COLD BUT
00:36:24.61\00:36:30.62
CONVERSATION IS THE RELATIONSHIP
AND THAT IS HOW WE DO THIS.
00:36:30.62\00:36:36.36
>> WHEN WE WENT TO CALIFORNIA
WE MOVED INTO THIS HOUSE AND THE
00:36:36.36\00:36:40.40
WELL IS ON PIECE OF PROPERTY,
NEIGHBORS PROPERTY AND WE WENT
00:36:40.40\00:36:43.67
OVER THERE WITH A REALTOR TO
MEET THE PEOPLE AND IT DID NOT
00:36:43.67\00:36:48.57
IT -- WE WERE NOT ACTUALLY PART
OF THE ENCOUNTER OF THE MEET AND
00:36:48.57\00:36:52.57
GREET BUT WE WERE AT A DISTANCE
AND THE NEIGHBORS WERE NOT HAPPY
00:36:52.57\00:36:55.84
THAT WE WENT OVER
THERE. DID NOT GO WELL.
00:36:55.84\00:37:05.22
WE BOUGHT THE HOME ANYWAY
THE WELL WAS OVER THERE IN THIS
00:37:05.22\00:37:08.76
PROPERTY AND WE WERE NERVOUS
ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP WE WOULD
00:37:08.76\00:37:11.56
HAVE WITH THIS PERSON WE NEVER
MET LUIS WAS GOING ON AND SO WE
00:37:11.56\00:37:17.43
WERE PUTTING IT OFF AND PUTTING
IT OFF AND THEN WE RAN OUT OF
00:37:17.43\00:37:20.87
WATER AND THE REASON WE DID WAS
MINOR WE FOUND OUT BUT IT CAUSED
00:37:20.87\00:37:24.84
ME TOO HAVE TO GO OVER THERE AND
KNOCK ON THEIR DOOR AND I WAS
00:37:24.84\00:37:32.98
PRAYING BECAUSE
I WAS IN NERVOUS.
00:37:32.98\00:37:35.62
AND SO WHENEVER THERE AND THE
FIRST THING THEY MENTIONED IS
00:37:35.62\00:37:41.62
WHAT HAPPENED AND THEY'RE SORRY
THAT THAT HAPPENED AND IT WAS
00:37:41.62\00:37:48.80
SOMETHING WITH THE REALTOR AND
AND THEN WENT ON TO SAY -- THEY
00:37:48.80\00:37:52.07
WATCH OUR HOUSE. WHEN
COMMUNICATION BREAKS DOWN
00:37:52.07\00:38:09.22
ONE OF WITH COMMUNICATION BREAKS
DOWN FAITHFUL SERVANTS ARE
00:38:09.22\00:38:17.66
GIVING FOOD IN THE
OPPOSITE OF SMITING.
00:38:17.66\00:38:20.43
ONE OF THE WAY COMMUNICATION
BREAKS DOWN IS WE GET A LITTLE
00:38:20.43\00:38:24.23
BIT NERVOUS ABOUT
COMMUNICATING DIFFICULT THINGS.
00:38:24.23\00:38:27.64
WE GET DOWN WITH THE PROGRAM
TODAY I HAD SOMETHING HE WANTED
00:38:27.64\00:38:30.81
TO SHARE WITH BRIAN AND I SAID
IF I DON'T TALK TO RYAN NOW I
00:38:30.81\00:38:34.41
WILL TALK TO SOMEBODY ELSE LATER
AND IT WILL BE HIM AND THAT IT
00:38:34.41\00:38:38.01
WILL BE AWKWARD AND I WILL TALK
TO HIM RIGHT NOW ABOUT IT SO I
00:38:38.01\00:38:41.08
TALKED TO HIM ABOUT IT AND
HE WAS HUMBLE AND WE INTERACTED
00:38:41.08\00:38:44.62
WITH THE GREAT THING AND
MANY TIMES WE SPOKE WITH.
00:38:44.62\00:38:55.60
THE FAITHFUL SERVANT GIVE FOOD
TO THE FOX OF THE HOLE POINT WAS
00:38:55.60\00:38:58.53
MY INTERACTION WITH RYAN AND THE
NEIGHBORS THAT SHOULD FEED EACH
00:38:58.53\00:39:06.04
OTHER AND NURTURE ONE ANOTHER
AND ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER NOT
00:39:06.04\00:39:10.65
ATTACKED AND DISMANTLE AND
CRITICIZE WHICH IS WHAT WE DO
00:39:10.65\00:39:13.35
OUTSIDE OF THOSE RELATIONSHIPS.
>> IF YOU DO GET INTO THIS
00:39:13.35\00:39:21.46
NORMALLY HAVE MORE THINGS IN
COMMON THAT YOU DISAGREE ON BUT
00:39:21.46\00:39:25.03
YOU DON'T TAKE THAT STEP OF
FAITH AND STEP OUT OF AND START
00:39:25.03\00:39:27.66
THIS CONVERSATION THEN
YOU WILL NEVER LEARN THAT.
00:39:27.66\00:39:32.13
>> BUT YOU'RE RIGHT.
PEOPLE HAVE SOME THINGS COME UP
00:39:32.13\00:39:42.01
AND WE HAVE TO ADDRESS NEGATIVE
SITUATIONS AND A LOT OF PEOPLE
00:39:42.01\00:39:44.81
ARE NOT COMFORTABLE THEY DON'T
LIKE CONFLICT AND SO WHAT THEY
00:39:44.81\00:39:49.42
DO IS THEY AVOID THE ISSUE
AND THEN GUESS WHAT HAPPENS THE
00:39:49.42\00:39:52.79
LONGER YOU AVOID AVOIDED THE
MORE EMOTIONAL AND CHARGED IT
00:39:52.79\00:39:57.33
BECOMES BUT A HUSBAND-AND-WIFE I
HOPE YOU DON'T MIND ME BUT WHEN
00:39:57.33\00:40:05.37
HE WOULD SAY SOMETHING AND I
WOULD SAY REALLY AND I WOULD SEE
00:40:05.37\00:40:09.10
IT THIS WAY AND HE WOULD SAY WHY
ARE YOU ALWAYS ARGUING BUT HE
00:40:09.10\00:40:14.81
GREW UP IN A HOME WHERE PEOPLE
-- THERE WAS A ONE OPINION AND
00:40:14.81\00:40:24.05
NOBODY EVER EXPRESSED THIS THIS
IS SOMETHING THAT CULTURALLY WE
00:40:24.05\00:40:31.86
CAN HAVE AN AVOIDANCE BUT IF YOU
ARE NEVER HAVING A DISAGREEMENT
00:40:31.86\00:40:39.13
ONE OF THE IS PROBABLY ONLY
THAT'S ONE OF HIS WILL IS ALWAYS
00:40:39.13\00:40:46.31
LOOKING THEIR LIPS.
>> IT IS WHY PEOPLE AVOID
00:40:46.31\00:40:48.71
CONFLICT BECAUSE WHEN WE DON'T
KNOW HOW TO DO CONSTRUCTIVE
00:40:48.71\00:40:52.11
CONFLICT VERY WELL AND SO THERE
ARE TOOLS AND WE HAD AND I THINK
00:40:52.11\00:40:57.69
IT'S IMPORTANT THAT WE REALIZE
THAT MALWARE -- MARRIAGE IS A
00:40:57.69\00:41:00.32
SCHOOL AND THEY ARE SO MANY
QUALITIES AND WAYS OF RELATING
00:41:00.32\00:41:05.09
TO HE DID NOT LEARN GROWING UP
AND WE GREW UP IN SINGLE FAMILY
00:41:05.09\00:41:10.20
HOMES AND SO WE FELT
DISADVANTAGED IN SOME WAY
00:41:10.20\00:41:13.57
BECAUSE HE DID NOT SEE HOW
THINGS WERE WORKED OUT THIS IS A
00:41:13.57\00:41:20.84
SCHOOL FROM WHICH WE DON'T
GRADUATE IN THE SCHOOL HOME IS
00:41:20.84\00:41:24.08
AN INCREDIBLE OPPORTUNITY
TO LEARN THESE VITAL LESSONS
00:41:24.08\00:41:26.11
BECAUSE THAT WHERE LOVE REIGNS
IN THE CONTEXT OF LOVE CAN I
00:41:26.11\00:41:30.19
FLUB UP AND I THINK THAT IS AN
ENVIRONMENT WHERE WE LEARN BEST
00:41:30.19\00:41:33.86
HOW DO WE DO
CONSTRUCTIVE CONFLICT?
00:41:33.86\00:41:36.89
I THINK ONE OF THE MOST
IMPORTANT THINGS IS WERE ON THE
00:41:36.89\00:41:40.53
SAME TEAM AND THERE
IS A PROBLEM FOR YOU.
00:41:40.53\00:41:52.01
IF WE CAN GET TO THE POINT WHERE
I CAN SEE THIS FROM HIS LENSES
00:41:52.01\00:41:59.58
AND HE'S LOOKING TO SEE IT
THROUGH ISLANDS AND WE HAD A
00:41:59.58\00:42:02.58
UNITED FRONT IT
CAN BE SO POWERFUL.
00:42:02.58\00:42:07.26
>> YOU ATTACK THE
PROBLEM NOT THE PERSON.
00:42:07.26\00:42:08.49
>> THAT'S RIGHT YOU LOOKING
AT THE BEHAVIOR AND WHAT I HAVE
00:42:08.49\00:42:14.36
FOUND IS WORKING WITH CHILDREN
WORKS OF EVERYBODY IS THAT IF
00:42:14.36\00:42:19.97
YOU ARE GIVING A WORD OF
CORRECTION AND SOMETHING CAN
00:42:19.97\00:42:23.91
HAPPEN AND IF YOU FOCUS ON
FUTURE BEHAVIOR IT'S ALL ABOUT
00:42:23.91\00:42:28.18
BEHAVIOR AND THE PERSON DOESN'T
FEEL LIKE YOU'RE BEATING THEM UP
00:42:28.18\00:42:33.35
FOR THE PAST THEN IT'S ABOUT
SETTING BOUNDARIES AND GOING FOR
00:42:33.35\00:42:37.55
IT. >> YEP.
00:42:37.55\00:42:40.76
>> SOMETHING ELSE I THINK
IS CRUCIAL AS WELL ESPECIALLY
00:42:40.76\00:42:47.36
HELPING MEN DO CONFLICT AND THAT
IS CAN WE CONTROL OUR EMOTIONS?
00:42:47.36\00:42:54.20
>> WOMEN DON'T LIKE CONFLICT
MEN ARE ANGRY AND YELLING IT IS
00:42:54.20\00:42:59.37
DAMAGING AND WRONG AND SO
I DON'T THINK IT'S PLACE FOR
00:42:59.37\00:43:06.01
YELLING IT CAN BE DONE MATURELY
AND CALMLY BUT IT'S INTENSE WHEN
00:43:06.01\00:43:10.69
THERE'S A DIFFERENCE SOMETIMES
AND SO THAT'S WHERE I THINK WE
00:43:10.69\00:43:13.15
NEED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO SAY HOW
CAN I COUNT DOWN SO THAT I CAN
00:43:13.15\00:43:17.13
RATIONALLY TALK ABOUT THIS
AND WHEN WE WERE FIRST MARRIED I
00:43:17.13\00:43:20.00
WOULD BE CRYING AND JAMES WOULD
ROLL OVER IN BED AND IT HURT ME
00:43:20.00\00:43:24.97
EVEN WORSE BECAUSE I WAS
LIKE OKAY IT FEELS LIKE MORE
00:43:24.97\00:43:28.80
ABANDONMENT. BUT IN
REALITY HE'S THINKING I
00:43:28.80\00:43:30.67
HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO PROCESS HER
HANDLE HER THERE SO MUCH EMOTION
00:43:30.67\00:43:36.38
AND SO WHERE JAMES GIVE ME A
MINUTE AND EMOTIONAL RIGHT NOW
00:43:36.38\00:43:41.12
AND WHEN I GET OVER THIS I WILL
BE ABLE TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU
00:43:41.12\00:43:46.76
ABOUT THE TOPIC MUCH MORE
EFFECTIVELY IN THE SAME THING
00:43:46.76\00:43:50.43
WITH ANGER. COULD GO
RUN AROUND THE BLOCK OF
00:43:50.43\00:43:53.43
WHAT THAT IS AN EMOTION AN
CAN DISSIPATE AND THEN YOU CAN.
00:43:53.43\00:44:00.17
>> OR MEN WE JUST WANT TO
GO FIND A CAVE AND HIDE IN IT.
00:44:00.17\00:44:04.81
WE COULD SIT
AND >> THAT'S RIGHT.
00:44:04.81\00:44:10.88
EXACTLY. >> FOR
RECEIPT I WAS RAISED IN
00:44:10.88\00:44:13.01
AN ENVIRONMENT IN A HOME WHERE
RAISING YOUR VOICE WAS JUST THE
00:44:13.01\00:44:17.79
THING YOU DID. YOU
JUST DID IT YOU RAISE YOUR
00:44:17.79\00:44:20.19
VOICE YOU SPOKE ABOUT EVERYONE
DEAD I WAS AFRAID TO GO TO MY
00:44:20.19\00:44:24.03
MOM'S HOUSE BECAUSE SHE WAS
GOING TO BE TRAUMATIZED AND FOR
00:44:24.03\00:44:27.03
ME THAT WAS NORMAL THAT'S THE
WAY THE IRISH FAMILY INTERACTED.
00:44:27.03\00:44:31.13
BUT FOR ME, FOR HER THAT
WAS LIKE NO MAN DON'T TALK TO ME
00:44:31.13\00:44:35.77
LIKE THAT BUT FOR ME
THE HARD THING WAS WHEN.
00:44:35.77\00:44:40.74
LIKE I'M NOT GOING TO CRY
MY SISTER DIDN'T CRY SO THE
00:44:40.74\00:44:43.75
EMOTIONAL THING TO ME WAS WHAT
MY RAISING MY VOICE WAS TO HER I
00:44:43.75\00:44:47.15
DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH IT
AND SHE DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO DEAL
00:44:47.15\00:44:49.08
WITH ME DOING THAT AND I DID
NOT KNOW HOW TO DEAL WITH HER
00:44:49.08\00:44:51.45
EMOTIONS WE HAD TO ANALYZE AND
JUST AS WE HAVE DONE IN OTHER
00:44:51.45\00:44:57.79
THINGS LIKE MY BACKGROUND,
MY CHILDHOOD, I'M SENSITIVE TO
00:44:57.79\00:45:03.20
NEGLECT. WHERE IS
MY WIFE IS SENSITIVE TO
00:45:03.20\00:45:06.37
ABANDONMENT AND SO THOSE ARE
TRIGGERS AND WHEN THOSE THINGS
00:45:06.37\00:45:09.20
COME IN AND WE REACT IN
WAYS THAT I AM PERCEIVED THAT
00:45:09.20\00:45:14.14
ABANDONING AND SHE IS PERCEIVED
AS NEGLECTING THOSE ARE AND IT
00:45:14.14\00:45:18.98
MAY NOT EVEN BE THE ISSUE THAT
IS SIGNIFICANT IT'S THE BUTTONS
00:45:18.98\00:45:21.02
THAT HAVE BEEN PUSHED FOR
PAST ISSUES THAT WE NEED TO WORK
00:45:21.02\00:45:25.15
THROUGH AND TALK
ABOUT AND THAT IS HUGE.
00:45:25.15\00:45:28.76
>> BUT IF YOU GET THE SILENT
TREATMENT THAT DOES FEEL LIKE
00:45:28.76\00:45:32.86
ABANDONMENT IF YOU ARE TRYING TO
TALK TO SOMEBODY ABOUT SOMETHING
00:45:32.86\00:45:36.80
I DON'T WANT TO TALK
ABOUT THIS LEAVE ME ALONE.
00:45:36.80\00:45:41.40
THAT IS WHERE YOU FEEL
TOTALLY EMOTIONALLY ABANDONED.
00:45:41.40\00:45:47.34
>> AND I JUST WANT TO QUICKLY
SAY AN EFFUSION FOR 29, 32, PAUL
00:45:47.34\00:45:55.02
IS TELLING YOU DON'T ANY CORRUPT
WORD COME OUT OF YOUR MOUTH BUT
00:45:55.02\00:45:58.95
THEN HE TELL US US THERE ARE
FIVE SINS BITTERNESS RAT ANGER
00:45:58.95\00:46:05.49
CLAMOR AND MALICE AND WHAT SOME
PEOPLE DON'T REALIZE IS CLAMOR
00:46:05.49\00:46:09.56
IS YELLING AND SO I HAD A YOUNG
LADY WHO TOLD ME YEARS AGO SHE
00:46:09.56\00:46:19.37
SAID, CAN YOU TELL ME WHAT I CAN
DO TO MAKE SABBATH BETTER AT MY
00:46:19.37\00:46:23.75
HOME? AND SHE
SAID WHAT'S GOING ON
00:46:23.75\00:46:26.15
HONEY AND SHE SAID MY PARENTS
ARGUE AND HOLLER ALL THE WAY
00:46:26.15\00:46:32.19
CHURCH AND WE SIT THROUGH CHURCH
AND THEN SHE SAID THE REST OF
00:46:32.19\00:46:35.16
THE DAY THERE YELLING AT EACH
OTHER ALL NIGHT LONG AND THAT'S
00:46:35.16\00:46:41.53
HORRIBLE THING FOR TWO PEOPLE TO
INTERACT LIKE THAT BUT THEN IT
00:46:41.53\00:46:46.20
WAS DAMAGING TO KIDS AS WELL.
SO MY THING IS I DON'T EVER
00:46:46.20\00:46:54.68
HOLLER. WITH THE
LORD HAS TAUGHT ME IS I
00:46:54.68\00:46:57.38
WAS ON THE PHONE WITH HIM I
CALLED HIM AT THE OFFICE OFFICES
00:46:57.38\00:47:02.22
TODAY AND HE SAID WE AND NEVER
GOT IT BEFORE AND I SAID WHAT
00:47:02.22\00:47:06.45
YOU MEAN WITH
EVER GOT TO BEFORE?
00:47:06.45\00:47:09.22
I GET THAT LITTLE AND
I SAID OF COURSE WE HAVE.
00:47:09.22\00:47:13.86
AND I HUNG UP AND THE LORD
TOLD ME DID YOU HEAR YOUR TONE?
00:47:13.86\00:47:19.37
AND I CALLED THEM RIGHT BACK AND
I SAID IT WAS NO BIG DEAL TO ME
00:47:19.37\00:47:23.07
WHERE THAT TONE OF VOICE
CAME FROM I DO DON'T ALWAYS
00:47:23.07\00:47:30.51
UNDERSTAND THAT WORD AND PLEASE
SPOKE IS LIKE APPLES OF GOLD IN
00:47:30.51\00:47:37.79
A WORLD OF SILVER AND THE WAY
WAY WE SPEAK IS REALLY IMPORTANT
00:47:37.79\00:47:43.09
TO GOD AND I NOTICED RECENTLY
AND I DON'T REMEMBER EVER HAVING
00:47:43.09\00:47:48.33
DONE THIS BEFORE I DON'T
KNOW IF IT HAPPENED SINCE I WAS
00:47:48.33\00:47:51.83
RECOVERED BUT I NOTICE MYSELF
RECENTLY WHERE I GET THAT LITTLE
00:47:51.83\00:47:57.11
PITCH TO MY VOICE AND
NOT TALKING LOUD BUT IT IS
00:47:57.11\00:48:02.04
CONDESCENSION
WHICH IS WHAT IT IS.
00:48:02.04\00:48:03.71
>> AND I MENTIONED WHEN I WENT
TO SCHOOL WE HAD A LOT TO LEARN
00:48:03.71\00:48:10.05
AND WE WERE DIFFERENT BOOKS OUT
HER I READ A BOOK FOR MYSELF HE
00:48:10.05\00:48:16.06
READ A BOOK AND IT'S FUNNY
BECAUSE SOME OF THOSE BOOKS WERE
00:48:16.06\00:48:19.13
REALLY LIFE-CHANGING FOR US AND
JAMES READ DOWNTOWN STANDING THE
00:48:19.13\00:48:26.80
MIND OF A WOMAN AND HE NOTICED
IT DIFFERENT IT'S INCREDIBLE A
00:48:26.80\00:48:31.77
MAN TAKING RESPONSIBILITY IN
THE HOME FOR NOT JUST PAYING THE
00:48:31.77\00:48:34.58
BILLS AND MAKING SURE THE LAWN
IS MOWED ET CETERA BUT EVEN THE
00:48:34.58\00:48:38.58
CENTER OF THE RELATIONSHIP IT
WAS COOL BECAUSE I FELT LIKE HE
00:48:38.58\00:48:41.95
WAS MUCH MORE INVESTED AND THEN
I READ ONE ENTITLED THE PROPER
00:48:41.95\00:48:49.36
CARE AND
FEEDING OF YOUR HUSBAND.
00:48:49.36\00:49:00.20
AND HE SAID HE FELT LIKE A KING
BUT I WAS LEARNING THIS IS HOW
00:49:00.20\00:49:05.01
MEN THINK RELATE THIS IS WHAT
THEY NEED THIS IS WHAT THEY WANT
00:49:05.01\00:49:06.34
ET CETERA. SO
IMPLEMENT THOSE THINGS AND
00:49:06.34\00:49:13.18
FOR A COUPLE TO REALIZE THAT WE
WANT THE RESULTS OF THE RESULT
00:49:13.18\00:49:17.39
IS CLOSER TIGHTER MORE
MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP HAD
00:49:17.39\00:49:19.39
WHICH ACHIEVED THAT EVEN THOUGH
THIS THING IS REALLY ANNOYING
00:49:19.39\00:49:23.19
AND MAKING ME ANGRY OR MAKING
ME FEEL SO PAINFUL HOW CAN WE
00:49:23.19\00:49:27.46
UNITEDLY WORK TO ACHIEVE
THAT. WE MENTION SOME OF THE
00:49:27.46\00:49:30.43
DYSFUNCTIONAL
WAYS THAT WE ARGUE.
00:49:30.43\00:49:33.97
WE GIVE SILENT TREATMENT I CALL
IT HARD BAWLING WHERE I THROW
00:49:33.97\00:49:37.84
SOMETHING HARD AT YOU AND YOU
THROW IT BACK AND THOSE ARE BUT
00:49:37.84\00:49:43.61
ONE OF THE BOOKS WE READ ON
DIFFICULT CONVERSATIONS AND I
00:49:43.61\00:49:47.78
THINK THAT'S THE
TITLE BUT IT TAUGHT US HERE.
00:49:47.78\00:49:55.56
AND HUMAN WHAT REMEMBER
WHAT THAT ACRONYM STANDS FOR?
00:49:55.56\00:49:57.96
>> AND BUSY ASSERTIVENESS AND
RESPECT -- EMPATHY ASSERTIVENESS
00:49:57.96\00:50:04.00
AND RESPECT IT'S CALLED FEELING
GOOD TOGETHER AND IT IS THE
00:50:04.00\00:50:08.17
SECRET TO MAKING
TROUBLED RELATIONSHIPS WORK.
00:50:08.17\00:50:10.54
>> A GAP PAIRED >> FEELING
GOOD TOGETHER MAKING TROUBLED
00:50:10.54\00:50:17.01
RELATIONSHIPS
WORK >> AND RESPECT.
00:50:17.01\00:50:24.69
>> IN THE BOOKS GIVE PRACTICAL
ILLUSTRATIONS OF HOW TO USE
00:50:24.69\00:50:29.66
THOSE THREE GUIDING PRINCIPLES
IN A CONVERSATION WITH SOMEONE
00:50:29.66\00:50:33.70
THAT YOU ARE REALLY DIFFERENT
WITH IN THE BOOK IS NOT JUST
00:50:33.70\00:50:37.07
ABOUT MARRIAGE WE WERE USING
IT FOR THE VARIOUS RELATIONSHIPS
00:50:37.07\00:50:40.67
AND HOW WILL THIS AND BUT WE
HAVE DEFINITELY IMPLEMENTED IT
00:50:40.67\00:50:47.31
INTO OUR HOME. JUST
LAST SABBATH WE WERE
00:50:47.31\00:50:49.31
TALKING ABOUT CHURCH AND IT
WAS LIKE THE ENEMY ON SABBATH
00:50:49.31\00:50:53.05
MORNING WANTS US TO BREAK DOWN
BUT HE SAID LET'S TALK ABOUT IT
00:50:53.05\00:50:56.48
RIGHT NOW AND I THOUGHT WE HAVE
TO GET CHURCH AND THIS IS AN
00:50:56.48\00:51:00.96
AMAZING THING THING JAMES IS THE
ONE THAT SAYS LET'S TALK AND SET
00:51:00.96\00:51:05.03
THIS HAS BEEN GROWTH AND
PROGRESS WHICH I THINK IF EVERY
00:51:05.03\00:51:08.13
MARRIAGE IS NOT GROWING
AND SOMETHING IS WRONG HERE.
00:51:08.13\00:51:17.11
TO THE CONTEXT OF EPHESIANS
CHAPTER FOUR IS VERSE 26.
00:51:17.11\00:51:20.74
THAT'S THE KEY VERSE AND
THE ONLY WAY WE CAN UNDER --
00:51:20.74\00:51:24.08
OVERCOME THIS BITTERNESS IS IF
WE FOLLOW THE COUNSEL IN VERSE
00:51:24.08\00:51:29.88
26. AND SIN NOT.
00:51:29.88\00:51:31.09
DON'T LET THE SUN
GO DOWN ON YOUR ANGER.
00:51:31.09\00:51:34.69
>> BEFORE I OULD HAVE SAID
LET'S TALK ABOUT IT TOMORROW AND
00:51:34.69\00:51:37.93
MEANWHILE I'M BOILING AND I'M
STUFFING IT AND WHAT EVER AND
00:51:37.93\00:51:43.26
I'VE. BUT THAT'S
WHY THOSE BUTTONS ARE
00:51:43.26\00:51:44.90
BEING PUSHED AND THAT IS WHY I
AM FEELING NOT REALLY WHAT READS
00:51:44.90\00:51:48.07
HE IS DOING TO ME BUT THAT I'VE
NEVER PROCESSED AND I'VE NEVER
00:51:48.07\00:51:54.68
BEEN ANGRY ABOUT SOMEONE ASKED
ME NOT LONG AGO ABOUT A TRIAL I
00:51:54.68\00:51:58.95
WAS GOING THROUGH IN LIFE
AND THEY SAID ARE YOU ANGRY?
00:51:58.95\00:52:02.55
IT WAS AN OLD FRIEND AND THERE
WAS SILENCE AND SHE SAID YOU
00:52:02.55\00:52:06.76
THINK IT'S WRONG
TO BE ANGRY DON'T YOU?
00:52:06.76\00:52:12.33
YOU'RE A PASTOR. >> I
SAID OF A PREACHER I DON'T
00:52:12.33\00:52:14.83
THINK I SHOULD BE ANGRY AT YOU
NOT BE ANGRY AND THE PREACHER
00:52:14.83\00:52:18.10
APPEARED AND SHE WENT ON TO
EXPLAIN TO ME TOO LOOK UP IN THE
00:52:18.10\00:52:21.84
BIBLE THE LORD AND SEE
HOW MANY TIMES IT IS THEY ARE
00:52:21.84\00:52:28.08
RELATIONSHIP TO GOD. GOD
IS ANGRY THAT IS PART OF WHO
00:52:28.08\00:52:33.58
HE IS. WHAT IS HE ANGRY AT?
00:52:33.58\00:52:37.69
SIN, INJUSTICE, EVIL, EVERYTHING
THAT IS WRONG HAPPENING THAT'S
00:52:37.69\00:52:44.29
HURTING HIS CREATION. HOW
HE PROCESSES THAT ANGER IS
00:52:44.29\00:52:47.50
COMPLETELY DIFFERENT STORY.
THE ANGER IS THERE BUT HOW WE
00:52:47.50\00:52:52.27
PROCESS IT HAS GOT TO BE
IN HARMONY WITH WITH A GOD GOD
00:52:52.27\00:52:55.10
PROCESSES IT AND HE PROCESSES
IT AND HE PROCESSES IT IS OF
00:52:55.10\00:52:57.84
SOMETHING WAS IN THE BIBLE
GOD DOING A LOT AND BUT I TELL
00:52:57.84\00:53:05.75
SOMETHING ABOUT HOW I FELT ABOUT
SOMETHING I WAIT A FEW MINUTES
00:53:05.75\00:53:08.92
OR AN HOUR AND I SAY I FELT THIS
WAY ABOUT THAT'S WHAT YOU DID
00:53:08.92\00:53:12.92
EARLIER AND
THAT IS A GOOD THING.
00:53:12.92\00:53:25.67
>>'S I FEEL
STATEMENT AND ITS PROCESSING.
00:53:25.67\00:53:28.27
GOD'S IS A LOT OF AND JOE GODS'
AT MAN IS PERFECT YOU KNOW A DID
00:53:28.27\00:53:36.51
THE SAME THING HE SAID I'M NOT
HAPPY RIGHT NOW I'M NOT HAPPY
00:53:36.51\00:53:38.61
WITH GOD I'M HAPPY WITH LIFE
AND NOT HAPPY WITH MY FRIEND I'M
00:53:38.61\00:53:43.28
HAPPY WITH A LOT OF STUFF AND HE
VOCALIZED THIS AND TALKED ABOUT
00:53:43.28\00:53:46.89
IT BE ANGRY AND SIN NOT BECAUSE
IT YOU DON'T PROCESSES OR
00:53:46.89\00:53:52.56
COMMUNICATE IT YOU WILL SIN YOU
WILL SIN AND DON'T WAIT A LONG
00:53:52.56\00:53:59.17
TIME AND THEN YOU GET RID OF
ANGER AND OTHER THINGS GOING OUT
00:53:59.17\00:54:05.04
OF YOUR VOCABULARY
BECAUSE YOU'RE PROCESSING IT.
00:54:05.04\00:54:11.71
THEN YOU'LL BECOME A ANGRY AND
WAKE UP ONE DAY AND THEN IT'S
00:54:11.71\00:54:17.29
NORMAL. >>
SOMETIMES SOMEBODY WILL GET
00:54:17.29\00:54:24.96
ANGRY AND YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT
THEY'RE MAD AND THEY DON'T TALK
00:54:24.96\00:54:26.73
ABOUT IT AND IT'S A BIKE
YOU BREED INSECURITY AND THE
00:54:26.73\00:54:34.37
ABANDONMENT ISSUE AGAIN AND SO
IT IS IMPORTANT TO LEARN HOW TO
00:54:34.37\00:54:44.65
EXPRESS THESE EMOTIONS.
ONE OF MY PET PEEVES IS A
00:54:44.65\00:54:55.52
POSITIVITY. IF
YOU'RE GRIEVING THERE
00:54:55.52\00:55:09.67
SOMETHING WRONG. THEY
DIDN'T VALIDATE THIS LIKE
00:55:09.67\00:55:20.82
WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU. WE
ARE JUST MISSING OTHERS BUT
00:55:20.82\00:55:28.16
THEN EVEN PEOPLE IN VALIDATE
THEIR OWN FAVORITES HERE THEY
00:55:28.16\00:55:33.36
COULD BE SOME
ROUGH STUFF TRANSPARENT.
00:55:33.36\00:55:38.73
AND THEN AS SOON AS
THEY DO IT'S LIKE I KNOW IT.
00:55:38.73\00:55:47.04
BUT THE WORST THING IS IN
PEOPLE USE SCRIPTURE LIKE THIS.
00:55:47.04\00:55:58.42
IF SOMEONE IS HURTING OR SAYING
GOD WON'T PUT MORE ON YOU THEN
00:55:58.42\00:56:03.66
YOU HAVE TO DID YOU KNOW PAUL
SAID HEY WE WERE BURDENED BEYOND
00:56:03.66\00:56:11.60
MEASURE WE HAD'S DEATH AND HEART
GOD DEFINITELY HAD MORE ON HIM
00:56:11.60\00:56:17.41
HE COULD HAVE THEIR BUT WOULD
HAPPENED IS PAUL SAID HE ALLOWED
00:56:17.41\00:56:23.11
THIS TO HAPPEN SO THAT WE COULD
LEARN TO LEAN ON HIM AND TRUST
00:56:23.11\00:56:28.75
ON HIM INSTEAD OF IN OURSELVES
AND SO WE NEED TO QUIT TRYING TO
00:56:28.75\00:56:34.82
SILENCE OTHERS WHEN THEY
ARE EXPRESSING THEMSELVES.
00:56:34.82\00:56:39.89
>> I'M SO GLAD YOU USE THE
WORD IN VALIDATE BECAUSE I THINK
00:56:39.89\00:56:43.47
THAT'S ONE OF THE REASONS
WHY WE DON'T EXPRESS THIS.
00:56:43.47\00:56:46.33
WHY DO PEOPLE WILL BATTLE THIS
UP WITHOUT EXPRESSING THEMSELVES
00:56:46.33\00:56:50.07
AND IT IS PAINFUL WHEN YOU ARE
EXPERIENCING SOMETHING UNITED.
00:56:50.07\00:57:07.12
WE WORK ON THIS ALL THE TIME.
IT'S NOT JUST ME COMMUNICATING
00:57:07.12\00:57:11.73
WITH EMPATHY AND ASSERTIVENESS
AND RESPECT TO YOU IT IS AND I
00:57:11.73\00:57:14.30
TRULY LISTENING TO YOU AND MY
REALLY HEARING YOUR HEART THAT
00:57:14.30\00:57:18.70
IS MORE OF A SKILL THAN WE
REALIZE IT'S NOT JUST THAT MY
00:57:18.70\00:57:21.20
EARS ARE OPEN AND SAY IT BACK TO
ME I'LL SAY BACK TO HIM AND OFF
00:57:21.20\00:57:27.31
SAY WHAT I HEARD AND
00:57:27.31\00:57:42.32