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Series Code: TDYL
Program Code: TDYL210022A
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00:16 TODAY'S SPECIAL EVENT. ♪ ♪
00:48 ♪ ♪ ♪ HELLO AND WELCOME THURSDAY 01:22 NIGHT LIVE. ITS LIVE ALL THE WAY LIVE. 01:29 YOU DO NOT WANT TO MISS TONIGHT'S PROGRAM. 01:39 YOU. IF YOU NORTH MAR RUD THEN PLAN 01:46 ON GETTING MARRIED WATCH THIS PROGRAM. 01:57 PROGRAM. NOTHING. 02:02 WANT TO RECORD THIS PROGRAM. RIGHT. 02:07 MARRIAGE. CONFLICT. 02:12 BLENDED FAMILIES. RIGHT SOP. 02:17 WE ARE SO EXCITED WE HAVE BEEN MARRY FOR 38 YEARS. 02:20 BELIEVE ME. WE ARE STILL STANDING. 02:26 FOR BOATER WORSE. THAT IS WHAT WE NEED. 02:29 TO HAVE AND HOLD ON. WE WILL INTRODUCE YOU IN A 02:32 MOMENT BUT I AM TELLING YOU. WE HAVE SPOKEN AHEAD TIME. 02:37 WE WILL HOLD THEM UNTIL WE ARE READY TO TELL YOU WHO THEY ARE. 02:40 THIS IS AN EXCITING PROGRAM. RELATIONSHIPS THE FOUNDATION OF 02:45 EVERYTHING TODAY. THE MRG AND FAMILY ARE 02:48 FOUNDATION OF THE CHURCH. PHYSICAL THE MARRIAGE AND THE 02:50 FAMILY IS WEAK. THE CHURCH IS WEAK. 02:54 LIKE WE DO AND WE ARE REAL WITH EACH OTHER AND DEALING WITH THE 03:01 DIFFICULT AND EASY ISSUES WE TALK THE FREEDOM TO LEARN HOW TO 03:04 SAY IT. WE TALK ABOUT COMMUNICATION. 03:16 BUILD AROUND YOUR RELATIONSHIP. HOW TO DEAL WITH GENERATIONAL 03:22 ISSUES YOU BRING INTO YOUR RELATIONSHIP. 03:28 ALL OF THAT. CHILDREN. 03:47 GOOD YOU HAVE HERE TODAY. THANK YOU. 03:52 SO TELL THE PEOPLE THAT ARE WATCHING LISTENING IN THE SHIRT. 03:57 STAM MALL FOR LIFE. STAM MA FOR LIFE. 04:00 WHAT IS STAM MA. OUR NAMES. 04:05 A LITTLE DIF REB. WE ARE DIFFERENT. 04:11 YEAH. PASTOR. 04:31 AND SOUTHEASTERN MICHIGAN FOR THE LAST 15 YEARS AND SPENT SOME 04:34 TIME IN NEW YORK AND IN NEW JERSEY. 04:36 PART OF THAT AND TENNESSEE IS WHERE OUR PAST CONVERGE AND FROM 04:43 CLEVELAND OHIO. OK. 04:47 MUCH, MUCH LATER. OK. 04:52 BUTEDFUL. TONIGHT. 05:00 PEOPLE IN THE LORD FIND A WAY TO UNITE. 05:05 CONCERNED ABOUT IS WE ARE NOT GOING TO HAVE ENOUGH TIME. 05:12 THANK FOR THE FINANCIAL SUPPORT. WE KNOW WE ARE COMMITTED TO 05:14 PRODUCING AND GIVING YOU BEST AND MY WIFE WORKS FOR 3 ABN 05:19 RADIO. LISTENING, WE DON'T HAVE WATCH 05:24 ON THE RADIO. WE HAVE LISTENERS. 05:29 SO IF YOU ARE DRIVING OR LISTENING ON THE RADIO OR 05:31 INTERNET OR WHATEVER MEDIUM WE WANT TO SAY STAY TUNED. 05:36 LISTEN CAREFULLY TONIGHT BECAUSE WE MAY BE ABLE TO SHARE WITH YOU 05:39 WITH OUR GUESTS SOMETHING THAT COULD ENHANCE AND STRENGTHEN 05:46 YOUR RELATIONSHIP. ISSUE YOU HAVE BEEN AVOIDING AND 05:51 CONFRONT AND GO BEYOND THAT WALL AND HAVE A. 05:56 THINK RELATIONSHIP. WE HAVE QUESTIONS THE SECOND 05:59 HALF AND SEND THEM BY TEXT. 618-228-3975. 06:10 39.75 OR YOU CAN SEND E-MAILS TO LIVE AT 3 ABN.TV. 06:16 THAT IS LIVE AT 3 ABN! TV. WHEN YOU SEND THEM IN. 06:22 WE WILL SEND THE QUESTIONS TO OUR COUPLE HERE AND BECAUSE THEY 06:27 HAVE STAMINA FOR LIFE AND TRAY TO GET ALL WE CAN. 06:34 AMEN. OUR GOOD FRIEND AND THE SONG IS 06:44 CALLED ARISE REASON. ♪ ♪ 07:25 ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ 08:31 ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ 10:07 ♪ ♪ ♪ THANK YOU, STEPHANIE, FOR THAT 10:26 SONG, RIDES, SHINE. AND HER FATH HERB DAN. 10:29 THAT IS RYE, DAN. THANK YOU. 10:32 THE SONG IS TALKING ABOUT ARISE AND SHINE AND ALLOW THE LIGHT OF 10:36 GOD TO GIVE GOD THE GLORY THE LIGHT SHINING IN YOUR LIFE. 10:39 TONIGHT WE WANT TO DO THAT FOR MARRIAGES BECAUSE THERE ARE 10:42 LIGHTS IN EVERY RELATIONSHIP. THEY ARE SHINING OR THEY ARE 10:46 NOT. MAKE SURE THAT MARRIAGE IS 10:52 EVERYTHING GOD INTEND IT TO BE. IF HAVE YOU HAVE BEEN MARRED ANY 10:58 LENGTH OF TIME, 38, YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE DONE THAT. 11:02 >> IT WENT FAST, THOUGH. IT DID GO FAST. 11:06 THAT'S THE CLOCK. OUR MARRIAGE HAS GROWN 11:10 TREMENDOUSLY. TO THEM TONIGHT. 11:15 TRY NOT TO IMPOSE MY IDEOLOGIES BASS I WANT TO SEE WHAT GOD IS 11:19 DOING IN YOUR LIFE. THANK YOU ONCE GAIN FOR COMING. 11:23 STAM MA NOR LIFE. TALK ABOUT SOMETHING THAT IS 11:25 COMING UP WITH 3 ABN. SOMETHING NEW. 11:28 YEAH. THE 3 ABN WEBSITE. 11:33 WE HAVE A BLOG. WHAT IS THAT? 11:40 AN OBJECT USED TO IG NIGHT A FIRE, LIABILITY OR SET ON FIRE 11:48 FEELING. I THOUGHT I WAS COUNTRY WORD FOR 11:55 KINFOLK AND MEANS NIGHTING. BLOG IS GOING TO BE SOMETHING 12:01 THAT IS TELL US ABOUT IT. EVERY MONDAY. 12:03 YOU CLICK ON IT. AND FM INSPIRING, BOBBY DAVIS, 12:10 SO MANY PEOPLE HERE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO SIGN UP. 12:12 YOU DON'T HAVE TO SIGN UP OR DO ANYTHING. 12:19 WILL SEE THE BOX, THE SQUARE. LISTEN FOR SOME WONDERFUL 12:23 DEVOTIONS NOT DEVOTIONS BUT BLOGS. 12:36 I LIKE THAT 3 ABN IS LOOKING TO DO SOMETHING NEW AND NOEL THE 3 12:44 ABN PLUS AND THAT IS ANOTHER THING AND TELL US ABOUT THAT. 12:47 THIS MONTH. OK. 12:52 JULY 5th. JULY 5th AND QUICK CLICK ON 12:58 THAT BLOG AND BE BLESSED. GOOD I WANT TO TRY, TOO. 13:01 MONDAY JULY 5th. WE WILL AFTER THE HOLIDAY. 13:04 YOU KNOW. BUT LOOKING FOR FORWARD TO THAT. 13:06 WELL, MY FRIEND, AND WE HAD IT TOGETHER. 13:10 WE GOT A CHANCE TO KNOW EACH OTHER. 13:14 GOT INTO EACH OTHER'S BUSINESS. IT FINS. 13:18 YOU BERT. THE UNTER CITY AND GIVES A 13:27 LITTLE BIT OF A TEST TASTE OF THE BACKGROUND BECAUSE THEY SEE 13:31 COUPLE LOOK YOU. THEY HAVE BEEN ALL THEIR LIVES. 13:34 NO PROBLEM. OF ALL. 13:39 KINDTELL US. WILLING AND COME FROM A BLENDED 13:50 FAMILIES THINGS DON'T ALWAYS GO AS AS WELL AS THEY COULD AND 13:57 1:00 THE BEGINNING EX TRACKLY ROUGH. 14:01 ROUGHEN MY HOME. A NICE SMILE FOR EVERYONE. 14:06 THERE WAS CHAOS. AND I HAD A LOT OF BAD CHOICE 14:12 THAT I MADE IN LIFE. WHEN WAS 17 I WAS KICKED OUT OF 14:20 THE HOME. I WAS BOUNCING AROUND FROM FLIES 14:34 PLACING LIKE THAT. THE LORD GRABBED MENED. 14:54 I HAD POWERFUL CONVERSION, THERE INNED UP COMING BACK TO GO TO 15:05 SCHOOL. WHERE DID YOU TO GO SCHOOL. 15:21 WHICH SANG IN THE CHOIR TOGETHER. 15:24 CRAIG WAS THE BUS DRIVER. WE HAD ADVENTURES TRACKING UP 15:30 AND DOWN THE ROAD TOGETHER. THAT IS THE THING ABOUT THAT IS, 15:35 EVEN WHEN I WENT TO SCHOOL AT HEARTLAND, NO ONE THERE KNEW 15:38 WHERE I COME FROM. IT IS A TESTIMONY AND I DON'T 15:44 ALWAYS SHARE EVERY DETAIL OF MY TESTIMONY. 15:53 AT YOU. TRE MEN DOWNS YOUR LIFE AND THAT 16:00 WAS FIRST PART AND THE SECOND PART WAS AND TELL US ABOUT THAT. 16:05 >> YES. WE KNEW EACH OWNER HIGH SCHOOL. 16:09 IN HIGH SCHOOL. THAT. 16:17 WHAT WAS YOUR BACKGROUND. MY FAMILY IS PENTECOSTAL. 16:22 WHILE ME WERE PENTECOSTAL NOT LIVING ANY TYPE OF LIFE. 16:27 YOU KNOW, PEOPLE WOULD PROBABLY LOOK AT ME BACK IN THOSE DAYS, 16:30 WAYS GOOD GIRL. BEHIND THE SCENES I WAS NOT 16:35 DOING WELL. BEING PER MISS CUE LOUSE. 16:40 I GOT PREGNANT AS TEENAGER AND MAKING BAD CHOICE. 16:45 MY DAD WAS AN ALCOHOLIC. I SAID WAS. 16:49 MY FAMILY HAD THE BAGGAGE WITH ABUSE, DIFFERENT THINGS OF THAT 16:53 NATURE. AWENT THROUGH ISSUES, THEN, 16:58 TRYING TO FIGURE IT IT. THE LORD ALOUD MY PARENTS TO GET 17:02 REMARRIED WHAT WHEN WAS 19 AND I WAS NOT ACTUALLY HAPPY ABOUT IT. 17:05 I WAS NOT. TRAINED MYSELF NOT TO NEED MY 17:08 ARE RENS. LOFT YOUNG PEOPLE. 17:17 MYSELF NOT TO. U KNOW,LE I HAVE BEEN TALKING 17:22 ABOUT THE NEED OF PEOPLE TO TRAIN THEMSELVES IN RIGHT HABITS 17:24 IN RATINGOUS LIVING TO THINKING RIGHT THOUGHTS BECAUSE YOU DON'T 17:29 END UP A CERTAIN WAY AND WE DON'T THINK ABOUT HABITS THAT 17:32 ARE REPEATED WHAT WE CALL INCOGNITO TRAINING. 17:38 REPETITIVE THINGS THAT WE DO, WE ARE SUBLIMELY TRAINING 17:43 OURSELVES. A LOT OF PEOPLE DO IN ORDER TO 17:47 PROTECT OURSELVES AND SO IN ORDER TO PROTECT MYSELF FROM ANY 17:51 CHOICES AND DECISIONS MY PARENTS WENT THROUGH. 17:54 I ISOLATE MYSELF IN WHAT I DID. I GOT GOOD GRADES IN SCHOOL. 17:58 BECAME ACTIVE SO PEOPLE WOULD LOOK AT ME AND THINK I WAS OK. 18:01 I WAS CHEERLEADER. WAS HAPPY ALL THE TIME. 18:04 SIDE I WAS STRUGGLING. AS I SAID AT 19 WHEN MY PARENT, 18:09 THAT WAS WORK OF GOD, NEEDED THEM TO SMASH ME UP OUT. 18:13 I WAS REALLY GOING DOWN. REALLY, REALLY BAD. 18:17 AND I REMEMBER MY FATHER COMING BACK TO THE HOME THIS IS 18:21 IMPORTANT THING FOR YOUNG WOMEN TO HEAR ABLE NEED MID FATHER. 18:25 MY MOM HAD RAISED ALL CHILDREN IN A TOO HAVE A BLENDED FAMILY. 18:29 MY MOTHER HAD CHILDREN. ONE AT 16 AND WON A FEW YEARS 18:33 LATER AND RAISING THOSE BOYS ALONE AND MARRIED MY FATHER SO 18:36 HE BECAME THEIR FATHER THAT THAT BLENDED FAMILY TAME ARE CAME 18:40 INTO PLAY. INTO MY LIFE SOBER IN HIS RIGHT 18:46 MIND, HE WAS ABLE TO REACH ME, BRING ME OUT OF THAT BROKEN 18:51 RELATIONSHIPS AND I LOOK BACK ON IT. 18:55 >> YOUNG LADIES NEED THEIR FAM FATHER. 19:04 YOU DIDN'T NEED. PARENTS HAVE IMPACT ON EACH 19:08 CHILD AND I NEEDED MY FATHER. >> SO INTERESTING. 19:13 I WAS REMEMBERING AS YOU SAID THAT. 19:16 WE WERE TALKING ABOUT A COUPLE YEARS AGO. 19:20 YEAH. BRING THINGS FROM FUME LIS AND 19:30 OUR BAGGAGE AND ASK QUESTIONS AND THE QUESTIONS CENTERED 19:36 AROUND THE FATHER OF THE YUNG WOMANED SAID OH I DIDN'T HE 19:41 LIVED AROUND THE CONNOR FROM ME AND I MET ONCE AND GONE THROUGH 19:47 NICE SCHOOLS. JUST REMEMBER THE LOOK ON HER 19:58 HUSBAND'S FACE. SOMETHING. 20:03 SOMETHING. YOU MIGHT NOT HAVE TO PAY FOR IT 20:08 LATER. SO YOU DIDN'T NEED YOUR FATHER. 20:14 RIGHT. SO YOU AND HE LIVED AROUND THE 20:20 CORNER YOU FROM. IT DON'T BOTH ARE YOU. 20:23 IT DIDN'T BOTHER YOU HE WASN'T THERE WHEN YOU GRADUATED HIGH 20:28 SCHOOL. WE WENT THROUGH THOSE THINGS 20:32 BEFORE LONG AND SHE WAS TEARS WERE STREAMING DONE THE FACE SO 20:37 SHE HAD JUST LIKE YOU SAID, WE TALKED ABOUT THIS TRAINING 20:40 OURSELVES. SURVIVOR MODE. 20:42 SHE HAD TOUGHENED HERSELF UP AND DIDN'T NEED HIM. 20:47 IT WAS PROFOUNDLY AFFECTING HER INABILITY TO HEAL THERE AND 20:52 PROFOUNDLY AFFECTING THE WE CAN TRAIN OURSELVES TO THINK 21:00 WE ARE OK. FATHER. 21:06 PASSED AWAY WHEN I WAS THREE YEARS OLD AND SO GOD HAVE A 21:12 PERSON THAT HOME AND RAISED WITH >> MY MOM AND DAD ABANDONED ME 21:17 AT THREE MONTHS OLD AND PUT INTO A HOME OF A MOTHER AND FATHER 21:22 WHO WERE 49 AND 50 YEARS OLD. MY SISTER WAS THREE. 21:27 I WOULD NOT BE THE MAN, THAT IMAGE IS MISSING TODAY, MEN 21:32 MISSION THEIR DADS DON'T GROW UP WITH THE STRONG MALE IMAGE. 21:35 WOMEN MISSING THEIR MOTHER OR FATHER AND RAISED BAY MOTHER THE 21:39 FATHER IS A ROLE HE PLAYED THAT THE MOTHER CAN PLAY. 21:42 YOU KNOW THAT. THAT. 21:52 COULD. AFRICAN-AMERICAN WOMAN AND SO 21:57 THE JOINING WAS TO TOUGHEN MIP AND HELP ME NOT TO NEED ANYONE. 22:00 THE INFORMATION SHE GAVE ME, AS A YOUNG WOMAN, WAS TO BE A 22:04 STRONG BLACK WOMAN. BLACK WOMEN WHOLE ARE HURTING. 22:09 MANY STRONG WOMEN WHO ARE HURTING, BECAUSE WE ARE TRYING 22:12 TO FIGHT AGAINST SOMETHING THAT GOD NEVER TINNED FOR US TO DEAL 22:16 WITH. IF YOU DON'T HAVE. 22:20 GOD CREATED US TO HAVE. WHAT I LOVE ABOUT YOUR STORY IS 22:23 THERE ARE THINGS THAT HAP PIN LIFE. 22:25 RIGHT. MAYBE I AM AEGON BUT GOD HAS WAY 22:31 OF PUTTING PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES TO FILL THOSE ROLES SO FOR SOME 22:34 OF US WE CANNOT RIGHT. I AM ANOMALY IN THE SENSE THAT 22:37 DOESN'T HAPPEN FOR EVERYONE. GOD BRINGING BACK TOGETHER. 22:40 IT IS NOT GOING TO HAPPEN FOR EVERYBODY. 22:46 ENSURE WE SURRENDER OUR LIVES TO FILM THOSE ROLES OWN LIVES. 22:49 RIGHT. THAT WAS PASSED TON YOU. 22:57 YEAH. DON'T NED A MAN. 23:01 YEAH. HERE I COME. 23:09 OH-OH. LOVE. 23:12 THESE GUYS, SHE HAS HARTIVE THAT IS NOW WOVEN INWHO SHE IS AND 23:17 THAT SAYS I DON'T NEED YOU. SO IT WAS, IT WAS VERY HARD. 23:21 >> IT WAS VERY HARD. >> YEAH. 23:28 LETTING GO AND ALLOWING YOU INTO A MIND SET AND MY HEART AND MY 23:34 MIND THAT I DIDN'T NEED YOU. NO. 23:48 OK. FOOT OF THE CROSS. 23:56 NOT TAKING ON HIM. MY FATHER. 24:05 NOBODY YEAH. THEY WANT THING AS TO BE. 24:14 YOU BE YOU. I CALL IT TRAILER TRASH. 24:33 WE DON'T KNOW. WE WONDER WHY ITS IS FILLED AND 24:37 THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE UNINSPIRING. 24:42 WANT TO HANG UP ON MYSELF. A LOT OF COUPLES WE DO A LOT 24:46 TOGETHER. AM. 24:52 I TAKES TO WORK GET THAT POINT. YES, IT DOES. 24:57 SUCCESS. SUCCESS ONLY COMES BEFORE WRK 25:01 IN THE DIGSARY. YEAH. 25:07 WANT TO ADD SOMETHING. WE TALKED ABOUT THIS. 25:10 BRING THIS IN. YOU GOT YOU. 25:12 I DON'T NEED YOU ATTITUDE. THEN HE COMES CAN ALONG. 25:16 AFTER GOD BROUGHT HIM OUT OF THE GANGSTER LIFE THAT LIVING LIFE 25:19 THAT LOSES LIFE. TACKS TO YOU VEHICLE GAS, THE 25:24 CITY OF SIN, YOU FIND JESUS. >> COME ON NOW, ALL RIGHT. 25:29 >> YEAH. VENTURE OF YOUR LIFE AND WHEN 25:34 YOU SEE HIM, WHAT WAS YOUR REACTION TO THIS GUY THAT YOU 25:38 WHAT IS UP WITH HIM. HE GROUP IN THE SAME CITY, TOWN, 25:43 OUR FRIENDS KNEW EACH OTHER. SO SEEING HIM WAS MANY LEVELS A 25:49 SHOCK. CITY FROM THE HOOD WHERE WE 25:56 WERE. KOREA THE GOODNESS' SAKE HE 26:02 AFRICA YOU KNOW, WE JUST, YOU ARE IN THE CITY. 26:06 THERE. WE WOULD WERE LIKE WHAT? 26:10 WHEN YOU WEAR PATCH ON THE JACK KETS, THAT IS SERIOUS. 26:13 LOOK YOU REALLY, REALLY LOVE LOWED THIS LORD. 26:20 YOU KNOW? IT BLEW ALL OUR MINDS. 26:25 YEAH. LIKE A GUY WAS COMING AT YOU. 26:29 >> WHICH WAS STRANGE. MY HEART TO GOD, RIGHT. 26:36 SO EVENING TO I HAD GIVE MINE I HAD THOUGHT PROCESS, THOUGH. 26:40 THAT STILL GOD NEEDED TO MAY SURE ME IN. 26:42 HOW MEN TREAT WOMEN. HOW THEY APPROACH THEM. 26:45 AND HE JUST WASN'T THAT. HE DIDN'T DO THAT. 26:49 WE WAS NEVER TRYING TO SNEAK, WHISPER, LET ME GET YOUR NUMBER. 26:55 LET'S GO DO THIS. I DIDN'T REALLY KNOW. 26:59 I HAD DONE THAT PREVIOUSLY. >> YOU KNOW? 27:03 >> YEAH. >> YEAH. 27:08 A VERY, WAITS A POWERFUL THING. >> YEAH. 27:18 >> WOW. IT IS CALLED FAMILY FOR 27:25 LIFE.COM. IT IS STAMENA. 27:32 IT IS A PORTMAN SMASH IT TOGETHER TWO WORDS. 27:37 BUT YES. IT WAS KIND OF BORN OUT OF THE 27:41 TIMES WE LIVE IN. THE WAY IN WHICH PEOPLE 27:43 COMMUNICATE AND DO THINGS. YOU KNOW? 27:46 PEOPLE ARE TECHNICAL NOW. RIGHT. 27:49 RIGHT. CENTRAL LOCATION AND DIDN'T HAVE 27:52 THE ABILITY TO BE ABLE TO MEET DEMAND FOR SO MANY PEOPLE WHO 27:59 NEEDED HELP. WHAT SHOULD DOZE ONE OF THEM WAS 28:03 A PODCAST. THAT US HOW EVERYTHING STARTED. 28:08 OUR CONVERSATION IS CALLED AT OF COURSE, IT ISBUILT OFF A TO 28:12 THEN BIBLE WHERE THE WOMAN MEETSES WHERE HE SUGGESTION AT 28:15 THE WELL AND SHARES PROFOUND THINGS WITH HER AND TALK ABOUT A 28:18 LOT OF IMPORTANT STOPPICS EVERYTHING. 28:22 BLENDED FAMILIES. ABUSE. 28:26 OUT. THAT ARE IMPORTANT TO LIFE. 28:29 YEAH. HOW DID YOUR MACHINE INDUSTRY 28:34 PASTORING. LIFE. 28:40 AHEAD AND START A MACHINE INDUSTRY. 28:48 A LABORATORY. MIX THESE THINGS TOGETHER. 28:51 POOF. THERE IS WONDERFUL MACHINE 28:56 WAN YEAR OR TWO OF OUR MARRIAGE, WE DISCOVERED A LOT OF THE PEERS 29:03 WHO HAD GOTTEN MARRIED AROUND THE SAME TIME WE DID. 29:07 THEIR MARRIAGES BEGAN TO END. THAT KEPT ON FOR ABOUT FIVE TO 29:13 SEVEN YEARS. I MAN GIN BEING MARRIED AND 29:17 HAVING PEOPLE THAT YOU HAVE LAUGHED AND CRIED AND PRAYED 29:22 WITH ABOUT MARRIAGE AND TRIED TO DO THINGS GOD'S WAY AND SEEING 29:27 THESE COUPLES EXPERIENCE DIFFICULTIES AND THEN FINALLY 29:32 HEARING THAT THEY ARE DIVORCED THEN IT IS LAKE, THEN, SEVERAL 29:35 THINGS NUMBER ONE. WE WERE LIKE, WHAT IS THIS? 29:40 LUCK WE DON'T WANT TO CATCH IT. YEAH. 29:48 HAVE WE INTENTIONALLY FOCUS ON BUILDING UP WHAT WE HAVE? 29:53 SO THAT OUR MARRIAGE WILL BE ABLE TO STAND THE TEST OF TIME. 29:56 THERE WAS POINT WHERE WE THOUGHT, YEAH. 30:01 RIGHT? LIKE NO. 30:09 WHY HE. YEAH. 30:14 YEAH. ROCKIES. 30:19 YEAH. LIFE HEALING AS A PERSON AS A 30:27 CHILD WHO IN DURED ABUSE, AS CHILD WHO CAME FROM A BROKEN 30:31 HOME, A CHILD WHOLE CAMEL FROM ADDICTED FAMILIES. 30:39 JUST NEEDED TO THINGS. HIS MOM, WHO I LOVE TO DEATH. 30:44 SHE GAVE US A SET OF TAMES. YOU HAVE THE SET OF TAP! TAPES? 30:49 YEAH. LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING. 30:56 PLAYED A PART IN US HEALING AND WHILE WE ARE STILL MARRIED 31:01 TODAY. WE FROM DRIVING LISTENING TO THE 31:06 CASSETTE TAPE. AND THEY CREATED NOT ONLY 31:11 HEALING MOMENTS FOR US BUT TEACHABLE MOMENT AND I WOULD 31:18 PRESS STOP AND I WOULD SAY THAT IS ME. 31:25 LIKE DO YOU SEE ME DOING THAT. OR I WOULD SAY I HEARD 31:29 SOMETHING. SHE IS LIKE YEAH. 31:35 YEAH. MOMENTS WE HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY 31:41 TO POUR INTO US. OUR DEFENSES WERE NOT UP. 31:45 THE TAPES IN TO THE HOUSE. WE WOULD SIT TOGETHER. 31:49 BECAUSE WE BOTH WERE HEALING. WE BOTH WERE RECOGNIZING AND 31:54 SEEING THE DEP TONIGHT AND THE BREADTH OF OUR WOUNDEDNESS, 31:59 BROKENNESS, AT THE SAME TIME, THE LORD WAS HEALING US, PUTTING 32:04 THAT PRECIOUS OINTMENT ON US. BECAUSE WE WERE ABLE TO GO 32:09 WHEN YOU KNOW YOU HAVE GONING THAT THE TRENCHES WITH SOMEONE 32:13 AND POURED TOGETHER. BROKE TOGETHER. 32:17 POUR PECT TOGETHER WHEN YOU HAD YOU BETTER BELIEVE IT. 32:21 WHEN YOU GO THROUGH THE THINGS LAY GOOD THING FOR MARRIAGES 32:26 BECAUSE IT DRAWS US CLOSER TOGETHER. 32:31 FORMATIVE FOR US. THAT SET OF TAPES BINNING THE 32:36 WOUNDS THEY USED TO CALL IT. BINNING THE WOUNDS THEN FIRST 32:39 YEAR OF OUR MARRIAGE. WITHOUT THAT. 32:44 >> OH. PROGRAM IS DEN AND HOW YOU CAN 32:50 GET PARTICIPATING ACCESS TO THE PODCAST BECAUSE WE GIVE THE 32:53 INFORMATION. WHEN YOU GET MARRIED SELF THINS 32:58 WAY. I AM STUB BORN. 33:03 YOU KNOW? MARRIED. 33:10 SIDE, DATING NINE YEARS, BRINGS CHALLENGES INTO A RUPP YOU DON'T 33:14 NEED TO BE EXPOSED TO. BUT ALSO ALLOWED US TO GET A LOT 33:17 OF THE SELFISHNESS OUT OF THE WHICH AND MET AT 16 GROUP 33:22 TOGETHER. THIS. 33:28 MARRIAGE. I WAS NOT PREPARED FOR MARRIAGE. 33:34 FUNCTIONALLY, OTHER WAYS, I WAS GETTING BACK TO CHURCH. 33:38 SHE WAS THE ANCHOR OF MY LIFE THAT HELPED THAT SPIRITUAL SIDE 33:42 COME BACK. AND GORGEOUS ALL GET OUT. 33:46 LIKE, SHE IS STILL GORGEOUS. >> COME ON, AMEN. 33:49 TELL I. BUT ARE GETTING MORE BEAUTIFUL. 33:55 >> I HONESTLY. MEN TOED A MARE THEIR WIVES TO 34:00 COMPLIMENT THEM. AND THIS IS NOT, IT IS NOT ABOU 34:04 ABOUT -- SOMEBODY ELSE WILL ADMIRE HEM. 34:09 YOU. THOUGHS ARE DOOR THAT'S THE 34:17 OF. ENGAGEMENT WAS SO INADVERTENT IT 34:22 IS AMAZING WE ARE STILL MARRIED TO THIS DAY. 34:25 HER BROTHER SAIDED TO ME. ARE YOU GOING TO DATE MY CYST 34:29 WELL. I THOUGHT HE WAS JOKING. 34:34 HE SAID WHAT? GOING TO MARRY HER. 34:43 WHAM ARE GOING TO DO? WHEN? 34:48 >> MARRIED NEXT MONTH. >> OK. 34:54 YOU ARE NOT DATE MIGHT SISTER. MERRY-GO-ROUND FOREVER. 35:03 HIT THE RAD. ARE HELPING PEOPLE IN THIS 35:06 PODCAST. THAGES. 35:19 AGO THEN IN THE WHITE SWAT HE, ABIGAIL, 16. 35:25 PRAY FOR ME. HER NAME IS ANGEL. 35:28 GABRIEL IS 11. >> ANGEL. 35:32 END. WE WERE HAVING FAMILY WORSHIP 35:42 TOGETHER. I READ A NAME. 35:52 LITERALLY EVERYBODY JUST AND WE LOOKED AT EACH OTHER. 35:58 THINKING. ANGEL. 36:02 >> YEAH. GABRIEL. 36:07 I'M IS GOING TO HEAR YOU AND SHOW UP. 36:12 >> WE NEED HIM SOMETIMES TOO. YOU GIVE DIFFERENT PLACE. 36:16 YEAH. BLESSED IN VITTED TO MANY PLACES 36:20 AND ACTUALLY GOT OFF DOING MARRIAGE RETREAT IN MICHIGAN. 36:24 THAT WAS CALLED LOVE. THOSE ARE ON THE WEBSITE NOW FOR 36:28 FREE. >> YEAH. 36:37 THE BASICS OF LEARNING NOT ONLY HOW TO SPEAK THAT IS A PART OF 36:43 IT. HOW TO COMMUNICATE. 36:48 SO WE BELIEVE THAT RELATIONSHIPS HAVE SOME PHONICS THAT ARE 36:52 INVOLVED THERE ARE BASICS THAT ARE EXTREMELY IMPORTANT TO 36:57 LEARNING HOW TO COMMUNICATE AND HOW TO ALSO HEAR. 37:01 SPEAK. YES. 37:09 IT IS PROBABLY, YEAH. SOMEBODY SAYS, THE LORD GAVE US 37:14 TWO EARS AND ONE MOUTH. IT IS PROBABLY ONE OF THE MOST 37:19 IMPORTANT ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT THINGS YEAH. 37:25 AND THERE ARE YEAH. WE GOT A BUNCH OF STUFF ON OUR 37:31 SITE ABOUT THE DIFFERENT WAYS THAT PEOPLE LISTEN. 37:34 AND I THINK ONE OF THE PRIMARY ONES THAT IS PEOPLE LISTEN. 37:40 DEFENSE OFLY. I THINK MY WIFE IS TRYING TO 37:43 ATTACK ME. GENE MAY SELF AND PREOCCUPIED 37:49 WITH DEFENDING MYSELF THEN NOT ACTUALLY HEARING WHAT IT IS THAT 37:52 SHE IS SAYING. WE ALSO HAVE ANOTHER, OH, I AM 37:57 MAKING YOU CRY. WE HAVE A SAYING. 38:09 HOW MANY TIMES WE COMMUNICATE WITH HE THIS OTHER PERSON'S 38:13 SHADOW. SOMETHING THAT MY WIFE HAS DONE 38:20 IN THE PAST. I AM SPEAKING TO THAT PERSON. 38:23 I AM LISTENING TO THAT PERSON. I AM NOT HEARING THIS PERSON. 38:27 ROOTING HERE. WHAT THEY HAVE NOT SAID. 38:39 REAL COMMUNICATION THAT COULD TAKE PLACE. 38:42 RIGHT HERE. >> INTERESTING. 38:44 >> DEEP. >> YEAH. 38:50 WE PRAY FOR FOAM CHANGE WHEN THEY DO, WE DON'T LIKE IT. 38:53 WE WOULDN'T SAY THAT VERBALLY. WE ARE USED TO THEIR SHADOW. 38:57 RIGHT. THAT THE CHANGE COMES WE ARE NOT 39:04 HAPPY THEN EITHER. SO VERY IMPORTANT PHENOMENON 39:10 THAT HAPPENS. BOX OVERHEAR. 39:14 NOT JUST THAT. HOW DOES IT SOUND. 39:17 LET ME REFLAYS. HOW DOES THAT I HAVE BEEN 39:20 TELLING MAY WIFE. I WANT HER TO DO SOMETHING AND 39:24 DOES WHAT IT IS. SO TELL ME YOU LOVE ME AND NEED 39:28 ME. YOU ONLY SAID THAT BECAUSE I 39:35 TOLD YOU TO. >> OH-OH. 39:41 TOLD YOU TO SAY THAT. THAT IS NOT WHAT YOU REALLY 39:45 IT LOVE COUPLES. ABOUT WHEN WE TALK ABOUT 39:49 COMMUNICATING WITH A PERSON'S SHADOW. 39:56 THAT AFFECT LISTENING WITH FILTERS ON THERE ARE THINGS THAT 39:59 I BELIEVE ABOUT MAY SELF. EVEN WITH MY SPOUSE IS 40:06 HYPOTHETICALLY SCREAMING WITH RECEIVE THAT BECAUSE IT IS NOT 40:11 SOMETHING I BELIEVE. AGAIN MANY PICK UP FROM 40:14 CHILDHOOD THE BAGGAGE RIGHT. WHEN WE HEAR PEOPLE SPEAKING 40:18 POSITIVELY THE NEG OF I PICKED UP AND CARRIED WITH ME PRESENTS 40:24 FLE HEARING IT. HE DISTORTS THE TRUTH YOU KNOW. 40:27 HE IS GOOD AT THAT. HE IS GOOD AT POISONING MY MIND, 40:31 MY THOUGHTS. IT IS A CYCLE WE GET INTO. 40:35 YEAH. YEAH. 40:41 AND THE CUP THAT HARDLY NOTHING GETS THROUGH. 40:44 RIGHT. >> SO THE CONCENTRATION IS RIGHT 40:49 FILTERS. WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN TOLD ABOUT 40:56 >> YEAH. THE TRUTH ABOUT YOURSELF AND THE 41:01 TIME I POURED A WHOLE QUART OF WART YOU GOT TWO OUNCES BECAUSE 41:06 I COULDN'T GET THROUGH. THAT IS RYE. 41:08 THAT IS A LOT OF TIMES AND THEN WHAT HAPPENS IS GET THROUGH. 41:12 THAT IS NOT ENOUGH. ABOUT THEMSELVES. 41:18 PEOPLE COMPLIMENT ME. THEY WERE SAYING THAT. 41:20 YEAH. YEAH. 41:25 DO THEY KNOW YOU. DO THEY OH YOU ANYTHING? 41:27 NO. >> YEAH. 41:37 RESPONSES. PEOPLE AWAY. 41:41 PEOPLE GET EXHAUSTED WITH FIGHTING THROUGH THE FILTERS. 41:44 YOU KNOW? IT IS IMPORTANT TO IDENTIFY YOU 41:49 HAVE THEM. COACHING SERIES. 41:54 YEAH. YOU CAME UP WITH THIS. 42:00 YEAH. THE MARRIAGE COACHING SORRIES 42:04 THAT WE HAVE BEEN WORK ON FOR AWHILE. 42:09 THE FACT WE CANNOT BE EVERYWHERE AND CANNOT MEET WITH EVERYONE SO 42:13 CREATE AT VIDEO SERIES. A SIX-PART SERIES WHICH WE TALK 42:17 ABOUT THESE THING AND HAVE EXERCISE FOR COUPLES TO DO. 42:23 AND ALSO WE OFFER THEM TWO SEGS WITH US VIA THE ZOOM OR THE 42:30 PHONE WHICHEVER THEY HAVE. THIS IS A WAY FOR US TO BE ABLE 42:33 TO TAKE A LOT OF THIS INFORMATION AND MAKE IT 42:38 ACCESSIBLE TO OTHER PEOPLE. >> SUCCESS. 42:46 THEY CAN HAVE SUCCESS WITHOUT A PROCESS. 42:54 JUST GETS THERE BAY FALLING INTO IT. 43:00 >> THERE IS INTENTIONALLY. THERE IS WORK. 43:06 IS GOING INTO IT. YOU KNOW ANY SUCCESS HAS PROCESS 43:11 THAT IS INVOLVED WITH IT. SO WE BELIEVE, WE BELIEVE THAT 43:15 WE LOOKED AT THE STATISTICS ON. WHAT DO PEOPLE SPEND ON THE 43:19 AVERAGE WEDDING? WHAT DO PEOPLE SPEND ON THE 43:22 AVERAGE HONEYMOON? WHAT DO PEOPLE SPEND ON THE 43:25 AVERAGE, YOU KNOW, ENGAGEMENT RING, WEDDING RING. 43:30 >> SUFFERING. [LAUGHTER] 43:34 >> RIGHT. >> RIGHT. 43:40 INVESTMENTS AND YET VERY FEW PEOPLE ACTUALLY INVEST AND IN 43:45 PREPARATION NOT FOR THE WEDDING, BUT TOSH THE MARRIAGE. 43:48 >> MARRIAGE. >> OK. 43:53 10,000 OR SOMETHING FROM GOING IN YOUR FINGER. 43:57 RIGHT. >> -$650,000 ON THE WEDDING THAT 44:00 IS GOING TO LAST ONE DAY. >> YEAH. 44:04 OF YOUR LIVES TOGETHER. YEAH. 44:09 >> WOW. PREMARITAL COUNS LISTENING IS 44:11 VERY IMPORTANT. ABOUT THAT THAT MANY COUPLES 44:17 FEAR GETTING PREMARRIAGE COACHING OR PREMARRIAGE COUNS 44:21 EVEN FOR US AND GOT ENGAGED RIGHT. 44:25 RIGHT. TO GET GOING IN THERE. 44:28 NO. YOU ARE NOT A MATCH. 44:37 OH, MAN. WE HAD TREPIDATION AND THIS 44:39 CONCERN AND WHEN WE WENT THERE, BE THIS IS A GOODLY COUPLE. 44:43 NORTH CAROLINA LIKE IT. VERY SPECIAL OUR HEARTS. 44:47 AND THEY HAD BEEN MARRIED AT THE TIME MAYBE 50 YEARS. 44:53 YEAH. WE WERE REAL. 44:59 YEAH. CORRECT AND WHAT NOT, THEY WERE 45:05 GIVING US TOOLS. THEY WERE SAYING, LISTEN, 45:09 BECAUSE REALLY, YOU CANNOT PREDICT EVERY CHALLENGE THAT YOU 45:13 ARE GOING TO FASHION IN BUT IF YOU HAVE TOOLS, RIGHT? 45:19 IF LIKE, YOU KNOW, WHEN RUP GOING TO HAVE A FLAT TIRE? 45:23 WHO KNOWS. THE QUESTION IS DO YOU HAVE A 45:26 TOOLS IN YOUR VEHICLE BEING SO YOU CAN REPAIR IT AND GET BACK 45:33 ON THE ROAD. RIGHT. 45:36 THAT IS SO TRUE. WOW. 45:41 REMACHINE DOUSELY BLESSED I WANT TO TOUCH ON ONE OF THE VIDEOS 45:45 BEFORE WE GO THE TOP OF THE HOUR. 45:50 YOU CAN SEND UNQUESTIONS AND TAKE QUESTIONS THE SECOND HOUR. 45:53 LIVE. 3 ABN.TV. 45:56 THAT IS IF YOU WANT TO E-MAIL LIVE AT 3 ABN.TV OR IF YOU WANT 46:02 TO TEXT THOSE 618-228-37975 ONE MORE TIME. 46:12 618-228-3957 AND TAKED A TRAJ OF THE PROGRAM BECAUSE WE HAVE A 46:15 COUPLE THAT IS GROWING IN THE LORD AND LET ME TELL YOU 46:18 SOMETHING ABOUT MARRIAGES. WE KNOW THIS. 46:22 YES. AND MAY WIFE IS ALWAYS LEARNING 46:28 SOMETHING NEW. REALLY. 46:33 EVERY 30 TO 60 DAYS IS A NEW COME NOW IN ADDED TO THE LIFE. 46:38 UNLESS YOU COMMUNICATE, YOU WILL MISS. 46:42 FOR GRANTED. WE SHOULD NOT ONLY APPRECIATE 46:45 SAY IT WHO THE SPOUSE IS. WHO SHE IS BECOMING? 46:50 AMEN. CONCERNED ABOUT MINE. 46:54 BECAUSE IT IS NOT A ONE WAY CIRCLE. 47:00 WE WIN TECT OR WE LOSE TOGETHER. ON A BASEBALL TEAM, CAN IMAGINE 47:06 WEFUL HE WON, BUT LOST. AREN'T WE ON THE SAME TEAM. 47:09 I WANT TO GO TO THIS VIDEO. WE'LL TALK ABOUT THAT. 47:17 IT IS SOMETHING WE FEEL STRONGLY ABOUT AND WHAT WE USE IN THE 47:20 PREMARRIAGE CULL TUR AND EVERY ASPECT OF LIFE. 47:25 RIGHT. YEAH. 47:35 THE TRUTH IS THERE IS POWER IN WHAT ARE DOING OR DISCOVERING 47:37 ABOUT ONE ANOTHER. NOW UNFORT FLAY HELP US, LORD, 47:44 NOW BECAUSE I KNOW YOU NEED THIS, I KNOW IT IS LIKE I WILL 47:48 GIVE IT TO YOU. YOU KNOW WHAT AM I SAYING? 47:51 >> YEAH. IF I REALLY WANT TO TAKE A DIG 47:55 AT YOU. SAY ANYTHING AND WON'T TEXT YOU 48:00 BECAUSE I KNOW THAT IS GOING TO DEEPLY DISTURB YOU. 48:07 THIS IS MAIM TA TUR THINKING. THIS IS IMMATURE THINKING. 48:13 IMMATURE BEHAVIOR. NO I AM HURTING. 48:16 BECAUSE I HAVE NOT TAKEN OWNERSHIP OF MY HURT. 48:19 YOU CAUSED MY HEART HURT NOW CAUSE TO YOU HURT. 48:23 THAT HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE. GET INTO THAT CYCLE. 48:26 YEAH. EVEN HOW CAN PEOPLE DOLL THAT IT 48:32 HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. YOU ALL RIGHT ME. 48:38 VICIOUS CYCLE AND WAITING FOR THE NEXT OPPORTUNITY YOU DON'T 48:41 WANT TO TRUST ME MARRIAGES DON'T LAST LONG. 48:44 YEAH. POST-TRAUMATIC STRESS DISORDER. 48:52 YES. WAYS WITH THIS. 48:59 THE HURT. THE HURT OF OUR FAMILIES INTO 49:06 OUR MARRIAGES. HAVE MARCY. 49:10 MY MOTHER WAS NOT THERE. THEY ARE GOING TO OR ATON DONNED 49:15 ME OR LEFT ME. I BRING THAT STRESS OR TRAM MALL 49:20 INTO MY CURRENT RELATIONSHIP AND NOW BEGIN TO TREAT MY WIFE AS 49:24 THOUGH SHE IS MY MOTHER AND AS THOUGH SHE IS MY FATHER AND 49:28 WHOEVER HURT ME. ET CETERA. 49:33 DISOTHER IS WHEN I TAKING A TRA MAT UK EXPERIENCE IN MY LIFE AND 49:38 IMPOSE IT ON THE EVERYDAY EXPERIENCES OF MY LIFE NOW. 49:42 BRING THE NOOSE THE PRESENT. THEN EVERY EXPERIENCE BECOMES A 49:47 TRAUMA AND IN ARE CLOONED MIGHT MARRIAGE. 49:51 DETRIMENTAL FOR THOSE WHO WANTON HAVE A. 50:02 HAPPEN? RATING. 50:08 PEOPLE ARE CATCH WATCHING THAT IS UP. 50:10 RIGHT NOW. WE HA DO WE DO. 50:14 YOU CAN GET OFF THE ROLLER COAST ER. 50:19 CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO DO IT. I WILL BE HONst WITH YOU. 50:22 SOMETIMES YOU ARE IN A >> IT. 50:28 LOOK AT THEIR FEARS. ANOTHER PERSON MAY NOT. 50:31 WHAT WE WITNESSED THIS IS. ONE INDIVIDUAL WHO IS WILLING TO 50:35 TAKE OWNERSHIP AND SAY YOU KNOW WHAT? 50:41 EXAMINE MYSELF AND SEE WHAT IT THAT IS ILING TO TABLE. 50:48 YOUR ROW REACTION RIGHT. AND IT CAUSES THE OTHER 50:53 INDIVIDUAL TO NOT HAVE ANYONE TO DANCE WITH. 50:59 YOU LOOK CRAZY WHEN YOU DANCE. YEAH. 51:04 PEOPLE LOOK AT YOU. YOU START LOOK AT YOURSELF LIKE. 51:08 OK. CRAZY. 51:12 YOU KNOW WHAT I AM SAYING. THAT IS INSIGHTFUL. 51:20 SOME PEOPLE HAVE MANY. YOU TALK ABOUT THAT. 51:23 THAT CLIP WE WERE TALKING ABOUT ONCE WE FIND OUT WHAT THE CORE 51:29 FEARS ARE. AND SPOUSES CORE FEARS WE 51:40 ALREADY KNOW WHAT PRESSES ONE ANOTHER'S BUTTONS RIGHT. 51:43 I KNOW THERE ARE CERTAIN THINGS I CAN DO THAT WILL PRESS MY 51:48 WE'VE BUTTONS. ONE OF MY CORE FEARS IS 51:52 REJECTION. >> YEAH. 51:56 CLOSE TO MY WIFE. YOU LOVE PHYSICAL TOUCH. 51:59 THAT'S MY LOVE LANGUAGE. MY WIFE DOESN'T FEEL LIKE THAT. 52:02 BECAUSE SHE IS TIRED. THEN YOU KNOW, AND MY REJECTION 52:08 THING THEN I WITHDREW AND CORE FEAR WHICH IS AUPON DONEMENT AND 52:12 THEN I COME BACK. YOU FELT THAT WAY. 52:17 NOW SHE WANTS TO WITHDREW AND GET EVEN. 52:22 IT IS VICIOUS TOO. THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO HAVE BEEN 52:27 THE CYCLE FOR WEEKS. MONTHS. 52:31 YOU DON'T REMEMBER WHEN STARTERRED. 52:37 IN. HOW ON EARTH CAN YOU BEGIN TO 52:42 FIND WHICH OUT. THAT IS ONE OF THE THINGS THE 52:47 ROCKY SERIES WAS IMPORTANT FOR. KNEW WHERE THING ABOUT AGE CAME 52:50 FROM. I KNOW WHERE IT CAME FROM. 52:53 WHEN MY FATHER LEFT. AND I WAS CHILD AND THE SEXUAL 52:58 ABUSE I PIECE,ED AS CHILD. IMAGINE TWO PEOPLE COME 53:02 TOGETHER. IT WORKS. 53:05 IF YOU DON'T GET A HOLD OF IT IT COULD ADEDEE STROY YOU. 53:09 I WANT TO SAY THAT, TOO. KNOWING IS ONE ASPECT OF IT. 53:17 BUT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY TAKE PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY MY WIFE 53:23 CANNOT MAKE ME FEEL A SEASON WAY. 53:29 THINKING THAT DRIVES WHATEVER EMOTIONAL STATE I END UP IN. 53:38 THAT WAS BAGGAGE AND TRASH THAT I DRAW FLEW THE RELATIONSHIP. 53:42 THE CRAZY THING FOR ME WAS LIBERATING IS LIKE, WELL, I 53:49 WOULD HAVE THAT THAD IF I WAS MARRIED TO HER. 53:54 I WOULD HAVE HAD THOSE ISSUE. IT DOES ME NO GOOD TO SAY IF YOU 53:58 WERE ONLY OR YOU SHOULD. I WOULDN'T. 54:01 NO. LORD. 54:07 LOVE, TOO. GOD IS NOT GOD. 54:13 GOD DOESN'T WANT USES TO TRIM THE BUSHES. 54:16 OH, NO. GOD WANTS US TO UPROOT STUFF. 54:21 RIGHT. LORD. 54:28 WIFE. REJECTION. 54:35 OF IN IF YOU ARE OR TY AND SO NOW I AM NOT JUST PRAYING AND 54:39 ASKING GOD CHANGE BEHAVIOR BUT ASKING GOD TO DEAL WELL ME AT 54:43 THE HEART LEVEL. I AM SAYING LORD MAY I FIND MY 54:47 SENSE OF PURPOSE AND BEA LODGING AND FULFILLMENT IN YOU. 54:52 RATING. THEN BEHAVIORS WILL FOLLOW. 54:58 THAT IS DEEP WORK. THAT IS DEEP WORK. 55:02 I JUST SAID THAT. PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO DO THE 55:10 WORK. CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT. 55:14 THE DEALING WITH ISSUES. SECONDARY. 55:21 BACK TO THE EX A PELL. BEAUTIFUL. 55:26 ELSE'S PUSHES. LOOK AT THAT. 55:32 CUT THAT DOWN. THEY MAKE PEOPLE RESPONSIBLE FOR 55:35 THEIR BEHAVIORS. IF YOU MAKE SOMEBODY ELSE 55:39 RESPONSIBLE. I AM ON THIS WAY. 55:44 OH. YOU CANNOT BE SAVED. 55:47 DEEPER THAN JUST YOU CAN'T BE HEALED. 55:53 PROBLEM. BE FOCUSING ON EVERYBODY ELSE'S 55:58 SIN. THE BIBLE SAYS WAY WAS VIPER IN 56:02 THE WAY THAT BITES THE HORSE'S HEEL FOR THE RIDER FALLS BACK. 56:06 HIS JOB WAS TO TOW CUSS ON WHAT YOUR PROBLEM IS, THAT WHOLE YOU 56:09 TRY TO GET SOMEWHERE, HE WILL BITE YOU HEEL AND MAKE YOU FALL 56:14 BACK. WE TALK THESE THINGS. 56:20 WE WILL TALK ABOUT SYSTEM OTHER THINGS. 56:26 PART OF THE HOUR. I WILL NOT SAY ANYTHING. 56:28 I AM ENJOYING THIS. YOU GET FREE COUNSELING. 56:32 I KNOW. I KNOW. 56:41 WERE I LKE TO. MAKE A CHANNEL. 56:45 ONLY GOD CAN HELP YOU. AMEN. 56:49 GOD PROMISES TO HELP US. PRAISE THE LORD FOR THAT. 56:55 GOD WILL NOT DO. HE WILL NOT EXAMINE YOURSELF. 57:00 YEAH. HE WILL SAY HE HAS PURIFIED. 57:06 GOD WILL NOT WATCH. YOU CANNOT WASH AWAY THE SINS. 57:11 I WILL MAKE PURE CHOICE FOR YOU. WE TALK ABOUT THAT. 57:17 EVERYBODY LISTENING TO THE NEW PROGRAM HAS OR HAVE HAD. 57:23 MAYBE ARE DEALING WITH FEAR NOW. WE'LL TALK ABOUT WALLS. 57:29 WHAT WALLS ARE ALREADY THERE. WHAT RALES NEED TO COME DOWN. 57:36 HOW TO BRING THOSE WALLS DOWN. THE CONWAYS ARE GETTING FORKED 57:40 SECOND HOUR. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS IT. 57:45 WE'LL BE BACK. IN JUST A FEW MINUTES. |
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