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Series Code: TDYL
Program Code: TDYL210007B
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00:13 >> WELCOME BACK TO THE SECOND HOUR OF THURSDAY NIGHT LIVE AT THREE ABN.
00:19 WAS SPEAKING WITH SCOTT WHO'S BEEN GIVING US AN OVERVIEW OF A LOT OF THINGS NOT ALLOWING THE 00:37 WORLD TO USE US. IT WAS A BAD THING WE WOULD RECOMMEND YOU TURN THE 00:42 TELEVISION OFF. DON'T DO THAT. WE HAVE DIGITAL DEVICES TODAY 00:47 BUT USING EVERYTHING THAT IS AT OUR DISPOSAL FOR THE GLORY OF GOD IS WHAT A PERSON WHO MAY BE 00:55 DEVELOPED BY GOD IS WHAT THEY SHOULD DO AND WE WANT TO TALK ABOUT THE INTENT OF USING THESE 01:01 ASPECTS. WE ARE GOING TO READ SOME OF THE QUESTIONS YOU HAVE SENT IN BUT 01:04 IF YOU HAVE ANY QUESTIONS THAT COME TO YOUR MIND FOR THE SECOND HOUR YOU CAN SEND THOSE AND TEXT 01:10 THOSE IN FOR X 182-28-3975 THAT IS A DIRECTED TEXT FROM YOUR PHONE TO OURS. 01:17 IT IS DIGITAL. YOU CAN E-MAIL IT AT LIVE AT THREE ABN. 01:24 LIVE AT THREE ABN THAT OR CALL 6186 TO 746 AND 51. SCOTT, WE HEARD A LOT ABOUT WHAT 01:33 YOU DO NOW BUT WALK US THROUGH THE YOUNG LED YOU OUT BECAUSE A LOT OF TIMES PEOPLE MIGHT SAY I 01:42 WILL NEVER BE LIKE SCOTT AND PUTTING DOWN VIDEO DATING -- GAMES IN HIS ABILITY FOR THE 01:46 LORD AT THIS KID WAS PROBABLY BORN ON THE FRONT PEW OF A CHURCH SOMEWHERE PEER >> HE DID 01:53 NOT WANT TO RUN INTO ME AT 15 I WAS A LONG HAIRED ANGRY FACE FACED DUDE WITH A T-SHIRT TO 01:59 PROVE I HAD AN AX TO GRIND AND IT WAS A DARK PLACE AND THAT IS WHAT WAS COOL THOUGH. 02:05 YOU HAVE TO PLAY THE PART. YOU START TO ASSIMILATE AND ADOPT THE IMAGE AND THE PERSONA 02:12 AND THE ATTITUDE OF THE MUSIC YOU LISTEN TO AND MUSIC WAS MY IDOL. 02:17 WORLDLY ROCK MUSIC, HEAVY METAL, PUNK ROCK, ALTERNATIVE MUSIC, ALL THE TRASH AND I PLAYED IN A 02:24 BAND. I PLAYED BASS GUITAR IN A BAND AND SO IN FACT IN THE MEDIA ON 02:29 THE BRAIN SEMINAR I HAVE IMAGERY VIDEOS OF ME AND THE BAND PLAYING ON OCTOBER 31st 1998 02:37 WE WERE SENIORS IN HIGH SCHOOL. WE WERE THE COOL GUYS BECAUSE WE GOT THE BAND AND I'M LOOKING AT 02:43 THAT, ON WHOSE TERMS IS THAT COOL WE ARE DRESSED IN DEMONIC A GHOULISH LOOKING STUFF. 02:51 THE CHURCH BUT IT WAS A CHRISTIAN BAND AT THAT TIME BECAUSE WE HAD KIND OF BEEN 02:57 INVOLVED IN THE CHARISMATIC MOVEMENT MOVING AWAY FROM THE DRINKING AND THE REALLY DARK 03:02 HEAVY METAL BUT WE WERE STILL PLAYING THE SAME KIND OF MUSIC. A LOT OF THE SAME WORLDLY LYRICS 03:07 AND THEN MIXING SOME CHRISTIAN STUFF IN THEIR PEER GOOD LORD FORGIVE ME. 03:11 IT IS HISTORY AND I PRAISE GOD FOR THAT BECAUSE WHEN YOU LOOK BACK AND ANYBODY LOOKS BACK ON 03:15 THEIR PAST YOU LOOK BACK WITH A HORROR BUT YOU CAN LOOK BACK WITH HORROR BUT HOPE AND IN THE 03:22 PRESENT WITH HOPE BECAUSE YOU'VE A WHOLE JESUS CHRIST AND YOU KNOW HE IS YOUR IDENTITY NOW AND 03:27 WHEN YOU BEHOLD HIM YOU START TO ADOPT AND ASSIMILATE HIS CHARACTER TRAITS. 03:32 BY HOLY WE BECOME CHANGED SO I GUESS THAT IS A ON THE FRONT OF MUSIC AND WHERE I CAME OUT IN 03:39 THAT SCENE. >> HOW DID YOU GET INTO THAT? >> A LOT OF YOU TALK ABOUT THERE 03:48 BEING A PORTAL AND ENTERS INTO IT. >> OLDER SIBLINGS AND FRIENDS 03:53 INTRODUCING ME TOO THE MUSIC THEY WERE LISTENING TO AND THEN YOU ADOPT THAT AS YOUR TEMPLATE 03:56 OF WHAT IS COOL AND LIKE YOU WANT TO FIT IN AND YOU'RE YOUR 13-YEAR-OLD KID AND YOU START TO 04:02 DABBLE IN THIS AND IT HIT YOUR DOPAMINE RECEPTORS BECAUSE THE MUSIC REALLY EXCITING AND THEN 04:07 YOU GET ADDICTED TO IT. I TALKED TO ONE GUY WHO CAME OUT OF THE DRUG MUSIC SCENE WITH 04:14 LIKE HIP-HOP REGGAE FUSION AND HE CAME OUT OF THEM BOTH AND I SAID WHAT WAS HARDER TO GIVE UP? 04:19 THE MUSIC OR THE DRUGS BECAUSE I NEVER GOT INTO NARCOTICS AND HE SAID THE MUIC WAS HARDER TO 04:24 GIVE UP. THE ADDICTION TO THAT MUSIC WAS DEEPER AND STRONGER THAN THE 04:29 DRUGS. AND, SO, HE REALIZED THAT THAT IS NOT COOL. 04:33 SATAN IS NOT COOL. HE WANTS TO MAKE YOU HIS SLAVE. GOD WANTS TO FREE YOU. 04:41 BREAK THE DIGITAL CHAINS OF. SO WHEN I REALIZED THERE WAS A SOCIETY OF HEAVEN AND I WANTED 04:49 TO ASSIMILATE INTO THAT AND BE A CULTURED INTO THAT AND THAT IS THE SOCIETY I WANT TO FIT INTO 04:55 AND IT CHANGES YOUR PERSPECTIVE ABOUT THE WORLD AND FRIENDS THINK IS COOL AND THE 05:04 CONCLUSIONS THEY MAKE ABOUT THE WAY YOU LIVE AND THEN THE ONLY PERSON'S OPINION I CARE ABOUT IS 05:08 GOD AND I WANT TO FIT INTO WHERE THE ANGELS FIT IN WHICH IS MY DESIRE NOW. 05:14 >> WHEN YOU TALK ABOUT THAT WE HAD A PREVIEW IN MY OWN COMING UP IN THE MUSIC INDUSTRY AND 05:21 THERE IS A GROUP CALLED WAR WHAT I WAS GROWING UP. AND THEY HAD A SONG AND IT NEVER 05:30 DAWNED ON AS MUCH AS I HAVE DONE SEMINARS ON MUSIC AND THE LYRICS THAT NEVER DAWNED ON ME UNTIL I 05:35 WAS SITTING HERE RIGHT NOW THAT THE LYRICS ARE SUBLIMINALLY CONDITIONING YOU TO GO IN A 05:46 DIFFERENT DIRECTION NOT ONLY TO THINK A CERTAIN WAY BUT ONE OF THE LYRICS WAS SLIPPING INTO 05:54 DARKNESS. AND I NEVER THOUGHT ABOUT IT. IT WAS ONE OF MY ALBUMS AND I 06:01 THOUGHT ABOUT THE LYRICS EVEN ATTUNED CAME BACK TO ME I WAS A DISC JOCKEY AND WHEN YOU SPOKE 06:07 ABOUT THAT I REMEMBERED THAT AND IT'S AMAZING. SO YOU'RE LISTENING TO SOMETHING 06:11 THAT SAYS LOOKING INTO DARKNESS AND WHAT DO YOU THINK YOU ARE DOING? 06:17 >> THERE IS NO AVOIDING IT. THAT MUSIC IS SINGING TO YOUR SOUL AND WHEN YOU'RE 15 YOU SAY 06:22 YOU SHOULDN'T LISTEN TO THAT OR WATCH THOSE MOVIES ARE PLAYING THOSE VIOLENT VIDEOGAMES GAMES 06:27 MORTAL KOMBAT AND WHATEVER AND I WAS LIKE WELL IT'S NOT AFFECTING ME WHAT HOW DO YOU KNOW? 06:33 YOU CANNOT SAY FIRST OF ALL BECAUSE YOU DON'T HAVE A VERSION OF YOU NOT LISTENING TO IT TO 06:37 COMPARE IT TO TAKE A BREAK FOR THREE MONTHS AND SEE IF IT CHANGES YOUR ATTITUDE AND THEN 06:42 YOU WILL KNOW. BUT OF COURSE IT IS AFFECTING YOU. 06:44 WE KNOW THAT BECAUSE YOU CAN'T TAKE THINGS INTO YOUR MIND AND HAVE IT NOT EFFECTIVE. 06:48 IT IS THE LAW OF THE MIND. >> SO HOW DID YOU GET OUT? BECAUSE MANY YOUNG PEOPLE MIGHT 06:57 BE A PARENT WATCHING THIS PROGRAM AND THEY MIGHT SAY MY KID IS IN THAT MOMENT RIGHT NOW 07:03 AND I WANT TO BROADEN THE SPECTRUM BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE COULD SAY THERE ARE TWO GUYS ON 07:11 THE PROGRAM BUT THE IMPACT IS ON YOUNG LADIES ALSO THERE IS A PRESSURE COMING FROM THE 07:18 UNREALISTIC INSTAGRAM AND TIK-TOK AND FACEBOOK AND THERE ARE SO MANY OTHER PLATFORMS THAT 07:24 ARE OUT THERE THAT YOUNG CHILDREN ARE BEING MANIPULATED TO THINKING THAT IS WHAT I NEED 07:29 TO LOOK LIKE. I NEED TO LOOK LIKE HER OR HIM I WANT TO BE FAMOUS AND I WATCHED 07:34 A DOCUMENTARY WHERE THESE THINGS ARE STAGED. THERE WAS ONE DOCUMENTARY I 07:41 WATCHED WHERE THIS YOUNG LADY BECAME THE ADMIRATION OF ALL HER FOLLOWERS. 07:50 1.5 MILLION FOLLOWERS SHE WOULD CREATE AN IMAGE AND THEY SAID THIS IS WHAT THEY DID KNOW TO MY 07:54 WIFE AND I WERE WATCHING IT AND SO THEY HAD HER PUT HER HEAD IN A LITTLE BABY POOL AND THE 08:01 PHOTOGRAPHER IS RIGHT ABOVE HER SO YOU THINK SHE IS AT A BEACH SOMEWHERE BUT SHE'S JUST IN A 08:06 BABY POOL AND HER HEAD IS IN THE WATER BUT THE WAY SHE POSTS HER PICTURE YOU THINK SHE IS AT IN 08:12 THE CARIBBEAN AND SHE SAYS THIS IS HOW I GET MY FOLLOWERS TO BELIEVE I TRAVEL ALL OVER THE 08:20 WORLD. BUT SHE IS RIGHT IN HER BACKYARD AND THIS IS THE IMAGERY THAT 08:24 YOUNG PEOPLE ARE BEING MANIPULATED TO THIS UNREALISTIC WORLD. 08:29 HOW DID YOU GET OUT OF YOURS? >> IT WAS GRADUAL AND THAT'S NOT WHAT I RECOMMEND HER PARENTS 08:34 WHOSE KIDS ARE INVOLVED IN THIS RIGHT NOW BUT FOR ME I WAS STEPPING INTO MAJORITY IN THE 08:39 SENIOR YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL AND BEYOND THAT AND THEN COMING INTO MY ADULTHOOD TAKING LIFE MORE 08:46 SERIOUSLY AND JUST SLOWLY BEING IMPRESSED AND CONVICTED AND RETURNING TO THE CHRISTIAN FAITH 08:50 I WAS RAISED IN. IT WAS REALLY A PROCESS FOR ME. FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE IN IT RIGHT 08:56 NOW YOU DO NOT WANT TO DABBLE WITH THE DEVIL YOU CANNOT DANCE WITH THE DEVIL. 09:00 YOU HAVE TO SNAP OUT OF THAT RIGHT NOW AND FOR PARENTS WHO ARE INTERVENING IN THEIR 09:06 CHILDREN ESPECIALLY THEIR OLDER CHILDREN ASKING IF THEY WERE LIKE I WAS 15 WITH THIS ATTITUDE 09:12 THE SOLUTION BELIEVE IT OR NOT IS YOUR PARENTS. PARENTS THINK THAT MY KID IS 09:18 WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME AND THAT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE IMMERSED IN THE DARKNESS BE FED 09:27 SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, THEIR SELF-WORTH BY THEIR PARENTS WANTING TO SPEND TIME WITH THEM, 09:32 HAVE FUN TOGETHER, DO THINGS TOGETHER. THE FAMILY UNIT, THE HEARTS OF 09:37 THE FATHERS AND THE CHILDREN TURNING TOWARD EACH OTHER AGAIN IS A PROPHECY IN THE BIBLE AND 09:42 IS THE SOLUTION TO ALL OF THESE BREAKDOWNS. MOM IS ON HER SOCIAL MEDIA AND 09:47 DATA'S WATCHING THE GAME AND THE KIDS ARE ON THE VIDEO GAME AND IT START COME OF 2-YEAR-OLD IS 09:53 IN THE ACTIVITY SEAT IN THE BOUNCY SEAT ON THE DEVICE AND WHEN WE JUST ALL SAY -- WE ALL 10:01 HAVE TO SACRIFICE WE JUST DON'T GO INTO THE 15-YEAR-OLD AND LAID OUT THE LAW AND IMPOSE SOMETHING 10:06 ON YOU AND DON'T SACRIFICE THAT'S NOT GONNA WIN IT AT THAT AGE YOU HAVE TO BE MUCH MORE 10:12 DILIGENT AND MUCH MORE SELF-SACRIFICING AND EVERYBODY SAYS WE'RE IN THIS FOR US. 10:16 WE ARE IN THIS FOR GOD AND THE WAY WE SLIPPED INTO THE HABITS OF MEDIA IT'S LIKE IT JUST CAME 10:21 IN LIKE A STORM LIKE WE WERE ON A BOAT GOING DOWN THE CURRENT AND THERE IS AN AVALANCHE. 10:28 THERE IS A WATERFALL COMING OUT AND WE HAVE TO BAIL OUT GET OFF OF THIS COURSE THAT BIG TAC AND 10:34 MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND AND HOLLYWOOD ENTERTAINMENT IS TAKING ITS TIME AND WE ALL HAVE 10:38 TO PULL OUR OARS AS HARD AS WE CAN DO TAT WATER AND GET TO THE SHORE SO WE ALL SACRIFICE AND 10:43 COME TOGETHER THE WORD IS TOGETHER IT'S A LOST WORD IN THIS CULTURE. 10:49 WE MAY BE WITH EACH OTHER IN THE SAME HOUSE BUT WERE NOT TRULY TOGETHER. 10:54 WE GET THE BUY-IN FROM THE KIDS TO THE EXTENT POSSIBLE AND YOU HAVE THE FAMILY MEETING AND 10:59 PARENTS APOLOGIZE FOR THEIR FAILINGS. AND LETTING THE CHILDREN DO 11:02 THINGS THAT WERE HARMFUL TO THEM I DIDN'T ALWAYS KNOW AND I DID SOMETIMES BUT I REALLY WANT TO 11:07 MAKE IT RIGHT AND THEN WE PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS AND WE SPEND MONEY AND GO ON SPECIAL VACATION 11:12 WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO? AND REALLY WIN THEIR HEARTS AND I DON'T MEAN COAX THEM OR BRIBE 11:17 THEM I MEAN SHOW THEM THAT YOU LOVE THEM AND YOU ARE WILLING TO SACRIFICE FOR THEM THESE THINGS 11:26 ARE A SUBSTITUTE FOR THE EMPTY HOLES IN THEIR LIVES AND PARENTS SOMETIMES BECOME SOMETIMES 11:33 INCARCERATED THEMSELVES IN THEIR OWN CONSISTENT QUIET TIME WITH THEIR DEVICES. 11:39 AND SO I HAVE ENCOURAGED SPOUSES , SPEND SOME TIME IN YOUR DAY LOOKING EACH OTHER IN THE 11:47 EYE. MY WIFE AND I ENJOY DOING THAT WE LOOK INTO EACH OTHER'S EYE 11:52 AND TALK AND HONESTLY FIND OUT WHAT IS ACTUALLY HAPPENING IN YOUR OWN CHILD'S LIFE BECAUSE 12:00 YOU PROBABLY DISCOVERED THIS BUT THERE IS AN EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS AND ALL OF US. 12:04 WHO YOU ARE THREE MONTHS AGO YOU COULD BE GETTING STRONGER OR WEAKER. 12:08 WHO IS YOUR CHILD COMING? THIS COULD BE DETERMINED BY WHAT THEY ARE FED UP YOUR >> AND MEAL 12:17 TIME TOGETHER YOU ARE LOOKING INTO EACH OTHER'S EYES. BILL GATES AND STEVE JOBS WERE 12:29 SUPER STRICT ABOUT MEALTIME WHEN THEY HAD SMALL CHILDREN. THE CHILDREN WILL RISE UP LIKE 12:40 OLIVE PLANTS AROUND HER TABLE, 128 WHAT ABOUT BETTER TABLE? THE TABLE AS -- IS A GODLY PLACE 12:48 TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. >> YOU HAVE A NUMBER OF QUESTIONS I WANT TO DIVE INTO. 12:57 HAS THE PANDEMIC HEIGHTENED DIGITAL CONSUMPTION? IF SO WHAT ARE THE DANGERS? 13:04 ESPECIALLY SINCE WE CANNOT SOCIALIZE AS MUCH AS I DID BEFORE. 13:09 >> IT HAS HEIGHTENED DIGITAL CONSUMPTION I JUST HEARD TODAY SOMEONE FROM FACEBOOK 13:14 ADVERTISING WAS PANICKING BECAUSE THEY SAID IF PEOPLE START ENDING AND GOING BACK INTO 13:19 REAL LIFE THAN OUR AD REVENUE WILL DROP BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL NOT BE SCROLLING THEIR SOCIAL 13:25 MEDIA FEED AS MUCH AND PRAISE GOD. SCROLLED OUR SOCIAL MEDIA A 13:32 LITTLE LESS IT IS A SAD AND REAL AND TRAGIC REALITY THAT ISOLATION AND LONELINESS IS A 13:37 CONSEQUENCE OF SOCIAL MEDIA ONSLAUGHT OVER THE LAST TEN YEARS. 13:44 THE PANDEMIC IS HEIGHTENED THAT AN OBVIOUS MEASURABLE WAYS. WE KNOW THAT SOCIAL CONTACT IS 13:51 ONE OF THE GREATEST PROTECTIVE MEASURES FOR ACTUALLY DISEASE DEVELOPMENT IT IS PART OF A 13:59 HEALTHY LIFE. SPIRITUALLY HEALTHY. THE BIBLE SAYS DON'T NEGLECT THE 14:04 ASSEMBLING OF YOURSELVES TOGETHER. DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT 14:07 THRESHOLDS OF WHAT IS SAFE FOR THEM AND THEIR RISK FACTORS AND THEIR COMFORT LEVEL IT'S A VERY 14:13 COMPLEX DIFFICULT TIME BUT DO NOT GIVE UP THE ASSEMBLING OF YOURSELF TOGETHER AND FINDING 14:17 WAYS TO BE HUMAN TO HUMAN TO MAKE EYE CONTACT AND I LIKE USING THESE PLATFORMS THIS IS 14:22 GREAT WE ARE COMMUNICATING WITH MANY PEOPLE RIGHT NOW AND I'D LOVE TO FACE TIME WITH MY FAMILY 14:28 WHEN I'M IN ILLINOIS AND THEY ARE IN MICHIGAN BUT WHAT BUGS ME ABOUT ZOOM MEETINGS AND FACE 14:34 TIME IS THE CAMERA IS RIGHT HERE BUT MY SON'S FACE IS RIGHT HERE AND I AM LOOKING RIGHT HERE AND 14:40 WERE NOT QUITE MAKING EYE CONTACT. I UNDERSTAND MASKS AND THE 14:50 REASON FOR THEM BUT WE COMMUNICATE EMPATHY WITH OUR FACES TO HER CHILDREN AND SO WE 14:54 DO WANT TO FIND THE RIGHT BALANCE AND I DO NOT HAVE THE ANSWERS BUT IF WE GO SWING ALL 15:00 THE WAY OVER TO SOCIAL ISOLATION AND NO FACIAL COMMUNICATION AND ONLY DIGITAL EVERYTHING THAT 15:06 WILL HAVE CONSEQUENCES THAT ARE NOT NECESSARILY WAIT INTO THE EQUATION IN TERMS OF HEALTH AND 15:11 LIFE EXPECTANCY. >> THAT IS TRUE. BECAUSE IT CAN ONLY GO SO FAR 15:17 BEFORE OUR DOPAMINE STORES ARE DEPLETED. I DID A STUDY ON THAT WHERE 15:28 YOU'RE AT THE POINT LIKE A DRUG ADDICT THAT YOU WERE UNABLE TO EXPERIENCE SIMPLE PLEASURES 15:33 BECAUSE YOU HAVE EMPTIED YOUR DOPAMINE IF HE TOOK AN ORANGE AND SQUEEZED IT 15 HOURS A DAY 15:41 THEN HOW MUCH JUICE? THERE IS NO MORE JUICE. BUT THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS 15:48 SOMETIMES WHEN YOU SQUEEZE THE BRAIN. ONE GOOD SIGN SOMEONE JUST SAID 15:57 THE GAS PRICES ARE GOING UP AND FINANCIALLY THAT'S A HORRIBLE THING BUT THEY SAID THIS IS A 16:05 GOOD SIGN BECAUSE IT'S BECOMING WARMER PEOPLE WILL GET OUT OF THE HOUSES AND RVS -- RV SALES 16:13 ARE ON THE RISE AND PEOPLE ARE GETTING TOGETHER, FAMILIES ARE TRAVELING TOGETHER AND SPENDING 16:19 TIME TOGETHER AND DOING MORE CAMPING AND SO THESE ARE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE CAN 16:24 IMPLEMENT IN THEIR LIVES TO GET OUTSIDE AND LIKE ONE KID THEY TOOK THEM ON VACATION AND I WAS 16:30 WATCHING A SHOW WHERE THEY WENT TO THE MOUNTAINS IN SUSIE WALKED IN AND SAID DAD WHAT IS INTERNET 16:38 PASS CURD? AND HE SAID THERE IS NONE UP HERE WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DO? 16:42 AND HE SAID LET'S TALK TO EACH OTHER. WHAT WOULD I TALK TO YOU ABOUT? 16:49 THEY REACQUAINTED THEMSELVES MOM AND DAD. HERE'S ANOTHER ONE? 16:53 HE HAS A 32-YEAR-OLD SON AND HE IS HOOKED. THE LIKES TO UNDERSTAND HIS SON 17:01 BETTER AND WANTS HIM TO UNDERSTAND THE HARM THAT HE'S DOING TO HIMSELF. 17:04 HOW DOES HE HELP HIM? >> IT DEPENDS UPON WHAT THE QUESTION MEANS BY HOOKED? 17:12 IF WERE TALKING ABOUT VIDEO GAME ADDICTION THAT IS WHAT A LOT OF 32-YEAR-OLD MAN AND 35 YEAR OLD 17:19 AND GROWN MEN DO IS PLAY VIDEO GAMES. 5 MILLION AMERICANS PLAY 40 17:24 HOURS OF VIDEO GAMES PER WEEK. IF HE IS DOING RESEARCH MAY SOMEONE WILL LOOK AT ME AND 17:34 THINK HE'S ON THERE ALL THE TIME BUT JUST TO CONTRACTOR THAT EVERYONE WILL FIND THEIR OWN 17:38 BALANCE AND NOT EVERYONE'S BALANCE WILL BE THE SAME WHEN IT COMES TO USING THE DIGITAL TOOLS 17:42 IN A WAY THAT IS ADDICTIVE AND NOT HARMFUL AND IMBALANCED BUT VIDEOGAME ADDICTION IS FLAT-OUT 17:47 HARMFUL. I SEE NO PLACE FOR VIDEO GAMES IN HEALTHY LIFE WHAT IS THE USE 17:53 AND WHAT IS IT GOOD FOR? >> IT FEELS TIME THAT YOU COULD USE FOR SOMETHING ELSE. 17:58 HE IS 32 AND SO YOU CAN PRAY AND PRESENT INFORMATION AND SHARE THIS INTERVIEW IN THIS LECTURE 18:07 AND PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE WILLING TO BE CONFRONTED WITH INFORMATION THAT MIGHT CHALLENGE 18:12 THEIR STATUS WHILE IT IS MANY TIMES INFORMATION THAT TRANSLATES TO TRANSFORMATION. 18:19 IF YOU ARE BEING RATIONAL AND LOGIC AND HAVE BEST INTERESTS AT HEART THEN YOU SAY MAY BE I 18:25 COULD TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT AND THAT IS WHAT I ALWAYS CHALLENGE PEOPLE TO DO. 18:30 MOST VIDEOGAME ADDICTS ARE BUT A LOT ARE WILLING TO TRY BUT SOMEONE COMES INTO AN 18:38 OPTOMETRIST OFFICE AND TRIES IT AND HE THINKS IS OKAY AND IT'S NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL BUT THEN 18:42 ONCE HE TRIES THE OTHER SET OF LENSES AND HE SEES IT CLEARS THINGS UP HE REALIZES HE NOT 18:48 SEEING CLEARLY SO YOU KNOW BY TRIAL AND COMPARISON. IT'S KIND OF LIKE DANIEL. 19:00 IT IS AN EXPERIMENT AND THERE SHOULD BE NO FEAR OF INVESTIGATION TO TRY SOMETHING 19:06 ELSE AND SEE IF MOM OR DAD IS WRONG HERE. BUT CHALLENGED INDIVIDUAL AND 19:16 TAKE A LOOK AT INFORMATION AND SEE. >> THIS IS SOMETHING WE SEE WITH 19:22 SOME OF THE DEVELOPERS BECAUSE THEY HAVE THESE THINGS CALLED SCREEN TIME AND IT GOES ALONG 19:29 THIS LINE OF HOW MUCH MEDIA EXPOSURE A DAY IS A HEALTHY AMOUNT? 19:34 IS THERE A CERTAIN AMOUNT THAT IS TOO MUCH PER DAY? >> ABSOLUTELY. 19:39 EVEN IF IT IS TOTALLY AN AQUEOUS -- INADEQUATE HARMLESS NOT ADDICTING THE RAMIFICATIONS ARE 19:48 MENTAL HEALTH AND PSYCHOLOGICAL STAFF AND THE SOCIAL MEDIA JUST SIMPLY STARING AT SCREENS CAN 19:53 HARM THE EYES. TO PEOPLE WHO HAVE A JOB WHERE THEY ARE ON A SCREEN ALL DAY YOU 20:00 WANT TO TRY TO NOT LOOK AT SCREENS BEFORE WORK BECAUSE LACK COULD BECOME HARMFUL ON THE EYES 20:07 THE QUESTION IS ABOUT HOW MUCH SCREEN TIME. THAT IS A BROAD CATEGORY. 20:11 TO BREAK THAT DOWN, VIDEOGAMES, OKAY, WE CAN START WITH THE WORLD. 20:19 HOW MUCH WORLDLY SCREEN TIME IS GOOD? IF THERE IS NO BENEFIT ONLY HARM 20:26 TO THE BRAIN ONLY ZERO OF THAT KIND. SOCIAL MEDIA, THAT DEPENDS UPON 20:30 THE PERSON. SOME PEOPLE ARE HARMED MORE PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY 20:35 BY SOCIAL MEDIA EXPOSURE THAN PEOPLE WHO HAVE MORE FRAGILE SELF-WORTH TO COMPARE THEMSELVES 20:41 WITH OTHERS WHO SAY ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE A BETTER LIFE THAN ME THEY ARE GOOD CANDIDATES TO 20:46 JUST GET OFF COMPLETELY. BECAUSE IN STUDIES THEY ARE SHOWN TO BE HURT MORE. 20:51 WHEN THEY TAKE COLLEGE STUDENTS OFFICE SOCIAL MEDIA FOR ONE WEEK OR DOWN THEY FIND ON AVERAGE 36 20:59 AND 33 PERCENT DROP IN LONELINESS AND IN DEPRESSION. A LOT OF PEOPLE CAN REALLY 21:05 BENEFIT FROM REDUCING SOCIAL MEDIA DRAMATICALLY. IT DEPENDS SOMEWHAT ON THE 21:12 PERSONALITY OF THE INDIVIDUAL. IT'S HARD TO MAKE A BLANKET ANSWER BUT IT DEPENDS ON THE 21:16 PERSON AND THE AGE OF THE PERSON AND ON THE TYPE OF SCREEN TIME WE ARE TALKING ABOUT. 21:24 >> YES SOME PEOPLE'S JOBS DEMAND SCREEN TIME BUT I EVEN SAY TO THEM UNPLUG SHUT IT OFF. 21:31 >> GO FOR A WALK DOWN TO THE WATER COOLER EVERY LITTLE WHILE TAKE YOUR EYES OFF THE SCREEN 21:36 GIVE IT FLOWING -- GIVE IT A BREAK GET THE BLOOD FLOWING. DON'T SIT ON YOUR PHONE DURING 21:46 LUNCH. TO GET OUTSIDE AND GO ON A WALK. >> MY WIFE ALWAYS IS IT SO 21:53 INVIGORATING LET'S GO ON A WALK SO HERE IT IS, WHAT IS YOUR OPINION REGARDING THE 21:57 APPROPRIATE AGE FOR A MINOR TO HAVE THEIR OWN SMART DEVICE? >> IT DEMANDS SO MUCH ON THAT 22:04 YOUNG PERSON. THERE ARE 16, 17, 18 -YEAR-OLDS WHO ARE SO SPIRITUALLY MATURE 22:13 AND STEPPING UP INTO CANVASSING WORK AND THEY ARE MISSIONARIES FOR GOD AND IN THAT PLACE OF 22:19 REALLY BEING AN INDIVIDUAL YOUNG PERSON AND THEY SEEK THEIR PARENTS MENTOR SHIP AND THEY 22:26 SEEK THEIR PARENTS ACCOUNTABILITY AND THEY SAY I KNOW YOU DON'T EVEN REQUIRE ME 22:29 TOO BUT I WANT YOU TO KEEP AND EYE ON MY SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS BECAUSE I KNOW MY FRONTAL LOBE 22:33 IS NOT FULLY DEVELOPED YET AND I STILL MEDIA. AND THAT'S THE PROFILE OF A KID 22:38 WHO IS IN THE READINESS PHASE. YOUR AVERAGE 13-YEAR-OLD OR 14 -YEAR-OLD OR A TEENAGER I KNOW 22:46 THIS SOUNDS RADICAL BECAUSE LIKE EVERY TEENAGER IS WALKING AROUND THE SMART PHONE AND I DON'T HAVE 22:51 TEENAGERS A BIG DISCLAIMER, I AM A PARENT OF A NINE, SEVEN, 3 -YEAR-OLD I HAVE NO WITH 22:58 TEENAGERS BUT I KNOW IT'S ON THE INTERNET AND I THINK YOU ALL DO AS WELL AND I WANT TO KNOW IF 23:04 THEY KNOW MORE THAN I DO ABOUT CONTROLS AND BLOCKS ON THE PHONE OR DO THEY KNOW HOW TO NAVIGATE 23:10 AROUND THE BLOCKING SOFTWARE WE HAVE ON THERE? I DON'T WANT TO GET INTO THAT 23:15 MESS. THAT SOUNDS LIKE A BIG CAN OF WORMS TO ME THAT I'M OPENING IF 23:19 I HAVE A REGULAR TEENAGER WHO IS NOT LAUNCHING OUT AS A SPECTACULAR MATURITY. 23:27 >> SEEK TO DO THINGS THAT WOULD BENEFIT A CHILD IN A LONG-TERM BASIS TO GET THEIR MOTOR SKILLS 23:36 GOING BECAUSE SEDENTARY LIFE OF-SITTING TOO MUCH IS THE NEW SMOKING. AND WE HAVE A LOT OF UNHEALTHY 23:44 CHILDREN WHO ARE JUST DORMANT. THE WORD SEDENTARY IS PROBABLY AN UNDERSTATEMENT AND THEY DON'T 23:51 KNOW HOW TO THROW A BALL OR RUN AND THEY CANNOT MOVE THEIR LIMBS AND SOME YOUNG PEOPLE CAN AND 23:58 THEY DON'T HAVE ANYTHING THAT CHALLENGES THEM WHEN IT COMES TO AEROBICS OR DEEP BREATHING TO 24:04 GET OUT THERE AND READ OUTSIDE AND IT DEPENDS UPON WHERE YOU LIVE AS WELL BECAUSE IF YOUR 24:08 COMMUNITY IS A PLACE THAT IS SAFE THAT'S ONE THING BUT IT IS GOOD TO ASK YOURSELF, DO YOU SET 24:16 FAMILY GOALS? IF YOU DIDN'T SET ANY FAMILY GOALS THE END OF SMART DEVICES 24:20 SUCH THEM UP FOR YOU. ANOTHER ONE IS WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO A PARENT THAT 24:24 STRUGGLING WITH MAKING A DECISION TO BUY LOOK AT THE SMART DEVICE. 24:30 >> DON'T DO IT. THAT'S DEFAULT. WHEN YOU LISTEN TO THE DIGITAL 24:39 DISCONNECT IS SERIOUS AND YOU HEAR THE INFORMATION WE HAVE DISCUSSED SO FAR WE REALIZE THAT 24:44 IT'S LIKE GIVING THEM POISONOUS SNAKES. IT IS A DANGEROUS THING TO BE 24:50 HANDLING THESE AND IT TAKES A VERY HIGH LEVEL OF MAJORITY. DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY ADULTS 24:55 CANNOT HANDLE AND GET A HANDLE ON THEIR INTERNET USE? IN? 24:58 IN THEIR MEDIA USE? AND, SO, I WOULD HAVE TO KNOW THE KID IN THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND 25:06 REALLY, SOMEBODY WHO IS THE EXPERT ON THE RESEARCH AND INFORMATION ABOUT MEDIA I DON'T 25:11 POSITION MYSELF AS LIKE THE ADVISOR OF TELLING PARENTS WHAT TO DO. 25:17 BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS I TEACH INFORMATION AND STUDIES AND SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES AND THEN 25:24 HOPEFULLY WE CAN ALL IN OUR CONTEXT IN OUR OWN WALK WITH THE LORD AND THE WISDOM HE GIVES TO 25:31 US FROM ABOVE WHICH IS PURE AND PEACEFUL AND WILL GIVE YOU PURE WISDOM FROM ABOVE AND HE WILL 25:37 GIVE YOU THE PATH ON WHAT WILL BE BEST FOR THAT CHILD. AND WHAT WILL ALWAYS BE BEST FOR 25:43 THAT CHILD IS MORE OF YOU. MORE OF HIS PARENTS. THE MORE WE CAN POUR OURSELVES 25:48 INTO OUR KIDS AND INVEST OURSELVES IN THEM IN THE THEM AND HAVE FUN WITH THEM AT. 25:53 THAT'S NOT WHAT YOU TALKED ABOUT HIS FAMILY FUN TIME AND VACATION AND DOING THINGS THAT INTEREST 26:00 THEM AND THEN THEY REALLY ARE BONDED TO YOU THROUGH THAT LIKE YOU WOULD BE. 26:05 THAT'S NORMAL HUMAN RELATIONSHIP STUFF THAT WE DON'T WANT TO LEAVE BEHIND BECAUSE WE ARE SO 26:10 BUSY OR BECAUSE I'M A PARENT AND I WILL HAVE THE STANDARDS AND I'M THE RULE ENFORCER. 26:14 WE ARE THAT BUT WE ALSO NEED TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP. GET REALLY NEEDS TO BE A BALANCE 26:20 >> AND TEACH THEM ALSO HOW TO BE A POSITIVE IMPACT ON SOMEBODY ELSE'S LIFE. 26:29 I THINK DOCTOR MARTIN LUTHER KING SAYS AS HE TALKS ABOUT REALLY IT'S A PASSION OF LIFE 26:32 SAYING IF YOU HAVE NOT FOUND SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO DIE FOR YOU ARE NOT FIT TO 26:38 LIVE. HE WAS TALKING ABOUT THE IMPACT OF US ON SOMEONE ELSE'S LIFE NOT 26:42 A SERIAL DEATH OR I WANT TO DIE FROM A VIDEO GAMES BUT BEEN AFFECTING BEING A BENEFACTOR TO 26:49 SOMEONE ELSE'S FUTURE HELPING SHIFT SOCIETY IN A WAY. AND HERE IS AN EQUATION G.I. GEO 26:56 MEANING GARBAGE IN, GARBAGE OUT. IF YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE YOUR IS GOING TO HAVE GARBAGE COMING OUT 27:05 >> G.I. JOE WAS GARBAGE WHEN I WAS WITH THESE PARENTS THAT ARE THINKING ABOUT SMART PHONES FOR 27:12 TEENAGERS AND STUFF ONE THING YOU DO WHEN YOU GIVE CAR KEYS TO A KID AND THEY'RE NOW ON THE 27:16 ROAD AND THEY CAN DRIVE IS THERE IS DRIVERS TRAINING THAT PRECEDES IT SO WE NEED TO BE 27:24 MENTORING OUR KIDS INTO MATURE GODLY SMART PHONE USE AND INTERNET USE. 27:28 IT'S NOT JUST SOMETHING LIKE THERE'S A CERTAIN AGE IN A CERTAIN LEVEL OF MATURITY AND 27:31 YOU THROW THEM THE KEYS TO THE SMART PHONES SO TO SPEAK. WE NEED TO KNOW HOW THE DEVICES 27:36 WORK OURSELVES AND WE NEED TO KNOW THE PLATFORMS AND HOW THEY WORK BETTER THAN OUR KIDS TO DO 27:40 AND IF YOU AS A PARENT GO TO AN INSTRUCTIONAL CLASS MAY BE AT THE APPLE STORE OR THE ANDROID 27:45 STORE OR WHATEVER OR AT YOUR OWN PROVIDER THEY CAN TEACH YOU HOW TO SET PARAMETER RESTRICTIONS OF 27:54 WHAT KIND OF INFORMATION CAN COME INTO THE DEVICE. THEY HAVE AGE-APPROPRIATE 28:00 SETTINGS AND YOU CAN SAY I DON'T WANT ANYTHING RATED THIS AND ABOVE TO COME TO MY CHILD'S 28:04 PHONE AND YOU COULD ALSO GAUGE SCREEN TIME. OKAY IF MY CHILD SPENDS EIGHT 28:14 HOURS THIS WEEK OR 30 HOURS THIS WEEK ON THEIR DEVICE WHICH IS GOING TO SHOW ME WHERE THEY 28:18 SPENT IT. SEVEN HOURS ON INSTAGRAM AND TWO HOURS ON MY MATH TUTORING 28:26 PROGRAM IS LIKE IT NOT REALLY GOING ANYWHERE IN A HEALTHY WAY. LEARN HOW TO USE DEVICES BECAUSE 28:35 THE NEWER DEVICES ARE BUILDING TO TRY TO HELP PEOPLE BECOME HEALTHIER DEVICE USERS. 28:41 SCREEN TIME AND ALL THAT. BUT HERE'S ANOTHER ONE AND I THINK THIS IS GOOD. 28:47 WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO A PARENT WHO MIGHT HAVE ALREADY BOUGHT A SMART DEVICE FOR A MINOR BUT 28:58 DISCONNECT THEIR CHILD WITH THEIR DEVICE. >> FOR A CHILD THAT HAS NOT DONE 29:04 SOMETHING AND THEN YOU MAKE A CHANGE AND YOU DO THE RIGHT THING. 29:09 AND THE CHILD WILL RESPECT YOU FOR IT IF YOU DO IT IN LOVE AND FIRMNESS AND IF IT IS NOT JUST 29:17 AN ARBITRARY DISTANCE TO RULE. YOU ARE INVESTED IN THEM AND IT'S HARD AT FIRST. 29:23 DON'T EXPECT THAT THEY ARE GOING TO APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH OVERNIGHT. 29:29 IT DOES TAKE TIME AND ESPECIALLY WHEN THEIR BRAINS ARE ALL IMBALANCED BECAUSE OF SO MUCH 29:35 SCREEN TIME USE. THE BRAIN DOES HEAL AND BECOME TRANSFORMED. 29:41 >> ONE MOTHER SAID TO HER CHILD YOU ARE NOT MY FRIEND AND SHE SAYS YOU ARE RIGHT I AM NOT YOUR 29:45 FRIEND I AM YOUR WE DO WANT TO ESTABLISH PARAMETERS BECAUSE THE CHILDREN WANT THE DEFINITION OF 29:53 A FRIEND MEANS YOU LET ME DO WHATEVER I WANT TO. YOU ARE A DAD HOW DO YOU HANDLE 29:58 THAT? >> THEN JESUS IS NOT A FRIEND BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LET US DO 30:01 WHATEVER WE WANT BUT HE IS A FRIEND OF SINNERS BECAUSE HE MEETS US WHERE WE ARE AT AND 30:06 ENTERS INTO OUR EXPERIENCE AND OVERCOMES IN HIS OR HER ADVOCATE AND SACRIFICES FOR US AND HAS 30:13 AUTHORITY AND HE HAS EXPECTATIONS FOR US THAT HE WILL HELP US TO MEET HERE. 30:21 I DON'T KNOW HOW TO PARENT PERFECTLY. IT'S AWKWARD TO BE A PARENT AND 30:25 GET PARENTING ADVICE BECAUSE THE WAY THAT I DO THE SEMINAR ISN'T JUST LIKE I AM A RESEARCHER AND 30:34 A NERD AND I USE IN ANTIDOTES FOR MY FAMILY BUT DON'T THINK BECAUSE SOMEONE CAN RESEARCH AND 30:40 SPEAK OR BECAUSE SOMEONE IS A PASTOR OR WHATEVER THAT THEY ARE SOME A TYPE OF SPIRITUAL 30:45 AUTHORITY OR PUT THEM ON A PEDESTAL LIKE THERE ON A DIFFERENT PLANE OF EXISTENCE 30:51 HERE. I COME THIS REALLY WANTING TO ASK THESE PARENTS QUESTIONS. 30:56 THEY HAVE TEENAGERS AND THEY KNOW MORE THAN I DO IN A LOT OF WAYS. 31:01 SO IT MIGHT BE VERY UNHELPFUL FOR SOME OF THESE QUESTIONS. BUT I HOPE THEY CONTACT ME AND 31:06 TELL ME WHAT IS WORKING AND WHAT IS NOT WORKING. >> HERE IS A PERSONAL ONE. 31:13 I KNOW I HAVE AN ADDICTION TO MY PHONE AND SOCIAL MEDIA. I CANNOT CONCENTRATE WHEN MY 31:21 PHONE OR COMPUTER IS IN THE ROOM WITH ME. SO WHEN STUDYING I LEAVE MY 31:26 ELECTRONICS IN A SEPARATE ROOM. WITH CO- BETA SCHOOL IS ALMOST COMPLETELY ONLINE AND I FEEL 31:31 LIKE I AM NOT RETAINING ANY -- WAS CO- BETA SCHOOL IS ALMOST COMPLETELY ONLINE AND I FEEL 31:37 LIKE I'M NOT RETAINING ANY MATERIAL. WHAT CAN HELP ME. 31:42 >> YOU WANT ME TOO LAUNCH INTO EDUCATION REFORM RIGHT THERE. THAT IS A DILEMMA. 31:45 WE ARE PRESENTING OUR YOUNG PEOPLE WITH A DILEMMA. ISN'T IT AMAZING HOW THE SOCIETY 31:50 IN WHICH WE LIVE IT RIGHT NOW IS PULLING US BACK TO OUR ADDICTION AT THAT WE ARE TRYING TO GET 31:55 AWAY FROM. >> YES. I REALLY SYMPATHIZE. 31:59 THIS IS FOR A YOUNG PERSON IN SCHOOL AND I REALLY REALLY DO SYMPATHIZE. 32:05 I UNDERSTAND THAT THE SCHOOL ONLINE IS NOT A DEAL AND I HOPE THAT IT IS NOT FOR THE LONG. 32:11 AND NINE KNOW STUDIES SHOW THAT IT IS NOT AS EFFECTIVE AS EVEN OUR FLAWED PUBLIC EDUCATION 32:17 SYSTEM IS. WE HAVE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL TRUE EDUCATION MODELS THAT GOD HAS 32:21 GIVEN TO US AND IF WE WERE PRACTICING THAT INSTEAD OF DIGITAL EVERYTHING AND ONLINE 32:26 EVERYTHING AND I KNOW PANDEMIC I UNDERSTAND WE WANT TO BE CAUTIOUS OF. 32:30 BUT WE HAVE TO WEIGH THE RISK APPEARED TO THE YOUNG PERSON I WANT TO ENCOURAGE YOU WHEN YOU 32:38 ARE NOT HAVING TO BE ONLINE KIND OF LIKE THE DAD WHO WAS WORKING AT THE INDIVIDUAL WHO IS WORKING 32:42 ON THE COMPUTER ALL DAY, WELL, YOU ARE STUDYING IN YOUR SCHOOL ATTENDANCE IS ONLINE. 32:49 YOU CANNOT CONTROL THAT FOR NOW. AND HAVE A GOOD ATTITUDE ABOUT IT. 32:53 YOU DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE EDUCATION REFORM OF THIS WHOLE SYSTEM AND ALL THAT STUFF THAT 32:57 IS NEGATIVE. JUST A BLOOM WHERE YOU'RE PLANTED RIGHT THERE AND CONTROL 33:04 YOU CAN CONTROL. YOUR FREE TIME. ARE YOU GOING TO THE PHONE THAT 33:07 YOU'RE ADDICTED TO AFTERWARDS? OR CAN WE FIND WAYS TO REALLY REALLY LIMIT THOSE? 33:13 BECAUSE YOU'RE ALREADY HAVING SO MUCH SCREEN EXPOSURE WITH THE SCHOOL. 33:18 IT IS SEDENTARY AND IT'S THE BLUE LIGHT SO TRY TO CONTROL WHAT YOU CAN WITH COMPUTERS. 33:30 >> IF YOU FIND IT IMPACTING YOUR GRADES AND YOUR MENTAL STABILITY SOMETIMES YOU MAY WANT TO USE 33:36 THE DEVICE SOLELY DEDICATED WITH JUST YOUR SCHOOL APPS ON IT BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLE HAVE 33:42 DEVICES THAT HAVE EVERYTHING ON IT LIKE ALL YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS AND MULTITASKING WORLD 33:56 . >> THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THE FRAME MULTITASK FIRST CAME OUT. 34:07 I REMEMBER WINDOWS MULTITASKING HAVE MORE THAN ONE WINDOW WHO CAME UP WITH THAT IDEA? 34:11 IT DOES HAPPEN NOWADAYS IT WOULD HAVE 65 DIFFERENT OPENS AT THE SAME IDEA ON YOUR SCREEN AND NOT 34:15 KNOW ANY OF THE MARKS MULTIPLE SCREENS MULTIPLE APPS AND ANYTHING RUNNING IN THE 34:22 BACKGROUND BACKGROUND. >> THEN THERE ARE NOTIFICATIONS POPPING IN ON TOP OF ALL OF THAT 34:30 >> THE NEW YORK TIMES RELEASED AN ARTICLE TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE DIVORCING THEMSELVES FROM E-MAIL 34:41 SAYING THAT IT'S INTRUSIVE. I'M NOT ABLE TO HANDLE EVERYBODY'S REQUEST. 34:49 THERE IS ONE MEDIA ACTRESS WHO SAID I HAVE COMPLETELY DISCONNECTED FROM E-MAIL 34:55 ALTOGETHER. IF YOU WANT TO GET ME JUST TEXT ME AND I'LL GIVE YOU A CALL 35:00 BECAUSE E-MAIL IS A GOOD BDM BUT LET'S TALK ABOUT SOME OF THE ON A GOOD LEVEL. 35:12 >> IF THE NOTIFICATIONS ARE ON IS THE PROBLEM OF. I GO THROUGH A LOT OF E-MAIL AND 35:17 I TRIED TO KEEP UP ON MY FACEBOOK MESSAGES AND I DON'T DO THE JOB AT IT. 35:29 E-MAIL ME MAY. I TURN OFF ALL OF MY NOTIFICATIONS. 35:33 THE ONLY THING THAT CAN NOTIFY ME AS IF I'M GETTING A PHONE CALL OR TEXT AND VERY FEW PEOPLE 35:39 HAVE MY PHONE NUMBER. THAT LIMITS IT FOR ME WHERE IT'S NOT IN INUNDATING THING ALL THE 35:44 TIME FROM EVERYBODY THAT YOU KNOW. WHEN I WANT TO GO CHECK MY 35:50 MESSAGES AND I INTENTIONALLY GO DO THAT AND WE CAN HAVE SET TIMES OF THE DAY THAT WE DO THAT 35:55 WE CAN HAVE IT ALL SAY YOU ARE SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT YOU TAKE THE APPS OFF YOUR PHONE COMPLETELY 36:01 THEY ARE NOT TIED TO CLICK ON IT EVEN IF IT'S NOT NOTIFYING YOU YOU WANT TO GO SEE IF YOU HAVE 36:08 NOTIFICATION YOU CAN WAIT. GO ON YOUR PLATFORMS AT 5:00 P.M. THEN OFF BY 545 AND 36:15 CATCH UP ON COMMUNICATION AND THERE'S A LIMITED SET AMOUNT OF TIME AND THE PLACE WHERE IT 36:20 STAYS AND IT'S NOT FOLLOWING ANYWHERE INTERRUPTING YOUR. THAT'S WHAT SOME PEOPLE DO WHO 36:26 WANT TO CHANGE THEIR COMMUNICATIONS. >> MY WIFE ELIMINATED ENTIRELY 36:31 AND GOT A FACEBOOK PAIR >> SOMEONE CALLED AND SAID I DON'T SEE ON FACEBOOK AND SHE SAID I 36:39 AM OFF OF FACEBOOK I JUST DON'T WANT TO BE ON THAT PLATFORM ANY >> I GO ON BECAUSE I HAVE TO FOR 36:48 MINISTRY AND WORK. BUT I AM NOT EVEN CLOSE TO SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT. 36:55 IT WOULD BE LIKE I MIGHT BE GETTING ADDICTED TO EATING LIKE LIKE BRUSSELS SPROUTS. 37:02 NOTHING AGAINST BRUSSELS SPROUTS BUT YOU UNDERSTAND. JUST FINDING WAYS TO CONTROL IT 37:12 BY TURNING NOTIFICATIONS OFF AND SETTING TIME AND PLACE FOR USAGE >> THAT IS A GOOD TIP BECAUSE 37:18 NOTIFICATIONS DON'T CARE WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND WHEN YOU HAVE NOTIFICATIONS CONNECTED TO A 37:24 SOUND AND SOME PHONES I'VE HEARD PEOPLE SAY THAT SOUND IS A TAX BUT THAT SOUND IS THE E-MAIL. 37:34 THAT PHONE TO SOUND AS MY FRIEND CALLING ME OR THAT MY MOM. >> IT'S KIND OF HELPFUL IF IT'S 37:44 A DIFFERENT PERSON IF THE PHONE CALL SOUND AS MY MOM I WILL BE HONEST MY PHONE SOMETIMES THE 37:55 SOME PEOPLE AND SOMETIMES I. SOMETIMES IT'S LIBERATING. SOMETIMES AS A REGULAR PHONE ON 38:01 THE HOOK AND IF IT RANG AND YOU DID NOT PICK IT UP AND THEN LATER YOUR FRIEND WHO CALLED 38:06 DEAL FOUND OUT YOUR HOME AND DID NOT PICK UP IT WAS REALLY WEIRD TO JUST LET YOUR PHONE RING 30 38:13 YEARS AGO. YOU WERE EXPECTED TO PICK IT UP. PEOPLE WOULD GET OFFENDED BUT 38:18 TODAY NO ONE EXPECTS YOU TO SO IN A WAY THIS IS A LIBERATING WITH THE LACK OF DEMAND FOR YOUR 38:24 ATTENTION IF YOU APPROACH IT THAT WAY AND DON'T FEEL YOU HAVE TO RESPOND TO EVERYTHING ALL THE 38:29 TIME IMMEDIATELY. THE TIME IMMEDIATELY. >> THIS IS A CONNECTED 38:34 GENERATION THIS IS BREAKING THE DIGITAL CHAIN. THIS IS NOT AS SIMPLE AS IT IS 38:38 SAID IS HE DONE YOU HAVE TO LITERALLY ESTABLISH PARAMETERS. WHAT IS THE GOAL OF YOUR FAMILY. 38:50 MAYBE CHILDREN HAVE NOT REACHED THE DOUBLE-DIGIT AGE AGE SO YOU'RE GETTING TO THIS 38:57 IRREVERSIBLE AGE AGE COME TEN AND 11 AND SO FORTH BUT SET SOME GOALS FOR YOUR FAMILY. 39:04 TALK ABOUT GOALS. I LIKE YOUR HONESTY SAYING I DON'T HAVE TEENAGERS SO THOSE OF 39:10 YOU WITH TEENAGERS IF IT'S REALLY WORKING WELL SCOTT SAYS I'M GOING TO GIVE YOU YOUR 39:13 E-MAIL TELL ME WHAT YOU'RE DOING TO GET YOUR YOUNG PEOPLE DEVELOPING SKILLS THAT WILL BE A 39:20 BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND TO EVERYONE ELSE. MY SON IS IT IS VIDEO GAMES -- 39:31 MY SON IS ADDICTED TO VIDEO GAMES BUT THIS IS A QUALITY TIME HE THINKS HE COULD SPEND WITH MY 39:36 GRANDSON BUT HOW I LET HIM KNOW THIS IS NOT QUALITY TIME TOGETHER. 39:41 >> A LOOK AT THE RESEARCH OF THE PLANE AND THE MALL DEVELOPMENT OF THE CHILD AND HOW IT LOWERS 39:47 COGNITIVE FUNCTION AND LOWERS THE FRONTAL LOBE I COULD REPEAT THE WHOLE DIGITAL DISCONNECTED 39:54 BUT I DO POINT EVERYONE WHO WANTS TO INFORM SOMEONE ELSE ABOUT THE DANGERS OF MEDIA LIKE 39:58 THAT IS WHAT I AM HERE FOR AT YOUR SERVICE I WILL SEND YOU VIDEOS AND IT WILL BE FOR A. 40:09 FREE. MEDIA ON THE BRAIN OVERVIEW MEDIA OF MIND OVERVIEW YOU NAME 40:13 IT YOU CAN SEE ALL OF OUR STAFF. JUST GET THE OVERVIEW STUFF AND GIVE THEM A TEASER. 40:19 >> IT DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE. >> SOME PEOPLE SAY THIS IS THE ONLY TIME I HAVE TO SPEND WITH 40:27 MARK OR JOHNNY OR WHATEVER AND THIS IS OUR TIME TOGETHER. DO YOU ALLOW IT TO BE SOMETHING 40:34 THAT DOESN'T TAKE YOU TO A PATHWAY DISCONNECT FROM REALITY. >> HE WILL HAVE BETTER QUALITY 40:41 TIME DOING SOMETHING ELSE LIKE PLAYING BALL OR TINKER AROUND ON AN ENGINE. 40:47 DO GUY STUFF. I LOVE THAT THE FATHER WANTS TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS SON. 40:53 IT'S CRITICAL. THEY'RE DOING SOMETHING TOGETHER AND SO I APPRECIATE THE 41:02 INTENTION AND I WANT TO DRAW THEM INTO A NONDIGITAL MORE RELATIONAL DEEPER CONNECTION 41:08 MODE OF TIME TOGETHER. >> I THINK THAT'S WHAT'S HAPPENING HERE IS THEY MAY BE 41:17 TRYING TO BUILD A BRIDGE OF IDENTITY I. DON'T STAY ON THE BRIDGE. 41:27 >> IF YOU'RE USING THIS TO CONNECT REMEMBER IT'S JUST A BRIDGE DO NOT STAY ON THE BRIDGE 41:31 GET PAST THE BRIDGE. HERE IS ANOTHER ONE. WHAT IS THE BEST WAY TO HELP A 41:49 BABY WHEN THERE'S ONLY A SINGLE MOM AND THE MOVIE AND TV SHOW WHILE THE MOM WORKS THREE OR 42:04 SHOW JOBS. >> LET'S HAVE A HEART FOR THE WIDOW WAS IN THE FATHERLESS AND 42:07 A HEART FOR SOMEONE IN NEED. YOU CAN DO IT IS WHAT SHE NEEDS TO HEAR. 42:13 YOU HAVE POWER OF GOD TO GIVE YOU WHAT IT TAKES TAKES IT TO DO YOUR BEST AND YOUR UNIQUE 42:22 SITUATION AND DON'T HOLD OUT SOMEONE ELSE'S STANDARD OF THE IDEAL FAMILY IN THE PERFECT 42:27 SITUATION AND EVERYTHING THAT'S SCOTT TEACHES ABOUT EXACTLY HOW MUCH MEDIA AND THEY DON'T EVEN 42:32 SET THOSE PRESCRIPTIONS BUT DON'T HAVE SOME IMPOSSIBLY HIGH STANDARD THAT MAKES IT SO YOU 42:38 COLLAPSE AND THAT YOU TAKE THE WHOLE BURDEN OF THE WHOLE WORLD ON ON YOURSELF. 42:42 YOU CAN D IT AND THERE ARE THINGS THAT ARE LOWER STIMULANT. IF THAT CHILD IS GOING BEYOND 42:52 SOME MEDIA BECAUSE SAME ON THE CHURCH AND SHEMA NOBODY COMING ALONGSIDE TO HELP. 42:57 THAT'S A CALL TO ARMS RIGHT THERE. AND THERE ARE SLOWER PACED 43:02 THINGS THAT ARE BETTER THAN INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME AND INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME WITH HER 43:06 ON THE TABLET AND PLAYING VIDEO GAMES. THIRTY MINUTES OF THAT IS THE 43:11 SAME EFFECT ON SLEEP DEPRIVATION AS TWO HOURS OF TELEVISION. TELEVISION AND THAT'S CARTOONS 43:19 AND CHILDREN'S ENTERTAINMENT SO YOU CAN SAY INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME IS APPARENTLY FOUR TIMES 43:23 MORE HYPER- STIMULATING THAN REGULAR PACE TELEVISION. SO HAVING THEM SIT AND DO 43:32 SOMETHING INFORMATIONAL, SPIRITUAL, REAL TO LIFE, AND NATURE PACED PAIR CANNOT 43:46 SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS -- NOT A SPONGE BOB SQUARE PANTS. JUST CHOOSE WISELY WHEN YOU WILL 43:56 USE MEDIA THAT IT IS HOLY AND THAT IS NATURE -BASED AND THAT IT WILL NOT BE MAKE IT OR BREAK 44:03 IT FOR THAT KID. YOU GIVE THAT KID THE MOST OF YOU THAT YOU CAN POSSIBLY GIVE. 44:09 THAT IS ALL THAT GOD ASKS OF YOU >> LET'S TALK ABOUT ANOTHER AVENUE. 44:14 A LOT OF IT WE SPOKE ABOUT TONIGHT ARE AGE RELATED TO TEENAGERS AND YOUNG KIDS BUT NOW 44:21 LET'S TALK ABOUT MEDIA AS IT COMES TO OVERCOMING YOUR LIFE. THAT IS NOT NECESSARILY -- IT IS 44:35 AFFECTING YOUNGER AND YOUNGER AGES THAN MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE WHAT ARE THINGS THAT YOU LOOKED 44:40 AT TO HELP PEOPLE LOOK AT THIS CANCEROUS PRACTICE TO BE ABLE TO OVERCOME THAT? 44:46 >> YOU BRING UP THE EARLY AGE OF IT AND THAT IS CRITICAL. THAT IS WHERE WE CAN START WELL. 44:54 CHILDREN ARE AVERAGING NOW AGE EIGHT IN TERMS OF THEIR FIRST EXPOSURE TO ONLINE PORNOGRAPHY. 45:03 THAT IS SETTING THE TEMPLATE OF THEIR VIEW OF SEXUALITY FROM THAT EARLY OF AN AGE AND IT'S 45:10 TRAGIC AND DARK DARK APPEARED ALSO WHEN WE LOOK AT THE PSYCHOLOGICAL PROFILE OF A YOUNG 45:17 MAN WHO ARE PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTS THEY ARE MUCH MORE LIKELY TO HAVE, FROM EMOTIONALLY 45:25 DISENGAGED HOMES. MAYBE FATHER WAS ABSENT HER MOTHER WAS BUSY OR THEY WERE 45:30 SHOUTING AND SCREAMING OR EMOTIONAL DISTANCE AND MAYBE THERE IS JUST A COLD AND S. 45:35 THERE IS A LOT OF DYSFUNCTIONAL HOMES HOMES. BUT THE KEY WAS EMOTIONALLY 45:45 DISENGAGED HOMES HAVE YOU ARE NOT POURING INTO EACH OTHER BIBLICALLY. 45:57 GOD LOVES US AND COMES CLOSE TO ADAM AND BREATHES INTO HIM. GOD IS A GOD OF CLOSENESS. 46:04 THE HOLY SPIRIT CREATES ADAM AND EVE THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH. 46:09 INTIMACY IS RELATIONAL, PARENT AND CHILD, FRIEND TO FRIEND, BROTHER AND SISTER IN THE CHURCH 46:13 , PASTOR, BIBLE STUDY, YOU NAME IT WE WERE CREATED FOR RELATIONSHIPS. 46:23 RELATIONAL CLOSENESS. SO WHEN WE BASE OUR FAMILY AND THAT GOOD HEALTHY HOLY EMOTIONAL 46:28 CONNECTEDNESS WE DO SET OUR YOUNG PEOPLE OPT FOR HIGHER RATES OF CHANCES OF SUCCESS. 46:34 WE GIVE THEM A BETTER SET OF TOOLS IN THEIR BRAIN TO BE ABLE TO CONQUER THAT. 46:41 >> IF THAT IS ANOTHER AVENUE WHERE YOU HAVE TO ONCE AGAIN LIKE ALL THESE OTHER THINGS 46:46 THERE IS A COMMONALITY BUT A UNIQUENESS. WE ARE LIVING IN A DAY AND AGE 46:53 WHEN SATAN SEES IT YEARS AGO IT WAS KIDS GOING TO THE NEWSSTAND OR KIDS GOING TO THE MAGAZINE 46:59 RACK. BOOK STORES ARE CLOSING. PEOPLE ARE BUYING LESS AND LESS 47:06 MAGAZINES AND ARE SUCCUMBING TO DOWNLOADING A KINDLE BOOK AND THE CONTENT AND GAMES AND MY 47:15 PROGRAMS AND MY UPDATES AND SO YOU GET INTO A HABIT OF EVERYTHING IS DOWNLOAD AND 47:20 UPDATE YOUR PROGRAMS AND WE ARE SO TRAINED TO GO IN THIS PORTAL FOR THE WHOLE WORLD LIVES AND 47:26 IT'S IMPORTANT THAT WE SET UP DISCRETIONARY FILTERS ON DEVICES IF YOU BUY YOUR CHILD A DEVICE 47:35 TO GET TO A PROFESSIONAL AND SAY I AM BUYING THIS FOR THIS AGE CHILD PLEASE SET UP AGE 47:49 RESTRICTED PASSWORDS AND THAT IS SOMETHING WE NEED TO KNOW HOW IT WORKS. 47:54 >> YES WE NEED TO KNOW HOW THE DEVICES WORK. IT WOULD BE INAPPROPRIATE AND 48:03 HIGHLY MISSED GREAT OPPORTUNITY TO REACH OUT TO THE ADULTS WHO ARE DEALING WITH THAT. 48:11 50 PERCENT OF MEN IN THE CHURCH SAY THEY ARE ADDICTED WHEN THEY ARE SURVEYED. 48:14 THE QUESTION ON HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM THAT IS A BIG DISCUSSION AND IT INVOLVES A 48:18 WHOLE LOT OF ASPECTS AND PRACTICAL STEPS AND SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES AND HEALTH PRINCIPLES 48:24 AND SO I WON'T GET INTO IT ALL RIGHT NOW BUT I DO WANT EVERY VIEWER TO FEEL FREE TO JUST ASK 48:31 US FOR THE FREE DOWNLOADS AND THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEOS OF OUR FULL SERIES. 48:36 WE HAVE SIX VIDEOS ON EVERYTHING WE TALKED ABOUT. IT IS A LOT BUT I WANT TO SHARE 48:41 THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEO OF THE OVERCOMING OF A SERIES. DON'T BE BASHFUL. 48:47 SOME PEOPLE FEEL AWKWARD LIKE CAN I GET YOUR SERIES ON LOST AND THEY FEEL LIKE THEY ARE 48:53 ADMITTING THAT THEY ARE A PORN ADDICT OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT APPEAR CAN OPEN EVERY SINGLE GUY 48:57 WHO HAS EYES AND NEED TO WATCH THIS MATERIAL. I STUDIED THIS MYSELF OR MY OWN 49:05 GREATER VICTORIES IN MY LIFE. IT'S NOT JUST ONLINE BUT THE BILLBOARD WHEN YOU DRIVE DOWN 49:16 THE STREET I EYES GOT A BOUNCE AND HOLD THAT GAYS. -- HOLD THAT GAZE. 49:23 >> MORE THAN A YEAR AGO IN 2019 WE DID A SEMINAR ON SEXUAL PURITY AND IT'S AMAZING BUT WHAT 49:30 IT DISCOVERED IS THAT THIS IS AN INDUSTRY THAT IS NATIVELY MAIL ADDICTION BUT IT'S SO QUIET IN 49:41 THE FEMALE ADDICTION WOMEN DON'T WANT TO COME FORWARD AND THAT'S ANOTHER THING IS IT'S IMPORTANT 49:48 TO UNDERSTAND THAT AS VIDEO GAMES ARE AFFECTING ENTIRE SOCIETIES LET'S LOOK AT ALL OF 49:54 THESE AVENUES AS HOW CAN WE BETTER BETTER ESTABLISH A PARAMETER FOR THE WAY THAT MEN 49:58 LOOK AT WOMEN AND THE WAY THAT WOMEN INTERACT WITH MEN. >> IT GOES BOTH WAYS. 50:09 >> THANK YOU FOR THIS PROGRAM. I HAVE A 2020-YEAR-OLD SON AND IT'S HIS SECOND YEAR OF COLLEGE 50:14 AND HE DOES NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING UNTOWARD. HE IS CLUB PHOBIC. 50:23 HE IS ON ELECTRONICS OR SCHOOL FOR HOMEWORK AND HER ENTERTAINMENT LIKE MOVIES AND 50:27 VIDEO GAMES. HE DOES WORK AT LEAST ONCE A WEEK I TRY TO SHARE THIS KIND OF 50:33 INFORMATION WITH HIM. WE EVEN WATCHED SOME OF YOUR DVDS ON MEDIA ON THE BRAIN. 50:41 HE IT'S THAT BAD EVEN THOUGH I LET HIM KNOW I SEE HOW IT CHANGES HIM. 50:50 I AM PRAYING BUT WHAT MORE CAN I DO? >> HE IS 20 AT HOME APPEARED TO 50:56 ASK A PASTOR WHAT DO YOU DO WITH A GROWN YOUNG PERSON IN YOUR HOME AND THAT YOU HAVE GOT 51:07 STANDARDS AND WHERE IS THE POINT OF WANT TO HEAR APPEAR ACQUIRED HIS CAREGIVING CROSS OVER INTO 51:13 ENABLING. >> I THINK IT AT THAT POINT HE IS NO LONGER A CHILD THAT IS 51:20 IGNORANT OF WHAT HIS FUTURE IS. THESE ARE THE MOMENT WITH A HARD QUESTIONS COME IN. 51:28 THE PARENT HAS TO STEP UP AND SAY I LIKE WHAT ONE PARENT DID WHO SAID WHAT YOU WANT TO BE AND 51:34 HE SAID I WILL GIVE YOU ONE YEAR TO FIND YOURSELF AND IF YOU CAN'T FIND YOURSELF AFTER ONE 51:40 YEAR GET LOST PEER PARAMETERS ARE NOT BEING ESTABLISHED IN THIS YOUNG MAN'S LIFE. 51:46 IN SOME CASES I HOPE I AM APPROACHING THIS THIS AS WELL AS YOU DO. 51:53 WE HAVE TO ASK THE YOUNG MAN HOW DOES HE SEE HIS FUTURE UNFOLDING AND IF HE DOESN'T SEE HOW IT'S 52:04 BAD JUST GO THROUGH IT ALMOST IN A FORENSIC WAY. THIS VIDEO, WHAT'S THE BENEFIT? 52:14 HOW IS IT MAKING A BETTER PERSON SOME PEOPLE ARE LIKE ATOMIC TOWNS THEY ARE AVATARS. 52:25 THE WORLD IS LIVING THROUGH THEM AND THEY DON'T HAVE ANY PURPOSE FOR EXISTING OTHER THAN GETTING 52:29 INVOLVED IN WHATEVER THE WORLD PUT UNDER THE PLATE. SO SAY TO THE YOUNG MAN THAT 52:36 THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT TO BE HERE ON THE RIGHT ROAD AND IF THIS IS WHAT YOU WANT TO BE THE NEED TO 52:40 GET UP THAT ROAD QUICKLY. BECAUSE AT 20 YEARS OLD IF HE BECOMES A FATHER HE WILL CONVEY 52:46 THESE PRINCIPLES TO A SON OR DAUGHTER. >> WHO IS PLAYING THE ELECTRIC 52:55 BILL? ENABLING AN ADDICTION AND THAT'S A TOUGH QUESTION FOR A TO 52:59 CONFRONT. I HAVE SEEN MOTHER STRUGGLE WITH THIS. 53:05 IT'S NOT JUST BLAME THE MOTHER HE IS MAKING THESE CHOICES AND YOU CAN LAY DOWN EXPECTATIONS AT 53:09 THAT AGE. >> WE HAVE ABOUT THREE MINUTES LEFT AND THIS IS A PERFECT WIND 53:17 UP. HOW CAN YOU BREAK THROUGH TO THE TEENAGER WHO BECOMES SECLUDED 53:21 AND ENDS AT SCHOOL AND STAYS LOCKED IN THEIR ROOM ON THERE DEVICES? 53:31 >> THAT IS SAD. YOU PRESENCE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS CRITICAL. 53:41 YOU CAN PROHIBIT THAT. YOU COULD COME IN AND DROP THE HAMMER AND SAY THIS IS NOT 53:46 ALLOWED ANYMORE AND I WILL TAKE ANOTHER HAMMER AND SMASH THAT DEVISE A MOM WHO DID HIS MASTER 53:51 THING IN THE GARBAGE CAN. THAT'S ONE APPROACH WHICH IS BETTER THAN NOTHING BUT CAN WE 53:58 GO DEEP INTO THEIR HEARTS AND TALK TO THEM AND LISTEN TO THEM AND LISTENING SOMETIMES TAKES 54:05 DAYS BEFORE THEY WILL OPEN UP. >> REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY IS ANOTHER ONE. 54:12 >> WHEN DINNER COMES LOCK YOURSELF IN THE ROOM THERE IS NO DINNER TONIGHT AND NOT COMING 54:17 OUT. I'M IN MY ROOM I AM NOT COMING OUT TO WASH HER CLOTHES. 54:22 THEN THEY WILL ASK WHY YOU ARE LUCKY OR SUBURBAN JUST DOING TO LOOK AT THE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY 54:26 WILL WHY IS IT YOU LUCK IN YOUR SELF IN THE OKAY AND I CAN'T LOCK MYSELF IN THE ROOM. 54:34 THERE WAS A COMMERCIAL ACTUALLY IT WAS A COMMERCIAL ON HOW PARENTS NEED TO REGAIN CONTROL 54:41 OF THEIR HOUSE AND SO THEY HAD A TEENAGER THAT LOCK THE DOOR AND THE MOTHER DID IT BECAUSE THE 54:47 FATHER DID NOT WANT TO GET THE KID UPSET AND SO THE MOTHER TOOK THE THE DOOR OFF AND SAID THIS 54:56 IS MY HOUSE AND THAT'S MY DOOR AND THERE WILL BE NO LOCKED DOORS IN THIS HOUSE FROM THIS 55:01 MOMENT ON. >> YOUNG PEOPLE OUGHT TO BE COOKING MEALS AND BE RESPONSIBLE 55:07 FOR THINGS IT IF THEY ARE NOT PREPARING MEALS AND THEY ARE NOT EATING EITHER AND SO WHEN THEY 55:12 ARE AT THAT AGE THEY NEED TO BE A CONTRIBUTING LEVEL. FRANKLY AT ANY AGE. 55:16 THEY SHOULD ALWAYS BE CONTRIBUTING ACCORDING TO THEIR ABILITY BECAUSE IF THEY FEEL 55:21 LIKE THEY ARE A WELFARE CASE IN THE HOME AND THEY WILL BE ENABLED INTO LIVING IN A 55:27 SEDENTARY WAY AND DEPENDENT UPON PARENTAL ALLOWANCE AND PARENTAL LIKE THEY ARE GOING TO BE 55:35 WEAKLINGS. FROM A PRACTICAL LEVEL QUITE FLABBY. 55:42 >> AND I THINK WE HAVE SPOKEN WITH THE PRINCIPAL AND WE HAVE BEEN SPEAKING THIS EVENING ABOUT 55:47 PRINCIPALS AND DIFFERENT AVENUES AND I KNOW WE WILL GIVE YOU THE ADDRESS ROLE RIGHT NOW BECAUSE 55:51 SCOTT WANTS YOU TO HAVE THAT. IT IS THE BELT OF TRUTH. BELT OF TRUTH MINISTRIES .ORG. 56:01 IT IS EXACTLY AS IT STANDS BELT OF TRUTH MINISTRIES ON THE BOTTOM OF THE SCREEN. 56:06 YOU CAN GO TO THAT WEBSITE AND THE THINGS THAT WE TALKED ABOUT TONIGHT YOU WILL HAVE ACCESS TO 56:12 THE INFORMATION ON WAYS THAT CAN BE A DEVELOPMENT TO YOUR CHILDREN'S LIFE. 56:18 PARENTING, DIGITAL DISCONNECT, COMMITTEE ON THE BRAIN, THE TALE OF TWO MOUNTAINS, ALL OF THOSE 56:23 THINGS WILL BE THERE. SCOTT, THANK YOU FOR COMING TONIGHT AND TALKING TO THE 56:30 AUDIENCE AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPENNESS AND YOUR CANDOR ABOUT WHERE YOU CAN GET THIS ADVICE 56:34 AND WHERE YOU ARE STILL DEVELOPING. REMEMBER THIS PASSAGE DO NOT BE 56:38 CONFORMED TO THE WORLD BUT BE TRANSFORMED BY THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND SO YOU MAY PROVE WHAT 56:43 IS GOOD AND ACCEPTABLE AND PERFECT WILL OF GOD. >> THIS IS ALL ABOUT JESUS PEER 56:50 A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM. REACH OUT TO US WE WILL GIVE YOU THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEO AND 56:58 MAILING THE BOOK AND IT WILL DRAW US CLOSER TO JESUS. >> WE PRAY WE HAVE BEEN A 57:03 BLESSING TONIGHT UNTIL WE SEE YOU AGAIN MAY THE LORD TO BLESS YOU. 57:08 THANK YOU FOR JOINING US. HIM |
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