>> WELCOME BACK TO THE SECOND
HOUR OF THURSDAY NIGHT LIVE AT
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THREE ABN. WAS SPEAKING WITH
SCOTT WHO'S BEEN GIVING US AN
OVERVIEW OF A LOT OF THINGS NOT
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ALLOWING THE WORLD TO USE US. IT
WAS A BAD THING WE WOULD
RECOMMEND YOU TURN THE
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TELEVISION OFF. DON'T DO THAT.
WE HAVE DIGITAL DEVICES TODAY
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BUT USING EVERYTHING THAT IS AT
OUR DISPOSAL FOR THE GLORY OF
GOD IS WHAT A PERSON WHO MAY BE
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DEVELOPED BY GOD IS WHAT THEY
SHOULD DO AND WE WANT TO TALK
ABOUT THE INTENT OF USING THESE
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ASPECTS. WE ARE GOING TO READ
SOME OF THE QUESTIONS YOU HAVE
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SENT IN BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY
QUESTIONS THAT COME TO YOUR MIND
FOR THE SECOND HOUR YOU CAN SEND
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THOSE AND TEXT THOSE IN FOR X
182-28-3975 THAT IS A DIRECTED
TEXT FROM YOUR PHONE TO OURS.
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IT IS DIGITAL. YOU CAN
E-MAIL IT AT LIVE AT THREE ABN.
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LIVE AT THREE ABN THAT OR CALL
6186 TO 746 AND 51. SCOTT, WE
HEARD A LOT ABOUT WHAT
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YOU DO NOW BUT WALK US THROUGH
THE YOUNG LED YOU OUT BECAUSE A
LOT OF TIMES PEOPLE MIGHT SAY I
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WILL NEVER BE LIKE SCOTT AND
PUTTING DOWN VIDEO DATING --
GAMES IN HIS ABILITY FOR THE
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LORD AT THIS KID WAS PROBABLY
BORN ON THE FRONT PEW OF A
CHURCH SOMEWHERE PEER >> HE DID
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NOT WANT TO RUN INTO ME AT 15 I
WAS A LONG HAIRED ANGRY FACE
FACED DUDE WITH A T-SHIRT TO
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PROVE I HAD AN AX TO GRIND AND
IT WAS A DARK PLACE AND THAT IS
WHAT WAS COOL THOUGH.
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YOU HAVE TO PLAY THE PART. YOU
START TO ASSIMILATE AND ADOPT
THE IMAGE AND THE PERSONA
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AND THE ATTITUDE OF THE MUSIC
YOU LISTEN TO AND MUSIC WAS MY
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IDOL. WORLDLY ROCK MUSIC, HEAVY
METAL, PUNK ROCK, ALTERNATIVE
MUSIC, ALL THE TRASH AND I
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PLAYED IN A BAND. I PLAYED BASS
GUITAR IN A BAND AND SO IN FACT
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IN THE MEDIA ON THE BRAIN
SEMINAR I HAVE IMAGERY VIDEOS OF
ME AND THE BAND PLAYING ON
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OCTOBER 31st 1998 WE WERE
SENIORS IN HIGH SCHOOL. WE WERE
THE COOL GUYS BECAUSE WE GOT THE
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BAND AND I'M LOOKING AT THAT, ON
WHOSE TERMS IS THAT COOL WE ARE
DRESSED IN DEMONIC A GHOULISH
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LOOKING STUFF. THE CHURCH BUT IT
WAS A CHRISTIAN BAND AT THAT
TIME BECAUSE WE HAD KIND OF BEEN
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INVOLVED IN THE CHARISMATIC
MOVEMENT MOVING AWAY FROM THE
DRINKING AND THE REALLY DARK
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HEAVY METAL BUT WE WERE STILL
PLAYING THE SAME KIND OF MUSIC.
A LOT OF THE SAME WORLDLY LYRICS
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AND THEN MIXING SOME CHRISTIAN
STUFF IN THEIR PEER GOOD LORD
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FORGIVE ME. IT IS HISTORY AND I
PRAISE GOD FOR THAT BECAUSE WHEN
YOU LOOK BACK AND ANYBODY LOOKS
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BACK ON THEIR PAST YOU LOOK BACK
WITH A HORROR BUT YOU CAN LOOK
BACK WITH HORROR BUT HOPE AND IN
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THE PRESENT WITH HOPE BECAUSE
YOU'VE A WHOLE JESUS CHRIST AND
YOU KNOW HE IS YOUR IDENTITY NOW
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AND WHEN YOU BEHOLD HIM YOU
START TO ADOPT AND ASSIMILATE
HIS CHARACTER TRAITS.
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BY HOLY WE BECOME CHANGED SO I
GUESS THAT IS A ON THE FRONT OF
MUSIC AND WHERE I CAME OUT IN
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THAT SCENE. >> HOW DID YOU GET
INTO THAT? >> A LOT OF YOU TALK
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ABOUT THERE BEING A PORTAL AND
ENTERS INTO IT. >> OLDER
SIBLINGS AND FRIENDS
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INTRODUCING ME TOO THE MUSIC
THEY WERE LISTENING TO AND THEN
YOU ADOPT THAT AS YOUR TEMPLATE
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OF WHAT IS COOL AND LIKE YOU
WANT TO FIT IN AND YOU'RE YOUR
13-YEAR-OLD KID AND YOU START TO
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DABBLE IN THIS AND IT HIT YOUR
DOPAMINE RECEPTORS BECAUSE THE
MUSIC REALLY EXCITING AND THEN
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YOU GET ADDICTED TO IT. I TALKED
TO ONE GUY WHO CAME OUT OF THE
DRUG MUSIC SCENE WITH
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LIKE HIP-HOP REGGAE FUSION AND
HE CAME OUT OF THEM BOTH AND I
SAID WHAT WAS HARDER TO GIVE UP?
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THE MUSIC OR THE DRUGS BECAUSE I
NEVER GOT INTO NARCOTICS AND HE
SAID THE MUIC WAS HARDER TO
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GIVE UP. THE ADDICTION TO THAT
MUSIC WAS DEEPER AND STRONGER
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THAN THE DRUGS. AND, SO, HE
REALIZED THAT THAT IS NOT COOL.
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SATAN IS NOT COOL. HE WANTS TO
MAKE YOU HIS SLAVE. GOD WANTS TO
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FREE YOU. BREAK THE DIGITAL
CHAINS OF. SO WHEN I REALIZED
THERE WAS A SOCIETY OF HEAVEN
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AND I WANTED TO ASSIMILATE INTO
THAT AND BE A CULTURED INTO THAT
AND THAT IS THE SOCIETY I WANT
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TO FIT INTO AND IT CHANGES YOUR
PERSPECTIVE ABOUT THE WORLD AND
FRIENDS THINK IS COOL AND THE
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CONCLUSIONS THEY MAKE ABOUT THE
WAY YOU LIVE AND THEN THE ONLY
PERSON'S OPINION I CARE ABOUT IS
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GOD AND I WANT TO FIT INTO WHERE
THE ANGELS FIT IN WHICH IS MY
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DESIRE NOW. >> WHEN YOU TALK
ABOUT THAT WE HAD A PREVIEW IN
MY OWN COMING UP IN THE MUSIC
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INDUSTRY AND THERE IS A GROUP
CALLED WAR WHAT I WAS GROWING
UP. AND THEY HAD A SONG AND IT
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NEVER DAWNED ON AS MUCH AS I
HAVE DONE SEMINARS ON MUSIC AND
THE LYRICS THAT NEVER DAWNED ON
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ME UNTIL I WAS SITTING HERE
RIGHT NOW THAT THE LYRICS ARE
SUBLIMINALLY CONDITIONING YOU TO
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GO IN A DIFFERENT DIRECTION NOT
ONLY TO THINK A CERTAIN WAY BUT
ONE OF THE LYRICS WAS SLIPPING
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INTO DARKNESS. AND I NEVER
THOUGHT ABOUT IT. IT WAS ONE OF
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MY ALBUMS AND I THOUGHT ABOUT
THE LYRICS EVEN ATTUNED CAME
BACK TO ME I WAS A DISC JOCKEY
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AND WHEN YOU SPOKE ABOUT THAT I
REMEMBERED THAT AND IT'S
AMAZING. SO YOU'RE LISTENING TO
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SOMETHING THAT SAYS LOOKING INTO
DARKNESS AND WHAT DO YOU THINK
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YOU ARE DOING? >> THERE IS NO
AVOIDING IT. THAT MUSIC IS
SINGING TO YOUR SOUL AND WHEN
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YOU'RE 15 YOU SAY YOU SHOULDN'T
LISTEN TO THAT OR WATCH THOSE
MOVIES ARE PLAYING THOSE VIOLENT
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VIDEOGAMES GAMES MORTAL KOMBAT
AND WHATEVER AND I WAS LIKE WELL
IT'S NOT AFFECTING ME WHAT HOW
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DO YOU KNOW? YOU CANNOT SAY
FIRST OF ALL BECAUSE YOU DON'T
HAVE A VERSION OF YOU NOT
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LISTENING TO IT TO COMPARE IT TO
TAKE A BREAK FOR THREE MONTHS
AND SEE IF IT CHANGES YOUR
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ATTITUDE AND THEN YOU WILL KNOW.
BUT OF COURSE IT IS AFFECTING
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YOU. WE KNOW THAT BECAUSE YOU
CAN'T TAKE THINGS INTO YOUR MIND
AND HAVE IT NOT EFFECTIVE.
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IT IS THE LAW OF THE MIND. >> SO
HOW DID YOU GET OUT? BECAUSE
MANY YOUNG PEOPLE MIGHT
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BE A PARENT WATCHING THIS
PROGRAM AND THEY MIGHT SAY MY
KID IS IN THAT MOMENT RIGHT NOW
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AND I WANT TO BROADEN THE
SPECTRUM BECAUSE SOME PEOPLE
COULD SAY THERE ARE TWO GUYS ON
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THE PROGRAM BUT THE IMPACT IS ON
YOUNG LADIES ALSO THERE IS A
PRESSURE COMING FROM THE
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UNREALISTIC INSTAGRAM AND
TIK-TOK AND FACEBOOK AND THERE
ARE SO MANY OTHER PLATFORMS THAT
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ARE OUT THERE THAT YOUNG
CHILDREN ARE BEING MANIPULATED
TO THINKING THAT IS WHAT I NEED
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TO LOOK LIKE. I NEED TO LOOK
LIKE HER OR HIM I WANT TO BE
FAMOUS AND I WATCHED
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A DOCUMENTARY WHERE THESE
THINGS ARE STAGED. THERE WAS ONE
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DOCUMENTARY I WATCHED WHERE THIS
YOUNG LADY BECAME THE ADMIRATION
OF ALL HER FOLLOWERS.
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1.5 MILLION FOLLOWERS SHE WOULD
CREATE AN IMAGE AND THEY SAID
THIS IS WHAT THEY DID KNOW TO MY
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WIFE AND I WERE WATCHING IT AND
SO THEY HAD HER PUT HER HEAD IN
A LITTLE BABY POOL AND THE
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PHOTOGRAPHER IS RIGHT ABOVE HER
SO YOU THINK SHE IS AT A BEACH
SOMEWHERE BUT SHE'S JUST IN A
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BABY POOL AND HER HEAD IS IN THE
WATER BUT THE WAY SHE POSTS HER
PICTURE YOU THINK SHE IS AT IN
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THE CARIBBEAN AND SHE SAYS THIS
IS HOW I GET MY FOLLOWERS TO
BELIEVE I TRAVEL ALL OVER THE
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WORLD. BUT SHE IS RIGHT IN HER
BACKYARD AND THIS IS THE IMAGERY
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THAT YOUNG PEOPLE ARE BEING
MANIPULATED TO THIS UNREALISTIC
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WORLD. HOW DID YOU GET OUT OF
YOURS? >> IT WAS GRADUAL AND
THAT'S NOT WHAT I RECOMMEND HER
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PARENTS WHOSE KIDS ARE INVOLVED
IN THIS RIGHT NOW BUT FOR ME I
WAS STEPPING INTO MAJORITY IN
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THE SENIOR YEAR OF HIGH SCHOOL
AND BEYOND THAT AND THEN COMING
INTO MY ADULTHOOD TAKING LIFE
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MORE SERIOUSLY AND JUST SLOWLY
BEING IMPRESSED AND CONVICTED
AND RETURNING TO THE CHRISTIAN
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FAITH I WAS RAISED IN. IT WAS
REALLY A PROCESS FOR ME. FOR
PEOPLE WHO ARE IN IT RIGHT
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NOW YOU DO NOT WANT TO DABBLE
WITH THE DEVIL YOU CANNOT DANCE
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WITH THE DEVIL. YOU HAVE TO SNAP
OUT OF THAT RIGHT NOW AND FOR
PARENTS WHO ARE INTERVENING IN
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THEIR CHILDREN ESPECIALLY THEIR
OLDER CHILDREN ASKING IF THEY
WERE LIKE I WAS 15 WITH THIS
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ATTITUDE THE SOLUTION BELIEVE IT
OR NOT IS YOUR PARENTS. PARENTS
THINK THAT MY KID IS
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WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH ME AND
THAT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE
IMMERSED IN THE DARKNESS BE FED
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SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, THEIR
SELF-WORTH BY THEIR PARENTS
WANTING TO SPEND TIME WITH THEM,
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HAVE FUN TOGETHER, DO THINGS
TOGETHER. THE FAMILY UNIT, THE
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HEARTS OF THE FATHERS AND THE
CHILDREN TURNING TOWARD EACH
OTHER AGAIN IS A PROPHECY IN THE
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BIBLE AND IS THE SOLUTION TO ALL
OF THESE BREAKDOWNS. MOM IS ON
HER SOCIAL MEDIA AND
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DATA'S WATCHING THE GAME AND THE
KIDS ARE ON THE VIDEO GAME AND
IT START COME OF 2-YEAR-OLD IS
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IN THE ACTIVITY SEAT IN THE
BOUNCY SEAT ON THE DEVICE AND
WHEN WE JUST ALL SAY -- WE ALL
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HAVE TO SACRIFICE WE JUST DON'T
GO INTO THE 15-YEAR-OLD AND LAID
OUT THE LAW AND IMPOSE SOMETHING
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ON YOU AND DON'T SACRIFICE
THAT'S NOT GONNA WIN IT AT THAT
AGE YOU HAVE TO BE MUCH MORE
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DILIGENT AND MUCH MORE
SELF-SACRIFICING AND EVERYBODY
SAYS WE'RE IN THIS FOR US.
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WE ARE IN THIS FOR GOD AND THE
WAY WE SLIPPED INTO THE HABITS
OF MEDIA IT'S LIKE IT JUST CAME
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IN LIKE A STORM LIKE WE WERE ON
A BOAT GOING DOWN THE CURRENT
AND THERE IS AN AVALANCHE.
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THERE IS A WATERFALL COMING OUT
AND WE HAVE TO BAIL OUT GET OFF
OF THIS COURSE THAT BIG TAC AND
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MAINSTREAM MEDIA AND AND
HOLLYWOOD ENTERTAINMENT IS
TAKING ITS TIME AND WE ALL HAVE
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TO PULL OUR OARS AS HARD AS WE
CAN DO TAT WATER AND GET TO THE
SHORE SO WE ALL SACRIFICE AND
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COME TOGETHER THE WORD IS
TOGETHER IT'S A LOST WORD IN
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THIS CULTURE. WE MAY BE WITH
EACH OTHER IN THE SAME HOUSE BUT
WERE NOT TRULY TOGETHER.
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WE GET THE BUY-IN FROM THE KIDS
TO THE EXTENT POSSIBLE AND YOU
HAVE THE FAMILY MEETING AND
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PARENTS APOLOGIZE FOR
THEIR FAILINGS. AND LETTING THE
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CHILDREN DO THINGS THAT WERE
HARMFUL TO THEM I DIDN'T ALWAYS
KNOW AND I DID SOMETIMES BUT I
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REALLY WANT TO MAKE IT RIGHT AND
THEN WE PULL OUT ALL THE STOPS
AND WE SPEND MONEY AND GO ON
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SPECIAL VACATION WHAT DO YOU
WANT TO DO? AND REALLY WIN THEIR
HEARTS AND I DON'T MEAN COAX
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THEM OR BRIBE THEM I MEAN SHOW
THEM THAT YOU LOVE THEM AND YOU
ARE WILLING TO SACRIFICE FOR
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THEM THESE THINGS ARE A
SUBSTITUTE FOR THE EMPTY HOLES
IN THEIR LIVES AND PARENTS
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SOMETIMES BECOME SOMETIMES
INCARCERATED THEMSELVES IN THEIR
OWN CONSISTENT QUIET TIME WITH
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THEIR DEVICES. AND SO I HAVE
ENCOURAGED SPOUSES , SPEND SOME
TIME IN YOUR DAY LOOKING EACH
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OTHER IN THE EYE. MY WIFE AND
I ENJOY DOING THAT WE LOOK INTO
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EACH OTHER'S EYE AND TALK AND
HONESTLY FIND OUT WHAT IS
ACTUALLY HAPPENING IN YOUR OWN
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CHILD'S LIFE BECAUSE YOU
PROBABLY DISCOVERED THIS BUT
THERE IS AN EVOLUTIONARY PROCESS
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AND ALL OF US. WHO YOU ARE THREE
MONTHS AGO YOU COULD BE GETTING
STRONGER OR WEAKER.
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WHO IS YOUR CHILD COMING? THIS
COULD BE DETERMINED BY WHAT THEY
ARE FED UP YOUR >> AND MEAL
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TIME TOGETHER YOU ARE LOOKING
INTO EACH OTHER'S EYES. BILL
GATES AND STEVE JOBS WERE
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SUPER STRICT ABOUT MEALTIME WHEN
THEY HAD SMALL CHILDREN. THE
CHILDREN WILL RISE UP LIKE
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OLIVE PLANTS AROUND HER TABLE,
128 WHAT ABOUT BETTER TABLE? THE
TABLE AS -- IS A GODLY PLACE
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TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER. >>
YOU HAVE A NUMBER OF QUESTIONS I
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WANT TO DIVE INTO. HAS THE
PANDEMIC HEIGHTENED DIGITAL
CONSUMPTION? IF SO WHAT ARE THE
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DANGERS? ESPECIALLY SINCE WE
CANNOT SOCIALIZE AS MUCH AS I
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DID BEFORE. >> IT HAS HEIGHTENED
DIGITAL CONSUMPTION I JUST HEARD
TODAY SOMEONE FROM FACEBOOK
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ADVERTISING WAS PANICKING
BECAUSE THEY SAID IF PEOPLE
START ENDING AND GOING BACK INTO
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REAL LIFE THAN OUR AD REVENUE
WILL DROP BECAUSE PEOPLE WILL
NOT BE SCROLLING THEIR SOCIAL
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MEDIA FEED AS MUCH AND PRAISE
GOD. SCROLLED OUR SOCIAL MEDIA A
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LITTLE LESS IT IS A SAD AND REAL
AND TRAGIC REALITY THAT
ISOLATION AND LONELINESS IS A
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CONSEQUENCE OF SOCIAL MEDIA
ONSLAUGHT OVER THE LAST TEN
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YEARS. THE PANDEMIC IS
HEIGHTENED THAT AN OBVIOUS
MEASURABLE WAYS. WE KNOW THAT
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SOCIAL CONTACT IS ONE OF THE
GREATEST PROTECTIVE MEASURES FOR
ACTUALLY DISEASE DEVELOPMENT IT
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IS PART OF A HEALTHY LIFE.
SPIRITUALLY HEALTHY. THE BIBLE
SAYS DON'T NEGLECT THE
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ASSEMBLING OF YOURSELVES
TOGETHER. DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE
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DIFFERENT THRESHOLDS OF WHAT IS
SAFE FOR THEM AND THEIR RISK
FACTORS AND THEIR COMFORT LEVEL
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IT'S A VERY COMPLEX DIFFICULT
TIME BUT DO NOT GIVE UP THE
ASSEMBLING OF YOURSELF TOGETHER
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AND FINDING WAYS TO BE HUMAN TO
HUMAN TO MAKE EYE CONTACT AND I
LIKE USING THESE PLATFORMS THIS
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IS GREAT WE ARE COMMUNICATING
WITH MANY PEOPLE RIGHT NOW AND
I'D LOVE TO FACE TIME WITH MY
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FAMILY WHEN I'M IN ILLINOIS AND
THEY ARE IN MICHIGAN BUT WHAT
BUGS ME ABOUT ZOOM MEETINGS AND
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FACE TIME IS THE CAMERA IS RIGHT
HERE BUT MY SON'S FACE IS RIGHT
HERE AND I AM LOOKING RIGHT HERE
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AND WERE NOT QUITE MAKING EYE
CONTACT. I UNDERSTAND MASKS AND
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THE REASON FOR THEM BUT WE
COMMUNICATE EMPATHY WITH OUR
FACES TO HER CHILDREN AND SO WE
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DO WANT TO FIND THE RIGHT
BALANCE AND I DO NOT HAVE THE
ANSWERS BUT IF WE GO SWING ALL
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THE WAY OVER TO SOCIAL ISOLATION
AND NO FACIAL COMMUNICATION AND
ONLY DIGITAL EVERYTHING THAT
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WILL HAVE CONSEQUENCES THAT ARE
NOT NECESSARILY WAIT INTO THE
EQUATION IN TERMS OF HEALTH AND
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LIFE EXPECTANCY. >> THAT IS
TRUE. BECAUSE IT CAN ONLY GO SO
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FAR BEFORE OUR DOPAMINE STORES
ARE DEPLETED. I DID A STUDY ON
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THAT WHERE YOU'RE AT THE POINT
LIKE A DRUG ADDICT THAT YOU WERE
UNABLE TO EXPERIENCE SIMPLE
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PLEASURES BECAUSE YOU HAVE
EMPTIED YOUR DOPAMINE IF HE TOOK
AN ORANGE AND SQUEEZED IT 15
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HOURS A DAY THEN HOW MUCH JUICE?
THERE IS NO MORE JUICE. BUT
THAT'S WHAT HAPPENS
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SOMETIMES WHEN YOU SQUEEZE
THE BRAIN. ONE GOOD SIGN SOMEONE
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JUST SAID THE GAS PRICES ARE
GOING UP AND FINANCIALLY THAT'S
A HORRIBLE THING BUT THEY SAID
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THIS IS A GOOD SIGN BECAUSE IT'S
BECOMING WARMER PEOPLE WILL GET
OUT OF THE HOUSES AND RVS -- RV
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SALES ARE ON THE RISE AND PEOPLE
ARE GETTING TOGETHER, FAMILIES
ARE TRAVELING TOGETHER AND
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SPENDING TIME TOGETHER AND DOING
MORE CAMPING AND SO THESE ARE
SOME OF THE THINGS THAT PEOPLE
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CAN IMPLEMENT IN THEIR LIVES TO
GET OUTSIDE AND LIKE ONE KID
THEY TOOK THEM ON VACATION AND I
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WAS WATCHING A SHOW WHERE THEY
WENT TO THE MOUNTAINS IN SUSIE
WALKED IN AND SAID DAD WHAT IS
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INTERNET PASS CURD? AND HE SAID
THERE IS NONE UP HERE WHAT ARE
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YOU GONNA DO? AND HE SAID LET'S
TALK TO EACH OTHER. WHAT WOULD I
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TALK TO YOU ABOUT? THEY
REACQUAINTED THEMSELVES MOM AND
DAD. HERE'S ANOTHER ONE?
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HE HAS A 32-YEAR-OLD SON
AND HE IS HOOKED. THE LIKES TO
00:16:53.44\00:17:01.85
UNDERSTAND HIS SON BETTER AND
WANTS HIM TO UNDERSTAND THE HARM
THAT HE'S DOING TO HIMSELF.
00:17:01.85\00:17:04.99
HOW DOES HE HELP HIM? >> IT
DEPENDS UPON WHAT THE QUESTION
00:17:04.99\00:17:12.79
MEANS BY HOOKED? IF WERE TALKING
ABOUT VIDEO GAME ADDICTION THAT
IS WHAT A LOT OF 32-YEAR-OLD MAN
00:17:12.79\00:17:19.33
AND 35 YEAR OLD AND GROWN MEN DO
IS PLAY VIDEO GAMES. 5 MILLION
00:17:19.33\00:17:24.67
AMERICANS PLAY 40 HOURS OF VIDEO
GAMES PER WEEK. IF HE IS DOING
RESEARCH MAY SOMEONE WILL LOOK
00:17:24.67\00:17:34.15
AT ME AND THINK HE'S ON THERE
ALL THE TIME BUT JUST TO
CONTRACTOR THAT EVERYONE WILL
00:17:34.15\00:17:38.15
FIND THEIR OWN BALANCE AND NOT
EVERYONE'S BALANCE WILL BE THE
SAME WHEN IT COMES TO USING THE
00:17:38.15\00:17:42.16
DIGITAL TOOLS IN A WAY THAT IS
ADDICTIVE AND NOT HARMFUL AND
IMBALANCED BUT VIDEOGAME
00:17:42.16\00:17:47.40
ADDICTION IS FLAT-OUT HARMFUL. I
SEE NO PLACE FOR VIDEO GAMES IN
HEALTHY LIFE WHAT IS THE USE
00:17:47.40\00:17:53.10
AND WHAT IS IT GOOD FOR? >> IT
FEELS TIME THAT YOU COULD USE
FOR SOMETHING ELSE.
00:17:53.10\00:17:58.57
HE IS 32 AND SO YOU CAN PRAY AND
PRESENT INFORMATION AND SHARE
THIS INTERVIEW IN THIS LECTURE
00:17:58.57\00:18:07.18
AND PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE WILLING
TO BE CONFRONTED WITH
INFORMATION THAT MIGHT CHALLENGE
00:18:07.18\00:18:12.39
THEIR STATUS WHILE IT IS MANY
TIMES INFORMATION THAT
TRANSLATES TO TRANSFORMATION.
00:18:12.39\00:18:19.96
IF YOU ARE BEING RATIONAL AND
LOGIC AND HAVE BEST INTERESTS AT
HEART THEN YOU SAY MAY BE I
00:18:19.96\00:18:25.97
COULD TRY SOMETHING DIFFERENT
AND THAT IS WHAT I ALWAYS
CHALLENGE PEOPLE TO DO.
00:18:25.97\00:18:30.94
MOST VIDEOGAME ADDICTS ARE BUT A
LOT ARE WILLING TO TRY BUT
SOMEONE COMES INTO AN
00:18:30.94\00:18:38.45
OPTOMETRIST OFFICE AND TRIES IT
AND HE THINKS IS OKAY AND IT'S
NOT THAT BIG OF A DEAL BUT THEN
00:18:38.45\00:18:42.95
ONCE HE TRIES THE OTHER SET OF
LENSES AND HE SEES IT CLEARS
THINGS UP HE REALIZES HE NOT
00:18:42.95\00:18:48.62
SEEING CLEARLY SO YOU KNOW BY
TRIAL AND COMPARISON. IT'S KIND
00:18:48.62\00:19:00.17
OF LIKE DANIEL. IT IS AN
EXPERIMENT AND THERE SHOULD BE
NO FEAR OF INVESTIGATION TO TRY
00:19:00.17\00:19:06.27
SOMETHING ELSE AND SEE IF MOM OR
DAD IS WRONG HERE. BUT
CHALLENGED INDIVIDUAL AND
00:19:06.27\00:19:16.18
TAKE A LOOK AT INFORMATION AND
SEE. >> THIS IS SOMETHING WE SEE
00:19:16.18\00:19:22.99
WITH SOME OF THE DEVELOPERS
BECAUSE THEY HAVE THESE THINGS
CALLED SCREEN TIME AND IT GOES
00:19:22.99\00:19:29.30
ALONG THIS LINE OF HOW
MUCH MEDIA EXPOSURE A DAY IS A
00:19:29.30\00:19:34.60
HEALTHY AMOUNT? IS THERE A
CERTAIN AMOUNT THAT IS TOO MUCH
PER DAY? >> ABSOLUTELY.
00:19:34.60\00:19:39.74
EVEN IF IT IS TOTALLY AN AQUEOUS
-- INADEQUATE HARMLESS NOT
ADDICTING THE RAMIFICATIONS ARE
00:19:39.74\00:19:48.08
MENTAL HEALTH AND PSYCHOLOGICAL
STAFF AND THE SOCIAL MEDIA JUST
SIMPLY STARING AT SCREENS CAN
00:19:48.08\00:19:53.29
HARM THE EYES. TO PEOPLE WHO
HAVE A JOB WHERE THEY ARE ON A
00:19:53.29\00:20:00.36
SCREEN ALL DAY YOU WANT TO TRY
TO NOT LOOK AT SCREENS BEFORE
WORK BECAUSE LACK COULD BECOME
00:20:00.36\00:20:07.70
HARMFUL ON THE EYES THE QUESTION
IS ABOUT HOW MUCH SCREEN TIME.
THAT IS A BROAD CATEGORY.
00:20:07.70\00:20:11.71
TO BREAK THAT DOWN, VIDEOGAMES,
OKAY, WE CAN START WITH THE
00:20:11.71\00:20:19.65
WORLD. HOW MUCH WORLDLY SCREEN
TIME IS GOOD? IF THERE IS NO
00:20:19.65\00:20:26.69
BENEFIT ONLY HARM TO THE BRAIN
ONLY ZERO OF THAT KIND. SOCIAL
MEDIA, THAT DEPENDS UPON
00:20:26.69\00:20:30.89
THE PERSON. SOME PEOPLE ARE
HARMED MORE PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND
00:20:30.89\00:20:35.03
EMOTIONALLY BY SOCIAL MEDIA
EXPOSURE THAN PEOPLE WHO HAVE
MORE FRAGILE SELF-WORTH TO
00:20:35.03\00:20:41.84
COMPARE THEMSELVES WITH OTHERS
WHO SAY ALL MY FRIENDS HAVE A
BETTER LIFE THAN ME THEY ARE
00:20:41.84\00:20:46.14
GOOD CANDIDATES TO JUST GET OFF
COMPLETELY. BECAUSE IN STUDIES
THEY ARE SHOWN TO BE HURT MORE.
00:20:46.14\00:20:51.05
WHEN THEY TAKE COLLEGE STUDENTS
OFFICE SOCIAL MEDIA FOR ONE WEEK
OR DOWN THEY FIND ON AVERAGE 36
00:20:51.05\00:20:59.72
AND 33 PERCENT DROP IN
LONELINESS AND IN DEPRESSION. A
LOT OF PEOPLE CAN REALLY
00:20:59.72\00:21:05.73
BENEFIT FROM REDUCING SOCIAL
MEDIA DRAMATICALLY. IT DEPENDS
00:21:05.73\00:21:12.57
SOMEWHAT ON THE PERSONALITY OF
THE INDIVIDUAL. IT'S HARD TO
MAKE A BLANKET ANSWER BUT IT
00:21:12.57\00:21:16.84
DEPENDS ON THE PERSON AND THE
AGE OF THE PERSON AND ON THE
TYPE OF SCREEN TIME WE ARE
00:21:16.84\00:21:24.65
TALKING ABOUT. >> YES SOME
PEOPLE'S JOBS DEMAND SCREEN TIME
BUT I EVEN SAY TO THEM UNPLUG
00:21:24.65\00:21:31.15
SHUT IT OFF. >> GO FOR A WALK
DOWN TO THE WATER COOLER EVERY
LITTLE WHILE TAKE YOUR EYES OFF
00:21:31.15\00:21:36.46
THE SCREEN GIVE IT FLOWING --
GIVE IT A BREAK GET THE BLOOD
FLOWING. DON'T SIT ON YOUR PHONE
00:21:36.46\00:21:46.50
DURING LUNCH. TO GET OUTSIDE AND
GO ON A WALK. >> MY WIFE ALWAYS
00:21:46.50\00:21:53.07
IS IT SO INVIGORATING LET'S GO
ON A WALK SO HERE IT IS, WHAT IS
YOUR OPINION REGARDING THE
00:21:53.07\00:21:57.55
APPROPRIATE AGE FOR A MINOR TO
HAVE THEIR OWN SMART DEVICE? >>
IT DEMANDS SO MUCH ON THAT
00:21:57.55\00:22:04.85
YOUNG PERSON. THERE ARE 16,
17, 18 -YEAR-OLDS WHO ARE SO
00:22:04.85\00:22:13.13
SPIRITUALLY MATURE AND STEPPING
UP INTO CANVASSING WORK AND THEY
ARE MISSIONARIES FOR GOD AND IN
00:22:13.13\00:22:19.37
THAT PLACE OF REALLY BEING AN
INDIVIDUAL YOUNG PERSON AND THEY
SEEK THEIR PARENTS MENTOR SHIP
00:22:19.37\00:22:26.37
AND THEY SEEK THEIR PARENTS
ACCOUNTABILITY AND THEY SAY I
KNOW YOU DON'T EVEN REQUIRE ME
00:22:26.37\00:22:29.38
TOO BUT I WANT YOU TO KEEP AND
EYE ON MY SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS
BECAUSE I KNOW MY FRONTAL LOBE
00:22:29.38\00:22:33.92
IS NOT FULLY DEVELOPED YET AND
I STILL MEDIA. AND THAT'S THE
00:22:33.92\00:22:38.19
PROFILE OF A KID WHO IS IN THE
READINESS PHASE. YOUR AVERAGE
13-YEAR-OLD OR 14 -YEAR-OLD OR A
00:22:38.19\00:22:46.93
TEENAGER I KNOW THIS SOUNDS
RADICAL BECAUSE LIKE EVERY
TEENAGER IS WALKING AROUND THE
00:22:46.93\00:22:51.13
SMART PHONE AND I DON'T HAVE
TEENAGERS A BIG DISCLAIMER, I AM
A PARENT OF A NINE, SEVEN, 3
00:22:51.13\00:22:58.97
-YEAR-OLD I HAVE NO WITH
TEENAGERS BUT I KNOW IT'S ON THE
INTERNET AND I THINK YOU ALL DO
00:22:58.97\00:23:04.75
AS WELL AND I WANT TO KNOW IF
THEY KNOW MORE THAN I DO ABOUT
CONTROLS AND BLOCKS ON THE PHONE
00:23:04.75\00:23:10.72
OR DO THEY KNOW HOW TO NAVIGATE
AROUND THE BLOCKING SOFTWARE WE
HAVE ON THERE? I DON'T WANT TO
00:23:10.72\00:23:15.32
GET INTO THAT MESS. THAT SOUNDS
LIKE A BIG CAN OF WORMS TO ME
THAT I'M OPENING IF
00:23:15.32\00:23:19.63
I HAVE A REGULAR TEENAGER WHO IS
NOT LAUNCHING OUT AS A
SPECTACULAR MATURITY.
00:23:19.63\00:23:27.90
>> SEEK TO DO THINGS THAT WOULD
BENEFIT A CHILD IN A LONG-TERM
BASIS TO GET THEIR MOTOR SKILLS
00:23:27.90\00:23:36.24
GOING BECAUSE SEDENTARY LIFE
OF-SITTING TOO MUCH IS THE NEW
SMOKING. AND WE HAVE A LOT OF
00:23:36.24\00:23:44.69
UNHEALTHY CHILDREN WHO ARE JUST
DORMANT. THE WORD SEDENTARY IS
PROBABLY AN UNDERSTATEMENT AND
00:23:44.69\00:23:51.36
THEY DON'T KNOW HOW TO THROW A
BALL OR RUN AND THEY CANNOT MOVE
THEIR LIMBS AND SOME YOUNG
00:23:51.36\00:23:58.43
PEOPLE CAN AND THEY DON'T HAVE
ANYTHING THAT CHALLENGES THEM
WHEN IT COMES TO AEROBICS OR
00:23:58.43\00:24:04.37
DEEP BREATHING TO GET OUT THERE
AND READ OUTSIDE AND IT DEPENDS
UPON WHERE YOU LIVE AS WELL
00:24:04.37\00:24:08.61
BECAUSE IF YOUR COMMUNITY IS A
PLACE THAT IS SAFE THAT'S ONE
THING BUT IT IS GOOD TO ASK
00:24:08.61\00:24:16.55
YOURSELF, DO YOU SET FAMILY
GOALS? IF YOU DIDN'T SET ANY
FAMILY GOALS THE END OF SMART
00:24:16.55\00:24:20.69
DEVICES SUCH THEM UP FOR YOU.
ANOTHER ONE IS WHAT IS YOUR
ADVICE TO A PARENT THAT
00:24:20.69\00:24:24.89
STRUGGLING WITH MAKING A
DECISION TO BUY LOOK AT THE
00:24:24.89\00:24:30.67
SMART DEVICE. >> DON'T DO IT.
THAT'S DEFAULT. WHEN YOU LISTEN
00:24:30.67\00:24:39.47
TO THE DIGITAL DISCONNECT IS
SERIOUS AND YOU HEAR THE
INFORMATION WE HAVE DISCUSSED SO
00:24:39.47\00:24:44.48
FAR WE REALIZE THAT IT'S LIKE
GIVING THEM POISONOUS SNAKES. IT
IS A DANGEROUS THING TO BE
00:24:44.48\00:24:50.09
HANDLING THESE AND IT TAKES A
VERY HIGH LEVEL OF MAJORITY. DO
YOU KNOW HOW MANY ADULTS
00:24:50.09\00:24:55.29
CANNOT HANDLE AND GET A HANDLE
ON THEIR INTERNET USE? IN?
00:24:55.29\00:24:58.36
IN THEIR MEDIA USE? AND, SO, I
WOULD HAVE TO KNOW THE KID IN
THE CIRCUMSTANCES AND
00:24:58.36\00:25:06.30
REALLY, SOMEBODY WHO IS THE
EXPERT ON THE RESEARCH AND
INFORMATION ABOUT MEDIA I DON'T
00:25:06.30\00:25:11.11
POSITION MYSELF AS LIKE THE
ADVISOR OF TELLING PARENTS WHAT
00:25:11.11\00:25:17.81
TO DO. BUT THE BOTTOM LINE IS I
TEACH INFORMATION AND STUDIES
AND SPIRITUAL PRINCIPLES AND
00:25:17.81\00:25:24.99
THEN HOPEFULLY WE CAN ALL IN OUR
CONTEXT IN OUR OWN WALK WITH THE
LORD AND THE WISDOM HE GIVES TO
00:25:24.99\00:25:31.33
US FROM ABOVE WHICH IS PURE AND
PEACEFUL AND WILL GIVE YOU PURE
WISDOM FROM ABOVE AND HE WILL
00:25:31.33\00:25:37.63
GIVE YOU THE PATH ON WHAT WILL
BE BEST FOR THAT CHILD. AND WHAT
WILL ALWAYS BE BEST FOR
00:25:37.63\00:25:43.47
THAT CHILD IS MORE OF YOU. MORE
OF HIS PARENTS. THE MORE WE CAN
00:25:43.47\00:25:48.68
POUR OURSELVES INTO OUR KIDS AND
INVEST OURSELVES IN THEM IN THE
THEM AND HAVE FUN WITH THEM AT.
00:25:48.68\00:25:53.88
THAT'S NOT WHAT YOU TALKED ABOUT
HIS FAMILY FUN TIME AND VACATION
AND DOING THINGS THAT INTEREST
00:25:53.88\00:26:00.19
THEM AND THEN THEY REALLY ARE
BONDED TO YOU THROUGH THAT LIKE
00:26:00.19\00:26:05.43
YOU WOULD BE. THAT'S NORMAL
HUMAN RELATIONSHIP STUFF THAT WE
DON'T WANT TO LEAVE BEHIND
00:26:05.43\00:26:10.20
BECAUSE WE ARE SO BUSY OR
BECAUSE I'M A PARENT AND I WILL
HAVE THE STANDARDS AND I'M THE
00:26:10.20\00:26:14.97
RULE ENFORCER. WE ARE THAT BUT
WE ALSO NEED TO HAVE A
RELATIONSHIP. GET REALLY NEEDS
00:26:14.97\00:26:20.54
TO BE A BALANCE >> AND TEACH
THEM ALSO HOW TO BE A POSITIVE
IMPACT ON SOMEBODY ELSE'S LIFE.
00:26:20.54\00:26:29.32
I THINK DOCTOR MARTIN LUTHER
KING SAYS AS HE TALKS ABOUT
REALLY IT'S A PASSION OF LIFE
00:26:29.32\00:26:32.72
SAYING IF YOU HAVE NOT FOUND
SOMETHING THAT YOU ARE WILLING
TO DIE FOR YOU ARE NOT FIT TO
00:26:32.72\00:26:38.16
LIVE. HE WAS TALKING ABOUT THE
IMPACT OF US ON SOMEONE ELSE'S
00:26:38.16\00:26:42.86
LIFE NOT A SERIAL DEATH OR I
WANT TO DIE FROM A VIDEO GAMES
BUT BEEN AFFECTING BEING A
00:26:42.86\00:26:49.30
BENEFACTOR TO SOMEONE ELSE'S
FUTURE HELPING SHIFT SOCIETY IN
A WAY. AND HERE IS AN EQUATION
00:26:49.30\00:26:56.68
G.I. GEO MEANING GARBAGE IN,
GARBAGE OUT. IF YOU ARE GOING TO
GIVE YOUR IS GOING TO HAVE
00:26:56.68\00:27:05.12
GARBAGE COMING OUT >> G.I. JOE
WAS GARBAGE WHEN I WAS WITH
THESE PARENTS THAT ARE THINKING
00:27:05.12\00:27:12.79
ABOUT SMART PHONES FOR TEENAGERS
AND STUFF ONE THING YOU DO WHEN
YOU GIVE CAR KEYS TO A KID AND
00:27:12.79\00:27:16.97
THEY'RE NOW ON THE ROAD AND THEY
CAN DRIVE IS THERE IS DRIVERS
TRAINING THAT PRECEDES IT SO WE
00:27:16.97\00:27:24.14
NEED TO BE MENTORING OUR KIDS
INTO MATURE GODLY SMART PHONE
USE AND INTERNET USE.
00:27:24.14\00:27:28.64
IT'S NOT JUST SOMETHING LIKE
THERE'S A CERTAIN AGE IN A
CERTAIN LEVEL OF MATURITY AND
00:27:28.64\00:27:31.75
YOU THROW THEM THE KEYS TO THE
SMART PHONES SO TO SPEAK. WE
NEED TO KNOW HOW THE DEVICES
00:27:31.75\00:27:36.95
WORK OURSELVES AND WE NEED TO
KNOW THE PLATFORMS AND HOW THEY
WORK BETTER THAN OUR KIDS TO DO
00:27:36.95\00:27:40.99
AND IF YOU AS A PARENT GO TO AN
INSTRUCTIONAL CLASS MAY BE AT
THE APPLE STORE OR THE ANDROID
00:27:40.99\00:27:45.69
STORE OR WHATEVER OR AT YOUR OWN
PROVIDER THEY CAN TEACH YOU HOW
TO SET PARAMETER RESTRICTIONS OF
00:27:45.69\00:27:54.74
WHAT KIND OF INFORMATION CAN
COME INTO THE DEVICE. THEY HAVE
00:27:54.74\00:28:00.18
AGE-APPROPRIATE SETTINGS AND YOU
CAN SAY I DON'T WANT ANYTHING
RATED THIS AND ABOVE TO COME TO
00:28:00.18\00:28:04.98
MY CHILD'S PHONE AND YOU COULD
ALSO GAUGE SCREEN TIME. OKAY IF
MY CHILD SPENDS EIGHT
00:28:04.98\00:28:14.02
HOURS THIS WEEK OR 30 HOURS THIS
WEEK ON THEIR DEVICE WHICH IS
GOING TO SHOW ME WHERE THEY
00:28:14.02\00:28:18.76
SPENT IT. SEVEN HOURS ON
INSTAGRAM AND TWO HOURS ON MY
00:28:18.76\00:28:26.90
MATH TUTORING PROGRAM IS LIKE IT
NOT REALLY GOING ANYWHERE IN A
HEALTHY WAY. LEARN HOW TO USE
00:28:26.90\00:28:35.34
DEVICES BECAUSE THE NEWER
DEVICES ARE BUILDING TO TRY TO
HELP PEOPLE BECOME HEALTHIER
00:28:35.34\00:28:41.88
DEVICE USERS. SCREEN TIME AND
ALL THAT. BUT HERE'S ANOTHER ONE
AND I THINK THIS IS GOOD.
00:28:41.88\00:28:47.69
WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO A PARENT
WHO MIGHT HAVE ALREADY BOUGHT A
SMART DEVICE FOR A MINOR BUT
00:28:47.69\00:28:58.23
DISCONNECT THEIR CHILD WITH
THEIR DEVICE. >> FOR A CHILD
00:28:58.23\00:29:04.74
THAT HAS NOT DONE SOMETHING AND
THEN YOU MAKE A CHANGE AND YOU
DO THE RIGHT THING.
00:29:04.74\00:29:09.14
AND THE CHILD WILL RESPECT YOU
FOR IT IF YOU DO IT IN LOVE AND
FIRMNESS AND IF IT IS NOT JUST
00:29:09.14\00:29:17.52
AN ARBITRARY DISTANCE TO RULE.
YOU ARE INVESTED IN THEM AND
IT'S HARD AT FIRST.
00:29:17.52\00:29:23.53
DON'T EXPECT THAT THEY ARE
GOING TO APPRECIATE YOU SO MUCH
00:29:23.53\00:29:29.46
OVERNIGHT. IT DOES TAKE TIME AND
ESPECIALLY WHEN THEIR BRAINS ARE
ALL IMBALANCED BECAUSE OF SO
00:29:29.46\00:29:35.50
MUCH SCREEN TIME USE. THE
BRAIN DOES HEAL AND BECOME
00:29:35.50\00:29:41.11
TRANSFORMED. >> ONE MOTHER SAID
TO HER CHILD YOU ARE NOT MY
FRIEND AND SHE SAYS YOU ARE
00:29:41.11\00:29:45.91
RIGHT I AM NOT YOUR FRIEND I AM
YOUR WE DO WANT TO ESTABLISH
PARAMETERS BECAUSE THE CHILDREN
00:29:45.91\00:29:53.49
WANT THE DEFINITION OF A FRIEND
MEANS YOU LET ME DO WHATEVER I
WANT TO. YOU ARE A DAD HOW DO
00:29:53.49\00:29:58.69
YOU HANDLE THAT? >> THEN
JESUS IS NOT A FRIEND BECAUSE HE
00:29:58.69\00:30:01.86
DOESN'T LET US DO WHATEVER WE
WANT BUT HE IS A FRIEND OF
SINNERS BECAUSE HE MEETS US
00:30:01.86\00:30:06.87
WHERE WE ARE AT AND ENTERS INTO
OUR EXPERIENCE AND OVERCOMES IN
HIS OR HER ADVOCATE AND
00:30:06.87\00:30:13.48
SACRIFICES FOR US AND HAS
AUTHORITY AND HE HAS
EXPECTATIONS FOR US THAT HE WILL
00:30:13.48\00:30:21.05
HELP US TO MEET HERE. I DON'T
KNOW HOW TO PARENT PERFECTLY.
IT'S AWKWARD TO BE A PARENT AND
00:30:21.05\00:30:25.85
GET PARENTING ADVICE BECAUSE THE
WAY THAT I DO THE SEMINAR ISN'T
JUST LIKE I AM A RESEARCHER AND
00:30:25.85\00:30:34.46
A NERD AND I USE IN ANTIDOTES
FOR MY FAMILY BUT DON'T THINK
BECAUSE SOMEONE CAN RESEARCH AND
00:30:34.46\00:30:40.64
SPEAK OR BECAUSE SOMEONE IS A
PASTOR OR WHATEVER THAT THEY ARE
SOME A TYPE OF SPIRITUAL
00:30:40.64\00:30:45.41
AUTHORITY OR PUT THEM ON A
PEDESTAL LIKE THERE ON A
DIFFERENT PLANE OF EXISTENCE
00:30:45.41\00:30:51.81
HERE. I COME THIS REALLY WANTING
TO ASK THESE PARENTS QUESTIONS.
00:30:51.81\00:30:56.75
THEY HAVE TEENAGERS AND THEY
KNOW MORE THAN I DO IN A LOT OF
00:30:56.75\00:31:01.39
WAYS. SO IT MIGHT BE VERY
UNHELPFUL FOR SOME OF THESE
QUESTIONS. BUT I HOPE THEY
00:31:01.39\00:31:06.49
CONTACT ME AND TELL ME WHAT IS
WORKING AND WHAT IS NOT WORKING.
>> HERE IS A PERSONAL ONE.
00:31:06.49\00:31:13.94
I KNOW I HAVE AN ADDICTION TO MY
PHONE AND SOCIAL MEDIA. I CANNOT
CONCENTRATE WHEN MY
00:31:13.94\00:31:21.78
PHONE OR COMPUTER IS IN THE
ROOM WITH ME. SO WHEN STUDYING I
00:31:21.78\00:31:26.48
LEAVE MY ELECTRONICS IN A
SEPARATE ROOM. WITH CO- BETA
SCHOOL IS ALMOST COMPLETELY
00:31:26.48\00:31:31.89
ONLINE AND I FEEL LIKE I AM NOT
RETAINING ANY -- WAS CO- BETA
SCHOOL IS ALMOST COMPLETELY
00:31:31.89\00:31:37.29
ONLINE AND I FEEL LIKE I'M NOT
RETAINING ANY MATERIAL. WHAT CAN
00:31:37.29\00:31:42.06
HELP ME. >> YOU WANT ME TOO
LAUNCH INTO EDUCATION REFORM
RIGHT THERE. THAT IS A DILEMMA.
00:31:42.06\00:31:45.83
WE ARE PRESENTING OUR YOUNG
PEOPLE WITH A DILEMMA. ISN'T IT
AMAZING HOW THE SOCIETY
00:31:45.83\00:31:50.61
IN WHICH WE LIVE IT RIGHT NOW IS
PULLING US BACK TO OUR ADDICTION
AT THAT WE ARE TRYING TO GET
00:31:50.61\00:31:55.08
AWAY FROM. >> YES.
I REALLY SYMPATHIZE.
00:31:55.08\00:31:59.88
THIS IS FOR A YOUNG PERSON
IN SCHOOL AND I REALLY REALLY DO
00:31:59.88\00:32:05.15
SYMPATHIZE. I UNDERSTAND THAT
THE SCHOOL ONLINE IS NOT A DEAL
AND I HOPE THAT IT IS NOT FOR
00:32:05.15\00:32:11.46
THE LONG. AND NINE KNOW STUDIES
SHOW THAT IT IS NOT AS EFFECTIVE
AS EVEN OUR FLAWED PUBLIC
00:32:11.46\00:32:17.17
EDUCATION SYSTEM IS. WE HAVE
SUCH A BEAUTIFUL TRUE EDUCATION
MODELS THAT GOD HAS
00:32:17.17\00:32:21.57
GIVEN TO US AND IF WE WERE
PRACTICING THAT INSTEAD OF
DIGITAL EVERYTHING AND ONLINE
00:32:21.57\00:32:26.71
EVERYTHING AND I KNOW PANDEMIC
I UNDERSTAND WE WANT TO BE
00:32:26.71\00:32:30.38
CAUTIOUS OF. BUT WE HAVE TO
WEIGH THE RISK APPEARED TO THE
YOUNG PERSON I WANT TO ENCOURAGE
00:32:30.38\00:32:38.42
YOU WHEN YOU ARE NOT HAVING TO
BE ONLINE KIND OF LIKE THE DAD
WHO WAS WORKING AT THE
00:32:38.42\00:32:42.96
INDIVIDUAL WHO IS WORKING ON THE
COMPUTER ALL DAY, WELL, YOU ARE
STUDYING IN YOUR SCHOOL
00:32:42.96\00:32:49.43
ATTENDANCE IS ONLINE. YOU CANNOT
CONTROL THAT FOR NOW. AND HAVE A
GOOD ATTITUDE ABOUT IT.
00:32:49.43\00:32:53.10
YOU DON'T WANT TO BE LIKE
EDUCATION REFORM OF THIS WHOLE
SYSTEM AND ALL THAT STUFF THAT
00:32:53.10\00:32:57.44
IS NEGATIVE. JUST A BLOOM WHERE
YOU'RE PLANTED RIGHT THERE AND
00:32:57.44\00:33:04.65
CONTROL YOU CAN CONTROL. YOUR
FREE TIME. ARE YOU GOING TO THE
00:33:04.65\00:33:07.88
PHONE THAT YOU'RE ADDICTED TO
AFTERWARDS? OR CAN WE FIND WAYS
TO REALLY REALLY LIMIT THOSE?
00:33:07.88\00:33:13.89
BECAUSE YOU'RE ALREADY HAVING
SO MUCH SCREEN EXPOSURE WITH THE
00:33:13.89\00:33:18.86
SCHOOL. IT IS SEDENTARY AND IT'S
THE BLUE LIGHT SO TRY TO CONTROL
WHAT YOU CAN WITH COMPUTERS.
00:33:18.86\00:33:30.24
>> IF YOU FIND IT IMPACTING YOUR
GRADES AND YOUR MENTAL STABILITY
SOMETIMES YOU MAY WANT TO USE
00:33:30.24\00:33:36.44
THE DEVICE SOLELY DEDICATED WITH
JUST YOUR SCHOOL APPS ON IT
BECAUSE SOMETIMES PEOPLE HAVE
00:33:36.44\00:33:42.15
DEVICES THAT HAVE EVERYTHING ON
IT LIKE ALL YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA
PLATFORMS AND MULTITASKING WORLD
00:33:42.15\00:33:56.70
. >> THERE WAS A TIME WHEN THE
FRAME MULTITASK FIRST CAME OUT.
00:33:56.70\00:34:07.14
I REMEMBER WINDOWS MULTITASKING
HAVE MORE THAN ONE WINDOW WHO
CAME UP WITH THAT IDEA?
00:34:07.14\00:34:11.81
IT DOES HAPPEN NOWADAYS IT WOULD
HAVE 65 DIFFERENT OPENS AT THE
SAME IDEA ON YOUR SCREEN AND NOT
00:34:11.81\00:34:15.88
KNOW ANY OF THE MARKS MULTIPLE
SCREENS MULTIPLE APPS AND
ANYTHING RUNNING IN THE
00:34:15.88\00:34:22.99
BACKGROUND BACKGROUND. >> THEN
THERE ARE NOTIFICATIONS POPPING
IN ON TOP OF ALL OF THAT
00:34:22.99\00:34:30.50
>> THE NEW YORK TIMES RELEASED
AN ARTICLE TALKING ABOUT PEOPLE
DIVORCING THEMSELVES FROM E-MAIL
00:34:30.50\00:34:41.31
SAYING THAT IT'S INTRUSIVE. I'M
NOT ABLE TO HANDLE EVERYBODY'S
00:34:41.31\00:34:49.72
REQUEST. THERE IS ONE MEDIA
ACTRESS WHO SAID I HAVE
COMPLETELY DISCONNECTED FROM
00:34:49.72\00:34:55.96
E-MAIL ALTOGETHER. IF YOU WANT
TO GET ME JUST TEXT ME AND I'LL
00:34:55.96\00:35:00.53
GIVE YOU A CALL BECAUSE E-MAIL
IS A GOOD BDM BUT LET'S TALK
ABOUT SOME OF THE ON A GOOD
00:35:00.53\00:35:12.91
LEVEL. >> IF THE NOTIFICATIONS
ARE ON IS THE PROBLEM OF. I GO
THROUGH A LOT OF E-MAIL AND
00:35:12.91\00:35:17.45
I TRIED TO KEEP UP ON MY
FACEBOOK MESSAGES AND I DON'T DO
00:35:17.45\00:35:29.56
THE JOB AT IT. E-MAIL ME
MAY. I TURN OFF ALL OF MY
00:35:29.56\00:35:33.76
NOTIFICATIONS. THE ONLY THING
THAT CAN NOTIFY ME AS IF I'M
GETTING A PHONE CALL OR TEXT AND
00:35:33.76\00:35:39.10
VERY FEW PEOPLE HAVE MY PHONE
NUMBER. THAT LIMITS IT FOR ME
WHERE IT'S NOT IN INUNDATING
00:35:39.10\00:35:44.57
THING ALL THE TIME FROM
EVERYBODY THAT YOU KNOW. WHEN I
WANT TO GO CHECK MY
00:35:44.57\00:35:50.78
MESSAGES AND I INTENTIONALLY GO
DO THAT AND WE CAN HAVE SET
TIMES OF THE DAY THAT WE DO THAT
00:35:50.78\00:35:55.68
WE CAN HAVE IT ALL SAY YOU ARE
SOCIAL MEDIA ADDICT YOU TAKE THE
APPS OFF YOUR PHONE COMPLETELY
00:35:55.68\00:36:01.69
THEY ARE NOT TIED TO CLICK ON IT
EVEN IF IT'S NOT NOTIFYING YOU
YOU WANT TO GO SEE IF YOU HAVE
00:36:01.69\00:36:08.00
NOTIFICATION YOU CAN WAIT. GO ON
YOUR PLATFORMS AT 5:00 P.M. THEN
00:36:08.00\00:36:15.14
OFF BY 545 AND CATCH UP ON
COMMUNICATION AND THERE'S A
LIMITED SET AMOUNT OF TIME AND
00:36:15.14\00:36:20.01
THE PLACE WHERE IT STAYS AND
IT'S NOT FOLLOWING ANYWHERE
INTERRUPTING YOUR. THAT'S WHAT
00:36:20.01\00:36:26.45
SOME PEOPLE DO WHO WANT TO
CHANGE THEIR COMMUNICATIONS. >>
MY WIFE ELIMINATED ENTIRELY
00:36:26.45\00:36:31.79
AND GOT A FACEBOOK PAIR >>
SOMEONE CALLED AND SAID I DON'T
SEE ON FACEBOOK AND SHE SAID I
00:36:31.79\00:36:39.13
AM OFF OF FACEBOOK I JUST DON'T
WANT TO BE ON THAT PLATFORM ANY
>> I GO ON BECAUSE I HAVE TO FOR
00:36:39.13\00:36:48.54
MINISTRY AND WORK. BUT I AM
NOT EVEN CLOSE TO SOCIAL MEDIA
00:36:48.54\00:36:55.54
ADDICT. IT WOULD BE LIKE I MIGHT
BE GETTING ADDICTED TO EATING
LIKE LIKE BRUSSELS SPROUTS.
00:36:55.54\00:37:02.72
NOTHING AGAINST BRUSSELS SPROUTS
BUT YOU UNDERSTAND. JUST FINDING
00:37:02.72\00:37:12.16
WAYS TO CONTROL IT BY TURNING
NOTIFICATIONS OFF AND SETTING
TIME AND PLACE FOR USAGE >> THAT
00:37:12.16\00:37:18.27
IS A GOOD TIP BECAUSE
NOTIFICATIONS DON'T CARE WHAT
YOU ARE DOING AND WHEN YOU HAVE
00:37:18.27\00:37:24.94
NOTIFICATIONS CONNECTED TO A
SOUND AND SOME PHONES I'VE HEARD
PEOPLE SAY THAT SOUND IS A TAX
00:37:24.94\00:37:34.75
BUT THAT SOUND IS THE E-MAIL.
THAT PHONE TO SOUND AS MY FRIEND
CALLING ME OR THAT MY MOM. >>
00:37:34.75\00:37:44.53
IT'S KIND OF HELPFUL IF IT'S A
DIFFERENT PERSON IF THE PHONE
CALL SOUND AS MY MOM I WILL BE
00:37:44.53\00:37:55.87
HONEST MY PHONE SOMETIMES THE
SOME PEOPLE AND SOMETIMES I.
SOMETIMES IT'S LIBERATING.
00:37:55.87\00:38:01.84
SOMETIMES AS A REGULAR PHONE ON
THE HOOK AND IF IT RANG AND YOU
DID NOT PICK IT UP AND THEN
00:38:01.84\00:38:06.72
LATER YOUR FRIEND WHO CALLED
DEAL FOUND OUT YOUR HOME AND DID
NOT PICK UP IT WAS REALLY WEIRD
00:38:06.72\00:38:13.69
TO JUST LET YOUR PHONE RING 30
YEARS AGO. YOU WERE EXPECTED TO
PICK IT UP. PEOPLE WOULD GET
00:38:13.69\00:38:18.76
OFFENDED BUT TODAY NO ONE
EXPECTS YOU TO SO IN A WAY THIS
IS A LIBERATING WITH THE LACK OF
00:38:18.76\00:38:24.53
DEMAND FOR YOUR ATTENTION IF YOU
APPROACH IT THAT WAY AND DON'T
FEEL YOU HAVE TO RESPOND TO
00:38:24.53\00:38:29.47
EVERYTHING ALL THE TIME
IMMEDIATELY. THE TIME
IMMEDIATELY. >> THIS IS A
00:38:29.47\00:38:34.78
CONNECTED GENERATION THIS IS
BREAKING THE DIGITAL CHAIN. THIS
IS NOT AS SIMPLE AS IT IS
00:38:34.78\00:38:38.68
SAID IS HE DONE YOU HAVE TO
LITERALLY ESTABLISH PARAMETERS.
WHAT IS THE GOAL OF YOUR FAMILY.
00:38:38.68\00:38:50.13
MAYBE CHILDREN HAVE NOT REACHED
THE DOUBLE-DIGIT AGE AGE SO
YOU'RE GETTING TO THIS
00:38:50.13\00:38:57.10
IRREVERSIBLE AGE AGE COME TEN
AND 11 AND SO FORTH BUT SET SOME
GOALS FOR YOUR FAMILY.
00:38:57.10\00:39:04.44
TALK ABOUT GOALS. I LIKE YOUR
HONESTY SAYING I DON'T HAVE
TEENAGERS SO THOSE OF
00:39:04.44\00:39:10.21
YOU WITH TEENAGERS IF IT'S
REALLY WORKING WELL SCOTT SAYS
I'M GOING TO GIVE YOU YOUR
00:39:10.21\00:39:13.98
E-MAIL TELL ME WHAT YOU'RE DOING
TO GET YOUR YOUNG PEOPLE
DEVELOPING SKILLS THAT WILL BE A
00:39:13.98\00:39:20.76
BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND TO
EVERYONE ELSE. MY SON IS IT IS
00:39:20.76\00:39:31.30
VIDEO GAMES -- MY SON IS
ADDICTED TO VIDEO GAMES BUT THIS
IS A QUALITY TIME HE THINKS HE
00:39:31.30\00:39:36.40
COULD SPEND WITH MY GRANDSON BUT
HOW I LET HIM KNOW THIS IS NOT
QUALITY TIME TOGETHER.
00:39:36.40\00:39:41.51
>> A LOOK AT THE RESEARCH OF THE
PLANE AND THE MALL DEVELOPMENT
OF THE CHILD AND HOW IT LOWERS
00:39:41.51\00:39:47.18
COGNITIVE FUNCTION AND LOWERS
THE FRONTAL LOBE I COULD REPEAT
THE WHOLE DIGITAL DISCONNECTED
00:39:47.18\00:39:54.52
BUT I DO POINT EVERYONE WHO
WANTS TO INFORM SOMEONE ELSE
ABOUT THE DANGERS OF MEDIA LIKE
00:39:54.52\00:39:58.86
THAT IS WHAT I AM HERE FOR AT
YOUR SERVICE I WILL SEND YOU
VIDEOS AND IT WILL BE FOR A.
00:39:58.86\00:40:09.10
FREE. MEDIA ON THE BRAIN
OVERVIEW MEDIA OF MIND OVERVIEW
00:40:09.10\00:40:13.04
YOU NAME IT YOU CAN SEE ALL OF
OUR STAFF. JUST GET THE OVERVIEW
STUFF AND GIVE THEM A TEASER.
00:40:13.04\00:40:19.81
>> IT DOES MAKE A DIFFERENCE. >>
SOME PEOPLE SAY THIS IS THE ONLY
TIME I HAVE TO SPEND WITH
00:40:19.81\00:40:27.06
MARK OR JOHNNY OR WHATEVER AND
THIS IS OUR TIME TOGETHER. DO
YOU ALLOW IT TO BE SOMETHING
00:40:27.06\00:40:34.30
THAT DOESN'T TAKE YOU TO A
PATHWAY DISCONNECT FROM REALITY.
>> HE WILL HAVE BETTER QUALITY
00:40:34.30\00:40:41.44
TIME DOING SOMETHING ELSE LIKE
PLAYING BALL OR TINKER AROUND ON
00:40:41.44\00:40:47.01
AN ENGINE. DO GUY STUFF. I LOVE
THAT THE FATHER WANTS TO SPEND
00:40:47.01\00:40:53.82
TIME WITH HIS SON. IT'S
CRITICAL. THEY'RE DOING
SOMETHING TOGETHER AND SO I
00:40:53.82\00:41:02.12
APPRECIATE THE INTENTION AND I
WANT TO DRAW THEM INTO A
NONDIGITAL MORE RELATIONAL
00:41:02.12\00:41:08.33
DEEPER CONNECTION MODE OF TIME
TOGETHER. >> I THINK THAT'S
WHAT'S HAPPENING HERE IS THEY
00:41:08.33\00:41:17.07
MAY BE TRYING TO BUILD A BRIDGE
OF IDENTITY I. DON'T STAY ON THE
00:41:17.07\00:41:27.15
BRIDGE. >> IF YOU'RE USING THIS
TO CONNECT REMEMBER IT'S JUST A
BRIDGE DO NOT STAY ON THE BRIDGE
00:41:27.15\00:41:31.92
GET PAST THE BRIDGE. HERE IS
ANOTHER ONE. WHAT IS THE BEST
00:41:31.92\00:41:49.54
WAY TO HELP A BABY WHEN THERE'S
ONLY A SINGLE MOM AND THE MOVIE
AND TV SHOW WHILE THE MOM WORKS
00:41:49.54\00:42:04.55
THREE OR SHOW JOBS. >> LET'S
HAVE A HEART FOR THE WIDOW WAS
IN THE FATHERLESS AND
00:42:04.55\00:42:07.89
A HEART FOR SOMEONE IN NEED. YOU
CAN DO IT IS WHAT SHE NEEDS TO
00:42:07.89\00:42:13.09
HEAR. YOU HAVE POWER OF GOD TO
GIVE YOU WHAT IT TAKES TAKES IT
TO DO YOUR BEST AND YOUR UNIQUE
00:42:13.09\00:42:22.87
SITUATION AND DON'T HOLD OUT
SOMEONE ELSE'S STANDARD OF THE
IDEAL FAMILY IN THE PERFECT
00:42:22.87\00:42:27.88
SITUATION AND EVERYTHING THAT'S
SCOTT TEACHES ABOUT EXACTLY HOW
MUCH MEDIA AND THEY DON'T EVEN
00:42:27.88\00:42:32.51
SET THOSE PRESCRIPTIONS BUT
DON'T HAVE SOME IMPOSSIBLY HIGH
STANDARD THAT MAKES IT SO YOU
00:42:32.51\00:42:38.25
COLLAPSE AND THAT YOU TAKE THE
WHOLE BURDEN OF THE WHOLE WORLD
00:42:38.25\00:42:42.92
ON ON YOURSELF. YOU CAN D IT AND
THERE ARE THINGS THAT ARE LOWER
STIMULANT. IF THAT CHILD IS
00:42:42.92\00:42:52.90
GOING BEYOND SOME MEDIA BECAUSE
SAME ON THE CHURCH AND SHEMA
NOBODY COMING ALONGSIDE TO HELP.
00:42:52.90\00:42:57.41
THAT'S A CALL TO ARMS RIGHT
THERE. AND THERE ARE SLOWER
00:42:57.41\00:43:02.88
PACED THINGS THAT ARE BETTER
THAN INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME AND
INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME WITH HER
00:43:02.88\00:43:06.92
ON THE TABLET AND PLAYING VIDEO
GAMES. THIRTY MINUTES OF THAT IS
00:43:06.92\00:43:11.69
THE SAME EFFECT ON SLEEP
DEPRIVATION AS TWO HOURS OF
TELEVISION. TELEVISION AND
00:43:11.69\00:43:19.16
THAT'S CARTOONS AND CHILDREN'S
ENTERTAINMENT SO YOU CAN SAY
INTERACTIVE SCREEN TIME IS
00:43:19.16\00:43:23.80
APPARENTLY FOUR TIMES MORE
HYPER- STIMULATING THAN REGULAR
PACE TELEVISION. SO HAVING THEM
00:43:23.80\00:43:32.04
SIT AND DO SOMETHING
INFORMATIONAL, SPIRITUAL, REAL
TO LIFE, AND NATURE PACED PAIR
00:43:32.04\00:43:46.72
CANNOT SPONGEBOB SQUAREPANTS --
NOT A SPONGE BOB SQUARE PANTS.
JUST CHOOSE WISELY WHEN YOU WILL
00:43:46.72\00:43:56.83
USE MEDIA THAT IT IS HOLY AND
THAT IS NATURE -BASED AND THAT
IT WILL NOT BE MAKE IT OR BREAK
00:43:56.83\00:44:03.91
IT FOR THAT KID. YOU GIVE THAT
KID THE MOST OF YOU THAT YOU CAN
00:44:03.91\00:44:09.14
POSSIBLY GIVE. THAT IS ALL THAT
GOD ASKS OF YOU >> LET'S TALK
ABOUT ANOTHER AVENUE.
00:44:09.14\00:44:14.12
A LOT OF IT WE SPOKE ABOUT
TONIGHT ARE AGE RELATED TO
TEENAGERS AND YOUNG KIDS BUT NOW
00:44:14.12\00:44:21.92
LET'S TALK ABOUT MEDIA AS IT
COMES TO OVERCOMING YOUR LIFE.
THAT IS NOT NECESSARILY -- IT IS
00:44:21.92\00:44:35.14
AFFECTING YOUNGER AND YOUNGER
AGES THAN MEN AND WOMEN ALIKE
WHAT ARE THINGS THAT YOU LOOKED
00:44:35.14\00:44:40.04
AT TO HELP PEOPLE LOOK AT THIS
CANCEROUS PRACTICE TO BE ABLE TO
00:44:40.04\00:44:46.11
OVERCOME THAT? >> YOU BRING UP
THE EARLY AGE OF IT AND THAT IS
CRITICAL. THAT IS WHERE WE CAN
00:44:46.11\00:44:54.66
START WELL. CHILDREN ARE
AVERAGING NOW AGE EIGHT IN TERMS
OF THEIR FIRST EXPOSURE TO
00:44:54.66\00:45:03.70
ONLINE PORNOGRAPHY. THAT IS
SETTING THE TEMPLATE OF THEIR
VIEW OF SEXUALITY FROM THAT
00:45:03.70\00:45:10.41
EARLY OF AN AGE AND IT'S TRAGIC
AND DARK DARK APPEARED ALSO WHEN
WE LOOK AT THE PSYCHOLOGICAL
00:45:10.41\00:45:17.71
PROFILE OF A YOUNG MAN WHO ARE
PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTS THEY ARE
MUCH MORE LIKELY TO HAVE, FROM
00:45:17.71\00:45:25.12
EMOTIONALLY DISENGAGED HOMES.
MAYBE FATHER WAS ABSENT HER
MOTHER WAS BUSY OR THEY WERE
00:45:25.12\00:45:30.93
SHOUTING AND SCREAMING OR
EMOTIONAL DISTANCE AND MAYBE
THERE IS JUST A COLD AND S.
00:45:30.93\00:45:35.90
THERE IS A LOT OF DYSFUNCTIONAL
HOMES HOMES. BUT THE KEY WAS
00:45:35.90\00:45:45.71
EMOTIONALLY DISENGAGED HOMES
HAVE YOU ARE NOT POURING INTO
EACH OTHER BIBLICALLY.
00:45:45.71\00:45:57.45
GOD LOVES US AND COMES CLOSE TO
ADAM AND BREATHES INTO HIM. GOD
IS A GOD OF CLOSENESS.
00:45:57.45\00:46:04.09
THE HOLY SPIRIT CREATES ADAM
AND EVE THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE
00:46:04.09\00:46:09.00
FLESH. INTIMACY IS RELATIONAL,
PARENT AND CHILD, FRIEND TO
FRIEND, BROTHER AND SISTER IN
00:46:09.00\00:46:13.70
THE CHURCH , PASTOR, BIBLE
STUDY, YOU NAME IT WE WERE
CREATED FOR RELATIONSHIPS.
00:46:13.70\00:46:23.31
RELATIONAL CLOSENESS. SO WHEN WE
BASE OUR FAMILY AND THAT GOOD
HEALTHY HOLY EMOTIONAL
00:46:23.31\00:46:28.62
CONNECTEDNESS WE DO SET OUR
YOUNG PEOPLE OPT FOR HIGHER
RATES OF CHANCES OF SUCCESS.
00:46:28.62\00:46:34.69
WE GIVE THEM A BETTER SET OF
TOOLS IN THEIR BRAIN TO BE ABLE
00:46:34.69\00:46:41.30
TO CONQUER THAT. >> IF THAT IS
ANOTHER AVENUE WHERE YOU HAVE TO
ONCE AGAIN LIKE ALL THESE OTHER
00:46:41.30\00:46:46.43
THINGS THERE IS A COMMONALITY
BUT A UNIQUENESS. WE ARE LIVING
00:46:46.43\00:46:53.84
IN A DAY AND AGE WHEN SATAN SEES
IT YEARS AGO IT WAS KIDS GOING
TO THE NEWSSTAND OR KIDS GOING
00:46:53.84\00:46:59.45
TO THE MAGAZINE RACK. BOOK
STORES ARE CLOSING. PEOPLE ARE
BUYING LESS AND LESS
00:46:59.45\00:47:06.52
MAGAZINES AND ARE SUCCUMBING TO
DOWNLOADING A KINDLE BOOK AND
THE CONTENT AND GAMES AND MY
00:47:06.52\00:47:15.26
PROGRAMS AND MY UPDATES AND SO
YOU GET INTO A HABIT OF
EVERYTHING IS DOWNLOAD AND
00:47:15.26\00:47:20.47
UPDATE YOUR PROGRAMS AND WE ARE
SO TRAINED TO GO IN THIS PORTAL
FOR THE WHOLE WORLD LIVES AND
00:47:20.47\00:47:26.88
IT'S IMPORTANT THAT WE SET UP
DISCRETIONARY FILTERS ON DEVICES
IF YOU BUY YOUR CHILD A DEVICE
00:47:26.88\00:47:35.62
TO GET TO A PROFESSIONAL AND SAY
I AM BUYING THIS FOR THIS AGE
CHILD PLEASE SET UP AGE
00:47:35.62\00:47:49.30
RESTRICTED PASSWORDS AND THAT IS
SOMETHING WE NEED TO KNOW HOW IT
00:47:49.30\00:47:54.17
WORKS. >> YES WE NEED TO KNOW
HOW THE DEVICES WORK. IT WOULD
BE INAPPROPRIATE AND
00:47:54.17\00:48:03.91
HIGHLY MISSED GREAT OPPORTUNITY
TO REACH OUT TO THE ADULTS WHO
ARE DEALING WITH THAT.
00:48:03.91\00:48:11.35
50 PERCENT OF MEN IN THE CHURCH
SAY THEY ARE ADDICTED WHEN THEY
00:48:11.35\00:48:14.36
ARE SURVEYED. THE QUESTION ON
HOW TO BREAK FREE FROM THAT IS A
BIG DISCUSSION AND IT INVOLVES A
00:48:14.36\00:48:18.93
WHOLE LOT OF ASPECTS AND
PRACTICAL STEPS AND SPIRITUAL
PRINCIPLES AND HEALTH PRINCIPLES
00:48:18.93\00:48:24.00
AND SO I WON'T GET INTO IT ALL
RIGHT NOW BUT I DO WANT EVERY
VIEWER TO FEEL FREE TO JUST ASK
00:48:24.00\00:48:31.47
US FOR THE FREE DOWNLOADS AND
THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEOS OF
00:48:31.47\00:48:36.44
OUR FULL SERIES. WE HAVE SIX
VIDEOS ON EVERYTHING WE TALKED
ABOUT. IT IS A LOT BUT I WANT TO
00:48:36.44\00:48:41.58
SHARE THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEO
OF THE OVERCOMING OF A SERIES.
00:48:41.58\00:48:47.52
DON'T BE BASHFUL. SOME PEOPLE
FEEL AWKWARD LIKE CAN I GET YOUR
SERIES ON LOST AND THEY FEEL
00:48:47.52\00:48:53.40
LIKE THEY ARE ADMITTING THAT
THEY ARE A PORN ADDICT OR
SOMETHING LIKE THAT APPEAR CAN
00:48:53.40\00:48:57.97
OPEN EVERY SINGLE GUY WHO HAS
EYES AND NEED TO WATCH THIS
MATERIAL. I STUDIED THIS MYSELF
00:48:57.97\00:49:05.41
OR MY OWN GREATER VICTORIES IN
MY LIFE. IT'S NOT JUST ONLINE
BUT THE BILLBOARD WHEN YOU DRIVE
00:49:05.41\00:49:16.55
DOWN THE STREET I EYES GOT A
BOUNCE AND HOLD THAT GAYS. --
00:49:16.55\00:49:23.69
HOLD THAT GAZE. >> MORE THAN A
YEAR AGO IN 2019 WE DID A
SEMINAR ON SEXUAL PURITY AND
00:49:23.69\00:49:30.77
IT'S AMAZING BUT WHAT IT
DISCOVERED IS THAT THIS IS AN
INDUSTRY THAT IS NATIVELY MAIL
00:49:30.77\00:49:41.31
ADDICTION BUT IT'S SO QUIET IN
THE FEMALE ADDICTION WOMEN DON'T
WANT TO COME FORWARD AND THAT'S
00:49:41.31\00:49:48.48
ANOTHER THING IS IT'S IMPORTANT
TO UNDERSTAND THAT AS VIDEO
GAMES ARE AFFECTING ENTIRE
00:49:48.48\00:49:54.26
SOCIETIES LET'S LOOK AT ALL OF
THESE AVENUES AS HOW CAN WE
BETTER BETTER ESTABLISH A
00:49:54.26\00:49:58.89
PARAMETER FOR THE WAY THAT MEN
LOOK AT WOMEN AND THE WAY THAT
WOMEN INTERACT WITH MEN. >> IT
00:49:58.89\00:50:09.84
GOES BOTH WAYS. >> THANK YOU FOR
THIS PROGRAM. I HAVE A
2020-YEAR-OLD SON AND IT'S HIS
00:50:09.84\00:50:14.28
SECOND YEAR OF COLLEGE AND HE
DOES NOT WANT TO DO ANYTHING
UNTOWARD. HE IS CLUB PHOBIC.
00:50:14.28\00:50:23.25
HE IS ON ELECTRONICS OR SCHOOL
FOR HOMEWORK AND HER
ENTERTAINMENT LIKE MOVIES AND
00:50:23.25\00:50:27.69
VIDEO GAMES. HE DOES WORK AT
LEAST ONCE A WEEK I TRY TO SHARE
00:50:27.69\00:50:33.63
THIS KIND OF INFORMATION WITH
HIM. WE EVEN WATCHED SOME OF
YOUR DVDS ON MEDIA ON THE BRAIN.
00:50:33.63\00:50:41.60
HE IT'S THAT BAD EVEN THOUGH
I LET HIM KNOW I SEE HOW IT
00:50:41.60\00:50:50.91
CHANGES HIM. I AM PRAYING BUT
WHAT MORE CAN I DO? >> HE IS 20
AT HOME APPEARED TO
00:50:50.91\00:50:56.05
ASK A PASTOR WHAT DO YOU DO WITH
A GROWN YOUNG PERSON IN YOUR
HOME AND THAT YOU HAVE GOT
00:50:56.05\00:51:07.50
STANDARDS AND WHERE IS THE POINT
OF WANT TO HEAR APPEAR ACQUIRED
HIS CAREGIVING CROSS OVER INTO
00:51:07.50\00:51:13.44
ENABLING. >> I THINK IT AT THAT
POINT HE IS NO LONGER A CHILD
00:51:13.44\00:51:20.84
THAT IS IGNORANT OF WHAT HIS
FUTURE IS. THESE ARE THE MOMENT
WITH A HARD QUESTIONS COME IN.
00:51:20.84\00:51:28.45
THE PARENT HAS TO STEP UP AND
SAY I LIKE WHAT ONE PARENT DID
WHO SAID WHAT YOU WANT TO BE AND
00:51:28.45\00:51:34.46
HE SAID I WILL GIVE YOU ONE YEAR
TO FIND YOURSELF AND IF YOU
CAN'T FIND YOURSELF AFTER ONE
00:51:34.46\00:51:40.66
YEAR GET LOST PEER PARAMETERS
ARE NOT BEING ESTABLISHED IN
THIS YOUNG MAN'S LIFE.
00:51:40.66\00:51:46.80
IN SOME CASES I HOPE I AM
APPROACHING THIS THIS AS WELL AS
00:51:46.80\00:51:53.58
YOU DO. WE HAVE TO ASK THE YOUNG
MAN HOW DOES HE SEE HIS FUTURE
UNFOLDING AND IF HE DOESN'T SEE
00:51:53.58\00:52:04.59
HOW IT'S BAD JUST GO THROUGH IT
ALMOST IN A FORENSIC WAY. THIS
VIDEO, WHAT'S THE BENEFIT?
00:52:04.59\00:52:14.83
HOW IS IT MAKING A BETTER PERSON
SOME PEOPLE ARE LIKE ATOMIC
TOWNS THEY ARE AVATARS.
00:52:14.83\00:52:25.24
THE WORLD IS LIVING THROUGH THEM
AND THEY DON'T HAVE ANY PURPOSE
FOR EXISTING OTHER THAN GETTING
00:52:25.24\00:52:29.44
INVOLVED IN WHATEVER THE WORLD
PUT UNDER THE PLATE. SO SAY TO
00:52:29.44\00:52:36.62
THE YOUNG MAN THAT THIS IS WHAT
YOU WANT TO BE HERE ON THE RIGHT
ROAD AND IF THIS IS WHAT YOU
00:52:36.62\00:52:40.92
WANT TO BE THE NEED TO GET UP
THAT ROAD QUICKLY. BECAUSE AT 20
YEARS OLD IF HE BECOMES A FATHER
00:52:40.92\00:52:46.83
HE WILL CONVEY THESE PRINCIPLES
TO A SON OR DAUGHTER. >> WHO IS
PLAYING THE ELECTRIC
00:52:46.83\00:52:55.37
BILL? ENABLING AN ADDICTION AND
THAT'S A TOUGH QUESTION FOR A TO
00:52:55.37\00:52:59.51
CONFRONT. I HAVE SEEN
MOTHER STRUGGLE WITH THIS.
00:52:59.51\00:53:05.25
IT'S NOT JUST BLAME THE MOTHER
HE IS MAKING THESE CHOICES AND
YOU CAN LAY DOWN EXPECTATIONS AT
00:53:05.25\00:53:09.28
THAT AGE. >> WE HAVE ABOUT
THREE MINUTES LEFT AND THIS IS A
00:53:09.28\00:53:17.06
PERFECT WIND UP. HOW CAN YOU
BREAK THROUGH TO THE TEENAGER
WHO BECOMES SECLUDED
00:53:17.06\00:53:21.63
AND ENDS AT SCHOOL AND STAYS
LOCKED IN THEIR ROOM ON THERE
00:53:21.63\00:53:31.27
DEVICES? >> THAT IS SAD. YOU
PRESENCE AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP
00:53:31.27\00:53:41.82
IS CRITICAL. YOU CAN PROHIBIT
THAT. YOU COULD COME IN AND DROP
THE HAMMER AND SAY THIS IS NOT
00:53:41.82\00:53:46.82
ALLOWED ANYMORE AND I WILL TAKE
ANOTHER HAMMER AND SMASH THAT
DEVISE A MOM WHO DID HIS MASTER
00:53:46.82\00:53:51.46
THING IN THE GARBAGE CAN. THAT'S
ONE APPROACH WHICH IS BETTER
THAN NOTHING BUT CAN WE
00:53:51.46\00:53:58.60
GO DEEP INTO THEIR HEARTS AND
TALK TO THEM AND LISTEN TO THEM
AND LISTENING SOMETIMES TAKES
00:53:58.60\00:54:05.87
DAYS BEFORE THEY WILL OPEN UP.
>> REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY IS ANOTHER
00:54:05.87\00:54:12.65
ONE. >> WHEN DINNER COMES LOCK
YOURSELF IN THE ROOM THERE IS NO
DINNER TONIGHT AND NOT COMING
00:54:12.65\00:54:17.25
OUT. I'M IN MY ROOM I AM NOT
COMING OUT TO WASH HER CLOTHES.
00:54:17.25\00:54:22.86
THEN THEY WILL ASK WHY YOU ARE
LUCKY OR SUBURBAN JUST DOING TO
LOOK AT THE REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY
00:54:22.86\00:54:26.93
WILL WHY IS IT YOU LUCK IN YOUR
SELF IN THE OKAY AND I CAN'T
LOCK MYSELF IN THE ROOM.
00:54:26.93\00:54:34.87
THERE WAS A COMMERCIAL ACTUALLY
IT WAS A COMMERCIAL ON HOW
PARENTS NEED TO REGAIN CONTROL
00:54:34.87\00:54:41.74
OF THEIR HOUSE AND SO THEY HAD A
TEENAGER THAT LOCK THE DOOR AND
THE MOTHER DID IT BECAUSE THE
00:54:41.74\00:54:47.08
FATHER DID NOT WANT TO GET THE
KID UPSET AND SO THE MOTHER TOOK
THE THE DOOR OFF AND SAID THIS
00:54:47.08\00:54:56.09
IS MY HOUSE AND THAT'S MY DOOR
AND THERE WILL BE NO LOCKED
DOORS IN THIS HOUSE FROM THIS
00:54:56.09\00:55:01.16
MOMENT ON. >> YOUNG PEOPLE
OUGHT TO BE COOKING MEALS AND BE
00:55:01.16\00:55:07.60
RESPONSIBLE FOR THINGS IT IF
THEY ARE NOT PREPARING MEALS AND
THEY ARE NOT EATING EITHER AND
00:55:07.60\00:55:12.44
SO WHEN THEY ARE AT THAT AGE
THEY NEED TO BE A CONTRIBUTING
LEVEL. FRANKLY AT ANY AGE.
00:55:12.44\00:55:16.85
THEY SHOULD ALWAYS BE
CONTRIBUTING ACCORDING TO THEIR
ABILITY BECAUSE IF THEY FEEL
00:55:16.85\00:55:21.72
LIKE THEY ARE A WELFARE CASE IN
THE HOME AND THEY WILL BE
ENABLED INTO LIVING IN A
00:55:21.72\00:55:27.16
SEDENTARY WAY AND DEPENDENT UPON
PARENTAL ALLOWANCE AND PARENTAL
LIKE THEY ARE GOING TO BE
00:55:27.16\00:55:35.86
WEAKLINGS. FROM A
PRACTICAL LEVEL QUITE FLABBY.
00:55:35.86\00:55:42.60
>> AND I THINK WE HAVE SPOKEN
WITH THE PRINCIPAL AND WE HAVE
BEEN SPEAKING THIS EVENING ABOUT
00:55:42.60\00:55:47.61
PRINCIPALS AND DIFFERENT AVENUES
AND I KNOW WE WILL GIVE YOU THE
ADDRESS ROLE RIGHT NOW BECAUSE
00:55:47.61\00:55:51.51
SCOTT WANTS YOU TO HAVE THAT. IT
IS THE BELT OF TRUTH. BELT OF
TRUTH MINISTRIES .ORG.
00:55:51.51\00:56:01.29
IT IS EXACTLY AS IT STANDS BELT
OF TRUTH MINISTRIES ON THE
BOTTOM OF THE SCREEN.
00:56:01.29\00:56:06.49
YOU CAN GO TO THAT WEBSITE AND
THE THINGS THAT WE TALKED ABOUT
TONIGHT YOU WILL HAVE ACCESS TO
00:56:06.49\00:56:12.23
THE INFORMATION ON WAYS THAT
CAN BE A DEVELOPMENT TO YOUR
00:56:12.23\00:56:18.67
CHILDREN'S LIFE. PARENTING,
DIGITAL DISCONNECT, COMMITTEE ON
THE BRAIN, THE TALE OF TWO
00:56:18.67\00:56:23.68
MOUNTAINS, ALL OF THOSE THINGS
WILL BE THERE. SCOTT, THANK YOU
FOR COMING TONIGHT AND TALKING
00:56:23.68\00:56:30.42
TO THE AUDIENCE AND THANK YOU
FOR YOUR OPENNESS AND YOUR
CANDOR ABOUT WHERE YOU CAN GET
00:56:30.42\00:56:34.52
THIS ADVICE AND WHERE YOU ARE
STILL DEVELOPING. REMEMBER THIS
00:56:34.52\00:56:38.03
PASSAGE DO NOT BE CONFORMED TO
THE WORLD BUT BE TRANSFORMED BY
THE RENEWING OF YOUR MIND SO YOU
00:56:38.03\00:56:43.00
MAY PROVE WHAT IS GOOD AND
ACCEPTABLE AND PERFECT WILL OF
GOD. >> THIS IS ALL ABOUT JESUS
00:56:43.00\00:56:50.37
PEER A RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM.
REACH OUT TO US WE WILL GIVE YOU
THE FREE HIGHLIGHTS VIDEO AND
00:56:50.37\00:56:58.48
MAILING THE BOOK AND IT WILL
DRAW US CLOSER TO JESUS. >> WE
PRAY WE HAVE BEEN A
00:56:58.48\00:57:03.95
BLESSING TONIGHT UNTIL WE SEE
YOU AGAIN MAY THE LORD TO BLESS
00:57:03.95\00:57:08.66
YOU. THANK YOU
FOR JOINING US. HIM
00:57:08.66\00:57:32.58