I want to spend my life 00:00:02.20\00:00:08.17 Mending broken people 00:00:08.20\00:00:13.11 I want to spend my life 00:00:13.14\00:00:19.08 Removing pain 00:00:19.11\00:00:24.32 Lord, Let my words 00:00:24.35\00:00:30.63 Heal a heart that hurts 00:00:30.66\00:00:35.23 I want to spend my life 00:00:35.26\00:00:40.84 Mending broken people 00:00:40.87\00:00:46.41 I want to spend my life 00:00:46.44\00:00:52.01 Mending broken people 00:00:52.05\00:00:56.32 Hello, friends, and welcome to Friday Night Family Worship, 00:01:09.46\00:01:13.03 and the first one for 2022. 00:01:13.07\00:01:16.20 Wow. Can you imagine, Honey, we're in the New Year? 00:01:16.24\00:01:18.24 I'm excited 00:01:18.27\00:01:19.61 because it's bringing us one year closer to seeing our Lord. 00:01:19.64\00:01:23.38 That's right, and also happy Sabbath. 00:01:23.41\00:01:25.98 This is a time that we look forward to come into your home 00:01:26.01\00:01:29.38 in a casual but spiritual way. 00:01:29.42\00:01:31.52 And we're going to be talking about new beginnings 00:01:31.55\00:01:33.29 'cause right now people are talking about, 00:01:33.32\00:01:35.06 I think, discussing and thinking about 00:01:35.09\00:01:36.76 what to do differently for the New Year. 00:01:36.79\00:01:38.73 I know. 00:01:38.76\00:01:40.10 People are exercising, they're in the gym, 00:01:40.13\00:01:42.53 trying to lose weight and but you know what? 00:01:42.56\00:01:45.40 New beginnings are not just for the young. 00:01:45.43\00:01:47.54 It's for the old, it's for everyone. 00:01:47.57\00:01:49.90 Every day above the ground is a good day. 00:01:49.94\00:01:53.17 I like that. Amen. 00:01:53.21\00:01:54.54 If you can wake up in the morning, 00:01:54.58\00:01:56.44 and get a chance to take a new breath, that's a new beginning. 00:01:56.48\00:01:59.11 Amen. Wow. 00:01:59.15\00:02:00.48 Well, who do we have on our panel today? 00:02:00.52\00:02:01.85 Oh, I'm so excited about our panel. 00:02:01.88\00:02:03.75 We have Jasmine Carter, 00:02:03.79\00:02:06.79 and it's her first time being on our family worship. 00:02:06.82\00:02:10.29 Welcome, Jasmine. Thank you. 00:02:10.33\00:02:11.86 I'm excited to be here. 00:02:11.89\00:02:13.23 I'm not a part, I don't work at 3ABN, 00:02:13.26\00:02:15.23 but I'm a part of the family. 00:02:15.26\00:02:16.90 I'm a residential mortgage underwriter 00:02:16.93\00:02:19.57 and from the beautiful island of Jamaica. 00:02:19.60\00:02:22.07 I've been married 00:02:22.10\00:02:24.87 to this wonderful man for 18 years. 00:02:24.91\00:02:26.98 Oh, for 18 years. Amen. 00:02:27.01\00:02:31.31 And you are our neighbors. 00:02:31.35\00:02:33.95 You live across the street from us. 00:02:33.98\00:02:36.08 And when she said she's Jamaican, 00:02:36.12\00:02:38.22 my family is Jamaican also. 00:02:38.25\00:02:40.22 So hello, Jamaica. 00:02:40.26\00:02:43.43 And next to you is Ricky Carter, 00:02:43.46\00:02:46.33 your husband, who's half Jamaican, right? 00:02:46.36\00:02:48.76 Yes. 00:02:48.80\00:02:50.13 My father is Jamaican, my mom is Cuban, 00:02:50.17\00:02:52.63 and I work here at 3ABN. 00:02:52.67\00:02:54.60 I work for the Dare to Dream Channel. 00:02:54.64\00:02:56.67 I mostly do video editing 00:02:56.71\00:02:58.44 and I do a lot of computer animation 00:02:58.47\00:03:00.58 for the channel as well. 00:03:00.61\00:03:01.94 Oh, well, welcome. 00:03:01.98\00:03:03.38 Good to have you. Happy Sabbath. 00:03:03.41\00:03:04.75 That's right. Happy Sabbath. 00:03:04.78\00:03:06.11 That's right. 00:03:06.15\00:03:07.48 And across the table from me is Janelle Owen. 00:03:07.52\00:03:10.32 Welcome, Janelle. Thank you. 00:03:10.35\00:03:11.85 Thank you for having me. Tell us what you do? 00:03:11.89\00:03:13.72 I'm in the Publishing Department. Okay. 00:03:13.76\00:03:16.62 And I work on a lot of different things, 00:03:16.66\00:03:18.69 print and web, 00:03:18.73\00:03:20.06 I guess you could summarize it and say print and web. 00:03:20.10\00:03:22.63 And the main thing I work on is the World Magazine. 00:03:22.66\00:03:25.43 But there's so many projects 00:03:25.47\00:03:27.04 that come through our department 00:03:27.07\00:03:28.40 that I can't even think of all the different things, 00:03:28.44\00:03:32.37 but it's a blessing to use what God's given me there... 00:03:32.41\00:03:36.28 You are a busy woman. 00:03:36.31\00:03:37.65 You have deadlines and all of that. 00:03:37.68\00:03:39.01 Yes, deadlines. We live by deadlines. 00:03:39.05\00:03:40.38 Unfortunately, that's just part of it. 00:03:40.42\00:03:42.35 It's good to have somebody that knows 00:03:42.38\00:03:43.72 how to use the right text and fonts. 00:03:43.75\00:03:45.72 Yeah. 00:03:45.75\00:03:47.09 That's make all the difference when I look at print. 00:03:47.12\00:03:48.69 You do a great job. Praise the Lord. Thank you. 00:03:48.72\00:03:51.09 And you're also, you and your husband, 00:03:51.13\00:03:53.03 this is Donald Owen, 00:03:53.06\00:03:55.93 and you work in Pastoral Department? 00:03:55.96\00:03:57.70 Yeah, I'm just very, how can we say this, 00:03:57.73\00:03:59.60 very humbled that God would choose me 00:03:59.63\00:04:02.70 to be able to pray with people on the phone. 00:04:02.74\00:04:04.71 It's incredible and the stories you get to hear 00:04:04.74\00:04:06.51 and just the brokenness, 00:04:06.54\00:04:08.08 but to encourage folks to the Word, 00:04:08.11\00:04:09.78 that's what really speaks to me a lot. 00:04:09.81\00:04:11.58 So I've been very blessed, 00:04:11.61\00:04:13.11 and I'm just so thankful to be invited 00:04:13.15\00:04:14.78 and to be on this group today, this panel. 00:04:14.82\00:04:16.79 And the good thing is, 00:04:16.82\00:04:18.65 everyone here is busy at church. 00:04:18.69\00:04:20.62 That's right. 00:04:20.66\00:04:21.99 Everybody on this panel has something to do at church 00:04:22.02\00:04:23.83 and does an amazing job too. 00:04:23.86\00:04:25.66 Personal ministries... 00:04:25.69\00:04:27.03 Personal ministries and all different facets. 00:04:27.06\00:04:29.26 But there's something we need to say to our viewing 00:04:29.30\00:04:30.97 and our listening audience. 00:04:31.00\00:04:32.33 Oh, yeah. Let me just count to three, one, two, three... 00:04:32.37\00:04:34.47 There we go. Happy New Year. 00:04:34.50\00:04:37.91 Happy 2022. Wow! 00:04:37.94\00:04:40.14 When I was growing up, I used, you know, 00:04:40.18\00:04:42.08 in high school in New York or in elementary school, 00:04:42.11\00:04:44.05 there was a spatial came out space isle, 00:04:44.08\00:04:47.32 you know, 2001 Space Odyssey And I thought, 00:04:47.35\00:04:50.99 "Man, I wanna be in heaven way before that." 00:04:51.02\00:04:53.99 Here we are 21 years past 2001, 00:04:54.02\00:04:58.56 it is just hard to wrap our head around that. 00:04:58.59\00:05:01.46 I was listening to somebody just the other day 00:05:01.50\00:05:03.06 and one of our teachers at our school actually, 00:05:03.10\00:05:06.13 she said, "That was in the olden days 00:05:06.17\00:05:07.87 that was in the '90s." 00:05:07.90\00:05:09.24 And I thought, "What? 00:05:09.27\00:05:11.34 The olden days, the '90s..." It's just the other day. 00:05:11.37\00:05:14.71 That was just the other day as far as I'm concerned. 00:05:14.74\00:05:17.78 Imagine to the Lord a day is a year. 00:05:17.81\00:05:20.32 Yeah. 00:05:20.35\00:05:21.68 Oh, man, I tell you, time doesn't matter. 00:05:21.72\00:05:23.05 But we have a great program that we want to go ahead 00:05:23.08\00:05:25.59 and dive into. 00:05:25.62\00:05:26.96 Once again, it's new beginnings. 00:05:26.99\00:05:29.22 So while you're planning your new beginnings, 00:05:29.26\00:05:31.76 pause for a moment and begin to look at it 00:05:31.79\00:05:34.20 from a scriptural perspective. 00:05:34.23\00:05:35.56 Honey, would you begin with prayer? 00:05:35.60\00:05:37.20 Let's bow our heads. 00:05:37.23\00:05:39.80 Our precious Gracious Heavenly Father, 00:05:39.83\00:05:41.77 we come to You in the name of Jesus 00:05:41.80\00:05:43.54 giving You all praise, 00:05:43.57\00:05:44.91 honor and glory for You are worthy. 00:05:44.94\00:05:47.71 Lord, it's a new year, new beginnings for so many. 00:05:47.74\00:05:51.18 And, Father, every day is a new beginning. 00:05:51.21\00:05:54.22 We don't have to wait till January 1 to start. 00:05:54.25\00:05:58.09 Every day when You give us life, 00:05:58.12\00:06:00.26 health and strength, we can open our eyes and say, 00:06:00.29\00:06:03.16 "Lord, we dedicate our hearts to You." 00:06:03.19\00:06:05.63 And right now we do that. 00:06:05.66\00:06:07.00 We ask that You'll guide in this family worship, 00:06:07.03\00:06:09.86 give us wisdom, we ask that Your Holy Spirit 00:06:09.90\00:06:11.90 will abide in our hearts and minds in Jesus' name. 00:06:11.93\00:06:15.14 Amen. Amen. 00:06:15.17\00:06:16.60 Amen. 00:06:16.64\00:06:18.11 You know, let's talk about what we just came out of, 00:06:18.14\00:06:20.61 the Christmas season. 00:06:20.64\00:06:23.04 I just, you know, that I think differently. 00:06:23.08\00:06:25.55 And I thought rather than just the amount of money 00:06:25.58\00:06:27.78 spent on gifts, 00:06:27.82\00:06:29.48 how much wrapping paper was just throwing away? 00:06:29.52\00:06:32.85 Tons, thousands of tons. 00:06:32.89\00:06:34.79 And they look so pretty. 00:06:34.82\00:06:36.16 They look so pretty. 00:06:36.19\00:06:38.79 How long does it last? Few seconds burst. 00:06:38.83\00:06:41.13 Well, any kid I guess, but you know how it is. 00:06:41.16\00:06:42.86 You just rip them off... 00:06:42.90\00:06:44.23 If you get a gift bag you can recycle though. 00:06:44.27\00:06:45.60 Yeah. I'll do that. 00:06:45.63\00:06:47.97 And I've done that. 00:06:48.00\00:06:49.90 I still do it. I know it. 00:06:49.94\00:06:51.57 Listen, when we get stuff in gift bags and she say, 00:06:51.61\00:06:54.18 keep, don't throw it away. 00:06:54.21\00:06:55.54 Yeah. 00:06:55.58\00:06:57.85 But rip wrapping paper, I know growing up 00:06:57.88\00:06:59.61 and we go to the Christmas season. 00:06:59.65\00:07:02.48 There are those families that are OCD, 00:07:02.52\00:07:03.89 just take the tape off, it was like kids rip it open. 00:07:03.92\00:07:08.42 Yeah. 00:07:08.46\00:07:09.79 And here we took all that time that five minutes 00:07:09.82\00:07:11.16 they spit open and it was destroyed 00:07:11.19\00:07:12.53 in three seconds. 00:07:12.56\00:07:13.90 Yeah. My mother would say, "Fold it back up. 00:07:13.93\00:07:17.77 Put it away." 00:07:17.80\00:07:19.13 You know Jamaican accent, "Put it away." 00:07:19.17\00:07:21.87 And you see that wrapping paper 00:07:21.90\00:07:23.24 like on three separate occasions. 00:07:23.27\00:07:26.04 Oh, dear. 00:07:26.07\00:07:27.48 But the funny thing about that is we all go through 00:07:27.51\00:07:30.58 new cycles in our lives. 00:07:30.61\00:07:32.08 So let's talk about some of the things that are new, 00:07:32.11\00:07:34.68 not only just gifts, but some of the things 00:07:34.72\00:07:36.52 that people like that are often bring joy 00:07:36.55\00:07:39.25 and sparks to our lives that are new. 00:07:39.29\00:07:41.39 What are some of those things that come to mind 00:07:41.42\00:07:42.76 that people like to get excited about? 00:07:42.79\00:07:44.83 I want to new what? 00:07:44.86\00:07:46.46 Think about it. I think about food. 00:07:46.49\00:07:49.70 And for me, being an artist, I love... 00:07:49.73\00:07:53.67 And a chef. And a chef. 00:07:53.70\00:07:55.97 I love creating a new recipe. 00:07:56.00\00:07:58.47 So I get excited about if I'm thinking about, 00:07:58.51\00:08:02.01 "Oh, have had potatoes yesterday. 00:08:02.04\00:08:03.48 Oh, how can I make it new and different?" 00:08:03.51\00:08:07.28 So I'll find a little recipe for that 00:08:07.32\00:08:10.29 and make a little new curry potato 00:08:10.32\00:08:13.02 or some new flavor for the potatoes, 00:08:13.05\00:08:15.36 but that's what I'm gonna do. 00:08:15.39\00:08:16.73 Okay, new food. 00:08:16.76\00:08:18.09 I get excited about new books and new goals as well. 00:08:18.13\00:08:21.03 I like that. Yes. 00:08:21.06\00:08:22.60 You're goal oriented. That's right. 00:08:22.63\00:08:24.83 I like to do the same thing. 00:08:24.87\00:08:26.20 Every year, I challenge myself and my wife knows this. 00:08:26.23\00:08:27.97 I try to say, "What don't I know yet? 00:08:28.00\00:08:30.71 "And Janelle just to kind of appeal 00:08:30.74\00:08:32.07 to that's how I learned to do websites and... 00:08:32.11\00:08:34.18 Oh, yeah. He's always learning something new. 00:08:34.21\00:08:36.71 He says, "Angie, your mind can't be stagnant." 00:08:36.75\00:08:38.85 Right And he's always telling me to read more, 00:08:38.88\00:08:41.42 and I need to listen more. 00:08:41.45\00:08:42.98 That's true. 00:08:43.02\00:08:44.35 Yeah, do that for the New Year, a little more. 00:08:44.39\00:08:46.96 Wait a minute, you guys didn't hear that. 00:08:46.99\00:08:50.73 But, so what about you guys? 00:08:50.76\00:08:52.83 Well, I mean, it's not like, I guess anything tangible, 00:08:52.86\00:08:56.36 but just like, you know, in the New Year, 00:08:56.40\00:08:58.53 it's kind of clich, I guess, that everyone wants to exercise 00:08:58.57\00:09:01.17 and whether or not we stick with those goals, 00:09:01.20\00:09:03.10 it's you know, not always that doesn't always happen. 00:09:03.14\00:09:05.61 But I like finding new exercises because, 00:09:05.64\00:09:08.38 you know, like you're talking about challenging your mind. 00:09:08.41\00:09:10.41 It's good to challenge your body too, 00:09:10.45\00:09:11.78 because we do the same exercises all the time, 00:09:11.81\00:09:14.05 your muscles get used to it. 00:09:14.08\00:09:15.58 So just to challenge physically, 00:09:15.62\00:09:18.52 you know, new exercises. 00:09:18.55\00:09:19.89 Is that what they mean by muscle memory? 00:09:19.92\00:09:22.12 Probably, yeah. 00:09:22.16\00:09:23.49 Kind of get you. Yeah, they say confuse your muscles. 00:09:23.53\00:09:25.76 Yeah. Yeah. 00:09:25.79\00:09:27.13 I didn't think about that. 00:09:27.16\00:09:28.50 Maybe there's still help for me to look like Mr. Universe. 00:09:28.53\00:09:31.43 I love you just the way you are. 00:09:31.47\00:09:33.03 It's okay. 00:09:33.07\00:09:34.40 I love you just the way you are too. 00:09:34.44\00:09:35.77 It's all right. Just maintain that cuteness. 00:09:35.80\00:09:37.67 Okay, now. 00:09:37.71\00:09:39.27 Let's stop it. Donald? 00:09:39.31\00:09:40.64 I think for me, I'm a person and when I was young, 00:09:40.68\00:09:43.21 I never made relationships very well. 00:09:43.24\00:09:45.48 So I think for me, it's new relationships. 00:09:45.51\00:09:47.25 And the second thing is new ways to get the gospel out. 00:09:47.28\00:09:50.05 Amen. 00:09:50.09\00:09:51.42 I love to find new ways to get the gospel out. 00:09:51.45\00:09:52.85 Just incredible, God will open up doors 00:09:52.89\00:09:54.62 and just, watch what He does. 00:09:54.66\00:09:56.42 You're the tract guy. You always have a tract. 00:09:56.46\00:09:57.79 Oh, yeah, we have fun. You're always ready. 00:09:57.83\00:09:59.36 We have some new tracts we just got in a while back. 00:09:59.39\00:10:01.70 It was really neat, Black Friday tracts we had last year. 00:10:01.73\00:10:04.03 People like, "Oh." 00:10:04.07\00:10:05.40 They get excited, 'cause they think 00:10:05.43\00:10:06.77 we're giving them a coupon. 00:10:06.80\00:10:08.14 Right. Tracts of salvation, full tracts of salvation. 00:10:08.17\00:10:09.50 Oh, you have tracts of salvation. 00:10:09.54\00:10:10.94 I love it. 00:10:10.97\00:10:13.44 You think of these tracts, this is Black Friday 00:10:13.48\00:10:15.41 and it's about salvation. 00:10:15.44\00:10:17.58 You know what's nice about that it's a gift 00:10:17.61\00:10:19.18 that never stops giving. 00:10:19.21\00:10:20.55 Right. 00:10:20.58\00:10:21.92 Salvation is not like something that happens once a year 00:10:21.95\00:10:23.79 at a discount price. 00:10:23.82\00:10:25.22 It's free every day. Right. 00:10:25.25\00:10:26.59 Praise God. 00:10:26.62\00:10:27.96 He paid for it, but it's not free for Him, 00:10:27.99\00:10:29.56 but it's free through Jesus. 00:10:29.59\00:10:31.69 So let's talk about what we can find in Christ that's new. 00:10:31.73\00:10:37.07 I'd like to begin with one of my favorite passages. 00:10:37.10\00:10:39.03 And I'll start with Donald, you know, 2 Corinthians 5:17. 00:10:39.07\00:10:43.20 We'd like to think of new things. 00:10:43.24\00:10:45.67 But the one thing that I believe is an every day, 00:10:45.71\00:10:50.05 every moment opportunity 00:10:50.08\00:10:52.31 is what the Lord wants to do in your life. 00:10:52.35\00:10:55.18 Now, you might be sitting there with a new gadget, 00:10:55.22\00:10:57.65 trying to figure out how to turn the volume up 00:10:57.69\00:11:00.29 or you maybe have your new phone isolated, 00:11:00.32\00:11:03.73 so nobody could knock it over or you might be looking 00:11:03.76\00:11:06.53 through a new television. 00:11:06.56\00:11:07.90 But look at this passage with new eyes 00:11:07.93\00:11:10.53 if you've not seen it before. 00:11:10.57\00:11:12.23 2 Corinthians 5:17, Donald? 00:11:12.27\00:11:14.14 Sure, no, I wanna actually share 15, 00:11:14.17\00:11:15.84 you all go back there when we're done. 00:11:15.87\00:11:17.21 Sure. 00:11:17.24\00:11:18.57 Seventeen says, "Therefore, if any man be in Christ, 00:11:18.61\00:11:21.78 he is a new creature, old things are passed away. 00:11:21.81\00:11:25.78 They're done away with. 00:11:25.81\00:11:27.15 Behold, all things are become new." Wow. 00:11:27.18\00:11:31.39 And I think that verse 15, and I was reading this, 00:11:31.42\00:11:33.66 I kind of backtrack a little bit. Sure. 00:11:33.69\00:11:35.56 And I thought about this, it says in verse 15, 00:11:35.59\00:11:37.33 that He died for all, obviously, we know it's Jesus, 00:11:37.36\00:11:40.70 "That He died for all that they which live 00:11:40.73\00:11:42.90 should not henceforth live unto themselves, 00:11:42.93\00:11:45.93 but unto Him, again, being Jesus, 00:11:45.97\00:11:47.77 which died for them and rose again." 00:11:47.80\00:11:49.44 So that new life should be really, 00:11:49.47\00:11:51.61 as it says here should be living for Him. 00:11:51.64\00:11:53.68 That's right. Amen. 00:11:53.71\00:11:55.04 I think that's really powerful mission 00:11:55.08\00:11:56.41 A new life living for Him, 00:11:56.44\00:11:57.78 but the new life also living in Him, 00:11:57.81\00:12:00.25 if anyone is in Christ. 00:12:00.28\00:12:02.35 So when we consider the New Year, 00:12:02.38\00:12:03.99 what does it mean, in the context of 2022, 00:12:04.02\00:12:07.16 all things new? 00:12:07.19\00:12:08.56 Let's just talk about that for a moment. 00:12:08.59\00:12:09.92 Yeah, what I think about is that we should strive 00:12:09.96\00:12:13.66 to no longer live life, 00:12:13.70\00:12:17.20 live a sinful life, 00:12:17.23\00:12:19.77 we should strive to, by God's grace, 00:12:19.80\00:12:23.81 live lives that are rooted in Christ. 00:12:23.84\00:12:28.84 Christ lives. 00:12:28.88\00:12:30.65 If He's living out His life within me, 00:12:30.68\00:12:33.88 He can cause me to walk in newness of life 00:12:33.92\00:12:38.25 and causing me to reflect 00:12:38.29\00:12:41.89 on a daily basis more on Him. 00:12:41.92\00:12:44.23 So, that's what I'm thinking about for, 00:12:44.26\00:12:46.90 to answering your question. 00:12:46.93\00:12:48.26 Okay. Jasmine? 00:12:48.30\00:12:49.63 I feel that if we surrender our lives to Jesus, 00:12:49.66\00:12:52.00 the reality we can find in Him is 00:12:52.03\00:12:53.74 that we can have victory over habits that no longer serve us. 00:12:53.77\00:12:58.44 For example, most people make resolutions 00:12:58.47\00:13:00.41 to start eating healthier, 00:13:00.44\00:13:01.81 to exercise at the beginning of the year. 00:13:01.84\00:13:03.91 How long does it last? 00:13:03.95\00:13:05.28 Most people fail, a very high percentage. 00:13:05.31\00:13:07.75 By February, I think it's 96%. 00:13:07.78\00:13:11.29 And it's because we are depending on our own selves, 00:13:11.32\00:13:14.19 we have to rely on God. 00:13:14.22\00:13:15.56 Amen. Yeah. 00:13:15.59\00:13:16.93 That is so true. 00:13:16.96\00:13:18.29 In the advertising companies, they start pumping that brake, 00:13:18.33\00:13:21.96 the gas pedal from November, December, 10% off, 25% off, 00:13:22.00\00:13:27.20 $1 a month until next month 1995. 00:13:27.24\00:13:30.84 And they really get you going and people start trying 00:13:30.87\00:13:33.44 to put their umpth into it when in fact human resolution 00:13:33.48\00:13:36.85 so often fail. 00:13:36.88\00:13:38.21 Yeah. 00:13:38.25\00:13:39.58 And they appeal to the mindset as well, 00:13:39.61\00:13:40.95 you know, the emotions get you... 00:13:40.98\00:13:42.58 And you find stuff in your email, 00:13:42.62\00:13:45.75 stuff in the mail just the manufacturers 00:13:45.79\00:13:48.29 in the retail department. 00:13:48.32\00:13:50.39 I've fallen for that, gotten treadmill, remember? 00:13:50.43\00:13:53.26 No payments, next year I'm paying for two years. 00:13:53.29\00:13:58.23 How long did I use it for? Have mercy. 00:13:58.27\00:14:00.67 Some people have the best gym in the world in their basement, 00:14:05.91\00:14:09.44 but has spider webs on it. 00:14:09.48\00:14:11.01 Right. Yeah. 00:14:11.05\00:14:12.51 Are you talking about me? 00:14:12.55\00:14:14.38 No. No, my gym? 00:14:14.42\00:14:16.05 Do you identify with that comment? 00:14:16.08\00:14:19.65 This is a fun family worship. It is. 00:14:19.69\00:14:22.12 You're revealing too much you guys. 00:14:22.16\00:14:23.63 I'm sure a lot of people can relate to that. 00:14:26.63\00:14:28.13 Oh, yeah. 00:14:28.16\00:14:29.50 You know, it's just life, they just happen and go. 00:14:29.53\00:14:31.30 You put your clothes on your treadmill. 00:14:31.33\00:14:35.04 You brush your spider webs off your barbell. 00:14:35.07\00:14:36.74 So you wonder, "When am I going to gain weight?" 00:14:36.77\00:14:39.37 And they are right in front of you. 00:14:39.41\00:14:41.01 And... But the Word of God is all. 00:14:41.04\00:14:43.45 But that's the past... New beginnings. 00:14:43.48\00:14:46.25 There you go. 00:14:46.28\00:14:48.12 The Word of God is what we need every day and prayer, right? 00:14:48.15\00:14:52.45 Communication. Oh, yes. 00:14:52.49\00:14:54.82 Think about that. 00:14:54.86\00:14:56.19 I like that verse that we read is a promise. 00:14:56.22\00:14:59.59 It says if anyone is in Christ, he's a new creation. 00:14:59.63\00:15:03.60 It's a promise. 00:15:03.63\00:15:05.13 You know, if we choose Him, if He's in us, 00:15:05.17\00:15:08.34 He will make us new. 00:15:08.37\00:15:09.70 We don't have to, I mean, there, of course, 00:15:09.74\00:15:11.21 there's always a, you know, something that we, 00:15:11.24\00:15:14.24 role that we play, but He's the one that 00:15:14.28\00:15:17.01 renews us and creates that new desire in us. 00:15:17.05\00:15:21.62 I wanna piggyback off of what you said. 00:15:21.65\00:15:23.22 And when you read that it's actually a marriage. 00:15:23.25\00:15:25.42 Yeah. 00:15:25.45\00:15:26.79 It's a marriage, it's a covenant between two people. 00:15:26.82\00:15:28.62 So it's beautiful. 00:15:28.66\00:15:29.99 You know, it's like that idea 00:15:30.03\00:15:31.36 that renewing our vows with each other. 00:15:31.39\00:15:32.99 Sometimes we get kind of complacent 00:15:33.03\00:15:34.53 and we just take each other for granted. 00:15:34.56\00:15:36.67 You know, we do that often. 00:15:36.70\00:15:38.03 It's like being excited and content with what you have. 00:15:38.07\00:15:42.47 There's a lot of people that want more and more, 00:15:42.50\00:15:44.24 something different, or something better, 00:15:44.27\00:15:45.84 what they think is better. 00:15:45.87\00:15:47.28 But really, you already have it right here. 00:15:47.31\00:15:48.81 It's next to you. Right. 00:15:48.84\00:15:50.21 I'm glad you brought that topic up 00:15:50.25\00:15:52.18 because we have three couples here. 00:15:52.21\00:15:53.65 Yeah. We're all married. 00:15:53.68\00:15:55.15 That's a very good approach 00:15:55.18\00:15:56.65 because you have to be in the right relationship 00:15:56.69\00:16:01.12 to experience the newness that comes in her heart every day. 00:16:01.16\00:16:04.56 I want to appreciate the new things in her life 00:16:04.59\00:16:07.13 and the new things in my life. 00:16:07.16\00:16:08.60 And I often ask her when she comes home from work, 00:16:08.63\00:16:12.63 "How was your day?" 00:16:12.67\00:16:14.00 You too. "And what was different for your day?" 00:16:14.04\00:16:16.44 And a lot of times I want to encourage couples, 00:16:16.47\00:16:19.31 you know, become interested in what your spouse does, 00:16:19.34\00:16:22.41 and your husband does. 00:16:22.44\00:16:23.95 'Cause sometimes some people think, well, 00:16:23.98\00:16:25.31 I don't have as many gifts as you have. 00:16:25.35\00:16:27.88 But that's why the Lord put us together. 00:16:27.92\00:16:31.25 He didn't want to put two people that are exactly alike, 00:16:31.29\00:16:33.56 because one of us will be unnecessary. 00:16:33.59\00:16:34.92 Right. It's true. 00:16:34.96\00:16:37.43 So, yeah, I appreciate that about my sweetheart. 00:16:37.46\00:16:40.30 And there're lot of things that are happening new in her life, 00:16:40.33\00:16:43.20 which I just get excited about. 00:16:43.23\00:16:44.57 Yeah. 00:16:44.60\00:16:45.93 And it's good as couples to love and appreciate each other. 00:16:45.97\00:16:48.27 You know, and you said it, 00:16:48.30\00:16:50.11 don't take each other for granted. 00:16:50.14\00:16:52.34 You know, so many people have lost their loved ones 00:16:52.37\00:16:54.84 last year, and it's a new year, 00:16:54.88\00:16:57.21 they don't have that spouse with them. 00:16:57.25\00:17:00.22 And it's so sad, there's a hole in their hearts. 00:17:00.25\00:17:03.28 And it's when you have the Lord, that's all you have. 00:17:03.32\00:17:07.22 You have to hold on till the resurrection, 00:17:07.26\00:17:09.92 because you will see that loved one again. 00:17:09.96\00:17:12.29 That's a promise. Amen. 00:17:12.33\00:17:13.86 That's a good point. 00:17:13.90\00:17:15.23 If we look at the 2 Isaiah 43:19, 00:17:15.26\00:17:18.83 you know, we talk about the past and light of the past. 00:17:18.87\00:17:21.70 But how can we look to the future with confidence? 00:17:21.74\00:17:25.84 Because right now we live in a world 00:17:25.87\00:17:27.21 that just is so unpredictable. 00:17:27.24\00:17:29.94 Let's not even talk about politics, 00:17:29.98\00:17:31.85 that's just a whole new ball of ground. 00:17:31.88\00:17:34.82 But the world is so different than it used to be. 00:17:34.85\00:17:37.09 And it's changing every day, 00:17:37.12\00:17:38.45 because that's the way the cycle of humanity. 00:17:38.49\00:17:40.99 Isaiah 43:19, how can we look to the future with confidence? 00:17:41.02\00:17:45.99 Go ahead, Janelle. Okay. 00:17:46.03\00:17:48.83 "Behold, I will do a new thing. 00:17:48.86\00:17:51.13 Now it shall spring forth, shall you not know it? 00:17:51.17\00:17:55.04 I will even make a road in the wilderness 00:17:55.07\00:17:56.97 and rivers in the desert." 00:17:57.01\00:17:59.87 I thought about those two roads, 00:17:59.91\00:18:01.58 those two phrases, a road in the wilderness. 00:18:01.61\00:18:04.48 Now the Lord is, I want you to listen to this. 00:18:04.51\00:18:06.21 He wants to do a new thing. 00:18:06.25\00:18:07.95 What do you think it means to make a road 00:18:07.98\00:18:10.02 in the wilderness and rivers in the desert? 00:18:10.05\00:18:13.89 Let's talk about those two words. 00:18:13.92\00:18:15.36 I think when I thought about that, 00:18:15.39\00:18:17.03 both these things are cutting through something. 00:18:17.06\00:18:19.89 They're cutting through like if you think 00:18:19.93\00:18:21.26 about the wilderness than the world we're in today, 00:18:21.30\00:18:23.06 and you mentioned as we talked about this last night, 00:18:23.10\00:18:25.53 it's just, there's so many things to boggle the mind, 00:18:25.57\00:18:27.40 talk about cell phones, TVs, all this distraction. 00:18:27.44\00:18:30.11 So it's like a wilderness, but God wants us 00:18:30.14\00:18:32.07 to be able to cut a road through that. 00:18:32.11\00:18:34.81 It's almost like a neurological type of response. 00:18:34.84\00:18:37.28 We've got, you know, like a neurological, 00:18:37.31\00:18:39.31 get so stimulated, 00:18:39.35\00:18:40.68 we're over stimulated with all these wilderness, 00:18:40.72\00:18:42.05 but God wants to get us kind of still with Him, 00:18:42.08\00:18:45.22 so we can hear Him. 00:18:45.25\00:18:46.65 I think that same with the river. 00:18:46.69\00:18:48.16 Rivers bend and cut, some are, you know, they're new, 00:18:48.19\00:18:50.69 and they're little, they kind of move, 00:18:50.73\00:18:52.06 but if they get older, they start really cutting 00:18:52.09\00:18:53.53 through your deepness. 00:18:53.56\00:18:54.90 I could see a imagery of cutting through 00:18:54.93\00:18:56.30 and God wants it to cut through to get to us. 00:18:56.33\00:18:57.83 Okay. In the wilderness too, I was... 00:18:57.87\00:19:00.57 I looked up the definition of wilderness 00:19:00.60\00:19:02.57 and it talks about how it goes into an area 00:19:02.60\00:19:05.54 that's uninhabited and wilderness, 00:19:05.57\00:19:09.74 you know, like we were talking about, 00:19:09.78\00:19:11.11 like, how wilderness like what I picture to look like 00:19:11.15\00:19:14.95 would be something like you don't even know where to start, 00:19:14.98\00:19:17.39 like where to go in because everything's like 00:19:17.42\00:19:19.59 so overgrown, or there's just like stuff everywhere. 00:19:19.62\00:19:22.59 But God just like He makes the path, 00:19:22.62\00:19:24.99 the road and He just smoothes it out 00:19:25.03\00:19:28.70 and gets everything out of the way. 00:19:28.73\00:19:30.37 And like Don's talking about these, like in our brains, 00:19:30.40\00:19:33.34 you know, the neuro pathways 00:19:33.37\00:19:35.84 that over the years that you know, 00:19:35.87\00:19:37.44 become cut into there 00:19:37.47\00:19:38.94 and they just become like our habits, 00:19:38.97\00:19:41.08 you know, but God makes those new roads 00:19:41.11\00:19:43.71 and it's just an awesome thing. 00:19:43.75\00:19:45.21 Amen. Yeah. 00:19:45.25\00:19:46.58 Okay. What do you think about that? 00:19:46.61\00:19:47.95 Beautiful. Let's keep bouncing that around. 00:19:47.98\00:19:49.35 Go ahead. 00:19:49.38\00:19:50.72 When I think of a road in the wilderness, 00:19:50.75\00:19:52.99 what song comes to mind? 00:19:53.02\00:19:54.49 God will make a way when there seems to be no way. 00:19:54.52\00:19:57.13 That's right. 00:19:57.16\00:19:58.69 He works in ways we cannot see, He will make a way for me. Yes. 00:19:58.73\00:20:02.40 So God will create amazing opportunities for us. 00:20:02.43\00:20:05.07 And I recall when we were moving here, 00:20:05.10\00:20:07.67 and we had to leave our home because we hadn't sold it yet, 00:20:07.70\00:20:11.34 I was concerned about it, 00:20:11.37\00:20:12.74 you know, someone breaking in because we were like, 00:20:12.77\00:20:14.68 the house is nestled among trees far off the road, 00:20:14.71\00:20:18.61 perfect place for someone to break in. 00:20:18.65\00:20:21.28 And then later we got an offer, 00:20:21.32\00:20:23.79 we had a closing scheduled on a house there, 00:20:23.82\00:20:26.86 and we were going to purchase one simultaneously here, 00:20:26.89\00:20:30.03 closing fell through a week before. 00:20:30.06\00:20:32.69 And I'm thinking, "Okay, there's no way we can, 00:20:32.73\00:20:34.70 you know, just can't own two homes at the same time." 00:20:34.73\00:20:37.73 But then God made a way. 00:20:37.77\00:20:40.34 He came through in a miraculous way. 00:20:40.37\00:20:41.70 And we were able to close on our home here. 00:20:41.74\00:20:44.41 And then later, maybe a month or so later, 00:20:44.44\00:20:46.91 we sold our home in Michigan, 00:20:46.94\00:20:48.54 and it was so much better than the first offer. 00:20:48.58\00:20:51.15 Wow. 00:20:51.18\00:20:52.51 So we just got to trust God, 00:20:52.55\00:20:54.38 and know that He will create opportunities for us, 00:20:54.42\00:20:56.52 He will do what's best for us. 00:20:56.55\00:20:57.89 We may not see it now, but later we will. 00:20:57.92\00:21:00.19 Or maybe sometimes when we get to heaven, 00:21:00.22\00:21:02.52 we'll see what that was all about. 00:21:02.56\00:21:05.09 My mother used to say every disappointment 00:21:05.13\00:21:06.46 is God's appointment. 00:21:06.49\00:21:07.96 You seem disappointed, but like you said, the Lord made a way. 00:21:08.00\00:21:11.70 Yes. And what about rivers in the desert? 00:21:11.73\00:21:16.44 What does that mean? 00:21:16.47\00:21:18.11 Okay, should you find a river in the desert? 00:21:18.14\00:21:20.48 No, it's hard. 00:21:20.51\00:21:21.84 But I think that when I think about rivers in the desert, 00:21:21.88\00:21:25.85 the rivers bring water, water is life. 00:21:25.88\00:21:30.19 And I think of the desert being death. 00:21:30.22\00:21:34.89 And so God is bringing life into an area that's death. 00:21:34.92\00:21:39.73 So if we look at our life, and the past, 00:21:39.76\00:21:44.43 and if it looks like a wilderness, 00:21:44.47\00:21:46.17 like what you're mentioning, God has a way, 00:21:46.20\00:21:49.77 He's got the power to make, not just a road, 00:21:49.80\00:21:55.04 but a broad highway, 00:21:55.08\00:21:57.71 to help you get from point A to point B with easily. 00:21:57.75\00:22:03.28 That's right. Okay, anything? 00:22:03.32\00:22:06.29 'Cause when you're in the desert, you're thirsty, right? 00:22:06.32\00:22:08.86 He makes a road, He brings water to those who are thirsty, 00:22:08.89\00:22:13.03 and well, 00:22:13.06\00:22:14.96 I look at this thirsty for the Word of God, 00:22:15.00\00:22:18.10 a relationship with the Lord. 00:22:18.13\00:22:20.10 That's right. 00:22:20.14\00:22:22.37 Just what you said, made me think about like 00:22:22.40\00:22:24.81 how both of those are ways of transportation, 00:22:24.84\00:22:27.48 you mentioned that, and how God can flow through, 00:22:27.51\00:22:31.71 go through a road, go through water, 00:22:31.75\00:22:34.22 I mean, He can go through anything but, 00:22:34.25\00:22:35.95 you know, we think in human terms, 00:22:35.98\00:22:38.02 how we get somewhere by land or by water. 00:22:38.05\00:22:41.19 And you know those ways, 00:22:41.22\00:22:42.79 like you have to have a road or a way, 00:22:42.82\00:22:45.19 you know, to get through, so it's transportation. 00:22:45.23\00:22:48.83 And the practical thing I saw was there're a lot 00:22:48.86\00:22:50.97 of people that are watching the program 00:22:51.00\00:22:52.33 that will say, you know, 00:22:52.37\00:22:53.74 "Look at me, I have nothing to offer. 00:22:53.77\00:22:57.34 My life is barren. 00:22:57.37\00:22:59.11 I have, this seems to be no life at all, 00:22:59.14\00:23:01.71 that I could even look at and boast about 00:23:01.74\00:23:03.48 because in the wilderness the stuff that grows out there 00:23:03.51\00:23:06.78 is not planted, it just grows wild." 00:23:06.82\00:23:09.42 You know, you got the bushes that will cut you the thorns, 00:23:09.45\00:23:12.42 the cacti. 00:23:12.45\00:23:13.79 And it just, nature just takes over. 00:23:13.82\00:23:16.16 And God says when your life looks barren, 00:23:16.19\00:23:18.46 when your life looks like there's nothing 00:23:18.49\00:23:20.46 that could happen with it, 00:23:20.50\00:23:21.96 when you think that before you for the new year 00:23:22.00\00:23:24.30 is going to be just like the last year, 00:23:24.33\00:23:26.37 the Lord says, "Wait a minute, wait a minute, 00:23:26.40\00:23:28.44 I'm going to open up a way into your life. 00:23:28.47\00:23:30.87 I'm going to show you that in your life, 00:23:30.91\00:23:33.01 there are things in your life that people need access to, 00:23:33.04\00:23:36.18 but how they're going to get it? 00:23:36.21\00:23:37.95 I'm going to make a road in the wilderness of your life 00:23:37.98\00:23:40.98 and people are going to find that in you there's life also." 00:23:41.02\00:23:44.29 Then also the dry places, some people say, 00:23:44.32\00:23:46.32 "I had you know my life is dried up. 00:23:46.35\00:23:48.49 I don't just have any spark, 00:23:48.52\00:23:50.06 I just seem to have lost my flavor for the Lord." 00:23:50.09\00:23:53.73 Last year dealing with COVID and the variance 00:23:53.76\00:23:57.83 and not being able to go to church, 00:23:57.87\00:23:59.60 many people still don't go as much as we do. 00:23:59.63\00:24:02.47 But the Lord is saying, this year, 00:24:02.50\00:24:04.21 I'm going to bring a new life into your life. 00:24:04.24\00:24:07.04 I'm going to pour water into the dry places of your life. 00:24:07.08\00:24:11.88 And so I'm looking forward, I don't know 00:24:11.91\00:24:13.25 what God has in store for me in 2022, 00:24:13.28\00:24:16.32 but I'm just excited about it. 00:24:16.35\00:24:17.69 Amen. Me too. 00:24:17.72\00:24:19.05 You know another thing that came to my mind 00:24:19.09\00:24:20.59 what I just really liked that verse, 00:24:20.62\00:24:22.62 and so we talked about it quite a bit, 00:24:22.66\00:24:24.63 Don and I, but just thinking of the contrast 00:24:24.66\00:24:27.00 between the two, there's everything 00:24:27.03\00:24:28.73 or there's nothing. 00:24:28.76\00:24:30.10 Like you've got everything in the wilderness, 00:24:30.13\00:24:31.63 like you're talking about the things that, 00:24:31.67\00:24:33.23 you know, can cut you 00:24:33.27\00:24:34.77 and then there's nothing in the desert. 00:24:34.80\00:24:36.27 So God can work through everything or nothing. 00:24:36.30\00:24:39.87 Amen. 00:24:39.91\00:24:42.04 He can work with anything or nothing. 00:24:42.08\00:24:44.98 I like that. That's good. 00:24:45.01\00:24:46.35 So when you... It seems impossible to us. 00:24:46.38\00:24:48.25 So we need to say, when you think 00:24:48.28\00:24:49.62 that there's nothing in your life 00:24:49.65\00:24:50.99 where everything is gone wrong, 00:24:51.02\00:24:52.35 God can work with everything and God can work with nothing. 00:24:52.39\00:24:54.76 With God all things are possible. 00:24:54.79\00:24:56.12 With God all things are possible. 00:24:56.16\00:24:57.66 Let's go to the third one. Okay. 00:24:57.69\00:24:59.66 Psalm 40:3. 00:24:59.69\00:25:01.60 Ricky, the question is, how has the Lord promised 00:25:01.63\00:25:04.30 to change the repeating tunes of our past failures? 00:25:04.33\00:25:08.80 That's the way I like to look at that. 00:25:08.84\00:25:10.34 All right, Psalms 40:3 says, 00:25:10.37\00:25:14.84 "He has put a new song in my mouth, 00:25:14.88\00:25:17.91 praise to our God. 00:25:17.95\00:25:20.45 Many will see it and fear and will trust in the Lord." 00:25:20.48\00:25:26.05 Yeah. 00:25:26.09\00:25:27.49 I think about how encouraging God is. 00:25:27.52\00:25:31.69 He has given us many promises to let us know 00:25:31.73\00:25:35.83 that He will help us no matter what the circumstances. 00:25:35.86\00:25:40.50 I think about Joshua 1:9, 00:25:40.54\00:25:42.60 "Be strong and of good courage. 00:25:42.64\00:25:44.71 Do not be afraid nor be dismayed, 00:25:44.74\00:25:47.08 for the Lord, your God is with you wherever you go." 00:25:47.11\00:25:50.25 Our goal in life should be to make it to heaven. 00:25:50.28\00:25:54.05 That's right. 00:25:54.08\00:25:55.42 And God is willing to give us all the resources of heaven 00:25:55.45\00:26:00.19 to help us to make it there. 00:26:00.22\00:26:02.66 And you think about all the angels, 00:26:02.69\00:26:05.19 you know, what was the job that they did before sin? 00:26:05.23\00:26:08.63 Well, now they're in full time work for us. 00:26:08.66\00:26:12.70 So I mean, that's, and that's and also I like 00:26:12.73\00:26:15.14 that promise that we read there, 00:26:15.17\00:26:17.71 because regarding God's promises, 00:26:17.74\00:26:20.74 there's power in God's Word. 00:26:20.78\00:26:23.51 The same power that was in His Word 00:26:23.55\00:26:25.55 that created everything, is the same power 00:26:25.58\00:26:28.98 that's in every one of those promises. 00:26:29.02\00:26:30.69 Amen. I'd like to jump on that too. 00:26:30.72\00:26:32.65 Because it says there many shall see and fear 00:26:32.69\00:26:34.66 and shall trust in the Lord. 00:26:34.69\00:26:36.22 You know, Moses was, and the Israelites 00:26:36.26\00:26:39.26 were erected in the sense to be a blessing. 00:26:39.29\00:26:41.26 Abraham has to be a blessing. 00:26:41.30\00:26:43.13 And I think when we have a new step, 00:26:43.16\00:26:44.77 and we're excited, and we have this new passion, 00:26:44.80\00:26:46.87 this new drive, has got Christ in us, 00:26:46.90\00:26:48.94 people are going to want that same peace we have. 00:26:48.97\00:26:50.71 We were at a restaurant I helped the other day 00:26:50.74\00:26:53.48 a while back and this guy is from Trinidad. 00:26:53.51\00:26:56.01 We started talking to him. 00:26:56.04\00:26:57.38 And you could tell he's this, he lit up, "Oh, yeah, 00:26:57.41\00:26:58.75 I remember talking to guys last time, it's good to see you." 00:26:58.78\00:27:01.08 You know, he's like, and he just wouldn't leave 00:27:01.12\00:27:02.48 our table 'cause he was like, just drawn there. 00:27:02.52\00:27:05.09 He wouldn't leave like, we might want to get back 00:27:05.12\00:27:06.65 to work or I would get in trouble. 00:27:06.69\00:27:08.02 But, just people are just drawn naturally 00:27:08.06\00:27:10.46 when you have some type of a joy 00:27:10.49\00:27:11.83 or something different they want for themselves. 00:27:11.86\00:27:13.19 Yes. I like that. 00:27:13.23\00:27:14.76 And the other thing is when He says 00:27:14.80\00:27:16.73 I will put a new song, 00:27:16.77\00:27:18.93 He will put a new song in my mouth. 00:27:18.97\00:27:20.94 Some people and I'm just intentionally trying 00:27:20.97\00:27:23.94 to zero this in on how some people may look at life. 00:27:23.97\00:27:27.21 Some people may say, and I heard somebody, 00:27:27.24\00:27:29.34 a pastor actually told me, somebody said, 00:27:29.38\00:27:31.95 "You don't have any more sermons left." 00:27:31.98\00:27:34.72 A pastor told me that, he said, he was, 00:27:34.75\00:27:36.38 has been in ministry for 40 years. 00:27:36.42\00:27:37.92 Somebody said to him, 00:27:37.95\00:27:39.32 "You don't have any more sermons left." 00:27:39.35\00:27:40.79 And as we were having a Bible study, 00:27:40.82\00:27:43.09 this pastor, he said to me, "I know why they said that, 00:27:43.12\00:27:45.69 because I didn't really fully understand the message 00:27:45.73\00:27:48.16 that the Lord want for peace, 00:27:48.20\00:27:49.53 but now I have some new sermons." 00:27:49.56\00:27:51.53 And what is in essence being said here, 00:27:51.57\00:27:53.44 because when the new song, 00:27:53.47\00:27:54.94 when people hear the new song, 00:27:54.97\00:27:56.77 when people hear the new things 00:27:56.81\00:27:58.14 that Christ is doing in your life, 00:27:58.17\00:28:00.08 they're going to say, "If He could do that for them, 00:28:00.11\00:28:03.61 that's why I need to trust. 00:28:03.65\00:28:05.38 If the Lord could give that person a new vision, 00:28:05.41\00:28:07.88 new ideas, new goals, new plans, 00:28:07.92\00:28:10.59 and begin to work it out in his or her life, 00:28:10.62\00:28:13.15 that's why I need to trust." 00:28:13.19\00:28:14.52 Because that when it says many will see it and fear, 00:28:14.56\00:28:16.99 it doesn't mean they'll be afraid, 00:28:17.03\00:28:18.36 they'll be astonished. 00:28:18.39\00:28:19.76 The word there fear is astonished. 00:28:19.79\00:28:22.26 I'm shocked, I thought he was washed up. 00:28:22.30\00:28:24.90 I thought there was nothing in that boy. 00:28:24.93\00:28:26.50 You know, some parents say, 00:28:26.53\00:28:27.87 "I never expect my kid to do anything." 00:28:27.90\00:28:29.67 The way you saw him last year, that's how you mean next year. 00:28:29.70\00:28:31.71 And all of a sudden, January he got a suit on. 00:28:31.74\00:28:36.31 You expect them to be in the bed, the bed is empty. 00:28:36.34\00:28:38.18 He comes back two o'clock in the afternoon. 00:28:38.21\00:28:40.32 "Where were you?" "Mom, I found a job." 00:28:40.35\00:28:42.98 "You found a job." 00:28:43.02\00:28:45.15 "I've determined not to be the way I was in 2021." 00:28:45.19\00:28:48.49 And what will happen? 00:28:48.52\00:28:50.26 His mother would say, "If the Lord could do that 00:28:50.29\00:28:52.53 to this lazy boy, what could He do for my life? 00:28:52.56\00:28:56.23 I could trust that person." 00:28:56.26\00:28:57.87 Amen. Yeah. 00:28:57.90\00:28:59.23 And going back to the question, how is the Lord promised 00:28:59.27\00:29:01.27 to change the repeating tune of our past failures? 00:29:01.30\00:29:04.01 When we think of past failures, 00:29:04.04\00:29:05.41 we have to pay attention to our thoughts. 00:29:05.44\00:29:08.41 You know, where's the thought coming from? 00:29:08.44\00:29:11.01 Is the devil trying to remind me of my past? 00:29:11.05\00:29:13.68 What's triggering those thoughts? 00:29:13.72\00:29:15.88 What can we do to dismiss them? 00:29:15.92\00:29:18.12 Claim Bible promises, pray. 00:29:18.15\00:29:20.99 The woman at the well is a great example 00:29:21.02\00:29:23.06 of what Christ can do to change the tune of our hearts. 00:29:23.09\00:29:26.09 Amen. Wonderful. 00:29:26.13\00:29:27.76 I like that, isn't that nice? 00:29:27.80\00:29:29.33 Yeah, she had a new beginning. 00:29:29.36\00:29:31.83 And she left her water pot. Yes. 00:29:31.87\00:29:35.20 Everybody's got a water pot they carry around 00:29:35.24\00:29:37.04 with them every day. 00:29:37.07\00:29:38.57 You know, what is your water pot? 00:29:38.61\00:29:40.64 She didn't just tell one person. 00:29:40.68\00:29:42.01 No. She told more than one person. 00:29:42.04\00:29:43.81 That's right. She told the whole town. 00:29:43.85\00:29:46.51 Who is this Messiah? 00:29:46.55\00:29:47.88 Amen. Wow, that's very good. 00:29:47.92\00:29:49.92 That's awesome. What about... 00:29:49.95\00:29:51.45 So why is it imperative then not to live 00:29:51.49\00:29:54.92 the old life expecting new results? 00:29:54.96\00:29:57.46 Jasmine, let's look at Matthew 9:17, 00:29:57.49\00:30:00.50 and that's the question, why is it so necessary 00:30:00.53\00:30:02.66 not to try to live the old life expecting new results? 00:30:02.70\00:30:07.50 You know that years ago, there was a lady named Susan Powter. 00:30:07.54\00:30:11.71 And remember the definition of insanity? 00:30:11.74\00:30:13.44 Do you remember what that is? 00:30:13.48\00:30:14.81 Yes, you're doing the same thing expecting... 00:30:14.84\00:30:17.58 Expecting different results. 00:30:17.61\00:30:18.95 She had an amazing story. 00:30:18.98\00:30:20.32 I'm going way back some of you young folk could handle. 00:30:20.35\00:30:22.32 But it was a lady whose husband left her, 00:30:22.35\00:30:25.59 she was overweight, she had no money, 00:30:25.62\00:30:27.26 she had no job, he left her, just her life. 00:30:27.29\00:30:31.09 She said when he left, he took everything. 00:30:31.13\00:30:33.76 And she says, I, once she said one day something clicked, 00:30:33.80\00:30:39.60 and she became an international name. 00:30:39.63\00:30:42.40 She lost her weight. 00:30:42.44\00:30:43.77 Susan Powter lost her weight, got in fitness, she was like, 00:30:43.81\00:30:46.84 her husband probably saying... 00:30:46.88\00:30:48.21 Fitness guru. She was, that's right, that's right. 00:30:48.24\00:30:49.61 She was, and I'm sure after he saw what happened to her. 00:30:49.64\00:30:54.25 He said, "And I left her. 00:30:54.28\00:30:57.22 Nobody knows who I am, 00:30:57.25\00:30:58.59 but my wife is on every magazine 00:30:58.62\00:30:59.99 and on the fitness covers of, 00:31:00.02\00:31:01.59 and she's on television weekly." 00:31:01.62\00:31:04.06 And that was the quote that she says the definition 00:31:04.09\00:31:06.49 of insanity is doing the same thing expecting 00:31:06.53\00:31:09.26 different results. 00:31:09.30\00:31:10.73 So why is it that we should not try to live the old life 00:31:10.77\00:31:13.90 expecting new results? 00:31:13.94\00:31:15.27 Matthew 9:17. 00:31:15.30\00:31:16.64 "Nor do they put new wine into old wineskins 00:31:16.67\00:31:19.57 or else the wineskins break. 00:31:19.61\00:31:21.84 The wine is spilt and the wineskins are ruined. 00:31:21.88\00:31:25.51 But they put new wine into new wineskins 00:31:25.55\00:31:28.45 and both are preserved." 00:31:28.48\00:31:30.59 So what do you think that means? 00:31:30.62\00:31:33.56 Wineskins represents, I believe, our lives. 00:31:33.59\00:31:37.86 Wine represents teachings, 00:31:37.89\00:31:41.43 and new wine or fresh grape juice 00:31:41.46\00:31:44.93 represents God's truth. 00:31:44.97\00:31:47.74 Fermented wine or fermented grape juice 00:31:47.77\00:31:50.41 represents false teachings. 00:31:50.44\00:31:52.67 That's right. 00:31:52.71\00:31:54.04 Skin, the skin bottles were used back in this time 00:31:54.08\00:31:58.58 as vessels to contain the new wine 00:31:58.61\00:32:01.55 or the fresh grape juice. And after time, 00:32:01.58\00:32:04.69 though, these skins would... 00:32:04.72\00:32:07.29 The skin bottles would become dry and brittle 00:32:07.32\00:32:11.46 and then they would burst 00:32:11.49\00:32:13.40 and pouring all the grape juice to the ground. 00:32:13.43\00:32:16.87 So the old skin would be worthless to be able 00:32:16.90\00:32:20.34 to hold fresh grape juice again. 00:32:20.37\00:32:23.27 So, the old life of sin 00:32:23.30\00:32:27.61 is not going to be receptive 00:32:27.64\00:32:30.31 to holding on to Christ's centered teachings. 00:32:30.35\00:32:35.18 I'm going to share too, 00:32:35.22\00:32:36.55 the Lord opened to me this really big. 00:32:36.58\00:32:37.92 So if we go in verse 14, it says, 00:32:37.95\00:32:41.16 and then came to Him the disciples of John saying, 00:32:41.19\00:32:44.49 "Why do we and the Pharisees fast off 00:32:44.53\00:32:46.59 but thy disciples fast not?" 00:32:46.63\00:32:49.16 We're actually talking about and Jesus goes on to talk 00:32:49.20\00:32:51.13 about this wineskins with this fasting idea. 00:32:51.17\00:32:54.04 And so I started thinking about verse 15. 00:32:54.07\00:32:56.71 It says, "And Jesus said unto them, 00:32:56.74\00:32:58.14 'Can the children of the bride chamber mourn 00:32:58.17\00:33:00.14 as long as the bridegroom is with them?'" 00:33:00.18\00:33:02.44 So we realize that Jesus is talking about Himself. 00:33:02.48\00:33:04.88 But the days will come when the bridegroom 00:33:04.91\00:33:06.41 shall be taken away from him, and then they shall fast. 00:33:06.45\00:33:09.92 I was like, I started thinking about that 00:33:09.95\00:33:11.42 and my mind went to John 16:7, 00:33:11.45\00:33:14.99 it talks about in there how he's, 00:33:15.02\00:33:16.93 it's expected that he goes away. 00:33:16.96\00:33:19.09 If it's expected, he comes and sends the comforter. 00:33:19.13\00:33:21.40 So He poured out this Holy Spirit. 00:33:21.43\00:33:24.70 And then the Lord brought me into Isaiah 58. 00:33:24.73\00:33:27.37 And it talked about how Israel was fasting in the first, 00:33:27.40\00:33:30.21 I think it's Chapter 3, verses 3 through 5. 00:33:30.24\00:33:33.21 To me, it represented the old wineskin 00:33:33.24\00:33:34.91 because they're just beating each other up, 00:33:34.94\00:33:36.34 debating, striving with one another. 00:33:36.38\00:33:38.45 And then if you look in verses 6 through 8, 00:33:38.48\00:33:40.42 it was actually talking about how God was, 00:33:40.45\00:33:42.45 Jesus saying, "This is the fast that I've chosen: 00:33:42.48\00:33:44.59 to loose the bands of wickedness 00:33:44.62\00:33:45.95 under the heavy burdens, let the oppressed go free, 00:33:45.99\00:33:48.06 break every enslaving yoke." 00:33:48.09\00:33:49.66 And so we see all these things that they're doing, 00:33:49.69\00:33:51.29 and then we see they're fulfilled in Acts, 00:33:51.33\00:33:53.80 when the disciples were just filled with the Holy Spirit. 00:33:53.83\00:33:57.03 So when I see this, I just see that these wineskins, 00:33:57.07\00:33:59.13 the old wineskins, the old traditions 00:33:59.17\00:34:00.94 of the Pharisees, and the teachings, 00:34:00.97\00:34:03.30 the Pharisees and all that, and the new wineskins 00:34:03.34\00:34:05.17 as Jesus said, "No, this is going 00:34:05.21\00:34:06.54 to be the new way I'm gonna do this." 00:34:06.57\00:34:07.91 Amen. This is the new gospels with Me, Don. 00:34:07.94\00:34:09.68 Yes. 00:34:09.71\00:34:11.05 And those who refuse to accept the new gospel 00:34:11.08\00:34:12.58 represented the old wines. 00:34:12.61\00:34:13.98 Right. Yep. They were not pliable. 00:34:14.02\00:34:17.59 They were not, 'cause you know, one of the things 00:34:17.62\00:34:19.55 I want to talk about the wineskin will break, 00:34:19.59\00:34:22.46 because even new grape juice, 00:34:22.49\00:34:24.29 it has a process where it still is starting a new fermentation 00:34:24.33\00:34:28.36 and the gas is expand when you seal it. 00:34:28.40\00:34:31.50 Well, what will happen if the gospel starts 00:34:31.53\00:34:33.40 expanding in your life, 00:34:33.44\00:34:34.90 and your old is going to break you. 00:34:34.94\00:34:37.37 It's going to break you. 00:34:37.41\00:34:38.74 I've told people one of the greatest dangers 00:34:38.77\00:34:40.24 of Christianity is trying to live the Christian life 00:34:40.28\00:34:42.11 without Christ, because it will break you. 00:34:42.14\00:34:45.95 Because you've just been living by rules and regulations, 00:34:45.98\00:34:48.28 I can't do this, can't do that, can't do this, don't wear that, 00:34:48.32\00:34:50.69 don't eat that. 00:34:50.72\00:34:52.05 And that'll be frustrating. 00:34:52.09\00:34:53.82 But if the new wine is in there, 00:34:53.86\00:34:55.82 you could expand with the growing understanding 00:34:55.86\00:34:58.16 of God's Word, but on a more practical level. 00:34:58.19\00:35:01.50 Think about it, how many people are saying, 00:35:01.53\00:35:04.67 "I want a new life, 00:35:04.70\00:35:07.54 but I don't want to change the way I used to live?" 00:35:07.57\00:35:10.34 That's what I want to bring this out. 00:35:10.37\00:35:13.11 I would say that what people maybe can relate to is again, 00:35:13.14\00:35:16.88 in the New Year, they have new goals. 00:35:16.91\00:35:18.91 And to get those new results, 00:35:18.95\00:35:20.38 it's really a two part principle, our part, 00:35:20.42\00:35:23.02 God's part. 00:35:23.05\00:35:24.62 So let's say someone wants to lose weight, 00:35:24.65\00:35:28.52 I would say they have to be intentional 00:35:28.56\00:35:30.56 about the weight, and they have to ask God 00:35:30.59\00:35:32.46 to empower them. 00:35:32.49\00:35:34.30 I find it helpful to ask yourself questions like, 00:35:34.33\00:35:37.07 "Who do I want to become?" 00:35:37.10\00:35:39.83 And through God's grace, assume that identity. 00:35:39.87\00:35:43.07 Let's say, I want to become healthier person. 00:35:43.10\00:35:46.27 You could ask yourself, 00:35:46.31\00:35:47.64 what would a healthier person eat for breakfast? 00:35:47.68\00:35:49.91 Cake? Oatmeal, but berries. 00:35:49.94\00:35:53.78 What would a healthy person do? 00:35:53.82\00:35:55.15 Sit on the couch, or go for a walk? 00:35:55.18\00:35:59.52 And so just keep assuming the identity of the person 00:35:59.55\00:36:02.16 you want to become. 00:36:02.19\00:36:03.53 Could be I want to be a godly woman. 00:36:03.56\00:36:05.03 What does that look like? 00:36:05.06\00:36:06.39 What does a godly woman do? 00:36:06.43\00:36:07.76 And start assuming that role with God's help. 00:36:07.80\00:36:10.50 That's really, I love that. Action plan. 00:36:10.53\00:36:13.10 Yeah, action plan, because you're talking about, 00:36:13.13\00:36:15.34 you know, what if someone wants a new life, 00:36:15.37\00:36:17.31 but they don't want to change the way they're living? 00:36:17.34\00:36:20.11 So really, it's kind of like, do they really even want it? 00:36:20.14\00:36:24.05 'Cause like if you don't, you know, if you don't know 00:36:24.08\00:36:26.01 what you want to be, what your goal is, 00:36:26.05\00:36:28.25 and you don't want to take those steps to get 00:36:28.28\00:36:30.22 to where it's just, 00:36:30.25\00:36:31.59 there's really no motivation there. 00:36:31.62\00:36:34.09 And, you know, as Christians, 00:36:34.12\00:36:35.79 our motivation should be to be more like Jesus. 00:36:35.82\00:36:39.23 And what does that look like? 00:36:39.26\00:36:40.60 You know, like you're talking about, you know, 00:36:40.63\00:36:41.96 what does it look like to be like Jesus? 00:36:42.00\00:36:43.33 I was thinking too, this is always what I say, 00:36:43.37\00:36:45.00 misery loves company. 00:36:45.03\00:36:47.94 Do you really want to just stay miserable all the time? 00:36:47.97\00:36:50.21 I think about that, 00:36:50.24\00:36:51.64 especially when dealing people on prayer line. 00:36:51.67\00:36:53.71 And I may get the same repeat call or saying the same thing 00:36:53.74\00:36:56.31 over and over. 00:36:56.34\00:36:57.68 And just... 00:36:57.71\00:36:59.05 Well, just like what JD says all the time, he says, 00:36:59.08\00:37:00.42 "Are you sick and tired of being sick and tired?" 00:37:00.45\00:37:01.78 Yeah, like are you going to keep doing 00:37:01.82\00:37:04.79 the same thing over and over, it's not going anywhere, 00:37:04.82\00:37:06.52 you talked about insanity is expecting different results. 00:37:06.55\00:37:09.36 It doesn't work. 00:37:09.39\00:37:10.83 But if you want to make just that little change 00:37:10.86\00:37:12.19 in your life, and I think it helps too 00:37:12.23\00:37:13.56 to have support group. 00:37:13.60\00:37:14.93 Yes. 00:37:14.96\00:37:16.30 I really think you need a support group, 00:37:16.33\00:37:17.67 somebody can hold you accountable. 00:37:17.70\00:37:19.03 You know, we did that Conquer series in the church 00:37:19.07\00:37:20.40 and we had a lot of interesting feedback, 00:37:20.44\00:37:22.50 a lot of negativity, some things we heard, 00:37:22.54\00:37:24.41 but some people like, "Well, I just got God, 00:37:24.44\00:37:26.51 I got God and its good." 00:37:26.54\00:37:27.88 But you have to... 00:37:27.91\00:37:29.24 God also says you need earthly people to support you as well. 00:37:29.28\00:37:32.51 So I think you really need support to be encouraged 00:37:32.55\00:37:34.75 to follow with your plans. 00:37:34.78\00:37:36.12 I think another key question is why? 00:37:36.15\00:37:38.05 Why do you want to be healthy? 00:37:38.09\00:37:39.49 Just keep answering and keep going to the deep root because, 00:37:39.52\00:37:42.29 "Oh, I want to get help. 00:37:42.32\00:37:44.09 I want to lose 10 pounds, 00:37:44.13\00:37:45.46 so I can fit in my clothes better." 00:37:45.49\00:37:46.83 That's not a good reason. 00:37:46.86\00:37:48.20 You're going to fall off when you see the cake. 00:37:48.23\00:37:50.13 Just keep asking and get to the real root 00:37:50.17\00:37:52.93 cause of why you want to be healthy. 00:37:52.97\00:37:55.10 Maybe you want to be around for your grandchildren. 00:37:55.14\00:37:57.37 Right. That's a good reason. 00:37:57.41\00:38:00.18 One of the exercise videos, the series that I watched, 00:38:00.21\00:38:04.51 sometimes he always says, like halfway into the workout, 00:38:04.55\00:38:07.28 "Remember why you came here. 00:38:07.32\00:38:08.98 Remember why you came here." 00:38:09.02\00:38:11.02 So, it's helpful to remember that. Yes. 00:38:11.05\00:38:14.66 We're going to go to Mark 2:21. 00:38:14.69\00:38:16.86 And what happens if we try to live the new life 00:38:16.89\00:38:20.06 without a new walk? 00:38:20.10\00:38:21.66 This is really good. 00:38:21.70\00:38:23.03 But why do we, what happens if we try to live 00:38:23.06\00:38:24.77 the new life without a new walk? 00:38:24.80\00:38:26.74 Like you're saying, Jasmine, 00:38:26.77\00:38:28.54 we have to ask ourselves these deep questions. 00:38:28.57\00:38:31.14 Why am I finding myself in the same place over 00:38:31.17\00:38:35.54 and over asking for the same results? 00:38:35.58\00:38:37.71 And just before Angie reads that, 00:38:37.75\00:38:39.41 people have to be intentional, not only intentional, 00:38:39.45\00:38:41.85 but you have to hold yourself responsible 00:38:41.88\00:38:43.72 for what am I going to do to make this happen? 00:38:43.75\00:38:45.69 Right. Don't just say I want to. 00:38:45.72\00:38:47.89 What are you doing? What's your action plan? 00:38:47.92\00:38:49.62 Right. 00:38:49.66\00:38:50.99 Because I always say a goal without a date is not a goal. 00:38:51.03\00:38:52.59 Right. Yeah. 00:38:52.63\00:38:54.00 So why is it ridiculous trying to live a new life 00:38:54.03\00:38:57.67 without a new walk? 00:38:57.70\00:38:59.03 Look at Mark 2:21. 00:38:59.07\00:39:00.67 Action speaks louder than words. 00:39:00.70\00:39:02.37 That's for sure. 00:39:02.40\00:39:03.74 And that same text in Mark 00:39:03.77\00:39:05.41 is also in Matthew 9:16. 00:39:05.44\00:39:10.91 But in Mark 2:21, it says, 00:39:10.95\00:39:12.78 "No one sews a piece of unshrunk cloth 00:39:12.81\00:39:16.08 on an old garment, 00:39:16.12\00:39:17.69 or else a new piece pulls away from the old 00:39:17.72\00:39:21.06 and the tear is made worse." 00:39:21.09\00:39:23.32 I want you to grab that. 00:39:23.36\00:39:25.16 Okay, let's break that down. 00:39:25.19\00:39:26.83 What do we think the new piece of the garment 00:39:26.86\00:39:29.00 would represent in a spiritual sense? 00:39:29.03\00:39:31.63 I think, kind of, for some reasons came to me 00:39:31.67\00:39:33.30 the seed falls on certain ground, it's like, 00:39:33.34\00:39:36.30 it kind of gets there, but it's like, I don't know, 00:39:36.34\00:39:39.87 just that new garments. 00:39:39.91\00:39:41.24 It's yeah, it's fresh, shrunk as it says, smaller but... 00:39:41.28\00:39:44.71 Yeah. I like what you said. 00:39:44.75\00:39:46.31 Does he get a new walk? 00:39:46.35\00:39:47.68 Okay. New ways? 00:39:47.72\00:39:49.05 Okay. New relationship? 00:39:49.08\00:39:50.79 The new piece, if you say, 00:39:50.82\00:39:55.02 what's the most important piece people should add 00:39:55.06\00:39:57.03 to their lives for the New Year, 00:39:57.06\00:39:58.39 what would you say? 00:39:58.43\00:39:59.96 I'm using that word piece intentionally try 00:40:00.00\00:40:01.66 to throw you off, in Christ, right? 00:40:01.70\00:40:04.17 Yes. 00:40:04.20\00:40:06.00 But what happens if you try to add Christ to a person 00:40:06.03\00:40:09.94 who just wants to live the old ways? 00:40:09.97\00:40:11.84 It won't work. 00:40:11.87\00:40:13.21 Read the last part of that what happens? 00:40:13.24\00:40:14.78 Just the middle to the last part, 00:40:14.81\00:40:16.14 or else that part as well... 00:40:16.18\00:40:17.65 Or else, the new piece pulls away from the old 00:40:17.68\00:40:21.38 and the tear is made worse. 00:40:21.42\00:40:23.82 Wow. Have mercy. 00:40:23.85\00:40:25.19 So what happens if somebody says I want Christ in my life, 00:40:25.22\00:40:29.12 but I don't want to change the way I'm living? 00:40:29.16\00:40:31.73 You just going to keep going back to your old habits. 00:40:31.76\00:40:33.53 Yeah. 00:40:33.56\00:40:34.90 But not only that it gets harder, yeah. 00:40:34.93\00:40:36.30 Harder. Your heart, it's harder. 00:40:36.33\00:40:39.87 You don't want to return 00:40:39.90\00:40:43.87 to that life of living in Christ. 00:40:43.91\00:40:46.61 And it's harder to accept it if you come back, 00:40:46.64\00:40:50.21 try and come back to it again. 00:40:50.25\00:40:51.58 So think about the tear now, 00:40:51.61\00:40:53.05 because the text says the tear gets worse. 00:40:53.08\00:40:55.98 So somebody might come to Christ with just a tear, 00:40:56.02\00:40:58.99 I'm just using an example, the tear is about that big. 00:40:59.02\00:41:02.26 And they say, I need to fix that tear in my life, 00:41:02.29\00:41:05.26 whatever that may be. 00:41:05.29\00:41:07.16 So I need to add Bible readings, 00:41:07.20\00:41:09.63 I need to do this, do that too. 00:41:09.66\00:41:11.87 They get involved in the things of Christianity without Christ. 00:41:11.90\00:41:16.34 So they start adding all these things 00:41:16.37\00:41:17.71 of Christianity in their lives that new diet, 00:41:17.74\00:41:20.11 I want to be a vegan, because you know, 00:41:20.14\00:41:22.28 I like the Adventist lifestyle, 00:41:22.31\00:41:23.71 I want to have a day of worship off. 00:41:23.75\00:41:25.08 So I'll pick the day because Saturday seems 00:41:25.11\00:41:26.75 to be good, it fits into my schedule. 00:41:26.78\00:41:28.42 They're doing all the things without Christ. 00:41:28.45\00:41:30.59 They're adding this new piece 00:41:30.62\00:41:31.95 of unshrunk cloth to an old life. 00:41:31.99\00:41:37.23 And all of a sudden, 00:41:37.26\00:41:38.59 that new piece starts pulling away 00:41:38.63\00:41:41.63 because it didn't find a new life to connect to. 00:41:41.66\00:41:44.13 And what happens? The tear gets... 00:41:44.17\00:41:45.60 The tear gets worse. Yes. 00:41:45.63\00:41:47.47 It's kind of like my dad, when my dad got 00:41:47.50\00:41:49.57 some major health problems. 00:41:49.60\00:41:50.94 He said, "That's it. I'm done smoking cigarettes. 00:41:50.97\00:41:52.97 I'm not going to do that anymore." 00:41:53.01\00:41:54.64 My mom was, "Oh, don't do that." 00:41:54.68\00:41:56.21 You know, my mom kind of encouraged him 00:41:56.24\00:41:57.65 to go the opposite way. 00:41:57.68\00:41:59.01 It was just, yeah, I really felt I was like, oh, man. 00:41:59.05\00:42:02.15 Anyways, just the fact that you know, when we do that, 00:42:02.18\00:42:03.79 then like you said, it gets worse because now 00:42:03.82\00:42:05.35 you go further into it. 00:42:05.39\00:42:06.86 And you have even more of a struggle to quit. 00:42:06.89\00:42:08.62 You know, there's a huge, hard end. 00:42:08.66\00:42:10.59 Okay, you just whispered something. 00:42:10.63\00:42:12.26 I want you to say that. 00:42:12.29\00:42:13.63 It's like seven demons coming back. 00:42:13.66\00:42:15.86 Yeah. That's what I was going to say. 00:42:15.90\00:42:17.23 Yeah, that's a good one. 00:42:17.27\00:42:18.77 Yeah, if you try to, you want to expound on that? 00:42:18.80\00:42:20.34 No, go ahead. 00:42:20.37\00:42:21.70 If you try to live your life with Christian things 00:42:21.74\00:42:24.81 without Christ, 00:42:24.84\00:42:26.34 it's going to get worse for you. 00:42:26.37\00:42:30.65 Oh, see, honey, you bring all these gems, 00:42:30.68\00:42:33.25 because what she's talking about is storing the Bible 00:42:33.28\00:42:35.38 where the demons, the man no longer had demons. 00:42:35.42\00:42:39.32 It's like the house was swept clean 00:42:39.35\00:42:42.72 and empty. 00:42:42.76\00:42:45.29 That's a good life. 00:42:45.33\00:42:46.83 I've swept all the old things out of my life, 00:42:46.86\00:42:49.93 my life is clean, 00:42:49.96\00:42:51.73 but the demons say, "But it's empty." 00:42:51.77\00:42:54.97 You got rid of all that stuff, 00:42:55.00\00:42:56.40 but did you replace it with Jesus? 00:42:56.44\00:42:58.74 That's the danger. 00:42:58.77\00:43:00.11 Some people get rid of things they don't, they say, 00:43:00.14\00:43:02.08 "I conquered smoke 00:43:02.11\00:43:03.75 and I'm not smoking anymore in 2022. 00:43:03.78\00:43:05.78 I finally kicked the bottle. 00:43:05.81\00:43:07.15 I'm not going to drink anymore in '22. 00:43:07.18\00:43:08.52 I got rid of this that, I put all this stuff away, 00:43:08.55\00:43:10.89 and I'm going to be in church." 00:43:10.92\00:43:12.25 And like two weeks later, they're gone. 00:43:12.29\00:43:13.86 The demons come in, take over. 00:43:13.89\00:43:15.22 Because they never do it with Christ. 00:43:15.26\00:43:16.86 There's a scripture in Romans 12:2, it says, 00:43:16.89\00:43:19.03 "Be not conformed to this world, 00:43:19.06\00:43:20.40 but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." 00:43:20.43\00:43:22.40 So... And you do it daily. 00:43:22.43\00:43:24.03 Yeah. It's not just, you know, once a year, every day. 00:43:24.07\00:43:28.60 And that visual of the rooms, sweeping the room clean, 00:43:28.64\00:43:31.21 it's like they're just putting it in the side closets 00:43:31.24\00:43:33.54 and the side closets are getting full 00:43:33.58\00:43:34.94 and eventually burst open. 00:43:34.98\00:43:36.31 It's like everything comes back into the room worse 00:43:36.34\00:43:40.75 This reminds me of Judas's life. 00:43:40.78\00:43:42.98 Oh, yes. 00:43:43.02\00:43:44.35 So he had a new life as one of the disciples. 00:43:44.39\00:43:47.86 But did he have a new walk? 00:43:47.89\00:43:49.36 No, he did not surrender his life to Jesus. 00:43:49.39\00:43:51.33 No, he didn't. Correct. 00:43:51.36\00:43:53.09 He didn't, he sure didn't. 00:43:53.13\00:43:55.56 And so what I want you to think about now, 00:43:55.60\00:43:57.57 which is the next question, 00:43:57.60\00:43:58.93 I want you to read the next one, 00:43:58.97\00:44:00.30 also Ezekiel 36:26 under our sixth point, 00:44:00.34\00:44:03.24 because the question is then so what do you do? 00:44:03.27\00:44:05.54 How do you gain access 00:44:05.57\00:44:08.74 to the spiritual possibilities before you? 00:44:08.78\00:44:12.05 Not just, I don't want you just to hear that question. 00:44:12.08\00:44:14.95 But in other words, what empowerment 00:44:14.98\00:44:16.72 are you going to get for this 2022 year? 00:44:16.75\00:44:20.39 How are you going to empower your prayer life, 00:44:20.42\00:44:22.46 your study life, your relationship with Christ, 00:44:22.49\00:44:25.03 your relationship with your spouse, 00:44:25.06\00:44:26.56 with your family? 00:44:26.59\00:44:28.13 How are you going to be different when you go to work? 00:44:28.16\00:44:29.86 Are you going to walk through the door 00:44:29.90\00:44:31.23 and people going to say, "Oh, he's here again? 00:44:31.27\00:44:32.87 Get to your desk real quick, the manager is here. 00:44:32.90\00:44:35.40 You know what he's going to do if he sees us in the hallway?" 00:44:35.44\00:44:37.87 You want to be a different person for 2022 but how? 00:44:37.91\00:44:41.01 What's the first imperative thing to do? 00:44:41.04\00:44:42.91 Ezekiel 36:26, read that for me, Honey. 00:44:42.94\00:44:45.21 "I will give you a new heart 00:44:45.25\00:44:48.72 and put a new spirit within you. 00:44:48.75\00:44:52.29 I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh 00:44:52.32\00:44:56.39 and give you a heart of flesh." 00:44:56.42\00:45:00.00 Wow. That's beautiful. 00:45:00.03\00:45:01.63 I was going to say prior before they actually go to verse 25. 00:45:01.66\00:45:04.40 Okay, read that. Read that. 00:45:04.43\00:45:05.77 It says, "Then will I sprinkle clean water upon you 00:45:05.80\00:45:08.54 and you shall be cleaned from all your filthiness 00:45:08.57\00:45:10.97 and from all your idols, I will cleanse you." 00:45:11.01\00:45:13.31 I think that God wants to cleanse us first, 00:45:13.34\00:45:16.04 He wants us to give all the junk to Him, 00:45:16.08\00:45:17.88 like we're talking about the closets full of junk, 00:45:17.91\00:45:20.68 give it to Him, so He can clean us first. 00:45:20.72\00:45:22.88 And then He'll do verse 26 and onward. 00:45:22.92\00:45:26.15 And kind of like the Christmas in people's lives, 00:45:26.19\00:45:28.12 they just add more stuff. 00:45:28.16\00:45:30.26 They don't get rid of the old stuff. 00:45:30.29\00:45:31.99 That's usually what the seasons' holidays just do. 00:45:32.03\00:45:35.00 Just add more stuff, and in matter of time, 00:45:35.03\00:45:37.67 that thrill is gone. 00:45:37.70\00:45:39.67 And that thrill is gone because you got 00:45:39.70\00:45:41.67 that gift just before version three came out, 00:45:41.70\00:45:44.91 I knew, iPad Pro 2. 00:45:44.94\00:45:47.48 And that joy is gone, is like, I just got this... 00:45:47.51\00:45:50.25 A new MacBook. New MacBook, yeah, move on. 00:45:50.28\00:45:54.95 Hit home run. Here we go. 00:45:54.98\00:45:57.82 You know, just thinking about this, 00:45:57.85\00:46:00.16 you know, I think sometimes we just fall into that, 00:46:00.19\00:46:04.23 like, we just we want this like, hi, 00:46:04.26\00:46:06.56 or this, like, you know, like sometimes people want, 00:46:06.59\00:46:08.80 yeah, people want that. 00:46:08.83\00:46:10.43 Like, I think Ellen White talks about ecstasy of feeling. 00:46:10.47\00:46:13.47 And instead of like a constant, consistent, you know, like, 00:46:13.50\00:46:18.67 when we have that new heart, 00:46:18.71\00:46:20.08 it means we're going to be walking with Him. 00:46:20.11\00:46:22.44 And it is a consistent thing that is not 00:46:22.48\00:46:24.88 where we're not going to have these. 00:46:24.91\00:46:27.12 Yeah. 00:46:27.15\00:46:28.48 Because like sometimes you go to certain events 00:46:28.52\00:46:30.25 or whatever and you get like this really spiritual high, 00:46:30.29\00:46:32.45 you know, and it's that's not the normal Christian walk. 00:46:32.49\00:46:36.59 And to expect that is really going to be disappointing. 00:46:36.62\00:46:39.63 And so, but that's not how it's supposed to be. 00:46:39.66\00:46:42.23 What would you call it, Honey? Mountaintop experience. 00:46:42.26\00:46:44.90 You got to go down into the valley. 00:46:44.93\00:46:46.67 The mountaintop and valley experience in the Bible, who? 00:46:46.70\00:46:49.87 Moses. And Elijah. 00:46:49.90\00:46:51.24 Elijah. Okay. 00:46:51.27\00:46:52.61 He was, he had that experience. 00:46:52.64\00:46:54.44 Wow, God just burned up all the wood, all the stones, 00:46:54.48\00:46:58.05 all the dirt. 00:46:58.08\00:46:59.68 He did all that in front of all of these people 00:46:59.71\00:47:01.92 that was standing against me. 00:47:01.95\00:47:03.52 Then the next day. Wow. What a God! 00:47:03.55\00:47:05.79 Next day... Running from jail. 00:47:05.82\00:47:07.49 Running from a woman, as if... Have mercy. 00:47:07.52\00:47:10.43 And then the Lord comes to him and says, 00:47:10.46\00:47:12.93 I like the King James Version, 00:47:12.96\00:47:14.30 "What doest thou here?" 00:47:14.33\00:47:17.07 He finds him under a bush. 00:47:17.10\00:47:19.63 "Who's that? 00:47:19.67\00:47:21.47 "What doest thou here, Elijah?" "Who's asking?" 00:47:21.50\00:47:25.31 "God's asking." 00:47:25.34\00:47:26.78 He's like, put that in your mind, 00:47:26.81\00:47:29.04 and there are some people that are that way. 00:47:29.08\00:47:31.11 They live for the highs, but the lows are there. 00:47:31.15\00:47:34.02 One of my favorite writers Oswald Chambers says, 00:47:34.05\00:47:36.38 "We live our lives in the valley. 00:47:36.42\00:47:38.75 Most of our lives are lived in the valley, 00:47:38.79\00:47:40.22 not on the spotlight." 00:47:40.26\00:47:41.59 Or where is all the life at? In the valley. 00:47:41.62\00:47:44.33 And probably doesn't water runs down creeks, 00:47:44.36\00:47:46.29 the creeks and streams and value where the life is. 00:47:46.33\00:47:49.06 The God of the mountain is still the God of the valley. 00:47:49.10\00:47:51.67 Right. Okay, that's right. 00:47:51.70\00:47:53.13 Because all that water is coming from the high places, 00:47:53.17\00:47:56.00 coming down to nurture us in the valley. 00:47:56.04\00:47:58.14 That's a beautiful connection. 00:47:58.17\00:48:00.21 So I want to encourage our audience, 00:48:00.24\00:48:02.61 because if God by His grace gives us, 00:48:02.64\00:48:07.98 you know, I don't want to go to 2023 in my mind yet. 00:48:08.02\00:48:11.59 But we have a lot of days ahead of us. 00:48:11.62\00:48:12.99 We don't know, remember when 2020 came, 00:48:13.02\00:48:16.73 and we thought, "Wow, Happy New Year." 00:48:16.76\00:48:18.16 And then all of a sudden, the tragedy of Kobe Bryant, 00:48:18.19\00:48:21.56 and then COVID hit, and it was like, 00:48:21.60\00:48:24.27 what could be worse than losing such a prominent athlete 00:48:24.30\00:48:28.00 at the prime of his life? 00:48:28.04\00:48:30.17 And then when COVID hit, it's like Kobe who? 00:48:30.21\00:48:33.64 It's like the disaster has got worse. 00:48:33.68\00:48:35.94 And then the loss of life was exponential. 00:48:35.98\00:48:38.98 And the world got shut down, 00:48:39.01\00:48:40.52 in stores the shelves were bare. 00:48:40.55\00:48:42.52 And we asked ourselves, "Lord, 00:48:42.55\00:48:43.89 how can You sustain us through this?" 00:48:43.92\00:48:46.45 Churches were shut down, too. Churches were shut down. 00:48:46.49\00:48:49.62 Many people were shaken spiritually. 00:48:49.66\00:48:52.19 So we have to live our lives in the way. 00:48:52.23\00:48:53.86 Let's go to Philippians 3:13-14, 00:48:53.90\00:48:57.37 I'm going to read that one. 00:48:57.40\00:48:58.73 I want you to look at your life, 00:48:58.77\00:49:00.10 not in the sense of year by year by year by year, 00:49:00.14\00:49:03.71 but not as a runner, not as a pilot, 00:49:03.74\00:49:06.61 not as a swimmer, but as a person 00:49:06.64\00:49:08.08 who just simply walks. 00:49:08.11\00:49:09.74 And, Jasmine, 00:49:09.78\00:49:11.11 I know you into a lot of fitness stuff here 00:49:11.15\00:49:12.81 and maybe some of others of us are. 00:49:12.85\00:49:15.68 What's the most, what's the exercise 00:49:15.72\00:49:17.65 that everybody can do? 00:49:17.69\00:49:19.22 Walking, stretching. 00:49:19.25\00:49:23.16 Walking, even if you can't stretch, you could walk. 00:49:23.19\00:49:26.80 And the Bible likens the Christian life to a walk. 00:49:26.83\00:49:30.77 Look what it says in Philippians 3:13. 00:49:30.80\00:49:34.07 And 14. And 14. 00:49:34.10\00:49:35.84 Thank you, Honey. 00:49:35.87\00:49:37.21 "Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended." 00:49:37.24\00:49:39.57 Meaning I'm not there yet. 00:49:39.61\00:49:41.58 But one thing I do, 00:49:41.61\00:49:42.94 and this is an encouraging thing for the New Year, 00:49:42.98\00:49:46.48 forgetting those things which are where? 00:49:46.51\00:49:49.08 Behind. Behind. 00:49:49.12\00:49:50.99 What do you need to forget from 2021 00:49:51.02\00:49:53.66 or 2020 or 2019? 00:49:53.69\00:49:55.42 How far back? 00:49:55.46\00:49:57.06 Forgetting those things which are behind 00:49:57.09\00:49:59.13 and then what happens? 00:49:59.16\00:50:00.60 They just say looking forward? 00:50:00.63\00:50:02.53 Reach. Reaching forward. 00:50:02.56\00:50:04.67 Just saying stop looking forward 00:50:04.70\00:50:06.10 and start reaching forward, that's the action right there. 00:50:06.13\00:50:08.77 A lot of people look for, I'm looking forward 00:50:08.80\00:50:10.17 to the New Year. 00:50:10.21\00:50:11.54 No, are you reaching forward to the New Year? 00:50:11.57\00:50:13.34 That's a difference altogether. It's true. 00:50:13.38\00:50:15.18 Looking forward and reaching for it are not the same thing. 00:50:15.21\00:50:17.71 Reaching forward to those things which are where? 00:50:17.75\00:50:20.35 Ahead. 00:50:20.38\00:50:21.72 And then look at the next action word, 00:50:21.75\00:50:24.45 together, I press toward the goal 00:50:24.49\00:50:29.99 for the prize of the upward call 00:50:30.03\00:50:33.46 of God in Christ Jesus. 00:50:33.50\00:50:36.23 That's why Philippians is my favorite book. 00:50:36.26\00:50:38.30 Oh, yeah. You love it. 00:50:38.33\00:50:39.67 The words are action, athlete, passion, pressing, 00:50:39.70\00:50:42.97 moving, going upward, forgetting, laying aside, 00:50:43.00\00:50:47.58 I love that, you know, that's my favorite book, right? 00:50:47.61\00:50:50.35 Philippians. 00:50:50.38\00:50:51.71 So when people are downtrodden, I say, "Read Philippians." 00:50:51.75\00:50:53.25 Yeah, he does. You always tell them. 00:50:53.28\00:50:54.78 And you know, "And he who has begun good work 00:50:54.82\00:50:56.92 will complete it, for it is God 00:50:56.95\00:50:58.62 who works in you both to will and to do of his good pleasure. 00:50:58.65\00:51:01.36 I could do all things through Christ who strengthens me." 00:51:01.39\00:51:03.19 All right. 00:51:03.22\00:51:04.56 So it's in there, you know, whatever things 00:51:04.59\00:51:06.33 are lovely and true and honest and pure, 00:51:06.36\00:51:08.06 think on these things. 00:51:08.10\00:51:09.60 It's the athlete's book, it's the person 00:51:09.63\00:51:11.33 that wants to do something. 00:51:11.37\00:51:13.37 And so for the New Year, don't just say it, 00:51:13.40\00:51:16.40 get up off your couch and say, "You know what? 00:51:16.44\00:51:19.47 I'm tired. 00:51:19.51\00:51:20.84 This couch knows me so well 00:51:20.88\00:51:22.21 that it's even shaped the way I sit. 00:51:22.24\00:51:25.18 It looks for me to sit there 'cause it's even shaped 00:51:25.21\00:51:27.62 the way I sit." 00:51:27.65\00:51:28.98 And the armrests are worn out 00:51:29.02\00:51:30.35 because all I do is sit on this chair. 00:51:30.39\00:51:31.99 You might want to get rid of that chair and get a new one. 00:51:32.02\00:51:35.12 All right? You got crumbs in it. 00:51:35.16\00:51:36.49 Crumbs in it. Changing it. 00:51:36.52\00:51:38.69 You know what? 00:51:38.73\00:51:40.06 And I've seen situation where people have passed away 00:51:40.10\00:51:41.50 and somebody come and say, "I bet you that was his seat." 00:51:41.53\00:51:45.63 The sunken, you know, ashtrays all around it, 00:51:45.67\00:51:48.87 everything within reach, laziness. 00:51:48.90\00:51:51.17 Get rid of that laziness for the New Year 00:51:51.21\00:51:53.07 and start reaching forward instead of looking forward. 00:51:53.11\00:51:56.11 Stop pressing instead of thinking 00:51:56.14\00:51:58.65 and start going up instead of sitting down. 00:51:58.68\00:52:01.68 I want to be different. 00:52:01.72\00:52:03.28 I want my life to change. 00:52:03.32\00:52:05.75 I don't want to be the same person, get a new outlook. 00:52:05.79\00:52:09.56 Focus on the prize. 00:52:09.59\00:52:11.26 Focus on the prize. 00:52:11.29\00:52:12.63 Focus on the prize. 00:52:12.66\00:52:14.00 You know, sometimes things can be, 00:52:14.03\00:52:15.93 yes, they can be sad days, 00:52:15.96\00:52:18.93 we can have sad days, 00:52:18.97\00:52:20.30 bad things can happen to us, yes. 00:52:20.34\00:52:22.64 But no, just stay settled in that. 00:52:22.67\00:52:26.14 We can, God has gone to prepare a place for us. 00:52:26.17\00:52:30.88 If we focus on that prize, focus on that, 00:52:30.91\00:52:33.15 that's going to be another helpful thing to get us there. 00:52:33.18\00:52:35.65 Honey. 00:52:35.68\00:52:37.65 Yeah, okay, no pun intended, but you need a sharper focus. 00:52:37.69\00:52:42.32 It's good. I like that. 00:52:42.36\00:52:44.03 Thank you, Honey, for that. 00:52:44.06\00:52:45.39 Thumbs up. Shaper Focus, Wednesday night. 00:52:45.43\00:52:46.96 Well, you led me there. 00:52:47.00\00:52:50.40 But, you know, I want to also emphasize 00:52:50.43\00:52:52.33 the negative impact of looking back 00:52:52.37\00:52:53.84 and I'm going to have Ricky read Genesis 19:26. 00:52:53.87\00:52:56.97 A lot of people, you know, when Paul says, you know, 00:52:57.01\00:52:59.01 forgetting those things which are behind you, 00:52:59.04\00:53:00.94 look at the negative impact of looking back. 00:53:00.98\00:53:03.28 People don't think there's any negative impact, 00:53:03.31\00:53:04.98 but Genesis 19:26 00:53:05.01\00:53:09.52 shows us the negative impact of looking back. 00:53:09.55\00:53:14.62 Ricky? 00:53:14.66\00:53:15.99 "But his wife looked back behind him, 00:53:16.02\00:53:19.66 and she became a pillar of salt." 00:53:19.69\00:53:22.30 Wow. Now, what does that mean? 00:53:22.33\00:53:24.27 We know whose wife said it. 00:53:24.30\00:53:27.54 Is that Lot's wife? Yes. 00:53:27.57\00:53:29.90 Rhetorical question. So what was the problem? 00:53:29.94\00:53:34.08 Was it what she saw? What was the problem? 00:53:34.11\00:53:36.38 Why do you think she didn't have him? 00:53:36.41\00:53:38.05 Yeah, direction of her heart. 00:53:38.08\00:53:40.48 I think we got to be cautious of this too, 00:53:40.52\00:53:42.15 because there's a lot of people that have suppressed 00:53:42.18\00:53:44.35 a lot of stuff from the past. 00:53:44.39\00:53:46.15 And it's in there and they don't realize 00:53:46.19\00:53:47.66 and are struggling with something, 00:53:47.69\00:53:49.02 they don't realize that there's a trigger 00:53:49.06\00:53:50.39 or root to that. 00:53:50.43\00:53:51.76 So we really got to find, I think you mentioned earlier, 00:53:51.79\00:53:53.33 Jasmine's, there's a root and we got to find that root. 00:53:53.36\00:53:55.86 You know, maybe someone's abused as a child, 00:53:55.90\00:53:57.47 they just suppressed it over years. 00:53:57.50\00:53:59.33 So they're always struggling with like, 00:53:59.37\00:54:00.70 the one guy just talked on the phone just recently, 00:54:00.74\00:54:02.80 you know, his parents left when he was five, 00:54:02.84\00:54:04.94 throwing around from aunt, to grandmother, 00:54:04.97\00:54:06.64 and he's always angry, bitter to God. 00:54:06.68\00:54:09.01 So I can understand why now. 00:54:09.04\00:54:10.38 So I think you know, obviously, yeah, 00:54:10.41\00:54:11.75 we don't want to look behind. 00:54:11.78\00:54:13.11 But we do want to deal with those things 00:54:13.15\00:54:14.48 that we've suppressed in our minds 00:54:14.52\00:54:16.32 that God wants to clean us up so He can, 00:54:16.35\00:54:18.32 so we get rid of the old roots, 00:54:18.35\00:54:19.69 so we can bear new fruit. 00:54:19.72\00:54:21.06 That's right. 00:54:21.09\00:54:22.42 And it's, I think you're talking about also 00:54:22.46\00:54:23.79 like the direction of Lot's wife, 00:54:23.83\00:54:25.93 the direction of her heart. 00:54:25.96\00:54:27.60 And she wanted to be back there. 00:54:27.63\00:54:30.30 And what you're talking about is reviewing things 00:54:30.33\00:54:33.13 that maybe we need to deal with. 00:54:33.17\00:54:35.34 And I'm also thinking about how sometimes 00:54:35.37\00:54:37.47 we need to remember how God has led us. 00:54:37.51\00:54:41.14 And I think that would be the only situation 00:54:41.18\00:54:43.65 that I would say that would maybe, 00:54:43.68\00:54:45.18 you know, be beneficial. 00:54:45.21\00:54:46.85 Not living back there but reviewing 00:54:46.88\00:54:48.85 'cause God always, through the Bible, 00:54:48.88\00:54:50.32 always tell His people like, you know, 00:54:50.35\00:54:52.65 remember how I lead you 00:54:52.69\00:54:54.56 and right so it's not like we're not living there, 00:54:54.59\00:54:57.63 our heart is not back there, but we know 00:54:57.66\00:54:59.26 that God has brought us from that point, 00:54:59.29\00:55:01.16 but we don't stay back there, 00:55:01.20\00:55:02.53 like she wanted to stay back there. 00:55:02.56\00:55:04.27 Okay, you're hitting a point that I'm so glad 00:55:04.30\00:55:06.37 you brought up because this is the reason 00:55:06.40\00:55:07.74 why she became a pillar of salt because she wanted to be back. 00:55:07.77\00:55:11.31 So I'm going to challenge you, 00:55:11.34\00:55:12.67 how many of you want to live your past 00:55:12.71\00:55:15.14 over and over and over and over again? 00:55:15.18\00:55:16.81 Some people want to be back there, 00:55:16.85\00:55:18.85 because it's a predictable place in life. 00:55:18.88\00:55:21.12 Psychologically, some people... They're comfortable there. 00:55:21.15\00:55:23.39 It's a comfort zone of sitting by the pool for 38 years, 00:55:23.42\00:55:27.22 saying, "Nobody is here to help me." 00:55:27.26\00:55:29.66 You got to help yourself sometimes. 00:55:29.69\00:55:31.73 You know, sometimes people are not going 00:55:31.76\00:55:34.46 to come along, and just always get into your pity party. 00:55:34.50\00:55:36.70 They're going to say, like, Jesus, 00:55:36.73\00:55:38.07 "Take up your bed and walk." 00:55:38.10\00:55:39.93 Do something different. So don't sit at that... 00:55:39.97\00:55:41.54 Forget those things that are behind. 00:55:41.57\00:55:43.07 Say that again, Honey. 00:55:43.10\00:55:44.44 Forget those things that are behind like Lot's wife behind. 00:55:44.47\00:55:48.01 That's right. Leave it behind you. 00:55:48.04\00:55:49.64 She kept focusing on what was behind her. 00:55:49.68\00:55:51.48 God is saying, look at the plain before you. 00:55:51.51\00:55:54.12 And there's some people... But look at you. 00:55:54.15\00:55:55.55 You were abandoned. 00:55:55.58\00:55:57.92 Well, look at me now. 00:55:57.95\00:55:59.29 Praise God. Yes, you know. 00:55:59.32\00:56:03.06 We all come from brokenness. 00:56:03.09\00:56:05.13 Every one of us has faced brokenness... 00:56:05.16\00:56:06.49 As a baby, when I say abandon, you were abandoned as a baby. 00:56:06.53\00:56:09.36 That's right. 00:56:09.40\00:56:10.73 I think too, though, we can also hold on 00:56:10.77\00:56:12.10 to bitterness and anger and unforgiveness. 00:56:12.13\00:56:14.97 And those things really, overtime can destroy us. 00:56:15.00\00:56:17.94 Because I mean, it really ultimately affects 00:56:17.97\00:56:19.34 your total health. 00:56:19.37\00:56:20.71 That's right. Yeah, you have to deal with those things. 00:56:20.74\00:56:24.15 You have to deal with those things, 00:56:24.18\00:56:25.51 but I wanna hit two very quick points before we shut down. 00:56:25.55\00:56:27.02 Okay, go ahead. 00:56:27.05\00:56:28.38 Before we say Happy New Year and Happy 2022. 00:56:28.42\00:56:31.39 It says, don't do like the Israelites did, 00:56:31.42\00:56:33.49 they selected a new leader to go back. 00:56:33.52\00:56:36.22 Friends, let me encourage you, the only leader 00:56:36.26\00:56:38.03 that should be in your life is Jesus. 00:56:38.06\00:56:40.00 That's the only way that 2022 00:56:40.03\00:56:41.50 is going to be a successful year. 00:56:41.53\00:56:43.26 Keep focusing on Him. 00:56:43.30\00:56:45.00 Hebrews 12:2, "Looking unto Jesus, 00:56:45.03\00:56:47.04 the author and finisher of your faith." 00:56:47.07\00:56:48.84 In this very last quote, listen to this. 00:56:48.87\00:56:50.87 "In reviewing our past history, 00:56:50.91\00:56:53.31 having traveled over every step of our present standing, 00:56:53.34\00:56:56.54 I can say praise God." 00:56:56.58\00:56:57.91 Amen. 00:56:57.95\00:56:59.28 "As I see what God has wrought, I am filled with astonishment 00:56:59.31\00:57:01.35 and with confidence in Christ as leader. 00:57:01.38\00:57:03.55 We have nothing to fear for the future, 00:57:03.59\00:57:06.09 except as we shall forget the way the Lord has led us 00:57:06.12\00:57:10.03 and His teaching in our past history." 00:57:10.06\00:57:12.39 Amen. Have we all had a past? 00:57:12.43\00:57:13.90 Oh, yes. Is He saying go forward? 00:57:13.93\00:57:15.90 Amen. 00:57:15.93\00:57:17.27 Can we say Happy New Year one more time? 00:57:17.30\00:57:18.63 Happy New Year. 00:57:18.67\00:57:20.64 I tell you and, Honey, thank you for being with me, 00:57:20.67\00:57:23.61 2022, we're still together. 00:57:23.64\00:57:25.94 Praise God. 00:57:25.97\00:57:27.31 And for the New Year, we're encouraging couples, 00:57:27.34\00:57:29.64 those of you who are Christians, 00:57:29.68\00:57:31.15 if you're single, bereaved, continue trusting God 00:57:31.18\00:57:34.02 and 2022 will be a blessing. 00:57:34.05\00:57:36.28 Amen. Amen. 00:57:36.32\00:57:37.65