I want to spend my life 00:00:02.10\00:00:08.04 Mending broken people 00:00:08.07\00:00:12.97 I want to spend my life 00:00:13.01\00:00:18.98 Removing pain 00:00:19.01\00:00:24.25 Lord, let my words 00:00:24.29\00:00:27.49 Heal a heart that hurts 00:00:30.53\00:00:35.10 I want to spend my life 00:00:35.13\00:00:40.77 Mending broken people 00:00:40.80\00:00:46.21 I want to spend my life 00:00:46.24\00:00:51.75 Mending broken people 00:00:51.78\00:00:54.65 Hello, friends, and welcome to another edition 00:01:08.90\00:01:11.33 of 3ABN Family Worship, 00:01:11.37\00:01:13.30 and we want to say Happy Sabbath, 00:01:13.34\00:01:15.50 and that we are so thankful 00:01:15.54\00:01:16.87 that you're joining us during this time 00:01:16.91\00:01:18.24 as we're coming together as family. 00:01:18.27\00:01:20.34 That's what is called, Family Worship, right? 00:01:20.38\00:01:22.74 We are here to study, to learn, to grow together as family 00:01:22.78\00:01:25.88 here on the Sabbath evening. 00:01:25.91\00:01:27.28 And we have a very, very exciting special topic. 00:01:27.32\00:01:30.79 I'm excited to talk about 00:01:30.82\00:01:32.15 because it's dealing with the subject of witnessing 00:01:32.19\00:01:34.42 and how to represent Jesus the best way possible 00:01:34.46\00:01:37.86 when we are witnessing 00:01:37.89\00:01:39.33 or trying to reach someone else for Jesus Christ. 00:01:39.36\00:01:41.60 So you don't want to go anywhere. 00:01:41.63\00:01:43.26 So stay tuned, because we're going to be learning a lot 00:01:43.30\00:01:45.37 during this hour together 00:01:45.40\00:01:47.74 about how to witness the right way. 00:01:47.77\00:01:50.41 That's our title, 00:01:50.44\00:01:51.77 "Witnessing the Right Way." 00:01:51.81\00:01:54.04 But before we go any further, 00:01:54.08\00:01:55.41 I want to go ahead and introduce our family 00:01:55.44\00:01:57.35 at this time. 00:01:57.38\00:01:58.71 I'm going to start to my far right here. 00:01:58.75\00:02:00.35 I have Pastor John Dinzey 00:02:00.38\00:02:02.22 and his beautiful wife, Idalia Dinzey, 00:02:02.25\00:02:04.75 it's wonderful to have you both here 00:02:04.79\00:02:06.62 joining us during this time. 00:02:06.65\00:02:08.12 Well, it's a blessing to be here, 00:02:08.16\00:02:09.49 especially when my wife is with me 00:02:09.52\00:02:10.86 to participate in the Family Worship. 00:02:10.89\00:02:13.13 Thank you for the invitation. 00:02:13.16\00:02:14.53 And it's always a feast to share about God's Word 00:02:14.56\00:02:20.20 and about sharing God's Word with others. 00:02:20.24\00:02:22.64 Amen. I like that. It's a feast. 00:02:22.67\00:02:25.07 And this is Family Worship. 00:02:25.11\00:02:26.44 And so we're gonna be feasting on the Word of God, for sure. 00:02:26.47\00:02:28.58 Thank you so much for that. 00:02:28.61\00:02:29.94 Of course, to the far left over here. 00:02:29.98\00:02:31.68 He's back with us again. 00:02:31.71\00:02:34.52 My brother Dakota Day, 00:02:34.55\00:02:36.75 Amazing Facts evangelist full time, on the road, 00:02:36.79\00:02:40.12 all the time preaching the gospel for Jesus Christ. 00:02:40.16\00:02:42.79 And, as always, it's always blessed 00:02:42.82\00:02:44.16 to have you here, Brother. 00:02:44.19\00:02:45.53 I appreciate it, Brother. It's a blessing to be here. 00:02:45.56\00:02:46.90 Look forward to this study. 00:02:46.93\00:02:48.26 Amen. Amen. Praise the Lord. 00:02:48.30\00:02:50.03 Well, before we get right into talking 00:02:50.07\00:02:52.20 about witnessing the right way, 00:02:52.23\00:02:54.57 we're going to go ahead and have a prayer 00:02:54.60\00:02:55.94 and invite the Holy Spirit to lead and guide us 00:02:55.97\00:02:57.31 during this time. 00:02:57.34\00:02:58.67 So Pastor Dinzey, 00:02:58.71\00:03:00.04 why don't you say a prayer for us? 00:03:00.08\00:03:01.41 Sure. 00:03:01.44\00:03:02.78 Our loving and wonderful Heavenly Father, 00:03:02.81\00:03:04.35 we just want to thank You for this opportunity, Lord, 00:03:04.38\00:03:07.58 to join as a family to worship together, 00:03:07.62\00:03:10.69 to study Your Word, 00:03:10.72\00:03:12.05 and also to share with the rest of our family, 00:03:12.09\00:03:15.22 many of which we have not yet met. 00:03:15.26\00:03:17.29 But we pray that 00:03:17.33\00:03:18.66 You will give us the privilege some day to meet them. 00:03:18.69\00:03:21.06 Heavenly Father, we pray that 00:03:21.10\00:03:22.43 You would direct our conversation, guide us, 00:03:22.46\00:03:25.03 so that You will bring things to our remembrance 00:03:25.07\00:03:27.80 and even give us words to speak, 00:03:27.84\00:03:29.67 there will be words full of life and hope 00:03:29.70\00:03:32.57 and encouragement. 00:03:32.61\00:03:34.04 And it may be that someone may need a warning. 00:03:34.08\00:03:36.85 So we pray that You will use us in all ways 00:03:36.88\00:03:40.05 to bring You honor and glory. 00:03:40.08\00:03:41.42 In Jesus' name, amen. 00:03:41.45\00:03:42.88 Amen. Amen. Praise the Lord. 00:03:42.92\00:03:45.92 This is one of those subjects that, 00:03:45.95\00:03:48.26 to me is near and dear to my heart. 00:03:48.29\00:03:50.99 And I think all of us can relate to that 00:03:51.03\00:03:52.49 in the sense that 00:03:52.53\00:03:53.86 I learned many years ago from another minister, 00:03:53.90\00:03:56.67 he's talking about 00:03:56.70\00:03:58.03 what's called the Christian three legs of the stool. 00:03:58.07\00:04:00.94 It's what we need 00:04:00.97\00:04:02.30 for a proper balanced connection 00:04:02.34\00:04:05.57 in relationship with Jesus. 00:04:05.61\00:04:07.08 And the three legs were, of course, Bible study, prayer. 00:04:07.11\00:04:10.91 And, of course, the third leg of the stool 00:04:10.95\00:04:13.21 that you have to have 00:04:13.25\00:04:14.58 in order for the stool to stand properly, right? 00:04:14.62\00:04:17.12 In order for it to function properly, 00:04:17.15\00:04:18.69 is witnessing, proper witnessing. 00:04:18.72\00:04:20.99 And over the years I can have, I have to admit, I have to say 00:04:21.02\00:04:23.99 that I haven't always been the best witness. 00:04:24.03\00:04:26.43 It's kind of a learning and a growing experience. 00:04:26.46\00:04:29.90 But the Lord has certainly opened my mind and my eyes 00:04:29.93\00:04:32.77 over the years to the better 00:04:32.80\00:04:34.54 and proper ways of witnessing 00:04:34.57\00:04:36.71 and sharing the gospel 00:04:36.74\00:04:38.07 and leading someone to Jesus Christ. 00:04:38.11\00:04:40.51 And it really does, you have to kind of approach it 00:04:40.54\00:04:43.55 in a kind of a methodical way. 00:04:43.58\00:04:45.95 Make sure you're practicing 00:04:45.98\00:04:47.82 the proper techniques and tactics 00:04:47.85\00:04:49.65 in order to make sure that you are nurturing that person 00:04:49.68\00:04:52.79 and leading them to Jesus. 00:04:52.82\00:04:54.49 But you know, we've all had that bad witnessing experience. 00:04:54.52\00:04:59.56 I think I have, I know you guys probably have. 00:04:59.59\00:05:01.86 We all have experienced that bad witnessing experience, 00:05:01.90\00:05:05.23 where it kind of just left a bad taste in our mouth 00:05:05.27\00:05:07.74 or maybe a negative emotion or feeling 00:05:07.77\00:05:09.90 about either a doctrine, or a teaching, 00:05:09.94\00:05:12.67 or a passage of scripture, 00:05:12.71\00:05:14.48 or maybe just Christianity in general. 00:05:14.51\00:05:17.11 There's a lot of people that I know that 00:05:17.15\00:05:18.61 because of a bad witnessing experience they had, 00:05:18.65\00:05:21.05 either them giving, 00:05:21.08\00:05:23.22 you know, trying to witness to someone 00:05:23.25\00:05:24.62 or someone trying to witness to them, 00:05:24.65\00:05:27.12 they experienced and had a bad witnessing experience 00:05:27.16\00:05:29.39 that just pretty much left a bad, 00:05:29.42\00:05:31.96 you know, mindset or a bad mentality 00:05:31.99\00:05:33.83 about Christianity in general, or following Jesus in general. 00:05:33.86\00:05:37.30 So I just want to open that up, let's talk in the... 00:05:37.33\00:05:39.83 It's kind of an unconventional way 00:05:39.87\00:05:41.67 to start the study. 00:05:41.70\00:05:43.04 But I want to talk first 00:05:43.07\00:05:44.41 about how not to witness 00:05:44.44\00:05:46.68 because that's important, right? 00:05:46.71\00:05:48.71 We want to make sure that 00:05:48.74\00:05:50.08 we are practicing the proper methods of witnessing, 00:05:50.11\00:05:53.05 but we've all had that negative experience. 00:05:53.08\00:05:55.15 Pastor Dinzey, 00:05:55.18\00:05:56.52 I know you probably have had one in the past 00:05:56.55\00:05:58.05 or know of someone who has had one. 00:05:58.09\00:06:00.36 Talk about maybe an experience that you've had in the past 00:06:00.39\00:06:02.42 and point out to us some, some identifications 00:06:02.46\00:06:05.89 of how not to witness. 00:06:05.93\00:06:08.60 How not to witness. 00:06:08.63\00:06:09.96 I know that's kind of opening Pandora's box right there. 00:06:10.00\00:06:13.27 But no, seriously. 00:06:13.30\00:06:14.64 You know, thinking about it. 00:06:14.67\00:06:19.07 Like this quickly, I'm going to say that 00:06:19.11\00:06:22.31 I was reading that particular day, 00:06:22.34\00:06:25.11 the parable that Jesus gave about 00:06:25.15\00:06:28.48 that the master of the vineyard went out, 00:06:28.52\00:06:31.52 and he saw some people, 00:06:31.55\00:06:33.76 you guys not doing anything? 00:06:33.79\00:06:35.16 Why don't you come to my vineyard and work? 00:06:35.19\00:06:37.43 And so, and I will pay you what is right. 00:06:37.46\00:06:39.73 And so he went in the early part of the day, 00:06:39.76\00:06:42.10 you know the story, 00:06:42.13\00:06:43.47 and later and later and later, 00:06:43.50\00:06:44.83 and he went out 00:06:44.87\00:06:46.20 when it was just like one hour left 00:06:46.23\00:06:48.04 in the day of work. 00:06:48.07\00:06:49.54 And he found some people not doing anything, 00:06:49.57\00:06:52.07 "Hey, why aren't you guys working?" 00:06:52.11\00:06:54.08 "Nobody's hired us." 00:06:54.11\00:06:55.44 "Come with to vineyard to work." 00:06:55.48\00:06:57.11 So he started paying everyone from the very last to the first 00:06:57.15\00:07:00.28 and he gave everybody a penny, according to the Bible. 00:07:00.32\00:07:02.48 Of course, a penny today 00:07:02.52\00:07:03.89 will get some people pretty upset. 00:07:03.92\00:07:06.29 But, anyway, and I was thinking about that 00:07:06.32\00:07:09.72 and I said, that's wonderful. 00:07:09.76\00:07:11.99 How God is so good. 00:07:12.03\00:07:13.40 I mean, if you accept Christ when you're younger, 00:07:13.43\00:07:16.30 and maybe when you lay it later, 00:07:16.33\00:07:18.23 is when you finally hear the message, 00:07:18.27\00:07:20.10 you go to the same heaven, 00:07:20.14\00:07:21.70 and I'm sharing this with some young lady that, 00:07:21.74\00:07:24.37 so how was your day? 00:07:24.41\00:07:25.74 And I started sharing this with her. 00:07:25.77\00:07:27.24 And I said, 00:07:27.28\00:07:28.61 "Isn't God good that 00:07:28.64\00:07:29.98 He's going to put everybody in the same heaven, 00:07:30.01\00:07:32.28 we're all going to enjoy His presence, 00:07:32.31\00:07:34.35 and not people being in a lower heaven here 00:07:34.38\00:07:36.69 and someone lower and someone lower. 00:07:36.72\00:07:38.99 And she goes, 00:07:39.02\00:07:40.36 "I don't know, but you've completely destroyed 00:07:40.39\00:07:42.49 one of my church's doctrines." 00:07:42.52\00:07:44.49 I was shocked. I didn't know. 00:07:44.53\00:07:46.83 And so I said, "Wow!" 00:07:46.86\00:07:50.33 I didn't prepare myself for the reaction. 00:07:50.37\00:07:52.33 I was overjoyed with what I had just, 00:07:52.37\00:07:55.37 you know, touched me so hard so much. 00:07:55.40\00:07:57.51 And I say, 00:07:57.54\00:07:58.87 "Well, what I learn from this, you know." 00:07:58.91\00:08:00.94 You really have to be in much prayer 00:08:00.98\00:08:04.11 before you witness, 00:08:04.15\00:08:05.48 because the Lord wants to give people hope, life 00:08:05.51\00:08:10.45 and encouragement and lead them to Him. 00:08:10.49\00:08:12.69 And I don't know, 00:08:12.72\00:08:14.06 I looked at this as, wow, I failed on that one. 00:08:14.09\00:08:16.12 But perhaps, you know, 00:08:16.16\00:08:17.49 the Lord would make her wondering, thinking 00:08:17.53\00:08:19.83 or maybe I'm looking at this the wrong way. 00:08:19.86\00:08:21.63 But to me, it seemed like that didn't work out well. 00:08:21.66\00:08:24.97 Yeah, absolutely. 00:08:25.00\00:08:26.37 Absolutely. 00:08:26.40\00:08:28.87 I'll go ahead and share 00:08:28.90\00:08:30.34 what one of the experiences anyway. 00:08:30.37\00:08:33.74 We used to go door-to-door a lot. 00:08:33.78\00:08:35.54 Do you remember those days? 00:08:35.58\00:08:37.25 Door-to-door 00:08:37.28\00:08:38.61 and people were happy to see you 00:08:38.65\00:08:40.22 and some were not so happy. 00:08:40.25\00:08:42.08 And sometimes I'm like, I'm not touching that door, 00:08:42.12\00:08:46.29 you know, because of fear. 00:08:46.32\00:08:48.59 There was one in particular that was, it was torn down. 00:08:48.62\00:08:51.29 And apparently there had been a fight in that home. 00:08:51.33\00:08:55.83 But the Lord took us to a home. 00:08:55.86\00:08:59.27 I was being trained to do the door-to-door thing, 00:08:59.30\00:09:02.80 witnessing with an older lady from the church. 00:09:02.84\00:09:05.31 So I'm trusting 100% 00:09:05.34\00:09:06.91 you know, she's the leader and she's gonna, 00:09:06.94\00:09:09.28 I'm gonna learn from her. 00:09:09.31\00:09:11.15 So, this is what happened. 00:09:11.18\00:09:16.48 We got to the door and the lady said, 00:09:16.52\00:09:18.05 "Oh, hello, come around the back." 00:09:18.09\00:09:20.62 Okay, so we went around the back, 00:09:20.66\00:09:22.42 it was the kitchen entrance. Okay. 00:09:22.46\00:09:24.09 As we're entering, the lady said, 00:09:24.13\00:09:27.06 "Well, I got to cover the pot," 00:09:27.10\00:09:28.76 because her lobsters were coming out from the pot. 00:09:28.80\00:09:31.43 Okay. Okay? 00:09:31.47\00:09:32.93 So it's a stock pot, 00:09:32.97\00:09:34.64 and the lady says that's training me, 00:09:34.67\00:09:37.47 "You're not supposed to eat lobster, 00:09:37.51\00:09:39.51 that's condemned in the Bible. 00:09:39.54\00:09:40.88 You know, you need to read. 00:09:40.91\00:09:43.04 That's an unclean animal, Leviticus... 00:09:43.08\00:09:44.51 Oh, no. And I'm like. 00:09:44.55\00:09:46.55 So she said this to the lady that's... 00:09:46.58\00:09:48.15 To the person who were visiting. 00:09:48.18\00:09:49.52 Oh, no! 00:09:49.55\00:09:50.95 Okay. 00:09:50.99\00:09:52.32 I'm like, okay, lest speak truth in love. 00:09:52.35\00:09:54.99 Right. You know what I mean? 00:09:55.02\00:09:56.36 And I'm like, where is our hall cave 00:09:56.39\00:09:58.89 where I can crawl in. 00:09:58.93\00:10:00.66 And, quite frankly, 00:10:00.70\00:10:02.40 I didn't want to go out anymore, 00:10:02.43\00:10:04.33 you know, to with this person to go door-to-door. 00:10:04.37\00:10:08.70 Nobody's perfect, 00:10:08.74\00:10:10.07 you know, and sometimes maybe she got scared. 00:10:10.11\00:10:13.44 You know, when those things were popping out of the pot. 00:10:13.48\00:10:17.08 They were still alive, I think. 00:10:17.11\00:10:18.45 Oh, yeah. They were alive. 00:10:18.48\00:10:19.81 No, absolutely. 00:10:19.85\00:10:21.18 So, she was like, so direct and so blind, 00:10:21.22\00:10:25.05 that I think it killed the spirit, you know. 00:10:25.09\00:10:28.32 Right. 00:10:28.36\00:10:29.69 And we did go back 00:10:29.72\00:10:31.39 and the lady was so nice 00:10:31.43\00:10:33.63 to take us back into the home, received us. 00:10:33.66\00:10:37.73 And she became normal or a frequent visitor, 00:10:37.77\00:10:42.60 but she never got baptized. 00:10:42.64\00:10:44.84 So, to this day, 00:10:44.87\00:10:47.11 we keep in touch with that lady 00:10:47.14\00:10:48.98 because of social media, you know, but what do you do? 00:10:49.01\00:10:52.48 You plant seeds of hope and encouragement. 00:10:52.51\00:10:55.45 So, yeah, just forget 00:10:55.48\00:10:57.12 about what's popping out of those pots, 00:10:57.15\00:10:58.82 you know, just give the love of Jesus. 00:10:58.85\00:11:03.32 That's an interesting story. 00:11:03.36\00:11:04.69 And we'll get into 00:11:04.73\00:11:06.06 probably come back to those instances 00:11:06.09\00:11:07.43 in a little bit to identify 00:11:07.46\00:11:09.10 some of the aspects 00:11:09.13\00:11:10.47 that could have been done differently, right? 00:11:10.50\00:11:11.83 In those situations to improve. 00:11:11.87\00:11:13.34 Dakota, what about you, if something comes to mind? 00:11:13.37\00:11:15.57 I could write a whole book on that. 00:11:15.60\00:11:17.31 I really could. 00:11:17.34\00:11:18.67 I'm not even joking, like, so like, 00:11:18.71\00:11:20.84 the first thing that came to my mind 00:11:20.88\00:11:22.21 when I heard, 00:11:22.24\00:11:23.58 you know, we're going to do this study together, 00:11:23.61\00:11:25.18 is that when we thought about wrong ways to witness, 00:11:25.21\00:11:27.42 it's the spiritual machine gun. 00:11:27.45\00:11:28.88 Oh, there you go. 00:11:28.92\00:11:30.25 Spiritual machine gun, 00:11:30.29\00:11:31.62 you guys know what I'm talking about, right? 00:11:31.65\00:11:32.99 When you get so on fired, so excited. 00:11:33.02\00:11:34.99 You're about to do Bible studies 00:11:35.02\00:11:36.42 with this new person or this new friend 00:11:36.46\00:11:37.93 or whatever who's showed interest in Bible studies. 00:11:37.96\00:11:40.70 And, you know, maybe you're studying, 00:11:40.73\00:11:42.06 I don't know about the tribulation, 00:11:42.10\00:11:43.43 or you're studying about the rapture, 00:11:43.47\00:11:44.80 you're studying about, you know, anything, 00:11:44.83\00:11:46.33 Antichrist, whatever. 00:11:46.37\00:11:47.70 There's always that that urge 00:11:47.74\00:11:49.67 to give them the spiritual machine gun 00:11:49.70\00:11:51.34 and overload them with too much information. 00:11:51.37\00:11:53.44 Okay. Give us an example? 00:11:53.48\00:11:54.81 And so like, I'll give you an example. 00:11:54.84\00:11:56.44 So like, there was this one time, 00:11:56.48\00:12:00.22 this lady, so she actually was coming 00:12:00.25\00:12:03.32 to one of my evangelistic meetings. 00:12:03.35\00:12:05.05 And she said, hey, listen, you know, 00:12:05.09\00:12:07.06 I'd like you to come visit some time. 00:12:07.09\00:12:08.42 She told me, 00:12:08.46\00:12:09.79 "The pastor would like you to come visit some time." 00:12:09.82\00:12:11.16 And we said, "Okay, great." 00:12:11.19\00:12:12.53 We'll come by and give you a visit. 00:12:12.56\00:12:13.90 So we show up, she had been coming, 00:12:13.93\00:12:15.26 probably, we were like 00:12:15.30\00:12:16.63 halfway through our evangelistic series. 00:12:16.67\00:12:18.00 So I'd already covered like, the second coming of Jesus, 00:12:18.03\00:12:19.37 the truth about the rapture. 00:12:19.40\00:12:20.74 And, you know, told him that the left behind truth, right? 00:12:20.77\00:12:23.17 Truth that was left behind, 00:12:23.20\00:12:24.54 and she didn't know all that stuff. 00:12:24.57\00:12:25.91 So this is brand new information. 00:12:25.94\00:12:27.28 So she was so on fire. 00:12:27.31\00:12:28.64 She was calling all her family members 00:12:28.68\00:12:30.01 and telling them how wrong they are. 00:12:30.05\00:12:31.38 Hmm. And... 00:12:31.41\00:12:33.72 So well, we didn't know me and pastor showing up 00:12:33.75\00:12:36.08 and we're walking into this door. 00:12:36.12\00:12:38.85 And she answers the phone, 00:12:38.89\00:12:40.56 I mean, she answers the phone like, 00:12:40.59\00:12:41.92 right when we knock on the door, and she goes, 00:12:41.96\00:12:43.66 "Oh, come on in, they're here." 00:12:43.69\00:12:45.69 And we're like, okay, 00:12:45.73\00:12:47.06 so we walk on in and she's like, 00:12:47.10\00:12:48.43 here, she's like, 00:12:48.46\00:12:49.80 tell my daughter how she's wrong and she... 00:12:49.83\00:12:53.60 and she hands us the phone. 00:12:53.64\00:12:54.97 She goes, I've been telling her that she's wrong about, 00:12:55.00\00:12:57.07 you know, the state of the dead, 00:12:57.11\00:12:58.57 she's wrong about hellfire, she's wrong about, 00:12:58.61\00:13:00.58 and she just gave her the spiritual machine gun. 00:13:00.61\00:13:04.01 And she just unloaded on her daughter 00:13:04.05\00:13:05.88 about all these things that she's been, 00:13:05.91\00:13:07.25 you know, taught that now they have it wrong. 00:13:07.28\00:13:09.98 And then she's given us and she's wanting us 00:13:10.02\00:13:11.45 to give her the spiritual machine gun. 00:13:11.49\00:13:13.09 And there's always that, 00:13:13.12\00:13:14.96 you know, that, that I guess you can say that 00:13:14.99\00:13:17.39 drive where as an evangelist, 00:13:17.43\00:13:19.33 especially you want people to know the truth. 00:13:19.36\00:13:21.36 So there's always that, you know, encouragement, 00:13:21.40\00:13:23.60 they're like, you know, you want them to see, 00:13:23.63\00:13:24.97 this may be the only cop opportunity you have 00:13:25.00\00:13:26.80 to actually tell them the truth. 00:13:26.84\00:13:28.17 That's right. 00:13:28.20\00:13:30.37 And so, what ends up happening sometimes 00:13:30.41\00:13:31.74 is you end up giving them a spiritual machine gun, 00:13:31.77\00:13:33.17 and you just... 00:13:33.21\00:13:34.84 You hit them with so much scriptures, 00:13:34.88\00:13:36.21 so much truth that their mind is just like, 00:13:36.24\00:13:38.38 I can't handle it, you know, 00:13:38.41\00:13:40.38 and they kind of freak out on you. 00:13:40.42\00:13:41.78 And then you oftentimes will lose your witness. 00:13:41.82\00:13:44.29 You can lose your witness in that, 00:13:44.32\00:13:45.89 you overwhelm someone so much with so much truth, 00:13:45.92\00:13:49.69 that now they're like, 00:13:49.72\00:13:51.06 well, that's just so much information, 00:13:51.09\00:13:52.53 so exhausting for my mind. 00:13:52.56\00:13:54.26 I don't even want to study with him anymore. 00:13:54.30\00:13:56.16 You know, Jesus Himself. 00:13:56.20\00:13:57.53 So I was reminded of a scripture in John 16:12, 00:13:57.57\00:13:59.93 He said to His own disciples, 00:13:59.97\00:14:01.30 "I have yet many things to tell you, 00:14:01.34\00:14:02.84 but you cannot yet bear them." 00:14:02.87\00:14:04.21 That's right. There you go. I like that. 00:14:04.24\00:14:05.91 And there's lots of things 00:14:05.94\00:14:07.28 that Jesus wanted to tell Peter, James 00:14:07.31\00:14:08.64 and all the rest of them, 00:14:08.68\00:14:10.01 but they weren't ready for that. 00:14:10.05\00:14:11.41 And so we have to understand and being a witness, 00:14:11.45\00:14:13.55 especially being a good witness, 00:14:13.58\00:14:15.02 of how to share things at the right times, 00:14:15.05\00:14:18.09 and share just enough to whet their mouth, 00:14:18.12\00:14:21.26 get them hungry for more truth, 00:14:21.29\00:14:22.76 but not overwhelm them at the same time. 00:14:22.79\00:14:24.13 Absolutely. 00:14:24.16\00:14:25.49 That's a great point that you made 00:14:25.53\00:14:26.86 because there's some people in the church, 00:14:26.90\00:14:29.30 I'll just say the church in general, 00:14:29.33\00:14:30.67 because there's many different churches, 00:14:30.70\00:14:32.43 denominations, 00:14:32.47\00:14:33.80 but many people that have this mentality 00:14:33.84\00:14:35.57 where they take the scripture and they will twist it 00:14:35.60\00:14:37.61 or manipulate it to their own destruction. 00:14:37.64\00:14:39.51 For instance, that famous scripture 00:14:39.54\00:14:41.14 I believe it's in Isaiah maybe 58 where it says, 00:14:41.18\00:14:43.81 "Cry aloud, spare not, show my people their sins," right? 00:14:43.85\00:14:47.78 Some people take that text and that principle and they go, 00:14:47.82\00:14:50.12 "Oh, you know, it's my duty to go out here 00:14:50.15\00:14:52.49 and just give people the truth." 00:14:52.52\00:14:54.69 And it's not, it's not my fault 00:14:54.72\00:14:56.36 if they don't receive the truth. 00:14:56.39\00:14:57.73 So I'm just gonna give it to them straight 00:14:57.76\00:14:59.63 and so, and I've been in one of those, 00:14:59.66\00:15:01.06 I've been in many of those situations 00:15:01.10\00:15:02.90 where people have witnessed to me in a negative way 00:15:02.93\00:15:05.87 and left a bad taste in my mouth 00:15:05.90\00:15:07.97 for a particular message. 00:15:08.00\00:15:09.34 And it doesn't mean that 00:15:09.37\00:15:10.71 what they're sharing is not true, right? 00:15:10.74\00:15:12.11 A lot of times what people share is that 00:15:12.14\00:15:14.08 it's the straight truth if you've never heard it, 00:15:14.11\00:15:16.75 but it's the method, 00:15:16.78\00:15:18.11 it's the way that they present that. 00:15:18.15\00:15:19.68 And if we don't learn to package it in such a way, 00:15:19.71\00:15:22.15 and present it in a methodical, tactful way 00:15:22.18\00:15:24.82 to reach that person in the correct way, 00:15:24.85\00:15:27.66 then we can kill our witness. 00:15:27.69\00:15:29.02 I'll never forget many years ago, 00:15:29.06\00:15:30.39 and I'm being just transparent, 00:15:30.43\00:15:31.76 open right now about just some experience I've had. 00:15:31.79\00:15:33.73 Many years ago, went to this particular church, 00:15:33.76\00:15:35.93 I was preaching at this church, 00:15:35.96\00:15:37.30 they invited me to come out. 00:15:37.33\00:15:38.67 And I preached the message, place was packed. 00:15:38.70\00:15:40.40 I mean, it was a wonderful experience. 00:15:40.44\00:15:41.87 And at the end, as we're walking out 00:15:41.90\00:15:43.37 and while exiting the church, lady comes up to me, 00:15:43.41\00:15:45.91 and there was, again, four or five people 00:15:45.94\00:15:47.98 standing around there. 00:15:48.01\00:15:49.34 So it was very clear, 00:15:49.38\00:15:50.71 lady comes up to me, and she goes, 00:15:50.75\00:15:52.08 and of course, my wife was standing next to me. 00:15:52.11\00:15:53.45 And if you've ever seen my wife, 00:15:53.48\00:15:54.82 she's a little tiny petite thing. 00:15:54.85\00:15:56.18 And of course, you know, opposites, 00:15:56.22\00:15:57.55 you know, me and her are direct opposites. 00:15:57.59\00:15:59.25 And so the lady comes right up to me, 00:15:59.29\00:16:00.66 and she goes, Brother Day, I just want to say to, 00:16:00.69\00:16:03.49 you know, I just feel like 00:16:03.53\00:16:04.86 the Lord's laid this on my heart, 00:16:04.89\00:16:06.23 I've noticed that 00:16:06.26\00:16:07.60 that you are significantly larger than your wife. 00:16:07.63\00:16:09.26 I can tell that your wife practices 00:16:09.30\00:16:11.17 the health message, but you don't. 00:16:11.20\00:16:12.53 Oh, mercy. 00:16:12.57\00:16:14.30 Oh, my. Wow. 00:16:14.97\00:16:16.47 It was like taking a ball bat 00:16:16.50\00:16:17.84 and ping right across the forehead, right? 00:16:17.87\00:16:20.28 In that moment, you know, 00:16:20.31\00:16:21.81 the Lord has been teaching me 00:16:21.84\00:16:23.88 and I'm growing and I'm learning. 00:16:23.91\00:16:25.25 It's been an experience for sure. 00:16:25.28\00:16:26.61 It's been a challenge. 00:16:26.65\00:16:27.98 But nonetheless, in that moment, 00:16:28.02\00:16:29.35 let's assume that's what she's saying was true. 00:16:29.38\00:16:31.92 Okay, it's truthful. 00:16:31.95\00:16:33.29 But did she witness to me in a proper way 00:16:33.32\00:16:34.92 that was leading me and nurturing me, 00:16:34.96\00:16:36.46 and bringing me to Christ? 00:16:36.49\00:16:37.83 No, it was that machine gun method 00:16:37.86\00:16:39.36 take, you know, take this right here, Brother Day, 00:16:39.39\00:16:43.57 you know, just blowing me down as if you know, 00:16:43.60\00:16:46.13 and plus in front of other people. 00:16:46.17\00:16:47.50 We have to make sure 00:16:47.54\00:16:48.87 that our tactics and our methods are correct. 00:16:48.90\00:16:51.31 And that's what we're talking about today, 00:16:51.34\00:16:52.74 witnessing the right way. 00:16:52.77\00:16:54.64 There's a right way and there's a wrong way. 00:16:54.68\00:16:56.31 And we've talked a little bit here 00:16:56.34\00:16:57.68 as in the opening about wrong ways to witness. 00:16:57.71\00:17:00.42 But let's get into right ways to witness. 00:17:00.45\00:17:02.58 First of all, I want to start with Matthew 28. 00:17:02.62\00:17:04.52 So let's go to Matthew 28. 00:17:04.55\00:17:06.02 And we want to talk about why we witness? 00:17:06.05\00:17:07.76 What's the purpose of our witnessing? 00:17:07.79\00:17:09.49 And that is, of course, let's start with Matthew 28, 00:17:09.52\00:17:12.16 that great divine commission that Jesus gives us there. 00:17:12.19\00:17:15.10 Matthew 28:19-20. 00:17:15.13\00:17:17.97 And, Dakota, I don't know if you have that 00:17:18.00\00:17:19.60 or, Brother Dinzey, if you want to read that, Matthew 28:19-20. 00:17:19.63\00:17:23.27 Nineteen and twenty, 00:17:23.30\00:17:24.64 "Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, 00:17:24.67\00:17:27.44 baptizing them in the name of the Father, 00:17:27.48\00:17:30.05 and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, 00:17:30.08\00:17:32.58 teaching them to observe all things 00:17:32.61\00:17:35.15 whatsoever I have commanded you. 00:17:35.18\00:17:37.52 And lo, I am with you always, 00:17:37.55\00:17:39.99 even unto the end of the world. 00:17:40.02\00:17:42.56 Amen." 00:17:42.59\00:17:43.93 Okay. 00:17:43.96\00:17:45.29 So that was the King James Version? 00:17:45.33\00:17:46.70 Was that the King James Version? 00:17:46.73\00:17:48.06 New King James Version. 00:17:48.10\00:17:49.43 That's the New King James Version? Okay. 00:17:49.46\00:17:50.80 Just a moment. All right. Okay. 00:17:50.83\00:17:52.17 Well, my New King James Version actually starts with, 00:17:52.20\00:17:54.77 Go therefore and make disciples. 00:17:54.80\00:17:57.67 Okay, this is King James. That's what mine says. 00:17:57.71\00:17:59.11 Disciples. 00:17:59.14\00:18:00.78 So let me let me read it 00:18:00.81\00:18:02.14 the way many church members see this, okay? 00:18:02.18\00:18:05.18 Go therefore, and make church members of all nations. 00:18:05.21\00:18:07.95 Oh! There you go. 00:18:07.98\00:18:10.09 And many times, 00:18:10.12\00:18:11.45 we think it's our duty to convert someone 00:18:11.49\00:18:14.29 to our particular denomination, our particular faith. 00:18:14.32\00:18:16.62 In this case, you know, 00:18:16.66\00:18:17.99 I'm a Seventh-day Adventist Christian. 00:18:18.03\00:18:19.59 And so, you know, it's not my intention, 00:18:19.63\00:18:22.16 when I'm going out to witness to someone, 00:18:22.20\00:18:24.07 I don't have the mentality of, 00:18:24.10\00:18:25.43 you know, what I'm going into this 00:18:25.47\00:18:27.14 with the full idea 00:18:27.17\00:18:28.70 that I'm going to try to convert them 00:18:28.74\00:18:30.34 to be good Seventh-day Adventist Christians, right? 00:18:30.37\00:18:33.41 And many people approach witnessing in that way. 00:18:33.44\00:18:35.71 And so, their mentality is, 00:18:35.74\00:18:37.08 I'm going to make them a good church member. 00:18:37.11\00:18:38.81 But in order to graft them and 00:18:38.85\00:18:40.85 to draw them into my church, 00:18:40.88\00:18:42.82 well, I've got to prepare them. 00:18:42.85\00:18:44.19 So I've got to just shower them 00:18:44.22\00:18:45.69 with all of these different doctrinal teachings, 00:18:45.72\00:18:47.62 so that we make sure that 00:18:47.66\00:18:48.99 they line up to our particular way of life. 00:18:49.02\00:18:51.09 And we're certainly not condemning or saying 00:18:51.13\00:18:53.76 that we should not share those doctrinal truths, 00:18:53.80\00:18:55.73 because doctrine is important, those individual truths, 00:18:55.76\00:18:58.43 those pillars of our faith 00:18:58.47\00:18:59.93 that make us who we are 00:18:59.97\00:19:01.30 as Seventh-day Adventist Christians. 00:19:01.34\00:19:02.67 Absolutely, they're important, and we want to share them. 00:19:02.70\00:19:05.31 But that being said, 00:19:05.34\00:19:06.68 "Go and make disciples of all nations, 00:19:06.71\00:19:10.98 baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son 00:19:11.01\00:19:12.81 and of the Holy Spirit, 00:19:12.85\00:19:14.18 teaching them to observe all things 00:19:14.22\00:19:15.85 that I've commanded you. 00:19:15.88\00:19:17.22 And lo, I'm with you always, even to the end of the age." 00:19:17.25\00:19:19.35 So get this, it's Jesus saying, teach them, 00:19:19.39\00:19:23.56 make a disciple out of them, baptize them 00:19:23.59\00:19:27.00 and then continue teaching them. 00:19:27.03\00:19:28.63 Our growing experience never stops, right? 00:19:28.66\00:19:30.57 That's right. 00:19:30.60\00:19:31.93 But what does it mean to make a disciple? 00:19:31.97\00:19:34.50 What are we doing 00:19:34.54\00:19:35.87 when we're making disciples out of someone? 00:19:35.90\00:19:39.24 You're forming them and training them to, 00:19:39.27\00:19:43.55 to be able to be part of and follow. 00:19:43.58\00:19:48.25 I wanted to say also that, 00:19:48.28\00:19:50.92 for example, I have a friend 00:19:50.95\00:19:52.65 who visits a church 00:19:52.69\00:19:55.62 and one of the friends from church 00:19:55.66\00:19:59.23 in that congregation said, 00:19:59.26\00:20:02.26 "You have to get baptized already. 00:20:02.30\00:20:03.67 You've been visiting too long. 00:20:03.70\00:20:05.03 It's time for you to get baptized." 00:20:05.07\00:20:07.04 You know, so the time 00:20:07.07\00:20:09.77 the Holy Spirit will prompt the heart 00:20:09.80\00:20:11.47 of that person. 00:20:11.51\00:20:12.84 But in order to be a disciple, 00:20:12.87\00:20:14.64 I need to learn who I'm following. 00:20:14.68\00:20:16.85 I need to enhance our relationship. 00:20:16.88\00:20:20.22 I need to bond, you know, because if it's just words, 00:20:20.25\00:20:25.02 and I'm doing a ritual, 00:20:25.05\00:20:26.39 just because it's nice, 00:20:26.42\00:20:27.89 you know, or the right thing to do, 00:20:27.92\00:20:30.26 but it's not my time. 00:20:30.29\00:20:31.63 I'm just gonna walk out the back door 00:20:31.66\00:20:33.03 from the church, so. 00:20:33.06\00:20:34.40 Right. Absolutely. 00:20:34.43\00:20:35.76 That's a good point. Good point. 00:20:35.80\00:20:37.13 That's right. You want to add to that? 00:20:37.17\00:20:38.50 No, yeah, I mean, in making disciples, 00:20:38.53\00:20:40.30 that disciple is a follower of Jesus. 00:20:40.34\00:20:42.20 I mean, and you making disciples, 00:20:42.24\00:20:45.21 you're making followers of Jesus. 00:20:45.24\00:20:46.57 So as the scripture says, 00:20:46.61\00:20:47.94 teaching them to observe all things 00:20:47.98\00:20:49.34 that I have commanded you. 00:20:49.38\00:20:51.01 So, yes, teaching them was a big part of that. 00:20:51.05\00:20:52.85 But also, it's teaching them how to be a good disciple. 00:20:52.88\00:20:55.62 In other words, make other disciples as well. 00:20:55.65\00:20:58.45 And so that's part of our ministry that too, 00:20:58.49\00:21:00.99 oftentimes, we forget, 00:21:01.02\00:21:02.36 again, we think we get them in the church 00:21:02.39\00:21:03.93 and our job is done. 00:21:03.96\00:21:05.39 But we never stopped growing 00:21:05.43\00:21:06.76 even when we get into the church. 00:21:06.80\00:21:08.13 We always need to grow and draw closer to the Lord. 00:21:08.16\00:21:11.00 And, you know, too oftentimes, I think that, 00:21:11.03\00:21:13.30 you know, we have as Idalia was bringing out, 00:21:13.34\00:21:15.14 we have a lot of people 00:21:15.17\00:21:16.50 who are trying to witness for the Lord 00:21:16.54\00:21:18.94 and they don't even know the Lord. 00:21:18.97\00:21:20.31 Right. 00:21:20.34\00:21:21.68 Like in Acts Chapter 19, you read about the man who... 00:21:21.71\00:21:24.18 It was the seven sons, actually, 00:21:24.21\00:21:25.68 they come and they're exorcist, 00:21:25.71\00:21:27.68 and they're going to try to cast out demons 00:21:27.72\00:21:29.28 because they saw, you know, Paul, 00:21:29.32\00:21:30.65 and all the rest of them do it. 00:21:30.69\00:21:32.02 They're going to cast out demons 00:21:32.05\00:21:33.39 in the name of the Lord. 00:21:33.42\00:21:34.76 What does Paul say? 00:21:34.79\00:21:36.12 What eventually the Bible transpires in Acts, 00:21:36.16\00:21:37.83 I think it's verses 13 through 16, 00:21:37.86\00:21:39.73 you can read there, 00:21:39.76\00:21:41.10 and they say, 00:21:41.13\00:21:42.46 "We're going to cast out these demons 00:21:42.50\00:21:43.83 in the name of the Lord Jesus." 00:21:43.87\00:21:45.20 And the demon speaks to him through the man 00:21:45.23\00:21:46.70 and says, Paul, I know, Jesus, I know, who are you. 00:21:46.74\00:21:52.64 In other words, this man didn't even know Jesus 00:21:52.67\00:21:55.81 for the demons to know him, right? 00:21:55.84\00:21:57.48 I think the demons are only going to know you 00:21:57.51\00:21:59.11 who you are, 00:21:59.15\00:22:00.48 if you're a threat to them. 00:22:00.52\00:22:01.85 You see what I'm saying. 00:22:01.88\00:22:03.22 If you're a true disciple and follower of Jesus. 00:22:03.25\00:22:04.72 This man was trying to witness 00:22:04.75\00:22:06.09 and trying to do some work of the Lord, 00:22:06.12\00:22:07.49 some mighty work of the Lord. 00:22:07.52\00:22:08.86 And he didn't even know the Lord. 00:22:08.89\00:22:10.39 And I think too often times we have people try to do that. 00:22:10.43\00:22:13.09 How many times we've seen it, Ryan, 00:22:13.13\00:22:14.46 where someone who doesn't know the Lord, 00:22:14.50\00:22:17.17 talk about the Lord, 00:22:17.20\00:22:18.53 and he just makes you just want to go like, 00:22:18.57\00:22:20.64 you know, you just start showing those faces like, 00:22:20.67\00:22:22.67 "Oh, no, here we go." 00:22:22.70\00:22:24.94 And they start talking about scriptures 00:22:24.97\00:22:26.31 they know nothing about. 00:22:26.34\00:22:27.68 This is a really bad way to witnessing. 00:22:27.71\00:22:29.61 I think it's important what Idalia said, 00:22:29.64\00:22:31.25 we need to get to know Jesus first, 00:22:31.28\00:22:33.45 and focus on our relationship with Him first, 00:22:33.48\00:22:35.95 before we go out there 00:22:35.98\00:22:37.32 and start flapping our gums about the Lord. 00:22:37.35\00:22:38.69 Right. That's right. 00:22:38.72\00:22:40.06 Now, that's a good point, 00:22:40.09\00:22:41.42 as good relationship is absolutely important. 00:22:41.46\00:22:42.79 When we're talking about making disciples, 00:22:42.82\00:22:46.26 we have to first have that relationship with the Lord 00:22:46.29\00:22:48.16 before we can lead and guide someone 00:22:48.20\00:22:50.20 on how to grow their relationship 00:22:50.23\00:22:51.83 with the Lord. 00:22:51.87\00:22:53.20 Amen. That's right. 00:22:53.23\00:22:54.57 So that's vitally important, you know, 00:22:54.60\00:22:55.94 for someone you know, 00:22:55.97\00:22:57.87 it's there's a sign 00:22:57.91\00:22:59.24 at the Thompsonville Seventh-day Adventist Church. 00:22:59.27\00:23:02.74 As you go out to the back, and it says, 00:23:02.78\00:23:07.48 present Jesus to people in an irresistible way. 00:23:07.52\00:23:12.32 And that captured my attention. 00:23:12.35\00:23:13.69 You know, I don't know how many times I read the sign. 00:23:13.72\00:23:15.36 But one day I stopped and I said, 00:23:15.39\00:23:17.43 you know, people really need this, 00:23:17.46\00:23:19.39 people really need to know 00:23:19.43\00:23:21.30 that the Christ is irresistible in the sense of, 00:23:21.33\00:23:25.13 we need a Savior, 00:23:25.17\00:23:27.24 and He is the only one that can save you. 00:23:27.27\00:23:30.21 You need Jesus. Amen. 00:23:30.24\00:23:31.77 And the people that are new, the Bible calls them new babes. 00:23:31.81\00:23:37.01 And, you know, when a baby is born, 00:23:37.05\00:23:40.22 you don't say congratulations, welcome to the world. 00:23:40.25\00:23:42.28 We'll see you, you know. 00:23:42.32\00:23:43.95 You don't find that. 00:23:43.99\00:23:45.59 That's right. 00:23:45.62\00:23:46.96 We call it even born again, right? 00:23:46.99\00:23:49.32 Yeah. 00:23:49.36\00:23:50.69 So you have to bring them up 00:23:50.73\00:23:52.06 as it's applied here in the nurture 00:23:52.09\00:23:55.20 and admonition of the Lord as you would children. 00:23:55.23\00:23:57.87 Amen. Amen. 00:23:57.90\00:23:59.23 Praise the Lord. I love this. 00:23:59.27\00:24:00.60 Amen. Absolutely. 00:24:00.64\00:24:01.97 I believe we need to learn 00:24:02.00\00:24:03.34 to nurture our very own family members, 00:24:03.37\00:24:06.31 you know what I mean? 00:24:06.34\00:24:07.68 Because while we don't practice in the house, 00:24:07.71\00:24:09.91 you know, it's not gonna go... 00:24:09.94\00:24:11.28 How can we share it outside? 00:24:11.31\00:24:13.11 So, and the Lord has really been working in me, 00:24:13.15\00:24:18.52 because I would just like, if I get some news about, 00:24:18.55\00:24:22.99 you know, one of the kids did something wrong 00:24:23.02\00:24:24.66 or whatever I used to be like, 00:24:24.69\00:24:26.43 like what, you know, 00:24:26.46\00:24:29.06 and I'm like, well, 00:24:29.10\00:24:30.77 Lord, I'm gonna pray about this. 00:24:30.80\00:24:33.70 You know, that's just totally different 00:24:33.74\00:24:35.47 when the Lord is just working in your life. 00:24:35.50\00:24:37.27 And you see how that hate teems down, 00:24:37.31\00:24:41.31 and glory to God, 00:24:41.34\00:24:43.04 because God can change us if we're willing to change. 00:24:43.08\00:24:48.58 So, I would love to see is that 00:24:48.62\00:24:51.85 we love people into our congregations, 00:24:51.89\00:24:55.56 that they may feel they they're part of a family, 00:24:55.59\00:24:59.16 you know, but a lot of people leave 00:24:59.19\00:25:01.10 because of lack of love. 00:25:01.13\00:25:02.96 You know, conditional love is what we offer. 00:25:03.00\00:25:06.60 And Lord have mercy on helpless. 00:25:06.63\00:25:08.30 That's right. 00:25:08.34\00:25:09.67 Conditional love. That's right. 00:25:09.70\00:25:11.04 It happens between families, friends 00:25:11.07\00:25:13.81 or other people in the community. 00:25:13.84\00:25:17.01 It happen, that's humanity, right? 00:25:17.05\00:25:18.98 But the Lord can change that heart around. 00:25:19.01\00:25:20.95 Amen. 00:25:20.98\00:25:22.32 Oh, I'm so glad that you brought it, 00:25:22.35\00:25:23.69 brought that up, because 00:25:23.72\00:25:25.05 now we're going to get into, 00:25:25.09\00:25:26.89 I would like to say maybe the equation, 00:25:26.92\00:25:29.99 the right way to witness. 00:25:30.03\00:25:31.93 And so I put here as a question in my little outline here. 00:25:31.96\00:25:34.96 How many ways are there 00:25:35.00\00:25:36.53 to properly witness for Jesus, right? 00:25:36.56\00:25:39.73 And, you know, what's amazing, 00:25:39.77\00:25:41.10 everybody has their own perception, 00:25:41.14\00:25:43.00 their own perspective of, 00:25:43.04\00:25:44.44 well, you know, my ideal concept 00:25:44.47\00:25:47.68 or idea of witnessing is this. 00:25:47.71\00:25:49.41 So everyone has their own little method. 00:25:49.44\00:25:51.08 But at the end of the day, 00:25:51.11\00:25:52.91 how many ways or how many methods are there. 00:25:52.95\00:25:56.12 And I'm going to share a quote with you here. 00:25:56.15\00:25:57.62 Many of you watching may have heard this before. 00:25:57.65\00:26:00.12 Many of you may have not, but I want to share this. 00:26:00.16\00:26:01.89 This is from the book, 00:26:01.92\00:26:03.29 The Ministry of Healing, page 143. 00:26:03.32\00:26:05.79 And before I read this, I just have to say, 00:26:05.83\00:26:08.16 I will never get many years ago 00:26:08.20\00:26:10.83 when myself and Dakota, 00:26:10.87\00:26:12.47 our wives, Stephanie, and Anna and our friend, Jordan, 00:26:12.50\00:26:15.50 we all packed up and we went for four months 00:26:15.54\00:26:17.91 out to California, 00:26:17.94\00:26:19.77 to attend the Amazing Facts Center 00:26:19.81\00:26:21.71 of Evangelism. 00:26:21.74\00:26:23.08 We wanted to learn and educate ourselves 00:26:23.11\00:26:25.05 on how to properly witness to someone 00:26:25.08\00:26:27.52 and to bring someone to Christ. 00:26:27.55\00:26:29.15 And I'll never forget going through that program. 00:26:29.18\00:26:31.55 The quote that I'm about to read here 00:26:31.59\00:26:32.99 from Ministry of Healing, page 143. 00:26:33.02\00:26:34.62 This was kind of the epicenter. 00:26:34.66\00:26:36.49 This was like the, this was like the ultimate method 00:26:36.52\00:26:41.10 in which we shared in which we live by, 00:26:41.13\00:26:43.20 because when you break this down, 00:26:43.23\00:26:44.57 as we're going to do 00:26:44.60\00:26:45.93 for the remainder of this program, 00:26:45.97\00:26:47.64 it gives us the true only working way 00:26:47.67\00:26:51.67 to win a soul to Jesus Christ. 00:26:51.71\00:26:53.04 That's right. 00:26:53.07\00:26:54.41 I'm going to go ahead and say it clear. 00:26:54.44\00:26:55.78 There's only one right way. Okay. 00:26:55.81\00:26:57.81 And there may be someone watching say, 00:26:57.85\00:26:59.21 oh, you know what, you've got your way, Ryan. 00:26:59.25\00:27:00.78 And I've got my way, and she's got her way, 00:27:00.82\00:27:03.12 and they got their way. 00:27:03.15\00:27:04.49 But at the end of the day, 00:27:04.52\00:27:05.85 there's really only one proved method that works. 00:27:05.89\00:27:09.92 And that is Christ method alone. 00:27:09.96\00:27:13.63 So listen to this, Ministry of Healing, page 143. 00:27:13.66\00:27:17.03 And this is what it says, 00:27:17.07\00:27:19.20 "Christ's method alone will give true success 00:27:19.23\00:27:23.61 in reaching the people." 00:27:23.64\00:27:24.97 So pause there, let's just get that soak that in for a moment. 00:27:25.01\00:27:27.34 So whose method alone? 00:27:27.38\00:27:29.31 Christ's method alone, there's only one. 00:27:29.34\00:27:31.68 So if you're out there trying to witness 00:27:31.71\00:27:33.15 and trying to win people to Christ, 00:27:33.18\00:27:34.58 and you're not implementing Christ method alone, 00:27:34.62\00:27:36.99 and we're gonna see that 00:27:37.02\00:27:38.35 this is clearly backed by Scripture, right? 00:27:38.39\00:27:40.89 Only Christ method works. 00:27:40.92\00:27:42.96 And so, it only brings true success 00:27:42.99\00:27:44.43 in reaching the people. 00:27:44.46\00:27:45.79 And then it goes on to say, 00:27:45.83\00:27:47.16 "The Savior mingled with men, as one who desired their good. 00:27:47.20\00:27:52.17 He showed His sympathy for them, 00:27:52.20\00:27:54.97 ministered to their needs, and won their confidence, 00:27:55.00\00:28:00.41 then he bade them, follow me. 00:28:00.44\00:28:04.15 Amen. 00:28:04.18\00:28:05.51 I love that, it's short and sweet and simple, 00:28:05.55\00:28:08.12 but yet, there is actually a multistep process here. 00:28:08.15\00:28:12.52 I mean, think about it, when you and I use this, 00:28:12.55\00:28:14.92 I use this, I did some evangelism training 00:28:14.96\00:28:16.56 not too long ago, 00:28:16.59\00:28:17.93 and I was given it at a particular church 00:28:17.96\00:28:19.29 that I was at. 00:28:19.33\00:28:20.66 And I gave this illustration, 00:28:20.70\00:28:22.46 you know, when you want to start a garden, 00:28:22.50\00:28:24.33 or you're wanting to plant seeds, or sow seeds 00:28:24.37\00:28:27.14 for the purpose of growing 00:28:27.17\00:28:28.60 and producing fruit from a plant, 00:28:28.64\00:28:30.27 whether it's a vegetable or whatever it is, 00:28:30.31\00:28:32.31 you don't go out to the ground 00:28:32.34\00:28:34.11 that you're hoping to harvest this fruit from, 00:28:34.14\00:28:37.11 eventually, you don't go out to the ground, 00:28:37.15\00:28:38.85 and you don't take the seed and just like, 00:28:38.88\00:28:40.95 throw it out onto the ground, 00:28:40.98\00:28:42.68 and then just walk back in the house 00:28:42.72\00:28:44.15 and expect to come back out a few days later. 00:28:44.19\00:28:46.15 And there's this beautiful plush, 00:28:46.19\00:28:47.86 you know wonderful juicy fruit 00:28:47.89\00:28:49.59 out there for you to receive, right? 00:28:49.62\00:28:51.79 There's a process to it. 00:28:51.83\00:28:53.56 And essentially, 00:28:53.60\00:28:55.00 what you're seeing in this powerful quote here 00:28:55.03\00:28:57.63 from Ministry of Healing, page 143, 00:28:57.67\00:29:00.47 is that Jesus, 00:29:00.50\00:29:01.87 there was a multistep process that Jesus used. 00:29:01.90\00:29:05.01 He just didn't walk up to someone and be like, 00:29:05.04\00:29:06.64 hey, you're a sinner, 00:29:06.68\00:29:08.14 and you're going to hell if you don't change your ways. 00:29:08.18\00:29:10.48 I mean, Jesus was very straightforward 00:29:10.51\00:29:12.25 with a lot of people in certain aspects, 00:29:12.28\00:29:13.95 but it was only because He knew the heart. 00:29:13.98\00:29:16.05 We don't know the heart. 00:29:16.08\00:29:17.42 As human beings, we don't have that that gift 00:29:17.45\00:29:19.05 or that ability to read someone's thoughts 00:29:19.09\00:29:20.86 in another heart. 00:29:20.89\00:29:22.22 He did that. 00:29:22.26\00:29:23.59 But yet in the majority of cases, 00:29:23.63\00:29:25.59 He used what is coined here 00:29:25.63\00:29:27.50 as Christ method alone where He mingled with men 00:29:27.53\00:29:31.17 as one who desired their good. 00:29:31.20\00:29:33.67 He showed them sympathy. 00:29:33.70\00:29:35.80 He ministered to their needs. 00:29:35.84\00:29:37.91 He won their confidence. 00:29:37.94\00:29:39.74 And once He had done all those things, 00:29:39.77\00:29:41.61 then came the day 00:29:41.64\00:29:42.98 where He was like, hey, follow Me. 00:29:43.01\00:29:45.41 Do what I do. 00:29:45.45\00:29:46.78 You know what? And so it's awesome. 00:29:46.82\00:29:48.15 So let's talk about, let's unpack this one by one. 00:29:48.18\00:29:50.55 My next question here. 00:29:50.59\00:29:52.45 What does it mean that Christ mingled with men 00:29:52.49\00:29:56.16 as the one who desired their good? 00:29:56.19\00:29:58.79 Well, what does that mean that He mingled with men? 00:29:58.83\00:30:01.16 And how important is that 00:30:01.20\00:30:02.53 in the opening steps of witnessing? 00:30:02.56\00:30:04.17 This is extremely huge to me, 00:30:04.20\00:30:05.53 because as a Bible worker, 00:30:05.57\00:30:06.97 I was, I used to be a Bible worker 00:30:07.00\00:30:08.34 before I became hired by Amazing Facts 00:30:08.37\00:30:09.77 as an evangelist. 00:30:09.80\00:30:11.14 And what was really cool about being a Bible worker is that, 00:30:11.17\00:30:14.21 you know, you're, literally your job as a Bible worker 00:30:14.24\00:30:17.15 is to get out there and meet new people. 00:30:17.18\00:30:18.81 That's your whole job to find these, 00:30:18.85\00:30:20.32 you make these connections. 00:30:20.35\00:30:21.98 And I went door-to-door for a long time, 00:30:22.02\00:30:24.02 and that's effective, 00:30:24.05\00:30:25.39 you can find people door-to-door. 00:30:25.42\00:30:26.76 I'm not disclaiming that at all. 00:30:26.79\00:30:28.12 But I will say this, though, 00:30:28.16\00:30:29.49 that one of the greatest ways 00:30:29.52\00:30:30.86 that I met people 00:30:30.89\00:30:32.23 that were actually interested in Scripture, 00:30:32.26\00:30:33.60 and that I could do Bible studies with them, 00:30:33.63\00:30:34.96 is I went out and did activities with people. 00:30:35.00\00:30:37.60 And door-to-door 00:30:37.63\00:30:39.17 was one of the activities I did. 00:30:39.20\00:30:40.54 I remember, I was training the church in Tennessee, 00:30:40.57\00:30:42.97 about six years ago this was. 00:30:43.00\00:30:45.01 I was turning a church in Tennessee, 00:30:45.04\00:30:46.37 and I was doing, 00:30:46.41\00:30:47.74 you know, basically 00:30:47.78\00:30:49.11 door-to-door evangelism with them. 00:30:49.14\00:30:50.48 But I said before we go door-to-door 00:30:50.51\00:30:51.85 and we start asking people to study the Bible with us. 00:30:51.88\00:30:53.21 We're going to show them how much we care about them. 00:30:53.25\00:30:54.92 Yes. 00:30:54.95\00:30:56.28 And then they're like, what do you mean, 00:30:56.32\00:30:57.65 what are we going to do? 00:30:57.69\00:30:59.02 And so, we did all kinds of things. 00:30:59.05\00:31:00.39 But one of the main things we started to do 00:31:00.42\00:31:02.59 was we went door-to-door, 00:31:02.62\00:31:03.96 we went into door-to-door 00:31:03.99\00:31:05.33 just as Jesus sent out the 70 in twos, right? 00:31:05.36\00:31:08.00 We went door-to-door, and we knocked on their door, 00:31:08.03\00:31:10.73 and all we had was our Bibles, 00:31:10.77\00:31:13.13 and a pin pad with us with a pin. 00:31:13.17\00:31:15.44 And we knocked on the doors that answered the door. 00:31:15.47\00:31:17.77 And we say, listen, so sorry to bother you today. 00:31:17.81\00:31:19.51 But we're going around the neighborhood, 00:31:19.54\00:31:20.88 seeing if there's anything that people know of 00:31:20.91\00:31:22.84 or anyone that anybody knows that we can pray for. 00:31:22.88\00:31:25.58 Do you have any prayer requests that we can take from you? 00:31:25.61\00:31:28.65 You should have saw these people's faces. 00:31:28.68\00:31:30.72 I kid you not like they were blown away. 00:31:30.75\00:31:32.22 They're like, "Hold on, wait, who's paying you to do this?" 00:31:32.25\00:31:35.56 That's what they were saying to me. 00:31:35.59\00:31:36.93 And I was like, "Nobody's paying me to do this." 00:31:36.96\00:31:38.36 And they're like, 00:31:38.39\00:31:39.73 "No, no, no, seriously, like, 00:31:39.76\00:31:41.10 you're out here doing this 00:31:41.13\00:31:42.46 because you're getting paid, right?" 00:31:42.50\00:31:43.83 And I'm like, "No, no, I'm, I'm doing this 00:31:43.87\00:31:45.20 because I genuinely care about our community. 00:31:45.23\00:31:46.70 And I'm seeing in what ways we can 00:31:46.74\00:31:48.44 you know, help the community. 00:31:48.47\00:31:49.87 And, so if there's anybody that you know of that needs prayer, 00:31:49.90\00:31:51.84 if your family, someone that's sick, 00:31:51.87\00:31:53.78 we would like to put them on our prayer list 00:31:53.81\00:31:55.51 and pray for them continually." 00:31:55.54\00:31:57.51 And they were just like, "Hold on a second," 00:31:57.55\00:31:59.68 like this is, this can't be real. 00:31:59.71\00:32:01.05 But you know what the number one answer there was 00:32:01.08\00:32:03.39 they asked me right after that. 00:32:03.42\00:32:05.09 What church do you go to? Amen. 00:32:05.12\00:32:07.02 That was the next thing they wanted to know. 00:32:07.06\00:32:08.66 Who? Who are you? And what church you go to? 00:32:08.69\00:32:12.49 'Cause I've never seen this before in my life. 00:32:12.53\00:32:14.36 No one's knocked on my door and said, 00:32:14.40\00:32:15.86 how can I pray for you? 00:32:15.90\00:32:17.23 Right. 00:32:17.27\00:32:18.60 And so that was one of the greatest ways 00:32:18.63\00:32:19.97 we make contacts. 00:32:20.00\00:32:21.34 People saw that we genuinely cared. 00:32:21.37\00:32:22.70 And we will go back the next week, 00:32:22.74\00:32:24.07 and we'd follow up with them. 00:32:24.11\00:32:25.44 We'd say, hey, how's Daniel doing? 00:32:25.47\00:32:26.81 How's his shoulder doing better? 00:32:26.84\00:32:28.18 I know, he got an injured in that car accident, 00:32:28.21\00:32:29.54 how's he doing it? 00:32:29.58\00:32:30.91 And they'd be like, 00:32:30.95\00:32:32.28 "Oh, man, God's answering prayer. 00:32:32.31\00:32:33.65 Thank you guys so much." 00:32:33.68\00:32:35.02 And then we had, 00:32:35.05\00:32:36.38 I would go out in the community, 00:32:36.42\00:32:37.75 and I would play basketball 00:32:37.79\00:32:39.12 with the youth out in the community, 00:32:39.15\00:32:40.49 just go to the local park. 00:32:40.52\00:32:41.86 And lot of people probably thought, 00:32:41.89\00:32:43.22 you know, if the somebody was driving by and saw me, 00:32:43.26\00:32:44.59 they'd probably be like, 00:32:44.63\00:32:45.96 Dakota is not even doing his job, 00:32:45.99\00:32:47.33 that's probably would have been their thing. 00:32:47.36\00:32:48.70 But I wasn't there, 00:32:48.73\00:32:50.07 even though I enjoy playing basketball. 00:32:50.10\00:32:51.43 I wasn't there for myself. 00:32:51.47\00:32:52.83 I would literally tell those guys, 00:32:52.87\00:32:54.20 hey, listen, if there's anything you ever need, 00:32:54.24\00:32:56.14 here's my phone number. 00:32:56.17\00:32:57.51 Give me a call and let me know, 00:32:57.54\00:32:58.87 I'll be there to help you with anything. 00:32:58.91\00:33:00.24 I actually had some of them call me 00:33:00.28\00:33:01.61 and I've actually done studies with many of them. 00:33:01.64\00:33:03.24 This is how we got to mingle with men. 00:33:03.28\00:33:05.51 We got to get out there meet these people, 00:33:05.55\00:33:07.55 as the Bible says, 00:33:07.58\00:33:08.92 or as the Ministry of Healing said, 00:33:08.95\00:33:10.29 as one who desires their good. 00:33:10.32\00:33:11.92 I like that. Right? 00:33:11.95\00:33:13.29 You got to let them know, I care about, 00:33:13.32\00:33:14.66 you know, people don't care how much you know, 00:33:14.69\00:33:16.62 until they know how much you care. 00:33:16.66\00:33:17.99 That's right. 00:33:18.03\00:33:19.36 They don't, so yeah. That's a good point. 00:33:19.39\00:33:20.73 At one given time in my lifetime, 00:33:20.76\00:33:23.30 the Lord impressed me to start calling people that 00:33:23.33\00:33:27.14 this is way back 00:33:27.17\00:33:28.50 when they had the Yellow Pages. 00:33:28.54\00:33:29.87 I don't know if you've seen any of those. 00:33:29.90\00:33:32.11 But I had the Yellow Pages at home. 00:33:32.14\00:33:34.64 And the Lord just impressed me to start a ministry 00:33:34.68\00:33:38.68 of calling people on the phone, so. 00:33:38.71\00:33:40.85 Unknown people, strange. 00:33:40.88\00:33:42.22 I mean just going down the line. 00:33:42.25\00:33:44.65 You just reminded me, 00:33:44.69\00:33:46.02 I even forgot I used to do that. 00:33:46.05\00:33:47.79 Wow. Praise the Lord. 00:33:47.82\00:33:49.46 So I'm like, my name is a little hard to say. 00:33:49.49\00:33:52.59 But I would say this is Dolly. 00:33:52.63\00:33:54.93 And I'd like to, I'm just calling to, 00:33:54.96\00:33:57.93 ping, somebody hung up. 00:33:57.97\00:33:59.93 And then other people who are you? 00:33:59.97\00:34:02.80 I'm Dolly. 00:34:02.84\00:34:04.17 I'm just from the community. 00:34:04.21\00:34:05.54 And I just want you to know 00:34:05.57\00:34:07.11 that the Lord placed you right in front of me 00:34:07.14\00:34:09.68 this number, your name, 00:34:09.71\00:34:11.51 and I want to take time to pray for you today. 00:34:11.55\00:34:14.65 So could you please tell me your prayer request? 00:34:14.68\00:34:17.35 You know, is there anything you wish for me to pray over? 00:34:17.39\00:34:20.86 And so, some people were very, very warm 00:34:20.89\00:34:24.53 and very receiving, 00:34:24.56\00:34:26.09 others were I have my own pastor to pray for me 00:34:26.13\00:34:28.36 and they will hang up on me which is okay. 00:34:28.40\00:34:31.23 And one of the calls, a nine year old says, 00:34:31.27\00:34:35.77 "Do you only pray for my parents 00:34:35.80\00:34:38.41 or will you pray for me? 00:34:38.44\00:34:40.71 I said, "No, sweetheart, I will pray for you too." 00:34:40.74\00:34:43.38 Well, I still can see and can hear his voice. 00:34:43.41\00:34:47.45 "If you could pray for me because I am diabetic." 00:34:47.48\00:34:51.09 I'm like, "Well, of course, I'm gonna pray for you." 00:34:51.12\00:34:53.49 I'm getting all emotional. 00:34:53.52\00:34:55.72 Wow. 00:34:55.76\00:34:57.09 But I said, of course, 00:34:57.13\00:34:58.59 of course I'm going to pray for you. 00:34:58.63\00:35:00.33 Let's pray together. 00:35:00.36\00:35:01.90 What other thing would you like for me to pray over? 00:35:01.93\00:35:04.83 And that was such a special time in my life. 00:35:04.87\00:35:09.70 The Lord just impressed 00:35:09.74\00:35:11.07 and I'm like, Lord, why are we going 00:35:11.11\00:35:12.44 to all these strangers like they hung on me. 00:35:12.47\00:35:14.54 Not everybody, you know, hung up on me. 00:35:14.58\00:35:16.95 So praise the Lord, 00:35:16.98\00:35:18.31 it's not a very common way of doing it. 00:35:18.35\00:35:21.35 But back then, 00:35:21.38\00:35:23.39 when there was the Yellow Pages, say wait. 00:35:23.42\00:35:25.69 Yeah, I mean, so it's not like you're calling these people up 00:35:25.72\00:35:27.82 or going and knocking on their door 00:35:27.86\00:35:29.19 and, you know, trying to beat them over the head 00:35:29.22\00:35:30.93 with Bible doctrine. 00:35:30.96\00:35:32.29 What day do you go to church on? 00:35:32.33\00:35:33.66 Did you know the Sabbath is Saturday? 00:35:33.70\00:35:35.50 I mean, that's a truth. 00:35:35.53\00:35:37.40 But you got to, you got to befriend them, 00:35:37.43\00:35:40.00 you got to make friendships. 00:35:40.04\00:35:41.37 And that's what this mingling with men is all about. 00:35:41.40\00:35:43.81 That's why Jesus mingled with men, 00:35:43.84\00:35:45.67 as one who desired the good 00:35:45.71\00:35:47.04 because Jesus wanted to create friendships first. 00:35:47.08\00:35:49.74 That's why I love Romans 12:15-16. 00:35:49.78\00:35:53.05 That's what the Bible says in Romans 12-15-16. 00:35:53.08\00:35:55.02 It says, 00:35:55.05\00:35:56.38 "Rejoice with those who rejoice, 00:35:56.42\00:35:57.92 and weep with those who weep, 00:35:57.95\00:36:00.62 be of the same mind toward one another. 00:36:00.66\00:36:03.59 Do not set your mind on high things, 00:36:03.63\00:36:05.66 but associate with the humble, 00:36:05.69\00:36:08.36 do not be wise in your own opinion." 00:36:08.40\00:36:10.93 So in other words, this is simply saying, 00:36:10.97\00:36:12.83 you know, come together, sympathize with others, 00:36:12.87\00:36:15.67 grow together, learn together, 00:36:15.70\00:36:17.27 take time to spend time 00:36:17.31\00:36:18.64 to become like minded with one another, 00:36:18.67\00:36:20.51 to understand what it is that people need. 00:36:20.54\00:36:22.68 Because ultimately, you're trying to befriend them, 00:36:22.71\00:36:25.88 you're trying to become a friend to them, 00:36:25.91\00:36:27.68 so that ultimately you get down here 00:36:27.72\00:36:29.12 to where we're going in just a moment. 00:36:29.15\00:36:30.55 And that is that you win their confidence, right? 00:36:30.59\00:36:32.62 And that's what this is all about. 00:36:32.65\00:36:33.99 Pastor, you want to share something? 00:36:34.02\00:36:35.36 That's right, you know, 00:36:35.39\00:36:36.73 that's the key to winning people's interest. 00:36:36.76\00:36:39.79 And you befriend them, like he says, 00:36:39.83\00:36:42.53 as one who desires their good. 00:36:42.56\00:36:44.87 We want you to be well. 00:36:44.90\00:36:46.40 I remember we were on a trip in Guatemala. 00:36:46.43\00:36:49.30 I was telling Idalia about this. 00:36:49.34\00:36:51.24 And we were... 00:36:51.27\00:36:54.31 It's interesting, we were on a mission project, 00:36:54.34\00:36:56.48 we were going to a GYC meeting. 00:36:56.51\00:37:00.48 And one of the projects they were saying was 00:37:00.52\00:37:04.62 that they were making stoves, the stoves for people out of... 00:37:04.65\00:37:08.32 Clay stoves. 00:37:08.36\00:37:09.69 Yes, out of some clay. 00:37:09.72\00:37:11.86 And so Idalia says, 00:37:11.89\00:37:13.96 "Well, what else are you doing for these people?" 00:37:14.00\00:37:16.87 And he says, 00:37:16.90\00:37:18.57 "Well, we're making the stoves." 00:37:18.60\00:37:21.47 He said, Well, you know, the Lord has impressed me 00:37:21.50\00:37:23.44 that maybe we should bring them some food too. 00:37:23.47\00:37:25.34 Okay. 00:37:25.37\00:37:26.71 And so and so she says, 00:37:26.74\00:37:29.08 I'm sure my husband would agree 00:37:29.11\00:37:30.45 that we're going to donate some money toward this. 00:37:30.48\00:37:32.01 And I said, you're having money. 00:37:32.05\00:37:36.72 And so yes, so we were committed. 00:37:36.75\00:37:38.89 And now we went to this market to pick up the food. 00:37:38.92\00:37:42.59 Yes, produce. 00:37:42.62\00:37:43.96 Produce, you know, 00:37:43.99\00:37:45.33 because we were putting produce in there 00:37:45.36\00:37:46.70 and we bought rice and beans and there was, 00:37:46.73\00:37:48.76 it was a sack of food for each family. 00:37:48.80\00:37:51.93 And I forgot how many families 25 families 00:37:51.97\00:37:53.67 that were building stoves for. 00:37:53.70\00:37:55.04 So now we're gathering this food to say, 00:37:55.07\00:37:56.44 well, we're hungry, we're going to eat 00:37:56.47\00:37:57.81 so we stopped at a restaurant. 00:37:57.84\00:37:59.17 And we noticed there was this old gentleman 00:37:59.21\00:38:02.71 that was going from table to table 00:38:02.74\00:38:05.05 and sometimes he will stop and he will play his accordion. 00:38:05.08\00:38:09.82 And we didn't know who he was, but eventually he comes to us, 00:38:09.85\00:38:13.96 he identify himself as Rubens. 00:38:13.99\00:38:15.99 And he said, 00:38:16.02\00:38:17.36 "Do you, would you like a song? 00:38:17.39\00:38:18.73 I sing in Spanish, I can maybe sing in English, " 00:38:18.76\00:38:20.30 he says. 00:38:20.33\00:38:21.66 " So he's, he would kind of give you 00:38:21.70\00:38:23.03 like a little a little taste of what he can do. 00:38:23.06\00:38:25.73 So he sang one without us requesting anything. 00:38:25.77\00:38:29.17 And then somebody said, "Well, can you sing this one." 00:38:29.20\00:38:32.07 And Viejo San Juan 00:38:32.11\00:38:33.44 which is famous song in Puerto Rico. 00:38:33.48\00:38:34.81 The nationals. 00:38:34.84\00:38:36.18 And then Idalia say, can you play Mas alla del sol. 00:38:36.21\00:38:39.91 I don't know if you've ever heard of that song. 00:38:39.95\00:38:41.28 But it's far beyond the sun. 00:38:41.32\00:38:42.78 It's like you have in English the we have this whole pool. 00:38:42.82\00:38:46.55 In Spanish Mas alla del sol is the song... 00:38:46.59\00:38:48.99 Far beyond the sun. 00:38:49.02\00:38:50.36 Yeah, far beyond the sun which talks about our home 00:38:50.39\00:38:52.56 far beyond the sun. 00:38:52.59\00:38:53.93 Anyway, so we kind of made a little contact with him. 00:38:53.96\00:38:57.53 And we went to the GYC meeting. 00:38:57.57\00:38:59.10 This was like a Tuesday. 00:38:59.13\00:39:01.47 So we're returning from the GYC meeting on Sunday. 00:39:01.50\00:39:04.11 Sunday, late afternoon. 00:39:04.14\00:39:05.67 Late afternoon because we went and helped build a stove. 00:39:05.71\00:39:08.11 It was mud and everything. 00:39:08.14\00:39:09.48 Oh yeah, it was great. 00:39:09.51\00:39:10.85 Oh, people cried because you were not only... 00:39:10.88\00:39:13.31 I mean, here's the situation, people in Guatemala, 00:39:13.35\00:39:15.78 in their homes they were cooking 00:39:15.82\00:39:17.49 with these stoves they had 00:39:17.52\00:39:19.95 but there was no funnel ventilation, 00:39:19.99\00:39:24.49 and the smoke was inside. 00:39:24.53\00:39:26.06 And they were inhaling this. 00:39:26.09\00:39:27.83 The stoves that the church people were making, 00:39:27.86\00:39:30.00 the young people were making 00:39:30.03\00:39:31.37 we helped to had these pipes that would go out, 00:39:31.40\00:39:36.30 so now they have healthier, a healthier stove. 00:39:36.34\00:39:39.51 Remember, it was an open pit and kids would burn their feet. 00:39:39.54\00:39:43.04 That was also another problem. 00:39:43.08\00:39:44.41 The upper respiratory infections 00:39:44.45\00:39:46.15 and what have you is. 00:39:46.18\00:39:47.52 It's all kinds. 00:39:47.55\00:39:48.88 So it was a great blessing, 00:39:48.92\00:39:50.25 people will cry when they say 00:39:50.29\00:39:51.62 well, why are you doing this, you know? 00:39:51.65\00:39:52.99 But here's the thing. 00:39:53.02\00:39:54.36 Now we're coming back Sunday night. 00:39:54.39\00:39:56.09 And we're in another restaurant, 00:39:56.12\00:39:57.69 almost in the same area. 00:39:57.73\00:39:59.39 And here comes this old gentleman. 00:39:59.43\00:40:01.63 And it's the same guy in another restaurant. 00:40:01.66\00:40:04.40 And we're like, hey, that's the same guy. 00:40:04.43\00:40:05.77 So he comes over by us. 00:40:05.80\00:40:07.70 And we didn't know if he would recognize us, 00:40:07.74\00:40:10.57 because he go to so many tables, 00:40:10.61\00:40:11.94 you know, it had been several days. 00:40:11.97\00:40:13.64 And so eventually, 00:40:13.68\00:40:15.74 we had him play that other Christian song. 00:40:15.78\00:40:18.05 Okay. 00:40:18.08\00:40:19.41 And now we say, "Can you sing some more?" 00:40:19.45\00:40:22.15 And he remembered a song that I don't know how long 00:40:22.18\00:40:25.19 maybe he thinks that many years, 00:40:25.22\00:40:26.92 but he sang this song, very known to us. 00:40:26.96\00:40:29.69 And we go, 00:40:29.72\00:40:31.06 "Wait a minute, who is this guy? 00:40:31.09\00:40:32.79 You know, why does he know these songs?" 00:40:32.83\00:40:35.23 And so, as we talked to him, 00:40:35.26\00:40:37.40 we learned that he was many years ago, 00:40:37.43\00:40:40.64 member of the church or help build the church. 00:40:40.67\00:40:43.64 And somehow we won his confidence. 00:40:43.67\00:40:47.01 We invited him to dinner. We invite him, you hungry? 00:40:47.04\00:40:49.24 You know, we would like to pay? 00:40:49.28\00:40:50.61 Yeah, we're gonna pay for you. 00:40:50.65\00:40:51.98 And that, you know, because before, 00:40:52.01\00:40:55.05 he said, Oh, that's so beautiful. 00:40:55.08\00:40:56.42 We want to take video of him singing, 00:40:56.45\00:40:58.32 he will hide his face, you know. 00:40:58.35\00:41:00.72 And so after a while, he warms up. 00:41:00.76\00:41:02.39 And he began to tell us about his son that lives in America, 00:41:02.42\00:41:06.76 he lost touch with him, he can't reach him 00:41:06.80\00:41:08.60 and some problem with his phone and... 00:41:08.63\00:41:10.93 So much in that story. 00:41:10.97\00:41:12.30 It was so much in the story that, 00:41:12.33\00:41:13.67 you know, we have to cut it short. 00:41:13.70\00:41:15.07 But anyway, we won his confidence. 00:41:15.10\00:41:16.87 And he opened up his heart. He cried. 00:41:16.91\00:41:19.74 I mean, and so he said, 00:41:19.77\00:41:22.44 I just wondered 00:41:22.48\00:41:23.81 if you would be willing to help me 00:41:23.85\00:41:25.18 because my wife hasn't eaten either. 00:41:25.21\00:41:26.55 So sure, sure. 00:41:26.58\00:41:27.92 You know, so we, we brought lunch for his wife 00:41:27.95\00:41:29.32 and he wants to, he wants to go eat with his wife. 00:41:29.35\00:41:31.09 Right. 00:41:31.12\00:41:32.45 So anyway, now, we call the number of his... 00:41:32.49\00:41:36.46 He gave us the phone number for his son in America, 00:41:36.49\00:41:39.33 you know, and we call him, no answer of course. 00:41:39.36\00:41:41.70 We say, Well, I didn't expect him. 00:41:41.73\00:41:43.06 You know, nowadays. 00:41:43.10\00:41:44.43 You hear, you see a strange number. 00:41:44.47\00:41:45.80 You says, I'm not answering that. 00:41:45.83\00:41:47.17 Right. 00:41:47.20\00:41:48.54 So sometime later, 00:41:48.57\00:41:49.90 just as we were dropping him off. 00:41:49.94\00:41:51.67 I mean, the door was about to open. 00:41:51.71\00:41:53.58 And the phone rings. 00:41:53.61\00:41:54.98 And it's his son. 00:41:55.01\00:41:56.38 Oh, wow. 00:41:56.41\00:41:57.75 And they said yes. 00:41:57.78\00:41:59.11 I said, Yes. You called me a moment ago. 00:41:59.15\00:42:01.12 Oh, is this so and so? 00:42:01.15\00:42:02.52 Right. Yes. 00:42:02.55\00:42:03.89 Oh, the reason I was calling is because we met your father. 00:42:03.92\00:42:05.75 You met my father? Yes. 00:42:05.79\00:42:07.72 You know, and he was talking to him. 00:42:07.76\00:42:09.09 He goes, and he's right here. 00:42:09.12\00:42:12.03 What he's right there, you know, 00:42:12.06\00:42:13.76 and, we gave him the phone, 00:42:13.80\00:42:15.76 and it was just one of those things. 00:42:15.80\00:42:17.67 He said, the Lord did, the Lord did. 00:42:17.70\00:42:19.93 Divine appointment. 00:42:19.97\00:42:21.30 That's right. Yeah. 00:42:21.34\00:42:22.67 And we didn't even say come to church with us. 00:42:22.70\00:42:25.21 We wanted to share 00:42:25.24\00:42:27.44 what the Holy Spirit impresses us to do. 00:42:27.48\00:42:30.38 You see, sometimes the Lord impresses us 00:42:30.41\00:42:32.71 to do something we don't do it. 00:42:32.75\00:42:34.35 Sometimes the Lord impresses us 00:42:34.38\00:42:35.92 or He puts that thought in there. 00:42:35.95\00:42:37.39 And we're like, later, 00:42:37.42\00:42:39.25 you know, or we're just too busy. 00:42:39.29\00:42:41.06 Absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah. 00:42:41.09\00:42:42.69 You know, as we're talking about this, 00:42:42.72\00:42:44.06 what come to my mind is, 00:42:44.09\00:42:45.63 and I usually give this 00:42:45.66\00:42:47.00 when I'm giving an evangelistic training of some kind, 00:42:47.03\00:42:48.90 is that you can desire to be a witness, 00:42:48.93\00:42:51.43 but you're never going to be an effective witness, 00:42:51.47\00:42:53.07 if you don't have the power behind you 00:42:53.10\00:42:56.30 in order to be that witness. 00:42:56.34\00:42:57.67 So let's go to Acts Chapter 1 real quick, 00:42:57.71\00:42:59.04 I just want to read this, Acts Chapter 1. 00:42:59.07\00:43:02.01 And this, of course, 00:43:02.04\00:43:03.38 was actually really, technically, 00:43:03.41\00:43:06.21 the last words that 00:43:06.25\00:43:07.58 the disciples would have heard from Jesus, 00:43:07.62\00:43:09.22 before He ascended. 00:43:09.25\00:43:10.69 This is Acts Chapter 1. 00:43:10.72\00:43:12.05 So this is, a few days before the Pentecost, 00:43:12.09\00:43:15.32 they have Pentecost, 00:43:15.36\00:43:16.69 where they received 00:43:16.73\00:43:18.06 the outpouring of the Holy Spirit. 00:43:18.09\00:43:19.43 But notice what Jesus says in Acts 1:8, 00:43:19.46\00:43:21.63 and this is crucial. 00:43:21.66\00:43:23.16 It says, "But you shall receive power, 00:43:23.20\00:43:25.80 when the Holy Spirit has come upon you. 00:43:25.83\00:43:28.40 And you shall be witnesses to me in Jerusalem, 00:43:28.44\00:43:31.11 in all of Judea, and Samaria, and to the end of the earth." 00:43:31.14\00:43:34.94 This is crucial, 00:43:34.98\00:43:36.31 because in order for us to be a powerful witness, 00:43:36.34\00:43:39.15 we have to have the power to be a witness, 00:43:39.18\00:43:41.35 and what is that power? 00:43:41.38\00:43:42.72 It's the Holy Spirit. 00:43:42.75\00:43:44.09 And the reason why I bring that up. 00:43:44.12\00:43:46.02 As I'm looking through this list here, 00:43:46.05\00:43:47.42 I'm looking through this list of what's mentioned here 00:43:47.46\00:43:49.82 in the Ministry of Healing comment from page 143, 00:43:49.86\00:43:52.66 the Savior mingled with men, as one who desired the good. 00:43:52.69\00:43:56.36 You're not going to genuinely desire someone's good 00:43:56.40\00:43:59.00 if you don't have the compassion 00:43:59.03\00:44:01.04 of the Holy Spirit behind you. 00:44:01.07\00:44:03.20 Which leads me to the next point 00:44:03.24\00:44:04.67 because once He desired their good 00:44:04.71\00:44:06.34 and He mingled with them. 00:44:06.37\00:44:07.71 Notice what it says first that He did. 00:44:07.74\00:44:09.08 He showed His sympathy for them. 00:44:09.11\00:44:11.78 That's right. Yes. 00:44:11.81\00:44:13.15 If you do not have the power of the Holy Spirit 00:44:13.18\00:44:15.18 in your life working, 00:44:15.22\00:44:16.58 it's gonna be kind of hard for you 00:44:16.62\00:44:17.95 to muster up that sympathy. 00:44:17.99\00:44:19.39 I'm certainly not saying that, 00:44:19.42\00:44:20.76 you know, people can't be sympathetic, 00:44:20.79\00:44:22.32 you know, if they are not Christian 00:44:22.36\00:44:23.86 or they're not of the Christian faith. 00:44:23.89\00:44:25.23 That is possible, 00:44:25.26\00:44:26.59 but I'm talking about true genuine Christian sympathy, 00:44:26.63\00:44:29.50 Christ like sympathy. 00:44:29.53\00:44:30.97 You have to have the power of the Holy Spirit behind you. 00:44:31.00\00:44:33.20 And the text that also came to my mind 00:44:33.23\00:44:34.64 as I was thinking of this 00:44:34.67\00:44:36.00 was 1 Peter 3:8-9 00:44:36.04\00:44:38.94 talking about how Jesus showed sympathy for them, right? 00:44:38.97\00:44:42.34 And it led to many other great things. 00:44:42.38\00:44:43.98 But He showed sympathy for them. 00:44:44.01\00:44:45.81 Notice 1 Peter 3:8-9. 00:44:45.85\00:44:48.58 It says, 00:44:48.62\00:44:49.95 "Finally all of you be of one mind 00:44:49.98\00:44:52.69 having compassion for one another." 00:44:52.72\00:44:55.62 Love has brothers, okay? 00:44:55.66\00:44:59.13 "Be tenderhearted, be courteous, 00:44:59.16\00:45:02.30 not returning evil for evil, or reviling, for reviling. 00:45:02.33\00:45:06.23 But on the contrary, blessing, right, 00:45:06.27\00:45:09.47 knowing that you were called to this, 00:45:09.50\00:45:11.57 that you might inherit a blessing." 00:45:11.61\00:45:14.34 It's a blessing for us to witness. 00:45:14.38\00:45:16.61 But if we do it the right way, at some point in time, 00:45:16.64\00:45:19.58 as we're looking at our brethren 00:45:19.61\00:45:20.95 around us in the world, in our communities, 00:45:20.98\00:45:22.65 in our homes, 00:45:22.68\00:45:24.02 and wherever it is that we are 00:45:24.05\00:45:25.49 and God places an individual upon our heart to witness to. 00:45:25.52\00:45:28.56 We're going to sympathize for their needs, 00:45:28.59\00:45:31.23 and what it is that they need, 00:45:31.26\00:45:32.69 we're going to show that sympathy to them. 00:45:32.73\00:45:34.73 And to me that's an important part, 00:45:34.76\00:45:36.16 as we see here, 00:45:36.20\00:45:37.53 Christ showed sympathy for them. 00:45:37.57\00:45:38.90 If someone doesn't receive 00:45:38.93\00:45:41.87 or sense that we sympathize with their needs, 00:45:41.90\00:45:44.47 that we sympathize with what it is 00:45:44.51\00:45:45.91 they're going through in life, 00:45:45.94\00:45:47.38 then how in the world are we going to befriend them? 00:45:47.41\00:45:49.01 Oh, I got to say something on that, man, 00:45:49.04\00:45:50.51 'cause you hit the nail on the head, 00:45:50.55\00:45:51.98 that is so true. 00:45:52.01\00:45:53.45 We have to have a relationship with Jesus first, 00:45:53.48\00:45:55.55 before we can ever show sympathy. 00:45:55.58\00:45:57.25 And that is absolutely crucial 00:45:57.29\00:45:59.39 to be a powerful witness for the Lord, 00:45:59.42\00:46:01.22 to be a winsome witness for the Lord. 00:46:01.26\00:46:02.79 And in saying that I'm reminded of the story 00:46:02.82\00:46:05.59 of the Good Samaritan. 00:46:05.63\00:46:07.53 Luke Chapter 10, if you guys want to turn there. 00:46:07.56\00:46:08.90 Yeah. Let's go there. 00:46:08.93\00:46:10.27 Luke Chapter 10. Let's look at the story. 00:46:10.30\00:46:11.63 This is powerful, because in Luke 10:30, 00:46:11.67\00:46:13.97 you read about the story. 00:46:14.00\00:46:15.74 Let's just quickly read through this real fast. 00:46:15.77\00:46:17.97 It says, 00:46:18.01\00:46:19.34 "And Jesus answering and said, 00:46:19.37\00:46:20.71 A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, 00:46:20.74\00:46:22.91 and fell among thieves, 00:46:22.94\00:46:24.28 which stripped him of his raiment, 00:46:24.31\00:46:25.65 and wounded him, 00:46:25.68\00:46:27.02 and departed, leaving him half dead. 00:46:27.05\00:46:29.08 And by chance there came down a certain priest." 00:46:29.12\00:46:31.75 So who comes to him first? 00:46:31.79\00:46:33.12 Priest. 00:46:33.15\00:46:34.49 A priest, a preacher, right? 00:46:34.52\00:46:35.96 You know, a man, a man is supposed to be of God 00:46:35.99\00:46:39.26 came that way. 00:46:39.29\00:46:40.63 And when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. 00:46:40.66\00:46:43.26 It says, when he saw him. Right. 00:46:43.30\00:46:45.00 This priest saw him. Right. 00:46:45.03\00:46:46.43 And he's like, you know, whatever. 00:46:46.47\00:46:48.87 And he just keeps on walking by a preacher now. 00:46:48.90\00:46:51.44 And then notice what it goes on to say, 00:46:51.47\00:46:53.48 it says, likewise, also a Levite. 00:46:53.51\00:46:56.88 Now, this would be a church member, 00:46:56.91\00:46:58.25 this would be someone who's very close to the Lord, 00:46:58.28\00:47:00.95 who goes to church every Sabbath, 00:47:00.98\00:47:02.35 who goes to every prayer meeting, right? 00:47:02.38\00:47:05.95 The tribe of Levi was extremely important, 00:47:05.99\00:47:08.06 especially in the priesthood. 00:47:08.09\00:47:09.79 And then notice what it says here. 00:47:09.82\00:47:11.16 A Levite comes by, 00:47:11.19\00:47:12.63 and when he was at the place came and looked on him 00:47:12.66\00:47:15.36 and passed by on the other side. 00:47:15.40\00:47:17.53 Now you have two brothers here. 00:47:17.57\00:47:18.97 He didn't even want to stay on the same side. 00:47:19.00\00:47:20.50 I know. Yeah. 00:47:20.54\00:47:22.14 Yeah, you got two brothers here, 00:47:22.17\00:47:23.77 who you would expect would show sympathy. 00:47:23.81\00:47:26.01 Right. Right. 00:47:26.04\00:47:27.61 But he doesn't show sympathy. Right. 00:47:27.64\00:47:29.01 How many people in the world are there 00:47:29.04\00:47:32.21 who's out there struggling going through a trial? 00:47:32.25\00:47:34.18 I mean, they've been 00:47:34.22\00:47:35.55 you know, I mean, it seems like uppercutted by the devil. 00:47:35.58\00:47:38.55 They've been hit and almost knocked out by the devil 00:47:38.59\00:47:40.49 and they're laying there lifeless, 00:47:40.52\00:47:42.16 hoping that someone would come by 00:47:42.19\00:47:43.56 and show them sympathy. 00:47:43.59\00:47:44.93 And the church sometimes is failing in this issue. 00:47:44.96\00:47:49.20 That's true. 00:47:49.23\00:47:50.57 And then and then who comes by? 00:47:50.60\00:47:52.80 What's the story, the Good Samaritan, right? 00:47:52.83\00:47:54.50 The Samaritan, now Samaritans were not liked, 00:47:54.54\00:47:57.51 they were not a part 00:47:57.54\00:47:58.87 of the holy people of God so to speak. 00:47:58.91\00:48:01.14 They had already intermarried 00:48:01.18\00:48:02.51 with the Assyrians and in history 00:48:02.54\00:48:03.95 and so they were considered a lost lineage, 00:48:03.98\00:48:06.15 someone who was not significant. 00:48:06.18\00:48:08.22 The dogs. Yeah. 00:48:08.25\00:48:09.58 The dogs of society. 00:48:09.62\00:48:10.95 And this Samaritan comes by 00:48:10.99\00:48:12.32 and shows this man kindness and sympathy, 00:48:12.35\00:48:14.99 puts him on his horse, carries him to an end. 00:48:15.02\00:48:18.29 And then he, get this, he pays two pence. 00:48:18.33\00:48:20.10 Now you look that up. 00:48:20.13\00:48:21.63 That's two days wages. 00:48:21.66\00:48:23.97 I wanna you think about 00:48:24.00\00:48:25.33 all the money you make in one day. 00:48:25.37\00:48:26.70 You were to calculate whatever that may be 00:48:26.74\00:48:28.07 those of you online, 00:48:28.10\00:48:29.44 whatever money you make in one day. 00:48:29.47\00:48:30.81 I mean, that's probably a good deal of money, right? 00:48:30.84\00:48:32.47 Two days wages, this guy gave to them and said, 00:48:32.51\00:48:35.14 Take care of him. 00:48:35.18\00:48:36.51 But when I get back, 00:48:36.54\00:48:37.88 if there's any more that you've spent, 00:48:37.91\00:48:39.25 I'm going to cover that too. Incredible. 00:48:39.28\00:48:41.08 And it's like... For a stranger. 00:48:41.12\00:48:42.45 Yeah, for a stranger. He didn't even know. 00:48:42.48\00:48:44.19 This is, his brother was unconscious 00:48:44.22\00:48:45.72 when he arrived, right? 00:48:45.75\00:48:47.09 I mean, this is the kind of love 00:48:47.12\00:48:49.22 that we need to be showing people 00:48:49.26\00:48:51.13 but again, that love works. 00:48:51.16\00:48:54.23 You expect it from the preachers, 00:48:54.26\00:48:55.60 we expect it from the Levites, right, the church members. 00:48:55.63\00:48:58.83 But to oftentimes, 00:48:58.87\00:49:00.60 we need to realize that 00:49:00.64\00:49:01.97 it's also those that anyone can show that love 00:49:02.00\00:49:05.57 if you spend that time with the Lord. 00:49:05.61\00:49:06.94 And it's not just the preachers that are called to do this. 00:49:06.98\00:49:09.61 It's not just the tribe of Levi, 00:49:09.64\00:49:10.98 it's the Samaritan, 00:49:11.01\00:49:12.35 it's the people who are considered 00:49:12.38\00:49:13.72 the lowliest of the low 00:49:13.75\00:49:15.08 can have that love to, can be transformed 00:49:15.12\00:49:16.45 and brought into the kingdom of God. 00:49:16.48\00:49:17.92 In fact, Jesus says here in this passage, 00:49:17.95\00:49:19.75 He goes, which one is his neighbor? 00:49:19.79\00:49:21.89 Because that's what they're asking me in a context 00:49:21.92\00:49:23.36 of who is my neighbor. 00:49:23.39\00:49:24.73 He tells the story, 00:49:24.76\00:49:26.09 and He says, which one helped them? 00:49:26.13\00:49:27.50 He's like the Samaritan, He goes, that his neighbor. 00:49:27.53\00:49:29.03 That's right. 00:49:29.06\00:49:30.40 Right? That's right. 00:49:30.43\00:49:31.77 So that that's what we need to take something on, 00:49:31.80\00:49:33.13 that's huge. 00:49:33.17\00:49:34.50 You know, you took me back to a few years back, 00:49:34.54\00:49:36.20 you know, praise the Lord for opportunities 00:49:36.24\00:49:38.51 and for growth and maturity and all, 00:49:38.54\00:49:40.71 but I did something well, 00:49:40.74\00:49:43.45 confession is good for the soul 00:49:43.48\00:49:44.88 and hard on the reputation, right? 00:49:44.91\00:49:46.82 But there was, you know, the beggars in the street. 00:49:46.85\00:49:52.15 And I was in Puerto Rico at that time 00:49:52.19\00:49:55.49 and, and the girl looked strong fit 00:49:55.52\00:49:59.03 and very qualified to be doing good, 00:49:59.06\00:50:02.23 you know, but there she was begging for help, 00:50:02.26\00:50:08.14 you know, for money. 00:50:08.17\00:50:09.54 I don't know if she was a drug addict or what? 00:50:09.57\00:50:12.61 But I got so frustrated. 00:50:12.64\00:50:15.84 You know, I'm like, 00:50:15.88\00:50:17.58 girl, you've got so much going for you. 00:50:17.61\00:50:20.25 Why don't you pick up your stuff and knock it out? 00:50:20.28\00:50:23.49 You know, knock it off. Just, you know, you can? 00:50:23.52\00:50:26.42 And, but I'll help you in whatever. 00:50:26.45\00:50:28.86 What is it that you need? 00:50:28.89\00:50:30.39 She says, I don't know. 00:50:30.43\00:50:32.23 But I don't sense any love in your voice. 00:50:32.26\00:50:35.30 Oh. 00:50:35.33\00:50:37.37 And she was right. Wow. 00:50:37.40\00:50:39.07 She was right. I'm like, ooh... 00:50:39.10\00:50:40.77 Had an eye opening moment, right. 00:50:40.80\00:50:42.20 Slap me again, girl. 00:50:42.24\00:50:43.71 Go ahead, give me that holy slap 00:50:43.74\00:50:45.21 that we need to be shaken. 00:50:45.24\00:50:47.08 It's like hello, get with it. 00:50:47.11\00:50:49.14 I needed to get that, not here. 00:50:49.18\00:50:51.48 Because I knew better. Right? 00:50:51.51\00:50:53.95 So it's embarrassing. 00:50:53.98\00:50:55.32 But you know, talking about all these stories 00:50:55.35\00:50:57.69 just, it's been years since that happened. 00:50:57.72\00:51:00.89 And then a gentleman approached. 00:51:00.92\00:51:03.66 And he was like, 00:51:03.69\00:51:05.13 "Hey, baby girl. 00:51:05.16\00:51:06.49 Would you like something to eat and all this cuteness 00:51:06.53\00:51:10.17 and sweetness and compassion. 00:51:10.20\00:51:12.23 I'm like, she needs just to get her act together, 00:51:12.27\00:51:15.14 you know? 00:51:15.17\00:51:16.50 But she did. He did the right thing. 00:51:16.54\00:51:18.91 We cannot pass judgments. 00:51:18.94\00:51:20.78 Those people in the corners begging for a coin. 00:51:20.81\00:51:23.61 You know, it's not my responsibility 00:51:23.65\00:51:25.48 what they use that money for? 00:51:25.51\00:51:26.85 That's right. 00:51:26.88\00:51:28.22 My responsibility is to have that compassion 00:51:28.25\00:51:30.35 and be there for them. 00:51:30.39\00:51:31.72 Amen. Amen. 00:51:31.75\00:51:33.09 That's so true. Powerful. 00:51:33.12\00:51:34.46 I want to read here from Mark Chapter 1, 00:51:34.49\00:51:35.82 if you don't mind here. 00:51:35.86\00:51:37.19 Oh, yeah. 00:51:37.23\00:51:38.56 In Mark Chapter 1, we have... 00:51:38.59\00:51:40.16 Jesus spent the previous day healing the sick, 00:51:40.20\00:51:43.63 driving out devil's clean, healing people from diseases. 00:51:43.67\00:51:47.27 And verse 35, Matthew, Mark 1:35, he says, 00:51:47.30\00:51:50.54 "And in the morning, 00:51:50.57\00:51:52.64 rising up a great while before they, 00:51:52.67\00:51:55.24 he went out 00:51:55.28\00:51:56.61 and departed into a solitary place 00:51:56.64\00:51:59.55 and there prayed." 00:51:59.58\00:52:01.32 And so we were talking about, 00:52:01.35\00:52:02.82 you know, that we need to communicate with the Lord. 00:52:02.85\00:52:08.12 And we have mentioned that a few times here. 00:52:08.16\00:52:10.36 Before we go out to commune with people 00:52:10.39\00:52:13.13 to mingle with people as Christ did, 00:52:13.16\00:52:15.50 we need to mingle with the Lord, 00:52:15.53\00:52:17.37 commune with the Lord. 00:52:17.40\00:52:18.87 So that we get in tune with heaven's way 00:52:18.90\00:52:22.50 of reaching people. 00:52:22.54\00:52:23.87 Amen. 00:52:23.91\00:52:25.24 Because there are many people out there to be reached. 00:52:25.27\00:52:26.61 Absolutely. 00:52:26.64\00:52:27.98 And I mean, soon as, 00:52:28.01\00:52:29.58 you know, there's ministry to be done 00:52:29.61\00:52:31.01 inside your home. 00:52:31.05\00:52:32.91 And once you step outside of your house. 00:52:32.95\00:52:34.28 That's right. 00:52:34.32\00:52:35.65 I mean, you literally can spend your life 00:52:35.68\00:52:38.19 mending broken people that's what it says. 00:52:38.22\00:52:39.75 Amen. 00:52:39.79\00:52:41.12 And so but in order for us to do that, 00:52:41.16\00:52:42.79 we need to, we need to be strengthened 00:52:42.82\00:52:45.19 by the Lord each and every day, 00:52:45.23\00:52:47.00 because we don't know who we're going to run into 00:52:47.03\00:52:48.76 in one of those moments, 00:52:48.80\00:52:50.47 you know, that an opportunity arises, 00:52:50.50\00:52:52.67 we want to react the right way, 00:52:52.70\00:52:54.50 and say the right thing, because... 00:52:54.54\00:52:57.11 Even when it's your spouse. 00:52:57.14\00:52:58.47 Even when it's, you know, I had a ministry, 00:52:58.51\00:53:01.41 if you want to call it that, 00:53:01.44\00:53:02.78 because I used to take these monthly trips to Chicago. 00:53:02.81\00:53:05.65 And eventually to, you know, 00:53:05.68\00:53:07.85 I know, she already knows what I'm going to say. 00:53:07.88\00:53:10.42 And that was for some reason, 00:53:10.45\00:53:12.39 you know, people walking down the highway, 00:53:12.42\00:53:14.66 I mean, talking about the highway, 00:53:14.69\00:53:16.02 people were going 65 miles an hour 00:53:16.06\00:53:17.73 before but now it's 70. 00:53:17.76\00:53:19.53 And so, and sometimes, 00:53:19.56\00:53:21.33 you know, it was dark out there. 00:53:21.36\00:53:22.93 And I had done this many times, 00:53:22.96\00:53:24.30 you know, and say, Lord, 00:53:24.33\00:53:25.90 give me some way to speak to this person. 00:53:25.93\00:53:27.70 Right. 00:53:27.74\00:53:29.07 And incredible stories, 00:53:29.10\00:53:31.67 incredible stories will surface 00:53:31.71\00:53:33.11 eventually she told me to stop doing that, 00:53:33.14\00:53:34.48 you don't know you're gonna run into. 00:53:34.51\00:53:36.24 But anyway, I remember one time, 00:53:36.28\00:53:38.41 there was this co-worker, 00:53:38.45\00:53:40.42 I'm going to call him a co-worker. 00:53:40.45\00:53:41.78 Okay. 00:53:41.82\00:53:43.15 Thank you, Idalia. 00:53:43.18\00:53:44.52 Anyway, we were driving, we're both coming home. 00:53:44.55\00:53:47.89 He was, you know, driving with me. 00:53:47.92\00:53:50.16 And it was dark. 00:53:50.19\00:53:52.23 And he goes, John, what are you doing? 00:53:52.26\00:53:54.60 Because I was stopping. 00:53:54.63\00:53:55.96 I said, there was a guy out there 00:53:56.00\00:53:57.33 walking in the dark. 00:53:57.37\00:53:58.77 And he goes, "And you gonna stop." 00:53:58.80\00:54:01.97 And I say, "Yes." Yeah. 00:54:02.00\00:54:03.37 I said, "Well, there are two of us, 00:54:03.41\00:54:04.74 you know, he's only one." 00:54:04.77\00:54:06.34 Right. 00:54:06.37\00:54:07.71 But I'd said that to encourage him now 00:54:07.74\00:54:09.71 because don't be afraid, the God is with us. 00:54:09.74\00:54:12.08 He said, "Don't worry, God is with us." 00:54:12.11\00:54:13.45 And he said, 00:54:13.48\00:54:14.82 "We're gonna minister this person. 00:54:14.85\00:54:16.18 I don't know, John, I don't know." 00:54:16.22\00:54:17.55 He says, you know, just let see what happens. 00:54:17.59\00:54:19.02 So anyway, the guy went in the car 00:54:19.05\00:54:20.52 and we're driving down the road, 00:54:20.56\00:54:22.12 and I'm praying, Lord, give us a way 00:54:22.16\00:54:24.06 to talk to this person. 00:54:24.09\00:54:25.69 And this guy, he begins to talk to him. 00:54:25.73\00:54:28.50 And he's, I mean, he sparks a conversation. 00:54:28.53\00:54:31.17 And soon he says, "Do you know the Lord?" 00:54:31.20\00:54:33.74 He started to talk to the guy 00:54:33.77\00:54:35.50 and he begins to minister to the person. 00:54:35.54\00:54:37.97 Wow. And I say, wow. 00:54:38.01\00:54:39.37 Amen. 00:54:39.41\00:54:40.74 And after all was over, he goes, 00:54:40.78\00:54:42.78 I was really hesitant about that. 00:54:42.81\00:54:44.18 But it was a real blessing the person was blessed. 00:54:44.21\00:54:47.72 That's what we pray for him. 00:54:47.75\00:54:49.08 He was on a journey to California. 00:54:49.12\00:54:50.99 I mean, I mean, he wasn't, he had a long trip. 00:54:51.02\00:54:53.52 We just took him part of the way. 00:54:53.56\00:54:55.22 But you see, opportunities are there, 00:54:55.26\00:54:56.79 you ask the Lord, 00:54:56.83\00:54:58.16 Lord, what would you have me to do? 00:54:58.19\00:54:59.53 Use me today to be a blessing to someone 00:54:59.56\00:55:01.86 and you will find yourself doing many things. 00:55:01.90\00:55:04.03 Amen. Amen. 00:55:04.07\00:55:05.40 Praise the Lord. 00:55:05.43\00:55:06.77 You need a few hours for this topic. 00:55:06.80\00:55:08.44 I know, right. 00:55:08.47\00:55:09.80 Just a little bit more time, right? 00:55:09.84\00:55:11.17 You know, it's powerful, because, you know, 00:55:11.21\00:55:13.01 I'm gonna read this text here. 00:55:13.04\00:55:14.81 This is, this comes from Luke 9:23, 00:55:14.84\00:55:17.01 this is Jesus speaking, talking about following, right, 00:55:17.05\00:55:19.61 following Him. 00:55:19.65\00:55:20.98 And this is what He says in Luke 9:23. 00:55:21.02\00:55:22.65 He says to them all, 00:55:22.68\00:55:24.02 "If anyone desires to come after Me, 00:55:24.05\00:55:25.82 let him deny himself, take up his cross daily, 00:55:25.85\00:55:28.96 and then follow Me." 00:55:28.99\00:55:30.33 Right? Yes. 00:55:30.36\00:55:31.69 Now we read that, 00:55:31.73\00:55:33.06 that's a very, that's a strong spiritual message there. 00:55:33.09\00:55:34.86 And so deny yourself, take up your cross daily. 00:55:34.90\00:55:38.60 I would never meet someone on the street and be like, 00:55:38.63\00:55:40.44 "Hey, you know, don't you know that Jesus said that 00:55:40.47\00:55:42.70 you got to deny yourself and take up your cross daily 00:55:42.74\00:55:45.21 and then follow Him?" 00:55:45.24\00:55:47.04 You know, there's a process that needs to be met 00:55:47.08\00:55:49.41 before we asked someone to follow Jesus 00:55:49.44\00:55:51.98 just as this powerful message here says that 00:55:52.01\00:55:55.28 we read earlier from Ministry of Healing. 00:55:55.32\00:55:57.35 It says that, let me go back and find it here. 00:55:57.39\00:56:00.42 It says here that he ministered to their needs, 00:56:00.46\00:56:02.16 He won their confidence. 00:56:02.19\00:56:04.33 Then He bade them to follow Him. 00:56:04.36\00:56:06.16 So all that we've been discussion 00:56:06.19\00:56:07.66 and we're now in the last minute 00:56:07.70\00:56:09.33 and a half of this program. 00:56:09.36\00:56:10.97 You're right, we do need two extra hours for this. 00:56:11.00\00:56:13.97 But what all that we've been discussing here 00:56:14.00\00:56:16.00 talking about Christ mingling with men, 00:56:16.04\00:56:18.51 as one who desired their good, 00:56:18.54\00:56:20.58 that He showed them sympathy, right? 00:56:20.61\00:56:23.31 He met their needs, these are all of these things, 00:56:23.35\00:56:26.25 He won their confidence. 00:56:26.28\00:56:27.68 How did Jesus win their confidence? 00:56:27.72\00:56:31.52 He became a friend to those. That's right. 00:56:31.55\00:56:33.86 We're talking about friendship evangelism. 00:56:33.89\00:56:36.19 And I know so many people out there that are just like, 00:56:36.22\00:56:38.26 "Oh, I gotta go out here and sow the seed," right? 00:56:38.29\00:56:40.23 You don't go out to a place 00:56:40.26\00:56:41.60 where you're going to plant a garden, 00:56:41.63\00:56:43.26 and just throw seeds on the ground 00:56:43.30\00:56:44.73 as we said earlier. 00:56:44.77\00:56:46.10 You got to prepare the soil, 00:56:46.13\00:56:47.47 you got to prepare to receive that seed. 00:56:47.50\00:56:49.94 And so, what we're talking 00:56:49.97\00:56:51.31 what we've been talking about today, 00:56:51.34\00:56:52.67 as time has flown by, 00:56:52.71\00:56:54.18 is we're talking about the true 00:56:54.21\00:56:55.54 and only correct method of witnessing, 00:56:55.58\00:56:57.98 Christ method alone. 00:56:58.01\00:56:59.51 We've got to learn, my friends, 00:56:59.55\00:57:00.98 to adopt Christ's method alone. 00:57:01.02\00:57:02.85 Study that, pray about it. 00:57:02.88\00:57:04.82 Ask the Lord to show you. 00:57:04.85\00:57:06.59 Lord, put within me, 00:57:06.62\00:57:07.96 create in me a clean heart 00:57:07.99\00:57:09.32 that I can be the best witness for you, Jesus, 00:57:09.36\00:57:11.49 that I can be, 00:57:11.53\00:57:12.86 that I can mix and mingle with men, 00:57:12.89\00:57:14.50 desire their good, show them sympathy, 00:57:14.53\00:57:17.00 meet their needs 00:57:17.03\00:57:18.37 and witness to them as you would. 00:57:18.40\00:57:20.30 That's what it's all about becoming a friend, 00:57:20.34\00:57:22.77 as Jesus is our friend. 00:57:22.80\00:57:24.21 My friends, we've run out of time. 00:57:24.24\00:57:25.57 Thank you so much for joining us. 00:57:25.61\00:57:26.94 Thank you, guys, for joining us today. 00:57:26.98\00:57:28.71 And we will see you again, 00:57:28.74\00:57:30.55 I'm sure down the road right here 00:57:30.58\00:57:32.41 on 3ABN Family Worship. 00:57:32.45\00:57:34.72 God bless. 00:57:34.75\00:57:36.08