I want to spend my life 00:00:01.56\00:00:07.50 Mending broken people 00:00:07.54\00:00:12.37 I want to spend my life 00:00:12.41\00:00:18.65 Removing pain 00:00:18.68\00:00:23.69 Lord, let my words 00:00:23.72\00:00:29.96 Heal a heart that hurts 00:00:29.99\00:00:34.46 I want to spend my life 00:00:34.50\00:00:40.17 Mending broken people 00:00:40.20\00:00:45.71 I want to spend my life 00:00:45.74\00:00:51.21 Mending broken people 00:00:51.25\00:00:55.65 Hello, and welcome to 3ABN's Family Worship. 00:01:07.03\00:01:10.30 I'm Chris Shelton along with my husband Pastor Kenny Shelton 00:01:10.33\00:01:13.97 and we want to say happy Sabbath 00:01:14.00\00:01:15.74 to each and every one of you at home. 00:01:15.77\00:01:17.74 And so glad that you have chosen to take this time 00:01:17.77\00:01:20.54 to join us. 00:01:20.58\00:01:21.91 We're already having a good time 00:01:21.94\00:01:23.28 around this table, aren't we? 00:01:23.31\00:01:24.65 Yes, we are. 00:01:24.68\00:01:26.01 It's already been a piece of joy, 00:01:26.05\00:01:27.38 a little bit of heaven that helping me to feel better, 00:01:27.42\00:01:29.42 I know that, 00:01:29.45\00:01:30.79 and I pray it will help you to feel better 00:01:30.82\00:01:32.29 physically and spiritually. 00:01:32.32\00:01:33.66 That's right. 00:01:33.69\00:01:35.02 Before we get started, I want to introduce 00:01:35.06\00:01:36.49 the rest of our family here at 3ABN. 00:01:36.52\00:01:39.29 Over to my far left is my brother-in-law Bruce Chance 00:01:39.33\00:01:43.50 with his lovely wife Tammy Chance, 00:01:43.53\00:01:46.03 and I know many of you know them from many, many years. 00:01:46.07\00:01:49.00 Tammy is actually, she couldn't sing today 00:01:49.04\00:01:51.77 but she can sing, 00:01:51.81\00:01:53.14 whether she's got a voice or not I think. 00:01:53.17\00:01:54.51 That's right. 00:01:54.54\00:01:55.88 And then over to my far right is Sister Mollie Steenson, 00:01:55.91\00:01:59.28 and next to her is a lovely Jill Morikone. 00:01:59.31\00:02:02.18 And we are so thankful all of you are here with us. 00:02:02.22\00:02:05.15 And our family at home is with us. 00:02:05.19\00:02:07.59 Tonight's topic is entitled, "You can come home any time". 00:02:07.62\00:02:12.53 You can come home any time. 00:02:12.56\00:02:14.36 Pastor Kenny, would you open our Bible study here tonight 00:02:14.40\00:02:18.37 with some prayer? 00:02:18.40\00:02:19.73 Absolutely, and we're going to encourage you at home 00:02:19.77\00:02:21.67 to pray along with us if you will. 00:02:21.70\00:02:23.14 This is a very important study 00:02:23.17\00:02:24.87 and I believe it's gonna be a blessing 00:02:24.91\00:02:26.24 because we're going to invite the Holy Spirit 00:02:26.27\00:02:27.91 to take possession of our hearts and our lives and so. 00:02:27.94\00:02:30.41 Let's pray together and those of you, 00:02:30.45\00:02:31.88 maybe you can even kneel where you're at, 00:02:31.91\00:02:33.82 if not just pray along with us. 00:02:33.85\00:02:35.35 Let's pray. 00:02:35.38\00:02:36.99 Our kind loving heavenly Father, 00:02:37.02\00:02:38.35 we thank You for the beginning of the Sabbath. 00:02:38.39\00:02:41.06 We thank You that You have set aside a specific day 00:02:41.09\00:02:44.23 that we can come apart from the world 00:02:44.26\00:02:45.86 and worship You in Spirit and in truth. 00:02:45.89\00:02:48.30 Lord, we're thankful that we can invite the Holy Spirit 00:02:48.33\00:02:51.43 to be present in the name of Jesus 00:02:51.47\00:02:53.74 to be able to take control of this study. 00:02:53.77\00:02:57.07 The title is just, kind of, 00:02:57.11\00:02:58.57 gives you spiritual goose bumps, 00:02:58.61\00:03:00.48 we can come home at any time. 00:03:00.51\00:03:02.31 And, O Lord, I just pray in a special way 00:03:02.34\00:03:04.78 as we are looking and trying to find our way home 00:03:04.81\00:03:08.25 that Your Holy Spirit will lead, guide, and direct 00:03:08.28\00:03:10.65 in all of our hearts, and our minds. 00:03:10.69\00:03:12.12 And especially those that are at home, 00:03:12.15\00:03:14.46 those right now who are looking and wondering 00:03:14.49\00:03:17.13 and thinking about home, tonight, 00:03:17.16\00:03:19.13 I pray that Your sweet spirit now would draw close to us. 00:03:19.16\00:03:22.83 May our minds, our hearts be illuminated 00:03:22.86\00:03:24.80 by the spirit of the living God. 00:03:24.83\00:03:26.84 May we truly see Jesus in this program tonight, 00:03:26.87\00:03:30.14 maybe seen, heard, felt 00:03:30.17\00:03:32.51 and may decisions be made for eternity, 00:03:32.54\00:03:34.41 and I thank you, Lord, for each one that's here 00:03:34.44\00:03:36.41 and each one who is viewing in Jesus' name. 00:03:36.44\00:03:38.58 Amen. Amen. 00:03:38.61\00:03:39.95 Amen. 00:03:39.98\00:03:41.32 You know, group, not very long ago, 00:03:41.35\00:03:42.68 I was listening to 3ABN radio in the car 00:03:42.72\00:03:45.29 and I heard just part of a story. 00:03:45.32\00:03:47.69 A lady talking about this young lady 00:03:47.72\00:03:49.99 that she was ministering to in Oregon, 00:03:50.03\00:03:53.03 and the lady in Oregon, the young lady 00:03:53.06\00:03:55.33 she had been in and out of trouble for many years. 00:03:55.36\00:03:58.70 And the part that really made me feel a little heartsick, 00:03:58.73\00:04:02.14 I got part of this young lady's testimony. 00:04:02.17\00:04:05.71 And when this young lady was only six years old... 00:04:05.74\00:04:08.91 Oh, boy. 00:04:08.94\00:04:10.28 Her mother started dating a man and he didn't like children. 00:04:10.31\00:04:12.68 Oh, no. 00:04:12.71\00:04:14.05 So the mother says, 00:04:14.08\00:04:15.42 "You're going to have to leave." 00:04:15.45\00:04:16.89 So you would immediately think where she's gonna to put her 00:04:16.92\00:04:18.95 with grandma, she gonna put with aunt and uncle 00:04:18.99\00:04:21.06 or maybe even in foster care, 00:04:21.09\00:04:23.32 but that mother in Oregon, here in the United States, 00:04:23.36\00:04:26.80 put that child out on the streets. 00:04:26.83\00:04:29.90 That's poor. 00:04:29.93\00:04:31.27 And so the lady asked her, she says, 00:04:31.30\00:04:33.44 "How does a six year old survive on the streets?" 00:04:33.47\00:04:38.81 And she said, "I would eat out of trash cans, 00:04:38.84\00:04:41.38 I would sleep under bridges." 00:04:41.41\00:04:43.65 And then pretty soon she began to be abused by men 00:04:43.68\00:04:49.18 and it just ruined her basically, 00:04:49.22\00:04:52.85 she felt she had no one, no one that loved her, 00:04:52.89\00:04:56.19 no meaning in life, 00:04:56.22\00:04:57.66 and certainly no home she felt she could go to. 00:04:57.69\00:05:02.50 Unlike this on the contrary 00:05:02.53\00:05:05.03 today, we're gonna be looking at the prodigal son. 00:05:05.07\00:05:08.57 And the story about the prodigal son 00:05:08.60\00:05:12.11 from the Bible that we're gonna discuss today, 00:05:12.14\00:05:14.78 this young man he was loved, 00:05:14.81\00:05:17.01 his father did take good care of him. 00:05:17.05\00:05:19.81 But his heart wasn't always on home, 00:05:19.85\00:05:24.09 he was always looking at the lust 00:05:24.12\00:05:26.32 and the enticements of the world 00:05:26.35\00:05:29.12 and he didn't like to hear, 00:05:29.16\00:05:30.66 don't do this because it's not good for you 00:05:30.69\00:05:33.50 or, you know, walk this way, do this, 00:05:33.53\00:05:35.83 he just didn't want to obey the family rules 00:05:35.86\00:05:38.90 that were set in that home. 00:05:38.93\00:05:40.74 And so finally, he went to his dad one day and he said, 00:05:40.77\00:05:43.20 "You know, I'd like to have my inheritance." 00:05:43.24\00:05:45.21 You know, I thought about that 00:05:45.24\00:05:46.57 as if the children came and said 00:05:46.61\00:05:47.94 they want their inheritance. 00:05:47.98\00:05:49.31 They are in trouble. Right, they are in trouble. 00:05:49.34\00:05:53.31 But this father was willing 00:05:53.35\00:05:55.08 and he gave his son his inheritance 00:05:55.12\00:05:58.05 and then the son went out on his own, 00:05:58.09\00:06:00.66 and he began to live it up. 00:06:00.69\00:06:02.19 Oh, boy. 00:06:02.22\00:06:03.56 He was like the man, he was the popular guy 00:06:03.59\00:06:07.00 because all of a sudden he had all this money 00:06:07.03\00:06:08.96 and people flocked to him. 00:06:09.00\00:06:10.67 But the sad thing is 00:06:10.70\00:06:12.03 the acquaintances that flocked to him, 00:06:12.07\00:06:14.07 they just drew him that much deeper into sin. 00:06:14.10\00:06:19.61 Then a famine hit. Yeah. 00:06:19.64\00:06:22.21 And when that famine hit, 00:06:22.24\00:06:24.25 suddenly he was out without money, 00:06:24.28\00:06:26.41 he was without home, he had no one to help him 00:06:26.45\00:06:30.19 because he was no longer popular, 00:06:30.22\00:06:31.92 he no longer had that money, 00:06:31.95\00:06:33.96 and he found himself 00:06:33.99\00:06:35.49 having to take care of a swine, Pastor Kenny. 00:06:35.52\00:06:37.66 Yes. 00:06:37.69\00:06:39.03 And for a Jewish young man to take care of a swine, 00:06:39.06\00:06:42.00 that was humiliating. 00:06:42.03\00:06:43.37 Yes. 00:06:43.40\00:06:44.73 You know, many of us that don't eat pork. 00:06:44.77\00:06:47.37 Well. 00:06:47.40\00:06:50.31 You know, we kind of relate to that a little bit 00:06:50.34\00:06:53.34 because we think of it as being the meat itself being unclean. 00:06:53.38\00:06:56.64 So for a Jew, especially they didn't want to touch it, 00:06:56.68\00:06:59.15 they didn't want to be around it. 00:06:59.18\00:07:00.52 And he became so hungry he began to eat even the husk 00:07:00.55\00:07:04.09 that was left just for the swine, 00:07:04.12\00:07:06.42 that's how hungry he became. 00:07:06.45\00:07:08.32 Would you finish telling us the rest of this story? 00:07:08.36\00:07:10.63 You know, 00:07:10.66\00:07:11.99 I think probably is the way we discussed a part of it 00:07:12.03\00:07:14.30 and I think 'cause here is, 00:07:14.33\00:07:15.76 believe it or not there are many people 00:07:15.80\00:07:17.53 who have never heard this parable. 00:07:17.57\00:07:20.07 This is what it is, it's a parable. 00:07:20.10\00:07:21.74 And everything that's in here 00:07:21.77\00:07:23.30 there're spiritual applications, 00:07:23.34\00:07:25.61 and that's what I want out of it, 00:07:25.64\00:07:27.64 the spiritual applications 00:07:27.68\00:07:29.01 and almost every word you can find something 00:07:29.04\00:07:31.01 that certainly spiritual leads you to Jesus. 00:07:31.05\00:07:33.38 And I like the part, you know, you told the part 00:07:33.42\00:07:35.65 and again 'cause some might have never heard this, 00:07:35.68\00:07:37.82 that's why we want to go over and then discuss a little more. 00:07:37.85\00:07:39.79 Yes. 00:07:39.82\00:07:41.16 I like the part when it said he came to his senses, 00:07:41.19\00:07:43.99 that's just the whole deal for me right there, 00:07:44.03\00:07:45.86 he finally came to his senses. 00:07:45.89\00:07:47.70 And, you know, some time when you're growing up, 00:07:47.73\00:07:50.67 my Dad said, "If you lack the sense, 00:07:50.70\00:07:52.03 I'll help you find the sense." 00:07:52.07\00:07:53.80 But he also said, he's gonna... 00:07:53.84\00:07:56.40 Put some sense. 00:07:56.44\00:07:57.77 He's gonna help me find the sense... 00:07:57.81\00:07:59.14 Put some sense into you. He always said that. 00:07:59.17\00:08:00.51 Put some sense into you. 00:08:00.54\00:08:01.88 He didn't mean to help you. Got a little bit of whipping. 00:08:01.91\00:08:03.24 Little whipping and little... 00:08:03.28\00:08:04.61 Usually he said we're gonna knock some sense into you. 00:08:04.65\00:08:05.98 There you go. So I'll just put it out there. 00:08:06.01\00:08:07.35 There you go. 00:08:07.38\00:08:08.72 But anyway this man came to his senses 00:08:08.75\00:08:10.09 we realize in that the, you know, 00:08:10.12\00:08:11.45 he was at the very bottom 00:08:11.49\00:08:12.82 and sometime it takes being at the very bottom 00:08:12.85\00:08:15.16 before we ever look up. 00:08:15.19\00:08:16.52 When things are going our way and then we go in his way, 00:08:16.56\00:08:19.26 he never thought about ever probably going back home. 00:08:19.29\00:08:22.40 But he came to his senses, he decided, 00:08:22.43\00:08:23.87 "Hey, the best thing for me to do is just go home." 00:08:23.90\00:08:27.34 We just say sometime I had to go home and eat crow 00:08:27.37\00:08:29.77 because I'm sure he raised a stink when he left 00:08:29.80\00:08:32.11 and, you know, he just really demanded what he wanted 00:08:32.14\00:08:34.81 and he wanted his own way, he was selfish 00:08:34.84\00:08:37.71 and he didn't care about anything or anybody else. 00:08:37.75\00:08:40.05 If you really think about it, he wanted his own way. 00:08:40.08\00:08:42.15 Yeah. 00:08:42.18\00:08:43.52 And then he had his own way, 00:08:43.55\00:08:44.89 and then he found that wasn't what was the best and so. 00:08:44.92\00:08:46.62 Anyway he decided to go home quickly 00:08:46.65\00:08:48.86 and when he went home a long way off, 00:08:48.89\00:08:51.46 I love that part too where it says a long way off. 00:08:51.49\00:08:54.10 The father recognized him, 00:08:54.13\00:08:56.43 and I keep thinking about Christ recognizing us 00:08:56.46\00:08:58.53 no matter what shape that we maybe in 00:08:58.57\00:09:00.77 and things of the world we take into our body 00:09:00.80\00:09:03.20 and things we get involved with 00:09:03.24\00:09:04.57 it actually changes our appearance. 00:09:04.61\00:09:05.94 Oh, yes. 00:09:05.97\00:09:07.31 It really does, you know, 00:09:07.34\00:09:08.68 sometimes it's hard to recognize 00:09:08.71\00:09:10.05 if you haven't seen somebody, 00:09:10.08\00:09:11.41 didn't matter how long he was gone, 00:09:11.45\00:09:12.78 his father recognized him. 00:09:12.81\00:09:14.15 Amen. 00:09:14.18\00:09:15.52 And I like what it says, he ran to his son. 00:09:15.55\00:09:18.89 Maybe the son was running too, 00:09:18.92\00:09:20.26 but the father ran to the son and held him and kissed him, 00:09:20.29\00:09:24.63 and welcomed him back into the family. 00:09:24.66\00:09:27.26 And I like the part too and we'll talk more about it 00:09:27.30\00:09:31.03 is he said, bringing, 00:09:31.07\00:09:32.73 I'll more say the closed to cloak. 00:09:32.77\00:09:35.17 He did not want the other servants. 00:09:35.20\00:09:37.47 That boy was willing to be a servant, 00:09:37.51\00:09:38.84 he didn't plan on coming back, but praise God, 00:09:38.87\00:09:41.48 when you come back to Christ no matter where you have been, 00:09:41.51\00:09:44.38 He treats you as though you've never sinned. 00:09:44.41\00:09:45.81 When you confess and forsake, 00:09:45.85\00:09:47.45 He treats as though we've never sinned, 00:09:47.48\00:09:49.58 and He puts that robe around us, 00:09:49.62\00:09:51.82 He doesn't want other people to have to see all that mess. 00:09:51.85\00:09:55.29 And the father didn't want the, 00:09:55.32\00:09:57.76 you know, the servants to see his son the way he was, 00:09:57.79\00:09:59.93 so he headed the long way off, 00:09:59.96\00:10:01.36 he said bring it to me and I'll cover him up. 00:10:01.40\00:10:04.13 And so they did and of course, 00:10:04.17\00:10:05.50 then the other son was little bit angry about it 00:10:05.53\00:10:07.57 and so we'll talk more about that. 00:10:07.60\00:10:09.00 And I think that the other son was, 00:10:09.04\00:10:11.17 he was the one supposed to get double portion, wasn't he? 00:10:11.21\00:10:13.64 And so instead of getting double portion, 00:10:13.68\00:10:15.34 he thought like he was messing, 00:10:15.38\00:10:17.01 you know, he wouldn't get anything probably. 00:10:17.05\00:10:19.31 And he was trying to if we look at that, 00:10:19.35\00:10:21.22 I think we'll find, 00:10:21.25\00:10:22.58 he was kind of like the maybe the Jews of old, 00:10:22.62\00:10:25.55 he was trying to work his way. 00:10:25.59\00:10:28.62 You know, he was diligent, he went out and did 00:10:28.66\00:10:30.86 what the father asked him to do, 00:10:30.89\00:10:32.23 he was loyal, he did it, 00:10:32.26\00:10:33.60 but he did it from all the wrong reasons. 00:10:33.63\00:10:35.40 And sometimes we can serve God from the wrong reasons. 00:10:35.43\00:10:37.50 That's right. 00:10:37.53\00:10:38.87 So anyway, that just gives us a little 00:10:38.90\00:10:40.94 synopsis of what this is 00:10:40.97\00:10:43.14 and the questions that we have are awesome 00:10:43.17\00:10:44.87 and I know everybody has a lot they want to share so. 00:10:44.91\00:10:47.21 I think we're gonna glean a lot from this story 00:10:47.24\00:10:49.48 and if you want to read more about it, 00:10:49.51\00:10:50.95 you can turn in your Bibles to Luke 15 and read there. 00:10:50.98\00:10:54.75 So that there is so many things in each part, 00:10:54.78\00:10:57.32 you know, as you were talking 00:10:57.35\00:10:58.69 and you mentioned the father coming, 00:10:58.72\00:11:01.69 immediately I thought how many parents 00:11:01.72\00:11:04.49 when that child comes home 00:11:04.53\00:11:06.56 all tattered, all messed up as it were by the world, 00:11:06.59\00:11:11.77 how many of us would embrace them 00:11:11.80\00:11:14.44 or would we say, "I told you so." 00:11:14.47\00:11:17.21 What an opportunity, you see, 00:11:17.24\00:11:19.37 but that father had the love of God 00:11:19.41\00:11:21.48 and he revealed Christ. 00:11:21.51\00:11:22.94 So the first question for all of us tonight is 00:11:22.98\00:11:25.95 how are we like this prodigal son? 00:11:25.98\00:11:29.88 So jump in there. Yeah. 00:11:29.92\00:11:32.55 Jill is thinking, "Okay, do we have another hour?" 00:11:32.59\00:11:35.49 Can we go back? 00:11:35.52\00:11:37.56 Okay. Oh, you can. 00:11:37.59\00:11:38.93 Just 'cause I have a question, 00:11:38.96\00:11:41.46 so everybody can give their opinion on it. 00:11:41.50\00:11:44.93 Why do you think the father went ahead 00:11:44.97\00:11:48.20 and gave him his inheritance when he demanded it? 00:11:48.24\00:11:50.97 He didn't have to, he could have said no. 00:11:51.01\00:11:52.34 No, he didn't. 00:11:52.37\00:11:55.71 I don't know I'm asking. 00:11:55.74\00:11:58.65 Well, I think that was one of the, 00:11:58.68\00:12:00.02 you know, one of the things that he really wanted. 00:12:00.05\00:12:02.88 He pressed at home to his dad 00:12:02.92\00:12:04.25 like a child would come to us sometime 00:12:04.29\00:12:06.42 and they want this drivers, they want a car, 00:12:06.45\00:12:09.39 and they just kind of keep it up 00:12:09.42\00:12:10.76 and they want to get this vehicle. 00:12:10.79\00:12:12.36 And of course, that was, you know, in the Jewish economy 00:12:12.39\00:12:16.33 that was, really they actually divided things up 00:12:16.36\00:12:21.80 before the death of the parents. 00:12:21.84\00:12:25.17 It could be divided up in there 00:12:25.21\00:12:27.11 and if there was property involved, 00:12:27.14\00:12:28.48 then naturally long as dad was still alive 00:12:28.51\00:12:30.31 the property was still, he still occupy it. 00:12:30.35\00:12:33.28 So that was not uncommon to go and divide things up 00:12:33.31\00:12:36.22 but to give them something was, wasn't it out the ordinary? 00:12:36.25\00:12:39.35 All of a sudden we are bend. 00:12:42.49\00:12:44.63 I'm thinking too 00:12:44.66\00:12:46.53 that the son had the wrong attitude 00:12:46.56\00:12:49.36 and the wrong concept 00:12:49.40\00:12:51.53 of what it was gonna be like to be out there. 00:12:51.57\00:12:53.80 He was thinking the grass is gonna be green. 00:12:53.84\00:12:55.84 Oh, yes. Oh, don't you know it. 00:12:55.87\00:12:57.21 But the grass is not always green 00:12:57.24\00:12:58.57 and sometimes it's just meaner. 00:12:58.61\00:13:00.04 Yes. That's right. 00:13:00.08\00:13:01.41 And do you think his father might have known that. 00:13:01.44\00:13:03.08 Let's say, I'm thinking, 00:13:03.11\00:13:04.45 you know, as we read like the father 00:13:04.48\00:13:06.31 to our heavenly Father. 00:13:06.35\00:13:07.68 Yes. 00:13:07.72\00:13:09.05 He sees our hearts mourning to go often do the wrong thing. 00:13:09.08\00:13:12.82 And what is the father's ultimate goal always? 00:13:12.85\00:13:15.26 The ultimate goal is deals in redemption to save us. 00:13:15.29\00:13:19.56 And so he knows, don't you think 00:13:19.59\00:13:23.70 that when this son goes out there, 00:13:23.73\00:13:25.80 he's gonna run into the harsh realities of life. 00:13:25.83\00:13:28.50 Yes. 00:13:28.54\00:13:29.87 He's probably never had to deal with anything harsh, 00:13:29.90\00:13:32.84 any of those harsh realities. 00:13:32.87\00:13:34.21 Right. 00:13:34.24\00:13:35.58 And, you know, it even says that Jesus grew in wisdom 00:13:35.61\00:13:37.95 from the things that He experienced in life. 00:13:37.98\00:13:40.82 And so this young man maybe the father was thinking, 00:13:40.85\00:13:43.95 you know, half of my wealth, its well worth it. 00:13:43.99\00:13:47.72 If my son comes to the end of himself 00:13:47.76\00:13:51.83 and comes back with the right heart 00:13:51.86\00:13:53.40 and the right attitude, that's just a thought. 00:13:53.43\00:13:56.73 That's miracle, Mollie. 00:13:56.77\00:13:58.10 I think, yeah, 00:13:58.13\00:13:59.47 and he represents God himself in this parable. 00:13:59.50\00:14:02.77 And God, see, this part of this parable 00:14:02.80\00:14:05.37 is to teach us that God is a loving God, 00:14:05.41\00:14:08.51 not any exacting God, and as the question was asked, 00:14:08.54\00:14:12.28 I wrote down rain here 'cause we can read in scripture 00:14:12.31\00:14:15.12 that the rain falls on the just as well as the unjust. 00:14:15.15\00:14:19.85 And if our heavenly Father knows 00:14:19.89\00:14:22.72 how to give us good gifts. 00:14:22.76\00:14:24.36 Yeah. 00:14:24.39\00:14:25.73 And so I think, we were talking about healing. 00:14:25.76\00:14:28.23 There is a lot of people that have never accepted Christ 00:14:28.26\00:14:30.60 and yet they find healing. 00:14:30.63\00:14:33.00 Life only comes from heaven, only from the Father, 00:14:33.03\00:14:36.77 so I think being that loving example 00:14:36.81\00:14:41.28 he was willing to give of himself 00:14:41.31\00:14:43.95 to give that good gift. 00:14:43.98\00:14:45.31 So Jill does, I think a question, 00:14:45.35\00:14:46.68 you know, and I've come to this conclusion, 00:14:46.72\00:14:50.15 you know, reading a little here and studying and praying, 00:14:50.19\00:14:52.75 that many times that God will give us 00:14:52.79\00:14:55.62 what we asked for... 00:14:55.66\00:14:56.99 He desires our heart. 00:14:57.03\00:14:58.36 Because we keep asking for it 00:14:58.39\00:14:59.73 and just what you brought, point you're bringing out. 00:14:59.76\00:15:02.66 He knows what He's gonna do to us, 00:15:02.70\00:15:04.50 but because we continue to ask, 00:15:04.53\00:15:06.03 He goes ahead and He gives it to us, 00:15:06.07\00:15:07.40 have you found that? 00:15:07.44\00:15:08.77 Absolutely. 00:15:08.80\00:15:10.14 And I think I was gonna say, 00:15:10.17\00:15:11.51 to me in the story I see free choice. 00:15:11.54\00:15:13.84 Oh, yeah. 00:15:13.88\00:15:15.21 That's what God gave me and at the beginning 00:15:15.24\00:15:16.58 He never wanted us to serve Him out of fear but out of love. 00:15:16.61\00:15:20.78 And so Adam and Eve in the garden 00:15:20.82\00:15:22.65 were given the option of eating 00:15:22.68\00:15:24.89 of the tree of knowledge of good and evil or not eating 00:15:24.92\00:15:27.72 and choosing to live. 00:15:27.76\00:15:29.16 And so they were given free choice. 00:15:29.19\00:15:30.59 So I think when the son asked 00:15:30.63\00:15:32.26 and the father knew it was the wrong choice, 00:15:32.29\00:15:35.46 but maybe in the end he knew it would bring him back around 00:15:35.50\00:15:38.03 because God knows everything, I like that. 00:15:38.07\00:15:39.97 But I think that's our God of love, 00:15:40.00\00:15:42.57 He gives us free choice. 00:15:42.60\00:15:43.94 Okay, if you want it, if you ask, 00:15:43.97\00:15:46.04 I will let you go that route even though it pains my heart, 00:15:46.07\00:15:49.08 even though I don't want you go in that way, you can go 00:15:49.11\00:15:52.58 because I would never force you or hold you against your will. 00:15:52.61\00:15:55.45 He doesn't. 00:15:55.48\00:15:56.82 Yeah, that's another story in itself, another lesson, 00:15:56.85\00:15:59.55 He never will force us. 00:15:59.59\00:16:01.32 And I thought it too 00:16:01.36\00:16:02.69 when he was asking that question 00:16:02.72\00:16:04.36 of the children of Israel when they were in the desert, 00:16:04.39\00:16:07.00 and they wanted to meet 00:16:07.03\00:16:08.70 and the Lord sent all those quail. 00:16:08.73\00:16:10.07 Oh, boy. 00:16:10.10\00:16:11.43 He think, they got very sick the Lord knew that, 00:16:11.47\00:16:14.87 you know, so He was giving them what He knew they needed 00:16:14.90\00:16:17.84 but they were asking for something different, 00:16:17.87\00:16:20.01 so He gave them what they ask for. 00:16:20.04\00:16:22.78 The basic lesson, I think it's like 00:16:22.81\00:16:25.35 my son was praying about a job and changing jobs. 00:16:25.38\00:16:29.48 And I said, "Well, you know, 00:16:29.52\00:16:31.59 you of course you want to see God's will in it 00:16:31.62\00:16:33.72 because even though your heart tells you 00:16:33.76\00:16:36.86 that's where you would like to go 00:16:36.89\00:16:38.49 and your head says that's where you'd like to go. 00:16:38.53\00:16:40.66 If it's not within God's will, 00:16:40.70\00:16:42.03 it's gonna blow up in your face. 00:16:42.06\00:16:43.40 Yeah. 00:16:43.43\00:16:44.77 So that's kind of just the basic, don't you think? 00:16:44.80\00:16:46.13 Yes. 00:16:46.17\00:16:47.50 Because if we just choose ourselves, 00:16:47.54\00:16:49.24 we're gonna mess it up. 00:16:49.27\00:16:51.57 I think the man was trying to teach his son a lesson 00:16:51.61\00:16:55.18 because he didn't have to give him the inheritance, 00:16:55.21\00:16:58.85 you know, because he wasn't living a Christian life, 00:16:58.88\00:17:01.22 All right, so. Yeah. 00:17:01.25\00:17:03.18 I mean, he was, that's the way of teaching him. 00:17:03.22\00:17:05.19 I think that's what the man was trying to portray. 00:17:05.22\00:17:07.39 Yeah. 00:17:07.42\00:17:08.76 Isn't that, that's pretty typical live 00:17:08.79\00:17:10.33 as our heavenly Father like you say, 00:17:10.36\00:17:12.13 He's watching over us, 00:17:12.16\00:17:13.50 He knows, you know, beginning from the end, 00:17:13.53\00:17:15.23 He knows each and every one of us, 00:17:15.26\00:17:17.10 and I keep saying this that's why, 00:17:17.13\00:17:19.60 you know, the Bible is very, very clear. 00:17:19.63\00:17:21.60 You just mentioned while ago, 00:17:21.64\00:17:22.97 rains on the just and the unjust alike. 00:17:23.00\00:17:24.97 And so it was very clear 00:17:25.01\00:17:26.34 that God has our best interest at heart, 00:17:26.37\00:17:28.61 He has your best interest at heart. 00:17:28.64\00:17:30.55 And sometime things 00:17:30.58\00:17:32.05 and when I say bad things happen to good people. 00:17:32.08\00:17:34.22 Absolutely. 00:17:34.25\00:17:35.58 You know, they probably say, well, almost they, 00:17:35.62\00:17:36.99 you know, kind of like the Job situation, 00:17:37.02\00:17:38.69 you know, but a lot of time God allows those things again 00:17:38.72\00:17:41.82 to get our attention and I can see it 00:17:41.86\00:17:43.93 in this account here, 00:17:43.96\00:17:45.69 you can come home any time. 00:17:45.73\00:17:47.60 And that is what so wonderful about this, 00:17:47.63\00:17:49.66 you can come home 00:17:49.70\00:17:51.03 and if you wandered far away from God, 00:17:51.07\00:17:53.54 that song says, "Now I'm coming home." 00:17:53.57\00:17:56.30 That's beautiful to know that we can come home at any time, 00:17:56.34\00:17:59.87 but we need to come to our senses. 00:17:59.91\00:18:01.44 Yes. Yeah. 00:18:01.48\00:18:02.81 And if not and we're praying about it, 00:18:02.84\00:18:05.21 sometime God has ways to bring us to our senses. 00:18:05.25\00:18:08.72 Have you found that in everybody's life here? 00:18:08.75\00:18:10.69 Really. The refining fire. 00:18:10.72\00:18:12.35 The refining fire sometime. That's right. 00:18:12.39\00:18:13.92 Oh, wow. He's gonna get our attention. 00:18:13.96\00:18:16.56 That's how like, 00:18:16.59\00:18:18.23 you know, when we act like the prodigal son, 00:18:18.26\00:18:20.50 when we follow our own lust 00:18:20.53\00:18:22.46 rather than really praying about it. 00:18:22.50\00:18:23.97 You know, I remember reading one time 00:18:24.00\00:18:25.43 if you're praying about getting married, 00:18:25.47\00:18:27.47 you know, and you're just praying once a day, 00:18:27.50\00:18:29.40 well, you need to pray at least four times a day. 00:18:29.44\00:18:32.01 Increase that prayer 00:18:32.04\00:18:33.58 because we need an answer from God, 00:18:33.61\00:18:35.44 but many times we step out and we walk our own path, 00:18:35.48\00:18:39.71 and we're following those fires of lust 00:18:39.75\00:18:41.72 just like the prodigal son did. 00:18:41.75\00:18:43.55 And so all of these things God allows, 00:18:43.59\00:18:46.69 I love what you said, and maybe that's the basis 00:18:46.72\00:18:49.82 because heaven is our goal, heaven is our final home. 00:18:49.86\00:18:53.90 And all of these are refining tools 00:18:53.93\00:18:56.56 where that potter, you know, the clay. 00:18:56.60\00:18:59.17 And He's molding, and He's making us 00:18:59.20\00:19:01.60 into that fine pottery into the jewel for heaven, 00:19:01.64\00:19:05.01 so I think that's beautiful. 00:19:05.04\00:19:06.54 And ultimately, 00:19:06.57\00:19:07.91 you know, ultimate purpose is to redeem us. 00:19:07.94\00:19:10.25 Oh, absolutely. 00:19:10.28\00:19:11.61 And the next question, how we like the prodigal son? 00:19:11.65\00:19:13.58 And I think about that prodigal son 00:19:13.62\00:19:15.58 before he had conjured it up in his mind, 00:19:15.62\00:19:18.99 what it was gonna be like. 00:19:19.02\00:19:21.12 If I didn't have the restraints, 00:19:21.16\00:19:23.16 if I had all that money, he had figured having it, 00:19:23.19\00:19:25.69 he had painted the picture in his mind, you ever do that? 00:19:25.73\00:19:29.06 You know, and his was, you know, as the story depicts, 00:19:29.10\00:19:32.70 you know, his inheritance. 00:19:32.73\00:19:34.30 But think about this, how we like the prodigal son? 00:19:34.34\00:19:37.94 If a woman that becomes an adulterer 00:19:37.97\00:19:39.87 because she paints in her mind if I'm with this other man, 00:19:39.91\00:19:43.14 it's gonna make me so much happy or the man 00:19:43.18\00:19:46.61 or someone that steals, 00:19:46.65\00:19:49.25 if I just had that and what it does. 00:19:49.28\00:19:51.85 See, it doesn't make you happier. 00:19:51.89\00:19:53.46 Again, the grass is not always greener, 00:19:53.49\00:19:55.89 what it does is it brings damage 00:19:55.92\00:19:57.99 and harm to you. 00:19:58.03\00:19:59.49 Even if it is something, 00:19:59.53\00:20:01.70 let's say you never get caught 00:20:01.73\00:20:03.87 in your act of whatever it is that you're doing, 00:20:03.90\00:20:06.74 still brings harm and damage to you 00:20:06.77\00:20:09.40 and you still have that to do deal with so. 00:20:09.44\00:20:12.14 With me, the prodigal son, 00:20:12.17\00:20:13.84 he had this vain imaginations thinking 00:20:13.88\00:20:17.45 the things were gonna be so much better 00:20:17.48\00:20:19.51 and it just wasn't. 00:20:19.55\00:20:20.88 He just didn't, he didn't like rules, did he? 00:20:20.92\00:20:23.15 He didn't like any regulations. 00:20:23.18\00:20:24.65 He didn't want anybody to tell him 00:20:24.69\00:20:26.02 when to get up and when to go to bed. 00:20:26.05\00:20:27.92 I heard one young person said at one time he said, 00:20:27.96\00:20:30.53 "But I want to be on my own before too long." 00:20:30.56\00:20:32.99 I said, "What you're gonna do different 00:20:33.03\00:20:34.36 when you're on your own, you do it right now." 00:20:34.40\00:20:35.86 Pay your bills. Yeah. 00:20:35.90\00:20:39.10 You don't think about that. Right. 00:20:39.13\00:20:40.47 But, you know, what he said, 00:20:40.50\00:20:41.90 "Because I can stay up as late as I want." 00:20:41.94\00:20:44.34 And I thought right in there, he is not material. 00:20:44.37\00:20:46.88 That was his big deal, 00:20:46.91\00:20:48.24 I can stay up as late as I want 00:20:48.28\00:20:49.81 and go to bed when I want and get up, 00:20:49.84\00:20:51.38 reality is like you have to pay your bills, 00:20:51.41\00:20:52.98 you got a job, you have more responsibilities so. 00:20:53.01\00:20:54.35 You got to get up in the morning. 00:20:54.38\00:20:55.85 He did have his own thoughts 00:20:55.88\00:20:57.22 so I come to that conclusion to this guy. 00:20:57.25\00:20:58.59 And he was the younger son so. Yes. 00:20:58.62\00:21:02.56 You know, I thought as I was reading through this story, 00:21:02.59\00:21:05.19 and we were breaking it down and putting questions to it, 00:21:05.23\00:21:08.26 I thought how the Father's heart had to hurt, 00:21:08.30\00:21:11.63 even for Lucifer, 00:21:11.67\00:21:13.50 and because Lucifer in my mind was the prodigal son as well 00:21:13.54\00:21:17.74 and those fallen angels. 00:21:17.77\00:21:19.57 No one loved them more than the Father. 00:21:19.61\00:21:23.18 You know, and how it had to break His heart, 00:21:23.21\00:21:25.51 how He had to look down throughout all history as you, 00:21:25.55\00:21:29.25 you know, we alluded to 'cause God can see everything 00:21:29.28\00:21:32.92 and He knows what lesson we're gonna learn. 00:21:32.95\00:21:35.19 And see the harm and the heartache 00:21:35.22\00:21:37.39 it was going to cause. 00:21:37.43\00:21:39.19 You know, so we're actually as we are a prodigal son 00:21:39.23\00:21:42.36 and we're conjuring up all these things in our mind 00:21:42.40\00:21:44.80 that the grass is greener on the other side, 00:21:44.83\00:21:46.87 basically we're doing what Lucifer did, 00:21:46.90\00:21:49.37 we're just following in his footsteps. 00:21:49.40\00:21:52.67 I wonder what it would be like 00:21:52.71\00:21:54.04 if I was sitting on that throne. 00:21:54.08\00:21:56.31 What it would be like... 00:21:56.34\00:21:57.68 Well, we don't need those rules, 00:21:57.71\00:21:59.65 we can be holy without that law. 00:21:59.68\00:22:02.45 You see, we're following in His footsteps, 00:22:02.48\00:22:05.19 but many times it takes that refining fire 00:22:05.22\00:22:09.42 to bring us back to our mind. 00:22:09.46\00:22:11.19 I think sin always begins in the mind. 00:22:11.23\00:22:14.00 You know, and the Bible tells us 00:22:14.03\00:22:15.50 how it's conceived and then when it brings forth, 00:22:15.53\00:22:18.27 it comes to death finally. 00:22:18.30\00:22:21.04 But it's conceived in the mind. 00:22:21.07\00:22:22.54 So the son I believe 00:22:22.57\00:22:23.94 what you've said had these imaginations, 00:22:23.97\00:22:26.21 had these thoughts but I think sin also originates 00:22:26.24\00:22:30.25 because we don't understand the Father. 00:22:30.28\00:22:32.28 Oh, it's true. 00:22:32.31\00:22:33.65 And so the son, 00:22:33.68\00:22:35.02 I personally don't believe 00:22:35.05\00:22:36.82 had a proper understanding of his father's love. 00:22:36.85\00:22:40.69 He didn't know that the rules the father had put around him 00:22:40.72\00:22:43.79 were for his protection, were to make him happy. 00:22:43.83\00:22:48.36 God's law, James tells us is the law of liberty, 00:22:48.40\00:22:51.67 but he didn't understand that 00:22:51.70\00:22:53.23 and so all he saw was restriction. 00:22:53.27\00:22:56.24 But when he came to himself 00:22:56.27\00:22:58.57 when he was at the end of his rope, 00:22:58.61\00:23:00.91 I believe that was not only did he come to himself, 00:23:00.94\00:23:03.85 but I think he came to understand 00:23:03.88\00:23:05.28 his father a bit better and understand, 00:23:05.31\00:23:08.05 look at how my father treated everyone, 00:23:08.08\00:23:10.42 look at his character. 00:23:10.45\00:23:11.79 Absolutely. 00:23:11.82\00:23:13.15 And so I think many times in my own life 00:23:13.19\00:23:15.56 when I begin to step outside of God's will 00:23:15.59\00:23:17.59 and begin to act out, 00:23:17.63\00:23:19.36 it's because I don't even have a clear conception of God. 00:23:19.39\00:23:22.00 No. 00:23:22.03\00:23:23.37 I think He's a God of judgment instead of God of love. 00:23:23.40\00:23:25.90 Yes. 00:23:25.93\00:23:27.27 And I think if we were all honest here, 00:23:27.30\00:23:29.07 we probably all felt that way, 00:23:29.10\00:23:31.17 even keeping the Ten Commandments. 00:23:31.21\00:23:33.64 You know, how often as a child you waited to that sun, 00:23:33.68\00:23:37.48 sun was down on Saturday night so you could go do something. 00:23:37.51\00:23:41.52 I've heard the story about go and playing ball or... 00:23:41.55\00:23:46.19 Those Shelton boys. I don't know about it. 00:23:46.22\00:23:48.52 You know what I'm saying 00:23:48.56\00:23:49.89 but it's because we looked at it more 00:23:49.92\00:23:52.49 as something that wasn't as good that was rigid 00:23:52.53\00:23:56.93 and how many times that have we heard all you people, 00:23:56.97\00:23:59.93 you think the law is gonna save you. 00:23:59.97\00:24:01.60 It has nothing to do with that. Right. 00:24:01.64\00:24:03.61 It has to do with what God is given 00:24:03.64\00:24:05.91 for our own well-being 00:24:05.94\00:24:08.14 because out of love He wants to protect us 00:24:08.18\00:24:11.05 and He wants to prepare us for the kingdom. 00:24:11.08\00:24:13.15 And can you imagine 00:24:13.18\00:24:14.52 what heaven is gonna be like in the kingdom? 00:24:14.55\00:24:16.95 I mean, I've read some things that just overwhelming, 00:24:16.99\00:24:19.82 you know, traveling 00:24:19.85\00:24:21.69 and it's gonna be such a high time together. 00:24:21.72\00:24:24.99 So we just have a little piece of it here. 00:24:25.03\00:24:26.36 Amen. 00:24:26.39\00:24:27.73 Well, let's look at question number two, shall we? 00:24:27.76\00:24:29.86 It says, we've kind of already touched on that, 00:24:29.90\00:24:32.67 maybe we don't even need to, but the second question was, 00:24:32.70\00:24:35.67 our God's command and biblical instructions 00:24:35.70\00:24:38.01 throughout scripture nothing more 00:24:38.04\00:24:39.77 than restrains of our freedom? 00:24:39.81\00:24:42.74 You just gave a real good answer to that, 00:24:42.78\00:24:45.05 they're really not restraints, 00:24:45.08\00:24:46.65 they're really God's love letters to us. 00:24:46.68\00:24:49.12 He knows, I mean, we have rules for our children, right? 00:24:49.15\00:24:54.22 When they're young, you don't want them touching 00:24:54.26\00:24:56.06 that hot stove or picking up the glass that might hurt them. 00:24:56.09\00:25:00.66 And so He's given us these amazing commandments 00:25:00.70\00:25:04.57 that surpass any laws that we have 00:25:04.60\00:25:07.40 because in ten rules, ten laws, 00:25:07.44\00:25:10.41 it can cover every aspect of our life. 00:25:10.44\00:25:13.04 And yet, you can't even count 00:25:13.07\00:25:14.74 how many laws that man has on the books, 00:25:14.78\00:25:17.81 you know, trying to cover all those aspects. 00:25:17.85\00:25:20.72 So do you have any other thoughts 00:25:20.75\00:25:22.65 from question number two 00:25:22.68\00:25:24.02 than what Jill has already said? 00:25:24.05\00:25:25.39 I just had a short personal experience 00:25:25.42\00:25:27.56 if I can share them. 00:25:27.59\00:25:28.92 When I was thirteen and half I was very difficult. 00:25:28.96\00:25:32.76 I'm still difficult now, 00:25:32.79\00:25:34.13 but I mean, I was extremely difficult. 00:25:34.16\00:25:36.46 And I was involved in a certain youth group at church 00:25:36.50\00:25:39.87 and my parents saw that the activities 00:25:39.90\00:25:43.47 I was involved in 00:25:43.51\00:25:44.84 and the association of the other young people 00:25:44.87\00:25:47.74 was pulling me from Jesus. 00:25:47.78\00:25:49.11 Yes. 00:25:49.14\00:25:50.48 And so they set down a rule, an ultimatum and said, 00:25:50.51\00:25:54.05 "Jill, you cannot go to that anymore." 00:25:54.08\00:25:56.62 I was so mad. 00:25:56.65\00:25:59.85 And I hurt my parents thinking back on it 00:25:59.89\00:26:03.43 that makes me cry 00:26:03.46\00:26:04.79 because I yelled at my parents, I said, 00:26:04.83\00:26:09.26 "Who do you think you are to tell me I can't do that? 00:26:09.30\00:26:12.60 And I need to hang with young people, 00:26:12.63\00:26:15.44 you're trying to restrict me." 00:26:15.47\00:26:17.07 Oh, yes. Oh, yes. Mercy me. 00:26:17.11\00:26:20.18 And I hated them for that decision 00:26:20.21\00:26:25.48 and, you know, what they didn't change, 00:26:25.51\00:26:27.52 they said, "We don't care, Jill, if you hate us, 00:26:27.55\00:26:30.05 we don't care what happens, this is for your best good." 00:26:30.09\00:26:34.82 It took me six months of kind of struggling turmoil 00:26:34.86\00:26:39.26 till I realized that they knew what they were talking about. 00:26:39.29\00:26:43.50 And that association was pulling me from Jesus. 00:26:43.53\00:26:46.60 Absolutely. 00:26:46.63\00:26:47.97 Not saying it was the church, 00:26:48.00\00:26:49.34 it was just the certain associations 00:26:49.37\00:26:50.71 that I happened to be associating with. 00:26:50.74\00:26:53.48 And so I look at that 00:26:53.51\00:26:54.88 like the father here in the prodigal son 00:26:54.91\00:26:57.11 and then and they did it out of love 00:26:57.15\00:27:00.68 because they wanted me to make choices for Jesus. 00:27:00.72\00:27:03.45 And they didn't change no matter how much you begged, 00:27:03.49\00:27:06.09 and pleaded, and threatened, they didn't change. 00:27:06.12\00:27:08.49 And I think that's the mistakes a lot of parents make. 00:27:08.52\00:27:10.93 Oh, absolutely, yes. 00:27:10.96\00:27:12.29 You know, the kids keep on and the parents, 00:27:12.33\00:27:13.66 you know, okay, give in and it doesn't work out at all. 00:27:13.70\00:27:17.47 So I have respect for that, 00:27:17.50\00:27:19.93 that they didn't change even when you said that, 00:27:19.97\00:27:22.30 you know, that you hated them and everything else, 00:27:22.34\00:27:24.97 they didn't change. 00:27:25.01\00:27:26.34 It was the best thing they could have ever done. 00:27:26.37\00:27:27.84 I'm so thankful for 00:27:27.88\00:27:29.38 and I've told them that over and over. 00:27:29.41\00:27:31.05 Thank you for that decision. 00:27:31.08\00:27:32.58 It is so important that parents, 00:27:32.61\00:27:34.52 Christian parents stay plugged into the source, 00:27:34.55\00:27:37.42 the source of life, the source of hope, 00:27:37.45\00:27:39.92 the source of instruction, there's so much instruction 00:27:39.95\00:27:42.56 in God's Word for each and every one of us. 00:27:42.59\00:27:44.89 I know when my kids have said, "I don't like you anymore." 00:27:44.93\00:27:48.23 I could easily turn back and say, 00:27:48.26\00:27:50.37 "I love you and I love you 00:27:50.40\00:27:52.30 and this is why mommy has made this decision 00:27:52.33\00:27:54.80 because I love you." 00:27:54.84\00:27:56.74 You know, so... 00:27:56.77\00:27:58.31 The Book of James 4:4 00:27:58.34\00:28:00.58 talks about the friendship of the world is empty, 00:28:00.61\00:28:04.28 you know, against God. 00:28:04.31\00:28:05.88 And I found something I thought it was very, very interesting 00:28:05.91\00:28:09.25 that's actually in the so called Adventist home most 00:28:09.28\00:28:11.35 and lot of Seventh-day Adventists have that book. 00:28:11.39\00:28:13.22 It's very, very good, everybody ought to have the book. 00:28:13.25\00:28:15.72 And just going along what you were saying 00:28:15.76\00:28:17.79 and kind of what I experienced, I didn't like to be bossed, 00:28:17.83\00:28:20.53 I didn't like be told what to do growing up, and you know... 00:28:20.56\00:28:24.73 I don't know sure if I can use the word darn in our program. 00:28:24.77\00:28:28.04 But by Dad did say that about me 00:28:28.07\00:28:30.64 and that hurt worse than any beating 00:28:30.67\00:28:32.31 or whipping or correction ever get, he said, 00:28:32.34\00:28:34.98 "You're the darndest kid I've ever seen." 00:28:35.01\00:28:37.78 Because I was wanting to have my way, 00:28:37.81\00:28:41.12 it's the only time I ever heard him say that, 00:28:41.15\00:28:42.55 you know what I'm saying. 00:28:42.58\00:28:43.92 It was just too much for him sometime 00:28:43.95\00:28:46.29 because I always was questioning 00:28:46.32\00:28:47.66 and wanted my own way and do and so. 00:28:47.69\00:28:49.82 But the association you mentioned out, 00:28:49.86\00:28:52.13 I thought was interesting, you said here. 00:28:52.16\00:28:54.33 "Every association we form, 00:28:54.36\00:28:56.30 however, limited exerts some influence upon us." 00:28:56.33\00:29:00.34 Notice it, however limited. 00:29:00.37\00:29:01.77 Oh, I wont hurt because they're just gonna go here once, 00:29:01.80\00:29:03.67 you don't hurt because, you know... 00:29:03.71\00:29:05.34 I will watch it for few minutes. 00:29:05.37\00:29:06.71 Just be few minutes we'll watch, 00:29:06.74\00:29:08.08 it doesn't matter but notice what it says. 00:29:08.11\00:29:10.11 It says, "It is impossible 00:29:10.15\00:29:11.48 to overestimate the importance for this world 00:29:11.51\00:29:14.72 and the next of the associations 00:29:14.75\00:29:17.12 we choose for ourselves 00:29:17.15\00:29:19.25 and for more especially for our children. 00:29:19.29\00:29:23.02 You know, I wish more parents. 00:29:23.06\00:29:25.86 You told me the story about, 00:29:25.89\00:29:27.23 Mollie, meeting that little girl at Walmart, 00:29:27.26\00:29:29.23 I think it was. 00:29:29.26\00:29:30.67 Was it Walmart about a week or so a little girl came up 00:29:30.70\00:29:33.64 to you and you said... 00:29:33.67\00:29:35.00 That was at Kroger. At Kroger, okay, Kroger. 00:29:35.04\00:29:38.87 I knew when she looked at me, 00:29:38.91\00:29:40.24 like wait a minute that's not right. 00:29:40.28\00:29:42.14 It was at a store, I should've just kept it generic 00:29:42.18\00:29:44.65 and it was at a store. 00:29:44.68\00:29:46.38 And, you know, it's just so important 00:29:46.41\00:29:49.48 that as I've lost my train of thought was, 00:29:49.52\00:29:53.22 I was gonna say finding which store it was, 00:29:53.25\00:29:54.99 but how neat that the children they're looking up 00:29:55.02\00:29:57.99 that we set the right example that there is not more parents. 00:29:58.03\00:30:00.96 Those parents were home schooling their children 00:30:01.00\00:30:03.70 because it was so important to them 00:30:03.73\00:30:05.80 what environment they were around. 00:30:05.83\00:30:08.07 I did the very same. 00:30:08.10\00:30:09.90 By profession, I was a teacher 00:30:09.94\00:30:11.67 and I finished my degree in a public school, 00:30:11.71\00:30:14.68 but I knew that that's not where 00:30:14.71\00:30:16.08 I wanted my children. 00:30:16.11\00:30:17.75 I worked in the public school 00:30:17.78\00:30:19.11 and I knew that that's not where they needed to grow up, 00:30:19.15\00:30:22.18 but there is so many Christian parents anymore 00:30:22.22\00:30:25.35 they don't mind to send their children off 00:30:25.39\00:30:27.72 to any school. 00:30:27.76\00:30:29.19 Well, you know, they're gonna have to meet at some time, 00:30:29.22\00:30:31.56 but they've got to learn, 00:30:31.59\00:30:32.93 they've got to be grounded first. 00:30:32.96\00:30:34.43 Got to have the foundation. 00:30:34.46\00:30:35.80 Yes, you got to have that foundation, 00:30:35.83\00:30:37.63 and I love that that those children were telling you 00:30:37.67\00:30:40.04 they're watching 3ABN. 00:30:40.07\00:30:41.44 And their favorite program was 3ABN Today. 00:30:41.47\00:30:43.87 That's amazing. Yes, yeah. 00:30:43.91\00:30:46.14 And, you know, the mother explained 00:30:46.17\00:30:47.88 how they started watching 3ABN, 00:30:47.91\00:30:50.45 she had them watching children's programming 00:30:50.48\00:30:52.65 and the programming was okay, 00:30:52.68\00:30:54.32 but the commercials between the programs 00:30:54.35\00:30:57.32 she would find so offensive. 00:30:57.35\00:31:00.82 She just couldn't let them watch the commercials 00:31:00.86\00:31:02.89 but they knew they could watch 3ABN 00:31:02.92\00:31:05.23 and there would never be anything offensive. 00:31:05.26\00:31:07.66 And I thought that was a commendable thing too. 00:31:07.70\00:31:10.63 You know, you ask the question our God's commands 00:31:10.67\00:31:13.74 and biblical instruction throughout scripture 00:31:13.77\00:31:18.27 nothing more than restraints. 00:31:18.31\00:31:19.64 And I wanted to share Proverbs 3:1 and 2. 00:31:19.67\00:31:22.94 And I want to share it out of the Amplified. 00:31:22.98\00:31:25.01 The scripture says, 00:31:25.05\00:31:26.38 "My son, forget not my law or teachings." 00:31:26.41\00:31:29.08 Now are those God's commands in His biblical instructions. 00:31:29.12\00:31:32.62 "My son, forget not my law or teachings 00:31:32.65\00:31:35.16 and let your heart keep my commandments. 00:31:35.19\00:31:38.76 For length of days..." Do you want length of days? 00:31:38.79\00:31:41.26 "And years of life worth living," 00:31:41.30\00:31:43.10 the amplified says, 00:31:43.13\00:31:44.60 "And tranquility inward and outward 00:31:44.63\00:31:46.94 and continuing through, 00:31:46.97\00:31:48.87 'Hey, its old age thank you, Lord,' 00:31:48.90\00:31:51.97 through old age till death they shall add to you." 00:31:52.01\00:31:55.81 Do you want a life worth living? 00:31:55.84\00:31:58.78 Then there been the instruction in God's Word 00:31:58.81\00:32:03.69 is what gives us that life worth living 00:32:03.72\00:32:07.79 even throughout old age unto death. 00:32:07.82\00:32:10.83 That's right. 00:32:10.86\00:32:12.19 And then it was when the prodigal son, 00:32:12.23\00:32:14.26 when his mind returned and he began to think, 00:32:14.30\00:32:17.03 you know, the servants don't live the way I'm living. 00:32:17.07\00:32:20.20 The servants at my father's house 00:32:20.24\00:32:22.40 eat better than I do, 00:32:22.44\00:32:23.77 they didn't want nothing and he was broken. 00:32:23.81\00:32:27.31 You know, it reminded me of a story recently 00:32:27.34\00:32:29.51 that I was someone shared from Canada on YouTube. 00:32:29.54\00:32:33.28 And this missionary was giving his testimony, 00:32:33.31\00:32:35.98 they had gone into Iran and they heard stories about, 00:32:36.02\00:32:38.59 you know, going over there and something could happen. 00:32:38.62\00:32:41.66 But he thought well, you know, we're going, 00:32:41.69\00:32:43.02 we're doing the Lord's work it's not gonna happen. 00:32:43.06\00:32:45.76 They were on their way back to the United States, 00:32:45.79\00:32:49.06 they had given their passports, him and another gentleman 00:32:49.10\00:32:52.13 and they had been doing missionary work 00:32:52.17\00:32:54.20 and they never received their passports back. 00:32:54.24\00:32:57.01 And they came and they took these men 00:32:57.04\00:32:59.14 and they put them in prison 00:32:59.17\00:33:01.14 and they began to beat them and not give them the food. 00:33:01.18\00:33:05.01 And it got to the point, you know, he is praying, 00:33:05.05\00:33:07.68 he is thinking, how can a God of heaven, 00:33:07.72\00:33:09.58 how can He allow this to be happening to us now. 00:33:09.62\00:33:13.05 We were here doing work for Him, 00:33:13.09\00:33:15.22 he got to the point he thought, 00:33:15.26\00:33:16.59 you know, this is not worth it anymore. 00:33:16.62\00:33:19.89 My only way out is to commit suicide and he tried. 00:33:19.93\00:33:23.93 And when he tried to commit suicide, 00:33:23.97\00:33:25.97 he had a vision or maybe it was really happened, 00:33:26.00\00:33:29.80 I'm not sure but Jesus came and visited him. 00:33:29.84\00:33:34.51 And He reminded him that even the man 00:33:34.54\00:33:36.51 that's been beating him, 00:33:36.54\00:33:37.88 He says, "How do you think, I feel about him?" 00:33:37.91\00:33:39.85 Yes. 00:33:39.88\00:33:41.28 And he reminded him that Christ loved him, 00:33:41.32\00:33:45.25 and He gave him a reason to live. 00:33:45.29\00:33:48.26 And so when the next time the man 00:33:48.29\00:33:50.63 that came in that was doing the beating, 00:33:50.66\00:33:52.63 came in to beat him again, he said, 00:33:52.66\00:33:54.20 "You know, it looks like 00:33:54.23\00:33:56.26 we're gonna be together for a long time, 00:33:56.30\00:33:59.13 could we at least be friends?" 00:33:59.17\00:34:01.47 And he stretched out his hand. 00:34:01.50\00:34:03.67 Stretching out his hand to the perpetrator. 00:34:03.71\00:34:05.97 That's forgiveness. 00:34:06.01\00:34:07.34 And when we did that, the perpetrator began to cry... 00:34:07.38\00:34:10.48 Praise God. "How to be friends?" 00:34:10.51\00:34:13.45 And then he shared his name 00:34:13.48\00:34:16.22 and from then on they were like 00:34:16.25\00:34:17.75 by the time those men were released, 00:34:17.79\00:34:20.32 there were about four different guards 00:34:20.36\00:34:22.62 and the guy that was beating him 00:34:22.66\00:34:25.36 that he said, "You know, we want what these men have." 00:34:25.39\00:34:28.76 Yes. 00:34:28.80\00:34:30.13 And in a sense that was them coming home. 00:34:30.17\00:34:33.07 Amen. Coming home to Jesus. 00:34:33.10\00:34:35.30 Amen. Coming home to life. 00:34:35.34\00:34:38.71 And it goes along with question number four, 00:34:38.74\00:34:41.48 what hope is there for any person who is spiritually, 00:34:41.51\00:34:46.08 physically or mentally 00:34:46.11\00:34:48.32 at their lowest point in life 00:34:48.35\00:34:50.35 feeling they're no good for anyone or anything. 00:34:50.39\00:34:53.25 That's where this man was in that jail, 00:34:53.29\00:34:56.19 he had lost all hope he'd given up on God 00:34:56.22\00:34:59.19 and when he gave up on God, 00:34:59.23\00:35:00.66 God was right there to carry him through. 00:35:00.70\00:35:03.57 That's where the prodigal son was, 00:35:03.60\00:35:05.47 he had no more hope, he was famished, 00:35:05.50\00:35:08.20 he was weak, he was hungry, he was filthy, 00:35:08.24\00:35:13.07 and he thought, "I'm going home." 00:35:13.11\00:35:15.41 As, you know, the good news when you talk about, 00:35:15.44\00:35:17.55 every time somebody says hope, 00:35:17.58\00:35:19.35 you know, without hope we're almost miserable. 00:35:19.38\00:35:22.68 We have to have hope. 00:35:22.72\00:35:24.05 And I know Matthew 18, 00:35:24.09\00:35:26.25 it talks about Jesus came to seek 00:35:26.29\00:35:29.22 and save those which are lost. 00:35:29.26\00:35:31.96 Well, that gives me hope and encouragement, 00:35:31.99\00:35:34.26 seek and save those who were lost 00:35:34.30\00:35:35.66 and then it goes on in verse 12 00:35:35.70\00:35:37.73 and it says that he left the 99, 00:35:37.77\00:35:41.74 you know, the sheep, he went out to get that one 00:35:41.77\00:35:43.74 that was having some difficulty. 00:35:43.77\00:35:45.81 And so that gives me hope and encouragement, 00:35:45.84\00:35:48.74 you know, there may be a hundred sheep there, 00:35:48.78\00:35:50.45 if there is just one that's having an issue... 00:35:50.48\00:35:52.41 Well, here the one son had an issue 00:35:52.45\00:35:54.78 that Jesus will leave that 99 00:35:54.82\00:35:57.59 and He will go out to seek, to draw him back, 00:35:57.62\00:36:00.39 to reconcile him back 00:36:00.42\00:36:01.76 into the right relationship with Him. 00:36:01.79\00:36:04.36 And that to me is hope. It is. 00:36:04.39\00:36:06.83 That gives me hope and encouragement 00:36:06.86\00:36:08.43 and strength to say, we might wonder out there 00:36:08.46\00:36:11.53 but by God's grace if we call, 00:36:11.57\00:36:14.44 He's not gonna leave us out there. 00:36:14.47\00:36:15.80 Amen. 00:36:15.84\00:36:17.17 You know, what so beautiful about what you shared, 00:36:17.21\00:36:18.67 Sister Chris, is that God used the gentleman 00:36:18.71\00:36:22.01 who was being beaten to bring Jesus to someone else. 00:36:22.04\00:36:25.55 And so, we were talking in the story 00:36:25.58\00:36:27.65 about the father 00:36:27.68\00:36:29.12 and the relationship to the son, 00:36:29.15\00:36:30.49 but God calls each one of us to minister to other people, 00:36:30.52\00:36:34.06 to share the love of the Father with them. 00:36:34.09\00:36:37.33 If I can share two scriptures quick. 00:36:37.36\00:36:39.59 These are two of my favorites, this is John 6:37, 00:36:39.63\00:36:43.37 Jesus speaking, 00:36:43.40\00:36:44.73 "All that the Father gives Me will come to Me, 00:36:44.77\00:36:47.34 and whoever comes to Me I will never cast away." 00:36:47.37\00:36:52.81 And so you might feel like, "I'm at the end of my rope, 00:36:52.84\00:36:55.94 I've done too much, I've gone too far, 00:36:55.98\00:36:58.78 I've kicked against God for years." 00:36:58.81\00:37:01.92 And He says, "Come home, come home to Me 00:37:01.95\00:37:05.65 because I love you." 00:37:05.69\00:37:07.02 Amen, yes. 00:37:07.06\00:37:08.39 And the other one sometimes, 00:37:08.42\00:37:09.76 I mentioned before the false perception of the Father 00:37:09.79\00:37:13.23 and sometimes we think, well, Jesus loves us. 00:37:13.26\00:37:15.76 But God the Father is a little bit stern 00:37:15.80\00:37:18.03 which is not a biblical concept 00:37:18.07\00:37:20.27 but it's how Satan twist that in our mind. 00:37:20.30\00:37:24.24 And John 16:27, it says, 00:37:24.27\00:37:29.31 "For the Father Himself loves you." 00:37:29.34\00:37:32.08 Amen. 00:37:32.11\00:37:33.45 Jesus talking to His disciples, so we think God is stern, 00:37:33.48\00:37:38.69 Jesus is love, 00:37:38.72\00:37:40.06 but God's the one who sent His Son. 00:37:40.09\00:37:42.19 Son to reveal the Father's love, yes. 00:37:42.22\00:37:45.99 And though He's not stern, 00:37:46.03\00:37:49.36 it doesn't mean that when we come back to Him 00:37:49.40\00:37:52.53 that we don't face consequences for what we have done. 00:37:52.57\00:37:58.81 I'll share a quick story. 00:37:58.84\00:38:00.54 When I was little, I was five years old, 00:38:00.58\00:38:03.61 and we had a cousin that used to come and visit. 00:38:03.65\00:38:06.85 They would say now that she had ADD or something that, 00:38:06.88\00:38:10.42 you know, she was like wild as a bash. 00:38:10.45\00:38:13.79 Yeah, she needed rhythm or something, I don't know. 00:38:13.82\00:38:16.22 And so she always was into things 00:38:16.26\00:38:19.03 and where she didn't belong, 00:38:19.06\00:38:20.70 and me and her were the same age, 00:38:20.73\00:38:23.16 and we had an upstairs where the boys slept, 00:38:23.20\00:38:26.00 and there was a window that led right out to the roof. 00:38:26.03\00:38:28.70 And me and her were up there one day and she said, 00:38:28.74\00:38:32.11 "Let's just go out on the roof that will be fun." 00:38:32.14\00:38:35.41 And I said, "Oh, no, no." 00:38:35.44\00:38:37.48 I said, "We'll get in so much trouble." 00:38:37.51\00:38:39.68 And she said, "No, it will be okay." 00:38:39.71\00:38:41.75 She said, my dad was home with us and she said, 00:38:41.78\00:38:45.02 "He'll never know that we're out there." 00:38:45.05\00:38:46.55 And she said, "It will be okay." 00:38:46.59\00:38:48.19 She talked and she talked and so I said okay. 00:38:48.22\00:38:50.89 So she opened the window and she got out 00:38:50.93\00:38:53.50 and she crawled all the way to the edge of the roof 00:38:53.53\00:38:56.83 with almost her feet hanging off. 00:38:56.87\00:38:59.23 Well, I got out and I wasn't near that nervy 00:38:59.27\00:39:01.64 and she kept saying come down here and I said, 00:39:01.67\00:39:03.41 "No, I'm not going that far." 00:39:03.44\00:39:05.97 Oh, all of a sudden my dad sticks his head off the window 00:39:06.01\00:39:10.11 and I just went, 'cause I thought we were in so... 00:39:10.15\00:39:13.11 But you know what he did? 00:39:13.15\00:39:14.48 He said, "Hey, girls," he said, "What you're up to?" 00:39:14.52\00:39:17.29 He's say, just like kind and everything and I thought, 00:39:17.32\00:39:21.12 "Wow, we're not gonna get in trouble about this." 00:39:21.16\00:39:24.69 And I said, "It wasn't my idea, Dad." 00:39:24.73\00:39:27.50 I said Abby want. 00:39:27.53\00:39:28.86 And he said, "Well, that's okay." 00:39:28.90\00:39:31.83 He said, you know, I was thinking, 00:39:31.87\00:39:33.20 he said that's little bit dangerous out there. 00:39:33.23\00:39:35.50 And he said, "You know, 00:39:35.54\00:39:36.87 if you're just gonna slip and fall, you really get hurt." 00:39:36.91\00:39:39.07 And he said, "I'm thinking the best thing is for you 00:39:39.11\00:39:41.34 to ease back." 00:39:41.38\00:39:42.71 He said, just kind of start to crawl backwards. 00:39:42.74\00:39:45.48 And all the time my mind I'm saying, 00:39:45.51\00:39:47.75 "We're not in trouble, I can't believe it." 00:39:47.78\00:39:50.75 You know, "He's just talking so nicely and kind 00:39:50.79\00:39:53.66 and telling us to come back in." 00:39:53.69\00:39:55.06 I'm thinking this is great. 00:39:55.09\00:39:56.42 That was smart, you know. 00:39:56.46\00:39:57.79 And so we did, you know, where I eased back in first 00:39:57.83\00:40:00.70 and then she finally, 00:40:00.73\00:40:02.33 and all the time he was talking, be careful now, 00:40:02.36\00:40:04.83 just come back real easy, you know, on there. 00:40:04.87\00:40:07.47 Got us both in, he said, "You girls have had it." 00:40:07.50\00:40:10.41 Oh, mercy. 00:40:10.44\00:40:11.77 Oh, Yeah. 00:40:11.81\00:40:13.14 And we got a good one, we got a good spanking. 00:40:13.17\00:40:15.78 But I think about that how he encouraged, 00:40:15.81\00:40:18.01 you know, he talked to us with the right attitude, 00:40:18.05\00:40:20.32 but we still had to face the consequences 00:40:20.35\00:40:22.62 that we went against. 00:40:22.65\00:40:24.95 And it turned out 00:40:24.99\00:40:26.32 that the neighbor had seen us on the roof 00:40:26.35\00:40:27.69 and called him and said, 00:40:27.72\00:40:29.06 your two little girls are on the roof. 00:40:29.09\00:40:30.43 Oh, yeah. 00:40:30.46\00:40:31.79 And so, and I think about it 00:40:31.83\00:40:33.16 as a parent how scared you would be 00:40:33.19\00:40:35.16 when you look out and you see a five year old 00:40:35.20\00:40:36.87 on the roof, you know. 00:40:36.90\00:40:38.23 Terrifying. 00:40:38.27\00:40:39.60 But he knew just how to handle it 00:40:39.63\00:40:40.97 and he just encouraged us back 00:40:41.00\00:40:42.40 but we still suffered consequences. 00:40:42.44\00:40:44.11 You know, if he had yelled "What are you doing," 00:40:44.14\00:40:47.48 he might have scared her because she was on the roof 00:40:47.51\00:40:50.98 and she would probably fell off. 00:40:51.01\00:40:52.85 You know, what I mean, 00:40:52.88\00:40:54.22 and Tammy would have passed out and rolled off. 00:40:54.25\00:40:55.58 Yeah, exactly. 00:40:55.62\00:40:56.95 Would have been because she knew what it was like, 00:40:56.99\00:40:58.72 but he handled 00:40:58.75\00:41:00.09 the way our Heavenly Father would handle it. 00:41:00.12\00:41:02.02 Exactly. Come on back. 00:41:02.06\00:41:03.79 Yeah, I've got that Matthew 11:28, "Come unto me." 00:41:03.83\00:41:07.36 Oh, yes. 00:41:07.40\00:41:08.73 "All ye that labor and are heavy laden." 00:41:08.76\00:41:10.43 Well, that's what your dad was saying, 00:41:10.47\00:41:12.43 "Come unto me, you're about to get killed." 00:41:12.47\00:41:16.24 Exactly. 00:41:16.27\00:41:18.07 I want to share just a real quick quote 00:41:18.11\00:41:20.88 and this is found in the book of A Call to Stand Apart 00:41:20.91\00:41:24.91 by Ellen White and it reads, 00:41:24.95\00:41:26.75 "The love of God still yearns over the one 00:41:26.78\00:41:29.38 who has chosen to separate from Him, 00:41:29.42\00:41:32.25 and He sets in operation influences 00:41:32.29\00:41:35.66 to bring him back to the Father's house." 00:41:35.69\00:41:38.66 That goes so well with your story with John 6 00:41:38.69\00:41:42.56 and with John 16 and her verse as well. 00:41:42.60\00:41:46.70 But I love that because no matter how far we've gone 00:41:46.74\00:41:51.01 to the edge of the precipice 00:41:51.04\00:41:53.04 in life, you know, how far, how low we've got into sin. 00:41:53.07\00:41:58.48 I mean, if we stop and think about it, 00:41:58.51\00:42:00.38 can sin ever separate us from our Heavenly Father? 00:42:00.42\00:42:03.89 Bible says no. 00:42:03.92\00:42:05.25 No. 00:42:05.29\00:42:06.86 No, and He's putting into place, He loves us so much, 00:42:06.89\00:42:09.99 that's why we should never, ever stop praying 00:42:10.03\00:42:12.46 for our family members, one another 00:42:12.49\00:42:15.20 because He's putting into place 00:42:15.23\00:42:17.00 things that will help to bring us back. 00:42:17.03\00:42:20.10 This passage, this little quote 00:42:20.14\00:42:22.30 gave me hope even for my children. 00:42:22.34\00:42:25.34 Yes. 00:42:25.37\00:42:26.71 I have children that have wandered away from the truth. 00:42:26.74\00:42:29.74 And my grandchildren, we've got a grandson 00:42:29.78\00:42:32.25 that's thinking about going into the service. 00:42:32.28\00:42:35.15 The moment he told me... 00:42:35.18\00:42:37.39 I was getting ready, he was gonna move the ministry 00:42:37.42\00:42:40.56 and I was getting ready to call and get some gas for him, 00:42:40.59\00:42:43.39 he told me that I just started crying, and I couldn't do it. 00:42:43.43\00:42:46.33 He wants to be a Navy SEAL. 00:42:46.36\00:42:50.37 I mean, life is tough enough 00:42:50.40\00:42:53.03 without putting yourselves in harms way. 00:42:53.07\00:42:55.14 And what these people, you know, praise God 00:42:55.17\00:42:58.01 there have been people that have helped to keep us free 00:42:58.04\00:43:00.94 in this world that we live in. 00:43:00.98\00:43:03.68 But like he told me, he said, 00:43:03.71\00:43:05.61 "It didn't have to be me though, does it grandma?" 00:43:05.65\00:43:08.88 But, you know, even in conversing with 00:43:08.92\00:43:11.55 and talking with him, 00:43:11.59\00:43:12.92 I talked with him for 30 minutes on it. 00:43:12.95\00:43:14.89 You know, well, you can't do this and you shouldn't. 00:43:14.92\00:43:17.79 It's the way in which you talk to them 00:43:17.83\00:43:19.66 and remember people who give you advice 00:43:19.69\00:43:23.06 if you listen, and they love you. 00:43:23.10\00:43:24.73 That's right. You know, that they love you. 00:43:24.77\00:43:27.37 I always say that about my mother, I said it many times. 00:43:27.40\00:43:30.01 I always agreed with her 00:43:30.04\00:43:32.77 and did what she asked me to do as an adult. 00:43:32.81\00:43:36.24 You know, as being her pastor for 12 years. 00:43:36.28\00:43:38.98 But every time she gave me a piece of advice, I listened. 00:43:39.01\00:43:42.78 Amen. Why? 00:43:42.82\00:43:44.15 Because I knew she loved me. 00:43:44.19\00:43:45.92 We know our Heavenly Father loves us, 00:43:45.95\00:43:47.96 the advice, commands He has given us in His Word, 00:43:47.99\00:43:50.63 we need to listen. 00:43:50.66\00:43:52.09 And I think one of thing that encourages me 00:43:52.13\00:43:55.66 we fell so far and so deep, we can't get back on our own. 00:43:55.70\00:44:00.80 That's right. 00:44:00.84\00:44:02.17 So what you read and I hear, He's prepared a way, 00:44:02.20\00:44:05.24 He calls us through the power of the Holy Spirit. 00:44:05.27\00:44:09.18 He puts that inside of us to want to go back home. 00:44:09.21\00:44:12.61 We can't even muster that up on our own. 00:44:12.65\00:44:15.45 We've gone so far away from Him, 00:44:15.48\00:44:17.69 we were so separated from Him that we can't come back 00:44:17.72\00:44:20.72 if it was not for the wooing of the Holy Spirit. 00:44:20.76\00:44:23.83 As the Holy Spirit woos us back into that relationship. 00:44:23.86\00:44:27.53 So that shows right there He cares for me. 00:44:27.56\00:44:30.57 He cares for the one who's went so far out 00:44:30.60\00:44:32.93 that you think there is no way back, 00:44:32.97\00:44:35.44 but the Holy Spirit, when he comes back 00:44:35.47\00:44:37.34 'cause the Holy Spirit is pleading and working 00:44:37.37\00:44:40.51 and things happening in their life 00:44:40.54\00:44:42.64 to get their attention. 00:44:42.68\00:44:44.48 And so I'm very grateful and thankful for that 00:44:44.51\00:44:47.62 and I want that Holy Spirit to continue to do that, 00:44:47.65\00:44:49.68 you know, in each of our hearts and our lives 00:44:49.72\00:44:51.62 to woo us and keep us in that right relationship with Him. 00:44:51.65\00:44:54.82 I'll tell you what, 00:44:54.86\00:44:56.19 the grass is not greener on the other side. 00:44:56.22\00:44:58.13 The fields are not any better on the other side, right? 00:44:58.16\00:45:00.56 Worse. 00:45:00.60\00:45:01.93 It's worse on the other side 00:45:01.96\00:45:03.30 because it causes so much division, separation, 00:45:03.33\00:45:04.67 and the things of this world, you know, what's out there. 00:45:04.70\00:45:07.64 I've learned more and more listening to my mind of late. 00:45:07.67\00:45:10.84 And I've always not, 00:45:10.87\00:45:12.44 things of the world is just not really important 00:45:12.47\00:45:14.41 because I know we're gonna pass away so it's gone, 00:45:14.44\00:45:16.64 but more and more it's just like I had to be very careful 00:45:16.68\00:45:19.38 because I know God says go, we have to occupy. 00:45:19.41\00:45:24.75 But right quick and right quick you say right here, 00:45:24.79\00:45:26.42 occupy what doing this, now, 00:45:26.45\00:45:27.79 this is not I'm gonna waste my time on. 00:45:27.82\00:45:29.76 Almost everything I find in the world, 00:45:29.79\00:45:32.19 I'm looking and I'm saying I'm wasting my time. 00:45:32.23\00:45:34.93 Not that there're other things we do and we have to do, 00:45:34.96\00:45:37.37 your job, and different things like that. 00:45:37.40\00:45:38.83 But we had to very careful, I do 00:45:38.87\00:45:41.00 because I'm trying to look and say, 00:45:41.04\00:45:43.34 this is what's important. 00:45:43.37\00:45:45.24 Our work for God is a most important thing, 00:45:45.27\00:45:49.01 always other things will pass away, you see. 00:45:49.04\00:45:52.88 All these other things are almost like, it's foolishness, 00:45:52.91\00:45:55.02 things that were foolishness, it's empty against God. 00:45:55.05\00:45:57.82 And that's really brought home so we keep that in mind, 00:45:57.85\00:46:00.89 we'll strive to try to do the best we can 00:46:00.92\00:46:02.72 for Christ everyday. 00:46:02.76\00:46:04.33 You know, I often pray for my children and friends, 00:46:04.36\00:46:07.30 you know, I'm sure all of you have friends 00:46:07.33\00:46:08.86 that you would love to accept Jesus, 00:46:08.90\00:46:11.30 accept the truth is to pray for conviction and conversion. 00:46:11.33\00:46:15.74 Because the prodigal son here, I mean, he was not convicted, 00:46:15.77\00:46:19.34 and he was not converted until he hit rock bottom, 00:46:19.37\00:46:23.71 and then he hit rock bottom, that stony heart he had 00:46:23.75\00:46:27.62 began to change into a heart of flesh. 00:46:27.65\00:46:30.52 But he made a decision to turn. That's right. 00:46:30.55\00:46:33.79 That was his turning point. 00:46:33.82\00:46:35.16 And unfortunately for many people it takes rock bottom 00:46:35.19\00:46:40.10 before you decide which direction you want to go, 00:46:40.13\00:46:43.77 where you get serious. 00:46:43.80\00:46:45.13 The question that you started to get, 00:46:45.17\00:46:47.10 it brought my mind is when was he converted? 00:46:47.14\00:46:52.51 Is it when he made that decision 00:46:52.54\00:46:54.21 that he's gonna go back home? 00:46:54.24\00:46:55.88 Or was that the beginning of conversion 00:46:55.91\00:46:58.11 when daddy wrapped his arms around him 00:46:58.15\00:47:00.65 and he's seen that he's really gonna be restored back 00:47:00.68\00:47:03.18 that really broke his heart. 00:47:03.22\00:47:04.99 I mean, I don't know if there is just a real answer to that 00:47:05.02\00:47:07.19 but what do you think because just because he said, 00:47:07.22\00:47:10.63 "Listen, I've been to rock bottom 00:47:10.66\00:47:13.56 that doesn't mean I've been converted. 00:47:13.60\00:47:14.93 I'm at rock bottom, I hit the bottom, 00:47:14.96\00:47:16.46 there's no place for me to go but up." 00:47:16.50\00:47:18.20 His misery conquered his pride, you know, 00:47:18.23\00:47:23.10 as when he turned it was that turning point, 00:47:23.14\00:47:25.04 you got to make a decision, that's our part. 00:47:25.07\00:47:27.61 Yes. Our part is the decision. 00:47:27.64\00:47:29.64 I had a friend shared with me once about her son, 00:47:29.68\00:47:33.11 she was a praying woman 00:47:33.15\00:47:35.18 and her son was one of the sons that needed to get back. 00:47:35.22\00:47:40.19 And she said, she would pray for him 00:47:40.22\00:47:42.32 and as though she heard the Spirit of the Lord 00:47:42.36\00:47:46.96 speak to her heart. 00:47:47.00\00:47:48.33 Why is this then every time I start to bounce him off 00:47:48.36\00:47:50.90 of the sidewalk, you run and put a pillow under him. 00:47:50.93\00:47:55.54 That was what she said that was quickened to her heart. 00:47:55.57\00:47:59.04 The Lord was trying to get his attention 00:47:59.07\00:48:01.14 and she kept rescuing him from every one of his situations. 00:48:01.18\00:48:05.68 And so there are times 00:48:05.71\00:48:08.65 when the safest place for my children 00:48:08.68\00:48:12.35 is in the hands of God, Holy Father, 00:48:12.39\00:48:15.26 whatever you see is best for them 00:48:15.29\00:48:17.69 to bring them into that place with You 00:48:17.73\00:48:19.56 that You would have them there. 00:48:19.59\00:48:21.53 Father, I'll let them in Your hands. 00:48:21.56\00:48:23.83 And it is so hard for we parents 00:48:23.87\00:48:26.10 to leave them in His hands when we want to do 00:48:26.13\00:48:28.57 is go rescue, you know, from a situation. 00:48:28.60\00:48:32.74 Yes, good. That's great, Mollie. 00:48:32.77\00:48:34.54 I was thinking of what you had read, Sister Chris. 00:48:34.58\00:48:37.28 "The love of God yearns over the one 00:48:37.31\00:48:39.15 who has chosen to separate from Him" 00:48:39.18\00:48:40.95 and He sets an operation influences 00:48:40.98\00:48:43.79 to bring him back to the Father's house, 00:48:43.82\00:48:45.79 that's exactly what God was doing with that mother 00:48:45.82\00:48:47.92 and the mother's child. 00:48:47.96\00:48:49.62 Setting an operation influences. 00:48:49.66\00:48:51.63 Now, some of those influences are painful. 00:48:51.66\00:48:54.10 Some of them are the consequences 00:48:54.13\00:48:55.93 as I mentioned of our choices, 00:48:55.96\00:48:59.00 but I think God uses the gentlest means necessary 00:48:59.03\00:49:03.00 to get our attention. 00:49:03.04\00:49:04.37 And if it just takes the tap that's what who you is, 00:49:04.41\00:49:06.84 but sometimes it takes a bigger stumble or fall 00:49:06.88\00:49:11.08 or something big in order to get our attention. 00:49:11.11\00:49:14.35 And I feel like I felt a lot of ways 00:49:14.38\00:49:17.62 when I was raising my children 00:49:17.65\00:49:19.39 because as Kenny said earlier, when he talked to his grandson, 00:49:19.42\00:49:22.96 he did it in the most loving way that he could 00:49:22.99\00:49:25.89 so his grandson would listen. 00:49:25.93\00:49:27.50 A lot of times when we're raising kids, 00:49:27.53\00:49:31.53 we have the rules but we don't show that much of 00:49:31.57\00:49:35.14 "This is because I love you that I'm doing this." 00:49:35.17\00:49:37.77 Sometimes it's don't do this and don't do that, and I'm not. 00:49:37.81\00:49:40.58 You know, we need to take more time to say, 00:49:40.61\00:49:43.45 "I love you so much, this is why that I'm saying 00:49:43.48\00:49:46.78 that you can't do this or you can't be a part of this." 00:49:46.82\00:49:49.48 Because how you say something is to anybody 00:49:49.52\00:49:52.95 makes all the difference in the world. 00:49:52.99\00:49:55.32 And you don't just love them when they're good. 00:49:55.36\00:49:58.53 You can ask any of my children 00:49:58.56\00:50:00.20 and one of them is right over there, 00:50:00.23\00:50:01.90 "Why does your mother love you?" 00:50:01.93\00:50:03.26 And he'll say, I bet he'll say it just like that, 00:50:03.30\00:50:05.40 "Because I'm hers." 00:50:05.43\00:50:07.34 I love my kids 'cause they're mine, 00:50:07.37\00:50:09.00 it's not their performance. 00:50:09.04\00:50:11.64 It's not a performance-based love for my children. 00:50:11.67\00:50:14.24 Right. I love my children. 00:50:14.28\00:50:16.01 And, you know, we're looking at this prodigal son 00:50:16.04\00:50:19.38 where God finally got his attention. 00:50:19.41\00:50:21.48 And all the worst thing in the world 00:50:21.52\00:50:23.95 maybe you could think that could happen to your son 00:50:23.99\00:50:26.15 was maybe for him to windup in prison, think about that. 00:50:26.19\00:50:29.36 How many people that are out of prison have you heard say, 00:50:29.39\00:50:33.90 "I thank God that He put me in prison." 00:50:33.93\00:50:37.40 Because it was there 00:50:37.43\00:50:38.77 when I was away from all these other distractions 00:50:38.80\00:50:41.90 that he finally got my attention. 00:50:41.94\00:50:43.61 Do you know in prison... 00:50:43.64\00:50:44.97 Some of the people that go into the prison, 00:50:45.01\00:50:47.31 they have been so addicted to something, 00:50:47.34\00:50:49.61 the substance abuse for so long 00:50:49.64\00:50:52.05 that it's only once they're in prison 00:50:52.08\00:50:54.65 if that substance abuse is broken over their lives. 00:50:54.68\00:50:57.92 And if you've got a mind clouded with some substance, 00:50:57.95\00:51:02.52 you know, the Spirit of the Lord has difficulty now. 00:51:02.56\00:51:06.09 He can do anything and I'm not saying it's impossible, 00:51:06.13\00:51:08.63 but you get that cloud off of. 00:51:08.66\00:51:11.07 I really believe that we could get the cloud, 00:51:11.10\00:51:13.97 the enemy's cloud off of the minds of people 00:51:14.00\00:51:18.17 that they would turn to God. 00:51:18.21\00:51:19.54 Amen. 00:51:19.57\00:51:20.91 Oh, yes, He has us so diluted, 00:51:20.94\00:51:24.18 what's the word that Revelation uses? 00:51:24.21\00:51:27.28 He's using sorcery and we don't realize it. 00:51:27.32\00:51:31.22 I remember listening to one of Pastor Ivor's messages 00:51:31.25\00:51:34.52 and he asked the church, he said, 00:51:34.56\00:51:35.89 "Well, how many of, you guys, have faced sorcery today?" 00:51:35.92\00:51:38.43 And no hand went up till he was finished with the sermon, 00:51:38.46\00:51:41.60 because we don't... 00:51:41.63\00:51:42.96 Yes, because we don't realize, we don't recognize the sorcery 00:51:43.00\00:51:47.60 until we begin to really dig in and open up the avenues 00:51:47.64\00:51:51.77 that the enemy uses towards our mind. 00:51:51.81\00:51:54.98 I think we're probably close 00:51:55.01\00:51:57.15 maybe with this question number seven. 00:51:57.18\00:52:00.02 What lessons can be learned by the prodigal son's father, 00:52:00.05\00:52:04.59 covering his ragged appearance with his own robe? 00:52:04.62\00:52:09.42 There's so many things that brought to my mind. 00:52:09.46\00:52:12.49 When you say the robe, you know, 00:52:12.53\00:52:14.36 first thing I think about and everybody I'm sure does it, 00:52:14.40\00:52:16.53 the robe of his righteousness has to cover, 00:52:16.56\00:52:20.54 you see, my poor pathetic life 00:52:20.57\00:52:22.70 and all the things I've done wrong and all my sin. 00:52:22.74\00:52:25.64 But it's also interesting in there, 00:52:25.67\00:52:27.48 He cannot give us that robe of righteousness 00:52:27.51\00:52:29.68 while we still have sin. 00:52:29.71\00:52:33.01 If we have one unconfessed sin, 00:52:33.05\00:52:35.28 we cannot receive the latter rain 00:52:35.32\00:52:36.72 or that robe of righteousness so it's very important. 00:52:36.75\00:52:39.02 You feel, oh, I don't... 00:52:39.05\00:52:40.39 All I have to do is get down on knees and pray to confess. 00:52:40.42\00:52:42.96 He's faithful and just to forgive us. 00:52:42.99\00:52:44.46 So, it's more simple than what people thought, 00:52:44.49\00:52:47.93 they start looking what they may be have to give up 00:52:47.96\00:52:50.13 and change their life and do everything, you know, 00:52:50.17\00:52:52.37 just come to Him. 00:52:52.40\00:52:53.74 And you make such a good point. 00:52:53.77\00:52:55.10 Get down on your knees and pray because think about this, 00:52:55.14\00:52:58.37 we cannot have unconfessed sin in our life. 00:52:58.41\00:53:00.84 We're all on agreement with that. 00:53:00.88\00:53:02.21 Yes. 00:53:02.24\00:53:03.58 Boy, I had to think long and hard if I could, 00:53:03.61\00:53:06.35 you know, come up with all the sins 00:53:06.38\00:53:08.58 I've committed but when you get on your knees 00:53:08.62\00:53:10.72 and ask the Father. 00:53:10.75\00:53:12.09 I always say, search me on God thing 00:53:12.12\00:53:13.99 that I say so often God knows. 00:53:14.02\00:53:17.89 And so, Lord, lead me, show me those areas 00:53:17.93\00:53:21.90 that I need to confess before You those forgotten sins 00:53:21.93\00:53:25.50 that I've done. 00:53:25.53\00:53:26.87 "Father, what I want to do is stand before You 00:53:26.90\00:53:28.60 with clean hands and heart, help Lord, help, help me." 00:53:28.64\00:53:31.91 He'll help you. Amen. 00:53:31.94\00:53:33.27 Do you know he did that to me just a few weeks ago? 00:53:33.31\00:53:37.65 The story was brought back to my mind. 00:53:37.68\00:53:39.25 I was in first grade 00:53:39.28\00:53:41.42 and I was out playing with the neighborhood children 00:53:41.45\00:53:43.25 and we were jumping from upside down water and trough 00:53:43.28\00:53:47.02 up to a swing set pole. 00:53:47.06\00:53:50.16 And I missed it and my arm went back 00:53:50.19\00:53:54.40 and it twisted and broke. 00:53:54.43\00:53:56.50 I knew my daddy like you knew your daddy, 00:53:56.53\00:53:59.73 my daddy wasn't a Christian and I knew I was in trouble. 00:53:59.77\00:54:03.61 So I made up a story that the oldest child pushed me, 00:54:03.64\00:54:07.81 and I hung on to that story for years and years. 00:54:07.84\00:54:10.78 And right after the Lord He says you haven't told them, 00:54:10.81\00:54:15.18 you know, you haven't said you're sorry. 00:54:15.22\00:54:17.89 And it wasn't but maybe a week later 00:54:17.92\00:54:19.95 and I meet that mother and we're talking 00:54:19.99\00:54:22.02 and I said, "By the way, I didn't tell the truth, 00:54:22.06\00:54:25.63 I'm sorry about that." 00:54:25.66\00:54:27.36 They all kind of laughed at me, 00:54:27.40\00:54:28.73 but it still was important to me 00:54:28.76\00:54:31.27 that I mentioned that to her. 00:54:31.30\00:54:32.63 You confessed a sin. 00:54:32.67\00:54:34.00 Yeah, you know, and but like the prodigal son here, 00:54:34.04\00:54:36.87 you said nothing unclean. 00:54:36.91\00:54:39.87 See he had hit rock bottom and he repented, 00:54:39.91\00:54:42.38 he turned from his sin, went back home, 00:54:42.41\00:54:46.85 and so then the father covered him. 00:54:46.88\00:54:48.28 And I love this quote from the same book it says, 00:54:48.32\00:54:51.45 "The father will permit no contemptuous eye 00:54:51.49\00:54:54.79 to mark at his son's misery and tatters." 00:54:54.82\00:54:57.83 See Jesus, He doesn't browbeat us, 00:54:57.86\00:55:02.23 "I told you if you would have done this, 00:55:02.26\00:55:04.23 I told you if you lied about that boy pushing 00:55:04.27\00:55:06.43 your life would be like..." 00:55:06.47\00:55:07.80 He doesn't do that, He loves us back, 00:55:07.84\00:55:11.17 and He gives us His robe, His robe, 00:55:11.21\00:55:13.71 not ours because we have no good within ourselves, 00:55:13.74\00:55:16.41 our very best is as filthy rags that is so, you know, 00:55:16.44\00:55:20.52 many times we think we were something 00:55:20.55\00:55:22.48 but when you stop him 00:55:22.52\00:55:23.85 and put it in perspective of scripture 00:55:23.89\00:55:25.55 that the very best you can do as a filthy rag. 00:55:25.59\00:55:29.62 And I know you, ladies and you gentlemen, 00:55:29.66\00:55:31.43 have had filthy rags, that's our very best. 00:55:31.46\00:55:34.10 We're nothing without Him. 00:55:34.13\00:55:36.33 And He loves us so much that He's willing to put His love, 00:55:36.36\00:55:40.67 His righteous, He doesn't want people to make fun of you, 00:55:40.70\00:55:43.71 Bruce, when you're fallen. 00:55:43.74\00:55:45.87 He says, He washes those sins, 00:55:45.91\00:55:47.81 He throws them to the bottom of the sea. 00:55:47.84\00:55:51.21 I like the story you tell about one man that was, 00:55:51.25\00:55:53.95 came to Jesus and he was a new creature 00:55:53.98\00:55:56.55 and someone stood up at prayer meeting 00:55:56.58\00:55:58.29 and said, "Yes, but you were part of hell's angels, 00:55:58.32\00:56:00.49 you did this and you did that." 00:56:00.52\00:56:02.29 And he said, "How could I, I'm just a baby." 00:56:02.32\00:56:04.96 I'm just six months old. I'm just a baby. 00:56:04.99\00:56:08.26 He's in his 40s but he said, I'm six months old, 00:56:08.30\00:56:10.10 he made a new life. 00:56:10.13\00:56:12.00 How could I've done all these things, 00:56:12.03\00:56:13.37 that's an impossibility. 00:56:13.40\00:56:14.74 I think it's a way we all look at it. 00:56:14.77\00:56:16.10 And this is how we should treat one another, 00:56:16.14\00:56:17.47 it's not our past, our past is not gonna define us. 00:56:17.51\00:56:21.01 It's where we end up. 00:56:21.04\00:56:23.21 It's who we are now. 00:56:23.24\00:56:24.68 And when we've done wrong, we have to do quickly 00:56:24.71\00:56:26.35 'cause we have minute left, is that we have to confess, 00:56:26.38\00:56:29.45 he knew he had done two things. 00:56:29.48\00:56:31.09 He sinned against the Father in heaven, right, 00:56:31.12\00:56:34.12 and he sinned against his father. 00:56:34.16\00:56:35.92 And he was determined to go back and make it right. 00:56:35.96\00:56:37.83 And there may be someone at home, Pastor Kenny, 00:56:37.86\00:56:40.26 that you feel like you have had no home, no hope, 00:56:40.30\00:56:43.60 nothing to hang on to, Jesus is there, 00:56:43.63\00:56:46.77 and you can come home at any time. 00:56:46.80\00:56:49.10 Get on your knees like Mollie said 00:56:49.14\00:56:50.54 and ask for forgiveness, make things right, 00:56:50.57\00:56:53.41 and call upon your Father. 00:56:53.44\00:56:54.88 Would you like to call upon the Father for us? 00:56:54.91\00:56:56.44 Absolutely, let's close with prayer. 00:56:56.48\00:56:57.95 Shall we pray with us, will you please? 00:56:57.98\00:56:59.91 Our loving Father in heaven, 00:56:59.95\00:57:01.28 we thank You for the study of Your Word. 00:57:01.32\00:57:03.15 Thank You for the power of Thy Holy Spirit, 00:57:03.18\00:57:04.89 we thank You for the thoughts that You brought 00:57:04.92\00:57:07.16 for those who are listening, those who are watching, 00:57:07.19\00:57:09.26 we pray for conviction of heaven 00:57:09.29\00:57:10.76 to be upon each and every one. 00:57:10.79\00:57:12.36 And, Lord, may we find You, 00:57:12.39\00:57:13.73 and find an ample place in our hearts for You 00:57:13.76\00:57:17.67 that we might be saved in Your kingdom when You come. 00:57:17.70\00:57:19.87 Thank You for the story, 00:57:19.90\00:57:21.24 you can come home at any time in Jesus' name. 00:57:21.27\00:57:23.74 Amen. Amen. 00:57:23.77\00:57:25.34 Until next time may our precious Lord 00:57:25.37\00:57:27.41 continue to bless each and every one of you. 00:57:27.44\00:57:30.11 Amen. 00:57:30.15\00:57:31.55