I want to spend my life
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Mending broken people
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I want to spend my life
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Removing pain
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Lord, let my words
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Heal a heart that hurts
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I want to spend my life
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Mending broken people
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I want to spend my life
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Mending broken people
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Hello, friends,
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and welcome to Friday
Evening Family Worship.
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And as you know, I
have my Tonto with me,
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my wife, my wife Angela.
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Oh, fine.
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The Lone Ranger, some
of the people, probably,
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are too young
to know who that is
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but we're just hoping
that somebody just caught that,
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that symbolic reference.
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Good to have you with me, honey.
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Yeah. Good to be here.
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Happy Sabbath. That's right.
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I'm John Lomacang,
and my wife is Angela.
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And we have hosted
Family Worship before,
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but we are so pleased
to come in to your home
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to begin the Sabbath with you.
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And we have a
dynamic topic tonight.
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It is leaving
the past in the past,
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how to get past those things
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that have been
carried in your life,
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maybe for a year or five years,
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or in some cases, for decades,
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in some of your lives.
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We know that there is
complete freedom in Jesus
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and we're gonna just
talk about that tonight,
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with the Word of
God, and with our,
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with our illustrious panel.
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So, honey, there is
somebody who just tuned,
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don't know what you do for 3ABN.
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Why don't you let them know?
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Okay, well, I
work for 3ABN Radio,
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production assistant.
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And I've been there over
10 years, I believe, yeah.
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And it's a job that
never thought I would do,
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but I love my job.
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I have great people I
work with, great boss.
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And so I'm truly blessed
to be working at 3ABN Radio.
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And I thank God
for the opportunity,
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as well as Danny Shelton
and the staff here at 3ABN.
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And we have some people.
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Oh, we have
couple people to my left.
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Tell us who you are and
what you do here at 3ABN?
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My name is Eric and I'm
one of the broadcast engineers
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here at 3ABN.
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I come from about 20
years of aerospace background.
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And about three years ago,
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I got a call from the
Lord to come work here.
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And me and my
wife have been here
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and we have
definitely been blessed.
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Amen.
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Marilyn?
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And I'm Marilyn and I
work in the call center.
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I'm the assistant manager.
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And we've been
here about two years.
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And we're very blessed
to be here and we enjoy it.
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Okay.
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Wonderful couple.
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We have the older
people to my right.
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Actually no, the
younger people to my right.
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Let's start with this
gentleman to the far right.
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He has this incredible smile,
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always busy, he's
got great talents.
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But tell us who you are
and what you do you for 3ABN?
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Actually, not for 3ABN
alone, but about your ministry.
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Sure.
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My name is Ryan St. Hillaire
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and I am the
director of a ministry
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called Unseen Media Group
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and we work here,
together with 3ABN
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and we do training
programs for young people
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that are
interested in learning media,
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film, TV production skills,
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as well as
evangelism side by side.
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Good to have you here, Ryan.
You've been with us before.
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Good to have
you back. Thank you.
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But we have somebody
we have not had before.
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And tell us who you
are and what you do?
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My name is Mayri
and I work here at 3ABN.
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It's been almost three
years since I've been here
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and mainly work in
production, camera, makeup,
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and whatever else is needed.
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So, yeah...
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And Mayri is bilingual? Yes.
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Yeah, she has a Santa
Biblia two-versioned Bible.
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We're glad to
have to here, Mayri.
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Mayri's sometimes
either behind the camera
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or in front the camera.
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She's either doing
makeup, or so many, many skills,
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and each of these
persons at the table,
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nobody at 3ABN does one thing.
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If you only do one thing,
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then you probably
shouldn't come here
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because we are people of
multiple talents and abilities.
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We got to sing some
songs, and accompanying us
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on the piano
today is Summer Boyd
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and we're gonna sing
some songs from the hymnal
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starting with the first one,
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which we try to shape
them around our program,
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we're talking about the
needs in each of our lives.
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And the first one is
I need Thee every hour,
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the first and the last stanza.
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I need Thee every hour.
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Most gracious Lord,
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No tender voice like Thine
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can peace afford.
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I need Thee, O I need Thee
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Every hour I need Thee!
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O bless me now
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My Savior I come to Thee.
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Last stanza.
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I need Thee every hour.
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Teach me Thy will.
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And Thy rich promises
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In me fulfill.
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I need Thee, O I need Thee
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Every hour I need Thee!
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O bless me now, My Savior
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I come to Thee
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Amen. Amen.
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Do we need Jesus? Yes, we do.
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How frequently?
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Frequently, everyday.
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Every hour.
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Every moment of every
day as the song writer
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put so wonderfully, every hour.
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And when we have
Him, each hour of our day,
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moments, seconds, events,
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it becomes a blessed assurance
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that we are not in
our day by ourselves,
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462, Blessed assurance.
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Many of you know
that song very well.
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Some of you
probably know it by heart.
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But we're gonna sing
the first and last stanza,
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462, Blessed assurance.
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Blessed
assurance, Jesus is mine!
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O, what a
foretaste of glory divine!
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Heir of
salvation, purchase of God
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Born of His
Spirit, washed in His blood
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This is my
story, this is my song
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Praising my
Savior all the day long
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This is my
story, this is my song
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Praising my
Savior all the day long
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Perfect
submission, all is at rest
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Perfect submission
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All is at rest
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I in my savior
am happy and blest
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Watching and
waiting, looking above
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Filled with His
goodness, lost in His love
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This is my
story, this is my song
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Praising my
Savior all the day long
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This is my
story, this is my song
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Praising my
Savior all the day long.
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Amen.
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You know, if you
stay on the ground level
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in your Christian
experience all the time,
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you really never
get to that goal.
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And for those of you
who've been Christians
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for any length of
time, may be even a year,
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you know that you
begin in one place
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and you continue climbing,
going higher and higher
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toward the goal
that Christ has for you,
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which fits
perfectly into this song,
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I'm pressing on the
upward way or higher ground,
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as some of you know it,
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625, we're gonna sing
the first and last stanza.
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And I like to...
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As the title, I'm
pressing on the upward way.
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Amen. Okay.
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I'm the pressing
on the upward way
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New heights I'm
gaining every day
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Still praying as I onward bound
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Lord, plant my
feet on higher ground
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Lord, lift me
up, and I shall stand
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by faith, On heaven's tableland
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A higher plane than I have found
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Lord, plant my
feet on higher ground
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I want to scale
the utmost height
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And catch a
gleam of glory bright
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But still I'll pray
till heaven I've found
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Lord, lead me
on to higher ground
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Lord, lift me
up, and I shall stand
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by faith, On heaven's tableland
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A higher plane than I have found
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Lord, plant my
feet on higher ground.
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Amen. Wow, higher.
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Are we any further in
our walk with the Lord...
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Absolutely.
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Than when we
first started? Eric?
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Absolutely.
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It's been a long road,
but it's been a blessed road.
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And one of the big
praises I have for the Lord is
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when I look back to
where I was 20, 30 years ago
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in New York City.
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It's a huge blessing
to see how far I've come
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and I look forward to
seeing where I go in the future.
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I know as long as I
keep my eyes on the Lord,
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He's gonna lead me
where I need to go.
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And that's my main
focus. Keep my eyes on Him.
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That's right.
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Before we get into our lesson,
we're gonna have a prayer.
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Ryan, would you
have a prayer for us?
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We're gonna open the Word of God
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and we always
believe it's a blessing
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to have the Spirit of
God lead us in prayer.
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Let's pray.
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Dear Heavenly Father, our God,
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I just want to thank
you for this opportunity
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that You've given
us to open your Word
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and to spend some time
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allowing You to speak to
our hearts and our minds.
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And I ask that You
be present with us,
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that your Holy
Spirit would guide
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all that we talk about
and that this discussion
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may be able to be blessing to us
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and to many
other people as well.
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Thank you, God, for
this opportunity again.
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Be with us, in
Jesus name we pray.
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Amen. Amen.
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Thank you, Ryan, thank you.
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Now for those of
you that are joining us.
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And I know you
have a Bible in a house.
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I'd like to invite
you to take your Bible
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and we're gonna
begin with a story.
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Once again, repeating the
title of our devotional is
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"leaving the past in the past."
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In other words, how to get past
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the things that may be,
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as I used the
proverbial expression,
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in your trailer truck.
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A lot of us live our
lives and when we're born
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we have a little, we
have a little red cart
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that we carry with us.
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You know, you ever
see the little red wagons,
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little kids love
little red wagons.
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But I would say, emotionally,
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some of us go
from the red wagon,
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when we're little kids
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to a double long
trailer truck with our emotions,
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our experiences,
our hurts, our pains,
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our failures, our successes,
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and they
intermingle to create within us
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some kind of a storm that
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in some cases we
cannot get past our past.
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We're gonna begin
with a story today
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that just I
believe lays the foundation
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to help us see
how the Lord desires
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for every one of us
to get past our past.
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And, honey, I'm gonna
have you start with the story.
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It's in John 5.
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It's a very familiar story.
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We're gonna look
verses 5, 6 and 7.
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And then we're gonna go back
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and kind of analyze these to see
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what the story is telling us.
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It's a very familiar,
a very familiar story,
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one that we
know very well, okay.
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All right, John 5:5 says,
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"Now a certain man was there,
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who had an infirmity 38 years.
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When Jesus saw him lying there,
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and knew that
he already had been
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in that condition a long time,
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He said to him,
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'Do you want to be made well?'
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The sick man answered Him,
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'Sir, I have no man
to put me into the pool
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when the water is stirred
up, but while I am coming,
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another steps down before me.'
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Jesus said to him, 'Rise,
take up your bed and walk.'
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" And verse nine.
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And verse nine.
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"And immediately,
the man was made well,
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took up his bed, and walked.
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And that day was the Sabbath."
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Wow.
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How fitting a story that... Yes.
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As we talk about Family Worship,
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the Sabbath is beginning.
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Who doesn't want to
leave their burdens of the week
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behind them
before the Sabbath comes?
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That's right. Amen.
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Because the
Sabbath is a day of...
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Rest. Okay.
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And so we're gonna
talk about how to do that,
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not just what
happened this week,
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but more specifically,
we're gonna dig deeply
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into the fiber of your
character and understand
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that there are some
of you carrying things
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that have been around
too long, now let's...
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How many years, Mayri, was
this man in that condition?
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Thirty-eight.
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Wow. That's long time.
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Yeah. That's a long time.
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I mean, just...
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Do you know of people...
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Let's not name any names.
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But in some cases,
there are people that we know
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that just seems like,
is he ever gone change
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or is she ever
gonna get past that.
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And they carry
these things along.
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And that 38
years is a long time.
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And what was he doing?
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Let's go through
that story again.
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What was he doing?
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According to verse 6.
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He was laying
there, by the pool.
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He was just
laying there, just...
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He wasn't doing anything.
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He wasn't going anywhere.
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What I think is interesting
about this story every time
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I read this, right here, this,
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the question
that Jesus asks him,
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"wilt thou be made whole?"
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And it seems
like a silly question.
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You see a guy that's sick,
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that's laying there
at the side of the pool,
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and somebody is
gonna come and ask him,
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"Do you want to made better?"
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It seems like, you know,
duh, that's a stupid question.
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But as soon as Jesus answers
or asks him that question,
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his response is,
listen to my problem,
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take a moment and
listen to my problem,
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listen to my
situation, why I'm here,
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I want to tell you my story.
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And he is trying to
get sympathy from Jesus.
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But then Jesus
responds, and He tells him,
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hey, rise up, take
up your bed and walk.
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He calls him to action.
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And when he follows that,
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then he's made
well and he is healed.
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It's funny, because
what Ryan said is right.
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He made an excuse, he said,
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I try to get into
the pool, but when I go,
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someone always
gets in before me.
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So he's making
excuses, like Ryan said.
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And it sounds to me like,
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he has just given
up, he is pretty much.
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And Jesus said,
really, I think knew
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He needed to ask
him that question,
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because by, you
know, what we read,
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been there for 38 years,
and he's just laying there.
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That sounds to me
like he just gave up
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and he's like, forget it.
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There's no hope.
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Well, In Desire of Ages,
I have the remnant Bible.
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And it says about verse 8.
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"Jesus had given the lame
man no assurance of divine help.
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The man might
have stopped to doubt
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and lost his one
chance of healing,
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but he believed Christ's word.
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And in acting upon
it, he received strength."
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Wow.
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Acted upon it.
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So, say that again.
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He acted upon
it. He did something.
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That's the cool part is that
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he didn't stay
there in that place,
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yes, he started, you know,
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complaining and
talking about his problem,
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but he didn't stay there.
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When Jesus gave him the
command, he followed it.
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And it's
interesting because, you know,
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some of us fall into that
place where we just want to get
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other people's
compassion and their pity.
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We want attention and
we'd rather have a pity party
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and than no party at all.
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Yeah.
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You know. That's a good one.
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And so, we are always trying
to play our little violin,
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trying to get
sympathy, and some people,
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some of us just stay there.
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But in this story, you
know, he didn't stay there.
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He followed Jesus' words.
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He responded to it.
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And as a result, he got the
healing that he really wanted.
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Yeah, Marilyn,
anything on that one?
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Well, I agree
with what Ryan said.
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Sometimes we do
want that pity party.
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But can you
imagine if we got past that
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feeling sorry for ourselves?
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How great it would be
if we just allowed our self
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to move forward and not
stay in the same situation?
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It's kind of like
flowing water or still water.
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Still water, if it
stays there too long,
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it becomes
stagnant and polluted.
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You have to keep moving.
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And Christ said, I'm the
water, keep moving with me.
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Yeah. That's right.
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And so the great
question, I would say,
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the million dollar question,
or the life changing question,
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is do you want to be made well.
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That's a question we
want to ask you because,
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you know, this man had his...
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I put together
what I call symptoms.
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He had symptoms
of a 38-year burden.
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And there are some
people that might think,
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I've heard people as,
you know, I'm a pastor,
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I've heard people say, you know,
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sometimes testimonies we
have either at communion service
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or they're people that
will come to church and say,
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they would repeat what
happened when they were a kid.
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And I will look at
them and I'm thinking,
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you've got to at least
be 40, maybe 50, maybe 60,
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you've got to
be well up in years
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and you're still telling me
what happened when you were,
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you know, when was that.
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Listen to this.
I'll put this down.
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They blame others for
their inability to get better.
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There's a guy that
always gets in front of me
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every time I try
to get to the pool.
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It's always
somebody else's fault.
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And then they
repeat the same sob story.
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I think you talked about that,
over and over and over again.
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Always telling me
that 'poor me' stories.
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I like the way that
Ryan illustrated, the violin.
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Could you come to my pity party?
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Make excuses for
lack of progress.
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I just can't do it.
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Mayri brought that out.
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He just, okay,
Lord, here's my story,
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this is really
what's happening in my life,
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and if you understand this,
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you'll know exactly
why I'm still sitting here,
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stuck in the emotional pool,
lying on the bed of failure.
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But then Jesus comes and says
you can do something about it.
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What else?
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Let's look at
another one because
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verse 8 and 9 is a
key verse in that...
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What happened?
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When did he get
past his infirmities?
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When he listened to Jesus
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and he took up
his bed and walked.
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Yeah, it says immediately.
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Immediately, as
he responded to that,
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immediately, the
man was made whole
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and took up his
bed and he walked.
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There is a quote that
says, before His biddings,
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God biddings, are enablings.
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With His command
comes the power to do that.
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And it's just awesome, you know,
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'cause like I was
saying, he had given up.
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He was just laying there.
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He was just making
all these excuses about
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how he can't
overcome the past and just,
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you know, all these
reasons why he can't.
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And then Jesus
just said, get up,
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take up your bed and walk.
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And then, you know,
obviously, you know,
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he's been sick,
he can't do that,
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but God, you
know, he took that step,
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he started getting
up. And he believed God.
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And then he got
the power to get up
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and he was made well.
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One of the things that I noticed
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about people that haven't
given it to the Lord is that
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the end result
it's always bitterness.
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Yeah.
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They're really, really bitter.
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And some of them are
loving people and kind people,
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but there is a
bitterness in there
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that kind of eats away at them.
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And just by that example,
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we should all know,
give it to the Lord.
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He'll take it.
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Have you met somebody
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that was bitter and
loving at the same time?
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Wow.
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Usually goes back and forth,
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but the
bitterness is there, yeah.
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But on the front. Yeah.
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And then sometimes it
goes... Say that again.
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Sometimes they
have a lot of pain,
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but they don't know how to
get rid of that pain it seems.
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Well, what do people
with a lot of pain usually do?
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Hurt other people. Right.
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Or they're always
talking about their pain.
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That's the thing.
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And I think an interesting point
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in what we're talking about is
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the man responded
to Jesus' command.
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You know, he was
struggling on his own
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for so many years to
overcome this problem,
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the only way
that he knew how to.
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And I think a lot of
times in life when, you know,
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I've
experiences, I've had things
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that I've
wrestled with for years,
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trying to find my
own way to overcome them,
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trying to be strong
enough, trying to be, you know,
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powerful enough to not go back
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and doing the things
that I keep falling in.
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And Jesus is saying to us
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through this and
through, you know, His word.
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If you give me your whole heart
and you follow the direction
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that I'm leading you in
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and stop trying to
fight this thing on your own,
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He'll give us the
healing that we want.
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Amen.
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You know, and I think
it's important to remember that
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as we move in collaboration
with the command of Christ,
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that's when healing is found.
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It's not just about moving,
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but it's about
moving in the direction
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that He leads us in.
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And I've been on the
opposite end of gossip.
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I think a lot of
us have been there.
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And it's some kind of like
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a character
assassination sort of gossip.
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And I found that the individual
who actually called me,
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five years later, he apologized
because he became a Christian.
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And to this day, I don't know
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how he found my
phone number or anything.
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But I guess it
was in him so much
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that he had to find my
phone number and he apologized.
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He left the voice
message on my phone.
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And the thing that's
interesting about it is,
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he was gossiping, he told me,
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because he was so
upset with himself inside,
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he had to bring some
else down that he respected
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so that could feel
better about himself.
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And he held on to this
for a long period of time.
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And he finally
became a Christian,
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not our denomination
with another denomination,
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gave his heart to the Lord.
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And he obviously
repented about it.
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Praise the Lord. Yeah.
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That's cool.
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So there is a way
to get past the past.
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Yes. Yeah.
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And usually, when
you get past the past,
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you realize, I
have to go over the road
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and try to ask for
reconciliation from those
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that I've hurt along the way.
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Now we know it's impossible
to cover all the ground,
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but the Lord
sometimes bring conviction to us
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as to who we need
to go to and fix that.
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You know the Lord says,
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leave your
sacrifice at the altar,
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go fix it, and then come back.
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Before you come
back and worship.
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Exactly, because some
of would rather just say,
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Lord, you deal with it.
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He says, no, no,
leave your sacrifice here,
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go fix it, and then come back.
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Amen, Amen.
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Look at I Corinthians
13:11, let's look at this,
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because this is
another text that talks about
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what happens when
you become an adult.
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Sometimes people are
ageing chronologically,
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but they are
still infants mentally.
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This is a very
powerful text here.
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Let me see, maybe
I'll have Marilyn.
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I want you to read
that. I Corinthians 13:11.
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This is a very interesting
observation that Paul makes.
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"When I was a
child, I spake as a child,
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I understood as a
child, I thought as a child,
00:24:02.44\00:24:05.67
but when I became a man,
I put away childish things."
00:24:05.71\00:24:08.84
Well, look at
the all the patterns,
00:24:08.88\00:24:10.78
look at what happens.
00:24:10.81\00:24:12.48
What are some of the things,
00:24:12.51\00:24:13.85
when I was
child, how did I speak?
00:24:13.88\00:24:15.45
As a child.
00:24:15.48\00:24:16.82
And then what else, understood,
and then what else, thought.
00:24:16.85\00:24:20.72
So look at the three patterns.
00:24:20.76\00:24:23.79
Some people are
adults but speak as children,
00:24:23.83\00:24:26.43
you see what's
the connection here?
00:24:26.46\00:24:27.80
They have to put away
their childish things.
00:24:27.83\00:24:30.40
What else do they...
00:24:30.43\00:24:31.77
What else still stays with them,
00:24:31.80\00:24:33.13
not only the way
they speak, but what else?
00:24:33.17\00:24:35.30
The way they
understand and think.
00:24:35.34\00:24:37.14
The way they understand
00:24:37.17\00:24:38.51
and then also
the way they think.
00:24:38.54\00:24:42.14
And I'm, kind of,
being the point guy here,
00:24:42.18\00:24:47.22
the way they think,
the way they understand.
00:24:47.25\00:24:49.55
So if I say something to you
00:24:49.58\00:24:52.02
and you hear it
through the window
00:24:52.05\00:24:53.42
of your childhood experiences,
you might misunderstand me.
00:24:53.46\00:24:56.93
Oh, easily. Okay.
00:24:56.96\00:24:58.79
Yeah, I could say,
why did he say that to me?
00:24:58.83\00:25:02.23
And it's something innocent.
00:25:02.26\00:25:04.20
That has happened to
us in ministry, hasn't it?
00:25:04.23\00:25:06.97
Total misunderstanding,
and we're like,
00:25:07.00\00:25:09.40
where did they get that from?
00:25:09.44\00:25:10.97
You know, so we
could relate, can't we?
00:25:11.01\00:25:14.74
Oh, have you ever
had that happen to you,
00:25:14.78\00:25:17.25
somebody's upset with
you, why, what did I say.
00:25:17.28\00:25:21.12
And they say you walked right
past me and I know you saw me.
00:25:21.15\00:25:24.55
Something like that. Yeah.
00:25:24.59\00:25:26.35
I know you saw me,
but you always do that
00:25:26.39\00:25:28.66
and you're just
like, it goes from,
00:25:28.69\00:25:30.26
first, it goes from,
first of all, I didn't see you,
00:25:30.29\00:25:32.59
to you always you do
that, and you feel defenseless.
00:25:32.63\00:25:36.53
I wasn't even
thinking about that?
00:25:36.56\00:25:38.50
But many years ago,
00:25:38.53\00:25:39.87
that happened to me in New York,
00:25:39.90\00:25:41.24
well, New York, yeah,
00:25:41.27\00:25:42.60
and because I
have tunnel vision,
00:25:42.64\00:25:45.54
sometimes I'm just like,
00:25:45.57\00:25:46.91
I don't see
people, when I'm focused.
00:25:46.94\00:25:50.08
And I was on the bus
and when I'm on a bus
00:25:50.11\00:25:53.58
I'm just focusing
what I need to do.
00:25:53.62\00:25:56.62
I didn't see my
friend sitting there.
00:25:56.65\00:25:59.15
And she says to me,
00:25:59.19\00:26:01.19
the next couple of weeks
later, so what was going on,
00:26:01.22\00:26:04.06
she said, Angie, you
never said hi to me on the bus.
00:26:04.09\00:26:07.10
I said, I didn't even see
you. And I honestly didn't.
00:26:07.13\00:26:11.00
So I told her I'm so sorry.
00:26:11.03\00:26:13.30
I really was, because sometimes
00:26:13.34\00:26:15.74
I could get so
focused in something.
00:26:15.77\00:26:18.17
And that's what happens,
you know, so go ahead...
00:26:18.21\00:26:22.24
I kind of look at this verse 11
00:26:22.28\00:26:25.61
as a challenge
too, because it says,
00:26:25.65\00:26:28.02
when I became a man, I
put away childish things.
00:26:28.05\00:26:30.95
In other words, if you
don't put away childish things,
00:26:30.99\00:26:33.36
you're not gonna be a man.
00:26:33.39\00:26:35.39
So it's kind of a
challenge to men and women
00:26:35.42\00:26:37.73
that you have to
put it away to grow up.
00:26:37.76\00:26:39.89
Yeah.
00:26:39.93\00:26:41.26
That's a very good point.
00:26:41.30\00:26:42.63
You got to grow up
somewhere along the way.
00:26:42.66\00:26:44.00
Right, Right.
00:26:44.03\00:26:45.37
And, but the other thing that...
00:26:45.40\00:26:47.10
I mean, there's so
much in this one verse,
00:26:47.14\00:26:48.84
I have to put my
preachers mind to rest,
00:26:48.87\00:26:51.01
because it just becomes,
it's an extrajudicial text.
00:26:51.04\00:26:56.48
You have to stop
thinking the way you did
00:26:56.51\00:26:58.98
when you were little.
00:26:59.01\00:27:01.95
That's why some parents...
00:27:01.98\00:27:04.42
We were raised with...
00:27:04.45\00:27:06.76
Maybe some of you had.
00:27:06.79\00:27:08.12
What do parents
say to their children,
00:27:08.16\00:27:09.86
children are to
be seen and what?
00:27:09.89\00:27:12.23
Not heard.
00:27:12.26\00:27:14.36
Have you ever had
that, in some homes,
00:27:14.40\00:27:17.40
it's more of a point
of don't say anything.
00:27:17.43\00:27:21.34
There's adult speaking,
shut up, go to your room.
00:27:21.37\00:27:23.87
What happens is
sometimes children grow up
00:27:23.91\00:27:25.74
with this
inability to communicate.
00:27:25.77\00:27:27.18
Yeah.
00:27:27.21\00:27:28.54
And they're in a big
crowd and they're like,
00:27:28.58\00:27:29.91
they want to say something
and they just can't, you know.
00:27:29.94\00:27:34.85
And they are still living
there understanding as a child,
00:27:34.88\00:27:38.95
they're thinking as a child,
and then they speak as a child,
00:27:38.99\00:27:42.62
and then they got this,
can I, can I say something.
00:27:42.66\00:27:46.09
You know, they're like
afraid to break into the moment,
00:27:46.13\00:27:49.23
whereas the other
kids on the other side say,
00:27:49.26\00:27:51.33
they break, you
know, they need training,
00:27:51.37\00:27:53.03
they break right
into adults' conversation.
00:27:53.07\00:27:54.84
So you're saying that
parents play a part too
00:27:54.87\00:27:56.87
in how the child
develops when it comes to this.
00:27:56.91\00:28:00.58
Well, what do you guys think?
00:28:00.61\00:28:01.94
I believe so.
00:28:01.98\00:28:03.98
I believe so.
00:28:04.01\00:28:05.35
Wow, so in order to be
able to be effective...
00:28:05.38\00:28:08.88
Now this is not a
whole counseling program,
00:28:08.92\00:28:10.92
but in order to be effective,
00:28:10.95\00:28:12.29
there are some
things we have to do.
00:28:12.32\00:28:13.66
Let's look at Philippians.
00:28:13.69\00:28:15.02
There are some things
we have to do because,
00:28:15.06\00:28:16.39
you know, if your past,
00:28:16.42\00:28:18.33
if you take
ownership of what you are,
00:28:18.36\00:28:21.36
then you don't
have to be stay there.
00:28:21.40\00:28:22.76
You have to realize that
there's a better place to be,
00:28:22.80\00:28:26.63
than when you were six years old
00:28:26.67\00:28:29.14
or eight years
old, or a teenager.
00:28:29.17\00:28:31.31
And if you're an
adult, 20, 30, 40, 50,
00:28:31.34\00:28:34.58
there's something that
00:28:34.61\00:28:35.94
the Lord sees
that you may not see.
00:28:35.98\00:28:37.31
And let's see.
00:28:37.35\00:28:38.68
Would like to read
Philippians 3: 13-14?
00:28:38.71\00:28:40.52
I can read. Okay, Mayri.
00:28:40.55\00:28:41.88
"Brethren, I count not
myself to have apprehended,
00:28:41.92\00:28:45.12
but this one thing I
do, forgetting those things
00:28:45.15\00:28:47.82
which are behind
and reaching forth
00:28:47.86\00:28:50.36
on to those
things which are before.
00:28:50.39\00:28:52.93
I press toward the mark
00:28:52.96\00:28:54.33
for the prize of
the high calling of God
00:28:54.36\00:28:56.46
in Christ Jesus."
00:28:56.50\00:28:57.83
Okay, so interpretation.
00:28:57.87\00:29:00.27
Stop looking to the
past and press forward,
00:29:00.30\00:29:05.27
looking to God, He's ahead of us
00:29:05.31\00:29:07.04
and He wants us to look to
Him and not keep looking back.
00:29:07.08\00:29:10.75
Okay.
00:29:10.78\00:29:12.91
Just to kind of
qualify this a little bit,
00:29:12.95\00:29:17.02
for me, in my experience,
00:29:17.05\00:29:18.45
I realized there are
two things that we really
00:29:18.49\00:29:21.12
tend to drag with us from
the past into the present.
00:29:21.16\00:29:24.49
And those are, number one,
00:29:24.53\00:29:28.13
things that we've done
that have either hurt ourselves
00:29:28.16\00:29:30.67
or other people, you know,
00:29:30.70\00:29:32.43
we carry the guilt
with us, the shame with us,
00:29:32.47\00:29:34.54
whatever else may be
associated with that.
00:29:34.57\00:29:37.24
Or things that other
people have done to hurt us.
00:29:37.27\00:29:40.58
And we tend to drag
those things along with us
00:29:40.61\00:29:44.51
our entire lives sometimes
00:29:44.55\00:29:46.58
and we continue
to think about them,
00:29:46.61\00:29:49.48
allow them to control
us, allow them to effect us
00:29:49.52\00:29:52.15
in different ways
00:29:52.19\00:29:53.56
and forgetting
about those things.
00:29:53.59\00:29:58.59
You know, when we're
reading here in Philippians,
00:29:58.63\00:30:00.43
it says we're forgetting about
the past and moving forward.
00:30:00.46\00:30:03.43
That doesn't mean ignoring
what has happened in the past.
00:30:03.47\00:30:06.63
Right.
00:30:06.67\00:30:08.04
That means taking those
things, making them right,
00:30:08.07\00:30:11.37
allowing God to heal us,
00:30:11.41\00:30:12.97
and then moving forward
00:30:13.01\00:30:14.48
and not continuing
to drag those things
00:30:14.51\00:30:16.75
behind us in the dirt.
00:30:16.78\00:30:18.11
You know... That's right,
00:30:18.15\00:30:19.48
'cause you can't change
what you've done in the past,
00:30:19.51\00:30:21.52
you can't change that. Yeah...
00:30:21.55\00:30:23.05
But you could
ask for forgiveness,
00:30:23.08\00:30:25.59
you can ask the
person for forgiveness.
00:30:25.62\00:30:27.89
You can ask, of
course, the Lord.
00:30:27.92\00:30:30.26
And you can't tell somebody
00:30:30.29\00:30:31.63
who's been
struggling with the hurt.
00:30:31.66\00:30:33.83
You know, if
something has happened
00:30:33.86\00:30:35.30
to them in the
past that has hurt them,
00:30:35.33\00:30:36.67
you can't tell them
just forget about that,
00:30:36.70\00:30:39.10
you'll get over it.
00:30:39.13\00:30:40.90
You know, just move
on, that's old, it's,
00:30:40.94\00:30:42.80
you know, past or whatever
00:30:42.84\00:30:44.27
because,
00:30:44.31\00:30:46.21
you know, it may be in
the past but it still hurts.
00:30:46.24\00:30:49.84
It's like, you know, if I decide
00:30:49.88\00:30:51.85
I'm gonna go and punch
somebody and knock him out,
00:30:51.88\00:30:54.38
and they get a bruise from it,
00:30:54.42\00:30:56.02
and they're
willing to forgive me,
00:30:56.05\00:30:58.59
they still have the evidence,
00:30:58.62\00:30:59.95
they still have the bruise
that they're carrying with them
00:30:59.99\00:31:02.12
and they have to deal with that.
00:31:02.16\00:31:04.09
You know, they
may have forgiven,
00:31:04.13\00:31:06.76
they may have left that behind,
00:31:06.80\00:31:08.53
but they still have to
deal with the consequences
00:31:08.56\00:31:10.47
of what the past
has done to them.
00:31:10.50\00:31:12.30
Okay.
00:31:12.33\00:31:13.67
And we have to press
forward with the right goals.
00:31:13.70\00:31:15.04
Okay.
00:31:15.07\00:31:16.40
Because I know a lot of people,
00:31:16.44\00:31:18.67
they use other goals
like their career achievements
00:31:18.71\00:31:21.38
and things like
that as a supplement.
00:31:21.41\00:31:23.81
And this says in verse 14,
00:31:23.85\00:31:25.88
I press forward
the goal for the prize
00:31:25.91\00:31:29.75
of the upward call
of God in Christ Jesus.
00:31:29.78\00:31:33.29
So it's saying press forward
with a goal towards Christ.
00:31:33.32\00:31:35.62
That's how the
healing comes... Amen.
00:31:35.66\00:31:37.63
The advancements in your
career and the making money
00:31:37.66\00:31:40.30
and things like that,
those don't heal that wound.
00:31:40.33\00:31:42.70
They don't take
away the bitterness.
00:31:42.73\00:31:44.07
It's only Christ
00:31:44.10\00:31:45.43
that can take
away the bitterness.
00:31:45.47\00:31:46.80
Something what helped me
00:31:46.84\00:31:49.17
the way thinking
about a certain way
00:31:49.20\00:31:50.87
I would think about,
00:31:50.91\00:31:52.71
you know, like, we
talk about bitterness,
00:31:52.74\00:31:54.31
resentment, hurts from the past,
00:31:54.34\00:31:55.91
or things like that,
00:31:55.94\00:31:57.28
I think of it, literally,
00:31:57.31\00:31:58.65
like you're carrying
around, a garbage bag.
00:31:58.68\00:32:00.75
Yeah.
00:32:00.78\00:32:02.12
It weighs you
down and it stinks,
00:32:02.15\00:32:03.49
everybody else can smell it.
00:32:03.52\00:32:04.95
And...
00:32:04.99\00:32:07.19
Yeah, and you don't
want to live like that,
00:32:07.22\00:32:08.86
nobody wants to live like that.
00:32:08.89\00:32:10.23
And I know none
of us are guiltless,
00:32:10.26\00:32:11.59
we've experienced
that at some point,
00:32:11.63\00:32:13.56
but you know,
with God helping us
00:32:13.60\00:32:15.50
to press forward
and leave our burdens,
00:32:15.53\00:32:17.97
you know, at the cross
and just be healed from that,
00:32:18.00\00:32:20.90
and you know, when
you think about that way,
00:32:20.94\00:32:22.27
it's like,
"Ooh...yeah, that's really..."
00:32:22.30\00:32:23.81
Wow!
00:32:23.84\00:32:25.17
That opens a whole
picture in my head,
00:32:25.21\00:32:26.61
your attitude stands.
00:32:26.64\00:32:28.38
Because you're
carrying on your past.
00:32:28.41\00:32:29.88
Why do you... Well,
Pastor, do you think
00:32:29.91\00:32:31.45
that taking ownership
00:32:31.48\00:32:34.42
can help you to
move forward as well?
00:32:34.45\00:32:36.22
Of course.
00:32:36.25\00:32:37.59
That's a very good thing,
00:32:37.62\00:32:38.95
you know, unless you
recognize where you are,
00:32:38.99\00:32:42.32
you cannot recognize
00:32:42.36\00:32:43.69
that you need to
be someplace else.
00:32:43.73\00:32:46.56
Forgetting those...
00:32:46.59\00:32:47.93
That's a very
good point because...
00:32:47.96\00:32:49.30
Taking ownership.
00:32:49.33\00:32:50.67
The story with
a man at the pool,
00:32:50.70\00:32:53.10
he recognized where he was.
00:32:53.13\00:32:56.40
It had been 38
years with this infirmity,
00:32:56.44\00:32:58.67
he recognized, "Here I am."
00:32:58.71\00:33:00.78
I always, in the story,
00:33:00.81\00:33:02.14
the thing that
always gets me is,
00:33:02.18\00:33:03.51
the Lord said take up your bed,
00:33:03.55\00:33:06.31
fold up that mat of excuses,
00:33:06.35\00:33:08.52
or may be his bed was
such so identified with him
00:33:08.55\00:33:11.25
that people when they
saw him walking there,
00:33:11.29\00:33:13.39
I recognize that bed but
I don't recognize that guy.
00:33:13.42\00:33:17.09
And so, but yes,
00:33:17.13\00:33:18.63
taking ownership...
00:33:18.66\00:33:20.00
Yes.
00:33:20.03\00:33:21.36
I think Ryan talked
about that, taking ownership.
00:33:21.40\00:33:24.67
But something I
want to amplify is that,
00:33:24.70\00:33:27.20
okay, you may hit somebody
00:33:27.24\00:33:29.24
and they'll have
that, the evidence of it,
00:33:29.27\00:33:32.17
but that sometimes
that scar will heal,
00:33:32.21\00:33:35.11
but the emotional
pain could go a lot deeper,
00:33:35.14\00:33:38.28
or like it,
00:33:38.31\00:33:39.65
like you've seen those
terrible doggie commercials.
00:33:39.68\00:33:42.35
You know where they...
00:33:42.38\00:33:43.72
you know, dogs have been abused.
00:33:43.75\00:33:45.09
Oh, yes. Yes.
00:33:45.12\00:33:46.45
Oh, yes.
00:33:46.49\00:33:47.82
It's the hardest thing to look.
00:33:47.86\00:33:49.19
And they have two
little puppy, two little dogs,
00:33:49.22\00:33:51.53
so of course you feel bad.
00:33:51.56\00:33:52.89
I'll be thanking...
00:33:52.93\00:33:54.26
Can I add something-- Sure.
00:33:54.30\00:33:55.63
to what Mayri said?
00:33:55.66\00:33:57.00
The perfume of life,
00:33:57.03\00:33:58.37
sometimes, we use
the perfume of life
00:33:58.40\00:34:00.24
to cover up that
garbage bag, to hide it away,
00:34:00.27\00:34:03.24
but the garbage
bag is still there.
00:34:03.27\00:34:04.61
Yes.
00:34:04.64\00:34:05.97
And then, like you
said a lot of people,
00:34:06.01\00:34:08.38
they carry that
00:34:08.41\00:34:09.74
and they're the little
shaking dog on the inside
00:34:09.78\00:34:12.31
and I found, to my life also,
00:34:12.35\00:34:14.02
that it's only
through Jesus Christ
00:34:14.05\00:34:16.32
that can heal that
wound in there, yeah.
00:34:16.35\00:34:19.19
What direction does
this text tell us we can go,
00:34:19.22\00:34:21.96
when we... Up.
00:34:21.99\00:34:23.32
Forward. Forward.
00:34:23.36\00:34:24.69
Go forward.
00:34:24.73\00:34:26.06
Go upward, go...
Pressing on the upward way...
00:34:26.09\00:34:27.70
Exactly, for reaching
forward, pressing upward.
00:34:27.73\00:34:31.10
You see, isn't that wonderful?
00:34:31.13\00:34:32.67
Rather than reaching
backward, pressing downward.
00:34:32.70\00:34:35.04
You see, some people... Oh, yes.
00:34:35.07\00:34:37.34
Years ago, my wife knows this,
00:34:37.37\00:34:38.94
I always talked
about the rearview mirror,
00:34:38.97\00:34:40.98
it's smaller
than the windshield.
00:34:41.01\00:34:43.48
And so the reason for
that, as the Lord says,
00:34:43.51\00:34:46.48
look at the road,
drive, go forward.
00:34:46.51\00:34:49.22
He said it to the
Israelites in Exodus 14,
00:34:49.25\00:34:51.49
"Go forward."
00:34:51.52\00:34:52.85
And so what we're
saying to many of you
00:34:52.89\00:34:54.92
that are watching the program
or if you are in this category,
00:34:54.96\00:34:58.16
we're saying the Lord's
future is better than your past.
00:34:58.19\00:35:02.76
Amen.
00:35:02.80\00:35:04.13
Trade your downward
spiral for the upward call.
00:35:04.17\00:35:07.17
That's right.
00:35:07.20\00:35:08.54
Trade your reverse
gear for a forward gear.
00:35:08.57\00:35:11.91
Don't stand on your failures.
00:35:11.94\00:35:13.41
Failures press toward the
goals the Lord has for you.
00:35:13.44\00:35:16.38
It's like a big weight
lifted when you let go.
00:35:16.41\00:35:20.72
Have you ever
had people say that?
00:35:20.75\00:35:22.55
It's like a weight lifted.
00:35:22.58\00:35:23.92
I said that.
00:35:23.95\00:35:25.92
It's, if you take a
deep breath and you go...
00:35:25.95\00:35:27.46
Yes. Finally.
00:35:27.49\00:35:29.19
When you finally give it to him,
00:35:29.22\00:35:31.09
when you finally give it to him.
00:35:31.13\00:35:32.46
Yes.
00:35:32.49\00:35:33.83
What usually prevents a person
from dealing with an issue?
00:35:33.86\00:35:36.43
They are not
honest with themselves.
00:35:36.46\00:35:37.80
Yeah. Okay, that's one...
00:35:37.83\00:35:39.17
They deny it
00:35:39.20\00:35:40.54
and until you're
honest with yourself,
00:35:40.57\00:35:41.90
you don't reach
out for that healing
00:35:41.94\00:35:43.57
and you know, God,
00:35:43.61\00:35:44.97
Christ reaches out with his hand
00:35:45.01\00:35:46.34
and you say
"Well, I'm just fine.
00:35:46.37\00:35:47.71
I don't need to take your hand.
00:35:47.74\00:35:49.41
I'm doing just well,
everything, I'm making money,
00:35:49.44\00:35:51.48
everything's going
great, my career is just fine,
00:35:51.51\00:35:53.42
I don't need to reach out."
00:35:53.45\00:35:54.78
And inside you need to reach out
00:35:54.82\00:35:56.69
and you have to acknowledge
00:35:56.72\00:35:58.05
that there problem
exists, to do that.
00:35:58.09\00:36:00.39
What else prevents us
from going forward sometime?
00:36:00.42\00:36:02.36
I was gonna say fear.
00:36:02.39\00:36:04.19
I know, for me, with
struggles that I've had,
00:36:04.23\00:36:06.70
sometimes,
00:36:06.73\00:36:08.06
yeah, you don't just
either don't want to face it
00:36:08.10\00:36:09.80
or may be you're just
so used to living that way
00:36:09.83\00:36:13.13
that the thought of
not living like that,
00:36:13.17\00:36:14.64
it's like what am I
gonna do with myself,
00:36:14.67\00:36:16.30
I don't have
anything to think about,
00:36:16.34\00:36:18.21
you know whatever
but, you know sometimes,
00:36:18.24\00:36:20.38
fear is
definitely a huge factor.
00:36:20.41\00:36:21.91
They are...
00:36:21.94\00:36:23.28
And I think we also
get in our comfort zone,
00:36:23.31\00:36:26.18
you know, its
hard to get out of,
00:36:26.21\00:36:28.65
step out beyond
what's around you.
00:36:28.68\00:36:32.89
And once you do that, you
realize it's not as fearful
00:36:32.92\00:36:35.89
but you have to be
willing to accept God's help.
00:36:35.92\00:36:39.83
Okay, what else?
00:36:39.86\00:36:41.20
Anything you
could think of, hon?
00:36:41.23\00:36:43.77
Well, look at
the familiar places,
00:36:43.80\00:36:45.77
I think, that I'm
gonna combine what Mayri said
00:36:45.80\00:36:47.34
and what Marylin said, fear.
00:36:47.37\00:36:49.57
Fear says to you, you
can't, you can't get past us.
00:36:49.60\00:36:52.57
What you're gonna do
00:36:52.61\00:36:53.94
when you stop
thinking in that way?
00:36:53.98\00:36:55.64
What you're gonna say to people
00:36:55.68\00:36:57.65
when they say
you how you're doing?
00:36:57.68\00:36:59.01
In the past,
you used to say you,
00:36:59.05\00:37:00.65
you could tell them
all your war stories,
00:37:00.68\00:37:02.02
but now you got
to lay them down.
00:37:02.05\00:37:04.09
And what you're gonna say now?
00:37:04.12\00:37:05.72
And the fear of
getting away from those,
00:37:05.75\00:37:09.02
the familiar place, the
place that surrounds you...
00:37:09.06\00:37:11.76
Which is not true,
00:37:11.79\00:37:13.36
those are lies
that Satan tells us...
00:37:13.40\00:37:15.16
Of course. Yeah.
00:37:15.20\00:37:16.53
Because we're so
familiar with those things,
00:37:16.56\00:37:18.47
so comfortable
00:37:18.50\00:37:19.83
telling our war stories and our,
00:37:19.87\00:37:21.54
you know, starting our different
00:37:21.57\00:37:23.10
pity parties here and there
00:37:23.14\00:37:24.47
and we're
wondering who am I gonna be,
00:37:24.51\00:37:27.14
if I'm not telling
these stories anymore,
00:37:27.18\00:37:28.94
we don't realize that
00:37:28.98\00:37:30.31
God has a better
story to write for us.
00:37:30.35\00:37:31.68
Amen.
00:37:31.71\00:37:33.05
He has more incredible
things that he can give us
00:37:33.08\00:37:34.75
that can be our
stories for the future.
00:37:34.78\00:37:36.52
Amen.
00:37:36.55\00:37:37.89
And you know sometimes,
00:37:37.92\00:37:39.45
the devil is so creative
at keeping us in those places
00:37:39.49\00:37:42.56
and makes us feel like,
what we've got right now
00:37:42.59\00:37:44.69
is the most valuable
thing that we can have
00:37:44.73\00:37:46.86
and we're afraid
to let go off it,
00:37:46.90\00:37:49.00
but God has something
so much better for us.
00:37:49.03\00:37:51.13
So our thoughts
are all road blocked,
00:37:51.17\00:37:52.77
look at Jeremiah.
00:37:52.80\00:37:54.14
Let me see, who hasn't read yet?
00:37:54.17\00:37:57.04
Eric, look at Jeremiah 29:
11, this is something else,
00:37:57.07\00:38:00.08
because you know, when
you think about thoughts,
00:38:00.11\00:38:01.81
I think what
Marylin and Mayri said
00:38:01.84\00:38:03.91
and what we're
talking about here
00:38:03.95\00:38:05.51
and sometimes your thoughts
is the greatest roadblock,
00:38:05.55\00:38:07.68
so what we're gonna
suggest in this text
00:38:07.72\00:38:09.62
is get rid of your
thoughts and accept the thoughts
00:38:09.65\00:38:11.85
that Jesus has for you.
00:38:11.89\00:38:13.46
So try to replace
the way you think.
00:38:13.49\00:38:16.12
Jeremiah 29:11,
you have that, Eric?
00:38:16.16\00:38:19.03
"For I know the thoughts
that I think toward you,
00:38:19.06\00:38:21.56
says the Lord,
00:38:21.60\00:38:22.93
thoughts of
peace and not of evil,
00:38:22.96\00:38:25.47
to give you a
future and a hope."
00:38:25.50\00:38:27.74
Wow. Amen.
00:38:27.77\00:38:29.20
I know the thoughts.
00:38:29.24\00:38:30.57
And see,
00:38:30.61\00:38:31.94
in some occasions
00:38:31.97\00:38:33.31
Jesus would say to
those who were in the crowd,
00:38:33.34\00:38:35.84
mostly religious
leaders, he says,
00:38:35.88\00:38:38.15
"Why think ye so,"
00:38:38.18\00:38:39.65
I mean why are you
thinking like that,
00:38:39.68\00:38:41.18
and sometimes,
00:38:41.22\00:38:42.55
can you ever look
at people sometimes,
00:38:42.58\00:38:43.92
in a close communication
00:38:43.95\00:38:46.86
and you're saying something
00:38:46.89\00:38:48.36
and they're going like,
00:38:48.39\00:38:51.66
they say don't think that.
00:38:51.69\00:38:53.03
Right.
00:38:53.06\00:38:54.66
Do you ever feel like
saying that sometimes?
00:38:54.70\00:38:56.03
Exactly.
00:38:56.06\00:38:57.40
Can you help me?
00:38:57.43\00:38:59.30
Why are you thinking like that,
00:38:59.33\00:39:00.67
just come in and give me a hand,
00:39:00.70\00:39:02.04
they don't say a single word
00:39:02.07\00:39:03.41
because you could see
their facial encounter...
00:39:03.44\00:39:05.44
Right.
00:39:05.47\00:39:06.81
Starts developing, I
know, what they are thinking.
00:39:06.84\00:39:08.98
Yeah.
00:39:09.01\00:39:10.35
Can you lend some money?
00:39:10.38\00:39:13.42
Go ahead.
00:39:13.45\00:39:14.78
I had a verse that
goes along with what
00:39:14.82\00:39:16.45
this last verse
we've read Isaiah 55,
00:39:16.48\00:39:19.62
and I guess start with verse 7,
00:39:19.65\00:39:21.92
"Let the wicked forsake his way,
00:39:21.96\00:39:23.29
and the
unrighteous man his thoughts.
00:39:23.32\00:39:25.56
Let him return to the Lord,
00:39:25.59\00:39:27.60
and He will have mercy on him.
00:39:27.63\00:39:28.96
And to our God, for He
will abundantly pardon.
00:39:29.00\00:39:30.77
"For My thoughts
are not your thoughts,
00:39:30.80\00:39:33.00
neither are your ways
My ways," says the Lord.
00:39:33.03\00:39:35.40
"For as the heavens
are higher than the earth,
00:39:35.44\00:39:37.67
so are My ways
higher than your ways,
00:39:37.71\00:39:39.74
and My thoughts
than your thoughts."
00:39:39.77\00:39:41.11
Wow.
00:39:41.14\00:39:42.48
I'm so glad
00:39:42.51\00:39:43.85
God doesn't think
the way that we do.
00:39:43.88\00:39:45.58
Because if he
did, I'd be in a lot...
00:39:45.61\00:39:47.35
All of us, to all
of us. You know, John,
00:39:47.38\00:39:49.05
they have a thing called some...
00:39:49.08\00:39:50.95
Also I was in the
military in the past
00:39:50.99\00:39:53.09
and they have
this thing called PTSD,
00:39:53.12\00:39:56.12
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
00:39:56.16\00:39:58.59
It's when you have an
experience with the past
00:39:58.63\00:40:00.40
that you can't get
rid of, it's a disorder.
00:40:00.43\00:40:03.87
And Christ Jesus is
the great physician,
00:40:03.90\00:40:06.90
He can heal that.
00:40:06.94\00:40:08.40
And we need to
keep that in mind.
00:40:08.44\00:40:10.21
You know, it's amazing
00:40:10.24\00:40:11.57
that they often refer to that...
00:40:11.61\00:40:12.94
I've heard that a lot
in the military terms,
00:40:12.97\00:40:15.01
but is it
something everybody has?
00:40:15.04\00:40:16.68
I mean... It's something...
00:40:16.71\00:40:18.05
Who face traumatic experiences
00:40:18.08\00:40:20.28
and they can't get
that traumatic experience
00:40:20.32\00:40:22.72
out of their
heart, out of their mind,
00:40:22.75\00:40:24.75
and it's a burden,
00:40:24.79\00:40:26.19
it's a weight on them
through their entire lives.
00:40:26.22\00:40:27.56
Wow.
00:40:27.59\00:40:28.92
And there is coping
mechanisms for that,
00:40:28.96\00:40:30.79
but I submit that the
greatest coping mechanism
00:40:30.83\00:40:33.70
is the Lord Jesus Christ.
00:40:33.73\00:40:35.06
Yes. Yeah.
00:40:35.10\00:40:36.43
It's worth, it works, He works.
00:40:36.46\00:40:37.80
God is the main healer.
00:40:37.83\00:40:39.87
And He also gives us other,
00:40:39.90\00:40:41.40
you know, doctors and counselors
00:40:41.44\00:40:43.84
and even, thinking of that,
00:40:43.87\00:40:45.27
I think of,
like, therapy animals.
00:40:45.31\00:40:47.61
You know, that's really cool,
00:40:47.64\00:40:48.98
just how that's used by God
00:40:49.01\00:40:50.51
is the one that we need to go to
00:40:50.55\00:40:52.01
and he will show us
the way to find healing.
00:40:52.05\00:40:54.22
Amplify the therapy animals.
00:40:54.25\00:40:55.58
Somebody might not
know what you mean by that.
00:40:55.62\00:40:56.95
Oh, just like
having either like a dog,
00:40:56.99\00:40:59.65
like a service dog
00:40:59.69\00:41:01.02
or, you know, a cat or
they use different animal,
00:41:01.06\00:41:03.49
horses sometimes just to,
00:41:03.53\00:41:05.56
you know, it helps clam
the person down a lot of times
00:41:05.59\00:41:08.10
and just having like a
companion there with you,
00:41:08.13\00:41:11.53
just to help with,
00:41:11.57\00:41:13.34
you know, keeping you
stable and emotionally.
00:41:13.37\00:41:16.64
Now when we think about
00:41:16.67\00:41:19.01
where we are and
where God wants us to be.
00:41:19.04\00:41:20.94
Do you think that
when you were born, honey,
00:41:20.98\00:41:22.81
the Lord, He
knew what you had...
00:41:22.84\00:41:24.18
Of course, He knew all of us.
00:41:24.21\00:41:26.88
He has a plan for each life.
I always say that to people.
00:41:26.92\00:41:30.09
The Lord has a plan for you.
00:41:30.12\00:41:31.69
Jeremiah. Let's go to Jeremiah.
00:41:31.72\00:41:33.05
I want you to read
this one. Jeremiah 1:5.
00:41:33.09\00:41:35.19
It's in our syllabus,
00:41:35.22\00:41:36.56
but we could go ahead
and look at this together
00:41:36.59\00:41:39.03
because a lot of times
people don't realize that
00:41:39.06\00:41:42.56
before you are born,
00:41:42.60\00:41:44.97
the circumstances of your birth,
00:41:45.00\00:41:46.63
and I think I'm a
classic example of that
00:41:46.67\00:41:48.67
having been
abandoned by my mom and dad
00:41:48.70\00:41:50.47
at three months old.
00:41:50.51\00:41:52.07
Somebody once told
me, they said, John,
00:41:52.11\00:41:54.04
according to
your past experiences
00:41:54.08\00:41:56.18
you should be a train wreck
00:41:56.21\00:41:58.11
or you should be
mentally, you know, confused.
00:41:58.15\00:42:01.58
And I literally hadn't gone
to the place in my youth years,
00:42:01.62\00:42:06.19
when they were
turbulent experiences, like,
00:42:06.22\00:42:08.72
the one who was giving me,
00:42:08.76\00:42:10.29
the lady that
was raising me died
00:42:10.33\00:42:11.99
when I was only 12 years old.
00:42:12.03\00:42:14.06
And the man that was raising me
00:42:14.10\00:42:15.43
kind of just
loss his perspective,
00:42:15.46\00:42:16.80
he just...
00:42:16.83\00:42:18.17
My wife has died,
00:42:18.20\00:42:19.53
people marry at
30 something years.
00:42:19.57\00:42:21.00
I don't have any
more future, I'm done.
00:42:21.04\00:42:23.10
And I just kind a got
to the place where it says,
00:42:23.14\00:42:24.61
either I'm gonna
fail, I'm gonna sink,
00:42:24.64\00:42:26.37
or I'm gonna make it.
00:42:26.41\00:42:27.74
And but this text,
00:42:27.78\00:42:29.11
I didn't know
this text at that time,
00:42:29.14\00:42:30.48
but Jeremiah 1:5. Look at that.
00:42:30.51\00:42:31.85
I think you should read it.
00:42:31.88\00:42:33.21
Okay. Because of your situation.
00:42:33.25\00:42:35.15
All right, let me read it. Yeah.
00:42:35.18\00:42:37.05
"Before I
formed you in the womb,
00:42:37.09\00:42:41.06
I knew you."
00:42:41.09\00:42:42.82
Ain't that powerful? Powerful.
00:42:42.86\00:42:45.26
"Before you were
born, I sanctified you,
00:42:45.29\00:42:49.60
I ordained you a
prophet to the nations."
00:42:49.63\00:42:52.83
Another word for
prophet is preacher.
00:42:52.87\00:42:54.97
You know, just speaking...
00:42:55.00\00:42:56.34
That's why I said
you should read this.
00:42:56.37\00:42:58.61
Wow, that's a powerful text.
00:42:58.64\00:43:00.28
I mean, that's a
powerful text. It is.
00:43:00.31\00:43:02.31
"Before I formed
you in your mother."
00:43:02.34\00:43:04.08
And, you know, honey,
you know the story very well.
00:43:04.11\00:43:06.78
When I finally met my mom,
00:43:06.82\00:43:08.72
you know she said to me,
she said, "If I raised you,
00:43:08.75\00:43:11.29
you wouldn't be
what you are today."
00:43:11.32\00:43:14.02
So the Lord saw in
some of our instances,
00:43:14.06\00:43:16.42
and so there is a
point to have at the story,
00:43:16.46\00:43:18.43
because some people may
say, I was abandoned by my mom.
00:43:18.46\00:43:20.83
Yeah.
00:43:20.86\00:43:22.20
My dad left me,
00:43:22.23\00:43:23.57
I don't know who my parents are.
00:43:23.60\00:43:24.97
And they put that
trailer truck behind them
00:43:25.00\00:43:26.80
and they dragged and they...
00:43:26.84\00:43:28.44
And some people they
never meet who their folks are.
00:43:28.47\00:43:31.57
And so I'm saying,
00:43:31.61\00:43:33.54
who your folks
are should not hinder
00:43:33.58\00:43:38.38
who your God is.
00:43:38.41\00:43:39.75
Amen.
00:43:39.78\00:43:41.12
See. Amen.
00:43:41.15\00:43:42.48
So does this apply to everyone?
00:43:42.52\00:43:44.19
Oh, it sure it does.
00:43:44.22\00:43:46.05
The Lord has a...
Well, Jeremiah 29:11, right?
00:43:46.09\00:43:49.32
Does he have a
future and hope for you?
00:43:49.36\00:43:50.76
It's right.
00:43:50.79\00:43:52.13
All of us. Yeah.
00:43:52.16\00:43:53.50
So, he says before I formed you.
00:43:53.53\00:43:55.06
So if you're
thinking about that thought,
00:43:55.10\00:43:56.83
very importantly, today,
00:43:56.87\00:43:58.20
if you're thinking
about that thought,
00:43:58.23\00:43:59.57
the Lord had a plan for my wife,
00:43:59.60\00:44:01.60
for me, for Mayri, for Ryan,
00:44:01.64\00:44:03.17
for Eric, for
Marylin, before we were born.
00:44:03.20\00:44:05.84
So we're not here at 3ABN.
00:44:05.87\00:44:08.14
Are we here coincidentally? No.
00:44:08.18\00:44:10.31
Does the Lord know
you're gonna be here,
00:44:10.35\00:44:11.68
aerospace man.
00:44:11.71\00:44:13.05
He knew, I didn't
know it, but He knew.
00:44:13.08\00:44:15.72
Yeah.
00:44:15.75\00:44:17.09
And Ryan, this was...
00:44:17.12\00:44:18.89
His media name is amazing.
00:44:18.92\00:44:20.76
This was unseen by you.
00:44:20.79\00:44:22.39
Yeah.
00:44:22.42\00:44:24.13
Yes, it was.
00:44:24.16\00:44:25.49
Unseen Media,
Unseen Media executive.
00:44:25.53\00:44:27.63
Yeah, but God
knew. But God knew.
00:44:27.66\00:44:29.66
Mayri, what about
you ending up here?
00:44:29.70\00:44:32.00
Oh, yeah, that's quiet a story.
00:44:32.03\00:44:34.04
I definitely don't have a doubt
that it was God's doing, yeah.
00:44:34.07\00:44:37.51
I wouldn't have
chosen to be here, yeah.
00:44:37.54\00:44:40.38
Honey, what about you?
00:44:40.41\00:44:41.74
I would never pick
the Mid-West to live.
00:44:41.78\00:44:44.45
I actually wouldn't.
00:44:44.48\00:44:45.81
We always say that
00:44:45.85\00:44:47.18
because we lived in
California for so many years
00:44:47.22\00:44:49.25
and then we
move to the Mid-West.
00:44:49.28\00:44:51.99
We moved to Missouri,
00:44:52.02\00:44:54.96
and I'm like,
00:44:54.99\00:44:56.32
I want to go back to California.
00:44:56.36\00:44:58.56
But I know the Lord put us here.
00:44:58.59\00:45:01.06
I know that beyond
a shadow of a doubt.
00:45:01.10\00:45:02.76
Don't you?
00:45:02.80\00:45:04.13
And what you're doing now,
00:45:04.17\00:45:05.50
would you have
ever thought of doing
00:45:05.53\00:45:06.87
what you're
doing now? No, never.
00:45:06.90\00:45:08.24
What are you doing now again?
00:45:08.27\00:45:09.60
Edit, right,
audio editor, I edit.
00:45:09.64\00:45:13.24
I never thought I
would be an audio editor
00:45:13.27\00:45:15.21
in a million years.
00:45:15.24\00:45:16.58
So I know that's God.
00:45:16.61\00:45:18.01
I never liked that.
00:45:18.05\00:45:19.95
I had no desire to do that.
00:45:19.98\00:45:22.58
Should I tell them
the story? Go ahead.
00:45:22.62\00:45:23.95
I used to try to...
00:45:23.99\00:45:25.32
I used to try to tell
her about audio editing
00:45:25.35\00:45:26.96
when we lived in California.
00:45:26.99\00:45:28.69
Honey, look at my computer.
00:45:28.72\00:45:30.39
A WAV file.
00:45:30.43\00:45:31.76
You know what a WAV
file was for my wife?
00:45:31.79\00:45:34.86
A wave file. Bye.
00:45:34.90\00:45:37.00
But now she's like, she
could look at a WAV file,
00:45:37.03\00:45:40.00
God has not only...
00:45:40.04\00:45:41.37
But here's what He
does, He doesn't only call us.
00:45:41.40\00:45:44.37
What else does He do?
00:45:44.41\00:45:46.11
He doesn't just call us.
00:45:46.14\00:45:47.48
What else does He... Qualifies.
00:45:47.51\00:45:48.84
He qualifies us.
00:45:48.88\00:45:50.61
Marylin,
00:45:50.65\00:45:52.81
did you know
you're gonna be here?
00:45:52.85\00:45:54.22
No. Assistant manager.
00:45:54.25\00:45:55.58
No, not at all.
And I agree with you.
00:45:55.62\00:45:58.92
This is not coming
form the East Coast
00:45:58.95\00:46:01.92
and the Northwest.
00:46:01.96\00:46:03.56
This is a different environment.
00:46:03.59\00:46:05.86
And I think, I
tell everyone this.
00:46:05.89\00:46:08.90
I don't think it was for Eric.
00:46:08.93\00:46:10.47
I think the Lord
brought us here for me.
00:46:10.50\00:46:12.67
Wow.
00:46:12.70\00:46:14.17
So, using Eric.
00:46:14.20\00:46:18.27
Now we want to know
more about that story.
00:46:18.31\00:46:19.87
Yeah.
00:46:19.91\00:46:21.24
Well, I've just
received so many blessings
00:46:21.28\00:46:23.35
from being here and
growing in my spiritual walk.
00:46:23.38\00:46:26.45
And...
00:46:26.48\00:46:29.45
just the growth that
I've received coming here,
00:46:29.48\00:46:33.02
I think it was
more so for me than.
00:46:33.05\00:46:35.92
She is a different person.
00:46:35.96\00:46:37.96
She is definitely
a different person.
00:46:37.99\00:46:39.46
She has absolutely
grown her spiritual walk.
00:46:39.49\00:46:42.53
And I want to say
I'm proud of Marylin,
00:46:42.56\00:46:44.93
but it was Jesus working
through Marylin that did it.
00:46:44.97\00:46:47.87
Yes. So, yes.
00:46:47.90\00:46:49.74
It's awesome.
00:46:49.77\00:46:51.24
You know, the text I
want you to read, Marylin,
00:46:51.27\00:46:53.01
is Ephesians 5:10
'cause this fits you.
00:46:53.04\00:46:55.81
I mean, after you
just told me that.
00:46:55.84\00:46:57.45
Ephesians 5:10
00:46:57.48\00:46:58.81
it's under our
point number seven.
00:46:58.85\00:47:03.02
You know,
00:47:03.05\00:47:04.39
but Ephesians
5:10 is the text there
00:47:04.42\00:47:06.82
and of our
syllabus, point number seven.
00:47:06.86\00:47:08.52
Okay,
00:47:08.56\00:47:09.89
"For we are his workmanship,
00:47:09.92\00:47:12.06
created in Christ
Jesus for good works,
00:47:12.09\00:47:14.63
which God prepared before hand
that we should walk in them."
00:47:14.66\00:47:18.33
Okay.
00:47:18.37\00:47:19.70
So did you know you
were gonna be walking in
00:47:19.73\00:47:21.54
before you got here?
00:47:21.57\00:47:22.90
I didn't, but now I do.
00:47:22.94\00:47:24.64
He knew. But the Lord knew.
00:47:24.67\00:47:26.01
Yes He did. He
knew. That's right.
00:47:26.04\00:47:27.84
Oh, I have a question
I want to throw in here.
00:47:27.88\00:47:31.25
Okay.
00:47:31.28\00:47:32.61
Change the
direction a little bit
00:47:32.65\00:47:33.98
but we're talking about
how God is always with us.
00:47:34.02\00:47:36.38
And we're giving stories
00:47:36.42\00:47:38.02
that how God has
led us in the past,
00:47:38.05\00:47:39.59
bring us to the point
where we are right now.
00:47:39.62\00:47:43.56
And we don't realize
that until we look back
00:47:43.59\00:47:46.13
and we can see God's hand.
00:47:46.16\00:47:48.70
But I think one of the reasons
00:47:48.73\00:47:50.73
why a lot of
people drag their past
00:47:50.77\00:47:54.10
with them many times
00:47:54.14\00:47:55.70
is because we ask the question,
00:47:55.74\00:47:58.24
well, where was God when...
00:47:58.27\00:48:01.51
And then fill in the blank.
00:48:01.54\00:48:03.31
You know because we
all go through experiences
00:48:03.35\00:48:05.31
where it's like why
would God have allowed me
00:48:05.35\00:48:08.52
to go through this or
that or whatever that may be.
00:48:08.55\00:48:13.92
And, you know,
00:48:13.96\00:48:15.46
if God really is with
us every step of the way...
00:48:15.49\00:48:19.16
Can I speak on that? Sure.
00:48:19.19\00:48:21.03
Because one of
my favorite stories.
00:48:21.06\00:48:23.37
And I mean it's in
the top three stories
00:48:23.40\00:48:26.23
in the Bible is
the story of Joseph
00:48:26.27\00:48:28.80
where God allowed him.
00:48:28.84\00:48:30.74
He didn't make him go to prison.
00:48:30.77\00:48:32.54
He allowed him to go to prison,
suffer what he went through,
00:48:32.57\00:48:36.08
slavery in prison
00:48:36.11\00:48:37.45
so that he could
save Israel in the end.
00:48:37.48\00:48:39.61
And at the time,
00:48:39.65\00:48:41.08
Joseph didn't know
that was his purpose
00:48:41.12\00:48:43.75
but God took a bad circumstance
00:48:43.79\00:48:46.19
and allowed it
to play its course
00:48:46.22\00:48:47.82
so that He could
do the greater good.
00:48:47.86\00:48:49.39
So sometimes we
end up in a situation,
00:48:49.42\00:48:52.23
we're like, I didn't
bring this upon myself,
00:48:52.26\00:48:54.23
why Lord, why
are you doing this?
00:48:54.26\00:48:56.10
Like you said,
00:48:56.13\00:48:57.47
and it is because God
has a greater role for us.
00:48:57.50\00:48:59.33
We just have to be faithful
00:48:59.37\00:49:01.17
so that we can
fulfill that role.
00:49:01.20\00:49:03.00
Some of us fall
away during that.
00:49:03.04\00:49:04.97
If we stand with
it, stand faithful,
00:49:05.01\00:49:06.68
and keep our eyes on the Lord,
it reveals itself in the end.
00:49:06.71\00:49:09.71
You know, Joseph became...
00:49:09.74\00:49:12.25
Yeah, I love Joseph.
00:49:12.28\00:49:13.62
And you have a
sermon from pits to palaces.
00:49:13.65\00:49:15.88
Wow. And that's about Joseph.
00:49:15.92\00:49:17.69
And he's my favorite character,
00:49:17.72\00:49:19.05
one of my favorite in the Bible.
00:49:19.09\00:49:20.96
What happened when we
read the end of the story...
00:49:20.99\00:49:22.92
Oh! We cried.
00:49:22.96\00:49:24.59
Oh, we when...
00:49:24.63\00:49:25.96
we were reading in
Genesis when he died.
00:49:25.99\00:49:28.10
Oh, I said Joseph.
00:49:28.13\00:49:29.46
We were driving to
Paradise, California in the car
00:49:29.50\00:49:31.63
and Angie was reading
Genesis and she said...
00:49:31.67\00:49:34.20
And I said, you okay, honey?
00:49:34.24\00:49:35.57
She said, oh, I
just look forward
00:49:35.60\00:49:36.94
to meeting Joseph,
00:49:36.97\00:49:38.31
what a life, what a story.
00:49:38.34\00:49:39.67
And she was shedding tears.
00:49:39.71\00:49:41.18
And so,
00:49:41.21\00:49:43.21
like, there is another
man in my life, Joseph.
00:49:43.24\00:49:47.02
Coming from Paradise
or going to Paradise?
00:49:47.05\00:49:48.68
Going to paradise.
00:49:48.72\00:49:50.85
To Paradise,
California to be specific.
00:49:50.89\00:49:53.36
But that's true and
thank you for that example,
00:49:53.39\00:49:55.69
because, as Ryan pointed out,
and that's a very good question
00:49:55.72\00:49:58.86
because there's
somebody watching the program
00:49:58.89\00:50:00.33
that might say,
well, where was God?
00:50:00.36\00:50:01.70
Yeah.
00:50:01.73\00:50:03.06
Where was God in my,
00:50:03.10\00:50:04.43
where was God in my
betrayal, my family betrayal.
00:50:04.47\00:50:06.87
That's how it started out.
00:50:06.90\00:50:08.37
Where is God in
my sibling jealousy.
00:50:08.40\00:50:10.67
Yeah. Look at
all the components.
00:50:10.71\00:50:12.07
What else can you see
in the story of Joseph?
00:50:12.11\00:50:13.91
Sibling
jealousy, sibling rivalry,
00:50:13.94\00:50:16.81
family betrayal...
00:50:16.85\00:50:18.61
Attempted murder.
00:50:18.65\00:50:19.98
Attempted
murder, falsely accused,
00:50:20.02\00:50:21.35
what else attempted...
00:50:21.38\00:50:22.72
Attempted murder.
00:50:22.75\00:50:24.09
What else?
00:50:24.12\00:50:26.35
That's it.
00:50:26.39\00:50:27.72
No, there is more.
Feelings of abandonment.
00:50:27.76\00:50:30.29
Abandonment. That's right.
00:50:30.33\00:50:32.49
Why's this happening to me,
00:50:32.53\00:50:33.90
what have I done to
bring this on myself.
00:50:33.93\00:50:36.67
All right. Yeah.
00:50:36.70\00:50:38.03
When you do all the right things
00:50:38.07\00:50:39.40
and all the wrong
things happened to you.
00:50:39.43\00:50:41.64
Why do bad things
happen to good people,
00:50:41.67\00:50:44.74
what else?
00:50:44.77\00:50:46.11
Such an honest man, remember...
00:50:46.14\00:50:49.24
Was that
Potiphar's wife? That's right.
00:50:49.28\00:50:51.38
He was in a situation
00:50:51.41\00:50:52.75
where the devil wanted to
take him even further down.
00:50:52.78\00:50:54.15
Yes. Tried to break him.
00:50:54.18\00:50:55.75
Tried to break him,
00:50:55.78\00:50:57.12
tried to get him to
compromise his moral stand
00:50:57.15\00:50:58.69
with Potiphar's wife.
00:50:58.72\00:51:00.06
And he said... What did he say?
00:51:00.09\00:51:02.22
How can I do
this great wickedness
00:51:02.26\00:51:03.59
and sin against God.
00:51:03.63\00:51:04.96
Right.
00:51:04.99\00:51:06.33
So he recognized at
that point God was with him.
00:51:06.36\00:51:09.76
Yeah, just one more thing,
00:51:09.80\00:51:11.13
just to drive this
a little bit deeper
00:51:11.17\00:51:12.50
because we talk about
God uses these experiences
00:51:12.53\00:51:15.84
to bring about
his purposes, right?
00:51:15.87\00:51:19.11
And somebody may
be thinking, well,
00:51:19.14\00:51:20.84
does that mean that each of
us are slaves to God's purpose?
00:51:20.88\00:51:24.71
Does that mean
that we can only do
00:51:24.75\00:51:26.85
what God wants us to do?
00:51:26.88\00:51:28.25
We can't do what we want to do.
00:51:28.28\00:51:30.69
And it's a
different way of thinking
00:51:30.72\00:51:32.05
but I have had people
ask that question before.
00:51:32.09\00:51:34.42
And--
00:51:34.46\00:51:35.79
I kind of have an
answer but I want to...
00:51:35.82\00:51:38.49
We can do what we
will, it's our choice.
00:51:38.53\00:51:42.80
But the difference is
the great majority of times
00:51:42.83\00:51:45.87
if not always if we
don't do God's will,
00:51:45.90\00:51:48.47
we fall away to some degree,
00:51:48.50\00:51:50.27
especially when we're
faced with this great trial,
00:51:50.31\00:51:52.84
if we don't keep
our eyes on the Lord
00:51:52.87\00:51:54.88
and have him lead
us through that trail
00:51:54.91\00:51:56.44
to the greater success
00:51:56.48\00:51:57.81
and to the greater glory of God,
00:51:57.85\00:51:59.35
we fall away in
the bad direction.
00:51:59.38\00:52:01.75
So we have a choice
00:52:01.78\00:52:03.12
whether to go in God's direction
00:52:03.15\00:52:04.49
or the bad direction.
00:52:04.52\00:52:05.85
That's what it
sums up to in the end.
00:52:05.89\00:52:07.66
Sometimes we don't realize
that that is what the choice is.
00:52:07.69\00:52:09.32
Right.
00:52:09.36\00:52:10.69
I think a lot of times
we look at God's purpose
00:52:10.73\00:52:12.66
and we look at surrender to
God as something that's scary,
00:52:12.69\00:52:15.43
like, what's gonna
happen if I give up everything
00:52:15.46\00:52:18.23
and I surrender
myself to God's purpose.
00:52:18.27\00:52:19.87
I don't want to
give up this and that
00:52:19.90\00:52:21.87
and all these things
that I love right now.
00:52:21.90\00:52:24.27
And we don't realize
00:52:24.31\00:52:25.64
that God wants to give
us is actually something
00:52:25.67\00:52:28.04
that is gonna give us
some more of fulfillment,
00:52:28.08\00:52:30.15
more peace, more happiness.
00:52:30.18\00:52:32.35
And that's an experience
that because a lot of us,
00:52:32.38\00:52:37.09
we don't have that experience
00:52:37.12\00:52:38.45
and we don't
share that experience
00:52:38.49\00:52:39.82
with other people,
00:52:39.85\00:52:41.19
we stay back in
the pity party zone,
00:52:41.22\00:52:43.99
we're not
passing these things on.
00:52:44.03\00:52:45.36
And so when we talk
about surrender to God,
00:52:45.39\00:52:47.40
it becomes a scary thing
00:52:47.43\00:52:48.76
when really it's the
most incredible experience
00:52:48.80\00:52:51.90
that you could ever
have in your life because...
00:52:51.93\00:52:53.27
Amen.
00:52:53.30\00:52:54.64
You get taken to a place
00:52:54.67\00:52:56.00
where you get to see
God working on your behalf
00:52:56.04\00:52:57.64
on a day to day basis,
working miracles, doing things,
00:52:57.67\00:53:00.68
accomplishing things
for you and for the people
00:53:00.71\00:53:03.51
that you never could
have done by yourself.
00:53:03.55\00:53:06.01
And there is
nothing more incredible.
00:53:06.05\00:53:08.12
Now there is a
text I want to read
00:53:08.15\00:53:09.48
because a lot of
times people think that
00:53:09.52\00:53:11.02
I'm ashamed about
what happened to me.
00:53:11.05\00:53:12.92
Honey, I want you to read this
since you gave me the last one,
00:53:12.95\00:53:14.92
2 Timothy 1:12.
00:53:14.96\00:53:16.56
This text is powerful
00:53:16.59\00:53:17.93
because a lot of times
people said, I'm so ashamed,
00:53:17.96\00:53:21.26
they take on such burden
of what they went through,
00:53:21.30\00:53:24.13
they forget the blessing of God.
00:53:24.17\00:53:26.57
And so get rid of the shame
because the text shows you...
00:53:26.60\00:53:30.87
2 Timothy 1: 12.
00:53:30.91\00:53:32.47
This is a beautiful passage.
00:53:32.51\00:53:34.11
"For this reason,
00:53:34.14\00:53:35.68
I also suffer these
things, nevertheless,
00:53:35.71\00:53:38.88
I am not ashamed for I
know whom I have believed
00:53:38.91\00:53:43.02
and I am persuaded
that he is able to keep
00:53:43.05\00:53:46.22
what I have committed
to him until that day."
00:53:46.25\00:53:49.72
Wow, isn't that
powerful? Powerful.
00:53:49.76\00:53:51.79
Shame, people go through shame,
00:53:51.83\00:53:54.06
they said, oh,
00:53:54.10\00:53:55.43
I feel so ashamed
to talk about this.
00:53:55.46\00:53:58.43
The Lord may have
allowed you, Job, Joseph,
00:53:58.47\00:54:02.10
how many other characters
in the Bible do we find
00:54:02.14\00:54:04.04
that have gone
through difficulties?
00:54:04.07\00:54:05.41
Job. Job.
00:54:05.44\00:54:06.88
Pastor C.D. Brooks
said if the devil only knew
00:54:06.91\00:54:09.44
how many people
would be encouraged
00:54:09.48\00:54:10.98
by the story of Job,
00:54:11.01\00:54:12.35
he we would have left Job alone.
00:54:12.38\00:54:13.72
Yes.
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It thought that to be true.
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I want to get
another one in there.
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Mayri, Isaiah 61:1-3.
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Isaiah 61: 1-3.
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Because we're talking about
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not only just
getting past the past,
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but what does Lord
have in store for you.
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If you're committed
to him, he'll keep it.
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Don't be ashamed about
what you've been through,
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but if you commit your
present and your future to him,
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He will be able to keep it.
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Isaiah 61: 1-3,
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"The Spirit of the
Lord God is upon me,
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because the Lord has anointed me
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to preach good
tidings unto the meek,
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He has sent me to
bind up the broken-hearted,
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to proclaim
liberty to the captives,
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and the opening of the
prison to them that are bound
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to proclaim the
acceptable year of the Lord,
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and the day of
vengeance of our God
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to comfort all that mourn
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To appoint unto
them that mourn in Zion,
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to give unto
them beauty for ashes,
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the oil of joy for mourning,
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the garment of praise
for the spirit of heaviness
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that they might be
called trees of righteousness,
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the planting of the Lord,
that He might be glorified."
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There is so
much in that passage.
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One of the things
that I want to bring out,
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not only does God
take away the past
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and give you beauty,
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but he says let me deal,
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let me be the one
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to take care of
those who did wrong to you.
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Amen.
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The vengeance,
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the day of vengeance of our God.
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He says, let Me
fight that battle.
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I'll take away your
ashes and give you beauty,
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I'll give oil.
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Ain't that
wonderful? Let's trade.
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Let's trade. Excellent trade.
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And He doesn't
minimize our pain.
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And we definitely don't
want anyone just think that,
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you know, whatever
you've gone through is like,
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oh, that's not a big
deal, just get over it.
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Exactly.
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God knows our pain and
He knows how deep it can be,
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but he wants us...
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He doesn't want
us to live in that
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for the rest of our lives.
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Anything else, Eric?
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I've never met anyone
that regretted coming to Jesus.
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Never. Wow.
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Never, of all the people...
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And I like to
talk to people a lot.
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And I've never heard
anyone saying I regret it.
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That's what I
have to say about that.
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Anything, honey?
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No, God is
faithful. That's all I know.
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He's faithful.
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So whatever you
are going through,
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or me or you, any of us here,
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He's faithful to
take us through it.
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Remember what you always say?
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You're going
through... That's right.
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If you're going through
it, keep going through it,
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and come out the other end
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into the plan
that God has for you.
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I want to kind of
bring our time together,
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wind it up on this
text Romans 8:38-39.
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This is a commitment
text that says to you
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it's not where you are
but where God can keep you.
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You have to persuaded though,
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he says, "For I am persuaded,
00:56:40.83\00:56:42.76
that neither death, nor life,
nor angels, nor principalities,
00:56:42.80\00:56:46.27
nor powers, nor things present,
nor things to come, nor height,
00:56:46.30\00:56:49.54
nor depth, nor any
other created thing,
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shall be able to separate
us from the love of God,
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which is in
Christ Jesus our Lord."
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Amen.
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Wow, did this
program go too quickly?
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Yes. Very fast. Very quickly.
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So can we get
past our past? Yes.
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Through whom?
Through Christ Jesus.
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Friends, I tell you.
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There's goal out there that
God has for every one of us.
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We've seen it,
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it's continuing to
unfold in all of our lives.
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We want to say to you
that God has a goal for you.
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Amen.
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An upward call,
a forward motion.
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He wants to take
you off of your bed
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and give you the
ability to walk in his freedom.
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So trust the Lord with your life
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and the day is going to come
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when you'll see the
God that delivered you
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and you'll glorify Him.
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God be with you
till we see you again.
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Happy Sabbath. Amen.
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