¤ ¤ 00:00:01.36\00:00:05.10 ¤ I want to spend my life mending broken people ¤ 00:00:05.13\00:00:15.31 ¤ I want to spend my life removing pain ¤ 00:00:15.34\00:00:25.65 ¤ Lord let my words heal a heart that hurts ¤ 00:00:25.69\00:00:36.06 ¤ I want to spend my life mending broken people ¤ 00:00:36.10\00:00:57.19 ¤ ¤ 00:00:57.22\00:01:07.63 Hello friends and welcome to your program 3ABN today. My 00:01:07.66\00:01:11.00 is Idalia Dinzey and it's a pleasure to spend this next hour 00:01:11.03\00:01:15.90 with you our 3ABN family. During this hour we're going to be so 00:01:15.94\00:01:20.44 blessed. We're going to talk about a topic that is very, very 00:01:20.48\00:01:24.91 important and very relevant for you and for us today. And we 00:01:24.95\00:01:30.29 have a special guest. The special guest is no stranger to 00:01:30.32\00:01:33.89 some of our 3ABN viewing family This guest is 00:01:33.92\00:01:38.53 Dr. Nathanael Gracia, welcome. 00:01:38.56\00:01:41.16 Thank you, Idalia. Thank you for having us and we're happy to be 00:01:41.20\00:01:45.20 here. 00:01:45.23\00:01:46.74 I am so happy that you're able to make it to our studios and 00:01:46.77\00:01:50.47 dedicate this time so you can share some gems, some treasures 00:01:50.51\00:01:55.74 that you have discovered. You are representing, you are the 00:01:55.78\00:01:59.48 founder of which ministry? Tell us about it. 00:01:59.51\00:02:01.88 Grace Connection. 00:02:01.92\00:02:05.72 Very well. So how did this ministry come about? 00:02:05.75\00:02:10.06 We started with the idea of Grace Connection way back in 00:02:10.09\00:02:16.20 2010 when I was the ministerial secretary for a conference in 00:02:16.23\00:02:20.97 Jamaica, the North Jamaica Conference. And I was going 00:02:21.00\00:02:26.57 about from pastor to pastor's house to help them with some 00:02:26.61\00:02:31.41 healing. There were some issues in the field like you know God's 00:02:31.45\00:02:36.38 people just like Paul and Barnabas had issues that 00:02:36.42\00:02:41.16 happened and through the healing process God has given me the 00:02:41.19\00:02:46.36 vision to speak reconciliation to the hearts of the pastors. 00:02:46.39\00:02:51.10 It's interesting that you mention that you were working 00:02:51.13\00:02:53.47 with the pastors because we as members of the church forget 00:02:53.50\00:02:57.14 that our pastors are human beings, that they also need help 00:02:57.17\00:03:01.44 Exactly and healers need healing (Amen) The doctor needs a doctor 00:03:01.48\00:03:07.68 God has blessed us through the Holy Spirit to have that 00:03:07.72\00:03:11.85 ministry to start. And when I established that program it was 00:03:11.89\00:03:16.93 a one-by-one program. And this work God has allowed us to take 00:03:16.96\00:03:23.73 it around the world afterward where it was no longer for 00:03:23.77\00:03:27.90 ministers who needed healing but for everyone because this is so 00:03:27.94\00:03:31.74 important to have healing. It's poisonous to have grudges, to 00:03:31.77\00:03:39.91 bare unforgiveness. It is a poison and recently they start 00:03:39.95\00:03:44.95 teaching forgiveness at Harvard University. They have 00:03:44.99\00:03:48.29 Forgiveness 101 to see how it is therapeutic to forgive and to 00:03:48.32\00:03:56.87 have forgiveness in your heart. Can you imagine what God has 00:03:56.90\00:04:00.17 already given us, now science is realizing how important it is 00:04:00.20\00:04:05.17 So your telling me that at Harvard University, the 00:04:05.21\00:04:08.94 university well known around the world teaches Forgiveness 101? 00:04:08.98\00:04:15.52 (Forgiveness.) Now how long, I mean it doesn't matter how long 00:04:15.55\00:04:17.62 they've been doing it but it's a good thing they're doing it. But 00:04:17.65\00:04:20.72 it is surprising. 00:04:20.76\00:04:22.59 Yes to show the correlation, because our cells at all levels 00:04:22.62\00:04:28.80 receive information. The information that is found in the 00:04:28.83\00:04:33.90 membrane is passed through your DNA so that means if you weren't 00:04:33.94\00:04:40.44 born bitter and you learn how to forgive and the love of God 00:04:40.48\00:04:45.55 comes to your heart there can be a change and those information 00:04:45.58\00:04:50.19 is through what we hear and no wonder. Faith comes from hearing 00:04:50.22\00:04:55.42 and what we hear is from the word of God. When somebody 00:04:55.46\00:04:58.29 finally can forgive and this is very important lesson I've 00:04:58.33\00:05:04.60 learned through our ministry. A lady could not forgive at all 00:05:04.63\00:05:08.14 forgive her mother-in-law and I can understand why because the 00:05:08.17\00:05:15.41 mother-in-law was living with her and she had only one son and 00:05:15.44\00:05:21.98 the one son was like so precious for that mother (of course) 00:05:22.02\00:05:27.32 so exactly. And in her culture she wanted to cook for her son 00:05:27.36\00:05:33.19 and then she would at times remove the food from the table 00:05:33.23\00:05:36.46 and say that's not how my son would want it and that woman for 00:05:36.50\00:05:39.83 eight years could not have children. 00:05:39.87\00:05:41.70 Okay, I'm sorry Dr. Gracia. You know what I think. I think that 00:05:41.74\00:05:45.37 Harvard needs to be teaching also Mother-In-Law 101. 00:05:45.41\00:05:51.35 (Laughter) How's that? 00:05:51.38\00:05:52.81 Yes, it all comes to the forgive- ness and acceptance. 00:05:52.85\00:05:56.48 And this person that story really impacted us. 00:05:56.52\00:06:01.02 Yes! This woman could not have kids for eight years. 00:06:01.06\00:06:04.79 No children for eight years. And nothing was wrong 00:06:04.83\00:06:08.53 with her body, until she went to that specific person who was a 00:06:08.56\00:06:17.04 psychologist and also a Christian to just try and find 00:06:17.07\00:06:23.55 out diagnose what is happening with your soul because when it 00:06:23.58\00:06:27.25 well with your soul everything else will happen because we are 00:06:27.28\00:06:30.92 are spiritual beings no matter what. (Right, yes, that's right) 00:06:30.95\00:06:34.52 We were created in the image of God and if the spirit is not 00:06:34.56\00:06:38.19 right other things...because there's that psychosomatic 00:06:38.23\00:06:44.00 effect where the spirit and... What happened is when they found 00:06:44.03\00:06:50.11 out...She said I'm not happy at home. I hate my mother-in-law. 00:06:50.14\00:06:53.61 Okay, Pastor, I mean Dr. Gracia I'm going to stop you right 00:06:53.64\00:06:57.25 right there. I want the 00:06:57.28\00:06:59.38 viewers to join us in prayer. We already started this just 00:06:59.41\00:07:05.32 giving them a little taste or a tease of what we're going to be 00:07:05.35\00:07:09.56 discussing during this hour. And surely you at home might have 00:07:09.59\00:07:13.13 already connected with the topic because it is a challenge to 00:07:13.16\00:07:19.03 have a unified family, healthy family, healthy environment so 00:07:19.07\00:07:24.24 you're going to teach us a lot of tips during this hour and God 00:07:24.27\00:07:28.54 bless you, for what you do. I am blessed already by listening as 00:07:28.58\00:07:33.62 I long to be the ideal mother- in-law for my daughters-in-law 00:07:33.65\00:07:38.15 whenever my children are married So how about if we just take a 00:07:38.19\00:07:42.16 moment. Let's pray. How's that? And I'm going to ask you to pray 00:07:42.19\00:07:45.96 for our viewers that are watching this program so that 00:07:45.99\00:07:49.80 the Lord will just open your hearts and your minds, your ears 00:07:49.83\00:07:53.77 and that we could have a teachable spirit okay thank you. 00:07:53.80\00:07:58.71 Our mighty heavenly Father, we come to your holy presence (yes) 00:07:58.74\00:08:04.15 You ask us to forgive just like you forgave us. In the name of 00:08:04.18\00:08:10.15 Jesus, we ask that the Holy Spirit may be in every home, 00:08:10.19\00:08:15.09 every heart. We know it's not easy but do your work. You 00:08:15.12\00:08:23.06 promise that we can do all things through you and we do 00:08:23.10\00:08:28.24 understand we cannot be saved unless we forgive those who have 00:08:28.27\00:08:34.54 hurt us. May your Holy Spirit be with us now. In the name of 00:08:34.58\00:08:39.08 Jesus, we pray Amen. 00:08:39.11\00:08:43.35 This is wonderful. This hour is going to go by really fast. 00:08:43.39\00:08:46.19 (really fast) so we're going to bring ourselves now toward 00:08:46.22\00:08:48.92 this blessing, Um 00:08:48.96\00:08:50.49 Dr. Gracia, we also have a prayer in song and we'd like to 00:08:50.53\00:08:56.46 take that pause at this time. We'd like to invite you viewers 00:08:56.50\00:09:00.54 to meditate in this message in song And this is brought to you 00:09:00.57\00:09:05.17 by Jayme Stabol and that song is entitled My Jesus I Love Thee. 00:09:05.21\00:09:11.65 ¤ ¤ Piano Solo My Jesus I Love Thee. 00:09:11.68\00:09:34.07 ¤ ¤ 00:09:34.10\00:11:45.90 Thank you young Jayme Stabol for that introduction of 00:11:45.93\00:11:57.01 My Jesus I Love Thee. God bless you and continue using you to 00:11:57.05\00:12:01.25 minister the hearts of all the listeners. Radio listeners, 3ABN 00:12:01.28\00:12:06.99 radio and also 3ABN viewers. Friends as you already know the 00:12:07.02\00:12:11.19 topic today is about reconciliation and we have 00:12:11.23\00:12:15.16 Dr. Nathanael Gracia with us and he is the founder of Grace 00:12:15.20\00:12:20.87 Connection Family Ministry. So we're going to continue. I know 00:12:20.90\00:12:26.07 I left you on a cliff hanger so please Dr. Gracia let's continue 00:12:26.11\00:12:30.08 For those who've just joined us just briefly (summarize) 00:12:30.11\00:12:34.38 summarize. 00:12:34.42\00:12:35.75 Okay this is a married woman who is willing to have family and 00:12:35.78\00:12:42.42 cannot have children and they could not find out why. And a 00:12:42.46\00:12:47.63 Christian psychologist started to inquire to find out to 00:12:47.66\00:12:52.57 diagnose what's the issue. Physically everything was okay. 00:12:52.60\00:12:56.14 But as mentioned earlier there is a very good connection 00:12:56.17\00:13:00.08 between the spirit and the body. Psychosomatic reality of our 00:13:00.11\00:13:05.45 being. And as the Christian psychologist diagnosed that at 00:13:05.48\00:13:11.35 home she had that anger issue, that hatred. Because we 00:13:11.39\00:13:15.92 need love to 00:13:15.96\00:13:17.73 function (Yes) And he discovered she could not have 00:13:17.76\00:13:24.67 any children because of that constant hatred and anger and 00:13:24.70\00:13:30.97 indifference in her heart. And he asked her, he said, Okay I 00:13:31.01\00:13:36.18 see the problem. Your mother-in- law is the problem. So that 00:13:36.21\00:13:39.38 would be a monster-in-law you could say. The best way to kill 00:13:39.41\00:13:44.49 the monster is to love the monster. It's no longer a 00:13:44.52\00:13:46.86 monster. It becomes now a toy. That's it. Now she was assigned 00:13:46.89\00:13:53.29 to go and every day to say I love you Mom, not even mother- 00:13:53.33\00:13:58.93 in-law. Not to call her by her name, not to say I love you 00:13:58.97\00:14:02.04 Idalia but to say I love you mom 00:14:02.07\00:14:04.27 Wow! And not even I love Mrs... 00:14:04.31\00:14:07.38 So and so. No that would not work. And she has to call her 00:14:07.41\00:14:14.82 mom and to do it continually. She came back to the office and 00:14:14.85\00:14:19.05 said, It was hard! It was difficult. And then he said 00:14:19.09\00:14:24.69 Continue. And as she continued when she would move away the 00:14:24.73\00:14:29.43 food she would not cook and say I want you to taste it first 00:14:29.46\00:14:32.77 because you are the best cook in the house. Taste it to see if 00:14:32.80\00:14:36.64 your son will like it if it is according to your taste. And 00:14:36.67\00:14:41.01 then she would feel so flattered And then she put herself in the 00:14:41.04\00:14:46.08 mom's shoes who had the one child and she said what if now 00:14:46.11\00:14:49.38 I cannot have any kids. I can understand when I finally have a 00:14:49.42\00:14:54.02 child. If it is a son. Oh I'm going to be protective, etc. and 00:14:54.06\00:14:57.86 she finally forgave her and guess what without realizing 00:14:57.89\00:15:02.86 after three months she started to speak because she became 00:15:02.90\00:15:07.04 pregnant. (Wow) She had her child because as I was 00:15:07.07\00:15:11.47 mentioning about the cells, we get our information and it goes 00:15:11.51\00:15:14.64 to the nucleus of our cells and the information that can 00:15:14.68\00:15:21.28 transform even what was there before. So what happens 00:15:21.32\00:15:25.92 physically to us when we don't forgive is that every energy we 00:15:25.95\00:15:30.29 have going to the cells is now concentrated to fight and flight 00:15:30.33\00:15:35.13 that reaction of fight or flight it's always into now resistance 00:15:35.16\00:15:41.27 instead of producing. And that's how cancer can even 00:15:41.30\00:15:45.97 happen. So we can heal ourself with forgiveness and she could 00:15:46.01\00:15:50.71 now have a child because she started to forgive. Nothing was 00:15:50.75\00:15:54.88 changed in her diet but just the mental diet. So no wonder God 00:15:54.92\00:16:01.09 emphasized in the Bible and emphasized it in a way that we 00:16:01.12\00:16:04.43 never considered it that way. You and I, we cannot be saved 00:16:04.46\00:16:07.96 if we don't forgive. (That's true) And we say lightly, we 00:16:08.00\00:16:12.50 say oh maybe it's an opinion. No, we bring a condemnation 00:16:12.53\00:16:17.24 onto ourselves when we say the Lord's prayer. 00:16:17.27\00:16:21.08 What do you say in your Lord's prayer? 00:16:21.11\00:16:23.41 Forgive as we forgive... And how do we forgive? 00:16:23.45\00:16:27.35 We forgive with condition, if you don't do it again. If you 00:16:27.38\00:16:31.25 ask me to forgive you. If you stay in your lane. But how God 00:16:31.29\00:16:36.59 forgive us and now we are condemning ourselves saying 00:16:36.62\00:16:39.96 Forgive us as we forgive and that same verse went further 00:16:40.00\00:16:43.97 If you don't forgive and I'm talking to someone here, If you 00:16:44.00\00:16:47.50 don't forgive says the word the Father in heaven will not 00:16:47.54\00:16:51.84 forgive you. If you forgive then you will be forgiven. Can I be 00:16:51.87\00:16:55.81 saved without forgiveness? It is okay for me to sin where I'm 00:16:55.84\00:17:00.78 being okay. It's not okay to sin But we understand that we are 00:17:00.82\00:17:03.39 sinners, we will sin. But if I'm now not forgiven, this is very 00:17:03.42\00:17:08.96 powerful. We have all sinned and come short of the glory of God. 00:17:08.99\00:17:14.13 Now if I'm not forgiven I cannot make it to the kingdom. Now my 00:17:14.16\00:17:19.43 forgiveness has to now go with the forgiveness I give unto my 00:17:19.47\00:17:25.11 boss who did something wrong to me. And now he doesn't even know 00:17:25.14\00:17:28.71 he hurt me. He is going to make it to the kingdom because he 00:17:28.74\00:17:33.52 asked God to forgive him but I'm still holding that grudge and I 00:17:33.55\00:17:37.49 miss the mark, I miss heaven because I did not let go of my 00:17:37.52\00:17:41.42 spouse or of my child or of my father, of my mother, I did not 00:17:41.46\00:17:48.53 forgive that person. And we don't put enough attention while 00:17:48.56\00:17:52.90 we are thinking about other things, thinking about this and 00:17:52.93\00:17:55.34 that and we get so distracted while there's a curse 00:17:55.37\00:17:58.61 on the land. A curse. 00:17:58.64\00:18:00.58 I want to mention to you that holding a grudge and resolving 00:18:02.58\00:18:08.78 the problem is not something that families, that I know of 00:18:08.82\00:18:13.49 anyway. How do you dialogue about forgiveness in the home? 00:18:13.52\00:18:20.10 How do you dialogue about getting to the point of 00:18:20.13\00:18:24.40 discussing and feeling comfortable that here's a 00:18:24.43\00:18:29.07 problem we need to talk about this. We need to resolve it. 00:18:29.10\00:18:30.94 This is not easy because our human reaction, as you know, 00:18:30.97\00:18:35.11 when we are stressed. We're under stress, because this 00:18:35.14\00:18:38.15 caused conflict and conflict causes stress. (Right) Because 00:18:38.18\00:18:41.85 always the first two answers, flight or fight usually is the 00:18:41.88\00:18:46.49 fight and we have conflict in the language There's a beef. And 00:18:46.52\00:18:52.86 then the other thing is the flight whereby the person...I'm 00:18:52.89\00:18:56.36 moving out. I'm not staying in your presence whether within a 00:18:56.40\00:18:58.80 marital relationship or the family relationship, that's what 00:18:58.83\00:19:02.44 usually happens. We need that entity. That's why church is 00:19:02.47\00:19:06.98 important. Church will be the catalyst will help, will usher 00:19:07.01\00:19:11.45 you to that discussion. Usually even before communion they 00:19:11.48\00:19:17.02 mention the other, that text is put out of context. It's 00:19:17.05\00:19:19.22 every time you bring your offering to the altar. People 00:19:19.25\00:19:22.02 usually think it's when we have communion we have to do that. 00:19:22.06\00:19:24.53 You need that outside influence to make it happen but without 00:19:24.56\00:19:32.53 that it's not easy. If you do have family reunion a parent 00:19:32.57\00:19:37.77 could entertain that and say is there something that needs to be 00:19:37.81\00:19:41.94 spoken about but the pride of parents usually keeps them 00:19:41.98\00:19:46.51 silent. You should have known I've done my best and your best 00:19:46.55\00:19:50.92 usually is what has hurt me because you give what you have 00:19:50.95\00:19:54.36 and your best was what was hurting me. In your pride, it's 00:19:54.39\00:19:58.99 not an easy thing. We need the Holy Spirit. It is a gift of God 00:19:59.03\00:20:03.63 Definitely we need to be humble as well. Humility you know that 00:20:03.67\00:20:08.90 should be able to resolve issues in the home. Now a Grace 00:20:08.94\00:20:14.14 Connection Family Ministry has helped many, many homes because 00:20:14.18\00:20:21.05 you travel throughout the world and you give seminars. You also 00:20:21.08\00:20:25.52 speak French. You are on 3ABN Frances. I used to speak French 00:20:25.55\00:20:31.29 but anyway I'm not going to even try it right now. 00:20:31.33\00:20:33.76 I forgive you. (Laughter) 00:20:33.80\00:20:35.13 French phrase. Oui, Oui. So yes this is definitely an important 00:20:35.16\00:20:42.87 topic that we as family members need to develop a good habit 00:20:42.90\00:20:47.94 of having a discussion about how we're going to deal with the 00:20:47.98\00:20:55.62 differences in the family. Now based on the example that you 00:20:55.65\00:21:00.39 placed...It was a real case. The only son brings his mother to 00:21:00.42\00:21:08.63 live with his new bride in his new home and the mother wants to 00:21:08.66\00:21:15.67 tend to her son. And I can see she wants her son to be happy 00:21:15.70\00:21:18.97 and do everything for him. She's done it for him all his life but 00:21:19.01\00:21:23.71 then also now there's the bride that needed to...Was she fleeing 00:21:23.75\00:21:30.95 She was fighting. There's that passive aggressive reaction when 00:21:30.99\00:21:38.19 we are fighting, resisting. And that's where the energy in the 00:21:38.23\00:21:40.43 body, in the soul, because your soul is your body and your 00:21:40.46\00:21:44.53 spirit. When a soul is in a fighting mood the energy is no 00:21:44.57\00:21:48.67 longer there. You're no longer creative, you're no longer 00:21:48.70\00:21:51.27 progressing and all these things affect you so you don't move 00:21:51.31\00:21:56.61 forward. You take the lower road and sometimes we don't even know 00:21:56.64\00:22:00.82 we are doing it. And my example when this ministry was going 00:22:00.85\00:22:07.56 around it was in Jamaica that happened and there was a father 00:22:07.59\00:22:11.36 who could not forgive actually it's a son could not forgive his 00:22:11.39\00:22:18.43 own father. He was 74 years old. After I presented the message of 00:22:18.47\00:22:22.84 forgiveness and I said you have to forgive to go to heaven and I 00:22:22.87\00:22:29.38 read the text and I said my Father in heaven will not 00:22:29.41\00:22:32.51 forgive you if you don't forgive others. And then he asked me a 00:22:32.55\00:22:35.18 very difficult question. He said to me, Pastor, you're way 00:22:35.22\00:22:39.05 younger than I am, I'm 73, I could be your father. But I need 00:22:39.09\00:22:44.06 your help here. After that topic that challenged me and 00:22:44.09\00:22:47.56 you say that we 00:22:47.60\00:22:48.93 have to forgive like God has forgiven us in Christ. And then 00:22:48.96\00:22:55.07 he said my father is dead but I cannot forgive him. And I said 00:22:55.10\00:22:59.01 why? He said he started to beat my brother. My brother was 19, I 00:22:59.04\00:23:05.25 was 17. When he was beating him so hard and I was crying because 00:23:05.28\00:23:08.55 he beat him for over five hours. He tied him somewhere and he 00:23:08.58\00:23:15.42 found a way to cut that rope and he left the house. When he left 00:23:15.46\00:23:20.43 the house, now I'm 74. I've never seen my brother ever. 00:23:20.46\00:23:23.67 (Wow) My father died. I hate my father. Those were his words. 00:23:23.70\00:23:29.77 And until today I know that I cannot allow that hatred to make 00:23:29.80\00:23:34.68 to prevent me from being saved because it's sure Pastor, it's 00:23:34.71\00:23:39.15 sure. I won't be saved. And people don't understand that. 00:23:39.18\00:23:42.15 You understand that. Your salvation is at stake right 00:23:42.18\00:23:47.06 there with that thing about forgiveness. And Satan gets us 00:23:47.09\00:23:51.99 so busy talking about every other things, but that is 00:23:52.03\00:23:57.70 important. This is so crucial. And that's why in Malachi 4 00:23:57.73\00:24:02.30 verse 6 and I want you to read this with me. And he will turn 00:24:02.34\00:24:06.74 the hearts of the fathers to the children and the hearts of the 00:24:06.78\00:24:11.98 children to the fathers lest I come and strike the earth with a 00:24:12.01\00:24:17.79 curse. (Wow) And that curse is that when we are not whole, when 00:24:17.82\00:24:24.03 we are not complete we cannot produce a healthy family, a 00:24:24.06\00:24:29.96 healthy environment. And this man will change my life because 00:24:30.00\00:24:33.00 after we prayed and I told you Idalia, we cannot have 00:24:33.03\00:24:38.91 forgiveness 00:24:38.94\00:24:40.34 without the Holy Spirit. (That's right) It is a gift of God. And 00:24:40.38\00:24:43.14 I went on my knees with him and I said let's pray. And I said, 00:24:43.18\00:24:47.98 God may the Holy Spirit come now and give him the gift of 00:24:48.02\00:24:52.85 forgiveness if we ask for that. Because the gift of love we can 00:24:52.89\00:24:56.99 receive it. You cannot love without forgiveness. You have to 00:24:57.03\00:25:03.26 forgive and now he started to cry. He wept on his knees with 00:25:03.30\00:25:07.37 me. And he said I feel light. He said, Pastor, I am free I feel 00:25:07.40\00:25:13.27 light. I am light. I forgive the memory of that pain. And he 00:25:13.31\00:25:18.95 hugged me. Now on my way from that seminar watch this. The 00:25:18.98\00:25:23.62 Holy Spirit spoke to me and said Nathanael, why you just helped 00:25:23.65\00:25:28.62 someone to be free and your own father, you have not forgiven. 00:25:28.66\00:25:32.66 Because my father left my house while I was still in the womb. 00:25:32.69\00:25:37.23 I have never met him. I never met him until I was 12. When I 00:25:37.27\00:25:41.70 met him at 12 it was just for 30 minutes. And then the next time 00:25:41.74\00:25:46.31 I will hear from him it was... This is something God wants to 00:25:46.34\00:25:51.28 remove that curse, that curse that is spoken of in Malachi 4 00:25:51.31\00:25:56.18 verse 6. While I'm driving back it was a four hour journey. I'm 00:25:56.22\00:26:01.36 coming from Montego Bay driving back, now the Holy Spirit said 00:26:01.39\00:26:09.53 you set this man free through Me, but what about you? Have you 00:26:09.56\00:26:14.17 forgiven your father. I said, I don't hate my father. He said, 00:26:14.20\00:26:16.67 No, I don't want that indifference because 00:26:16.71\00:26:19.91 guess what the opposite of love is not hatred. You cannot see 00:26:19.94\00:26:26.51 hatred. You see indifference because I was indifferent. I 00:26:26.55\00:26:29.15 could not even call him Dad. I always call him by the name my 00:26:29.18\00:26:34.09 mother used to complain about the person who left us, 00:26:34.12\00:26:36.83 who abandoned us. He bought houses for all the children. He 00:26:36.86\00:26:41.66 was living in Canada, I was in Haiti. And then He said, you 00:26:41.70\00:26:46.53 have not let go of that and I started to cry. And watch this. 00:26:46.57\00:26:51.61 As I reached the house, I was living in a new home, nobody 00:26:51.64\00:26:56.58 knew my phone number, I don't know how he got it, through who. 00:26:56.61\00:26:59.95 The phone rang, it was the time, it was not cell phone time, it 00:26:59.98\00:27:03.15 the time of house phone. And as I reached I put my luggage, I 00:27:03.18\00:27:09.46 was still crying, my eyes were still red (and the phone is 00:27:09.49\00:27:14.10 ringing) the phone is ringing. Guess who is calling? My father. 00:27:14.13\00:27:16.53 After about 18 years I have 00:27:16.56\00:27:20.34 not seen the man, talking to him He said it makes me feel warm 00:27:20.37\00:27:26.57 in my heart to hear your voice my son. And notice that guy said 00:27:26.61\00:27:34.62 I was not his. And now it's because the Holy Spirit hit me 00:27:34.65\00:27:38.75 at that same time and said, You have to let go. But what I did 00:27:38.79\00:27:42.09 not tell you on my way in that same bus, on that bus, I said 00:27:42.12\00:27:47.60 God have your way. He said if you want my way say in your 00:27:47.63\00:27:51.30 heart, I love you Dad. I said, no, I can say I love you Niquel 00:27:51.33\00:27:54.60 which is his first name but I cannot go and say I love you Dad 00:27:54.64\00:27:58.31 And He said you have to let go. And then I let go. I cried the 00:27:58.34\00:28:02.21 most and I said I love you Dad. And that was the result. So the 00:28:02.24\00:28:06.08 Holy Spirit united our hearts at that time and that was the 00:28:06.11\00:28:10.12 defining moment for me to know God is behind that thing. 00:28:10.15\00:28:15.16 God wants it. I could not have started a family. I could not 00:28:15.19\00:28:17.26 relate to my own son today if that did not happen. We need... 00:28:17.29\00:28:21.53 Because you give what you have And guess what, now when I go 00:28:21.56\00:28:25.70 to seminars or preach in Canada, as you know we travel around the 00:28:25.73\00:28:29.54 world with this ministry, guess who is in the audience proud to 00:28:29.57\00:28:33.34 say, this is my son and we are taking pictures every time. For 00:28:33.38\00:28:37.81 my birthday, every new year we talk and we talk and I love him 00:28:37.85\00:28:42.28 and if you are listening now Dad, I love you, and it's all in 00:28:42.32\00:28:46.72 the past and God has turned my heart to love you and to cherish 00:28:46.76\00:28:52.89 everything I have and this has marked my ministry and 00:28:52.93\00:28:56.40 it has been going 00:28:56.43\00:28:57.90 around the world with that ministry of reconciliation. 00:28:57.93\00:29:00.14 When you shared the story about the monster-in-law you know, I 00:29:00.17\00:29:08.41 thought mmm let me ask Dr. Gracia did he ever have a moment 00:29:08.44\00:29:13.18 when he had to learn to forgive somebody, if you had been hurt. 00:29:13.21\00:29:18.95 And just now you just shared that. So from experience because 00:29:18.99\00:29:24.26 textually we can share so many things, right? But when it's 00:29:24.29\00:29:29.43 experienced it's a totally different level, a totally 00:29:29.46\00:29:32.47 different level. 00:29:32.50\00:29:33.84 And deeper than that is that sometimes you don't even know 00:29:33.87\00:29:36.44 you hold grudges. You think that mutually God is not with that. 00:29:36.47\00:29:40.58 It's when you can say literally I love you and how do you know 00:29:40.61\00:29:44.05 you love that person. When you can pray for all the blessings 00:29:44.08\00:29:47.42 for that person. (Amen) Not the type of prayers of David, God go 00:29:47.45\00:29:50.72 get them for me, no not those David prayers. The prayers what 00:29:50.75\00:29:55.09 you want for yourself, for your own family, for your children, 00:29:55.12\00:29:58.59 for that same enemy, that same person who hurt you, can you 00:29:58.63\00:30:02.86 pray genuinely. Not because you want oh if I pray for that 00:30:02.90\00:30:07.94 person and I will get whatever I pray for him. (Right) No, no, no 00:30:07.97\00:30:11.61 not even for you. That blessing you receive, that's when you 00:30:11.64\00:30:15.64 know you have forgiven. When you can do that, when you can 00:30:15.68\00:30:21.12 genuinely say I love you. Because we have been riding on 00:30:21.15\00:30:24.95 neutral and neutral is I don't hate him but I have nothing to 00:30:24.99\00:30:28.39 do with him. God said you have to love even your enemy. There's 00:30:28.42\00:30:32.33 room even if your spouse is a pain in your life God says even 00:30:32.36\00:30:39.50 to love your enemy. So we are so comfortable to say that I 00:30:39.53\00:30:43.87 don't have anything against him but that's indifference. Because 00:30:43.91\00:30:47.54 if you just say, I don't hate him, if he has a need I will do 00:30:47.58\00:30:52.15 something. What is your word? If he has a need. That means I'm 00:30:52.18\00:30:56.42 over there so I'm the better person. I will condescend and 00:30:56.45\00:31:00.52 help him. No! no, no, no. You have to even the person who has 00:31:00.56\00:31:04.26 hurt, and that's why the verse says if someone has something 00:31:04.29\00:31:09.73 against you, you go to him. You don't have to be in that 00:31:09.76\00:31:13.13 position where, okay, you hurt me, I'm the better person and 00:31:13.17\00:31:19.31 I'm condescending to you. No, no no. It's about to let go and let 00:31:19.34\00:31:23.35 God and just like Christ did it He became just like us and 00:31:23.38\00:31:28.32 through the incarnation we see the best act of humility and of 00:31:28.35\00:31:34.09 love and of forgiveness. And that's very important. 00:31:34.12\00:31:36.96 Amen Hallelujah. That's beautiful. You know all this is 00:31:36.99\00:31:40.66 truth being spoken but it is so difficult to do because we're 00:31:40.70\00:31:45.63 prideful. You know pride keeps us from accepting that we've 00:31:45.67\00:31:49.14 done wrong, from accepting you know I'm the one that needs to 00:31:49.17\00:31:53.21 go and take that step, the first step. No, let them come to me, 00:31:53.24\00:31:56.85 they offended me, they know what they did. Or you know, I don't 00:31:56.88\00:32:02.05 hate them but they can just stay in their lane and I'll stay in 00:32:02.08\00:32:05.49 my lane, right? 00:32:05.52\00:32:07.29 And I don't hate them and that's the temptation. At that time the 00:32:07.32\00:32:10.33 energy and I'm not into New Age when I say energy. I'm talking 00:32:10.36\00:32:15.50 about the love that we need to...And God...Why would you 00:32:15.53\00:32:21.64 think 1 Corinthians 13 says even if you give your body to be 00:32:21.67\00:32:24.51 burned, burning is a terrible thing. So even if you would burn 00:32:24.54\00:32:30.11 that means you still don't love. What it means by that? You can 00:32:30.15\00:32:36.45 still do things out of duty but your heart is not in it. So if 00:32:36.48\00:32:42.46 your heart is not in it it's because you have not forgiven 00:32:42.49\00:32:45.33 So you are nothing. So it's nothing even if you burn 00:32:45.36\00:32:49.43 yourself or something just for the cause or he's my husband, 00:32:49.46\00:32:54.94 she's my wife, had to do it, yeah, my children, your heart is 00:32:54.97\00:32:57.64 not in it. You're praying I could get out of it. God says I 00:32:57.67\00:33:02.94 want your soul, God wants all of you to say yes, just like Jesus 00:33:02.98\00:33:07.08 said yes forgive them. At that point He was saying I love you 00:33:07.12\00:33:11.25 that same words that did not accept me, I love you just as 00:33:11.29\00:33:16.42 you are. 00:33:16.46\00:33:17.93 And the past is the past. 00:33:17.96\00:33:19.29 Exactly. It's not easy, but when the Holy Spirit comes to you 00:33:19.33\00:33:23.20 that's why if you want to forgive, I'm talking to you now, 00:33:23.23\00:33:26.03 you've got to be specific and say God give me that heart to 00:33:26.07\00:33:30.57 forgive. And there's a way to... Some of us may need some 00:33:30.61\00:33:35.51 conditions. You maybe want somebody to come and ask you for 00:33:35.54\00:33:38.88 forgiveness so you can forgive. Pray about it. Be specific in 00:33:38.91\00:33:44.65 your prayers. Ask God, God can you show him how the hurt has 00:33:44.69\00:33:50.19 reached to me. Because some people don't even see it. Maybe 00:33:50.23\00:33:54.23 they may go to the barbershop. Or they may go to some other 00:33:54.26\00:34:00.97 program or watching a show and somebody say Oh that's how I 00:34:01.00\00:34:04.24 hurt the person. And if that is important to you but you don't 00:34:04.27\00:34:07.21 need the person to ask you for forgiveness in order to forgive. 00:34:07.24\00:34:11.41 I'm going to share your website We're going take time later on 00:34:11.45\00:34:15.32 in the program. We just have a few minutes left but your 00:34:15.35\00:34:18.95 website is GraceConnectionFamily.org 00:34:18.99\00:34:24.19 and they can just navigate your website and also contact you 00:34:24.23\00:34:27.23 through that. Because we want to empower our friends, our 00:34:27.26\00:34:34.10 neighbors, ourselves and this is our resource that the Lord has 00:34:34.14\00:34:38.47 provided through your ministry Your ministry Grace Connection 00:34:38.51\00:34:43.01 grew out of you serving some elders of the church, yes, 00:34:43.04\00:34:49.98 pastors of the church recognizing that just because 00:34:50.02\00:34:53.25 you are a pastor does not mean that you're not hurting. So you 00:34:53.29\00:34:58.23 tended to the hurt, you tended to those pastors to try to bring 00:34:58.26\00:35:02.53 reconciliation in those homes. And probably there were ill 00:35:02.56\00:35:09.00 congregations because if the home is not healthy nothing is 00:35:09.04\00:35:12.61 healthy right in your circle of influence. So you were impressed 00:35:12.64\00:35:18.61 by the Lord to found this Grace Connection Ministry. So now 00:35:18.65\00:35:26.29 we've talked about the in-laws the son, the daughter-in-law 00:35:26.32\00:35:28.02 we talked about a daughter, we talked about a father, how they 00:35:28.06\00:35:34.53 reconciled. Sometimes we do need to talk about those real life 00:35:34.56\00:35:41.47 points like forgiveness or hurt and problems before we can even 00:35:41.50\00:35:47.84 understand the seminars you were trying to give about the final 00:35:47.88\00:35:54.58 events. So let not anything exist between me and the Lord. 00:35:54.62\00:36:00.36 So that is a stumbling block, if you will. This is how I'm seeing 00:36:00.39\00:36:05.19 it or digesting this. That was a stumbling block for this family 00:36:05.23\00:36:10.43 but once that block was moved and the distraction was taken 00:36:10.47\00:36:15.90 not to undermine that. That is a very valid thing to go through 00:36:15.94\00:36:21.11 But there is a life to come. We are not of this world, pilgrims 00:36:21.14\00:36:29.18 in this world. So we are getting ready for the world to come. 00:36:29.22\00:36:32.89 So thank you very much for sharing the importance of 00:36:32.92\00:36:39.19 accepting I'm hurt and I need help and I want to be reconciled 00:36:39.23\00:36:45.60 So now what is the next step? 00:36:45.63\00:36:48.44 After you do that you have to, by faith now, act on it. You 00:36:48.47\00:36:56.04 become a new person as God taught you but now you have to 00:36:56.08\00:36:59.78 give a chance. It's the application. This is how we 00:36:59.81\00:37:05.35 apply turn the other cheek, to be vulnerable. There is a level 00:37:05.39\00:37:09.26 of vulnerability, we have to do. If you risk nothing, you have 00:37:09.29\00:37:15.26 nothing. The seed for every relationship is forgiveness 00:37:15.30\00:37:20.24 because we will hurt each other. Especially in the marriage 00:37:20.27\00:37:23.54 relationship. And we have couples who say I would never 00:37:23.57\00:37:26.44 forgive her, I will never forgive him. But when we 00:37:26.47\00:37:29.78 realize...I've had couples, people who cheated on each other 00:37:29.81\00:37:34.25 and they have made it through. And I have one of the best 00:37:34.28\00:37:41.52 stories through this ministry. I don't want to call the name but 00:37:41.56\00:37:44.76 that person lives in America. After a very terrible hurt 00:37:44.79\00:37:48.30 recurring pain and guess what happened. I was teaching in 00:37:48.33\00:37:53.23 Orlando, Florida through that same ministry and it was about 00:37:53.27\00:37:56.00 forgiveness. And somebody who divorced their husband two years 00:37:56.04\00:38:00.78 after and God has blessed us. We have had to remarry seven 00:38:00.81\00:38:05.75 couples. That's perfection. Ohh! Praise the Lord! 00:38:05.78\00:38:08.55 And I want that to help us to continue to add more. And this 00:38:08.58\00:38:11.45 couple is not even added to the list. What the wife said...I was 00:38:11.49\00:38:20.10 teaching on the Hosea story and I said there will be always a 00:38:20.13\00:38:25.17 Gomer in your life, someone who does not deserve your love. 00:38:25.20\00:38:28.20 But go and get that person back. And I was saying some may not 00:38:28.24\00:38:33.71 be the Gomer. It could be go get your Gomer because that was what 00:38:33.74\00:38:39.95 God did in that story, that Hosea, to go back for her after 00:38:39.98\00:38:49.69 all she did. And usually, this is what happens? People pity us 00:38:49.72\00:38:54.10 and say, oh you don't deserve that, let her go or let him go. 00:38:54.13\00:38:57.33 After all you have done. That's the vulnerability that is 00:38:57.37\00:39:00.54 needed. And we did the very same thing to Christ. And God wants 00:39:00.57\00:39:05.31 us to do that and that person who hurt you that much is 00:39:05.34\00:39:10.38 damaged and in the story of Jacob and Esau, Esau could only 00:39:10.41\00:39:17.32 forgive when he could see the brother the way God saw him. You 00:39:17.35\00:39:22.06 need to ask God to help you see the person as God sees the person who hurt you 00:39:22.09\00:39:27.06 And how God sees the person is a damaged person. When Jacob 00:39:27.10\00:39:30.83 could reveal himself as broken. That's what the angel did when 00:39:30.87\00:39:35.84 that part was broken and he was walking in a way crippled and he 00:39:35.87\00:39:41.88 said but that man is crippled. I cannot fight him. So it's the 00:39:41.91\00:39:45.31 same thing. Emotionally you're dealing with somebody who is 00:39:45.35\00:39:48.08 crippled, somebody with damage. Somebody who has a handicap. 00:39:48.12\00:39:51.59 So how could you resist that? You just have to love that and 00:39:51.62\00:39:55.79 accept that. And guess what? That lady after two years of a 00:39:55.82\00:40:00.80 divorce heard that tape and just went...Because I have also a 00:40:00.83\00:40:05.13 YouTube channel this is the same name, Nathanael Gracia, Grace 00:40:05.17\00:40:13.14 Connection...and she was watching it on YouTube and said 00:40:13.17\00:40:17.45 I have to reconcile. And they got remarried over. So God has 00:40:17.48\00:40:22.92 has blessed us. We have seven couples through this ministry 00:40:22.95\00:40:26.09 who were divorced and one of them for seven years was 00:40:26.12\00:40:29.16 divorced. And then God has brought us. We conduct seminars 00:40:29.19\00:40:34.50 annually. With COVID that was different. We are ready. May God 00:40:34.53\00:40:37.23 forgive us for not doing that. But in person there's something 00:40:37.27\00:40:42.27 and we have one in Georgia, in Atlanta, Georgia this year and 00:40:42.30\00:40:46.71 it's every year the last week of October. I've had people who 00:40:46.74\00:40:51.61 came with their divorce paper to the seminar say since I already 00:40:51.65\00:40:55.92 applied to come I don't want to lose my money, I came. And at 00:40:55.95\00:40:58.65 the end of the day with tears on the third day they are 00:40:58.69\00:41:03.19 tearing up in my presence the divorce papers because they 00:41:03.22\00:41:07.36 realize it was bigger than the marriage, it was about them, 00:41:07.40\00:41:10.73 about God and them, about them and their God, their salvation. 00:41:10.77\00:41:16.04 This is what God wants so we can remove that curse that would 00:41:16.07\00:41:20.81 create that emptiness in the life of the children. And 00:41:20.84\00:41:24.01 sometimes people say if I'm suffering I have to be happy. 00:41:24.05\00:41:27.45 Who said you have to be happy? You need to live with purpose. 00:41:27.48\00:41:32.62 With the meaning, we were created for holiness. We were 00:41:32.65\00:41:36.26 not created for my own fulfillment. Show me, somebody 00:41:36.29\00:41:39.36 who is about his own fulfillment and I will show you somebody who 00:41:39.39\00:41:42.46 is on crack, who is on cocaine, because I'm fulfilled right 00:41:42.50\00:41:45.80 there. But somebody who will say I will delay that gratification. 00:41:45.83\00:41:50.57 I will forgive now. Guess what? You will reap the reward of 00:41:50.61\00:41:55.88 being saved and that peace that passeth all understanding, 00:41:55.91\00:41:59.88 because you would have missed heaven because you choose not to 00:41:59.91\00:42:05.35 benefit from that. Because your own forgiveness has a condition 00:42:05.39\00:42:09.62 and it's so simple. Not simplistic. I have to let love 00:42:09.66\00:42:14.33 fill my heart. Because we cannot live without love. And another 00:42:14.36\00:42:18.97 time we'll talk about the power of love. It's bigger than that 00:42:19.00\00:42:23.91 and the signs of love and how love also can heal. It's a 00:42:23.94\00:42:28.54 different topic but we'll talk another time about that. 00:42:28.58\00:42:31.71 This is wonderful. I love the topic. I love the topic of 00:42:31.75\00:42:36.25 family. You've touched a lot of bases. I'm not going to go into 00:42:36.28\00:42:40.09 my story but I did have an experience of a sibling that 00:42:40.12\00:42:45.93 didn't talk to me for 12 years. But I didn't know why but then 00:42:45.96\00:42:51.47 he got sick and he needed a kidney. I'm like well I'm an 00:42:51.50\00:42:54.27 organ donor so he can have my kidney. So lo and behold the 00:42:54.30\00:42:58.74 Lord blessed and you know I said no strings attached. You can 00:42:58.77\00:43:03.08 have the kidney. So he had the kidney. So you know we all have 00:43:03.11\00:43:07.75 our own journey. But we not all seek the help that we need. 00:43:07.78\00:43:12.45 Sometimes it is looked down to seek some professional help 00:43:12.49\00:43:18.73 to help your marriage. Go to a counselor. Oh, we're Christian. 00:43:18.76\00:43:22.43 We're not going to go to a counselor. Go to a psychiatrist 00:43:22.46\00:43:24.13 or go somewhere. Get the help that you need and a lot of times 00:43:24.17\00:43:28.37 we damper it and we put it on the side and say Oh yeah, we 00:43:28.40\00:43:32.74 forgave each other. But again for the next meal you slap the 00:43:32.77\00:43:36.31 slab of problems on the platter you're serving your husband. 00:43:36.34\00:43:39.78 Everything he's done or the wife everything she's done and you 00:43:39.81\00:43:45.72 just keep going back like you know and not getting past that. 00:43:45.75\00:43:51.66 So that is also a problem that we face as human beings. So the 00:43:51.69\00:43:57.00 healing needs to come and it has to be total because the past is 00:43:57.03\00:44:00.70 the past. You cannot have this for a snack or dessert on a 00:44:00.74\00:44:04.61 future day. I mean I'm not the expert but you know that's what 00:44:04.64\00:44:08.11 I'm thinking. 00:44:08.14\00:44:09.48 You're right about that. We have to take action and that action 00:44:09.51\00:44:13.11 needs the power of the Holy Spirit because of the 00:44:13.15\00:44:16.62 knowledge... Knowledge is not wisdom. It's knowledge applied 00:44:16.65\00:44:21.26 that is wisdom If I don't apply it I'm not wise and I went and 00:44:21.29\00:44:26.43 studied psychology. I got a masters degree in counseling 00:44:26.46\00:44:29.30 psychology with family therapy just to heal the wounds like my 00:44:29.33\00:44:33.34 mom that I love dearly. And 3ABN did a tribute for my mother two 00:44:33.37\00:44:38.71 years ago the whole network and I'm so grateful for that. My mom 00:44:38.74\00:44:41.98 passed. I love her so much but when I was growing up I became 00:44:42.01\00:44:46.65 at the age of eight and nine a counselor for my mom because she 00:44:46.68\00:44:51.25 was so much in pain. The pain that my father had inflicted 00:44:51.29\00:44:54.82 through the divorce and how things went and then I developed 00:44:54.86\00:44:59.43 that and then I went to study just to know how to deal with it 00:44:59.46\00:45:03.06 But it did not help. The knowledge did not help 00:45:03.10\00:45:05.83 You need a person. That person is Jesus. And how that person 00:45:05.87\00:45:09.70 can be in your heart to teach you is through the Holy Spirit. 00:45:09.74\00:45:12.71 The Holy Spirit taught me because Jesus is love. 00:45:12.74\00:45:17.78 Definitely, it's love incarnate. When you have Christ in your 00:45:17.81\00:45:21.05 heart through the Holy Spirit you can do it. I can do all 00:45:21.08\00:45:23.89 things through Christ who strengthens me and we doubt Him 00:45:23.92\00:45:27.72 We may have the knowledge but we will still have conflict, we 00:45:27.76\00:45:32.13 will still do the wrong thing but with Jesus in our hearts 00:45:32.16\00:45:37.77 it's possible. I'm saying to you I'm saying to you it's possible. 00:45:37.80\00:45:43.61 You can forgive, you can love again, you can reconcile unless 00:45:43.64\00:45:47.84 the curse come. May love be with you. 00:45:47.88\00:45:50.98 Amen, amen. Thank you, Dr. Nathanael Gracia. He is the 00:45:51.01\00:45:57.19 founder of Grace Connection Family Ministry and we're going 00:45:57.22\00:46:01.12 take a break. We're going to share the contact information 00:46:01.16\00:46:04.66 for his office for his ministry, your ministry. You can recommend 00:46:04.69\00:46:10.03 for your friends to visit that website. If you know a family 00:46:10.07\00:46:14.27 that is struggling and can use some help or maybe you're 00:46:14.30\00:46:19.67 interested in inviting Dr. Gracia to your community 00:46:19.71\00:46:22.34 It doesn't have to be a church, right? It could be a theater 00:46:22.38\00:46:25.28 somewhere and have the whole community come and be blessed. 00:46:25.31\00:46:30.09 Because many people are hurting and we want to present Jesus' 00:46:30.12\00:46:36.36 love, the Healer, and the Maker. So I hope you have something to 00:46:36.39\00:46:41.86 write with. If not, like my husband, John Dinzey says just 00:46:41.90\00:46:45.17 take a picture of the screen and that way you have the contact 00:46:45.20\00:46:49.44 information and you will not lose it. So Dr. Nathanael Gracia 00:46:49.47\00:46:54.68 He is available for seminars anywhere in the world. So, 00:46:54.71\00:47:00.08 please make note of that and have him in mind... presented to 00:47:00.12\00:47:03.85 your church board, so you can have him in your community. We 00:47:03.89\00:47:08.42 will be right back. 00:47:08.46\00:47:10.16 If you would like to contact or know more about Grace Connection 00:47:10.19\00:47:13.16 You can do so in the following ways: You can write to them at 00:47:13.19\00:47:16.60 1301 Shale Way, McDonough, GA 30253. You can call them at 00:47:16.63\00:47:24.77 678-558-5061 You can visit their website at 00:47:24.81\00:47:36.92 GraceConnectionFamily.org or send them an email at 00:47:36.95\00:47:45.29 NathanaelGracia@gmail.com 00:47:45.33\00:47:51.27