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Refugees, Pain and Trauma Dealing with Everyday Li

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00:02 I want to spend my life
00:08 Mending broken people
00:13 I want to spend my life
00:19 Removing pain
00:24 Lord, let my words
00:30 Heal a heart that hurts
00:35 I want to spend my life
00:41 Mending broken people
00:46 I want to spend my life
00:52 Mending broken people
01:11 Hello, I'm Shelley Quinn, and we welcome you
01:13 once again to 3ABN Today.
01:15 And I just want to take this opportunity
01:17 on behalf of all of us to thank you for your love,
01:21 and your prayers, and your financial support
01:23 of this Mending Broken People Network,
01:26 and that's what it's all about.
01:28 You know, Jesus tells us in Matthew 28:19.
01:35 He's saying...
01:36 First He said, "All authority has been given to Me."
01:39 And then He says,
01:40 "Now I'm going to ask you to do something,
01:43 and it's not just a suggestion,
01:44 it's a commandment."
01:46 He says, "Go therefore and make disciples
01:48 of all the nations,
01:50 baptizing them in the name of the Father,
01:52 and the Son, and the Holy Spirit,
01:54 teaching them to observe all things
01:56 that I have commanded you."
01:58 And, you know, we are all called
02:02 to share the good news,
02:04 but we don't have to get out and do it on our own,
02:06 all we've got to do is say, "Lord, empower me,
02:10 fill me with Your Holy Spirit.
02:11 Let me reach out and touch a life today."
02:14 And we have an exciting program,
02:16 I believe, for you today
02:18 because we will be talking about opportunities right here
02:22 if you live in the United States
02:24 or if you're in Australia, any of the developed countries.
02:29 What we are seeing is refugees are coming into our country
02:33 and these people need to be ministered to,
02:36 they need to hear the good news
02:39 of the gospel of salvation by grace
02:42 and be introduced to the one and only God.
02:45 Well, let me introduce to you our special guest.
02:49 First, we have Pastor Bryan Gallant.
02:52 And, Bryan... Hello.
02:53 Thank you so much for returning to 3ABN.
02:56 It's a privilege. Thank you.
02:57 Yes, now you are the refugee ministries coordinator
03:02 for the Iowa-Missouri Conference.
03:05 You know, there's not a whole lot of conferences
03:08 that have refugee ministries, is there?
03:11 No, I'm thrilled to be part of a sisterhood of churches
03:14 that have made that commitment to reaching out to the refugees
03:17 whom God is bringing to us.
03:19 Praise God.
03:20 And we just want to hear how all of this began
03:22 sometime soon, during this hour.
03:26 But, you know, you were here with your wife Penny,
03:29 it's been about two years?
03:30 Two years ago.
03:32 And sharing a personal testimony,
03:36 Bryan has written a book
03:37 called Undeniable: An Epic Journey Through Pain.
03:41 And he and his wife Penny were here telling how,
03:45 in their fifth year of their marriage,
03:47 they were in a tragic accident
03:50 and lost both of their children.
03:52 But God brought you through, not only brought you through,
03:56 you didn't just survive this, you're thriving
04:00 and He's using you in an amazing way.
04:02 So thank you so much for returning to 3ABN.
04:05 Thank you.
04:06 Now next to him, we have two good looking young men.
04:11 And I say that because it's not just the packaging,
04:15 which isn't bad.
04:16 They're single, ladies.
04:18 But they're beautiful on the inside
04:21 because they have the love of Jesus inside of them.
04:24 And first we have Antoine Nsanzimana.
04:29 Did I say it right? Nsanzimana.
04:30 Where are you from, Antoine? I'm from Burundi.
04:32 Burundi, which is Central Africa?
04:34 Yes, ma'am. Okay.
04:35 And you came from a Hindu family,
04:40 a Hindu family.
04:41 Hindu... But you...
04:43 Oh, excuse me, you came...
04:45 Your mother was a Muslim, your father was a Catholic,
04:48 and you were born in a refugee camp, right?
04:49 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am.
04:51 We're going to hear this fascinating story
04:53 in just a minute.
04:54 But also, then we have Philip Dangal.
04:57 And, Philip, you're from Nepal? Yeah, that's right.
05:00 Where are you studying right now?
05:02 And what are you studying?
05:03 Right now I'm studying in Mexico
05:05 in the University of Montemorelos.
05:07 And I'm doing my theology degree.
05:08 A theology degree.
05:10 And only have one more semester before you graduate, right?
05:12 That's right.
05:14 Now you mentioned to me in the greenroom,
05:16 you're interested perhaps in getting your master's degree
05:18 before moving back to Nepal.
05:20 Yeah, I really have a desire and a burden to go back
05:23 and work in Nepal.
05:25 But before that, I would really like
05:26 to achieve my master's degree in this.
05:30 And then go to Nepal.
05:31 Well, glory to God that He has His hand on you...
05:33 on both of you for ministry.
05:36 And you fit into this story today
05:39 because you, when you come,
05:41 anytime that Philip is not in school,
05:44 he comes over here,
05:45 then he ends up volunteering with the refugee ministries,
05:49 and we'll hear all about that in just a second.
05:51 Okay, before we begin though, I know you love music,
05:55 we love music, and we have Gerri Lynn Mendenhall,
05:58 and she is the niece of Danny Shelton,
06:03 and she is going to be doing a duet with CW Garrett
06:07 who is on the guitar,
06:09 and our own ET Everett is on the piano,
06:11 and they're going to play Amazing Grace.
06:31 Amazing grace
06:35 How sweet the sound
06:39 That saved a wretch
06:43 Like me
06:47 I once was lost
06:50 But now am found
06:54 Was blind
06:56 But now I see
07:02 T'was grace that taught
07:06 My heart to fear
07:10 And grace, my fears relieved
07:18 How precious did
07:21 That grace appear
07:26 The hour I first believed
07:32 My chains are gone
07:36 I've been set free
07:40 My God, my Savior
07:44 Has ransomed me
07:48 And like a flood His mercy reigns
07:56 Unending love
08:00 Amazing grace
08:12 The Lord has promised good to me
08:20 His word my hope secures
08:28 He will my shield and portion be
08:36 As long as life endures
08:42 My chains are gone
08:46 I've been set free
08:50 My God, my Savior
08:54 Has ransomed me
08:57 And like a flood His mercy reigns
09:05 Unending love
09:09 Amazing grace
09:13 My chains are gone
09:17 I've been set free
09:20 My God, my Savior
09:24 Has ransomed me
09:28 And like a flood His mercy reigns
09:36 Unending love
09:39 Amazing grace
09:44 The earth shall soon dissolve like snow
09:52 The sun forbear to shine
10:00 But God who called me here below
10:07 Will be forever mine
10:23 You are
10:25 Forever mine
10:45 Praise God for His amazing grace.
10:47 And when you think about the three
10:48 most important gifts of grace,
10:50 Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit, and the Word,
10:53 you see that grace is His divine assistance
10:56 and supernatural power unto salvation,
10:59 and we do praise Him.
11:00 Thank you so much to our singers.
11:03 And thank you once again
11:04 for spending a little of your day with us.
11:07 We want to just hop right into this, Bryan,
11:09 'cause we've got a lot to talk about.
11:11 Yes.
11:12 Tell us about the Refugee Ministries.
11:16 What is it? When did it start? Why is it necessary?
11:20 We believe that God is the one
11:23 who ultimately is the one orchestrating
11:25 where people live.
11:26 Acts 17 mentions that, that God is the one
11:28 who chooses the times and the places.
11:31 And as in the mission field and all these things,
11:33 we realize that oftentimes
11:36 we aren't always going as well as we should be,
11:38 as you've mentioned
11:40 a command that sometimes we take more as advice.
11:43 It's interesting now to realize
11:44 that because of the world circumstances,
11:47 the wars, the natural disasters,
11:48 the pestilences, all those different things
11:50 that we know are coming in the end days,
11:52 that also means you have a movement of people.
11:54 Yes. And so the refugee...
11:56 We're living in probably what's considered
11:57 the largest refugee,
11:58 the greatest refugee movement time in all history.
12:02 And so now refugees are coming to the west,
12:05 to the United States, to Europe, to Australia,
12:08 and these other developed countries,
12:10 and there are incredible opportunities
12:11 to connect with them here
12:14 in ways that we haven't don't there.
12:15 Right.
12:17 So the Refugee Ministries
12:18 of the Iowa-Missouri Conference,
12:20 you're not a resettlement.
12:22 Right.
12:24 Bureau. Resettlement agency.
12:26 You're not a resettlement agency,
12:27 what is it that you're doing?
12:29 Well, the work is a huge range of things.
12:32 But anywhere from trying to help the refugees
12:35 actually get acclimated into the community
12:38 because a resettlement agency
12:40 only does the first couple of months,
12:42 three or four months,
12:43 and then they kind of got to live.
12:45 Now I've been as a missionary
12:47 dropped down into another country,
12:49 and it takes more than three months, so...
12:51 Yeah, yeah. But...
12:52 When you say they've got to live,
12:54 do they have to support themselves financially?
12:56 Well, there's some government help for a while.
12:58 Okay.
12:59 But there's a tab on that, and there's a limit to that.
13:01 And so within three months,
13:02 they're trying to teach them English as a second language,
13:05 which doesn't happen in three months,
13:07 and get them a job,
13:08 and have a home and all those things.
13:09 But, you know, our whole world has been uprooted again.
13:13 To be a refugee means
13:15 that you have been displaced from your own home
13:17 because of war or challenges or whatever it may be,
13:20 ethnic issues, you go to a refugee camp.
13:24 Yes.
13:26 Now that word camp means different things
13:29 than what we might be thinking.
13:30 We're thinking, "Oh, good, we can camp,
13:33 you know, Pathfinder Camporee."
13:35 No, many of the refugees are in those camps for years.
13:39 As a matter of fact, Antoine,
13:40 you were born in a refugee camp,
13:42 tell us that story just a little?
13:44 When I was born in refugee camp?
13:46 Yeah.
13:47 I was born in refugee camp about 1995,
13:51 that's the year I was born.
13:52 Right, and you spent 12 years there.
13:54 Yes, ma'am.
13:56 And your parents had other children as well
13:59 while they were there?
14:00 My mom had a sister, her name's Ernestine,
14:04 she's my elder sister,
14:05 and she's an amazing sister by the way.
14:09 I think she was born in a refugee camp,
14:11 I'm not sure.
14:12 But they were from the part
14:14 where like Hutu and Tutsi happened in Rwanda,
14:16 and that's why they had to move all the way to Burundi.
14:19 All right. So that's where we are now.
14:21 My mom gave me birth in 1995,
14:24 and I was born in a refugee camp.
14:25 I spent all my life up there in a refugee camp.
14:27 So you were 12 years old? Yes, ma'am.
14:29 Now your mother was Muslim, your father was Catholic,
14:34 but what happened in that refugee camp?
14:37 My mom, when she was born as a Muslim person,
14:40 her parents were Muslims, but she found a person that...
14:45 He was a guy that actually was a Seventh-day Adventist,
14:49 who'd come to her,
14:50 do Bible study with her every day,
14:52 and she really was interested in Jesus Christ,
14:53 and she accepted Jesus Christ,
14:55 and she became a Seven-day Adventist.
14:57 And when I grew up,
15:00 I wanted her background not willfully.
15:03 All right, so we're going to come back
15:04 for more of your story
15:06 because he has a fascinating story
15:07 how the Lord finally got his attention
15:09 because although his mother converted to Christianity
15:12 and even his father converted
15:14 to become a Seventh-day Adventist Christian,
15:18 this one walked on the wild side
15:19 for just a little while.
15:20 But we'll talk about why.
15:22 So you have somebody
15:25 that has been displaced within their own country,
15:28 uprooted, put into a refugee camp
15:31 sometimes for 10, 15, 20 years.
15:34 They don't know
15:36 when they're going to have the opportunity,
15:37 so they've just got to get out of there,
15:39 but when their number is up, they call,
15:43 then they have to move here not knowing English,
15:48 not being able to support themselves.
15:50 Uprooted again. Yeah.
15:51 And taken to a completely different country.
15:54 And so you land in a place like the United States.
15:58 Let's say you are from Central Africa,
16:01 and they send you to Des Moines, Iowa.
16:04 The temperature is different. Yeah.
16:07 You know, if you land in December,
16:08 you can imagine,
16:09 and here they are put into a place
16:11 that they've never seen before,
16:13 a language they don't understand,
16:15 they don't know how the culture works.
16:18 They're probably put in an apartment
16:19 where they don't know how to use the stove
16:22 or the air conditioning, right?
16:23 Absolutely. Wow!
16:25 The simplest things that we take for granted
16:27 are completely new.
16:30 And we've had story after story of refugee families coming in
16:35 and not knowing how to cook the food,
16:38 not even knowing that we had the chance to do that.
16:41 We actually had recently a family that for almost a week
16:46 they remained in the hotel room
16:47 because in that particular city,
16:49 they didn't have an apartment immediately,
16:50 but they didn't know
16:52 that they could go out to get food or otherwise.
16:53 They thought that they were being taken there
16:55 to finally be tortured and killed,
16:57 what had been attempted years before
17:00 until one of our Adventist members
17:02 heard about them, came there,
17:03 and immediately began to help them and said,
17:05 "No, we have all these resources
17:07 to bless their family."
17:08 Oh, that's amazing.
17:10 So what does Refugee Ministries do?
17:14 Well, it does a lot of things, Shelley,
17:15 anywhere from trying to help educate our own church members
17:20 that this is not all the things that they hear about
17:24 in the news, in the politics, and the prejudice,
17:27 and the ignorance, and the walls that are up,
17:28 these are people who are coming here legitimately
17:32 to have a chance to have a new life.
17:35 And each government does that for so many people
17:37 through the course of each year.
17:39 So our role is anywhere
17:41 from trying to raise the awareness
17:43 and to break down those walls
17:44 so that our Adventist members would begin to reach out
17:47 and to build relationships
17:48 all the way to actually caring for where we can help
17:51 to teach English as a second language
17:54 in our various large cities,
17:56 to teach refugees how to drive, that's a need.
18:00 If you've ever traveled to other countries,
18:02 we want them to learn a different style.
18:06 Teaching them, helping them
18:08 go to their different doctors' appointments and things,
18:10 helping to be...
18:12 Someone that helps them go shopping.
18:15 If you've been living in a place
18:16 where there are no choices for their food
18:17 and all of a sudden you come to a large store
18:19 and you have a whole aisle of cereal, which is good,
18:22 helping them deal with diabetes and all those sorts of things.
18:26 So one of the aspects of Refugee Ministries
18:29 is to just get our church members involved
18:31 in very tangible ways, becoming a friend,
18:34 one of the greatest needs.
18:35 Amen.
18:36 But then also as you will hear more of Antoine's story too
18:39 is to help to provide Christian
18:41 Christ-centered education for their children.
18:44 Amen.
18:45 Because what happens when a refugee family
18:48 comes to this country and to others
18:51 is the children will learn the language
18:53 much faster than the adults.
18:56 In fact, some adults won't learn English.
18:59 And so what has happened,
19:00 you can imagine, some of these cultures,
19:02 especially Asian cultures, African cultures,
19:05 it's a very strong parental family system,
19:08 but now they come to this place,
19:10 and it's all been turned upside down
19:13 because the children become the translators,
19:14 the children become in a sense the power brokers
19:17 who can communicate with the authorities,
19:19 with the school,
19:20 and the parents know none of the language.
19:23 And so there are some serious challenges,
19:26 and as a church,
19:27 we can help to do something about that
19:30 in Iowa, Missouri specifically, the visionary leadership
19:34 under Elder Dean Cordon as the president,
19:37 we've made a commitment
19:38 as a church community of those two states
19:41 to provide Christian education for any refugee child
19:44 that would like to be in one of our Adventist schools.
19:46 Praise the Lord. So we raise funds for that.
19:48 And we've had more than 50 students
19:50 and our academy is full
19:52 because we have the normal students
19:54 as well as refugee students coming.
19:56 We've made a commitment to never allow money
19:59 to stop a child from attending our schools.
20:01 Amen and amen.
20:02 So Refugee Ministries are responsible
20:04 for doing that as well
20:05 and coordinating all those things.
20:06 I imagine these people need to be clothed.
20:08 There's all kinds of things, right?
20:09 That's right.
20:11 So, Antoine, let's get back to you for a second.
20:14 When your family, you'd been 12 years,
20:18 you personally, in the refugee camp,
20:21 your family is plucked up and where...
20:24 Did they bring you to St. Louis?
20:26 Is that where you first located?
20:27 Yes, ma'am
20:29 All right, were there other people from Burundi there
20:34 or were they mostly people of, I mean...
20:37 Sometimes these refugees are quite isolated
20:40 within the resettlement
20:42 because you don't have a lot of families
20:44 from your own area.
20:45 What was your experience?
20:47 Well, when we first actually came to St. Louis, Missouri.
20:50 When we touched down St. Louis, Missouri,
20:54 what I'm here now is that
20:56 I think I was the first Burundian people
20:59 that was in St. Louis, Missouri.
21:00 Wow! Wow!
21:02 'Cause we were just,
21:03 we were staying in these apartments,
21:05 I was just looking for all Burundi people,
21:06 we couldn't find any.
21:07 You couldn't find anyone of your own language
21:09 or your own culture?
21:11 So did you come to the United States
21:13 and just say, "Woo-hoo!
21:15 We've arrived, and people accepted you,
21:17 and you went to school, and everything was good."
21:20 What was it like?
21:21 Well, when I first came to America,
21:23 you know, I thought life was going to be good,
21:25 I was going enjoy life, you know, just...
21:28 But there's some things that wasn't right in school.
21:33 When I first started going to school, I had,
21:36 you know, people make fun of me,
21:38 the way I smell, my skin color,
21:40 you know, I just laugh along with them
21:42 'cause I don't know what they're talking,
21:43 and they're just laughing, and I just went,
21:45 you know, got along them.
21:46 Oh, 'cause you couldn't understand what they're saying.
21:48 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. Okay.
21:49 'Cause I couldn't understand what they're saying.
21:51 So basically, I was being bullied a lot.
21:53 And I just, you know, laugh along with them.
21:57 You were probably a lot happier not understanding, huh?
21:59 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. For a little bit.
22:02 For a little bit till I find out
22:03 what they're talking about,
22:04 that's, you know, where I started getting angry,
22:07 and I just wanted to be like them,
22:09 you know, just like one of them.
22:12 And I don't know if this is a good time
22:14 to share my testimony.
22:15 Sure. Go ahead.
22:17 And I had a best friend, you know, in middle school.
22:23 He was a close buddy, you know, he was a refugee too.
22:28 He was one of the guy that had money,
22:32 that he had pretty much everything,
22:33 and he was young, and I want to be like him.
22:36 So I already, you know, as soon as you say
22:39 he's young, he's a refugee, but he's got a lot of money
22:42 and you want to be like him.
22:44 You know, the first thing I'm thinking off is that
22:46 he's into selling drugs?
22:47 Yes, ma'am. Okay.
22:49 I found out he was a drug dealer,
22:51 and now I want to be like him.
22:53 I want to make money too.
22:54 Was he a member of a gang or...
22:56 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am.
22:57 He was one of the...
22:59 He was a member of the gang,
23:01 but he was too young in those gangs.
23:03 But he was like one of my closest best friend.
23:07 And I asked him if...
23:09 When I got to high school, I asked him if I can,
23:10 you know, just join you guys being part of these things
23:13 'cause I was getting tired of getting bullied,
23:15 you know, I just want to do something amazing,
23:18 you know, just as long as I have money in my pocket.
23:22 And I asked him how can I...
23:24 You wanted some peers you could hang with too, right?
23:27 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am.
23:29 So did you go through a gang initiation,
23:32 what happened?
23:33 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am. From that point...
23:35 That's when my best friend
23:36 actually took me into that part of the game.
23:38 And we talked to the leader,
23:41 and he asked me do I want to be in a gang.
23:43 I'm like, "Yeah, I want to be in the game."
23:45 And from that point, he said, "Okay,
23:46 we're going to come pick you like 3am in the night."
23:50 So I accepted, and I climb up the window,
23:52 and I went with them.
23:54 And they took me somewhere, you know, I got jumped,
23:58 I got beat up so many, and I...
24:00 So being jumped means you're getting slammed
24:02 with fists and everything else, right?
24:04 Yes, ma'am. Definitely, definitely.
24:06 All of that, you know, just trying to fight for,
24:10 you know, 'cause I want to be there,
24:11 I want to be in there.
24:12 So that's your initiation, did you not...
24:15 You didn't put two together and say, "Hey,
24:17 are these people really welcoming me into something"?
24:19 It's just something you had to do, huh?
24:23 Yeah, my mind, when I was focusing,
24:25 I was like, you know, I just want to be in the level
24:28 that my best friend is right now.
24:30 You know, one day he hit me, I'm going to fight back,
24:32 so basically whatever, they were hitting me,
24:33 and I even had a person
24:35 that had to cut me with a knife.
24:36 But from there, I'm like no...
24:40 I'm like, "Just forget it."
24:41 And that's when I'm like, you know...
24:44 Antoine, did your precious little Christian mama know
24:47 that you're doing this?
24:48 Not really. Nobody in my family knew that.
24:52 Nobody, not even my little brothers,
24:53 they didn't know that. I was just keeping silent.
24:56 How old were you when you joined the gang?
24:58 I was about 16 years old.
25:00 Sixteen years old. Yes, ma'am.
25:02 All right, so now are you becoming big man on campus
25:04 'cause you're selling drugs too?
25:06 When I was in campus,
25:08 I would feel like I was the big man
25:10 'cause of the money I was making
25:11 and I was making a lot of money.
25:14 I was, you know, stealing cars all day.
25:16 And I feel like I was the man in the house.
25:20 Did you sell drugs at school? I just have to tell you.
25:24 You may be living in some little town.
25:26 I know that in a little town where we lived,
25:29 I had a niece and her friends came over,
25:32 and they all called me Aunt Shelley.
25:34 And I'm giving them the drug talk
25:37 to avoid drugs, you know, and trying to...
25:39 'Cause they were 15.
25:41 And one of them looked at me, she rolled her eyes
25:44 and she said, "Oh, Aunt Shelley."
25:46 She said, "It is so easy.
25:49 It's easier for us to get drugs than it is to get gum."
25:53 And I said, "What do you mean?" She said they sell it.
25:56 They sell drugs at school, but we have to cross the street
26:00 to go to the little supermarket to buy gum.
26:04 And I'm like in a small little town
26:07 out in the middle of nowhere,
26:09 you'd think that your children are safe.
26:11 Do not assume that your children are safe.
26:16 And so here you are, you're a big man on campus,
26:20 making big money.
26:22 How did God get your attention?
26:24 Well, there is this...
26:26 I was in there for like a while.
26:27 And one day, we had a pastor actually,
26:30 we had a visitor from Michigan, his name is Pastor Wilson.
26:36 He came to visit us, he's from Africa.
26:37 When you say came to visit us,
26:39 he's visiting your family
26:40 and staying with your family, huh?
26:42 Yes, he came to visit us.
26:43 Yeah, he's staying with us,
26:44 you know, for couple of months
26:46 'cause he was going to some churches.
26:47 We had a church called Otumoetai that he was going.
26:50 They had no pastor, he knew about it too.
26:52 And he was there.
26:54 And one day, I went to church,
26:57 but he wasn't there from that moment
26:58 when I went to that church with my parents.
27:00 And I heard this pastor,
27:02 his name is Pastor Vic actually.
27:04 I remember going in when I was sagging my pants.
27:06 And this lady was at the door, she like, "Put up your pants."
27:08 I'm like, No. "This is house of God,
27:10 I had to put up my pants,
27:12 I didn't want to..."
27:13 So you were wearing your pants low around your hips
27:14 like the gang members do?
27:16 Yes, ma'am. Yes, ma'am.
27:17 'Cause I wasn't involved in those gangs,
27:20 you know, basically, I just want to be like them.
27:22 That was the only thing I was doing.
27:24 And when I heard Pastor Vic,
27:26 he was talking about how much Jesus Christ loves you,
27:28 heals you, so many things, you know?
27:31 I'm like, "Okay, I want to accept that,
27:32 but that's not what I need right now."
27:35 And I got to a point...
27:37 So you wanted to accept Jesus when it was convenient.
27:40 Is that what it is? Yes, ma'am.
27:41 Okay. Yes, ma'am.
27:42 And it was kind of hard me,
27:44 you know, it was kind of hard for me,
27:45 but I was too busy worrying about money
27:47 and, you know, pretty much all that stuff.
27:49 And I remember this moment me,
27:51 my best friend who was selling drugs on the street.
27:56 We were just selling drugs and a car came by
27:59 and started shooting us about 12 times.
28:02 And not even one single bullet touched me,
28:06 but when I looked down,
28:07 I saw my best friend laying down on the floor
28:09 when he was already dead.
28:11 Oh, I'm so sorry.
28:12 I know that is very traumatic. Yes, ma'am.
28:14 It was pretty much hard for me 'cause all that those things,
28:17 you know, people keep talking about God,
28:19 I'm like, "Okay, I know God,
28:22 but who is this Jesus saying that He heal?
28:24 Can He heal just my friend?"
28:26 And it was kind of hard for me when I went to his funeral,
28:28 it was really hard for me to, you know...
28:29 So were you mad at God because it happened?
28:31 I was really angry with Jesus.
28:34 You were angry with Jesus.
28:35 I was so angry with Jesus, like,
28:38 you know, people say He's coming soon.
28:40 You know, there's something in my heart,
28:41 I'm like, "Okay, He's coming soon,
28:42 why can't He just do something to my best friend
28:44 and just heal him so we all can be there?"
28:47 And from that moment,
28:48 I stopped continuing doing my things,
28:51 selling drugs, all that.
28:53 Then I got to a point where the pastor,
28:56 Pastor Wilson came and he's like,
28:58 "You know you should share your testimony.
29:00 You should share your testimony."
29:01 I'm like, "No, I don't want to share my testimony."
29:04 And the reason why I had to share my testimony,
29:09 one day when me and my friends were in a car, we were,
29:12 you know, just driving around,
29:14 going to go pick up one of my friend's girlfriend
29:16 and we saw some guys
29:17 and they were shooting us so many times,
29:19 and there was only one bullet.
29:21 When I turned around and look at the back,
29:24 everybody was safe.
29:26 So the devil was trying to take you out,
29:28 but God had His hand of protection around you.
29:29 Definitely.
29:31 That's when I said, "Okay, there is Jesus.
29:33 I want to get to know this Jesus Christ."
29:36 And I went to him like, "Okay, I want to share my testimony."
29:39 And he put in the testimony
29:40 when all the people were getting baptized
29:42 and I shared my testimony...
29:43 My mom, she was in tears, she was like,
29:47 "How come you never told me that?"
29:49 You know, she was heartbroken.
29:52 And when I shared that,
29:54 I got a call from this guy called Tom Evans.
29:58 He was there actually.
30:00 And he's like,
30:02 "You know, go to this Reach the World Next Door,
30:04 you're going to meet Pastor Scott. Talk about it."
30:06 Now hang on a second.
30:07 You've accepted Christ as your savior then.
30:09 From that day, no, I didn't.
30:11 Pardon? I didn't.
30:12 You had not yet accepted?
30:14 I had not yet accepted Jesus Christ.
30:15 So you've got a man who's coming to somebody
30:18 who's just told this wild testimony,
30:20 and this pastor is saying you need
30:22 to go to Reach Your Neighbor Next Door,
30:25 which is a program.
30:26 Yes, ma'am. Reach the World Next Door.
30:28 Reach the World Next Door.
30:29 And this is a program
30:32 that is reaching out to refugees,
30:35 and they are...
30:37 We've interviewed them here, they're down in Houston,
30:39 and they're training people up how to break down the barriers,
30:44 and go out, and canvass, and knock on doors,
30:49 and get to know people, and bring them to Christ.
30:52 So he's telling you, you're not a Christian yet,
30:55 but he's saying, "Hey, go down here
30:57 to this Reach the World Next Door."
30:59 And you did.
31:01 Yeah, actually, I talked to Pastor Scott,
31:02 and he's like, "You know, the first thing
31:04 I think you should do, you should go canvass."
31:06 And when I went canvassing,
31:08 and there was thing book called Desire of Ages,
31:10 you know? I remember going up there,
31:12 pretend like I was sick,
31:13 I was canvassing with the Wichita College actually.
31:16 And I would pretend like, you know, I'm sick,
31:18 I don't want to go outside.
31:19 And there was one of this book, one of my brother called Chris,
31:23 he showed me Desire of Ages.
31:24 he was just reading about Desire of Ages
31:26 and he got to a point where he said that,
31:31 you know, the moon, the sun,
31:33 even the angels did not want
31:34 to look at Jesus Christ for sin.
31:37 And that really just hit me like...
31:39 When He was on the cross?
31:40 Yeah. Bearing our sins.
31:41 Yes, then I realized,
31:43 you know, He was on cross just for my sins,
31:45 He gave everything away,
31:47 everything you can imagine heaven,
31:49 that we're going to have,
31:50 Jesus was willing to give that away and lose life.
31:52 And that got to a point, I'm like,
31:54 "Hey, money is not that important,
31:55 let me give my life to Jesus Christ."
31:57 And that's how end up
31:58 going to the Reach the World Next Door.
32:00 So you gave your life to the Lord,
32:02 you went to that program,
32:04 and you are now actually ministering to refugees.
32:10 Let me ask you...
32:11 I had several thoughts,
32:12 but I always forget them by the time
32:14 'cause if you're listening,
32:15 you forget what you're going to say.
32:17 I just want to ask you something,
32:18 your mother was Muslim and became a Christian,
32:22 my experience has been...
32:24 And let me ask you this 'cause I know right now
32:26 you've been ministering to a Muslim
32:28 who's getting ready to be baptized.
32:31 My experience has been
32:33 if someone of the Muslim religion
32:36 can wrap their head around the concept of Christ
32:39 as the Son of God,
32:41 that once you've got them there,
32:43 you've got them and that they make
32:44 very good Christians,
32:45 is that kind of what you're finding,
32:47 they're easy to minister to?
32:48 Definitely, definitely 'cause of the most thing
32:50 that I usually get challenged with them,
32:53 we go from the beginning,
32:55 and then we go to a point 'cause they say,
32:56 they know Jesus Christ was a prophet.
32:59 And we got to a point God said let us make a man
33:01 and I kind of rewind and say us.
33:03 And that's when I cut them right there,
33:05 and they're just like, "Okay, who is us?"
33:08 And we continue to look through the Bible,
33:10 through the Bible, through the Bible,
33:11 and you realize Jesus Christ.
33:12 And Jesus Christ was the Son of Man,
33:14 the Son of God.
33:15 Yes, amen. Oh, glory to God.
33:17 And you've worked quite a bit with Muslims
33:19 and found that they can be very responsive.
33:22 So, you know, we've got to be so careful.
33:25 Oh, my brothers and my sisters, we cannot be prejudiced 'cause,
33:30 you know, what the root of the prejudice is,
33:33 it's pride, you think you're better than somebody.
33:36 And you mentioned something from the Desire of Ages,
33:40 I think it was chapter 2,
33:41 tell us what she said about the Israelites.
33:45 Yeah, chapters 2 and 3 in Desire of Ages,
33:48 which I'll encourage the viewer, after they finish,
33:51 to maybe go get that book and read those two chapters,
33:54 and then also at the end,
33:56 there will be a calling to read chapter 70,
33:58 but she describes the chosen people
34:01 and how in their desire to remain as pure as possible,
34:05 they separated themselves away from others and blockaded
34:09 and tried to keep their traditions all separate
34:11 and she literally says they robbed God of His glory.
34:16 That's heavy.
34:17 In many ways,
34:19 we pull away instead of being connected with.
34:22 And God in His own mercy,
34:24 Ellen White says in another place in 1914,
34:28 she literally says that God in His providence
34:30 brings a foreigner to this country
34:32 so we may reach them here.
34:34 We're seeing it now,
34:35 and I know there's a lot of people
34:37 that want to focus on how bad the world is
34:39 and how close everything is.
34:40 But the reality is there's many,
34:42 there's billions who have yet to hear
34:44 the clear message of the gospel.
34:45 Absolutely.
34:47 And so this command that you started with still applies.
34:49 Yes, absolutely. The Refuge Ministries.
34:51 You know, it's not just people who have resettled here,
34:54 who have been,
34:55 you know, through the replacement agencies,
34:57 you can find at almost any college, I mean,
35:00 right here in Southern Illinois at SIH,
35:03 we have a huge group of Muslims, and Hindus,
35:07 and Buddhists, and witches...
35:12 I mean, there's Wiccans, there's always someone
35:16 that you can reach out
35:17 to to share the good news.
35:19 I think the reason I said witches,
35:21 well, they're Wiccans,
35:22 but we want to just hit
35:24 the pause button first,
35:26 Antoine, I just give God praise and glory
35:29 for how he pulled you up.
35:33 And I have to ask you,
35:35 He transformed you into totally a new creature,
35:38 but does the new creature ever miss all that
35:42 fast cash you were making?
35:44 Well, when I take a look at my old life
35:46 and my new life right now, when I accept Jesus Christ,
35:48 everything seems amazing with Jesus Christ, every day,
35:53 I prove my work, prove myself to the Bible.
35:57 And like in heaven,
35:58 it's going to be a better life
36:00 than better than money
36:02 because money soon they're going to burn.
36:03 Why do I have to worry about money
36:06 when we have a Savior?
36:07 I hope that there's someone out there
36:10 who's watching right now that if you're in a gang
36:13 or if you're into selling drugs,
36:16 you will realize you can be so much richer
36:19 when Christ sets you free.
36:21 And you told me earlier
36:23 you wouldn't trade Christ for all the money in the world,
36:27 and that's a wonderful thing.
36:29 But let's just...
36:32 We've got to get Philip into this conversation.
36:35 Philip, you've got such a fascinating story.
36:39 Your parents were Hindu,
36:41 and your father was a witchdoctor.
36:45 Kind of give us the version
36:48 of how your family became Christian.
36:50 Okay.
36:51 Well, my father was a witchdoctor in a village.
36:54 Well, in Nepal, especially in remote areas,
36:56 we do not have many hospitals,
36:58 so most of the people they have the superstitions
37:01 that whenever people get sick,
37:02 they have a witchdoctor, and my dad was a witchdoctor,
37:05 and he used to do all the ceremonies
37:07 and things like that.
37:10 And what happened,
37:12 as the days were passing, my parents,
37:16 they had eight children
37:18 and, you know, they started getting sick,
37:21 and they started dying,
37:22 you know, some of them died in 4 years,
37:23 5 years, 6 years, 10 years.
37:26 And my dad was like...
37:27 So out of the eight children there's you and who else left?
37:30 How many are left?
37:32 Now we are two.
37:33 Just two, so they lost six children to sickness.
37:35 And this is the witchdoctor
37:37 who's supposed to be able to heal.
37:39 Yeah. Okay.
37:40 And my dad, like he was searching
37:42 an answer what happened.
37:43 And he used to go to like other witchdoctors,
37:46 you know? And they said because your god is angry
37:48 because in Hinduism they have so many gods and goddesses,
37:51 and we have our one god in every house,
37:55 they have the one god.
37:56 And they said your god is angry.
37:58 And my dad was like,
37:59 "I have been worshiping to this god,
38:01 and I have been dedicating all my life,
38:03 and I have been able to,
38:05 you know, heal some of the people around me,
38:07 but I have not been able to save my children."
38:10 And he got discouraged.
38:12 And he left that job as a witchdoctor
38:15 because he said, "If I'm not being able to save my..."
38:19 "If my god is not helping me in my one family,
38:22 then why am I working as a witchdoctor?"
38:24 And he was just discouraged and was not working
38:27 and he started working in the constructions.
38:30 And one day as he was working in the construction,
38:33 in one of the hospital in Nepal,
38:35 there was a missionary man from Alaska, and he came,
38:39 and he was so different, he was so friendly with people,
38:43 he used to come in our house,
38:45 he used to invite us in his house,
38:48 and we used to eat together,
38:50 he used to play together,
38:51 he used to carry us on his shoulder, you know?
38:53 And he was super friendly,
38:55 and he was there for a few months,
38:56 and after that one day he came to our house, and he said,
38:59 "You know what, I'm leaving Nepal very soon,
39:03 but before leaving Nepal,
39:04 I have a very special gift
39:06 for you guys and for this family."
39:09 And we were like, "Wow, amazing."
39:12 And then he said, "Tomorrow morning,
39:14 I will and I will introduce.
39:16 I will give you this gift."
39:18 And the next day,
39:19 and the following day was the Sabbath.
39:21 And he came and he took us into the church,
39:24 the Seventh-day Adventist Church in Nepal.
39:26 And he said, "This is my gift."
39:29 He said, "Now I'm going to go back to US,
39:31 but every time you come here and you see this church,
39:35 you remember our friendship
39:37 and, you know, this is the best gift
39:39 that I can give you is Jesus Christ and God."
39:43 And we started going to the church
39:45 and praise the Lord we all are Adventists right now.
39:49 And I thank the Lord for that man,
39:51 the one missionary man who made a friendship,
39:56 who was close to us,
39:59 and that made a huge impact in our life
40:01 and that changed our life.
40:02 And that's what my desire is, my goal is,
40:06 you know, to make friendship
40:07 and point them to Christ because Ellen G. White
40:11 once said that Christ's method alone will give a success.
40:16 So He mingled with people,
40:17 and that's what I think we ought to do.
40:20 Yeah, and obviously,
40:22 you know, you're not only being trained up in college,
40:25 but you've come here to volunteer and...
40:30 I guess you guys are doing pathfinder clubs,
40:32 you've got all kinds of things.
40:33 So we found, just as Philip shared,
40:36 that aspect of sharing time.
40:38 Absolutely.
40:39 Now, of course, money always has its uses
40:41 and it costs money to send children
40:43 to school and all those things,
40:45 and refugees have needs,
40:46 but the greatest need is they need time with people,
40:51 with love.
40:53 And so what we're doing in multiple places
40:54 around our conference
40:56 but specifically where Philip has been volunteering
40:59 and staying is in Kansas City area
41:01 where we've started various children's programs in places
41:05 where there's just huge numbers of refugees
41:08 from all over the world.
41:10 You're playing games
41:11 with children from Southeast Asia,
41:14 from Africa.
41:16 All these different languages and, of course,
41:18 these guys represent quite a few languages on their own,
41:21 but imagine being able to have the chance
41:23 to build these relationships,
41:25 to share about God.
41:29 There's a youth group that is simply coming together
41:31 to teach kids not to do drugs and not to swear.
41:35 And they come together,
41:36 they do fun things, play soccer,
41:38 vacation Bible school,
41:40 taking all these refugee children
41:41 to in large a vacation Bible school
41:46 and bring the United Nations right there to a church.
41:49 Yes, yes.
41:50 And all kinds of neat things.
41:52 A few days ago,
41:53 we had a VBS program with all these refugee groups.
41:56 And it's amazing
41:58 because most of them are not Christians,
42:00 most of them are Hindus, Buddhists,
42:02 and from other religions.
42:04 And for most of them,
42:05 that was the first time
42:06 that they were hearing about Jesus Christ,
42:08 and they were so happy.
42:10 And we have stories after story.
42:12 Few days ago, we were visiting one of the men.
42:15 His wife and his daughter was already here in US,
42:19 but he was Nepal,
42:20 you know, and just last week he came here,
42:22 and he was telling me the story.
42:24 He told me, "You know, when my daughter was here,
42:28 I used to talk to her through phone over there.
42:32 Before, she was different, and I was talking to her,
42:34 I could see that she's becoming more sweeter,
42:37 and she's amazing,
42:38 and I could just see that she has been transforming.
42:41 And one day, I asked her,
42:42 "Hey, like you are so different now.
42:44 You talk to me with much respect.
42:46 You're more sweeter.
42:48 What happened?"
42:49 And she said, "Now I go to church."
42:51 And the daddy said,
42:52 "Wow, then when I come to Kansas City,
42:56 I will join with you."
42:57 So like this, you have no idea when we mingle with these kids,
43:00 when we invite them to the church
43:02 or pathfinder club or VBS, they're learning about Jesus,
43:05 and they make impact in their homes.
43:07 Amen, amen.
43:09 One of the things we've chosen to do specifically
43:11 there is to visit each home and to let them know
43:14 this is not about just trying to change people
43:17 but to bless your family,
43:19 to teach them about the Creator God,
43:22 and to not get involved in drugs,
43:24 and to actually pray with the families.
43:26 And one time Philip,
43:27 he had an amazing experience with that, yeah?
43:29 Yeah, one time we were visiting a family
43:31 and we had a nice talk and after the talk we said,
43:34 "Can we pray."
43:35 And the man, he stood up
43:37 and he said, this is what he said,
43:40 he said, "So many Christian people
43:43 have already come to my house
43:44 and asked for prayer,
43:46 and I have always said no because I am a lama,
43:50 I am the leader of the Buddhist community here.
43:54 And people look unto me
43:57 and whenever I do the ceremonies,
43:58 they look unto me,
43:59 so I never allow any Christian people
44:01 to pray in my house."
44:02 And he said, "But right now, we are so desperate,
44:05 my wife is sick.
44:06 And we have gone to the doctor, we do not have insurance,
44:10 Medicare, we do not know how to pay it.
44:12 We have no other way."
44:14 And he said, "But I have heard many testimonies
44:16 that when they pray to Jesus and people get healed,
44:20 the problems are solved."
44:22 And he said, "I'm not going to be a Christian
44:26 because I am a lama, and I have a community,
44:29 but I will love if my wife joins you guys
44:32 and pray together."
44:34 So on that day,
44:36 he allowed us to have a prayer,
44:38 and that was the first prayer that was done in that house.
44:41 And after the prayer, the man said,
44:43 "Please keep coming, we need prayers,
44:45 we need your prayers and we need miracle from God."
44:49 So many things are happening, the lives are changing.
44:52 All we need to do is appear in their house and just,
44:55 you know, talk with them,
44:57 and be friends, and pray with them.
45:00 You know, Jesus said,
45:01 "Greater love has no man than this
45:03 that he would lay down his life for another."
45:07 He doesn't mean necessarily that you have to die,
45:09 of course, He did die for us,
45:11 but laying down our life for another
45:13 is just making an investment of time in them.
45:16 You know, time is a precious commodity,
45:19 once the Lord impressed upon me,
45:21 "Time is life.
45:23 How you spend your time is how you spend your life."
45:27 And so when you invest in someone else,
45:31 I mean, that's love, and I think it's showing,
45:34 and it's showing the love of Jesus.
45:37 But one thing that I've really noticed
45:40 in speaking with people that came as refugees
45:44 or who've had that experience
45:48 is that most of them if they were Buddhist
45:50 or Hindu or Muslim,
45:52 they didn't ever know that there was a Creator God
45:57 who loved them.
45:58 The idea, the concept of a God
46:01 who is loving is really difficult at first,
46:06 but they get so excited when they know the truth.
46:09 That's right.
46:12 You know, you can reach their hearts
46:14 sometimes rather quickly.
46:17 One of the things that in sharing this story here,
46:21 we mentioned the Reach the World Next Door program
46:23 that is actually training young people
46:25 to go and to minister with refugees.
46:28 But there's also a fantastic resource
46:30 that anyone can do just from the website
46:33 there that's ASAPMinistries.org.
46:37 Okay, and ASAP,
46:39 this means Advocates for Southeast Asians
46:44 and the Persecuted.
46:45 That's right.
46:47 So ASAP is the one who does the Reach the World program.
46:49 They do that.
46:50 This is the training you went through in Huston.
46:52 And that's with the support of the Texas conference there.
46:56 But this is a book that's been produced
46:57 by Pastor Scott Griswold
46:59 who runs the Reach the World Next Door program,
47:01 and it's how to pray for the world next door.
47:04 And as you've already mentioned, Shelley,
47:06 the international students, every university,
47:09 there is international students,
47:11 the people who are persecuted,
47:12 international travelers and, of course,
47:14 refugees and immigrants.
47:16 God is bringing people here.
47:18 And just as Philip just shared
47:22 when something is impacting the life of the people here
47:26 in the States because of technology,
47:27 they're immediately reaching back to their world,
47:30 their previous world, and their family and so forth.
47:33 And so Ellen White said this more than 100 years ago
47:36 that when people find the truth here,
47:38 then they are equipped to go
47:39 and share it back in their own country.
47:41 Be a light to their own country.
47:43 So this is a resource
47:44 that you can get through that website
47:46 to simply start praying as a church.
47:48 And to start volunteering
47:50 to my little church up in Kirksville
47:53 where I have a chance to be a part time Pastor up there,
47:55 we're planning to start actually creating a time
47:58 where refugees can come
47:59 and practice their English in a safe place
48:01 where they're not going to be laughed at
48:03 with a bunch of older members
48:04 who probably can't go do the active things
48:06 that you did there in Houston,
48:09 but they can open their hearts and they can love.
48:11 And that's what these people are looking for.
48:13 And I suspect, I mean,
48:16 if your experience had been different, Antoine,
48:19 when you had gotten here,
48:21 if somebody had put their arms around you
48:23 and loved on you instead of bullying you,
48:26 you would not have ever taken that route
48:30 to become a drug dealer and a gang member,
48:34 but I just praise God that He's reached you,
48:37 and it's really exciting.
48:40 We need to be less selfish with our time.
48:47 You know, I'm sure that this ministry would say
48:50 or whether it is the ASAP
48:53 or for the Reach the World Next Door program
48:56 or for your Refugee Ministries.
48:59 Of course, they can use donations,
49:01 but sometimes it's so much easier
49:03 to just write a check and think,
49:05 "Okay, well, I've done my part."
49:07 But what God is looking for is, as Paul said,
49:11 "You are any epistle from the Lord,
49:14 written on the heart."
49:16 And so what God is looking for is somebody
49:18 that will reach out and share His love with others.
49:23 We recently just did
49:24 a Displaced But Not Forgotten concert
49:28 in both St. Louis and Kansas City
49:30 where we are raising awareness of the needs
49:32 and having some ethnic groups singing as well.
49:36 And one of the focus areas that we did there
49:38 was trying to get volunteers
49:41 who would help with the gardening class,
49:43 to go teach community gardening
49:45 for these refugee groups
49:48 wherever they're living in St. Louis area,
49:50 how to drive needing people who grab their crash helmet
49:53 and bring the car.
49:56 But these are simple things but so incredibly important.
49:58 You teach them English before you teach them
49:59 how to drive I hope.
50:01 Yeah, English, and how to drive,
50:04 and citizenship classes.
50:05 Sure.
50:07 It was such a thrill for me to attend
50:10 one of our citizenship classes
50:12 in Kansas City, watching them.
50:14 That's very important.
50:15 You know, we're going to have to take a break here
50:16 just a second, but I have to ask one quick question
50:19 'cause I will forget otherwise.
50:22 There are refugees
50:24 who have been resettled in a lot of large cities,
50:28 but even in smaller cities,
50:29 how would you find out if a church member is watching
50:33 and says, "Yeah, my church needs to be involved."
50:35 How do you find out
50:37 if there's refugees in your area,
50:39 who to call?
50:41 I would say you're welcome to contact us
50:42 at our website at the Iowa-Missouri Church there.
50:45 And what is the website?
50:47 IMSDA.org/Refugee.
50:50 IMSDA.org /Refugee.
50:56 What we will do, let's just pause right now,
50:59 we'll come back for a closing thought.
51:00 But let's put the address roll 'cause I just believe
51:04 the Holy Spirit is touching someone
51:06 who says we've been looking for a purpose.
51:09 I mean, so many people call here and say,
51:12 "I want to have a purpose to my life,
51:14 but I don't know what I can do, I can't preach, I can't teach."
51:18 This you could do,
51:19 you could reach out and love somebody for the Lord
51:22 and let them see what God is all about.
51:26 So if you want to get in touch with Bryan,
51:30 then here is how you can get the Refugee Ministries.
51:36 Millions are fleeing their homes
51:38 because of war and persecution,
51:40 your gift of $10 per month
51:42 or $120 per year
51:45 can help a refugee student receive a Christian education
51:49 through Refugee Ministries.
51:51 Find out more by visiting their website
51:54 IMSDA.org/Refugee.
51:58 That's IMSDA.org/Refugee.
52:03 You may also call them
52:04 at (515) 223-1197
52:09 or write to Refugee Ministries,
52:12 PO Box 65665,
52:16 West Des Moines, Iowa, 50265.


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