Welcome to Thinking About Home, 00:00:30.53\00:00:31.90 I am Kathy Matthews 00:00:31.91\00:00:32.88 and I'm glad that you're with us again. 00:00:32.89\00:00:34.59 We've been doing some changes on the program here recently, 00:00:34.60\00:00:37.74 and I was the guest, and now I am back in my old spot again. 00:00:38.20\00:00:41.47 But we do have Richard O'Ffill from the Florida Conference 00:00:41.48\00:00:45.14 of Seventh-day Adventist, 00:00:45.15\00:00:46.18 Pastor O'Ffill, you're with us again. 00:00:46.19\00:00:48.13 And our guess today is Ariel Roldan is that correct? 00:00:48.14\00:00:52.13 You said it good. 00:00:53.22\00:00:54.22 Thank you. Good, good rolling the R right there. 00:00:54.23\00:00:56.85 Oh, good, I have. But I can do it better, Roldan. 00:00:56.86\00:01:00.30 Five years in Chino would do that to you. 00:01:00.92\00:01:03.31 Well, I don't. 00:01:03.32\00:01:04.29 Well, I haven't been there and I don't know Spanish. 00:01:04.73\00:01:07.30 You did very good Kathy. Thank you very much. 00:01:07.31\00:01:09.18 You know that's the nice thing 00:01:09.19\00:01:10.16 about the Spanish language, Kathy, 00:01:10.17\00:01:11.30 is that they're so complimentary. 00:01:11.31\00:01:12.93 I mean, if you pronounce that with a Texas accent, 00:01:13.33\00:01:15.99 Ariel will say, it's wonderful Kathy. 00:01:16.53\00:01:18.51 No, no, he do it all of us, no they it all of us. 00:01:19.83\00:01:22.51 But it encourages us. Kathy, you did fine. 00:01:22.52\00:01:24.81 Thank you, but he's being genuine 00:01:24.82\00:01:26.72 and real this time, aren't you? 00:01:26.73\00:01:28.20 Yes, I am. 00:01:28.65\00:01:29.62 You know I like your shirt, 00:01:30.16\00:01:31.53 your mother sent you that, didn't she? 00:01:31.54\00:01:33.18 Yes, I am blessed with a good momma, 00:01:33.55\00:01:36.20 she sends me quite a bit stuff, 00:01:36.88\00:01:38.68 but she found out that I was gonna be coming 00:01:38.69\00:01:40.81 to this show, so she sent me something 00:01:40.82\00:01:42.26 a little bit out the ordinary so. 00:01:42.27\00:01:44.74 Oh, mother, you did a beautiful job, 00:01:44.75\00:01:46.78 I like the shirt. I like it too. It looks pretty. 00:01:46.79\00:01:49.44 So, we wanna compliment you. 00:01:49.45\00:01:50.91 It's wrinkle free, so it's a design for. 00:01:50.92\00:01:53.10 For a single fellow. 00:01:53.11\00:01:54.58 Yes, this is wrinkle free quite a long time too. 00:01:56.02\00:01:58.61 I meet Ariel at Black Hills Mission College of Evangelism, 00:01:59.18\00:02:03.18 and I was really impressed with his sincerity 00:02:04.35\00:02:07.52 and his surrender to the Lord, 00:02:07.53\00:02:08.81 and I asked him and two of his buddies 00:02:09.20\00:02:10.86 to come to the program, 00:02:10.87\00:02:11.87 and they were not able to make 00:02:11.88\00:02:13.19 and I'm really sorry about that. 00:02:13.20\00:02:14.40 Eddy and Doran weren't able to come, 00:02:14.94\00:02:16.98 but Ariel made it and probably wasn't easy 00:02:16.99\00:02:20.98 on the flight, was it? 00:02:21.88\00:02:22.92 It was interesting, it was a blessing 00:02:23.39\00:02:26.51 because I had already been exposed 00:02:26.52\00:02:28.93 to this type of thing traveling abroad overseas, 00:02:28.94\00:02:31.01 this is standard, when you go overseas. 00:02:31.02\00:02:32.80 They always check your language make sure 00:02:32.81\00:02:34.60 there is nothing being taking into the country. 00:02:34.61\00:02:36.68 But, when I go to the airport, 00:02:37.61\00:02:39.91 it was very thorough they checked 00:02:39.92\00:02:41.96 even inside my shoes and everything, 00:02:41.97\00:02:43.34 so I'm glad I had clean underwear, mom. 00:02:43.35\00:02:44.69 I remember old jokes about that kind of thing, 00:02:47.83\00:02:49.71 but I won't go there. 00:02:49.72\00:02:50.69 Ariel, I've invited you, because I wanted you to share 00:02:51.79\00:02:55.25 something about the changes in your life 00:02:55.26\00:02:57.27 as the Lord came into your life. 00:02:57.28\00:02:58.63 Your background and because this is thinking about home, 00:02:58.64\00:03:01.33 I want you to talk about how your home life was? 00:03:03.10\00:03:06.81 Where the change for Jesus took place and so on? 00:03:08.46\00:03:10.77 Can you tell me where you born? 00:03:10.78\00:03:12.62 Yes, I was born in Tucumán, Argentina, 00:03:13.12\00:03:15.94 I will not ask you to say that. 00:03:15.95\00:03:17.03 Please, don't. 00:03:17.04\00:03:18.01 It's the Northern part of Argentina, 00:03:18.39\00:03:20.84 it's a beautiful town close to Bolivia. 00:03:21.53\00:03:24.00 And I grew up into home of a Colporteur 00:03:24.01\00:03:26.45 or a literature evangelist, so. Your father was? 00:03:26.46\00:03:28.90 Yes, my father was a Colporteur, 00:03:28.91\00:03:30.13 he was originally a policeman 00:03:30.14\00:03:31.49 and my mom was an accountant for a car dealership. 00:03:31.50\00:03:34.66 Growing up was, we always have good 00:03:35.29\00:03:38.96 memories growing up home. 00:03:38.97\00:03:40.22 So, there were some shifts that took place growing up 00:03:40.23\00:03:44.23 because of changing living quarters where we were living, 00:03:44.24\00:03:49.48 because we came from South America all the way 00:03:49.52\00:03:51.48 to the United States when I was 11 years old, 00:03:51.49\00:03:53.53 that created a shift. But growing up home, 00:03:53.54\00:03:56.66 my mom side of family was all Catholic 00:03:57.25\00:03:59.55 and my dad side was all Pentecostal. 00:03:59.56\00:04:02.15 So from very little I was aware that Seventh-day Adventists 00:04:02.16\00:04:06.36 were not the norm, you could say. 00:04:06.37\00:04:09.16 My cousins would come over 00:04:09.74\00:04:10.72 and they always asked this question so, 00:04:10.73\00:04:12.72 from very little we had this ability 00:04:12.73\00:04:15.58 or this opportunity rather to share our differences 00:04:15.59\00:04:19.01 both with our Catholic cousins and our Pentecostal cousins. 00:04:19.02\00:04:21.94 And actually I get along better with my, 00:04:21.95\00:04:24.32 I enjoyed, my favorite cousins were the Catholic cousins, 00:04:24.83\00:04:27.92 because there were allowed to do more stuff. 00:04:27.93\00:04:29.50 So, you grew up Seventh-day Adventist, 00:04:29.51\00:04:31.04 they were allowed. Yeah. 00:04:31.05\00:04:32.66 So, you grew up Seventh-day Adventist, right? 00:04:35.23\00:04:36.77 Yes. Okay, all right, well. 00:04:36.78\00:04:38.53 I'm just being honest. 00:04:38.54\00:04:39.51 Right, well, I can understand that, 00:04:40.07\00:04:41.81 of course, that comes from a youth's heart, no, doesn't it? 00:04:41.82\00:04:44.75 Yes. It does. 00:04:44.76\00:04:45.93 And it is interesting, Kathy, 00:04:45.94\00:04:47.48 when he says you know when you think back 00:04:47.49\00:04:49.45 you have good memories he has good memories, 00:04:49.46\00:04:51.56 not everybody has good memories. 00:04:51.57\00:04:52.70 You know I thought of that when he said that, 00:04:52.71\00:04:53.69 I thought, I was gonna say the same thing, 00:04:53.70\00:04:55.76 not everybody does have good memories, 00:04:55.77\00:04:57.29 but I am glad that you do. 00:04:57.30\00:04:58.33 Thank God. The good memories come 00:04:58.34\00:04:59.63 when you involve the Lord, even the bad ones. 00:04:59.64\00:05:01.09 Because you go through some hardships, 00:05:01.48\00:05:03.15 when we were in Bolivia, there were some times 00:05:03.16\00:05:05.16 when being a Colporteur was not lucrative at all, 00:05:05.17\00:05:08.67 because South America... Bolivia was going through 00:05:08.68\00:05:11.48 some shifts during that time 00:05:11.49\00:05:13.01 and so economically it was not stable, 00:05:13.02\00:05:15.26 so they were times that my dad did well. 00:05:15.27\00:05:17.40 But then they were the years where there was much praying 00:05:17.41\00:05:20.48 and much tear shedding at home 00:05:20.49\00:05:22.78 and those were also good memories, 00:05:22.79\00:05:24.09 because it got us closer to Lord. 00:05:24.10\00:05:25.71 Right. You know, when he says 00:05:25.72\00:05:26.69 there were times, you know he is just using 00:05:26.70\00:05:28.75 these forma words he is saying 00:05:28.76\00:05:30.06 there's times when being Colporteur was not lucrative, 00:05:30.07\00:05:32.06 I don't know that word ever... 00:05:32.07\00:05:33.54 I think you're right, because that was one month 00:05:34.11\00:05:36.07 and he's in the States and it wasn't lucrative then. 00:05:36.08\00:05:37.87 What he's saying is that there were times 00:05:37.88\00:05:39.56 which we could barely make it. 00:05:39.57\00:05:41.04 Yes. Yes. Yeah. but in spite of all that, 00:05:41.05\00:05:44.28 I mean those are the times 00:05:44.29\00:05:45.48 where you see the hand of God closer to your family. 00:05:45.49\00:05:48.23 If you will take it that way. 00:05:48.67\00:05:50.07 See it's not a miracle when you get a paycheck, 00:05:50.22\00:05:51.79 that's standard lifestyle you could say. 00:05:51.80\00:05:54.39 Even the bad guys get a paycheck. 00:05:54.40\00:05:55.78 That's right, and really big ones. 00:05:55.79\00:05:57.75 When you see food being delivered 00:05:59.37\00:06:01.38 to you by people you don't know, 00:06:01.39\00:06:02.46 when money comes out at the last minute, you know... 00:06:02.92\00:06:06.83 I've been there, done that. 00:06:06.84\00:06:07.82 You eat the food differently, it tastes better. 00:06:07.83\00:06:10.53 Yes. you feel like, 00:06:10.54\00:06:11.69 you know like the Israelites in the wilderness 00:06:11.70\00:06:13.67 and God's given you Manna right there in there. 00:06:13.68\00:06:16.16 Amen. So even the bad memories, 00:06:16.17\00:06:18.38 you look back at them, of course, at that moment 00:06:18.39\00:06:20.68 you're not thinking, oh, I wanna remember this. 00:06:20.69\00:06:22.96 Yes. But now I am glad I do, 00:06:22.97\00:06:25.05 because all those little things helped to shape 00:06:25.06\00:06:27.64 where I am today. Yes. 00:06:28.09\00:06:29.24 And of course this brings up something too, Kathy, 00:06:29.25\00:06:31.20 and that is, that when we have hard times, 00:06:31.21\00:06:33.07 it's gonna do one or two things to us. 00:06:33.41\00:06:34.92 It's either gonna brings us closer to the Lord 00:06:34.93\00:06:36.48 or it's gonna drive us away. 00:06:36.49\00:06:37.67 Yes. But all things were together 00:06:37.68\00:06:40.04 for good to those who love the Lord, 00:06:40.05\00:06:41.28 and that's what you're saying, 00:06:41.29\00:06:42.26 because my family loved the Lord even hard times 00:06:42.27\00:06:44.54 drew us closer to him. Amen. 00:06:44.55\00:06:46.75 Did you cover all that you wanted 00:06:46.76\00:06:48.14 to on how your family backgrounds, differences, 00:06:48.15\00:06:50.68 one family off in this direction and one in this, 00:06:50.69\00:06:53.77 how it effected your life, did you? 00:06:53.78\00:06:55.48 I think it solidified me and my brother 00:06:56.17\00:06:58.31 that we were distinct. 00:06:58.32\00:06:59.34 It was awkward at all for us to stand out, 00:07:00.23\00:07:03.38 to be different even in our family. 00:07:04.58\00:07:06.65 So, wherever we went, it was always the four of us. 00:07:06.66\00:07:09.49 I have a younger brother, he lives in Massachusetts. 00:07:09.94\00:07:12.25 And whenever we went to new school, 00:07:13.09\00:07:15.64 whether it was Adventist or not, 00:07:16.99\00:07:18.37 we were used already being different and peculiar, 00:07:18.86\00:07:21.47 not eating certain things and not participating 00:07:21.48\00:07:24.05 with certain events on Sabbath and things like that. 00:07:24.06\00:07:26.23 So, growing up in that type of an environment, 00:07:26.24\00:07:29.47 I think prepared us to meet the world 00:07:29.48\00:07:32.56 in its reality as a Seventh-day Adventist 00:07:32.96\00:07:35.00 that you would stand out like, like a good thumb. 00:07:35.01\00:07:37.45 Like a good thumb, not like a sore one. 00:07:37.86\00:07:39.56 You know Kathy, I was thinking our experience in 00:07:39.57\00:07:42.69 because we live just over the mountains in Chile. 00:07:42.70\00:07:46.50 Did you? And tell me if I am wrong, Ariel. 00:07:46.51\00:07:50.82 but being a Protestant 00:07:50.83\00:07:52.59 in certain parts of South America 00:07:53.04\00:07:54.74 is not actually a bad thing to be, 00:07:54.75\00:07:56.91 it's kind of an upward thing. 00:07:56.92\00:07:58.45 In other words, it's actually the in thing, 00:07:58.46\00:08:01.19 now I am sure there is exceptions to this. 00:08:01.20\00:08:03.40 But the Protestantism is growing leaps and bounds 00:08:03.85\00:08:07.55 in South America. 00:08:07.56\00:08:08.59 Was it like that though when you were there? 00:08:08.95\00:08:10.76 Argentina and Bolivia, I've never been to Chile. 00:08:11.80\00:08:13.64 But Argentina and Bolivia are strong Catholics. 00:08:13.65\00:08:16.58 Okay. And our friends the Catholics 00:08:16.59\00:08:18.41 have you can say, predominance over there. 00:08:18.42\00:08:21.11 But me and my brother, we have a problem learning 00:08:21.62\00:08:26.00 to say The hail Mary's, 00:08:26.01\00:08:27.32 my brother could actually recite them better, 00:08:27.33\00:08:29.31 then some of the other kids so. 00:08:29.32\00:08:30.76 In the public schools, public schools were run 00:08:30.77\00:08:32.93 by the Catholic Church. So, you had the priest, 00:08:32.94\00:08:36.28 sometimes they would bring the Virgin Mary 00:08:36.29\00:08:38.07 to the school and the priest will come 00:08:38.08\00:08:39.44 and bless the school. 00:08:39.45\00:08:40.57 We had to participate in all these rites. 00:08:40.58\00:08:42.39 So were very much exposed to all that as kids, 00:08:42.40\00:08:44.80 and God gives you wisdom. 00:08:44.81\00:08:46.87 You know, you can only go as far as your beliefs 00:08:46.88\00:08:49.21 and your understanding of the word of God is, 00:08:49.22\00:08:50.68 you can only go so far. 00:08:50.69\00:08:52.09 But the Lord give us wisdom as children to be like 00:08:52.62\00:08:54.74 the three faithful that they were in Babylon. 00:08:55.48\00:08:57.99 They went toward the statue was, 00:08:58.37\00:09:00.14 but they never bowed down to it. 00:09:00.15\00:09:01.31 So, we find ourselves sometimes in those situations, 00:09:01.75\00:09:04.19 I'm saying that. 00:09:04.20\00:09:05.17 So, did it help you grow spiritually? 00:09:05.18\00:09:06.72 It solidified. it did. 00:09:06.73\00:09:08.18 because growing up in a Colporteur's home 00:09:08.19\00:09:09.79 you have tons of books. 00:09:09.80\00:09:10.77 I praise God that I have a mom like the one he gives me, 00:09:11.60\00:09:15.31 gave me, because she saw in me 00:09:15.32\00:09:17.24 a desire to learn fast. 00:09:17.25\00:09:18.54 Reading was one of the first thing she caught up, 00:09:19.06\00:09:21.30 because I used to have the Bazooka Bubble Gum Wrappers. 00:09:21.31\00:09:24.12 Mom, what does that word say, 00:09:24.13\00:09:25.36 of course, she's Spanish. 00:09:25.37\00:09:26.34 Yes. Mom, what does that word say 00:09:26.35\00:09:27.32 and she will begin to teach me 00:09:27.33\00:09:28.56 and so I learned to read before I went to school. 00:09:28.57\00:09:30.14 Yes. And because of that, 00:09:30.15\00:09:31.66 I think the Lord used that and... 00:09:32.09\00:09:34.64 That is so funny, 00:09:34.65\00:09:35.70 well, so where did you learn to read, Ariel? 00:09:35.71\00:09:37.21 Off the bubble gum wrappers? Yes. 00:09:37.22\00:09:39.11 That was the beginning. Well, it's wonderful. 00:09:39.93\00:09:41.33 I never that's just a new one. 00:09:41.34\00:09:42.83 Right, I, that's the only reading material that I had. 00:09:43.53\00:09:46.93 And it was short enough that, you know, a book has pages, 00:09:47.28\00:09:50.16 but a bubble gum wrapper is just a bubble wrapper. 00:09:50.17\00:09:52.44 So it was not threatening. No. 00:09:52.45\00:09:53.72 If I can read this, you know, it's a style. 00:09:53.73\00:09:55.40 It was a five year old's newspaper, 00:09:56.08\00:09:57.76 you find out about the world from those sources. 00:09:58.55\00:10:01.14 And of course, if you chew too much bubble gum, 00:10:01.15\00:10:02.37 you don't... Oh, dear. 00:10:02.38\00:10:04.07 I don't have to worry about those, 00:10:05.82\00:10:07.11 they were coming out naturally. Oh, okay. 00:10:07.12\00:10:09.38 Anyways, because of that, 00:10:09.70\00:10:10.95 when my dad would bring children's book to sell 00:10:10.96\00:10:13.36 as a Colporteur, I devour them, 00:10:13.37\00:10:15.04 I mean, I just went through the stories of the Apostle, 00:10:15.05\00:10:17.74 the stories of Joseph, Moses. 00:10:17.75\00:10:19.54 So, me and my brother were extremely or thoroughly 00:10:19.55\00:10:23.11 exposed to biblical themes and biblical stories. 00:10:23.12\00:10:25.73 So, I praise God that the foundation, 00:10:25.74\00:10:28.09 the foundation that our parents 00:10:29.39\00:10:30.56 were able to give us by God's grace, 00:10:30.57\00:10:32.67 placed a very concrete foundation in the life of me 00:10:33.49\00:10:37.19 and my younger brother. Amen. 00:10:37.20\00:10:38.17 Did you stay there? 00:10:38.18\00:10:39.17 Then we came to United States. 00:10:40.07\00:10:41.29 Oh, no, what's that going. You're suppose to laugh. 00:10:42.27\00:10:44.00 I think I'm suppose to stand 00:10:45.66\00:10:46.64 and sing the national anthem or something... 00:10:46.65\00:10:48.24 I will explain myself what I say about that. 00:10:49.03\00:10:50.92 I didn't laugh my head hung... 00:10:50.93\00:10:51.93 Let me explain what I said about that, 00:10:52.31\00:10:53.74 Okay. Because coming here 00:10:53.75\00:10:57.08 it was a blessing, of the opportunities 00:10:57.09\00:11:00.68 that were given to myself, my brother. 00:11:00.69\00:11:02.84 And I do not by any means regret any of that. 00:11:02.85\00:11:06.25 But this country, the way it's setup, 00:11:07.03\00:11:09.98 this is for my outsiders perspective. 00:11:09.99\00:11:11.71 The way it's setup is designed at least when we came here, 00:11:12.58\00:11:16.14 this was around 1984. 00:11:16.15\00:11:17.68 Things that, you know, you have seen them 00:11:18.92\00:11:20.53 flashes of those times in the past. 00:11:20.54\00:11:22.57 Some of the things that I remember, 00:11:22.84\00:11:24.14 were the one time I was watching PBS, 00:11:24.92\00:11:27.18 and there were gonna run a special, 00:11:27.84\00:11:29.65 after school special and the question 00:11:29.66\00:11:31.41 on the whole show was going to be, am I gay? 00:11:31.42\00:11:34.08 And they had a picture of a 13 year old boy. 00:11:34.09\00:11:36.03 Really. That question never, 00:11:36.04\00:11:39.04 ever, ever entered into my mind. 00:11:39.05\00:11:40.73 I thought, you know, girls were, you know, 00:11:41.59\00:11:45.40 fun to play soccer with and things like that. 00:11:45.41\00:11:47.48 I was nothing to this sexuality mentality already. 00:11:47.83\00:11:51.58 Right. But when I saw that, 00:11:51.59\00:11:53.00 it was like just like Satan in the Garden of Eden with Eve. 00:11:53.44\00:11:56.85 You know, has God really said? 00:11:56.86\00:11:58.57 The question was never in Eve's mind 00:11:58.90\00:12:01.71 until Satan planted it. Suggested it. 00:12:01.72\00:12:03.61 And that just created a chasm of conflict in my mind, 00:12:04.07\00:12:07.10 because my parents had already told us, 00:12:07.50\00:12:09.42 you know, listen, girls are gonna be 00:12:09.43\00:12:12.02 a part of your life, but later. 00:12:12.03\00:12:13.27 Don't worry so much about that, 00:12:14.12\00:12:15.20 you have school. And women will take up 00:12:15.21\00:12:17.52 enough of your brains once you're done with school, 00:12:17.53\00:12:19.76 No, no. Be positive, 00:12:21.02\00:12:22.53 it was a good thing, 00:12:22.54\00:12:23.51 you know, you've focus on how to please this lady. 00:12:23.52\00:12:25.81 You noticed, he's kind of above that... 00:12:25.82\00:12:26.90 I think I'm, and it's not fair here, 00:12:26.91\00:12:29.34 I don't think I will go there. 00:12:29.35\00:12:30.32 Go ahead with your story, there's two, 00:12:30.33\00:12:32.31 two sitting over here and one sitting here, go ahead. 00:12:32.66\00:12:35.89 And so you're telling us that coming 00:12:35.90\00:12:37.90 from the culture of South America 00:12:37.91\00:12:39.37 and coming into this kind of somewhat secularized, 00:12:39.38\00:12:43.11 very open, very open. 00:12:43.12\00:12:44.14 Really, it was more open then there. 00:12:44.15\00:12:46.16 As far as certain things, yes. 00:12:46.17\00:12:48.61 But you know, well, it was like that for us 00:12:49.20\00:12:51.46 in Europe, compared to here. 00:12:51.47\00:12:53.22 Ariel, I also hear you're saying that this is a land 00:12:53.23\00:12:59.31 where there are more material advantages, 00:12:59.32\00:13:01.43 you know, Kathy, I was, I remember 00:13:02.14\00:13:03.63 when I was in Pakistan years ago. 00:13:03.64\00:13:05.28 A conference president, he told me, he said, 00:13:05.73\00:13:08.26 pastor, he said, I can't think of anything 00:13:08.27\00:13:10.42 that would be in heaven that you don't already have. 00:13:10.43\00:13:12.21 And so this is seen as the land of opportunity, 00:13:12.97\00:13:15.58 and so this did give more material opportunities. 00:13:15.59\00:13:18.73 It did quickly, in Bolivia and Argentina, 00:13:19.15\00:13:22.49 I can remember that if you had car in one place, 00:13:22.50\00:13:24.88 you really didn't have money to afford a TV. 00:13:24.89\00:13:26.81 And if you had a TV in one place 00:13:27.18\00:13:28.77 you really couldn't afford to have a car. 00:13:28.78\00:13:30.09 That's how the mind of a young person thought. 00:13:30.43\00:13:35.30 When I came here we had everything, 00:13:35.62\00:13:37.32 all of us had cars, we had a TV in every room 00:13:37.68\00:13:40.48 and all of those things began to crack at that foundation, 00:13:41.76\00:13:45.03 Because the first thing that I was, 00:13:45.64\00:13:48.18 I was very prone to read, 00:13:48.19\00:13:49.95 but then I was very prone to watch cartoons, 00:13:50.71\00:13:53.37 Bugs Bunny and all those other. 00:13:53.38\00:13:54.75 I grew up that way. Cartoons. But I wasn't a reader. 00:13:54.76\00:13:57.40 But we didn't have cables in South America. 00:13:57.41\00:13:59.14 And South America is different now of course, 00:13:59.15\00:14:01.71 now the whole world is pretty much the same, 24x7 TV. 00:14:01.72\00:14:04.62 But, back then they had, 00:14:04.63\00:14:07.22 They had started 12 with military news, 00:14:08.79\00:14:10.89 then they had a Mass, and they had soap operas 00:14:10.90\00:14:14.34 for about five hours, and then cartoons for an hour. 00:14:14.35\00:14:17.71 And so once the cartoons were over, 00:14:18.39\00:14:20.39 you know, you didn't wanna see soap operas, 00:14:20.83\00:14:22.72 we didn't care about those things. 00:14:22.73\00:14:23.76 So, you read, you played games, 00:14:23.77\00:14:25.62 you did all these things. 00:14:25.63\00:14:26.60 Here they had the cartoon network, 00:14:26.61\00:14:28.65 24 hours cartoons, all day long. 00:14:28.66\00:14:30.98 Seven days a week. 00:14:32.11\00:14:33.17 And so, it was hard for me to turn it off. 00:14:33.18\00:14:36.65 So, Satan supplanted the love for reading, 00:14:36.66\00:14:40.79 for the love for watching. yeah. 00:14:40.80\00:14:42.20 And no mental exercise. So, coming here was, 00:14:42.21\00:14:45.16 could have been a tremendous blessing, 00:14:46.40\00:14:47.93 unfortunately the circumstances that I allowed myself 00:14:49.99\00:14:53.45 to enter both in high school and even after high school, 00:14:53.46\00:14:58.07 we're just extremely detrimental to that foundation, 00:14:58.08\00:15:00.88 to the point where it seemed like 00:15:01.56\00:15:02.64 everything was gonna crumble. 00:15:02.65\00:15:03.88 In other words, you're describing 00:15:03.89\00:15:06.16 your early life with high spiritual values, 00:15:06.17\00:15:09.34 and a high sense of importance 00:15:09.35\00:15:12.58 of spiritual things in your life. 00:15:12.59\00:15:13.68 And so you're saying when you came here 00:15:13.69\00:15:14.93 that begun to the diminish somewhat. 00:15:14.94\00:15:17.04 Well, on your choices, you choose certain things 00:15:17.05\00:15:19.69 that undermine all the other things that you've been taught. 00:15:19.70\00:15:21.93 Yeah, in high school, the values were different. 00:15:22.28\00:15:27.32 In South America, I'm not gonna say South America is better, 00:15:27.86\00:15:30.96 this is the difference, it's the difference. 00:15:30.97\00:15:32.85 In South America, you had uniforms, 00:15:33.69\00:15:35.80 everybody had to wear uniforms 00:15:35.81\00:15:36.99 no matter what school you went to. 00:15:37.00\00:15:38.20 Here when I came here Adidas, 00:15:38.55\00:15:41.13 Shell Top Adidas and this specific jeans 00:15:41.14\00:15:43.70 and specific jackets were in style. 00:15:43.71\00:15:46.05 And of course, those were not found in Kmart, 00:15:46.55\00:15:48.73 where my dad shopped. Right, right. 00:15:48.74\00:15:50.26 So, when I went to school, 00:15:50.27\00:15:51.85 it wasn't no longer my academic performance, 00:15:53.33\00:15:55.73 Right, that dictated my level 00:15:55.74\00:15:58.23 but rather my outward appearance. 00:15:58.78\00:16:00.62 So, you begin to care less about getting honors, 00:16:00.63\00:16:03.47 and carrying more about how many friends accepted you 00:16:04.18\00:16:07.44 and who you hung out and who you ate lunch with, 00:16:07.45\00:16:09.64 and who sat with you at cafeteria. 00:16:09.65\00:16:11.53 So, we became very shallow, 00:16:11.54\00:16:12.83 and of course, the transition wasn't fast, 00:16:13.42\00:16:16.41 it was extremely gradual. 00:16:16.42\00:16:17.52 Like I said, the Lord blessed me 00:16:18.05\00:16:19.52 and my brother with, we're not perfect, 00:16:19.53\00:16:21.48 but perfect for us parents. 00:16:21.85\00:16:23.16 Because they refer, they are like, you know, 00:16:24.01\00:16:27.93 we don't care what they're telling you on TV, 00:16:27.94\00:16:29.83 we don't care what they're. 00:16:29.84\00:16:31.09 You know, at that time, 00:16:31.10\00:16:32.20 it was around the time where I think 00:16:32.21\00:16:34.73 there was a young man that had divorced his parents, 00:16:34.74\00:16:36.79 I don't know if you guys remember that? 00:16:36.80\00:16:37.90 I do remember that, 00:16:37.91\00:16:38.88 I do remember something about that. 00:16:38.89\00:16:40.78 And my parents were like, listen, 00:16:40.79\00:16:42.90 you know, you cannot divorce us, That's right. 00:16:42.91\00:16:45.78 because we have a big belt then you do. 00:16:45.79\00:16:47.29 Are you sure? well in God's eyes though that's not possible? 00:16:48.83\00:16:53.58 Exactly, legalities, may say what they say, 00:16:54.19\00:16:57.40 but in God's eyes that was, that was false, that was void. 00:16:57.41\00:17:01.15 It was not heaven, they did not look 00:17:01.16\00:17:02.57 at that as something solid 00:17:02.58\00:17:05.12 or something that actually took place. 00:17:05.13\00:17:06.42 So, my parents had this fear of, 00:17:06.43\00:17:07.96 I was being drawn away from them, 00:17:07.97\00:17:09.85 and graduated from high school was actually 00:17:10.44\00:17:12.72 now back funny to me and my brother, 00:17:13.12\00:17:14.85 because as conversations grew back between 00:17:14.86\00:17:18.10 my parents and my brother. 00:17:18.11\00:17:19.24 When they were sitting together and we ate 00:17:20.09\00:17:22.90 and then we're finding out that they were scared 00:17:22.91\00:17:24.85 and we were sacred of something similar, 00:17:24.86\00:17:26.52 but from a different perspective. 00:17:26.53\00:17:27.91 All our friends in high school were telling us, 00:17:28.37\00:17:30.17 man, I got to get a job, my parents, 00:17:30.18\00:17:31.79 I am gonna turn 18 and they wanna kick me out. 00:17:31.80\00:17:33.86 I have to go and find a place to live at. 00:17:34.25\00:17:35.73 And me and my brother looked at each other like, 00:17:36.08\00:17:37.54 I wonder if mom and dad are gonna do that to us. 00:17:38.14\00:17:40.20 And in Argentina, you don't leave home unless 00:17:41.43\00:17:44.34 you get married, right, or basically, that's it. 00:17:44.35\00:17:47.25 My parents on the other hand were getting from their parents, 00:17:48.51\00:17:51.57 other parents saying, my child's threatening me 00:17:51.58\00:17:54.10 that when he turns 18 he's leaving, 00:17:54.11\00:17:55.99 and was never gonna see me again. 00:17:56.00\00:17:57.30 So my parents were thinking well, you know... 00:17:57.31\00:17:59.31 Are they gonna do that to us? 00:17:59.32\00:18:00.50 Ariel and Marcelo are not thinking about doing that to us. 00:18:00.51\00:18:02.98 So, it, this mentality that at least we found ourselves in, 00:18:03.39\00:18:08.49 what it begin to do was put 00:18:08.94\00:18:10.14 a huge wedge between our families. 00:18:10.15\00:18:11.73 The communication broke down really fast. 00:18:12.51\00:18:14.77 You couldn't talk to your parents of certain things. 00:18:16.73\00:18:18.89 So, this particular subject you just talked about, 00:18:18.90\00:18:21.24 the two fears had you all not talked to each about that? 00:18:21.25\00:18:23.77 No, we just acted them out, complete misunderstandings. 00:18:23.78\00:18:26.81 Our parents were over reacting to certain things 00:18:26.82\00:18:29.04 and we were over react to other things. 00:18:29.05\00:18:30.72 And so it just created a lot clashing, 00:18:30.73\00:18:32.77 a lot friction, it's also misunderstandings. 00:18:32.78\00:18:35.21 And Satan does things in such a way that 00:18:35.65\00:18:37.68 with through those misunderstandings you got, 00:18:39.65\00:18:41.38 you have a great separation. That's right. 00:18:41.39\00:18:43.56 And a greater chasm... Divide and conquer, 00:18:43.57\00:18:45.35 Yes, yes. And you could do a good job 00:18:45.36\00:18:48.21 dividing by breakdown communication, 00:18:48.22\00:18:50.14 yes, right, right, absolutely. 00:18:50.15\00:18:51.81 That's the first thing that I learned to do, 00:18:51.82\00:18:53.57 is to be suspicious of my parents motives. 00:18:53.58\00:18:55.45 Do they go through my things, blah, blah, blah, 00:18:55.99\00:18:58.11 and my parents on the other hand 00:18:58.12\00:19:00.42 were being taught to be distressful of us kids. 00:19:00.43\00:19:02.86 Are you kids bringing marijuana from school, 00:19:03.33\00:19:05.76 are your kids smoking, 00:19:05.77\00:19:06.74 and you don't know these things. 00:19:06.75\00:19:07.72 Are you kids drinking. So both of us had this fear 00:19:07.73\00:19:10.86 that were foreign to us. 00:19:10.87\00:19:12.57 And it was kind of difficult adjusting to those 00:19:12.58\00:19:15.06 and maintaining the conversation. 00:19:15.70\00:19:17.19 Because when you don't trust, you're kind of like waiting 00:19:17.20\00:19:19.47 for the other person to give you a little more information. 00:19:19.48\00:19:21.76 Yes. Rather than you give to them. 00:19:21.77\00:19:23.84 And when he came to issues like talking about sex, 00:19:24.74\00:19:27.61 because in, I was what 15 in Junior High. 00:19:28.31\00:19:33.19 And you know what sex education consisted in my school? 00:19:33.54\00:19:35.87 It was not anything more than showing 00:19:37.65\00:19:40.45 the males how to use a condom. 00:19:40.90\00:19:42.28 That's all basically that it consisted of and informing us 00:19:42.78\00:19:46.92 that we could have access 00:19:46.93\00:19:48.39 to as many condoms as we would need. 00:19:48.40\00:19:50.95 Is this once you got here obviously? 00:19:51.33\00:19:53.30 Once we got here, this is public high school. 00:19:53.31\00:19:55.14 And safe sex was actually, if you wanted to title it 00:19:55.55\00:19:59.53 correctly was half sex class education, 00:19:59.54\00:20:02.88 Right, Right. Yes. 00:20:02.89\00:20:03.86 It wasn't safe sex, it was, if you feel like it, 00:20:03.87\00:20:06.74 go ahead, but now you're safe. 00:20:07.16\00:20:08.84 Which is the most destructive thing 00:20:09.26\00:20:12.78 you can say to a teenager, 00:20:12.79\00:20:14.17 because it distorts totally the mentality of relationships, 00:20:14.58\00:20:18.53 it distorts towards the mentality of family, 00:20:18.54\00:20:20.62 of intimacy, it just, and Satan does that masterfully, 00:20:20.63\00:20:24.20 he begins young about breaking down 00:20:24.21\00:20:26.76 how we view these scared Holy things. 00:20:26.77\00:20:29.41 Yes. Ariel, now you were going 00:20:29.42\00:20:31.70 through a period in which you were being 00:20:32.17\00:20:33.91 very Americanized, this in some of the more 00:20:33.92\00:20:37.46 negative aspect of the culture. 00:20:37.47\00:20:39.12 What was going on in your spiritual life, 00:20:39.70\00:20:41.62 in another words, did you drop out of church 00:20:41.63\00:20:43.29 about that time or could you tell us about that? 00:20:43.30\00:20:46.00 I learned to fake it. You know you go to school 00:20:46.77\00:20:50.64 for a certain number of years and you get a Ph.D 00:20:50.65\00:20:52.50 I have about three of them. 00:20:52.97\00:20:53.94 Because of how many years I learned 00:20:54.21\00:20:55.82 to put up aside as an Adventist. 00:20:55.83\00:20:59.04 Because I didn't want to leave the church, 00:20:59.45\00:21:02.39 I was not happy anywhere else. 00:21:02.40\00:21:03.97 I mean, as far as truth was concerned, 00:21:04.48\00:21:06.69 I knew like I told you guys that foundation as a child, 00:21:06.70\00:21:09.32 gave me a conscious that I could not enjoy the world 00:21:09.78\00:21:11.98 no matter how hard I tried. 00:21:11.99\00:21:13.48 Amen to that. Yes, and thank God 00:21:13.49\00:21:15.45 for the prayers of mothers and fathers. 00:21:15.46\00:21:17.46 Because the Holy Spirit even though I wanted to go 00:21:17.84\00:21:20.60 and do the dancing and all these other things, 00:21:20.61\00:21:23.23 at the end of the night you come home 00:21:23.83\00:21:25.86 and you have this dreaded fear, 00:21:25.87\00:21:27.65 God's watching and he's seeing everything. 00:21:29.15\00:21:31.25 So, you did, you did drop out? 00:21:31.26\00:21:33.00 I did, but not, 00:21:34.20\00:21:35.48 I technically I always remained in the books. 00:21:35.49\00:21:37.71 I always had a suit and tie in church. 00:21:37.72\00:21:39.49 Okay. But Sabbath evenings 00:21:39.50\00:21:42.35 I was watching movies and doing anything 00:21:42.36\00:21:46.02 that if I was really in the church I would not. 00:21:46.03\00:21:48.77 I would not be participating in a lot of the things 00:21:49.23\00:21:51.29 that I did and doing many of the things that I did. 00:21:51.30\00:21:53.61 And for many years I was satisfied with that. 00:21:54.01\00:21:55.70 And when you said God's watching, 00:21:55.71\00:21:57.66 did you have a sense of hashes, 00:21:57.67\00:21:59.31 or did you have just a sense of you know I'm hurting the Lord, 00:21:59.32\00:22:02.37 God knows what I am doing, which was it? 00:22:02.38\00:22:04.37 If Satan can get you to misunderstand your parents, 00:22:04.38\00:22:06.24 he will have a easier time making you misunderstand God, 00:22:06.25\00:22:08.74 that's true. Because as the more ignorant 00:22:08.75\00:22:11.63 you are about the love of your earthly father. 00:22:11.64\00:22:14.12 Right. The more easily 00:22:14.13\00:22:16.88 you'll be deceived about your Heavenly Father. 00:22:16.89\00:22:18.88 So, did you have some experience 00:22:18.89\00:22:20.37 now as you came did coming, did you stay there? 00:22:20.38\00:22:23.78 Did you come back to the Lord? 00:22:23.79\00:22:25.19 The Lord and His mercy brought me out, amen, amen. 00:22:25.20\00:22:27.82 He put hedges about me, you know sometimes 00:22:27.83\00:22:29.89 we see restrictions and things that are not removed 00:22:29.90\00:22:33.46 quickly as hindrances. But now I see them 00:22:33.47\00:22:37.53 as a wall that Lord will not bring down, 00:22:37.54\00:22:40.15 to keep me from passing it, to keep me from passing it. 00:22:40.16\00:22:42.77 Because I was blindsided. 00:22:42.78\00:22:43.99 A lady once told me, you know the Lord does not deal 00:22:44.57\00:22:46.96 with all of us the same way. 00:22:46.97\00:22:48.12 He looks at the circumstances we were raised, 00:22:48.13\00:22:50.38 he looks at circumstances we find ourselves 00:22:50.75\00:22:52.85 in and he's merciful, amen, 00:22:52.86\00:22:54.61 and he was merciful with me to the utmost extreme. 00:22:54.62\00:22:57.54 Finally in 1997, I'm not gonna go into all of this, 00:22:59.31\00:23:05.91 but I was able to go to a mission field in Bolivia. 00:23:05.92\00:23:09.27 It's a branch of, Serve a Need, 00:23:10.46\00:23:11.96 of ADRA called Serve a Need. 00:23:11.97\00:23:14.39 And it's for drug we have children. 00:23:14.94\00:23:16.73 And I've got to see eight to ten, 00:23:17.38\00:23:19.35 twelve year olds glue sniffers from Santa Cruz, Bolivia. 00:23:19.36\00:23:22.45 We would take him away out in the Mountains, 00:23:24.30\00:23:26.12 change there diet and offer them prayer. 00:23:26.13\00:23:28.52 Really. And these kids had parents 00:23:28.53\00:23:31.37 that were horrible parents, 00:23:31.38\00:23:34.38 I say it the way it is, they were horrible parents. 00:23:34.39\00:23:37.21 And yet these kids loved their mom. 00:23:38.09\00:23:40.21 Really? Once they got past their anger 00:23:40.22\00:23:42.02 and the frustrations of the mom not being home, 00:23:42.03\00:23:44.13 and being out with boyfriends. 00:23:44.14\00:23:45.20 With the dad being out with girlfriends. 00:23:45.21\00:23:46.45 When he came down to it at night, 00:23:46.46\00:23:47.79 they wanted me to pray for those parents. 00:23:47.80\00:23:49.66 And I began to think. Amazing. 00:23:49.67\00:23:51.50 How have I treated my parents, 00:23:52.14\00:23:53.51 you know in the Mountains of Santa Cruz, 00:23:55.49\00:23:57.67 I remember after reading Spirit of Prophecy or the Bible, 00:23:57.68\00:24:00.46 I always sit out there and cry. 00:24:00.47\00:24:01.64 You know Lord, what kind of treatment 00:24:02.44\00:24:04.51 have I given my parents. 00:24:04.52\00:24:05.72 I've just been a horrible, horrible burden. 00:24:06.18\00:24:08.32 And so I hear you telling us, 00:24:08.33\00:24:10.32 Ariel, that though you had some ideological 00:24:10.33\00:24:13.23 conflicts in your teenage years, 00:24:13.24\00:24:16.24 when you began to get out there 00:24:16.25\00:24:17.69 and see things from another perspective, 00:24:17.70\00:24:19.26 you begin to reevaluate yourself 00:24:19.27\00:24:21.29 and kind of tune up your spiritual life. 00:24:21.30\00:24:23.25 And all the horrible things that happen 00:24:23.26\00:24:24.83 to those children yet they could love their parents. 00:24:24.84\00:24:27.19 Yes, and I had wonderful parents 00:24:27.20\00:24:29.14 that I totally mistrusted. 00:24:29.15\00:24:30.24 And I denied them my love, which wounded them deeply, 00:24:30.61\00:24:34.40 I know it did. First thing I did, think, 00:24:34.41\00:24:36.43 then when I came back from South America 00:24:36.44\00:24:37.80 was apologize to them. 00:24:37.81\00:24:38.80 And you know that was the beginning 00:24:40.23\00:24:42.13 of me seeing God hands in my family once more. 00:24:42.14\00:24:45.22 Because, I remember, I was kneeling together 00:24:45.23\00:24:47.16 and my dad praying and thanking the Lord, 00:24:47.17\00:24:49.36 with tears in his eyes, we were all crying, 00:24:49.83\00:24:51.84 all of us were crying in the kitchen table, 00:24:52.19\00:24:54.23 I remember it. I see it here that he, 00:24:54.24\00:24:57.48 all embrace like we should do when we were little. 00:24:57.49\00:24:59.75 It was like a big long time had passed 00:25:00.06\00:25:02.40 and it was full of darkness. 00:25:02.41\00:25:03.96 And God had once more brought the family together, 00:25:03.97\00:25:06.53 oh, amen, amen. And my brother of course 00:25:06.54\00:25:08.33 was there too and we, for a long time, 00:25:08.34\00:25:10.60 me and my brother never hugged, 00:25:10.61\00:25:11.84 and our father used to make us 00:25:11.85\00:25:13.07 kiss each other on the cheeks, 00:25:13.08\00:25:14.05 it's very Spanish thing. It's very Spanish. 00:25:14.06\00:25:15.77 Yes, yes. [Foreign Language]. 00:25:15.78\00:25:16.98 Yes, and the kiss as well, for the longest time, 00:25:16.99\00:25:20.73 me and my brother we did not show 00:25:20.74\00:25:22.35 any type of affection, he will go his way, 00:25:22.36\00:25:23.97 I will go my way. 00:25:23.98\00:25:24.95 But after this, we could embrace each other 00:25:25.18\00:25:27.49 and tell to each other, I love you again. 00:25:27.50\00:25:29.11 Amen. It was the most wonderful 00:25:29.12\00:25:31.44 experience, Kathy, to see in the short time 00:25:31.45\00:25:34.51 that I've been alive in this planet. 00:25:34.52\00:25:36.07 To see a God of mercy rescue somebody 00:25:36.50\00:25:39.24 with the knowledge that willing forsake it. 00:25:39.25\00:25:41.44 And he protected you during your most difficult time. 00:25:41.45\00:25:44.46 During that time, oh, the Lord is merciful. 00:25:44.47\00:25:46.12 I mean, anything could have happened to me, 00:25:46.13\00:25:47.10 those roads going up to those mountains in South America 00:25:47.11\00:25:49.55 are not like the roads out here, 00:25:49.56\00:25:50.78 people die all the time. Right. 00:25:50.79\00:25:52.21 He preserved me through that, preserve me through... 00:25:52.22\00:25:54.06 He's pursuing us, isn't he? 00:25:54.07\00:25:55.04 Yes, and to use us. 00:25:55.05\00:25:56.76 And to use us, we had for a purpose, 00:25:56.77\00:25:59.05 he is pursuing us for a purpose, 00:25:59.06\00:26:00.47 he has a purpose for you. 00:26:00.48\00:26:01.61 And you're doing a lot right now. 00:26:01.62\00:26:03.33 Ariel is the massage instructor at Black Hills Mission College 00:26:03.34\00:26:07.35 there of evangelism in South Dakota. 00:26:07.36\00:26:09.47 And he does a wonderful job, 00:26:09.89\00:26:12.56 that's good and he's taught 00:26:12.57\00:26:13.83 so many to do a wonderful job as well. 00:26:13.84\00:26:16.47 And that's by God providence as well. 00:26:16.48\00:26:18.24 Amen. It is by God providence, 00:26:18.25\00:26:20.46 he's got good hands. I would like to ask you more 00:26:20.47\00:26:23.86 about what most affected you about your walk with the Lord, 00:26:23.87\00:26:28.46 I don't know if we have enough time to even go into that but... 00:26:28.47\00:26:32.45 I say short prayers of whatever comes to my mind first, 00:26:32.94\00:26:36.73 okay, quick. The prayers of my mother, 00:26:36.74\00:26:39.31 oh, amen, okay. The prayer of my father, 00:26:39.32\00:26:42.27 yes, and the Desire of Ages. 00:26:42.28\00:26:44.92 Oh! That's good, which is a book, 00:26:44.93\00:26:48.24 on the Life of Christ, on the Life of Christ, 00:26:48.25\00:26:50.41 That's right. That book broke my heart. 00:26:50.42\00:26:52.33 It would do it for anyone who was looking for the Lord, 00:26:55.18\00:26:59.08 wouldn't it? If you were open to that, 00:26:59.09\00:27:00.56 it would do it. 00:27:00.57\00:27:01.54 What wonderful story. 00:27:01.55\00:27:02.52 It is and it's not enough we didn't get all the details 00:27:02.53\00:27:04.91 I would like have, but you are going to come back 00:27:04.92\00:27:06.56 into another program with us. 00:27:06.57\00:27:07.79 And it's more or less telling us where you are, 00:27:08.14\00:27:10.60 and in the subject of courtship and seeking a companion, 00:27:12.42\00:27:17.10 And a little bit more then that. 00:27:17.52\00:27:18.73 But before we go, I want to invite the, 00:27:18.74\00:27:21.56 our viewers to write or call 3ABN. 00:27:22.00\00:27:24.55 Tell us about your impressions of our program. 00:27:25.34\00:27:28.63 We would like to hear from you, 00:27:29.04\00:27:30.11 I enjoy hearing from those from the past. 00:27:30.12\00:27:32.57 Ariel is gonna pray for us now as we go out, 00:27:33.03\00:27:35.04 you stay with us, 00:27:35.05\00:27:36.02 we'll be praying with you and God bless you. 00:27:36.03\00:27:37.83 Dear Father, thank you so much for your mercy. 00:27:40.50\00:27:42.45 And Lord I am thankful that you saved me. 00:27:42.98\00:27:45.12 All of us Father we could not even, 00:27:46.61\00:27:49.28 we cannot even imagine where would we be Lord 00:27:50.57\00:27:52.63 had you not intervened in our life sometime. 00:27:52.64\00:27:54.53 And Father, I pray that all this work 00:27:55.40\00:27:57.25 and after repeating to our lives will not be for nothing. 00:27:57.26\00:27:59.62