Thinking About Home

Intercessory Prayer Changes Families

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Participants: Kathy Matthews, Janet Page, Jerry Page

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00:31 Welcome back to "Thinking About Home."
00:33 I'm Kathy Matthews and I'm glad
00:34 that you've join us again. We have been talking
00:37 about experiencing God's power through prayer
00:40 and we have with us again Jerry and Janet Page
00:44 from the Central California Conference
00:45 and I would just like to go over a little bit of
00:49 your background. Well, you are the president
00:52 of the Central California Conference correct?
00:54 I plead guilty, and Janet you were with
00:57 Woman's Ministries and a Prayer Ministry?
00:58 Yeah, just for those who haven't seen
01:00 you here before? And we have been going over
01:03 some of your spiritual journey and I would like
01:06 to just review that for a second,
01:08 Jerry you went through a time, you were raise
01:10 in a Christian home but you went through
01:12 the time of rebellion and it's a burden
01:15 for you in our life isn't it to get people to
01:17 pray and because it was so important
01:19 how your family prayed for you, and
01:22 how the Lord apprehended you wasn't that so.
01:25 Yeah, intercessory prayers changed my life
01:27 my parents got some may be were praying
01:29 for me then my wife at another point in her life
01:31 after she was reviewed that much a woman
01:33 praying for me and it had change my life so,
01:34 amen. You know, it just it's a passion we have
01:36 if we pray for each another it changes lives.
01:38 And that's what we are gonna talk about today
01:40 intercessory prayer right? Intercessory prayer
01:42 and how it can change our families?
01:44 So, you have little funny story
01:46 you tell me about someone name Tony.
01:49 Yeah, Tony Campolo some of the folks probably
01:50 know him. He is a dynamic speaker
01:53 and he was at a college to speak to a bunch
01:56 of young theology people and eight guys
01:59 got him in a backroom begin to pray over
02:01 and they put their hands on his head. Really?
02:02 And he said you know I don't mind people praying
02:05 over me I will need all the prayer I can get,
02:07 but he said they were, eight guys they got
02:08 on their hands on my head and they begin
02:10 to pray then they prayed long,
02:11 he said the longer they prayed more they begin
02:13 to lean on my head. So, I was thinking
02:15 when this gonna be over but he said one
02:16 of the guys wasn't he even praying for me.
02:18 He was praying for some guy in Charlie Stoltzfus
02:20 and he was going and waxing eloquent,
02:22 he was saying Lord helped Charlie Stoltzfus.
02:24 You know, he left his wife and his three kids
02:26 this morning and do something Lord step in
02:28 intervene save that family.
02:29 And he said he went on and on and every time
02:31 he would always say now Lord you remember
02:33 Charlie lives a mile down the road in the right
02:35 hand side in the silver trader, and Tony says
02:37 I felt like saying what do you think the Lord
02:39 is asking what his a dress was or something,
02:40 so anyway this went on and on he said he prayed
02:42 and prayed and finally they quit, I preached
02:45 got in my car and headed out towards the
02:47 Pennsylvania Turnpike. He said there was hitchhiker
02:49 standing at the beyond ramp waiting to get on
02:51 and he said I know you're not supposed
02:52 to pick up hitchhiker's, but I am a preacher,
02:54 I love to get somebody captive in my car,
02:56 so he picked him up, started down the road
02:58 he said hi my name is Tony and he said
03:01 and he said what's your name?
03:02 And the guy said my name is what do you think?
03:03 Oh Charlie. Yeah it's Charlie Stoltzfus. Really.
03:06 And so Tony's eyes got big and then he said
03:08 at the next exit he got off and begin to turn
03:10 around then the guys eyes got big
03:12 and said hey mister where are you taking me?
03:14 And he said I'm taking you home, really.
03:16 And he said why are you taking me home?
03:18 He said because you left your wife
03:19 and your three kids this morning didn't you?
03:20 Oh! He must he thought he was a prophet
03:21 or he thought. The guy said yeah
03:23 how did you know that? And he said God told me.
03:26 And you know I believe God did tell him, right.
03:27 In, prayer, united prayer as little praying God
03:30 communicate with Tony something, he need to
03:32 know it reminds me Jeremiah 33:3 which says,
03:36 Call to Me, and I will answer you and show you
03:39 great and mighty things, which you do not know.
03:40 Amen, we found not only as God wants us to pray
03:43 for each other to help our families but then
03:45 he will show us things as we pray together
03:47 that will help us work for our families.
03:49 Anyway Tony gets off the next,
03:50 heads down the road a mile to the right
03:53 hand side of the trailer, posing to drive
03:55 and the guy says how did you know I live here?
03:56 Same answer God told me. His wife comes out
03:59 and says you are back, you are back what happened?
04:01 And so he was little bit hurry, her eyes get big
04:04 like his are big. Tony says now listen
04:06 you two get in the house you sit down,
04:07 I'm gonna talk and you are gonna listen,
04:09 oh wow. And he said it was like E.F. Hutton,
04:12 and they listened and he said that afternoon
04:14 he led those two young people with Jesus Christ
04:16 and that guy is a preacher in
04:17 California today, amen. So, anyway we're just
04:20 excited with you know if we will get together
04:22 in pray intercede God will show us how to work
04:24 for a families and love ones and people all listen.
04:27 Amen. One thing I was gonna share with you
04:29 in the previous program I didn't get to, right.
04:31 It is a statement from Fifth volume
04:32 of the testimonies. The Augustine's mother
04:34 I think we talked about. Yes it is,
04:36 and it's really the ABC's of prayer
04:37 which in my life, Janet's life is we found that
04:40 it's still true the ABC's payer. It says the,
04:45 God is pleased with the faith that takes Him
04:47 at His Word. The mother of Augustine prayed
04:49 for his son's conversion. She saw no evidence
04:51 that the Spirit of God was impressing his heart,
04:53 but she was not discouraged.
04:54 She laid her finger upon the text presenting
04:57 before God his own words, and pleaded as only
04:59 a mother can. Her deep humiliation,
05:02 her earnest importunities, her unwavering faith,
05:04 prevailed, and the Lord gave her the desire
05:06 of her heart. Today he is just as ready to
05:08 listen to the petitions of his people.
05:09 His "hand is not shortened,
05:11 that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy,
05:12 that it cannot hear;" and if Christian parents
05:15 seek him earnestly, he will fill their mouths
05:17 with arguments, and, for his name's sake,
05:19 will work mightily in their behalf in the
05:21 conversion of their children. Oh amen,
05:23 that's promises all through scripture,
05:24 all through the spirit of prophecy that prayer
05:26 works and if we will unite together in prayer,
05:28 one person and another person or family
05:30 member that God will work in their lives.
05:32 And he will fill their amounts with arguments?
05:34 That's right, for the Lord. For the Lord to be
05:37 able to do, whatever he needs to do,
05:38 it open doors for him. Amen, well lets move to
05:41 you Janet, you have a lot of stories it seems
05:44 like that's where after you experienced
05:50 and realizing that you needed the Lord much
05:52 more in our life. And you are asking take charge,
05:56 it was the take charge of this women's retreat?
05:58 Yeah may be lead. And after that took place
06:01 that you have a lot of stories that really
06:03 show how God has worked in lives as
06:05 a result of intercessory prayer.
06:08 Yes it has made a big difference for me,
06:11 the story I shared before about how
06:13 my life was changed. I realize sometime after
06:16 that why that happened, Jerry had become the
06:19 President of a Conference right about the time
06:22 when the whole experience happen for me.
06:25 And when he become the President it came me
06:28 to people kept coming up congratulating me,
06:30 how that feel be the first lady all this,
06:31 I hate, I hate that kind of things it's very
06:34 I don't want to get and but towards the end
06:37 of the week people starting to coming up
06:38 and saying will you have committed ourselves
06:40 to pray for you and Jerry everyday.
06:41 They attended a seminar by the day walk
06:43 with on the Holy Spirit. And how important
06:45 it was pray for the Holy Spirit to be in your
06:47 Leaders lives. So, they've come and tell me
06:49 they're gonna pray for us, well I thought,
06:51 well thank you but no big deal, does prayer really
06:54 make that big difference, I've always heard
06:56 prayer just changes us when we pray not
06:58 other people, right. That is not true,
07:00 that is not true it does change us,
07:02 but it also changes other people. Amen to that.
07:05 And people starting to coming up to me
07:07 we are in a different church every week
07:09 and they would come up and say we're praying
07:11 for you and Jerry and I go oh thank you.
07:13 Not thinking it was any big deal,
07:14 but two years later after they have been doing
07:16 that my life was totally changed,
07:18 just turned upside down.
07:20 And you definitely related to that back
07:21 to their prayers. It definitely and I realize
07:23 there is a power in praying for others,
07:25 that's right. And that is just given me a real
07:27 passion to pray for others, to pray with
07:30 others and to watch lives be changed
07:33 it really is exciting, amen. I had one lady,
07:37 you had something? You take a deep breath.
07:39 I had one lady call me up I didn't know
07:41 that well, and tell me that she want to out
07:44 off a marriage, she want to get divorce,
07:45 she would married about 32 years.
07:47 And I just thinking, you know I'm not a marriage
07:49 counselor what I'm gonna do?
07:50 And is I was pray in silently about her what
07:53 she's talking, yes. I felt like God saying Janet
07:55 get together with her and start praying.
07:56 Get together once a week, so I said you know
08:00 I'm not a marriage counselor but I be willing
08:02 to get together and we do pray about
08:03 your marriage. Yes, and we could meet maybe
08:05 once a week for 20 minutes or so.
08:06 And she was willing? Yeah she said
08:08 oh I love that. So, we got to together
08:10 and first it was Lord please help my husband,
08:12 please help my husband, oh God he needs
08:15 this and he needs that and on and on.
08:17 And gradually just gently I started trying to get
08:19 her to focus more on God and
08:21 how wonderful God is, that's right and
08:23 to praise him. But, also encouraging her
08:25 to get into a relationship with God.
08:27 And it was amazing how our prayer time's change
08:30 from so much focus on her husband needed
08:32 to change, to her focus on just how much
08:35 she loved God and praise and adoration
08:38 for who he is. And that would be the by beholding
08:40 you become changed principle wouldn't it?
08:43 Yeah, I would think so sure.
08:45 We also started praying very specifically too
08:47 which I think is important and that was things
08:49 like Lord let him see his wife the way you do,
08:53 let him love his wife the way you do,
08:54 let her love her husband the way you do,
08:57 or let them you know. That's beautiful thought,
09:00 I'm sorry I just think of how to change from
09:05 the complaint to let them love like you do,
09:11 that's pretty deep and that's a
09:13 different focus all together I like that.
09:15 Well, he, he really started;
09:17 he saw difference in her because she started
09:19 glowing and looking happy, and he started
09:21 saying wanted to be around her.
09:23 And for two people who would never together
09:26 they started being together like this,
09:27 and started praying together and it just,
09:29 it change their lives. Powerful results
09:31 and it didn't happen over night,
09:32 we pray together day, week after week,
09:35 and we'd once a week for many months
09:38 before we started seeing changes.
09:40 So, that is to encourage just not to look for
09:42 something just right away, that's right.
09:43 One things that happens too that when you get
09:46 a group together you start praying
09:47 for your kids, or whatever it is.
09:50 You can count on things will get worse.
09:52 Just count on things will get worse,
09:53 yes, that's right. But, it's really a time to
09:55 praise God to give thanksgiving because
09:57 we told in Isaiah God's way is not our ways, yes.
10:00 His thoughts are high in our thoughts
10:02 and he is working we can know that because
10:04 scripture tells us that he is when we pray.
10:06 So, we need to step out in faith and to believe it.
10:10 We cancel so many of our prayers at least
10:12 I know I do, by doubting and saying getting
10:15 discourage oh you know nothing is happening.
10:17 It's stopping the prayer, yeah.
10:20 The, go ahead I'm sorry.
10:22 No it's alright, I just gonna said that
10:23 they are so many promises in scripture,
10:26 so many in the spirit of prophecy that
10:28 if we will unite together and pray over somebody
10:31 says an angel ascent and answer to every
10:33 honest prayer faith, God can give us things
10:35 they can't give us if we do pray.
10:36 And you know even my testimony were people,
10:39 lot of people praying for me, other people
10:41 can say well what about so and so who wasn't
10:42 prayed for and what about the evenness of
10:45 prayers for people but God has to figure
10:47 all that out, all I know was that in scripture
10:48 he is told us, much to pray to perceiver
10:51 and that we see it working and then maybe
10:53 40 years or it maybe 4 months or
10:55 maybe 4 minutes. But, God works in a powerful
10:57 way and her amount experience with my sister
11:00 I had a wonderful sister who helped raise me
11:03 she is a wonderful lady but, really,
11:05 she had a husband name Bob that she love
11:07 dearly and he got liver cancer and by the time
11:09 they discovered it, metastasis very seriously
11:13 and my sister been active in the church
11:15 somewhat in create a role and things but,
11:17 you know I had been totally unfair for
11:19 the Lord. This is something it's really
11:21 she said Lord you got to give me this,
11:23 you got to save my husband Bob,
11:25 you got to heal him. Bob wasn't healed physically,
11:29 he died a few months later but he had not been
11:32 a professed Christian and on his dead bed
11:33 accepted Jesus so I think he was healed, amen,
11:35 for eternity, especially spiritually. Yeah,
11:37 of course, but my sister it kinda send
11:40 her back you know she felt why didn't God
11:41 save my husband I needed him,
11:43 you know now I'm alone and she became somewhat
11:45 bitter and disturbed from God for a while.
11:46 And it's amazing after year or two,
11:50 I was really concerned about my sister,
11:51 I felt intensely urged by God to pray
11:54 and so I begin to pray and clam this promise.
11:56 1st John 5:16 which is one of those beautiful
11:59 promises it says: If anyone sees his brother,
12:01 put sister, wife, kid, anyone, sinning a sin
12:04 which does not lead to death,
12:06 I take that as an unpardonable sin,
12:08 he may ask, and the Lord will give him life
12:10 for those who commit sin not leading to death.
12:12 So, I begin putting my had right on that promise
12:14 and praying for my sister Carol and saying
12:17 God give her life, bring something into her life
12:19 that are really change her and help her see you
12:21 as you are and open her eyes and I was thinking
12:24 bring her a man God, and bring her new husband
12:26 somebody who really be on fire.
12:28 Interest thing happen though, now only after
12:31 that her friend her is became deeply converted,
12:33 God involved him in ministries and
12:35 she started sending my sister every morning
12:37 out of her devotional life, I know the thought
12:39 and spiritual encouragement whenever
12:40 and it's happened for well over a year
12:43 and it really broke my sister's heart
12:45 and she came to Jesus, she is active today
12:47 working at Union College and ministering
12:49 the people, oh good. You it's one of those
12:51 examples in my life of calming the promise put
12:53 your hand on it and well watching God answer,
12:55 and He always gonna answer.
12:56 And that, what I said a moment ago just not
13:00 giving up, not losing encouragement
13:02 or not losing our courage it just because
13:04 we don't see it immediately.
13:06 You got lot more stories that show
13:08 intercessory prayer how it's answered.
13:11 One thing I've find it makes a difference too
13:14 is to pray and ask God what scripture can I claim
13:17 for this person, and I know I have done with
13:19 my sons and it just powerful when God
13:22 especially gives you that scripture to claim
13:25 for them. What scriptures do you claim for me?
13:31 There are some I'm sure, I'm not sure
13:33 she was not ready to answer that.
13:35 No I wasn't, the we had a group that
13:40 was getting together to pray for camp meeting,
13:43 for the woman's we had like this early morning
13:45 woman's meeting we did, and this one lady kept
13:49 bringing up about her husband so you know
13:51 I came into the church through him and yeah
13:53 and yeah he doesn't want to go to church,
13:54 he is not a spiritual leader in the home
13:56 and he won't go to camp meeting, could you please
13:57 pray for him to go to camp meeting.
13:59 And to be a spiritual leader, so we started
14:02 praying for that, praying God get him
14:04 to camp meeting, get him to be that spiritual
14:06 leader in the home and camp meeting came around.
14:09 Some way we wouldn't want to pray it give like
14:11 he was spiritual leader, but I think that's
14:13 fascinating payer that she wanted him to be a
14:15 spiritual leader, that's right I'm glad
14:17 to hear that. Camp meeting came around
14:20 and it didn't happen he wouldn't go,
14:22 and so we start to again planning for the next year
14:25 and the biggest part of planning for us to pray
14:28 together what does God want to have happen,
14:30 and as we pray she again brought it up,
14:32 will you please pray for my husband to be
14:34 the spiritual leader, do wanna go a camp meeting,
14:35 do wanna to go to church. To pray with me,
14:38 that he would wanna pray with me,
14:39 so this time we got smart and we just stayed
14:43 silent before the Lord and said God how do
14:45 you want us to pray? How do we pray
14:46 for this man you know we've tried our way
14:48 how do we pray? And I think that so important
14:51 we are so quick to give God what we think needs
14:54 to happen, but how much more we need to wait,
14:56 and say Lord how should we pray?
14:58 What scripture should we clam?
15:00 Like a disciples said. And we found like God
15:02 was leading us to pray that it would be put
15:04 in his mind, that he wanted to go to
15:05 camp meeting, why that was important being
15:08 a man I'm not sure, but that's what
15:11 we started praying, God will put in his mind
15:13 will about three weeks or so later,
15:16 he now it was actually as longer and that
15:18 was several months later, he came into the
15:20 kitchen came home for working
15:21 and he is scratching his forehead like he is not
15:23 sure where these thoughts coming from
15:24 and he said you know, I want to go to camp
15:26 meeting, I can get time off from work
15:27 and I can brought so and so this trailer could
15:29 we go to camp meeting, wow,
15:31 and she called me up oh I was exciting
15:34 he wants to go to camp meeting.
15:35 I said great sending the application because
15:37 we fill up, she said no, no when he comes down
15:39 toward he won't want to go.
15:41 I said but God's answered your prayer send it in.
15:43 But, she wouldn't do it, she put it on the front
15:45 of the refrigerator with magnets and it set there
15:47 for several weeks. Till finally one day
15:50 he noticed that he said isn't the application
15:52 for camp meeting? And she said yeah,
15:53 he said what's it doing here why don't
15:55 you send it in? And she said while we sure
15:57 that what I came down to it,
15:58 you wouldn't want to go to camp meeting.
15:59 He said of course I want to go to send it in.
16:03 She was a praying woman and I believe that
16:05 God was impressing her to wait,
16:07 wait until not I don't think
16:09 she understood why, but was impressing her
16:11 to wait till was really his idea that
16:13 he wanted to go camp meeting, amen.
16:15 So, they came but after the first weekend
16:17 she comes up to me with her arms crossed
16:19 haven't for saying fine he is here camp meeting
16:21 but what good will it do, he won't go
16:23 to any meetings. And I started ringing my hands
16:25 and I said well I don't know what's wrong
16:27 I said will you together some people to really
16:29 pray for him, that God will get him to meetings.
16:32 So, we started doing that I get people
16:34 who are comfortable praying together
16:35 and we started praying Lord get this man
16:37 into the meetings. He didn't get him
16:39 to all of them, which I thought maybe needed
16:41 but we get him to go to a few of them
16:43 that man during the week. And one of them man
16:44 in the morning it was on prayer.
16:46 And this one morning towards end of the week
16:48 the speaker gets done, he says I want you
16:50 to divide them twos and threes in pray.
16:52 And normally well this husband would do was
16:55 just sit there quietly, he wouldn't pray,
16:56 he would till everybody was done and
16:58 get up and leave. Well this preacher got down
17:00 went down the side aisle pick them out
17:02 of the middle and said I want to pray
17:04 with you too, really, yeah. Not knowing them
17:07 and it forced the husband into praying
17:09 and I don't know if it was that or just the
17:11 overall experience of the week.
17:13 But, he went home and change man, amen.
17:15 He went home telling his wife I want to start
17:17 praying together with you and he started studying
17:18 his Bible, started wanting to go to church.
17:21 Did he become the spiritual leader,
17:22 she was hoping for? He started leading out
17:23 and family worships which his wife called me up,
17:26 a while later crying and said it's terrible
17:28 he is leading out family worships and it's awful.
17:31 And unfortunately she was a very wise woman
17:33 and she kept him out shot, and did not
17:37 say anything to him about it.
17:39 Do you see the look on his face?
17:41 Well it's true, not just a woman but any of us
17:43 when somebody starts going spiritually around us,
17:46 we attend to start telling them how
17:47 they should do it better. We try to be the
17:49 Holy Spirit still let him do his work.
17:51 And we get discouraged, and so she was smart
17:54 and it melt it out worships got better
17:56 gradually but, it took a while. But, one thing
18:00 I don't know it was three weeks or so later
18:02 actually it was couple of months,
18:04 one night after that he have the family worship,
18:06 and put the kids to bed. Which by the way
18:07 I just gonna say that is so important to have
18:09 family worship, amen. Even if your husband
18:13 is not willing to do it, do it, do it morning
18:16 and evening have some things shorten do it
18:18 with those kids. Actually the wife is called
18:19 to do that, to take that spot if the husband
18:22 will not do it. And they need to able to approach
18:26 the children and to be relaxed with their
18:27 children and to leave their children.
18:29 I just wanna a encouraged the mothers to do that
18:32 sort of thing too because lot of times
18:33 you're alone but the Lord will be with you
18:36 and I'm you now back to Janet here I'm sorry.
18:39 It makes a difference if your kids playing
18:42 over them, for them to hear you praying
18:43 form them, absolutely. Not lecturing them,
18:45 not praying what they should do,
18:47 but just praying that you are so thankful
18:48 to have that child, amen. And what a wonderful
18:50 kid they are, I'm getting off the track here.
18:53 But, anyway this one night after the kids
18:55 were in bed, he asked his wife to come out
18:57 to the living room, he says I need your help,
18:58 so she came out there he went into another room,
19:01 came out with huge stack of magazines
19:03 and it's pornography magazines
19:05 and he is just shaking, and he says can you help
19:07 me burn these. And she said yeah
19:09 and so they put him in the fire place they set
19:11 them on fire, she said you know the burning
19:13 now lets go to bed it's late at night.
19:15 And he said no, I can't go to bed until every
19:18 one of those is in ashes they have so
19:20 controlled my life. We had no idea what this man
19:24 was suffering with, but we knew
19:27 they were problems. And you were told in
19:31 testimonies, volume 7 Page 21 it says.
19:34 Why do not believers feel a deeper,
19:36 more earnest concern for those
19:38 who are out of Christ? Why do not two or three
19:40 meet together and plead with God for the salvation
19:43 of some special one and then for still another?
19:44 Amen, that become so powerful to me,
19:47 of how important it is. That we know somebody
19:50 struggling that isn't quite right with the Lord,
19:51 we need to be interceding for them
19:53 and taking their name before his thrown.
19:55 On a consistent basis and why it's that
19:58 so important, to me it is. In this great universe
20:02 God is limited himself to our prayers,
20:05 prayer is not something that just changes us,
20:07 because prayer changes hits universe.
20:09 Amen, because God doesn't force himself
20:11 on us, right, yes. And just like he limited us,
20:14 he wants us to get out there and reach people
20:17 for Jesus. Same way he wants us to pray,
20:20 and by us praying it makes opens away for God
20:25 to working people's lives, amen and changed them.
20:27 And when we take time out of our busy schedule,
20:31 to take a 20 or 30 a week to prayed to intercede
20:35 for our church for our community
20:36 and our children, to people it's make the
20:38 difference, amen, amen. But, that has to come
20:41 also out of our relationship, yes that
20:43 we have one on one with God that
20:45 we're experiencing everyday in his word.
20:48 And what about the rest of the mans experience
20:50 because he was really turned around by that
20:52 and just became a dynamic leader
20:54 in the church, he preach sermons,
20:55 he was there in evangelistic meetings
20:56 started first one to be there when the church
20:58 door open giving Bible studies just a dynamic
21:02 leader for Christ and it become from his woman
21:05 praying specifically for the husband,
21:07 I have seen it over and over and over again
21:09 Janet told the story about our lives sort being
21:11 turned around right after that we said you know
21:14 we need to together with these friends
21:16 of ours and we need to begin to pray for
21:18 people and we took, that next year we took name
21:20 after name in our community
21:22 and we didn't tell them we are praying for them,
21:23 but we watch probably 15 or 16 people that
21:26 we were praying for have renewed experiences
21:29 or conversions or dramatic things and you know
21:31 we need to do that even more now because
21:33 we just when you take a person angels fly
21:36 James said you have not, because you ask not.
21:39 And great controversy says God can't give us
21:42 some things because we don't pray.
21:44 It's a rule in the great controversy some how
21:46 and yet we try to around the church and
21:48 our families so humanly so many times.
21:51 And I wanted it before we get to the end of
21:53 all this I want to know how it,
21:54 affected Jerry's church ministry or leadership
21:58 or in the home if we have time for you to
22:01 get to that, but I so you were taking
22:02 a breath to say something.
22:04 I let Jerry answer that question,
22:06 okay what I wanted to say is I don't want
22:08 parents to get discouraged, because so many will
22:10 say I've been praying for my son,
22:12 my daughter 20 years or more.
22:14 And they don't see any change.
22:15 And I just wanna say don't give up but I think
22:18 it's so important to find somebody else that
22:20 you can pray with, amen. To pray together with,
22:22 the power in numbers, meet once a week,
22:24 and claim those promises for them.
22:26 But, also we don't know why our kids
22:30 or why we have to go through the things we do,
22:32 in this great controversy, maybe on of sons will
22:35 have to spend his life in jail.
22:36 Why maybe God's needs him there to reach
22:39 the other people. Or maybe my son gets on drugs,
22:42 so that God can use him afterwards to reach
22:44 drug addicts. It's kind like a Joseph story.
22:46 Yeah and I'm not saying that God makes
22:48 it that happen because I don't think he wants
22:50 anybody to do sinful things, right.
22:52 But God turns it around for good
22:54 Romans 8:28 tells us that.
22:56 That He will take it and turn around for
22:57 good in our life. Amen. And that's a good thing
22:59 to remember, I'm glad you said that in there
23:01 because lots of times we know that the Lord
23:03 is preferred will is such that he would want us
23:05 to go thought that, but if we can believe
23:09 and remember that he would turn around for good,
23:11 we can have an awful lot of effect on other
23:14 peoples life. Well, are you going to
23:15 be able to answer the other?
23:16 Yeah, I will try to answer that a big question.
23:18 You know I have learn some things about
23:21 a marriage and praying for each other myself
23:23 and one of them I used to come out early
23:25 in our marriage and I done my devotional
23:26 time and I find something I thought
23:28 God wanted to tell my wife or my sons.
23:30 I have discovered that it's very the Holy Spirit
23:32 is very able to be the Holy Spirit.
23:33 And I need to let him do his own work
23:35 and pray but this lady is praying for me all
23:38 the time, and early on that time when her life
23:41 was turned around she and some other women
23:43 started praying for me a lot more.
23:44 And I was going through some real struggles
23:45 that you now were internal struggles
23:48 and God just really brought me into an
23:50 experience too and again we are not saying
23:52 today we are just wonderful I think you
23:54 understand that were all spiritual not but,
23:56 it changed my life dramatically and
23:58 now is she leads her ministries and there is
24:02 number of people it support me and
24:03 everything I'm dealing with I would not wanna
24:04 be a leader in this time at the end of time
24:07 in God's church, right. Facing everything
24:10 I'm trying to face in personal and suites
24:12 and issues and Satan afterwards and
24:14 every way, without know that I had a
24:16 tremendous prayer support. And this lady is
24:18 praying for me and everything I go through,
24:20 every Wednesday in the office, a team comes
24:23 together, once a man and woman and
24:25 come together and I give him a list every week
24:27 of the things that are right us night now,
24:29 you know appropriate way from the prayer
24:31 over and they go down that list and pray
24:33 for those things, good. I would just like to add,
24:35 can I interrupt, please do. It is not that
24:37 is particular people that are praying, right.
24:40 So many times this concepts getting out
24:42 there oh you think you are the only once
24:44 who can pray, right no. It's just a fact that
24:46 somebody is willing to get together and pray,
24:49 right God is calling. You know I talked about
24:52 some of that with a mutual friend of ours
24:54 just recently it was talking about the gift
24:57 of prayer is not among the list of gifts the
25:01 whole church is called to pray.
25:03 So, I'm glad you said that. But, if you read
25:05 the book of the evangelism page 99
25:07 where she is listing pursuing the 12
25:08 and the gift she also talks about the gift
25:10 of since earnest prayer along with mothers
25:13 so we argue about this, okay. So, Janet doest like
25:15 that too because she says everybody should
25:17 praying lot more and everybody should.
25:18 But, every gift needs leadership and so again
25:21 I'm not making big argument for this,
25:23 right but I believe we need people
25:24 who are called and passion pray for others
25:27 to lead some of the rest of this in the
25:28 more prayer, amen. It's just small point
25:30 it is there more holy or they are only their
25:33 prayer as count. You want to get read of that,
25:36 it just willing to get together and do it,
25:38 amen. But, for me the comfort as a church
25:40 leader that I find in New England
25:42 when this terrible meetings coming up just
25:44 crisis over here, this pastor has to be like or
25:47 something. I know I have a team of people
25:49 who are willing to pray for me it's not because
25:50 they are holy or righteousness because
25:52 somebody is praying for me, amen what a
25:54 difference it makes I could tell you story
25:55 after story, encouraging Now one of our exciting
25:58 once in last several years has been at camp
26:00 meeting we began having lot of prayer a months
26:03 at a time and during camp meeting it was just
26:04 really review so called camp meeting and some
26:06 dramatic ways we have seeing may conversions
26:08 every year. And people just sense the presence
26:10 the God in a special way because we obey that
26:13 in some unique ways in prayer,
26:15 several years ago God put it in some of our
26:17 both partners heart and this one especially
26:20 to ask God for a token the united intercessory
26:23 prayer really works. They felt convicted
26:26 we have been raising maybe $100,000
26:28 or so for evangelism and camp meeting
26:29 the 10 days every year. And they became
26:31 convicted. I ask God sort like George Muller did.
26:34 God show this society there are no one believe
26:36 you in prayer that it works and so they said
26:39 Lord really use the evangelism offering
26:42 to show and in that here we got lot more and
26:44 that for us a goal. They begin to say you don't
26:46 have faith we would raise our goal a little every
26:48 year and they would
26:49 more and then we get it. And these begin to be
26:52 almost a laughing joke with the people because
26:54 we all saw that God was showing us.
26:56 And this last year and 10 days the people give us
26:58 over half million dollars for camp meeting
27:00 evangelism offering we are able to do all kinds
27:01 of new ministries. And again it just united
27:03 prayer God putting in peoples hearts and leader
27:06 that's says thank you Jesus for people to pray.
27:08 And what letter think could you pray for an
27:09 Evangelism and the funds to be reach yeah to reach
27:13 people for Christ absolutely.
27:15 Well, you know I am unfascinated with
27:17 your stories and it certainly encouraging
27:19 to everybody and it's encouraging to me
27:21 there is I told you a little while ago that
27:23 there is lot of stories that sometimes you just
27:25 don't think that other people need to here but,
27:27 they do need to here it. They are need to
27:29 be encouraged, so lets pray for everybody
27:32 it's needing this kind of intercessory prayer
27:35 for there families, stay with us we are
27:36 gonna pray together and may the Lord bless you
27:40 and I hope that you will institute
27:41 this in your family more.
27:46 Lord, we just come together now I said
27:47 where ever two or three agree according
27:49 you were it's done and we are just praying
27:50 right now that you will call each one of us
27:52 to the places the both partners that people
27:55 that we need to be praying with and for,
27:57 give us those two or three that
27:59 we are pray for the Lord we thank you.


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