Thinking About Home

Plain Talk To Wives

Three Angels Broadcasting Network

Program transcript

Participants: Richard O'Ffill, Kathy Matthews

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00:31 Hi, I am Kathy Matthews and
00:33 this is Thinking About Home.
00:35 We've been discussing many subjects on home
00:39 and family and we are in part 3 of a
00:42 series called Plain Talk. And today we're going to
00:46 be discussing more about Plain Talk
00:49 to wives and women. Our guest today is
00:53 director of Men's Ministries of the Florida
00:56 Conference of Seventh -Day Adventist Pastor
00:58 Dick O'Ffill. How are you? Well thank you,
01:02 as I was listening to you make the introduction
01:04 I thought of the words Plain Talk, what's Plain
01:07 Talk means, what means that. It' just Plain Talk,
01:10 it means we're gonna do Plain Talk and then
01:12 I was thinking when you introduced me as the
01:14 Director of Men's Ministry for the Florida
01:16 Conference. Especially we are talking to woman;
01:18 I know I thought of it. It is like who are you to talk
01:21 about. Well obviously, Kathy it's gonna be up
01:24 from mans point of view, because I am sure that
01:27 woman have lot to say about men but from a
01:31 feminine point of view, from woman's point of view.
01:32 Well you know I think lot of times what we here is
01:35 what woman think, there is a mood, there is such a
01:38 mood where it everything you see in here is what
01:41 woman think I rarely get to hear what men think.
01:46 Can I tell you something between us, am I wrong,
01:48 maybe it's just me. I am gonna, I am just simply
01:51 gonna bear what you are saying that oh I hardly
01:55 have the courage to say this do you know that
01:57 when woman get together correct me if I am wrong
01:59 woman will get together and talk about their
02:01 husbands you know what doesn't happen,
02:03 men getting together and talk about their wives,
02:05 they don't talk about their wives,
02:06 this is a strange thing. Now they might talk
02:08 about things they shouldn't talk about,
02:10 but they don't talk about their wives.
02:12 And so I merely saying it's really true that we
02:16 do hear a woman's perspective and I think
02:20 as we said in earlier programs there is a kind
02:23 of revolution going on men are being kind of
02:26 disenfranchised in fact maybe I am using the
02:29 word that is too strong almost being
02:30 emasculated, yes, that the masculine role
02:34 is being re-examined being redefine,
02:37 but I really feel that the problem we face is
02:42 not a problem, the problem in the home is
02:44 not a man's problem it's the men and the women
02:47 and I think that's why we've chosen to talk
02:48 about, about wives and woman today.
02:51 Well literally it's the sinful nature, it's the
02:53 sin in us, I think so, this is the problem,
02:55 but you know it's identified as men or
02:58 women, that's right and we do have our unique
03:00 problems there is no, no doubt about that,
03:03 but if the women got together and solved
03:06 all their problems and then we still have the
03:09 men's problems. If the men get together and
03:11 solved all their, but you can't do that because all
03:13 the women's problems are men's problems,
03:15 it's not possible, that's true, that's good.
03:20 I wanted to ask you this question how do you
03:22 suppose that the Women's Lib Movement has
03:25 affected women as wives. Well now remember what
03:28 we said, because it has affected, absolutely
03:30 as I would we just said a moment ago this is gonna
03:32 be from a man's perspective, a man's
03:34 perspective, and anyway I think that there needed
03:39 to be a midcourse correction and in other
03:44 words, it's kind of late course isn't it, well
03:46 better late then never show you say, oh yes,
03:48 better late then never, midstream you mean,
03:50 midstream and so the worst things that needed
03:53 to be corrected and but however perhaps this is
03:57 an over statement, but way up high there are
04:01 women's organizations that are led of course by
04:03 women and these women are not always
04:06 sympathetic to the home I don't think I need to
04:09 go in great details, so way up high philosophically,
04:15 what might appear to liberate women in its
04:17 most extreme manifestations
04:20 could be an enemy of the home as we've known
04:22 and understood couldn't it. Well I think it has been
04:25 I don't think it could be think it definitely has been.
04:27 I have a friend that went to affair and I think the
04:33 idea of Women's Lib is to uplift women.
04:36 Well, at a booth there she realized that she had
04:40 to do with this women's lib and other
04:43 organization, and she was downed for having long
04:47 hair for a lady that was progressive wouldn't
04:52 have really long hair, okay, okay, okay and
04:55 suddenly wouldn't be happy just being a mother
04:58 at home. So it was downing you as a woman,
05:01 yeah, and you know it's interesting how it can
05:05 down you in one way and lift you up another,
05:07 but it supposed to be all for women, but that didn't
05:11 work they backfired for her when she heard this
05:13 it didn't make her impressed by this
05:15 women's lib attitude, feminist attitude,
05:18 it's a feminist attitude and I guess I hear
05:21 you saying that, that there is an image that's
05:25 projected by these leaders and, yes, and it's
05:26 really an intimidating image because if
05:29 there was and this is what we go back to what
05:31 we said before if there was a mistake before
05:33 I think we are making another mistake because
05:35 if there was you know what they are saying is
05:37 unless you are woman like us you know you are
05:39 not a woman, yes, well I don't think that's fair.
05:41 I think there is a lot of woman too that have even
05:44 written books that what they thought it had started
05:47 out as is not what it is, and some of them are
05:52 backing off and, and trying to advice women,
05:55 but this is really not where you want to go,
05:57 exactly, it is ruining, it's gonna ruin your home,
06:00 it's gonna hurt you a lot. Well if there were some
06:01 positive things to say about the,
06:04 about the movement it would be that there has
06:08 been more sensitivity are given to the woman
06:11 as a person, yes, and to her rights, okay there is
06:15 the strength so, I think that would be the strength
06:17 and of course on the weakness side,
06:19 and intelligence, women every way we are finding
06:22 out that woman are capable, they are creative
06:24 and that they can virtually operate in any arena,
06:27 I might just say as a kind of little parenthesis.
06:30 I like the idea of woman in as doctors
06:33 as medical doctor. Well, for the simple reason.
06:37 Kathy I used to live overseas in a Muslim
06:39 environment, who else can, and Muslim woman
06:42 didn't go to male doctor, to male doctors,
06:45 and so I wish I mean may their tribe increase,
06:49 I think that woman ought to go through, better tribe
06:51 increase, of course without, we have your
06:53 blessing, and so that there is something right about
06:57 this, there is something right and however as we
07:00 say that the dangers are that it would be like us
07:05 men that if we, you know we had to corner on the
07:07 market and we are thinking only of ourselves
07:10 it wouldn't be hard for that to go to the other side
07:13 and we would be perpetuating but from
07:15 the other side the evils of the past, wanted some
07:20 more of the weakness of it though.
07:23 Well you should tell me, you are the woman.
07:26 Well I think one of the worst is the abandonment
07:28 of the home, yeah, living the role of the one thing
07:33 that can be so satisfying as being a mother
07:39 and a good wife onsidering others I heard
07:43 of yourself like the scripture tells us that we
07:45 should, instead of just thinking of yourself.
07:49 You know, when you talk about leaving the home.
07:52 See there would be a whole group of people
07:53 Kathy of your sex, who would say you know
07:57 so who says we got to be in the home see in
07:59 the other words they would see that there is a
08:00 problem right off, I know my name is gonna to be mud.
08:05 But God, in other words who did God create to
08:08 be mother, who did God create to be wives as
08:11 women, who did God create to be father's,
08:13 who did He create to be husband it's men.
08:16 So, really there are something going on
08:18 it's not right, this is not right, and by the way
08:22 I heard a story one time, I was there in Africa,
08:26 and I was talking with a wife and mother there
08:29 and she and her husband just got over their mission
08:32 service and apparently just before they had left
08:36 to go overseas she had attended the wedding of
08:40 her sister, you won't believe this, and so,
08:45 and she didn't mean anything by it.
08:46 She said to her sister well how many children
08:51 do you and John you know plan to have and
08:54 she said my sister said we don't think we're gonna
08:57 reproduce ourselves, she said I didn't know what
09:03 isn't incredible that something is going on,
09:07 you know women are being told you know
09:09 don't let children mess up your life.
09:13 There is someone that I spoke to in last year,
09:16 who had similar experience and some
09:18 they were standing in the kitchen together and
09:21 younger woman ask the elder one and this subject
09:24 came up about children and the younger one
09:27 thought it was demeaning and degrading to the
09:29 body, yeah, that would be, and that's having had
09:35 children now that the Lord gave me 'cause
09:37 I was married 10 years before I had the first
09:39 one and it was pride for a child that is a hard thing
09:44 for me to take. I get really sad when woman want
09:47 to get away from their children and so I think all
09:49 of this movement has affected the woman and
09:52 wanting to get away from it all, not only that is
09:54 devalued, it's devalued the women if you are
09:58 mother, if you are a wife, you know where is
10:02 your value, you need a career. Let me tell you
10:05 something, and I am you know I am not trying to
10:07 make it hard on women who have to work as
10:10 wives and mothers but we need to realize just those
10:16 characters that we can develop, oh yeah, and the
10:19 work that we can do with our husbands I think there
10:21 is that counsel too, yeah, wining our husbands to
10:24 the Lord by our chased behavior.
10:27 You know, when I preach sometimes I say,
10:34 you know we men have not changed much
10:36 through the years, now hang on are you ready or
10:39 you adjust your seat belt on, yes, I say wish till the
10:41 dirty old men we've always been.
10:43 Oh, you better explain yourself, now what I am
10:46 saying is that you know the men who are the one
10:48 standed on telling dirty jokes, yes, I am talking
10:50 generically, yes, consonants where I am
10:52 telling dirty jokes, I said we men really in the 21st
10:57 century we haven't changed, we are the same
10:59 dirty old men we've always been, basic nature.
11:02 You know who is changed though,
11:04 the woman have changed. Now don't be upset with
11:06 me, but really, really now the woman and there
11:11 were things that need to be corrected but I don't
11:13 think the woman needed to come down Kathy to
11:15 our level. I mean come down to our level,
11:18 I understand that. I was standing in a pharmacy
11:20 one time and for some reason or another
11:24 you know a young lady was upset, but you know
11:27 she whipped into dirty talk and she said I'm
11:30 gonna jump across this whatever this is you know
11:33 and lead you up or something, now you
11:37 know maybe I am old fashioned, just been
11:38 watching the wrestling game, I saw to myself
11:40 I can't believe this. Now it's true that it didn't
11:44 use to be that way when the men were around the
11:46 women they watch how they talk, they didn't tell
11:49 dirty jokes, but I have been told, some respect,
11:51 there was respect. I've been told that by men
11:55 who work in public and I am not putting women
11:57 down, that it's nothing wrong to be working out
12:00 in business and having women foul mouth and
12:04 telling dirty jokes all, yes, and so if women have
12:07 been liberated to tell dirty jokes and to be foul
12:09 mouth this doesn't sound like the liberation of the
12:12 daughters of God, it does have son like me, no not
12:14 at all, and the daughters of God need carefully not
12:17 to partake of that, of course and to
12:20 avoid it at all cost. Now, I say something
12:23 else I mean I told you at the beginning I was
12:26 gonna be kind of a men's perspective to this, yes.
12:29 Now I hope said those who are with us,
12:32 you haven't misunderstood when I say that we men
12:34 are basically the same I am talking about by
12:36 nature, I am not talking about Christian,
12:37 you know, I am talking about generic, but
12:42 do you know who sets the moral climate,
12:45 now this is gonna be my personal opinion,
12:48 the moral climate for a society I say it's the
12:51 women, what, are you ready, it could to be
12:55 designers no. Well but you see, you see in an
13:00 environment, well it's true, or in a moral,
13:02 in sexual relationship, yes, who is that throws
13:06 the green light, who is that sets the climate,
13:11 in other words there is something these days
13:14 about and this is very critical and some may
13:17 disagree with it, where the women seem to be
13:20 getting more overtly immoral by the way they
13:24 dress, by the way they act, by the aggression,
13:27 the sexual aggression, and of course for us men
13:31 who were the same dirty old men, we've always
13:34 been this is bringing out the worst, number one in
13:37 men and number two I believe it's degrading
13:41 the women, you know, it is, God created women
13:44 last, it was His very best effort, she was the
13:49 crowning act of His creation. Now, there
13:51 would be those who would disagree with you,
13:53 you said it this is from personal opinion on
13:55 women's opinion, oh of course, of course,
13:57 and I guess I have to bring it out not
13:59 necessarily that I agree with the site because
14:01 I think I personally with my age and experience
14:04 agree with you that the women is setting the tone
14:07 on lot of this, but you know I've talked to some
14:10 young people who would say what about those men
14:13 who need to keep God on their mind, who need to
14:16 reserve themselves, restrain themselves and
14:18 be the Christian man that they ought to be, right,
14:21 but you know a man is still a man and you put
14:24 certain things in his face. I am glad, you're gonna
14:28 have drumble. Now, I think that is very
14:31 important what you've just brought out that we
14:34 men as dirty old men are going to have to give
14:36 account to God, there is no doubt about that.
14:39 This dirty mind is unacceptable, its
14:43 incompatible, and he asks us to think on that which
14:45 is pure, which is pure. However, however
14:48 and I use this illustration and it's a wife and mother
14:52 illustration especially for the mothers who have had
14:55 experience having little children, I would know
14:58 that if you are preparing dinner or if I was
15:01 preparing dinner and I have a pot on the
15:04 stove that has a handle sticking out over the edge
15:07 and I am boiling water and I know I've got
15:10 toddlers running around who can hit that and
15:13 scroll themselves. Now I could say well
15:14 that's not my responsibility that's
15:16 their responsibility I didn't do anything
15:18 you would say wait a minute it's irresponsible
15:21 for a person who is cooking things on a stove
15:24 to leave a handle when there is a little child
15:26 running around, right, now you can't say it's the
15:28 child's problem, and so I guess what I am saying
15:31 as a man that I know we men have a problem in
15:34 this area, but I wish that the women of God would
15:37 get together and say you know we can't be
15:40 excessive after the fact and scripture talks about
15:44 being chased in, being modest, and modest,
15:46 and it has a lot to say about that, a lot to say
15:49 about the responsibility of a women in the area of
15:52 moral purity. So that even Christian women
15:55 have taken on feminist ideas and really promoted
16:00 selfish thoughts that I can be what I want to be and
16:03 you are not suppose to think anything,
16:05 that's right, and this is a sad thing for Christian
16:11 women to for Christian women to do this,
16:15 now I can understand if a women who is not
16:16 professing Christianity, of course, of course,
16:18 but if a women is professing Christianity
16:20 then she needs to see what the word says
16:23 and we need to come to harmony with it.
16:28 Do you know, do you know there is word that's
16:31 not hardly used anymore and I remember at least
16:34 when I was growing up it was all around, it was the
16:37 word modesty, when is the last time you heard
16:39 that word? What is the last time you heard that
16:43 word, well you don't hear it in public very often no.
16:46 And I was thinking of my own little, my own little
16:49 granddaughters how many do I have,
16:52 I have three I guess I got to be if I have got seven
16:55 grandchildren I have got three grand daughters,
16:57 and you know the way they dress, now they are
16:59 not strippers in the night club, but it is you
17:03 understand what I am saying, yes, they can be
17:05 dressed in the summer time very scantly when
17:07 they go to the beach. I don't need to even talk
17:10 about that, but I don't think that the modesty
17:14 is a word that in the 21st century has any meaning
17:17 to the young people, right, but yet this word
17:20 modesty is very important in scripture,
17:22 and used multiple times in various ways not
17:25 necessarily the word but principle of some kind,
17:28 the principle and so it I think if we don't as
17:32 Christians and we are talking about women
17:35 you know I wish why should I Kathy,
17:38 why should I as a man be talking to you about this,
17:41 this is not my day. Well I think though I am, I am it
17:44 is your business. I think if men would be men then
17:48 women would appreciate more of being modest
17:51 women, what is it isn't it the sinful nature that says
17:57 out of one side of the mouth I would like this
17:59 chased women who is modest and all of this
18:01 sort of thing, but over here you are leading at
18:03 the one and this is when you are giving the
18:04 compliments too, that's right, and this is the one
18:05 you are appreciating what kind of message are
18:07 you giving to women who want to be beautiful
18:10 and attractive, but obviously and have been
18:14 for sometime doing it in the wrong way.
18:16 Do you know I was sitting at a Sabbath dinner
18:19 table, character is beautiful also, well,
18:21 I was sitting at a Sabbath dinner table and you
18:24 know around the table there were you know
18:26 several families represented and there
18:27 was an attractive young Christian wife that was
18:33 there she was without her husband, her husband was
18:35 traveling and so we got talking about some of
18:37 these things, and she said I want to appear desirable
18:42 to other men, what does that mean in her mind,
18:44 what do you think she meant, what you see
18:46 I only have one meaning for that see and I wish
18:50 that women understood that, that if a women said
18:53 I want to appear desirable to other men we only
18:56 know that from one perspective that doesn't
18:58 mean I want to be a friend, I want to be seen
19:00 as a person, to me I hear that loud and clear I want
19:03 to be a sex object. Now I heard something
19:09 Kathy one time and that maybe we as parents
19:12 and as grandparents need to be very careful when
19:14 our little girls or grandchildren are this big
19:17 we are always talking about their bodies,
19:19 oh isn't she cute or boyfriends, or whatever
19:22 it is, but you see it's always about how pretty
19:25 they are, we look at the cute little socks, look at
19:26 the cute little dress, look at her cute little curls.
19:29 So, a child from the time she has this big is fed
19:33 the physical, yes, and then of course if she has
19:36 fed the physical when she gets to be 16 and 17 we
19:39 are talking about some serious problems, yes,
19:42 and suddenly the father is saying oh you know
19:43 what could happen and it often does happen,
19:46 little by little, step by step it happen.
19:48 And so it goes back to what you were saying a
19:50 moment ago that when they are this big we
19:52 should not be talking about how pretty they
19:53 are, we should be talking about the character thing,
19:55 yes, I agree with you and that is a problem,
19:58 actually those that I have had an opportunity to
20:00 mentor as young parents I've talked about this and
20:04 when they meet this problem because it's
20:06 everywhere within the church, we were always
20:09 feeding that physical thought, if you meet that
20:12 problem then you better pray about how you could
20:16 witness or handle for your child sake because it's
20:18 gonna happen to your child at sometime.
20:21 Do you know what I think the most wonderful
20:24 for lack of a better word women's lib text series
20:27 in scripture hang on I think it's the one that
20:30 says let it not be the outward adorning, yes,
20:34 now watch out how that works because Jesus is
20:37 saying to women, honey it's not what you are
20:41 physically that's important to me,
20:43 see because I think that even the women
20:46 are hyped or trained to be physical, I think they
20:48 resented, I think deep down inside they
20:50 resented, they resent being seen as objects,
20:53 yes, they want to be seen as people, now I don't
20:55 think you can tell me if am wrong,
20:56 well also though they want to be seen
20:59 as beautiful attracted to somebody, but if the
21:03 right thing was said to them by the men they
21:06 could, they could be happy, happier being
21:10 attractive for the right reasons, if you would
21:13 compliment a really modest women, yes right,
21:16 then I might put on that real modest outfit again
21:20 because that's what you like me in you know that
21:22 kind of thing, but did you know Kathy that those
21:26 who we know the best for example if you ask me to
21:29 describe somebody I don't know I would describe
21:32 the way they look, yes, if you ask me to describe
21:35 someone I know, yes, I'll describe the kind of
21:37 person they are and you see I think this is
21:40 a question that we as men but not just we has been
21:43 but the women particularly. Does a women want to be
21:46 known and remembered and describe as how she
21:49 looks, nearly for physical, or does she wanted to be
21:52 describe as the person she is and later,
21:54 well I'll have to choose the later.
21:55 Well later we're gonna to do a program here in
21:58 our schedule you know about old age, but let's
22:00 just introduce it little bit because a woman that's
22:03 hung up on the physical appearance, yeah,
22:06 when she gets down the line a little bit, could be
22:09 devastated, when you get a turkey neck
22:14 so and so anyway, anyway I guess what we
22:15 are saying is that, is that, is that God is saying to
22:19 women I value you as a person, amen in fact
22:23 God is God, he does and but we need to get it
22:26 across to Christian women that if you want
22:29 to be a somebody you don't want to be sexy,
22:31 right, you don't want to appeared to be desirable
22:34 to a guy that walks down the street, you won't have
22:37 the character that God can appreciate.
22:38 Let it not be the outward of adorning you see,
22:42 it's incredible, but anyway you forgive me
22:44 for saying talking this way. No, I don't mind it,
22:48 it's from a man's, I think it
22:49 perspective, needs to be said,
22:50 I think it needs to be said, but I wish,
22:52 I am glad you are saying it actually when we
22:55 invited you, when I invited you to do this
22:56 I was surprised that you were willing, to do Plain
22:59 Talk, yes, and it is Plain Talk, but I would long
23:02 for the day in which we men could get together
23:06 and talk what does God expect of us as men.
23:09 Now we men have a problems, we are dirty
23:11 old men among other things we have anger
23:14 and bitterness and that's, even once you become a
23:15 Christian this is something you have to
23:16 deal with, and then I wish while we are doing that
23:19 that the women would get together, because women
23:22 have their women things, I have a desire for that to
23:24 have the women together to study these subjects but
23:27 you know that is not something that women
23:29 often like to talk about, they would rather talk
23:31 with their pastors see and see this is the thing that
23:34 I have as pastor. See women can be very
23:36 free to talk with the pastors they can say
23:39 things to a pastor that they should say to
23:41 anybody, they can talk about their intimate life
23:43 and sometimes I will be talking with the women,
23:45 that's dangerous, and she will start on that and
23:46 I will just stop that I will say, I will say
23:48 sister I think you want to find a women of God,
23:50 that's good and I am glad you are, I am glad you are
23:53 doing that because this is, I don't need that in my
23:56 mind, I don't need that in my mind and she doesn't
23:58 need to be sharing this kind of information with men.
24:04 You know I hope we haven't offended anybody
24:06 out there because you know we kind of went
24:07 into this little bit didn't we?
24:09 We kind of went into this you know, we can go
24:10 into more I think, you know another thing that
24:12 we had on our list to discuss in this program
24:14 was this matter of and I think it connects with the,
24:18 this matter of the physical, yes, you know
24:20 advertising is out there, yes, and where do we get
24:23 our role models for, oh yes, while we started out
24:25 with the movement and how it effected us but
24:28 obviously that movement has effected
24:30 advertisement. It's effected advertising and
24:31 I don't think we're gonna be able to finish in this
24:33 program, but I think you and I want to discuss
24:35 maybe even at another time, how that advertising
24:39 is creating a dissatisfaction,
24:43 yes discontent, and this dissatisfaction means
24:46 that I have to go out and buy a new dress in other
24:49 words it is that I am satisfied to be what I God
24:52 meant for me to be if I don't have a new dress
24:54 I am nobody, and then when I go out and buy
24:57 that new dress I put it out in my credit card.
25:01 Are you going somewhere else now,
25:03 because we were talking about that, yeah and we
25:04 were talking about that and maybe we can do
25:05 that in another program because our homes
25:09 are being virtually undermined by this level
25:13 of debt and debt is being exacerbated by
25:18 advertising and you see advertising is ultimately
25:21 the biggest put down there is, see advertising is
25:23 saying to you as a women and to me as a man.
25:26 Unless Kathy you look like this, oh I know,
25:28 you are nobody, I know, unless your shape like
25:31 that, you are ugly, you began to a person who
25:35 is not strong in the Lord can began to market
25:37 themselves in a totally different way and actually
25:39 it is marketing yourself. Well, it's the, I wish that
25:42 we would talk about this at the church you see we
25:44 used to call these as Church standards, yes,
25:46 but nobody wants to talk about Church standards
25:47 because they say that's legalism, but they were
25:50 something right about that we that are Christian
25:52 would dress because the fact that he would be
25:54 simple, the fact that he would be modest would
25:56 keep him out of these big pitfalls all around,
26:00 they create these huge problems where we
26:02 would have these moral implications or where
26:04 we would have over spending, we would have
26:07 discontent, well I don't like my house my house
26:09 is ugly, I can't stay in my car, my car is no good,
26:12 anyway, we need to continue on this debt
26:16 thing because, keep thy heart with all diligence
26:18 for out that are the issues of life. Dick I want to
26:22 invite our viewers though if they have topics for
26:27 family and something that they would like to suggest
26:32 call or write 3ABN and tell them that this might
26:37 be a particular topic that you would like to see on
26:40 Thinking About Home, if we can we might be
26:42 able to deal with it. You see the address there
26:46 and or call mention my name and Thinking
26:48 About Home and I appreciate if you do
26:49 that I am sorry Dick I interrupted you, oh no,
26:51 no, I was just saying as we come to our closer
26:53 this program that as men we need the word of God,
26:58 and I believe that excuse me you women you need
27:02 the word of God that if we let the society
27:04 determine what we are gonna be, we're gonna
27:06 be lost women as women and as men, yes, and our
27:08 home is gonna, they are not gonna break, yes, we
27:11 Christian women need to be listening to this, this
27:13 voice, absolutely, this voice. You're gonna be
27:16 talking about a few other topics Plain Talk as our
27:18 program goes on, what's next one do you think?
27:20 Or we're gonna keep talking about women,
27:22 oh fun, I don't know we want to pray for our
27:26 viewers, yes do that let's do that.
27:28 Heavenly Father, Lord we are thankful for our
27:30 families, we are thankful for our wives, we are
27:33 thankful for our sisters, we are thankful for our
27:35 mothers and grandmothers, yes, and O Lord we pray
27:38 for the women for the women of God,
27:39 the daughters of God that they will be able to resist
27:41 the great temptations that would take away their
27:44 beauty, their inner beauty that would take away
27:46 their dignity, their intrinsic dignity that
27:48 they have in Jesus. Oh Heavenly Father in
27:51 these last days, we pray that you will
27:54 protect us and as Jesus prayed that you will
27:57 keep us from the Evil, we are thankful.


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