Welcome to
"Thinking about Home."
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I am Kathy Matthews,
and we've been talking
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about women in society.
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And most specifically
we are going to talk
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about mothers in
Israel again today.
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I want to read a scripture
to you out of proverbs 31:10,
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and it's "A wife of
noble character who can find?
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She is worth far
more than rubies."
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If we were to meet the noble
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Misses far above rubies,
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the virtuous
women of Proverbs 31,
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would we be drawn
to her or hate her.
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Our guest again
today is Arlita Winston
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and I want to welcome her,
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Arlita, thank you for
being here. You are welcome.
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What would we
think of this woman?
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Well, I don't know if you
would love her or hate her.
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She was obviously,
she had it together.
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She was a great
woman. She was great wife.
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She was a great mother.
She was a great neighbor.
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But one doesn't
become virtuous by doing
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all the things that
are said in Proverbs 31.
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One does those things
because one is virtuous.
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And I think that the
key for that is found
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in one of the verses of
the very end of the chapter,
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where talks about she was
a woman who feared the Lord
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Amen. That showed
where her heart was.
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And I think that when
we are talking about women
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in society who are going
to have an effect on society,
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on our society today.
We have to start there.
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Women who fear the
Lord above everything else
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they aren't afraid to
be, to speak out the truth.
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They aren't afraid
with their children.
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They aren't afraid in the
groups that they are with,
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but they stand up and accounted.
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They set their
face like a flint.
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And they show
that they fear the Lord
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and that they hate
evil. And this kind of woman
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is obviously one that's
going to be a noted woman
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like this woman in Proverbs 31.
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I think of one
of my favorite women
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in all of The Bible, I
have a number of favorites,
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but Esther is certainly
one that I dearly love.
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In her story here
she is a young woman
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when she is called into
the court and queen Vashti
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has been deposed because
of insubordination to the king
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and so a great
beauty contest is held
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and so you wonder what kind
of story is this going to be.
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Is this going to be
about a woman who fears God?
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You know, the word God
is not does not even appear
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in the entire book
and yet you are left
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with a very deep conviction
that this woman feared God,
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knew how to
subordinate her own desires
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and be submissive
to her uncle, Mordecai!
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Yes, and her
mother and father had died
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and she grew up in the
house of her cousin Mordecai
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and he was a man obviously
of a note there even though
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there whole nation,
the nation of Israel
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where prisoners there in Persia.
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They were
living there in Persia.
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Yet he was well-reputed and
it was an upstanding family,
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so here we find Esther,
she is brought into the palace
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and immediately Eunuch,
the man who is in-charge
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of the women's ports,
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Yes, I was
thinking what's that called;
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that area where
all the women are?
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Well, it's called the Harem.
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I was going to say
that and I thought well
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was it that, it was. He
was Eunuch who was in-charge
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of the Harem, but
Esther attracted him greatly
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not because I don't
think because of her beauty
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in particular but
for beauty of spirit.
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And he gave her the
choice place to stay.
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He gave her the
choice ointments.
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He just singled her out
for special, special favor
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which is very interesting,
but God is not what made
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her attractive. It was because
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she was already
attractive. In spirit In spirit
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that I think is why the
king was so drawn to Esther.
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And then of course, the
plot thickens and you see
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an another woman
who is the wife of the
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prime minister Haman and
she is a rather a self-serving,
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very strident woman
and her name was Xerxes
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and she nagged Haman on to
positions of great apparent
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no matter what the cost of
lives, didn't matter to her.
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Her husband needed
to be next to the king
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and so if cost
Mordecai's life fine.
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If he cost the
whole nations lives, fine,
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but she was
determined to have power.
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So lot of difference
between the two of them,
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wasn't there?
Enormous, enormous difference.
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The Mordecai at this
point has hurt of the plot.
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He tells Esther
to go to the king.
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Meanwhile the king has not
had Esther in his apartments
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for about 30 days. And
Esther knows that if the king
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has not invited her it
could be of with her head Yes
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So, she sent back to Mordecai.
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She said, how can I do this?
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I haven't been be then to
the king in all these days.
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And he says, don't
think Esther that your life
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will be spared.
Don't think that you
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can get away with
this. He doesn't know yet
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that you are Jew.
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The whole nation may
die and you may live,
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but who knows but what
God has brought you for such
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a time as this,
and you go to that king
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and you tell him.
Well, here is dear Esther,
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Trying to make a
decision, isn't she?
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Not only that, but she has
been submissive to Mordecai.
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All of her growing appears.
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He has been
like a father to her.
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He has told her what to
do and she begins realizing
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that's true. My whole
nation is at risk here.
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And she begins to
identify with her people. Amen.
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And she said, alright,
but first I got to pray
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and she asked all of
her maidens to gathered
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to together and she herself
and she tells Mordecai says,
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you go on fast and my
maidens and I will fast over
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for three days. She
fasted during those days.
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I believe she went through
such a cleansing experience
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knowing that it
was life and death,
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and if God had mercy,
would he please give her a plan
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and a plan God gave
her, a marvelous plan
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which she set out to do
and of course, you know,
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the story of how she
invited Haman and the king
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alone to the banquette
table and of course Xerxes
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was thrilled to death
that Haman had been invited
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to the dinner for
the king and queen.
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And Mordecai still not
bowing down to her husband
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though she says make
the gallows in the back
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we will just have him hung.
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Well, in then of
course, the second banquette
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that Queen Esther
invites them to she does exposed
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the whole plot to the
king. And the beauty of Esther
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of laying down of being
willing to lay down her life
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where she says and
if I perish, I perish,
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And she identified
totally with her people
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and wasn't ashamed to let
the king know who she was.
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And then she trusted God
to do what she couldn't do.
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She asked the king if he
could reverse the decree.
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He said, I can't, its law
of the Medes and Persians,
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but I can give
them permission to fight
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for their lives and
fight for their lives they did.
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And to this very day
the Jews celebrate Purim
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in honor of that marvelous
day when that woman Esther
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had the courage to go and
speak on behalf of her people
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and God honor
that. We did, we did.
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And there is verse
there in Proverbs 31:30,
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if you don't mind
If I read it. Please.
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"Charm is deceptive,
and beauty is fleeting;
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but a woman who fears
the Lord is to be praised."
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It reminds me how the
story of Esther affected me
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when I was in Shanghai
and I was a girl only 12
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and the communist
were coming into the city
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and we knew that there
would be in that night,
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and we had gathered all
around in the living room
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and the drapes were
drawn and it was blocked out
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and we knew we were
listening to the radio
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when I had my ear down to
the radio to listen to a very
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quietly and I was
passing on what I heard
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to the rest of the family.
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We gathered all
there round that radio
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and then we were going
to have our family prayers
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before going to bed that night.
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And I had been practicing
for a part in the play
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and I was Esther in a
play that are young people
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were doing, or we had a
children's Bible study group
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were doing, or we had a
children's Bible study group
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and one of the missionary
mother's was leading it
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and I got to be Esther in
the play and I got to wear
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the bridesmaid's dress
in order to be the queen
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and every day I was rehearsing
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the lines of
Esther, day in and day out
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and it was
wonderful because it took
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our minds off, the
Chinese communist coming in
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and take over the city.
And I was in another world.
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I was in Persia and so
that night as I was thinking
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that may be we
would die that night.
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The lines kept
coming over and over to me
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perhaps we are here
for such a time as this.
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And so after we
heard the news and passed
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the word on to dad. He
gathered us with the Bible
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and I will never
forget we went around a circle
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and prayed, and all I
could think of Esther's lines
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perhaps you have come for
such a time, is this? Perfect.
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But I thought oh! My
sister is going to just laugh
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out loud because she has
got a thing I can't get out of
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that play and here
this is serious business
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we just might died
tonight, and I felt so ashamed
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about praying
this prayer because
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this is all like think
off, and so the time came for me
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and I just thought I
just have to pray this and I
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said, Lord we have
come for such a time is this
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and if we perish,
we perish for Thee,
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and it wasn't until many
years later that I realized
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that was the
heart cry. The mother
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and dad picked up and
they were able to go to bed
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that night, talking us all
in saying Lord if we perish
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we perish for Thee.
And the Lord used you.
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And the next morning
we got up and dad said,
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did any of you
sleep? And we said, yes.
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And he said, go
look out the window.
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We looked out the
window and the whole place
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had been shelled
and there were bodies
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laying everywhere, sand
bags put opened and our home
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had not been
touched. And we had not;
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we children had not heard
a sound that entire night.
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Mother and daddy had
been up all night praying,
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the entire night, but we
had slept right through it
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and then the Lord
enabled us to move from there.
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We were put under house arrest,
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but we were kept save.
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But Esther has always
been a very special person
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in my life, for many
reasons but that strikes me
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as one where her testimony
to this day is helping women
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to trust in God. Yes,
she might have being impact
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in your life even that
play and her words, yes, it was,
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Gods words, the
words that God gave to her.
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But have you
thought of other women?
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Have you known other
women or Well, I've thought.
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I had a big impact
in society as women?
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Yes, I think of
Lydia she was of the city
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of Fire of the Torah and
she was a business woman,
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a wonderful business
woman providing purple material
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in particular. Yeah, purple.
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Yes, and it was
too wealthy homes
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and even to the royal household.
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And this was a
woman who knew the ways
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of the marketplace and
she knew of a certain man
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who had come to
speak down at the river,
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and all the women
were gathering to hear.
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And she had heard
of this man who had
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once been
persecuting the Church of which
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she was part of. She
was devoted woman who feared
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God and yet she didn't
know really about Jesus Christ.
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And she gathered and
she thought I've got to hear
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what this man saying and
Paul so stirred her heart
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and stirred her
whole family's heart
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that they were
converted and she constrained
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Paul to stay with
her, in her own home
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and she constrained and
so she opened up her home
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with great hospitality as
well as being a business woman
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and my what story she
must have heard from Paul.
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This man who had persecuted
the Church had that an equal
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if not greater fervency in
winning others to the Lord.
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My what story she
must have heard him tell.
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I think so, and there
is another scripture that
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we can share on the
women of Proverbs 31 here,
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isn't there? Yes,
and read that one.
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Proverbs 31:18
to 27, Okay, alright
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"She sees that her
trading is profitable.
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She watches over the
affairs of her household
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and does not eat
the bread of idleness."
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There is another woman now that
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I am thinking Priscilla.
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She was always linked
with her husband Priscilla
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and Aquila
wherever you read about them
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they were linked together
and they were tent makers
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just common ordinary
tent makers whom Paul
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found and he stayed with them.
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And he must have
had some wonderful times
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talking over the
scriptures and their hearts
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also were stirred
with the love for the Lord,
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and I can imagine
their sharing together,
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and I can imagine
Priscilla and Aquila
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growing in the Lord as
they would share with Paul
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and one time Priscilla
and Aquila traveled with Paul
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from Corinth to Ephesus
and then he traveled down
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in left them at Ephesus and
I imagine they had an impact
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on the believers
there because we read
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about them listening to
the great orator Apollos,
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the Alexandrian
Apollos and they noted that he,
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as far as he went he
gave the truth but it wasn't
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the full truth. He was
still stuck on teaching
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on the Baptism of John.
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He had fully
understood about Jesus Christ,
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about his death
and resurrection.
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And the new birth in that way.
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And he was still
preaching of repentance,
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but not through Jesus Christ.
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And so dear Priscilla
and Aquila very humbly,
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these humble tent
makers, take them a side.
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They invited him into
their home and just more fully
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explained the scriptures to him.
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And here we have a
woman working side by side
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with her husband,
both in their workplace,
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but also in their
spiritual outreach and then they
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established a
Church in their home.
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They were there
hospitable it sounds like.
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Not only hospitable but
she knew well the scriptures
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and it's sounds to me
like she was well versed
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in the scriptures, and
that she and her husband
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were a real team which is
a beautiful picture of how
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I think God would
have husbands and wife
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worked together. Not the
one you slurping over that,
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and no Pricilla did
not take over from Aquila
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but she added too what he gave.
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And had great
influence on an orator
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who went on to
established many Churches.
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It sounds like what my husband
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and I would like to do.
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We have a ministry
called Tentmaker Ministries
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and he got that from, oh
did he, those scriptures,
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yes and there is
more scriptures that
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we can share,
isn't there? There is.
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On that, it's
proverbs 31:23 and 26 and it's
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"Her husband is
respected at the city gate
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and faithful
instruction in on her tongue."
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And Arlita this reminds
me of the story of Deborah.
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Oh! it really does. She
was a magnificent woman.
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At a period of time of
tremendous discouragement,
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desolation, gloominess,
Israel had been in captivity
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really under King
Jabin who lived in the
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Northern city of Hazor.
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And he had a
dreadful, dreaded general names
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Sisara, and they had
nine hundred iron chariots
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and so nobody was
safe around there except
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the people in the
hill country where
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the chariots
couldn't get to and so
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but you find that there
was palm tree which was not
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common right in that area.
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And this palm trees sitting
up on the hill where Deborah
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would go and sit every
day and she was a Prophetess
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and a judge of the
nation, and I often wondered
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how she got to that
place, I would like to know.
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I think she was definitely
married and her husband
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gave her honor
and obviously let her
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have this place
and had it was though
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he gave it to her. And
she sat in judgment to show
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the people how to
rule because everything
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was just going to
smothering the nation.
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There was so much evil
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and there was so
much oppression, in fact,
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we need to think of
it, the children who lived
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in that time really
didn't know of anytime when they
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won't under oppression,
only the parents knew of a day
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when there wasn't depression.
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And there was such
sadness and Deborah
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would go every day and
listen to the heart cries
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of the men and the
women and I can imagine her
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going home
everyday from the palm tree.
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A mother in Israel in
fact it calls her a mother
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in Israel, yes, going
home and crying out to God
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for her people but you
know it wasn't the nation
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the King Jabin headed
up. There was the problem.
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It was the men in
Israel that with the problem.
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They were not
leaders Within the Church
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They were not leaders
at all. They are an Israel.
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And I imagine
Deborah kept saying Lord
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where is the man who
can lead Israel so that
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we can get out from
under the suppression
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and how is that
I have to be here.
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Where are the men and I
think she was called by God
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to faithfully do a
duty at a time when men
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were discouraged
and couldn't rise up
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and take their
rightful place of leadership.
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The God chose a
woman who is able to do it
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in a very discreet wise
way because here what happens.
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The Lord speaks to
Deborah and said, Deborah
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it's time the nation
rises up I want you to call on a
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man and his name is
Barak. Barak, Barak;
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God you are sure. He
said, I am going to deliver
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the nation of
Israel out of Jabin's hand
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and you go wake up
Barak and tell him to get up
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because I am going
to deliver the nation,
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so she says, rise up
Barak, Gods given them
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into our hands.
He wants you to go.
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He says, wait a
minute Deborah I know
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you are a good judge. I
know you are a good Prophetess,
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but not me, and she
says, Barak, God has said,
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you to go and lead them.
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Well, I am not going to
go unless you go with me.
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And so she said,
alright, I will go with you.
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I will go, but you too
trust God that's the one thing
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you have to do is to
trust the God to deliver
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this nation. I
will go with you Barak,
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but the honor will
go to another woman.
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Now when you first
read that story you think
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of course, the woman
is going to be Deborah
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that the honor
goes to, but no isn't.
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What happened is
Deborah goes along with Barak
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and they go up to
Mount Tabor and then you can
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just picture from
the Tel Megiddo here
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and King Jabin over here
and Mount Hazor over here.
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And Israel
going up that mountain
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and then getting ready
to come down into the plains
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of Megiddo where
incidentally that plain
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is where more
fighting has happened down to
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the centuries, and is
where the great final battle
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will be fought. More
blood has already been spilled
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there than any other
single place on earth
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because that was the great
cross roads of all the nations
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coming across the plains
so here come the children
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of Israel down
the mountain, down
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to the river Kishon,
just at the precise moment
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the Barak gets down
there with his troops
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and Sisara with his
nine hundred chariots
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a pounding across
the fields this way.
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The precise moment
God opens up the heavens
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and it rains and it
hails, and the river Kishon
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overflows and of course
the mud's starts turning up
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the wheels of the
iron chariots and you can
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just pictured the
horses eyes just bulging
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and straining trying to
drag these iron chariots
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through these muddy
fields and the hail,
00:25:01.19\00:25:04.98
the rain completing in
and just the chariots start
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piling up falling up
one right after the other.
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Well, Israel who you
would have thought had Loss
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because they were
so small in comparison
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to Jabin's forces. They
win a tremendous victory
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and Sisara the general
though thinks he can get
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away free and he
slips out and runs
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into the interior
lands. Finally comes
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to a little tent
where Jael is standing.
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Now Jael, you
have to understand,
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Jael her name means
wild she-goat. Really!
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That's what it means
And it gives you a clue
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as to the
personality of this woman Jael,
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and she stands there
and she said, coming Sisara,
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come and rest
yourself and he comes
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and she not only
has laid down and rest
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and he is
exhausted from the battle.
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She said I will
give you milk as well
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and then he falls a dead asleep.
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She takes a tent
pack and a hammer
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and goes way up
right through his temple
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to the ground, and
the forces are defeated.
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And it's Jael that
Deborah sings the praises up
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and her song is
magnificent. Yes, and isn't it
00:26:38.31\00:26:42.47
one of the oldest and most
beautiful of Hebrew poetry.
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Yes, and isn't
begins like this; listen oh!
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'you king and princess for
I shall sing about the Lord,
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the God of Israel and
then ends with these words,
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but may those who
love the Lord shine is sun
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when he goes
forth and his might.
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And there is a verse
in proverbs that really
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describes it says.
Why don't you read that
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the proverbs 31,
25, and 26. Okay,
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"She is clothed with
strength and dignity;
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she can laugh at
the days to come.
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She speaks with wisdom."
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I think Deborah is one
of the outstanding women
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in biblical history
and one that we can emulate
00:27:21.91\00:27:27.41
because of her submission,
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because of her relinquishment,
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in many ways and
because of her praises.
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So we come full
circle again, to woman
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who have relinquish their rights
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and yet who have accepted God's
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calling in their life and
who end up praising God Amen
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Arlita, will you come
back and join us again?
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I hope so. I want to
invite you back again
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and I want to
invite you too again.
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