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00:11 ♪♪♪ 00:22 ♪♪♪ 00:35 Shawn Brummund: Hello friends, and welcome to another 00:36 edition of the "Sabbath School Study Hour." 00:39 I am confident that your hour that you're gonna spend with us 00:42 will be one that will enrich your lives, 00:44 will enrich your faith. 00:45 And also as we look at a very practical, but also spiritual 00:48 topic on the topic of family, I also trust that this will 00:51 enrich your marriage, if you're married, 00:53 as well as your family and your family life. 00:55 And, so thank you for joining us. 00:58 We are looking at a very important topic today 01:00 in our Sabbath School steadily--Sabbath School study. 01:05 And we're going to be looking at lesson number 10, 01:09 which is entitled "Little Times of Trouble," 01:12 "Little Times of Trouble." 01:14 And we look forward to studying that here together. 01:16 But before we look at our study, we always like to spend 01:19 some time offering you a very special free offer. 01:22 And the free offer that we have for you today 01:24 to continue in your study and growth in your faith is entitled 01:28 "From Stress to Joy." 01:30 Now, that's another very practical, 01:32 but spiritual subject as well. 01:34 "From Stress to Joy." 01:36 And so, you just simply have to dial the number that you see 01:38 on your screen, which is number... 01:44 That's... and ask for offer number 705. 01:50 Please ask for number, offer number 705. 01:53 Now, if you have a cell phone, and you'd like to have a digital 01:56 copy of that particular free offer, we also have 01:59 that available in a digital copy. 02:01 And so, you simply need to text the code SH031, 02:04 and you want to text that to the number 40544. 02:10 So again, you text that code SH031. 02:13 You can see it on your screens once again 02:16 and that is to number 40544. 02:20 So, please take advantage of that. 02:21 We'd love to have--send that out to you and allow you 02:24 to continue to study and to grow. 02:28 Father in heaven, we want to thank you so much 02:31 for this opportunity to be able to come together. 02:33 We thank you so much for this opportunity to be able to study 02:36 your Word, and to be able to understand how we can have 02:39 better marriages, how can we have better family life, Lord, 02:42 as we look at this practical subject on the struggle 02:46 of conflicts that some takes--sometimes takes place. 02:49 We want to pray, God in heaven, that you will help us 02:52 to better understand that as well. 02:54 Father in heaven, we want to thank you so much for 02:56 our choir that's here today, want to pray that you 02:59 will help us to praise you and that you will speak to 03:01 our heart, even as they sing for us here today. 03:04 In Jesus's name we pray these things, amen. 03:08 We're gonna have a special music by our choir and then I'll have 03:11 the privilege of introducing our speaker here today. 03:26 ♪♪♪ 03:37 ♪♪♪ 03:40 ♪ 'Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus, ♪ 03:46 ♪ Just to take Him at His Word, ♪ 03:51 ♪ Just to rest upon His promise, ♪ 03:57 ♪ Just to know, Thus saith the Lord! ♪ 04:01 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 04:05 ♪ how I trust Him! ♪ 04:08 ♪ How I've proved Him o'er and o'er. ♪ 04:12 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 04:15 ♪ precious Jesus! ♪ 04:19 ♪ Oh, for grace to trust Him more! ♪ 04:35 ♪ Yes, 'tis sweet to trust in Jesus, ♪ 04:40 ♪ Just from sin and self to cease ♪ 04:46 ♪ Just from Jesus simply taking ♪ 04:51 ♪ Life and rest, and joy and peace. ♪ 04:55 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 04:58 ♪ how I trust Him! ♪ 05:01 ♪ How I've proved Him o'er and o'er ♪ 05:06 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 05:09 ♪ precious Jesus! ♪ 05:12 ♪ Oh, for grace to trust Him more! ♪ 05:18 ♪ I'm so glad I learned to trust Him, ♪ 05:23 ♪ Precious Jesus, Savior, Friend. ♪ 05:28 ♪ And I know that He is with me, ♪ 05:33 ♪ Will be with me to the end. ♪ 05:38 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 05:41 ♪ how I trust Him! ♪ 05:43 ♪ How I've proved Him o'er and o'er ♪ 05:48 ♪ Jesus, ♪ 05:51 ♪ precious Jesus! ♪ 05:58 ♪ Oh, for grace to trust Him even more! ♪ 06:14 ♪ Trust him more. ♪♪ 06:39 Shawn: It is my privilege here today to be able to introduce 06:41 a speaker that many of you, if you've been watching the 06:43 "Sabbath School Study Hour" acquainted with. 06:45 His name is David DeRose, and David DeRose, 06:48 we thank you for teaching us here today. 06:50 We look forward to it. God bless you. 06:53 David DeRose: Well, it is good to be with each one of you. 06:55 We're continuing our journey on family seasons, family seasons. 07:00 We are on lesson ten and that is dealing with, as 07:05 the lesson calls it, "Little Times of Trouble." 07:12 I don't know if you've ever had this question run through your 07:15 mind, but it's run through mine and the question goes like this, 07:18 is it possible that a single question could lie 07:23 at the roots of many of our society's problems? 07:28 Ever thought about it that way? 07:30 The question is simply this, is it a right or is it a privilege? 07:40 You ever thought about this? 07:41 Is it a right or is it a privilege? 07:44 Now, some of you are looking perplexed. 07:46 You say, "What is this guy talking about?" 07:48 Well, I've gotta back up a little bit. 07:50 Many of you realize I've been a physician for some 07:52 three decades and as a physician, we've had this 07:55 debate running throughout our country. 07:59 And I know some of our listeners from throughout the world 08:01 might think this is an interesting debate, but the 08:03 debate is when it comes to quality healthcare, 08:09 is it a right or is it a privilege? 08:13 And now, we could ask this question about a dozen topics. 08:17 And in fact, as we look at the family today, 08:20 I have to ask the question, is being part of family, 08:25 is it a right or is it a privilege? 08:29 Is it a right or is it a privilege? 08:31 Now again, may sound like a strange question, 08:33 but we'll probe that as we look at today's lesson. 08:36 But as we begin, let's look at the background that the lesson 08:39 paints for us and that background speaks 08:42 about challenges that come into the home life. 08:45 And it speaks about two types of challenges. 08:48 I'm looking at the first paragraph of the introduction. 08:52 It's listed as Sabbath Afternoon Study for lesson ten. 08:56 And it says, "Even the best of homes 08:58 will face times of struggle." 09:01 And then it goes on and speaks about two categories of things. 09:04 One thing are so-called simple things, and then 09:09 it mentions other issues that might disrupt family life. 09:13 Now, if we think about this, a lot of us would say, "Well, 09:16 a lot of the challenges we have in life are relatively simple." 09:20 But as a physician and as a pastor over the years, I found 09:23 a lot of times it's those simple things that wear on us the most. 09:29 Over the years, I've heard of debates in homes about 09:31 how to put the toilet paper roll on, you know, 09:34 does it roll from the top or from the bottom? 09:36 Or how about the toothpaste, how are you supposed to squeeze 09:39 the toothpaste from the bottom or do you just squeeze it? 09:42 You say, "Oh, come on. These are silly things." 09:44 How you handle the electric services in your home, 09:49 you know, the light switches. 09:51 So, some of these things, it may seem very small in the grand 09:54 scheme of things and the lesson is painting these as relatively 09:58 insignificant, sometimes lay at the root of some of 10:02 the biggest challenges we face. 10:04 I remember some years ago, a couple telling me they 10:08 had gotten to the verge of divorce, and God 10:11 graciously brought them back from the brink. 10:14 And as they looked back at the kind of things that were 10:17 separating them, they said it was just ridiculous. 10:20 These things, you know, from the perspective of time, 10:22 they said this didn't make much difference at all. 10:26 But if you look at this first paragraph, these other issues 10:29 that are mentioned that threaten to disrupt family life, these 10:32 are some things that may sound like really big things. 10:35 A mother-in-law who's abuse and manipulation threatens 10:39 to destroy a woman's marriage and her health, a father with 10:42 mental illness who abuses his children, son who abandons his 10:46 religious upbringing, a daughter who becomes a substance abuser. 10:49 You get the picture. 10:51 So, some of these things we label as bigger than others, 10:53 but what I love about the lesson is it points us to 10:57 some foundational principles. 10:59 As we begin, the first two Scriptures 11:02 actually that are cited, I want you to turn there. 11:04 The first one is in John 13, verse 34. 11:07 So, turn with me to John's gospel. 11:09 And as we kind of refresh our memories about how that 11:13 gospel plays out, we're in the closing scenes of Jesus's life 11:16 by the time we get to John 13. 11:19 It is at the Last Supper, and we read these words 11:23 that are familiar words, but I think they are really 11:26 truly foundational for all that we're speaking about today. 11:29 John 13:34 reads, "A new commandment I give to you," 11:35 this is Jesus speaking, of course. 11:38 And he says, "That commandment is that you love one another 11:41 as I have loved you, that you also love one another. 11:44 By this all will know that you are My disciples, 11:48 if you have love for one another." 11:52 You say, "Well, we've all heard that before." 11:55 And you've, no doubt, heard sermons trying to probe why 11:58 this was discovered lived by Jesus as a new commandment. 12:03 And if we were to have you weigh in, 12:05 we might get some different feedback. 12:07 Why was it a new commandment? 12:08 Haven't we been told to love from the beginning? 12:10 Isn't the foundation, even as Jesus summarized 12:13 the Ten Commandments, founded on love to God 12:15 and love to our neighbor, right? 12:17 So, what is so new about it? 12:19 You know, one of the things that often helps the Bible come alive 12:22 is looking at the context in which things are spoken. 12:26 So, just refresh your minds for a moment at John 13. 12:29 Look at the context of John 13. 12:32 John 13 tells the story of Jesus washing the disciples' feet. 12:39 Whose job was it to wash feet? 12:43 That's right, it was the servants' job. 12:45 And so, here Jesus is stepping down. 12:48 He's taking the position as a servant, and who is he serving? 12:51 As you read through John 13, Jesus is not surprised 12:55 by what is going to happen. 12:57 Look at verses 18 and onward, for example. 13:00 Jesus says, "I'm not speaking of all of you, I know whom 13:03 I've chosen, but that the Scripture may be fulfilled, 13:06 he who eats bread with me has lifted up his heel against me." 13:10 And then he goes on and speaks about being betrayed. 13:15 I mean, Jesus's conscious of all that's gonna happen to him, 13:19 he's stooping down, he's serving other people, 13:22 and he knows how some, at least one, of those disciples 13:27 will treat him, and he knows how the others are 13:28 basically all going to run from him. 13:32 A new commandment? 13:34 I mean, go back to the Sermon on the Mount, right? 13:37 The Pharisees said, you know, you'll love the people that love 13:39 you, but to love your enemies, to love those who mistreat you? 13:43 We're getting this picture of Jesus's love as 13:45 the foundation for dealing with discord in the family. 13:50 We're now gonna have a Scripture read for us and that is the 13:53 second Scripture that's actually mentioned in your lesson. 13:56 Some of you are saying, "What happened to that memory verse?" 13:58 I know a lot of you look forward to hearing that. 14:00 You'll hear it before too long. 14:02 But we're gonna go to Romans chapter 12, and verse 10. 14:05 And again, as we listen to this verse, it's a familiar 14:08 verse but again, we're gonna try to pick up the context 14:11 to try to really appreciate the role that this has in 14:15 our families and in dealing with conflict. 14:17 So Romans 12, verse 10. 14:20 female: "Be kindly affectionate to one another in brotherly 14:23 love, in honor giving preference to one another." 14:28 David: Wow, "In honor giving preference to one another." 14:33 I'm turning to Romans 12, if you haven't already turned there. 14:36 And Romans 12 is set in an interesting context. 14:41 Paul was a Jew, and Paul had a huge burden for his people and 14:46 he'd been talking about that in the previous chapters, chapters 14:48 9 through 11, how he was burdened for his own people. 14:52 And he goes on to speak really about the privilege, 14:57 the privilege of being part of God's family. 15:00 He speaks in Romans 11. 15:02 If you're there with me, let's just pick a few verses up here. 15:05 He's speaking about how the unfaithful members 15:10 of the promised people in the Old Testament. 15:13 In that dispensation, God called a people to represent him, 15:17 a literal, physical, geologic bloodline of people, the Hebrew 15:22 nation, the Jewish people, and they had largely rejected Jesus. 15:26 And he speaks about this in verses 17 and onward. 15:30 He says, "If some of the branches were broken off," he's 15:34 speaking about how he is the parent stock, if you will. 15:38 And some of those chosen branches were broken off 15:43 because of their unfaithfulness. 15:45 And now he's speaking about the Gentiles being grafted in. 15:49 And as he's writing about that in verse 19, he says, "You will 15:53 say then, 'Branches were broken off that I might be grafted in.' 15:56 Well said. 15:58 Because of unbelief they were broken off, 16:01 and you stand by faith. 16:04 Do not be haughty, but fear. 16:08 For if God did not spare the natural branches, 16:10 He may not spare you either. 16:12 Therefore consider the goodness and severity of God: 16:17 on those who fell, severity; but toward you, goodness, 16:20 if you continue in His goodness." 16:22 So, you say, "Well, what's the picture here?" 16:24 The picture is a picture of privilege and those who 16:26 thought they were so privileged and didn't have to continue 16:29 to receive God's ongoing blessings become cut off. 16:33 They're cut off from that trusting relationship, 16:36 if you will, with their loving heavenly Father. 16:39 And so, as we come back to look at Romans 12, verse 10 16:43 that was just read to us, "Be kindly affectionate 16:47 to one another with," what? 16:49 "Brotherly love in honor giving preference to one another." 16:57 You say, "I'm here not because of choice. 16:59 My parents didn't ask me whether I should be 17:02 brought into the world or not," right? 17:04 Isn't that how it works? 17:06 We just end up here, and we end up as part of a family. 17:08 And in our culture in America, we focus a lot on what? 17:15 On our rights. 17:16 You know, children have rights, and we have rights as citizens, 17:20 and we have rights as human beings. 17:22 I'm not saying this emphasis is misplaced, but 17:26 I'm saying if our focus is solely on our rights, 17:29 look at verse 10 again of Romans 12. 17:31 Is the focus here on rights or is the focus on privilege? 17:38 Are you following? Look at the context. 17:40 Is the focus on rights, or is the focus on privilege? 17:45 We have this privilege, as Paul generally begins each 17:48 of his letters, many of his letters start out with, 17:50 "You are privileged, you're blessed. 17:52 Christ has died for you, you're his chosen children." 17:55 And then he goes on and he speaks about 17:57 how we then are to live. 17:59 And we're gonna get into this as we continue this lesson. 18:03 You say, "Dr. DeRose, I already think 18:05 it's a privilege to be married." 18:07 Some of you know, my daughter is going to be married tomorrow, 18:11 and I'm very glad for a number of reasons. 18:15 You know, thinking about that upcoming marriage, 18:17 we're very glad for the two people the Lord has united, 18:20 Thomas Clark and my daughter, Angela. 18:23 And one of the things that I appreciate about their 18:26 relationship is it seems at this point, they're both looking 18:28 at it as a privilege to be married to the other one. 18:32 You following along? 18:34 Some of you are looking just absolutely befuddled. 18:36 But really, isn't that how we go into marriage, most of us? 18:40 You know, we--in fact, think about it. 18:43 If you always think that you're getting the better deal, 18:45 wouldn't that be a good thing in a marriage? 18:48 And I see some of you nodding your heads. 18:50 Okay, so we need some medical science here to help us out. 18:52 You know, there--today, the definition of family 18:55 has been blurred in our society. 18:57 And for some of you wanting to read between the lines, 19:00 we'll leave it as I said it, it's been blurred. 19:03 That doesn't mean it's good or bad. 19:04 Some people think it's good, other people think it's bad. 19:06 I know you might want me to take a stronger stand, 19:08 but that's not the topic of today's lesson, okay? 19:11 But I will tell you that traditional families have 19:13 been well studied for decades, okay, traditional families, 19:17 a man and a woman. 19:19 And let me just tell you how it works. 19:20 In my experience, most men seem like they feel 19:24 they did their wife a favor when they married her. 19:28 Okay, I'm just telling you, it's just an experience. 19:30 Some of say, "Dr. DeRose, you hang out with too many men." 19:33 But let me tell you what the research shows. 19:36 The research shows that if you want to look at 19:39 health benefits from marriage, there is one gender that 19:42 seems too far and above benefit from this relationship. 19:45 Would any of you like to hazard a guess 19:47 as to which gender it is? 19:49 That's right, it's the men. 19:51 So really, you ladies, don't elbow your husband too hard 19:54 if he's sitting next to you, but the data suggests that 19:57 we're getting the better deal in marriage. 19:59 But my whole point, it's not medical research data. 20:02 It's basically this idea of the gospel, 20:05 that we are blessed in Christ. 20:08 So, we come into family relationship, what is 20:10 the real foundational family relationship in the Bible? 20:15 Yeah, turn here to Matthew 19 with me, Matthew 19. 20:20 It's one of those passages in the Scripture where 20:23 if you're just reading through the Bible for the first time, 20:25 you would be shocked. 20:27 I mean, I say you would be shocked, I would be shocked 20:29 because I cannot imagine Jesus giving this response to Peter. 20:35 So I'm, let's see a good place to pick it up. 20:37 Matthew 19, it's always hard. 20:43 You're always jumping in the middle of something. 20:45 But Matthew 19, verse 27, so Peter makes one of these 20:50 bold statements that he's known for making. 20:52 He says, "Jesus, we've have left everything and followed You. 20:58 Therefore what are we gonna get?'" 21:01 I'm paraphrasing a little bit, but I would have expected 21:05 Jesus to say, "Peter, how long have you been with me? 21:08 Have you not figured out what the Christian life is all about? 21:12 It's not about what you're gonna get." 21:15 I mean, that's what I would expect Jesus to say, 21:17 but he didn't say that. 21:18 Let's read what he said. 21:20 Verse 28, "So Jesus said to them," all the disciples, 21:26 "Assuredly I say to you," and all of us by extension, "that in 21:30 the regeneration, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His 21:33 glory, you who have followed Me will also sit on twelve thrones, 21:38 judging the twelve tribes of Israel. 21:40 And everyone who has left houses or brothers or sisters or father 21:45 or mother or wife or children or lands, for My name's sake, 21:49 shall receive a hundredfold, and inherit eternal life. 21:53 But many who are first will be last, and the last first." 21:57 And you say, well, that's an interesting verse 21:59 about family life because we're speaking here about 22:01 some people who've done, what? 22:03 They've actually left family. 22:05 And you say, "So, how does this come about? 22:08 How can you leave family and end up with a larger family?" 22:11 What is the figure given here? You catch it? 22:15 What's the magnitude of increase you experience? 22:19 It's a hundredfold. 22:21 So, how do we get a hundredfold larger family 22:22 if we leave some family here? 22:26 I mean, I think the most straightforward interpretation 22:29 is Jesus speaking about the church, okay? 22:32 So, this pivotal family relationship, yes, in 22:36 the beginning, it's man and wife, it's Adam and Eve. 22:39 But by extension, the foundational family unit, in 22:42 a sense, is the church, because some of us don't enter 22:46 into marital relationships, and we are still 22:48 part of God's family in the church. 22:52 So, with that background, as we look at these different 22:55 Scriptures, we're really talking about things that 22:57 relate, of course, to the nuclear family, to what happens 23:00 in the home, but we're talking about things 23:02 that happened in the church as well. 23:03 And I know we've made that connection as 23:05 we've been going through the quarterly. 23:07 But we're going to hear now from Proverbs 19 in just a moment. 23:11 Someone's gonna be reading that for us. 23:12 We're into Sunday's lesson. 23:14 And before we go there, there's two verses that are mentioned 23:17 for Sunday about, again, important principles 23:20 to help us with conflict. 23:21 The first one is in Matthew 7, so I invite you to turn there. 23:24 So, that is back in the Sermon on the Mount. 23:27 We've been reading a lot from Matthew, seems 23:29 like Matthew has a lot to say about things that relate 23:32 to family life from the words of Jesus. 23:36 So, Matthew 7, you can pick it up with me in verse 1. 23:40 Jesus is speaking about the danger 23:43 of judging and condemning. 23:45 "Judge not, that you not be judged. 23:47 For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and 23:51 with what measure you use, it will be measured back to you. 23:54 And why do you look at the speck in your brother's eye, 23:57 but do not consider the plank that's in your own eye? 23:59 Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me remove the 24:02 speck from your eye'; and look, a plank is in your own eye? 24:06 Hypocrite! 24:08 First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see 24:10 clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye." 24:14 Now, you say, "Well, why is the lesson speaking about this as 24:17 being a important principle in dealing with conflict? 24:20 What do you see growing out of that passage?" 24:25 Well, I mean, one thing that jumps out at you, of course, 24:28 is this idea that often our problems are bigger than 24:33 the problems we see in other people. 24:35 How is that the case? Have you ever noticed this? 24:38 We tend to excuse our own faults, 24:41 but blame other people for theirs? 24:43 Have you noticed it? 24:45 Have you ever caught yourself criticizing something for 24:48 someone, maybe even in your own mind, and then realize that, 24:51 "Boy, that's the same thing that I tend to do"? 24:54 Well, that's what's being pointed out here. 24:56 Let's look at this other principle now as we hear from 24:57 Proverbs 19, verse 11. 25:00 male: "The discretion of a man makes him slow to anger, 25:03 and his glory is to overlook a transgression." 25:06 David: His glory is to overlook a transgression. 25:11 Boy, I mean, we're getting into some interesting 25:13 ground here, aren't way? 25:16 I think of this story, and maybe you've heard this story, 25:19 maybe my mind is thinking too much about newlyweds, 25:21 I don't know why. 25:23 I guess I probably do know why but anyway, this story 25:25 is told of a couple that had been married a few years. 25:29 And they're invited out for breakfast. 25:33 I know, that's not typical in our society, 25:35 but as they are served breakfast, the husband is given 25:38 a piece of toast by the hostess, and he's just raving 25:41 about how wonderful this piece of toast is. 25:46 Now his wife, to her credit, holds her tongue 25:48 until they're alone together. 25:49 And when they're alone, she says, 25:53 "Why were you raving about that toast? 25:55 I mean, it wasn't even black?" 25:58 And he says, "Well, I mean, it was just toasted 26:02 so nicely," he said. 26:04 She said, "But you always told me you, 26:06 you like your toast burned." 26:10 And then he realized that several years before, early 26:14 in their marriage, his wife had burned the toast and when she 26:19 apologized to him, he said, "No, don't apologize," 26:23 he said, "this is the way I like my toast." 26:27 Now, no doubt that is just a fabricated story, 26:31 but there's an interesting point. 26:32 There's a difference between overlooking something and just, 26:35 you know, tolerating it, and actually forgiving something, 26:40 and overlooking it in that way and actually 26:42 addressing the underlying issue. 26:44 Have you ever thought about this? 26:46 Let's probe this a little bit because it is relevant to 26:49 what we have that comes up in this lesson. 26:53 Let's look at another Scripture that's mentioned. 26:56 It's Romans chapter 14. So, Romans 14, verse 19. 27:02 So from Matthew, we go back to Paul, and 27:05 his letter to the church in Rome. 27:07 Romans chapter 14, and we're gonna 27:11 look here at another principle. 27:12 So, we're filtering all this through both the eyes of 27:15 the church and through the eyes of the family. 27:18 So, Romans 14, verse 19. 27:23 Paul writes to us there and he says, "Let us therefore 27:27 pursue the things which make for peace and the things 27:31 by which one may edify another." 27:35 And again, it's interesting, if you look at the context here, 27:39 Paul has been speaking in Romans 14 about things that may seem 27:43 like relatively little things in the grand scheme of things. 27:47 He's been speaking about the kind of foods that we eat 27:49 in our individual worship practices. 27:53 He's not setting aside the importance of healthy eating. 27:56 He's not setting aside the importance of things 27:59 that God has asked us to do, as far as worship. 28:02 But he's making a principal here, and let's go back 28:06 a little bit further to Romans 14, verse 14. 28:10 He says, "I know and am convinced by the Lord Jesus 28:13 that there is nothing unclean of itself; but to him 28:17 who considers anything to be unclean, to him it is unclean." 28:19 Now, some of you are saying, "Boy, I'm glad that 28:21 as a physician, you're wading into this passage." 28:27 You know, there's a distinction in the Bible between the 28:30 way things are intrinsically and the way God has infused 28:34 them in history with ceremonial significance, okay? 28:39 And to try to make this discussion very simple, 28:42 from the beginning, there's been a distinction between 28:45 foods and animals that were clean and that were unclean. 28:48 Going all the way back to the flood, you see this, remember? 28:50 If you read the actual account in Genesis, and 28:53 don't just read the storybook account, the animals 28:56 did not just go in two of each species. 29:00 Many of you realize, two animals of what kind? 29:04 Of the unclean, but seven of the clean animals. 29:07 So, long before there ever was a Jew, 29:09 there was some intrinsic distinction in the animals. 29:14 What we know is that ultimately when God permitted humans to 29:18 eat animals after the flood, those animals that were unclean 29:22 were intrinsically unhealthful to eat, and it is to this day. 29:26 So, whether you want to look at the leading cause of epilepsy 29:29 in the world--by the way, do you know what it is? 29:31 The leading cause of epilepsy in the world? 29:34 That's right, it's something called neurocysticercosis. 29:38 Some of you actually said that, others of you 29:40 were struggling to get it out. 29:42 Neurocysticercosis, it's from pork. 29:44 It's a parasite transmitted by pork, okay? 29:47 Leading cause of epilepsy in the world, seizures. 29:51 Trichinosis, you can go down the list. 29:53 So God, certain things intrinsically unclean. 29:55 But now, now we're talking in the New Testament, 29:58 these things are still on healthy to eat. 30:01 But there is no ceremonial defilement from touching the pig 30:05 that there was in the ceremonial system, do you understand? 30:09 So, I can walk out of the church door and some kids 30:12 can be throwing a pigskin and throw it to me. 30:14 If I touch it, I can still shake your hand afterward. 30:18 I'm not ceremonially defile. Are you following along? 30:22 It's a big topic and just a few soundbites. 30:25 I know I might leave you more disappointed than encouraged 30:29 that we've even touched on that, but we're just trying 30:31 to pick up the context here. 30:33 So, let's go back to verse 15 now of Romans 14. 30:35 It says, "Yet if your brother is grieved because of your food, 30:39 you are no longer walking in love. 30:42 Don't destroy with your food the one for whom Christ died. 30:45 Therefore do not let your good be spoken of as evil; 30:50 for the kingdom of God is not eating and drinking, but 30:52 righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. 30:55 For he who serves Christ in these things is acceptable 30:58 to God and approved by men." 30:59 And then we have this verse, "Let us pursue the things which 31:02 make for peace and the things by which one may edify another." 31:07 And to me, it's rolling back some things. 31:10 You say, "Well, Dr. DeRose, you know, you're speaking 31:12 about, you know, real important topics here, 31:15 and we're just glossing over them. 31:16 And that's why we have problems in our church, and that's why 31:18 we have problems in my home because there's important things 31:21 that my spouse doesn't realize that I understand, 31:24 or that my parents don't realize. 31:26 They don't they don't live, they don't understand 31:28 the current generation." 31:30 Parents might be saying the same thing about 31:32 their children or their grandchildren. 31:34 Here's the point, what is Paul pointing us to? 31:39 He's pointing us to this vision of the privilege we 31:42 have of family relationship. 31:44 That's the context when he writes to the church of Rome. 31:46 We are blessed. 31:48 We're blessed in Christ, and our privilege is 31:51 to share that blessing with one another. 31:53 Don't try to divide your family over things that you 31:57 understand that maybe they don't understand yet. 32:00 Is there room for that even in the family? 32:02 Now, I don't know how it is for you, 32:04 but Sonya and I are approaching our 30th anniversary. 32:09 So, we've been married for a while. 32:11 And there's still things we can do that can, 32:14 you know, kind of bother the other one. 32:17 And most of the time, we can still smile about it. 32:19 But the point is sometimes, in that close family relationship, 32:26 we're not as careful about what we say as when 32:29 we're in the public arena. 32:31 Is this just an issue that I've noticed? 32:34 I mean, think about it. 32:36 If you really become one flesh with someone, are you more 32:38 ruthless in talking to yourself or in talking with other people? 32:42 I mean, hopefully your strongest criticism 32:44 is reserved for yourself. 32:46 But if your partner is an extension of yourself, do you 32:48 sometimes--some of you are looking very bewildered. 32:51 Let me explain something to you. 32:53 This, I recognized this early in our relationship. 32:56 Sonya had this terrible habit when I first met her. 32:59 We'd go out together, and I'd walk away from the car 33:03 and she'd say, "David, do you have your keys?" 33:05 And I'm thinking, Well, what kind of woman--what kind of man 33:08 does she think I am that I'm gonna forget my keys? 33:11 And this really bothered me for a while, until I realized 33:14 that internally, every time I walk away from the car, 33:17 I ask myself, do I have my keys? 33:20 And the reason I ask myself that question is probably 33:23 like many of you in those old tech cars, you know, 33:25 you could lock yourself out of your car and 33:28 it had happened to me more than once. 33:30 So, every time I'm walking away from the car 33:32 I'm checking, do I have my keys? 33:34 You know, if you've got, you know, the clicker, 33:35 you don't have to worry about it. 33:37 If you, you know, got a higher tech--but in the old days, 33:41 do I have my keys? 33:42 So, when I realized that, I was just an extension of Sonya. 33:46 So, when she's walking away from her car, 33:48 normally she's doing what? 33:50 Just like me, you know, she's checking for keys. 33:52 But I'm the one driving, so what does she ask? 33:54 "David, do you have your keys?" 33:57 You see, so if we kind of cut through this and realize that 34:01 sometimes maybe we need to be a little bit more cautious in what 34:05 we express, and I'm sure Sonya will remind me about this. 34:08 She's very gracious. 34:10 And but we do, we have to remind ourselves that sometimes 34:14 we understand these principles intellectually, as 34:18 we read through them in the Bible, how we should 34:20 be encouraging and building one another up. 34:23 And sometimes we allow our own human nature to creep 34:27 in too much into the family relationships. 34:30 Well, we need to hasten on. 34:32 Monday is speaking specifically about marriage, and it's 34:35 pointing us now to some of these crucial principles that really 34:38 bring us back to that relationship. 34:40 You'll see the principles are very similar. 34:43 We're gonna be looking at Colossians in just a moment. 34:46 So, we're looking a lot at some of the things that Paul wrote, 34:49 okay, some of these principles are extremely powerful 34:52 when it comes to families. 34:54 And first though, we're gonna go to Ephesians 1, verse 7. 34:58 So, Ephesians 1, verse 7. 35:02 And what we'll get a sense of here is a point that I made 35:06 earlier, and this is how Paul often begins his letters. 35:09 So, Ephesians chapter 1. 35:16 Just catch this and we'll get a little 35:18 the context here, verse 7. 35:20 In verse 3 he says, "Blessed be the God and Father of our 35:23 Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual 35:27 blessing in the heavenly places in Christ." 35:30 And he goes on and he gets down to verse 7 and he says, "In him, 35:34 we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, 35:37 according to the riches of his grace." 35:40 What is the language here? 35:42 Is this the language of right, or 35:44 is it the language of privilege? 35:47 It's a language of privilege, right? 35:49 You're blessed. It's a gift. 35:51 This is privilege. 35:52 This is what it's speaking about. 35:54 And so, that's the context as Ephesians begins. 35:57 It's the context as Colossians begins. 36:00 It's the context as Galatians begins. 36:03 Paul is-- 36:04 The context of Romans, he's speaking about 36:06 how blessed we are. 36:08 And so, now with that background, let's head over to 36:11 Colossians 3, someone's gonna read from the heart 36:13 of Colossians 3 in just a minute, but I want you 36:15 to pick up the introduction to Colossians 3. 36:20 Speaking about all these blessings, it's speaking about 36:22 being risen to new life in Jesus. 36:25 So, look with me at Colossians 3, beginning with verse 1. 36:29 It says, "If you then were raised with Christ, 36:33 seek those things which are above where Christ is, 36:38 sitting at the right hand of God. 36:40 Set your mind on things above, not things on the earth, 36:45 for you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God." 36:49 And then verse 5, "Put to death," and there's a list 36:53 of things that you're supposed to put to death. 36:55 And then as you continue on through Colossians 3, you're 36:58 gonna hear about some things you're to revive, things that 37:01 you're to put on, and at the heart of that is Colossians 3:13 37:05 that we're gonna hear right now. 37:07 male: Colossians 3:13, "Bearing with one another, and forgiving 37:11 one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; 37:15 even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do." 37:19 David: It's amazing to me that most of the Christian world 37:23 seems stuck in the beginning chapters of Paul's letters 37:29 because there's almost this aversion to speaking 37:33 about moral imperatives today. 37:35 Have you noticed this? 37:37 But you don't have to go very far. 37:40 Here we are halfway through the Book of Colossians, Colossians 1 37:42 and 2, speaking about privilege and blessing, especially. 37:45 But then Paul starts giving these moral imperatives and 37:49 basically these are calls for us to be more like Jesus, right? 37:54 You pick it up there in verse 13. 37:56 What are we supposed to do? 37:59 Forgive others as Christ forgave us. 38:03 Isn't this really the grounds for forgiveness? 38:06 Now, it's interesting, we go back in our minds to maybe 38:09 formative things in our experience. 38:10 I think, as a young Christian, I had a roommate, 38:15 and this guy wanted to borrow my laundry detergent. 38:20 Safe, simple thing, right? 38:21 So, I lend him my laundry detergent. 38:24 And later in that day, I'm looking 38:26 for my laundry detergent. 38:27 What do you think happened to it? 38:29 He left it in the laundromat. 38:32 I mean, how could he do that with my laundry detergent? 38:34 How many of you think I was wronged? 38:38 I was wronged, whether you think it's a small thing or not. 38:42 And that upset me that my roommate would take my laundry 38:46 detergent and leave it in the laundromat and it's gone now. 38:49 I have no laundry detergent. 38:51 Do you realize how important this is? 38:57 But then the Lord brought to my mind, the sacrifice of Jesus. 39:03 And I mean, how important does the laundry 39:06 detergent seem in that context? 39:09 It's like nothing, right? 39:11 I mean, Jesus died for me and he--and I can't--and 39:17 I'm upset with someone. 39:19 I mean, how--when you put it in that perspective, 39:21 how difficult is forgiveness? 39:23 You say, "Well, that's a little thing.' 39:25 But there's really big things that happen in life 39:28 that God asks us to forgive, right? 39:30 They're a little bit of more--well, that's 39:32 putting it mildly, right, of a little bit more consequence 39:35 than laundry detergent. 39:37 Let's look at this because the lesson picks it up 39:41 in more detail in Thursday's lesson. 39:44 It's speaking about forgiveness and peace, 39:47 forgiveness and peace. 39:49 And we're gonna look at this in a little bit of detail 39:53 because there's a lot being said today in the Christian 39:57 world about forgiveness, but let's couch it in Colossians 3, 40:03 since some of you are still there. 40:05 If you look at Colossians 3, some years ago, 40:07 let me give you some context. 40:09 Some years ago, many of you know the name 40:11 of Charles Stanley, popular preacher. 40:14 Dr. Stanley was speaking about this topic of forgiveness, 40:18 actually wrote a book on the topic. 40:20 And as he was speaking about the problem with unforgiveness, 40:25 he really pointed to these moral imperative sections of 40:30 Paul's writings like we have here in Colossians. 40:34 Look at this Colossians 8, excuse me, Colossians 3, 40:39 verse 8, Colossians 3, verse 8. 40:41 Look at some of the things that in Christ, 40:43 we're called to put aside. 40:46 Colossians 3, verse 8, "But now you yourselves are to 40:49 put off these, anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, 40:58 filthy language out of your mouth--" 41:00 Now, as you're reading through that list, how many of those 41:04 things surface when you're holding on to unforgiveness? 41:09 You ever thought about this? 41:11 I mean, you could look in Galatians 5 at the list of the 41:15 fruits of the Spirit, fruit of the Spirit, and the things 41:19 that go along with the flesh. 41:21 Maybe we should do that. 41:22 Go to Galatians with me and you'll see there 41:26 some similar things that are mentioned. 41:28 You'll see where this is going as far as forgiveness 41:30 and why this is so important. 41:32 Galatians chapter 5 is speaking about the works of 41:36 the flesh in verse 19 of Galatians 5. 41:41 So, here's a list of some of the works of the flesh, adultery, 41:45 fornication, uncleanness, lewdness, idolatry, sorcery, 41:50 hatred, contentions, jealousies, outbursts of wrath. 41:57 What I want as we're reading through this list, think 41:59 about it in the context of unforgiveness because these 42:03 were the dots that Dr. Stanley connected in my mind, 42:08 selfish ambitions, dissensions, heresy, envy, murders, 42:13 drunkenness, revelries, and the like. 42:15 And what is he saying? 42:17 He's saying, these are things that you used to be like before 42:21 you put on Christ, before you accepted Jesus as your Savior. 42:25 And now he says in verse 22, here's the fruit of the Spirit, 42:28 love, joy, peace, you know the list, 42:30 right, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, 42:32 faithfulness, gentleness, self-control. 42:34 Think about it now. 42:36 If you are unforgiving, what typical arena do you 42:43 put yourself into, at least as you deal with the person 42:45 you haven't forgiven? 42:48 You ever thought about this? 42:49 We tend to put on the things of the flesh to punish 42:54 the other person, to get back at them. 42:57 You say, "Oh, come on. 42:58 Listen, I'm a Christian, I just ignore the other person." 43:02 Well, I mean, what if it's your, you know, person living in 43:06 the home with you, what if someone in the church with you? 43:09 Is there still hatred there, even though there 43:12 may not be the outright, verbal dissensions? 43:17 Are you following along? 43:19 So, here's the deal, when I don't forgive someone, 43:21 I'm choosing to walk in the flesh in that relationship. 43:27 And we were not made to be able to just 43:29 jump from the flesh to the Spirit. 43:31 You're following along with me? 43:33 So, when I start to cultivate that, what happens? 43:37 That same spirit can creep into other relationships. 43:41 And many times, if you look at the root of some problem 43:44 in the home, it may not even have begun 43:48 in that home that you established. 43:50 It may go back to the parent that you haven't forgiven, or 43:54 to the uncle that did something terrible that you have not 43:59 forgiven, and that spills over into your other relationships. 44:03 So, it's so important, this topic of forgiveness. 44:07 And as the lesson brings out, there are challenges 44:13 with forgiveness, right? 44:15 As we're thinking about that, we want to tie this back 44:18 in with Ephesians chapter 4. 44:22 We have someone who'll be reading that in a moment because 44:25 Ephesians 4 just putting together these same principles, 44:29 Ephesians 4 actually in verses 26 and 27, also connects us 44:36 with something that relates to this whole aspect 44:38 of forgiveness and wrongdoing. 44:45 So, who has that Scripture for us, Ephesians 4, 44:48 verses 26 and 27? 44:58 male: "Be angry, and do not sin: 45:00 do not let the sun go down on your wrath." 45:04 David: "Be angry and do not sin. 45:07 Let not the sun go down on your wrath." 45:18 Jesus walks into the temple, you know the story, 45:24 and his heart is distressed. 45:27 In Isaiah 56, it was prophesied that his house was to be 45:30 a house of prayer for all nations. 45:33 And, you know, he quotes that Scripture, "What has it become?" 45:38 As he put it, a den of thieves, right? 45:40 It has become a courtyard, a marketplace. 45:44 And we see this manifestation of divine anger. 45:47 It's interesting to me that God's anger in this phrase of 45:51 anger or jealousy, it's often directed at situations that are 45:58 obscuring God's character from being revealed. 46:02 So, it's not that God is hating the moneychangers. 46:06 He hates what's being done to mar this picture of the 46:12 character of God that was to be painted in the sanctuary. 46:15 Are you're following along? 46:17 And we often make this distinction of God hating 46:19 the sin but loving the sinner. 46:21 And I think in many respects, it's an appropriate distinction 46:25 because God here is acting with love as he cleanses the temple. 46:30 So, what is this deal about being angry and sin that let not 46:34 the sun go down on your wrath? 46:36 How about as it enters into your own home life, 46:39 what do you think about that? 46:41 Can you be angry at some of the people that are closest to you? 46:46 When's the best time to address those undesirable feelings? 46:52 You say, "Well, I'm gonna deal with it as soon as the 46:55 other person apologizes because it was their fault." 46:58 You know, that's actually brought up 47:00 in Thursday's lesson as well. 47:01 Whose obligation is it to make reconciliation 47:06 when there is discord? 47:08 Whose responsibility is it? 47:11 Does someone have Matthew 5:23 and 24 for us? 47:14 Let's read what Matthew--what Jesus says there 47:18 in Matthew 5:23 and 24. 47:21 male: Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar and there 47:25 remember that your brother has something against you, 47:28 leave your gift there before the altar and go your way. 47:31 First, be reconciled to your brother, and 47:34 then come and offer your gift." 47:38 David: Okay, so in Matthew 5, who is the person 47:40 who's supposed to seek reconciliation? 47:46 The one who did the wrong, right, isn't that Matthew 5? 47:50 If you realize your brother has something ought you. 47:53 Now, if we were to take the time to go to Matthew 18, 47:57 passage that you will know, it speaks about someone 48:00 who's offended you and you going to them. 48:03 Now, you're the one being offended. 48:05 You're the one being wronged. 48:07 So biblically, who is the person who's supposed 48:09 to seek reconciliation? 48:13 Yes, the person who realizes that reconciliation's needed, 48:16 as whether you're the one that perpetrated the wrong 48:19 or whether you're the one that experienced the wrongdoing. 48:22 Are you following along? So, that's the picture. 48:25 So, whether it's in the relationships in 48:27 the church--okay, I gotta tell you this story. 48:31 I got--I was disappointed by this. 48:35 This has gone way back, okay? 48:37 I'm in--and I know I'm glad I wore some 48:39 decent-looking shoes today. 48:41 And the reason I'm saying this is because when I was 48:44 a medical student, I got an evaluation from 48:47 one of my attending, you know, one of the head doctors, 48:50 and they wrote on there, "Dresses, unprofessionally, 48:53 wears tennis shoes to work," okay? 48:57 Now, what disturbed me is this person had never 48:59 said anything to me for the whole month about my attire. 49:03 But when it came to evaluating me, 49:05 they said that I dressed unprofessionally. 49:07 You say, "Well, Dr. DeRose, I'm glad they did 49:09 'cause your shoes look better today." 49:12 Well, here's my point. 49:15 There was obviously something that was bothering that doctor, 49:18 bothering them enough to write that on my evaluation, 49:22 but they never told me. 49:24 And I tell you that simple story because many of the times we 49:28 have problems in relationships because something's been 49:31 bothering us and we never said anything. 49:34 I know it's difficult to confront people, 49:37 but do what Jesus did, right? 49:39 Jesus forgave decisionally first. 49:43 He made the decision to forgive on the cross, right? 49:45 He said, "Father," what? 49:47 "Forgive them. 49:48 They don't know what they're doing." 49:51 Every sin really, we don't know what we're doing. 49:54 We're hurting ourselves more than we're hurting the victim. 49:59 You may not be at that point yet, but I'm convinced of it. 50:02 So, here's the thing, choose to forgive other people, 50:05 then make attempts to be reunited. 50:10 In the home, it's critical, in the church it is. 50:14 Our time has slipped away. 50:15 I know I may have caused a little bit more 50:17 stress in touching on some of these issues than others. 50:20 But you 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