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00:35 Good morning, friends,
00:36 and welcome again to Sabbath School Study Hour
00:38 here at the Granite Bay Seventh-day Adventist Church.
00:40 I'd like to welcome our online members,
00:42 and our friends who are joining us
00:44 across the country and around the world,
00:46 very warm welcome to all of you
00:48 as well as our regular church members,
00:50 our Sabbath school members,
00:51 and those who are visiting with us
00:53 right here at the Granite Bay Church.
00:55 It's always nice to be able to gather together
00:56 Sabbath morning, open up our lesson,
00:59 and study together.
01:00 Now over the past few weeks we've been studying
01:02 through the theme of unity in the Bible,
01:05 and today we find ourselves on lesson number 10
01:08 which is entitled "Unity and Broken Relationships."
01:12 Of course, in any family relationships,
01:14 sometimes things get broken.
01:16 How do we maintain unity
01:19 even when they are broken relationships?
01:20 So that's going to be our theme,
01:22 our study for today.
01:23 But before we get to the lesson,
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02:16 Well, before we get to our study this morning,
02:19 we like to begin our Sabbath school
02:20 by lifting our voices in song.
02:22 I'd like to invite the song leaders
02:24 to come forward.
05:57 Thank you so much for joining with us,
05:59 and we will sing more favorite Christmas songs
06:02 next time.
06:03 At this time though,
06:04 Pastor Ross is going to have our opening prayer.
06:08 Dear Father in heaven, thank You once again
06:10 for the opportunity for us to gather together
06:12 and open up Your Word
06:13 and study this very important theme of unity,
06:16 especially in the church and in the home.
06:19 Father, we ask for the Holy Spirit
06:20 to come and guide us and help us to understand
06:23 and also to implement these biblical principles
06:25 in our relationships, for we ask this in Jesus' name.
06:28 Amen.
06:30 Our lesson study today is going to be brought to us
06:33 by our family life pastor
06:34 here at Granite Bay, Pastor Shawn Brummund.
06:38 I'd like to invite you to open your Bibles
06:40 to the Gospel of John 13:35.
06:45 And while we're turning to that,
06:47 I would like to do a quick survey for us here
06:51 as we get into our subject in our study,
06:53 which is a very important one
06:56 in regards to our personal relationships.
06:58 Has anybody here ever been hurt by any other church member?
07:02 Any church members here today that have ever been hurt
07:06 by another church member at some point,
07:07 not right now, but at some point in the past.
07:11 All right, put your hand up.
07:12 Raise them high, so I can see it. Okay.
07:14 Everybody look around.
07:16 Okay, everybody look around. Keep your hands up.
07:19 All right, okay.
07:20 For those of you who are looking
07:21 and maybe have a camera on the people
07:23 that are with us here today in Granite Bay,
07:25 there was a number of hands went up, at least half,
07:28 maybe even over half of the hands,
07:29 and I know that that some of the people
07:31 who didn't put their hands up,
07:32 they just didn't want to be bothered,
07:33 I know how that works.
07:34 And some of you that didn't put your hands up
07:36 also have been hurt by other church members.
07:39 Now when I put my hand up,
07:40 I wasn't just putting up as a model this time
07:41 like I did at last study when I asked a question,
07:44 but I've been hurt more than once
07:45 by another church member,
07:47 both before I entered the pastor calling
07:51 that God had given me as well as since.
07:54 And this just is part of the reality
07:57 of bringing a number of people together
07:59 even born again Christians
08:02 that are growing in the grace of Christ,
08:03 that are learning sometimes by our blunders,
08:06 by our mistakes.
08:07 And sometimes we say things that we regret,
08:10 sometimes we make decisions and actions that we regret
08:14 that not only do we have to ask the Lord for forgiveness for,
08:17 but also each other, other people that we have hurt.
08:21 And so this is one of the things
08:23 that we carry through our Christian experience
08:27 and through the church,
08:28 and I am just so thankful that the Bible gives us
08:32 some examples of some of the most prominent,
08:34 most spiritual, most devout Christians
08:37 that we have in all of history,
08:39 some of them Bible prophets
08:41 and apostles that also found themselves
08:44 either being hurt or hurting other fellow Christians
08:48 as they also were growing
08:50 in the understanding of God's love.
08:53 So if you were in your lesson study,
08:56 lesson study number 10,
08:58 you would have already known
08:59 that the text that I pointed as to,
09:01 which is John 13,
09:04 is also found at the bottom of page 80 on the first day,
09:08 and first page of our lesson study
09:09 for this weekend.
09:11 And so let's go ahead and read that.
09:12 You read it silently, I'll read it out loud.
09:14 In John 13:35,
09:16 we have the powerful statement of Christ
09:18 where He says, "By this all will know
09:20 that you are My disciples,
09:22 if you have love for one another."
09:26 Now I know even as we read that,
09:27 for those of you like myself
09:29 that have been in the church 20 plus years,
09:31 you've been in the faith many years,
09:32 you've heard that statement more than once, haven't you?
09:35 In fact, it's one of the most repeated statements
09:39 of the words of Christ.
09:40 And so I've heard it read many times
09:42 by their pastors, and Christians,
09:44 and Bible studies, and sermons and such.
09:46 Why?
09:47 Because it's a very important
09:48 and powerful statement by Jesus.
09:51 Now one of the dangers that takes place though
09:53 is that the more we hear it,
09:55 the more it can kind of just roll off us
09:57 because, oh, I said, "Oh, yeah, I've heard that before."
09:59 I've heard it a million times, and, of course,
10:02 one of the dangers of that happening is that
10:05 we can be in danger of forgetting
10:07 how important it is for us to have love for each other.
10:11 And that's the point that Jesus made, wasn't it?
10:15 Is that Jesus is reminding us
10:17 that one of the most important elements
10:19 that we bring to the church is the love that we bring
10:23 when we walk into the church doors.
10:25 And not only into the church doors,
10:27 when we come together on Sabbath for worship,
10:29 but when we walk into each other's homes,
10:31 and we walk into different events
10:33 or we go on mission trips together.
10:35 And every time that we're walking
10:37 and meeting each other,
10:38 God has called us for a love, one for another.
10:45 Quick question, what is the opposite of love?
10:50 Okay, somebody said selfishness,
10:52 hate, okay,
10:54 that was the first one that came to my mind,
10:55 probably most of you thought of hate right away.
10:57 With think love and then hate.
10:59 And that's certainly a fitting opposite.
11:02 Selfishness also is very fitting as well.
11:05 Anything else? Okay, what about some others?
11:10 I had some more time to think about, of course,
11:11 as I prepared.
11:13 What about betrayal?
11:15 Betrayal, when you betray somebody
11:17 that has trusted you, betrayed their trust,
11:19 that would be the opposite of what true love is.
11:21 What about violent acts?
11:23 Violent acts, of course, is the opposite of love.
11:27 What about jealousy?
11:29 When you're jealous of someone else,
11:30 what if you're bitter towards someone else?
11:33 What about resentment?
11:35 Of course, there's condemnation or judgment.
11:38 Sometimes we find ourselves acting in the opposite of love
11:41 when we condemn or judge somebody
11:44 in a way that God has called us not to.
11:47 What about being rude to a fellow person,
11:50 a fellow member.
11:52 Is that the opposite of love?
11:54 Sure it is, yeah, Jesus tells us
11:55 that love is kind and is not rude.
11:59 And I think we talked about that
12:00 over the last couple of studies that we've been together.
12:02 And so these are all fitting words
12:06 that can be found on the other side of the track.
12:08 We have love on one side,
12:10 and then we have a number of these other sinful realities
12:15 that we grow out of that.
12:16 We are called to be able to put behind us as Christians.
12:20 And when we fall into one of these things
12:21 that are in the opposite of love.
12:23 Why, of course, then we find ourselves
12:25 threatening in our relationships with each other.
12:28 Because if there's one thing that I've learned by experience
12:30 is that once I hurt somebody because of my non loving act
12:34 towards a fellow Christian church member,
12:38 you know, that relationship becomes strain, doesn't it?
12:41 And sometimes depending, of course,
12:43 on the magnitude of my act or my words,
12:48 will also be directly relational to the strain
12:51 that it brings on to that relationship.
12:53 Maybe we won't talk to each other for a time,
12:55 maybe we'll avoid each other, maybe, you know, well,
12:58 you know, there's all kinds of different reactions
13:00 or, you know, or maybe I'll just be
13:02 strained for an hour,
13:03 and an hour later, we're, you know,
13:05 we're sharing some special memory together
13:08 or something.
13:09 So it depends, it depends on the breach
13:12 and, of course, the magnitude of the offense.
13:16 Well, I had the privilege of teaching lesson number seven
13:19 about, throughout, it would be three lessons ago
13:21 when it was entitled, "When Conflicts Arise."
13:24 And how conflicts
13:26 between groups of church members take place.
13:29 It took place in the early church,
13:31 it takes place today in our church,
13:36 sometimes it's small groups within a local congregation,
13:39 sometimes a local congregation
13:40 will kind of be divided right down the center
13:43 and needs to be able to work that out.
13:46 And so we looked at some healthy ways that we can...
13:50 that God gives to us
13:51 to be able to make our way through that
13:53 and bring ourselves back into unity once again.
13:57 And then last week, as we came together
13:59 in lesson number nine,
14:00 our witness to the unbelieving world
14:01 was looked at,
14:03 and that witness reflects the statement
14:04 that Christ has given to us
14:06 at the beginning of this lesson's,
14:08 this week's lesson study, and that is,
14:10 "The unbelieving world is watching us
14:12 and seeing how we have one love for one another."
14:17 And so having that love for one another
14:19 is a big part of our witness, isn't it?
14:22 It's not only the message of the Bible,
14:24 which is also important and powerful,
14:26 but it's also living out the principles
14:29 that we have found in the Bible
14:30 as transformed spirit filled Christians
14:33 loving each other in a way that the world knows
14:36 that they don't love each other
14:37 outside of the borders of the church.
14:39 And so that's important for us to look at.
14:42 Now today we're going to look at personal relationships
14:44 in the church, and how they're broken.
14:45 We're going to examine some principles,
14:47 some different counsels
14:48 that God gives to us in the Bible
14:50 to give that relationship
14:52 the best chance of being healed,
14:54 the best chance of being restored.
14:57 Sadly,
14:59 sometimes those relationships are never restored,
15:01 but we want to prayerfully look at the scriptures today
15:04 and say, "Lord, how can I preserve
15:07 and maintain or restore all my relationships
15:11 with my fellow church members as best as possible.
15:16 And so my number one favorite day
15:18 of this week's lesson study was found on Sunday.
15:20 And Sunday's points us to two very important individuals.
15:24 And those two important individuals...
15:27 Well, the first one is very famous.
15:30 In fact, the first one is so famous
15:31 that over the last 2,000 years, there's been thousands,
15:34 maybe millions of baby boys
15:36 that have been born to Christian parents,
15:39 and the Christian parents have decided to name their son
15:42 after the Apostle Paul.
15:45 And so we have many Pauls even in our generation
15:49 here in America today because of that.
15:51 And so Paul is one of the most famous individuals by far
15:56 in all of history
15:57 as well as in the Christian church and Bible.
16:00 Now the second individual is just as essential,
16:04 but it's interesting that he's not nearly as famous.
16:07 Has anybody ever ran into a Barnabas lately?
16:12 Okay, all right, no Barnabases.
16:15 I can't recall, maybe I have,
16:17 but if I have I can't recall ever running into a Barnabas.
16:21 And yet how many have known a Paul?
16:23 There might be a Paul in our midst today
16:24 or watching on the program here today.
16:27 Lots of Pauls but no Barnabases,
16:29 why is that?
16:31 Well, that's a whole other discussion.
16:33 Well, Barnabas's name actually...
16:35 His parents didn't name him Barnabas, by the way.
16:38 His actual original name was a Joses or a Joseph
16:42 depended on what manuscript evidence you look at.
16:44 So we know that his birth name
16:47 actually was something totally different.
16:49 You may not have known that Barnabas was the name
16:52 that the apostles gave to him.
16:54 And so his name was changed.
16:57 Saul's name was changed to Paul,
16:58 and so Paul's original name was not Paul, it was Saul,
17:03 and it was changed to Paul.
17:05 And here we have Barnabas's name was changed to...
17:08 Joseph's name was changed to Barnabas as well.
17:12 We also have Simon, one of the apostles,
17:14 his name was changed to Peter, okay?
17:18 So it's interesting how God has moved upon
17:21 some of the early leaders of the church
17:23 and gave them a new name.
17:25 Now what does Barnabas mean?
17:29 It means son of encouragement. Son of encouragement.
17:33 What an honor to have your name changed
17:35 to son of encouragement.
17:36 Now the Bible tells us that one of the spiritual gifts
17:38 is encouragement or edification to minister
17:41 and lift up our fellow Christians.
17:42 And so some of us have been endowed like Barnabas
17:45 with a spiritual gift
17:46 that when somebody is discouraged in the church,
17:49 you kind of just are one of the most natural people
17:50 to just kind of run in there and help encourage that person
17:55 through a difficult time that they may be going through
17:57 in their faith
17:58 or perhaps some challenges in their life and such.
18:01 Well, Barnabas lived out, and lived up to his name
18:04 as you look at Barnabas through the Book of Acts,
18:06 at least through the first 15 chapters
18:08 where he's talked about.
18:10 And so we're going to spend some time
18:12 just kind of tracing this beautiful relationship
18:14 between these two very important individuals.
18:17 In Acts Chapter 9, we find that Saul is converted
18:20 as he's making his way up to the north,
18:22 the far north of Israel to Damascus.
18:25 And as he's almost at Damascus,
18:27 of course, he has this encounter with Jesus.
18:29 To make a long story short,
18:30 we find that he eventually is born again
18:33 in the city of Damascus.
18:35 And rather than persecuting,
18:36 and trying to arrest, and imprison,
18:38 and even kill some of the Christians
18:39 as he had planned,
18:40 now he's fellowshipping with them
18:42 and he's praying on his knees with them,
18:44 he's standing up and he's preaching for them,
18:46 and he's just excited on fire for the Lord
18:50 because his eyes have been opened,
18:52 and he's a different person.
18:53 All things have been made new,
18:55 and now he realized that the very message
18:58 in religion that he was fighting against
19:00 is the very message of truth
19:03 that God has for mankind and for Paul.
19:07 Now when he returns back to the city of Jerusalem
19:10 where he had first started and such,
19:13 he naturally wants to find and share with other Christians
19:15 that his eyes have been opened,
19:17 to tell them that he's now full of the Holy Spirit,
19:19 and that he's a converted believer in Christ
19:22 just like they are,
19:23 so you can imagine Paul's excitement
19:24 when he gets back into Jerusalem
19:26 because he just wants to find
19:28 all the Christians he can find now,
19:29 but his motive is completely the opposite now, isn't it?
19:33 And so when he's out looking for the Christians,
19:36 he can't wait to be able to share with them.
19:38 But now we have to put ourselves
19:39 in the shoes of the Christians because when he left Jerusalem,
19:42 it had been many weeks, maybe months now
19:45 that he had been searching out imprisoning, torturing,
19:47 and killing Christians.
19:51 And so the more that the word got out
19:52 that Paul was trying to find them,
19:54 the more they kind of went into the woodwork
19:55 and try to hide from him.
19:57 And when the word got to them that Paul was converted
20:00 that he was now a Christian,
20:02 they had a hard time believing that,
20:03 and the Bible tells us so in that particular chapter.
20:08 And so they were filled with fear, and disbelief,
20:12 and naturally so.
20:15 Now we don't know how long it would be
20:16 before Paul was finally united
20:18 with the Christians in Jerusalem
20:20 if it wasn't for Barnabas.
20:21 But we do know that the Bible tells us
20:23 that Barnabas was the key mediator
20:26 that went and sought out, found Paul,
20:29 heard his story,
20:31 checked out his genuineness and so on,
20:34 and then took him and introduced him
20:36 to the very heart of Christianity.
20:38 He didn't just bring him to Mary's house
20:40 where there was a group of Christians,
20:41 but no, he brought him...
20:42 Maybe it was Mary's house where the apostles were,
20:45 but we find there that the apostles
20:47 is the first people that Barnabas introduces Paul to.
20:51 So he brings them
20:52 to the very heart of the Christian church,
20:54 to the apostles themselves.
20:57 We find that in verse 27.
20:59 It says, "But Barnabas took him,
21:01 and brought him to the apostles."
21:04 And so Barnabas finds himself as a mediator.
21:06 Now this is the spark of the beginning
21:08 of a lifelong relationship between these two men.
21:11 You can imagine how special
21:13 Barnabas immediately became to Paul
21:15 because Barnabas was the key to bringing Paul
21:19 and introducing him to the very heart
21:20 of the Christian Church.
21:23 Well, Paul's still excited for the Lord,
21:25 and so he is standing up before different Christians,
21:27 and synagogues, and on the street corners,
21:29 probably in the open courts of the temple,
21:31 and he's preaching Jesus now, he's preaching the very message
21:35 and the very person, Jesus, that he had been persecuting
21:38 and working against so strongly.
21:40 And so it took the Jews, the Jewish populations a while
21:44 to kind of come to grips with what happened
21:46 with this 180 change.
21:48 And, but it tells us that eventually
21:50 the heat rose to the point
21:51 where word got out to Paul and the Christian church
21:54 that they were going to kill Paul.
21:55 And so the Christian church wisely then kind of took Paul
21:58 probably in the night,
21:59 and brought him over to Caesarea,
22:02 which was a port city nearby
22:04 the main port city that they could find,
22:06 put him on a boat,
22:07 and sent him back to his home city of Tarsus,
22:09 where he can get some refuge and safety
22:11 until he kind of settled down in Jerusalem.
22:17 And so this was the beginning of a lifelong relationship
22:20 between these two men that were instrumental
22:23 in developing a network of churches
22:25 throughout the Roman Empire.
22:27 These are no small individuals in regards to God's plan
22:31 to spread and network His church
22:33 throughout the known world.
22:35 When we come to Acts 11,
22:37 we find that God leads Barnabas again
22:39 to take the lead.
22:40 Well, how does he take the lead this time?
22:43 Well, Barnabas visits the city by the name of Antioch.
22:46 Now Antioch is not in Israel, but it's just north of Israel.
22:50 And if you were to follow the Eastern Mediterranean Sea
22:52 that Israel kind of lines,
22:54 you'll find that almost at the very top
22:56 of that eastern shoreline,
22:57 you'll find another port city by the name of Antioch.
23:00 Now Antioch is a Roman city,
23:03 but because it's close enough to Jerusalem or anti-Israel,
23:06 we find that there's a substantial population
23:09 still of Jewish people there living as well.
23:12 And not only that, but there's a lot of Hellenists
23:14 that are living there.
23:15 And Hellenists are kind of Jews that have adopted the Jewish...
23:19 the Greek language,
23:21 the Greek culture in a large way.
23:22 And some of them had intermarried
23:23 with Greeks as well.
23:25 And so they were referred to as Hellenism.
23:27 And a lot of them weren't recognized
23:30 as complete Jews by the purists down
23:33 in Jerusalem and Judea.
23:35 And so word got out that there was,
23:37 the word was being spread out there,
23:38 and the gospel's being accepted by Hellenists.
23:40 These kind of half Jews, almost like a Samaritan type.
23:43 And so the brethren in Jerusalem had decided
23:49 to send Barnabas up north to Antioch,
23:52 and to give them a report.
23:54 Well after he gets up there, he's just so excited,
23:56 he encourages the church,
23:57 he sees the hand of the Lord there and such,
24:00 and then after a time
24:01 after he's finished his mission,
24:04 we find there is that that Barnabas decides
24:06 and was moved by God, I'm sure,
24:08 to go and get Saul and bring him back to Antioch.
24:11 Now, Barnabas, I'm sure
24:13 was acquainted with the geography of the time.
24:15 And as it turns out, when you look at a map,
24:17 Antioch is just a short boat ride
24:19 across the top eastern corner of the Mediterranean Sea
24:22 to get to the home city of Paul, Tarsus.
24:26 And that's where, of course,
24:27 where the Christian church last sent him.
24:31 And so Barnabas leaves the city of Antioch.
24:34 Now the city of Antioch is a fascinating city
24:36 as we'll continue to see here
24:37 because Antioch was the most fitting port city
24:41 that was as north as you could get from Israel
24:44 without entering into the full blown Gentile world
24:48 of the Western Empire.
24:50 And so we find there that Paul is...
24:54 or not Paul, but Barnabas and Paul
24:56 eventually become sponsored from this,
24:58 and Antioch becomes the kind of bridge city,
25:01 the kind of the missionary outpost
25:04 to the Gentile world that God had intended
25:07 for them to reach.
25:10 Well, after Barnabas goes to Saul, Tarsus,
25:12 he finds Saul, and sure enough,
25:13 again as he did before in Jerusalem,
25:15 he takes Saul back to Antioch,
25:17 introduces him to this key church,
25:19 and God is working through all this, of course,
25:22 to be able to establish this church
25:23 as the missionary outpost,
25:25 but also Paul and Barnabas as the key missionaries.
25:28 And so the Bible tells us
25:30 that they spent a year there together.
25:32 And so Saul and Barnabas are Paul and Barnabas,
25:36 spent a year working hand-in-hand preaching,
25:39 teaching, evangelizing the great city of Antioch.
25:42 It is in the city of Antioch
25:43 that we are first called Christians by the way.
25:47 And so that's an interesting key trivia
25:52 and point there as well.
25:53 And so the people outside of the church
25:55 started to call as Christians,
25:56 those who are followers of Christ.
26:00 Now Antioch now becomes the missionary outpost center.
26:04 And in Acts 12, Paul and Barnabas finish...
26:07 After they finish delivering some food
26:10 to the city of Jerusalem,
26:11 there was a famine that had been prophesied,
26:13 and predicted, and sure enough it came in Jerusalem,
26:15 the land of Judea and such
26:17 and other parts of the known world.
26:19 And so they, Paul and Barnabas, were sent by Antioch
26:21 to bring a number of generous donations
26:24 to be able to feed those particular hungry Christians
26:28 that were back in Jerusalem and in Judea.
26:31 And after they finish their business,
26:33 the Bible tells us in Acts 12
26:34 that they return back to the city of Antioch,
26:36 and when they return,
26:38 they bring with them a young man,
26:40 a promising young man for ministry
26:42 and his name is John, John Mark is his full name.
26:47 Now he is famously known
26:48 as the author of the gospel of...
26:50 Not the Gospel of John, but the Gospel of Mark.
26:55 Now some of you may not know this,
26:56 but Mark is not his first name.
27:00 If you're to address him formally,
27:01 you would call him Mr. Mark, and that is because
27:04 Mark was his last name, it was his surname.
27:07 His first name was John.
27:09 Now why they decided to call him Mark,
27:12 I can't find any Bible verse that tells us for sure,
27:15 but I would put my money on the fact
27:17 that there was a very prominent apostle
27:19 by the name of John already,
27:22 and so in order to avoid confusion,
27:24 they decided to call Mark, Mark, or John Mark,
27:26 Mark by his last name,
27:28 so they could have an easy distinction between the two.
27:34 And so they bring this young man
27:36 by the name of Mark.
27:37 Now Mark was the son of a key figure in Jerusalem.
27:39 And that key figure's name was Mary.
27:43 Now, no, this is not the mother of Jesus,
27:45 not Mary, the mother of Jesus, but rather this is Mary
27:49 who is a prominent figure
27:50 and a prominent Christian in Jerusalem
27:52 that hosted the church quite often in her home.
27:55 And so I'm guessing she was one of more privilege,
27:58 had a larger home, had more room
28:01 to accommodate worship services and so on.
28:04 Many of us are familiar with the story
28:05 when Peter was imprisoned, and he was on death row.
28:08 King Herod was going to kill him the next morning.
28:10 God delivers him with an angel through the night,
28:12 Peter comes and starts to rap on the door of Mary.
28:16 And all the Christians, and all of them,
28:18 but there is certainly a substantial group in there
28:21 that were praying on their knees,
28:23 you know, "Lord, please deliver Peter.
28:25 Don't let him die tomorrow as planned."
28:27 And God answered their prayers, didn't He?
28:30 And so it was Mary's home.
28:32 And so inevitably, John Mark or Mark as we know him
28:36 would have been in that group praying
28:38 for Peter's deliverance.
28:39 And so now we have Paul, and Barnabas,
28:42 and Mark perhaps had approached them,
28:45 perhaps they approached him, we don't know the details
28:47 but somehow there was a sense of the calling
28:49 that God had called Mark to be a minister
28:51 and a missionary for the Lord.
28:55 And then we come to Acts 13.
28:57 In Acts 13, God tells the Antioch Church
29:00 now as He leads through a number of different prophets.
29:03 He says, "I want you to ordain both Paul and Barnabas,
29:08 and I want you to send them out
29:10 as the first sponsored missionaries
29:12 that the Christian church has ever officially sent."
29:15 And so this is an exciting story
29:17 because these are the first
29:18 official sponsored missionaries.
29:21 And so after the ordination, of course,
29:24 they begin to make their plans, and they jump in a boat,
29:26 and they sail out to a substantial island
29:29 towards the Western Mediterranean Sea
29:31 called Cyprus.
29:33 Now I want just to stop for a moment,
29:36 and imagine how close
29:38 these two Christian brothers are at this point.
29:42 They've spent several years together,
29:43 they've traveled, they evangelized together,
29:46 they've sat in people's home giving Bible studies
29:48 with people that are learning
29:50 the truth in the gospel for the first time.
29:53 These are close, close brothers in the Lord.
29:58 All right, chapter 13 in the same chapter verse 5,
30:00 it tells us that John Mark is taken as an assistant.
30:05 And so we find that the first missionary team
30:07 was actually made up of three, we have Paul, we have Barnabas,
30:12 and then we also have Mark
30:14 or John Mark as his full name is.
30:17 And it tells us very clearly
30:19 that he's recognized as an assistant,
30:20 so he's not ordained at this point,
30:22 but he's coming along as kind of as an assistant
30:25 to get his feet wet a little bit in the ministry,
30:27 he doesn't have the experience
30:28 of Paul and the Barnabas both have in preaching,
30:30 and evangelizing, and such,
30:33 and so he comes along as an assistant.
30:37 Let's read that in...
30:39 Read more about that in Acts 13:13.
30:43 Let's go to Acts 13 now.
30:50 Acts 13:13,
30:57 because we find here
30:58 after they had gone through about...
30:59 Now the first missionary tour that took place
31:04 was the shortest one that Paul and Barnabas went on.
31:08 And so the three main tours or missionary trips
31:10 that Paul went on, this was the shortest.
31:12 But half way through that particular missionary tour,
31:18 we find here that John Mark kind of falls short.
31:22 Let's find that, Acts 13:13, and we have a volunteer
31:27 that's going to read that for us.
31:28 Go ahead kindly.
31:31 "Now when Paul and his party set sail from Paphos,
31:34 they came to Perga in Pamphylia,
31:37 and John, departing from them, returned to Jerusalem."
31:41 Okay, so here we find
31:44 that the party is going in one direction,
31:46 that's Paul and Barnabas, and Mark kind of bails out.
31:50 And we don't know all the details,
31:52 but we can only guess, you know, being a missionary,
31:55 my hat goes off to missionaries,
31:56 can you say amen to that?
31:58 My hat goes off to missionaries.
31:59 I have done some short mission trips
32:02 to some of the Caribbean Islands, and so on.
32:05 And when you've been brought up in the standard of living
32:07 that you have in America,
32:08 and my years that I grew up in Canada,
32:11 and you go to some of these developing countries,
32:13 you realize how blessed you really are.
32:16 And so the rigors of missionary work
32:20 is a great sacrifice.
32:23 And God calls very special people
32:26 to be able to make that sacrifice
32:27 and continue to bring the gospel
32:29 to all points of the planet.
32:33 And so...
32:34 But it's a very rigorous.
32:36 And in the travels back then, of course,
32:38 were very primitive compared to today,
32:39 they didn't have nice seats,
32:41 we complain about the little seats
32:43 that are shrinking in our planes,
32:44 well, they would love to have those seats,
32:46 you know, compared to being on a ship
32:47 and throwing up over the edge of the sea,
32:50 and it didn't smell too good all the time,
32:53 they didn't have the sanitation
32:54 and sewer systems that we have on our ships today.
32:57 And so it was rough.
32:59 And, of course, their lives were in danger all the time.
33:01 And we read about Paul, and Barnabas, and Silas,
33:04 I mean they had a lot of scars on their back
33:06 because of some of the different whippings,
33:08 and beatings, and stonings that they had been exposed to.
33:13 And so Mark goes home, and he gets on the ship,
33:17 and he says, "Sorry, I just can't take this anymore,
33:19 I've got to go home and kind of regroup."
33:21 And so he goes home, and Paul and Barnabas goes on,
33:24 and they continue and finish their tour.
33:29 Well, Paul was not happy about this.
33:32 Barnabas was a little bit more discerning,
33:34 he was a little bit more sensitive.
33:36 Paul was a go-getter, he was a real accomplisher,
33:39 and God needed an individual like that
33:42 to be able to accomplish the very vigorous plan
33:45 that God had for him.
33:46 And...
33:47 But one of the shortcomings
33:48 sometimes with that kind of personality is that
33:50 you don't have very much tolerance for those of you,
33:52 for those who aren't quite as rigorous as you are,
33:55 and quite as thick skinned as you are perhaps and such.
33:58 And so Paul apparently writes off Mark,
34:01 and he just writes him off, and says,
34:03 "Well, obviously he's not cut out
34:04 for the rigors of missionary life."
34:07 And so that's the end of Paul,
34:09 I mean the end of Mark in Paul's mind.
34:13 Well, how do we know this?
34:14 Well, we find it in Acts 15:36.
34:17 Let's go to Acts Chapter 15. Acts Chapter 15.
34:26 In Acts 15:36,
34:28 we'll read right to the end of the chapter there.
34:30 It says "Then after some days Paul said to Barnabas,
34:33 'Let us now go back and visit our brethren in every city
34:37 where we have preached the word of the Lord,
34:39 and see how they are doing.'
34:41 Now Barnabas was determined to take with them
34:43 John called Mark."
34:45 Well, there it goes.
34:46 Okay, "But Paul insisted
34:48 that they should not take with them the one
34:50 who had departed from them in Pamphylia,
34:52 and had not gone with them to the work."
34:55 And so Paul completely opposed and is not interested
34:59 in cooperating with Mark coming along.
35:02 Verse 39 says,
35:03 "Then the contention became so sharp
35:06 that they parted from one another.
35:07 And so Barnabas took Mark and sailed to Cyprus,"
35:10 which was retracing the same route
35:13 that they did on their last tour,
35:15 the first tour.
35:16 "But Paul chose Silas and departed,
35:19 being commended by the brethren to the grace of God.
35:21 And he went through Syria and Cilicia,
35:24 strengthening the churches."
35:27 And so it turns out that Paul chose another partner.
35:29 He said, "Listen, Barnabas,
35:30 if you're going to take along Mark,
35:31 I'm not going."
35:33 And Barnabas said, "Listen,
35:34 if you're not going to let me take along Mark,
35:35 I'm not going."
35:37 And so they both had...
35:38 There's two key words in that one key verse there,
35:40 around verse 40, what was that?
35:41 Contention and sharp.
35:44 Does that sound like a good conversation?
35:47 Okay, all right.
35:49 So this is more of an argument, isn't it?
35:51 Okay, and so they're butting heads,
35:53 and they're not moving,
35:55 they're both putting their heels in,
35:56 and they're saying we're not moving,
35:57 and so finally Paul says, "Well, that's it,
35:59 I'm dropping you and Mark. I'm going to take Silas.
36:02 And I'm going to take Silas and we're going to go up
36:04 and we're going to do a different missionary trip."
36:05 And so they took the land route
36:07 around the top of the Mediterranean Sea
36:09 to get into the West, and as we just read,
36:11 we find that Barnabas took Mark
36:13 and went back to their original tour,
36:16 the first tour at Cyprus.
36:20 I want to read something here from lesson,
36:22 from the lesson we're looking out on page 81.
36:26 And so if you have your lesson books,
36:27 you can turn there with me if you wish.
36:30 And I'm going to read a quote from one of my favorite books,
36:33 it comes from the Acts of the Apostles, page 170.
36:36 The Acts of the Apostles written by Ellen White.
36:38 And it says this, it says, "This desertion caused Paul
36:42 to judge Mark unfavorably, and even severely, for a time.
36:46 Barnabas, on the other hand,
36:48 was inclined to excuse him because of his inexperience.
36:51 He felt anxious that Mark
36:52 should not abandon the ministry,
36:54 for he saw in him qualifications
36:56 that would fit him to be a useful worker for Christ."
37:00 And so thank God for Barnabas in this case, right?
37:04 Then it goes on as the lesson study reflects on that.
37:06 It says, "Although God used all these men,"
37:08 and I like that.
37:09 God is still using each of these men, isn't He?
37:11 Even as they departed
37:12 with different partners in mission,
37:15 God is still working through them in spite of them,
37:18 and I take encouragement in that
37:21 that God can work through me in spite of me.
37:24 "Although God used all these men,
37:26 the issues between them needed resolution."
37:29 That was not to be ignored.
37:30 "The apostle who preached grace needed to extend grace
37:34 to a young preacher who had disappointed him.
37:36 The apostle forgiveness needed to forgive.
37:39 John Mark grew
37:41 in the affirming mentorship of Barnabas,"
37:44 Acts 15:39, "and eventually
37:47 Paul's heart was apparently touched by the changes.
37:54 And so this broke, two key relationships.
37:56 Paul now has two broken relationships.
37:58 He has a broken relationship
38:00 with a longtime companion and friend
38:01 by the name of Barnabas,
38:03 and he also has a broken relationship
38:05 with a new found relationship and friendship
38:08 that he had with another upstart
38:10 by the name of Mark.
38:12 And so Barnabas is not mentioned again
38:16 for the rest of Acts.
38:17 You know, I started to look at the Concordance and I said,
38:19 "Well, Barnabas must come up later,
38:20 there must be some kind of reconciliation, something."
38:22 Well, but there's nothing.
38:23 Barnabas just disappears
38:24 off the map for the rest of the book.
38:27 And so then I thought to myself,
38:28 "Well, maybe God just wants to leave it open-ended.
38:30 He just doesn't tell us
38:31 that they reconciled one with another."
38:34 But as I looked at the Concordance,
38:35 I found that there was one more time
38:37 that Barnabas is mentioned,
38:39 and it's mentioned by Paul himself
38:40 as Paul is writing back to a church
38:42 that he had planted in Corinth on his second tour.
38:46 And come with me to 1 Corinthians 9:5-6.
38:51 So let's read it together.
38:52 It's the last mention of Barnabas.
38:54 Okay, we're going to 1 Corinthians 9...
39:03 and 5-6.
39:04 And we have a volunteer here.
39:05 Seth is going to read for us, thank you.
39:08 1 Corinthians 9:5-6,
39:12 "Do we not have a right to take along a believing wife,
39:15 even as rest of the apostles
39:17 and the brothers of the Lord and Cephas?
39:20 Or do only Barnabas and I
39:22 not have a right to refrain from working?"
39:25 Okay, thank you.
39:26 So here we have poor Paul as he is so often,
39:28 he's defending himself by false accusers
39:31 and false accusations that are taking place
39:32 while he's out of town.
39:35 And how often that happens, say they're taking advantage,
39:38 that the accusers are waiting till Paul's out of town,
39:41 and then they start running him down.
39:43 And, so Paul here is defending himself,
39:46 and he says, "Do we not have the right
39:48 to bring along a believing wife as also the other apostles."
39:51 And so here we find some interesting evidence
39:54 that reveals that most of the apostles
39:56 traveled with their wife.
39:58 And it's interesting that the only apostle
40:00 that is mentioned by name is Cephus.
40:02 Now, Cephus is another name for Peter.
40:06 And so Peter is on record of traveling with his wife.
40:10 Now this doesn't work very well with a Roman Church tradition
40:14 that tells its people that, that Peter is the first pope,
40:19 and that both the pope
40:20 and its army of cardinals, and priests,
40:24 and so on are forbidden to marry and have a wife.
40:27 And yet we have Peter,
40:28 who's claimed to be the first pope
40:30 is sleeping with his wife every night.
40:34 Isn't that interesting?
40:35 It's almost like God put that there on purpose,
40:37 I'm not sure.
40:38 But anyway that's a sideline. Okay, so 1 Corinthians.
40:43 Now, what we need to pick up here is that
40:45 on the first tour that Paul and Barnabas went on,
40:49 they never made it to the city of Corinth,
40:51 they never made it to the city of Corinth.
40:57 So when Paul is writing back and mentioning Barnabas,
41:00 that gives us very clear evidence
41:03 that Barnabas had reckoned,
41:04 not only reconciled back with Paul,
41:06 but had joined hands with Paul and his crew,
41:09 and on the third missionary trip,
41:11 inevitably traveled with Paul
41:13 as well as individuals, now we have Mark,
41:15 who is also with them now as well,
41:17 and then we also have Luke,
41:20 who is with them and named as well,
41:22 as well as some other individuals.
41:23 And so the crew has built itself up a little bit bigger
41:26 by the time they get to the third missionary tour,
41:28 and we find that Barnabas is part of it again.
41:31 Isn't that good news? Why?
41:33 Because it tells us that Barnabas and Paul
41:35 worked out their differences and their hurts,
41:38 and they restored their relationship,
41:40 and a working relationship,
41:42 and friendship one back with another.
41:44 And so I found that very encouraging
41:47 as I continued to do some investigation there
41:50 and work that out.
41:52 Okay, let's go to 2 Timothy Chapter 4.
41:55 We're going to go to 2 Timothy.
42:00 And when we go to 2 Timothy, every time I go there,
42:02 I go there kind of solemnly because 2 Timothy
42:05 is kind of the last words that Paul is writing
42:10 to his fellow worker by the name of Timothy
42:13 and fellow missionary.
42:15 But it's just kind of his last words
42:16 if we could say it.
42:18 He's about to lose his life,
42:20 he's about to be executed by the Roman authorities.
42:22 And so God inspires him to write this last word,
42:25 this last letter.
42:28 And we would come to the last chapter,
42:31 we come to verse 11,
42:32 and we're going to ask our last volunteer, Dianna,
42:34 to kindly read that for us.
42:36 2 Timothy 4:11, "Only Luke is with me.
42:41 Get Mark and bring him with you,
42:43 for he is useful to me for ministry."
42:46 Can you say amen?
42:48 All right, so he's saying, listen only Luke is with me.
42:50 And Paul is writing from his prison
42:52 at home and such in the city of Rome,
42:55 and he's saying, "Oh, make sure you bring Mark
42:56 because Mark is useful to me."
42:58 Do you see a restored relationship there, friends?
43:02 There's a beautiful restored relationship
43:03 that is found there in that powerful verse.
43:05 Thank God for that verse.
43:08 And so Mark is very obviously on record
43:09 of becoming a very valued missionary
43:11 and accomplished minister of the Lord.
43:14 And Paul recognizes that,
43:15 and already has some very good experiences on the road
43:18 and in the field with him in the years passed.
43:21 In fact, God saw Mark is so powerful and so important
43:24 that He actually gave Mark
43:26 the privilege of writing one of the four gospels
43:28 on the life teachings, death, and resurrection of Jesus.
43:32 And so Mark becomes a very prominent
43:34 important individual in the early Christian Church.
43:38 Well, you see that we have a few minutes left,
43:39 and I want to spend the last few minutes
43:41 just running through a very important subject
43:43 that is found in the later days studying our lesson,
43:47 and that is the subject of forgiveness.
43:50 Forgiveness is a huge subject,
43:52 and I wish we had a whole session
43:53 just to look at that,
43:54 maybe we will in the future some day.
43:58 Did Barnabas need to forgive Paul
44:00 for Paul's overly harsh judgment of Mark,
44:03 and also not trusting at Barnabas' discernment?
44:05 You know, Barnabas said,
44:07 "Listen, this is my take on Mark.
44:08 I really think there's a lot of potential.
44:10 Yes, he kind of had a bump in the road there,
44:13 but we all do.
44:14 So let's just take him under a wing
44:16 and give him another shot."
44:17 And Paul said, "Absolutely not, you know.
44:20 I'll go a different way,
44:22 and I'll pick somebody else if it takes it.
44:24 Did Paul need to...
44:25 I mean did Barnabas need to forgive Paul?
44:28 Yeah, he did.
44:29 Sure there were some hurtful words,
44:31 and some hurtful stands that Paul had made.
44:34 Did Paul need to forgive Mark
44:35 for bailing on them in the first mission trip?
44:38 Sure he did.
44:39 Now we don't know if he forgave him
44:41 before he went on that second mission trip
44:43 and refused to bring Mark with him.
44:46 He might have forgave him but still judged him and said,
44:48 "Listen, I don't think
44:49 that you're cut out for the mission field."
44:52 Did Mark need to forgive Paul for writing him off so quickly?
44:58 Sure, you think Mark was hurt by that?
45:00 Of course, he was, yeah,
45:01 maybe even overheard some of those conversations
45:03 between Paul and Barnabas,
45:05 and poor Mark's maybe in the room,
45:06 and he's heard them argue over
45:08 whether Mark's going to come or not,
45:09 and Paul says, "No way, that guy's not cut out for it,
45:11 I don't think he has it.
45:12 I don't believe in him."
45:14 And so was Mark hurt? Sure he was.
45:17 And so Mark had to forgive Paul for writing him off so quickly.
45:21 You see, friends,
45:22 forgiveness is at the very heart of the gospel.
45:24 It is a permanent attitude of God's heart,
45:27 and that's why when we see the Son of God,
45:29 and we have to remember when we see Jesus on the cross,
45:32 Jesus had said just hours before that,
45:34 He said, "When you see Me, you have seen the Father."
45:39 And so when Jesus cried out to his opposers,
45:41 to those who were spitting on Him,
45:43 and mocking Him,
45:44 and cheering on His death and His suffering,
45:46 He said, "Forgive them,
45:49 for they know not what they do."
45:51 Is that the heart of the Father?
45:53 Sure it is.
45:54 You have seen Me, you have seen the Father.
45:57 And so we find that
45:58 at the very heart of God's existence,
46:00 in the very heart of God's heart,
46:02 there is an attitude
46:03 that is a permanent attitude of forgiveness.
46:06 God desires and wants to forgive us.
46:10 And so because of this, because we're called
46:12 to reflect the heart of God as Christians,
46:14 our personal spiritual and emotional well-being
46:17 depends largely on having that same attitude,
46:21 the same attitude that God had as well.
46:25 What is forgiveness?
46:29 What is forgiveness?
46:31 That's important for us to stop and just pause for a moment.
46:33 Forgiveness is letting go.
46:37 It's letting go of a wrong that is against you.
46:39 Somebody has offended you, and you have chosen
46:42 not to hold that against that person, in case,
46:45 it's very important for us to understand
46:46 what forgiveness even is.
46:48 Now this is the most common question
46:50 that is asked by many people.
46:52 Many people that have sat down with us Christians
46:54 have asked this question.
46:55 Does forgiveness tell the offender
46:57 that what they did was okay?
47:00 If I choose to forgive somebody that has offended me,
47:03 am I telling that person, it's okay?
47:05 There's a certain part of us,
47:06 and I've heard this over and over
47:08 that have a hard time separating the two,
47:11 and they say, "Well, if I forgive that person
47:13 who has done such a serious offense against me
47:16 or a loved one that I know or friend, if I forgive them,
47:19 then it's like condoning what they did,
47:21 it's like approving what they did."
47:24 And that's not just true.
47:25 For those of you who may be watching on program here today
47:28 or in the future, those of you here today,
47:30 I want to put it in a way
47:32 that might help you to understand.
47:34 Have you ever...
47:35 Has anybody here ever forgiven somebody
47:36 for doing something good to them?
47:40 Anybody ever came up to somebody and said,
47:43 "You know, John, you know, the other day
47:45 you just did such a kind act to me,
47:47 you know, when you help me into the car there,
47:48 when I couldn't get in, I broke my leg,
47:50 I just want to forgive you for that."
47:54 Okay, all right, some of you are chuckling.
47:56 We don't forgive people for doing good, do we?
47:58 The very act of forgiving is actually confirming that
48:03 what that person did was wrong, okay?
48:07 So I hope that helps a little bit
48:10 'cause sometimes we hesitate to do
48:12 what God has asked us to do, which is forgive.
48:15 By the way, the Lord's Prayer says,
48:18 "Forgive us our sins,
48:20 even as we forgive those who sin against us."
48:25 And so God has called us
48:26 to have a continual attitude of forgiveness
48:28 toward our fellow man,
48:30 and toward our fellow members, and so that's important.
48:35 And so to forgive somebody is actually the opposite.
48:37 You're confirming that what they did was wrong,
48:39 you're saying to that person,
48:40 "Even though you did what was wrong,
48:42 I choose to let it go,
48:44 I choose not to hold it against you,
48:46 and it both frees my heart and my spirit,
48:50 and it also frees your heart and your spirit,"
48:53 and gives the offender a much better opportunity
48:55 to be able to change
48:57 and do what's right in the future.
48:59 And so not only are you liberating yourself,
49:01 but you're also giving opportunity
49:02 to liberate the offender as well.
49:04 And so that's very important for us
49:07 to be able to understand in regards to forgiveness.
49:13 And I see here that we're on the very last minutes
49:16 of our program here,
49:18 and I just want to ask you a question.
49:20 Did everyone at Christ's crucifixion repent?
49:25 No. Okay.
49:27 Did Jesus ask for the forgiveness
49:29 of all that were in the crowd?
49:31 Yes. Okay.
49:32 As Christians we are called
49:33 to have an attitude of forgiveness
49:35 even if the person chooses not to repent
49:37 because that's another question some people ask me as a pastor.
49:39 "Pastor, if that person hasn't repented,
49:41 if they haven't given any indication or demonstration
49:43 that they are changing their offending ways,
49:47 should I forgive them?"
49:48 And the answer is yes. Okay. Why?
49:52 Again, because you're liberating your own spirit
49:54 and your own attitude in your heart,
49:56 but you're also giving them a bigger opportunity
49:59 to liberate their spirit as well
50:00 because now they're not rocked with guilt
50:02 every time they see you,
50:03 and they know that you're holding something against them.
50:06 And so that's important as well.
50:09 And so love, forgiveness, this is all part of healing
50:13 and maintaining our broken relationships.
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52:20 Amazing Facts Changed Lives.
52:27 Early 1980,
52:28 all the baby boomers were turning 21.
52:31 The night club scenes were exploding
52:33 and I started an entertainment lighting company.
52:35 I was the president, and there were six divisions
52:38 doing the raves in the '80s and '90s,
52:40 you know, in some warehouse,
52:42 where you're setting up lighting,
52:43 and fog, and, you know,
52:44 who knows what's going on in there,
52:46 and nightclub, nightclub installations,
52:49 I loved it, and it was who I was.
52:52 Bought a new house out of town,
52:53 and we moved about two, three times,
52:56 but we were always going to different churches.
52:58 We're in a Lutheran church,
52:59 then we are in the Methodist church,
53:01 and then we went to three different Baptist churches.
53:04 My wife was raised Catholic, I was raised Methodist.
53:06 Currently, I've been out
53:07 reading all the Helen Zille books,
53:09 and watching all the Left Behind movies.
53:11 So I really wanted to understand
53:13 what the Book of Revelation was all about,
53:14 but nothing really ever made sense to me.
53:17 One day Pastor Lloyd Logan came knocking,
53:20 and he had that net 99 flyer.
53:23 We were preparing for an evangelistic series.
53:27 And different people were going different directions
53:29 with those handbills
53:31 to invite people to the meetings.
53:34 I saw that coming at me, you know, all the colors,
53:36 and I thought, "Oh, no,
53:37 this is some kind of cult thing."
53:39 And she said, "Thank you very much,
53:40 I'm not much interested myself,
53:43 but my husband like that kind of thing."
53:45 Then Lloyd said, "Would you give it to him please?"
53:48 And I said, "Okay, I will."
53:51 So I took the pamphlet and I put in on the counter.
53:54 Gary came home and he walked by it.
53:56 Ran to the kitchen to quickly eat,
53:58 and take a shower, and go back out,
54:00 and work a show.
54:01 Two, three days went by like this,
54:03 and I moved that brochure from the counter,
54:06 put it on the dining table, put it back on the counter,
54:10 in fact I actually threw in the garbage.
54:12 As I threw it in that garbage can,
54:14 I could hear him, and see his face saying,
54:17 "Would you give it to him, please?"
54:19 And I actually took the garbage out,
54:21 and that night lying in bed, I kept seeing his face
54:24 and hearing his voice and thinking, "Oh, boy,
54:26 I got to get that brochure out of the garbage."
54:30 And I took that, and I put it
54:31 right underneath remote control,
54:34 bright colors, he'll see it.
54:36 I finally sat down in my living room,
54:38 and I picked up the remote,
54:39 I saw that angel holding up that scroll.
54:41 Wow, cool, what is this?
54:44 And I was in the kitchen cooking, I thought, "Oh, no."
54:48 And I looked at it, and I turned it over,
54:49 and then I saw a little building,
54:51 little church building, and it wasn't too far away,
54:54 it was about six houses down.
54:56 And it said, "Friday night."
54:57 And I certainly wasn't going.
55:00 I mean, it wasn't my intention to go.
55:01 I didn't have any shows going on that night.
55:03 And so I thought it was a one night deal,
55:06 and I went, and as I heard about the Millennium Man,
55:09 I was just blown away.
55:11 I didn't want it to end, I knew what I was hearing
55:13 was all from the Scripture,
55:15 and it wasn't based on Hollywood movies
55:16 or other books that were written.
55:18 They said, "Come again tomorrow night."
55:20 And I thought, "Wow, great! Two nights.
55:22 So I tried to tell my wife about it,
55:24 and she still wasn't interested,
55:26 and then she decided to come.
55:27 I started to hear the truth, you know, I started to get fed.
55:31 Every night after the seminar,
55:33 he would hand us an Amazing Facts study guide.
55:36 I couldn't do those fast enough.
55:37 The business kept us going seven days a week,
55:40 and it was night and day.
55:42 Crew working all around the clock,
55:44 and so when we finally heard the Sabbath message, you know,
55:47 so far everything has been true,
55:48 that's from the Bible.
55:49 Church on Saturday, no work, anyway it all clicked.
55:53 Both our heads turned at each other,
55:55 our jaws dropped open.
55:57 I said, "We can't do that."
56:00 And the first thing that came out of my mouth was,
56:02 "We have to."
56:03 I knew that it would be a sacrifice,
56:06 and I was in fear about it.
56:08 We didn't know how we're going to do it,
56:10 but we talked to the pastor about it,
56:13 and the pastor said,
56:14 "We'll just pray about it, and God will open door.
56:16 I didn't want to give up all the connections I made,
56:19 all the networking,
56:20 all the money, all the investment.
56:22 We went to the board and asked them
56:24 if they would consider closing on Saturday,
56:27 and they agreed to.
56:28 So we closed the store front on Saturday,
56:30 but we were still doing productions,
56:32 and that kind of bothered us.
56:33 So a couple of months later, God opened a door for my wife,
56:37 she exited the company, I prayed about it,
56:39 and God opened a door for me too.
56:41 Gary, shortly after, was offered a job
56:44 being paid more money
56:46 than he made as an owner of the company.
56:49 He said, "I will give you a $1,000 raise,
56:52 and you will never work another weekend."
56:54 And we were able to keep the Sabbath
56:56 and enjoy the wonderful blessings
56:59 that God had for us on the Sabbath day.
57:02 And my kids never again had to say,
57:03 "Quit talking about work."
57:05 After the seminar, we'd go over, my wife and I,
57:07 and my children were all baptized
57:09 into the Seventh-day Adventist Church.
57:11 Even if I gave up everything,
57:12 I knew that God would have something better.
57:15 I have much more understanding, and there's much more depth
57:19 in my Christian walk with the Lord.
57:22 We started an Amazing Facts Bible school at a church
57:25 that allows anybody to understand the Scripture,
57:27 to understand the end times.
57:29 Church changed my life dramatically,
57:31 and I'm very happy and excited to be a part of it.
57:43 Did you know that Noah was present
57:44 at the birth of Abraham?
57:46 Okay, maybe he wasn't in the room,
57:48 but he was alive and probably telling stories
57:51 about his floating zoo.
57:53 From the creation of the world
57:55 to the last day events of Revelation,
57:57 biblehistory.com is a free resource
58:00 where you can explore
58:01 major Bible events and characters.
58:03 Enhance your knowledge of the Bible
58:05 and draw closer to God's Word.
58:08 Go deeper.
58:09 Visit the amazing Bible Timeline
58:11 at biblehistory.com.


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