I don't understand.
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Why did this
have to happen to me?
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I feel like
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I just can't
make sense of things.
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I need answers.
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Where is God?
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You know, one of
the biggest points,
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the pillars of the
Protestant Reformation
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was the idea of Sola
scriptura, the Bible alone.
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Welcome to Raw
Questions Relevant Answers.
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This is a
program in which myself
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and my two friends,
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co-hosts here Dee
Casper, Michelle Doucoumes.
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We are here to
try and bring clarity
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to some of the raw
questions that we all go through
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based on that
principle of Sola scriptura,
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the Bible and the Bible alone.
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Today, we're
going to be tackling
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the subject of hypocrisy.
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I think this is something
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that we come across all the time
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and it becomes one
of the biggest reasons
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why people end up
leaving the church.
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And I just want to reiterate
that all these questions
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be dealing with today
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So let's dive into
this. You all ready?
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Yeah. All right.
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Okay, our first question,
"How do we deal with hypocrisy
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within the church using
a biblical perspective?"
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This is a question from a male
who is 24 years old in Florida.
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Well, let's look at a
biblical example of Jesus
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having to deal with
the situation of Him...
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Kind of having people
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who are trying to press Him for,
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whether it be breaking
the Sabbath or paying taxes,
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like they were
always trying to catch Jesus
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in a certain way.
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But what I find is interesting
is that the very motives
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that are driving them at
this stage are murderous,
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are covetous, are...
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You know, there's hatred
filled within these individuals
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who are claiming to
uphold the law on one side
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but are violating
the law in their attempt
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and their pursuits,
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I think it's a
biblical example of hypocrisy.
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One of the ways that
Jesus dealt with that
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was by getting to
the core of the motives
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of the situation, right?
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He would address certain issues
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of the true issues of the heart,
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not just what you
say with your mouth
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right in the
beatitude, you know.
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If someone looks at a
man with murderous thoughts,
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he's guilty of
murder, you know, or hatred.
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Someone looks
upon a woman with lust,
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they've already committed
adultery in their heart.
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One of the ways that
Jesus dealt with hypocrisy
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was by dealing with
the true core motives
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of an individual and getting
to the heart of the matter
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as opposed to just
bantering back and forth.
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And one of the things
Jesus had to do unfortunately
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was to cleanse the temple
for instance of these people
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who are making the
house of God a den of thieves,
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they were
merchandising and selling
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and extorting people
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while claiming to
uplift biblical principles.
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Jesus had to go
through a process,
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not necessarily to
give us an example,
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like I'm not
necessarily recommending
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that we're going
with a whip and cords
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and flip tables in our churches,
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but the example is
that He is making it clear
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that He's not
okay with hypocrisy,
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as far as a biblical framework.
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He had a problem with
that He alone had the authority
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to cleanse that church.
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But in that situation, I think
we can start to extrapolate
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some principles that
He's not okay with it
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and He wants us to
know that that's the case.
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Yeah, you know,
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we sometimes wonder is
hypocrisy all that bad,
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doesn't everyone
kind of put up upfront.
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Well, actually,
in the very heart,
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in the Ten Commandments,
it also talks about this.
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In Exodus 20:7, it says,
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"You shall not take
the name of the Lord
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your God in vain."
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And isn't that
what we do in hypocrisy?
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We're taking Christ's name
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but we're not
taking His character.
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We're taking it in vain
and God does not like that.
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Yeah.
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And so, you
know, for those of you
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who feel like you've
been hurt by hypocrisy
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or hypocrisy in the church,
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know that that hurts
the heart of God too.
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But we've all
probably been guilty of it.
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We all have been guilty
of it in some different time,
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so how do we deal
with that biblically?
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You know, Matthew 18 has
some interesting principles
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when someone harms you,
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whether that be
through hypocrisy
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or whatever kind of sin.
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And it invites us
starting in verse 15
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that we go to the
person, you know, one on one
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and talk to them
about what we see
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that then we take
someone else with us.
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If not, then we go
to the church with this.
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And then it says,
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verse 17, "If He
refuses to hear them,
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tell it to the church.
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If he refuses even
to hear the church,
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let him to be to you like a
heathen and a tax collector.
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So like we throw him out,
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but how did Jesus treat heathens
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and tax collectors?
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With kindness.
With kindness, right?
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He ate with them,
He hung out with them,
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and so while
hypocrisy is not a good thing
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and it's a hurtful
thing, even to God.
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God still wants
us to have biblically
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a sense of
compassion and help to those
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who are dealing with that.
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You know,
basically then to summarize
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what we've just said
here is that, first of all,
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God ain't cool with hypocrisy.
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He doesn't like it.
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It's not
something that He is fond of
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and that when we deal with it,
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one way of dealing
with it is Matthew 18.
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You know, addressing it
in the principles there,
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from a Bible perspective,
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which means we
shouldn't go around
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telling everybody else
about so and so brother
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who is hypocritical, right?
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You know, the other thing
too that we can deal with it
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is who is the church?
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It's you, right? It's me.
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If we want to take
hypocrisy out of the church,
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let it start with me.
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Rather than saying,
"Oh, the church is bad,
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they're all hypocrites,
they're this, they're that,"
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are we not being hypocritical
in saying that ourselves?
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Right.
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Let's, first, take a
look at ourselves and say,
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"Do I love God supremely?
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Am I honest about my
faith, and experience,
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and harmonizing the two?
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Or am I professing to love God
while really loving the world?"
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You know, before we charge
everybody else with hypocrisy,
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we need to take a look
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at it in our
own lives, you know.
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You know, we're dealing
with Him in the same way
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that we ourselves
would like to be dealt with.
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You think it's the Golden Rule,
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am I treating them in the way
that I would want to be treated
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if I were out of
harmony with the will of God,
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but that if is...
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You know, we do find ourselves.
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That it's not if I do sometime,
like we do wrestle with that,
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how would I want to be
treated in that same situation.
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Yeah, 'cause it's like
you're saying in Matthew 7:4,
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it tells us, "How can
you say to your brother,
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let me remove the
plank from your eye,
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the speck from your
eye when there's a plank
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in your own eye."
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Yeah.
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And then verse 5,
Jesus says, "Hypocrite!
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First remove from your own eye,"
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and so that is when
Jesus calls people hypocrite,
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it's often when
we are trying to look
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at other people's
issues and not our own.
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Right.
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Okay, so let's move
on to the next question.
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This is from a
female, 26 years of age.
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Is it hypocrisy to
try to help a friend
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out of a certain sin
when I myself struggle
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with the same thing?
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I first of all just
want to affirm the sincerity
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of the question and I'm
proud of this individual.
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To recognize and to have
the self-awareness of the fact,
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that my life is not
where I'd like for it to be
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and to wrestle with
that, for that to bother you
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is evidence already
that the Spirit of God
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is working in your life
and praise God for that.
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We should praise God for that.
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But I think one of the
things we can realize is that
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we of all people
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are acquainted with the struggle
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and with the battle
in that area, right?
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And it says
actually in 1 Corinthians 10.
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I want to turn there.
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1 Corinthians 10,
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and verse we'll say 12.
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"Therefore let him
who thinks he stands
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take heed lest he fall."
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But then it
says in verse 13 that
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"No temptation has overtaken you
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except such as is common to man.
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But God is
faithful, who will not allow
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you to be tempted
beyond what you are able,
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but with the temptation
will also make a way of escape,
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that you may be
able to bear it."
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One of the
points made here is that
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other people go
through this too.
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And I remember when I
first encountered that
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with some of my battles,
immediately, I felt human.
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To know that someone
else had wrestle with that,
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like, I wasn't
just some animal, right?
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I was someone, I
was a human being
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that was wrestling
with a particular topic
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that someone else can relate to
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and I found in
discussing with someone else
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who's having the same battle
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and not succeeding
all the time in it.
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We were able to
pray with each other
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to study together, to
hold each other accountable,
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he not being a
great blessing to me
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at a great time
of need in my life
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to have a safe place to
talk through these things.
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It can actually
be quite valuable
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in those situations.
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One doesn't
necessary have to be an expert
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in overcoming to able to
be an accountability partner
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and to be as the Bible
says, iron sharpening iron
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and it's one of those battles.
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Let me kind of
play devil's advocate
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and to use answer though.
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That's super true.
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And the other thing
though is in Matthew 15.
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It cautions us about
the blind leading the blind,
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lest they both
fall into a ditch.
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And so I do see that
there is something here
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where we are to help
each other in our weakness
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and that's not a bad
thing, but there may be times.
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If you're really
struggling with something,
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especially a
problem or an addiction,
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don't only go to someone
else who has that same problem,
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maybe both of you
need to go to someone
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that can help.
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And so there is a
place to find godly mentors,
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godly counselors,
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those who can see outside
of that issue and help to lead
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and give some counsel.
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It's a super good point
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when it comes to accountability,
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like there's one
side where it's helpful
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but there can be the temptation
to just appease each other
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in that particular situation
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and we need
greater accountability.
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And sometimes
someone who's struggling
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may give you that,
but at the same time
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it is helpful to seek
together potentially experts
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who can help in that direction.
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Yeah, I agree with that.
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Good stuff.
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Okay, let's move on
to our next question.
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This is from a female
in a Washington state.
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"When I see
people being hypocritical
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in their lifestyle
and/or treatment of others,
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how do I avoid
falling into the trap
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of being judgmental myself?"
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That kind of reminds me
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of what we talked about earlier,
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about being careful to not just
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forget the own
plank in our own eye,
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hold judge not,
lest ye be judged."
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Yeah.
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And I think that
one of the things
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that is helpful for
me when I see people
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wrestling with
certain situations
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is trying to look past
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what they're doing
and better understand
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what they're going
through, for instance.
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One of the ways in
which people hurt folks
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in religious settings
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and just in the life in
relationships in general
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is because they
themselves are hurt
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and what it's helped for me,
what it's helped to do for me
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is to contextualize what
they're doing to recognize
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that this is the result of
them feeling pain in their life
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and weakness in
their experience.
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And this is why
they're acting out in this way.
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This is why they're
trying to find self-esteem
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by criticizing everybody
else for doing something
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they don't struggle with,
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even though
they clearly struggle
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in other areas
if that makes sense.
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It's helped me
to contextualize is,
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that make a right
no but it's helped me
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to have compassion
for these individuals
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as opposed to just
frustration or anger
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if that makes sense.
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Here's another
quote from somebody
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that I really
appreciate, it's in the book,
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Testimonies for
the Church, volume 5.
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And it says, you
see that your brothers
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do not come up to
the Bible standard
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that there are defects in them,
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and you dwell
upon these defects,
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you feed upon them instead
of feeding them upon Christ.
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And by beholding,
you become changed
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into the same image.
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But criticize no one,
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do not contrast
your own exact course
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with the
deficiencies of another,
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you may be in danger of
wanting to correct others
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and make them feel their wrongs,
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do not do this.
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This is not the work
God has given you to do,
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He has not made
you a church tinker.
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There are many things
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would you view in
the light of the Bible,
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but though you may be in
the right on some points,
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do not get the
impression that your positions
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are always correct.
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For on many points
your ideas are distorted
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and will not bear criticism.
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So basically, don't try to
go around correcting everybody.
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Right.
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Don't think that your
opinions are always right
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that you always
have it all together
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because you probably don't.
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Yeah. And I love
that part in there.
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It said about, by
beholding, we become changed,
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and that's such a huge thing.
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What we focus on,
we tend to go towards,
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we tend to become more
like, and that's the big danger
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is that am I going
to my brother or sister
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because I
really care about them.
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Or am I gossiping,
am I talking about it,
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am I thinking about
it, I will become like that
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if I'm not careful.
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And at minimum if I
don't become like that,
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I'm going to be discouraged.
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Yes.
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And many people leave the church
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because they're
discouraged over these things.
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We see so much of
the bad, we forget to see
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what God's doing as well.
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Amen.
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And to have the
faith in Jesus in them
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for what they could be,
not just what you currently see
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and loving them as
if that were the case.
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Fault-finding is a malignancy,
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it's a cancer
and it's contagious.
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And we have to be
super, super careful
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with this that we don't develop
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that type of
lifestyle of fault-finding.
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Now I do want to
just say one thing
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before our time runs out.
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We also need to be careful
about if we're feeling judged,
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not necessarily just
putting all the blame on them.
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Sometimes that
feeling of judgment
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is actually our own
conscience burning into us
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for things that
we do that we know
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we shouldn't be doing.
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Unfortunately, we're
going to have to end for now.
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But I thank you so
much for joining us.
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