I don't understand, 00:00:01.80\00:00:04.40 why did this have to happen to me? 00:00:04.43\00:00:08.10 I feel like I just can't make sense of things. 00:00:08.14\00:00:12.51 I need answers. 00:00:12.54\00:00:15.88 Where is God? 00:00:15.91\00:00:17.25 Hello and welcome to Raw Questions Relevant Answers, 00:00:20.88\00:00:23.89 the program where we take a look 00:00:23.92\00:00:25.25 at the questions that you have sent in 00:00:25.29\00:00:27.36 and try to answer those from a biblical perspective. 00:00:27.39\00:00:30.49 My name is Michelle Doucoumes. 00:00:30.53\00:00:31.86 I am your host today and I am joined by my co-hosts 00:00:31.89\00:00:34.13 Dee Casper and Mark Paden. 00:00:34.16\00:00:36.73 So today's topic is "Transitioning to Adulthood." 00:00:36.77\00:00:40.60 For some, this may have been something 00:00:40.64\00:00:42.27 that you really looked forward or are looking forward to 00:00:42.30\00:00:45.24 and the freedom that comes with it. 00:00:45.27\00:00:47.08 For others, this may be a bit of a kind of scary thing 00:00:47.11\00:00:49.81 to think about. 00:00:49.84\00:00:51.18 So we are going to try to take a look at this 00:00:51.21\00:00:52.55 and see what advice we can have 00:00:52.58\00:00:55.18 for this transition as Christians. 00:00:55.22\00:00:57.65 Our first question today comes to us from a male, 00:00:57.69\00:01:01.22 18 years old, in Texas. 00:01:01.26\00:01:03.83 And he says, "How do you find and maintain 00:01:03.86\00:01:06.70 a strong spiritual support group 00:01:06.73\00:01:09.26 when you are independent and on your own in a new place? 00:01:09.30\00:01:12.50 What do you do if you are the only Adventist 00:01:12.53\00:01:14.70 in your work, college, or home?" 00:01:14.74\00:01:17.94 I think the first thing to do is to do diligent search 00:01:17.97\00:01:21.21 to find likeminded individuals in the community where you are, 00:01:21.24\00:01:24.65 take some time. 00:01:24.68\00:01:26.01 The nice thing is when you've got Facebook, 00:01:26.05\00:01:27.42 when you've got Google, you can find a local church 00:01:27.45\00:01:30.12 and just see what exists. 00:01:30.15\00:01:31.99 Sometimes there's multiple options 00:01:32.02\00:01:33.36 but start there. 00:01:33.39\00:01:34.72 I've got friends that ended up in environments like that. 00:01:34.76\00:01:37.16 They didn't find a lot of young people where they were 00:01:37.19\00:01:38.96 but they did find supportive families. 00:01:38.99\00:01:40.40 They were kind of like a mother in Israel to you from the far, 00:01:40.43\00:01:43.63 someone who's just wanted to be in encouragement 00:01:43.67\00:01:45.30 to other church members. 00:01:45.33\00:01:46.67 That's the first place to look. 00:01:46.70\00:01:48.04 Just to have someone to encourage you 00:01:48.07\00:01:49.70 in your faith journey, where you are, 00:01:49.74\00:01:51.27 even if they are not the same age. 00:01:51.31\00:01:53.34 The second thing is, if you are isolated in a situation 00:01:53.38\00:01:56.11 where in your college, in your work, whatever it is, 00:01:56.14\00:01:59.45 you don't find people of similar mindset, 00:01:59.48\00:02:02.32 it's a witnessing opportunity for sure 00:02:02.35\00:02:04.15 but one question you're gonna ask yourself is, 00:02:04.19\00:02:07.52 "Am I here to be an influence or am I being influenced?" 00:02:07.56\00:02:11.76 And one of those transitioning into adulthood questions 00:02:11.79\00:02:14.56 we had to ask is, "Am I ready for that? 00:02:14.60\00:02:17.07 Or should I make my next move to a place 00:02:17.10\00:02:19.57 where I have more support to begin with?" 00:02:19.60\00:02:22.90 But if you are already there, 00:02:22.94\00:02:24.27 then we just had to make the most of it, right? 00:02:24.31\00:02:25.71 And find accountability and good mentorship 00:02:25.74\00:02:28.34 in that location. 00:02:28.38\00:02:29.71 You know, this also brings up another interesting point. 00:02:29.74\00:02:33.18 You know, let's say we are just transitioning into that, 00:02:33.21\00:02:38.05 maybe we are going to college. 00:02:38.09\00:02:40.79 We also need to be careful of the associations we form 00:02:40.82\00:02:44.29 even if we go to a place 00:02:44.33\00:02:45.66 where there are lot of likeminded people, right? 00:02:45.69\00:02:47.86 The people... 00:02:47.90\00:02:49.23 Our closest friends influence us a lot. 00:02:49.26\00:02:52.43 We really become a mix of our three closest friends. 00:02:52.47\00:02:57.17 So if you are, you know, 00:02:57.21\00:02:59.57 just starting out going to a college 00:02:59.61\00:03:01.34 or wherever you are after now that you kind of left home. 00:03:01.38\00:03:04.35 You know, this is a really good time to start thinking 00:03:04.38\00:03:06.28 intelligently about who you are becoming friends with. 00:03:06.31\00:03:08.65 Don't just become friends with somebody because, 00:03:08.68\00:03:10.29 you know, they are fun to hang around or whatever. 00:03:10.32\00:03:13.05 Be intentional about choosing and forming close friendships 00:03:13.09\00:03:15.76 with people who'll guide you closer to God. 00:03:15.79\00:03:19.46 But if nobody like that is around, 00:03:19.49\00:03:23.47 make God your counselor. 00:03:23.50\00:03:24.83 We've talked to friends online, 00:03:24.87\00:03:26.20 you know, there's people all over the world 00:03:26.23\00:03:28.67 that think like you do and believe like you do. 00:03:28.70\00:03:31.61 So find people online to talk to that... 00:03:31.64\00:03:36.14 I mean there's plenty of people and certainly, you know, 00:03:36.18\00:03:38.31 friends from other places, call them once a week, 00:03:38.35\00:03:40.72 have online prayer meetings and studies and what, you know? 00:03:40.75\00:03:43.79 You know, it's true. 00:03:43.82\00:03:45.15 Technology puts you in a situation 00:03:45.19\00:03:46.52 that maybe you do have close spiritual friends 00:03:46.55\00:03:48.19 but they are not geographically close any more. 00:03:48.22\00:03:51.13 With technology as it is, 00:03:51.16\00:03:52.49 you can have FaceTime prayer meetings together. 00:03:52.53\00:03:54.93 You can do stuff like that to make sure 00:03:54.96\00:03:56.73 that your batteries are being charged 00:03:56.77\00:03:58.10 and you have some form of accountability, 00:03:58.13\00:03:59.63 we all need that, right? All of us do. 00:03:59.67\00:04:01.37 Those in ministry, those in school, 00:04:01.40\00:04:03.10 those at work, we all need it. 00:04:03.14\00:04:04.84 And if you can't find it in your immediate proximity, 00:04:04.87\00:04:07.78 technology can still keep you in contact with those you know 00:04:07.81\00:04:10.51 can help in those areas. 00:04:10.55\00:04:11.88 You know, I was given some advice 00:04:11.91\00:04:13.25 that I appreciated it once and that was that we all need 00:04:13.28\00:04:15.52 kind of three groups of people in our lives. 00:04:15.55\00:04:17.72 We need people that we minister to 00:04:17.75\00:04:19.95 and that could be the friends at your secular school, 00:04:19.99\00:04:22.86 secular workplace, secular family, 00:04:22.89\00:04:25.49 but at the same time, 00:04:25.53\00:04:26.86 we also need people that we minister with, 00:04:26.90\00:04:29.16 those likeminded friends 00:04:29.20\00:04:30.70 who we keep each other accountable 00:04:30.73\00:04:32.17 and we encourage each other. 00:04:32.20\00:04:34.04 And then we need people who minister to us, 00:04:34.07\00:04:36.71 those are our mentors, those who really can look 00:04:36.74\00:04:40.18 at things from a different perspective. 00:04:40.21\00:04:42.24 And so seek out that balance. 00:04:42.28\00:04:44.28 Don't be afraid to be in a place. 00:04:44.31\00:04:45.95 God may call you to a place where you are the only one 00:04:45.98\00:04:49.55 or feel like you are the only one 00:04:49.58\00:04:51.09 and you are there for a purpose. 00:04:51.12\00:04:53.05 But at the same time, 00:04:53.09\00:04:55.39 build those other relationships like you all were saying 00:04:55.42\00:04:58.06 so that that balance is there. 00:04:58.09\00:04:59.43 The moral component is very, very important 00:04:59.46\00:05:01.56 in these settings. 00:05:01.60\00:05:02.93 You need to have moral likeminded individuals 00:05:02.96\00:05:06.23 that have similar morals and principles. 00:05:06.27\00:05:08.34 We have to have that in life. Right. 00:05:08.37\00:05:09.87 We shouldn't only retreat and be hidden only with them, 00:05:09.90\00:05:12.97 but we definitely need that in that sense 00:05:13.01\00:05:15.14 to have that proper balance. 00:05:15.18\00:05:16.95 All right. 00:05:16.98\00:05:18.61 Our next question comes from a young lady, age 26, 00:05:18.65\00:05:23.25 and this is going to be about going out 00:05:23.28\00:05:27.52 and getting a job. 00:05:27.56\00:05:29.09 I'm sorry, actually age 21, 00:05:29.12\00:05:31.09 says, "I have a part time job and a business. 00:05:31.13\00:05:34.03 My parents are worried that if I move out now, 00:05:34.06\00:05:37.37 I won't make it on my own. 00:05:37.40\00:05:39.33 My concern is that they're right... 00:05:39.37\00:05:42.07 But God will take care of me... 00:05:42.10\00:05:44.11 Right?" 00:05:44.14\00:05:45.47 You know, I'd love to speak to this one because... 00:05:45.51\00:05:47.81 Well, you've done some... Yeah... 00:05:47.84\00:05:49.18 of those like that... Okay. exactly, exactly. 00:05:49.21\00:05:51.08 You know, I'm not the oldest person 00:05:51.11\00:05:52.88 on this platform right now and I... 00:05:52.91\00:05:55.02 What did you say? 00:05:55.05\00:05:56.89 We are not going to tell you who is, yes. 00:05:56.92\00:06:00.52 Yeah, but I've... 00:06:00.56\00:06:03.19 You know I am self-employed right now. 00:06:03.22\00:06:04.56 I do freelance video in photography and design 00:06:04.59\00:06:07.70 and you know, I don't have a stable income 00:06:07.73\00:06:11.57 coming from one individual, 00:06:11.60\00:06:13.03 you know, I have to find clients on my own 00:06:13.07\00:06:15.20 and do all that. 00:06:15.24\00:06:16.57 And I had to admit, it was a little bit terrifying 00:06:16.60\00:06:18.41 when I jumped out into it. 00:06:18.44\00:06:20.28 And I sense some of the same thing here, 00:06:20.31\00:06:22.21 you know, they are starting the business 00:06:22.24\00:06:25.71 and they have a job part time 00:06:25.75\00:06:28.18 and they are wanting to leave home. 00:06:28.22\00:06:29.82 You know, the biggest thing that I've learned 00:06:29.85\00:06:33.09 in my personal journey is that God has had a plan for my life. 00:06:33.12\00:06:36.93 Wow, yeah. 00:06:36.96\00:06:38.29 You know, this work that I do... 00:06:38.33\00:06:39.66 It's a ministry, it's not just ads for, you know, 00:06:39.69\00:06:43.87 cars or whatever, not that that'd be wrong but you know, 00:06:43.90\00:06:46.53 this is something that God has led me into 00:06:46.57\00:06:49.50 and clearly guided in and at every step of the way, 00:06:49.54\00:06:52.31 He has provided for me to be able to do that. 00:06:52.34\00:06:55.64 And I've seen many times 00:06:55.68\00:06:57.21 when I stepped out on to my own, 00:06:57.25\00:07:00.12 because even before doing what I am doing now, 00:07:00.15\00:07:02.28 I was involved in another ministry 00:07:02.32\00:07:03.82 where you know, funding wasn't readily available 00:07:03.85\00:07:08.02 and, I mean, my parents were a little bit 00:07:08.06\00:07:11.46 concerned about it, you know? 00:07:11.49\00:07:13.19 But you know what I've found? 00:07:13.23\00:07:14.70 God provided it at every step. 00:07:14.73\00:07:16.16 There was never a time when I lacked money 00:07:16.20\00:07:20.64 for the basic necessities of life. 00:07:20.67\00:07:22.87 Now I should throw in a word of caution. 00:07:22.90\00:07:25.31 I am not recommending that it's just like, 00:07:25.34\00:07:28.28 "Oh, let's just jump out into it 00:07:28.31\00:07:30.18 and trust God because..." 00:07:30.21\00:07:32.11 We shouldn't jump off the temple 00:07:32.15\00:07:34.05 hoping that the angels will catch us, if you catch 00:07:34.08\00:07:35.98 my reference, right? 00:07:36.02\00:07:37.35 And of course that's from the Bible 00:07:37.39\00:07:38.85 where Satan comes and tempts Christ. 00:07:38.89\00:07:40.79 Matthew 4, yes. Yeah, yeah. 00:07:40.82\00:07:43.02 We shouldn't do that. 00:07:43.06\00:07:44.49 And there are certain things, "Be a cautious risk taker," 00:07:44.53\00:07:49.23 is what I like to say. 00:07:49.26\00:07:52.43 Make sure that you have things lined up 00:07:52.47\00:07:56.24 in case the things don't work out, you know? 00:07:56.27\00:07:58.97 If your business suddenly goes under 00:07:59.01\00:08:01.21 or something like that, have a plan, 00:08:01.24\00:08:03.78 you know, be smart about it. 00:08:03.81\00:08:05.78 It's not just about blindly trusting God 00:08:05.81\00:08:08.08 and jumping out into the abyss. 00:08:08.12\00:08:11.39 We want to make sure that we have enough money 00:08:11.42\00:08:14.86 to build the tower before we build the tower. 00:08:14.89\00:08:16.66 Right. 00:08:16.69\00:08:18.03 The fact that God calls people out to do faith ventures 00:08:18.06\00:08:20.90 like this does not necessarily mean 00:08:20.93\00:08:22.40 that God has called you to make this venture. 00:08:22.43\00:08:24.70 And the question we have to find the answer to is, 00:08:24.73\00:08:26.90 "Is this what God is asking me to do? 00:08:26.94\00:08:29.20 Or is it just that I know that God has called people 00:08:29.24\00:08:31.37 to do this in the past and that's what I want to do?" 00:08:31.41\00:08:34.91 And there is a big distinction here. 00:08:34.94\00:08:36.54 If this is what God is calling you to do, 00:08:36.58\00:08:38.28 and Mark and I had to do this 00:08:38.31\00:08:39.65 a lot of kind of flying by faith, 00:08:39.68\00:08:42.48 in a lot of our ministry ventures 00:08:42.52\00:08:43.85 together and individually, that we have been in situations 00:08:43.89\00:08:46.86 where God has provided for our day-to-day bills 00:08:46.89\00:08:49.02 and not much more than that. 00:08:49.06\00:08:50.39 But we've seen so many miracles and testimonies 00:08:50.43\00:08:52.49 because we committed to radically giving 00:08:52.53\00:08:53.93 and radically living, but that's where God called us. 00:08:53.96\00:08:56.53 And so that's the first thing, 00:08:56.56\00:08:58.60 we've talked about this in a previous program. 00:08:58.63\00:09:00.24 What is the will of God for your life? 00:09:00.27\00:09:02.54 If God is calling you to start this business 00:09:02.57\00:09:05.01 and God is leading that, 00:09:05.04\00:09:06.37 it's God's responsibility to provide for you. 00:09:06.41\00:09:08.24 It's your responsibility to be faithful 00:09:08.28\00:09:09.71 of what He has given and to be responsible. 00:09:09.74\00:09:12.31 And so I think those are the principles 00:09:12.35\00:09:13.85 we need to keep in mind 00:09:13.88\00:09:15.22 and not just that God calls people there, 00:09:15.25\00:09:17.12 did God call you there? 00:09:17.15\00:09:18.55 If yes, it's His responsibility to keep you 00:09:18.59\00:09:20.92 while you are there as long as you are abiding 00:09:20.96\00:09:22.96 and following His principles. 00:09:22.99\00:09:24.33 I agree with you guys. 00:09:24.36\00:09:25.69 And it's interesting because entrepreneurship 00:09:25.73\00:09:27.16 is actually one of the things 00:09:27.20\00:09:28.53 that I teach in business and so I love that. 00:09:28.56\00:09:32.23 There is a quote in a book called Education 00:09:32.27\00:09:34.57 that talks about how God created men as thinkers 00:09:34.60\00:09:37.54 or the powers to create and to do. 00:09:37.57\00:09:39.61 And there's something beautiful about stepping out 00:09:39.64\00:09:42.81 and trying something. 00:09:42.84\00:09:44.25 And if you believe God is leading, 00:09:44.28\00:09:46.85 that's a risk that may be worth taking. 00:09:46.88\00:09:48.38 I also though realize that there is a place 00:09:48.42\00:09:51.25 for getting godly counsel. 00:09:51.29\00:09:52.62 If your family, your mentors, 00:09:52.65\00:09:54.82 others are cautioning you with this, 00:09:54.86\00:09:56.56 it might be something to really listen and think about. 00:09:56.59\00:09:58.99 Sometimes as young people, we have lots of zeal 00:09:59.03\00:10:01.83 but we are not used to getting the wisdom 00:10:01.86\00:10:05.03 always to go with it. 00:10:05.07\00:10:06.40 We don't always know what's realistic, 00:10:06.43\00:10:08.10 so do get counseled. 00:10:08.14\00:10:10.34 But on the other hand, there are times to step out. 00:10:10.37\00:10:12.77 Not everyone may understand your decision 00:10:12.81\00:10:14.74 to do an unconventional path in life. 00:10:14.78\00:10:16.81 Yeah. 00:10:16.85\00:10:18.18 But the Lord can be in those things too. 00:10:18.21\00:10:19.88 And I just want to throw in here too. 00:10:19.91\00:10:21.25 When I made the decision to become self-employed, 00:10:21.28\00:10:24.59 you know, I had talked to with quite a few counselors 00:10:24.62\00:10:27.89 like especially one of my main ones, 00:10:27.92\00:10:29.79 he is a business manager 00:10:29.82\00:10:31.16 and so he understands the world of business. 00:10:31.19\00:10:35.13 And so having that help in getting out there 00:10:35.16\00:10:37.97 and also I had back-up. 00:10:38.00\00:10:40.67 I had two things that 00:10:40.70\00:10:42.40 even if I didn't make a single dollar that month, 00:10:42.44\00:10:44.37 I would be okay. Yeah. 00:10:44.41\00:10:47.41 It ended up falling through and... 00:10:47.44\00:10:48.98 But anyways, God provided it. 00:10:49.01\00:10:52.18 But I think it's a good point though 00:10:52.21\00:10:53.72 that it's very important for us to seek out counsel 00:10:53.75\00:10:56.42 from people in the direction that we are going. 00:10:56.45\00:10:58.75 True. Yeah. 00:10:58.79\00:11:00.12 And so I am a big, big believer in seeking out 00:11:00.16\00:11:02.62 subject matter experts in the area that I am pursuing. 00:11:02.66\00:11:05.93 So if someone is being called to start a business, 00:11:05.96\00:11:08.36 go reach out to entrepreneurs who have had success 00:11:08.40\00:11:10.67 and ask them questions. 00:11:10.70\00:11:12.03 Right. 00:11:12.07\00:11:13.40 If God is calling you to be involved in media ministry, 00:11:13.44\00:11:14.77 go talk to a media ministry individual and ask them, 00:11:14.80\00:11:16.71 "What was your experience like?" 00:11:16.74\00:11:18.47 One of my favorite questions to ask people is, 00:11:18.51\00:11:21.04 "What are the things that you wish 00:11:21.08\00:11:22.41 someone would have told you 00:11:22.44\00:11:23.78 when you started knowing what you know now?" 00:11:23.81\00:11:25.15 Oh, yes. Yeah. 00:11:25.18\00:11:26.51 I ask that question to everyone. 00:11:26.55\00:11:27.88 "What do you wish someone would have told you 00:11:27.92\00:11:29.25 when you started knowing what you know now?" 00:11:29.28\00:11:30.62 Yeah. That's right. 00:11:30.65\00:11:31.99 And because it saves you a lot of time 00:11:32.02\00:11:33.36 and a lot of hardship when we do that. 00:11:33.39\00:11:34.72 Yeah. 00:11:34.76\00:11:36.09 All right, guys. 00:11:36.12\00:11:37.46 So we've got another one. 00:11:37.49\00:11:38.83 On top of that, we have a female, age 26, 00:11:38.86\00:11:41.70 from California that is asking, 00:11:41.73\00:11:43.77 "How do we find our personal footholds 00:11:43.80\00:11:46.50 on the journey of life without feeling the pressures 00:11:46.53\00:11:48.97 and expectations of our family?" 00:11:49.00\00:11:51.01 So we talked about work. 00:11:51.04\00:11:52.84 But now what about our personal life? 00:11:52.87\00:11:54.41 As we get out there, beyond maybe the scope of home. 00:11:54.44\00:11:56.68 That one is no joke. 00:11:56.71\00:11:58.28 I mean there's cultural components and others 00:11:58.31\00:12:00.05 where there's so much pressure from our family 00:12:00.08\00:12:02.85 to be what they want for us to be 00:12:02.88\00:12:04.72 that sometimes can pressure us out of going 00:12:04.75\00:12:07.56 where God wants us to go. 00:12:07.59\00:12:08.92 Yeah. Jesus understood this, right? 00:12:08.96\00:12:10.69 His brothers did not fully understand His mission 00:12:10.73\00:12:13.03 or believe in Him to some degree at the stage. 00:12:13.06\00:12:15.33 I think it's in John 7, and it's a difficult impression 00:12:15.36\00:12:19.00 that we may have to contend with, 00:12:19.03\00:12:20.37 and this is why knowing who we are in Christ 00:12:20.40\00:12:22.37 in our identity and where He is leading us 00:12:22.40\00:12:24.61 in His will is of the chiefest importance 00:12:24.64\00:12:27.01 in those moments of disconnect and disharmony in our home. 00:12:27.04\00:12:30.31 And one of the thing too that I would mention in this 00:12:30.35\00:12:32.31 is make sure that your desire, 00:12:32.35\00:12:36.69 because oftentimes where this comes from is, 00:12:36.72\00:12:39.55 you know, you want to go in a certain direction, 00:12:39.59\00:12:41.69 you are having a lot of pressure from your family 00:12:41.72\00:12:43.39 to go in another direction. 00:12:43.43\00:12:45.53 There is going to be sometimes 00:12:45.56\00:12:46.90 where honestly your family is wrong. 00:12:46.93\00:12:48.26 There is going to be other times 00:12:48.30\00:12:49.63 when honestly you are wrong. 00:12:49.66\00:12:51.00 Right. 00:12:51.03\00:12:52.37 Be sure, be cerebral about it. 00:12:52.40\00:12:54.87 Think through it. Be wise. 00:12:54.90\00:12:57.04 Ask God and really seek for wisdom 00:12:57.07\00:12:59.44 and don't just try to do the thing 00:12:59.47\00:13:01.34 that you would prefer to do in a headstrong away. 00:13:01.38\00:13:05.25 You know, sometimes our parents... 00:13:05.28\00:13:08.22 We don't like to admit it. Yeah, but they are right. 00:13:08.25\00:13:10.79 But then other times like in what you are mentioning, 00:13:10.82\00:13:15.92 you know, parents can really hold young people back 00:13:15.96\00:13:19.43 from the ministry that God wants. 00:13:19.46\00:13:20.86 And sometimes that's because the parents 00:13:20.90\00:13:22.46 just want financial security for the kids. 00:13:22.50\00:13:25.40 God may not want financial security for you. 00:13:25.43\00:13:27.44 Right. Okay? 00:13:27.47\00:13:28.80 Or He may provide it in a means they don't know about. 00:13:28.84\00:13:30.17 Exactly. Yeah. 00:13:30.21\00:13:31.54 But God calls people sometimes to mission fields 00:13:31.57\00:13:34.44 where there is not... 00:13:34.48\00:13:37.15 You don't get a 401k, you know? 00:13:37.18\00:13:39.05 So as we sum this up, you know, 00:13:39.08\00:13:41.88 it's an interesting thing that this is a time in life, 00:13:41.92\00:13:44.65 transitioning to adulthood, that is super important 00:13:44.69\00:13:47.09 because God may be calling you right now to really examine 00:13:47.12\00:13:50.33 what you believe and why, to look at those things. 00:13:50.36\00:13:52.66 Yes. 00:13:52.69\00:13:54.03 All of us have to go through this process 00:13:54.06\00:13:55.40 of knowing for ourselves 00:13:55.43\00:13:57.17 who we are, what we believe 00:13:57.20\00:13:59.07 and what God has to say about us. 00:13:59.10\00:14:00.74 So go to God's Word, seek counsel, 00:14:00.77\00:14:03.51 and God will lead and guide you. 00:14:03.54\00:14:05.17 Thank you for joining us today. 00:14:05.21\00:14:06.57 Check out our Facebook page, RQRA3ABN. 00:14:06.61\00:14:10.25 We'll see you next time. 00:14:10.28\00:14:11.91