Participants: Dr. John Jacob (Host), Sean Brereton, Miles Rashad, Bianca Acosta, Jeremiah Dieujuste, Vania Dieujuste
Series Code: RDR
Program Code: RDR000023A
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00:22 Hello and welcome to "Road to Romance"
00:25 I'm your host Dr. John Jacob. 00:27 Today we have with us Bianca, Sean and Miles. 00:30 Welcome! Good to see ya! Hello! 00:32 So I thought today, we could take a look at your 00:34 past - does that make you feel a little nervous? 00:37 Miles has a... No, my past is pretty ah... 00:41 Pretty, pretty clean? Don't dig that up. 00:43 Don't dig it up. Yeah 00:44 Well not that kind of past, just the effect that your past 00:47 experiences has had on your present dating. Okay 00:51 So let's take a look at the slide. 00:56 So, "past relationships," I'm pretty sure that you 00:59 did not know that every experience you've ever had 01:02 shapes or re-shapes your brain. Makes sense. 01:07 So we knew that parenting can shape a child's brain, 01:10 but even after you've left your parents' home, 01:13 and you live, you know, on your own, 01:15 and you go out, you start work, make a living, 01:18 try to meet some people and try to date, 01:21 and start a life of your own... 01:23 Every one of those experiences actually shapes your brain, 01:27 and the more traumatic or the more ecstatic the relationship, 01:33 the greater an impact it has on how your brain 01:36 would be shaped or developed. Hmm. Okay 01:39 Even in adulthood. 01:40 Now, I don't know your ages, but if you're under 29, 01:44 then the shaping is even more pronounced. 01:48 As you get older, the shaping is less, and less, and less 01:52 until you get into your 70s, your 80s, 01:54 and it's not so pronounced. Okay 01:56 But I'm guessing that you guys are around 20s, maybe early 30s, 02:01 so it is something that you would be interested in. 02:05 Yes, definitely. Right? 02:07 Okay, so here's what the research shows... 02:09 The research shows that it actually takes you about 02:13 12 dates to figure out who you are, 02:17 and what you want in a relationship. Okay 02:20 Who you are in that relationship or just who you are at? 02:23 Who you are in the relationship. Twelve days? 02:25 Twelve dates... Dates, oh! Yeah 12 dates... Okay 02:28 And when they say "dates," they actually 02:31 went on to explain what they meant. 02:32 They didn't really actually mean one date, 02:35 like you go to a coffee shop or you go to a restaurant, 02:38 or you go to church... you know, they really meant 02:41 long-term - so like a long-term relationship doesn't have to be 02:45 2 years or 1 year, but a couple of months at least. 02:49 And each of those will qualify for what they call "one date," 02:52 and you need about 12 of those 02:55 before you could figure out exactly what you want 02:58 in someone else. 03:00 But, I don't know if you guys remember what I told you about 03:03 Y- types and blueprints. 03:06 So our resident Y-type here, you would remember. No 03:11 You probably have a good, clear idea of what you want 03:15 in a partner. 03:16 That sounds pretty accurate. 03:18 And most Ys, if she is like most Ys, 03:21 they tend to not veer away from that blueprint, 03:25 and that presents a problem because it's very hard to 03:28 have someone come and allow you to check off every item 03:32 on your 10 item list. 03:35 Yeah, it's one of those things where I'm like, 03:36 "Am I being too picky or is this okay?" Like, you know? 03:41 See, I could help you with that... 03:42 If you're a Y, the answer to that question is "yes." 03:47 You are probably being too picky if you're a Y 03:49 because you tend to be too picky. 03:52 And, for our X men here on the left... 03:55 Oh, the X men with secret powers? Yeah! 03:59 I know the answer for them too, 04:00 they probably are not picky enough. 04:03 You guys probably need to be more selective, 04:05 and I know it doesn't seem to make sense... 04:07 It's such a struggle to find a quality mate today 04:10 that for somebody to say, "Get picky or get more selective," 04:15 it's almost like telling you, "Okay, well when are you 04:17 going to have your next date, 04:19 when would you ever hope to be married?" 04:20 But it's true, it's actually what you need to do... 04:24 you actually need to be more specific and more particular. 04:27 I'm very particular, actually, so... 04:28 You're very particular... that's excellent! 04:30 And you need to keep it that way. 04:31 That you Dr. Jacob. Okay 04:33 So, 12 first dates, but here's the problem... 04:36 The same scientists that did this research, 04:37 They said, "Yeah, we want people to go out and date 04:41 at least 12 times - so that they could find out 04:43 what they want in a mate, but we need to caution them." 04:46 One bad date, one date that goes wrong, horribly wrong, 04:51 where you feel traumatized, they say it's enough 04:54 to change your brain to such an extent 04:57 that it affects your dating for years to come. Wow! 05:02 I mean it makes sense, it's like when you 05:04 touch something very, very hot, you burn yourself. 05:08 It's a very strong experience and you don't want to 05:10 repeat that painful experience again. Exactly 05:13 So Y-types who experience that one bad date, 05:16 sometimes 5 years later, they still are not back 05:20 in the dating pool. Okay 05:21 Y- types - Y-types have a very difficult time. 05:24 As you see there, it says how Xs and Ys handle the past. 05:28 Y- types don't handle the past very easily. 05:31 Why? Because oxytocin is required for forgiveness. 05:36 They don't have too much of it. 05:38 If you have a lot of oxytocin, you would find it 05:40 easier to forgive and forget. 05:41 Y- types tend not to have as X- types, 05:44 so the past kind of remains the present. 05:47 So what if you're like, since I am both Y and X, 05:50 like Y on the communication and X on the intimacy side 05:54 or the emotional connection, would that help temper it? 05:59 That helps a lot because it means that 06:01 emotionally you still want someone to 06:04 bond with emotionally, so you will get over 06:07 your hurts and feelings faster 06:09 than if it were the other way around where you were 06:11 emotionally a Y-type, not needing people, 06:13 not needing - you know what I'm saying? Um hm 06:15 So yeah, being a Y-X, I think that helps you. 06:18 That makes sense with my own experience, yes. 06:21 It kind of jives with what you know? 06:22 Okay, but so X-types, you guys generally tend to 06:28 get back in the saddle too fast. 06:30 It's like falling off a horse and getting right back on? 06:32 Just like you're getting back on the same horse. 06:35 Okay same? Yeah! 06:37 Xs do that a lot, Xs tend to go back 06:39 to the same person a lot. 06:41 Why? Again, the answer is hormones - oxytocin 06:44 They've bonded to that person, so even when they fall off 06:47 the horse, they're going back to the same person 06:49 because they're still attached. 06:51 So it works with the horses, don't do this with people. 06:54 Exactly! Exactly! Laughter. Do not do this with people. 06:57 Whatever caused you guys to go your separate ways 06:59 the first time, probably still exists, you know, 07:03 and you're going back because of 07:05 how you feel... You're going back because of 07:07 how the hormones make you feel, not because that person changed. 07:11 Not because the situation changed, 07:12 and as X-types, even if the person said, 07:15 "You know I'm like that anymore, I swear, 07:17 I've changed completely." 07:19 You want to believe because oxytocin produces trust 07:25 and produces - well trust to the extent of gullibility. Fault 07:28 Yeah to a fault, where you would like... 07:30 you want to believe, so you jump right back in 07:33 helped by oxytocin only to find out that 07:35 nothing has changed. 07:37 And here's the other thing, oxytocin is glue! 07:40 So you jump back in to find out that nothing has changed, 07:43 and now you're unable to leave because now you're stuck again. 07:47 So just to give you an idea of what it's like, you know, 07:50 the differences between how you guys date and the consequences. 07:54 So back to the 12 first dates, so the one bad date, 07:58 the problem is it changes your brain, changes the neurons, 08:02 changes the wiring in your brain to such an extent that 08:05 you may not want to venture back quickly enough, 08:09 and what do you think is likely to happen? 08:11 During that time when you're taking your 3, 4, 5 years 08:15 to heal, you miss the very person that was intended 08:20 for you in the first place. 08:22 That's horrible, why? Yeah, exactly. 08:26 But there's something else, not only does it cause you to 08:31 take too long to jump back in the dating pool, 08:33 but it also alters your judgment, 08:37 so that when you get back there, your judgment 08:40 is not the same as it was before. 08:42 So you're almost like judging against them 08:44 without any reason for that. Exactly 08:47 So if you dated someone like this good-looking, 08:51 young man here - Sean, you're 6 feet 2- Thank you sir... 08:55 tall guy, ladies love tall guys, but if Sean traumatized you, 09:02 the next time you saw someone that was 6' 2, what happens? 09:05 Laughter. Your brain - it's like a 09:08 post-traumatic stress disorder. 09:10 Your brain tells you - "He's 6' 2, remember 6' 2? 09:13 You need to run, you need to stay away! 09:15 Now this 6' 2 is a good man, Christian young man and 09:20 he has all good intentions and maybe this is the man for you, 09:23 this is the one for you. Right 09:24 But your brain won't allow it because your brain is 09:27 trying to protect you from the pain and protect 09:29 you from the hurt. Makes sense. 09:31 You know, I have an example of that. 09:33 It wasn't a relationship or anything like that, 09:37 but I saw someone who looked like someone else, 09:42 who had done something that wasn't right and that other 09:48 person was the one I had previously had a lot of 09:50 respect for and appreciated her, but then this other person 09:55 you know, styled her hair like this other person. 09:57 I was like, "Why do I just seem to have this dislike for her, 10:01 I don't dislike anybody. 10:02 And then she changed her hairstyle, the next day 10:05 was like - "Oh, she looks like so and so, I was like 10:08 oh, okay now that makes sense." 10:12 That's the power of the brain. 10:14 So between the brain and the hormones, 10:17 it could be scary out there, but that's what we're here for 10:21 to guide you guys through all of this so that you 10:23 don't have to be worried about this. 10:25 You know what a lot of people 10:26 don't know... So what does this say? 10:28 This says that you have to be really 10:30 careful when you're dating. 10:31 I'm sure, by now, you guys have concluded that, right? Um hm 10:35 Yes, you're picky, you have to be very selective. 10:38 You have to do your homework, you have to do your research. 10:41 You have to find out what kind of a family 10:44 this person is coming from. 10:45 You know, find out a little bit about the person. 10:48 I'm not saying you should go to the extreme 10:50 that some people have gone to, like hiring a private eye. 10:52 I've heard people doing that, right? 10:55 Even without any reasons? Exactly 10:57 And then the internet now allows us to do all kinds of 11:00 background searches for very little, very little money, 11:03 and you could find out all kinds of things about people 11:06 I'm not saying that you need to go that far, 11:07 but I'm saying you should at least 11:09 know where the brother lives. 11:10 You should at least meet somebody in his family, 11:11 and his friends. I have a quick question... 11:15 So, personally myself, I have not been in a serious 11:19 relationship and I'm past my 20s. 11:24 Do you think by me not being in a serious relationship 11:27 can hurt or help when I do get in one? 11:33 I guess I should throw the question back... 11:37 If it were to hurt you, how would it? 11:39 How do you think it might hurt you? 11:40 Because I haven't had past experience in other 11:44 relationships, so I might not know what to look for 11:47 or certain things, how to cohabitate with that person 11:50 or something like that, I'm not quite sure. 11:51 Just lack of experience. 11:54 Yeah, you always ask the good questions. 11:56 You always ask really good questions. Thank you! 11:58 That's an excellent question. 12:00 As a matter-of-fact, when I first read the research 12:02 about the 12 dates, I thought to myself, "Well that's horrible." 12:05 I mean that's horrible, so this is Russian roulette. 12:08 I am going to date and date and date and hope 12:13 that I don't get traumatized before #12. 12:17 Because if I get traumatized now, I'm going to go 12:19 years and years and years before I could have good 12:21 judgment to choose somebody else," and I thought about that. 12:24 This is what's part of the reason, 12:26 part of what prompted me to work to create this 12:29 test because without you having experience, 12:33 what does the test do? 12:35 The test naturally tells you who you are. 12:37 It tells you what you need. 12:40 So then you don't have all that trauma to weigh you down 12:43 when you do go into a relationship. Exactly 12:44 You don't have to go through the trauma. 12:46 The trauma comes about because people get mismatched. 12:48 If you don't know who you are, and you don't know what your 12:50 personality type is, you'll find yourself with someone 12:53 that is the exact opposite because we've already said 12:55 opposites attract or opposites are attractive but not adhesive. 13:00 So you'll find yourself with someone that is completely 13:04 opposite of what you need. 13:05 Now you guys will still fall in love and you guys will 13:08 still love each other and oxytocin will flow 13:10 and it will still bond you, but you can't remain 13:13 bonded because you guys are too dissimilar. 13:16 So somebody breaks it off and you are left with a 13:20 broken heart. 13:22 Now the test is not a magic formula. 13:25 It doesn't prevent that from happening. 13:28 Just a guide to help you along. Exactly 13:30 But it reduces the likelihood that it will happen because it 13:34 allows you instead of playing again, gambling 1 in 4. 13:38 I have a 1 in 4 chance of meeting somebody 13:40 who is like me - now you don't need the 1 in 4 chance. 13:43 You could meet somebody who is exactly like you because 13:45 the test will do that for you and then all the other things 13:50 that we've shared with you allows you to do the background 13:53 checks that you need to do to not have to worry about it. 13:56 So I actually think that you are in an 13:58 advantageous position. All right! 14:00 Because you're not... yeah. 14:02 Call me up! Laughter Okay ladies, you heard that. 14:06 You're not damaged. No. 14:09 You didn't go through anything traumatic. 14:11 You're just sitting there waiting for the right person 14:14 to come and I really believe it's going to happen. 14:16 Thank you! You're very welcome. 14:19 So I wanted to thank you guys again for participating 14:22 and for, you know, sharing your thoughts, 14:24 and I'll see you next time. 14:32 Hello and welcome back to "Road to Romance" 14:35 We are joined again by Vania and Jeremiah. 14:37 Welcome! Thank you. Good to be back. 14:39 So today, we're talking about the effect that your 14:42 past experiences have on your relationship. 14:47 There's a lot of research coming out now from country after 14:51 country showing us that your past experiences actually 14:55 affect your current experiences, your relationship, 15:00 and even unborn Jeremiah, Jr. Thank you sir. 15:06 Yeah, really. So let's begin... 15:09 Basically, what they're finding is that when you have an 15:13 experience, it changes your brain. 15:15 So if you continue to have good experiences, 15:19 that, too, leaves an imprint on your brain, 15:21 but if you have traumatic experiences, 15:23 that also affects your neurons, but in a different way. Okay? 15:27 And when your neurons are changed, 15:30 it affects your judgment and it affects 15:32 the decisions that you make. 15:34 So you guys had a lot of experiences before 15:37 marriage, yeah? Um hum 15:38 Good, some good, maybe some not so good, 15:42 and then you got together, holy matrimony 15:44 and you're now one. 15:46 But those experiences are never forgotten; in fact, 15:50 they're so long-lasting and so effective, 15:53 that when you have the experience, your neurons change 15:56 very, very quickly and they change so that they could 15:59 store the memory. 16:01 Now that stored memory affects how you think, how you act, 16:05 and some of the choices that you make. 16:08 It's just like a computer - your brain is. 16:10 So you're about to make a decision and your brain 16:13 will go and look through the files of what has happened 16:17 to you - to tell you whether or not this is a good thing to do. 16:21 It's the reason why a lot of husbands find themselves 16:24 treating their wives in a certain way and looking back 16:26 and thinking, "That could not possibly be me... 16:29 you know that's not me, that sounds like my father." 16:32 "I don't do that." Right 16:34 So what you mean is... you don't do that consciously, 16:37 but your brain has the files from what your brain 16:41 saw your father do 15, 10, 5 years ago. Okay? 16:46 Now I want to point out something that is 16:49 really exciting... 16:50 In about 2005, probably a little before that, 16:54 some scientists discovered something remarkable. 16:58 So they were studying mice where, you know, 17:00 all experiments usually begin. With mice! 17:03 And they found that mice, if they were exposed to a 17:08 traumatic event, which for the mice, was something like 17:11 stealing their cheese or putting them in a maze that was 17:17 scary and they actually did that. 17:18 They put them in a maze and they scared them, 17:21 and so this was a traumatic event for the mouse. 17:23 And so what they did is... 17:25 They decided to breed that mouse and the offspring... 17:30 They put their offspring in the same box, in the same container. 17:33 Now remember, the offspring did not have the scare, 17:35 but when they brought the same scare, the offspring jumped 17:41 like the parents did. 17:43 And then they realized, "Wait a minute, that isn't possible, 17:46 this mouse could not possibly know 17:48 what his father experienced." 17:50 So they checked the DNA and they found that there was a 17:54 tag - kind of like that ribbon in your hair, 17:58 a tag hanging off - not looking that pretty though, 18:01 just hanging off of the DNA. 18:04 And the tag was a tag with the memory of what the father had 18:10 experienced and the father passed it on down through 18:14 his sperm, so the son who never had the experience 18:18 because the father is now dead and gone and obviously 18:20 the father didn't communicate this, 18:21 it is as if he experienced it himself. 18:25 Now that is called, "epigenetics." 18:28 Now genetics is as old as you. 18:32 I mean, we all know that you can pass traits 18:36 down from father to son, blue eyes, blue eyes, 18:40 you know, straight hair, straight hair, whatever. 18:41 We know we can pass some of the traits down, 18:43 but what we did not know is... 18:44 We can also pass down experiences. Right? 18:49 So, they thought, "I wonder how far this goes?" 18:53 They bred that mouse again and the same thing happened. 19:00 And they noticed that the experiences went all the way 19:04 down to the third or fourth generation. Wow. Yeah! 19:10 Now these are scientists, they're not 19:14 Christians necessarily, maybe some are, 19:16 but the majority of them are evolutionists and they won't 19:20 make the connection that you and I could make 19:23 about what's happening with this third and fourth generation 19:26 because we already know what we were told 19:28 about the third and fourth generation. 19:31 What we didn't know until this century is 19:33 that the experiences can actually alter your DNA. 19:38 Now what does that mean for your experience, 19:40 and I'm not trying to scare you, 19:42 but what does this mean for your experience? 19:45 We have a lot of parents who have turned a new 19:48 leaf, they're living pretty much a converted life, 19:52 and they're doing everything right as far as they know, 19:55 as best as they could and then they have the kids 19:59 Jeremiah Jr. and whatever you decide you're going to name 20:03 the little girl if you have one, and then they see the children 20:06 acting in a way that they never acted. 20:11 Or, doing some things that the children 20:14 were not seeing their parents do. 20:16 So, for instance, let's suppose you had a couple of children 20:19 and they grew up and they were teenagers. 20:21 From the time they were born, you know that you had 20:24 set a good example of how they should behave morally, right? 20:30 Yet still, they go out and they make the worse choices, 20:35 and so you're asking yourself, "What are we doing wrong? 20:39 They've seen nothing from us 20:42 that would lead them to do that." 20:44 But here is how epigenetics works... 20:46 A lot of us would go to college, you know, we're in our 20s 20:51 and we're not careful about how we live, 20:55 where we go, what we do. 20:57 And all of those experiences that we have, some men go 21:02 and during that time, they sow their wild oats 21:04 and they're like, "You know, I'm just going to have a 21:05 good old time until I'm ready to settle down." Wow 21:07 Not realizing that that "good old time" 21:10 was tagging their DNA every single time, 21:14 and that tagged DNA was passed down after they decided to 21:21 settle down and fly right and do the right thing. 21:25 And is there anything you can do to remove or delete 21:29 the tags? 21:30 Yes! Yes! That's a good question. 21:34 There is a lot that you could do - doing the opposite. 21:40 If you were worried about your own tags, 21:41 you could do the opposite of what you did 21:43 and try to counteract it that way. 21:47 A lot of teaching, compensating. 21:50 If you know what you did then for instance, 21:52 let's suppose you knew that you weren't very careful 21:54 when you were out there and you had, let's say one partner 21:56 too many - now you have children. 21:58 You don't have to tell them about what you did 22:00 because that too can tag them. 22:03 But you could tell them the dangers of living any way 22:08 that they want to instead of being careful. 22:11 You know, you could tell them ahead of time, 22:13 and you could tell them about epigenetics and just say, 22:16 "Hey, this is what's good, I know you're thinking right 22:17 now that you're young and you could do whatever 22:19 you want, but the memories of what you're doing 22:23 will not leave your body; they will not leave your brain, 22:25 they will not leave your genes. 22:27 They will tag your DNA" and the knowledge, 22:30 that knowledge, hopefully, will help them, 22:32 you know what I'm saying, to make the right decision. 22:34 I'm actually glad that you said that and there is a science 22:38 to back it up, like, you know, a lot of times if you just 22:41 simply tell someone what they should not do, 22:44 they're going to think, you know, it's going to look 22:46 like you're saying, "Do as I say, not do as I do," 22:49 kind of thing, so you're trying to rob them of the fun 22:52 that they could have, but it's the science behind it, 22:55 and it speaks for itself. 22:56 Yes, this is very different and you're right. 22:57 This is the first thing that young people think... 22:59 "Oh, you had your time, but this is mine, you're only 23:02 saying that now because you're married and you have 23:04 no choice." Right? 23:07 But you're correct... If you show them the science, 23:09 and you say, "Hey no, you're hurting yourself, 23:11 because at some point, this is going to become very, 23:13 very important to you and at that point, 23:15 it will matter to you, but you wouldn't be able to 23:17 do anything about it." Correct 23:18 So you're right, the science 23:20 makes all the difference in the world. 23:21 I have to let you know that this is not just about 23:24 infidelity or that sort of thing, it's also about things 23:30 like "health!" 23:32 They found that people can tag themselves. Yeah 23:36 During a certain period of your life, 23:37 you weren't careful about what you eat and what you drink... 23:42 Everything that you eat and drink tags your DNA 23:46 and it's like a register that keeps a memory of what you did. 23:49 So then you have your children and you're trying to have 23:52 your children to live a healthy life, 23:54 but you went through a period of time when you did not, 23:57 and so when you tell them, "No, I don't want 23:59 you to eat this because it's not good for you... 24:00 bla, bla, bla, bla, bla. They're like, "No, 24:02 this feels good to me, I'm going to do this." 24:05 And you're confused, "Why is this happening?" 24:07 They found the same thing with cancer. 24:09 They've now understood that cancer can skip generations, 24:12 so it will skip one generation and go to the third one down, 24:17 but it's going because of a tag. Wow 24:20 Now, I have to tell you guys that epigenetic tags... 24:22 it's like a switch - it works on and off. 24:27 On and off, so no middle. 24:29 So, for instance, if you had an abusive childhood, 24:31 you find that one or two things will happen... 24:35 You're either afraid to get married, 24:37 or you get married very, very, very quickly and carelessly. 24:43 There is no in-between, you know. 24:45 And so this has so many implications when you consider 24:49 what happened in the Bible. 24:51 Adam and Eve were the first pair to be tagged 24:53 because of sin and I know Adam and Eve were very, very, 24:58 very surprised when Cain... remember they expected 25:01 Cain to be the Messiah, they really did! 25:04 They did everything right because they had made a mistake, 25:07 and they raised Cain quite spiritually, 25:09 and then they had Able and they were shocked when Cain 25:13 turned out to be the first murderer because 25:15 they were thinking, "Where did he get this from?" Exactly 25:18 But, they were tagged when they disobeyed, 25:20 and they passed on that tag gene. 25:22 No matter what they taught Cain, they passed on that tag gene 25:25 to Cain and the science is also showing that you cannot 25:29 know which child will be tagged and which child will not. Wow 25:33 So it was just a gamble, it just so happened it was Cain. 25:37 It could have very well been Able. Right 25:39 But like generally speaking, like children will be 25:43 tagged... you just don't know how they will be tagged. 25:47 Well, you could tag them positively. 25:48 You could give them positive experiences. 25:50 Yeah, that's what I mean. Yeah 25:51 They will be tagged regardless. Yeah 25:53 Everybody will be tagged, but you want to be tagged 25:55 in a positive way, in a way that is helpful 25:57 to you, you know? 25:59 And so, if you know you're going to be tagged, 26:01 why not choose how it's going to happen? Exactly 26:05 I mean, we know this now and this is very, very helpful. 26:08 I mean it helps me thinking about what I'm going to eat 26:12 because what I'm going to eat is going to affect my child 26:15 in some very genetic direct ways and I don't have 26:19 to wait until I'm pregnant... well I can't be pregnant can I? 26:22 YOU don't have to wait until you're pregnant. 26:25 It's funny because my dad is very passionate about 26:27 nutrition and he changed his lifestyle, I think like 26:33 40-something years ago and has been very consistent 26:36 also with us and it's funny because me and my sisters, 26:40 even my brother, it's like we have this thing in us 26:44 like you can't leave it, you know? Yeah 26:47 Like you're aware of that and it's like you want it, you know. 26:52 And it's a positive tag to you. 26:55 I also believe that XY Theory exists because of tagging. 27:00 I mean, look at what happened to Adam... 27:01 Remember, Adam was sent outside, he was supposed to be with 27:03 his wife at his side. 27:05 He was sent outside to toil in solitude, fishing, farming, 27:13 all the things that you don't require any conversation for. 27:15 Right? Which is the majority of men today, 27:19 still Y-type, not much talking, not much, you know, 27:23 touchy-feely stuff. 27:25 Eve was given the job of raising the kids touchy-feely, 27:29 talking all the time. 27:31 So now, the majority of women are X-types, 27:33 and the majority of men are Y-types. 27:36 So I am convinced that even the Bible supports 27:38 the theory and supports the fact that we have to 27:41 be so very careful now that we're finding out 27:44 all of this information. 27:47 So, I'm not even worried about Jeremiah, Jr. 27:52 He's going to be fine and you are going to be fine. 27:55 We are thankful! Exactly! 27:57 So I just want to thank you for joining us 27:59 and I'll see you next time. Thank you |
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