Where can you find hope for the hopeless? 00:00:03.13\00:00:07.84 Opportunity for transformation? 00:00:07.87\00:00:10.07 Peace amid life's storms? 00:00:11.61\00:00:14.18 Only in God's free gift of eternal life. 00:00:15.68\00:00:18.91 From New York, join us on the Pathway of Hope. 00:00:20.55\00:00:24.89 There are many attributes about our God. 00:00:30.49\00:00:34.16 He possesses all wisdom and power. 00:00:34.20\00:00:37.63 I could list a few more 00:00:37.67\00:00:39.50 but there are two attributes of God that I like most. 00:00:39.53\00:00:44.61 Number one, He is a loving God, 00:00:44.64\00:00:48.21 and number two, He is a merciful God. 00:00:48.24\00:00:52.35 He loves us so much 00:00:52.38\00:00:54.22 that He died on a cross for our sins. 00:00:54.25\00:00:58.25 As a merciful God, 00:00:58.29\00:00:59.82 He spares us from the brutal punishment 00:00:59.85\00:01:02.52 and effects of sin. 00:01:02.56\00:01:04.33 I am a recipient of God's mercy. 00:01:06.23\00:01:09.63 Jesus had mercy on me and changed my life. 00:01:09.66\00:01:13.27 And guess what, 00:01:13.30\00:01:14.64 His mercy is available for you too. 00:01:14.67\00:01:17.87 He not only wants us to be recipients of mercy, 00:01:17.91\00:01:21.64 but also wants us to extend that mercy to others. 00:01:21.68\00:01:26.21 There is a special blessing for those who are merciful 00:01:26.25\00:01:29.72 for the Bible says, 00:01:29.75\00:01:31.62 "Blessed are they who are merciful, 00:01:31.65\00:01:34.59 for they shall obtain mercy." 00:01:34.62\00:01:37.69 On today's program, Dr. Jules will show us 00:01:37.73\00:01:41.06 how we can attain mercy and forgiveness of our sins 00:01:41.10\00:01:45.60 and live a fuller, richer, 00:01:45.63\00:01:48.30 and happier life in Christ Jesus. 00:01:48.34\00:01:50.91 Crucified 00:03:04.85\00:03:08.48 Laid behind the stone 00:03:08.52\00:03:12.05 You lived to die 00:03:12.09\00:03:15.46 Rejected and alone 00:03:15.49\00:03:18.66 You took the fall 00:03:25.07\00:03:28.87 And thought of me 00:03:28.90\00:03:31.41 Above all powers 00:03:39.61\00:03:43.08 Above all nature 00:03:46.89\00:03:49.96 And created things 00:03:55.96\00:03:59.60 The world began 00:04:04.84\00:04:11.85 Above all wonders 00:04:13.65\00:04:20.86 The world has ever known 00:04:20.89\00:04:28.50 There's no way to measure 00:04:28.53\00:04:35.57 What you're worth 00:04:35.60\00:04:38.27 Crucified 00:04:38.31\00:04:41.44 Laid behind the stone 00:04:41.48\00:04:45.21 You lived to die 00:04:45.25\00:04:48.78 Rejected and alone 00:04:48.82\00:04:52.39 You took the fall 00:04:58.33\00:05:02.13 And thought of me 00:05:02.16\00:05:05.83 Above all 00:05:05.87\00:05:10.41 Crucified 00:05:10.44\00:05:13.91 Laid behind the stone 00:05:13.94\00:05:17.41 You lived to die 00:05:17.45\00:05:20.95 Rejected and alone 00:05:20.98\00:05:23.85 Like a rose trampled on the ground 00:05:23.89\00:05:30.43 You took the fall 00:05:30.46\00:05:34.43 And thought of me 00:05:34.46\00:05:38.13 Above all 00:05:38.17\00:05:41.10 Trampled on the ground 00:05:44.44\00:05:47.91 Out of the New Testament, 00:06:21.21\00:06:24.31 Jesus speaking into book of Matthew 5:7 00:06:24.35\00:06:29.55 says, "Blessed are the merciful, 00:06:29.58\00:06:33.25 for they shall obtain mercy." 00:06:33.29\00:06:34.79 Succinct, brief, yet powerful. 00:06:34.82\00:06:39.43 Our message, be merciful. 00:06:39.46\00:06:42.96 Let us pray. 00:06:43.00\00:06:44.33 Loving Lord, You who have demonstrated in Your life 00:06:45.50\00:06:49.44 and taught us a new word, 00:06:49.47\00:06:52.11 the need to be kind and forgiving 00:06:52.14\00:06:55.74 and generous and magnanimous, 00:06:55.78\00:07:00.15 we tonight, go to this word to find a way 00:07:00.18\00:07:03.62 to make that word real in our own lives. 00:07:03.65\00:07:07.56 So bless this to Your people 00:07:07.59\00:07:08.99 and those who listen to this telecast, 00:07:09.02\00:07:12.23 may their hearts be blessed beyond measure. 00:07:12.26\00:07:17.00 May we sense our need to inculcate in our lives. 00:07:17.03\00:07:21.10 The attributes of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. 00:07:21.14\00:07:24.34 Thank you for hearing out this prayer tonight. 00:07:24.37\00:07:27.64 In the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. 00:07:27.68\00:07:30.51 Amen. 00:07:30.55\00:07:31.88 Philips translates that verse of scripture this way, 00:07:33.78\00:07:38.52 he says, "Happy are the merciful, 00:07:38.55\00:07:42.02 for they will have mercy shown to them." 00:07:42.06\00:07:45.76 Now at first glance, such statements seem to suggest 00:07:45.79\00:07:51.10 that the process of showing mercy 00:07:51.13\00:07:53.50 begins with us. 00:07:53.54\00:07:55.64 Now that, however, is not the case. 00:07:55.67\00:07:58.74 It is God who is merciful and gracious, first of all. 00:07:58.77\00:08:03.48 And the people of God are who they are 00:08:03.51\00:08:06.55 because they have received God's mercy. 00:08:06.58\00:08:09.55 Now the two terms, grace and mercy 00:08:11.19\00:08:13.15 are frequently synonymous. 00:08:13.19\00:08:16.19 But where there is a distinction 00:08:16.22\00:08:17.83 between the two, 00:08:17.86\00:08:19.19 it appears that grace is a loving response 00:08:19.23\00:08:22.73 when love is undeserved. 00:08:22.76\00:08:25.20 And mercy is a loving response prompted by the misery 00:08:25.23\00:08:30.44 and helplessness of the one and whom, 00:08:30.47\00:08:33.64 the love is to be showered. 00:08:33.68\00:08:36.01 Grace answers to the undeserving mercy, 00:08:36.04\00:08:40.62 answers to the miserable. 00:08:40.65\00:08:43.15 Jesus in Matthew 5 gives us these eight principles 00:08:43.18\00:08:46.65 or secrets to happiness. 00:08:46.69\00:08:49.42 He divides them up. 00:08:49.46\00:08:51.03 Four of these principles speak to our relationship to God 00:08:51.06\00:08:54.66 and the other four 00:08:54.70\00:08:56.03 deals with our relationship with each other. 00:08:56.06\00:08:58.70 That's why it's a fosse for people to love the Lord 00:08:58.73\00:09:01.80 and don't know how to treat their brothers or sisters. 00:09:01.84\00:09:06.21 Your real character comes out 00:09:06.24\00:09:08.58 when you have to deal with people 00:09:08.61\00:09:10.28 who are not all that loving and caring. 00:09:10.31\00:09:13.52 In this beatitude, Jesus is saying 00:09:13.55\00:09:16.22 that life is really one great boomerang. 00:09:16.25\00:09:19.75 Whatever you dish out, comes back to you. 00:09:19.79\00:09:23.32 It's the law of direct return. 00:09:23.36\00:09:25.63 If you're friendly, 00:09:25.66\00:09:27.13 people tend to be friendly with you. 00:09:27.16\00:09:29.36 If you speak gently to someone, most times, 00:09:29.40\00:09:32.87 they tend to not be boisterous with you. 00:09:32.90\00:09:35.67 If you criticize other people, they're going to criticize you. 00:09:35.70\00:09:39.67 If you're merciful to other people, 00:09:39.71\00:09:41.94 they'll be merciful to you. 00:09:41.98\00:09:43.65 That's just the way life is. 00:09:43.68\00:09:46.55 Now mercy goes even deeper 00:09:46.58\00:09:48.12 than just feeling sorry for people. 00:09:48.15\00:09:50.62 Mercy, the man's action, mercy is love in action. 00:09:50.65\00:09:56.59 The Bible says that God is a merciful God. 00:09:56.62\00:10:01.60 Psalms 148:8 says, 00:10:01.63\00:10:05.60 "God is kind and merciful. 00:10:05.63\00:10:08.80 Slow to get angry and full of love." 00:10:08.84\00:10:12.01 Isn't that wonderful people? 00:10:12.04\00:10:13.94 When I think of God, I should envision Him 00:10:13.98\00:10:16.58 to be kind and merciful, 00:10:16.61\00:10:19.05 full of love, and slow to anger. 00:10:19.08\00:10:22.68 Are you patient with everyone? 00:10:22.72\00:10:24.99 How can you be patient with those who are different? 00:10:25.02\00:10:28.32 First, we must look into their backgrounds. 00:10:28.36\00:10:31.33 When we understand where a person is coming from, 00:10:31.36\00:10:34.36 we will understand how far they're coming from, 00:10:34.40\00:10:37.47 and we will not pay much attention 00:10:37.50\00:10:40.67 to how far they have to go. 00:10:40.70\00:10:43.30 Ladies and gentleman, 00:10:43.34\00:10:44.67 when we look beneath the external behavior 00:10:44.71\00:10:47.84 and look at the internal pain, 00:10:47.88\00:10:50.21 we would know that behind every peculiar act, 00:10:50.25\00:10:53.55 there's loneliness, hurt, depression, or some anxiety. 00:10:53.58\00:10:57.32 In other words, God is saying to us, 00:10:57.35\00:10:59.62 "Stop judging people. 00:10:59.65\00:11:01.62 Take a little time, 00:11:01.66\00:11:03.16 think about their circumstances, 00:11:03.19\00:11:04.96 think about their conditions, 00:11:04.99\00:11:06.49 and you'll be patient with them." 00:11:06.53\00:11:08.63 Well, mercy is manifested first of all through patience 00:11:10.73\00:11:13.54 but secondly, 00:11:13.57\00:11:14.90 mercy is manifested through forgiveness. 00:11:14.94\00:11:18.11 Colossians 3:27 says, 00:11:18.14\00:11:19.97 "Be gentle and ready to forgive, 00:11:20.01\00:11:22.58 never hold grudges. 00:11:22.61\00:11:24.31 Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others." 00:11:24.35\00:11:29.18 Isn't it amazing that 00:11:29.22\00:11:30.55 when you are in need of forgiveness, 00:11:30.59\00:11:32.12 it feels so right. 00:11:32.15\00:11:33.49 But when you are called upon to give it, it feels so wrong. 00:11:34.92\00:11:38.73 When people make mistakes, 00:11:40.33\00:11:41.70 do you rub it in or do you rub it out? 00:11:41.73\00:11:43.63 When people hurt you and malice you 00:11:44.87\00:11:46.53 and let you down, 00:11:46.57\00:11:47.90 do you hold it over their heads for the rest of their lives 00:11:47.94\00:11:50.01 and never let them off the hook? 00:11:50.04\00:11:52.07 That's not mercy. 00:11:52.11\00:11:53.54 It's lot easier to criticize than it is to sympathize. 00:11:55.61\00:11:59.11 It's a lot easier to point a finger 00:11:59.15\00:12:00.48 than it is to lend a helping hand. 00:12:00.52\00:12:02.88 William Barclay once said, 00:12:02.92\00:12:04.25 "A Christ-less world is a callous world. 00:12:04.29\00:12:07.09 And mercy was never 00:12:07.12\00:12:09.19 a characteristic of pagan life." 00:12:09.22\00:12:11.36 And all who strived to root their lives to forgiveness, 00:12:13.09\00:12:15.43 seek to listen rather than to convince, 00:12:15.46\00:12:18.23 to understand rather than to impose themselves. 00:12:18.27\00:12:21.70 But there's a third way that mercy is manifested. 00:12:21.74\00:12:25.01 It's manifested through kindness. 00:12:25.04\00:12:27.84 Proverbs 3:27 declares, 00:12:27.88\00:12:29.81 whenever you possibly can do good to those who need it. 00:12:29.84\00:12:35.18 John Wesley had a motto. 00:12:35.22\00:12:36.85 He says, "Do all the good you can, 00:12:36.89\00:12:38.82 by all the means you can, 00:12:38.85\00:12:40.19 in all the ways you can, at all the times you can, 00:12:40.22\00:12:42.69 to all the people you can, as long as you ever can." 00:12:42.72\00:12:45.83 Jude 1:24 also says, 00:12:47.10\00:12:49.26 "Be merciful to those who doubt." 00:12:49.30\00:12:52.03 When you're hurting that's the most likely time 00:12:53.20\00:12:55.30 you're going to doubt God. 00:12:55.34\00:12:57.37 Do you know that's when you are hurting... 00:12:57.41\00:12:59.31 That's when we ask those cosmic questions 00:12:59.34\00:13:01.94 in the middle of the night? 00:13:01.98\00:13:03.31 "Where is God? 00:13:03.35\00:13:04.68 Why is He not hearing my prayers? 00:13:04.71\00:13:06.38 Maybe He doesn't care! 00:13:06.41\00:13:08.32 Maybe He doesn't even exist." 00:13:08.35\00:13:10.09 If you have never had those doubts, 00:13:10.12\00:13:12.32 you probably have never been in much pain. 00:13:12.35\00:13:15.96 Now why did God say, "Be merciful"? 00:13:15.99\00:13:18.59 Because that is the way God treats people. 00:13:18.63\00:13:21.13 He is kind and merciful, slow to anger. 00:13:21.16\00:13:23.63 And The Living Bible says in rest of that verse, 00:13:23.67\00:13:25.97 "His compassion is entertained in everything that He does." 00:13:26.00\00:13:31.37 Why then should I really be merciful? 00:13:31.41\00:13:34.64 First, because I'm a recipient of God's mercy. 00:13:34.68\00:13:38.15 Matthew 18:3, The Living Bible says, 00:13:38.18\00:13:40.38 "Shouldn't you be merciful to other people 00:13:40.42\00:13:42.25 just as I have been merciful to you?" 00:13:42.28\00:13:45.25 God anticipates that I would be grateful enough 00:13:45.29\00:13:48.19 and smart enough 00:13:48.22\00:13:49.56 to remember to give of what I have received. 00:13:49.59\00:13:52.19 Freely you have received, freely give! 00:13:52.23\00:13:55.26 Whenever you're tempted to get all smug and arrogant, 00:13:57.07\00:14:00.27 take a moment to think of the many times, 00:14:00.30\00:14:02.77 you have offended the eye of God. 00:14:02.80\00:14:05.57 And He has been so faithful and merciful. 00:14:05.61\00:14:09.44 You know, one day while I say who ministered in this world, 00:14:09.48\00:14:11.78 a group of professional religious leaders 00:14:11.81\00:14:14.85 caught up in their own righteousness 00:14:14.88\00:14:16.22 and impressed with their own purity, 00:14:16.25\00:14:18.65 forgot that they had been recipients of God's Almighty's 00:14:18.69\00:14:21.46 grace and mercy. 00:14:21.49\00:14:23.39 They came dragging a woman, the Bible says, 00:14:23.43\00:14:25.89 into the very presence of Jesus. 00:14:25.93\00:14:27.53 She had committed adultery, she was caught in adultery. 00:14:27.56\00:14:31.43 And they threw her down in front of Jesus and said, 00:14:31.47\00:14:34.10 "Jesus, You are a teacher. 00:14:34.14\00:14:35.64 You know what the Lord says. 00:14:35.67\00:14:37.07 If you're caught in adultery, you should be stoned to death." 00:14:37.11\00:14:40.44 Jesus said, "You're right. 00:14:42.28\00:14:44.28 That's what the Lord says. 00:14:44.31\00:14:46.41 The first one of you who has never sinned, 00:14:46.45\00:14:48.92 gets to throw the very first stone." 00:14:48.95\00:14:51.29 The Bible says they all walked away. 00:14:51.32\00:14:54.59 On another occasion, Jesus said, 00:14:54.62\00:14:56.26 "One of you is so preoccupied with the speck of sawdust 00:14:56.29\00:15:01.26 in your neighbors eyes, 00:15:01.30\00:15:02.63 why don't you get the telephone pulled out of your own?" 00:15:02.66\00:15:05.33 God has been merciful to me! 00:15:07.44\00:15:10.44 So I need to be merciful to other folks. 00:15:10.47\00:15:13.71 Now we tend to judge people, 00:15:15.08\00:15:17.65 other people by their worst faults. 00:15:17.68\00:15:20.38 Ad we tend to judge ourselves by our best intentions. 00:15:20.42\00:15:25.42 There's a second reason why we should be merciful. 00:15:25.45\00:15:27.52 I should also be merciful because more than likely, 00:15:27.56\00:15:30.09 I'm going to need some mercy in the future. 00:15:30.13\00:15:33.63 We ought to be careful when we say, 00:15:33.66\00:15:35.06 "I'll never do that." 00:15:35.10\00:15:36.70 Never say never. 00:15:36.73\00:15:38.23 No one but God knows what the future holds 00:15:38.27\00:15:40.70 and in that future, 00:15:40.74\00:15:42.07 there might just be some circumstantial condition 00:15:42.10\00:15:44.64 that necessitates the mercy of God 00:15:44.67\00:15:47.38 and mercy from our fellow men. 00:15:47.41\00:15:50.48 You don't know what you'll do. 00:15:50.51\00:15:52.35 Be careful. 00:15:52.38\00:15:53.72 Let Him the thinketh, 00:15:53.75\00:15:55.08 He sendeth, taketh, let's befall. 00:15:55.12\00:15:59.62 James 2:13 says, 00:15:59.65\00:16:01.02 "The man who makes no allowances for others, 00:16:01.06\00:16:03.96 will find none made for him." 00:16:03.99\00:16:06.56 only those who give mercy will get it. 00:16:06.59\00:16:09.20 Mercy is giving to others, not what they deserve, 00:16:09.23\00:16:11.97 but giving them what they need. 00:16:12.00\00:16:14.97 There's a third reason why I should give mercy. 00:16:15.00\00:16:17.14 I should be merciful 00:16:17.17\00:16:18.57 because the Bible says it will make me happy. 00:16:18.61\00:16:21.58 If you are a merciful person, you will be a happy person. 00:16:21.61\00:16:25.61 Happy are the merciful 00:16:25.65\00:16:27.32 and unhappy and miserable are the unmerciful. 00:16:27.35\00:16:32.02 Unkind people are miserable people. 00:16:32.05\00:16:36.96 But people who are merciful, the Bible says, 00:16:36.99\00:16:39.56 "Happy are the merciful, for they shall obtain mercy." 00:16:39.59\00:16:43.97 Amen. 00:16:44.00\00:16:45.87 How then do I become a merciful person? 00:16:45.90\00:16:48.87 Starting point is you must first experience 00:16:48.90\00:16:52.07 the mercy of God. 00:16:52.11\00:16:53.78 You cannot offer mercy to anyone else 00:16:53.81\00:16:56.31 until you have first received mercy. 00:16:56.34\00:16:59.61 You can't offer forgiveness to anyone else 00:16:59.65\00:17:01.82 until you first feel forgiven. 00:17:01.85\00:17:04.22 One of the reasons 00:17:04.25\00:17:05.65 why some of you have a hard time 00:17:05.69\00:17:07.62 forgiving people 00:17:07.66\00:17:08.99 is because you don't really feel forgiven. 00:17:09.02\00:17:11.73 When I feel unforgiving yet I'm definitely unforgiving. 00:17:11.76\00:17:16.06 When I don't feel good, 00:17:16.10\00:17:17.53 I sure don't want anybody else to feel good. 00:17:17.57\00:17:22.24 Starting point is 00:17:22.27\00:17:23.61 I must receive the mercy of God, 00:17:23.64\00:17:26.78 peace of God, and the forgiveness of God, 00:17:26.81\00:17:29.28 and then I can offer it to others. 00:17:29.31\00:17:31.78 Can you say amen somebody? Amen. 00:17:31.81\00:17:34.02 Every sin you've ever committed 00:17:34.05\00:17:36.55 or are committing right now, 00:17:36.58\00:17:37.92 or will commit has already been paid for, why? 00:17:37.95\00:17:41.59 The Bible says, "Just as you break man's law, 00:17:41.62\00:17:44.93 there's a penalty." 00:17:44.96\00:17:47.20 The Bible says, "The wages of sin is death." 00:17:47.23\00:17:50.60 Jesus took that penalty. 00:17:50.63\00:17:53.97 He took it. 00:17:54.00\00:17:55.34 It's already paid for. 00:17:55.37\00:17:56.71 You can walk out of here with a clear conscience, 00:17:56.74\00:17:59.07 with a clean slate. 00:17:59.11\00:18:01.64 You can begin a new life, 00:18:01.68\00:18:03.01 you can receive the mercy of god, 00:18:03.04\00:18:04.38 not because you deserve to be forgiven, you don't. 00:18:04.41\00:18:07.98 But God wants to forgive you 00:18:08.02\00:18:09.82 simply because He is a forgiving God. 00:18:09.85\00:18:12.85 He loves forgiving, it's His nature. 00:18:12.89\00:18:15.29 He is a God of mercy. 00:18:15.32\00:18:17.99 After you've done that, once you really feel forgiven, 00:18:18.03\00:18:20.43 once you have been graced, 00:18:20.46\00:18:22.16 then it's easier for you to become gracious. 00:18:22.20\00:18:25.70 Once you've felt the mercy of God, 00:18:25.73\00:18:27.47 then it's easier for you to be merciful. 00:18:27.50\00:18:30.47 After you've done that, the next thing you need to do 00:18:30.51\00:18:32.77 in order to become a merciful person, 00:18:32.81\00:18:34.48 is start looking at people with the eyes of Jesus Christ. 00:18:34.51\00:18:39.48 Look at people the way the Lord would see them. 00:18:39.51\00:18:42.48 By the way, if you have trouble with lust, 00:18:42.52\00:18:44.42 this is the key. 00:18:44.45\00:18:45.79 Instead of looking at them in lust, 00:18:45.82\00:18:47.16 look at them in love, the way Jesus would see them. 00:18:47.19\00:18:51.49 Instead of a body, you'll see a person. 00:18:51.53\00:18:54.26 Now Matthew 25 to think 00:18:54.30\00:18:55.80 Christians are going to be judged by 00:18:55.83\00:18:58.80 and the judgment is how they treated other people. 00:18:58.83\00:19:03.07 Listen to what Jesus says. 00:19:03.10\00:19:04.44 "I was hungry and you fed Me, 00:19:04.47\00:19:06.71 I was naked and you clothed Me, 00:19:06.74\00:19:10.58 I was in need of drink and you gave it to Me, 00:19:10.61\00:19:12.65 I was in prison and you visited me." 00:19:12.68\00:19:16.05 We're going to say, "Lord, 00:19:16.08\00:19:17.42 so when did we do all of that to You?" 00:19:17.45\00:19:19.39 Jesus said, "I will say then, in as months as you've done it 00:19:19.42\00:19:23.63 to anybody else, you've done it to me." 00:19:23.66\00:19:25.89 God is a loving God. 00:19:25.93\00:19:28.30 And He loves all of His children. 00:19:28.33\00:19:30.97 God's going to ask you how you treated other people. 00:19:33.00\00:19:36.30 Were you merciful? 00:19:36.34\00:19:38.41 Were you like Him? 00:19:38.44\00:19:40.08 All of us, lot of us are very hard 00:19:40.11\00:19:42.91 and we are tough on people. 00:19:42.94\00:19:44.75 And we always ready to vote somebody out of church. 00:19:44.78\00:19:48.32 Always quick to get rid of people. 00:19:48.35\00:19:50.09 Let me tell you something. 00:19:50.12\00:19:51.45 When I read my Bible, 00:19:51.49\00:19:52.82 Jesus was never in haste to get rid of anybody. 00:19:52.85\00:19:55.39 He was always extending mercy. 00:19:55.42\00:19:58.03 Jesus says, "Were you like Him?" 00:19:58.06\00:20:00.80 Jesus had a ministry of mercy. 00:20:00.83\00:20:02.56 He lifted up the lonely, He accepted the rejected, 00:20:02.60\00:20:05.33 He grieved with those who are sorrowing. 00:20:05.37\00:20:07.70 He loved the unlovely. 00:20:07.74\00:20:09.40 He helped those who are helpless and hurting. 00:20:09.44\00:20:12.37 He cared for them and God wants you 00:20:12.41\00:20:14.44 to be a little bit like Christ on your job, 00:20:14.48\00:20:17.85 at school, and at home. 00:20:17.88\00:20:19.58 Treat people the way you would like to be treated. 00:20:19.61\00:20:24.02 Now who is that in your life that needs mercy? 00:20:24.05\00:20:27.09 That's barely hanging on. 00:20:27.12\00:20:28.82 And they're about to let go. 00:20:28.86\00:20:30.19 You need to show some mercy this week. 00:20:30.23\00:20:33.16 Who is it in your life that you're still holding 00:20:33.19\00:20:36.46 the past over their head? 00:20:36.50\00:20:39.10 You won't let them off the hook. 00:20:39.13\00:20:40.87 Every time they do something you don't like, 00:20:40.90\00:20:44.04 you bring this up for ammunition. 00:20:44.07\00:20:47.48 It's always silently there in the background. 00:20:47.51\00:20:50.65 You remind them of how many times 00:20:50.68\00:20:52.15 you forgave them. 00:20:52.18\00:20:54.08 That's a great way to even kill a marriage. 00:20:54.12\00:20:57.15 You're unappeasable no matter what they do for you, 00:20:57.19\00:20:59.99 you remember the past. 00:21:00.02\00:21:01.49 You have a little scale in your mind. 00:21:01.52\00:21:04.29 No matter what they do for you, 00:21:04.33\00:21:05.66 you keep on reminding them of this. 00:21:05.69\00:21:07.06 You're destroying 00:21:07.10\00:21:08.43 your own marriage and relationships. 00:21:08.46\00:21:11.47 You're doing it to yourself. 00:21:11.50\00:21:14.14 Who is it that you need to say a word of forgiveness 00:21:14.17\00:21:16.84 to this week? 00:21:16.87\00:21:18.21 Let him off the hook, wipe that slate clean, 00:21:18.24\00:21:20.01 never mention it again. 00:21:20.04\00:21:21.38 It's over, it's done with, 00:21:21.41\00:21:22.84 it's forgiven, it's past, that's it. 00:21:22.88\00:21:25.98 Be happy! 00:21:26.01\00:21:27.35 And show mercy! 00:21:27.38\00:21:30.25 Have you experienced the mercy of God? 00:21:30.29\00:21:33.09 That is the greatest thing you can ever experience, 00:21:33.12\00:21:34.76 the mercy and love of Jesus. 00:21:34.79\00:21:36.93 Jesus Christ cared enough for you to die for you 00:21:36.96\00:21:40.23 and to forgive every sin you've ever committed. 00:21:40.26\00:21:43.23 But you need to come, admit those sins, 00:21:43.26\00:21:45.07 ask for forgiveness, 00:21:45.10\00:21:46.43 and let Him clean out your life and start over again. 00:21:46.47\00:21:49.47 There's no reason to go out of this house tonight 00:21:49.50\00:21:51.64 with any guilt. 00:21:51.67\00:21:53.27 It's unnecessary. 00:21:53.31\00:21:54.64 If you do it, it's because you choose to do it. 00:21:54.68\00:21:57.21 God says, "I want to wipe the slate clean." 00:21:57.25\00:21:59.65 It's like staring all over again. 00:21:59.68\00:22:03.15 This is a true story. 00:22:03.18\00:22:05.35 Fred Craddock was vacationing in Gatlinburg, Tennessee. 00:22:05.39\00:22:10.93 He and his wife were seated at the table, 00:22:10.96\00:22:13.50 when an old man came up to them and asked, "How are you doing? 00:22:13.53\00:22:17.27 Are you having a good time? 00:22:17.30\00:22:19.03 Are you on vacation?" 00:22:19.07\00:22:20.74 "Yes", said Professor Craddock. 00:22:20.77\00:22:22.77 "We are on vacation 00:22:22.80\00:22:24.14 and yes we're having a good time." 00:22:24.17\00:22:25.74 "What do you do for living?" The old man asked. 00:22:25.77\00:22:28.91 Professor Craddock wanting to get rid of the old man, 00:22:28.94\00:22:31.91 he said, "I'm a professor of preaching." 00:22:31.95\00:22:34.58 Which is true, but he was sure that a title like that 00:22:34.62\00:22:37.79 would drive any unwelcomed intruder away. 00:22:37.82\00:22:41.92 But it didn't. 00:22:41.96\00:22:43.49 "Oh, you're a preacher?" 00:22:43.53\00:22:44.86 The old man said, 00:22:44.89\00:22:46.23 "Let me tell you a preacher's story." 00:22:46.26\00:22:48.30 Before he can object, 00:22:51.00\00:22:52.73 the old man drew up a chair to the table, 00:22:52.77\00:22:55.70 started to unwind his story. 00:22:55.74\00:22:58.41 He said, "I was born an illegitimate child. 00:22:58.44\00:23:01.14 I never knew who my father was. 00:23:01.18\00:23:03.48 And that was very hard for me. 00:23:03.51\00:23:05.55 The boys at my school had names they called me 00:23:05.58\00:23:08.18 and they made fun of me all the time. 00:23:08.22\00:23:10.15 When I walk down the street in my little town, 00:23:10.19\00:23:12.89 I always felt like people was just staring at me 00:23:12.92\00:23:15.76 and asking that terrible question, 00:23:15.79\00:23:17.86 'I wonder who's the father of that little boy?' 00:23:17.89\00:23:21.66 So I spent a lot of time all by myself. 00:23:21.70\00:23:25.93 And I didn't have any friends. 00:23:25.97\00:23:27.30 One day, a new preacher came to the town. 00:23:27.34\00:23:30.54 And everybody was talking about how great he was. 00:23:30.57\00:23:34.81 I'd never gone to church before, 00:23:34.84\00:23:36.85 but one Sunday morning, 00:23:36.88\00:23:38.21 I thought, I'd go hear this preacher preach. 00:23:38.25\00:23:40.85 He was a good preacher so I kept going back. 00:23:40.88\00:23:43.42 Each time, I would go late and would leave early, 00:23:43.45\00:23:46.19 so I wouldn't have to talk to anyone else. 00:23:46.22\00:23:48.09 Then one Sunday, I got so caught up 00:23:48.12\00:23:51.86 in the preacher's message that I forgot to leave. 00:23:51.89\00:23:55.50 Before I knew what was happening, 00:23:55.53\00:23:58.03 he had the closing prayer, and the service was over. 00:23:58.07\00:24:02.54 I tried to get out of the church, 00:24:02.57\00:24:04.17 but people had already filled all the aisles, 00:24:04.21\00:24:07.21 and I couldn't get past them. 00:24:07.24\00:24:09.28 Suddenly, I felt a heavy hand on my shoulder. 00:24:09.31\00:24:12.65 When I turned around, 00:24:12.68\00:24:14.82 that big, tall preacher was looking down at me 00:24:14.85\00:24:17.99 and asking, 'What's your name, boy? 00:24:18.02\00:24:21.19 Who's your family? 00:24:21.22\00:24:23.16 Whose son are you?' 00:24:23.19\00:24:24.93 And when I heard that question, I just shook. 00:24:24.96\00:24:28.83 But before I could say anything, 00:24:28.86\00:24:30.23 he said, 'What? 00:24:30.27\00:24:31.63 I know your family. 00:24:31.67\00:24:33.70 I know whose son you are. 00:24:33.74\00:24:35.80 There's a distinct resemblance. 00:24:35.84\00:24:37.71 You are the son of God!'" 00:24:37.74\00:24:40.08 He said, "You know, mister, 00:24:42.04\00:24:44.41 those simple words changed my life forever." 00:24:44.45\00:24:48.02 The old man got up and left. 00:24:48.05\00:24:50.82 A waitress came over and asked, 00:24:50.85\00:24:52.72 "Do you know, who you just talked to?" 00:24:52.75\00:24:55.82 "No," said Professor Craddock. 00:24:55.86\00:24:58.06 The waitress said, "That's Ben Hooper, 00:24:58.09\00:25:00.56 two-term governor of the state of Tennessee." 00:25:00.60\00:25:04.30 A man learned what God said about him 00:25:04.33\00:25:08.00 because God is merciful. 00:25:08.04\00:25:10.71 He learned that he was God's child 00:25:10.74\00:25:13.17 and it's changed his life forever. 00:25:13.21\00:25:16.61 When you begin to see yourself, 00:25:16.64\00:25:18.68 as God really sees you, 00:25:18.71\00:25:20.95 you will be liberated from the pain of rejection 00:25:20.98\00:25:23.82 because it doesn't matter 00:25:23.85\00:25:25.19 what anybody else thinks if God says, "I'm acceptable, 00:25:25.22\00:25:28.22 and I'm valuable, and I'm lovable, 00:25:28.26\00:25:30.43 and I'm forgivable, and I'm capable, that's it." 00:25:30.46\00:25:35.53 Too much is given. 00:25:35.56\00:25:37.73 Much is required. 00:25:37.77\00:25:39.10 We are here today because of God's mercy. 00:25:39.13\00:25:42.37 You and I need to share that mercy with everybody. 00:25:42.40\00:25:46.27 Let's bow our heads as we commit our lives 00:25:46.31\00:25:48.74 a new to Christ. 00:25:48.78\00:25:50.28 Loving Lord, 00:25:50.31\00:25:52.31 we know what You've done for us. 00:25:52.35\00:25:54.85 Sometimes, we are hard-headed, 00:25:54.88\00:25:57.42 hard-hearted, 00:25:57.45\00:25:59.52 but we need that grace that washes away 00:25:59.55\00:26:03.99 our stain of sin and takes our hearts 00:26:04.03\00:26:09.33 and melts it with Your love. 00:26:09.36\00:26:11.73 We want to be more loving and kind 00:26:11.77\00:26:13.44 and patient and caring. 00:26:13.47\00:26:16.44 We want to be more merciful. 00:26:16.47\00:26:18.51 In other words, Lord, we want to be like You. 00:26:18.54\00:26:21.28 So make each of us who is in this room tonight 00:26:21.31\00:26:25.55 and those who listening through this telecast, 00:26:25.58\00:26:29.05 help us, oh, God, help us to be like You. 00:26:29.08\00:26:34.76 Forgive us of our past 00:26:34.79\00:26:36.42 and give us strength to live for You 00:26:36.46\00:26:37.96 in the days ahead. 00:26:37.99\00:26:39.83 When we meet people in need of grace and mercy, 00:26:39.86\00:26:43.06 help us to be the first to stand up and dispense it. 00:26:43.10\00:26:46.67 We thank You for hearing our prayer. 00:26:46.70\00:26:48.80 We thank You for the beatitude that tells us 00:26:48.84\00:26:51.31 that if we receive mercy, we must give it freely. 00:26:51.34\00:26:55.48 Bless this Your people here and around the world we pray, 00:26:55.51\00:26:59.05 in the name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior, 00:26:59.08\00:27:01.62 let everyone say amen. 00:27:01.65\00:27:03.15 Amen. 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