The following program discusses sensitive issues. 00:00:01.36\00:00:03.53 Parents are cautioned that some material 00:00:03.57\00:00:05.30 may be too candid for younger children. 00:00:05.33\00:00:07.44 Hello, and welcome to Pure Choices. 00:00:41.10\00:00:42.84 I'm your host Pastor Joshua Nelson. 00:00:42.87\00:00:44.84 And I'm so glad you decided to join us. 00:00:44.87\00:00:46.51 We have another great program for you today. 00:00:46.54\00:00:50.55 We are talking about lust 00:00:50.58\00:00:52.81 and the title is three little words 00:00:52.85\00:00:55.25 "I lust you." 00:00:55.28\00:00:56.62 Yeah, "I lust you." 00:00:56.65\00:00:57.99 So, we're gonna talk about that. 00:00:58.02\00:00:59.35 But before we get into it, 00:00:59.39\00:01:00.72 I want to introduce our panel once again. 00:01:00.76\00:01:02.39 I'll start with brother to my left, Kean Baxter, 00:01:02.42\00:01:05.89 who is, again, our scholar here, 00:01:05.93\00:01:08.06 who is the recent graduate 00:01:08.10\00:01:10.27 of the Andrews University Theological Seminary, 00:01:10.30\00:01:12.60 MD of graduate. 00:01:12.63\00:01:14.74 We also have Pastor Kory Douglas, 00:01:14.77\00:01:18.34 who is a pastor 00:01:18.37\00:01:19.77 in the Central States Conference. 00:01:19.81\00:01:21.64 And we also have Jeanne Mogusu, 00:01:21.68\00:01:25.28 who is currently a seminary student 00:01:25.31\00:01:28.55 and also a PhD recipient or... 00:01:28.58\00:01:32.79 Candidate. Candidate. 00:01:32.82\00:01:34.16 Thank you, candidate. 00:01:34.19\00:01:35.52 So yeah, we'll make sure we let everyone know about that. 00:01:35.56\00:01:37.63 We also have Pastor Marquis Jackson, 00:01:37.66\00:01:41.06 who is a pastor in my conference, 00:01:41.10\00:01:43.43 the South Atlantic Conference, over there Sumter. 00:01:43.47\00:01:46.80 And I'm Pastor Nelson from the Lake city, 00:01:46.84\00:01:50.84 and Marion district in South Carolina. 00:01:50.87\00:01:53.38 So, we're just excited to be here, 00:01:53.41\00:01:55.21 and to really discuss this 00:01:55.24\00:01:57.15 important discussion topic today. 00:01:57.18\00:01:59.98 So, we're just gonna jump right into it. 00:02:00.02\00:02:02.58 We're talking about 'Lust'. 00:02:02.62\00:02:04.99 Okay, something that we all struggle with. 00:02:05.02\00:02:08.39 You got be honest, we all struggle with lust. 00:02:08.42\00:02:11.26 And especially, even in, so far, you could say 00:02:11.29\00:02:14.53 some of us, many of us, have had porn or sex addictions. 00:02:14.56\00:02:19.10 Okay. 00:02:19.13\00:02:20.47 So now we want to just talk... 00:02:20.50\00:02:21.84 let's talk about first up, what is lust? 00:02:21.87\00:02:23.71 Or the core of what is lust? 00:02:23.74\00:02:25.07 And compare that to what is love? 00:02:25.11\00:02:27.81 I will say, lust and love have similar connection, 00:02:27.84\00:02:31.81 seemingly the same, but the difference 00:02:31.85\00:02:34.12 is I will say love is where we got to say in John 3:16, 00:02:34.15\00:02:37.62 "For God so loved the world, 00:02:37.65\00:02:38.99 that He gave us his only begotten Son." 00:02:39.02\00:02:41.32 And lust... and love is an aspect 00:02:41.36\00:02:43.53 of giving to someone. 00:02:43.56\00:02:45.69 Lust is more so on the reverse. 00:02:45.73\00:02:47.40 See, they're both of four letters, 00:02:47.43\00:02:48.76 they both start with the letter L. 00:02:48.80\00:02:50.13 But lust more so, kind of, specifically says, 00:02:50.17\00:02:51.97 what can you do for me? 00:02:52.00\00:02:53.34 What can you give me? 00:02:53.37\00:02:54.74 While love says I'm gonna give to you, 00:02:54.77\00:02:56.74 lust says I need you to do this for me. 00:02:56.77\00:02:58.61 Okay. 00:02:58.64\00:02:59.97 So it goes back to self gratification 00:03:00.01\00:03:01.64 and merely just getting what you want. 00:03:01.68\00:03:04.11 Right. I have it, okay. 00:03:04.15\00:03:05.48 And we recognize a lot of people in relationships now, 00:03:05.51\00:03:07.85 are not really loving their lusting. 00:03:07.88\00:03:10.52 A lot of them are infatuated with someone 00:03:10.55\00:03:12.82 or just because they saw this on TV, 00:03:12.85\00:03:14.42 this is what they want, an ideal in a mate, 00:03:14.46\00:03:16.09 or this is a man or woman, 00:03:16.12\00:03:17.46 they desire that, not necessarily trying to give. 00:03:17.49\00:03:19.59 So just want to get something for themselves. 00:03:19.63\00:03:21.76 I want to just continue that thought. 00:03:21.80\00:03:25.50 It actually... 00:03:25.53\00:03:27.00 encrypt that word, actually means desire, 00:03:27.04\00:03:30.47 wanting something. 00:03:30.51\00:03:32.47 And it's actually wanting... I like to think of it this way, 00:03:32.51\00:03:37.91 sinners meeting a legitimate need in a illegitimate way. 00:03:37.95\00:03:42.42 So, we have sexual desires, we've ready-- 00:03:42.45\00:03:46.09 We've already establish that God gave us sexual desires. 00:03:46.12\00:03:50.33 Lust is desiring to fulfill those needs in a way 00:03:50.36\00:03:55.76 that God did not intend. 00:03:55.80\00:03:58.10 So lust is one thing something 00:03:58.13\00:04:00.00 that God did not intend for you. 00:04:00.04\00:04:01.40 Okay. 00:04:01.44\00:04:02.77 So, now lets look at this issue of lust 00:04:02.80\00:04:05.04 according to what Jesus says, 00:04:05.07\00:04:06.41 because this verse, in Mathew 5:28, 00:04:06.44\00:04:08.94 is really alarming to many of us, 00:04:08.98\00:04:10.31 because it says "But I tell you that anyone 00:04:10.35\00:04:12.28 who looks at a women lustfully 00:04:12.31\00:04:13.65 has already committed adultery with her in his heart." 00:04:13.68\00:04:16.79 You can flip that around for a woman 00:04:16.82\00:04:18.15 who looks at something, you know, lust. 00:04:18.19\00:04:19.52 So, that's taking it pretty extreme. 00:04:19.55\00:04:21.82 You know would you, would you not-- I mean, 00:04:21.86\00:04:23.19 how is that really possible? 00:04:23.22\00:04:24.56 We, as men, we're just thought, as a man, 00:04:24.59\00:04:26.86 I'll say, it's hard, you know, I'm getting married, 00:04:26.90\00:04:29.96 you know, you see another lady or someone who looks good. 00:04:30.00\00:04:33.40 Doesn't it-- naturally your mind just kind of goes there. 00:04:33.44\00:04:35.50 Yeah. 00:04:35.54\00:04:36.87 So, what is, what is Jesus really talking about? 00:04:36.91\00:04:39.47 I don't know that I would even isolate it to just man 00:04:39.51\00:04:42.24 because even women, 00:04:42.28\00:04:43.71 we're always talking about the Brad Pitts and the-- 00:04:43.75\00:04:46.45 you know, the Idris Elbas, 00:04:46.48\00:04:49.45 you know, which ever your persuasion is. 00:04:49.48\00:04:52.49 And you look at this, you have lots of people 00:04:52.52\00:04:55.42 who are looking at this man and you, 00:04:55.46\00:04:57.39 you know, going the Channing Tatums, 00:04:57.43\00:04:59.29 you know, any time the man takes off his shirt, 00:04:59.33\00:05:01.50 everyone is literally screaming their heads off. 00:05:01.53\00:05:05.03 And it, kind of, gives this idea of that 00:05:05.07\00:05:08.00 is what we should be looking for. 00:05:08.04\00:05:09.60 You know, it's the person 00:05:09.64\00:05:10.97 who is going to make everybody else's heads turn, 00:05:11.01\00:05:14.51 and not necessarily go beyond that, 00:05:14.54\00:05:17.31 so it's more of a lust, 00:05:17.35\00:05:18.95 kind of, gives more of a physical connotation. 00:05:18.98\00:05:21.48 It has to be more physical, it's not about who you are? 00:05:21.52\00:05:24.45 It's about what you look like. Yes. 00:05:24.49\00:05:27.16 Well, you know, I would... 00:05:27.19\00:05:28.52 I wouldn't find lust as 00:05:28.56\00:05:30.69 'cause, men, we defined our love 00:05:30.73\00:05:32.39 and marriage and sex 00:05:32.43\00:05:33.76 in the context of being in God's image. 00:05:33.80\00:05:35.80 And I believe that when you look at somebody, 00:05:35.83\00:05:37.63 that's how you should look at them, 00:05:37.67\00:05:39.00 as if they are in God's image. 00:05:39.03\00:05:40.77 And when you approach or make an attempt at love, 00:05:40.80\00:05:43.87 outside of the image of God 00:05:43.91\00:05:45.44 or outside of looking at that person that way, 00:05:45.47\00:05:47.74 that what you are doing is you are lusting, 00:05:47.78\00:05:49.58 because you have removed God's image from the equation. 00:05:49.61\00:05:52.38 And I think that what Jesus is getting at 00:05:52.41\00:05:54.02 and it's actually beautiful in the context, 00:05:54.05\00:05:55.68 because He is talking to those people 00:05:55.72\00:05:57.55 who have taken His word 00:05:57.59\00:05:59.05 and have taken the spirit of the word out of it, 00:05:59.09\00:06:01.16 who have taken the Lord 00:06:01.19\00:06:02.52 and have taken the spirit of the Lord out of it. 00:06:02.56\00:06:04.53 And now concentrate only on the physicality of the Lord 00:06:04.56\00:06:07.20 that which we see only outside. 00:06:07.23\00:06:08.96 And so, you know, 00:06:09.00\00:06:10.33 when Jesus is making the statement 00:06:10.37\00:06:11.70 of looking at the woman 00:06:11.73\00:06:13.13 and lusting in it to happen in your heart. 00:06:13.17\00:06:14.77 He is saying, it's not about necessarily what you do 00:06:14.80\00:06:17.47 with your hands only, 00:06:17.51\00:06:19.01 but it's about your intension, your heart. 00:06:19.04\00:06:21.74 And if God is not at the centre of what you are doing 00:06:21.78\00:06:24.91 even in regards to something like trying to be holy 00:06:24.95\00:06:27.98 or trying to be pure, or clean, 00:06:28.02\00:06:29.95 you know, if God is not at the centre of it, 00:06:29.98\00:06:31.89 then you know, you have already lusted. 00:06:31.92\00:06:34.02 And, you know, and I don't want to get preachery, 00:06:34.06\00:06:36.02 but some of us lust after being Christians. 00:06:36.06\00:06:38.46 You know, but well, that's another conversation 00:06:38.49\00:06:40.10 for another day. 00:06:40.13\00:06:41.46 Okay, so look at this thing now. 00:06:41.50\00:06:42.86 We are lusting in-- we were lusting in our hearts, right? 00:06:42.90\00:06:48.20 That's what God is trying to really make it stay. 00:06:48.24\00:06:50.87 Okay, look it's-- you're sinning by doing it, 00:06:50.91\00:06:53.88 is that's not folks always on a legalistic matter of it 00:06:53.91\00:06:56.04 Thou shall not do this and you're okay. 00:06:56.08\00:06:58.15 But let's focus on also now 00:06:58.18\00:06:59.98 what's happening inside of your mind? 00:07:00.02\00:07:01.55 What are you thinking about? 00:07:01.58\00:07:02.92 Okay, and that's really where sin is birthed. 00:07:02.95\00:07:05.42 Right. 00:07:05.45\00:07:06.79 I think, you are bringing that up, 00:07:06.82\00:07:08.72 that quote from Jesus in Mathew 5 is important, 00:07:08.76\00:07:11.76 if you look at a women to lust at, 00:07:11.79\00:07:14.40 after in your heart you've committed adultery, 00:07:14.43\00:07:16.73 because some people see it, 00:07:16.77\00:07:18.73 may be he was just speaking in hyperbole, 00:07:18.77\00:07:20.64 because it's-- I mean, 00:07:20.67\00:07:22.84 is it possible to not sin even in thought. 00:07:22.87\00:07:26.61 You know, it's like, the standard is too high. 00:07:26.64\00:07:28.54 And because we... like you said, Kory, 00:07:28.58\00:07:31.35 we've taken the sprit out of the commandments. 00:07:31.38\00:07:33.98 We've lowered the standard. 00:07:34.02\00:07:36.08 And we try to live up to it based on our own efforts. 00:07:36.12\00:07:41.06 And we kind of make excuses, and we've say, 00:07:41.09\00:07:43.06 okay, this is, you know, this is sin and this is not. 00:07:43.09\00:07:46.09 So I can do this and not the other. 00:07:46.13\00:07:48.06 But understanding the sprit and understanding 00:07:48.10\00:07:51.93 that Jesus did not sin in thought or action. 00:07:51.97\00:07:56.30 So-- 00:07:56.34\00:07:58.14 So lets really tackle that, because, 00:07:58.17\00:07:59.97 you know, that's serious what you're saying. 00:08:00.01\00:08:01.34 Because, in reality, what Jesus presents, 00:08:01.38\00:08:04.68 what He shows and tells us what to do 00:08:04.71\00:08:06.55 and what He is telling to the Pharisees, 00:08:06.58\00:08:08.02 they are alarmed, because it's pretty much impossible. 00:08:08.05\00:08:11.92 Now, does anyone have a problem with me saying 00:08:11.95\00:08:14.02 that "It's impossible to be perfect"? 00:08:14.06\00:08:16.09 No. 00:08:16.12\00:08:17.59 Some people will. Yeah, very well. 00:08:17.63\00:08:19.43 Yeah. Yeah. 00:08:19.46\00:08:21.10 I know, for example, being honest. 00:08:21.13\00:08:24.73 You know, as I'm growing up in, you know, 00:08:24.77\00:08:27.57 how could Jesus ever be perfect, 00:08:27.60\00:08:29.34 in aspect of, you know, growing up 00:08:29.37\00:08:30.91 and, you know, children, you know, make-- 00:08:30.94\00:08:32.54 Mary did a great job in helping her raising her son, 00:08:32.57\00:08:35.11 and Joseph did as well. 00:08:35.14\00:08:36.91 I remember when I was seven years old, 00:08:36.95\00:08:38.61 I remember I was going 00:08:38.65\00:08:39.98 to one of my mom's friend's places. 00:08:40.02\00:08:42.68 And she used to go visit her friend. 00:08:42.72\00:08:44.29 And her friend has a daughter. 00:08:44.32\00:08:45.95 We were around the same age. 00:08:45.99\00:08:47.32 And she took me to downstairs 00:08:47.36\00:08:49.19 and she took to me to this basement area. 00:08:49.22\00:08:52.56 And in the basement area, there was magazines. 00:08:52.59\00:08:55.16 And there was magazine of a naked woman. 00:08:55.20\00:08:57.87 And at the age of seven, even in that, 00:08:57.90\00:09:01.10 I still see those that... 00:09:01.14\00:09:02.67 those images they are seared in my mind. 00:09:02.70\00:09:05.07 It's amazing how Christ in his situation 00:09:05.11\00:09:07.78 as growing up, was raised so well, that he-- 00:09:07.81\00:09:10.31 that he was able to veer from any of those situation. 00:09:10.35\00:09:13.18 He was tempted in all points as we are, yet without sin. 00:09:13.21\00:09:16.42 And so, with Christ living a perfect life, it is hard, 00:09:16.45\00:09:20.09 because I made mistakes, I've been exposed to things. 00:09:20.12\00:09:22.82 But I do you have to ask Christ to continue to deliver me 00:09:22.86\00:09:25.19 to take those things out and win that, 00:09:25.23\00:09:27.50 situations always popping up in my head, 00:09:27.53\00:09:29.26 to ask God that nail it, 00:09:29.30\00:09:30.73 no hit it on the head to set it down, 00:09:30.77\00:09:32.70 because If I don't it will to continue to build up. 00:09:32.73\00:09:34.67 So what you are saying is you cannot do it though because- 00:09:34.70\00:09:36.64 I can't do it. 00:09:36.67\00:09:38.01 This story is with the Christ really doing it through you. 00:09:38.04\00:09:41.81 Right. 00:09:41.84\00:09:43.51 Well, Let me let me-- 00:09:43.55\00:09:44.88 I think it is important to find perfection. 00:09:44.91\00:09:46.55 You know, if we gonna move forward. 00:09:46.58\00:09:47.98 And it's interesting that we go here, 00:09:48.02\00:09:49.48 because just the other week I was talking to, 00:09:49.52\00:09:51.35 at one of my churches, about this prayer meeting. 00:09:51.39\00:09:52.99 You know, in Matthew 5, 00:09:53.02\00:09:54.36 Jesus in the sermon on the mounts says 00:09:54.39\00:09:56.73 "Be ye perfect, as your father in heaven is perfect." 00:09:56.76\00:09:59.59 Of course, quoting when God says to Abraham, 00:09:59.63\00:10:01.83 "Be ye thou perfect on to the Lord." 00:10:01.86\00:10:03.97 And it's interesting that we take that verse 00:10:04.00\00:10:06.03 and then we say, well, 00:10:06.07\00:10:07.40 we should just do everything right. 00:10:07.44\00:10:08.77 And we define perfection is no flaws, 00:10:08.80\00:10:10.74 look shiny all the time, 00:10:10.77\00:10:12.47 you know, everything is gonna be all right. 00:10:12.51\00:10:14.11 You know, but do your best to be this way. 00:10:14.14\00:10:16.04 And it's interesting that the context 00:10:16.08\00:10:17.98 in which Jesus gives this verse, 00:10:18.01\00:10:19.68 He is talking about relationship. 00:10:19.71\00:10:21.55 He talks about how you treat one another. 00:10:21.58\00:10:24.22 How you treat your enemy and even-- Like I said, 00:10:24.25\00:10:26.76 God says to Moses "Be thou perfect onto me." 00:10:26.79\00:10:29.82 Talking more about relationship, 00:10:29.86\00:10:31.19 which I think is interesting, 00:10:31.23\00:10:32.56 because we are talking about sex and relationship. 00:10:32.59\00:10:34.93 And that God establishes perfection, 00:10:34.96\00:10:37.93 based on our relationship with Him. 00:10:37.97\00:10:39.73 And so, when God says, 00:10:39.77\00:10:41.10 "in Jesus be perfect," it's like saying, 00:10:41.14\00:10:42.80 be thou in perfect relationship with me. 00:10:42.84\00:10:45.41 Always strive to be in that connection with me. 00:10:45.44\00:10:48.78 And that's where we mess up sometimes 00:10:48.81\00:10:50.65 because that is the base and the foundation 00:10:50.68\00:10:53.08 out of which all of what we are talking about grows. 00:10:53.11\00:10:55.28 Yeah, that's-- Go ahead, go ahead. 00:10:55.32\00:10:56.65 Relationship with God and with each other, 00:10:56.69\00:10:59.15 its goes both ways. 00:10:59.19\00:11:00.76 And it's one-- And the thing is you can't-- 00:11:00.79\00:11:02.46 It's one and the same. Yeah. Exactly. 00:11:02.49\00:11:03.83 Yeah, it can't-- it's like the cross, 00:11:03.86\00:11:05.19 there is an upward beam and then there's a horizontal. 00:11:05.23\00:11:07.10 So you are saying the reality is based to that 00:11:07.13\00:11:09.46 is as hard as I may try 00:11:09.50\00:11:10.83 not to look at that pornography, 00:11:10.87\00:11:12.20 as hard as I may try to stop my addiction 00:11:12.23\00:11:13.87 that basically, the solution is not in me. 00:11:13.90\00:11:17.07 As hard as I may try, 00:11:17.11\00:11:18.44 I'm not gonna be able to stop it. 00:11:18.47\00:11:19.94 Is that what you telling me? 00:11:19.97\00:11:21.31 Well, we are not saying not to try, 00:11:21.34\00:11:22.94 that's not we are saying. 00:11:22.98\00:11:24.31 We are not saying pray and then watch pornography, 00:11:24.35\00:11:27.18 and pray and hope that eventually 00:11:27.22\00:11:28.82 God will magically touch your chin 00:11:28.85\00:11:30.79 and turn it away from the television screen 00:11:30.82\00:11:32.42 or the computer. 00:11:32.45\00:11:33.79 What we're saying is that, 00:11:33.82\00:11:35.16 it's not watching the pornography and not... 00:11:35.19\00:11:38.16 and trying hard not to do these things 00:11:38.19\00:11:39.53 is not would makes you pure. 00:11:39.56\00:11:42.06 Christ makes you pure 00:11:42.10\00:11:43.43 and you honor the process of Christ purifying you, 00:11:43.47\00:11:46.84 by not polluting your mind with the things 00:11:46.87\00:11:49.50 that will corrupt you. 00:11:49.54\00:11:50.87 Okay, go ahead. 00:11:50.91\00:11:53.34 Luke Chapter 15 speaks about a story about a man. 00:11:53.38\00:11:56.64 He cleaned and he cleaned the spirit out, 00:11:56.68\00:11:59.01 putting nothing in it, just vacuum. 00:11:59.05\00:12:01.15 But again still that spirit looked around 00:12:01.18\00:12:03.08 and saw him and nothing in it. 00:12:03.12\00:12:04.52 And he said just want me do, 00:12:04.55\00:12:05.89 I'm gonna come back in his place 00:12:05.92\00:12:07.26 and I'll bring seven of my boys with me. 00:12:07.29\00:12:08.62 And this person will be in a worse situation 00:12:08.66\00:12:10.13 than he was before. 00:12:10.16\00:12:11.49 If we think that we can do this of our own strength 00:12:11.53\00:12:14.43 and we do not put Jesus Christ in us, 00:12:14.46\00:12:16.63 it's kind of like saying when we put Christ in us 00:12:16.67\00:12:19.00 and we ask Him to live a life through us 00:12:19.03\00:12:20.60 so it can be imparted out. 00:12:20.64\00:12:22.54 That's what we can do, 00:12:22.57\00:12:23.91 because if not those demons will come in and may... 00:12:23.94\00:12:26.14 I may have looked at one magazine, 00:12:26.17\00:12:28.11 but if I have not put Christ in me, 00:12:28.14\00:12:29.71 I'm gonna look at worse more, more intense magazine 00:12:29.74\00:12:32.78 triple, quadruple X magazines, watch the TV shows 00:12:32.81\00:12:35.85 and pay the money. 00:12:35.88\00:12:37.22 And then do all those things. 00:12:37.25\00:12:38.59 And if we don't put Christ in us, 00:12:38.62\00:12:39.95 that's the dangerous thing. 00:12:39.99\00:12:41.32 I think that's... 00:12:41.36\00:12:42.69 Yeah, and, and more so, 00:12:42.72\00:12:44.06 because Marquis literally took the words out of my mouth. 00:12:44.09\00:12:47.26 One thing we have to understand 00:12:47.30\00:12:49.36 is that we're not trying, we're not saying that-- 00:12:49.40\00:12:52.03 when we, when we-- 00:12:52.07\00:12:53.94 most people believe that when we tell them-- 00:12:53.97\00:12:56.47 that we need God expects for us to live a holy life, 00:12:56.50\00:12:59.84 that you just need to stop doing what you're doing. 00:12:59.87\00:13:02.38 That is an important part of it, 00:13:02.41\00:13:04.88 but however it is not the source, 00:13:04.91\00:13:08.08 that is just treating a symptom. 00:13:08.12\00:13:10.19 You know, when you go to the doctor, 00:13:10.22\00:13:12.49 if I have a cold, 00:13:12.52\00:13:14.32 I can be given medicine for my fever, 00:13:14.36\00:13:17.03 I can be given everything else. 00:13:17.06\00:13:18.79 But if the doctor is not treating my-- 00:13:18.83\00:13:20.96 the cause for it, you know, the virus, 00:13:21.00\00:13:23.93 then I'm gonna be sick all over again. 00:13:23.97\00:13:26.50 And that's-- And that's how we, 00:13:26.53\00:13:28.50 that's how we tend to treat sin in our lives. 00:13:28.54\00:13:32.21 I'm a liar, so I'm gonna stop lying. 00:13:32.24\00:13:35.68 I'm a-- you know I am, I steal, 00:13:35.71\00:13:38.68 you know, so I need to stop stealing. 00:13:38.71\00:13:41.62 And so you're concentrating so much on what not to do, 00:13:41.65\00:13:45.42 that you forget that there is so much more 00:13:45.45\00:13:47.26 that you ought to do. 00:13:47.29\00:13:48.79 And that's the thing. 00:13:48.82\00:13:50.16 This-- I love this analogy, 00:13:50.19\00:13:52.53 someone-- a friend of mine said this, 00:13:52.56\00:13:54.83 you know, it's like going into a room of darkness, 00:13:54.86\00:13:57.60 you know, and getting a bucket, 00:13:57.63\00:13:59.40 because you want that-- 00:13:59.43\00:14:00.77 you know, you want some light in it, 00:14:00.80\00:14:02.14 so you get a bucket and try to carry out 00:14:02.17\00:14:05.21 all the darkness out of it. 00:14:05.24\00:14:07.01 Instead of just turning on the light switch, you know. 00:14:07.04\00:14:10.05 And so-- 00:14:10.08\00:14:12.25 and that analogy of the man with the demons is so great, 00:14:12.28\00:14:16.92 and that's why it's in the Bible, 00:14:16.95\00:14:18.29 because we are trying to take things out of our life, 00:14:18.32\00:14:21.22 but we don't recognize that there is something 00:14:21.26\00:14:23.66 that needs to come into our lives. 00:14:23.69\00:14:25.76 Exactly. 00:14:25.79\00:14:27.13 And it's not until it comes into our lives 00:14:27.16\00:14:28.53 that you get the ability, sort of, an-- 00:14:28.56\00:14:31.47 that which comes in is what pushes out 00:14:31.50\00:14:34.14 that the rest of the things. 00:14:34.17\00:14:35.50 Okay, I want to talk about the how. 00:14:35.54\00:14:36.87 Are you gonna say something, in regards to this? 00:14:36.91\00:14:38.67 Along with what Marquis said, 00:14:38.71\00:14:40.71 I'm thinking of a more current example of the demon, 00:14:40.74\00:14:45.01 he said, demons are leaving and they are coming back. 00:14:45.05\00:14:47.98 I was watching a talk show, 00:14:48.02\00:14:49.58 and a lady had a stomach bypass, I think. 00:14:49.62\00:14:56.42 Yeah, 'cause want to lose that weight 00:14:56.46\00:14:58.96 and-- gastric bypass, right. 00:14:58.99\00:15:01.16 So she had it, she lost a lot of weight, of course. 00:15:01.20\00:15:04.47 You are not able to fit as much food in your stomach. 00:15:04.50\00:15:06.84 So you eat more 00:15:06.87\00:15:08.37 but you not able to-- You're not as-- 00:15:08.40\00:15:11.07 You don't-- You eat more frequently- 00:15:11.11\00:15:13.38 Because your capacity is shrunken. 00:15:13.41\00:15:14.74 Small. Smaller. 00:15:14.78\00:15:16.11 And so you lose a lot more weight. 00:15:16.14\00:15:18.65 So she was fine, as far as the weight was concerned, 00:15:18.68\00:15:21.98 but she became an alcoholic. 00:15:22.02\00:15:24.92 Because the fact of the matter was, she was addicted to food. 00:15:24.95\00:15:29.16 She treated this symptom 00:15:29.19\00:15:31.89 and addiction popped up in another aspect. 00:15:31.93\00:15:35.80 Wow. 00:15:35.83\00:15:37.17 I've said this to my church. And it may sound weird. 00:15:37.20\00:15:41.04 The problem is not sin, the problem is sin. 00:15:41.07\00:15:46.51 The problem is not sin-- Christ defeated sin. 00:15:46.54\00:15:49.78 The problem is the fact that we had not allowed Christ 00:15:49.81\00:15:51.91 to come into us, and get that sin out. 00:15:51.95\00:15:54.48 I have a house. 00:15:54.52\00:15:55.85 I have yard, but my yard has weeds. 00:15:55.88\00:15:57.82 And I-- I get weed killer and I'll spray it in, 00:15:57.85\00:16:00.29 those things will top up a little bit 00:16:00.32\00:16:01.66 or they don't do anything. 00:16:01.69\00:16:03.19 Because I haven't gotten to the root. 00:16:03.22\00:16:04.89 And so we don't get into the root of the issue 00:16:04.93\00:16:07.10 and allow Christ to come in and pull that root out, 00:16:07.13\00:16:10.13 we're gonna continue had the same symptoms over again. 00:16:10.17\00:16:11.97 Okay, I love it. 00:16:12.00\00:16:13.34 I love that you all been saying. 00:16:13.37\00:16:14.70 Let's now talk about some ways to do it, 00:16:14.74\00:16:16.14 because you know lot of people watching may say, 00:16:16.17\00:16:18.87 well, how did you do it? How did you really do that? 00:16:18.91\00:16:21.01 I mean, I heard you're saying about having Christ in you, 00:16:21.04\00:16:24.21 we have, we talk about die in a self, but, you know, 00:16:24.25\00:16:26.61 how does that really take place? 00:16:26.65\00:16:28.22 What am I doing? 00:16:28.25\00:16:29.58 You know, I'm here, I'm trying to stop watching things. 00:16:29.62\00:16:31.62 What do I really do? 00:16:31.65\00:16:32.99 What is the first step that I take? 00:16:33.02\00:16:34.36 How can I hear God's voice? 00:16:34.39\00:16:35.72 Well, what would you say to them? 00:16:35.76\00:16:37.09 Well I don't want to be-- 00:16:37.13\00:16:42.30 I don't want to be cliche, you know. 00:16:42.33\00:16:44.00 But we're on Pure Choices. 00:16:44.03\00:16:45.43 We're talking about relationship, 00:16:45.47\00:16:46.84 and relating to each other, intimacy. 00:16:46.87\00:16:49.10 And, you know, 00:16:49.14\00:16:50.54 it's a relationship that God asks us to. 00:16:50.57\00:16:52.81 You know, the Bible refers to Abraham as a friend of God, 00:16:52.84\00:16:55.58 at the end of the day. 00:16:55.61\00:16:56.95 It's what God seeks, is friendship. 00:16:56.98\00:16:58.71 And will you, when you, kind of, 00:16:58.75\00:17:00.08 when you talk like, this is why I say it work so hard 00:17:00.12\00:17:01.92 at destroying our view of relationship, 00:17:01.95\00:17:04.85 is because God has invited us to intimacy, 00:17:04.89\00:17:07.49 and what does that mean? 00:17:07.52\00:17:08.86 That means that, yeah, read your Bible, pray every day, 00:17:08.89\00:17:11.13 make time for Him, spend time, 00:17:11.16\00:17:12.59 just as you would with someone you wanted to date. 00:17:12.63\00:17:15.33 But that also means that it's not easy. 00:17:15.36\00:17:17.03 That also means that when you start out, 00:17:17.07\00:17:18.97 it's gonna be a little bit of, you know, you know, 00:17:19.00\00:17:21.07 I'm a little nervous because I don't really know what to do. 00:17:21.10\00:17:24.01 You know, I hate-- As you develop, 00:17:24.04\00:17:29.34 as you talk to Him more and more every day. 00:17:29.38\00:17:32.25 And I'm telling you this from experience, you know, 00:17:32.28\00:17:34.52 you begin-- you get, you get closer to Him, 00:17:34.55\00:17:36.82 where now-- And this may sound, you know, 00:17:36.85\00:17:38.79 a little a contemporary, 00:17:38.82\00:17:40.86 but sometimes when I pray to God, 00:17:40.89\00:17:42.36 it's not even about your head and get solemn. 00:17:42.39\00:17:44.69 It's like, God, I need to get where I'm going today. 00:17:44.73\00:17:46.09 I know you got it, could you please, 00:17:46.13\00:17:47.46 while I'm from going into the call. 00:17:47.50\00:17:49.26 You know, because I'm on a basis with him now 00:17:49.30\00:17:51.90 where we're intimate, you know. 00:17:51.93\00:17:53.64 And I understand, I know what he's talking. 00:17:53.67\00:17:55.74 And it doesn't have to come in meditation 00:17:55.77\00:17:57.31 as it did three or four years ago. 00:17:57.34\00:17:59.21 When I had to really sit down in a dark-- in a quiet room. 00:17:59.24\00:18:02.04 But as I have grown with God, our relationship has grown. 00:18:02.08\00:18:05.11 And also, I don't if I'm getting ahead, 00:18:05.15\00:18:06.85 and I'm sorry, 00:18:06.88\00:18:08.22 but I talked about this on the interview, our program. 00:18:08.25\00:18:11.69 But what we do is we present relationship with Christ 00:18:11.72\00:18:14.92 and becoming pure without presenting the struggle of it. 00:18:14.96\00:18:18.56 We act like, from day one, as soon as you turn around 00:18:18.59\00:18:21.00 and decide to go the other direction, 00:18:21.03\00:18:22.86 that everything is gonna be easy, but there's a struggle. 00:18:22.90\00:18:26.07 You know, every day we got to wrestle 00:18:26.10\00:18:28.00 with the fact that our flesh doesn't want to talk to God. 00:18:28.04\00:18:31.27 And sometimes we got to have-- it has to be a decision 00:18:31.31\00:18:35.44 before it is a feeling. 00:18:35.48\00:18:36.85 We have to decide, this is what I'm gonna do, 00:18:36.88\00:18:38.75 even though I don't feel like it today. 00:18:38.78\00:18:40.65 And the same thing is important in-- making up pure choices. 00:18:40.68\00:18:44.55 Today, I might not want to make a pure choice. 00:18:44.59\00:18:46.15 And it's not gonna be easy, but as I continue to do it, 00:18:46.19\00:18:49.46 knowing that Christ is working to clean me up, 00:18:49.49\00:18:52.46 it begins to get easier and easier as I go. 00:18:52.49\00:18:54.60 Okay, and you know, but I want you also to address, 00:18:54.63\00:18:57.40 you know, the struggle, 00:18:57.43\00:18:58.77 how do you really fight through it? 00:18:58.80\00:19:00.84 And it was, that's exactly where I was going, 00:19:00.87\00:19:03.81 it's kind of like love. 00:19:03.84\00:19:05.77 I love the analogy of love, 00:19:05.81\00:19:07.48 because it's so-- it's a perfect example. 00:19:07.51\00:19:11.18 God love-- when you are in love with someone, 00:19:11.21\00:19:15.18 you want to spend all the time in the world with them. 00:19:15.22\00:19:19.55 You can't, literally, 00:19:19.59\00:19:20.92 you cannot bear being apart from them. 00:19:20.96\00:19:23.12 And so-- but in order to get to the point 00:19:23.16\00:19:25.66 where you're in love with someone, 00:19:25.69\00:19:27.40 you really have to get to know that person. 00:19:27.43\00:19:29.76 And so, at the beginning, you know, it may be like, 00:19:29.80\00:19:32.83 you know, Kory said, it may be kind of awkward like, hey. 00:19:32.87\00:19:35.74 Yeah. 00:19:35.77\00:19:37.11 You know, and you're wondering what do I say next, will they, 00:19:37.14\00:19:40.04 will they like me, you know, 00:19:40.08\00:19:42.84 just that we if I tell them-- if I show them who I am. 00:19:42.88\00:19:45.68 And so, it is the same way with God. 00:19:45.71\00:19:48.62 You know, you have to get past the idea 00:19:48.65\00:19:50.52 that he will not like you just the way you are, 00:19:50.55\00:19:54.46 because guess what, He already knows you 00:19:54.49\00:19:56.62 and He loves you. My lord. 00:19:56.66\00:19:57.99 He is seeking to have a relationship with you. 00:19:58.03\00:20:00.60 He wants to spend time with you. 00:20:00.63\00:20:02.26 He's already there, you know, 00:20:02.30\00:20:04.20 waiting for you to spend time with you. 00:20:04.23\00:20:06.57 He's pursuing you, all the time, constantly. 00:20:06.60\00:20:10.04 I mean, don't make me preach now. 00:20:10.07\00:20:12.37 Yeah, it's kind of very hot in here. 00:20:12.41\00:20:14.14 My lord. 00:20:14.18\00:20:15.51 But, but, that is the ultimate love story, 00:20:15.54\00:20:17.85 you know. That's it. 00:20:17.88\00:20:19.21 That is the ultimate love story, like seriously, 00:20:19.25\00:20:21.92 nobody can love you, like He can. 00:20:21.95\00:20:24.42 You know, I mean, God, you know, 00:20:24.45\00:20:26.42 because it's only until you get to the place 00:20:26.45\00:20:28.49 where you recognize, 00:20:28.52\00:20:29.86 you are valued in His, in His, in His eyes, 00:20:29.89\00:20:33.56 that you have the ultimate value. 00:20:33.60\00:20:35.43 He, He loved you so much, He made you in His own image. 00:20:35.46\00:20:39.23 So that He could have an experience with you. 00:20:39.27\00:20:41.87 You know, a relational experience with you. 00:20:41.90\00:20:44.44 And, and, and that, once we recognize that, 00:20:44.47\00:20:47.38 once you recognize your value, 00:20:47.41\00:20:49.44 then it becomes so much easier to, 00:20:49.48\00:20:51.48 to be like, "Hey, God," you know, "I'm here, today, 00:20:51.51\00:20:55.18 it's rough, I really don't feel like talking to you. 00:20:55.22\00:20:59.55 But guess what? I want to get to know You. 00:20:59.59\00:21:03.02 I want to, um, I want to spend time with you. 00:21:03.06\00:21:06.09 Show me how to spend time with you." 00:21:06.13\00:21:08.20 I love, I love telling people that I meet, 00:21:08.23\00:21:11.67 who are just starting out in their relationship. 00:21:11.70\00:21:14.47 If you can't wake up in the morning 00:21:14.50\00:21:16.04 to spend time with God, just tell Him. 00:21:16.07\00:21:18.77 Tell Him, "Lord, this is what I want to do. 00:21:18.81\00:21:21.34 I want to spend time with you, but you know me and sleep. 00:21:21.38\00:21:24.68 We love, we love each other," you know. 00:21:24.71\00:21:27.72 So if you want to spend, I have done this, 00:21:27.75\00:21:30.32 where I have gone to bed dog tired. 00:21:30.35\00:21:32.72 And I'm telling God, 00:21:32.75\00:21:34.09 "Lord, if you want to spend time with me, 00:21:34.12\00:21:36.22 wake me up." Wake me up. 00:21:36.26\00:21:37.63 And guess what, I could be in bed by three at night, 00:21:37.66\00:21:41.10 studying all, you know, and I will wake up at five. 00:21:41.13\00:21:44.43 And I will wake up so refreshed. 00:21:44.47\00:21:46.74 And once I spend time with him, 00:21:46.77\00:21:48.20 I'll be able to run through all day, 00:21:48.24\00:21:50.61 not sleeping, nothing, you know. 00:21:50.64\00:21:52.97 Just vibrant, because He has woken me up, 00:21:53.01\00:21:56.85 and He has refreshed my, 00:21:56.88\00:21:58.58 you know, my time with Him, has just been so refreshing 00:21:58.61\00:22:01.88 that I'm not even exhausted any more. 00:22:01.92\00:22:04.59 Wow sister, you said a lot there, 00:22:04.62\00:22:05.95 some valuable things and valuable thing there. 00:22:05.99\00:22:09.32 I mean, that's really what I say. 00:22:09.36\00:22:10.89 And that's where we find the desire of purity, 00:22:10.93\00:22:14.46 when you recognize who you are in Him 00:22:14.50\00:22:16.03 and that He loves you so much. 00:22:16.06\00:22:17.47 You know, that He really desires to have, 00:22:17.50\00:22:19.40 let you have that gift of sex, when it's time, 00:22:19.43\00:22:22.24 because it's beautiful, because He created it. 00:22:22.27\00:22:24.27 And when we don't, we cheap in ourselves, we cheap in, 00:22:24.31\00:22:26.34 what He is really trying to do in us and for us. 00:22:26.37\00:22:29.24 That's right. Yeah. 00:22:29.28\00:22:31.21 In my experience 00:22:31.25\00:22:34.12 I was born and raised in the church. 00:22:34.15\00:22:36.38 And I had to get to the point, God brought me to the point 00:22:36.42\00:22:42.76 where I had to despair of myself, 00:22:42.79\00:22:45.83 I had to give up on myself. 00:22:45.86\00:22:48.36 And the thing is, 00:22:48.40\00:22:49.73 and I don't know if I'm the only one. 00:22:49.76\00:22:51.10 May be I'm very stubborn or very slow. 00:22:51.13\00:22:53.07 But I would try, I would fail, I would try I would fail. 00:22:53.10\00:22:55.34 No, you're not by yourself. 00:22:55.37\00:22:56.84 And I said when you don't-- when you give up on yourself, 00:22:56.87\00:22:59.47 I just had a lot of faith in myself for some reason. 00:22:59.51\00:23:02.34 But God brought me to a point where I realized in-- 00:23:02.38\00:23:05.75 looking at my life that you're not, 00:23:05.78\00:23:08.42 you're not gonna get this, 00:23:08.45\00:23:10.05 as a matter of fact, you are getting worse. 00:23:10.09\00:23:14.16 God has, you have, we have to get to the point 00:23:14.19\00:23:16.32 where we give up on ourselves, "can't do it". 00:23:16.36\00:23:19.43 We cannot keep the commandments. 00:23:19.46\00:23:20.80 If you think you're keeping the commandments, you're not. 00:23:20.83\00:23:22.83 Yeah, yeah. 00:23:22.86\00:23:24.40 That was the Pharisees problem. Exactly. 00:23:24.43\00:23:26.63 And this what Jesus says, you know, 00:23:26.67\00:23:28.17 you say don't commit adultery, but you're thinking about it. 00:23:28.20\00:23:31.41 You don't, you don't kill your brother, 00:23:31.44\00:23:33.81 but you hate him in your heart. Yeah. 00:23:33.84\00:23:35.58 So Jesus was raising the bar, so you guys don't have it. 00:23:35.61\00:23:40.32 So when you despair of yourself, 00:23:40.35\00:23:42.38 he's like, what do I do? 00:23:42.42\00:23:43.75 And then Jesus presents Himself, I got it. 00:23:43.79\00:23:45.72 I'm your savior. Amen. Amen. 00:23:45.75\00:23:47.69 Die with me and I'll bring you, 00:23:47.72\00:23:51.29 I will do for you what you can't do for yourself. 00:23:51.33\00:23:53.46 It's not God helping you, 00:23:53.50\00:23:55.93 it's God doing it. It's God doing it. 00:23:55.96\00:23:57.30 It's God doing it. Yes, yes. 00:23:57.33\00:23:59.23 And-- what you're all saying is so true. 00:23:59.27\00:24:01.84 And I think probably one thing 00:24:01.87\00:24:03.44 is we have to be very careful of 00:24:03.47\00:24:05.27 is not to mirror our walk to someone else's walk. 00:24:05.31\00:24:08.84 Because, you know, 00:24:08.88\00:24:10.21 as we looking at the show Pure Choices, 00:24:10.25\00:24:12.55 probably the context-- 00:24:12.58\00:24:13.92 the people are gonna be watching this 00:24:13.95\00:24:15.28 or gonna people, young adults, teenagers, 00:24:15.32\00:24:17.32 may be there's some people little our age or some older. 00:24:17.35\00:24:21.12 But the challenge is, is that if I mirror myself 00:24:21.16\00:24:25.39 or how someone else is walking or how someone else is walking, 00:24:25.43\00:24:28.53 I'm finding myself at a problem, 00:24:28.56\00:24:29.90 because like the old story of running in a lane. 00:24:29.93\00:24:32.37 If you're running in that lane and you-- 00:24:32.40\00:24:34.40 I remember when I was in high school, I was racing, 00:24:34.44\00:24:37.01 people didn't think I could run, 00:24:37.04\00:24:38.37 but back in the day, I was little fast, you know. 00:24:38.41\00:24:39.87 I'm certainly run a little more 00:24:41.54\00:24:42.88 but you say it'll take little more time 00:24:42.91\00:24:44.25 to get myself ready. 00:24:44.28\00:24:46.15 But I would, I would, I would run and there's-- 00:24:46.18\00:24:49.05 I beat these guys and then there's one guy 00:24:49.08\00:24:50.62 who everybody telling was gonna toast me. 00:24:50.65\00:24:53.09 I race against this person and we were neck to neck. 00:24:53.12\00:24:55.46 But my problem was I looked to my right, so I get some. 00:24:55.49\00:24:59.09 And at the end of it, 00:24:59.13\00:25:00.50 we both probably get to end of the line 00:25:00.53\00:25:02.30 and get there together, but they gave it to him 00:25:02.33\00:25:04.63 because they thought he was faster. 00:25:04.67\00:25:06.03 Now none of it's-- none a case but if I would have just kept, 00:25:06.07\00:25:09.74 if I would have just kept focus, 00:25:09.77\00:25:11.37 I probably could have beaten him. 00:25:11.41\00:25:13.31 But the problem is, 00:25:13.34\00:25:14.84 unfortunately, that was a church, 00:25:14.88\00:25:16.44 we have put-- 00:25:16.48\00:25:17.81 we have merit people in there walk compared to ours, 00:25:17.85\00:25:20.62 it makes it hard for a person, 00:25:20.65\00:25:22.22 and as a young people, in this young generation, 00:25:22.25\00:25:24.32 we just need to be open honest, it is a struggle. 00:25:24.35\00:25:27.02 It is. 00:25:27.06\00:25:28.39 And we have to say listen, 00:25:28.42\00:25:29.76 there's times where I'm gonna fall and slip, 00:25:29.79\00:25:31.13 but just like the Bible says, 00:25:31.16\00:25:32.49 "A just man fall seven times, but gets back up." 00:25:32.53\00:25:34.86 Well, you know, one of the-- I mean, I love the Bible-- 00:25:34.90\00:25:37.70 I'm sorry. 00:25:37.73\00:25:39.07 You know, when Jesus-- 00:25:39.10\00:25:40.44 Oh, man, I really do. 00:25:40.47\00:25:43.71 It's like it gets me excited. 00:25:43.74\00:25:47.24 When the rich young ruler comes to Christ, 00:25:47.28\00:25:49.84 and, you know, he says I've done all the stuff, 00:25:49.88\00:25:51.48 you know, what else shall I do. 00:25:51.51\00:25:52.85 Christ tells him, "follow me", you know. 00:25:52.88\00:25:54.52 Right. Yeah. 00:25:54.55\00:25:55.88 And our problem is that we can't control "follow me". 00:25:55.92\00:26:00.09 Yeah. 00:26:00.12\00:26:01.46 We can't set benchmarkers for "follow me". 00:26:01.49\00:26:04.33 Because when you're following Christ, 00:26:04.36\00:26:05.69 we want to be able to tell people, 00:26:05.73\00:26:07.10 well, after five months, you should look like this. 00:26:07.13\00:26:09.53 You should sound like that, you know, 00:26:09.56\00:26:11.17 if you're gonna be making pure choices, 00:26:11.20\00:26:13.20 after six months, 00:26:13.23\00:26:14.57 you should be able be just look him in the face 00:26:14.60\00:26:15.94 and say no sex. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. 00:26:15.97\00:26:17.31 You know what I'm saying? 00:26:17.34\00:26:18.67 We want to tell people, you know, 00:26:18.71\00:26:20.04 after a little while you got to do that, 00:26:20.08\00:26:21.41 but Christ just says "follow me." 00:26:21.44\00:26:22.81 You know, and the thing is 00:26:22.84\00:26:24.31 yeah, we gonna bump, we're gonna hit bumps, 00:26:24.35\00:26:26.15 you know, the roads gonna turn, 00:26:26.18\00:26:27.52 it's gonna, we gonna go over the mountains, valleys 00:26:27.55\00:26:29.42 but our thing is "follow me" and you don't like, 00:26:29.45\00:26:32.05 I don't need to bring up by Abraham again, 00:26:32.09\00:26:33.69 but what the Bible says 00:26:33.72\00:26:35.06 Abraham didn't do anything special, 00:26:35.09\00:26:36.62 he didn't work miracles. Yeah. 00:26:36.66\00:26:38.63 He didn't found any land. 00:26:38.66\00:26:40.16 He didn't even see the land 00:26:40.20\00:26:41.53 that God promised him before he died, 00:26:41.56\00:26:43.03 he didn't get hold it. Write anything-- 00:26:43.06\00:26:44.53 But the Bible says that he-- 00:26:44.57\00:26:46.43 but what he did was he kept on getting up every morning 00:26:46.47\00:26:48.97 and wherever God told him to go, he went there. 00:26:49.00\00:26:51.67 And the bible says that the faith 00:26:51.71\00:26:53.14 that it took him to do that, 00:26:53.17\00:26:54.74 it was accounted to him for righteousness, 00:26:54.78\00:26:57.05 for perfection. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 00:26:57.08\00:26:59.01 And that's really important, 00:26:59.05\00:27:00.38 because if you look at the Bible 00:27:00.42\00:27:02.08 from the beginning to end 00:27:02.12\00:27:03.85 is always this great three-words, 00:27:03.89\00:27:06.25 He walked-- well for, He walked with God. 00:27:06.29\00:27:09.59 You know, Enoch walked with God, Noah walked with God, 00:27:09.62\00:27:11.96 they were counted righteous because they walked with God. 00:27:11.99\00:27:15.06 Walking entails so much but it's like all-- 00:27:15.10\00:27:18.03 that's all I have to do is walk with you, 00:27:18.07\00:27:19.73 it doesn't say running just says walk. 00:27:19.77\00:27:21.40 Yeah. Wow. 00:27:21.44\00:27:22.77 Powerful discussion, we may have to do, 00:27:22.80\00:27:24.47 talk some more about-- 00:27:24.51\00:27:26.37 But this is how we're gonna end it out here, you know, 00:27:26.41\00:27:29.28 in Colossians, Paul talks about the mystery of God, 00:27:29.31\00:27:31.81 which is Christ in you 00:27:31.85\00:27:33.72 "The Hope of Glory." "The Hope of Glory." 00:27:33.75\00:27:35.08 Praise God. 00:27:35.12\00:27:36.45 That's really what it's all about. 00:27:36.48\00:27:37.82 If you can just focus on that 00:27:37.85\00:27:39.19 allowing Christ to really permeate your life, 00:27:39.22\00:27:40.56 allowing Christ to really come in, 00:27:40.59\00:27:41.92 whatever you have to do, listen to your pastor, 00:27:41.96\00:27:43.73 listen to-- go talk to your parents, 00:27:43.76\00:27:45.09 whatever you have to do, focus on Jesus 00:27:45.13\00:27:47.43 and that relationship you need to have with Him. 00:27:47.46\00:27:50.23 Well, that's our program. 00:27:50.27\00:27:52.93 Until next time, make pure choices. 00:27:52.97\00:27:55.10