Let's praise Jesus this morning. 00:00:08.94\00:00:10.71 Sing with all of your heart and all of your mind. 00:00:37.10\00:00:39.77 He is exalted the King is exalted on high 00:00:57.62\00:01:03.63 I will praise Him 00:01:03.66\00:01:06.16 He is exalted forever exalted 00:01:06.19\00:01:10.13 And I will praise His name 00:01:10.17\00:01:16.57 He is the Lord, 00:01:18.64\00:01:22.44 Forever His truth shall reign 00:01:22.48\00:01:27.02 Heaven and Earth 00:01:27.08\00:01:30.75 Rejoice in His holy name 00:01:30.79\00:01:35.46 He is exalted 00:01:35.49\00:01:37.19 The King is exalted on high 00:01:37.23\00:01:43.83 He is exalted the King is exalted on high 00:01:43.90\00:01:49.84 I will praise Him 00:01:49.87\00:01:52.37 He is exalted forever exalted 00:01:52.41\00:01:56.54 And I will praise His name 00:01:56.58\00:02:04.09 He is the Lord, 00:02:04.12\00:02:09.06 Forever His truth shall reign 00:02:09.09\00:02:13.80 Heaven and Earth rejoice in His holy name 00:02:13.83\00:02:21.70 He is exalted 00:02:21.74\00:02:24.27 The King is exalted on high 00:02:24.31\00:02:30.81 He is the Lord, 00:02:30.85\00:02:34.75 Forever His truth shall reign 00:02:34.78\00:02:39.39 Heaven and Earth rejoice in His holy name 00:02:39.42\00:02:47.36 He is exalted 00:02:47.40\00:02:49.80 The King is exalted on high 00:02:49.83\00:02:56.27 He is exalted the King is exalted on high 00:02:56.30\00:03:03.55 My Jesus, my Savior 00:03:18.96\00:03:24.60 Lord there is none like you 00:03:24.63\00:03:29.30 All of my days I want to praise 00:03:29.34\00:03:35.44 The wonders of Your mighty love 00:03:35.48\00:03:42.18 My comfort, my shelter 00:03:44.75\00:03:50.23 Tower of refuge and strength 00:03:50.29\00:03:55.40 Let every breath, all that I am 00:03:55.43\00:04:01.70 Never cease to worship You 00:04:01.74\00:04:09.61 Shout to the Lord, all the earth, let us sing 00:04:09.64\00:04:16.05 Power and majesty, praise to the King 00:04:16.08\00:04:22.32 Mountains bow down and the seas will roar 00:04:22.36\00:04:27.76 At the sound of Your name 00:04:27.83\00:04:35.00 I sing for joy at the work of your hands 00:04:35.04\00:04:40.98 Forever I'll love you, Forever I'll stand 00:04:41.01\00:04:47.62 Nothing compares to the promise I have in You 00:04:47.65\00:04:54.62 My Jesus, my Savior 00:05:01.36\00:05:07.07 Lord there is none like You 00:05:07.14\00:05:11.74 All of my days, I want to praise 00:05:11.77\00:05:18.18 The wonders of Your mighty love 00:05:18.21\00:05:26.19 My comfort, my shelter 00:05:26.22\00:05:32.86 Tower of refuge and strength 00:05:32.89\00:05:37.70 Let every breath, all that I am 00:05:37.73\00:05:44.11 Never cease to worship You 00:05:44.17\00:05:51.98 Shout to the Lord, all the earth, 00:05:52.01\00:05:55.52 Let us sing 00:05:55.55\00:05:58.45 Power and majesty, praise to the King 00:05:58.49\00:06:04.99 Mountains bow down and the seas will roar 00:06:05.03\00:06:10.47 At the sound of Your name 00:06:10.50\00:06:17.24 I sing for joy at the work of Your hands 00:06:17.31\00:06:23.45 Forever I'll love You, Forever I'll stand 00:06:23.48\00:06:29.92 Nothing compares to the promise I have in You 00:06:29.95\00:06:37.66 Shout to the Lord, All the earth, 00:06:42.40\00:06:46.20 Let us sing Power and majesty, 00:06:46.23\00:06:51.67 Praise to the King 00:06:51.71\00:06:55.31 Mountains bow down And the seas will roar 00:06:55.34\00:07:00.78 At the sound of Your name 00:07:00.85\00:07:08.49 I sing for joy at the work of your hands 00:07:08.52\00:07:14.63 Forever I'll love You, Forever I'll stand 00:07:14.66\00:07:21.37 Nothing compares to the promise I have 00:07:21.40\00:07:27.08 Oh, nothing compares to the promise I have 00:07:27.11\00:07:33.45 Oh, nothing compares to the promise 00:07:33.52\00:07:38.79 I have in You 00:07:38.82\00:07:43.46 Amen, you may be seated. 00:07:47.30\00:07:50.43 I want to invite you during this song, 00:07:50.47\00:07:51.90 at any point of time to come forward for our prayer, 00:07:51.93\00:07:55.17 as we stand in awe 00:07:55.20\00:07:57.67 and in amazement of our God. 00:07:57.71\00:08:01.64 So come forward. 00:08:01.68\00:08:03.01 You dance over me 00:08:19.46\00:08:25.70 While I am unaware 00:08:25.73\00:08:31.87 You sing all around 00:08:31.91\00:08:37.85 But I never hear the sound 00:08:37.88\00:08:43.89 Lord, I'm amazed by you 00:08:43.92\00:08:50.23 Lord, I'm amazed by you 00:08:50.26\00:08:56.63 Lord, I'm amazed by you 00:08:56.67\00:09:03.44 How You love me 00:09:03.47\00:09:06.17 You paint the morning sky 00:09:10.18\00:09:16.55 With miracles in mind 00:09:16.58\00:09:22.79 My hope will always stand 00:09:22.82\00:09:29.10 For You hold me in Your hand 00:09:29.13\00:09:34.70 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:09:34.74\00:09:41.01 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:09:41.04\00:09:47.22 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:09:47.25\00:09:53.96 How You love me 00:09:53.99\00:09:57.03 How wide 00:10:00.70\00:10:06.47 How deep 00:10:06.50\00:10:12.51 How great 00:10:12.54\00:10:17.31 Is Your love for me 00:10:17.35\00:10:25.15 How wide 00:10:25.19\00:10:31.33 How deep 00:10:31.36\00:10:37.23 How great 00:10:37.30\00:10:41.87 Is Your love for me 00:10:41.90\00:10:46.27 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:10:49.31\00:10:55.38 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:10:55.42\00:11:01.92 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:11:01.96\00:11:09.03 How You love me 00:11:09.06\00:11:14.84 Lord, I'm amazed by You 00:11:14.87\00:11:22.11 How You love me 00:11:22.14\00:11:25.55 Oh, Lord, You're beautiful 00:11:29.28\00:11:37.09 Your face is all I seek 00:11:40.20\00:11:47.77 And when your eyes 00:11:51.04\00:11:56.34 Are on this child 00:11:56.38\00:12:01.88 Your grace abounds to me 00:12:01.92\00:12:09.82 Jesus, lover of my soul 00:12:29.21\00:12:34.98 Let me to Thy bosom fly 00:12:35.02\00:12:40.52 While the nearer waters roll 00:12:40.56\00:12:45.96 While the tempest still is high 00:12:45.99\00:12:51.53 Hide me, O my Savior, hide 00:12:51.57\00:12:57.24 Till the storm of life is past 00:12:57.27\00:13:03.04 Safe into the heaven guide 00:13:03.08\00:13:08.98 Oh, receive my soul at last 00:13:09.02\00:13:15.06 Other refuge have I none 00:13:15.09\00:13:21.00 Hangs my helpless soul on Thee 00:13:21.03\00:13:26.90 Leave, oh, leave me not alone 00:13:26.94\00:13:32.87 Still support and comfort me 00:13:32.91\00:13:39.41 All my trust on Thee is stayed 00:13:45.75\00:13:51.43 All my help from Thee I bring 00:13:51.46\00:13:57.20 Cover my defenseless head 00:13:57.23\00:14:01.84 With the shadow of Thy wing 00:14:01.87\00:14:08.38 With the shadow of Thy wing 00:14:08.41\00:14:15.38 Plenteous grace with Thee is found 00:14:27.13\00:14:32.73 Grace to cover all my sin 00:14:32.77\00:14:38.54 Let the healing streams abound 00:14:38.57\00:14:44.25 Make and keep me pure within 00:14:44.28\00:14:50.45 Thou the life of fountain art 00:14:50.49\00:14:56.69 Freely let me take of Thee 00:14:56.73\00:15:03.30 Spring Thou up within my heart 00:15:03.37\00:15:08.50 And rise, rise 00:15:08.54\00:15:14.58 Rise to all eternity 00:15:14.61\00:15:21.58 Jesus, lover of my soul 00:15:40.64\00:15:47.14 Let me to Thy bosom fly 00:15:47.18\00:15:53.78 Jesus, lover of my soul 00:15:53.82\00:16:00.82 Jesus, lover of my soul 00:16:00.89\00:16:07.83 Amen. 00:16:25.65\00:16:27.02 Thank you, Julie. 00:16:34.89\00:16:36.83 We really needed that today. 00:16:36.86\00:16:40.93 Jesus, lover of my soul. 00:16:40.96\00:16:47.24 Begin, beginning in this New Year, 00:16:47.30\00:16:49.60 our series entitled Charmed into Righteousness, 00:16:49.64\00:16:51.91 the second half you never see, 00:16:51.94\00:16:54.08 it's the matchless attractions of Christ. 00:16:54.14\00:16:58.51 That's a little seven prater, 00:17:01.25\00:17:02.82 our creative design engineer 00:17:02.85\00:17:06.79 Jonathan LaPointe has worked those seven parts 00:17:06.82\00:17:09.32 into a very short video. 00:17:09.36\00:17:11.19 I want to roll it, have prayer, and then we're on, Let's go. 00:17:11.23\00:17:15.60 Oh, God, are you really all of that and more? 00:18:17.66\00:18:22.23 All of that, what Julie was just saying, 00:18:22.26\00:18:25.83 lover of our souls. 00:18:25.87\00:18:29.34 What does that mean? 00:18:29.37\00:18:32.27 In the cusp of this New Year, 00:18:32.31\00:18:33.98 what does that mean for us? 00:18:34.01\00:18:36.11 Make it clear, today, right now 00:18:36.14\00:18:38.58 in Your word, we pray in Christ name. 00:18:38.61\00:18:41.25 Amen. 00:18:41.28\00:18:42.95 So I was reading last week the Los Angels Times, 00:18:42.98\00:18:45.69 we were out in L.A for a family reunion 00:18:45.72\00:18:47.82 with my mother, siblings, 00:18:47.86\00:18:49.49 and nephews and nieces. 00:18:49.52\00:18:54.46 And I get to the op-ed page L.A Times. 00:18:54.46\00:18:56.53 Okay, so this is last week. 00:18:56.56\00:18:59.17 And a headline catches my eye. 00:18:59.20\00:19:00.87 Not a Happy New Year. 00:19:00.90\00:19:03.44 I'm saying, I say, what's up with that? 00:19:03.47\00:19:06.11 So who wrote this? 00:19:06.14\00:19:07.51 Michael Mitchler is a father, husband, teacher 00:19:07.54\00:19:11.01 and an author, living in upstate New York. 00:19:11.05\00:19:13.68 So as a guy living in New York writing for the L.A Times, 00:19:13.75\00:19:16.58 then I found out, I want to read it to you. 00:19:16.62\00:19:20.59 My daughter Hanna died last year. 00:19:20.62\00:19:25.09 A tumor slowly ate away at her 17 year old brain, 00:19:25.13\00:19:28.53 'causing it to lose motor functions, 00:19:28.56\00:19:30.37 speech, life, it was March 2014, 00:19:30.40\00:19:34.70 all the treatments and clinical trails, 00:19:34.74\00:19:36.30 and prayers couldn't stop it, 00:19:36.34\00:19:37.67 and I still don't have the words to talk about it. 00:19:37.71\00:19:40.31 I'm supposed to be somewhat dexterous with language, 00:19:40.38\00:19:42.51 I teach high school English 00:19:42.54\00:19:43.98 and I even wrote a book recently. 00:19:44.05\00:19:46.92 I don't have, 00:19:46.95\00:19:48.48 often have a hard time coming up with something 00:19:48.52\00:19:51.05 to say or a way to say it. 00:19:51.09\00:19:53.02 When it comes to talking about Hanna's death, 00:19:53.05\00:19:54.82 however, things have been different. 00:19:54.86\00:19:58.39 This conversations with new acquaintances 00:19:58.43\00:20:00.10 tilt towards family 00:20:00.13\00:20:01.50 and there's no avoiding the matter. 00:20:01.53\00:20:02.86 I give her death a quick and cursory mention, 00:20:02.90\00:20:05.00 I've adopted this technique 00:20:05.03\00:20:06.37 partly out of empathy for the poor person 00:20:06.40\00:20:08.10 who couldn't possibly have seen this turn 00:20:08.14\00:20:09.64 in the conversation coming 00:20:09.67\00:20:11.21 and partly out of self preservation, 00:20:11.24\00:20:13.07 so I can navigate it quickly, 00:20:13.11\00:20:14.61 compartmentalize my emotions 00:20:14.64\00:20:16.24 and then get back to getting through the day. 00:20:16.28\00:20:21.65 But embedded deep within this terse treatment 00:20:21.68\00:20:23.65 of my profound pain is a subtle language mechanism, 00:20:23.69\00:20:27.32 a secret code I've clung to as a means of coping. 00:20:27.36\00:20:31.26 When I say, as I did earlier 00:20:31.29\00:20:32.86 my daughter Hanna died last year. 00:20:32.89\00:20:36.70 I know that those two essential words 00:20:36.73\00:20:39.03 last year keep me in the immediate wake of it all 00:20:39.07\00:20:43.34 and somehow keep my daughter here, 00:20:43.37\00:20:45.31 and close, and present. 00:20:45.34\00:20:48.61 In 2014, it was raw and there was no doubt 00:20:48.64\00:20:51.51 we were in the mist of our tragedy. 00:20:51.55\00:20:52.88 She had just died through our 2015, 00:20:52.91\00:20:55.48 saying last year has certainly 00:20:55.52\00:20:57.72 put the event in the past linguistically, 00:20:57.75\00:20:59.72 but anyone truly listening can sense 00:20:59.75\00:21:02.22 that it is ever present. 00:21:02.26\00:21:03.96 It seems like yesterday, 00:21:04.03\00:21:06.36 and I and my family continue to wear 00:21:06.39\00:21:08.20 our grief like a threadbare garment. 00:21:08.23\00:21:10.83 With 2016 approaching though, 00:21:10.87\00:21:12.83 just what exactly am I supposed to say? 00:21:12.87\00:21:14.90 What language am I supposed to use? 00:21:14.94\00:21:16.47 Come Friday, 'cause this came out 00:21:16.50\00:21:18.01 the day before New Year's Eve, all right? 00:21:18.04\00:21:19.94 So come Friday, that would be New Year's Day. 00:21:19.97\00:21:22.11 Come Friday, I will no longer be able to refer to last year, 00:21:22.14\00:21:25.35 when discussing Hanna's death. 00:21:25.38\00:21:26.98 I'll need to put a date on it, a year on it, 00:21:27.02\00:21:29.05 making it somehow historical and creating distance. 00:21:29.08\00:21:33.62 My daughter's death will become some static event in time, 00:21:33.66\00:21:37.13 and because time passes and the years turn, 00:21:37.19\00:21:40.20 we will be expected to move on. 00:21:40.26\00:21:44.10 Never before has New Year's Eve with its countdown to midnight, 00:21:44.13\00:21:47.20 it's simple turn of a calendar page, 00:21:47.27\00:21:49.20 it's song of old acquaintance being forgot, 00:21:49.24\00:21:52.07 brought on such dread and utter confusion 00:21:52.11\00:21:54.48 about moving forward. 00:21:54.51\00:21:56.34 There is no chance that I'll forget my daughter, of course, 00:21:56.38\00:21:59.95 but the calendar can't possibly jibe with my emotions. 00:22:00.05\00:22:03.02 The years are moving too fast for me now. 00:22:03.05\00:22:07.56 While memories of Hanna remain 00:22:07.59\00:22:09.86 like the comfort of lingering smoke from a favorite candle. 00:22:09.89\00:22:13.63 The year's end will be coaxing us to throw 00:22:13.70\00:22:15.56 open the windows and clear the air 00:22:15.60\00:22:17.23 for rebirth and renewal, 00:22:17.27\00:22:18.87 but I don't want to clear the air. 00:22:18.90\00:22:23.00 I want to remember, I want to slow it all down 00:22:23.04\00:22:26.54 and just sit for a while, 00:22:26.57\00:22:28.44 not moving until I'm ready, not talking about it 00:22:28.48\00:22:31.15 until I can get the words right. 00:22:31.18\00:22:33.98 Instead of a New Year with new numbers, 00:22:34.02\00:22:37.15 I need a new language that allows me to linger 00:22:37.19\00:22:40.52 and wait 00:22:40.56\00:22:42.76 and hold on. 00:22:42.79\00:22:45.93 Wow. 00:22:45.96\00:22:47.30 Only a parent who has lost a child, 00:22:51.73\00:22:53.37 and there are a number of you here. 00:22:56.40\00:23:00.48 Only a parent who has lost a child 00:23:00.51\00:23:04.18 can know the crystal pain that clings like icicles 00:23:04.25\00:23:09.42 to this father's perpetual grief. 00:23:09.45\00:23:14.79 Tomorrow afternoon, 4 o'clock, 00:23:14.82\00:23:19.46 Howard Performing Art Centre, 00:23:19.49\00:23:22.50 this campus says good bye 00:23:22.53\00:23:25.67 to a young co-head, Whitney Watson. 00:23:25.70\00:23:29.30 Her folks are in our midst these hours 00:23:29.34\00:23:33.44 before tomorrow. 00:23:33.48\00:23:37.05 You know, I read this and I must tell you, 00:23:37.11\00:23:40.38 I just bow before the magnitude of this father's grief. 00:23:40.42\00:23:44.75 The pain, 00:23:44.79\00:23:46.12 the love, the loss, 00:23:49.72\00:23:54.13 you can say to me, hey, hey, Dwight, 00:23:54.20\00:23:56.20 God is love and, you know, I think I get it. 00:23:56.23\00:24:00.84 You can say to me, you know the Bible says, 00:24:00.87\00:24:02.84 for God so loved the world, and I think I can grasp it. 00:24:02.87\00:24:07.41 But when a father sobs out His love 00:24:07.48\00:24:09.41 from such brokenness like this. 00:24:09.44\00:24:13.31 Yo, somehow, 00:24:13.35\00:24:15.88 we're faintly able to grasp the stark truth 00:24:15.92\00:24:22.62 about God's love, 00:24:22.66\00:24:24.03 and we dare to wonder, 00:24:27.00\00:24:28.36 is it possible that God loves us 00:24:28.40\00:24:32.60 even more than this? 00:24:32.63\00:24:37.17 Open your Bible with me to Romans 5. 00:24:37.21\00:24:41.38 It's not a strange passage, 00:24:41.41\00:24:42.78 you may have read it before Romans 5, 00:24:42.81\00:24:45.98 our passage for this harmony. 00:24:46.01\00:24:50.99 Romans 5, 00:24:51.02\00:24:52.85 I'll be in the New International Version. 00:24:52.89\00:24:54.22 You didn't bring your Bible, you got to see this. 00:24:54.26\00:24:55.59 Don't read it on the screen. 00:24:55.62\00:24:56.99 Pull the pew Bible out in front of you, 00:24:57.03\00:24:58.36 you'll be page 760 in the pew Bible. 00:24:58.39\00:25:02.76 Romans 5, I want to read verse 8. 00:25:02.80\00:25:04.73 "But God..." 00:25:07.90\00:25:09.24 You see that? 00:25:09.27\00:25:10.61 "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: 00:25:10.64\00:25:15.51 While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." 00:25:15.54\00:25:20.92 Won't you go back to verse 6? 00:25:20.95\00:25:22.65 "You see, at just the right time, 00:25:22.68\00:25:24.12 when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly." 00:25:24.19\00:25:27.79 Now comes verse 7, 00:25:27.82\00:25:29.16 "Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, 00:25:29.19\00:25:31.39 though for a good person 00:25:31.43\00:25:32.86 someone might possibly dare to die." 00:25:32.89\00:25:34.76 But here comes verse 8 again, 00:25:34.83\00:25:36.40 " God demonstrates his own love for us in this: 00:25:36.43\00:25:39.93 While we were still sinners, Christ died for us." 00:25:40.00\00:25:44.84 Verse 10 "For if, while we were God's enemies, 00:25:44.87\00:25:47.94 we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, 00:25:47.98\00:25:50.65 how much more, having been reconciled, 00:25:50.71\00:25:53.72 shall we be saved through his life!" 00:25:53.78\00:25:56.48 What you and I have just read 00:25:56.52\00:25:58.25 iterated three times is the profound time 00:25:58.29\00:26:01.09 line of the gospel. 00:26:01.12\00:26:02.66 Did you catch it? 00:26:02.69\00:26:04.06 We just read it. 00:26:04.09\00:26:05.43 Want you to go grab your study guide, 00:26:05.46\00:26:06.80 I want you go get this. This is a huge point. 00:26:06.83\00:26:08.83 Absolutely essential to catch. 00:26:08.86\00:26:10.97 The time line of the gospel. 00:26:11.00\00:26:12.33 Your study guide, by the way, is stuck into your 00:26:12.37\00:26:13.74 New Year Bulletin. 00:26:13.77\00:26:15.10 You don't have one? We got some ushers here. 00:26:15.14\00:26:16.47 Thank you ushers, if you would bring 00:26:16.50\00:26:17.84 some study guides up and down these rows, 00:26:17.87\00:26:19.81 just hold your hand up and then usher will come your way. 00:26:19.84\00:26:24.08 I suppose we have to throw the tile slide up 00:26:24.15\00:26:25.48 one more time, put it on the screen. 00:26:25.51\00:26:29.55 There it is, 00:26:29.58\00:26:31.39 those of you watching on a television, 00:26:31.42\00:26:33.12 or a laptop or wherever. 00:26:33.15\00:26:36.29 If it's not live streaming, 00:26:36.32\00:26:37.66 our website is www.pmchurch.tv 00:26:37.69\00:26:40.10 you're looking for little series, 00:26:40.13\00:26:42.03 it takes us into the first Sabbaths of this new season, 00:26:42.06\00:26:44.83 Charmed into Righteousness. 00:26:44.87\00:26:47.10 Last Sabbath, The Only Savior, today, 00:26:47.14\00:26:49.34 The Truest Friend, and you look, 00:26:49.37\00:26:50.81 those of you live streaming 00:26:50.87\00:26:52.21 you've have written and they're saying, 00:26:52.24\00:26:53.58 "Hey, where we find the study guide?" 00:26:53.61\00:26:54.94 Just go down, go down below, 00:26:54.98\00:26:56.31 beneath the image, it's on your screen right now, 00:26:56.34\00:26:57.68 and you'll see the study guide is right there. 00:26:57.71\00:26:59.68 All right, let's go. 00:26:59.71\00:27:01.12 Three iterations of this profound time liners, 00:27:01.15\00:27:03.18 jot it down, verse 6, 00:27:03.22\00:27:04.65 "While we were still powerless." 00:27:04.69\00:27:06.32 write in the word powerless, we read that in verse 6. 00:27:06.35\00:27:08.92 Two verses later, verse 8 "While we were still sinners." 00:27:08.96\00:27:12.19 Paul writes, and then two verses later, verse 10 00:27:12.23\00:27:14.10 "While we were still enemies." 00:27:14.13\00:27:18.33 Three times, three iterations of the single timeline 00:27:18.37\00:27:21.27 with one truth, jot it down, 00:27:21.30\00:27:22.87 "God loved us before," that's a huge point. 00:27:22.90\00:27:27.31 "Before we were loveable," while we were still a rotten, 00:27:27.38\00:27:33.72 unlovely mess, He loved us. 00:27:33.75\00:27:37.95 I'm telling you what. 00:27:37.99\00:27:39.99 This is a big deal when you consider 00:27:40.06\00:27:41.39 our social media postings these days. 00:27:41.42\00:27:43.53 Come on, everybody's on social media now. 00:27:43.56\00:27:45.33 They just released January 1 by the way, 00:27:45.36\00:27:46.70 the top ten social media sites and guess who is number one? 00:27:46.73\00:27:50.13 Of course 1.1 billion human beings, 00:27:50.17\00:27:52.20 Facebook and underneath it Twitter, 00:27:52.23\00:27:55.00 about 250 million and then on down. 00:27:55.04\00:27:57.67 So everybody's into social media now. 00:27:57.71\00:28:00.31 But they're doing research now on our postings 00:28:00.34\00:28:02.24 and guess what they're finding out? 00:28:02.28\00:28:03.61 As I wrote in today's blog, don't read it now, 00:28:03.68\00:28:05.71 they're finding out that in fact, 00:28:05.75\00:28:07.25 we act like we're curators in the museum. 00:28:07.28\00:28:09.08 You know what a curator does? 00:28:09.12\00:28:11.29 What he does is he says... 00:28:11.32\00:28:13.25 she says, "I'm gonna put the pizzazz out front, 00:28:13.29\00:28:16.12 I'll hide the ugly stuff in the back." 00:28:16.16\00:28:18.36 Curators arrange, they put the best up front. 00:28:18.39\00:28:21.73 We are curating our own self images, 00:28:21.76\00:28:24.63 that's what they're finding out. 00:28:24.67\00:28:26.17 This is fascinating, it's in your study guide, 00:28:26.20\00:28:27.97 the quote, put it on the screen for you. 00:28:28.00\00:28:29.37 Walt Mueller describes those of us 00:28:29.40\00:28:32.64 who are third Millennials this identity formation 00:28:32.67\00:28:35.71 that we all practice. 00:28:35.74\00:28:37.65 These are His words on the screen, 00:28:37.68\00:28:39.15 "For digital natives 00:28:39.18\00:28:41.12 living out their lives in an online world, 00:28:41.15\00:28:43.25 the identity options 00:28:43.28\00:28:44.99 from which to choose are virtually limitless. 00:28:45.02\00:28:47.72 Kids, and I add the words and adults are able to perform 00:28:47.76\00:28:51.06 through a growing multitude of social media sites 00:28:51.09\00:28:54.00 by choosing the words they post," 00:28:54.00\00:28:56.40 might be true, might false, 00:28:56.43\00:28:57.87 "by posing and photo-shopping themselves into images 00:28:57.90\00:29:00.87 that don't come close to who they really are." 00:29:00.90\00:29:04.04 As media critic Quentin Schultze observed, 00:29:04.07\00:29:06.71 'The digital world suffocates virtue by allowing us 00:29:06.74\00:29:10.08 unbridled freedom to be all things to all people. 00:29:10.11\00:29:15.18 To give ourselves over to the highest bidder 00:29:15.22\00:29:17.55 or to the most persuasive master." 00:29:17.62\00:29:21.29 ' Hey, guys, why do we do it? 00:29:21.32\00:29:22.66 Young or aged, why do we do it? 00:29:22.69\00:29:24.16 You know why? 00:29:24.19\00:29:25.53 Because we're convinced that little low me, you kidding, 00:29:25.56\00:29:27.96 weird as I am, 00:29:27.96\00:29:29.50 these are the stuff I don't do, the cool I am not, 00:29:29.53\00:29:32.63 nobody would be attracted to me, 00:29:32.67\00:29:34.40 but if I rephotoshop myself, 00:29:34.44\00:29:37.34 now you want to be a friend, now you will follow. 00:29:37.41\00:29:40.98 Yeah, that's the point. 00:29:41.01\00:29:42.34 A friend of me, 00:29:42.38\00:29:43.75 a friend of mine gave me Michael Horton's newest book, 00:29:43.78\00:29:48.02 fascinating title by the way, I'm working my way through it, 00:29:48.05\00:29:50.79 Ordinary, Sustainable Faith in a Radical Restless World. 00:29:50.82\00:29:54.16 You have the quote as well. 00:29:54.19\00:29:55.59 He's quoting a psychiatrist now, okay? 00:29:55.62\00:29:58.09 So some bright minds are looking at these postings, 00:29:58.13\00:30:00.10 a psychiatrist. 00:30:00.13\00:30:01.43 Put the words on the screen. 00:30:01.46\00:30:02.80 The name of the psychiatrist, Keith Ablow, 00:30:02.83\00:30:04.57 he warns based on recent studies. 00:30:04.60\00:30:07.30 He warns of quote, now I'm quoting the psychiatrist, 00:30:07.34\00:30:09.97 "The toxic psychological impact of media and technology 00:30:10.01\00:30:14.04 on children, adolescents, and young adults, 00:30:14.08\00:30:17.01 and not so young adults, I add, 00:30:17.05\00:30:18.78 particularly as it regards 00:30:18.81\00:30:20.58 turning them into faux, or fake celebrities, 00:30:20.62\00:30:24.05 the equivalent of lead actors 00:30:24.09\00:30:25.85 in their own fictionalized life stories. 00:30:25.89\00:30:28.59 On Facebook, young, and not so young people, 00:30:28.62\00:30:31.03 can fool themselves into thinking 00:30:31.06\00:30:32.56 they have hundreds or thousands of friends. 00:30:32.59\00:30:34.83 They can delete unflattering comments. 00:30:34.86\00:30:36.60 They can block anyone who disagrees with them 00:30:36.63\00:30:38.10 or pokes holes in their inflated self-esteem. 00:30:38.13\00:30:40.87 Using Twitter, young, and not so young people, 00:30:40.90\00:30:43.27 can pretend they are worth ''following," 00:30:43.34\00:30:45.34 as though they have real-life fans, 00:30:45.37\00:30:47.91 when all that is really happening is the mutual fanning 00:30:47.94\00:30:51.45 of false love and false fame." 00:30:51.48\00:30:53.95 Ouch! 00:30:53.98\00:30:55.32 Why you all nodding your heads? 00:30:59.29\00:31:01.86 'Cause it's true. 00:31:01.89\00:31:04.59 Which makes Romans 5 timeline 00:31:04.63\00:31:07.30 even more stunning because before we could, 00:31:07.30\00:31:10.53 before we had the time to photoshop ourselves, 00:31:10.57\00:31:12.67 to make ourselves attracted to God, 00:31:12.70\00:31:14.14 while we were still a rotten unlovely mess. 00:31:14.20\00:31:17.21 God saw us and he said, "You, I love." 00:31:17.27\00:31:22.11 While we were still sinners, while we were still enemies, 00:31:22.14\00:31:24.55 while we were still powerless, I loved you. 00:31:24.58\00:31:29.05 And I said I want that girl, 00:31:29.08\00:31:31.49 I want that boy for my friend. 00:31:31.52\00:31:36.62 Romans 5:8, 00:31:36.69\00:31:38.69 "But God demonstrates his own love toward us in this: 00:31:38.73\00:31:43.30 While we were still sinners, 00:31:43.33\00:31:45.47 Christ came down, and died for us." 00:31:45.50\00:31:48.54 And by the way, did you catch that, 00:31:48.57\00:31:49.94 it's not just Jesus who loves us. 00:31:49.97\00:31:52.04 It's almost like Jesus who loves us and the father 00:31:52.07\00:31:53.84 ticked off at us, it's not true. 00:31:53.91\00:31:57.21 "God Himself has demonstrated His love 00:31:57.28\00:32:01.72 for the likes of you and me, 00:32:01.75\00:32:03.08 while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." 00:32:03.12\00:32:05.62 By the way, in contradistinction to 00:32:05.65\00:32:07.66 when we became good, then Christ died for us. 00:32:07.69\00:32:11.59 Wrong. 00:32:11.63\00:32:14.83 The before, the before is absolutely critical, 00:32:14.86\00:32:18.47 in fact jot it down. 00:32:18.50\00:32:19.83 "The Father loved us and Christ died for us before, 00:32:19.87\00:32:22.67 before we could spiritually photoshop ourselves 00:32:22.70\00:32:24.87 into some sort of attractive state. 00:32:24.91\00:32:27.44 Are you kidding? 00:32:27.48\00:32:28.81 God, God exclaims to Israel, are you kidding? 00:32:28.84\00:32:30.81 You think, I chose you because you're attracted? 00:32:30.85\00:32:33.28 Ezekiel Chapter 16, I'm not gonna read it here. 00:32:36.85\00:32:39.79 I give you the references, the verses there, 00:32:39.82\00:32:41.39 it's just very stunning. 00:32:41.42\00:32:43.63 You keep your finger here in Romans 5. 00:32:43.69\00:32:45.03 I'll just pick up a line, 00:32:45.06\00:32:46.39 'cause I haven't marked it, so I'll get to it quick. 00:32:46.43\00:32:48.56 God says, hey, hey, hey, I want to tell you something, 00:32:48.60\00:32:50.43 Israel, yo, you people think you're the chosen ones? 00:32:50.50\00:32:53.13 Listen up. 00:32:53.17\00:32:54.57 On the day you were born, your cord was not cut, okay. 00:32:54.60\00:32:57.14 So there's a little baby with umbilical cord dragging around. 00:32:57.17\00:32:59.51 That was you. 00:32:59.54\00:33:01.88 Your cord was not cut, 00:33:01.91\00:33:03.24 nor were you washed with water to make you clean, 00:33:03.28\00:33:04.81 nor were you rub with salt or wrapped in cloths. 00:33:04.85\00:33:07.82 So when the boy Jesus is born, like all good Hebrew mothers, 00:33:07.85\00:33:11.35 washed with salt, clean 00:33:11.39\00:33:13.22 and then wrap with swaddling cloths, 00:33:13.25\00:33:14.89 not clothes, it's cloths. 00:33:14.92\00:33:16.26 That was the way Jesus gave. 00:33:16.29\00:33:18.79 "No one looked at you guys said 00:33:18.83\00:33:20.40 he's talking to his chosen ones, 00:33:20.43\00:33:21.73 no one looked on you with pity, or had compassion enough 00:33:21.76\00:33:23.67 to do any of these things for you. 00:33:23.73\00:33:26.37 You were thrown out in the open field, 00:33:26.40\00:33:28.10 from the day you were born, you were despised. 00:33:28.14\00:33:30.07 Nobody wanted you," 00:33:30.11\00:33:31.44 do you understand that? 00:33:31.47\00:33:32.81 Nobody and, "then I pass by," oh, this is yuck. 00:33:32.84\00:33:36.58 "Then I pass by and I saw you kicking about in your blood 00:33:36.61\00:33:41.15 and as you little girl, as you little boy, 00:33:41.18\00:33:43.95 lay there in your blood. 00:33:43.99\00:33:45.42 I said you live, 00:33:45.45\00:33:47.89 in the next verse, 00:33:47.92\00:33:49.26 he says and I took a corner of my garment 00:33:49.29\00:33:50.79 and I put that corner of my garment over you 00:33:50.83\00:33:52.79 and that's a covenant, you and I 00:33:52.83\00:33:54.13 are gonna be married one day." 00:33:54.20\00:33:55.50 Grow up girl, grow up boy, 00:33:55.53\00:33:57.33 we're gonna be married, you and me. 00:33:57.40\00:34:00.37 And you began to grow, puberty set in, 00:34:00.44\00:34:02.14 and that's the actual language in the NIV, 00:34:02.17\00:34:03.51 "puberty set in." 00:34:03.54\00:34:06.68 You became rather attractive 00:34:06.71\00:34:09.44 and then what did you do? 00:34:09.48\00:34:12.18 "But you trusted in your beauty," 00:34:12.21\00:34:13.55 verse 15, "And you used your fame 00:34:13.62\00:34:15.28 to become a prostitute 00:34:15.32\00:34:17.82 and all your detestable practices." 00:34:17.85\00:34:19.62 Verse 22, "You and your prostitution, 00:34:19.65\00:34:21.36 you did not remember the days you were youth. 00:34:21.39\00:34:23.46 You didn't remember what you were 00:34:23.53\00:34:24.86 before you were photoshopped. 00:34:24.89\00:34:26.23 When you were naked and bare, 00:34:26.26\00:34:27.60 and kicking about in your blood." 00:34:27.60\00:34:30.03 Not a very pretty picture of the God who says, 00:34:30.07\00:34:32.80 when you were that, I loved you. 00:34:32.83\00:34:36.34 Boy, that word before is absolutely a big deal. 00:34:36.37\00:34:40.14 The timeline of the gospel before, 00:34:40.18\00:34:42.88 before, you became who you are. 00:34:42.91\00:34:46.78 When you were still rotten, unlovely and a mess, 00:34:46.82\00:34:50.25 I loved you. 00:34:50.29\00:34:51.89 In fact, Paul makes the same point in Romans, 00:34:51.92\00:34:54.69 your fingers are already there in Romans 5. 00:34:54.72\00:34:56.06 But just turn a few pages back to Romans 3. 00:34:56.09\00:35:01.46 I'll just read a few lines here. 00:35:01.50\00:35:02.83 Paul says, I'm gonna get away the, 00:35:02.86\00:35:04.20 get all the blood and mucous out of the story 00:35:04.27\00:35:05.60 and the umbilical cord is not cut, 00:35:05.63\00:35:06.97 I'll just leave all that out. 00:35:07.04\00:35:08.37 I'll just tell you the truth, morally, here's your picture. 00:35:08.40\00:35:10.11 Verse 10, Romans 3:10, 00:35:10.14\00:35:11.47 "As it is written:" 00:35:11.51\00:35:12.84 These are all quotations from the Old Testament. 00:35:12.87\00:35:14.21 "There is no one righteous, not even one, 00:35:14.24\00:35:17.15 there is no one who understands, 00:35:17.18\00:35:18.51 there is no one who seeks God." 00:35:18.55\00:35:19.88 Nobody on this planet. 00:35:19.91\00:35:21.25 "All, verse 12, have turned away, 00:35:21.28\00:35:23.05 they have together become worthless, 00:35:23.08\00:35:24.95 there is no one who does good, not even one. 00:35:24.99\00:35:28.06 Your throats are open graves, your tongues practice deceit. 00:35:28.09\00:35:31.03 The poison of vipers is on your lips. 00:35:31.06\00:35:32.96 Your mouths are full of cursing and bitterness.' 00:35:32.99\00:35:34.86 ' And yadda yadda yadda, that's you. 00:35:34.93\00:35:38.33 So the timeline is crucial for us to get. 00:35:38.37\00:35:44.64 Three iterations to drive home the profound truth 00:35:44.67\00:35:49.04 that God loved us and die for us, 00:35:49.08\00:35:50.71 while we were still a rotten, unlovely mess. 00:35:50.75\00:35:55.62 God demonstrates His own love toward us and this, 00:35:55.65\00:35:59.22 while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. 00:35:59.25\00:36:04.16 You know, when it comes to advertising. 00:36:04.19\00:36:05.73 Don't you just love all these little pop-up ads 00:36:05.76\00:36:07.46 in the internet and billboards? 00:36:07.50\00:36:10.67 When it comes to advertising, marketing, Madison Avenue, 00:36:10.70\00:36:13.64 there's a little adage 00:36:13.67\00:36:15.00 we've all learned as human beings 00:36:15.04\00:36:16.40 and you know it as well. 00:36:16.44\00:36:17.77 If it seems too good to be true it, 00:36:17.81\00:36:22.08 how does it ago? 00:36:22.11\00:36:23.45 Usually is too good to be true. 00:36:23.48\00:36:27.02 But Desmond Ford comes along in his 00:36:27.05\00:36:29.82 short little commentary on Romans entitled, 00:36:29.85\00:36:31.82 Right With God, Right Now. 00:36:31.85\00:36:33.59 Says that's not the way it is with the gospel. 00:36:33.66\00:36:35.76 That may be Madison Avenue in marketing, 00:36:35.79\00:36:37.56 but the gospel, 00:36:37.63\00:36:38.96 here are Ford's words on the screen for you. 00:36:38.99\00:36:40.33 With the gospel it's the opposite, 00:36:40.36\00:36:42.40 as Madison Avenue. 00:36:42.43\00:36:43.77 It must be true, the gospel because it's so good, 00:36:43.83\00:36:47.20 in fact and I'd never seen this before 00:36:47.24\00:36:48.84 the word God is just a contraction of the word good. 00:36:48.87\00:36:52.01 So take the word good, 00:36:52.04\00:36:53.38 drop an o out of it boom, you got God. 00:36:53.44\00:36:55.51 But guess what it works the same way with the devil. 00:36:55.54\00:36:57.65 The word, devil is just an expansion of the word evil. 00:36:57.68\00:37:01.18 So you got evil, 00:37:01.22\00:37:02.58 then you put a d in front of it and you got devil. 00:37:02.62\00:37:06.79 Those are your choices, no man can serve two, 00:37:06.82\00:37:09.32 you can't, there's no third, its just these, this New Year. 00:37:09.36\00:37:12.29 Those are your choices. 00:37:12.33\00:37:15.26 Ford goes on, God is good, 00:37:15.30\00:37:18.17 gooder, I like that, 00:37:18.20\00:37:19.53 gooder than we could ever think, 00:37:19.57\00:37:21.24 just as we are worser than we ever thought. 00:37:21.27\00:37:24.34 You have to keep the two at equipoise. 00:37:24.37\00:37:27.18 God, he writes is better than we ever considered, 00:37:27.21\00:37:29.54 we are worse than we ever suspected. 00:37:29.58\00:37:32.98 That God demonstrated His own love for us 00:37:33.01\00:37:35.98 in this while we were still sinners, 00:37:36.02\00:37:38.05 Christ died for us, while we were still sinners. 00:37:38.09\00:37:42.29 Wow! 00:37:42.32\00:37:45.16 At last we conclude that 00:37:45.19\00:37:46.53 this divine love is some sort of, you know, 00:37:46.56\00:37:47.86 sterile love, it isn't guys, okay, 00:37:47.93\00:37:49.90 look, look, look, look. 00:37:49.93\00:37:51.27 God says look at... 00:37:51.30\00:37:52.63 I am love, that's true. 00:37:52.67\00:37:54.00 I am love, but I'm telling you 00:37:54.04\00:37:55.37 this is not an easy thing for me to love you. 00:37:55.40\00:37:56.77 Take a look at yourself please, I will go ahead, 00:37:56.81\00:37:59.27 no, no, don't worry, I will go ahead, 00:37:59.31\00:38:01.01 because I have to, because I'm love. 00:38:01.04\00:38:02.54 I'm not really into this, I don't have my heart in it. 00:38:02.58\00:38:04.91 Are you kidding? 00:38:04.95\00:38:06.28 Do you think it's that way? 00:38:06.31\00:38:07.75 Exact opposite, according to scripture, 00:38:07.78\00:38:10.02 John Peckham teaches philosophy and theology 00:38:10.05\00:38:13.09 over theological seminary. 00:38:13.12\00:38:14.82 His brand new book, just came out, 00:38:14.86\00:38:17.16 The Love of God: A Canonical Model. 00:38:17.19\00:38:19.69 Quoted from it last week. 00:38:19.73\00:38:21.60 Number one reader's choice, for the IVP Academic Press, 00:38:21.63\00:38:25.73 number one choice of readers. 00:38:25.77\00:38:28.47 John Peckham says, hey guys, 00:38:28.50\00:38:31.14 you got to see what the scripture 00:38:31.17\00:38:32.51 says of God's love, 00:38:32.54\00:38:33.88 I will put it on the screen, this is beautiful, 00:38:33.91\00:38:35.81 scripture presents God as affectionate. 00:38:35.84\00:38:39.18 Ever think that God is affectionate? 00:38:39.21\00:38:40.72 As affectionate and loving, 00:38:40.75\00:38:42.65 devotedly interested 00:38:42.68\00:38:44.02 and intimately concerned about humans, 00:38:44.09\00:38:46.55 affected by the world in feeling joy 00:38:46.59\00:38:49.79 and delight in goodness, yet feeling sorrow, 00:38:49.82\00:38:52.19 passion and intense anger, 00:38:52.23\00:38:53.60 alongside feeling profound compassion 00:38:53.63\00:38:56.13 and the desire to redeem humans. 00:38:56.16\00:38:58.03 Now it's true, while none can overpower God, 00:38:58.07\00:39:01.47 he is affected by worldly events. 00:39:01.50\00:39:04.67 Crisis, tragedies, He's affected by it 00:39:04.71\00:39:07.61 because He's willingly opened Himself up 00:39:07.64\00:39:09.98 to reciprocal love relationship with creatures. 00:39:10.01\00:39:13.95 You know what reciprocal means, don't you? 00:39:13.98\00:39:17.02 One on one, we give. 00:39:17.05\00:39:18.39 We each give, all right. 00:39:18.42\00:39:19.75 One more line, God enjoys 00:39:19.79\00:39:21.62 and is deeply affected by reciprocal 00:39:21.66\00:39:25.63 though asymmetrical, that means there is huge love 00:39:25.66\00:39:28.03 over here on God's part, 00:39:28.06\00:39:29.40 tiny little love on my part and this is not even-steven. 00:39:29.43\00:39:31.50 It's really asymmetrical, 00:39:31.53\00:39:33.44 but God is affected by reciprocal 00:39:33.47\00:39:36.60 relationship with humans, end point. 00:39:36.64\00:39:40.71 Wow, case in point by the way, what we just read, verse 10 00:39:40.78\00:39:43.21 here on Romans Chapter 5, let me read it to you 00:39:43.24\00:39:45.11 in the Today's English Version or the Good News translation, 00:39:45.15\00:39:47.95 put it on the screen for you. 00:39:47.98\00:39:49.32 I love the way they translate, verse 10, here it goes. 00:39:49.35\00:39:52.62 "We were God's enemies, 00:39:52.65\00:39:55.49 but he made us his friends through the death of his Son. 00:39:55.52\00:39:58.73 Now that we are God's friends, 00:39:58.76\00:40:01.60 how much more will we be saved by Christ's life!" 00:40:01.63\00:40:05.23 And then I like verse 11 but that's not all, 00:40:05.27\00:40:07.04 we rejoice because of what has God done 00:40:07.10\00:40:08.94 through our Lord Jesus Christ 00:40:08.97\00:40:10.67 who has now made us God's friends. 00:40:10.71\00:40:14.28 I love that language, jot it down, 00:40:14.31\00:40:15.64 will you in your study guides, 00:40:15.68\00:40:17.01 so that you have this translation with you. 00:40:17.05\00:40:18.55 "We were God's enemies, but he made us his friends, 00:40:18.58\00:40:22.72 through the death of his son. 00:40:22.75\00:40:24.19 Now that we're God's friends, 00:40:24.25\00:40:27.36 how much more we will be saved by Christ's life!" 00:40:27.42\00:40:30.23 Peckham is absolutely right. 00:40:30.29\00:40:31.63 God enjoys, 00:40:31.66\00:40:32.99 He's deeply affected by this reciprocal. 00:40:33.03\00:40:36.03 One on one, relationship, friendship with you, 00:40:36.06\00:40:40.27 I mean come on, wasn't that Jesus' 00:40:40.30\00:40:41.64 point in the upper room less than 24 hours 00:40:41.67\00:40:43.00 before He was executed, 00:40:43.04\00:40:44.37 what did Jesus say? Put it on the screen for you. 00:40:44.41\00:40:45.97 Fill it in your study guide. 00:40:46.01\00:40:47.34 John 15, upper room, verse 13, 00:40:47.41\00:40:49.34 "Greater love has no one than this: 00:40:49.38\00:40:51.78 to lay down one's life for one's," 00:40:51.81\00:40:53.65 what's the next word? 00:40:53.68\00:40:55.02 "Friends," keep writing. 00:40:55.05\00:40:57.35 "You are my," 00:40:57.42\00:40:58.82 what's the next word? 00:40:58.85\00:41:00.26 "Friends, if you do what I command." 00:41:00.29\00:41:03.19 And oh, by the way, 00:41:03.22\00:41:04.56 everybody in the upper room has already pledged to do 00:41:04.59\00:41:05.93 whatever their master commands, you count on me, 00:41:05.96\00:41:07.66 Peter says, "Yes, sir, I'm with you till death." 00:41:07.66\00:41:10.13 And what does Peter do in a few hours? 00:41:10.17\00:41:11.87 Cursing the name of his friend, he denies Him. 00:41:11.90\00:41:16.50 By the way, the gospel says, all the disciples fled. 00:41:16.54\00:41:19.87 All of them fled. 00:41:19.91\00:41:23.41 And just hours after resurrection, 00:41:23.45\00:41:24.78 what does Thomas say? 00:41:24.81\00:41:26.15 I don't believe it, I don't believe it, doubtsome. 00:41:26.18\00:41:29.65 You are my friends. 00:41:29.68\00:41:31.69 Yo, Lord did you say that to those guys, 00:41:31.72\00:41:34.06 you got to be kidding me? 00:41:34.12\00:41:35.46 You're not saying that about us, are you? 00:41:35.49\00:41:36.83 We're the same. 00:41:36.86\00:41:38.23 I mean please, friends, 00:41:38.26\00:41:40.96 you call us friends? 00:41:40.96\00:41:45.57 God, You have this exclusive 00:41:45.60\00:41:47.17 one on one reciprocal, reciprocal. 00:41:47.20\00:41:51.97 Romans 5:10, 00:41:52.01\00:41:53.34 I'm gonna read it again one more time, 00:41:53.41\00:41:54.74 "We were God's enemies, 00:41:54.78\00:41:56.11 but he made us his friends through the death of his Son. 00:41:56.14\00:41:58.01 Now we are God's friends, 00:41:58.05\00:42:00.32 now that we are how much more 00:42:00.35\00:42:01.68 will we be saved by Christ's life!" 00:42:01.72\00:42:04.12 Clark Rowland was absolutely right, 00:42:04.19\00:42:06.22 "God is a Being questing for friends." 00:42:06.25\00:42:09.36 Used to say that to me, 00:42:09.39\00:42:10.73 God is a Being questing for friends. 00:42:10.76\00:42:13.80 It's over the holiday break. 00:42:13.83\00:42:16.20 I took my little, my dad to Argentina for a week 00:42:16.23\00:42:18.07 and then LA for a week. 00:42:18.10\00:42:19.47 I took along my little Steps to Christ. 00:42:19.50\00:42:23.51 And I say, you know, 00:42:23.57\00:42:24.91 I'm gonna read a chapter at a time, 00:42:24.94\00:42:26.27 I'm looking for all the words, 00:42:26.31\00:42:27.64 Love or derivatives of love 00:42:27.68\00:42:29.01 and just putting a little mark on the margin. 00:42:29.04\00:42:31.48 You know what, it occurs to me, guys, 00:42:31.51\00:42:33.31 that if you wanted to, 00:42:33.38\00:42:35.92 you could do a lot worse at the beginning of the new year 00:42:35.95\00:42:38.22 than reading a chapter whenever you have the time, 00:42:38.25\00:42:40.92 just a chapter at a time for this little classic. 00:42:40.96\00:42:44.53 And on page 100, 00:42:44.56\00:42:46.13 how that's an easy reference to remember, page 100. 00:42:46.16\00:42:49.20 Let me read this for you. 00:42:49.23\00:42:51.07 It's in your study guide, I put it on the screen as well. 00:42:51.10\00:42:53.37 Isn't this something, 00:42:53.40\00:42:55.24 "The relations between God and each soul are as distinct 00:42:55.27\00:43:00.08 and full as though there were not another soul 00:43:00.11\00:43:02.78 upon the earth to share his watchcare, 00:43:02.81\00:43:04.75 not another soul for whom he gave his beloved Son." 00:43:04.78\00:43:11.42 The truth about Jesus' love for you, 00:43:11.45\00:43:12.79 the truth about the Father's love for you, is either, 00:43:12.82\00:43:14.29 I don't know how God does this, 00:43:14.32\00:43:15.66 but He is able to zone out, zone out everybody else 00:43:15.69\00:43:18.66 in the universe and he says if you're the only human being. 00:43:18.69\00:43:21.16 You're the only one, you and I, that's it. 00:43:21.20\00:43:24.07 Reciprocal, you ever call these 800 numbers and need help, huh? 00:43:24.13\00:43:27.87 800 numbers, toll-free, you call the number, 00:43:27.90\00:43:30.17 operator gets on and you can hear a hundred other voices. 00:43:30.21\00:43:32.51 Everybody, yak, yak, yak, yak, yak. 00:43:32.54\00:43:34.31 You get some young man in India 00:43:34.34\00:43:35.91 or some woman in the United States 00:43:35.94\00:43:37.31 and you're trying to explain 00:43:37.35\00:43:38.68 and you know this is what I need. 00:43:38.71\00:43:40.92 God says I'm not that way, 00:43:40.95\00:43:42.52 I'm not an 800 number 00:43:42.55\00:43:43.89 where I got a bunch of operators taking these calls. 00:43:43.95\00:43:45.75 I take every call myself and I can take them simultaneously, 00:43:45.79\00:43:48.89 and it feels to you as if there's 00:43:48.92\00:43:50.83 nobody else in the world. 00:43:50.89\00:43:52.23 I'm only talking to you. 00:43:52.26\00:43:54.60 Wow, wow. 00:43:54.63\00:43:57.43 As if there were no other soul on earth, 00:43:57.50\00:44:00.57 that's the truth. 00:44:00.64\00:44:02.20 No wonder, you can call him your friend, 00:44:02.24\00:44:05.97 F.R.I.E.N.D - friend. 00:44:06.01\00:44:10.75 In fact, jot these down. 00:44:10.78\00:44:12.11 Jot them down as fast I can read them. 00:44:12.15\00:44:13.55 These are just from Steps to Christ, Boom! 00:44:13.62\00:44:15.05 Boom! Boom! 00:44:15.08\00:44:16.42 Talking about the friendship with God, here we go, 00:44:16.45\00:44:17.79 I'm not even gonna read the page number. 00:44:17.82\00:44:19.15 Steps to Christ, here's the line. 00:44:19.19\00:44:20.56 "Jesus is our Friend," 00:44:20.59\00:44:21.96 capital F, "friend and Savior still." 00:44:21.99\00:44:24.83 Here's another one. 00:44:24.86\00:44:26.19 "What a precious friend, we have found in Jesus." 00:44:26.23\00:44:30.17 Here's another one. 00:44:30.23\00:44:31.57 "Prayer is the opening of the heart to God 00:44:31.60\00:44:32.93 as to a what? 00:44:32.97\00:44:34.74 As to a friend." 00:44:34.77\00:44:36.10 Here's another one. 00:44:36.14\00:44:37.47 "He, God the Father is our best friend." 00:44:37.51\00:44:40.64 Write in the word best. 00:44:40.68\00:44:42.21 And one more from Steps to Christ. 00:44:42.24\00:44:43.71 "Jesus is our friend." 00:44:43.75\00:44:48.12 Same author by the way. 00:44:48.15\00:44:49.48 In a letter she wrote on May 24, 1905, Ellen White, 00:44:49.52\00:44:52.42 personal letter to a woman. 00:44:52.45\00:44:53.82 "My dearest child Mabel," 00:44:53.86\00:44:55.66 you need to fill this in. 00:44:55.69\00:44:57.03 "O that we all realized that 00:44:57.09\00:44:59.09 true happiness is found in taking Christ 00:44:59.13\00:45:01.60 as our nearest and dearest friend." 00:45:01.63\00:45:05.13 Boy I love that, nearest and dearest friend. 00:45:05.17\00:45:11.04 "He loves you and will be your sympathizing," 00:45:11.07\00:45:14.08 write it in, 00:45:14.11\00:45:15.44 "your sympathizing friend." 00:45:15.48\00:45:18.65 And then here comes Adventist home, 00:45:18.68\00:45:20.02 this is great, are there any mothers here today? 00:45:20.05\00:45:22.92 Any mothers? 00:45:22.95\00:45:24.69 Look at this, 00:45:24.72\00:45:26.05 "Jesus knows the burdens of every mother's heart 00:45:26.09\00:45:28.72 and is her best friend." 00:45:28.76\00:45:33.60 Let's expand this circle. 00:45:33.63\00:45:35.16 Are there any women here today? 00:45:35.20\00:45:37.53 Any women here? 00:45:37.57\00:45:39.17 Because the next line same page is for you. 00:45:39.20\00:45:41.34 Here it goes, 00:45:41.37\00:45:44.37 "He, Jesus, is woman's best friend today 00:45:44.41\00:45:48.14 and is ready to aid her in all the relations of life.' 00:45:48.18\00:45:50.51 ' And even in the sophisticated west, 00:45:50.55\00:45:52.08 where we proud ourselves, oh man, 00:45:52.11\00:45:53.48 we're all gender, gender equal around here, 00:45:53.52\00:45:55.88 even here, when women are maligned 00:45:55.92\00:45:59.15 and shoved to the side, we just don't talk about it. 00:45:59.19\00:46:03.49 There's somebody who will always be your friend. 00:46:03.56\00:46:08.66 One more I got to share this with you, 00:46:08.70\00:46:10.07 same author, in a letter to an aged. 00:46:10.10\00:46:11.60 Anybody aged here? 00:46:11.63\00:46:13.54 I guess they were all in the first service. 00:46:13.57\00:46:16.57 Let me share this with you. 00:46:16.60\00:46:18.77 So in a letter to an aged Christian, same author. 00:46:18.81\00:46:21.88 "Just rest in Jesus' arms," and this is the best, 00:46:21.91\00:46:24.71 "just rest in Jesus' arms and know that 00:46:24.75\00:46:26.35 He is your Savior and your," 00:46:26.38\00:46:27.72 write it down, 00:46:27.75\00:46:29.08 "very best Friend," 00:46:29.12\00:46:31.22 he is your BFF forever and ever. 00:46:31.25\00:46:37.66 Your very best friend, in the whole wide world, 00:46:37.69\00:46:43.23 in the entire universe, He is your very best friend. 00:46:43.26\00:46:49.40 I'm telling you what, guys, 00:46:49.44\00:46:50.77 it doesn't get any better than this. 00:46:50.81\00:46:52.14 Talking about Charmed into Righteousness, 00:46:52.17\00:46:53.58 who wouldn't want to be friends with the God 00:46:53.64\00:46:54.98 that thinks this of me? 00:46:55.01\00:46:56.34 I mean, can you imagine that? 00:46:56.38\00:46:59.75 Before I photoshopped myself up, 00:46:59.78\00:47:02.32 He wanted to be friends? 00:47:02.35\00:47:04.02 What's up with that? 00:47:04.05\00:47:07.76 I don't know this LA Times Father 00:47:07.79\00:47:10.46 who lost his daughter. 00:47:10.49\00:47:11.83 I don't know father Watson either, 00:47:14.63\00:47:20.97 but I tell you what? 00:47:21.00\00:47:22.34 Having heard their stories and I read this testimony, 00:47:22.37\00:47:28.18 my heart aches with him. 00:47:28.21\00:47:31.38 My heart aches for that dad. 00:47:31.41\00:47:35.65 And I imagined in my simple way of thinking that, 00:47:35.68\00:47:38.42 if there were anybody on this planet 00:47:38.45\00:47:41.16 now that I could turn to in my own, 00:47:41.19\00:47:43.26 in my own herd, in my own dysfunction, 00:47:43.29\00:47:48.20 I could turn to this father, 00:47:48.23\00:47:51.43 and He have a heart and He somehow know. 00:47:51.47\00:47:55.64 There is a father in this universe who also lost 00:47:59.27\00:48:02.88 an only child, 00:48:02.91\00:48:05.05 a son, 00:48:05.08\00:48:06.41 he's the Father that says, 00:48:08.12\00:48:10.05 hey, I want to be your BFF. 00:48:10.12\00:48:14.02 I want to be your best friend forever. 00:48:14.09\00:48:17.69 Could we walk together this New Year?" 00:48:17.73\00:48:23.20 And I don't know about you, but I tell you what, 00:48:23.23\00:48:25.00 if you give me his phone number, 00:48:25.03\00:48:26.37 I promise you, 00:48:26.40\00:48:27.94 I'll be glad to call him 00:48:27.97\00:48:29.30 every single day of this New Year, 00:48:29.34\00:48:31.37 you give me his phone number, I'll call him. 00:48:31.41\00:48:34.01 Now look, I understand, He's busy, 00:48:34.08\00:48:35.51 He's got a whole universe to run, 00:48:35.54\00:48:37.35 but you can't tell me, 00:48:37.38\00:48:38.71 that somebody who has made that infinite a sacrifice 00:48:38.75\00:48:41.85 and investment in my life wouldn't love for the moments, 00:48:41.88\00:48:45.62 when he and I were alone and we just talk reciprocally, 00:48:45.65\00:48:49.09 you understand, one on one and heart to heart. 00:48:49.12\00:48:52.06 Give me His phone number. 00:48:52.09\00:48:53.43 You don't want to call Him, you give me His phone number. 00:48:53.50\00:48:55.26 I'll call him everyday. 00:48:55.30\00:48:57.13 And by the way, I understand 00:48:57.17\00:48:58.50 that I can't stay on the phone for forever, 00:48:58.53\00:48:59.87 you know, I have a life to live. 00:48:59.90\00:49:01.84 So you know what, 00:49:01.87\00:49:04.04 I'll get up earlier, 00:49:04.07\00:49:05.91 I'll get up when it's quiet and there's nobody in... 00:49:05.94\00:49:08.48 My roommate is still asleep and the family is still in bed. 00:49:08.51\00:49:12.21 I'll get up early, so that I can be alone, 00:49:12.25\00:49:14.48 be alone with my BFF 00:49:14.52\00:49:18.25 and just the two of us will talk, 00:49:18.29\00:49:19.62 He'll talk to me through the book and I'll talk back, 00:49:19.65\00:49:22.82 and reciprocally we'll grow closer and closer, 00:49:22.86\00:49:28.36 until I'm charmed into His righteousness. 00:49:28.40\00:49:31.80 That's what I would do. 00:49:31.83\00:49:33.17 Give me His number, come on. 00:49:33.20\00:49:35.00 You don't want to call Him? 00:49:35.04\00:49:36.54 Give me His number, I'll call Him everyday. 00:49:36.57\00:49:40.18 By the way you give me your email address, 00:49:40.21\00:49:42.04 give me your email address right now 00:49:42.08\00:49:44.05 and I will send to you a way to meet with God 00:49:44.08\00:49:47.32 everyday that you choose. 00:49:47.35\00:49:48.68 I'm not saying you have to do it everyday, 00:49:48.72\00:49:50.09 you want to do it one in seven, that's your choice. 00:49:50.12\00:49:52.82 Kind of a weird friendship, one in seven, but hey. 00:49:52.85\00:49:57.03 I'll send you a message. 00:49:57.06\00:49:58.63 You give me your email address. 00:49:58.66\00:50:00.63 I will send you a message so that you can be with God 00:50:00.70\00:50:02.93 every single day that you want to be alone with Him, 00:50:02.96\00:50:06.13 with your best friend forever and ever. 00:50:06.17\00:50:09.14 In fact, take your connect card right now 00:50:09.17\00:50:10.87 and scribble that email address down. 00:50:10.91\00:50:12.34 If you scribble your email address 00:50:12.37\00:50:13.74 down on the front of this card, 00:50:13.78\00:50:15.18 not gonna go through the whole card right now, 00:50:15.21\00:50:16.54 I want to end with the story, 00:50:16.58\00:50:17.91 then we'll go to the card, 00:50:17.95\00:50:19.28 but you put your email address on the front of this card, 00:50:19.31\00:50:23.15 put your email address, 00:50:23.18\00:50:25.32 and then go to box number two, 00:50:25.35\00:50:26.72 turn it over, my next step today, 00:50:26.76\00:50:28.09 I'll talk about the others later. 00:50:28.12\00:50:29.46 I would like to grow my friendship with Jesus 00:50:29.49\00:50:30.83 through prayer this New Year, 00:50:30.86\00:50:32.19 please send me a new way to pray. 00:50:32.23\00:50:34.63 You just check box number two. 00:50:34.66\00:50:36.70 I'll send you something in the mail. 00:50:36.73\00:50:38.07 Nobody's coming to knock on your door. 00:50:38.10\00:50:39.43 I'll send you something, email. 00:50:39.47\00:50:42.00 Ushers are moving to the doors 00:50:42.04\00:50:43.37 now, they're gonna pick this card up in just a second. 00:50:43.44\00:50:44.77 So please do it right now, 00:50:44.81\00:50:46.14 just scribble your email address 00:50:46.17\00:50:47.51 and then check box number two. 00:50:47.54\00:50:48.88 Now let me tell you that story, I promised a story, 00:50:48.91\00:50:51.31 I want to end with a story. 00:50:51.35\00:50:52.68 A Brazilian, little Brazilian couple, 00:50:54.72\00:50:57.75 we got a lot a Brazilians here, in this congregation. 00:50:57.79\00:51:01.59 A little Brazilian couple named Italvino and Diva Posa. 00:51:01.62\00:51:08.50 Did I say that right in Portuguese? 00:51:08.53\00:51:10.53 Portuguese, 00:51:10.57\00:51:12.70 yeah, little Brazilian couple fell in love, 00:51:12.73\00:51:14.20 got married in 1949. Tada! 00:51:14.24\00:51:17.07 Take a look at their wedding photo. 00:51:17.11\00:51:18.44 There they are, handsome couple. 00:51:18.47\00:51:20.24 Got married 1949. 00:51:20.28\00:51:22.48 Began to raise a family, eventually 10 children. 00:51:22.51\00:51:25.98 Whoo, Mamma Mia, 10 children. 00:51:26.01\00:51:29.52 Husband worked hard, 00:51:29.55\00:51:30.89 you can take the picture down now. 00:51:30.95\00:51:32.29 Husband worked hard, 00:51:32.32\00:51:35.16 so did mother, 00:51:35.19\00:51:36.79 and somewhere along the way, mother Diva, 00:51:36.83\00:51:40.16 met a friend who introduced her to Jesus 00:51:40.20\00:51:43.00 at The Seventh-day Adventist Church, 00:51:43.03\00:51:45.43 and mother Diva is baptized, as we saw just a moment ago, 00:51:45.47\00:51:49.24 baptized into Christ. 00:51:49.27\00:51:51.61 She asks Italvino, and he says, "No." 00:51:51.64\00:51:55.98 He's a businessman, 00:51:56.01\00:51:57.38 so every time he goes on a business, 00:51:57.41\00:51:58.75 she sticks into his suitcase, 00:51:58.78\00:52:00.18 literature, little book, something to read, 00:52:00.22\00:52:02.72 and so when he gets there to his destination, 00:52:02.75\00:52:04.75 pulls a book out and guess what? 00:52:04.79\00:52:06.45 Eventually, he too was baptized 00:52:06.49\00:52:09.96 and the two of them became active 00:52:10.03\00:52:11.36 in their witnessing and serving Jesus, 00:52:11.39\00:52:13.16 in their home church in Porto Alegre 00:52:13.19\00:52:15.93 in Southern Brazil. 00:52:15.96\00:52:17.43 I want you to see the picture of the couple now? 00:52:17.47\00:52:19.43 Handsome, aha, handsome, beautiful. 00:52:19.47\00:52:22.74 Ten children by the way, 00:52:25.07\00:52:26.74 14 grandchildren, 00:52:26.78\00:52:28.24 six great grandchildren 00:52:28.28\00:52:31.15 but then it happened. 00:52:31.18\00:52:33.68 Italvino contracted leukemia 00:52:33.72\00:52:37.59 and then Diva developed bladder cancer, 00:52:37.62\00:52:41.46 and so it was that the two of them 00:52:41.49\00:52:42.82 ended up in the same hospital room 00:52:42.86\00:52:44.43 this past autumn in the Adventist Review 00:52:44.46\00:52:46.59 is the one that where I found the story, 00:52:46.66\00:52:48.96 it's just this last fall, 00:52:49.00\00:52:50.33 they ended up in the same hospital room 00:52:50.40\00:52:51.73 and they would push their beds together 00:52:51.77\00:52:55.44 and so on October 3, 00:52:55.47\00:52:58.54 40 minutes apart, 00:52:58.57\00:53:01.68 these two lifelong friends died. 00:53:01.71\00:53:07.65 65 years of marriage, 00:53:07.68\00:53:09.42 slowly coming to an end, they died. 00:53:09.45\00:53:13.15 Get this, they died holding hands, 00:53:13.19\00:53:17.79 best friends forever. 00:53:17.83\00:53:23.63 There's a God in this universe who says, 00:53:23.67\00:53:25.00 if you let me take your hand, I'll walk with you. 00:53:25.03\00:53:28.44 I'll stay with you girl, I'll stay with you boy, 00:53:28.47\00:53:31.24 I'll stay with you till life is over, 00:53:31.27\00:53:33.54 just give me your hand 00:53:33.58\00:53:35.18 and I'll be your BFF forever and ever, 00:53:35.21\00:53:40.58 amen. 00:53:40.62\00:53:42.38 Let's pray. 00:53:42.42\00:53:43.75 Oh, God, is it really, 00:53:43.79\00:53:45.49 is the good news really this good? 00:53:45.52\00:53:49.02 Are you gooder than we thought? 00:53:49.06\00:53:51.63 Is Your love more infinite than we have realized? 00:53:51.66\00:53:57.63 Please, know our hearts. 00:53:57.67\00:54:00.54 We want to be best friends forever and ever. 00:54:00.57\00:54:03.81 Who better than you, 00:54:03.84\00:54:05.47 does it get any better than this? 00:54:05.51\00:54:07.98 It does not. 00:54:08.01\00:54:09.68 So hear our hearts, know our minds. 00:54:09.71\00:54:12.71 Take our hands we will walk with you this year 00:54:12.75\00:54:18.19 through Jesus, 00:54:18.22\00:54:19.79 our Savior and Friend, 00:54:19.82\00:54:22.16 we pray, amen. 00:54:22.19\00:54:24.76 I want to sing that, 00:54:24.79\00:54:26.43 I want to sing this great gospel song, 00:54:26.46\00:54:30.33 Jesus what a friend for sinners, 00:54:30.37\00:54:31.70 but I need to get the ushers go on. 00:54:31.73\00:54:33.07 Let's go ushers. 00:54:33.10\00:54:34.44 God bless you, as we receive our morning tithes 00:54:34.47\00:54:35.80 and offerings and the connect card. 00:54:35.84\00:54:37.17 Turn your connect card over, put it in and let's do it. 00:54:37.21\00:54:39.24 This is a short introduction, we're ready to sing. 00:54:39.27\00:54:41.18 Jesus! What a Friend for sinners! 00:54:58.96\00:55:03.67 Jesus! Lover of my soul 00:55:03.70\00:55:08.34 Friends may fail me, foes assail me 00:55:08.37\00:55:10.84 He, my Savior, makes me whole 00:55:10.91\00:55:16.64 Hallelujah! What a Savior! 00:55:16.68\00:55:21.18 Hallelujah! What a friend! 00:55:21.22\00:55:25.65 Saving, helping, keeping, loving 00:55:25.69\00:55:30.63 He is with me to the end 00:55:30.66\00:55:36.93 Jesus! What a Strength for weakness! 00:55:36.97\00:55:41.54 Let me hide myself in Him 00:55:41.57\00:55:45.64 Tempted, tried, and sometimes failing, 00:55:45.67\00:55:50.31 He, my Strength, my vict'ry wins. 00:55:50.35\00:55:55.02 Hallelujah! What a Savior! 00:55:55.05\00:55:59.32 Hallelujah! What a friend! 00:55:59.35\00:56:03.86 Saving, helping, keeping, loving 00:56:03.89\00:56:08.06 He is with me to the end 00:56:08.10\00:56:15.00 Jesus! 00:56:15.04\00:56:17.41 I do now receive Him 00:56:17.44\00:56:20.48 More than all in Him I find 00:56:20.51\00:56:25.21 He hath granted me forgiveness 00:56:25.25\00:56:29.95 I am His, and He is mine 00:56:29.98\00:56:34.86 Hallelujah! What a Savior! 00:56:34.89\00:56:39.69 Hallelujah! What a Friend! 00:56:39.73\00:56:44.33 Saving, helping, keeping, loving 00:56:44.37\00:56:48.97 He is with me to the end. 00:56:49.00\00:56:55.48 And now may the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ 00:56:58.95\00:57:02.22 and the love of God, 00:57:02.25\00:57:03.95 and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit 00:57:04.02\00:57:05.75 be with you all. 00:57:05.79\00:57:08.19 Amen. 00:57:08.22\00:57:09.56 I wanted to take an extra moment 00:57:18.47\00:57:19.80 to let you know how grateful I am you joined us today. 00:57:19.83\00:57:22.27 I hear from viewers and listeners like 00:57:22.30\00:57:24.04 you all across this nation and literally around the world 00:57:24.11\00:57:27.28 and I'm thankful, 00:57:27.31\00:57:28.64 because it's through the generosity of the members 00:57:28.68\00:57:30.35 of this congregation and people like you 00:57:30.38\00:57:32.18 that we're able to bring you this program. 00:57:32.21\00:57:34.68 So what we shared today has touched your heart, 00:57:34.72\00:57:36.52 I'd like you to invite you 00:57:36.55\00:57:37.89 to become a financial partner with us. 00:57:37.92\00:57:39.25 Just give us a call, toll free number 877 00:57:39.29\00:57:42.06 the two words, HIS-WILL, 877-HIS-WILL, 00:57:42.09\00:57:45.13 or if you'd rather go to our website 00:57:45.16\00:57:47.40 www.pmchurch.tv. 00:57:47.40\00:57:50.73 Either way, 00:57:50.77\00:57:52.10 your generosity will bless a new generation 00:57:52.13\00:57:53.80 in cyberspace all over this planet, 00:57:53.84\00:57:56.54 so thank you. 00:57:56.57\00:57:57.91 Thank you very much for your partnership. 00:57:57.94\00:58:00.61