New Perceptions

The Front Porch -part2 'in Search Of Your 4 Spaces'

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Participants: Pr. Dwight Nelson

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00:26 I will follow
00:30 I will listen
00:35 I will love You
00:39 all of my days
00:42 I will sing
00:43 I will sing to and worship
00:47 The King who is worthy
00:52 I will love and adore Him
00:56 I will bow down before Him
01:00 I will sing to and worship
01:04 The King who is worthy
01:09 I will love and adore Him
01:13 I will bow down before Him
01:17 You're my Prince of Peace
01:19 And I will live my life for You
01:27 We're gonna try the echo now.
01:28 You are holy, sing.
01:29 You are holy You are holy
01:34 You are mighty You are mighty
01:38 You are worthy You are worthy
01:42 Worthy of praise Worthy of praise
01:45 Say with me I will follow.
01:48 I will follow I will follow
01:50 I will listen I will listen
01:55 I will love You I will love You
01:59 All of my days
02:01 I will sing to and worship
02:03 I will sing to and worship
02:07 The King who is worthy
02:11 I will love and adore Him
02:16 I will bow down before Him
02:20 I will sing to and worship
02:24 The King who is worthy
02:28 I will love and adore Him
02:32 I will bow down before Him
02:37 You're my Prince of Peace
02:39 And I will live my life for You
02:43 You're my Prince of Peace
02:45 You're my Prince of Peace
02:47 And I will live my life for You
02:53 You're my Prince of Peace
02:56 And I will live my life for You
03:48 Above all powers
03:52 Above all kings
03:56 Above all nature
03:58 And all created things
04:03 Above all wisdom
04:06 And all the ways of man
04:12 You were here before the world began
04:18 Above all kingdoms
04:21 Above all thrones
04:25 Above all wonders
04:27 The world has ever known
04:32 Above all wealth
04:35 And treasures of the earth
04:40 There's no way to measure
04:43 What You're worth
04:46 Crucified.
04:48 Crucified
04:51 laid behind the stone
04:54 You lived to die
04:58 Rejected and alone Like a rose
05:03 Trampled on the ground
05:08 You took the fall
05:11 And thought of me above all
05:22 Above all powers
05:26 Above all kings
05:29 Above all nature
05:31 And all created things
05:36 Above all wisdom
05:38 And all the ways of man
05:44 You were here before the world began
05:50 Above all kingdoms
05:53 Above all thrones
05:57 Above all wonders
05:59 The world has ever known
06:04 Above all wealth
06:06 And treasures of the earth
06:12 There's no way to measure
06:14 What You're worth
06:19 Crucified
06:22 laid behind the stone You lived to die,
06:29 Rejected and alone Like a rose,
06:34 Trampled on the ground
06:38 You took the fall
06:42 And thought of me above all
06:50 Crucified
06:53 Laid behind the stone You lived to die
07:00 Rejected and alone Like a rose
07:05 Trampled on the ground
07:09 You took the fall
07:12 Just point to yourself.
07:13 And thought of me
07:15 You took the fall
07:16 You took the fall
07:18 And thought of me
07:20 And thought of me
07:22 You took the fall
07:23 You took the fall
07:27 And thought of me
07:31 Above all Like a rose,
07:39 Trampled on the ground
07:44 You took the fall
07:48 And thought of me
07:52 Above all
07:59 Thank you, Jesus.
11:58 All right, let me plunge right into it.
12:00 I'm gonna go to the mail bag this morning if you don't mind.
12:03 I tell you what, after preaching last Sabbath's sermon
12:07 and a bunch of you weren't here,
12:08 but I have got a lot of mails,
12:10 I've got emails, I've got snail mails
12:12 and I've got drop it by the office mails.
12:15 I guess the moral of the story is
12:16 when you preach an entire sermon from a rocking chair
12:19 you are bound to hear from somebody.
12:21 And that's what I did this week.
12:23 Thank you, for all your mail,
12:24 many of you thank you, thank you, thank you.
12:27 I'm gonna share a couple letters with you,
12:29 just a couple letters.
12:32 I have contacted the writers of these letters by the way
12:35 and I've asked permission to share the letters.
12:37 Now one name I'm gonna share with you for obvious reasons
12:40 I'm gonna keep one writer anonymous, all right.
12:43 Let me read these letters to you.
12:44 "Hi, Pastor Dwight."
12:45 Oh, this is a letter from,
12:47 this is a letter from the manager.
12:48 Listen to this.
12:49 The Manager of the Talent Management
12:50 and Organizational Performance Department,
12:53 Whirlpool North America.
12:56 All right, her name is Danae Atkins,
12:59 she happens to be a member here at Pioneer Memorial Church.
13:01 And Danae wrote me a note
13:02 this last week, sent me an email.
13:03 "Hi, Pastor Dwight, I'm excited
13:05 about the sermon series you started last Sabbath."
13:07 Hallelujah, the good news, Danae is it started last Sabbath
13:11 and it ends today this is it just these two,
13:13 it's not a long series.
13:15 But something is very important
13:16 I'm about to share with you.
13:18 So I'm glad you're exited.
13:19 As Danae goes on "I think it's vitally important
13:22 my husband Andy and I joined a small group for about a year
13:25 when we were first married and it was so valuable to us.
13:28 At first we wanted to share about the time commitment,
13:30 but it turned out to the fellowship."
13:31 And she lists all these people that were in the group.
13:34 "Was exactly what we needed at that point in our lives.
13:37 Plus like you mentioned in your sermon
13:39 'meeting more people
13:40 and recognizing more smiling faces
13:42 on Sabbath helps you feel more connected
13:44 to another wise overwhelmingly large congregation.'"
13:47 And yes, that true, yep, that's the reality,
13:49 we know that for a large congregation like this.
13:53 She said "Look, I found your mention of Starbucks."
13:57 So she is kind of referencing,
14:00 talking about Starbucks last week.
14:01 By the way I got from five of you
14:04 this is rather coincidental,
14:06 but the Sunday paper the very next day
14:08 had a huge nationally syndicated column
14:10 written by Terry Mattingly
14:12 that compares Starbucks to the Christian church.
14:16 And so five of you ripped that out and sent it to me.
14:18 Thank you very much.
14:20 Now interesting story in that column, interesting story
14:25 a pastor up in the Puget Sound in Washington State
14:28 he has formed a church, he calls it St. Arbucks.
14:30 You take the ST of a Starbucks St. Arbucks.
14:34 And he is focusing on creating this median space.
14:37 Remember this little two part
14:38 is called the front porch median space,
14:41 the space between my private world at home
14:43 and my public world at work and school
14:44 wherever, there needs to be median space
14:46 and that's why for this generation
14:48 Starbucks is so successful.
14:49 So Danae she says "I found you mentioning Starbucks
14:52 as the new front porch extremely interesting.
14:55 As part of the classes I teach at Whirlpool."
14:57 Listen to this.
14:58 "We talk about consumer insights
15:00 and why they are so important.
15:02 Starbucks is an example that we point to of a company
15:05 that did an extremely good job
15:08 of uncovering core insights about its consumers
15:10 and then crafting its business around these insights."
15:14 Now she quotes from the Starbucks manual.
15:16 "In fact Starbucks main insight was" here she quotes.
15:19 "Starbucks is not a product sold in a coffee shop
15:23 rather an experience marketed in a third space
15:26 between home and work
15:28 where people can gather and relax."
15:32 So she writes here mentioned the Starbucks is right on.
15:34 Thank you, Danae.
15:35 Isn't that something, that's what Starbucks is about,
15:37 it's this third space, it's this median space.
15:41 And like we talked a little bit about that last Sabbath,
15:44 if you weren't here last Sabbath this is just a two part.
15:46 I'd love you to get both parts,
15:48 so I'm gonna put it on the screen
15:49 just for one second
15:50 and then I gonna plunge into the second letter.
15:52 But there is our website on the screen www.pmchurch.tv
15:56 go to that website and you're looking
15:58 for a little two part called the Front Porch.
16:00 There is one and two, that's it.
16:02 You can download those to your iPod,
16:04 listen to them at your leisure.
16:06 Kind of ruminate with me will you
16:08 about this call to the front porch?
16:11 That I believe Holy Scripture is sounding to us.
16:15 All right, two letters.
16:16 This letter is gonna remain anonymous.
16:18 This letter writer "Pastor Nelson,
16:21 I listen to your sermon via the radio this morning.
16:26 I'm must tell you why I resorted to listening
16:28 to the sermon on the radio this morning.
16:30 I have been an active member at Pioneer
16:32 for seven years this month."
16:35 All right, not a stranger.
16:38 "I've been an active member here
16:39 although I sit among 3,000 people each Sabbath
16:42 the worship experience is usually painfully lonely for me.
16:47 There are many times when I skip church
16:49 for several weeks at a time
16:50 and allow the radio or the television
16:52 spiritual feed me during the Sabbath hours.
16:55 I don't want to be a Sabbath recluse.
16:58 One of the highlights of my Pioneer experience
17:00 is when I was in a small group and she lists the leader.
17:02 A few years ago I attempted to join a small group this year,
17:05 but my work schedule overruled, I love Pioneer.
17:08 I will miss the glorious music and thought provoking messages.
17:12 I will also miss the people I greet in passing,
17:15 but at this stage in my life
17:17 I need more than passing relationships,
17:19 I need to feel the sense of belonging,
17:21 I need to experience abundance,
17:24 spending most Sabbaths being lonely and depress
17:26 can no longer be an option for me.
17:29 And so last week
17:30 I submitted a request to have my membership transferred
17:34 and she list a church in another town nearby.
17:36 I'm hoping that a smaller church will provide
17:38 the sense of community that I am seeking.
17:40 Pray for me please as I venture beyond
17:43 the comfort zone of pioneer."
17:44 And she signs her name.
17:48 I guess not everybody
17:50 feels like this is a place where you can belong.
17:58 America is a nation in search of a front porch
18:01 and guess what, so are we as a church in America
18:05 we got a 100 nations here Africa included,
18:08 but we're all people that we've been wired
18:10 and shaped to hunger for front porch.
18:15 Here somebody says, you know,
18:16 I just couldn't find one around here.
18:18 I think I'll go somebody, somewhere else
18:20 after seven years, ouch.
18:26 I told you last week I've been reading this book
18:27 by Joseph Myers "In Search of Belonging."
18:30 Rethinking small groups and intimacy and community.
18:34 It was in that book that I came across the study
18:37 and research of a social scientist name Edward T. Hall.
18:40 I've never heard of him before
18:42 but he is the guy who came up with the proxemics.
18:45 What are proxemics?
18:47 Proxemics have to do with proximity, proximity.
18:50 He studies human proximities
18:52 how we moving relationship to each other
18:54 and Edward T. Hall is the man who came up
18:56 with the four spaces, the four spaces.
19:00 He says in every life
19:02 we need to belong in four different spaces.
19:04 We have number one, our public space,
19:06 you got to belong there.
19:07 We have number two, our social space,
19:09 you need to belong there.
19:10 Number three, we've got personal space.
19:12 And number four, we have intimate space.
19:16 Now I want to illustrate,
19:17 I want to illustrate this for a moment
19:19 and I need a volunteer.
19:22 Thank you, Pastor Tim,
19:23 could you come up here please?
19:25 I don't know why you are so quick to volunteer.
19:27 That is incredible.
19:28 He is Pastor Tim our campus Chaplin.
19:31 Tim.
19:32 Yes please. No, no.
19:34 Save the personal space to later, Tim.
19:36 All right, okay, so, Tim, let's illustrate four spaces.
19:40 There you are, now I--
19:42 Edward T. Hall says public spaces 12 feet to infinity.
19:47 All right, so we got to be at least 12 feet apart.
19:49 That is public space.
19:51 Let me tell you about belonging in public space.
19:53 I happen to be a New York Yankees fan.
19:55 Don't hold that against me.
19:56 But if I would ever go-- well, bless your heart.
20:00 I already feel at home in this very public space.
20:03 All right, okay, now don't get close yet.
20:09 When I go to public space, let's say I go to Yankees game
20:11 which is really hard to do,
20:12 but let's say I go to a Yankees game
20:14 I don't have to touch you, I don't have to hear from you,
20:16 I don't have to have you shake my hand,
20:17 say I'm so glad you're here.
20:19 I just know you're here 50,000 of you
20:21 and I have one thing in common you and I
20:23 we belong to the Yankees family.
20:26 All right, so that's public space.
20:27 I need to belong in public space.
20:29 Now there is also social space.
20:31 Social space is 4 feet to 12 feet all right.
20:35 So it's a next space in 4 feet to 12 feet.
20:38 So that when Tim and I end up in a party
20:41 and there we're just kind of mixing around,
20:43 you know, we'll get up to about four feet here.
20:45 This about it, this is our social space.
20:46 Hey, how are you doing? Hey, I'm doing real great.
20:49 I see. What's happening?
20:50 Okay, so we move around like that.
20:53 Now I have Karen and I belong to Indianhead Association,
20:57 our neighborhood had some late front,
21:00 riverfront property that the association owns
21:02 and so once a year we had a picnic
21:04 in the summer down by the river.
21:06 That's our social space, so we get together,
21:08 hey, how's it been, haven't seen you a long time.
21:09 Hey, I'm fine. And so we connect.
21:11 Nothing more than four feet, nothing close than four feet,
21:14 4 to 12 feet that's our social space.
21:16 Edward T. Hall says there
21:18 actually four spaces in your life
21:19 and you have to belong in all four.
21:21 The next one is personal space
21:24 that's from 4 feet to 18 inches.
21:29 Now there are fewer people that are in your personal space.
21:33 Tim and I happen to belong at the same pastoral staff
21:35 and I considered the pastoral staff
21:37 my personal space, we are small group.
21:39 And so when we have lot, when we have saddening
21:42 you know, we just sitting all around the table
21:44 we're on our elbows, we're on each others faces
21:46 and it doesn't bother us.
21:47 You know, that sometimes
21:49 when somebody is not a part of your personal space
21:52 and that somebody comes up and starts talking to you,
21:54 do you know-- You know what happens right?
21:59 That's what happened. You just, you just instigate.
22:01 Man, you brush your teeth or what?
22:03 I don't like getting this close to you,
22:06 because you're in my space.
22:08 There is one more, there is one more space
22:11 and it's called intimate space.
22:13 Intimate space--
22:17 intimate space is 18 inches to 0,
22:22 18 inches to 0.
22:23 I have one person in my life
22:25 who is at the 0 stage.
22:30 Me to. Yeah.
22:33 Those our wives, we're talking about our wives.
22:36 Sandria and Karen. Why?
22:39 Because I can't handle
22:41 being intimate with a lot of people.
22:43 In fact I have a few others, a few other close friends
22:46 I can count them on the fingers of one hand,
22:48 who get that close to me.
22:50 The Bible calls it being naked.
22:52 The Bible calls it being naked.
22:53 Isn't that right, Tim? Adam and Eve were naked.
22:55 They had no idea that they were intimate with God
22:57 and this is something to be embarrassed about God, says No
22:59 we're supposed to be intimate you and me
23:00 and so they are naked and feeling entirely at home
23:03 until sin comes along and says it destroys that intimacy
23:07 and suddenly now oh, that was way to close.
23:12 You see, everybody Pastor Tim, thank you very much.
23:16 Everybody has these four spaces.
23:18 We're in good hand to our chaplains here.
23:20 Four spaces.
23:22 Now Joseph Myers in commenting on those four spaces
23:25 Edward T. Hall four spaces.
23:26 Let me put this on the screen for you.
23:28 We'll get the study guides next week.
23:29 No study guides now we're still preschool
23:31 so let's put-- this is Joseph Myers
23:35 "All belonging in all four space"
23:37 all right, all four spaces.
23:39 "All belonging is significant.
23:41 Healthy community, the goal humankind
23:44 has sought since the beginning."
23:45 Everybody wants to belong.
23:47 "Is achieved when we hold
23:49 harmonious connections in all four spaces.
23:53 Harmony means more public belongings than social."
23:58 You understand that?
23:59 I got more over here a few less here social.
24:02 "More social than personal.
24:04 And a very few intimate." That's what harmony is.
24:07 You don't have to have hundreds of intimates please.
24:10 "A healthy strategy for those working to build community
24:13 entails allowing people to grow significant relationships
24:18 in all four spaces, all four."
24:20 Those italics are his, all four.
24:23 You know, some people think that when you come to church
24:24 you got to get intimate.
24:25 You're crazy, you don't have to get intimate
24:27 to belong to a church.
24:28 No way hosay.
24:30 That's a very, very narrow slice of your relationships
24:36 fit into the intimate stage.
24:39 But we have to belong, I have to belong in all four.
24:41 What's that have to do with the university like this?
24:43 Oh, that's a lot to do with the university like this.
24:45 What is it have to do with the church like this,
24:46 big like this?
24:47 Everything Randy Frazee
24:49 in his book "Dealing with
24:52 Human Relationships within the Church."
24:53 Let's put Randy Frazee up.
24:54 "The development of meaningful relationships
24:56 where every member carries a significant sense of belonging
24:59 is central to what it means to be the church."
25:02 We all have to feel like we belong here.
25:06 Now I may give my belonging need
25:07 just by showing up in the stadium every week
25:09 50,000 people singing praise to Jesus,
25:11 3,000 people singing praise to Jesus.
25:13 I feel like I belong
25:15 and I could tell you people by name
25:17 that's the only connection they have with our congregation.
25:20 They show up in worship
25:21 either first church or second church that's it,
25:23 but they feel like they belong.
25:26 Everybody has got to belong some where.
25:29 And by the way,
25:30 did you know that Jesus was a master
25:32 at understanding these spaces.
25:35 Remember the story about the Centurion
25:37 who came to Jesus and he said,
25:39 remember that he said, my servant is at death door,
25:42 I need You to heal him please.
25:44 This is a pagan Centurion.
25:46 And what does Jesus said,
25:47 Jesus says great idea let's go to your house
25:50 and I'll heal your servant.
25:51 And the Roman Centurion said wait a minute,
25:54 I'm here in public space.
25:56 I don't want You in personal space,
25:59 I don't even need to be in social space with You.
26:01 I'm content to it. He said, hey, hey, hey.
26:04 Listen, I'm a man in the authority,
26:05 I said a word it happens, you're man in authority,
26:08 I believe you can do it
26:09 in this public space heal my servant.
26:11 And Jesus turns He said, hey guys, okay,
26:14 have you ever seen this kind of faith in Israel?
26:16 Your servant is healed.
26:18 Jesus could have said, hey no way, in order to have
26:21 really meaningful relationships in church
26:23 I got to go home with you
26:24 and we got to get up front and personal.
26:25 No.
26:27 He respected a man
26:29 who says I relate to you in public space along.
26:31 So its okay, by the way,
26:33 which means that what happens here on Sabbath mornings,
26:36 is not just another little event on this campus.
26:39 This is a huge event
26:40 where people, come 3,000 come together
26:43 and at some point sense a connection.
26:46 Does everybody feel connected here?
26:48 I just read to you a letter from somebody
26:50 who is sat here for seven years
26:52 and said, no I don't feel like I belong in this public space,
26:55 I'm gonna find some more space.
26:58 See we all are different.
26:59 We have different needs, but that what is clear
27:02 as that we have been wired by God
27:04 to need this belonging, this sense of community.
27:12 In fact, that's what I find
27:14 so phenomenal about this description
27:16 of the early church in the Book of Acts.
27:17 Let's go to the Bible now,
27:18 pull the Bible out in front of you.
27:19 There should be a pew Bible,
27:20 if you didn't bring your own Bible
27:22 there is a pew Bible in the same translation.
27:24 I'll be reading from the New King James.
27:27 If you have your Bible turn to Acts Chapter 2 please,
27:29 open you Bible to Acts Chapter 2,
27:31 page 734 in your pew Bible.
27:36 Page 734 and I want to show
27:40 the four spaces of Edward T. Hall right here
27:44 long before there were social signs.
27:47 Take a look at this, it's amazing.
27:48 Acts 2:41 all right, page 734, Acts 2:41.
27:56 I'll start reading it then--
27:57 oh, by the way, this is the day of Pentecost.
27:59 Peter has just preached his heart out.
28:01 Thousands of people have listened to him.
28:03 Now notice the response verse 41
28:05 "Then those who gladly received
28:07 his," Peter's "word were baptized,
28:10 and that day about three thousand souls
28:14 were added to them."
28:15 Boy, that's fledgling little movement of Christianity
28:19 to go by 3,000 in one day, amazing.
28:23 So how do they behave with 3,000 verse 42.
28:26 "And they continued steadfastly in the apostles doctrine
28:30 and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and in prayers."
28:34 Hold on, think of this with me for a moment.
28:37 There they are the four spaces,
28:41 they continued to in the apostles doctrine
28:43 that's public teaching.
28:44 It's like we're doing right here,
28:45 we're having public teaching, public worship,
28:47 so they have their public space.
28:48 They continued in the apostles doctrine
28:50 steadfastly and fellowship.
28:52 Greek word for fellowship is Koinonia,
28:53 it's another word for community.
28:55 So they had to social, it's a social space.
28:58 So they have the public space, they have the social space
29:00 and then they broke bread together.
29:03 And then verse 47 it says from house to house.
29:05 So now we're down to personal space.
29:10 And in prayers, they share the intimacy
29:13 well, that space with God.
29:14 Isn't that amazing?
29:16 You got the four spaces right there.
29:17 What happens verse 43
29:18 "Then fear came upon every soul of that city,
29:22 many wonders and signs were done through the apostles."
29:24 Now verse 44 "All who believed."
29:27 Talking about a front porch community here it goes.
29:29 "All who believed were together, and had all things in common,
29:32 and they sold their possessions and goods,
29:34 and divided them among all, as anyone had need."
29:37 So here's the punch line.
29:38 "Continuing daily with one accord
29:41 in the temple" public space
29:43 "and breaking bread from house to house,"
29:45 from front porch to front porch social space
29:49 "they ate their food with gladness
29:51 and simplicity of heart,
29:53 praising God and having favor with all the people."
29:55 And guess what when you get community right God says
29:58 I can hardly wait to keep growing that community
30:00 and He keeps adding.
30:01 Why, because it's a compelling draw as I'm about to show you
30:05 with some fascinating research done with the Moonies.
30:09 Have you heard of the Moonies?
30:11 Before I tell you about the Moonies
30:12 let's just make sure we have it clear here
30:14 what's happening in Acts Chapter 2.
30:17 Overnight literally in one day
30:19 the church explodes to over 3,000.
30:22 Guess what that's a Pioneer Memorial Church.
30:24 Our membership is 3,400.
30:26 So suddenly you have a church
30:28 the size of Pioneer in Jerusalem that very day.
30:32 Isn't that amazing
30:33 that the leaders of the church when they realize
30:35 what is happened instantly concluded
30:38 under the social science direction of the Holy Spirit.
30:42 We can't leave this thing big,
30:44 we have got to begin to create front porches.
30:47 Isn't it amazing
30:49 that their response to a huge setting is to immediately create
30:54 small little front porches of community.
30:57 You know what, may be that's a clue for you and me.
31:01 May be this church is got to have this big celebration
31:03 where we have our finest musicians
31:05 and we praise and we worship,
31:07 but may be it's not enough to be content having that.
31:12 May be we need around Andrews University
31:15 small little front porch communities
31:18 where we work and where we worship.
31:22 Three thousand people come together
31:24 it's called the celebration,
31:25 when ten people come together its called community
31:27 and has a big difference.
31:29 Now about the Moonies.
31:31 Last week worshiping with us
31:33 last Sabbath was a friend of mine
31:35 he was a former student.
31:37 He had his PhD in Missiology.
31:39 He is planting a church in what is arguably
31:42 the most godless and secular nation perhaps on earth.
31:46 Certainly in Western Europe in the Czech Republic.
31:49 He was sitting here last Sabbath
31:51 with the rocking chairs and he was listening
31:53 and he met me at that back door afterward he says, Dwight,
31:55 I got to share something with you.
31:57 I said, come on in this week.
31:58 He came in and he is the one that shared with me
32:00 this research regarding the Moonies.
32:03 Now look at when I was with my PowerPoint man
32:06 who is up in there, he is a junior
32:07 bioengineer here Anthony Wills.
32:10 I say hey, do you know what the Moonies are?
32:11 And he says, nope.
32:12 So I suddenly realized wait a minute,
32:13 Moonies that's going back.
32:15 Moonies goes back to the 60s, the 70s, and the 80s.
32:19 Some of you're just getting born at that time.
32:21 But Reverend Sun Myung Moon, a Korean visionary
32:25 who claimed to be Christ manifested to this generation
32:28 he started what they came to call the unification church
32:31 and American kids
32:33 by the thousands were signing up.
32:36 Amazing, a sociological phenomena.
32:39 So Rodney Stark who is the social scientist
32:43 and he collaborated with another socialist
32:45 John Lofland in the early 60s.
32:48 They did the research and then Rodney Stark
32:50 has written the book the Rise of Christianity
32:52 and so this is just blow your socks out.
32:55 Listen to this, think of the implications
32:57 for life here at Andrews University.
32:58 Listen up, so he said in the early 60s "John Lofland
33:01 and I were the first social scientist to actually go out
33:05 and watch people convert to a new religious movement."
33:08 Now hold on.
33:09 "Although all the converts were quick to describe
33:11 how their spiritual lives had been empty
33:12 and desolate prior to their conversion."
33:15 It turns out we found the only ones
33:17 who join and became Moonies.
33:19 "The only ones who join were those
33:22 whose interpersonal attachments
33:24 to members of this new community
33:27 over balance their attachment to nonmember
33:30 i.e., their parents, their peers back at home."
33:34 This is in San Francisco.
33:36 Kids just start to showing up on buses, the Moonie movement.
33:40 And so these two social scientists
33:41 begin to interview them.
33:43 What's going on? What's going on?
33:44 Do you know what they found out?
33:45 In fact, let me put out, let me put three sentences
33:47 from this research on the screen for you.
33:49 "Attachments."
33:50 Here's what they concluded after hundreds
33:52 and hundreds of these interviews.
33:54 "Attachments lie at the heart of conversion."
33:56 This is a key point.
33:57 "And therefore that conversion tends
34:00 to proceed along social networks formed
34:03 by interpersonal attachments."
34:06 Did you get their findings?
34:08 They're finding that's for the Moonies
34:10 which by the way they define as a deviant religion,
34:15 which by the way is exactly
34:16 what Christianity was in the beginning.
34:19 It was a deviant religion consider by the public
34:23 that way isn't that right.
34:24 Why were people joining the Christian church
34:26 by the thousands?
34:28 When they did this research
34:29 they found out that these attachments
34:32 the new attachments became so strong
34:34 that they over rowed mom and dad,
34:38 kids back at home,
34:40 people at work, they went ahead
34:43 because of the strength of the new attachments.
34:47 You thinking on this? You see what's happening here?
34:50 And that conversion was not a theological
34:53 change of mind, conversion turns out
34:56 it was dominantly moving along social networks
34:59 and that when you had that
35:00 social network in place, I convert.
35:04 In fact, this is amazing.
35:05 They talk to these Moonies
35:06 who had been Moonies now for years
35:07 and they said, tell us why you join this movement.
35:11 And those who been here long enough,
35:14 you know what they said?
35:15 Oh, well, it was the theology, man,
35:16 this philosophy, this life, this worldview
35:20 I knew that this is for me.
35:23 The very same people who when they interviewed them
35:26 coming into the movement they said, hey,
35:28 I got new friends here, this is where I belong.
35:32 Over the course of a few years
35:34 the mind blocked out the social network party said,
35:37 oh, no, I really came in here,
35:38 'cause I'm thinking really clearly now.
35:41 Now how I made it all.
35:43 You didn't come in because the theology,
35:44 you came in because of a personal
35:47 attachment to somebody on the inside.
35:50 Look at this second statement. Put this on the screen.
35:52 Number two "Conversion to new, deviant religious groups occurs
35:56 when, other things being equal,
35:58 people have or develop stronger attachments
36:01 to members of the group than they have to nonmembers."
36:04 We put one more sentence, one more.
36:06 Let's put that third sentence up.
36:07 "The basis for successful conversionist movements
36:12 is growth through social networks,
36:15 through a structure of direct and intimate
36:18 interpersonal attachments."
36:20 Now watch this, this is the bull's-eye.
36:23 "Most new religious movements fail
36:26 because they quickly become closed,
36:29 or semiclosed newtowks.
36:31 That is, they fail to keep forming
36:33 and sustaining attachments to outsiders
36:36 and they will lose thereby the capacity to grow."
36:38 Isn't that true? Isn't that true?
36:42 That's exactly what happened the church in Acts.
36:46 It was the social network that got another
36:49 and it brought another deviant religion.
36:52 Religio licita in Rome, illegal religion,
36:55 doesn't matter, because I have the connections I'm drawn in
36:59 and my former attachments weaken.
37:02 And I take a stand for what I believe God wants me to do.
37:07 What's the point, ladies and gentlemen, it's inescapable.
37:09 The point is inescapable social networking
37:13 and attachment are critical
37:16 to building a strong community.
37:19 In fact, there is a line
37:22 that I'm gonna run by you right here.
37:25 It's a simple line, but could it be--
37:26 let me put that one-liner up on the screen.
37:29 Could it be that "the best way to close the back door
37:33 is to build a front porch."
37:36 There is a lot of angst in the church today.
37:38 Our kids are leaving, our kids are leaving
37:40 what do we gonna do?
37:42 You know, this is a terrible predicament.
37:45 No, no, no, no, you want to close the back door.
37:48 The best way to close the back door
37:50 build a front porch, build a place
37:53 where somebody belongs for our midst
37:55 when I don't show up a place
37:56 for I am love for me just being me.
38:03 The best way to close the back door
38:06 is to build a front porch.
38:09 Book of Acts case in point classic case in point.
38:13 So here's the question.
38:15 How can we grow, how can we grow
38:17 those little front porch communities
38:20 here at Andrews University
38:21 and the Pioneer Memorial Church?
38:23 I have a friend in Africa,
38:24 I want to show you a picture of a small group.
38:26 This group may be five people to many
38:27 because generally small group is ten.
38:29 They got 15, but when you have 15
38:30 you have a whole a lot of front.
38:32 And a friend of mine in Africa sent me this picture
38:33 just this last week there is a small group for you.
38:36 They are having fun,
38:38 'cause that's what the small group is for.
38:39 You supposed to feel like you belong,
38:41 you cheering the same team, you are a part see.
38:44 Look at that poor truck. Oh my.
38:48 I'm gonna talk about the small groups.
38:49 In fact, we did a survey here,
38:52 a congregational survey
38:53 Pastor Esther over saw that the survey.
38:56 Here some of the responses.
38:58 Hey look, here are objections people give to me.
39:01 I talk to people about you want to join the small group?
39:02 Oh, let me just run a few of these by.
39:05 I found them in your survey responses.
39:07 Here's one.
39:08 Hey, I'm not into cooking and brining food,
39:11 I hate potlucks.
39:14 I need to tell you something,
39:16 nobody says small groups have to eat
39:18 in order to grow community.
39:20 In fact, if you do a lot of eating
39:21 you're growing something else.
39:24 But here's my philosophy, 'cause I belong to small group.
39:28 Here's my philosophy, I never bring food,
39:30 I just make sure I get into group
39:31 where there is some good cooks.
39:33 That's all you have to do, you don't have to bring food.
39:36 So don't worry about the cooking part
39:37 that's come on you could meet a midnight
39:40 there's no food involve at all.
39:42 Okay, here's another one.
39:43 Nobody ever invites me to join a small group.
39:46 That was in the survey.
39:47 My friend, in two seconds
39:49 you're gonna get an invitation all right.
39:51 Here's another one, number three.
39:52 Oh, I don't like strangers.
39:55 No, don't laugh, we're all that way.
39:58 What it call xenophobia.
40:00 I don't like strangers,
40:01 I want to keep America just America,
40:03 you know, that kind of crazy thinking.
40:05 No, it's true, they call it xenophobia,
40:08 they are afraid of strangers.
40:10 Now we all that way,
40:11 I mean, come on the fact of the matter is
40:13 I love being around people I know,
40:15 but here's my point under capable leadership
40:18 and we got a team a top notch leaders
40:20 I'll talk about them in just a second.
40:21 But under capable leadership
40:23 you're not gonna be strangers for along anyway.
40:25 You're not gonna be a stranger
40:26 and that person is not gonna be a stranger,
40:27 so you're not gonna have to spend your life
40:29 with strangers.
40:30 Okay, here's another one.
40:32 I don't know how to lead a small group.
40:34 I want to promise you something,
40:35 you will never have to lead a small group.
40:37 Join in a small group does not mean
40:39 I now have to lead a small group.
40:41 Not at all.
40:43 That's why we have train
40:45 very warmhearted and caring leaders.
40:47 Once in a while I get to meet with the leaders
40:49 and kind of just share stories and here what's up.
40:51 And I'm telling you they are the good hands people.
40:53 Pastor Esther has put a top notch team of small group
40:57 front porch leaders together.
40:59 You're not gonna have to worry about a thing,
41:02 trust me.
41:03 However, listen, if you want to become a leader,
41:07 a skillful leader we'll train you,
41:14 Over here-- you hear this
41:17 and I saw this in the survey
41:19 I prefer my own kind for community building.
41:23 That certainly logical most of us do.
41:25 We prefer our own kind.
41:26 Whatever you mean by own kind you prefer it.
41:30 That's okay,
41:31 but I tell you what one of the huge bonus is
41:35 of being a part of a diverse group
41:38 is it there is a whole life expending
41:41 richness that comes into you.
41:43 I have belonged to diverse groups
41:45 I do right now.
41:47 You know, if you want to have-- I want to have a group
41:49 of only males 25 years old.
41:52 Well, you can.
41:54 It gets boring after a while.
41:58 Diversity nothing wrong with it.
41:59 One of the responses
42:00 we got a bunch of these responses,
42:02 'cause we did this survey last year.
42:05 I'm a student is there a group for me?
42:09 Oh, there sure is.
42:11 I got to tell you about this, if you're student here,
42:14 I'm glad you freshmen are here.
42:15 If you are young adult here and you would like to check out
42:18 a front porch group no string attached
42:21 we have a front porch group that needs
42:23 every Sabbath morning at 10 o'clock
42:25 over in the student center first floor, ground floor
42:28 in the campus ministry complex
42:31 they gather there they have some snacks together.
42:34 They are building an incredible front porch community.
42:37 Go on over there,
42:38 if you are young adult check it out.
42:40 You say I don't want to be a part of that
42:41 I want to get my own group together.
42:43 You may, in just a moment
42:44 I'm gonna give you piece of paper
42:46 you tell me, you tell me
42:47 what kind of group you'd like to see this church provide.
42:49 Let's see if we can put something together for you.
42:52 Students, come on I know, freshmen,
42:54 look at it's a busy life around you trust me,
42:57 it's just fast pace.
42:59 The years over before it starts it's that bad,
43:02 but if you had a little group that you connected with
43:07 just once a month or twice a month
43:12 somebody once a week.
43:13 If you had a little group that you connected with
43:16 it could just be, it could be the win beneath your wings.
43:18 All right, these are objections.
43:20 I say no, I got to share this one.
43:22 I don't want to sign my life away.
43:25 Don't make me sign a contract.
43:26 Trust me my friend,
43:28 you will not sign your life away.
43:29 Around here Pioneer Memorial small groups
43:31 I can't speak for others,
43:32 our small groups have a sunset clause
43:34 that's means the sun eventually sets
43:36 and the group is over.
43:37 You are never gonna join for life ever, ever, ever.
43:41 We need everyone of us as humans needs
43:43 to be able to get out of it gracefully
43:46 and we'll make sure that you can.
43:48 Final, this is kind of a summary of some responses
43:50 I hear from guys like that.
43:52 But you see, Dwight,
43:55 I'm just not a small groups kind of guy.
44:00 I'm not lonely, I have friends, I'm not a misfit,
44:06 I don't need, I don't need little touchy fuzzy-wuzzy touchy
44:11 healing groups.
44:16 No, I hear that particularly from men.
44:22 I want to tell you something guys,
44:23 we need community even more.
44:26 But let me tell you, you are right
44:27 okay, you're right.
44:28 You got it together, you're cool.
44:31 Initially, initially you are right,
44:34 but listen carefully could it be that the radical power
44:37 of Christian community is
44:39 that what ends up happening is
44:40 you become a part of a group not in order to get,
44:44 you become a part of a group a front porch community
44:47 in order to give.
44:50 That's the secret of Jesus irrepressible joy.
44:53 You think about Jesus oh, mercy Father,
44:56 I have to join that group of misfits down there?
45:00 Why did He have irrepressible joy,
45:02 because He did not come here to get there was nothing to get,
45:04 it was bankrupt down here, he came to give.
45:09 And He says I want my joy to be in you.
45:11 On the eve of His death, I want my joy to be in you.
45:15 So rather than thinking about oh, what can I get,
45:17 what I gonna get, get, get, get.
45:18 No, one-- did it ever occur to you
45:20 that maybe you're on this planet
45:22 because you have something to give
45:24 and there is this small front porch group today
45:26 just leading you to give what God is placed in your life.
45:30 Hey, come on, let's not be too hard
45:32 on each other all right.
45:33 How many of you, raise you hand,
45:34 how many of you picked the family you were born into?
45:36 Just raise your hand.
45:38 Nobody picks his family.
45:40 No girl picks her family.
45:42 You know what, you're stuck that pesky brother,
45:45 that bratty sister you're stuck for life.
45:48 But because of the miracle of love
45:52 you get to saying hey,
45:55 can't stand the guy, but we're family,
45:58 we're family and I really do love them
46:00 in my heart of hearts.
46:02 That's how family is.
46:04 So don't you go around and say well,
46:05 I got to find a group that just perfect like me.
46:07 No.
46:09 All right,
46:11 point is and I don't want you to forget this
46:13 and I'll quickly throw this back
46:15 and then I got to get out of here.
46:18 I want you to know that joining a small group.
46:21 Well, it's true think about giving you're gonna get.
46:24 May I run this by a real quick?
46:25 Four significant blessings you will get
46:28 when you become a part of our front porch spiritual community.
46:31 Let's put up number one.
46:33 "We find strength for life's storms."
46:36 I like to say, this is been a rotten summer,
46:38 too much travel I haven't sail it once
46:40 the boat still under wraps, terrible.
46:42 But when I go out sailing on Lake Michigan
46:44 and it's kind of grain the distance
46:45 I never want to be on Lake Michigan alone.
46:47 When I'm going into a storm
46:49 give me somebody to suffer with me
46:51 just somebody to sit there and go through that
46:54 and pray for me and we go through it.
46:56 Why, because it's no,
46:57 it's terrible to go through a storm alone.
47:00 You don't know what's gonna happen in your life this year
47:02 freshmen friend of mine, you have no clue
47:04 what's gonna happen.
47:07 I have no idea what's gonna happen in my life.
47:09 I just want to make sure that when something,
47:11 when the bottom falls out in my life
47:13 I got a little group around me.
47:15 It's great for when you, let's put it up there please.
47:17 "When you go through life storms we find strength."
47:19 Here's another "We receive wisdom from small groups
47:21 for making important decisions."
47:23 I love the way King Solomon put it in Proverbs.
47:25 He said, as-- have you ever seen a butcher?
47:29 Pull out that butcher knife and that metal file.
47:34 Nobody goes to butchers anymore,
47:35 but it just kind of imagine that happen.
47:38 That's Solomon's point as iron sharpens iron.
47:42 You think it pretty bright.
47:45 Puts you in a group of peers and more experienced in life
47:49 puts you in a group and you suddenly find out
47:51 there is a whole lot of wisdom
47:52 I could go for and I can tap into.
47:55 That's what small communities do they give you that wisdom.
47:57 Give me number three.
47:58 Here's the third significant blessing.
48:00 "We experience accountability,
48:02 which is vital to spiritual growth."
48:04 I know some guys who've gone through
48:05 just some major spiritual,
48:07 I know some girls who've gone through
48:08 spiritual burnout, spiritual meltdown.
48:11 When I go into spiritual meltdown trust me
48:14 I have left the group and I am on my own.
48:18 Some guys say I'm like lone ranger,
48:21 I don't even need tonto.
48:24 But seriously I've read this in one of the books.
48:28 A lone ranger, a lone ranger is alone ranger.
48:35 You're all by yourself.
48:36 Why do you want to go through life by yourself?
48:39 What are you trying to prove?
48:40 you got nothing to prove.
48:42 We need each other, we need each other.
48:45 Okay, there is a four significant blessing
48:47 let's put that up on the screen too.
48:48 "We find acceptance
48:49 that helps us repair our wounds."
48:52 I've lived in this community for a few years now,
48:56 I've lived on this campus for a few years now
48:59 and I've seen people who are secure
49:02 and confident and in control.
49:06 Come face to face with the Christ
49:07 as they just knocks the legs out from under you.
49:12 I've gone through Christ here since I've been here.
49:15 You if you haven't will go through Christ
49:17 see in this journey ahead.
49:19 The joy of a small front porch group is
49:23 that when they come charging in on you
49:26 your friends in that small, that little front porch group
49:29 circles the wagons around you and they say
49:31 we're gonna stand this ground with you, boy,
49:33 don't you worry about it, we got you covered.
49:36 That's what you need, that's what I need.
49:40 And there is only one place you can find.
49:41 You can't get it from coming to church and just worshiping.
49:44 I'm sorry, we don't know what you're going through.
49:46 We can't give you what you need.
49:48 You need a little front porch community
49:50 that says I'm praying for you, boy.
49:53 Girl, I'm with you a 100%.
49:58 Hundred years ago these words are written
50:00 I considered them rather appreciate.
50:02 Look at this 100 years ago
50:05 "The formation of small companies,
50:06 the formation of little front porch communities
50:09 as a basis of Christian effort has been presented to me
50:13 by One who cannot err."
50:18 Because Acts 2 is right.
50:19 That's how a big church like this survives the long haul.
50:26 Student of Andrew's University you need community
50:28 don't you tell me you can do it alone, you can't.
50:31 We'll do everything we can to help you find that community.
50:35 In fact, you know what I wish right now?
50:36 I wish the front of the pew, right ahead of you
50:39 could become you the laptop right now.
50:41 I wish I could put this survey right there
50:43 and you can just fill it out.
50:46 I don't want you to go home and try to fill it in.
50:49 It will enter the data for you.
50:51 Let's do this, inside your worship bulletin right now
50:54 would you pull out please a little buff card
50:56 we'll put it on the screen for you,
50:57 so you can see what it looks like,
50:59 has a rocking chair on it,
51:00 it's called the Front Porch Groups.
51:02 See that card?
51:04 It's says it's not even a card just look piece of paper.
51:06 Open your bulletin right now.
51:07 Ushers, let's go. Ushers, thank you.
51:09 Hold your hand if you didn't get one of these
51:11 I need to hear from you, so just--
51:12 we got golf pencils for you,
51:14 so don't worry this will take 30 seconds.
51:16 Just hold your hand up.
51:18 Thank you, Philip, nice to have you back.
51:21 Hold your hand up and we'll get one of these surveys
51:24 to you and a golf pencil.
51:26 Yeah, just hold your hand
51:27 all the way to the back of the balcony.
51:29 Those of you watching on television
51:31 you can keep watching with us,
51:32 but this is a little in-house moment
51:34 where we gonna do take a survey.
51:37 All right, I'm gonna read a story to you,
51:39 a dynamite story so don't you turn that television off yet.
51:42 But I want to give you just a moment please
51:43 to fill this little Front Porch Groups
51:46 information interest survey.
51:49 Did you get one, you got one?
51:52 You got one?
51:53 All right, just hold your hand up
51:55 if you didn't get it.
51:56 I'm gonna plunge right into while you're doing that.
51:57 Look at, guys, this is a simple little form.
51:59 Name, address, email that's it,
52:05 name, address, email.
52:07 Let us know how we could be in touch with you.
52:09 Listen to me right here please
52:11 nobody, nobody is getting put into a group
52:17 against his or her wishes.
52:20 You by filling this out this will help us very much
52:22 as we think about moving into small groups as a community.
52:26 You're not locking yourself into anything here
52:28 nothing, so just relax on that one.
52:31 Not gonna get a little post card in the mail says show up.
52:36 You don't have to.
52:38 But look at your name, address, email, cell phone,
52:41 you got a cell, everybody is got a cell.
52:42 Okay, now just look at three more circles
52:45 your age category circle it, circle it.
52:47 Watch your age category circle it.
52:49 If you're offended by your age category circle it anyway.
52:53 Are you student or community?
52:55 Circle one or the other student or community.
52:58 That was quick enough.
52:59 And here is a last one time available.
53:01 You know what, if I like this group,
53:04 if I were willing to try this group
53:07 I could meet Monday evenings at.
53:09 Okay, that's all you need to do.
53:10 Circle, as many circles you do want point you could make.
53:13 Now you are freshman, you can say
53:14 I have no idea what my life is gonna be like here.
53:17 Well, you just put that as available.
53:21 But just circle it, if you have an idea
53:22 oh, I working on campus, you know what,
53:25 I'd be free late afternoon, Tuesdays whatever
53:28 doesn't matter to me just put a circle there.
53:29 Finally you got a what kind of group you are looking for?
53:33 Help us, help you just tell us.
53:36 Write any comment down you wish.
53:39 And while you are finishing that,
53:40 'cause we're gonna receive this right now.
53:41 I want to read a story, I want to read a story
53:42 there is a beautiful story.
53:44 It's a personal testimony by gentleman name Rob Thomas.
53:46 I founded in Kay Kuzma's delightful book "Fit Forever."
53:50 Okay, so we're ending with this story, this is it.
53:53 So just thank you for going ahead and filling that out
53:55 while I read.
53:56 My mom's suicide.
53:58 Okay, my mom's suicide rocked my life.
54:03 This guy is writing.
54:05 "My first reaction was shock.
54:07 Then denial. Then anger.
54:08 How could she do this to me?
54:09 To my kids? Then guilt.
54:11 Why didn't I do something more?
54:13 As I tried to put the pieces of my life together,
54:16 I questioned God's role in mom's suffering.
54:18 She was manic depressive.
54:21 And her subsequent choice to end her life.
54:23 Blindly," look, look, "I saw only two options.
54:25 Number one, God didn't fulfill His promise
54:27 not to allow any temptation beyond what mom could bare
54:30 or number two, mom just blew it!
54:33 Either way it was a losing situation.
54:36 Either God or mom screwed up,
54:39 and that conclusion almost destroyed
54:41 my relationship with God.
54:44 Over the next year or two
54:45 I really struggled with my spiritual life.
54:47 In retrospect, I think it was a combination
54:49 of my relatively sterile spiritual life
54:51 before Mom's death, her suicide itself,
54:53 and the subsequent question that raise in my mind
54:56 about God's role in our lives.
54:57 Also I attended a large, impersonal church
55:02 where I had no support group to listen,
55:03 encourage or reinforce to me the truth
55:06 is God who loves and Satan who destroys.
55:10 I'm embarrassed to say that I almost gave up on God.
55:13 I kept going to church but mainly for the kids sake.
55:16 Even though I was struggling, I still believe in the God
55:18 to whom I wanted my kids to relate.
55:20 I didn't want them to grow up not going to church
55:22 because of me.
55:23 Before making a final choice to bail out on God,
55:26 I committed to do some more reading and investigating.
55:29 I read a book by Philip Yancey 'Where is God When it Hurts.'
55:33 " Oh, that's a great book, that's a great book.
55:36 Do you ever want to read
55:38 something it will move your heart.
55:40 "So I read this book by Philip Yancey
55:42 that really helped me to
55:44 'wake up and smell the roses!'
55:45 My family also began attending a smaller church
55:47 where I became involved and made friends
55:49 who love me regardless and I began therapy."
55:52 Guess what, it's okay to get therapy.
55:56 When I have a cold I go to that kind of doctor,
55:58 when my heart is sick
56:00 I go to that other kind of doctor.
56:01 It's okay. It's okay.
56:05 "I began therapy.
56:07 Over the past--" listen to this now here's a punch line.
56:08 "Over the past five years
56:10 I've really come alive spiritually!
56:12 I've benefited from four small groups.
56:15 One secular recover group
56:16 and three spiritually based groups.
56:18 I've had a much more meaningful devotional and prayer life
56:21 and I've been much more active in my church.
56:23 It's been wonderful like my own spiritual resurrection
56:27 I wonder why it took me so long
56:30 30 years to get connected."
56:36 Are you connected?
56:38 Are you connected to a front porch community
56:41 that can journey for you in the midst of living?
56:45 Don't wait long, don't wait 30 years.
56:49 Connect.
56:51 There is a front porch just waiting for you.
56:55 A front porch that desperately needs
56:58 what you will bring.
57:01 Let me take one more moment of your time to let you know
57:04 that one of the blessings I receive from this telecast
57:06 is being in touch with viewers like you all across Michiana
57:09 and our nation and literally the world.
57:12 I am humbled and honored
57:13 with your sharing the journey with us.
57:14 Sometimes it's a Bible question
57:16 other times its an observation or suggestion
57:18 and sometimes just a note to share a prayer
57:20 or a prayer request.
57:22 I'd loved to hear from you and it's so easy to be in touch.
57:24 Just go to our Pioneer Memorial Church website
57:27 www.pmchurch.tv
57:30 and click on contact and then the word pastor.
57:33 And then jot down the message you wish to send.
57:36 If you have a prayer request click on those words
57:38 or call our toll free number 1-877-HIS-WILL
57:43 And I promise you
57:44 that our prayer partners will lift your need to God
57:47 because no body should have to journey alone.
57:49 Not only do we have Jesus but we also have each other.
57:52 So write me won't you at www.pmchurch.tv
57:56 In the mean time may the God whose mercy
57:59 continually runs after us
58:00 be with you 24/7 every step of the way.
58:05 I will see you again right here next time.


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