New Perceptions

The Front Porch -part 1 'we Are Many, But Are We Much'

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Participants: Pr. Dwight Nelson

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01:40 One of the things I love best about
01:41 working at Andrews is the sense of community
01:44 experience with my colleagues.
01:47 Its exciting to, to realize that
01:49 we're all part of the same team.
01:51 We're here because we love Andrews,
01:53 and we want what is best for Andrews.
01:56 One of my favorite verses in Philippians
01:58 is where Paul counsels us.
02:00 "So this is my pray, that your love will flourish
02:03 and that you will not only love much
02:05 but that you will love well."
02:07 And as we get busy in this,
02:09 our days are sometimes really pressured
02:11 that is my prayer to You.
02:13 That we'll love one and other well in community.
02:19 Holy Father, those are words of the Apostle.
02:22 Do you speak them to us as well?
02:25 So this is my prayer that Your love will flourish
02:29 and that You will love well.
02:32 How can our love flourish
02:34 and how shall we love well unless Your love in fills us
02:38 which is why we have gathered this Sabbath
02:41 as a worshipping community.
02:43 Hours, before the school bells begin
02:45 their clanging all over again,
02:49 oh, God who is giving knows no ending.
02:54 We throw wide our hearts to You,
02:56 fix in us Your humble dwelling,
02:59 pour Your faithful mercies new.
03:01 And in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ
03:04 please accept our grateful praise
03:08 as the new year approaches.
03:11 Amen.
03:47 God, whose giving knows no ending
03:51 From Your rich and endless store
03:56 Nature's wonder, Jesus' wisdom
04:00 Costly cross, grave's shattered door
04:05 Gifted by You, we turn to You
04:10 Off'ring up Yourselves in praise
04:16 Thankful song shall rise forever
04:20 Gracious donor of our days.
04:27 Skills and time are ours for pressing
04:32 Toward the goals of Christ, Your Son
04:37 All at peace in health and freedom
04:42 Races joined, the church made one
04:47 Now direct our daily labor
04:52 Lest we strive for self alone
04:58 Born with talents, make us servants
05:03 Fit to answer at your throne
05:27 Treasure, too, You have entrusted
05:33 Gain through pow'rs Your grace conferred
05:39 Ours to use for home and kindred
05:45 And to spread the Gospel Word
05:52 Open wide our hands in sharing
05:57 As we heed Christ's ageless call
06:05 Healing, teaching, and reclaiming
06:11 Serving You by loving all
06:23 Now its turn as congregation to come forward
06:26 and bring our praises, bring our thanksgivings,
06:31 bring our petitions to the Lord of the universe.
06:35 And so we will invite you
06:36 as we saying "Spirit of the living God"
06:39 to join us here at the front.
06:54 Spirit of the Living God
07:00 fall afresh on me
07:07 Spirit of the Living God
07:14 fall afresh on me
07:21 Break me, melt me
07:28 mold me, fill me
07:37 Spirit of the Living God
07:46 fall afresh on me
07:57 Father God, again it is our privilege
08:00 to be here this morning
08:03 to praise, honor and worship You.
08:06 You've brought us here safely after another week,
08:09 after another summer and we thank You.
08:13 In this place we have come to be with You
08:17 and in the next few moments of silence
08:20 we want to quiet our hearts
08:23 so that we can rest in You.
08:30 You have nurtured, You've led us
08:33 as a community of believers.
08:35 From this fellowship has grown Your schools
08:39 and communities of learning.
08:41 We thank You for the obvious signs
08:43 of Your leading and Your guiding
08:46 with our own like with Ruth Murdoch Elementary
08:49 in Andrews Academy and yet Lord,
08:53 we know that some of our brothers and sisters
08:55 are hurting spiritually, emotionally, physically
08:59 and we want to lift them up
09:02 and yet we know that
09:04 there are praises also that we have.
09:06 We praise You for the Father of Pastor Esther
09:11 and the blessing that you've given in that's situation.
09:15 We have also come to the front to bring special praises,
09:19 requests during the next moment of silence.
09:28 Lord, bless Your servant Pastor Dwight
09:32 as he shares with us just those thoughts
09:35 that we need this day in this hour.
09:38 May our minds be opened
09:39 to the working of the Holy Spirit.
09:42 Keep Your healing grace flowing through our cooperate efforts.
09:46 Indeed Lord, we want to seek You first
09:50 best and foremost.
09:52 And only after we have brought our helpless hearts to You
09:56 can we rightly serve others.
09:58 So today we give You our community, our schools,
10:02 our leaders, teachers, parents, and our students.
10:07 But most importantly we hand over to You
10:11 our claim to ourselves.
10:14 We are Yours, use us as You will
10:18 because You are faithful.
10:21 We boldly pray all of this in Jesus name, amen.
30:03 If you didn't bring your Bible pull out the pew Bible
30:05 its page 790 there.
30:11 Here's from the message
30:12 "If you gotten any thing at all out of following Christ,
30:17 if His love has made any difference in you life,
30:21 if being in a community of the Spirit." I like that.
30:23 "If being in a community of the Spirit
30:25 means anything to you,
30:27 if you have a heart, if you care."
30:28 And Peterson italicizes.
30:31 "If you care then do me a favor.
30:34 Agree with each other, love each other,
30:37 be deep-spirited friends.
30:39 Don't push your way to the front,
30:41 don't sweet talk your way to the top.
30:43 Put yourself aside and help others get ahead.
30:47 Don't be obsessed with getting your own advantage.
30:48 Forget yourselves long enough to lend a helping hand."
30:54 You know what we need around here?
30:56 No true, we need, what we need is a front porch.
31:01 I've read a book that is really
31:03 stirred up my thinking this summer.
31:05 Written, by Joseph R Myers title of the book
31:08 "The Search to Belong, Rethinking Intimacy,
31:11 Community, and Small Groups."
31:14 Now, here, here is Myers point he said
31:16 we as Americans are a nation in search of a front porch.
31:23 Do you think about you just--
31:24 you know when you drive through Berrien Springs
31:27 how many houses in our little community
31:29 have front porches?
31:30 The only ones, isn't this true,
31:31 the only ones are the old, old homesteads with,
31:35 you know, they got to creek
31:38 with a century old collection of memories.
31:40 Only the old houses have the verandas, isn't that right?
31:44 When you go to our where lot of you live these,
31:46 these new developments anybody building front porches anymore?
31:49 Nobody is building them.
31:52 Myer says "we are a nation now in search of a front porch."
31:59 I mean what good is a front porch?
32:02 Have you ever watched Andy Griffith,
32:03 the Andy Griffith show?
32:07 Now, come on don't do you say Andy Griffith who?
32:09 You know, you can notice
32:12 those reruns have been going forever.
32:14 But you know I got to thinking.
32:16 I'm wondering if-- and the students aren't here yet
32:19 but I wonder if the students know the Andy Griffith Show.
32:23 So my PowerPoint man
32:26 the bioengineer student a major here
32:30 just a sharp computer wiz works for ITES
32:32 I think this, he is coming up on his junior year
32:34 and his name is Anthony Willis.
32:36 He is up there in the media mezzanine
32:40 running the PowerPoint right now.
32:41 So I said "I'm gonna check it with Anthony."
32:43 I said, "Anthony, 'look at you're a young man,
32:47 have you ever heard of the Andy Griffith show?"
32:51 He didn't say a word. He went--
33:00 so we whistled it together.
33:03 And you know what if the college students
33:04 were here right now we would whistle the whole thing.
33:08 But as a faculty you got to be, kind of proper
33:13 but Andy Griffith Show.
33:16 Almost every scene in the Andy Griffith Show
33:18 ended in that twirler moment
33:20 when there was that Sheriff Andy
33:24 and his loveable befriend Aunt Bee
33:29 and right at the OP, you remember OP.
33:32 And then of course the rash well accident-prone
33:35 Deputy Sherriff Barney but they'd that last,
33:38 last moment of the show sitting on a front porch.
33:42 I came across the piece by a guy name Scott Cook.
33:46 I would like this for an essay title
33:47 the "Cultural Significance of the American Front Porch."
33:50 Let me read this to you.
33:51 I put it up on the screen for you.
33:53 "The American front porch."
33:55 What we're missing today.
33:57 "The American front porch further represented
33:58 the ideal of community in America.
34:02 For the front porch existed as a zone
34:04 between the public and the private."
34:05 Its true isn't it.
34:06 "An area that could be shared
34:07 between the sanctity of the home and the community outside.
34:11 The front porch fostered a sense of community in neighborliness.
34:15 In the evening as people moved outdoors,
34:18 the porch served to connect individuals.
34:20 The neighbors from next door might stop by one's house,
34:22 sit on the porch and discuss both
34:24 personal and community issues.
34:26 The couple walking down the street
34:27 might offer a passing 'hello' as they passed house after house
34:31 whose inhabitants rested outdoors."
34:35 Hey, come on guys, that's what America needs.
34:37 We need front porches again that's Myers point.
34:41 And in fact I though this is priesthood
34:43 he makes the observation that this generation
34:46 our culture right, right now
34:48 has actually designed a new front porch.
34:51 We got front porches in America yep,
34:53 all through our suburbs
34:55 right to the heart of the downtown
34:57 across the nation and they're around the world.
35:00 And these front porches have a name
35:05 I'll put it on the screen you recognize the name
35:08 we'll put on the screen.
35:12 Come on don't you, don't you pretend like
35:14 what's Starbucks?
35:18 Isn't that true, you think about it.
35:20 Myers says you know the thing about Starbucks he says
35:23 is it what it's providing for this generation and culture
35:27 is something he calls median space.
35:29 That's the in between space.
35:30 I have my intimate space.
35:31 I have my private space and by the way next Sabbath
35:33 we'll be talking about the four spaces
35:34 that Edward T. Hall has identified that we all have
35:37 and we need to belong in these four spaces.
35:39 I will share that with you next Sabbath.
35:41 But Myers is saying we need this median space
35:43 because I have my intimate space
35:45 that's my house very few people
35:46 come into my house only with my permission.
35:49 And then I have this rough and tumble
35:51 work-a-day world of survival that's my public space
35:55 but I need something in between
35:57 and the Starbucks front porches have become that
36:02 where we can socially and personally.
36:04 It's not about this design or cardboard cup,
36:08 it's about making connection.
36:10 I think Myers is right.
36:11 Come on, faculty isn't he.
36:14 America is a nation seeking a front porch.
36:20 I kind of think...
36:22 that's what Paul is writing about don't you.
36:25 I mean if you got anything
36:26 how is it go here in the message.
36:27 "If you got anything at all out of following Christ,
36:31 if His love has made any difference in you life,
36:33 if being in a community of the Spirit
36:35 means anything to you, if you have a heart,
36:37 if you care then do me a favor.
36:39 Agree with each other love each other,
36:43 be deep spirited friends."
36:46 So here is the question come on, think about this.
36:49 How can we create some front porches around here,
36:51 around this campus because we are thinking campus now?
36:54 But I'm willing to think congregation,
36:55 I'm willing to talk community.
36:57 How can we create some new front porches around this place
37:03 for this deep-spirit of kind of friendship
37:05 to be able to foster and grow?
37:08 When you think about Andrews University
37:09 isn't this true, come on,
37:11 Andrews University we are a small
37:14 but big university.
37:17 I know we are not huge in terms of in roaming across the nation
37:20 but look at how many schools are we.
37:21 I didn't write this down you got to help me.
37:23 How many schools are we?
37:24 We have the college of arts and sciences, is that right?
37:27 Okay, school of education.
37:29 I was kind of wandering my mind across campus.
37:31 School of education, school of business,
37:33 school of technology, school of architecture,
37:38 theological seminary, graduate school,
37:43 Ruth Murdoch Elementary, Andrews Academy.
37:46 Did I leave any out?
37:48 Yeah, it's nine schools.
37:52 But we got 1000s here
37:55 who are from literally almost a 100 nations.
37:57 We got faculty, staff and students
37:59 a very diverse population
38:01 that makes Andrews University, Andrews University.
38:03 So here is the question how can we form community
38:06 in a small but large university like this?
38:11 Ever heard of John Wooden?
38:14 You have to be a sportsman to know John Wooden.
38:16 John Wooden the winningest coach in college basketball.
38:21 He used to coach the UCLA Bruins.
38:22 You, you've heard it, wouldn't have you.
38:24 And in fact, 10 of the 12 years
38:27 they went to the national championship
38:28 they won, winningest coach.
38:31 Somebody came to Wooden one day and said
38:32 "hey, coach, how is that you can--
38:34 how is that you can form a team
38:37 out of such a desperate bunch of young athletes?
38:40 How do you do it?"
38:42 And Wooden responded
38:43 and I want you think about the team you are on
38:45 because I'm thinking about the team I'm on.
38:46 Let's put Wooden on the screen here.
38:50 "All members of your team."
38:52 All right you're leader of a team.
38:54 You're member of a team.
38:55 "All members of your team must know
38:57 they're wanted, needed and appreciated.
39:03 And it's the leader's job." See I'm thinking of my own team.
39:06 "And it's the leader's job to help them experience value
39:10 through their experience of belonging."
39:13 And then look at this punch line.
39:15 Look at this, folks.
39:16 "We are many but are we much."
39:22 Boy, that's the title of our little
39:24 sharing time this morning.
39:25 We are many, put that on the screen for you
39:29 "We are many but are we much."
39:34 Isn't that what Wooden is suggesting.
39:37 Out of this-- out of the manyness that we are
39:40 and I'm thinking Andrews University.
39:42 God longs to release the muchness of our potential.
39:45 And that muchness doesn't just happen
39:47 because we are walking the sidewalks
39:48 and passing each other.
39:49 It's gonna take this sense of belonging
39:51 it's gonna take the gift of community
39:53 to release that muchness.
39:55 We are many but are we much.
39:57 So I repeat the question,
39:58 how is it that we can form you and I intentionally together
40:02 form some front porches around AndrewsUniversity?
40:09 Let me close with sharing with you
40:11 two or three suggestions
40:12 that may be your kindred spirit might pick up on.
40:15 Just, two or three of them.
40:16 I wanted to make all three of them
40:18 come out of Paul's reflections here in Philippians 2
40:25 but I couldn't make the first one,
40:26 I can't make this first one.
40:28 So, but here is number one.
40:29 We will make it number one anyway.
40:30 Number one, we need front porch breaks around here.
40:37 I want to part of my doctoral work
40:39 I went Fuller Theological Seminary in Pasadena.
40:42 And I'm telling you what,
40:43 just like clock ward midmorning,
40:46 bells ring you know where everybody goes
40:48 not to the next class everybody heads to the campus,
40:52 space in the middle of that university.
40:54 Faculty and students all intermingling.
40:58 Now they have a strange name for it
41:00 they call it a coffee break.
41:07 But it's integrated into their formal scheduling
41:14 and colleagues interact
41:16 and what it if-- it was great for me.
41:18 I mean, see Peter Wagner
41:19 one of the great writers of missiologist
41:22 and I got to go up to him and always he don't
41:24 and you know and I have little O'Jays
41:25 and just to have that moment for interaction.
41:30 I'm afraid now please don't misunderstand me
41:32 but I'm really afraid that we are so driven
41:35 by our Adventist work ethic
41:38 that like busy little bees
41:39 we just keep minding our own business straight until noon
41:42 and when that noon whistle goes up bang, we are gone.
41:45 There is so no chance in the midmorning
41:49 for us to just drop everything
41:52 and have a little front porch break.
41:55 Now, look I'm not suggesting
41:58 that we open up a Starbucks franchise
42:00 like Notre Dame University students.
42:04 I'm not suggesting that at all.
42:05 You know me well enough.
42:08 But we didn't call a post term break.
42:12 We just got to have a break.
42:15 How could number one, how could this front porch break
42:19 become reality here in Andrews University.
42:21 I'm gonna give you a clue.
42:23 I suppose if we got permission from the third floor.
42:29 I wasn't looking at the president.
42:33 I suppose if got permission from the third floor.
42:37 You know, all our take would be a few deans
42:38 I see some deans here.
42:40 We'll just take a few deans a couple of them
42:42 may be two or three departments sharers
42:44 they put their heads together
42:45 and say, hey, you know what, let's do it.
42:46 We have got to have front porch community
42:49 in our department in our share teams
42:52 what do you say we this particular
42:55 10 minute break let's make it social.
42:58 We'll do some special everyday for our majors for us.
43:02 That's all it would take.
43:03 You know Myers is right. We are a nation.
43:06 I want to rephrase Myers
43:08 we are university in search of a front porch.
43:15 And so Paul can come along say "hey please, please
43:19 if you've gone anything at all out of following Christ,
43:23 if His love is made any difference in your life
43:25 if being in a community of the Spirit
43:28 means anything do you, if you have a heart,
43:30 if you care then do me a favor,
43:32 agree with each other love each other,
43:34 be deep spirited friends."
43:37 Don't you really I love that rendition
43:39 be deep-spirited friends.
43:41 Because, that's number two.
43:42 Okay, they're just three of these.
43:44 There must be one of these you can do
43:46 to create front porches in your life.
43:47 But number two, we need front "porch friends" around here.
43:51 Front porch friends.
43:54 I got to read a story to you would you indulge me.
43:58 Joseph Myers, he describes
44:01 when he-- I think its second grade or third grade
44:03 I will see in just a moment but he tells it an incident
44:07 and that's so disappointing
44:08 and our kids are going back to school
44:09 and saw all these little cherubs upfront here moment ago.
44:13 So let me read this in honor of all our,
44:16 our great school teachers who were here.
44:20 "In the second grade," in the second grade all right.
44:23 "I was Jon's best friend, although it was news to me.
44:28 I'm not sure how this happened.
44:29 Mrs. King, our second-grade teacher,
44:31 gave us in assignment to write a report
44:32 and read it to the class.
44:34 The report was to be titled
44:36 'Can You Guess Who My Best Friend Is.'
44:39 And Mrs. King instructed us to begin with this question,
44:43 but not to reveal the answer until the last,
44:46 the very last sentence."
44:48 Despite his Jon, "Jon did not have great social skills.
44:53 What he did have was a hearing disorder.
44:56 His hearing aids were not the almost
44:58 invisible kind available today.
44:59 On his belt, Jon wore a box,
45:01 with wires from the box running unto his shirt
45:04 to a device in and behind his ear.
45:06 The only time this contraption worked to Jon's advantage
45:09 was when he would turn his hearing down
45:11 or often take a nap right in front of the teacher.
45:16 "Despite his disorder," listen to this,
45:19 "Jon always wore a smile.
45:22 We classmates did tried to warm up to Jon.
45:24 I mean, he was very friendly although he talked funny
45:26 because he cannot hear well.
45:27 It was difficult for him to form words
45:29 the rest of us could understand.
45:30 It was painfully difficult both for Jon and for us.
45:35 The day that reports were due" got to turn into day
45:39 "Jon announced that first recess
45:41 that he was going home with me after school.
45:43 I hadn't invited him.
45:45 At least I didn't recall that I had.
45:47 Jon was smiling from ear to ear as he made this his declaration.
45:50 'Have you asked your mom?' I asked.
45:52 I know, I hadn't asked my mother
45:54 which was a breach of our family's 'Friend Etiquette.'
45:57 'Yeths,' he replied it exuberantly.
45:59 'Well, how you're gonna get home?'
46:01 He struggled to explain that he would go home with me
46:04 after school, eat supper with my family
46:06 which was not acquainted with him
46:07 and ride to the baseball game with us.
46:09 His mother would pick him up
46:10 after we 'slaughtered' as he put the other team."
46:14 You see 'Jon and I played on the same Little League team.
46:16 It is probably more accurate to say
46:18 'I played and Jon watched.'
46:21 During the team warm-ups Jon would throw with me.
46:23 Most of my teammates ignored him.
46:25 It was not very adapted at throwing,
46:26 and it was difficult to understand
46:27 and converse with him.
46:28 The coach was afraid to put him,
46:30 fearing he might get hurt due to his inability to hear.
46:32 But Jon's mother wanted him to fit in, to belong.
46:36 When it was time to present the reports,
46:38 Mrs. King called us up in an alphabetical order.
46:41 Jon's surname slated him last.
46:45 As he moved to the front of the room,
46:46 the class grew tense.
46:48 How would you Jon do?
46:49 Would we be able to understand him?
46:51 Whom would he pick as his best friend?
46:54 Jon struggled to shape words through his beaming smile.
46:57 He could hardly wait to get to the last sense
46:59 so he could proudly announce to the world
47:00 who his best friend was.
47:02 He was not nervous,
47:03 he had practiced hard to stand before us.
47:04 The class understood about half of what Jon said,
47:07 although it became clear that he would pick me.
47:10 The entire length of his report he kept looking at me."
47:16 I just love it. again you see it.
47:18 "And at one point even smiling and pointing to me.
47:22 And then he concluded
47:24 'An myne est friend isth Gio Myerths.'
47:30 That was years ago.
47:33 I had a question then. I have a question now.
47:36 How did this happen without my knowledge?
47:39 How could I be his best friend?
47:41 Did this mean he had to become mine?"
47:46 You know what...
47:49 we have a few people like little Jon
47:55 around this university in our departments,
48:00 in our classrooms, in the third floor,
48:03 the second floor, first floor,
48:05 basement I'm okay where it is
48:07 we got people that are hungry for somebody to notice me.
48:13 We've very full congregation on Sabbath
48:16 do you know there're people
48:17 who come here and don't meet a soul.
48:20 They go home and eat alone Sabbath after Sabbath.
48:25 I have no idea why they keep coming back.
48:30 Next Sabbath I'm going to share with you
48:31 the results of a survey of this congregation.
48:34 I will share a few of those thoughts with you.
48:38 You know what, ladies and gentlemen,
48:39 we need front porch friends around here.
48:42 I know our friendship circles oh, it's too large.
48:45 I can't add, I can't add too more strangers to this.
48:47 Oh, yes you can. Yes, you can.
48:51 There is a Jon here, there is a little Jon here
48:54 that would just love it,
48:56 if you could become as best friend,
48:58 if you could become her friend.
49:02 If you would have room on your front porch
49:03 if you only would for him to rock with you.
49:10 See we need, we need front porch breaks around here.
49:14 We need front porch friends around here
49:17 and then I want to put it on the screen.
49:21 This is the third we also need around here.
49:32 I'm looking at the monitor and I left out a quotation.
49:35 Its so good I'm gonna mess up
49:38 and go back to the quotation can you do that.
49:40 Will that will be okay. This, this is just choice.
49:41 Karen and I when we have our worships together
49:45 we have been reading a little book
49:46 maybe you never heard of it,
49:47 it's called "Sons and Daughters of God."
49:50 And the other day when we are reading
49:52 we came across this line
49:53 and this is too good to skip over.
49:55 And so thanking Anthony for just stealing yourself
49:58 and holding that slide on the screen.
49:59 I want to put something to-- this little quotation.
50:01 Would you, would you take a look at it.
50:03 Take look at there on the screen.
50:05 The author writes "Things will go wrong with everyone."
50:08 Let me ask you something, do things go wrong in your life?
50:09 Come on, be honest.
50:10 Hey, things go wrong with me all the time, don't they?
50:16 You too, "Things will go wrong with every one,
50:18 sadness and discouragement press every soul
50:21 then a personal presence."
50:23 Somebody shows up "a friend
50:26 who will comfort and impart strength
50:28 will turn back the darts of the enemy
50:30 that are aimed to destroy.
50:33 Christian friends are not half as plentiful as they should be.
50:36 In hours of temptation in a crisis,
50:38 what a value is a true friend!
50:41 Oh, such help is worth more than precious pearls."
50:46 Hey, guys I have never owned a pearl in my life
50:50 but I want you to know I want friends bad.
50:53 I want to have a friend.
50:55 Don't you.
50:57 Yeah.
51:00 Oh, "If you have got anything it all out of following Christ,
51:03 if His love has made any difference in your life,
51:05 if being in a community of the Spirit
51:06 means anything to you, if you have a heart,
51:08 if you care then do me a favor.
51:11 Agree with each other, love each other,
51:13 be deep-spirited friends."
51:16 Three of them, you take the one that works for you.
51:18 Number one, we need "front porch" breaks.
51:21 Number two, we need
51:22 "front porch" friends around here.
51:24 And finally, number three,
51:25 we need "front porch" groups around here.
51:28 Circles of--small circles of men, women and young adults
51:31 who are committed to this, this Pauline Passion
51:36 to develop and grow deep-spirited friendship.
51:39 We need them around here.
51:42 In fact, you think about it the early church
51:44 in the Book of Acts there is no question.
51:46 The secret to their explosive growth
51:49 was their front porch communities.
51:50 Let me, let me put it on the screen for you
51:52 Acts Chapter 2 take a look of this verse 46 and 47.
51:57 "So continuing daily with one accord."
51:59 Describing the infant church.
52:00 "Continuing daily with one accord in the temple,
52:02 and breaking bread from house to house."
52:04 You can go ahead and read that.
52:06 "From front porch to front porch,
52:08 because they were socialized.
52:09 They were going from house to house and sharing food.
52:12 "Breaking bread from front porch to front porch
52:14 they ate their food with gladness
52:16 and simplicity of heart,
52:18 praising God and having favor with all the people."
52:22 You think about it the front porch of community
52:25 is what led that early church
52:26 to have such a dramatic impact with the pagan society.
52:29 You know what the pagans are saying
52:31 "see, how these Christians love one and another."
52:34 Wow.
52:38 Front porch communities
52:40 are the secret of the early church.
52:41 Now I got two little bits of good news to pass on to you.
52:47 Number one, you need to know there is a--
52:49 there is a front porch small groups
52:52 somewhere in this university or community
52:54 that is just perfect for you.
52:56 I'm gonna talk about now
52:58 we will deal with it next Sabbath
52:59 but I do want to draw your attention
53:01 because this is in your bulletin.
53:02 See this little purple piece of paper.
53:04 Our leadership team for our small groups' ministry
53:06 put this together.
53:08 You can take it home there is code word
53:10 to get into the website it shows the different groups.
53:13 I wish you were just got to feel a bit risky
53:16 and check out this web site.
53:18 Andrews University,
53:20 our small groups that are beginning to form.
53:23 That's all I want to say about it
53:24 but if you would like to be open to a front porch small community
53:29 I'll just bet you there is one here ready for you.
53:32 May be you'll be the one to get one going I don't know.
53:35 So hang on to this don't throw it away when you leave.
53:37 Take this little purple piece of paper home
53:38 it has to code word on it
53:39 and you just move into that site.
53:41 But here is the other bit of I think it is good news
53:43 and you need to hear this.
53:46 And that is you don't have to join a small group
53:51 in order to experience community and belonging.
53:56 I got that from reading Joseph Myers book,
53:59 The Search to Belong.
54:01 And I must tell you that when I read that
54:03 that was just kind of like this, this almost inaudible
54:09 because I know sometimes when I deal with the subject
54:10 and may be when you, when you read other literature
54:13 its almost suggesting that
54:14 if you're not a part of small group my man,
54:16 "A" you're not a good Christian
54:17 and "B" you don't know the meaning of community
54:19 and "C" what's matter your sense of belonging.
54:21 You almost feel guilty for not joining a small group.
54:25 But Myers says no, no, no,
54:27 what every human shares is this, need to belong.
54:31 We've got four different spaces we talk about that next week.
54:33 Four different spaces where
54:34 we could find that need fulfilled.
54:37 Not everybody has to join a small group to belong
54:39 but I need to quickly say
54:42 if you're working with a little stereo type
54:44 of what a small group is
54:45 I want you to just abandon that for a few days.
54:49 I hope to reshape that.
54:52 Because it may be that for you
54:54 the very kind of belonging you're hungry for
54:57 can only come through a front porch small community.
55:02 Sign on that purple piece of paper.
55:05 That there are three of them ladies and gentlemen,
55:06 number one, we need small, we need,
55:08 we need "front porch" breaks around here.
55:11 Number two, we need
55:12 "front porch" friends around here.
55:13 Number three, we need "front porch" groups around here
55:16 because you know why, we need Jesus that's it.
55:20 I mean you think about it all three of these suggestions
55:22 really centered down in the Lord Jesus Himself.
55:25 Because who would you rather have
55:29 for a front porch break than the one who says come to Me.
55:32 Hey, hey are you-- are you worn up
55:34 and you hasn't even started yet
55:35 come to Me, I will give you rest.
55:38 He is the perfect front porch break that you and I need.
55:41 Who better to have as a front porch friend
55:43 than Jesus Himself who when He looks into our faces
55:45 before He goes up to cavalry
55:47 he says "by the way guys I need you to know
55:49 I have called you friends."
55:52 I mean who better to have in a front porch small group
55:56 than the same Jesus who said
55:58 where two of three of you get together
56:00 in My name I'm there.
56:02 Ladies and gentlemen, it all centers on Jesus.
56:05 We're just why Paul after he makes this
56:07 impassioned appeal for community
56:09 the very next verse, verse 5
56:11 "Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus."
56:18 Because you see when you have the mind in to Christ
56:20 I kind of like to read that
56:21 when you have the heart of Christ
56:24 you are in search just like Jesus
56:27 for another front porch.
56:30 Hey, listen I don't know a lot,
56:31 you're lot brighter than I am but this much I know
56:36 sooner or later if you follow Jesus sooner or later
56:41 you're gonna end up on the front porch
56:46 and when I think about all of us
56:48 it occurs to me that sooner would be a whole life better.
56:58 Let me take one more moment of your time to let you know
57:00 that one of the blessings I receive from this telecast
57:03 is being in touch with viewers like you all across Michigan
57:06 and our nation and literally the world.
57:08 I'm humbled and honored
57:10 with your sharing of journey with us.
57:11 Sometimes it's a Bible question,
57:13 other time it's an observation or suggestion
57:15 and sometimes just a note
57:16 to share a prayer or a prayer request.
57:18 I'd love to hear from you and it's so easy to be in touch.
57:21 Just go to our Pioneer Memorial Church website
57:24 www.pmchurch.tv and click on contact
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57:40 and I promise you that our prayer partners
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57:43 Because nobody should have to journey alone,
57:46 not only do we have Jesus but we also have each other.
57:49 So write me won't you at www.pmchurch.tv
57:53 In the mean time may the God whose mercy
57:55 continually runs after us be with you 24/7
57:59 every step of the way.
58:01 I'll see you again right here next time.


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