Welcome back, we're exploring
the two great commandments
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that Jesus explains
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and declaresin
Matthew, Chapter 22.
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Ranko, you've, you've helped
us understand a little bit
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but I sense some more here.
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And I also sense
this is personal.
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Yeah, Glenn, I hope
that the viewers will notice
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that I'm very
charismatic about this
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in talking bout this passage
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because when I talk
about my previous life,
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um, I had hard
time in loving people
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and relating to
people and actually,
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God used this passage
to change my own life.
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That's why this passage
is so much important to me
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and I would like share
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actually in dealing with
this text I want to share
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with the viewers how
God changed my own life.
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Glenn, you know, when
we talked to department
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usually I'm perceived by
students to be a loving teacher
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Actually, it happened
about thirty years ago
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they would not have
such opinion about me.
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I believe that God
can change everybody,
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God changed me
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and dear viewers, I
just want to tell you
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if God was able to change
me God can also change you.
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All right, so
we've explored the fact
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that these two commandments
are very much connected.
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So Glenn, the first commandment,
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I don't want now to
talk too much about others,
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because evidently Christians,
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they try to have that
right relationships with God
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they're
struggling, but we can notice
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and I believe that the
viewers will agree with me
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that the problem that we have
in our lives is how generally
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to relate to other people.
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These are struggles of all us.
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How can I love my enemy?
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How can I do the people
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when they don't
treat me justly etcetera?
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How to practice it?
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So let's try to see
what we have in the text.
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Ranko, you're implying that
we even though we're convert,
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even though we're baptized
there're still some struggles.
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There are strugglers
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and genuine Christians
are struggling with this.
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Wherever I go
people are asking me
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many, many
questions about how to apply,
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how to put in--
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Scripture's realistic here.
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Yes, so Glenn, let's go
to the second commandment,
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"you shall love your
neighbor as yourself."
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By the way if we go to the book,
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to the, to James,
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James, Chapter 2, verse 8.
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He calls, "you shall love
your neighbor as yourself,
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as the royal commandment."
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By the way, do you
know, that several times
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in the New Testament
this royal commandment,
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"you shall love your
neighbor as yourself"
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is repeated in New Testament.
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Never the first four, only this.
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Evidently this is what
people are struggling about.
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So let's go to that.
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Glenn, you need now to help me.
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You shall love your
neighbor as yourself.
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How many parts do you
have in this commandment?
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I don't want to
put you on the spot.
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It's 3 parts.
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Which are the 3 parts?
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The first part
is the imperative.
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I don't like to use
the expression, command.
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This is not command,
imperative, you shall love.
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The next one, the question is,
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whom, whom shall I love?
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The answer is, your neighbor
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and the third part
is how shall I love?
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And the answer is,
as you love yourself,
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and I know that
many aspects of this,
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what we just
presented, is misunderstood.
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So let's go piece by piece.
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The first one
is, you shall love.
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You see, the
word you shall love,
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that Jesus employed here
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is found here in
the gospel of Matthew.
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It's actually the word agapao,
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from which the word agape comes.
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This word is, refers to the love
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which is
actually of divine origin,
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unknown to ancient Greeks.
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It's specifically
the biblical concept,
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you see that love, agape love,
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that only God possesses.
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We're not born with that love,
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it's actually imparted to
us as a,as a gift from God.
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Okay these--
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Ranko, if I, if I might
just intrude here for a moment.
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Please, please.
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I think many times people
feel that love is a feeling.
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But I don't feel
like loving them.
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This is not
about, about feeling,
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you see, this is
the gift from God.
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This love is all inclusive.
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You remember when
we talked in the Sermon
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on the Mount is we have
to love all people as God,
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thus we have to
be perfect as God.
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Because He gives His rain,
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He gives His sun
to both good and evil.
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It includes all people.
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Number one, it's all inclusive.
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Second, it's unconditional.
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I love this love agape
not because people love me
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but so many times
despite the fact they love me.
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When I was a young
person an idea came to my mind.
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I heard something very similar
and it brought me to think.
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This love is like a
rose, flower, okay, a rose.
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You know, you take
rose from the bush,
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you put to your nostrils,
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boy, such a very nice aroma.
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Then you take that rose,
put it down on the ground,
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you trample, put in the
dust, do what ever you want.
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Take that rose, put
back to your nostrils,
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it's still the same aroma.
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This is what this
love is all about.
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This is what Jesus did.
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He loved His
disciples whether they were good
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or sometimes they
struggle with issues.
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He loved even
Jerusalem that rejected Him.
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He cried over
Jerusalem, even on the cross
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when He was being crucified.
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"Father, forgive them
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because they don't
know what they do."
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This is the first one.
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But the second one also provide
clarification to the first one.
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Who are those
that we are to love?
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You shall love it.
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The answer is, your neighbor.
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Actually, the
Greek word Plésion,
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that is used, let
me translate in English
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as the word neighbor
is a correct translation.
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In my language the word,
believes me, means neighbor.
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But what is the meaning
of the word neighbor, Glenn?
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It's old English.
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What is the
meaning of neig--neighhbor?
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We usually think of
the one who's near by.
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Somebody who's...
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This is exactly
what Jesus taught.
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You see, it's very
easy to me to stand here
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in front of camera
and say to our viewers,
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I love you.
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It's very easy to love
people who are faraway from me,
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I don't know them.
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And so many times I hear
stories about the mission field
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People are hungry,
people are suffering.
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can be so, you know,
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caught with my
emotions and take my wallet
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and take money to
send to the mission field.
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But when I'm
here in the classroom,
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when I see my neighbor,
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the student who's there in there
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who's suffering
financially, then I calculate,
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he doesn't know to deal
with the money, etcetera.
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its much easier in our lives
to love people who are faraway
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than those who
are our neighbors.
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Glenn, who's
your first neighbor?
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Right in your own home.
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Your wife, next one, children.
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Do you know that it is
the most difficult thing
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to love my wife and my children?
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And it might be sometimes
difficult for them to love us.
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When we go to restaurant
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and how easy to offer the chair
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to another person, etcetera,
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but when my wife
comes, how do I treat her?
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I remember so many times
and I know that God forgave me.
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I try, I was always patience
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with young people,
trying to help them.
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When they ask me question
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I will sit, let
me explain to you
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and then I come home, I'm tired
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and my own children
ask me something question,
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please leave me
alone, I'm tired.
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You know, who's
next my neighbor?
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My neighbor,
next house they are.
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I'm coming from
the part of the world
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where neighbors are always
fighting against each other.
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She can came to
my side, you know.
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Who's next of my neighbor?
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The people that
are working there.
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When you come for the first time
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to your office,
everybody is nice.
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You love everybody,
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but when you become
familiar with people,
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when they're close to them,
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when they're
really your neighbors.
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That's the test.
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This is the test of my love.
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I know, my wife watch
me preaching about this
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and then I would,
I would sit in my car
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there in PMCA on
campus of Andrews University.
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I'm going to the
church, Sabbath morning,
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I'm driving my car
and suddenly front of me
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there's that, that
shiny car flip flop me
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cut the way, I almost hit there,
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you know, that car
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and there is
something, that anger within me.
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You know, students from Andrews
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driving there without thinking
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and my wife said, keep in mind
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at that this moment
he is very close to you,
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he's your neighbor
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And suddenly how
my attitude changes.
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Yes.
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My neighbor.
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Actually, I remember when
I preachedthere in Chicago
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I preached about that
and I try to tell people,
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you see, it's very
hard to love our neighbors
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But if you want to love people,
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you have to make
them your neighbors.
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It makes sense?
This is the paradox.
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Do you remember the
parable of the prodigal son?
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His brother came there
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he didn't want
to enter the house
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but the father says,
come, see your brother.
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If you see his repentance
he will become your neighbor,
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very close to you
and then you love him,
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your opinion will
change, change about you.
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I remember I preached in Chicago
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and that one
person wrote to me a note
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and he said, we
got the new neighbor,
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he said and I came out,
he was there in his yard.
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I wave hands, he did not react.
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It happened several days.
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He didn't want to
even, even to see me.
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want to make a long story short.
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He said, after two months
I start to hate that person.
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I couldn't stand him
any more and my wife said,
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hey, our neighbor has birthday,
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I prepare cake,
let's go to visit them.
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No, I didn't
want to go, he said.
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My wife went with the
cake and she came back
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and I ask in cynical way,
so what about our neighbor?
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She said, I love them.
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Oh, really? She
said, how can you--
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why wouldn't you
love a blind person
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who's such a
nice person toward us?
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He said, then I
realized, that person was blind.
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I was judging that
person and grudge against him
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but then my wife make
him really our neighbors,
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that she saw his situation.
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Our relationships changed.
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Number 3, then how
to love your neighbor?
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Jesus said, as
you love yourself.
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Glenn, I am not
always happy of my accent.
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I'm not happy of
the color of my voice
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I have very strange voice.
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I'm not happy always
with regard to my actions,
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how I behave.
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Every evening, I pray to God
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to forgive me the
way how I treated people.
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I'm not happy always with myself
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but despite the fact
that I'm not happy how I look
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how I talk, how I
behave, I still love myself
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and want other
people to respect me.
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Jesus said, this is the way
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how you should
love your neighbor.
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You're not always happy
how your neighbor look like.
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You're not always happy
how your neighbor behaves.
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You're not always
happy with many things
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with regard to your
neighbor, but in the same way
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that you're not
happy with yourself,
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you still love yourself,
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so you should
love also your neighbor
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even though you're
not always happywith him.
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This is what Jesus tried to--
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We shouldn't think
that what He's telling about
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here is some psychological
thing of self affirmation.
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He's saying, look you
naturally love yourself.
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It's genuine.
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Extend that to others.
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You remember, I was
forgiven ten thousand dollars
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How not to love other
people who owe me little?
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I want, I want to make
an appeal to our viewers.
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Some of you are good Christians
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belonging to that Christian
community to your church.
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Some of you're struggling
with your relationships
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with your own family,
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different people you're
meeting on the daily base.
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Our struggle is
how to love people.
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We love because God loved us
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and can give us strength
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to love other
people if he loved us.
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