Having some trouble connecting with your teenager? 00:00:05.37\00:00:07.94 Give music a spin. Their tastes may shock you, 00:00:07.97\00:00:12.14 and I mean that in a good way. 00:00:12.17\00:00:13.81 Take the time to really listen with them. 00:00:13.84\00:00:16.31 Ask them why they like certain songs and styles, instruments. 00:00:16.34\00:00:20.42 Some of what you hear may be difficult or offensive 00:00:20.45\00:00:23.95 but be gentle and use the time to learn about their interests 00:00:23.99\00:00:27.59 not project yours. 00:00:27.62\00:00:29.32 You may be surprised about how much they really know. 00:00:29.36\00:00:32.33 In addition, you'll find that they may learn to appreciate 00:00:32.36\00:00:35.23 your music choices too, simply because you took the time 00:00:35.26\00:00:38.63 to care about theirs. 00:00:38.67\00:00:40.44