Making it Work

Staying Married

Three Angels Broadcasting Network

Program transcript

Participants: Arthur Nowlin & Kim Logan-Nowlin (Host), Marvin & Tina Kyle

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Series Code: MIW

Program Code: MIW000057A


00:31 Hi, I'm Dr. Kim Logan-Nowlin.
00:33 And I'm Arthur Nowlin.
00:35 Okay, Arthur, you know being married and working together,
00:39 it takes a lot of energy.
00:41 Yes.
00:42 Didn't it take a lot of energy to be married to me?
00:43 Oh, Kim. Why do you say, oh, Kim.
00:45 I don't have enough energy.
00:48 You know, I like things moving, I like to keep things going
00:51 and being motivated.
00:53 Yeah, absolutely.
00:54 I think that's, you know, a wife's job
00:56 to keep her husband going.
00:57 I mean who gave you that job?
00:59 Jesus, in the name, the Lord said
01:01 submit thyself unto thy husband.
01:03 Ah, no, Kim.
01:04 Don't you think I submit, do I submit?
01:07 You're taking too long to answer my question.
01:09 Let's move on from that subject, yeah.
01:10 Let's move on? No I want an answer.
01:12 Do you think I am a submissive wife?
01:13 No. Oh, really?
01:17 Am I difficult?
01:18 You can be, you know, but you know,
01:21 once again I have to relay back,
01:24 Kim how fortunate you are, with the type of person I am,
01:27 and with my personality, I'm able to adjust to you
01:33 as well as get you to adjust to me.
01:35 So being equally yoked? Absolutely.
01:38 So that's important, being equally yoked.
01:40 Willing to be equally yoked, you know--
01:42 I'm willing.
01:43 Because, being equally yoked, I'm under the impression that,
01:46 you can think that you're equally yoked
01:48 but still you have to work on it.
01:50 It is a daily process.
01:52 It's a constant process. I'm a work in progress.
01:55 Yes, and I am too, Kim.
01:56 Praise the Lord, I'm so glad you said that.
01:58 Well that takes us to our interview.
02:01 You know, with Tina and Marvin, building a marriage
02:06 that's going to be able to stand the test of time.
02:08 There's been a lot of ups and downs in this marriage
02:12 and we've been counseling them for a long time
02:14 but they are in it to win it.
02:17 And I'm excited about that, so marriage takes work,
02:21 it takes to being a submissive partner,
02:24 submissive, that means the Bible says,
02:26 husbands submit thyself unto the Lord.
02:29 Amen. Yeah.
02:30 You know, Arthur, you do, you really do.
02:32 I think at times I've to say that I give you a hard time
02:35 because I'm not stubborn,
02:37 it's just sometimes I just like things my way.
02:39 Kim, Kim. What?
02:40 That's not to say that you're not stubborn,
02:42 I mean, we're talking about being honest, right?
02:45 Right, right, right.
02:48 We don't want to go back to the lying stage.
02:51 Well, listen, I want to submit.
02:53 But listen, we're going to go to the interview
02:55 with Tina and Marvin
02:57 and the importance of how to stand
02:59 the test of time, staying married.
03:05 Marvin and Tina Kyle, thank you for being on Making It Work.
03:09 Let me ask you, how long you've been married?
03:11 Seventeen years.
03:13 Seventeen years, where did you meet?
03:15 Well, I was in high school, I was in the tenth grade
03:19 and my best friend had told me that she knew a guy
03:23 that was really nice for me to meet.
03:25 And I met him after school, yes,
03:30 and he was older than I was
03:33 and I've been knowing my husband
03:35 since I was 15 years old,
03:37 he's a little older than I am but--
03:40 Just a little.
03:41 So we've been-- we've known each other for a long time.
03:44 Okay and you have how many children?
03:46 We have three children. And what are their ages?
03:48 Miranda is 12, no I'm sorry, Miranda is 16,
03:51 Marvin is 12 and Tovin is 2.
03:54 Okay, so let me ask you,
03:56 what are some of the challenges you face in your marriage
03:59 and how do you make it work?
04:03 Well, some of the challenges that we face in our marriage,
04:07 communication, it's really hard when one partner,
04:12 me being a female
04:14 who communicates about everything,
04:18 try to communicate with someone who has a closed mind
04:23 about communicating.
04:25 My husband, he is very quiet when it come down to
04:30 talking about issues that need to be discussed
04:33 and so it's really a hard way
04:41 of trying to make it work and come together
04:43 when we have issues that need to be discussed,
04:46 just the small things, because sometimes I forget,
04:49 and he remember more than I do
04:53 but when it comes to dealing with issues in our marriage,
04:59 that's where we hit the head.
05:02 And, Marvin, when she discusses issues with you,
05:08 is that like a red flag for you or something, I mean,
05:11 to the point where you don't want to share your feelings?
05:17 I don't think it's a red flag, I just think far as a man, men,
05:22 men normally keep stuff bottled up.
05:26 I don't know why, I don't know, we're just wired that way.
05:29 For lots as men just keep things in,
05:31 we don't want to like just release everything,
05:34 we want to just get everything in little increments.
05:38 I think if we did do more like that,
05:41 we'll have better relationships out there.
05:43 If you communicate.
05:44 If you communicate more and understand
05:47 that communication goes a long way
05:51 and when you don't communicate,
05:53 that's when you can get things misconstrued,
05:56 change that where people think
05:58 you're saying one thing you're not.
05:59 And if you go ahead and communicate with each other
06:01 and fall on the same level or same page, then you're good.
06:05 Is that something that you want to do?
06:07 Yes. Okay.
06:09 Why is it that your wife said that
06:11 that's the problem in your relationship?
06:14 It's a problem,
06:15 but that's something you've to work out
06:17 and it's not just with me and her,
06:19 it's with myself
06:20 and I'm going to have to be able to open up more.
06:23 Open up more, be able to discuss more things,
06:26 you know, some things, you know,
06:27 you probably don't want to discuss,
06:28 but you just got to just let go and just talk about them
06:32 and that's all the way.
06:33 Were you raised with both your parents?
06:35 No. Okay.
06:37 Started off with both parents
06:38 and then it was just one and my mother.
06:40 So I think when you don't have that man figure in the house,
06:44 sometimes you might go, like, quiet
06:47 though she gotten more quiet than anything,
06:49 I don't talk a lot,
06:51 I think that has something to do with it,
06:53 but, you know, with your mom, she really can't be the father,
06:59 she can want to be the father and do things
07:02 to try to replace that role, but she can't.
07:06 So you said that by the dad not being in home
07:11 left a void with you.
07:13 Mm-hmm.
07:14 Okay, so how do you overcome that?
07:17 I don't know, do you really overcome it.
07:19 I think you can--
07:22 Well, if you're stagnating.
07:23 Right, you're stagnating,
07:24 but I think you can eventually get over it,
07:28 I mean, 'cause you know you've your own kids
07:30 and things and you've to learn from that
07:33 'cause your kids looking to you to be the father,
07:36 you know, to, you know, have fun with him,
07:39 do everything that your dad didn't do,
07:40 so you have to change the way you think.
07:43 And so, I think it is a possibility
07:46 of what you can be that man,
07:49 that you want to be far as the father to your kids
07:51 and get past that, so--
07:54 Do you trust sharing information with your wife?
07:59 Yeah, I trust sharing information,
08:01 it's just sometimes like I say, it's just being difficult
08:04 'cause I guess, I won't say we're bullheaded far as men,
08:07 but we just like just... ourselves.
08:11 I mean we can talk to another guy,
08:13 it won't be no problem.
08:14 We will let everything go in front of another male,
08:16 but when it's talking to your significant other,
08:19 it's a little different,
08:20 but I think we just got to understand
08:23 that they are here to help us
08:25 and they are not there to hurt us.
08:27 And we've got to understand that, we've got to just let go.
08:30 Do you think you're both equally yoked?
08:32 You know the Bible speaks about,
08:33 "Be thou not unequally yoked."
08:36 And do you feel that you're equally yoked
08:38 as far as your personalities, you likes or dislikes,
08:42 which you know, just overall.
08:44 Do you feel that you're equally yoked Tina?
08:46 I think we're equally yoked in terms of our childhood.
08:51 We both come from childhoods that were very challenging
08:56 and with that said,
08:59 I thought we were coming together
09:01 with a goal of wanting to create
09:03 that family environment for our future,
09:06 for our children.
09:08 So in speaking in that term, I think we're equally yoked.
09:13 But there are times that I think
09:15 that we're unequally yoked, spiritually,
09:18 because like I said, I'm more verbally
09:21 and my prayer life is a little more aggressive
09:28 I would say, than I would say,
09:31 I don't know how often he prays,
09:32 I can't speak for him but I speak for me.
09:34 I'm more aggressive with my prayer life with God.
09:37 And I think that if we'd just come together,
09:41 live more and be one, on one accord spiritually,
09:47 I think that would be a challenge
09:49 that we could overcome.
09:51 But that's one of the challenges
09:52 that we face in our marriage
09:54 is not being able to come together
09:56 and be on one accord
09:58 in terms of prayer and seeking God.
10:01 What's blocking you from being on one accord?
10:05 You know, being the husband, being the spiritual leader,
10:07 is it the work schedule?
10:09 I mean, what is it that keeps you all from praying together,
10:12 reading the word together, regular attendance in church,
10:16 tithing together, what is the block?
10:20 I think it's, I think it's...
10:26 a work of the enemy
10:27 who's trying to tear the family,
10:30 the foundation of our family down and we allow it to happen.
10:35 We have to make decisions
10:38 in terms of what are we going to do today.
10:40 Are we going to pray today?
10:42 Are we going to fellowship today
10:44 in terms of reading our Bible and praying together?
10:46 We have to make that decision,
10:48 but the enemy set a blocks in our family
10:52 where we're too tired or we're too busy
10:54 or the kids are pulling at us.
10:58 There's so much going on everyday,
11:00 when you go to work, you got homework,
11:02 you got, okay, you got to take a bath,
11:03 you've got to do this, you've got to do that.
11:05 He come home, he's tired and by the time,
11:08 at the end of the day, we're tired
11:10 and we don't have that time to sit down and say okay,
11:14 let's open our Bible and read
11:17 and let's have prayer, sometimes it's challenging.
11:21 But what I find that works for me
11:25 is morning prayer.
11:27 I have to get up early and that's my time
11:29 that I have with God and I read my Bible and I pray.
11:33 Everybody don't do that.
11:35 That's not for everybody, but that works for me.
11:37 But as a family, you know,
11:40 the enemy is out to tearing up the family.
11:42 There's enemy out to destroy the family.
11:45 So as a whole, we have to make that decision
11:49 to come over, to get over that harm.
11:52 Okay, all right.
11:53 Now hearing what Tina is saying, you know,
11:59 I would think that this has come up
12:01 within your marriage about prayer, you know.
12:06 What are some of the things that you think
12:09 would change the situation
12:12 and allow you to provide that aspect
12:16 within your family structure?
12:19 I think you have to make time.
12:23 You have to make time in some kind of way.
12:25 We make time for everything else.
12:27 Yes.
12:28 You know, you want to go to the movies,
12:30 want to watch sports, you know,
12:31 'cause I'm like into sports so
12:33 you make the time for everything else
12:36 but you don't make time for God.
12:38 and that's the issue.
12:39 I think I we've got to put some of the things behind us,
12:42 put it to the side.
12:44 If we had the TiVo, TiVo and record it, watch it later,
12:47 but I think that's the main thing.
12:49 You have to put things aside and put God first.
12:53 When you put God second, that's where the enemy comes in
12:56 and destroys your family and does everything.
12:59 So I think, that's what I have to do
13:01 and I'm the head of the household.
13:03 It's my job to come in, start praying with the family,
13:08 pull the Bibles out, start, you know,
13:11 start going in depth into the Bible.
13:13 And if I don't do it, who will?
13:17 And I cannot wait for her to do it, I have to do it.
13:20 You know, kids look up to their dad first,
13:22 it's the father and then the wife
13:24 so it's up to me to do it.
13:27 I like something that you all have in place.
13:30 Wednesdays are your days off
13:32 and you get the children after school
13:34 and you take them out to eat.
13:36 You take them to some type of activity
13:38 and you really spend that quality time
13:41 and one of our exercises was that
13:43 you would pick up the baby, baby Tovlin
13:46 and you were to go home and cook
13:47 and I think that night you all had pizza
13:49 and you just enjoyed watching the television program
13:53 but how did that feel?
13:55 Just letting her go to work, come home, do nothing,
14:00 all right, she called me, she says,
14:01 "I not supposed to do anything?"
14:03 and I said, "Nothing."
14:04 You know and you took care of everything
14:06 and she said you did.
14:07 How did that make you feel?
14:09 Felt good, it felt good, and I know it's my day off
14:12 and I know she had a hard day's work,
14:14 so sometimes it's good for her to come home
14:16 and just relax and unwind
14:18 'cause I know being at work it can be stressful.
14:21 It can be stressful, you know
14:23 who you're dealing with all day,
14:24 you only feed or not,
14:26 it can be physically, it can be mentally,
14:28 so sometimes it's good to just come home,
14:30 you know, and be able to relax and enjoy the family
14:34 instead of warm up everything to do.
14:36 Okay.
14:37 One of the things that I'm interested in is finding out
14:42 if you have a plan for your marriage?
14:46 Does that make sense to you?
14:47 Definitely.
14:49 You know, and what is that plan?
14:50 What's the plan
14:52 for a successful relationship between the both of you?
14:57 What do you think?
14:59 That's a good question.
15:00 That's the key-- That is so massive.
15:02 That's a good question. That's a good question.
15:04 I haven't, you know--
15:05 Now and then. Yeah.
15:07 That was good, you know, I got to borrow that one.
15:10 I don't want you to.
15:11 I will say basically a plan is basically you should make time
15:15 for each other which date night.
15:18 Have a date on a certain day, have a family night
15:21 and I think always keep the family far as
15:24 when it's dinner time or anything,
15:26 bring everybody to the table.
15:27 It's so easy for, some of be upstairs, on the phone,
15:31 or on a computer and everybody is everywhere.
15:34 To bring everybody together in one place, you know,
15:37 and enjoy each other's company that's the start of a plan.
15:40 Starting to have that unity for us as a family
15:45 and for us just to be in the kitchen
15:47 cooking together, you know, on a Sunday or something.
15:50 That's something that is good for the family.
15:53 Even you can bring the kids in
15:54 if you're making desserts or something,
15:56 bring them in, have them help, you know,
15:59 I think they'll love that, you know,
16:01 and besides just try to always go somewhere
16:03 'cause sometimes you find can't do this,
16:05 so you always can do stuff together at the home.
16:07 So I think that's a start of a plan
16:09 that could bring everybody together.
16:11 I remember one night, Tina had accidentally
16:15 taken the keys to both cars
16:17 and so you were home with the children,
16:19 you told me it turned out to be just fine.
16:22 In your interaction with the children,
16:27 when they see you and mom together, you know,
16:30 what do they see?
16:31 What do they see between the two of you?
16:33 Well, they just love us being together, I mean,
16:36 when they see us together, I mean, that's everything.
16:39 They don't want us to be apart
16:41 and I think when they see us together
16:43 that gives them the calms or sense of security
16:47 that the parents are going to be together.
16:49 There's no such thing as leaving each other.
16:51 They're going to be always be there for us.
16:53 So I think that's a good thing.
16:56 And like you said when I took them over and had a Wednesdays
16:59 and have fun with them, they love daddy time.
17:01 They love daddy time.
17:03 They love daddy time, they love daddy time.
17:04 They can do it everyday if I could anyway.
17:07 You need to go to work, you don't need to go to work,
17:09 stay home, you know, play with us or just talk to us
17:12 and interact with them and they love it.
17:15 I saw it, I really did when you came here
17:18 and they were very, very attached to you
17:21 and they love mother, oh, definitely
17:23 but usually, you know,
17:25 you don't see the father and I do commend you,
17:28 anytime I ask you to come in, and when you do come
17:30 and the children, what we'd been working on.
17:33 How important is it for you to have the children
17:38 to have a voice in your relationship.
17:40 Do they have a voice?
17:41 I think they should have a voice.
17:43 I think they do have a voice.
17:45 And I think their voice is very important
17:49 because they see things that we don't see, you know,
17:54 when you're in a relationship you don't see the, you know,
17:59 the challenges that you go through,
18:02 all you know is that you're in it.
18:03 And sometimes they may point out,
18:07 you know, things that I may have said
18:10 that was a little harsh or something
18:12 that I could've done a little better.
18:15 And it helps.
18:17 But they have played a big role
18:23 in the survival of our marriage
18:27 because of their voice.
18:29 They are very...
18:35 they have a vary strong feeling about keeping us together
18:40 and not divide us, you know,
18:43 they do everything that they can,
18:44 you know, just to stay out of our way
18:46 and let us be together alone.
18:48 They don't overstep their boundaries
18:51 in terms of being in our room too long now I've noticed that.
18:53 Okay.
18:55 But their voice, yes, it's very important.
18:58 Even though they're children, like back in the day it was,
19:02 children should be seen and not heard--
19:03 Not heard.
19:04 And I don't think that that's the way
19:06 that you would raise a healthy child
19:08 because their voice is important
19:09 and they need to learn to express themselves
19:11 especially in, you know,
19:15 when it comes to their feelings and their emotion
19:18 and being in a relationship with their parents.
19:21 I invited your children to come to counseling
19:24 and I wanted to meet them and talk with them
19:26 to hear their voice and truly they do have a voice
19:31 and they are very open about their feelings,
19:34 what they want and expect in their home
19:37 and what they want from you as parents
19:40 and I commend you for that
19:42 'cause some parents wouldn't have brought their children
19:44 and in counseling it doesn't mean you're sick
19:47 or you're messed up or you're insane,
19:51 it means that you're just asking for some directions,
19:54 you know, 'cause all we can give you--
19:55 And my husband taught me this a long time ago,
19:57 his suggestions is up to you to implement those suggestions.
20:02 Where do you all go from here to continue to making it work?
20:07 What do you do?
20:08 What are you going to do?
20:09 I'm going to continue praying
20:12 and ask God to give me the strength to be the mother
20:17 that I need to be for my children.
20:19 And to give me patience when they come to me and whine.
20:24 Because there are times when I want to give up,
20:27 and I want to quit, and I want to run,
20:29 but I know that, that's not the answer.
20:36 I want to be more of caring person
20:42 in terms of-- towards my husband
20:44 there are times when I'm tired
20:47 and I don't feel like you know giving myself,
20:52 but those are the times I need to sacrifice
20:55 and be more sensitive to his need.
20:58 And just be more open, you know,
21:03 be open-minded to what could be the possibilities
21:06 of making it work.
21:08 All right, great!
21:09 And Marvin?
21:11 You have about a minute left.
21:13 Come one, tell us what you're thinking?
21:15 It is funny, 'cause I was just thinking of something
21:18 what she said before,
21:19 'cause she had brought up to me about men in intimacy
21:24 and we sometimes run from it
21:27 and it don't always mean physical,
21:28 it can be mentally and I think
21:31 with that long as you intimate physically
21:34 and mentally with your wife,
21:36 anything is possible, anything.
21:38 You can go everywhere with that
21:40 and I think we just got to dig deep down
21:44 'cause like I said we shall shelter,
21:45 we keep everything closed in
21:47 if we release ourselves to each other
21:50 I think our marriage can flourish.
21:52 All right.
21:54 I think one of the things
21:55 that I would like to make a comment on is
21:57 the fact that I see a lot of sincerity in
22:00 how you are expressing your feelings
22:02 about your relationship
22:04 and I just encourage you to focus on the prayer aspect.
22:11 I think that's going to be very significant.
22:14 So that's my encouragement.
22:16 You just hang in there, you know, and don't quit.
22:20 And you can't quit and I have to say,
22:22 when the moment you came into counseling and to now,
22:25 the effort that you are giving, you're making it work
22:27 and you're allowing God to make a change.
22:29 I'm proud of you both, let's keep going forward.
22:32 Can we do that?
22:33 Yes. Yes.
22:35 All right, thank you for being with us.
22:36 God bless you both.
22:38 God bless.
22:39 Thank you. Thank you, Tina.
22:40 Yeah.
22:43 Arthur, how do we stand the test of time?
22:46 You know, there are lot of marriages
22:47 really going through,
22:49 people holding on by a thread to stay married.
22:52 How do we do this?
22:54 How?
22:55 You have to take a risk to give up the old ways
22:58 and do what everything that's required for you
23:01 to keep your marriage together.
23:03 I see.
23:04 You know, if sometimes one person
23:06 is a little bit more sensitive than the other person
23:10 and sometimes that sensitive person
23:13 has to say okay, yes, I was wrong.
23:17 Yes, that I felt that I was disrespected,
23:21 but I'm going to work on my relationship anyway,
23:24 I'm going to try to resolve our issues.
23:27 Just like me, I'd be the first one to say I'm sorry.
23:30 Kim. I apologize.
23:32 Arthur, okay I just got to tell you
23:34 what happened today.
23:36 I was cooking breakfast
23:38 and I was cooking some eggs in the microwave
23:41 and I was going into a discussion with Arthur,
23:44 we're going to keep it real here on making it work,
23:47 so I was looking for an apology from him
23:50 and he said, "I didn't hear it."
23:52 I took the plate of the eggs out
23:54 and it exploded in my face
23:56 and the eggs was in my eyes,
23:58 it was everywhere and he ran to help me,
24:01 and my face was swollen, my neck,
24:03 but still God blessed us to do the taping, to do this today.
24:07 But again recognizing that I was willing to submit,
24:12 but I think if I had to just let it go and I focused in on
24:16 what was going on with the microwave,
24:17 I don't think that would have happened to me today.
24:18 So you said two things right there though,
24:20 may be it is same thing as occurring with the Kyles,
24:25 you know, they had a discussion.
24:28 The Kyles constantly were having disagreements,
24:32 you know, and yet your frustration and your anger
24:37 made you take those eggs out of the microwave.
24:39 I wasn't watching, I wasn't watching.
24:40 Well I was paying attention, you know--
24:42 Right, right.
24:43 And so how many times has that happened in other areas,
24:45 you have not paid attention,
24:47 I will tell you to do something and you'd not pay attention.
24:50 So I'm telling you, you know, once again,
24:53 if you don't follow my lead,
24:54 you may have experiences like that.
24:57 Oh my goodness, you know, again,
24:59 that's where we needs to just be humble,
25:01 humble thyself onto the Lord.
25:03 I tell you-- but I thank you,
25:05 I thank God that you were there to help me
25:07 through that difficulty but with the--
25:09 I got over my frustration,
25:11 my anger and I ran to your rescue.
25:14 You did. Just like a good husband would.
25:16 Okay, but look at the fact that the Kyles,
25:19 how they wanted to give up,
25:21 how they wanted to not be there to help each other,
25:24 like you were there to help me today.
25:25 So, you know, when you say they wanted to give up.
25:28 Let's look at that because did they really want to give up
25:31 because if they really wanted to give up,
25:34 they would not come to seek some type of intervention,
25:39 you know, and they had a desire to do that
25:40 and they've been with us for a while now.
25:42 Oh, definitely.
25:44 You know so they're fighting for their relationship
25:46 but once again they understand
25:48 that there are some barriers within their relationship.
25:50 That's it, there are some barriers.
25:51 That they had to get over
25:53 and it's usually family origin issues.
25:56 Her issues is dealing with how she was raised as a child
26:00 and his is the same way.
26:02 He has expectations of how she's supposed to act.
26:06 All right, so give us some solutions.
26:07 What do we need to do,
26:08 first of all you said we have to--
26:10 I told you earlier,
26:11 one of the things is a person has to take a risk--
26:12 Take a risk. To make a change.
26:14 Okay, we have to take a risk to make a change.
26:16 A paradigm shift.
26:18 Oh, I like that paradigm shift.
26:19 So while I'm on one freeway and it's shut down,
26:21 I'm not going to sit there if I see a way or exit.
26:24 I'm taking that exit and getting off that freeway.
26:28 So I won't stay stagnated.
26:30 You're going into a different direction.
26:31 I'm going into a new direction?
26:33 You expect a different solution.
26:35 All right, now what else?
26:36 The second thing is that you understand
26:39 that it may not work the first time,
26:43 but I don't stop trying.
26:45 Did you hear that?
26:46 You don't stop trying
26:47 even though you don't see an instant release.
26:49 Lot of people look for instant gratification.
26:52 Absolutely. It's not going to happen.
26:54 The behavior didn't occur overnight
26:56 and it's not going to change overnight.
26:58 So we have to be patient.
27:00 I think patience is a great avenue to use, you know,
27:03 an asset to use, okay.
27:04 Patience is excellent.
27:06 You know and beyond all of those solutions,
27:09 primary thing is that
27:11 they have to come together through prayer.
27:13 Prayer, prayer.
27:15 I'm telling you, without the power of prayer
27:17 and the Holy Spirit, you just can't do anything.
27:21 You need God to lead you.
27:23 Arthur, I just want to say God is leading, He's moving,
27:27 and remember, with God I can do all things through Christ.
27:31 God bless you. I'm Dr. Kim Logan-Nowlin.
27:33 I'm Arthur Nowlin. God bless.


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