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- Hello, and welcome
to "Jesus for Asia Now".
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I'm Natalie Wood and today
I have Joshua Bauder with me
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and he's here to share
with us some of the stories
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of what God's doing
in the lives of children
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there in Thailand that come
from difficult circumstances.
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Welcome to the show, Joshua.
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- It's awesome to be
here, thank you, Natalie.
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- So glad we can
have this opportunity.
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- Me too. - To share
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some of the stories.
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Now, we've had
you on our show before
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so people might
remember some of the stories
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of what you're doing.
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But can you
share with us briefly
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a little bit of
your conversion story?
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Because I know it's an amazing
testimony of what God can do.
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- Well, I was a drug
dealer in Spokane, Washington
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for about 10 years and
then I started reading my Bible
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and got convicted of the things
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that I was doing
wrong or wasn't doing.
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And after that I
started going to church
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and I became a Bible
worker in Hayden, Idaho.
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And I felt the conviction
to go to overseas missions
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and God just
took off from there.
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- Wow, so then you
ended up in Thailand.
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And you were
single at the time though.
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- I was.
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- So what happened, 'cause
now I know you're married.
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How did God bring that about?
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- Well, I got married.
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- Okay. (Joshua laughing)
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No, um, so, I met my wife
and here's a picture of her,
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this is the first
time she ever ate a burrito
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and I met her and I
made a deal with God before,
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I'd been celibate,
stayed away from all women
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for about five years
and I made a deal with God
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that the next woman
that I meet, the next woman,
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not the next woman I
meet, but the next woman I date
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will be the woman that I marry.
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So, keep all these
women out of my life
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that you don't
want me to be with
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and He brought my
beautiful wife into the picture
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and after seeing
each other for little bit,
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we decided to
fast and pray and see
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if that was what God
really wanted for us.
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And so we fasted from
each other and we fasted,
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we did a Daniel
fast for two weeks
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where we fasted and prayed,
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and it was the two
hardest weeks of my life,
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and so we said that we
would show up at a certain spot
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at 10 o'clock on this day and
we only had a 10 minute window
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so if we weren't there
in that 10 minute window,
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then it was very obvious
that God didn't want us together
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and we were both there
and the rest is history.
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- Wow, wow, so
when you got together,
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then you started
working in the slum
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and we've seen a little
bit of that on the show before.
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So, can you share
with us a little bit
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of how God worked
you into this mystery?
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- So we were
struggling to find a church
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where we felt like we fit in.
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And we had been
hearing about the slum church
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for quite a few months
and we really wanted to go,
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but we couldn't
find time to get there.
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And when we finally got there,
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we realized that this is
where God wanted us to be.
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It was very focused on outreach
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and there was a
ton of kids there
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and we just, we just fit in.
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- [Natalie] And this
picture that we have?
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- Yeah, this was when we
started our after school,
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you know, weekend program.
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This is where we teach
English and we teach ukulele
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and we help them
with their homework
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and we have a
little snack in between,
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we're eating some
guava, anona, and rambutan.
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- So you
mentioned teaching English
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and teaching
them to play ukulele,
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how did the children respond
to this kind of interaction
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and this kind of
ministry that you were into?
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- They loved it.
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Kids wanna go somewhere
where they can have fun
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and they can learn new things
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and there's really no
opportunity to do that
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in the slum and so
when we started offering
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stuff for them to do,
the kids were always there.
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- So did you see
any changes in attitudes
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or ways of
interacting in the young people
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that you were working with?
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- We saw a lot of
changes in the kids.
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We noticed big changes
in the way that they think,
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in the way that they act, in
the fighting that was going on.
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When we first got there,
they were fighting all the time.
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They wouldn't listen to anyone
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and little by little,
and I mean little by little,
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they would listen more and more
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and they got to the
point where they really started
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to respect us and
we had a program set up
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where they would get
rewards and things like that
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that they really loved
so they started to listen
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and they started to
change and memorizing verses
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and singing songs really helped.
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- Wow, I know that's
really neat to hear the changes
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were coming
because these kids come
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from really
difficult circumstances.
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So I know that this
picture, this next picture,
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shows around their houses.
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Kind of a physical environment
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and there's a lot
of trash in the water,
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there's a lot of water, and
a lot of trash in the water.
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- Yeah it's really dirty there.
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It's really, really dirty there.
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There's dog poop on
the walkways everywhere
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from all the wild dogs.
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I mean, you can see
the pollution of the water
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and this water they
swam in, they catch fish in,
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they eat out of this.
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These kids were just
surrounded by dirtiness.
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- Right, and it
wasn't just physically dirty.
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There's drugs in the
slum, there's other illegal
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activities. - Everything
that you can think of.
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Thailand is a place
where anything is available
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to you and the
problems that are in the slum
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are horrible
anywhere you are in the world.
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Just seeing the depravity
they go through every day,
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it's just really hard to see.
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- Yeah, so the
physical abuse, maybe?
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- Physical, mental,
sexual, everything you can think
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of happens there.
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- Wow so these kids
have history and background.
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- Yeah they all have sad
stories, they all have sob
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stories, and you think
you have a sad story yourself
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until you go there
and meet these kids
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who don't even know
that they have a sad story.
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- Because it's normal.
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- Because it's
normal for them, yeah.
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- [Natalie] Wow, so
then this next picture.
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- Yes, so these
were our first two kids.
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Nut is the boy and he was 13.
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The girl is Preaw and
she was 16 at the time.
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We were super proud of them.
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We were super happy
to send them up there
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and they were our
first two students
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and we thought everything
was just gonna turn around
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for them and
changing the environment
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was just gonna be the best thing
that ever happened to them.
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- Changing the environment.
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- Yeah, we didn't realize
the problems that they had
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because some of the
problems were too deep
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and too hard to talk
about so we didn't understand
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everything that they
were running away from
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or everything that
we were getting into
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when we sent them up there
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and about six months
into their schooling,
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living in the
dorms and everything,
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Preaw was just
having too many problems
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with the problems
that she had before,
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caused her pain inside of
her, caused her physical pain,
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and she decided that she
would be better off dead.
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- So she tried
to commit suicide?
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- Yeah.
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- And you got a phone call.
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- We were at church on
Sabbath and we got a phone call
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saying that we
needed to go up there
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and so we got on the
bus and we got up there
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as quick as we could and
this is how we found her.
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With IVs and everything in her
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and so many
questions of what happened
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and what was going on and why.
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Why was the biggest one.
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And the pain that she
had just been going through
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from leaving everything and
not dealing with the problems
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and all those things
just kind of eating at her.
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She just decided it would
be better if she wasn't alive
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and so she tried to kill herself
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and we looked for a plan
trying to find a plan somewhere
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but we couldn't find one.
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So we started praying.
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My wife and I, we
prayed for three or four days
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while she was in the hospital.
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We didn't have a lot of
time to dedicate this in prayer
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and we prayed as much
as we could and we said,
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"God, what should we do?",
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and God kept putting the parable
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of the lost sheep on my mind.
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And because we had our
ministry in the slum going,
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you know, the 99, and I
guess she would be the 100,
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that we sent to
Chiang Mai and we just felt
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like God was
calling us to leave the 99
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and come and take
care of the one sheep.
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- Wow, I bet that
was a hard decision.
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- It was very hard, it's
very hard to leave a ministry
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that you love and even when
God is calling you away from it
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and you know you're
doing the right thing
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and you know you're going
where God wants you to be,
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it still makes it very hard
to leave something like that.
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- To leave the known
and to leave not knowing
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if someone would take up
the work you were leaving?
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- Exactly and especially
when we see the, you know,
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we see the pain that the
kids are going through every day
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and the one
outlet that they have,
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it's very hard
just to leave that.
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- Yeah, so you were
moving from Bangkok,
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which is a big city,
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to Chiang Mai which
is out in the country.
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Chiang Mai Academy,
anyway, is out in the country.
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And so this brought
up some questions besides
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just physically should
we move or should we not.
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There were transportation
issues, I mean in Bangkok,
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how were you getting around?
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- We were riding
around on a motorcycle
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and we just had a
motorcycle accident
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that put the fear
of God into my wife,
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where she didn't want to
get on the back of a motorcycle
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again and now we had three
people instead of two people
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and you can't really take
three people as big as we are
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on a motorcycle and
so we started praying
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and John happened to
be there and he said,
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"You guys can't
ride a motorcycle,
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"you need to get a car."
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and me looking at all
these other projects going on,
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the bible workers in
India and all these people
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doing these great things,
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it was hard for me to
imagine that God would
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want us to have a car.
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The way that God
worked it out was so amazing
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because the day that we got her
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and moved up there was the day
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that we were able to get a car.
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It was really amazing and
the way that God worked it out
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we knew that God
wanted us to have a car
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and He wanted us to
have a daughter as well.
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- And then the
question was, also,
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where are you going to live?
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- Yeah and we had no idea.
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I called John
actually, and said,
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"John, we don't
have a place to live,
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"do you know anybody up there?"
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'cause we didn't
know anyone up there
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and the Love4Asia office
is right up by the school
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and so I called
John and asked him
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if he knew anyone up there
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and he said, "Oh,
well we have this house"
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and we went and we
stayed in it thinking
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we were just gonna
stay there for a week or two
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and now it's our home base.
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- Wow, yeah, because
this lady approached John
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and said, "I
wanna do this for God"
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and so she offered it
to us at a huge discount
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from the sale price
she was asking before
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and then John said,
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"I had to, I felt like
I had to honor her faith"
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and then you needed
it right after that.
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- And it's just
amazing how God has a plan
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that we don't know about
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and as much as we think
that we know, we don't know.
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John did something that he
had no idea what he was doing.
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We did something and we
had no idea what we were doing
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and God just
brang them both together
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and He put is in that
house and now we have a house
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that's just barely
big enough for everybody
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that we have in it (laughs).
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- So you were trying
to show her you loved her
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and trying to have
a stable home life.
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Is there a story that
goes with this picture?
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- Yeah, well this is just
a regular everyday picture,
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but this is the kinda stuff
that we were doing with her.
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Just helping her
with her homework,
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teaching her how to make stuff.
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Right here we're making a cake.
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I think it's for
my wife's birthday
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but it might have
just been for us to eat
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because I really like cake
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and so we just do stuff with
her, and just hang out with her
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and just show her
how much we love her.
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We tried to give her confidence.
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I got all the
verses I could think of
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in the bible that talk
about having confidence in God
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and that God
will take care of you,
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He'll mount you
up on eagles' wings
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and give her that confidence
that she could be good
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at whatever she did.
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There was a call
porter program for the kids
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that we'd go on
during their break
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and Preaw wanted to
do it but she wasn't sure
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that she would be good at it
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and I said, "You're
gonna be number one.
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"You're gonna sell the
most books out of anybody".
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We gave her a plan and
we taught her how to pray.
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We taught her how to
pray to sell the books
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and just how to have confidence
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when you're going to sell them
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and not confidence in yourself
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but confidence that God
is gonna take care of you.
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- To help you.
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- Yeah, He's gonna
bring you to the people
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that He wants to
have these books.
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She didn't really believe it.
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I don't think she
believed it, she said okay,
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but I don't really
think she believed it
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until she went and sold
the books and she was better
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than everybody and she
sold about double the books
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as the next person sold.
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So this picture here
is her getting an award
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for being the
number one book seller
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and after that her
confidence just took off.
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After she realized that
she was good at something,
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because in the
slum, nobody tells you
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that you'll be good at anything.
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They tell you all
the bad things about you
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and they try to plan
your future in the worst way
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and so when she got confidence
in that it just took off.
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She saw God's love,
she could feel God's love.
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She could feel that we loved her
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and that just made
her so much stronger
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to do all these
other things and you know,
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when you feel the love
of God for the first time
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you wanna share it with everyone
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and that's what
she started doing.
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This picture right
here she's getting the kids
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from our neighborhood and
she's reading "My Bible Friends"
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to them and explaining the bible
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and she, everyday after school,
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she'll get all the kids to come
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and she'll set it up
like she's the teacher
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with rewards and with
tests and everything like that,
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and she teaches
the kids ukulele songs
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and bible verses
and bible stories.
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Her confidence is just
getting higher and higher
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and she's realizing that
she's good at a lot of things
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and all she has to do
is have confidence in God
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that she can do it and
she'll be able to do anything.
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- Wow, well praise the Lord
that that's not just affecting
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her it's
affecting her willingness
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to share with others as well.
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So Preaw is not your only child.
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You sent Nut also to
Chiang Mai Adventist Academy
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at the beginning so we
wanna go back to his story
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a little bit here at this point.
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These are pictures of him.
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- Well, when we sent Nut,
you see in the first picture,
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he's a little boy in there
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and now he's starting
to look like a grown man.
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He's about as tall as I am now.
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The first year that they
were up there he started getting
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involved with the wrong crowd
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and in the dorm,
just like any dorm,
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when you get 18
year old boys together
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there's gonna be drugs and
alcohol and things like that
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and he was hanging
out with those kids
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and all of them
got kicked out but him.
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I just thought he was really
good at hiding it, you know.
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He started to come live
with us at the beginning
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of this school year and it's
been awesome having him there.
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He is so responsible, he
is one of the smartest kids,
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he is the smartest
kid that we have actually.
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He really loves being there
and we love having him there.
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- Wow, praise the Lord.
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- Yeah it's really been awesome.
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- That's really great.
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Okay, so you have more children.
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The next one is
Ice, is her name.
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- Yeah, so Ice
is my wife's niece,
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and she decided
about three years ago
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that she wanted
to be a Christian
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and it's really hard where
they live to be a Christian.
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Especially working on
a farm and everything.
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It's hard to find time
to really set aside to be--
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- To have a
devotional life that's needed?
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- Yeah and to go to church,
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because there's so much work
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that needs to be done on a farm.
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So up there she couldn't
get that break and her parents,
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they kinda flirted with
Christianity and still are,
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but really
haven't made a decision
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so it's been really hard for her
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when she already
made the decision
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and so she decided
to come to live with us
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and she wants to
learn how to be a Christian
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and she wants to learn English
before she goes to University
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because she's
already graduated high school
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so she's taking a
year off to really learn
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how to be a Christian.
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We've been doing bible studies,
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she's been
homeschooling with us,
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her and Preaw both have
been home schooling with us.
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In bible class we're
going through baptismal studies
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and so hopefully not soon
after I get back to Thailand
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they'll both be
getting baptized.
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- Wow, praise the Lord.
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So Ice didn't come
from the slum in Bangkok?
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- No.
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- She came from a
different area of Thailand.
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- When Preaw actually
tried to kill herself,
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everyone from the
slum heard about it
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and we had five kids who
were going to come this year
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but their parents all said no.
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They said, "If she tried
to kill herself up there,
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"I don't want to
send my kids to come
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"because then they'll
wanna kill themselves"
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and all the doors that we
had worked so hard to get open,
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they just got
shut right in our face.
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We're hoping when they go back
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and when people see the change
that those doors will reopen
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but since they weren't
open we had to reach out
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to other areas and we
have two kids from Khon Kaen,
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two kids from Sa Kaeo,
and two kids from Bangkok now.
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And so Ice is from Khon Kaen,
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and then Daonin and
Sam, they're from Sa Kaeo.
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They're brother and
sister, 13 and 14 years old.
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They're really awesome kids
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and before they
came up to live with us,
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Daonin was praying
that God would take
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her out of the Buddhist school,
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because all Thai
schools are Buddhist.
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He would take her out
of the Buddhist school
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and He would put her
in a Christian school
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and she'd been
praying for about six months
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and when we
showed up at their door
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and she knew that
we were gonna send her.
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We just showed up to
interview her and talk to her
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and she knew
that she was gonna go
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because she'd been
praying for so long
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and the mom said,
"But if you send her,
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"could you really
send her brother too?"
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and at the time all
he did was sit around
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and play video games.
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He would sit on his
phone from three o'clock
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after he got outta school
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until three
o'clock in the morning.
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He didn't do his homework,
didn't do anything, didn't care.
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He was a trouble
maker and when he showed up
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at our house I
couldn't see all the stuff
00:19:39.27\00:19:42.68
that they were
saying around him,
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all the people around the area
were saying he was a bad kid,
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he was lazy, and
all these other things
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and he shows up at our house
and he's just an awesome kid.
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He's one of the
most creative kids.
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He's helpful, he's just a
really fun kid to be around
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and I really enjoy these two.
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They're loud,
they're rambunctious,
00:20:01.36\00:20:05.07
they're annoying at
times but it's really awesome
00:20:05.07\00:20:08.60
and I'm really glad
that they're in our house.
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- Wow, well praise the Lord.
00:20:10.77\00:20:12.67
So you have one
more girl at this point.
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- I call her
Beat, or Beatsa Beatsa,
00:20:14.61\00:20:17.01
I have all kids
of nicknames for her.
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She's from Khon
Kaen as well as Ice.
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She had a much
harder life than Ice though.
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She comes from kind of
a bad area in Khon Kaen
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and her mom is a
construction worker
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which is the lowest
rung of society in Thailand.
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She is married to a man,
and this man is a very bad man,
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in my opinion, and he as
soon as Boot started to develop
00:20:41.24\00:20:45.04
and become a woman he
started inviting her out,
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making her come
out, not inviting her.
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Making her come out to
drink with her and his friends
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because one of his
friends had a thing for her
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and, you know,
these are 30 year old men,
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30, 40 year old men,
00:21:00.56\00:21:02.46
and he's bringing his
13 year old daughter out
00:21:02.46\00:21:05.03
to come and sit with
them while they drink
00:21:05.03\00:21:06.93
and this guy would show
up at her window at night
00:21:06.93\00:21:11.40
and things like that and
when her dad would get drunk
00:21:11.40\00:21:14.57
he would try to
drag her into his room.
00:21:14.57\00:21:17.64
It was just really
sad to hear these things
00:21:17.64\00:21:20.54
and we didn't
even know these things
00:21:20.54\00:21:22.21
until we got close to her
00:21:22.21\00:21:26.92
and she was
opening up more and more.
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Her mom tried to kill
herself in front of her
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when she was about
10 years old so there's
00:21:31.95\00:21:35.42
a lot of hurt and
there's a lot of pain
00:21:35.42\00:21:37.29
but Boot is so happy and being
here with us she's so happy.
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- [Natalie] So
this is a picture?
00:21:43.53\00:21:45.00
- Yes, so this is a
picture of all six of our kids
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and only one of them really,
00:21:49.14\00:21:51.07
two of them
capture the personalities,
00:21:51.07\00:21:53.04
the other ones
are just pictures.
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Daonin and Sam, that's
really their personalities
00:21:55.64\00:21:59.21
and it's makes me sad to see it
00:22:00.42\00:22:01.48
because I really
miss them right now.
00:22:01.48\00:22:03.59
- Yeah, makes you homesick.
00:22:03.59\00:22:05.19
- Yeah, definitely, and these
are all our girls together.
00:22:05.19\00:22:09.19
You can't get a picture
of the boys together really
00:22:09.19\00:22:11.36
because they don't
wanna take pictures
00:22:11.36\00:22:13.19
but all the girls
love to take pictures
00:22:13.19\00:22:16.50
so this is all
four of them there.
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Ice is 18, Preaw is 17,
Boot is 15, and Daonin is 14.
00:22:18.67\00:22:23.74
And they're just like a
group of loud, loud sisters.
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- So the volunteer, is
she one of your relatives,
00:22:31.61\00:22:34.55
is she somebody from Thailand?
00:22:34.55\00:22:36.18
- We got a
volunteer from America
00:22:36.18\00:22:38.02
and her name is Raquel Reyna
00:22:38.02\00:22:40.52
and she has really
taken on that grandma role.
00:22:40.52\00:22:44.73
It's really nice to have,
but she's only gonna be with us
00:22:44.73\00:22:48.13
for another five to six months,
00:22:48.13\00:22:50.53
and we're really
looking for a grandmother
00:22:50.53\00:22:54.70
who wants to do some mission
work in a low risk environment.
00:22:54.70\00:22:59.67
Low risk, high
reward environment,
00:23:00.78\00:23:02.78
where you just get
to be around the kids
00:23:02.78\00:23:05.65
and hang out and watch
them when we need a break.
00:23:05.65\00:23:08.85
- And connect with them.
00:23:10.09\00:23:12.02
- Connect with them, you
make friends for a lifetime
00:23:12.02\00:23:15.36
doing this and you
make kids for a lifetime
00:23:16.42\00:23:18.76
and you can make
grandkids for a lifetime.
00:23:18.76\00:23:21.00
- That's true, that's true.
00:23:21.00\00:23:22.96
Well it's amazing
to see how God has led,
00:23:22.96\00:23:25.50
through all these
changes in your lives
00:23:25.50\00:23:27.94
and it's so wonderful
to see how He's providing
00:23:27.94\00:23:31.64
just what you
need at the right time
00:23:31.64\00:23:33.58
and the love for these kids
00:23:35.04\00:23:36.18
and the wisdom I'm
sure that sometimes is like,
00:23:36.18\00:23:38.91
"Lord what do we do now?"
00:23:38.91\00:23:40.98
- It's been an amazing journey
00:23:40.98\00:23:43.72
and yeah, the wisdom,
the what do we do now,
00:23:43.72\00:23:47.96
it's everyday for us
but God takes care of us
00:23:47.96\00:23:50.83
and He provides
everything that we need
00:23:50.83\00:23:52.76
and it's been really
awesome just to see God work
00:23:52.76\00:23:55.60
through us and
for us and with us.
00:23:55.60\00:23:59.23
It's been awesome.
00:23:59.23\00:24:00.64
- Wow, so speaking of you
and Chitlada needing a break,
00:24:00.64\00:24:05.21
sometimes and the volunteer
you have now having to leave
00:24:05.21\00:24:10.28
in five or six months, you
really do need somebody to come.
00:24:11.58\00:24:14.62
- Yeah we're
looking for an older woman
00:24:14.62\00:24:17.42
who has the
desire to be a missionary
00:24:17.42\00:24:20.56
and has the courage to
go where God wants her to go
00:24:20.56\00:24:24.19
alone and come to a
place where she can't speak
00:24:24.19\00:24:27.76
the same language
and take care of kids
00:24:27.76\00:24:31.80
who won't understand what
she's saying all the time.
00:24:31.80\00:24:34.90
Someone who really
feels like God has called them
00:24:34.90\00:24:37.31
to be here because we
need a grandmother type role
00:24:37.31\00:24:42.21
to be filled for the
days when we need a break
00:24:42.21\00:24:44.98
or we need to get away or
we have to go do something else
00:24:44.98\00:24:48.25
around Thailand.
00:24:48.25\00:24:49.62
Someone who can be there
and take care of the kids.
00:24:49.62\00:24:52.59
Someone who wants
some new grandkids
00:24:52.59\00:24:55.82
and someone who
really wants to get involved
00:24:55.82\00:24:58.43
in the kids'
lives and teach English
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and just have fun with the kids.
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- So okay, sponsoring the kids.
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We wanna talk about
that briefly at least.
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Sponsoring them, are
they fully paid, fully funded,
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or how does that work?
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- Well right now
we have one child
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that's fully sponsored
but we have five other ones
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and soon we'll have seven
other ones, or six other ones,
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that aren't sponsored.
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So right now we have six
kids and we only have one
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that is
sponsored to go to school.
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So we're looking for
people that have a heart
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to help kids get education.
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People who prayed about it
and they've given it to God
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and really feel
like God is really put it
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on their hearts to help
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because sending a kid to
Chiang Mai Adventist Academy,
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if they're in the
dorms, like we have two,
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it costs about $1500
a year for just tuition
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and room and board
and a little bit of food.
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That's not for all
the costs that come up
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with medical and all the other
stuff that they have to buy.
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But it's about $1500 a year.
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Then we have the kids
that are at our house.
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Which it costs about
$600 a year just for them
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to go to school, not
food, or fun, or travel,
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or anything like that medical,
dental, any of that stuff.
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Just for the school.
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And so we're looking
for people who would like
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to sponsor one of these kids.
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Who would like
to get to know them,
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maybe even possibly
come over and visit them,
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because everything I've
learned that having six kids
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is really expensive and
we didn't realize how much
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it was going to be.
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They have
counseling, they have school,
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they have clothes,
they have fun sometimes.
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Just everything that
comes along with it and all the,
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I didn't realize
how much teenagers
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hurt themselves either and
how many things that they didn't
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take care of in the past that
need to be taken care of now.
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It seems like every week
we're surprised by a new bill,
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a new surprise and so we
need sponsorship for these kids.
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If you've prayed about it
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and you've really given
it to God please contact us.
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- Thank you so much
for joining us today, Josh,
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and for sharing the
lives of these young people
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and the blessing
that they are to you,
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and the
challenges, yes of course,
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but seeing what God's doing
in their lives, it's awesome.
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- It's really awesome to
be able to share their stories
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and I praise God that
He's given me this opportunity.
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- I would like to invite you,
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if you would like to be
involved in this project,
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you can contact
us at Jesus for Asia,
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P.O. Box 1221,
Collegedale, Tennessee, 37315.
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Call us at 423-413-7321,
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or visit our
website at Jesus4Asia.org.
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May God richly bless you
until we see you next time,
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on "Jesus for Asia Now".
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(gentle music)
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