[theme music playing] 00:00:04.63\00:00:07.64 ¤¤ 00:00:07.64\00:00:10.61 [energetic music playing] 00:00:39.73\00:00:42.70 ¤¤ 00:00:42.70\00:00:45.71 >> Welcome to It Is Written 00:00:52.08\00:00:53.21 Canada. 00:00:53.21\00:00:54.05 Thank you for joining us. 00:00:54.05\00:00:55.12 What is everything you ever 00:00:55.12\00:00:56.69 prayed for was finally within 00:00:56.69\00:00:58.42 your grasp? 00:00:58.42\00:00:59.32 The glamour, the fame, the 00:00:59.32\00:01:00.72 fortune, the dream that you 00:01:00.72\00:01:02.62 worked so hard to achieve, 00:01:02.62\00:01:04.63 it was now yours for the taking. 00:01:04.63\00:01:07.23 However, as the spotlight grew 00:01:07.23\00:01:09.50 brighter, the shadows around you 00:01:09.50\00:01:11.90 deepened. 00:01:11.90\00:01:13.37 Would you be able to hold on to 00:01:13.37\00:01:15.47 your faith while standing on the 00:01:15.47\00:01:17.81 stage of worldly recognition? 00:01:17.81\00:01:20.34 >> Today we're honoured to 00:01:21.18\00:01:22.68 introduce a truly remarkable 00:01:22.68\00:01:25.45 guest whose story is a testament 00:01:25.45\00:01:28.18 to the power of faith 00:01:28.18\00:01:30.05 amidst life's most extraordinary 00:01:30.05\00:01:32.72 opportunities. 00:01:32.72\00:01:34.56 Joey Aguilar's incredible 00:01:34.56\00:01:36.93 musical talent propelled him 00:01:36.93\00:01:39.66 into the limelight at 00:01:39.66\00:01:41.30 a young age. 00:01:41.30\00:01:42.73 >> A gifted composer, writer, 00:01:42.73\00:01:44.73 and performer, Joey's passion 00:01:44.73\00:01:46.74 for music was undeniable. 00:01:46.74\00:01:49.40 His dedication and skill set him 00:01:49.40\00:01:51.84 apart, earning him a coveted 00:01:51.84\00:01:54.54 record contract with a major 00:01:54.54\00:01:57.11 music producer in Beverly Hills, 00:01:57.11\00:01:59.81 California. 00:01:59.81\00:02:00.95 >> But what happens when the 00:02:01.72\00:02:03.62 dream you've worked so hard 00:02:03.62\00:02:05.25 to achieve collides with 00:02:05.25\00:02:07.39 challenges that test not just 00:02:07.39\00:02:09.52 your talent, but your values, 00:02:09.52\00:02:12.43 faith, and identity. 00:02:12.43\00:02:14.73 Joey's journey takes us beyond 00:02:15.90\00:02:18.30 the glitz and glamour, revealing 00:02:18.30\00:02:20.64 the deeper struggles of 00:02:20.64\00:02:22.20 navigating success while staying 00:02:22.20\00:02:24.87 true to your divine calling. 00:02:24.87\00:02:27.68 >> Please join us in welcoming 00:02:27.68\00:02:30.08 Joey Aguilar as he shares 00:02:30.08\00:02:32.98 a powerful testimony of faith, 00:02:32.98\00:02:35.25 courage, and the choices 00:02:35.25\00:02:37.22 that shape a life 00:02:37.22\00:02:38.82 devoted to our 00:02:38.82\00:02:40.69 faithful Heavenly Father. 00:02:40.69\00:02:43.39 [humming while playing piano] 00:02:43.39\00:02:46.36 [JOEY] I'm Joey Aguilar 00:02:46.90\00:02:48.10 and I'm originally from 00:02:48.10\00:02:49.90 British Columbia. 00:02:49.90\00:02:51.00 I'm married to Esther Aguilar 00:02:51.00\00:02:53.07 and my- I have two kids, 00:02:53.07\00:02:55.00 Sophia Emma and 00:02:55.00\00:02:57.71 Owen Gibson. 00:02:57.71\00:02:58.74 ¤ More than I could fathom ¤ 00:02:59.51\00:03:02.18 ¤ or comprehend ¤ 00:03:02.18\00:03:07.52 [JOEY] So I lived in 00:03:07.52\00:03:09.15 Vancouver Island in Victoria. 00:03:09.15\00:03:12.09 And when in grade five, my 00:03:12.09\00:03:14.46 family moved to Loma Linda, we 00:03:14.46\00:03:16.83 had family in Loma Linda, my 00:03:16.83\00:03:18.06 had family in Loma Linda, my 00:03:18.06\00:03:19.19 passion for music, I guess, has 00:03:19.19\00:03:20.96 always been there. 00:03:20.96\00:03:22.63 I would do special musics... 00:03:22.63\00:03:24.33 ...when I was young in 00:03:25.77\00:03:28.04 Loma Linda, Filipino church, 00:03:28.04\00:03:30.47 youth choirs... 00:03:30.47\00:03:32.31 My cousins and a lot of 00:03:32.31\00:03:33.94 the youth were always 00:03:33.94\00:03:36.51 in bands, I guess. 00:03:36.51\00:03:38.35 So we would have all these 00:03:38.35\00:03:39.58 different musical groups. 00:03:39.58\00:03:42.35 So I attended Loma Linda 00:03:42.35\00:03:44.62 Elementary and then junior high 00:03:44.62\00:03:47.09 and the Academy, and then I left 00:03:47.09\00:03:49.56 halfway through the school year 00:03:49.56\00:03:50.93 and went to Orangewood Academy 00:03:50.93\00:03:52.83 and there- Orangewood Academy 00:03:52.83\00:03:54.56 is a smaller school 00:03:54.56\00:03:56.97 so it actually gave me 00:03:56.97\00:03:59.07 more of an opportunity to 00:03:59.07\00:04:01.87 take up some leadership. 00:04:01.87\00:04:03.17 I was assigned 00:04:03.17\00:04:05.87 to do music in their chapels, 00:04:05.87\00:04:08.88 and then I was able to use my 00:04:08.88\00:04:11.35 composing skills. 00:04:11.35\00:04:12.85 Being given the platform in 00:04:13.92\00:04:15.22 Being given the platform in 00:04:15.22\00:04:16.58 these youth programs to be able 00:04:16.58\00:04:18.75 to demonstrate my music and 00:04:18.75\00:04:21.72 play these songs 00:04:21.72\00:04:23.93 and everything. 00:04:23.93\00:04:25.43 I can't say that I 00:04:25.43\00:04:27.30 had a strong 00:04:27.30\00:04:29.33 spiritual relationship 00:04:29.33\00:04:31.17 back then, but I was 00:04:31.17\00:04:33.94 kept in the church 00:04:33.94\00:04:35.30 through those relationships. 00:04:35.30\00:04:37.17 ¤ Praise God from whom ¤ 00:04:37.91\00:04:42.08 ¤ all blessings flow ¤ 00:04:42.08\00:04:46.68 [JOEY] I went to La Sierra 00:04:46.68\00:04:47.85 University and I was in the 00:04:47.85\00:04:49.98 music program there and 00:04:49.98\00:04:53.05 joined the La Sierra University 00:04:53.05\00:04:55.99 Chamber Singers, the vocal 00:04:55.99\00:04:57.79 octet, and I was able to 00:04:57.79\00:05:00.83 join a guys group, just a few of 00:05:00.83\00:05:03.33 my friends, just on the side. 00:05:03.33\00:05:06.33 And we called ourselves 00:05:06.33\00:05:07.27 And we called ourselves 00:05:07.27\00:05:08.74 "Christians by Faith," 00:05:08.74\00:05:09.90 CBF for short. 00:05:09.90\00:05:11.57 And we would sing at, you know, 00:05:11.57\00:05:13.64 the local churches in the 00:05:13.64\00:05:14.98 Glendale, LA, Loma Linda area. 00:05:14.98\00:05:17.58 And the... 00:05:19.28\00:05:20.88 ...school even would use us as 00:05:21.78\00:05:24.52 one of their promotional groups. 00:05:24.52\00:05:26.89 And we would go to camp meetings 00:05:26.89\00:05:29.59 and youth events and sing there. 00:05:29.59\00:05:32.29 Well, our group started to 00:05:32.89\00:05:34.66 get into secular... 00:05:34.66\00:05:36.80 ...venues and secular community 00:05:38.00\00:05:40.07 events and everything. 00:05:40.07\00:05:41.74 [rock music playing] 00:05:41.74\00:05:44.81 [JOEY] And we... 00:05:44.81\00:05:45.51 [JOEY] And we... 00:05:45.51\00:05:46.74 ...would start- started opening 00:05:47.71\00:05:49.51 for Filipino artists, well-known 00:05:49.51\00:05:51.98 celebrities and all that. 00:05:51.98\00:05:54.05 [contemplative music] 00:05:54.05\00:05:57.25 [JOEY] We got a manager, 00:05:57.25\00:05:59.25 who then in turn 00:05:59.25\00:05:59.45 who then in turn 00:05:59.72\00:06:02.22 got us into more 00:06:02.22\00:06:03.93 of the entertainment. 00:06:03.93\00:06:05.99 So the more we were 00:06:06.93\00:06:08.20 in the spotlight and 00:06:08.20\00:06:10.43 it was great, it was 00:06:10.43\00:06:12.77 empowering. 00:06:12.77\00:06:14.47 One of the... 00:06:14.47\00:06:16.17 ...producers for the biggest... 00:06:17.14\00:06:19.44 ...film and music industries 00:06:20.38\00:06:23.35 in the Philippines and... 00:06:23.35\00:06:25.41 ...so he came over to 00:06:26.65\00:06:29.62 the Beverly Hills area 00:06:29.62\00:06:31.32 in one of the suites and 00:06:31.32\00:06:32.89 told our manager, "Hey, okay, 00:06:32.89\00:06:34.69 I wanna hear them. 00:06:34.69\00:06:36.79 Come to my, you know, hotel 00:06:36.79\00:06:38.96 suite at this time." 00:06:38.96\00:06:40.96 So we went there and 00:06:40.96\00:06:42.73 he was there, you know, 00:06:42.73\00:06:44.40 in the dining room and we, 00:06:44.40\00:06:46.07 you know, we stood there and he 00:06:46.07\00:06:48.24 said, "Okay, let me hear you." 00:06:48.24\00:06:49.47 So we sang 00:06:49.47\00:06:51.37 for him a couple of songs. 00:06:51.37\00:06:53.11 And he said, "Okay. 00:06:55.01\00:06:57.35 I can give you a 00:06:58.18\00:07:00.22 five record deal. 00:07:00.22\00:07:01.58 And- but the first thing that 00:07:03.99\00:07:05.52 we're gonna have to do, we're 00:07:05.52\00:07:06.65 gonna have to make some changes. 00:07:06.65\00:07:08.02 First thing we're gonna have to 00:07:08.02\00:07:09.06 do is we have to change your 00:07:09.06\00:07:10.39 name because, you know, 00:07:10.39\00:07:12.89 I have to be honest, 00:07:12.89\00:07:14.00 this is a... 00:07:14.00\00:07:14.93 ...primarily a business. 00:07:16.36\00:07:18.27 And if- I can't sell the name... 00:07:18.27\00:07:20.97 ...”Christians by Faith,” 00:07:22.20\00:07:23.57 you know, anything that says 00:07:23.57\00:07:26.01 anything Christian or the name 00:07:26.01\00:07:27.38 of Jesus in unorthodox 00:07:27.38\00:07:28.61 countries, I can't sell. 00:07:28.61\00:07:30.31 So we're gonna have to change 00:07:30.31\00:07:31.38 your name, and we're gonna have 00:07:31.38\00:07:32.61 to change your image." 00:07:32.61\00:07:34.02 And... 00:07:36.12\00:07:37.12 ...you know, so we looked at 00:07:38.09\00:07:39.25 each other like, okay... 00:07:39.25\00:07:40.52 Then he said, you know, "Maybe 00:07:41.76\00:07:43.86 after the third album... 00:07:43.86\00:07:45.83 ...we'll see, but you can... 00:07:47.30\00:07:49.90 ...probably do a Christian 00:07:51.20\00:07:52.70 values song, 00:07:52.70\00:07:54.90 but still not be Christian and 00:07:54.90\00:07:57.57 not mention Jesus or anything 00:07:57.57\00:07:59.94 of the faith." 00:07:59.94\00:08:01.14 Our image idea of, 00:08:02.14\00:08:04.75 you know, the boy band era, it 00:08:04.75\00:08:06.48 was back then during the boy 00:08:06.48\00:08:07.98 band, that we would have more of 00:08:07.98\00:08:10.29 a bad boy kind of an image. 00:08:10.29\00:08:12.65 And... 00:08:12.65\00:08:13.96 ...if any of us had girlfriends 00:08:13.96\00:08:15.79 that our private lives had to be 00:08:15.79\00:08:17.46 even more private and we 00:08:17.46\00:08:18.99 couldn't, you know, let the 00:08:18.99\00:08:20.46 public know that we had 00:08:20.46\00:08:22.46 girlfriends, you know, 00:08:22.46\00:08:24.30 so we had to appear available 00:08:24.30\00:08:25.87 for our fans. 00:08:25.87\00:08:27.00 So we said thank you and 00:08:31.41\00:08:34.04 we left there and he- 00:08:34.04\00:08:36.71 I had an assignment to 00:08:37.31\00:08:39.05 write some, try and write some 00:08:39.05\00:08:41.48 Top 40 songs. 00:08:41.48\00:08:43.32 And... 00:08:43.32\00:08:44.35 ...we also had a huge decision 00:08:45.22\00:08:46.82 to make. 00:08:46.82\00:08:48.29 We went back and we 00:08:48.29\00:08:50.23 met together, our group, 00:08:50.23\00:08:52.83 and some of us, 00:08:52.83\00:08:54.20 you know, we were- this is 00:08:54.20\00:08:55.30 where you could really see the 00:08:55.30\00:08:56.67 divide in our group and some of 00:08:56.67\00:08:58.30 us were like, "I don't know..." 00:08:58.30\00:08:59.83 You know, and then 00:08:59.83\00:09:01.74 some of us were like, "Yeah," 00:09:01.74\00:09:03.07 you know, "let's do it. 00:09:03.07\00:09:04.17 This is an opportunity 00:09:04.17\00:09:05.27 of a lifetime. 00:09:05.27\00:09:06.27 Let's do this." 00:09:06.27\00:09:07.34 And then and the discussion came 00:09:07.34\00:09:09.08 and we're like, "Yeah, but 00:09:09.08\00:09:11.21 where will we be? 00:09:11.21\00:09:13.28 Like, who will we be 00:09:13.28\00:09:15.32 after three albums? 00:09:15.32\00:09:17.12 Who will we become? 00:09:17.12\00:09:18.89 Who will we be after 00:09:18.89\00:09:19.99 five albums?" 00:09:19.99\00:09:21.19 And it actually 00:09:21.89\00:09:24.83 caused tension in our group. 00:09:24.83\00:09:26.93 It got to a point where 00:09:28.80\00:09:30.77 actually had a physical fight... 00:09:30.77\00:09:33.23 ...and then it took some of our, 00:09:34.77\00:09:36.14 my- the guys in our group had to 00:09:36.14\00:09:38.21 pull us back and to sadly say 00:09:38.21\00:09:39.91 was me, that's why it's hitting. 00:09:39.91\00:09:42.58 And I fought with one of them. 00:09:42.58\00:09:44.31 All of this because, you know, 00:09:45.85\00:09:47.75 we realize, wait, 00:09:47.75\00:09:48.92 what are we doing? 00:09:48.92\00:09:50.39 The reason why it's really 00:09:52.45\00:09:53.72 hitting me is because these were 00:09:53.72\00:09:56.12 my brothers. 00:09:56.12\00:09:57.16 [afflicted music] 00:09:57.16\00:10:00.16 And we were very close. 00:10:00.16\00:10:01.50 And... 00:10:01.50\00:10:02.36 ...I'm happy to say that they 00:10:04.60\00:10:05.80 are still close 00:10:05.80\00:10:07.14 through all of this 00:10:07.14\00:10:08.74 even still now. 00:10:08.74\00:10:09.94 But back then, it was hard. 00:10:10.81\00:10:13.31 It was hard 00:10:13.31\00:10:15.64 to have that 00:10:15.64\00:10:17.55 with them. 00:10:17.55\00:10:18.61 And it was intense. 00:10:20.25\00:10:21.28 It was... 00:10:21.28\00:10:22.28 ...you know, it made me realize, 00:10:23.25\00:10:24.39 wait, I'm fighting my brothers 00:10:24.39\00:10:25.82 here, you know. 00:10:25.82\00:10:27.26 And it was almost like- 00:10:27.26\00:10:29.29 because that tension, it was 00:10:29.29\00:10:31.36 like, "This is the moment, 00:10:31.36\00:10:32.99 this is our opportunity that's 00:10:32.99\00:10:35.33 being presented to us to go- 00:10:35.33\00:10:37.30 to become famous, you know, 00:10:37.30\00:10:39.80 to go that route. 00:10:39.80\00:10:41.24 And you guys are doubting that 00:10:42.54\00:10:45.31 right now." 00:10:45.31\00:10:46.81 Like... 00:10:46.81\00:10:47.78 ...that's what was going through 00:10:48.34\00:10:50.31 the mind. 00:10:50.31\00:10:51.98 And when we had that... 00:10:51.98\00:10:54.68 ...tension and that fight, 00:10:57.72\00:10:59.62 my friends pulled us apart. 00:10:59.62\00:11:01.92 And I said, "What do you-" 00:11:02.92\00:11:04.49 They said, "What are you doing? 00:11:04.49\00:11:05.73 You guys are brothers." 00:11:05.73\00:11:07.03 And I- that's when I realized, 00:11:08.20\00:11:11.10 "Wow, what are we doing? 00:11:11.10\00:11:13.57 What have we already become? 00:11:13.57\00:11:15.87 [laughs] 00:11:15.87\00:11:17.31 And we haven't even started." 00:11:17.31\00:11:19.37 So then we sat down... 00:11:20.44\00:11:22.98 ...and we thought to ourselves, 00:11:25.05\00:11:27.05 we need to get back 00:11:27.05\00:11:28.55 to who we are and... 00:11:28.55\00:11:31.22 ...where did this group start? 00:11:32.09\00:11:34.66 Why did this group start? 00:11:34.66\00:11:36.69 And we... 00:11:37.93\00:11:38.93 ...realized that it started 00:11:40.40\00:11:42.30 in the church. 00:11:42.30\00:11:43.93 Our group started in the church. 00:11:43.93\00:11:45.37 We have- our name is 00:11:45.37\00:11:46.84 Christians by Faith. 00:11:46.84\00:11:48.44 And so we sat down 00:11:49.80\00:11:52.31 together and we prayed. 00:11:52.31\00:11:54.31 You know, music, especially 00:11:54.31\00:11:55.88 contemporary music back then, 00:11:55.88\00:11:57.45 wasn't, like, too accepted 00:11:57.45\00:12:00.18 in the church yet. 00:12:00.18\00:12:01.78 And being in that 00:12:01.78\00:12:04.62 youth group or that friend group 00:12:04.62\00:12:07.06 was all about music. 00:12:07.06\00:12:09.02 Yeah, it really hurt. 00:12:10.03\00:12:11.83 And... 00:12:11.83\00:12:12.83 ...I could count 00:12:14.36\00:12:16.40 how many friends I had left 00:12:16.40\00:12:18.93 in the church. 00:12:18.93\00:12:20.17 So, yeah, it hurt. 00:12:21.04\00:12:22.47 So then we 00:12:25.07\00:12:27.11 got together, we prayed, 00:12:27.11\00:12:28.98 and then we decided as a group 00:12:28.98\00:12:31.78 that we weren't going to 00:12:31.78\00:12:33.28 accept the... 00:12:33.28\00:12:34.38 ...the contract. 00:12:36.25\00:12:37.52 >> He was really excited 00:12:38.65\00:12:39.85 about it. 00:12:39.85\00:12:40.89 It was a really 00:12:40.89\00:12:42.92 great chance for him 00:12:42.92\00:12:44.93 to use his talents. 00:12:44.93\00:12:47.50 But there was something just 00:12:47.50\00:12:48.73 a little bit off about it. 00:12:48.73\00:12:51.10 He would always come back and 00:12:51.10\00:12:52.30 ask, you know, "What do you 00:12:52.30\00:12:53.44 think about this?" 00:12:53.44\00:12:54.57 They were asking the guys to 00:12:54.57\00:12:56.91 change their images, and he 00:12:56.91\00:12:58.74 couldn't say that he was married 00:12:58.74\00:13:01.14 and they wanted them to change 00:13:01.14\00:13:02.84 their name. 00:13:02.84\00:13:03.88 And it was a little bit odd, 00:13:03.88\00:13:06.08 but still, what a great 00:13:06.08\00:13:07.32 opportunity... 00:13:07.32\00:13:08.38 ...to use his talents. 00:13:09.52\00:13:11.42 We would pray about it 00:13:11.42\00:13:12.75 and there was just something 00:13:12.75\00:13:13.99 a little bit odd. 00:13:13.99\00:13:16.39 And then it just so happened 00:13:16.39\00:13:18.53 that I had a medical 00:13:18.53\00:13:21.20 condition that I had to actually 00:13:21.20\00:13:22.56 go back to Canada. 00:13:22.56\00:13:23.90 I have to say that it was a big 00:13:23.90\00:13:25.73 sacrifice on his part, because 00:13:25.73\00:13:28.37 I always wondered what would 00:13:28.37\00:13:29.90 happen here in Vancouver if 00:13:29.90\00:13:32.74 there weren't the same 00:13:32.74\00:13:34.18 opportunities. 00:13:34.18\00:13:35.48 [melancholy music] 00:13:35.48\00:13:38.48 ¤¤ 00:13:38.48\00:13:41.12 [JOEY] So coming back to 00:13:41.12\00:13:42.22 Vancouver, 00:13:42.22\00:13:43.95 my wife had to get 00:13:43.95\00:13:45.39 BC certified, and so she went 00:13:45.39\00:13:47.19 back to school. 00:13:47.19\00:13:48.39 And then 00:13:49.72\00:13:51.33 I was trying to find 00:13:51.33\00:13:52.79 where I fit in here. 00:13:52.79\00:13:54.56 All during this time, when we 00:13:54.56\00:13:55.93 were trying to find ourselves, 00:13:55.93\00:13:57.40 we went to Filipino church and 00:13:57.40\00:13:59.47 we would go, you know, checking 00:13:59.47\00:14:01.44 out different churches around 00:14:01.44\00:14:03.04 Vancouver. 00:14:03.04\00:14:04.57 And then I was invited to 00:14:04.57\00:14:06.88 Vancouver Central Church, 00:14:06.88\00:14:08.51 to this church... 00:14:08.51\00:14:09.71 ...to do special music. 00:14:10.98\00:14:11.95 ...to do special music. 00:14:11.95\00:14:13.05 And so I came and I sang 00:14:13.88\00:14:16.05 in this stage for special music. 00:14:16.05\00:14:18.99 And it actually 00:14:19.55\00:14:21.76 took me by surprise because... 00:14:21.76\00:14:24.23 ...when I sang, it was 00:14:25.46\00:14:26.96 dead silent. 00:14:26.96\00:14:28.40 And then I was about to leave 00:14:28.40\00:14:31.37 because I was gonna go back to 00:14:31.37\00:14:32.57 the Filipino church and the 00:14:32.57\00:14:34.60 pastor at that time, 00:14:34.60\00:14:36.47 Pastor Don Kim, chased us 00:14:36.47\00:14:39.47 into the lobby area 00:14:39.47\00:14:41.68 and he said, "Hey," you 00:14:41.68\00:14:43.24 know, like, "would you consider 00:14:43.24\00:14:45.71 being the worship leader... 00:14:45.71\00:14:47.98 ...in this church?" 00:14:49.95\00:14:51.39 And I'm like, "Oh, okay." 00:14:51.39\00:14:53.05 I was like, my first thought 00:14:53.89\00:14:55.36 was, "What's a worship leader?" 00:14:55.36\00:14:57.29 [laughs] 00:14:57.29\00:14:58.59 I didn't know because I guess 00:14:58.59\00:15:00.76 back in that time, the worship 00:15:00.76\00:15:02.80 movement was still, was... 00:15:02.80\00:15:04.63 ...just evolving. 00:15:05.63\00:15:07.14 And so I was like, "Oh, sure. 00:15:08.97\00:15:11.24 Let me consider it." 00:15:11.24\00:15:13.01 My wife had an appointment, 00:15:13.01\00:15:14.34 a prenatal appointment 00:15:14.34\00:15:15.51 that same week, and so we went. 00:15:15.51\00:15:17.81 And we entered the... 00:15:17.81\00:15:20.62 ...waiting area. 00:15:21.52\00:15:23.02 And mind you, 00:15:23.02\00:15:24.89 I have never, ever 00:15:24.89\00:15:27.06 met Pastor Don Kim. 00:15:27.06\00:15:29.86 But who do you think 00:15:29.86\00:15:31.76 was in that waiting room when we 00:15:31.76\00:15:33.63 went in there? 00:15:33.63\00:15:35.23 Pastor Don Kim. 00:15:35.23\00:15:36.53 [laughs] 00:15:36.53\00:15:37.87 And so like, "Oh, hi, Pastor 00:15:37.87\00:15:39.37 Don Kim!" 00:15:39.37\00:15:40.47 Maybe a day or two 00:15:40.47\00:15:42.14 after that, 00:15:42.14\00:15:43.67 went to Safeway, did our 00:15:43.67\00:15:45.01 groceries. 00:15:45.01\00:15:46.27 Again, Pastor Don Kim. 00:15:46.27\00:15:48.21 We're like, 00:15:48.21\00:15:49.31 "Hi, Pastor Don Kim!" 00:15:49.31\00:15:50.85 [laughs] 00:15:50.85\00:15:52.31 And my wife and I said... 00:15:52.31\00:15:54.05 "...If this is not a sign, 00:15:55.38\00:15:57.45 this has never happened before. 00:15:57.45\00:15:59.55 And so if this is not a sign 00:15:59.55\00:16:01.62 from God, then I don't know 00:16:01.62\00:16:03.26 what is." 00:16:03.26\00:16:04.26 So we called Pastor Kim and we 00:16:04.26\00:16:05.76 said okay. 00:16:05.76\00:16:06.86 ¤ Praise God from whom ¤ 00:16:07.93\00:16:12.07 ¤ all blessings flow ¤ 00:16:12.07\00:16:18.11 [JOEY] Eventually I realized 00:16:18.11\00:16:19.77 that worship was more 00:16:19.77\00:16:22.31 than the songs you sing, 00:16:22.31\00:16:24.61 more than the words you hear, 00:16:24.61\00:16:26.75 more than a sermon. 00:16:26.75\00:16:28.48 Worship is life 00:16:28.48\00:16:30.32 because God first loved us, 00:16:30.32\00:16:32.79 right, so He's always been there 00:16:32.79\00:16:34.89 from the beginning. 00:16:34.89\00:16:36.32 And it's a 00:16:36.32\00:16:38.16 reaction of our lives, 00:16:38.16\00:16:40.96 a reaction to Him 00:16:40.96\00:16:43.00 first loving us and being there. 00:16:43.00\00:16:45.00 And so we bring that as a 00:16:45.00\00:16:47.47 congregation all together, 00:16:47.47\00:16:50.37 and it's a reaction, our songs, 00:16:50.37\00:16:51.94 our praise, it's... 00:16:51.94\00:16:54.08 ...a response of life. 00:16:54.88\00:16:57.51 And that's what I learned, 00:16:57.51\00:16:59.01 what worship was. 00:16:59.01\00:16:59.78 what worship was. 00:16:59.78\00:17:00.55 [ESTHER] He was here 00:17:00.55\00:17:01.72 worship leading when I had our 00:17:01.72\00:17:04.45 daughter and I was studying to 00:17:04.45\00:17:05.19 daughter and I was studying to 00:17:05.19\00:17:06.32 write the board exam and I 00:17:06.32\00:17:08.12 thought, you know, I'm just so 00:17:08.12\00:17:10.66 grateful that he is using his 00:17:10.66\00:17:13.56 God given talents. 00:17:13.56\00:17:15.06 We felt like, you know, this is 00:17:15.06\00:17:16.00 We felt like, you know, this is 00:17:16.00\00:17:16.90 our landing place, this is our 00:17:16.90\00:17:18.33 home, this is where we wanna 00:17:18.33\00:17:19.93 raise our family. 00:17:19.93\00:17:21.00 I started... 00:17:21.00\00:17:22.04 ...working while he was here 00:17:22.90\00:17:24.74 at the church, and I knew, 00:17:24.74\00:17:27.11 I mean, it was just part time, 00:17:27.11\00:17:27.71 I mean, it was just part time, 00:17:27.78\00:17:28.44 but I thought, you know, this is 00:17:28.44\00:17:29.61 important, he's doing something 00:17:29.61\00:17:31.71 that he loves, he's using his 00:17:31.71\00:17:34.38 talents for God, and he was 00:17:34.38\00:17:37.29 feeling fulfilled. 00:17:37.29\00:17:39.02 >> In the worship teams that... 00:17:39.02\00:17:41.16 ...I mentored, that was the 00:17:42.06\00:17:44.46 number one, was take the focus 00:17:44.46\00:17:46.70 off of you and 00:17:46.70\00:17:49.60 bring it to God. 00:17:49.60\00:17:51.27 >> He had been asked to change 00:17:51.27\00:17:52.73 the church. 00:17:52.73\00:17:53.74 It was a very conservative 00:17:53.74\00:17:55.54 church, and they wanted it to be 00:17:55.54\00:17:57.11 more contemporary and... 00:17:57.11\00:17:58.57 ...he was able to do that, 00:17:59.44\00:18:01.24 very slowly, but with the 00:18:01.24\00:18:03.24 help and support of the 00:18:03.24\00:18:05.31 leadership. 00:18:05.31\00:18:06.41 It- he knew that we were all on 00:18:06.41\00:18:09.12 the same page and I thought, 00:18:09.12\00:18:10.92 what a really great place for us 00:18:10.92\00:18:13.15 to be in and that I had an 00:18:13.15\00:18:15.52 opportunity to continue to work 00:18:15.52\00:18:17.33 and support our family, too, so 00:18:17.33\00:18:19.16 that he could still continue 00:18:19.16\00:18:20.46 to work in serving 00:18:20.46\00:18:22.76 Oak Ridge Church. 00:18:22.76\00:18:24.03 >> And I was given the 00:18:25.00\00:18:26.20 opportunity also... 00:18:26.20\00:18:27.70 ...to... 00:18:28.64\00:18:29.67 ...teach at Deer Lake School 00:18:30.84\00:18:32.84 in the media and 00:18:32.84\00:18:35.78 senior choir. 00:18:35.78\00:18:37.75 So went back to school 00:18:37.75\00:18:40.45 and I went to BCIT 00:18:40.45\00:18:42.65 and to Van Arts to upgrade 00:18:42.65\00:18:44.45 and to Van Arts to upgrade 00:18:44.45\00:18:44.95 my teaching certificate. 00:18:45.09\00:18:46.96 And then K through 3 choirs, 00:18:46.96\00:18:48.82 which I love. 00:18:48.82\00:18:50.19 [ESTHER] I remember he would 00:18:50.19\00:18:51.33 come home from teaching saying, 00:18:51.33\00:18:52.09 come home from teaching saying, 00:18:52.09\00:18:52.56 "Wow, this is great. 00:18:52.63\00:18:54.10 I love teaching media, I love 00:18:54.10\00:18:57.00 teaching music." 00:18:57.00\00:18:58.23 So he was doing both worship 00:18:58.23\00:18:59.87 ministry at Oak Ridge and at 00:18:59.87\00:19:02.04 Deer Lake School, and started to 00:19:02.04\00:19:04.51 use all of these different 00:19:04.51\00:19:06.17 talents that you would think 00:19:06.17\00:19:07.78 were not... 00:19:07.78\00:19:08.81 ...that weren't, they weren't 00:19:10.51\00:19:12.61 very similar, but they were very 00:19:12.61\00:19:14.15 complementary because he was 00:19:14.15\00:19:15.68 still able to use his 00:19:15.68\00:19:17.75 creativity. 00:19:17.75\00:19:19.05 What's really great about 00:19:19.05\00:19:20.59 worship ministry is that 00:19:20.59\00:19:23.32 there were a lot of young people 00:19:23.32\00:19:24.69 that also wanted to participate. 00:19:24.69\00:19:26.96 And so he took it 00:19:26.96\00:19:29.53 to heart and he would invite 00:19:29.53\00:19:31.23 all the young people to come in 00:19:31.23\00:19:33.47 and join. 00:19:33.47\00:19:34.64 "If you don't know how to play, 00:19:34.64\00:19:36.24 that's okay. 00:19:36.24\00:19:37.27 We can learn together." 00:19:37.27\00:19:38.51 And he thought, "Okay, so our 00:19:38.51\00:19:40.44 group is getting a little large. 00:19:40.44\00:19:42.11 If they're not- if they can't be 00:19:42.11\00:19:44.15 on praise team every Sabbath, 00:19:44.15\00:19:46.58 where are they gonna go?" 00:19:46.58\00:19:48.25 And so he said, "We really need 00:19:48.25\00:19:49.78 a youth leader." 00:19:49.78\00:19:51.19 And so I thought- he's like, 00:19:51.19\00:19:52.42 "Do you think you can start a 00:19:52.42\00:19:53.82 youth group during Sabbath 00:19:53.82\00:19:55.79 school so that while the other 00:19:55.79\00:19:57.23 band is playing and practising, 00:19:57.23\00:19:59.79 the other young people have a 00:19:59.79\00:20:00.96 place to go?" 00:20:00.96\00:20:02.06 And so I said, "Sure, I'll take 00:20:02.06\00:20:04.23 the youth group." 00:20:04.23\00:20:05.33 And it ended up being a 00:20:05.33\00:20:07.20 ten year, ten-plus year 00:20:07.20\00:20:09.14 ministry with him. 00:20:09.14\00:20:10.64 So he was doing the worship 00:20:10.64\00:20:12.31 team and I was leading the 00:20:12.31\00:20:14.08 youth class. 00:20:14.08\00:20:15.84 And it was very rewarding. 00:20:15.84\00:20:18.45 We would open up our home, they 00:20:19.61\00:20:21.55 would come on Saturday nights 00:20:21.55\00:20:24.05 and just jam, bring their 00:20:24.05\00:20:26.09 instruments, I would cook, 00:20:26.09\00:20:28.29 we would turn it into like a 00:20:28.29\00:20:29.69 movie night. 00:20:29.69\00:20:30.76 It just became a really great, 00:20:30.76\00:20:32.73 healthy community for the 00:20:32.73\00:20:34.46 young people. 00:20:34.46\00:20:35.80 And those are our best years, 00:20:35.80\00:20:38.33 I have to say, and our kids grew 00:20:38.33\00:20:39.77 up around that. 00:20:39.77\00:20:41.04 They didn't know any different. 00:20:41.04\00:20:43.57 They thought, "Oh, this is 00:20:43.57\00:20:44.57 normal, like, we always have 00:20:44.57\00:20:45.91 people over at our house." 00:20:45.91\00:20:47.88 >> And I remember being 00:20:47.88\00:20:49.54 super young and seeing... 00:20:49.54\00:20:52.45 ...this guy named Marcus. 00:20:53.35\00:20:55.28 He was playing the drums 00:20:55.28\00:20:56.48 and I always thought he was 00:20:56.48\00:20:57.52 super cool. 00:20:57.52\00:20:59.25 I always watched just the drums 00:20:59.25\00:21:00.96 when there was worship and I 00:21:00.96\00:21:02.12 remember always being in the 00:21:02.12\00:21:03.32 front row. 00:21:03.32\00:21:04.29 And one day I remember asking 00:21:04.29\00:21:05.99 my parents, "Can I learn 00:21:05.99\00:21:07.50 the drums?" 00:21:07.50\00:21:08.50 And without hesitation they just 00:21:08.50\00:21:10.03 said yes and bought me a drum 00:21:10.03\00:21:11.70 set and just put it in my room 00:21:11.70\00:21:13.84 and let me start banging on the 00:21:13.84\00:21:14.97 drums right away. 00:21:14.97\00:21:16.84 And it was never 00:21:16.84\00:21:18.91 pushed on me, like worship or 00:21:18.91\00:21:21.58 feeling the need to do all these 00:21:21.58\00:21:22.78 things, I was always seeking out 00:21:22.78\00:21:24.88 to do it, and they always just 00:21:24.88\00:21:25.91 gave me the means to 00:21:25.91\00:21:27.48 or put me in that situation 00:21:27.48\00:21:29.28 where I had the opportunity. 00:21:29.28\00:21:29.92 where I had the opportunity. 00:21:29.92\00:21:30.99 [singing and drumming] 00:21:30.99\00:21:33.66 ¤¤ 00:21:33.66\00:21:36.22 [JOEY] Ready? 00:21:36.22\00:21:37.36 [guitar strumming] 00:21:37.36\00:21:38.66 [SOPHIA] Growing up and 00:21:38.66\00:21:39.83 observing, you know, my parents' 00:21:39.83\00:21:41.20 spiritual journey, it really 00:21:41.20\00:21:43.40 inspired me, and I would say 00:21:43.40\00:21:45.87 my brother as well. 00:21:45.87\00:21:47.20 ¤ ...loves a cheerful giver ¤ 00:21:47.20\00:21:48.94 ¤ ha, ha, ha... ¤ 00:21:48.94\00:21:50.44 >> Turning the worship band 00:21:50.44\00:21:53.07 into something fun 00:21:53.07\00:21:55.51 that everyone wanted to join in 00:21:55.51\00:21:57.71 doing and everyone wanted to be 00:21:57.71\00:21:59.38 a part of it, everyone felt like 00:21:59.38\00:22:01.02 that they had a place. 00:22:01.02\00:22:02.68 >> So the British Columbia 00:22:02.68\00:22:03.99 Conference Communication 00:22:03.99\00:22:05.52 Director back then, Charles 00:22:05.52\00:22:07.56 Aguilar, I know we have the same 00:22:07.56\00:22:08.92 last name, good family friends. 00:22:08.92\00:22:11.09 So Charles moved on and 00:22:11.09\00:22:13.26 joined the ADRA team, and the 00:22:13.26\00:22:15.16 British Columbia conference was 00:22:15.16\00:22:16.36 looking for a communication 00:22:16.36\00:22:18.00 director to take over. 00:22:18.00\00:22:19.57 And they asked me to- 00:22:19.57\00:22:22.34 if I would consider. 00:22:22.34\00:22:23.77 >> Each of those experiences 00:22:23.77\00:22:26.04 actually built him 00:22:26.04\00:22:28.54 in a way that God needed 00:22:28.54\00:22:30.21 him to be. 00:22:30.21\00:22:31.88 >> All these years, I've loved 00:22:31.88\00:22:33.75 working in the local church, and 00:22:33.75\00:22:35.18 I still love working in the 00:22:35.18\00:22:36.35 local church. 00:22:36.35\00:22:37.35 And then joining the conference, 00:22:37.35\00:22:39.95 I realized that 00:22:39.95\00:22:42.06 I'm using my- the talents that 00:22:42.06\00:22:44.06 God's given me to reach 00:22:44.06\00:22:46.56 whole churches, like many 00:22:46.56\00:22:47.93 churches and many schools now. 00:22:47.93\00:22:50.27 So I just love that. 00:22:50.27\00:22:51.87 ¤ Thou rising moon ¤ 00:22:53.40\00:22:55.54 ¤ in praise rejoice ¤ 00:22:55.54\00:22:59.91 [JOEY] So looking back at when 00:22:59.91\00:23:02.31 we were performing that 00:23:02.31\00:23:03.18 we were performing that 00:23:03.18\00:23:04.58 the focus was on us, 00:23:04.58\00:23:06.82 but then in worship, 00:23:06.82\00:23:09.32 it's not about us. 00:23:09.32\00:23:10.72 We let go of ourselves 00:23:10.72\00:23:12.75 and bring that attention 00:23:12.75\00:23:15.29 this way and up to God. 00:23:15.29\00:23:17.06 So it's not, it's not about us. 00:23:17.06\00:23:19.59 ¤ ...lift me up ¤ 00:23:19.59\00:23:20.66 ¤ (Lord, lift me up) ¤ 00:23:20.66\00:23:22.13 ¤ when I am weak ¤ 00:23:22.13\00:23:23.80 ¤ (when I am weak) ¤ 00:23:23.80\00:23:25.90 ¤ Soon my heart begins to feel ¤ 00:23:25.90\00:23:29.34 ¤ a miracle happening in me ¤ 00:23:29.34\00:23:32.71 ¤ And love is real ¤ 00:23:32.71\00:23:34.41 ¤ (And love is real) ¤ 00:23:34.41\00:23:36.18 ¤ And love can heal ¤ 00:23:36.18\00:23:37.88 ¤ (And love can heal) ¤ 00:23:37.88\00:23:39.88 ¤ You came with ¤ 00:23:39.88\00:23:41.15 ¤ open arms I see ¤ 00:23:41.15\00:23:43.35 ¤ You made a miracle of me ¤ 00:23:43.35\00:23:46.72 ¤ Oh, Lord ¤ 00:23:46.72\00:23:48.89 ¤¤ 00:23:48.89\00:23:51.89 [RENÉ] As Joey discovered, 00:24:00.77\00:24:02.40 worship is more than the songs 00:24:02.40\00:24:04.87 you sing. 00:24:04.87\00:24:06.04 More than the words you hear. 00:24:06.04\00:24:08.41 More than a sermon. 00:24:08.41\00:24:10.68 Worship is life, a response to 00:24:10.68\00:24:13.62 God, the Giver of Life. 00:24:13.62\00:24:16.02 The one who first loved us. 00:24:16.02\00:24:18.69 The one who has always been 00:24:18.69\00:24:20.59 there for us. 00:24:20.59\00:24:22.12 [MIKE] Joey's journey led him to 00:24:22.12\00:24:23.99 see how, when he was performing 00:24:23.99\00:24:27.00 in his band, the focus was on 00:24:27.00\00:24:28.96 himself and his band members. 00:24:28.96\00:24:31.20 But in worship it is 00:24:31.20\00:24:33.34 not about us. 00:24:33.34\00:24:34.44 Instead, in worship, we turn our 00:24:34.44\00:24:37.01 attention upward to God, 00:24:37.01\00:24:39.17 who is above us. 00:24:39.17\00:24:41.61 [RENÉ] In learning and 00:24:41.61\00:24:42.84 experiencing that vital lesson, 00:24:42.84\00:24:45.55 Joey was able to let go of 00:24:45.55\00:24:47.82 himself and to teach his worship 00:24:47.82\00:24:50.75 teams to let go of themselves 00:24:50.75\00:24:53.72 and bring their focus to God. 00:24:53.72\00:24:55.86 Joey's journey reminds us of the 00:24:56.79\00:24:59.29 power of faith and family 00:24:59.29\00:25:02.10 in making life's toughest 00:25:02.10\00:25:03.73 decisions. 00:25:03.73\00:25:05.10 By choosing to honour his 00:25:05.10\00:25:07.10 identity and values over worldly 00:25:07.10\00:25:07.67 identity and values over worldly 00:25:07.80\00:25:09.90 fame, he lived out the truth 00:25:09.90\00:25:12.91 of Jesus's prayer 00:25:12.91\00:25:14.71 in John 17, 00:25:14.71\00:25:16.48 of being in the world, 00:25:16.48\00:25:18.68 but not of the world. 00:25:18.68\00:25:20.92 Today, Joey stands as an 00:25:21.88\00:25:24.19 inspiration to many who have 00:25:24.19\00:25:26.59 faced similar struggles. 00:25:26.59\00:25:28.56 And above all, 00:25:28.56\00:25:30.39 he stands tall as a man of 00:25:30.39\00:25:32.83 integrity, a devoted husband 00:25:32.83\00:25:35.66 and father, and a true 00:25:35.66\00:25:37.70 testament to God's grace, 00:25:37.70\00:25:40.30 guidance, and goodness. 00:25:40.30\00:25:43.10 >> Joey's story brings to mind 00:25:43.10\00:25:45.17 a few inspiring sentences 00:25:45.17\00:25:47.44 from this little book, 00:25:47.44\00:25:49.18 Help In Daily Living. 00:25:49.18\00:25:50.65 >> This was certainly the case 00:26:21.14\00:26:22.91 in Joey's life. 00:26:22.91\00:26:24.48 His plans were not God's plans 00:26:24.48\00:26:26.98 for his life. 00:26:26.98\00:26:28.45 Yet this truth, instead of 00:26:28.45\00:26:30.62 making him bitter, made him 00:26:30.62\00:26:33.15 better because he trusted God 00:26:33.15\00:26:36.12 and he saw how God's love for us 00:26:36.12\00:26:38.79 leads Him to always want what is 00:26:38.79\00:26:40.96 best for us, even better 00:26:40.96\00:26:43.67 than what we want for ourselves. 00:26:43.67\00:26:46.07 >> Friends, whenever my plans 00:26:46.84\00:26:49.00 don't work out the way that I 00:26:49.00\00:26:50.41 want, I feel disappointed and I 00:26:50.41\00:26:52.71 pick up this little book, 00:26:52.71\00:26:53.88 Help In Daily Living, which is 00:26:53.88\00:26:55.78 our free offer for you today. 00:26:55.78\00:26:57.81 And it, by reading it, rolls 00:26:57.81\00:27:00.28 back the curtains so that I can 00:27:00.28\00:27:02.18 see clearly God's plans 00:27:02.18\00:27:04.19 for my life. 00:27:04.19\00:27:05.29 Before you go, we would like to 00:27:06.79\00:27:08.82 thank all of you who have 00:27:08.82\00:27:10.06 supported the ministry of It Is 00:27:10.06\00:27:11.73 Written Canada with your prayers 00:27:11.73\00:27:13.33 and financial contributions. 00:27:13.33\00:27:15.03 Without your support, this 00:27:15.03\00:27:16.73 television ministry could not 00:27:16.73\00:27:18.43 have reached so many people for 00:27:18.43\00:27:20.50 so many decades. 00:27:20.50\00:27:21.97 >> Yes, thank you. 00:27:22.64\00:27:25.01 And we would like to invite you 00:27:25.01\00:27:26.91 to follow us on Instagram and 00:27:26.91\00:27:29.18 Facebook and subscribe to our 00:27:29.18\00:27:31.55 YouTube channel and also listen 00:27:31.55\00:27:34.15 to our podcasts. 00:27:34.15\00:27:36.02 And if you go to our website, 00:27:36.02\00:27:38.39 you can see our latest programs. 00:27:38.39\00:27:40.76 >> You, too, can experience the 00:27:41.62\00:27:43.32 fullness of life found in the 00:27:43.32\00:27:45.16 words of Jesus when He said... 00:27:45.16\00:27:47.30 ¤ Lord lift me up ¤ 00:27:55.17\00:27:57.04 ¤ (Lord lift me up) ¤ 00:27:57.04\00:27:58.74 ¤ When I am weak ¤ 00:27:58.74\00:28:00.61 ¤ (When I am weak) ¤ 00:28:00.61\00:28:02.61 ¤ Soon my heart begins to feel ¤ 00:28:02.61\00:28:06.11 ¤ a miracle happening in me ¤ 00:28:06.11\00:28:09.32 ¤ Lord lift me up ¤ 00:28:09.32\00:28:11.29 ¤ (Lord lift me up) ¤ 00:28:11.29\00:28:12.92 ¤ When I am weak ¤ 00:28:12.92\00:28:14.92 ¤ (When I am weak) ¤ 00:28:14.92\00:28:16.76 ¤ Soon my heart begins to feel ¤ 00:28:16.76\00:28:20.26 ¤ a miracle happening in me ¤ 00:28:20.26\00:28:23.47 ¤ And love is real ¤ 00:28:23.47\00:28:25.23 ¤ (And love is real) ¤ 00:28:25.23\00:28:27.27 ¤ And love can heal ¤ 00:28:27.27\00:28:28.80 ¤ (And love can heal) ¤ 00:28:28.80\00:28:30.71 ¤ You came with 00:28:30.71\00:28:31.94 ¤ open arms I see ¤ 00:28:31.94\00:28:34.24 ¤ You made a miracle of me ¤ 00:28:34.24\00:28:39.11 ¤ Oh Lord ¤ 00:28:43.05\00:28:47.59 ¤ Lord lift me up ¤ 00:28:48.56\00:28:51.73 ¤ When I am weak ¤ 00:28:51.73\00:28:55.60 ¤ A miracle... ¤ 00:28:58.23\00:29:13.31