>>John Bradshaw: This is It Is Written. 00:00:19.55\00:00:21.02 I'm John Bradshaw. Thanks for joining me. 00:00:21.05\00:00:23.55 In the early 1800s, an English woman named Mary Shelley 00:00:23.59\00:00:27.02 had a contest with her future husband and another man 00:00:27.06\00:00:30.46 to see who could write the best horror story. 00:00:30.49\00:00:33.33 A few years before, she had traveled in Germany 00:00:33.36\00:00:35.30 near Frankenstein Castle, which is near the city of Darmstadt. 00:00:35.33\00:00:38.50 It seems that Mary was influenced by stories 00:00:38.53\00:00:41.77 about Frankenstein Castle, 00:00:41.80\00:00:44.27 and so she wrote the story of "Frankenstein." 00:00:44.31\00:00:49.21 In Mary Shelley's novel, a scientist working 00:00:49.24\00:00:51.75 in a laboratory creates an 8 feet tall being 00:00:51.78\00:00:54.65 that ends up being described as a monster. 00:00:54.68\00:00:57.62 It's a story, ultimately, about science gone wrong. 00:00:57.65\00:01:01.62 A scientist or alchemist attempts to create something, 00:01:01.66\00:01:04.36 and things don't work out as intended, 00:01:04.39\00:01:07.40 as he works with the technology of his day. 00:01:07.46\00:01:09.93 The story was a cautionary tale. 00:01:09.96\00:01:12.20 Technology can come with unintended consequences. 00:01:12.23\00:01:15.90 And it seems that today, 00:01:15.94\00:01:17.71 society seems to have created another Frankenstein's monster. 00:01:17.74\00:01:22.31 Technology has given the world some wonderful things. 00:01:22.34\00:01:26.21 The Industrial Revolution-- that was technology. 00:01:26.25\00:01:29.25 Today, modern medicines do a great amount of good. 00:01:29.28\00:01:31.75 Modern transport-- it's incredible. 00:01:31.79\00:01:34.52 Now, you could argue that there's a downside 00:01:34.56\00:01:36.22 to some of these things, 00:01:36.26\00:01:37.63 but there's also a gigantic upside. 00:01:37.66\00:01:41.43 Modern technology has given us computers. 00:01:41.46\00:01:44.17 Today, we're able to access information anywhere 00:01:44.20\00:01:46.50 in the world from virtually anywhere in the world, 00:01:46.53\00:01:49.70 any time we like. 00:01:49.74\00:01:51.14 That's good, right? 00:01:51.17\00:01:52.31 You can watch whatever you want to watch, 00:01:52.34\00:01:53.98 whenever you want to watch it, 00:01:54.01\00:01:54.91 from the privacy of your own private space. 00:01:54.94\00:01:57.75 That's good, too, right? 00:01:57.78\00:01:59.35 Today you can type messages in moments, 00:01:59.38\00:02:01.05 send them to anyone anywhere. 00:02:01.08\00:02:03.15 You can post photos to photo-sharing websites, 00:02:03.18\00:02:05.39 broadcast video of whatever you're doing, 00:02:05.42\00:02:08.46 wherever you're doing it, to the whole world, if you want, 00:02:08.49\00:02:12.26 whenever you'd like to do so. 00:02:12.29\00:02:14.00 You no longer need to be a newspaper publisher to share 00:02:14.03\00:02:16.60 your point of view with everybody on the entire planet. 00:02:16.63\00:02:21.47 That's good...right? 00:02:21.50\00:02:24.87 Well, we know it isn't always good. 00:02:24.91\00:02:27.74 And we're coming to understand more and more that, 00:02:27.78\00:02:29.98 in many cases, it's actually positively harmful. 00:02:30.01\00:02:35.32 When an Englishman named Tim Berners-Lee invented 00:02:35.35\00:02:38.42 the World Wide Web early in the 1990s in Geneva, Switzerland, 00:02:38.45\00:02:42.32 it's doubtful that anyone anywhere realized 00:02:42.36\00:02:44.76 what it would become only a few short years later. 00:02:44.79\00:02:48.46 And it's probably fair to say that most people 00:02:48.50\00:02:50.63 who use the internet and modern technology today 00:02:50.67\00:02:53.70 don't realize what it really has become. 00:02:53.74\00:02:57.44 There's no question modern technology 00:02:57.47\00:02:59.17 provides great opportunities. 00:02:59.21\00:03:01.28 It's how you're able to watch this, 00:03:01.31\00:03:03.45 and I'm glad you're able to. 00:03:03.48\00:03:05.21 Technology is used to promote good values 00:03:05.25\00:03:07.62 and to share positive messages and to proclaim the gospel. 00:03:07.65\00:03:11.35 That's good. 00:03:11.39\00:03:12.85 But it seems that when it comes to modern technology, 00:03:12.89\00:03:16.16 every silver lining has a dark cloud. 00:03:16.19\00:03:20.96 Today's generation is the first generation in history 00:03:20.96\00:03:25.20 to be connected to a constant stream of electronic information 00:03:25.23\00:03:28.64 and entertainment. 00:03:28.67\00:03:29.90 And while that might seem like a silver lining in many ways, 00:03:29.94\00:03:32.97 that constant stream of temptation, 00:03:33.01\00:03:35.24 the constant access to sin, is a very dark cloud. 00:03:35.28\00:03:39.65 Today's young people have to grow up in a world 00:03:39.68\00:03:41.48 where being liked means something slightly different 00:03:41.52\00:03:43.95 to what it meant a generation ago, 00:03:43.99\00:03:45.92 and the pressures that come along with that 00:03:45.95\00:03:47.62 are impacting the lives of young people-- 00:03:47.66\00:03:49.92 and the lives of not-so-young people-- 00:03:49.96\00:03:52.43 in a very, very real way. 00:03:52.46\00:03:55.53 Society is now wired. 00:03:55.56\00:03:57.73 Or more to the point, it's wireless. 00:03:57.77\00:04:00.94 Whereas television decades ago brought the world 00:04:00.97\00:04:03.87 into the living room, 00:04:03.91\00:04:05.24 smartphones bring the world into your pocket. 00:04:05.27\00:04:08.98 And it's a different kind of world, 00:04:09.01\00:04:10.78 a world where there are virtually no controls. 00:04:10.81\00:04:15.32 And what's the constant connection with the internet 00:04:15.35\00:04:17.59 doing to us as individuals? 00:04:17.62\00:04:19.42 How's it challenging people of faith who claim 00:04:19.45\00:04:21.96 to be disciples of Jesus Christ? 00:04:21.99\00:04:24.43 And what's it doing to society? 00:04:24.46\00:04:27.36 Websites today offer you anything you want. 00:04:27.40\00:04:31.00 And a lot of things that you really don't want. 00:04:31.03\00:04:34.44 It's no secret that there's some dark content on the internet. 00:04:34.47\00:04:37.71 Unfortunately, it's eminently accessible, 00:04:37.74\00:04:41.48 even to children. 00:04:41.51\00:04:44.18 I spoke with one young lady, who shared with me just how easy 00:04:44.21\00:04:47.68 it can be for children to access the sort of content 00:04:47.72\00:04:51.05 that parents don't want their children seeing. 00:04:51.09\00:04:53.86 >>Kyla Steinkraus: I took my family to church, 00:04:54.19\00:04:56.66 um, myself, my husband, my 12-year-old son, 00:04:56.69\00:04:59.29 and my 7-year-old daughter. 00:04:59.33\00:05:00.90 And I took my daughter to go to the bathroom, 00:05:00.93\00:05:03.47 and I left my son in the back row. 00:05:03.50\00:05:05.77 My husband was volunteering in the audio-visual department, 00:05:05.80\00:05:09.40 which is a back room that has a glassed-in window, 00:05:09.44\00:05:12.37 um, but he was not directly with my son at the time. 00:05:12.41\00:05:16.08 And when I came back a few minutes later, 00:05:16.11\00:05:18.41 after taking my daughter to the bathroom, 00:05:18.45\00:05:20.38 um, I found my husband with a tablet and a 10-year-old boy, 00:05:20.42\00:05:24.45 and he was very upset. 00:05:24.49\00:05:25.85 So I asked him what happened, 00:05:25.89\00:05:28.09 and he said that the 10-year-old boy 00:05:28.12\00:05:30.39 had just shown my son pornography on his tablet-- 00:05:30.43\00:05:33.93 at church. 00:05:33.96\00:05:34.63 >>John: In church? 00:05:34.66\00:05:35.53 >>Kyla: Yes, in church. 00:05:35.56\00:05:37.83 And I was so, so upset I was shaking. 00:05:37.87\00:05:41.90 It took me a minute to really, for it to sink in. 00:05:41.94\00:05:45.64 It was definitely a very negative experience, 00:05:45.67\00:05:48.18 a very saddening experience. 00:05:48.21\00:05:49.61 Your child loses some of their innocence at that point, 00:05:49.64\00:05:53.15 and it was, it was a hard thing to go through. 00:05:53.18\00:05:58.99 >>John: So how'd this happen? 00:05:59.02\00:06:00.89 >>Kyla: The 10-year-old boy had the tablet, 00:06:00.92\00:06:02.96 and he came over and sat by my son and his friend and said, 00:06:02.99\00:06:06.29 "Here, I want to show you something," 00:06:06.33\00:06:08.06 and he pulled up the pornography on his tablet 00:06:08.10\00:06:11.93 and showed it to the boys. 00:06:11.97\00:06:13.47 And to their credit, both boys said, 00:06:13.50\00:06:15.87 "No, we don't want to look at this." 00:06:15.90\00:06:18.07 But the 10-year-old then shoved it in their faces and said, 00:06:18.11\00:06:22.44 "No, I want you to see this." 00:06:22.48\00:06:24.35 My husband, who was in the A/V, um, 00:06:24.38\00:06:27.05 heard the commotion and looked through the window 00:06:27.08\00:06:29.95 and saw that something was happening, 00:06:29.98\00:06:32.02 saw the boys trying to push the tablet away. 00:06:32.05\00:06:34.59 And so when he came out and saw what was on the tablet, 00:06:34.62\00:06:38.39 he got very upset and took it immediately. 00:06:38.43\00:06:40.90 And that's the point where I came in. 00:06:40.93\00:06:42.96 And I took the boy aside and said, 00:06:43.00\00:06:45.60 "You're 10, you know. You're 10 years old. 00:06:45.63\00:06:48.47 How did you even get pornography? 00:06:48.50\00:06:50.71 Like, what happened?" 00:06:50.74\00:06:52.27 And that's when he told me that he had an Instagram account, 00:06:52.31\00:06:55.81 and a pornography company had created a profile page with, 00:06:55.84\00:07:02.05 um, a picture of a beautiful scantily-clad woman, 00:07:02.08\00:07:06.32 who then went and searched for this young boy's profile-- 00:07:06.35\00:07:10.89 or, well, they were searching for kids 00:07:10.93\00:07:12.69 and found him and was posting little comments 00:07:12.73\00:07:15.76 under his pictures. 00:07:15.80\00:07:16.93 And so, as a curious kid, he clicked on it to see 00:07:16.97\00:07:20.14 what it was, and it took him directly to pornography, 00:07:20.17\00:07:23.51 unfortunately. 00:07:23.54\00:07:25.84 >>John: I think that's something many parents don't realize, 00:07:25.87\00:07:28.48 is that there are predators-- individuals or sites 00:07:28.51\00:07:34.15 or companies, or whatever they might do-- 00:07:34.18\00:07:36.05 that are coming after your kid. 00:07:36.08\00:07:38.59 They don't care who the kid is, 00:07:38.62\00:07:41.39 just as long as they can get access and then groom the child. 00:07:41.42\00:07:44.96 It's very intentional what's going on, right? 00:07:44.99\00:07:47.30 >>Kyla: Yes, correct. 00:07:47.36\00:07:49.33 I know an 11-year-old girl who had an adult child predator 00:07:49.36\00:07:56.27 pretend to be another 11-year-old boy 00:07:56.30\00:07:58.54 and start chatting with her, 00:07:58.57\00:08:00.81 and over time said that he wanted to be her boyfriend, 00:08:00.84\00:08:04.38 and then asked her to send pictures of herself to him, 00:08:04.41\00:08:08.88 and then asked her to send nude pictures of herself to him, 00:08:08.92\00:08:12.12 which she did. 00:08:12.15\00:08:13.02 >>John: She did, 11 years old? 00:08:13.05\00:08:14.86 >>Kyla: She did, at 11 years old. 00:08:14.89\00:08:16.56 >>John: Well, well, let me ask you. 00:08:16.59\00:08:17.46 So this 11-year-old that you know of, 00:08:17.49\00:08:19.66 uh, was she that kind of kid? 00:08:19.69\00:08:22.46 Is she the sort of kid that a person might say, 00:08:22.50\00:08:24.30 someone who knows her say, 00:08:24.33\00:08:25.30 "Yeah, well, she'd do something like that"? 00:08:25.33\00:08:27.57 Or, totally out of the blue? 00:08:27.60\00:08:29.37 >>Kyla: No, it was very out of the blue. 00:08:29.40\00:08:31.21 She was just in fifth grade, very innocent, 00:08:31.24\00:08:33.88 had never had a boyfriend before. 00:08:33.91\00:08:35.71 She was very childish, very young. 00:08:35.74\00:08:37.98 It was totally shocking and unexpected, 00:08:38.01\00:08:40.92 and, and out of the blue, and the parents were devastated. 00:08:40.95\00:08:45.22 >>John: I, I, I think that's a really important point, 00:08:45.25\00:08:47.49 and, uh, forgive me for asking the way I did-- 00:08:47.52\00:08:49.66 "was she that kind of kid?" 00:08:49.69\00:08:50.46 I don't know how many 11-year-olds 00:08:50.49\00:08:51.83 are that kind of kid, 00:08:51.86\00:08:52.93 but you know there are some children you might say, 00:08:52.96\00:08:55.03 "Yeah, well, it wouldn't surprise me if this child 00:08:55.06\00:08:57.40 did something reckless." 00:08:57.43\00:08:58.77 But what you're saying is this was a model child 00:08:58.80\00:09:01.47 from a model family without any signs 00:09:01.50\00:09:03.81 that she might do something, which is quite remarkable. 00:09:03.84\00:09:07.11 It's quite a step from playing a game to... 00:09:07.14\00:09:10.18 sharing those kind of photographs. 00:09:10.21\00:09:12.08 How do you think then--and this means that any parent 00:09:12.11\00:09:15.45 must realize that, that their family is at risk, 00:09:15.48\00:09:19.22 under similar circumstance. 00:09:19.25\00:09:20.82 How did that child get from A to B? 00:09:20.86\00:09:23.36 How did that process take place? 00:09:23.39\00:09:25.69 >>Kyla: Well, I, you know, I hear it a lot where parents are. 00:09:25.73\00:09:28.70 They, you know, they give their kids a smartphone, 00:09:28.73\00:09:31.47 but they say, "Well, my kids are good kids." 00:09:31.50\00:09:33.40 Uh, "My kids would never do that." 00:09:33.44\00:09:34.97 Um, they'll, "They would never try to do that," 00:09:35.00\00:09:37.94 or "They wouldn't be interested in that kind of thing." 00:09:37.97\00:09:40.24 But the thing is, is that it's not that their kid 00:09:40.28\00:09:42.88 is going out looking for that kind of stuff. 00:09:42.91\00:09:44.85 That stuff is looking for their kid, and is, 00:09:44.88\00:09:48.32 those companies, those child predators 00:09:48.35\00:09:50.45 are hunting these kids. 00:09:50.49\00:09:52.09 >>John: So this 11-year-old child shared pictures 00:09:52.12\00:09:55.22 that no parent wants an 11-year-old child sharing. 00:09:55.26\00:09:58.03 What happens to those pictures? 00:09:58.06\00:09:59.53 >>Kyla: The parents did call the FBI, 00:09:59.56\00:10:01.63 and it was an adult child predator 00:10:01.66\00:10:05.80 who had targeted their daughter. 00:10:05.83\00:10:08.10 But they were unable to recover the pictures, 00:10:08.14\00:10:11.54 so the pictures are now part of the child pornography. 00:10:11.57\00:10:15.38 They get shared among pedophiles and predators online...forever. 00:10:15.41\00:10:22.38 >>John: And that's not something that any parent 00:10:22.42\00:10:25.75 wants to go through. 00:10:25.79\00:10:27.16 >>Kyla: No. 00:10:27.19\00:10:28.09 >>John: Or have their child go through. 00:10:28.12\00:10:29.46 >>Kyla: Yeah. 00:10:29.49\00:10:30.46 >>John: So, Kyla, let me ask you this. 00:10:30.49\00:10:32.49 Parents are watching this, and they're thinking, 00:10:32.53\00:10:34.03 "Oh my goodness." 00:10:34.10\00:10:35.50 What should parents who are concerned, 00:10:35.53\00:10:37.73 what should they do? 00:10:37.77\00:10:38.80 What can they do right now to address the situation 00:10:38.83\00:10:42.80 in their own experience, like right now? 00:10:42.84\00:10:44.64 >>Kyla: I think the number one most important thing 00:10:44.67\00:10:47.01 that they could do right now is take away the smartphone. 00:10:47.04\00:10:50.95 It really gives your kid unfettered access to everything. 00:10:50.98\00:10:57.09 And gives predators unfettered access to your child. 00:10:57.12\00:11:01.16 And it's not the coolest thing to do; 00:11:01.19\00:11:03.32 it's not the easiest thing to do. 00:11:03.36\00:11:05.63 But to me, my child's-- your child's safety 00:11:05.66\00:11:09.66 and your child's soul is the most important thing. 00:11:09.70\00:11:14.30 >>John: Kyla, thanks so much. I appreciate this a lot. 00:11:14.34\00:11:17.77 We'll be back with more in just a moment. 00:11:17.81\00:11:19.47 ¤[Music]¤ 00:11:19.51\00:11:26.85 >>Announcer: To receive your free DVD copy of this program, 00:11:28.12\00:11:31.39 call us now at 800-253-3000. 00:11:31.42\00:11:34.92 "The Dangers of Technology" DVD also includes bonus material 00:11:34.96\00:11:38.49 from internet security expert Michael Dinkins, 00:11:38.53\00:11:41.03 which will help keep you and your family safe online. 00:11:41.06\00:11:45.03 Don't miss "The Dangers of Technology." 00:11:45.07\00:11:47.44 It's yours free when you call 800-253-3000. 00:11:47.47\00:11:51.14 You can write to the address on your screen 00:11:51.17\00:11:52.91 or visit iiwoffer.com. 00:11:52.94\00:11:56.14 >>John Bradshaw: Thanks for joining me on It Is Written. 00:11:58.55\00:12:00.95 I'm John Bradshaw. 00:12:00.98\00:12:02.88 It's a new age. 00:12:02.92\00:12:04.02 Modern technology has changed the way that we do life. 00:12:04.05\00:12:07.39 Now, you've seen people sitting together in a group, 00:12:07.42\00:12:09.62 but everybody has their heads...down. 00:12:09.66\00:12:12.39 They're gazing at their devices. 00:12:12.43\00:12:14.40 Now, is that harmful? 00:12:14.46\00:12:16.73 Well, no, not necessarily. 00:12:16.77\00:12:18.07 But the potential for harm is huge. 00:12:18.10\00:12:21.74 And that potential is being realized. 00:12:21.77\00:12:23.97 Now, in a moment we're going to talk about social media-- 00:12:24.01\00:12:26.31 Facebook and Instagram and Snapchat and Twitter 00:12:26.34\00:12:28.44 and so forth. 00:12:28.48\00:12:29.41 They are huge today. 00:12:29.44\00:12:32.18 But there's a fundamental issue 00:12:32.21\00:12:33.45 that we're going to discuss first. 00:12:33.48\00:12:35.52 The internet has really brought with it the death of privacy. 00:12:36.18\00:12:40.22 Now, privacy is a human right, 00:12:40.26\00:12:42.59 recognized as such by the United Nations. 00:12:42.62\00:12:45.06 Now, you might think you're carrying a smartphone with you 00:12:45.09\00:12:47.20 when what you're actually carrying with you is a... 00:12:47.23\00:12:50.47 tracking device. 00:12:50.50\00:12:52.00 You see, unless you've taken action, 00:12:52.03\00:12:53.54 your smartphone tracks your movements. 00:12:53.57\00:12:56.27 It keeps a record of everywhere you've been 00:12:56.30\00:12:59.01 and of most things that you've thought or written. 00:12:59.04\00:13:02.68 Your laptop or your smartphone almost certainly contains 00:13:02.71\00:13:05.98 information that you don't want other people seeing. 00:13:06.01\00:13:09.95 Take a look at your search history and then ask yourself 00:13:09.98\00:13:12.89 how you'd feel if simply your search history was made public-- 00:13:12.92\00:13:16.99 and not because you've necessarily done anything 00:13:17.03\00:13:18.96 illegal or immoral. 00:13:18.99\00:13:20.56 Your devices contain an enormous amount of sensitive information 00:13:20.60\00:13:23.67 about you, maybe health information 00:13:23.70\00:13:25.43 or other personal or interpersonal information. 00:13:25.47\00:13:29.30 What you post online, 00:13:29.34\00:13:30.84 whether that be a photo or a comment or an opinion, 00:13:30.87\00:13:33.84 becomes part of a permanent electronic record of your life. 00:13:33.88\00:13:38.45 Kids--or adults, for that matter--who post photos 00:13:38.48\00:13:41.18 or conversations online ought to be asking themselves 00:13:41.22\00:13:44.02 if what they are posting is what they would want a teacher 00:13:44.05\00:13:47.62 or a grandmother to see. 00:13:47.66\00:13:49.89 It's, it's a must to think that way. 00:13:49.92\00:13:51.83 You see, even if you think that you've got nothing to hide-- 00:13:51.86\00:13:54.40 which may well be true-- 00:13:54.46\00:13:56.16 you've certainly got something to protect. 00:13:56.20\00:13:59.27 Devices are often now a gateway to accounts, 00:13:59.30\00:14:02.87 emails, personal information. 00:14:02.90\00:14:05.74 Essentially, they're a gateway 00:14:05.77\00:14:07.64 to a running history of your life. 00:14:07.68\00:14:10.71 And you don't want people getting their hands on that. 00:14:10.75\00:14:13.85 I talked with Michael Dinkins, an internet security expert 00:14:14.88\00:14:19.59 at UTC, the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga, 00:14:19.62\00:14:23.19 and he shared with me some ways that people 00:14:23.22\00:14:25.09 can protect themselves online. 00:14:25.13\00:14:27.40 >>Michael Dinkins: Well, first thing, in my opinion, 00:14:28.50\00:14:30.23 is to become aware of what the "threat-scape" is. 00:14:30.27\00:14:33.54 Uh, they need to understand fully what, what is the attack, 00:14:33.57\00:14:37.37 uh, and what's coming at them. 00:14:37.41\00:14:38.94 You need to use strong passwords. 00:14:38.97\00:14:40.98 You need to, uh, upgrade your systems, 00:14:41.01\00:14:43.24 make sure it has the latest operating system patches, 00:14:43.28\00:14:45.75 latest search security patches. 00:14:45.78\00:14:47.75 You should have different account names 00:14:47.78\00:14:50.39 and different account passwords for every site that you go to. 00:14:50.42\00:14:53.42 You have screen time for children, uh, 00:14:53.46\00:14:56.19 that should be monitored, uh, because they can go anywhere. 00:14:56.22\00:15:00.20 They need to understand that once you put something 00:15:00.23\00:15:03.23 on a social networking site or even in a private drive space, 00:15:03.26\00:15:07.54 once it's out there, it's out there, 00:15:07.57\00:15:08.80 and it's out there probably forever. 00:15:08.84\00:15:11.37 Take advantage of any convenience that you want to, 00:15:11.41\00:15:14.51 but understand that whenever you embrace convenience, 00:15:14.54\00:15:17.21 somebody else knows about it, you know. 00:15:17.25\00:15:20.25 So, uh, you've just got to find that balance on how... 00:15:20.28\00:15:25.35 invisible you want to be on the internet. 00:15:25.39\00:15:28.12 >>John: It comes as a terrible surprise to a lot of people 00:15:29.12\00:15:31.26 to learn that their email service gives third parties 00:15:31.29\00:15:34.23 the right to read their email, which is entirely legal 00:15:34.30\00:15:37.77 because you checked off on fine print, 00:15:37.80\00:15:40.14 which made it legal for that to happen. 00:15:40.17\00:15:43.30 People give away a lot about themselves online. 00:15:43.34\00:15:46.14 Now, again, only you can decide how much is too much. 00:15:46.17\00:15:50.38 But research from Cambridge University has said that 00:15:50.41\00:15:52.91 after you "like" just 10 Facebook pages, 00:15:52.95\00:15:56.72 advertisers can get to know you as well as a colleague does. 00:15:56.75\00:16:00.66 After 70 "likes," someone with that information can know you 00:16:00.69\00:16:04.23 about as well as a close friend does. 00:16:04.26\00:16:06.56 And after 150 "likes"? 00:16:06.59\00:16:09.00 You've essentially given up as much about yourself 00:16:09.03\00:16:12.00 as your parents know. 00:16:12.03\00:16:14.60 Advertisers once thought that consumers would become 00:16:14.64\00:16:16.97 desensitized to this lack of privacy, 00:16:17.01\00:16:19.37 but studies show that the opposite 00:16:19.41\00:16:22.01 appears to be happening. 00:16:22.04\00:16:23.85 So what about social media and the effect it's having 00:16:23.88\00:16:26.85 on your life and on society? 00:16:26.88\00:16:28.85 And what does the Bible say that speaks to this? 00:16:28.88\00:16:32.45 I'll be right back. 00:16:32.49\00:16:33.49 ¤[Music]¤ 00:16:33.52\00:16:41.83 >>John: Thank you for remembering 00:16:42.50\00:16:43.53 that It Is Written exists 00:16:43.57\00:16:45.20 because of the kindness of people just like you. 00:16:45.23\00:16:47.94 To support this international life-changing ministry, 00:16:47.97\00:16:51.11 please call us now at 800-253-3000. 00:16:51.14\00:16:55.48 You can send your tax-deductible gift 00:16:55.51\00:16:56.88 to the address on 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00:17:47.93\00:17:52.97 From the Atacama Desert comes a story of tragedy, 00:17:53.00\00:17:56.44 a story of uncertainty, yet a story of courage, 00:17:56.47\00:18:00.24 hope, and ultimately, a story of salvation. 00:18:00.28\00:18:04.18 Wait on the Lord, and the miracle will come. 00:18:04.21\00:18:08.12 "Trapped." 00:18:08.52\00:18:09.88 Watch now on It Is Written TV. 00:18:09.92\00:18:12.55 >>John Bradshaw: Thanks for joining me today 00:18:13.52\00:18:14.96 on It Is Written. 00:18:14.99\00:18:16.22 The world has changed. 00:18:16.26\00:18:17.79 Technology has rewritten the rules of engagement. 00:18:17.83\00:18:20.96 Young people, especially, are being forced to grow up 00:18:21.00\00:18:23.37 in a world that is radically different 00:18:23.40\00:18:25.03 from the world their parents or grandparents grew up in. 00:18:25.07\00:18:28.50 Temptation looks different today than it did in days gone by. 00:18:28.54\00:18:31.97 Temptation now hunts for you-- 00:18:32.01\00:18:34.41 and your children or grandchildren. 00:18:34.44\00:18:36.41 And it comes in more attractive ways than it used to. 00:18:36.44\00:18:39.35 And that's by design. 00:18:39.38\00:18:42.52 Social media sites were created by very bright people, 00:18:42.55\00:18:46.19 whose intent was to get you to use their product 00:18:46.22\00:18:49.06 as much as possible. 00:18:49.09\00:18:50.79 In other words, they want to get you hooked. 00:18:50.83\00:18:55.00 It's interesting that in recent times, 00:18:55.03\00:18:57.17 some of the people who took part in developing 00:18:57.20\00:18:59.63 social media services like Facebook 00:18:59.67\00:19:02.00 have expressed regret over what they created. 00:19:02.04\00:19:05.47 Facebook's founding president has criticized the way 00:19:06.14\00:19:09.11 that the company "[exploits] a vulnerability 00:19:09.14\00:19:11.78 in human psychology" by creating what he called 00:19:11.81\00:19:14.35 a "social-validation feedback loop." 00:19:14.38\00:19:17.69 Another said he believed that social media was 00:19:17.72\00:19:20.16 "eroding the core foundations of how people behave 00:19:20.19\00:19:23.39 by and between each other." 00:19:23.43\00:19:25.33 That same man said that he doesn't allow his children 00:19:25.36\00:19:28.53 to use social media 00:19:28.56\00:19:29.93 because of the way it deliberately hooks people 00:19:29.96\00:19:32.47 to spend more and more time on those sites and to divulge 00:19:32.50\00:19:37.77 more and more personal information about themselves. 00:19:37.81\00:19:41.08 He said, "You don't realize it, but you are being programmed," 00:19:41.11\00:19:45.15 saying that people have to decide how much 00:19:45.18\00:19:47.12 of their intellectual independence 00:19:47.15\00:19:49.32 they are prepared to give up. 00:19:49.35\00:19:51.75 A former Google executive said, 00:19:51.79\00:19:53.32 "Our minds can be hijacked. 00:19:53.36\00:19:55.59 Our choices are not as free as we think they are." 00:19:55.62\00:19:59.96 And the technology obviously works. 00:20:00.40\00:20:02.80 One piece of research said that the average millennial 00:20:02.83\00:20:05.60 checks their phone... 00:20:05.63\00:20:07.97 157 times a day. 00:20:08.00\00:20:11.27 A former Facebook executive said that social media sites 00:20:11.31\00:20:13.81 are "exploiting a vulnerability in human psychology." 00:20:13.84\00:20:19.05 And maybe here's the rub. 00:20:19.08\00:20:21.12 One of the co-creators of the "like" button said, 00:20:21.15\00:20:24.55 "If we're not vigilant... computers and mobile devices 00:20:24.59\00:20:28.36 will guide our attention poorly." 00:20:28.39\00:20:31.36 Think about that. 00:20:31.39\00:20:32.49 The "like" button was created to exploit our desire 00:20:32.53\00:20:35.53 to be affirmed or liked. 00:20:35.56\00:20:37.87 You can easily see how it can lead a person to do or say 00:20:37.90\00:20:40.80 or post things that later they might seriously regret. 00:20:40.84\00:20:44.84 You know, people have been killed, 00:20:44.87\00:20:46.68 people have died doing crazy things in an attempt 00:20:46.71\00:20:50.38 to make content that they hoped would go viral. 00:20:50.41\00:20:54.65 They wanted to be seen and noticed and liked. 00:20:54.68\00:21:00.52 Now, think of the spiritual ramifications of this. 00:21:00.56\00:21:04.76 You've likely heard people say, 00:21:04.79\00:21:06.16 "I go online. 00:21:06.19\00:21:07.23 I go to Facebook or YouTube for just a few minutes. 00:21:07.30\00:21:10.27 I just waste time scrolling through comments 00:21:10.30\00:21:13.47 and clicking on links." 00:21:13.50\00:21:15.24 You might have said that yourself. 00:21:15.27\00:21:17.17 What is seen as a form of entertainment really is 00:21:17.21\00:21:20.11 nothing less than an addiction for a whole lot of people. 00:21:20.14\00:21:24.55 Now, there's another purpose of social media. 00:21:24.58\00:21:26.75 One, they want to get you hooked to use their site. 00:21:26.78\00:21:28.78 Secondly-- think about this-- 00:21:28.82\00:21:30.75 Facebook, for example, isn't selling you social networking. 00:21:30.79\00:21:33.66 They're giving that to you for free. 00:21:33.69\00:21:35.69 What they're selling is information-- 00:21:35.72\00:21:38.06 your information-- to other people. 00:21:38.09\00:21:40.70 And how are they getting that information? 00:21:40.73\00:21:42.96 You're giving it to them. 00:21:43.00\00:21:44.63 Now, again, you might not have a problem with this. 00:21:44.67\00:21:46.57 It surely isn't illegal. 00:21:46.60\00:21:48.40 But it tells you how careful you have to be to make sure 00:21:48.44\00:21:50.71 that you're not sharing more about yourself 00:21:50.74\00:21:53.38 than is appropriate, things that are not dangerous to share. 00:21:53.41\00:21:58.11 So now, let's look at a few biblical principles 00:21:58.15\00:22:00.72 to help guide us with modern technology. 00:22:00.75\00:22:04.15 One, you want to live like you've got nothing to hide. 00:22:04.19\00:22:07.59 To do that, you want to have nothing to hide. 00:22:07.62\00:22:10.46 The internet has a way of sucking people into doing things 00:22:10.49\00:22:13.36 that they might not otherwise do, 00:22:13.40\00:22:15.16 and saying things they might not otherwise say. 00:22:15.20\00:22:17.63 So here are some Bible verses to keep in mind 00:22:17.67\00:22:20.00 that can help you with this. 00:22:20.04\00:22:21.40 Psalm 51, verse 10, David's prayer, he prayed, 00:22:21.44\00:22:24.67 "Create in me a clean heart, O God; 00:22:24.71\00:22:26.81 and renew a right spirit within me." 00:22:26.84\00:22:30.18 Second Corinthians 5, verse 17: 00:22:30.21\00:22:32.21 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: 00:22:32.25\00:22:35.78 old things are passed away; 00:22:35.82\00:22:37.65 behold, all things are become new." 00:22:37.69\00:22:40.49 So you want to be fully given to Christ. 00:22:40.52\00:22:42.79 There's a lot of garbage on the internet, 00:22:42.82\00:22:44.83 in the media, in society. 00:22:44.86\00:22:46.93 Only the power of God in your life 00:22:46.96\00:22:49.53 is going to keep you from that. 00:22:49.56\00:22:51.73 That's all. 00:22:51.77\00:22:52.70 There's a lot of tawdry stuff online. 00:22:52.73\00:22:54.97 Even reputable websites leave little or nothing 00:22:55.00\00:22:58.21 to the imagination these days. 00:22:58.24\00:22:59.84 There's very little that's hidden anymore. 00:22:59.87\00:23:02.11 And that's a challenge for believers. 00:23:02.14\00:23:04.28 So remember what Paul wrote 00:23:04.31\00:23:05.85 in Philippians chapter 4 and verse 8: 00:23:05.88\00:23:08.38 "Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, 00:23:08.42\00:23:12.49 whatever is right, whatever is pure, 00:23:12.52\00:23:14.86 whatever is lovely, whatever is of good [report], 00:23:14.89\00:23:17.73 if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, 00:23:17.76\00:23:21.43 dwell on these things." 00:23:21.46\00:23:24.33 God says there are some things 00:23:24.37\00:23:25.77 that shouldn't even be on your mind. 00:23:25.80\00:23:28.37 There's no doubt modern technology has made it easier 00:23:28.40\00:23:31.47 than ever before to encounter sin, 00:23:31.51\00:23:34.11 and harder than ever to keep away from it. 00:23:34.14\00:23:37.25 Technology has made it easier than ever to access sin 00:23:37.28\00:23:40.98 and to access it privately. 00:23:41.02\00:23:43.18 It's easier than ever to encounter meanness and hate. 00:23:43.22\00:23:46.45 The internet is full of it. 00:23:46.49\00:23:47.92 It's easier than ever to be victimized by others, 00:23:47.96\00:23:50.53 even by people that you don't know. 00:23:50.56\00:23:52.66 What we need is the power of God to keep us away 00:23:52.69\00:23:55.73 from where we shouldn't be and to keep us where we should be. 00:23:55.76\00:23:58.57 It's essential that you know Jesus as a friend, 00:23:58.60\00:24:02.04 so that you are validated by Him, 00:24:02.07\00:24:04.44 and you don't feel the need to be validated by others online, 00:24:04.47\00:24:07.81 chasing "likes" instead of pursuing the love of God. 00:24:07.84\00:24:12.65 It's essential we're able to keep our lives in balance. 00:24:12.68\00:24:15.22 Of course, you can have healthy relationships online, 00:24:15.25\00:24:17.65 healthy interests online. 00:24:17.69\00:24:19.59 But it's easy to become unhealthy. 00:24:19.62\00:24:22.59 God is able to keep you where you need to be and want to be. 00:24:22.62\00:24:27.50 We need the ability to say what we should 00:24:27.50\00:24:30.57 and not to say what we shouldn't. 00:24:30.60\00:24:32.67 A lot of people have made their lives complicated 00:24:32.70\00:24:34.60 by forgetting Proverbs 13, verse 3 when they go online. 00:24:34.64\00:24:37.27 "He who guards his mouth preserves his life, 00:24:37.31\00:24:40.94 but he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction." 00:24:40.98\00:24:45.38 If Solomon was writing that today, 00:24:45.41\00:24:47.38 he might have said something about guarding the keyboard. 00:24:47.42\00:24:50.59 And we need something that the Bible calls "temperance." 00:24:50.62\00:24:54.02 Galatians 5:22 and 23 says this: 00:24:54.06\00:24:57.23 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, 00:24:57.26\00:25:01.30 gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, 00:25:01.33\00:25:03.80 temperance: against such there is no law." 00:25:03.83\00:25:08.97 That word "temperance," 00:25:09.00\00:25:10.14 that's what we would call self-control. 00:25:10.17\00:25:13.24 I saw a definition of that, which said, 00:25:13.27\00:25:16.81 "The virtue of one who masters his or her desires and passions, 00:25:16.85\00:25:22.75 especially sensual appetites." 00:25:22.78\00:25:26.39 You see, what we need is surrender to the Holy Spirit. 00:25:26.42\00:25:30.56 As the times change, temptations change with them, 00:25:30.59\00:25:34.00 or at least temptation is brought to us in different ways. 00:25:34.03\00:25:37.63 Revelation 14:12 speaks about the "saints, 00:25:37.67\00:25:40.47 who keep the commandments of God and the faith of Jesus." 00:25:40.50\00:25:44.87 Technology has not made that unattainable. 00:25:44.91\00:25:49.24 But it should make us realize that we need God; 00:25:49.28\00:25:52.25 we need the Holy Spirit in our lives more than ever before. 00:25:52.28\00:25:57.09 If you're struggling with this, God can help you. 00:25:57.12\00:25:59.55 And He will. 00:25:59.59\00:26:00.66 Ask God to be your strength; tell Him He must. 00:26:00.69\00:26:04.56 Ask God to deliver you. 00:26:04.59\00:26:06.26 And watch God work 00:26:06.29\00:26:07.96 and experience God's power in your life. 00:26:08.00\00:26:12.57 >>Announcer: To receive your free DVD copy of this program, 00:26:13.77\00:26:16.40 call us now at 800-253-3000. 00:26:16.44\00:26:20.18 "The Dangers of Technology" DVD also includes bonus material 00:26:20.21\00:26:23.75 from internet security expert Michael Dinkins, 00:26:23.78\00:26:26.51 which will help keep 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00:27:08.22\00:27:11.49 Lord, I pray, protect us online and offline. 00:27:11.53\00:27:14.96 Give us wisdom, self-control as we live our online lives. 00:27:15.00\00:27:21.64 And I pray, Lord, that our primary pursuit would be Jesus. 00:27:21.67\00:27:26.24 Teach us to love Your approval 00:27:26.27\00:27:29.68 more than the approval of others. 00:27:29.71\00:27:31.61 And keep us where we ought to be, even when our weakened, 00:27:31.65\00:27:34.32 fallen hearts want to lead us in another way. 00:27:34.35\00:27:37.59 Give us Your Spirit, that we are born again, 00:27:37.62\00:27:40.52 and keep us in the center of Your will now and ever. 00:27:40.56\00:27:42.92 We pray in Jesus' name. 00:27:42.96\00:27:46.26 Amen. 00:27:46.29\00:27:47.46 Thanks so much for joining me. 00:27:47.50\00:27:48.90 I'm looking forward to seeing you again next time. 00:27:48.93\00:27:51.10 Until then, remember: 00:27:51.13\00:27:52.80 "It is written, 'Man shall not live by bread alone, 00:27:52.83\00:27:56.71 but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.'" 00:27:56.74\00:28:02.48 ¤[Theme music]¤ 00:28:02.51\00:28:08.85