¤[Theme music] 00:00:10.44\00:00:16.98 >>John Bradshaw: This is It Is Written. 00:00:19.68\00:00:21.15 I'm John Bradshaw. 00:00:21.18\00:00:22.42 Thanks for joining me. 00:00:22.45\00:00:23.69 In the early 1800s, an English woman named Mary Shelley 00:00:23.72\00:00:27.16 had a contest with her future husband and another man 00:00:27.19\00:00:30.59 to see who could write the best horror story. 00:00:30.63\00:00:33.46 A few years before, she had traveled in Germany 00:00:33.50\00:00:35.43 near Frankenstein Castle, which is near the city of Darmstadt. 00:00:35.46\00:00:38.63 It seems that Mary was influenced by stories 00:00:38.67\00:00:41.90 about Frankenstein Castle, 00:00:41.94\00:00:44.41 and so she wrote the story of "Frankenstein." 00:00:44.44\00:00:49.34 In Mary Shelley's novel, a scientist working 00:00:49.38\00:00:51.88 in a laboratory creates an eight-feet-tall being 00:00:51.91\00:00:54.78 that ends up being described as a monster. 00:00:54.82\00:00:57.75 It's a story, ultimately, about science gone wrong. 00:00:57.79\00:01:01.76 A scientist or alchemist attempts to create something, 00:01:01.79\00:01:04.49 and things don't work out as intended, 00:01:04.53\00:01:07.56 as he works with the technology of his day. 00:01:07.60\00:01:10.07 The story was a cautionary tale. 00:01:10.10\00:01:12.33 Technology can come with unintended consequences. 00:01:12.37\00:01:16.04 And it seems that today, 00:01:16.07\00:01:17.84 society seems to have created another Frankenstein's monster. 00:01:17.87\00:01:22.44 Technology has given the world some wonderful things. 00:01:22.48\00:01:26.35 The Industrial Revolution-- that was technology. 00:01:26.38\00:01:29.38 Today, modern medicines do a great amount of good. 00:01:29.42\00:01:31.89 Modern transport-- it's incredible. 00:01:31.92\00:01:34.66 Now, you could argue that there's a downside to some 00:01:34.69\00:01:36.66 of these things, but there's also a gigantic upside. 00:01:36.69\00:01:41.56 Modern technology has given us computers. 00:01:41.60\00:01:44.30 Today we're able to access information anywhere 00:01:44.33\00:01:46.63 in the world from virtually anywhere in the world, 00:01:46.67\00:01:49.84 any time we like. 00:01:49.87\00:01:51.27 That's good, right? 00:01:51.31\00:01:52.44 You can watch whatever you want to watch, 00:01:52.47\00:01:54.11 whenever you want to watch it, 00:01:54.14\00:01:55.04 from the privacy of your own private space. 00:01:55.08\00:01:57.88 That's good, too, right? 00:01:57.91\00:01:59.48 Today you can type messages in moments, 00:01:59.51\00:02:01.18 send them to anyone anywhere. 00:02:01.22\00:02:03.28 You can post photos to photo-sharing websites, 00:02:03.32\00:02:05.52 broadcast video of whatever you're doing, 00:02:05.55\00:02:08.59 wherever you're doing it, to the whole world, if you want, 00:02:08.62\00:02:12.39 whenever you'd like to do so. 00:02:12.43\00:02:14.13 You no longer need to be a newspaper publisher to share 00:02:14.20\00:02:16.73 your point of view with everybody on the entire planet. 00:02:16.77\00:02:21.60 That's good...right? 00:02:21.64\00:02:25.01 Well, we know it isn't always good. 00:02:25.04\00:02:27.54 And we're coming to understand more and more that, 00:02:27.58\00:02:30.11 in many cases, it's actually positively harmful. 00:02:30.15\00:02:35.45 When an Englishman named Tim Berners-Lee invented 00:02:35.48\00:02:38.55 the World Wide Web early in the 1990s in Geneva, Switzerland, 00:02:38.59\00:02:42.06 it's doubtful that anyone anywhere realized 00:02:42.09\00:02:44.89 what it would become only a few short years later. 00:02:44.93\00:02:48.60 And it's probably fair to say that most people who use 00:02:48.63\00:02:51.23 the internet and modern technology today don't realize 00:02:51.27\00:02:55.00 what it really has become. 00:02:55.04\00:02:57.57 There's no question modern technology 00:02:57.61\00:02:59.31 provides great opportunities. 00:02:59.34\00:03:01.41 It's how you're able to watch this, 00:03:01.44\00:03:03.58 and I'm glad you're able to. 00:03:03.61\00:03:05.35 Technology is used to promote good values and to share 00:03:05.38\00:03:08.15 positive messages-- and to proclaim the gospel. 00:03:08.18\00:03:11.49 That's good. 00:03:11.52\00:03:12.99 But it seems that when it comes to modern technology, 00:03:13.02\00:03:15.79 every silver lining has a dark cloud. 00:03:15.82\00:03:21.06 Today's generation is the first generation in history 00:03:21.10\00:03:25.00 to be connected to a constant stream of electronic information 00:03:25.03\00:03:28.77 and entertainment. 00:03:28.80\00:03:30.04 And while that might seem like a silver lining in many ways, 00:03:30.07\00:03:33.11 that constant stream of temptation, 00:03:33.14\00:03:35.38 the constant access to sin, is a very dark cloud. 00:03:35.41\00:03:39.78 Today's young people have to grow up in a world 00:03:39.81\00:03:41.62 where being liked means something slightly different 00:03:41.65\00:03:44.09 to what it meant a generation ago, 00:03:44.12\00:03:46.05 and the pressures that come along with that 00:03:46.09\00:03:47.76 are impacting the lives of young people-- 00:03:47.79\00:03:50.06 and the lives of not-so-young people-- 00:03:50.09\00:03:52.56 in a very, very real way. 00:03:52.59\00:03:55.66 Society is now wired. 00:03:55.70\00:03:57.87 Or more to the point, it's wireless. 00:03:57.90\00:04:01.07 Whereas television decades ago brought the world 00:04:01.10\00:04:04.01 into the living room, 00:04:04.04\00:04:05.37 smartphones bring the world into your pocket. 00:04:05.41\00:04:09.11 And it's a different kind of world, 00:04:09.14\00:04:10.91 a world where there are virtually no controls. 00:04:10.95\00:04:15.45 And what's the constant connection with the internet 00:04:15.48\00:04:17.72 doing to us as individuals? 00:04:17.75\00:04:19.55 How's it challenging people of faith who claim 00:04:19.59\00:04:22.09 to be disciples of Jesus Christ? 00:04:22.12\00:04:24.56 And what's it doing to society? 00:04:24.59\00:04:27.50 Websites today offer you anything you want. 00:04:27.50\00:04:31.13 And a lot of things that you really don't want. 00:04:31.17\00:04:34.57 It's no secret that there's some dark content on the internet. 00:04:34.60\00:04:37.84 Unfortunately, it's eminently accessible, 00:04:37.87\00:04:41.61 even to children. 00:04:41.64\00:04:44.31 I spoke with one young lady, who shared with me just how easy 00:04:44.35\00:04:47.82 it can be for children to access the sort of content 00:04:47.85\00:04:51.19 that parents don't want their children seeing. 00:04:51.22\00:04:53.99 >>Kyla Steinkraus: I took my family to church, 00:04:54.32\00:04:56.79 um, myself, my husband, my 12-year-old son, 00:04:56.83\00:04:59.43 and my 7-year-old daughter. 00:04:59.46\00:05:01.00 And I took my daughter to go to the bathroom, 00:05:01.03\00:05:03.60 and I left my son in the back row. 00:05:03.63\00:05:05.90 My husband was volunteering in the audio-visual department, 00:05:05.93\00:05:09.54 which is a back room that has a glassed-in window, 00:05:09.57\00:05:12.51 um, but he was not directly with my son at the time. 00:05:12.54\00:05:16.21 And when I came back a few minutes later, 00:05:16.24\00:05:18.55 after taking my daughter to the bathroom, 00:05:18.58\00:05:20.52 um, I found my husband with a tablet and a 10-year-old boy, 00:05:20.55\00:05:24.59 and he was very upset. 00:05:24.62\00:05:25.99 So I asked him what happened, 00:05:26.02\00:05:28.22 and he said that the 10-year-old boy 00:05:28.26\00:05:30.53 had just shown my son pornography on his tablet-- 00:05:30.56\00:05:34.03 at church. 00:05:34.10\00:05:34.76 >>John: In church? 00:05:34.83\00:05:35.66 >>Kyla: Yes, in church. 00:05:35.70\00:05:37.97 And I was so, so upset I was shaking. 00:05:38.00\00:05:42.04 It took me a minute to really--for it to sink in. 00:05:42.07\00:05:45.44 It was definitely a very negative experience, 00:05:45.47\00:05:48.31 a very saddening experience. 00:05:48.34\00:05:49.74 Your child loses some of their innocence at that point, 00:05:49.78\00:05:53.28 and it was, it was a hard thing to go through. 00:05:53.31\00:05:59.12 >>John: So, how'd this happen? 00:05:59.15\00:06:01.02 >>Kyla: The 10-year-old boy had the tablet, 00:06:01.06\00:06:03.09 and he came over and sat by my son and his friend and said, 00:06:03.12\00:06:06.59 "Here, I want to show you something," 00:06:06.63\00:06:08.20 and he pulled up the pornography on his tablet 00:06:08.23\00:06:12.07 and showed it to the boys. 00:06:12.10\00:06:13.60 And to their credit, both boys said, 00:06:13.64\00:06:16.00 "No, we don't want to look at this." 00:06:16.04\00:06:18.21 But the 10-year-old then shoved it in their faces and said, 00:06:18.24\00:06:22.58 "No, I want you to see this." 00:06:22.61\00:06:24.48 My husband, who was in the A/V, um, 00:06:24.51\00:06:27.18 heard the commotion and looked through the window 00:06:27.22\00:06:30.09 and saw that something was happening, 00:06:30.12\00:06:32.15 saw the boys trying to push the tablet away. 00:06:32.19\00:06:34.72 And so when he came out and saw what was on the tablet, 00:06:34.76\00:06:38.53 he got very upset and took it immediately. 00:06:38.56\00:06:41.00 And that's the point where I came in. 00:06:41.03\00:06:43.10 And I took the boy aside and said, 00:06:43.13\00:06:45.73 "You're 10, you know; you're 10 years old. 00:06:45.77\00:06:48.60 How did you even get pornography? 00:06:48.64\00:06:50.84 Like, what happened?" 00:06:50.87\00:06:52.41 And that's when he told me that he had an Instagram account 00:06:52.44\00:06:55.94 and a pornography company had created a profile page with, 00:06:55.98\00:07:02.18 um, a picture of a beautiful scantily-clad woman, 00:07:02.22\00:07:06.45 who then went and searched for this young boy's profile-- 00:07:06.49\00:07:11.03 or, well, they were searching for kids 00:07:11.06\00:07:12.83 and found him and was posting little comments 00:07:12.86\00:07:15.90 under his pictures. 00:07:15.93\00:07:17.07 And so, as a curious kid, he clicked on it to see 00:07:17.10\00:07:20.27 what it was, and it took him directly to pornography, 00:07:20.30\00:07:23.64 unfortunately. 00:07:23.67\00:07:25.97 >>John: I think that's something many parents don't realize, 00:07:26.01\00:07:28.61 is that there are predators-- individuals or sites 00:07:28.64\00:07:34.28 or companies, or whatever they might do-- 00:07:34.32\00:07:36.18 that are coming after your kid. 00:07:36.22\00:07:38.72 They don't care who the kid is, 00:07:38.75\00:07:41.52 just as long as they can get access and then groom the child. 00:07:41.56\00:07:45.09 It's very intentional what's going on, right? 00:07:45.13\00:07:47.46 >>Kyla: Yes, correct. 00:07:47.50\00:07:49.46 I know an 11-year-old girl who had an adult child predator 00:07:49.50\00:07:56.40 pretend to be another 11-year-old boy 00:07:56.44\00:07:58.67 and start chatting with her, 00:07:58.71\00:08:00.94 and over time said that he wanted to be her boyfriend, 00:08:00.98\00:08:04.51 and then asked her to send pictures of herself to him, 00:08:04.55\00:08:09.02 and then asked her to send nude pictures of herself to him, 00:08:09.05\00:08:12.25 which she did. 00:08:12.29\00:08:13.15 >>John: She did--11 years old? 00:08:13.19\00:08:14.99 >>Kyla: She did, at 11 years old. 00:08:15.02\00:08:16.69 >>John: Well, well, let me ask you, 00:08:16.73\00:08:17.59 so, this 11-year-old that you know of, 00:08:17.63\00:08:19.79 uh, was she that kind of kid? 00:08:19.83\00:08:22.60 Is she the sort of kid that a person might say, 00:08:22.63\00:08:24.43 someone who knows her, say, 00:08:24.47\00:08:25.43 "Yeah, well, she'd do something like that"? 00:08:25.47\00:08:27.70 Or, totally out of the blue? 00:08:27.74\00:08:29.50 >>Kyla: No, it was very out of the blue. 00:08:29.54\00:08:31.34 She was just in fifth grade, very innocent, 00:08:31.37\00:08:34.01 had never had a boyfriend before. 00:08:34.04\00:08:35.84 She was very childish, very young. 00:08:35.88\00:08:38.11 It was totally shocking and unexpected, 00:08:38.15\00:08:41.05 and, and out of the blue, and the parents were devastated. 00:08:41.08\00:08:45.35 >>John: I, I think that's a really important point, 00:08:45.39\00:08:47.62 and I--forgive me for asking the way I did-- 00:08:47.66\00:08:49.79 "was she that kind of kid." 00:08:49.82\00:08:50.59 I don't know how many 11-year-olds 00:08:50.63\00:08:51.96 are that kind of kid. 00:08:51.99\00:08:53.06 But, you know, there are some children you might say, 00:08:53.09\00:08:55.16 "Yeah, well, it wouldn't surprise me if this child 00:08:55.20\00:08:57.53 did something reckless." 00:08:57.57\00:08:58.90 But what you're saying is this was a model child 00:08:58.93\00:09:01.60 from a model family without any signs 00:09:01.64\00:09:03.94 that she might do something, which is quite remarkable. 00:09:03.97\00:09:07.24 It's quite a step from playing a game to... 00:09:07.28\00:09:10.31 sharing those kind of photographs. 00:09:10.35\00:09:12.21 How do you think then--and this means that any parent 00:09:12.25\00:09:15.58 must realize that, that their family is at risk, 00:09:15.62\00:09:19.35 under similar circumstance. 00:09:19.39\00:09:20.96 How did that child get from A to B? 00:09:20.99\00:09:23.49 How did that process take place? 00:09:23.53\00:09:25.83 >>Kyla: Well, I, you know, I hear it a lot where parents are. 00:09:25.86\00:09:28.83 They, you know, they give their kids a smartphone, 00:09:28.86\00:09:31.60 but they say, "Well, my kids are good kids." 00:09:31.63\00:09:33.54 Uh, "My kids would never do that." 00:09:33.57\00:09:35.10 Um, they'll, "They would never try to do that," 00:09:35.14\00:09:38.07 or "They wouldn't be interested in that kind of thing." 00:09:38.11\00:09:40.38 But the thing is, is that it's not that their kid 00:09:40.41\00:09:43.01 is going out looking for that kind of stuff. 00:09:43.04\00:09:44.98 That stuff is looking for their kid and is-- 00:09:45.01\00:09:48.45 those companies, those child predators 00:09:48.48\00:09:50.59 are hunting these kids. 00:09:50.62\00:09:52.22 >>John: So, this 11-year-old child shared pictures 00:09:52.25\00:09:55.36 that no parent wants an 11-year-old child sharing. 00:09:55.39\00:09:58.16 What happens to those pictures? 00:09:58.19\00:09:59.66 >>Kyla: The parents did call the FBI, 00:09:59.69\00:10:01.76 and it was an adult child predator 00:10:01.80\00:10:05.93 who had targeted their daughter. 00:10:05.97\00:10:08.24 But they were unable to recover the pictures, 00:10:08.27\00:10:11.67 so the pictures are now part of the child pornography. 00:10:11.71\00:10:15.51 They get shared among pedophiles and predators online...forever. 00:10:15.54\00:10:22.52 >>John: And that's not something that any parent 00:10:22.55\00:10:25.89 wants to go through. 00:10:25.92\00:10:27.52 >>Kyla: No. 00:10:27.56\00:10:28.42 >>John: Or have the child go through. 00:10:28.46\00:10:29.59 >>Kyla: Yeah. 00:10:29.62\00:10:30.59 >>John: So, Kyla, let me ask you this. 00:10:30.63\00:10:32.63 Parents are watching this, and they're thinking, 00:10:32.66\00:10:34.20 oh, my goodness. 00:10:34.20\00:10:35.63 What should parents who are concerned-- 00:10:35.66\00:10:37.87 what should they do? 00:10:37.90\00:10:38.93 What can they do right now to address the situation 00:10:38.97\00:10:42.94 in their own experience-- like, right now? 00:10:42.97\00:10:44.77 >>Kyla: I think the number one most important thing 00:10:44.81\00:10:47.14 that they could do right now is take away the smartphone. 00:10:47.18\00:10:51.08 It really gives your kid unfettered access to everything. 00:10:51.11\00:10:57.22 And gives predators unfettered access to your child. 00:10:57.25\00:11:01.29 And it's not the coolest thing to do; 00:11:01.32\00:11:03.46 it's not the easiest thing to do. 00:11:03.49\00:11:05.76 But to me, my child's-- your child's safety 00:11:05.79\00:11:09.80 and your child's soul is the most important thing. 00:11:09.83\00:11:14.44 >>John: Kyla, thanks so much. I appreciate this a lot. 00:11:14.47\00:11:17.47 We'll be back with more in just a moment. 00:11:17.51\00:11:19.84 ¤[Theme music] 00:11:19.87\00:11:27.35 >>Announcer: To receive your free DVD copy of this program, 00:11:28.42\00:11:31.52 call us now at 800-253-3000 00:11:31.55\00:11:35.06 "The Dangers of Technology" DVD also includes bonus material 00:11:35.09\00:11:38.63 from internet security expert Michael Dinkins, 00:11:38.66\00:11:41.16 which will help keep you and your family safe online. 00:11:41.20\00:11:45.17 Don't miss "The Dangers of Technology." 00:11:45.20\00:11:47.57 It's yours free when you call 800-253-3000 00:11:47.60\00:11:51.41 You can write to the address on your screen, 00:11:51.44\00:11:53.24 or visit iiwoffer.com 00:11:53.27\00:11:58.28 >>John Bradshaw: Thanks for joining me on It Is Written. 00:11:58.68\00:12:01.08 I'm John Bradshaw. 00:12:01.12\00:12:03.02 It's a new age. 00:12:03.05\00:12:04.15 Modern technology has changed the way that we do life. 00:12:04.19\00:12:07.52 Now, you've seen people sitting together in a group, 00:12:07.56\00:12:09.76 but everybody has their heads...down; 00:12:09.79\00:12:12.66 they're gazing at their devices. 00:12:12.69\00:12:14.66 Now, is that harmful? 00:12:14.73\00:12:16.87 Well, no, not necessarily. 00:12:16.90\00:12:18.20 But the potential for harm is huge. 00:12:18.23\00:12:21.87 And that potential is being realized. 00:12:21.90\00:12:24.11 Now, in a moment we're going to talk about social media-- 00:12:24.14\00:12:26.44 Facebook and Instagram and Snapchat and Twitter 00:12:26.47\00:12:28.58 and so forth. 00:12:28.61\00:12:29.54 They are huge today. 00:12:29.58\00:12:32.31 But there's a fundamental issue 00:12:32.35\00:12:33.58 that we're going to discuss first. 00:12:33.62\00:12:35.62 The internet has really brought with it the death of privacy. 00:12:35.65\00:12:40.36 Now, privacy is a human right, 00:12:40.39\00:12:42.72 recognized as such by the United Nations. 00:12:42.76\00:12:44.99 Now, you might think you're carrying a smartphone with you 00:12:45.03\00:12:47.30 when what you're actually carrying with you is a... 00:12:47.36\00:12:50.60 tracking device. 00:12:50.63\00:12:52.13 You see, unless you've taken action, 00:12:52.17\00:12:53.67 your smartphone tracks your movements. 00:12:53.70\00:12:56.40 It keeps a record of everywhere you've been 00:12:56.44\00:12:59.14 and of most things that you've thought or written. 00:12:59.17\00:13:02.81 Your laptop or your smartphone almost certainly contains 00:13:02.84\00:13:06.11 information that you don't want other people seeing. 00:13:06.15\00:13:10.09 Take a look at your search history and then ask yourself 00:13:10.12\00:13:13.02 how you'd feel if simply your search history was made public-- 00:13:13.05\00:13:17.13 and not because you've necessarily done anything 00:13:17.16\00:13:19.09 illegal or immoral. 00:13:19.13\00:13:20.70 Your devices contain an enormous amount of sensitive information 00:13:20.73\00:13:23.80 about you--maybe health information or other personal 00:13:23.83\00:13:26.70 or interpersonal information. 00:13:26.74\00:13:29.44 What you post online, 00:13:29.47\00:13:30.97 whether that be a photo or a comment or an opinion, 00:13:31.01\00:13:33.98 becomes part of a permanent electronic record of your life. 00:13:34.01\00:13:38.58 Kids--or adults, for that matter--who post photos 00:13:38.61\00:13:41.32 or conversations online ought to be asking themselves 00:13:41.35\00:13:44.15 if what they are posting is what they would want a teacher 00:13:44.19\00:13:47.76 or a grandmother to see. 00:13:47.79\00:13:50.03 It's, it's a must to think that way. 00:13:50.06\00:13:51.96 You see, even if you think that you've got nothing to hide-- 00:13:51.99\00:13:54.56 which may well be true-- 00:13:54.56\00:13:56.30 you've certainly got something to protect. 00:13:56.33\00:13:59.40 Devices are often now a gateway to accounts, 00:13:59.43\00:14:03.00 emails, personal information. 00:14:03.04\00:14:05.87 Essentially, they're a gateway 00:14:05.91\00:14:07.78 to a running history of your life. 00:14:07.81\00:14:10.85 And you don't want people getting their hands on that. 00:14:10.88\00:14:13.98 I talked with Michael Dinkins, an internet security expert 00:14:15.02\00:14:19.72 at UTC, the University of Tennessee at Chattanooga, 00:14:19.75\00:14:23.32 and he shared with me some ways that people 00:14:23.36\00:14:25.23 can protect themselves online. 00:14:25.26\00:14:27.50 >>Michael Dinkins: Well, first thing, in my opinion, 00:14:28.73\00:14:30.30 is to become aware of what the "threat-scape" is. 00:14:30.33\00:14:33.67 Uh, they need to understand fully what, what is the attack, 00:14:33.70\00:14:37.51 uh, and what's coming at them. 00:14:37.54\00:14:39.07 You need to use strong passwords. 00:14:39.11\00:14:41.11 You need to, uh, upgrade your systems, 00:14:41.14\00:14:43.38 make sure it has the latest operating system patches, 00:14:43.41\00:14:45.88 latest security patches. 00:14:45.91\00:14:47.88 You should have different account names 00:14:47.92\00:14:50.52 and different account passwords for every site that you go to. 00:14:50.55\00:14:53.56 You have screen time for children, uh, 00:14:53.59\00:14:56.32 that should be monitored, uh, because they can go anywhere. 00:14:56.36\00:15:00.33 They need to understand that once you put something 00:15:00.36\00:15:03.37 on a social networking site, or even in a private drive space, 00:15:03.40\00:15:07.67 once it's out there, it's out there, 00:15:07.70\00:15:08.94 and it's out there probably forever. 00:15:08.97\00:15:11.51 Take advantage of any convenience that you want to, 00:15:11.54\00:15:14.64 but understand that whenever you embrace convenience, 00:15:14.68\00:15:17.35 somebody else knows about it, you know. 00:15:17.38\00:15:20.38 So, uh, you've just got to find that balance on how... 00:15:20.42\00:15:25.49 invisible you want to be on the internet. 00:15:25.52\00:15:28.26 >>John: It comes as a terrible surprise to a lot of people 00:15:29.26\00:15:31.39 to learn that their email service gives third parties 00:15:31.43\00:15:34.36 the right to read their email, which is entirely legal 00:15:34.40\00:15:37.90 because you checked off on fine print, 00:15:37.93\00:15:40.27 which made it legal for that to happen. 00:15:40.30\00:15:43.44 People give away a lot about themselves online. 00:15:43.47\00:15:46.27 Now, again, only you can decide how much is too much. 00:15:46.31\00:15:50.51 But research from Cambridge University has said that 00:15:50.55\00:15:53.05 after you "like" just 10 Facebook pages, 00:15:53.08\00:15:56.85 advertisers can get to know you as well as a colleague does. 00:15:56.89\00:16:00.79 After 70 "likes," someone with that information can know you 00:16:00.82\00:16:04.36 about as well as a close friend does. 00:16:04.39\00:16:06.70 And after 150 "likes"? 00:16:06.73\00:16:09.13 You've essentially given up as much about yourself 00:16:09.16\00:16:12.13 as your parents know. 00:16:12.17\00:16:14.74 Advertisers once thought that consumers would become 00:16:14.77\00:16:17.11 desensitized to this lack of privacy, 00:16:17.14\00:16:19.51 but studies show that the opposite 00:16:19.54\00:16:22.14 appears to be happening. 00:16:22.18\00:16:23.98 So, what about social media and the effect it's having 00:16:24.01\00:16:26.98 on your life and on society? 00:16:27.02\00:16:28.98 And what does the Bible say that speaks to this? 00:16:29.02\00:16:32.59 I'll be right back. 00:16:32.62\00:16:33.86 ¤[Theme music] 00:16:33.89\00:16:41.96 >>John: Thank you for remembering 00:16:42.63\00:16:43.67 that It Is Written exists 00:16:43.70\00:16:45.33 because of the kindness of people just like you. 00:16:45.37\00:16:48.07 To support this international life-changing ministry, 00:16:48.10\00:16:51.24 please call us now at 800-253-3000 00:16:51.27\00:16:55.61 You can send your tax-deductible gift 00:16:55.64\00:16:57.01 to the address 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together to pray for a miracle. 00:17:48.03\00:17:53.10 From the Atacama Desert comes a story of tragedy, 00:17:53.13\00:17:56.57 a story of uncertainty, yet a story of courage, 00:17:56.60\00:18:00.38 hope, and ultimately, a story of salvation. 00:18:00.41\00:18:04.31 Wait on the Lord, and the miracle will come. 00:18:04.35\00:18:08.25 "Trapped." 00:18:08.78\00:18:10.02 Watch now on itiswritten.tv 00:18:10.05\00:18:13.02 >>John: Thanks for joining me today on It Is Written. 00:18:13.92\00:18:16.36 The world has changed. 00:18:16.39\00:18:17.93 Technology has rewritten the rules of engagement. 00:18:17.96\00:18:21.10 Young people, especially, are being forced to grow up 00:18:21.13\00:18:23.50 in a world that is radically different from the world 00:18:23.53\00:18:26.10 their parents or grandparents grew up in. 00:18:26.13\00:18:28.64 Temptation looks different today than it did in days gone by. 00:18:28.67\00:18:32.11 Temptation now hunts for you-- 00:18:32.14\00:18:34.54 and your children or grandchildren. 00:18:34.58\00:18:36.54 And it comes in more attractive ways than it used to. 00:18:36.58\00:18:39.48 And that's by design. 00:18:39.51\00:18:42.65 Social media sites were created by very bright people, 00:18:42.68\00:18:46.32 whose intent was to get you to use their product 00:18:46.35\00:18:49.19 as much as possible. 00:18:49.22\00:18:50.93 In other words, they want to get you hooked. 00:18:50.96\00:18:55.13 It's interesting that in recent times, 00:18:55.16\00:18:57.30 some of the people who took part in developing 00:18:57.33\00:18:59.77 social media services like Facebook have expressed regret 00:18:59.80\00:19:03.87 over what they created. 00:19:03.91\00:19:06.11 Facebook's founding president has criticized the way 00:19:06.14\00:19:09.24 that the company "exploits a vulnerability 00:19:09.28\00:19:11.91 in human psychology" by creating what he called 00:19:11.95\00:19:14.48 a "social-validation feedback loop." 00:19:14.52\00:19:18.12 Another said he believed that social media was "eroding 00:19:18.15\00:19:21.09 the core foundations of how people behave 00:19:21.12\00:19:23.53 by and between each other." 00:19:23.56\00:19:25.69 That same man said that he doesn't doesn't allow 00:19:25.73\00:19:27.86 his children to use social media 00:19:27.93\00:19:30.07 because of the way it deliberately hooks people 00:19:30.10\00:19:32.60 to spend more and more time on those sites and to divulge 00:19:32.63\00:19:37.91 more and more personal information about themselves. 00:19:37.94\00:19:41.21 He said, "You don't realize it, but you are being programmed," 00:19:41.24\00:19:45.28 saying that people have to decide how much 00:19:45.31\00:19:47.25 of their intellectual independence 00:19:47.28\00:19:49.45 they are prepared to give up. 00:19:49.48\00:19:51.89 A former Google executive said, 00:19:51.92\00:19:53.46 "Our minds can be hijacked. 00:19:53.49\00:19:55.72 Our choices are not as free as we think they are." 00:19:55.76\00:20:00.16 And the technology obviously works. 00:20:00.20\00:20:02.93 One piece of research said that the average millennial 00:20:02.96\00:20:05.73 checks their phone 157 times a day. 00:20:05.77\00:20:11.41 A former Facebook executive said that social media sites 00:20:11.44\00:20:14.18 are "exploiting a vulnerability in human psychology." 00:20:14.21\00:20:19.51 And maybe here's the rub. 00:20:19.55\00:20:21.25 One of the co-creators of the "like" button said, 00:20:21.28\00:20:24.69 "If we're not vigilant, computers and mobile devices 00:20:24.72\00:20:28.49 will guide our attention poorly." 00:20:28.52\00:20:31.49 Think about that. 00:20:31.53\00:20:32.63 The "like" button was created to exploit our desire 00:20:32.66\00:20:35.66 to be affirmed--or liked. 00:20:35.70\00:20:38.00 You can easily see how it can lead a person to do or say 00:20:38.03\00:20:40.94 or post things that later they might seriously regret. 00:20:40.97\00:20:44.97 You know, people have been killed, 00:20:45.01\00:20:46.81 people have died doing crazy things in an attempt 00:20:46.84\00:20:50.51 to make content that they hoped would go viral. 00:20:50.55\00:20:54.78 They wanted to be seen and noticed and liked. 00:20:54.82\00:21:00.66 Now, think of the spiritual ramifications of this. 00:21:00.69\00:21:04.89 You've likely heard people say, 00:21:04.93\00:21:06.29 "I go online; 00:21:06.33\00:21:07.40 I go to Facebook or YouTube for just a few minutes. 00:21:07.40\00:21:10.40 I just waste time scrolling through comments 00:21:10.43\00:21:13.60 and clicking on links." 00:21:13.64\00:21:15.37 You might have said that yourself. 00:21:15.40\00:21:17.31 What is seen as a form of entertainment really is 00:21:17.34\00:21:20.24 nothing less than an addiction for a whole lot of people. 00:21:20.28\00:21:24.68 Now, there's another purpose of social media. 00:21:24.71\00:21:26.88 One, they want to get you hooked to use their site. 00:21:26.92\00:21:28.92 Secondly-- think about this-- 00:21:28.95\00:21:30.89 Facebook, for example, isn't selling you social networking. 00:21:30.92\00:21:33.79 They're giving that to you for free. 00:21:33.82\00:21:35.82 What they're selling is information-- 00:21:35.86\00:21:38.19 your information-- to other people. 00:21:38.23\00:21:40.83 And how are they getting that information? 00:21:40.86\00:21:43.10 You're giving it to them. 00:21:43.13\00:21:44.77 Now, again, you might not have a problem with this. 00:21:44.80\00:21:46.70 It surely isn't illegal. 00:21:46.74\00:21:48.54 But it tells you how careful you have to be to make sure 00:21:48.57\00:21:50.84 that you're not sharing more about yourself 00:21:50.87\00:21:53.51 than is appropriate--things that are not dangerous to share. 00:21:53.54\00:21:58.25 So now, let's look at a few biblical principles 00:21:58.28\00:22:00.85 to help guide us with modern technology. 00:22:00.88\00:22:03.75 One, you want to live like you've got nothing to hide. 00:22:03.79\00:22:07.72 To do that, you want to have nothing to hide. 00:22:07.76\00:22:10.43 The internet has a way of sucking people into doing things 00:22:10.46\00:22:13.50 that they might not otherwise do, 00:22:13.53\00:22:15.30 and saying things they might not otherwise say. 00:22:15.33\00:22:17.77 So, here are some Bible verses to keep in mind 00:22:17.80\00:22:20.14 that can help you with this. 00:22:20.17\00:22:21.54 Psalm 51, verse 10, David's prayer. 00:22:21.57\00:22:24.17 He prayed, 00:22:24.21\00:22:25.04 "Create in me a clean heart, O God; 00:22:25.07\00:22:27.61 and renew a right spirit within me." 00:22:27.64\00:22:30.31 Second Corinthians 5, verse 17: 00:22:30.35\00:22:32.35 "Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: 00:22:32.38\00:22:35.92 old things are passed away; 00:22:35.95\00:22:38.12 behold, all things are become new." 00:22:38.15\00:22:40.62 So, you want to be fully given to Christ. 00:22:40.66\00:22:42.92 There's a lot of garbage on the internet, 00:22:42.96\00:22:44.96 in the media, in society. 00:22:44.99\00:22:47.03 Only the power of God in your life 00:22:47.10\00:22:49.66 is going to keep you from that. 00:22:49.70\00:22:51.87 That's all. 00:22:51.90\00:22:52.83 There's a lot of tawdry stuff online. 00:22:52.87\00:22:55.10 Even reputable websites leave little or nothing 00:22:55.14\00:22:58.34 to the imagination these days. 00:22:58.37\00:23:00.04 There's very little that's hidden anymore. 00:23:00.08\00:23:02.24 And that's a challenge for believers. 00:23:02.28\00:23:04.41 So, remember what Paul wrote 00:23:04.45\00:23:05.98 in Philippians chapter 4 and verse 8: 00:23:06.01\00:23:08.52 "Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, 00:23:08.55\00:23:12.62 whatever is right, whatever is pure, 00:23:12.65\00:23:14.99 whatever is lovely, whatever is of good report, 00:23:15.02\00:23:17.59 if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, 00:23:17.63\00:23:21.30 dwell on these things." 00:23:21.33\00:23:24.47 God says there are some things 00:23:24.50\00:23:25.90 that shouldn't even be on your mind. 00:23:25.93\00:23:28.50 There's no doubt modern technology has made it easier 00:23:28.54\00:23:31.61 than ever before to encounter sin, 00:23:31.64\00:23:34.24 and harder than ever to keep away from it. 00:23:34.28\00:23:37.38 Technology has made it easier than ever to access sin 00:23:37.41\00:23:41.12 and to access it privately. 00:23:41.15\00:23:43.32 It's easier than ever to encounter meanness and hate. 00:23:43.35\00:23:46.59 The internet is full of it. 00:23:46.62\00:23:48.06 It's easier than ever to be victimized by others, 00:23:48.09\00:23:50.66 even by people that you don't know. 00:23:50.69\00:23:52.79 What we need is the power of God to keep us away 00:23:52.83\00:23:55.86 from where we shouldn't be and to keep us where we should be. 00:23:55.90\00:23:58.43 It's essential that you know Jesus as a friend, 00:23:58.47\00:24:02.17 so that you are validated by Him, 00:24:02.20\00:24:04.57 and you don't feel the need to be validated by others online-- 00:24:04.61\00:24:07.94 chasing "likes" instead of pursuing the love of God. 00:24:07.98\00:24:12.78 It's essential we're able to keep our lives in balance. 00:24:12.81\00:24:15.35 Of course, you can have healthy relationships online, 00:24:15.38\00:24:17.79 healthy interests online. 00:24:17.82\00:24:19.72 But it's easy to become unhealthy. 00:24:19.75\00:24:22.72 God is able to keep you where you need to be and want to be. 00:24:22.76\00:24:27.60 We need the ability to say what we should, 00:24:27.66\00:24:30.70 and not to say what we shouldn't. 00:24:30.73\00:24:32.80 A lot of people have made their lives complicated 00:24:32.83\00:24:34.74 by forgetting Proverbs 13, verse 3 when they go online. 00:24:34.77\00:24:37.41 "He who guards his mouth preserves his life, 00:24:37.44\00:24:41.08 but he who opens wide his lips shall have destruction." 00:24:41.11\00:24:45.21 If Solomon was writing that today, 00:24:45.25\00:24:47.28 he might have said something about guarding the keyboard. 00:24:47.32\00:24:50.49 And we need something that the Bible calls "temperance." 00:24:50.52\00:24:54.16 Galatians 5:22 and 23 says this: 00:24:54.19\00:24:57.36 "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, 00:24:57.39\00:25:01.43 gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: 00:25:01.46\00:25:05.93 against such there is no law." 00:25:05.97\00:25:09.10 That word "temperance," 00:25:09.14\00:25:10.27 that's what we would call "self-control." 00:25:10.31\00:25:13.38 I saw a definition of that, which said, 00:25:13.41\00:25:17.21 "The virtue of one who masters his or her desires and passions, 00:25:17.25\00:25:22.88 especially sensual appetites." 00:25:22.92\00:25:26.52 You see, what we need is surrender to the Holy Spirit. 00:25:26.55\00:25:30.03 As the times change, temptations change with them, 00:25:30.06\00:25:34.13 or at least, temptation is brought to us in different ways. 00:25:34.20\00:25:37.77 Revelation 14:12 speaks about the "saints... 00:25:37.80\00:25:40.60 who keep the commandments of God and the faith of Jesus." 00:25:40.64\00:25:45.07 Technology has not made that unattainable. 00:25:45.11\00:25:49.14 But it should make us realize that we need God; 00:25:49.18\00:25:52.38 we need the Holy Spirit in our lives more than ever before. 00:25:52.41\00:25:57.22 If you're struggling with this, God can help you. 00:25:57.25\00:25:59.92 And He will. 00:25:59.95\00:26:01.02 Ask God to be your strength; tell Him He must. 00:26:01.06\00:26:04.69 Ask God to deliver you. 00:26:04.73\00:26:06.39 And watch God work-- 00:26:06.43\00:26:08.10 and experience God's power in your life. 00:26:08.13\00:26:13.03 >>Announcer: To receive your free DVD copy of this program, 00:26:13.90\00:26:16.54 call us now at 800-253-3000 00:26:16.57\00:26:20.31 "The Dangers of Technology" DVD also includes bonus material 00:26:20.34\00:26:23.88 from internet security expert Michael Dinkins, 00:26:23.91\00:26:26.65 which will help keep you and your family safe online. 00:26:26.68\00:26:30.42 Don't miss "The Dangers of Technology." 00:26:30.45\00:26:32.65 It's yours free when you call 800-253-3000 00:26:32.69\00:26:36.73 You can write to the address on your screen 00:26:36.76\00:26:38.49 or visit iiwoffer.com 00:26:38.53\00:26:43.50 >>John Bradshaw: Let's pray together now. 00:26:44.27\00:26:46.03 Our Father in heaven, we know that modern technology 00:26:46.07\00:26:48.97 brings temptation to us like never before. 00:26:49.00\00:26:51.27 ¤[Music] 00:26:51.31\00:26:52.41 And look at us. We're just poor, weak people, 00:26:52.44\00:26:55.81 in need of Your help and Your strength. 00:26:55.84\00:26:58.75 So, thank You that You have pledged not to leave us 00:26:58.78\00:27:01.85 and not to forsake us. 00:27:01.88\00:27:03.28 We need Your assistance; we need Your power 00:27:03.32\00:27:05.72 in this very real battle against sin, 00:27:05.75\00:27:08.32 as presented to us in this modern age. 00:27:08.36\00:27:11.63 Lord, I pray, protect us online and offline. 00:27:11.66\00:27:14.76 Give us wisdom, self-control as we live our online lives. 00:27:14.83\00:27:21.77 And I pray, Lord, that our primary pursuit would be Jesus. 00:27:21.80\00:27:25.67 Teach us to love Your approval 00:27:25.71\00:27:29.81 more than the approval of others. 00:27:29.84\00:27:31.51 And keep us where we ought to be, even when our weakened, 00:27:31.55\00:27:34.45 fallen hearts want to lead us in another way. 00:27:34.48\00:27:37.39 Give us Your Spirit, that we are born again, 00:27:37.42\00:27:40.36 and keep us in the center of Your will now and ever. 00:27:40.39\00:27:43.06 We pray in Jesus's name. 00:27:43.09\00:27:46.06 Amen. 00:27:46.09\00:27:47.60 Thanks so much for joining me. 00:27:47.60\00:27:49.03 I'm looking forward to seeing you again next time. 00:27:49.06\00:27:51.23 Until then, remember: 00:27:51.27\00:27:52.93 "It is written, 'Man shall not live by bread alone, 00:27:52.97\00:27:56.84 but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.'" 00:27:56.87\00:28:02.84 ¤[Theme music] 00:28:02.88\00:28:12.92 ¤[Theme music] 00:28:12.92\00:28:25.97