The following program discusses sensitive issues 00:00:01.36\00:00:03.13 related to sexuality. 00:00:03.16\00:00:05.07 Parents are cautioned 00:00:05.10\00:00:06.43 this presentation may be too candid 00:00:06.47\00:00:08.74 for younger audiences. 00:00:08.77\00:00:10.27 Welcome to Intimate Clarity. 00:00:29.22\00:00:30.63 I'm Jason Bradley, 00:00:30.66\00:00:31.99 and I'm here with Jennifer Jill Schwirzer, 00:00:32.03\00:00:33.83 and she is a licensed professional counselor. 00:00:33.86\00:00:36.56 And today, we're going to be talking about 00:00:36.60\00:00:38.27 a very sensitive topic, 00:00:38.30\00:00:40.77 but it's a conversation we need to have. 00:00:40.80\00:00:43.20 Jen, is the best solution 00:00:43.24\00:00:44.91 for gender dysphoria transitioning? 00:00:44.94\00:00:47.74 All right, well, that's a really good question. 00:00:47.78\00:00:49.71 You're right, and what I want to do is 00:00:49.74\00:00:51.35 I want to explain what that all is. 00:00:51.38\00:00:53.45 This actually comes in three stages. 00:00:53.48\00:00:55.98 The first stage would be social transitioning 00:00:56.02\00:00:58.45 where the person with gender dysphoria, 00:00:58.49\00:01:00.72 say, for instance, 00:01:00.76\00:01:02.09 he's a male and identifies as a female, 00:01:02.12\00:01:04.49 would socially transition, dress like a female, 00:01:04.53\00:01:07.70 present himself as a female, changes name, 00:01:07.73\00:01:11.37 and kind of accustom his community 00:01:11.40\00:01:14.04 to regarding him as a female. 00:01:14.07\00:01:16.50 That's the first step. 00:01:16.54\00:01:17.87 The second step in transitioning 00:01:17.91\00:01:20.14 is dosing with hormones of the opposite sex. 00:01:20.18\00:01:22.64 So for instance, a male would then take female hormones 00:01:22.68\00:01:26.98 and that would actually change their body 00:01:27.02\00:01:29.35 in significant ways, the face structure changes, 00:01:29.38\00:01:32.72 female to male, the face, 00:01:32.75\00:01:34.32 the man will take estrogen and his, 00:01:34.36\00:01:36.46 you know, women's faces are softer than men's, 00:01:36.49\00:01:38.49 and so he'll start to have more of a feminine face. 00:01:38.53\00:01:42.70 He will start to have less facial hair, 00:01:42.73\00:01:48.20 he'll start to develop breasts, his genitalia will atrophy, 00:01:48.24\00:01:52.94 his male genitalia will atrophy, 00:01:52.97\00:01:55.44 and other changes that come about 00:01:55.48\00:01:57.25 as a result of that. 00:01:57.28\00:01:58.61 The male to female, gets kind of confusing. 00:01:58.65\00:02:00.82 It does like XY chromosomes, YY chromosomes... 00:02:00.85\00:02:03.15 I'm sorry. 00:02:03.18\00:02:04.65 The female to male will take testosterone, 00:02:04.69\00:02:06.82 her voice will lower, 00:02:06.86\00:02:08.29 she'll start to have facial hair, 00:02:08.32\00:02:10.23 her breasts will atrophy, and her female genitalia 00:02:10.26\00:02:13.33 will also go through some changes. 00:02:13.36\00:02:15.13 So those things are going to begin 00:02:15.16\00:02:16.73 the physical transitioning process. 00:02:16.77\00:02:19.07 Some people will then elect to undergo surgery. 00:02:19.10\00:02:23.64 Okay. 00:02:23.67\00:02:25.01 And as I've studied this, I've realized 00:02:25.04\00:02:26.37 that the vast majority of surgical transitions 00:02:26.41\00:02:30.61 are done on the top half of the body, 00:02:30.65\00:02:32.65 either removing breasts or adding breasts. 00:02:32.68\00:02:35.18 Not too many are done on the lower half 00:02:35.22\00:02:37.09 because they're kind of difficult 00:02:37.12\00:02:39.62 and there are some significant side effects 00:02:39.65\00:02:42.72 as a result of those things, 00:02:42.76\00:02:44.09 not the least of which is sterilization. 00:02:44.13\00:02:46.53 The easiest, if you're going to operate on the lower half 00:02:46.56\00:02:49.10 is male to female, 00:02:49.13\00:02:52.33 the most difficult is female to male and very physical. 00:02:52.37\00:02:55.60 There is no coming back from that. 00:02:55.64\00:02:56.97 Yeah, exactly, exactly. 00:02:57.01\00:02:58.74 That's a point of no return. No, I know exactly. 00:02:58.77\00:03:00.91 And we don't want to get into too much detail 00:03:00.94\00:03:02.88 just for delicacy reasons, 00:03:02.91\00:03:04.25 but let's just suffice it to say 00:03:04.28\00:03:06.75 that there are difficulties with these surgeries 00:03:06.78\00:03:09.38 because the tissues of your body 00:03:09.42\00:03:12.25 need a certain oxygen exposure level. 00:03:12.29\00:03:15.92 If you give too much oxygen exposure to a tissue 00:03:15.96\00:03:20.20 that is not accustomed to it, you'll have problems. 00:03:20.23\00:03:22.16 If you have too little oxygen exposure for a tissue 00:03:22.20\00:03:25.47 that is accustomed to a different environment, 00:03:25.50\00:03:27.94 you'll have problems there. 00:03:27.97\00:03:29.30 And so what you're doing with these surgeries 00:03:29.34\00:03:30.84 is inferring things 00:03:30.87\00:03:32.21 that aren't designed to be inverted, 00:03:32.24\00:03:33.81 so what will eventually happen is atrophy. 00:03:33.84\00:03:36.04 So it's a very unnatural process. 00:03:36.08\00:03:39.21 Extremely against nature, like we were talking about 00:03:39.25\00:03:42.38 during one of our programs before. 00:03:42.42\00:03:44.42 So you're going to deal with side effects. 00:03:44.45\00:03:46.69 Whenever you go against nature, against our design, 00:03:46.72\00:03:49.06 you're going to have a physical side effects 00:03:49.09\00:03:50.89 and basically many of these surgeries 00:03:50.93\00:03:52.99 don't succeed for a length of time. 00:03:53.03\00:03:55.80 And it's very interesting to me there was a study in Sweden 00:03:55.83\00:03:58.40 that showed a spike in suicide in transgendered people 00:03:58.43\00:04:02.87 who had undergone surgery from 5% to 10% post surgery 00:04:02.90\00:04:08.44 starting at about 10 years after the surgery. 00:04:08.48\00:04:12.18 So it doubled. 00:04:12.21\00:04:13.55 It doubled, 00:04:13.58\00:04:14.92 and it was already high but it doubled. 00:04:14.95\00:04:16.72 And it happened 10 years after the surgery, 00:04:16.75\00:04:18.62 which I find very interesting. 00:04:18.65\00:04:19.99 And what my educated guess would be about 00:04:20.02\00:04:22.39 what happened there is that individuals, 00:04:22.42\00:04:26.09 for one thing, hoped that 00:04:26.13\00:04:27.90 this surgery would solve all of their problems. 00:04:27.93\00:04:30.83 And a period of time after the surgery, 00:04:30.87\00:04:33.54 they realized it really didn't make me happy. 00:04:33.57\00:04:36.27 I relate to that 00:04:36.30\00:04:37.64 because I've had health problems, 00:04:37.67\00:04:39.01 and I've had surgery for health problems, 00:04:39.04\00:04:41.04 and I thought this is going to fix everything. 00:04:41.08\00:04:42.51 I want to be, you know, like new. 00:04:42.54\00:04:43.98 Yeah. 00:04:44.01\00:04:45.35 And then realize it really didn't do 00:04:45.38\00:04:46.72 as much as I thought it would. 00:04:46.75\00:04:48.08 And that can be a crushing revelation. 00:04:48.12\00:04:49.45 And, you know, we see a lot of times 00:04:49.48\00:04:50.95 where there are different medical issues 00:04:50.99\00:04:53.66 and people push certain medicines 00:04:53.69\00:04:56.16 and everything like that 00:04:56.19\00:04:57.53 but it's not dealing with the root cause. 00:04:57.56\00:04:59.39 The root cause. It's just masking the symptoms. 00:04:59.43\00:05:01.43 That's right. 00:05:01.46\00:05:02.80 And that seems like 00:05:02.83\00:05:04.17 that's what's going on in this case. 00:05:04.20\00:05:05.53 So I think there can be 00:05:05.57\00:05:06.90 a profound disappointment on that level, 00:05:06.94\00:05:08.27 but also the surgery itself 00:05:08.30\00:05:10.44 can start to not be as beneficial to that person, 00:05:10.47\00:05:12.94 they can have a lower level of enjoyment, 00:05:12.97\00:05:15.84 and they can even start to experience some problems 00:05:15.88\00:05:17.95 as a result of the surgery, 10 years post surgery. 00:05:17.98\00:05:20.38 Okay. 00:05:20.42\00:05:21.75 So basically this is not in my view, 00:05:21.78\00:05:24.52 and I'm not a doctor, 00:05:24.55\00:05:25.89 so I have to issue that disclaimer, 00:05:25.92\00:05:27.46 but I don't think 00:05:27.49\00:05:28.82 this is the most medically responsible way 00:05:28.86\00:05:30.96 to handle gender dysphoria. 00:05:30.99\00:05:34.20 That's particularly true of children, 00:05:34.23\00:05:36.16 and we're going to address that 00:05:36.20\00:05:37.53 in a whole different program. 00:05:37.57\00:05:39.13 But it's also true of adults, I'm not sure 00:05:39.17\00:05:41.90 it's the right solution. 00:05:41.94\00:05:44.07 I'm not denying the problem, 00:05:44.11\00:05:46.01 I'm just questioning the solution 00:05:46.04\00:05:47.54 because here's the thing. 00:05:47.58\00:05:48.91 You may do the transition, you may socially transition, 00:05:48.94\00:05:51.48 hormonally transition, and then undergo surgery, 00:05:51.51\00:05:54.58 but you can never change the DNA. 00:05:54.62\00:05:56.42 Yeah. 00:05:56.45\00:05:57.79 You will always, in terms of your DNA, always be a male, 00:05:57.82\00:06:00.39 I will always be a female, and that will never change. 00:06:00.42\00:06:03.22 So I just think it's a false hope 00:06:03.26\00:06:05.29 that we're holding out to people. 00:06:05.33\00:06:07.60 And I think that transgenderism, 00:06:07.63\00:06:09.10 the movement as we see it today, 00:06:09.13\00:06:11.30 is the fruit of Western individualism 00:06:11.33\00:06:15.87 gone rogue 00:06:15.90\00:06:17.57 because all that really matters is that I'm happy. 00:06:17.61\00:06:21.84 You know, transitioning is very difficult at times, 00:06:21.88\00:06:25.78 depending on your social milieu, 00:06:25.81\00:06:28.42 depending on your community, your family, 00:06:28.45\00:06:30.49 and the people that know you, 00:06:30.52\00:06:33.02 it can be extremely difficult. 00:06:33.05\00:06:35.52 I've had friends that have had children, 00:06:35.56\00:06:37.73 that have transitioned, and they now have to introduce 00:06:37.76\00:06:41.13 their son as their daughter. 00:06:41.16\00:06:43.73 This puts a profound... 00:06:43.77\00:06:45.47 I'm just saying this for myself. 00:06:45.50\00:06:48.10 I have two daughters. 00:06:48.14\00:06:49.47 If one of them decided they were a man 00:06:49.50\00:06:51.74 and they transitioned, 00:06:51.77\00:06:53.17 I don't know that I would ever come to the place 00:06:53.21\00:06:55.54 where I would introduce them as my son 00:06:55.58\00:06:57.51 because I would feel like that would be a lie, 00:06:57.55\00:06:59.58 and I wouldn't want to have to lie. 00:06:59.61\00:07:01.38 Yeah, and so I plan make believe type of thing. 00:07:01.42\00:07:03.18 That's right. 00:07:03.22\00:07:04.55 And so the particular belief of the individual 00:07:04.59\00:07:08.82 just triumphs over the needs of the community 00:07:08.86\00:07:12.23 in this kind of scenario, 00:07:12.26\00:07:13.60 and everybody pretty much around them 00:07:13.63\00:07:15.26 is required to agree, 00:07:15.30\00:07:16.70 even if they know in their heart of hearts, 00:07:16.73\00:07:18.27 this is not a man, this is not a woman. 00:07:18.30\00:07:21.17 And I don't think that that's fair, 00:07:21.20\00:07:22.54 I think that that's dysfunctional, 00:07:22.57\00:07:23.91 and it's denying the community aspect of human life. 00:07:23.94\00:07:27.54 We're not just individuals, we're individuals 00:07:27.58\00:07:30.28 that live within the fabric of a society 00:07:30.31\00:07:34.05 in a body of Christ. 00:07:34.08\00:07:36.18 You know, we're connected to one another 00:07:36.22\00:07:37.55 in a profound way, 00:07:37.59\00:07:38.92 but also in our biological families, 00:07:38.95\00:07:40.79 there are connections, there are relationships. 00:07:40.82\00:07:43.93 And when we're making as big of a decision 00:07:43.96\00:07:47.00 as transitioning would be, 00:07:47.03\00:07:48.36 we need to be in close consultation 00:07:48.40\00:07:49.73 with all the people that would be affected by it. 00:07:49.76\00:07:52.13 And so often, this has not seen that way. 00:07:52.17\00:07:54.47 Yeah, and like you said, 10 years later 00:07:54.50\00:07:58.64 then there those suicide issue is doubling. 00:07:58.67\00:08:01.91 That's right. 00:08:01.94\00:08:03.28 All right, from 5% to 10%. 00:08:03.31\00:08:05.41 Yeah. Wow. 00:08:05.45\00:08:06.78 So what are some of your thoughts and responses, 00:08:06.82\00:08:08.15 this is heavy material, like... 00:08:08.18\00:08:10.12 What are you feeling, you know like? 00:08:10.15\00:08:11.49 It is heavy. 00:08:11.52\00:08:12.85 It's very heavy that the beginning part 00:08:12.89\00:08:14.42 had me a little confused for a little bit 00:08:14.46\00:08:17.03 because it was kind of like in biology 00:08:17.06\00:08:18.76 where they start talking about XX chromosomes... 00:08:18.79\00:08:21.23 And XY. 00:08:21.26\00:08:22.60 YY, XY and all that stuff, 00:08:22.63\00:08:23.97 so the beginning part had me a little bit confused. 00:08:24.00\00:08:26.84 But I think that it's interesting, 00:08:26.87\00:08:30.64 I think that 00:08:30.67\00:08:32.31 you're not addressing the root issue, 00:08:32.34\00:08:35.74 you know, with the gender dysphoria, 00:08:35.78\00:08:37.98 like I don't think that 00:08:38.01\00:08:39.35 they're addressing the root issue, 00:08:39.38\00:08:41.92 which they're just simply masking the symptoms, 00:08:41.95\00:08:44.15 there is an identity crisis that's going on 00:08:44.19\00:08:46.76 that's taking place inside the individual. 00:08:46.79\00:08:49.12 And as opposed to taking a look at, okay, 00:08:49.16\00:08:52.43 where did that originate, where did that come from, 00:08:52.46\00:08:55.26 they're just saying here. 00:08:55.30\00:08:56.63 Here is this solution, 00:08:56.67\00:08:58.73 this temporary/permanent solution. 00:08:58.77\00:09:01.20 Yeah. 00:09:01.24\00:09:02.84 You know, apply that and see what happens. 00:09:02.87\00:09:05.84 And then, down the road, you realize, "What did I do?" 00:09:05.87\00:09:09.58 "What did I just do?" 00:09:09.61\00:09:10.98 And this is a fact that many, 00:09:11.01\00:09:13.21 you know, look back and wish 00:09:13.25\00:09:14.58 that it never happened, you know. 00:09:14.62\00:09:16.12 And it makes me think of this gentleman 00:09:16.15\00:09:18.35 that was interviewed on Dare to Dream. 00:09:18.39\00:09:21.79 Now he had a sex change, and he went back, 00:09:21.82\00:09:26.33 you know, as... 00:09:26.36\00:09:27.70 Transitioned back. Yeah, as far as that he could. 00:09:27.73\00:09:29.06 As much as he could. 00:09:29.10\00:09:31.20 So I mean, it's... 00:09:31.23\00:09:33.13 That's right. 00:09:33.17\00:09:34.50 It's definitely a sensitive topic. 00:09:34.54\00:09:35.87 Well, we started out, 00:09:35.90\00:09:37.61 you know, perfect there in the Garden of Eden, 00:09:37.64\00:09:39.64 we fell into sin. 00:09:39.67\00:09:41.18 And as a result of our fall into sin, 00:09:41.21\00:09:44.58 we developed a shame 00:09:44.61\00:09:46.08 because now we're sinful 00:09:46.11\00:09:47.88 and God is holy and we see this. 00:09:47.92\00:09:49.92 We have the sense of this sort of baseline 00:09:49.95\00:09:51.72 sense of distress and shame. 00:09:51.75\00:09:53.96 And the first thing that mankind did 00:09:53.99\00:09:56.36 when faced with that overwhelming sense of shame 00:09:56.39\00:09:59.03 is we manufactured fig leaf garments. 00:09:59.06\00:10:01.90 And I think that those symbolize 00:10:01.93\00:10:03.77 our human attempts to fix ourselves 00:10:03.80\00:10:06.27 apart from God because they were, 00:10:06.30\00:10:08.40 there in the garden, 00:10:08.44\00:10:09.77 God hadn't come into the garden yet, 00:10:09.80\00:10:11.14 and they, like patch it up and fix it up, 00:10:11.17\00:10:13.58 and then God comes into the garden, you know, 00:10:13.61\00:10:15.54 in the cool of the day so it's same day, 00:10:15.58\00:10:18.31 and they jump behind a bush. 00:10:18.35\00:10:19.91 So how much did those fig leaf garments 00:10:19.95\00:10:22.28 which were purportedly there to help them 00:10:22.32\00:10:24.45 overcome that shame really help them in the end? 00:10:24.49\00:10:27.06 They ended up jumping behind a bush and hiding from God. 00:10:27.09\00:10:29.72 So it really didn't work and all of our efforts, 00:10:29.76\00:10:32.39 I think similarly, I think that's symbolic 00:10:32.43\00:10:35.73 of all of our efforts to fix ourselves 00:10:35.76\00:10:37.93 apart from God, 00:10:37.97\00:10:39.30 and I can't help but see this in high relief 00:10:39.33\00:10:42.20 in this phenomena of transition. 00:10:42.24\00:10:43.87 I got to jump in right there. 00:10:43.91\00:10:45.81 I mean, the fig leaves, right? Yeah. 00:10:45.84\00:10:48.31 It's an uncomfortable situation. 00:10:48.34\00:10:50.68 They're scratchy. That's uncomfortable. 00:10:50.71\00:10:52.61 I have fig leaves in my yard. I have fig trees in my yard. 00:10:52.65\00:10:55.18 Yeah. Very rough. 00:10:55.22\00:10:56.55 And so then when we try and fix our own situations 00:10:56.58\00:10:59.85 without the help of God, 00:10:59.89\00:11:01.59 without allowing God to come in and change us, 00:11:01.62\00:11:05.03 it leads to uncomfortable situation. 00:11:05.06\00:11:07.26 If there is one thing I've seen over and over in my own life 00:11:07.30\00:11:10.33 and in the lives of the people that I try to help 00:11:10.37\00:11:12.27 in counseling and in ministry, 00:11:12.30\00:11:14.50 it's that the more we do to try to fix ourselves 00:11:14.54\00:11:17.31 apart from God, the worse we make ourselves. 00:11:17.34\00:11:20.41 Absolutely. 00:11:20.44\00:11:21.78 We get driven farther and farther 00:11:21.81\00:11:23.58 into the sin cycle 00:11:23.61\00:11:25.31 and more and more entrenched in it 00:11:25.35\00:11:27.32 and the problems compound and they get deeper and deeper, 00:11:27.35\00:11:30.69 and the layers get deeper 00:11:30.72\00:11:32.19 and the corresponding incentive to numb out 00:11:32.22\00:11:35.72 or seek diversions in order to escape 00:11:35.76\00:11:38.79 those layers of problems be intensifies 00:11:38.83\00:11:41.76 and we just get in deeper and deeper 00:11:41.80\00:11:44.30 until, finally, sometimes we come to the point 00:11:44.33\00:11:48.37 where we throw our hands up in the air and say, 00:11:48.40\00:11:49.77 "Lord, it's not working. I can't fix myself. 00:11:49.80\00:11:52.67 You're going to have to take over from here." 00:11:52.71\00:11:54.48 Oh, yes. 00:11:54.51\00:11:55.84 And so I'm saying this out of compassion for people 00:11:55.88\00:11:58.28 that are dealing with transgenderism. 00:11:58.31\00:12:00.35 I don't think I'm coming from a place of, 00:12:00.38\00:12:03.59 you know, feeling of wanting to disparage or put them down, 00:12:03.62\00:12:08.02 I don't feel that way, but it's kind of like 00:12:08.06\00:12:10.16 when you see someone smoking, 00:12:10.19\00:12:11.83 you know, you want them to quit smoking 00:12:11.86\00:12:13.60 because you know 00:12:13.63\00:12:14.96 that the smoking is going to cause health problems. 00:12:15.00\00:12:17.37 And I look at this phenomena of transgenderism, 00:12:17.40\00:12:20.34 I don't deny that some people have an intense desire 00:12:20.37\00:12:23.54 to be the opposite sex, 00:12:23.57\00:12:24.91 and even identify as the opposite sex, 00:12:24.94\00:12:26.57 and feel like they're a woman locked in a man's body 00:12:26.61\00:12:28.64 or man locked in a woman's body, 00:12:28.68\00:12:30.51 and my heart goes out to them, 00:12:30.55\00:12:32.91 but I think that, like you said, 00:12:32.95\00:12:35.22 to try to fix it in our own way, 00:12:35.25\00:12:38.49 apart from God is only going to make it worse. 00:12:38.52\00:12:41.42 We need to get to the root of the problem. 00:12:41.46\00:12:43.32 And to get to the root of a problem like that 00:12:43.36\00:12:45.43 is such a profound crisis as an identity crisis 00:12:45.46\00:12:50.57 requires the Holy Spirit of God 00:12:50.60\00:12:52.47 coming into that person's life and helping them 00:12:52.50\00:12:55.57 to trace from cause to effect, what happened in my life, 00:12:55.60\00:12:58.51 what are some of the variables that occurred 00:12:58.54\00:13:00.64 that led me to this place 00:13:00.68\00:13:02.18 where I feel like I'm the wrong sex 00:13:02.21\00:13:04.01 locked up in the wrong body. 00:13:04.05\00:13:06.48 And that's what the Holy Spirit can do. 00:13:06.51\00:13:08.62 He can show us, what led us to the point 00:13:08.65\00:13:11.25 where we got and then the same spirit 00:13:11.29\00:13:14.19 can give us the power to change. 00:13:14.22\00:13:16.69 And I think the people dealing with transgenderism 00:13:16.73\00:13:19.46 can come to a place 00:13:19.49\00:13:20.96 where they have peace with their own biological sex. 00:13:21.00\00:13:24.27 I think that that's possible. 00:13:24.30\00:13:25.83 That's a change of mind. 00:13:25.87\00:13:27.20 And the Bible says, "Let this mind be in you, " 00:13:27.24\00:13:29.80 which was also in Christ Jesus says, 00:13:29.84\00:13:31.57 be transformed by the renewing of your mind. 00:13:31.61\00:13:34.91 The renewing of the mind is much more possible 00:13:34.94\00:13:38.51 if I can put it this way than renewing your body, 00:13:38.55\00:13:41.18 changing your body. 00:13:41.22\00:13:42.55 Absolutely. 00:13:42.58\00:13:43.92 You never going to change your DNA. 00:13:43.95\00:13:45.29 And even the transitional surgery 00:13:45.32\00:13:46.65 doesn't work all that well, 00:13:46.69\00:13:48.39 so you're really never going to be 00:13:48.42\00:13:49.76 able to do that effectively. 00:13:49.79\00:13:52.09 I would say, the easiest route is to, 00:13:52.13\00:13:54.33 you know, seek renewal of the mind. 00:13:54.36\00:13:55.96 Absolutely. 00:13:56.00\00:13:57.33 Yeah, like you said, it's no going back sometimes. 00:13:57.37\00:14:00.94 Sometimes you reach the point where you can't return. 00:14:00.97\00:14:03.30 So, yes, I agree with that. 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