The following program discusses sensitive issues 00:00:01.36\00:00:03.16 related to sexuality. 00:00:03.20\00:00:05.03 Parents are cautioned this presentation 00:00:05.07\00:00:07.64 may be too candid for younger audiences. 00:00:07.67\00:00:10.14 Welcome to Intimate Clarity. I'm Jason Bradley. 00:00:30.56\00:00:33.03 And I'm here with Jennifer Jill Schwirzer, 00:00:33.06\00:00:35.36 and she is a professional licensed counselor. 00:00:35.40\00:00:39.30 And today, we're going to be discussing a topic 00:00:39.33\00:00:41.24 that is sensitive in nature, 00:00:41.27\00:00:43.00 but it's a conversation we need to have. 00:00:43.04\00:00:45.37 Jen, what are we going to be talking about? 00:00:45.41\00:00:47.44 We're going to be talking about intersex conditions. 00:00:47.48\00:00:51.61 Intersex. 00:00:51.65\00:00:52.98 What do you mean by intersex? 00:00:53.01\00:00:54.35 What do you think I mean? 00:00:54.38\00:00:55.72 You have no clue? 00:00:55.75\00:00:57.09 A hermaphrodite or what type of...? 00:00:57.12\00:00:58.45 That's a word that's sometimes used, sometimes. 00:00:58.49\00:00:59.99 Okay, okay. 00:01:00.02\00:01:01.36 So some people are born 00:01:01.39\00:01:04.56 with physical sexual abnormalities 00:01:04.59\00:01:08.00 or disorders of sexual development 00:01:08.03\00:01:09.83 is what they're called or DSDs. 00:01:09.86\00:01:12.03 And they're called intersex too 00:01:12.07\00:01:13.44 because the sex differentiation process 00:01:13.47\00:01:16.30 is interrupted. 00:01:16.34\00:01:17.67 Okay. 00:01:17.71\00:01:19.04 So let me give us a little background 00:01:19.07\00:01:20.41 in how we differentiate sexually in utero. 00:01:20.44\00:01:22.78 So each embryo begins with proto-gonads, 00:01:22.81\00:01:25.68 male or female. 00:01:25.71\00:01:27.32 And they develop into male or female gonads 00:01:27.35\00:01:30.35 about six to eight weeks in utero. 00:01:30.39\00:01:34.16 And this depends on whether 00:01:34.19\00:01:36.32 the differentiating chromosome is XX or XY. 00:01:36.36\00:01:39.69 In other words, it just depends on if they have 00:01:39.73\00:01:42.50 female chromosomes or male chromosomes. 00:01:42.53\00:01:45.23 A gene on the Y chromosome which is called the SRY gene 00:01:45.27\00:01:50.34 turns the gonads which both have into testes. 00:01:50.37\00:01:53.84 Okay. 00:01:53.88\00:01:55.21 And then those testes secrete testosterone 00:01:55.24\00:01:57.71 and that masculinizes the fetus. 00:01:57.75\00:02:01.38 Without the SRY gene, the gonads become ovaries 00:02:01.42\00:02:05.32 and secrete estrogen, and the fetus is feminized. 00:02:05.35\00:02:08.66 Okay. 00:02:08.69\00:02:10.03 So the SRY gene can be missing or dysfunctional, 00:02:10.06\00:02:14.20 leading to problems 00:02:14.23\00:02:15.56 such as the female embryo developing male anatomy. 00:02:15.60\00:02:19.33 It happens. 00:02:19.37\00:02:21.27 There's another condition called 00:02:21.30\00:02:22.64 complete androgen insensitivity syndrome or CAIS. 00:02:22.67\00:02:26.68 What is that? 00:02:26.71\00:02:28.04 Where male genitalia never develop. 00:02:28.08\00:02:29.94 Okay. 00:02:29.98\00:02:31.31 There's another intersex condition. 00:02:31.35\00:02:33.42 It only occurs in the Dominican Republic. 00:02:33.45\00:02:36.18 And a child appears to be female, 00:02:36.22\00:02:38.15 but at 12 years old, 00:02:38.19\00:02:39.52 they'll develop male anatomy, yeah. 00:02:39.55\00:02:43.02 It only occurs in the Dominican... 00:02:43.06\00:02:45.69 Well, it tends... Yeah. 00:02:45.73\00:02:47.06 I think that's pretty much where they've found it 00:02:47.10\00:02:49.30 and I think that's... 00:02:49.33\00:02:50.67 Yeah. 00:02:50.70\00:02:52.03 I don't think they have any examples of it 00:02:52.07\00:02:53.40 outside of the DR. 00:02:53.44\00:02:54.77 And so it could be related to something environmental, 00:02:54.80\00:02:56.14 we don't know. 00:02:56.17\00:02:57.67 But let me say this, that these conditions, 00:02:57.71\00:02:59.67 even though they're tragic and difficult to cope with, 00:02:59.71\00:03:01.91 they're quite rare. 00:03:01.94\00:03:04.35 Now there is a battle going on in the research circles 00:03:04.38\00:03:07.65 about how rare they are because you can see 00:03:07.68\00:03:10.02 where a certain politically charged group 00:03:10.05\00:03:14.12 would want to inflate 00:03:14.16\00:03:16.96 the numbers of intersex individuals 00:03:16.99\00:03:18.96 in order to argue for other different things 00:03:18.99\00:03:23.97 like transgenderism, for instance. 00:03:24.00\00:03:26.63 So you can see where there would be 00:03:26.67\00:03:28.20 some incentive there. 00:03:28.24\00:03:30.67 So there's a little bit of a battle going on. 00:03:30.71\00:03:33.07 A recent paper said that the intersex population 00:03:33.11\00:03:36.08 was as high as 1.7% of all births, 00:03:36.11\00:03:41.72 almost 2%, this paper said. 00:03:41.75\00:03:44.92 But then another paper came along and basically said, 00:03:44.95\00:03:48.42 "You're defining intersex too broadly." 00:03:48.46\00:03:51.46 And I'm going to quote from that paper, they said, 00:03:51.49\00:03:54.00 "If the term intersex is to retain any meaning, 00:03:54.03\00:03:58.77 the term should be restricted to those conditions 00:03:58.80\00:04:01.70 in which chromosomal sex 00:04:01.74\00:04:04.14 is inconsistent with phenotypic sex." 00:04:04.17\00:04:06.44 In other words, 00:04:06.47\00:04:07.81 your male chromosome's female parts. 00:04:07.84\00:04:09.18 Okay. 00:04:09.21\00:04:10.55 Or in which the phenotype is not classifiable 00:04:10.58\00:04:13.28 as either male or female 00:04:13.31\00:04:14.65 which we just called a hermaphrodite, 00:04:14.68\00:04:16.02 it's the old term used for it. 00:04:16.05\00:04:17.39 Okay. 00:04:17.42\00:04:18.75 So those are the two conditions in which we should truly call 00:04:18.79\00:04:20.56 a person intersex. 00:04:20.59\00:04:22.32 Applying this more precise definition, 00:04:22.36\00:04:24.83 the true prevalence of intersex 00:04:24.86\00:04:26.39 is seen to be about 0.018%. 00:04:26.43\00:04:31.63 0.018%? 00:04:31.67\00:04:33.03 Very small percent. 00:04:33.07\00:04:34.40 Wow! 00:04:34.44\00:04:35.77 And that's one in 5,000, 00:04:35.80\00:04:38.04 I think if I did the math right. 00:04:38.07\00:04:39.41 So it's a very few people. Wow! 00:04:39.44\00:04:41.31 This makes me think of what Jesus said. 00:04:41.34\00:04:43.98 Jesus said in Matthew 19:12, 00:04:44.01\00:04:46.25 "For there are eunuchs who were born that way, 00:04:46.28\00:04:48.35 and there are eunuchs 00:04:48.38\00:04:49.72 who have been made eunuchs by others, 00:04:49.75\00:04:51.09 and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs 00:04:51.12\00:04:52.95 for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. 00:04:52.99\00:04:54.89 The one who can accept this should accept it. 00:04:54.92\00:04:58.19 So basically what he's saying is some people, 00:04:58.23\00:05:00.93 at least in the beginning part of that passage, 00:05:00.96\00:05:03.03 some people are born sexually broken. 00:05:03.06\00:05:05.53 And that is true of this intersex population. 00:05:05.57\00:05:09.50 So let's talk a little bit about this and how we, 00:05:09.54\00:05:12.24 as church members, need to respond 00:05:12.27\00:05:14.34 to this situation where people are born different 00:05:14.38\00:05:18.35 and when the differentiation process 00:05:18.38\00:05:20.58 does not come off as planned, so to speak. 00:05:20.62\00:05:26.15 How do we treat those people? 00:05:26.19\00:05:28.29 Well, you talk to them, you get to know them 00:05:28.32\00:05:30.76 without judging them. 00:05:30.79\00:05:32.13 You know, the Bible says, 00:05:32.16\00:05:33.50 "Man will judge on the outward appearance." 00:05:33.53\00:05:34.86 That's right. 00:05:34.90\00:05:36.23 "But God looks at the heart." 00:05:36.26\00:05:37.60 That's right. 00:05:37.63\00:05:38.97 So you have to talk to that person 00:05:39.00\00:05:40.34 and figure out what's going on 00:05:40.37\00:05:41.70 because outwardly, like, looking in, 00:05:41.74\00:05:44.04 you might think that they made the choice 00:05:44.07\00:05:47.21 to have whatever change... 00:05:47.24\00:05:49.28 Yeah, and I can see someone like that 00:05:49.31\00:05:51.01 coming to church 00:05:51.05\00:05:52.38 and doing the very best they can 00:05:52.41\00:05:53.75 with their circumstances, 00:05:53.78\00:05:55.22 and they hear a sermon against LGBTQ. 00:05:55.25\00:06:00.12 And so it really doesn't serve us well 00:06:00.16\00:06:02.09 in ministry to others to become overly politicized 00:06:02.12\00:06:04.66 about these issues in a church context. 00:06:04.69\00:06:07.10 I'm not saying we shouldn't vote appropriately 00:06:07.13\00:06:08.90 according to our conscience, but in a church context, 00:06:08.93\00:06:11.60 we need to be very careful 00:06:11.63\00:06:12.97 about being so politically driven 00:06:13.00\00:06:14.70 that we become insensitive to the brokenness 00:06:14.74\00:06:17.57 that people are dealing with. 00:06:17.61\00:06:19.14 You see what I'm saying? 00:06:19.17\00:06:20.58 Because the reality is there's politics 00:06:20.61\00:06:22.18 on the other side too. 00:06:22.21\00:06:23.55 There are people pushing, 00:06:23.58\00:06:24.95 you know, trying to inflate the numbers of intersex people, 00:06:24.98\00:06:28.08 trying to say this is just another example of the fact 00:06:28.12\00:06:30.25 that sexuality is fluid, nothing matters, you know? 00:06:30.29\00:06:32.95 And so there's a political agenda on the left, 00:06:32.99\00:06:34.82 there's also one on the right. 00:06:34.86\00:06:36.52 We need to divest ourselves of both of those things. 00:06:36.56\00:06:39.19 And when we work with these people 00:06:39.23\00:06:40.56 that are dealing with the intense brokenness, 00:06:40.60\00:06:43.26 we need to put ourselves in their place 00:06:43.30\00:06:45.43 and feel what it would be like to be them. 00:06:45.47\00:06:48.57 You know what I'm saying? 00:06:48.60\00:06:49.94 Yeah, show some compassion. 00:06:49.97\00:06:51.31 That's right, that's right. 00:06:51.34\00:06:52.67 I want to clarify. 00:06:52.71\00:06:54.31 I will return to that point, 00:06:54.34\00:06:55.68 but I want to clarify that intersex 00:06:55.71\00:06:58.15 is vastly different from transgenderism. 00:06:58.18\00:07:02.65 Break that down. Yeah. 00:07:02.68\00:07:04.65 Well, I can't write it down right now 00:07:04.69\00:07:06.02 but write it down at home. 00:07:06.05\00:07:07.39 No, no. Break, break, break that down. 00:07:07.42\00:07:08.76 Oh, break it down. 00:07:08.79\00:07:10.13 I thought you said write it down. 00:07:10.16\00:07:11.49 No, no, no, no. Break it down. 00:07:11.53\00:07:12.86 Well, intersex involves actual physical abnormalities, 00:07:12.89\00:07:17.30 interruptions or things going wrong 00:07:17.33\00:07:19.33 in the differentiation process. 00:07:19.37\00:07:21.37 So it's a physical problem. 00:07:21.40\00:07:22.87 And that person is born in many cases 00:07:22.90\00:07:24.77 neither male nor female. 00:07:24.81\00:07:27.08 Now what they used to do 00:07:27.11\00:07:28.44 is they'd do the best they could 00:07:28.48\00:07:30.35 to guess which sex they were 00:07:30.38\00:07:32.58 and then they would do some surgery 00:07:32.61\00:07:33.95 to kind of make them into that sex. 00:07:33.98\00:07:35.32 What they're doing now is 00:07:35.35\00:07:37.19 they're leaving them as is 00:07:37.22\00:07:38.55 until they can come to the age of accountability 00:07:38.59\00:07:40.26 and letting them make up their own mind 00:07:40.29\00:07:42.42 because, you know, 00:07:42.46\00:07:43.79 we're doing more of that kind of thing 00:07:43.83\00:07:45.16 anyway these days. 00:07:45.19\00:07:46.53 So they're giving more time to that individual 00:07:46.56\00:07:48.23 but that means that individual has to grow up 00:07:48.26\00:07:49.93 as neither male nor female. 00:07:49.96\00:07:52.47 And that's hard on a person. 00:07:52.50\00:07:54.14 That's socially difficult 00:07:54.17\00:07:56.00 because we're used to seeing people 00:07:56.04\00:07:57.37 in this binary way. 00:07:57.41\00:07:58.97 And so I'm sounding a little bit 00:07:59.01\00:08:00.41 like, you know, a politically correct person 00:08:00.44\00:08:02.34 but we have to be sensitive to this. 00:08:02.38\00:08:04.18 And then it seems like 00:08:04.21\00:08:05.78 there's a lot of years of confusion there 00:08:05.81\00:08:08.52 in that instance. 00:08:08.55\00:08:09.88 That's right. 00:08:09.92\00:08:11.25 And so that individual's dealing with physical odds. 00:08:11.29\00:08:13.49 But what's happening in transgenderism 00:08:13.52\00:08:15.92 is that individual 00:08:15.96\00:08:17.29 is perfectly differentiated physically in most cases. 00:08:17.33\00:08:19.93 They're either male or female 00:08:19.96\00:08:21.40 but they identify with the opposite sex. 00:08:21.43\00:08:24.70 So it's a psychological disorder 00:08:24.73\00:08:26.90 not a physiological disorder. 00:08:26.94\00:08:28.70 And they really shouldn't be classed the same. 00:08:28.74\00:08:31.01 That's really not accurate. 00:08:31.04\00:08:33.07 And so I'm just saying that these intersex individuals, 00:08:33.11\00:08:36.08 though I want to kind of return to that central point 00:08:36.11\00:08:38.45 that these intersex individuals really give us a compassion 00:08:38.48\00:08:41.68 for what some people are dealing with 00:08:41.72\00:08:43.45 on a psychological level. 00:08:43.49\00:08:45.22 People that are struggling with transgenderism 00:08:45.25\00:08:46.96 are really hurting. 00:08:46.99\00:08:48.49 People that are dealing with same sex attraction 00:08:48.52\00:08:50.39 are really hurting. 00:08:50.43\00:08:51.93 And often, they're hurting in the context of church 00:08:51.96\00:08:55.26 because they know what the Word of God says 00:08:55.30\00:08:58.07 and they know what church culture is like 00:08:58.10\00:09:00.17 and they know how holy God is. 00:09:00.20\00:09:02.40 And oftentimes, they can feel like, you know, 00:09:02.44\00:09:05.94 "I'm broken and God made me defective. 00:09:05.97\00:09:09.78 There's something wrong with me, 00:09:09.81\00:09:11.15 I'm different than everyone else." 00:09:11.18\00:09:13.28 We need to be very sensitive to that, 00:09:13.31\00:09:15.18 whether they'd be intersex or transgender 00:09:15.22\00:09:18.19 or same-sex attracted, we need to have 00:09:18.22\00:09:20.46 long compassion for them because just like 00:09:20.49\00:09:22.39 you could have a physical abnormality, 00:09:22.42\00:09:24.23 you can have psychological abnormalities. 00:09:24.26\00:09:26.96 So again, I don't question the problem. 00:09:27.00\00:09:29.43 I don't deny the problem. 00:09:29.46\00:09:31.77 I just question the solution that people are, 00:09:31.80\00:09:34.64 you know, going to, to try to resolve the problem. 00:09:34.67\00:09:37.37 Yeah, yeah, just... 00:09:37.41\00:09:39.57 It's like not dealing with the root cause 00:09:39.61\00:09:42.94 but just masking the symptoms. 00:09:42.98\00:09:45.41 So what would you say to a person, 00:09:45.45\00:09:47.68 an intersex person that came to church? 00:09:47.72\00:09:49.48 I'm kind of interested 00:09:49.52\00:09:50.85 in what your thoughts are on that. 00:09:50.89\00:09:52.22 You know, you're in a church context, 00:09:52.25\00:09:53.59 someone comes in 00:09:53.62\00:09:54.96 and they kind of look like they're kind of male 00:09:54.99\00:09:56.32 but maybe not and it's kind of confusing. 00:09:56.36\00:09:58.76 We don't realize how disturbing that is for us 00:09:58.79\00:10:00.73 because, you know, we live in a binary world. 00:10:00.76\00:10:02.93 Honestly, I'd be confused. 00:10:02.96\00:10:04.30 I don't know. 00:10:04.33\00:10:05.77 It's tough for me to sit here 00:10:05.80\00:10:07.20 and say like exactly how I would react, 00:10:07.24\00:10:10.47 just to be honest. 00:10:10.51\00:10:11.84 But I would be a little confused, 00:10:11.87\00:10:13.48 I'd probably... 00:10:13.51\00:10:14.84 I would speak, I'd say, 00:10:14.88\00:10:16.21 "Hello, welcome to, you know, our church." 00:10:16.24\00:10:19.21 And ask them where they're from 00:10:19.25\00:10:21.62 and stuff like that in my conversation. 00:10:21.65\00:10:24.72 But I don't know how I would react 00:10:24.75\00:10:27.16 in that situation. 00:10:27.19\00:10:28.52 What do you think Jesus would do? 00:10:28.56\00:10:29.92 I think that He would love them. 00:10:29.96\00:10:31.29 I think that He would go and He would talk to them 00:10:31.33\00:10:33.33 and get to know them. 00:10:33.36\00:10:35.40 You know, when we look at the life of Christ, 00:10:35.43\00:10:37.83 He met people, 00:10:37.87\00:10:39.43 He talked to them, 00:10:39.47\00:10:40.97 He established a relationship, 00:10:41.00\00:10:43.64 determined what their needs were 00:10:43.67\00:10:45.01 and He met those needs. 00:10:45.04\00:10:46.37 You know, when I was in my internship for counseling, 00:10:46.41\00:10:49.24 they would give me all of the clients 00:10:49.28\00:10:51.01 that nobody else wanted. 00:10:51.05\00:10:52.65 And you know, 00:10:52.68\00:10:54.02 I didn't get paid for it or anything. 00:10:54.05\00:10:56.08 So they'd give me the people that couldn't pay. 00:10:56.12\00:10:58.62 And they referred someone to me named Baby. 00:10:58.65\00:11:01.39 And he was a transgender man. 00:11:01.42\00:11:02.86 He was trying to become a female. 00:11:02.89\00:11:04.73 And he hadn't had any surgery or anything. 00:11:04.76\00:11:07.60 I don't think he had any money. 00:11:07.63\00:11:09.26 And he also couldn't hear well and speak well. 00:11:09.30\00:11:12.43 So it was very challenging to sit 00:11:12.47\00:11:13.94 through counseling sessions with him. 00:11:13.97\00:11:16.04 And he would want to pose with me 00:11:16.07\00:11:17.64 in front of the building and stuff. 00:11:17.67\00:11:19.01 He was always, you know, kind of flamboyant personality, 00:11:19.04\00:11:20.74 who want to put on a show all the time. 00:11:20.78\00:11:22.94 The staff at the counseling office 00:11:22.98\00:11:25.18 would make fun of him, 00:11:25.21\00:11:27.18 but I would see a child of God across from me. 00:11:27.22\00:11:29.78 And so I started to ask him, 00:11:29.82\00:11:31.15 you know, "What was your childhood like?" 00:11:31.19\00:11:32.82 And it turned out that that boy 00:11:32.85\00:11:35.12 had no supervision, no real parenting, 00:11:35.16\00:11:37.43 and just basically grew up in New York City. 00:11:37.46\00:11:39.46 Yeah. And ran the streets. 00:11:39.49\00:11:41.16 He was basically a street urchin. 00:11:41.20\00:11:43.33 And he just ran the streets and fended for himself 00:11:43.37\00:11:45.97 from the time he was a child. 00:11:46.00\00:11:47.87 And every once a while, Baby would say to me... 00:11:47.90\00:11:49.80 You know, he had a speech impediment, 00:11:49.84\00:11:51.37 so he would want to say, 00:11:51.41\00:11:52.74 "I want to be a responsible person." 00:11:52.77\00:11:54.34 Like, he wanted to be mature. 00:11:54.38\00:11:55.71 He didn't want to be... 00:11:55.74\00:11:57.08 And his life was a disaster to be honest. 00:11:57.11\00:12:00.82 But he would say, "I want to be reponsible. 00:12:00.85\00:12:02.18 I want to be Repon..." 00:12:02.22\00:12:03.55 Because he couldn't hear himself. 00:12:03.59\00:12:04.92 Yeah. 00:12:04.95\00:12:06.29 "I want to be reponsible, Jennifer, 00:12:06.32\00:12:07.66 I want to be reponsible." 00:12:07.69\00:12:09.02 And I would just say, you know, "Baby, God hears you. 00:12:09.06\00:12:11.03 And God knows that you want to change. 00:12:11.06\00:12:12.59 And He loves you just the way you are." 00:12:12.63\00:12:14.93 And to come to that place 00:12:14.96\00:12:16.30 where we're willing to deal with our own, 00:12:16.33\00:12:18.13 you know, kind of freak out kind of mechanism 00:12:18.17\00:12:21.47 and just put our arms around people and say, 00:12:21.50\00:12:23.30 "God loves you just the way you are right now. 00:12:23.34\00:12:26.41 And Jesus has a way forward for you. 00:12:26.44\00:12:28.78 I don't know exactly what it is but I think you can do it. 00:12:28.81\00:12:31.68 And I know that He'll hold your hand through it." 00:12:31.71\00:12:34.22 That's Christianity. 00:12:34.25\00:12:35.58 Yeah. That's what it really is. 00:12:35.62\00:12:37.02 And a lot of times, the challenging part for me 00:12:37.05\00:12:39.05 is because I've been persecuted by militant. 00:12:39.09\00:12:42.99 A certain church I was involved in, 00:12:43.02\00:12:44.36 there was a man who was a very militant gay man. 00:12:44.39\00:12:47.73 And he would attack me on social media 00:12:47.76\00:12:49.66 and he'd make it very uncomfortable for me 00:12:49.70\00:12:51.23 to go to that church. 00:12:51.27\00:12:53.17 It was a hard experience for me. 00:12:53.20\00:12:56.04 And he was actively recruiting, 00:12:56.07\00:12:57.61 you know, he was not a wholesome influence 00:12:57.64\00:13:00.88 but there was a wounded person inside there. 00:13:00.91\00:13:04.48 That's when it's the hardest to love people 00:13:04.51\00:13:06.31 and surround them is when they're militant. 00:13:06.35\00:13:07.75 And sometimes, we have to have healthy boundaries 00:13:07.78\00:13:10.19 for those individuals, you know? 00:13:10.22\00:13:11.59 Yes, yes. 00:13:11.62\00:13:12.95 But what would Jesus do? 00:13:12.99\00:13:14.32 He would see beyond that anger 00:13:14.36\00:13:15.69 and he'd put His arms around them 00:13:15.72\00:13:17.16 and do all He could to melt away that anger 00:13:17.19\00:13:19.76 and get to the core of who they were. 00:13:19.79\00:13:21.13 Yeah. And I think... 00:13:21.16\00:13:22.56 I really think that just like God is calling us 00:13:22.60\00:13:24.30 to a high-moral standard, 00:13:24.33\00:13:25.73 he's calling those that for whom a high-moral standard 00:13:25.77\00:13:29.60 comes a little more naturally to have a high standard of love 00:13:29.64\00:13:34.31 for the LGBTQ population community. 00:13:34.34\00:13:38.38 We need to love them as Jesus loves them. 00:13:38.41\00:13:39.91 What would Jesus do? 00:13:39.95\00:13:41.28 He'd put His arms around them 00:13:41.32\00:13:43.02 and help them find a way forward, 00:13:43.05\00:13:44.45 give them something better. 00:13:44.49\00:13:45.82 Yeah. 00:13:45.85\00:13:47.19 And show them that they can gain the victory. 00:13:47.22\00:13:48.56 That's right. Absolutely, absolutely. 00:13:48.59\00:13:50.36 Well said. 00:13:50.39\00:13:52.79 You know, as we discuss this sensitive topic, 00:13:52.83\00:13:56.83 I feel like this is definitely something that 00:13:56.87\00:13:59.47 people at home need to know more about. 00:13:59.50\00:14:02.54 More information about, yeah. 00:14:02.57\00:14:04.01 They need more information on it. 00:14:04.04\00:14:05.37 So you know, if you're at home 00:14:05.41\00:14:07.24 and you want some more information, 00:14:07.28\00:14:10.45 please visit IntimateClarity.tv. 00:14:10.48\00:14:14.62 We've run out of time, 00:14:14.65\00:14:16.32 and we hope that you will join us next time 00:14:16.35\00:14:18.99 on Intimate Clarity. 00:14:19.02\00:14:20.36 God bless you. 00:14:20.39\00:14:21.72