The following program
discusses sensitive issues
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related to sexuality.
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Parents are
cautioned this presentation
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may be too candid
for younger audiences.
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Welcome to Intimate Clarity.
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I am Jason Bradley,
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and I'm here with
Jennifer Jill Schwirzer.
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She is a licensed
professional counselor.
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And today, we're going to be
discussing a sensitive topic,
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but it's a
conversation we need to have.
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Jen, are the differences
between male and female
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just physical, are
they psychological,
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are they emotional?
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What are they? What
are the differences?
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Good question.
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Well, I talked
previously about the fact
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that when God created
us, it says in Genesis 1:27
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that, "God created
man in his own image,
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male and female
created He them."
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So right there in that verse,
we see this wonderful paradox
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that God created
both genders good
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because everything
God creates is good.
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So both sexes are good.
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But they're also different.
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So they're equal in goodness,
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but they're different in
the way that they function.
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And that's an
important paradox and attention
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that we need to hold.
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So in regards
to the differences,
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there are kind of two
extremes we can go to.
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I think historically, we've
gone to the extreme sometimes
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of accentuating the
differences too much
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or stereotyping the differences.
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So a girl's a
little more of a tomboy,
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and she's told
she's acting like a boy.
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You know, she loves
sports, she loves building,
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she likes being with
her daddy and working on,
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you know,
whatever, and she's told
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she's being too much like a boy.
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I don't think
that's a wise thing to do.
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You've got to
let that child have
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a certain amount of
individuality within their sex
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and within the
typical behaviors that are,
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you know,
characteristic of that sex.
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Little boy, you know, is
born and he grows up as a child,
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and he just sort of shows
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a little more
feminine attributes,
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he likes art and he
likes playing with dolls
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and he's a little more feminine.
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I don't think it's
wise to tell that little boy
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that there's something
wrong with him because of that.
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I think we have
to leave some room.
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So
over-stereotyping is a problem
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and it has actually set us
up for the transgender movement
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where if a little boy is told,
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"Well, you're
acting like a girl,"
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he starts to think
he's a girl in a boy's body.
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So where do you
find that balance
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because it's like
if you let to allow
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that behavior to
go on kind of thing,
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then it could still
develop into that transgender.
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I would say not stereotyping
and not overreacting
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to maybe
feminine traits in a boy
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or masculine traits in a girl,
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but then, you know, you
are kind of pulling them
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toward their biological sex,
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and, you know, acculturating
them to their biological sex
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and maybe
teaching them some things,
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toughen the boy up a little
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and help the girl be
a little more ladylike.
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And I'm going to get into
more detail about that later,
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but I think that's one extreme
is over-stereotyping the sexes.
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The other extreme is thinking
that the only differences
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are the obvious
anatomical differences.
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You know, you just have
different parts than I do
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and it ends there.
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I think that's naive.
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There are some
general differences,
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and it's really kind
of fun to look at them.
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I thank God that...
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We were made different. Yeah.
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And there are people
that put together materials
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that have to deal
with the differences
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and they are without
exception very entertaining,
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very enlightening.
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And let me just
give you some examples.
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John Gray back in the
1990s wrote a book called
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"Men Are from Mars,
Women Are from Venus,"
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sold millions of copies
that really hit a nerve.
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So the other one is
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"Men Are Like
Waffles, Women Are Spaghetti"
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because men are
so compartmentalizing
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women, everything
touches everything else.
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There's other ones, there is one
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"Women are like
the remote control,
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men can't figure
out how they work
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but they keep
pressing their buttons"
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and "Men are like zip lock bags,
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they hold everything in
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but you can still see
straight through them."
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Those aren't real books,
but, you know what I am saying?
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There's a lot of
things we can do that mention
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the differences that
really bring a lot of humor
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and I don't think we should
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completely
disallow those things.
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So I think we
should avoid stereotypes,
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you know what I mean by that?
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We don't want to go too far
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and not leave enough room
for individual expression.
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But then I think we
can embrace generalities,
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and I think they're good things.
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So let me give you some examples
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of how that works in a
parenting context, okay?
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We can see the
differences at work.
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In many realms,
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but in particular
in the family realm,
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women are more
naturally gifted to attune
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to other people in general.
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So women have these
finely tuned attuned abilities,
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they can read
people very, very well.
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A woman's
intuition, that kind of thing?
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That's right, that's right.
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They read body
language better than men.
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They read facial
expression better than men.
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And this is by the way
been tested scientifically,
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and it's come
up again and again.
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Women are just
good at reading people
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and knowing what people need.
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So which of the mother
and father is better set up
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to try to interpret the needs
of a being that can't talk?
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The mother.
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That's her little baby
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and she does a very
good job of figuring out
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what's wrong and
how to help the baby.
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Women feed babies
from their own bodies.
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I've never known a man
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that's been able to do that yet.
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Again, one of the differences
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that I'm very thankful for, Jen.
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I'm thankful for
that. You can have that.
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I don't know
like it's so awesome.
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I breastfed two babies,
and it's just wonderful.
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I've often been with my husband
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put my head on his
chest and I've said
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"Whoa to the paps that
never gave suck," you know?
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But seriously
because it's just...
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It was a wonderful privilege.
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A women can feed
children from their bodies,
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and I think this
symbolizes the nurturing role
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that women play psychologically
and emotionally to children.
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So they will attune
to and adapt to the child
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which is especially needed
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in the first
three years of life.
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After the first
three years of life,
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and I'm talking
generalities here again,
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dad becomes a
more prominent figure
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in that baby's
life, in that child's life
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because dad plays
a very important role
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of stretching the child.
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The mother is going to attune to
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and adapt to the child,
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the father is going
to stretch the child.
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So little boy comes to
mommy, little Tommy comes,
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and he's got a skinned
knee and mommy is going to say,
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"Oh, you have a what?"
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A boo-boo, yeah, right?
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She's going to
talk in his language
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'cause that's
what women do so well.
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But the dad's going to say,
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"Oh you have a skinny
knee, let's go fishing."
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And he's not going to
attune to the child as much,
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he is not going to
adapt to the child as much.
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But he's going to
stretch the child.
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The child needs to be stretched.
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But the child
also needs a parent
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that is going to
connect and adapt to them.
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So there's that
nurturing component
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and then there's that
toughen up, "Let's go out
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and do something else
right now." component as well.
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That's right, that's
right. The masculinity.
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And each plays
their own specific role
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in the life of that child,
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and so what we find by
and large in the research
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is that the child does best
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when he has a biological
mother and a biological father
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in the home
while he's growing up.
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Now I'm not saying that
to hurt anyone's feelings
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or to diminish
the powerful parenting
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that a single parent or
an adoptive parent can do,
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and God is always
working with less than ideal.
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But I think in all these things,
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we need to put the
ideal where it belongs,
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and the reality is that
God created those differences
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because they
function well in a world
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where those
differences are needed.
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I would like to see more
women in political leadership,
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and this is the reason that
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societies where women
are in political leadership
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tend to spend less money on war
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and less money on alcohol
and more money on education
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and more money on children
and meeting nutritional needs.
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That's interesting.
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And wouldn't that figure
that women are more nurturing
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so they're going to
bring those concerns
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into the
political realm as well.
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And I think we've
paid a price for having,
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you know, sort of
male-dominated societies
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when really a leadership
team is better and more rounded
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when there are both
male and female influences,
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now they may not serve
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in the exact same
capacity of leadership,
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you know, and we can see
somewhat of a case for that
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in a church context,
there's quite a lot of debate
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as you know about
whether women should be
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in leadership in
particular in clergy,
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and so we're really
debating that very vigorously
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in our church or at
least we're in recent history.
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So it may be
that women don't play
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the exact same role as men,
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but that shouldn't mean
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that women are excluded
entirely from leadership.
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I think everyone
pays a dear price for that
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when there's not enough
female influence in leadership.
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That's a hill
I'm going to die on.
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Maybe not some
of the other ones,
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but I'm going
to die on that one.
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I like the idea of
the balance in the home
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between the male and female,
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you know, having that balance
between the nurturing and the,
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you know, "It's
going to be okay,
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you're all right, toughen up,
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you're going to face obstacles
and hard times or whatever
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and you've got to
fight through it,"
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you know, I like
both of those aspects.
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That's right, and
that's God's ideal.
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I think with a
lot of issues in life,
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we need to have an ideal
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but we need to
realize that God has a design,
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God is the creator, but
God is also the Redeemer.
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And so if your life
didn't adhere to that design,
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it's not over.
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It's part of the story
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that maybe you didn't
grow up in a two parent home,
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maybe you grew up in
a single parent home,
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maybe you grew up
in an adoptive home,
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maybe you're in
the foster system,
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that's part of the story
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and it's going to
have an effect on you,
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but it's not the
entirety of the story.
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The reality is that God is
both the Creator and Redeemer.
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We need to leave
the ideal in the place
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that it needs to occupy.
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God's design is God's design.
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This is what is,
you know, his ideal.
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At the same
time, He's a Redeemer
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and He can take that
which is less than ideal.
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And He can take
those raw materials
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and He can make a
great thing out of it,
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and I think a lot of people
have that testimony, you know?
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Absolutely, I mean
you start looking at
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all the people in the
Bible and you look at,
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you know, their
situation like David
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or Solomon or Samson or
whoever you look at in the Bible
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and you look at their
stories behind it and you see
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how God was able to use
them in spite of themselves.
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And I would add
that, in parenting,
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you have God's ideal
of a mother and a father
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in the life of that child.
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But the most important ideal
is that that child is loved,
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and an unloving father
and mother configuration
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is I think worse
than a single parent
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that truly love their kid.
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Absolutely. Yeah.
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Absolutely, I
would agree with that.
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Would you be open to sharing
just a little about your life?
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I mean, haven't you been through
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some stuff in your childhood
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and do you have a testimony
or am I asking too much?
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Well, I mean, I grew up
with two loving parents.
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Oh, you did? Okay.
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But then you know
my parents got divorced
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when I was at a
young age and I ended up
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going to this
program called Banana Splits
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and it was given by the school,
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it was for people's
parents who had split up,
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they've divorced or
whatever the case may be.
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And at first...
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Banana Splits, that's genius.
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Yeah, it was a
great name for it,
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and it was like during lunch.
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So they had food which
is one of my favorites.
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Of course. So I loved it.
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But I didn't
understand it at first.
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I didn't
understand the whole thing,
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but as I grew older,
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you know, one thing
that my dad did for me
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when we ended up moving to Texas
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that really stood out to me
is, I was living with my mom,
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we moved to Texas and
my dad moved to Texas...
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As well. To finish raising me.
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He always wanted to be
in my life and be close
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and he's always been
there for me as a father.
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I mean, he's done
an exceptional job,
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and so I'm so grateful for that.
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Even though
they didn't work out,
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you know, I didn't experience,
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I didn't feel that.
There was a work around.
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Yeah, so we're out
saying, we're not putting out
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this ideal to make
people feel like they're doomed
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if they didn't have
that ideal in their life
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because here we are
with our broken histories
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and God is able
to work through that,
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and I see the love shining
through in your story as well,
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and I love that
name Banana Splits.
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Yeah.
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Banana Splits because it removed
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the stigma from the kid.
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You know, the kid shouldn't
have to feel like a reject
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because there's something that
was totally out of his control
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and one of the issues that
arises in children of divorce
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is they often blame themselves.
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You know, they have this sense
that they control the world.
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You know, kids
tend to think that way
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and think that they're
bigger than they really are,
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and they take the responsibility
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of their parents'
problems on to them.
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Yeah.
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So I love that
they had that nice name
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that was kind of
uplifting and encouraging
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and they took what was
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and they helped to
redeem the situation.
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So again, you
know, love is the thing
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that ultimately resonates
and forms a person's character
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and makes them well adjusted,
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but God's ideal is the
male and female together.
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Absolutely. Yeah.
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I mean, when we take
a look at God's ideal,
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you know, you go back to
the garden and with diet,
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with marriage
between a man and woman,
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the whole thing.
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"Male and female
created He them in His image,"
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parenting team
and in the church,
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we need to have both
male and female influence,
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and we'll all be
better off for it
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when there's that blending.
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Absolutely.
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You know, if I show you
red and I say it's purple,
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I'm going to be given an untruth
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or blue and saying it's purple,
it's not going to be true.
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If I show you purple,
it's a blend of red and blue.
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Absolutely. Yeah.
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Man, so much to
cover and so little time.
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I can't believe it. Yeah.
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